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Greetings General Presidency of Relief Society i
Frontispiece — How Beautiful This Snow Christie Lund Coles 2
National Stewardship Convention President Louise Y. Robison ^
Alice Louise Reynolds Jennie B. Knight c;
Eliza R. Snow Poetry Contest:
Cycle Helen Hinckley Jones 8
Always At Night Eva Willes Wangsgaard 10
Today I Gathered Roses Grace Zenor Pratt 1 1
Romance of Quilting and Quilts Lutie H. Fryer 12
Escape Wilford D. Lee 1 1;
Address ^ • • . Elder Melvin J. Ballard 18
The First Rehef Society Organization in Alaska Ann Parkinson Nibley 24
The Needs of the Human Body for Heat and Energy Dr. Rose H. Widtsoe 27
New Beginnings Grace C. Jacobsen -ifi
Morning Music of the Immortals Marianne C. Sharp ^1
Women We Should Know Ramona W. Cannon -^i
Dear to the Heart of the Shepherd Dorothy Clapp Robinson 35
Earthbound Celia A. Van Cott yI
Happenings Annie Wells Cannon ^58
Interesting Verse — "Corneel" Lula Greene Richards t^g
Editorials:
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Acknowledgment 4^
Raffles — Games of Chance — Gambling 41
Items of Interest 4^
"Come Join Our Ranks" Leone G. Layton 4";
Notes from the Field Julia A. F. Lund 46
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GUIEETING:
T is good to look forward with hope, to face the new year with
thamcful hearts, to have faith and dreams, to look forward to all
those privileges and responsibilities that go into the making of a
life.
It is good to have that feeling of security which comes from having
family and friends, and it is especially good to be able to count those
friends by the thousands as do all who belong to our great Relief
Society organization.
It is one of the glories of Relief Society that though among our
75,064 members there is a great variety of environments, there is the
greatest unity of spirit. Our manners of speech may be different, we
may even be different in certain set ideas, but beneath all that, we
are alike in what we feel and are, alike in our ideals, alike in our love,
and alike in our desire to serve. In all the widely scattered organiza-
tions one feels this essential unity.
What a great blessing it is to face life with a testimony that the
Gospel is true, to know that God lives, that there is continuity to
life, and that those relationships of family and friends, which make
life so wonderful, will continue.
The great ideal of Relief Society work is to help us put our rela-
tionship to our Father in Heaven and our human relationships on a
higher level.
As we go to our meetings we but put our market basket on our
arm and go forth to obtain spiritual food, the real bread of life, to
share with all with whom we associate, thus making us better wives,
mothers and neighbors.
Our prayer should ever be that we may have deeper insight,
keener appreciation, finer sympathies, become so spiritually sensitive
that we sense the needs of all, that we may identify ourselves in active
sympathy with all who suffer. Thus only may we be worthy of our
name Relief Society.
We can begin our work this new year better equipped than before
because our understanding of the Gospel has increased, and we more
fully realize that "we do not live for the sake of knowing but know for
the sake of living."
Let us strive as never before to keep our thinking straight and our
hearts warm toward all persons.
Let our faith be steady, let our love be deep, is our humble prayer
for all Relief Society members.
Louise Y. Robison,
Amy Brown Lyman,
Kate M. Barker,
General Piesidency of Relief Society.
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Relief Society^ ly[ag,azine
Vol. XXVI
JANUARY, 1939
No. 1
National Stewardship Convention
By President Louise Y. Rohison
A CONVENTION of great sig-
nificance was held in the Stev-
ens' Hotel, Chicago, Novem-
ber 1-2-3, 1938, under the auspices
of the National Committee for Re-
ligious and Welfare Recovery.
The general theme of the conven-
tion was "Stewardship in a Democ-
racy." Sub-topics of this vital sub-
ject were discussed by many prom-
inent people, all of whom stressed
the need for spirituality in develop-
ing character.
Catholics, Jews and Protestants
united in a program for developing
greater responsibility of parents in
the home, better citizenship and
higher spiritual standards. The Na-
tional Council of Women, cooper-
ating with its Committee on Human
Relations, appointed five delegates
from the L. D. S. Relief Society to
represent our organization at the
convention.
Most stirring appeals were made
for youth, who, it was claimed, were
divorced JFrom spiritual values. The
charge was made that parents are
remiss in helping children develop
character, and that all too often par-
ents allow financial affairs to receive
the greater consideration. This was
illustrated by the old Jewish legend
—Peter. Peter's parents were blessed
with a bounteous harvest. Taking
Peter with them the parents walked
through the field rejoicing over the
heavy heads of wheat and planning
what comforts could be purchased
when the grain was harvested. When
the tour was finished they missed
their little son— he had wandered
away and was lost.
Many young people are lost spir-
itually through the attitude of a few
instructors in high schools and col-
leges, who, although employed by
parents, destroy the souls of students
by sarcastic statements, such as, "Re-
ligion is the anesthetic of life," or
as one professor advised when an-
nouncing a party, "those of you who
think you have a soul— please park
it outside."
Parents have a rich opportunity for
character education in selecting or
supervising the types of books read
by young people or the moving pic-
tures seen. These two activities are
mighty forces in building or injuring
character. In helping youth to meet
life courageously we develop a valu-
able asset.
One speaker said, "No man should
deprive his child the development
of self-effort. No matter what the
financial status, parents should have
children assume responsibility." In
teaching the three R's, the most im-
portant are Reason, Reverence and
Responsibility. It is estimated that
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millions of young people in the covery, for spiritual mobilization to
United States today, between the combat the mobilization of evil,
ages of seventeen and twenty-four. We shall never have a nation of
are without regular employment, peace and justice until we have indi-
many of them without religious vidual peace and justice founded
training, who are ready to follow upon love of man as well as love of
any leader offering a solution for God, and taught in the homes and
their problem. The future of the in the schools,
nation depends upon the type of "The Mother must know how to
leadership which may arise. interpret the world to the knowledge
Realizing this grave condition, the of children, it is she who builds the
appeal was made for the school, the bridge of character from the home
home and the church to unite in a to the world outside, over which the
program for Religious Welfare Re- child must go alone."
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JLitanyi for LJouth
"I come to thee, O God, in this and stature, and in favor with God
litany of worship, and man.'
"Hear my prayer, O Lord. 'This J pray, in Jesus' name.
"For the fathers and founders of "Save me from any tendency to
my country; for the pioneers who receive much from others and pass
felled the forests, tamed the rivers, nothing on to the future,
tunneled its mountains, tapped the ''Hear my praver, O Lord.
riches of its prairies; for the daring ^^Lead me to ^ the tasks that are
souls who went deep mto mines and ^o be done; make me an instrument
blocked out great cities; for the saints ^f ^hine; help me to prepare to give
and prophets who made its laws, set ^est; and may I ever be true to
up Its system of government gave ^h and to hunianity.
their lives tor its liberty, rounded its
schools and churches and homes— "Accept this commitment of my-
self."
*' For thesey O God, I thank Thee. ,r-, r^i t? . t> i ^^
' (from The Future Belongs lo
"Help me to hold sacred my body You, by Roy A. Burkhart. Copy-
and all of the powers with which I right, 1939. By permission the
am endowed; to grow in 'Wisdom Abingdon Press.)
Alice Louise Reynolds
By Jennie B. Knight
ALICE LOUISE REYNOLDS,
a choice and greatly beloved
spirit, has gone to her reward,
to His presence where is fullness
of joy. The Gospel of Jesus Christ
was the guiding star of her life.
She had a great mind, a tender,
understanding and friendly heart.
She was gifted, particularly in her
chosen field of literature. She was
an ardent church worker and leader
all her life; an uplifting force in her
school and community. Her home
was a haven of peace, confidence,
culture and hospitality.
Alice Louise Reynolds was born
April 1, 1873, in Salt Lake City,
the daughter of George Reynolds
and Mary Ann Tuddenham Rey-
nolds. Her father, a cultured
gentleman, was secretary to four
presidents of the Latter-day Saint
Church. He was the author of The
Story oi the Book of Mormon, the
Book of Mormon Dictionary and the
Concordance of the Book of Moi-
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moil, and his daughter was justly
proud of his achievements.
After her mother's death, when
1 3 years of age, Ahce went to Provo
with her sister Milhe to attend the
Brigham Young Academy. She be-
came a student of Dr. Karl G.
Maeser and was often a guest at his
home. At the age of 17 she taught
school in Salt Lake City and a year
later in Nephi. In i8q2 she entered
the University of Michigan, doing
some missionary work during the
two years spent there.
In 1894 she was appointed instruc-
tor of English at the Brigham Young
Academy, and with the Class of 1895
received a degree of B. Pd. An en-
thusiastic supporter of the Brigham
Young University she was identified
with this school for forty-four years.
She was made professor of English
Literature in 1911. Students who
have taken her courses in Chaucer,
Shakespeare, History of the English
Novel, Wordsworth, Tennyson,
Browning, and Literature of the
Bible are numbered by thousands
and are to be found in prominent
positions in many of the states of
the Union as well as in other lands.
Next to her classes she was espe-
cially devoted to the building of an
adequate librarv for the B. Y. U.
and had the satisfaction of seeing its
remarkable growth from a few vol-
umes to its present size. The Alice
Louise Reynolds section of the li-
brary, established in her honor, has
2,940 volumes, many of these books
being her personal contributions, the
balance given bv her club members
and friends. She served on the li-
brary committee for thirty-five years
and as committee chairman for
twenty years.
Miss Reynolds was the first wom-
an president of the Alumni Asso-
ciation of her Alma Mater. She
was a veritable hostess for the school.
having an ait all her own in helping
the presidents with whom she served
in entertaining distinguished guests.
"LJER efforts in behalf of her
Church were untiring. In ad-
dition to her school classes in re-
ligious education she was a teacher
in the Sunday Schools, served the
Young Women's Mutual Improve-
ment Association for many years as
stake counselor, president and board
member. She was an efficient mem-
ber of the General Board of the Na-
tional Woman's Relief Society, also
serving as Associate Editor of the
Relief Society Magazine from 1923
to 1928, and as Editor from 1928 to
1930. During this period she attend-
ed and participated in Relief Society
Conventions in many of the stakes
of Zion, gave lectures in the Idaho
summer camps, and narticipated in
general and ward Relief Society con-
ferences. For eight vears she wrote
the literary lessons used by this or-
ganization. She also prepared les-
sons for the Young Women's Mu-
tual Improvement Association as
well as for the General Sunday
School Union Board.
Because of her very sympathetic,
generous nature, she was often called
upon to speak at funerals, to assist
in writing letters of condolence, res-
olutions of respect and appreciation
to the bereaved. In 1934 she col-
laborated with our beloved Harrison
R. Merrill in compiling one hundred
sermonettes by Dr. George H. Brim-
hall which were published in a vol-
ume entitled Long and Short Range
Arrows. She was writing the history
of the Brigham Young University
and of her own life, both of which
were unfinished at the time of her
passing.
She was active in political affairs
of both state and nation and was a
delegate to the Democratic National
Convention in San Francisco in
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 7
1920, taking an active part in it. She
attended the National Convention
at Houston, Texas, in company w^ith
her beloved co-worker, Inez K. Allen,
whose recent passing we also mourn.
Miss Reynolds was an extensive
traveler and deeply ■ interested in
world affairs. She made four trips
to Europe in the interest of addi-
tional education and enlarged friend-
ships. While there she took a num-
ber of courses at European universi-
ties. She had many distinguished
friends both at home and abroad.
During her last visit to London
in ig37 she was most happy in being
the guest of her life-long friends.
Apostle Richard R. and Amy Brown
Lyman.
Much as she enjoyed her early visit
to Vienna and other wonderful cities
of the continent, her last European
trip was very precious to her. It
was made soon after the coronation
of King George VI of England, and
during the Centenary of the intro-
duction of the Gospel of Jesus Christ
by the Latter-day Saints into Eng-
land. President Heber J. Grant pre-
sided at this celebration and Miss
Reynolds was an enthusiastic par-
ticipant.
Many delightful and enlight-
ening hours have been enjoyed
by members of churches, schools,
clubs and home groups listening to
her accounts of her trips abroad.
CHE had a keen interest in wom-
en's work. In 1922 she was pre-
sented with a wrist watch by Utah
women in appreciation of her work
and ability. This she very highly
prized. She was a charter member
of the B. Y. U. Women's Organiza-
tion, the Sorosis and Nelkie Read-
ing Clubs. Dear to her heart were
the twelve Alice Louise Reynolds
Clubs which were organized by
groups of her students and friends,
for the purpose of study and cultural
development and for the cementing
of friendships. Since 19^2 these
groups have celebrated her birthday
with receptions, banquets or pro-
grams. She was always gratefully
appreciative of these events. She
radiated the Gospel light wherever
she went and was a charter member
of the Yeasharah Club, which is an
organization of lady missionaries.
A devoted daughter and solicitous
sister she took great delight in any
success or joy that came to the vari-
ous members of the large family of
which she was a part. Her grief at
their trials and sorrows was intense.
No effort on her part was ever too
great if it could bring sunshine to
their hearts and homes, and she al-
ways had their devotion and love.
Her home was a home of interest
and hospitality. Here were many
treasures, valuable topics of conver-
sation. She had collected paintings,
pieces of sculpture, beautiful china,
and a rare collection of autographed
books, which she said was her hobby.
These volumes will, as requested by
her, be placed in her section of the
Heber J. Grant Library.
Alice Louise Reynolds will always
hold a choice place in the hearts of
her friends. One of her close friends,
counselor Kate M. Barker, wrote of
her, "Hers was a choice spirit trained
in logical thinking, gifted with ex-
ceptional power of written and oral
expression, with a wonderful breadth
of appreciation— a great mind and a
great heart coupled with unaffected
simplicity and tenderness which
made her appreciated by old and
young." We all miss her greatly
but are thankful for her life, that she
was our friend and co-worker, and
feel assured that she was
"Borne in a moment at the heart's
last beat
To realms more perfect than she
dared to dream."
(bliza iKoxeyi Snovc 1 1 Lemonal
[Poem (contest
HELEN HINCKLEY JONES
(A Sonnet Sequence)
By Helen Hinckley Jones
(Awarded First Prize, Eliza R. Snow Poetry Contest)
The Blossoming
Persephone returns. Her gossamer
Flung light on every spring-warmed branch to dry
Breathes fragrance delicate, and paints a blur
Of loveliness against the rifted sky.
Beside the gate the lilacs burst to flower,
The roses riot golden in the lane,
In ecstacy the orchard waits the hour
When apple blossoms are in bloom again.
And when the misty blossoms' opening
Has made a fairy ceiling for our room.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 9
We children take our dolls out to the swing
And play at keeping house. We love the bloom
Of apple trees. We sense that mystic thing
That we, like apples, blossom in the spring.
The Ripening
Demeter's pregnant breath in ray-shot haze
Clings warmly where the thicket berries turn
From green to dripping purple. And the days
Pass slowly, rich in miracle. The burn
Of sun is golden on the apricot
And ruddy amber on the pear. The stems
Release the rose-dipped peach; and in the lot
The juice-crisp apples are Aladdin's gems.
Then, when the long day sleeps and fruited limbs
Stand black against moon-whitened skies, we stroll
Down to the frayed old swing. My memory skims
The years since first I felt the orchard's soul.
And now I know beneath the apple tree
The fruitful days have also come for me.
The Waiting
Cold Boreas blows. His chilly finger lays
Upon earth's pulse. Her warm heart scarce can beat
Against the frigid pressure. Now he plays
A dirge-like tune through naked trees whose feet
Are banked with rotted fruit and dying leaves.
Then comes the snow. In mockery of spring
Bare branches bow beneath sharp snow and sheaves
Of ice fruit, in a dreary blossoming.
But still the orchard calls to me, and I
Must stand again beneath the apple tree;
I think I hear the snow-bowed branches sigh-
It's hard for mothers to wait patiently—
"Where are my seeds, and will they wake and grow?"
My seed is safe, and it will live I know.
Oh apple mother, spent with wondering,
All earth will waken in the warmth of spring.
EVA WILLES WANGSGAARD
GRACE ZENOR PRATT
Fear
Ciiwaifs CAt I Light
(A Sonnet Sequence)
By Eva WiJIes Wangsgaard
(Awarded Second Prize, Eliza R. Snow Poetry Contest'
The night hung low around the Saints in camp
Circled by plains; the purple quiet broken
Only by stars and the oxen's hunger champ—
These and the weight of brooding words unspoken.
Virginia wept beside her leaden spouse,
Sickened by smells of camp fire smoke and labor,
Spent with the longing for her father's house
Back on the sunrise trail beside a neighbor.
The right the unborn have to growth and room
Crowded her aching heart till life was banded
By dread, unending weariness, and gloom
Bought at the price the wilderness demanded.
Always at night her longing thoughts turned back,
Torn from all peace by a lengthening wagon track.
II Faith Restored
*'A wagon train is headed east at dawn.
Jim will not come. He is no man for turning.
Well, let him trek. Morning will find me gone;
Love has grown thin on too much fear and yearning."
Her mind made up, she rose, aware of grief
More felt than heard, and found a widow weeping-
Back on the trail like any autumn leaf
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 1 1
Locked in the earth, this friend's last child la}^ sleeping-
Virginia coaxed, ''These wilds can be recrossed.
Come. All is gone." The widow's faith rose flaming,
"Who dares say all? Can God's own Cause be lost?
No! Zion waits, and deserts want reclaiming."
The young wife flushed, and fear was conquered there
While she knelt shamed and heard her friend in prayer.
The Widow's Prayer
"I do not ask them back— that cannot be—
My sons Thou didst take home when fever swept;
Nor do I ask for him who cherished me
Tfll Thou didst call. . . . How quietly they slept!
But if in dreams their eyes return and shine.
Let them bring joy and not this tearing storm;
If dreams shall place his hand again in mine,
Lend me the strength to feel it kind and warm.
This grace I ask is not for me alone—
Though empty years to woman's heart are long—
For strength is garnered not from flesh and bone,
But from the spirit fed by joy and song.
I would have all their strength within my hand
That thus through me they build the Promised Land."
cJoaay o/ (^atherea LKoses
By Grace Zenor Piatt
(Awarded Third Prize, Eliza R. Snow Poetry Contest)
Today I gathered choicest roses, one by one, weeping-
White roses, pure, long stemmed and fragrant
To offer her who loved all nature so—,
And all the while I wondered could she know-
Could she but feel this deep regret and pain
Of mine, when 1 recall the unkind things
My thoughtless lips had spoken yesterday:
How I had smiled at her poor ways, her house so poorly kept;
I had been blind . . . and 'twas for this I wept.
That shy brief way of hers I could not understand—
And now her lips are silent, I shall never know
How great are silent ones who live and suffer so.
I could not know that yesterday would be her last,
When she passed by and I so coolly spoke—
I might have made a moment's passing cheer
Had I the silence broke and spoke to her. . .
Today I gathered choicest roses, one by one, weeping—
To lay them at her feet—
Tenderly, reverently, now that she is dead.
And yet my penance seems so incomplete. . . ,
Romance of Quilting and Quilts
By Lutie H. Fryer
Assistant PwfessoT—Univeisity o( Utah
THE intimate things of life, pictures. At the entrances, too,
those that surround us as we there was a similar hanging, because
grow up, become so much a the great oaken doors, that were
part of everyday existence that we barricades in case of attacks, could
never think of their beginnings. If not be opened and shut as the mem-
we saw them for the first time per- bers of the household came and
haps we would feel curious about went. We still see evidences of
their origin, but as it is, to us they these door curtains in some of the
never began. They just are. Such is older churches in Europe where the
the case of quilts. metal or wooden doors are far too
Quilt making as a homecraft art ^^^^ ^^ ^pen each time someone
has played no small part in the ^^^ters.
growth and development of civil- Later the quilted hangings were
ization in its march across the ages, replaced by embroidered pictures
In America from the earliest col- and they in turn by tapestries, but
onial times to the present quilts quilting still held its own for bed
were a necessary part of pioneer clothes and curtains,
homemaking, then as a product of From 154:; to almost 1620, quilt-
awakened desire for beauty in the ing was used on some of the finest
home, and now this twentieth cen- costumes; many of the skirts were
tury revival is an appreciation of that quilted and embroidered in gold,
art, which of all the time-honored and studded with pearls and other
household arts has withstood the gems. In museums there are many
machine age, and has by no means beautiful examples of quilted petti-
reached the climax. coats that were worn during the 18th
As known today, the quilt is the p^.^^^^ry. Sometimes the overskirt
result of combining two kinds of ^^^ t^^ petticoat almost entirely ex-
needlework, both of very ancient ?^Pt for a narrow panel down the
origin, but widely different in char- ^^ont; at other tunes it showed be-
acter. Patchwork is the art of piec- "^^^ panniers of handsome bro-
ing together fabrics of various kinds cade.
and colors; it was used by the Egyp- The quilt as we know it in Amer-
tians for their clothes, wall decora- ica was in the beginning a strictly
tion, and furniture. Quilting is the utilitarian article, born of the ne-
method of fastening together layers cessity of providing warm covers for
of cloth to secure firmly the "filling", beds and hangings for doors and
We find that knights of the middle windows to help keep out the cold
ages wore quilted jackets under their winter and was so intimately con^
heavy armor to protect their bodies, nected with the everyday life of the
Such a garment was called a "jamber- colonies that no record of it exists,
son". Within the four walls of the crude
Before the ages of tapestry, the log cabins there was little thought
great halls were hung with quilted of adornment or art, and yet the
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artistic longing, latent or inherited, sessions of great-granddaughters of
in every woman where her home is the original makers,
concerned, unconsciously expressed All the old favorite quilt patches
itself in her quilts. had interesting generic names. These
names are intriguing. Religion, oc-
T TNDER the general title of cupations, politics, nature in its va-
^ "Patchwork" we may consider rious phases, and their meager social
three different kinds of quilts: First, activities all contributed their quota
the pieced quilt, showing the pieced to the quilt names of colonial days,
patch set together in various ways Rose of Sharon, Star of Bethlehem,
and quilted in designs. Nearly all Anvil, Ship's Wheel, Carpenter's
quilts made in America prior to 1750 Wheel, Churn Dash, Water Mill,
were pieced quilts. Second, the ap- Whig Rose, Lincoln's Platform,
pliqued, patched, or "laid-on" quilt. Democrat Rose, Sun Dial, Autumn
usually in floral design and consid- Leaf, Garden Maze, Ocean Wave,
ered by some as more elegant than and Eight Hands Around are a few
the humble "pieced" variety. Ap- well chosen familiar names,
plique for quilt-making came into Volumes could be written on the
favor about the middle of the eight- "Quilting Bee" and the part it played
eenth century and reached its climax in the social life in pioneer days. Not
about 1850. With the late revival having the modern conveniences for
of patchwork it has reached a per- exchanging choice bits of gossip, the
fection of artistic color combination quilting bee afforded an excellent
and needlecraft far superior to anv- means of broadcasting the latest
thing made in earlier times. Third, events, such as engagements, births,
the quilted counterpane which is styles for women, etc. Here patterns
usually white, producing a decorative were exchanged freely,
value by use of padded or corded ^HE quilt's place in art is an im-
quiOtmg m elaborate design. A portant one, as the making of
The pieced quilt, made of pieces patchwork quilts is one of the most
of fabric cut after a pattern and picturesque of all the folk-arts. It
sewed together to form a block or is the only homecraft that has with-
repeat, was familiar to most house- stood the machine age. Much of the
holds where economy was a neces- beauty expressed by our architects,
sity, as it was created of scraps of poets and artists of today had its first
material not otherwise used. The fling in these humble creations in
precious scraps of printed cottons, the hands of our pioneer mothers,
so rare and costly m that day, were Bed-quilts, so essential to comfort,
highly treasured for quilt blocks. made them the most important
The applique quilt is apt to be a form of needlework prior to about
more artistic expression of the quilt- 1750.
er's craft, in that it is created out of Alice Morse Earl, in Home Life in
new or whole cloth. It offers greater Colonial Days, says: 'The feminine
freedom for the expression of the love of color, the longing for decor-
designer's artistic nature. ation, as well as pride in needlecraft,
History tells us very little about found riotous expression in quilt-
the patchwork quilt prior to 1750, making. Women eagerly exchanged
but between 1750 and i8:;o many patterns with one another; they
quilts were pieced and patched and talked over the designs and admired
many are now the cherished pos- pretty bits of calico and pondered
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what combinations to make, with sunshine or a breath of fresh air,
far more zest than women discuss unless they are on display for a few
art or examine art specimens today." hours, then back into hiding. Quilts
History repeats itself and today have always seemed so human that
the old-fashioned quilt is the new- one wonders if they do not feel neg-
fashioned quilt, and the old patterns lected when they are hidden away
are as much at home among modern most of the time,
furnishings as they were among It is gratifying to know that many
Queen Anne or Victorian furniture, rare old quilts are being used today
One of the most modern touches instead of being packed away where
in the present-day bedroom is a no one can enjoy them; and wheth-
lovely old patchwork quilt of grand- er they be red and green or made
mother's, the priceless relic of by- of softer hues they find enthusiastic
gone days. But women of today friends wherever they may be found,
make a study of their bedrooms be- Today the country is "quilt-con-
fore selecting their quilts, so that scious" and the making of quilts in
the color-harmony and the pattern the home has become astonishingly
will be most suitable. Today a quilt popular. Interest centers around
may form a perfect symphonv in one authentic antique designs or mod-
room and be a discord in another, ern ones that have definite artistic
In the colonial bedroom, where t*he merit.
bed was the principal piece of fur- A quotation from Florence Bedell
niture, the quilt was the central of the University of Colorado may
motif, the object of first considera- lielp us to appreciate quilts:
tion both in pattern and coloring. "'If you wish to collect something.
The other decorations were of minor and every one should collect some-
importance, hence there was no thing, quilts will make a most inter-
thought of matching the quilt to esting and beautiful collection. Of
any particular color scheme. course, association means much, so
Some of the loveliest examples of one from your own ancestors will
quilts were made during the Vic- be most valuable to you. With our
torian era; they are an inspiration for present 'renaissance of old furniture
quilt makers of today. The patterns and household articles,' the value of
are beautiful, especially when made quilts is going up year by year. A
up in soft, blended hues. few years ago a quilt made of pieces
of dresses of Presidents' wives was
CO many lovely old quilts have offered for sale in Colorado for
^ come to light the past few years, $25,000. If you cannot own such
some with gay colors and others that highly prized quilts, you can at least
have mellowed into soft tints and enjoy reading and studying about
shades that make us want to touch them so that when the opportunity
them to see if they are real. They comes you can look at a quilt with
are growing old gracefully. If they more appreciation."
could talk they would tell us inter- Time adds significance to every
esting stories of romance, travel or quilt, whether you make it yourself
old-time garden parties when our or receive it as a gift. Enjoy it as
grandmothers were young. you would any art treasure. With
Of course, we probably always will an artistic setting a quilt of gay col-
have those quilts that live in se- lors is akin to a choice mosaic or a
elusion, that never know g ray of costly cameo of rare beauty.
Escape
By WiUoTd D. Lee
ELSIE MANNING lifted her
pencil from the paper and re-
read the lines which she had
just written. The words reflected
back into her soul the subtle emotion
which she had tried to put into
them. An excited flush warmed her
lean cheeks, and sent a flow through
her work-hardened body.
Wafer lilies floating on a limpid pool,
Moon-lit silver glancing biilliantly.
The breath of night's long hush,
A sighing breeze
That sweeps the moon-glanced basin to
the rim.
And the water lilies dip and sway
Like the breeze, emotion sweeps my aching
soul.
Breathes softly from the depths of longing
sighs,
And sets my thoughts a dancing in the
light
White water lilies on a moon-lit stream. . . .
The far-away tinkle of tug chains
broke into her reverie, shattering the
spell which the woman had woven
about herself. As the tinkling be-
came clearer, she became acutely
aware of the immediate time and
place, of the staggering heat of the
little shanty with its unpainted walls
and bare floor.
The only polished piece of fur-
niture in the room was the little writ-
ing desk. It was made of satiny wal-
nut and seemed to be an incongruous
intrusion upon the bare furnishings
of the room. The desk was a pres-
ent from her maternal grandmother.
Each day it recalled to her mind the
two magic, Alice-in-Wonderland
vears when she had lived with that
lovely old lady in the big house and
had been her sole companion. She
arose and with a soft cloth removed
the film of dust that had gathered
on it, then turned to her other work.
She whipped the potatoes to a
white froth, cut the large slices of
bread, filled the granite cups with
water, and then stepping outside she
returned the heavy canvas water sack
to its nail. Heat waves shimmered
across the rolling landscape as
four horses, streaked with sweat and
dirt, moved toward the house in a
cloud of dust.
Elsie hurried to the cistern to
pump water before Frank had
stopped the team. As he released
the horses one by one, they hurried
to the watering trough. One horse,
an evil-faced bay, veered toward a
little poplar tree, and reached out to
nip off a mouthful of the leaves, the
only green for miles about. The
woman shouted at him, catching up
a stick to drive him off. She re-
mained guard over the little tree
until all the horses had passed.
When Frank came to the house
from feeding his team, Elsie had a
big basin of water waiting for him on
a bench just outside the door. His
face was a dirt-colored mask through
which his eyes and teeth flashed
startlingly.
''How much water is there left
in the cistern?" he asked, rolling up
his sleeves.
'It's getting pretty low," she re-
plied. "You'll have to haul tomor-
row. Is John through with the
tank?"
Tlie man turned and looked off to
the west where a little shanty not
unlike their own was set against a
ragged semicircle of trees.
"That looks like the tank there by
his cistern now/' he observed. "Did
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you notice how many trips he made
this morning?"
"This is only his second/' his wife
rephed. "He usually makes three."
"That double tree must have
broke/' he scowled, blowing the
water over his face and rubbing a
rough hand over his neck. "We
couldn't find a very good stick for
it last week."
"Will you haul tomorrow then?"
she asked.
"I guess I'll have to."
After dinner, Frank went out
and looked at the car which stood
by the side of the house. The rear
tire was down, so he pumped it up.
The top was gone, and the body,
behind the front seat, was cut away
and made into the semblance of a
truck body.
As he was backing the car around
the woman screamed. He jammed
on an ineffective brake, but he could
not stop until he had bent the little
tree over and scraped off some bark
from the trunk. He scowled as he
jerked the machine forward and
swung away. When he had gone,
Elsie took a piece of cloth and
bound the bark back into place.
TllyrHEN the dishes were done, the
woman took two ten-pound
lard pails, an old magazine some
paper, and the now empty water bag
from its nail and started east along
the dimly marked road. Soon she
came to the rim of a canyon, a deep
gorge cut through the flat earth. The
creek looked cool and inviting as she
stood there contemplating the pleas-
ant scene.
With sure step she started down
the slope. At the sound of her com-
ing two boys, one about ten and
the other twelve, came out from the
shade of a clump of bushes to wave
to her.
As she came closer, they caught
up their buckets of berries to show
her how many they had picked.
"We found a lot today, Mother,"
the older boy exulted. "There's a
patch of service berry bushes down
by that old mine just loaded with
berries."
"And I found some currants, too,
Ma," said Willie proudly.
"T put them on the bottom of
the bucket. Gee, they're good!"
The mother smiled. "I'll bet you
ate more than you put in the pail,
didn't you?" she asked, brushing the
boy's long hair back out of his eyes.
They moved out of the hot sun into
the shade of the bushes.
Jack, the older boy, glanced down
at the papers his mother was carry-
ing.
"Are you writing another story.
Mom?" he asked.
She smiled a little sadly. "Yes,
another . . . and another . . . and
another. . . /'
"Gee, you've wrote lots of 'em,
ain't you. Mom?" Willie observed.
"What's the matter, don't they like
'em?"
"No, they don't seem to."
"Gosh, we do. That is, some of
'em,— the funny ones."
"It is hard to write a funny story
here," she told them.
The boys emptied pails and then
went off in search of more berries.
The mother found a shady spot and
opened the Wiitei's Journal, much
thumbed and in many places heavily
underlined. One passage she re-read:
"Most amateur writers love to describe
that which they have never seen, reveling
in those scenes and situations which they
have never experienced. Not until they
are capable of describing that which is
about them and weaving their own real-
Hfe situations into their literature will they
be successful."
She turned further and re-read a
full-page advertisement:
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"The Ma2;azine offers
a prize of $100 for the best short story
on an agricultural theme, ... It must
be bright in its viewpoint, depicting real
life accomplishment. . . . Second prize
$150 and a third prize of $21;. . . . Manu-
scripts must be in by July First. . . ."
It was now over a month since she
had sent in her manuscript, but as
yet she had heard nothing from it.
The hope that filled her soul ebbed
or waned as she speculated upon the
chances of winning the coveted
prize. Did the delay mean that they
were seriously considering her manu-
script, or did it mean that it was lying
stacked with thousands of others
awaiting the attention of a negligent
clerk. . . .
With a sigh she shut the maga-
zine and took up her pencil. All
through the hot afternoon she scrib-
bled industriously. Her face, now
lighted by the enthusiasm for her
toil, reflected with versatile utterance
the gamut of emotions through
which her nimble mind ran.
When the sun sank below the rim
of the canyon, she called to the
boys, ''We will have to hurry now,
or Father will be in before we get
home."
VI/'HEN they arrived at the house,
the father was not there the
horses, which had not been hitched
up at all that afternoon, nickered
quietly for watei as the boys came
by the cistern.
The boys unharnessed the horses,
then fed and watered them while
their mother chopped awkwardly at
a crooked stick of quaking asp and
made a fire. It was not until the
setting sun had tinged the whole
landscape with a wash of rose light
that they saw the old car coming
over the horizon.
When the man arrived, he was in
a savage mood. She could tell that
from the way he banged the battered
old door of the car.
"Jack," he snapped at the boy who
was playing by the shed, 'water and
feed the horses. Haven't I told you
that when Fm gone ..."
"They're all watered and fed," the
woman told him quietly, "and we
are waiting for supper."
He stamped around to the front
of the house, took off his dust-cov-
ered jacket and hat, and rolled up
his sleeves.
"John smashed that double tree,"
he growled, splashing into the water.
"Had to go clear to town after a new
one."
"How did you pay for it?" she in-
quired.
"Didn't. Had to run my face,"
he mumbled.
"Can't John pay for it? He broke
it."
"He hasn't got any more than we
have. He couldn't buy anything,
you know that." He sloshed the
basin of dirty water into the bucket
beside the bench.
She made no reply. When he
came in she asked, "Did you get the
mail?"
For some reason he gave a short
cynical laugh. "Yes, I got it."
OEFORE her husband and the
boys were through with their
supper, the woman left the table
and stepped out into the stariit
night. How bright the stars were!
How silent and far away . . . and
promising. The mail . . .
A strange excitement animated
her as she made her way toward the
car. An enthralling intuition quick-
ened her breath and set her heart
pounding. She took a deep breath.
. . . Why had Frank laughed that
way? Her hand explored the cold
leather seat bottom of the car. It
touched the sheaf of letters and
papers scattered about. She gath-
ered them up and felt again. . . .
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Her heart sank. There it was, a
large flat envelope— her manuscript.
She took it up, and pressing it
close to her bosom, drew in a
long quivering sigh. Escape? No
wonder Frank had laughed cynically.
She had tried to escape? She had
hoped . . . she had prayed . . . she had
worked . . . reached out an arm, a
pulsating, quivering hand in the
hope that it might find anchorage
somewhere, that she might draw her-
self—all of them— out of this. . . .
For a long time she stood there
quivering in the darkness. She gazed
again at the stars ... so far away . . .
so inscrutable. Why did ambition
rise in her like hot blood only to
be chilled forever by blinding dis-
appointment!
Her throat was tight. Idly she
moved in front of the car. The dim
light from the window shone on the
radiator. A large butterfly, with its
wings frayed and singed, was caught
in the honeycombed grill. Her eyes
were wet with tears as she plucked
the butterfly out of its torture and
held it on her work-stained hand.
'The wheel of fortune! A poor,
beautiful thing broken across the
ridge of modern civilization!" she
murmured. . . .
The butterfly fluttered to the
earth, a lovely piece of beauty, rav-
ished and broken. It seemed that
something within her, too, had died.
Was it merely hope or was it soul
itself!
She walked into the house and laid
the mail beside her plate. ''Well, I
see that it came back," her husband
scoft'ed. The "I-told-you-so" was so
obvious that she turned upon him
with a flash of anger.
"You . . . You . . r Oh, why had
she ever confided in him her hope.
''Aw, don't get sore. It's all right,
I guess, only . . .
"Only what?" She breathed deeply
and blinked back the tears.
"Well ... I don't mind little
luxuries once in a whfle if we can
afford 'em but postage and paper
for those things . . ."
"I've sold three poems. I have
eight dollars ... or I did have. I'm
using that for my postage."
"Eight dollars!" He sat bolt up-
right.
She bit her lip. The exultation
died within her. Why had she told
him! That double tree! She could
see the light growing in his eyes.
She would not have that money to-
morrow. How far they had come
since they were married! How far
apart. . . . But in a moment she
caught herself. She could not blame
him. This life ... It did things to
some people, queer things that made
them small inside. . . .
Unnoticed by Frank she slipped
outside.
She must fight it out here and
now. Could she ever escape this
drab, disheartening existence? If not,
how was she to content herself?
Should she keep on writing— for her-
self—and live in a dream world of
her own creating, unsatisfactory and
pathetic as that was?
That story . . . about herself. The
obvious foolishness of it all smote
her. Presumptuous for her to think
that she could write in competition
with thousands of others, well edu-
cated, experienced, well trained. Bit-
terness welled up in her. She drop-
ped upon the earth beneath the
little tree and wept.
When the weeping had passed,
she felt better. Something of the
bitterness of life had flowed out of
her with the tears. Was she like a
butterfly, senseless, save for a few in-
stincts implanted within her by
some higher power? Was she like a
tree, fixed and rooted, that could
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not move nor act for itself? They
were insensible to this mystic beauty
about them, although they were a
part of it.
CHE suddenly realized, as if she
had just acquired new eyes, that
all this was beautiful! She could
understand and feel. . . . The appre-
ciation of beauty. . . . That was it!
Everywhere about her she could feel
it and know its vitalizing power in
life.
She leaped to her feet. The drab
of her day-self was gone. How Frank
would have marvelled had he seen
her now! Vibrant, pulsating, alive,
magnificent! But he slept audibly
in the lean-to.
The faintly-felt images came flood-
ing into her being, growing stronger
as they came— and more under-
standable. She knew! Now she un-
derstood. Life was a mystic experi-
ence to be lived, within. She sud-
denly realized that she had been in-
dulging in entirely too much self-
pity. She had a mind . . . keen, alive,
penetrating. She would live in that
mind, for that mind, to perpetuate
it, to give it new life in the souls of
others.
What did it matter if they did
come back, those stories of hers?
She would write them again . . . and
again . . . and again! There was joy!
The joy of creation! At least on
paper she could make people do as
she wanted them to. She would
speak through her characters, for
she had something to say. This last
story. . . .
There in the moonlight she went
over it line by line in her mind, then
looked at it as a whole. It was a sad
thing, sadness unrelieved by any
hope. The woman was herself. The
land was this land. The life she had
depicted was her life. Her fertile
mentality stirred itself under the in-
spiration of her new vision. She
must give the story life and hope,
that was what it lacked.
TT/'ITH renewed vigor, she hurried
into the house and lit the
lamp. Almost joyfully she ripped
open the big brown envelope and
withdrew the sheets. To her surprise,
instead of the usual printed rejection
slip she found a typewritten letter.
She took it up in her trembling
fingers and read:
"Dear Mrs. Manning:
"We are sorry that your story did not
win the prize in our contest. It was not
the type of thing we wanted. But it is
so well written that with a few changes we
will buy it at our usual rates. Would
you change your title from 'Chained' to
'Escape' and rework your ending so that
your woman — she is an extremely interest-
ing character — gives us some ray of hope?
"Sincerely yours,
"The Editors."
The strength left her limbs, and
she sank down on a chair by the
table. Burying her head in her arms,
she wept almost hysterically. When
she raised her head, there was a
smile upon her lips and a light of
holiness in her eyes. She had es-
caped!
Address
Elder Melvin J. Ballard
(Relief Society Conference, October, 1938)
THE Relief Society won my ing after objects of charity and in
first love and is the organiza- administering to their wants; to as-
tion of the Church to which I sist by correcting the morals and
first belonged, because my mother strengthening the virtues of the com-
was a Relief Society president when munity, and save the elders the trou-
I was born, and she served as such ble of rebuking; that they may give
for thirty years; so I was trained in their time to other duties, etc., in
the Relief Society. their public teachings."
Speaking for the Authorities of y^ our great Welfare movement
the Church here today, I have been 1 ^^^ presidency of the Church kept
asked to discuss the place of the ^^|| -^ ^^^^ ^^ assignment that
Relief Society in the Welfare Pro- ^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^ ^^ ^^^ j^^j.^^ S^.
gram. I am very sure that you know ^-^^ ^^ ^^^ beginning, and the Wel-
your place, but it sometimes is good fore movement does not contemplate
to go back to fundamentals and re- ^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^^^^
state them then upon that basis assignment. I am quoting from a
measure what is being done, and statement of the First Presidency in
look forward to the future. ^pril, 1936, when this work was
I am going to read a few extracts inaugurated: "Upon ward teachers
from the first address which the and the Relief Society must rest the
Prophet gave on the occasion of the prime responsibility for discovering
organization of the Relief Society, and appraising the wants of the
Among other things he said: "This needy in the ward. These must be
charitable Society is according to administered through the regular or-
your natures, it is natural for fe- ganizations of the Church." Some
males to have feelings of charity, of you may have, therefore, felt that
You are now placed in a situation because the brethren were called in-
where you can act according to these to the Welfare program that your
sympathies which God has planted privileges were trampled upon and
m your bosoms. If you live up to that you were relieved of your re-
these principles, how great and glo- sponsibility.
rious. If you live up to your priv- Now if anyone has that notion
ileges the angels cannot be restrained i would like to set her right, be-
from being your associates. . . . This cause the auxiliary organizations
Society is not only to relieve the have been called from ancient times
poor but to save souls. . . . And I until this time, and in revelations
now turn the key to you in the the Lord refers to them as helpers
name of God, and this Society shall in government to the Priesthood,
rejoice, and knowledge and intelli- in fundamentals I am sure we are
gence, shall flow down from this all agreed that the responsibility of
time." going forward in this Church rests
In illustrating the objects of the upon the Priesthood, that divine au-
Society the Prophet also said: "That thority which God has seen fit to
the Society of sisters might provoke give unto the brethren. Someone
the brethren to good works, in look- must hold this responsibility. Of
ing to the wants of the poor, search- course a woman does not hold the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 21
Priesthood, but there are no bless- lem. These shepherds— the High
ings, privileges, nor exaltation given Priests, Seventies and Elders —
to husbands who hold the Priesthood should assume the responsiblity of
that will not come to wives in just looking after their flock. They should
as full measure if they are faithful, be a group affiliated with the Relief
The man holds the key that unlocks Society, to strengthen the hands of
the door to privileges and blessings, the sisters, to provide food, shelter
but the Lord has also placed a re- and clothing for those in need. If
sponsibility upon the sisters to pro- we have, therefore, eniphasized the
voke the brethren to magnify their new assistants to you in this organ-
callings, ization it has been because we meas-
VI, -u -ir 4.^ j^ a.:^ ured the size of the job, and felt it
You have been willmg to do this, i. ^ u-„ j.^ ^„4. li^J ^r^i-ir-i:^ ir»a/l
1- ui J 1. -u ^^^^ was too D12 to put the entire load
you have enabled men to become "^ ^.i,^ ij^.o oW« oc ,rr»ii
Lhops, stake presidents and high T"" {vTl^^'SotlSleVZ
ing sure that he who holds the key I^^^^ ^ ^^^ conspicuous place,
that shall unlock the door to your 'npHE welfare problem developed
exaltation shall not lose that key; -■" as the result of circumstances
and he must magnify his calling or that occurred during what we called
he will lose it. There is no power, the depression, and it is not going
no influence in this Church greater to disappear in a moment. It was
than that which the sisters hold, and not a thing that we could take care
we could not do without them. But of in a year or two years; we never
sisters, the reason the brethren called anticipated that, and unfortunately
this Welfare organization into ex- ^^ were misquoted, because we did
istence was not to tell you that you not declare that within a year we
had failed, nor ^yas it to tell you would take everyone off government
that they were going to take it over relief.
now. A climax of unemployment \Ve say to those who have any
and relief had been reached~we had type of government work, "Stay with
made a survey of the Church that it until \'0u can better yourselves."
startled us. Due to the depression, Qur great task is to win people vol-
the long period of unemployment, untarily to leave public relief work
and the great losses that had come as soon as they can. Why? Because
to people, we found— including men, ^^ i^now as well as we know that we
women and children— 8o,ooo mem- ijye, that the great expenses of the
bers of this Church in a perilous jast several years must stop or this
situation. We said, "This is too big country cannot carry the load. In-
a job to put entirely upon the Relief debtedness has reached over thirty-
Society; the brethren now must nine billions of dollars. I do not
rally to this task,"— hence this Wei- think that the Government is in any
fare organization. You come in as danger of bankruptcy; I would not
a part of it, from the general com- ^ave you think that, but it cannot
mittee where Sister Robison and her go on indefinitely. Suppose it should
associates sit with us from week to suddenly cease! I am not criticizing
week, to the stakes and the wards— the expenditures that have been
you are a part of it. We have called made. I know this, that unless there
upon the quorums of the Priesthood, had been vast sums of money ex-
who, after all, are to solve the prob- pended to care for the hungry in this
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country we would have had revolu- "Vice is a monster of so frightful mien,
tion long before this. Probably it ^\^^ be hated needs but to be seen;
1 ° -1 . -IT,. Yet seen too oft, familiar with her face,
niay have been spent unwisely, but we first endure, then pity, then em-
the motives were to stave off what brace."
would ultimately have caused trou- ,,« ,. ^ , ,. . ,
ble. I care not how good you are, ^he^ relief and relief work were
if you are deprived of food you feel ff^^ T^^ ^'^ "^t, embrace it at
the pangs of hunger, and if you hear ^^^t, but we grew familiar with it
the cry of distress on the part of ^e saw others embrace it, we pitied
your children and those depending ourselves and then many embraced
upon you, and there is an abundance !^ ^ ^J^ appealing to you to con-
in the land and you cannot get it by ^mue to stimulate every man and
your own effort honorably, you will ^^"5^"' y°"?g ""' ^^^^ t^ ¥ i"^^'
be tempted to help yourself. TP"^??*' and it is our business to
I was in Cleveland last May at- ^^^P ^"^ *^ ^^ independent,
tending a convention of the Boy xtqu sometimes hear an altogeth-
Scouts of America There were 1 ^^ ^^^ frequent criticism against
87 coo people on relief in that great ^^e President of this Church be-
city, and no money with which to ^^^^^ ^f ^^^ ^^ ^le has made to
obtain food for them nor would i^ ^^ ^^ independent. There
there be until July. I heard men -^ ^ ^ misunderstanding concern-
stand up m that great throng of un- ,• ^he Old Age Assistance, and I
employed people and say. Let us 1, ^f ^^^3 because we are embar-
go down to the warehouse or store massed that neariy half the people in
and help ourselves I saw women t^^ state over 65 years of age-and
go from door to door with baskets ^he same is true of Idaho-are on
on their arms, asking for food. We Qld Age Assistance. Why are they
know this IS a serious problem which ^here? Because many people call
must be solved. j|. ^ pension until the feeling has
Some have the opinion that the grown and developed that it is a
Government has an inexhaustible thing people are entitled to whether
store, and if they can just get from they need it or not. Many have
the Government it is all right. Every qualified. Some disposed of their
dollar the Government expends — property to their children in order
either the city, state or national gov- to qualify. It used to be that chil-
ernment— must be secured from the dren had to say why they did not
taxes of the people. Should taxes take care of their parents; now they
be put so high that people cannot are excused. It used to be that a
pay them then property will be taken person deeded his property to the
over. Let that go on and it would State, and had a life right to it, but
not be many years before we would after death it was sold by the State,
be in a state of communism. Now if they have less than $3,000
I believe that the greatest contri- assessed valuation they may keep it
bution that can be made through all.
our Welfare program is to change Now do not understand that the
the attitude of people toward relief. President of this Church would de-
There came a situation where it prive any aged brother or sister of
seemed as if everyone were trying food, shelter or clothing. There is
to get relief. It is a good deal like no more generous heart in this world
the quotation: than President Grant's toward the
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suffering and destitute, and particu- them. Our appeal is to encourage
larly aged people. We say that every family to look after its father
every aged man or woman who has and mother if possible, and not make
paid his tithing and supported this them subjects of public charity. We
Church ought not to have to go to would not say that those whose chil-
public relief; we ought to take care dren will not support them, and
of him; he has a claim upon this who have no income, should not
Church. For those who have never have Old Age Assistance. They are
supported the Church and have no entitled to it if they cannot get help
claim other than our sympathies, we from any other source,
have paid taxes to help in their care. In order to help people to be in-
but we do feel that with them, too, dependent we have a plan to build
we can do a fine piece of missionary apartments around some of our tem-
work in winning their loyalty to the pies where aged people may go and
Church. The man or woman who work on the records of people who
has never supported the Church, are supporting them, and find joy
whether he be young or old, has no in a service that earns them the food
claim upon us, but those who will they eat and the shelter that is theirs,
repent and support the Church and We would like to see this work ex-
be loyal to it, then certainly they tended until we can take care of
have a claim upon us. thousands.
God bless you sisters for what
'>^OW brothers and sisters, teach you have done— a noble work. You
people to have the spirit of in- are entitled to far more credit than
dependence. It ought to be a re- the brethren. Although we put the
flection upon any son or daughter burden upon the brethren you must
who is able to take care of a father go hand in hand with them; they
and mother to let them accept Old are trying to help you carry your
Age Assistance. Old Age Assistance great assignment. This Welfare pro-
should not be regarded as a pension, gram is the greatest thing before the*
Pensions are now being set up under Church. We must not fail, we will
the Securitv Act of the Government, not fail; but we will not fully succeed
by which the employee gives a por- unless every man and woman does
tion of what he receives as salary his utmost to assist in the solution
and the business he works for con- of the problem,
tributes a similar amount, and this God bless you and give you the
sets up a fund which, in times of vision to see the future, the courage
old age or lack of work, may be to dare to go forward and influence
drawn upon. Old Age Assistance the hearts of men and women to
has no such fund, it is secured yield to our program, to accept of
through the sales tax or other taxes, our cooperation, and to find security
and if it should be suddenly cut indeed in the Church in the Lord's
off many people would be without own way, that will endure when
that aid and help so important to troublesome times shall come.
<*>
The First Relief Society
Organization in Alaska
By Ann Parkinson NibJey
BEFORE the Russians, English,
Spanish, French, or Americans
came to Alaska it was the coun-
try of the Indian and the Eskimo,
and although today it is the white
man's country, both in numbers and
influence, the background of native
customs and handicraft is apparent
everywhere.
In Ketchikan one has opportunity
to see and study the weirdly carved,
brightly colored totem poles, gro-
tesque reminders of bygone days, re-
minders of the rich native lore which
is woven so definitely into Alaska's
history. ''These hand-carved family
trees were at no time regarded by
the Alaskan Indians as idols of wor-
ship; instead, they represent the
coats of arms of tribes and clans and
serve to preserve and transmit an-
cient legends and traditions among
a race with no written language/'
"Totemism is recorded history, gene-
alogy, legend, and art. The gene-
alogical pole is usually erected direct-
ly in front of its owner's house and,
as the name indicates, gives the
genealogy of the family within . The
wife's totem crowns the top, next
the husband's, and so on down. Any
native passing by and seeing the pole
can tell at a glance the clan of the
mother, which is the ruling one of
the house. From this he will know
whether or not he would be welcome
to enter and stay there. If the ruling
family of the house is not of his to-
tem he passes on."
The Eskimos, so often thought
to be native to all Alaska, are a
distinct race and are seen in their
native habitats only along the Bering
T
Sea and within the Arctic Circle.
*HE waters of Alaska's Inside Pas-
sage, smooth as a lake, are the
greatest fishing waters in the world.
Northward from Juneau, across the
Gulf of Alaska, as if guarding the
coast line, stands the highest coastal
TOTEM POLE
mountain range in the world. The
gigantic Fairweather mountains and
Mt. St. Elias, over 18,000 feet high,
are visible for miles.
Boats stop at Columbia Glacier,
known as the world's largest glacier
visited by ocean-going steamers. This
stupendous moving ice river is three
miles wide where it enters the sea,
extending thirty miles back into the
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mountains. One reads that "gla- the night, sight-seeinp and in activi-
ciers should not be associated with ties normally associated with only
an intensely cold climate, but with daytime hours,
continuous warm, moisture-laden One can see by the thickly wooded
winds and clouds, and high elevation, mountains, the tall green grass, wild
so high that the winter snows of fruits, and the immense size of the
centuries will not be entirely te- flowers, such as pansies and nastur-
moved by the summer sun." tiums, that the sun shines overtime
Seward, ''The Gateway City," and must spend many sleepless
1,856 miles from Seattle, named in nights.
honor of William H. Seward, who as One can also see how easy it would
Secretary of State negotiated for the be for the citizens of Fairbanks to
purchase of Alaska from Russia for play their annual baseball game at
a sum of $7,200,000 is a picturesque midnight on the 21st of June. Here
little city, sheltered by mountain on the longest day of the year sunset
ranges 3,000 to 7,000 feet high, and and sunrise are almost simultaneous,
located on beautiful Resurrection and each occurs not in the east nor
Bay, so named by Baranof, its dis- west but in the north. It is during
coverer, who sailed into its peaceful the months of May and fune that
waters on Easter morning. this midnight sun is at its best, dip-
From Seward the Government ping behind the horizon for only
Railroad carries one inland 480 miles a few hours out of the twenty-four,
to Fairbanks. En route is Anchor- and seeming to pause there, just out
age, a busy little city resting on a of sight, painting the sky in soft
beautiful plateau above the waters pastels, lighting the entire country-
of historic Cook's Inlet. Here sev- side in the diffused rays of its reflec-
eral Latter-day Saints have located. tion.
Leaving Anchorage the train en- Fairbanks is an intensely interest-
ters the fertile Matanuska valley, ing city with a population of 2,500
famed for its Government coloniza- people. It has all the marks of a
tion project. One of the grandest frontier town, still it is a city with
sights in the entire world is Alaska's modern, comfortable homes, many
Mt. McKinley, the ''monarch of the private greenhouses, up-to-date
North American mountains." Meas- stores, and fine schools. The Uni-
ured in height above its immediate versity of Alaska, the northernmost
base Mt. McKinley is the highest institution of higher education in the
peak in the world. In their native world, is located here. The people
worship, the Indians called it "Mt. seem even more air-minded than
Denali," meaning "Home of the they are in the States, or "outside"
Sun." as Alaskans say. It is also the center
of a large and active gold-producing
pAIRBANKS is Alaska's "Golden district.
Heart". Here one may have the Although the summer weather is
unique experience of seeing the warm and delightful, in winter the
"Midnight Sun". We are apt to temperature goes down to from 50
forget that within our own country's to 65 degrees below zero. The peo-
confines this wonder may be seen, pie prepare for low temperatures
In the vicinity of Fairbanks the mid- by dressing warmly and building
summer nights are darkless, and one comfortable houses, many of them
is tempted to continue throughout with double windows and doors.
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Fires are kept constantly burning in rolls, light as a feather, with sweet
barns and vegetable cellars. butter made at the Experimental
^^ , - _ , o Farm, spring salad of crisp lettuce,
QN the evening of July 7, 1938, ^-^^ tomatoes, cucumbers, green
President Preston Nibley and I, onions, garnished with green peppers
together with seven others, met with ^^d parsley-all grown in Fairbanks
a group of Latter-day Saints living _jeiiy made from wild currants, and
in this far-oft territory. Three days bi^e berries gathered from the
were spent in Fairbanks among mountains, perfect lemon pie and
charming, cultured people. delicious strawberries grown on the
Sunday July 10, will always be a campus of the University of Alaska,
memorable day for Latter-day Saints ^ith rich thick cream separated on
m Fairbanks, Alaska. Gathered to- \^q Experimental farm?
gether at the home of Brother and when one considers that bread is
Sister Erastus Peterson, a Sunday twenty-five cents a loaf, lettuce thir-
School was held with between 25 and ty-five cents a head, milk twenty-five
30 persons attending. After Sunday cents a quart and other commodities
School Brother Lorm T. Oldroyd just as high, one doesn't wonder that
was set apart to preside over the much time and care is spent in
activities of the Saints in the tern- wholesome home cooking.
tory of Alaska, and a branch presi-
dency for Fairbanks was organized. ^HE climax of the visit to Fair-
Dr. Murray Shields, head of the De- banks, according to President
partment of Business Administration Nibley, came with a public meeting
at the University of Alaska, was made held in the Masonic Temple Sunday
president with Erastus Peterson first night. Over one hundred and twen-
counselor and L. O. Tolman second ty visitors and investigators came to
counselor. The first Relief Society the meeting, among them President
in Alaska was organized with Nettie Bunnell of the Alaska University.
May Baker Oldroyd as president, Testimonies of the truth of the Gos-
Cornelia Staker Peterson, first coun- pel were borne to an attentive and
selor, and Helen Broch Shields sec- sympathetic audience. Sister Bowen,
ond counselor. Sister Alethia Tol- formeriy Margaret Anderson, well
man, baptized that afternoon, was known as a soloist with the Salt Lake
chosen to act as secretary. With the Tabernacle Choir, sang three beau-
exception of Sister Tolman these tiful songs, which led the editor of
sisters have had years of experience the newspaper to comment the fol-
in Relief Society and Mutual work, lowing day that she was the "finest
having held positions in both ward singer that had ever visited Fair-
and stake organizations. These wom- banks."
en are capable, well known and Our Saints and friends in this far-
highly respected in the community away land of friendly, delightful peo-
and will accomplish much good. pie, unaffected by too close contact
Our Relief Society sisters here are with the more crowded centers of
unusuallv fine cooks. Can you im- civilization, are very dear to us. We
agine sitting down to a meal in are thankful in our hearts that we
the ''heart of Alaska" of fresh have been privileged to visit with
lake trout, king salmon, caught in them and organize the first Branch
nearby streams, Alaskan grown po- of the Church and the first Relief
tatoes, prepared Vienna style. Society in the Great Territory of
creamed Alaskan grown peas, hot Alaska.
The Needs of the Human Body
for Heat and Energy
By Dt. Rose H. Widtsoe — University of Utah
THERE are six important phases
of nutrition which will be con-
sidered in a series of articles
as follows: the heat and energy value
of foods; proteins; fats, starches and
sugars; mineral salts; vitamins, and
finally the balanced diet, as it in-
volves all of the preceding divisions.
As stated in a previous article, the
three important general uses of food
in the body are to supply heat and
energy, to build body tissue and to
control the various activities that go
on in the body in order to maintain
life.
ZL7EAT and Energy Value of
Foods. The body requires heat
in order to maintain a normal tem-
perature of g8.6 degrees Fahrenheit.
At this temperature the various
processes of the body go on more
efficiently. Any excess heat is elim-
inated from the body.
In addition to the heat require-
ment necessary to maintain normal
temperature of the body, energy or
the power to do work is also needed.
All of this heat and energy comes
from the food one eats. The orig-
inal source of food energy is the
sun. As the plant grows, energy is
bound up in it and remains there
until the plant is eaten, digested, and
burned. As the food is burned the
energy and heat which were bound
up in the plant are released for body
use. Animals and human beings do
not have the power to form foods,
as the plants do, from the elements
and inorganic material in the air, soil
and water, but must eat the foods
that have been formed by the grow-
ing plants.
J\/fEANS oi Measuring the Heat
and Energy Value oi Foods.
The body is not restricted to the use
of any one foodstuff for heat and en-
ergy. The starches, sugars, fats and
proteins are all burned in the body
and yield heat and energy. Certain
foods yield much more heat and en-
ergy tnan others. In order to deter-
mine the relative fuel values of the
various foods it is necessary to have a
common measure. This common
measure is called the "calorie" and
expresses the energy value in terms
of heat units. One must realize,
however, that the body is not a heat
engine such as mechanical engines
in which heat is the source of the
work. In the body heat is rather
the result of the internal and external
work which the body does. The
energy is the power by means of
which the body does its work. It
is difficult to understand the signi-
ficance of a calorie, but we say it is
the amount of heat required to raise
four pounds (about four pints) of
water one degree Fahrenheit. One
thinks of the calorie only as a means
of comparing the energy value of
foods. As one is accustomed to
measure quantities in ounces,
pounds, inches, yards, pints, etc., so
must one measure the heat and en-
ergy value of foods in calories.
J^HE Needs of the Body for Heat
and Energy.
1. The body needs heat in order
to maintain the normal body tem-
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perature. The infant requires heat amount of energy, while the same
to keep its body warm. Warm, hght- person doing heavy housework re-
weight clothing is used to keep in quires much more. This means that
the body heat. A limited amount of the greater the amount of work done
food will furnish all the heat and and the harder the work the greater
energy needed. As the child grows the amount of food that must be
older and becomes more active, he eaten to supply the required energy,
will require more food to meet his 3. Energy is also needed for
needs. Adults do not need addition- ^lowth and lepaii. The adult needs
al food to maintain normal temper- food for use in keeping the body in
ature because an active person is a state of repair. The body cells
really producing more heat than the are constantly wearing out and being
body needs and feels uncomfortably replaced with new ones. A small
warm until the blood cools off. This additional amount of energy is re-
''cooling off" is made possible by quired for this purpose,
the evaporation of the moisture, or Growing children need energy not
perspiration, on the surface of the only to repair worn-out cells but to
body. build new cells for growth. Rapidly
2. The body needs energy for growing children may be storing, in
work. There are two general types growth, as much as 12 to 1 5 per cent
of work, internal and external. The of the energy value of the food eaten,
internal work is going on constantly The pregnant woman requires a
as long as life lasts. The heart is very small additional amount of en-
beating; the lungs are breathing; the ergy for building new tissue, but this
muscles of the stomach and intes- need is generally overestimated. It
tinal walls are expanding and con- is more necessary that a pregnant
tracting; the liver, kidneys and many woman look well to the kind of food
secreting glands are constantly per- she eats rather than to increase the
forming their important functions, amount. The diet of a woman in
One of the greatest needs for energy this condition should consist largely
is in maintaining the muscles in a of milk, eggs, fruit, whole cereals,
state of tone so that they are always vegetables and meat sparingly. Such
ready to do work. One is not con- foods will furnish the vitamins and
scious of this vast amount of work minerals that are necessary. The
that is going on all the time in our calories will usually be sufficient,
bodies. A large amount of food is Too often pregnant women put on
required just to meet the needs of excessive weight,
the internal work. The lactating mother will need
The external work, or the work additional calories, equal in amount
done by the body of which one is ^o the milk she secretes, as well as
conscious, requires by far the greatest ^^^ ^"^^gV required to secrete it.
amount of energy. Every movement COURCES oi Food Energy. All
of the body, sitting or standing, ^ food except water and the min-
walking around, working with one*s eral salts yield energy when burned
hands, etc., requires energy in addi- in the body. Different foods yield
tion to that required for the internal different amounts. The food groups
body work. The amount of energy yielding energy are classified as car-
needed depends upon the kind and bohydrates, fats and proteins,
amount of external work done. Sit- 1. Carbohydrates as a Source of
ting down sewing requires a certain Heat and Energy. The carbohydrates
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 29
are the chief source of energy. This or brown sugar, honey, syrup, molas-
group comprises all of the sugars ses, dried fruits, raisins, figs, dates,
and starches. The sugars and and all fresh fruits are carbohy-
starches are built up by the growing drate foods. The best sources of
plants. Many of the sugars, called starch are cereals, bread, crackers,
simple sugars, are ready for the cakes, cookies, macaroni and spa-
blood stream and are not acted upon ghetti, and all root and tuber vege-
by the digestive juices. Such sugars tables, potatoes, Irish and sweety
occur generally throughout the veg- beans, corn, carrots, peas, squash,
etable kingdom. The sugar that we etc. All of these foods are rich in
use on our tables is manufactured calorie value,
from the juice of beets or sugar cane. 2. Fats are derived from both the
Brown sugar is the same as white vegetable and animal foods. It is
sugar except that a small amount of the chief form in which fuel is stored
the "mother liquor" is still in it. in the body. Fatty tissue is stored
In other words some of the water between and around the vital organs
and coloring matter has been left in and in a layer under the skin. This
the sugar. It has not been purified fat is used for fuel if the diet does
and bleached. not furnish sufficient calories to meet
Sugars are readily soluble and are the needs of the body. The most
easily digested. When they are successful way of reducing one's
burned in the body they yield car- weight is by reducing the caloric val-
bon dioxide, a very weak acid, which ue of the diet, thus giving the body
is eliminated by the body through a chance to burn some of its fatty
the lungs, and water which is also tissue.
eliminated by the kidneys and by the Fatty foods are much more con-
skin. So sugars are completely centra ted than carbohydrates or pro-
burned and in burning give up the teins. When burned in the body,
energy that was enclosed in them they yield two and one-half times
when they were formed by the grow- more energy per given weight. The
ing plant. In a similar manner best sources of fatty foods are cream,
starches are formed by the growing butter, animal and vegetable oils
plants. Starches differ from simple such as olive oil, corn or Mazola oil,
sugars in that they are insoluble in cotton seed oil or Wesson oil, lard,
water and must be acted upon by snowdrift and meat fats,
the digestive juices and changed to 3. Pioteins as a Source of Heat
simple sugars, glucose, before they and Energy. Heat and energy are
can be burned in the body. So all also produced when protein foods
sugars, except the simple sugars, and are burned in the body. Only one-
all starches must be changed by the half of the protein food burned is
digestive juices to simple sugar before used to produce heat and energy, so
they can be used by the body. Such we do not think of the protein foods
foods are our best sources of energy as good sources of energy. For this
because they burn without leaving reason we do not eat nearly as much
any waste products. From one-half of this type of food as we do of the
to two-thirds of our total food cal- carbohydrates and fats. There are,
ories should come from sugars and however, many important uses for
starches. protein foods in the body.
The best sources of carbohvdrate The best sources of protein foods
foods are sugar and starch. White are cheese of all kinds, meats of all
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kinds, poultry, fish, eggs, milk, nuts, should then remain constant over a
peas and beans. long period of years if just the right
T^HE Effects of Undereating and amount of food is eaten.
^ Overeating. How can one tell An insufficient amount of food to
whether he is eating too much or supply the body's need for energy
too little or just the right amount to may lead to underweight with its
meet the body's need for enerev? If accompanying evils: nervousness, ir-
one eats more food than is needed by ritability, loss of appetite, indiges-
the body, one will put on weight, tion, listlessness and lowered vitality.
The opposite is true if one eats too An excess of food will result in
little, the weight grows less. Neither overweight and may lead to general
condition is good. A growing child inefficiency, lack of ambition and in-
should gain weight consistently un- convenience. It may also result in
til he is fully grown. The weight diseases of various kinds.
NEW BEGINNINGS
Every morn is a new beginning,
A fresh start in the battle of life,
A sweet invitation to conquer
The ills of the storm and the strife.
Yesterday's errors are over and gone;
Yesterday's heartaches, sorrows and pain
Are healed by the balm of the quiet night
And will never come back again.
Each new year, a door to the future.
The key in the keeping of all,
A room full of wonderful treasures
Adorning its luminous wall.
The old year with its failures and losses
Fades away like the mists of the sea.
All its wrongs, its tears and unkindness
Are lost in the swell of eternity.
—Grace M. Candhnd.
Morning Music of the Immortals
By Marianne C. Sharp
WONT you come with me to
a meeting of the Women's
National Radio Committee?
It is held in a small room high up
in Steinway Hall on 57th Street in
New York City. Seated in chairs
around the room are women repre-
senting national organizations.
Among them is a representative of
our own Relief Society.
The meeting is called to order by
the chairman and from then on for
about two hours all the discussions
turn to the point, ''How can women
raise the level of radio?'' We take
up in turn children's programs, aban-
doned programs, music, commenta-
tors, proposed programs, etc. We
learn with regret that one splendid
program is to leave the air because
its sponsors did not receive enough
fan mail. An encouraging note,
however, is struck when we hear that
a famous symphony hour is to con-
tinue—primarily because it was voted
the most popular in its field in the
yearly poll conducted among women
by the Women's National Radio
Committee.
Through it all runs the theme that
we, the women of our country, have
a great opportunity to raise the level
of radio and that we are letting it
go by. It seems true that the people
who enjoy the best type of broad-
casts are not the ones who write
in commending a program, and thus
a wrong pictuie is drawn for spon-
sors and radio stations alike.
The women of our Church could
exercise a great influence in reme-
dying this condition. It is reported
that a Utah man, high in radio cir-
cles, remarked the otSer day, "Utah
doesn't want symphonies, it wants
swing." Is this true?
It has been found that women
listen to a radio as they go about
doing their work in the morning.
Their best hours are from eight to
eleven, varying with individual cir-
cumstances. At least two local sta-
tions in New York City have taken
advantage of this fact. One offers a
"Master Work Hour" from nine to
ten each morning. The other one
has recently increased its hours of
fine music. From eight to nine is a
"Symphonic Hour," and from nine
to ten is the "Composer's Hour" and
each day a different composer is pre-
sented at which time a short synop-
sis of his life is given, followed by the
playing of some of his compositions.
We know that radio stations must
make money, but we believe they
will find their morning advertising
more effective when good music is
offered. Of this we are sure, but
all our belief and desires will get us
nowhere unless we make our desires
known. The only way to change
the present deplorable condition is
for the women to write in and tell
the stations that they really prefer
a symphony to tunes that are here
today and gone tomorrow. Ask also
that when a sustaining program is
broadcast it be one of a high type.
As a Church we seek after every
goodly thing. Certainly fine music
is one of these. Shall we do our part
that our souls, as well as our ears,
may be stirred by music of the im-
mortals? Let us all write our local
stations and tell them in no uncer-
tain terms that we women do want-
Morning Music of the Immortals.
Women We Should Know
FLORENCE JEPPERSON MADSEN-DOCTOR OF MUSIC
By Ramona W. Cannon
FLORENCE JEPPERSON tralto singer. She had no training
MADSEN has played and, but a voice which retained its ex-
sung almost since she could quisite, melting quality into ad-
speak. She remembers when she vanced age. The father, Samuel H.
used to stand by the family organ, Jepperson, crossed the plains at three
treading with one foot and reaching years of age, and lived at a period
above her head to keys she could not when conditions forever demanded
see, to play the lead while she sang the practical— breadwinning, shelter,
the alto of familiar songs. This manual labor. But he hungered for
spontaneous self-expression became a violin. At last came his opportun-
even more interesting when admir- ity. In exchange for several loads
ing visitors began to leave her quar- of logs he could have a violin. So
ters and fifty-cent pieces for the en- at thirteen he went, alone and bare-
tertainment. At five the little girl foot, into the canyon. He had to
was making regular public appear- manage the team, make his way
ances. Her first truly professional through the prickly, tangled thick-
performance occurred at the age of ets which scratched his bare flesh,
eight. She and two brothers played cut and load the logs without help,
the organ, violin, and bass all after- keep an alert eye and ear for the
noon for a children's dance at a snakes which infested the region,
private residence. They proudly and spend lonely nights praying for
marched home with their recom- protection from the ferocity of In-
pense — a pound of butter — value dians and wild beasts. He obtained
twenty cents. the coveted instrument and learned
The Jepperson family would make to play it and also the clarinet. He
a most interesting study in heredity, made musical instruments, taught
The father and mother had extra- music, organized bands and orches-
ordinary musical talent. It mast tras throughout the state, and de-
have been a dominant characteristic veloped an orchestra among his own
in both because all six children in- family. As they sent their sweet
herited it, the grandchildren like- harmonies into the outer air, crowds
wise. The father was a landscape assembled around the house to
painter as well— was in fact known listen. This orchestra could play the
as Utah's pioneer artist. Several of organ, trombone, bass tuba, clarinet,
the children inherited this versa til- oboe, violin, guitar, and string bass,
ity. Florence herself has about Without wealth the family yet
forty good paintings to her credit, lived a life rich in beauty, accom-
which she has done in periods of plishment, and associations with
recreation. great and talented spirits. Mr. Tag-
In both parents love of music gart, the New York artist who paint-
equalled the talents they possessed, ed portraits of the Twelve Apostles,
The mother, Minnie Johnson Jep- was a close friend and did portraits
person, was known as Provo's con- of Mr. and Mrs. Jepperson as a
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 33
token of esteem. Dr. Winship, the
educator, was another friend. By
means of cooperation and sacrifice
all the children received musical ed-
ucations. The encouragement of the
art and poetry of life meant more
to the family than the acquiring of
food, clothing and household furni-
ture. ''Father desired things for
us/' says Florence, "but Mother
saw that they happened."
pLORENCE for two years before
entering Brigham Young Uni-
versity assisted Professor f. R.
Boshard in his duties as music su-
pervisor in the Provo schools. After
receiving a diploma from the Provo
college, she went to the New Eng-
land Conservatory of Music where,
after supporting herself entirely
through her student days, she was
graduated with high honors. She
remained in Boston for thirteen
years. From the time of her arrival
there, she was a church, concert,
and oratorio singer, and for eight
years she was head of the vocal de-
partment in Lasell Seminary, one
of the choice girls' colleges of
America. She provided a brother's
four years' eastern training in art
and music, and two years' musical
training for her sister. Besides this
she helped many Utahns; she was in
fact commonly referred to as the
fairy godmother of the Utah stu-
dents.
Unexpectedly a strange incident
occurred in her life. An intimate
friend, a convert to the Church, who
had studied with her in the Conser-
vatory was left a widow with three
young children and her health poor.
With forebodings in her heart, she
asked Florence to promise to take
her three children and rear them in
case of her own death. Florence at-
tempted to reassure her, but she was
insistent and Florence gave the
promise.
Soon afterwards Forence came
back to Utah to become professor
and head of the music department
of the Brigham Young University.
Dr. Chadwick, President of the Con-
servatory, had urged her to remain
in Boston where she was making a
great success; he predicted a bril-
liant future for her. But her heart
longed for her own people, and she
felt an urge to give the best of her
high attainments to Utahns and her
Church.
Two years later, in March, she
received a telegram that her friend
had died, expressing the wish that
Florence take her children. She ob-
tained leave and arrived to sing at
her friend's funeral. Remaining
away from her college work for
three months, she obtained custody
of the children, for whom no finan-
cial provision had been made. This
occurred in June, and in August she
married Franklin Madsen, also a
member of the music department of
the Brigham Young University, a
teacher of the theoretical subjects
and an unusually capable music con-
ductor. Under these conditions,
Florence did not expect to advance
further in her own career. But her
husband recognizing her great tal-
ents insisted that she go on. With
his help and cooperation she has
since marriage taken the following
degrees: B. A. from the Brigham
Young University; Bachelor of
Music, Master of Music, Doctor of
Music and Doctor of Music Educa-
tion from Chicago and Boston in-
stitutions. These are rare degrees in-
frequently attained.
r^URING the 1929 and 1930 sea-
sons Mrs. Madsen conducted
the music of the famous California
Mission Play. The night of its three
thousandth performance Madame
Schumann-Heink was guest solo-
ist. Calvin Coolidge was present and
34 ^ JANUARY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
congratulated Mrs. Madsen, refer-
ring to the evening as the occasion
he would longest remember of his
Western trip.
One summer she conducted four
musical plays by J. S. McGroarty,
author of the Mission Play. These
were presented in a tent stretched
over nine live oak trees with a seat-
ing capacity of twenty-five hundred.
The lighting and scenic effects were
most beautiful. Mrs. Madsen ar-
ranged or rearranged most of the
music and composed some of it, not-
ably the "Indian Love Lament," for
which her sister Marguerite had
written the words.
Two years ago the Madsens drove
to Boston to hear the Lament sung
by a ladies' chorus of 165, accompa-
nied by the full Boston Symphony
orchestra. Florence, upon being dis-
covered there, was enthusiastically
applauded.
Last year the Madsens were loan-
ed by the Brigham Young Univer-
sity to the Church Music Commit-
tee to launch its very laudable music
project in the five stakes of south-
ern California. They loved this ex-
perience, and it met with enthusias-
tic response.
Both the Madsens are members
of the faculty of the National Sum-
mer School Conference on School
Music Materials for supervisors and
teachers of music, where they give
two weeks of intensive training dur-
ing the summer.
Mrs. Madsen organized the first
oratorio society in the state during
war time and turned the proceeds
over to the soldiers. She is mention-
ed in the "WHio's Who in Women
of America." She is very successful
with composition work, and has pub-
lished six ladies' choruses and two
anthems for mixed voices. One of
these is Brother George H. Brim-
hall's, "Oh, May I Know the Lord
As Friend." Another soon to appear
has used as its text words from the
84th Section of the Doctrine and
Covenants.
Sometimes in our zeal for duty in
regard to the Gospel we forget its
beauty. Florence Madsen preaches
religion through beauty, bringing
people closer to an understanding of
the "measureless riches of the Gos-
pel of Christ." Through music our
hearts are softened and our spirits
uplifted and opened to the outflow-
in goodness of God. Artists like
Mrs. Madsen are rare. They must
have first the natural gift, then te-
nacity of purpose, an inexhaustible
capacity for work, intellectual, emo-
tional and spiritual depth and under-
standing. When we have them in our
midst, let us honor them.
BEST
Tis fine to travel broadly,
To sip earth's nectar clear;
'Tis fine to meet in friendship
Those whom we hold most dear;
Then life is full of sunshine.
Hearts revel in love's call;
But joy of service rendered
Is the best gift of all.
— H. Asa Fowler.
Dear to the Heart of the Shepherd
By Doiothy CJapp Robinson
CHAPTER TEN
THE Doctor went into Tim's
room just ahead of me. I
dropped to my knees by the
bed and laid my face against the
one on the pillow.
'Tim. Tim. Oh, thank good-
ness you were not killed!'' He put
his one good arm about me. The
other was in bandages.
"Don't worry," the Doctor's calm,
level voice kept me from bursting in-
to sobs. ''He'll be out in a week."
"I should have taken the wheel,"
Tim explained. "I knew when we
left Arliss that Don had been drink-
ing and that we had a bad stretch
of road. I did suggest it, but he
would not listen. Was he hurt?"
"Some," the Doctor answered.
"But he will be out in three or four
days. It always happens that way.
We just brought the girl from the
operating room. I promised to let
you know how she was."
"Salle!" I cried, springing to my
feet. "I must go to her at once."
"She is still under the anesthetic.
Her mother is with her. You had
better wait until tomorrow. We will
know then whether she is going to
live." He went out.
Tim groaned, and I clung to him
in terror. Salle, so full of life and
ambition!
"If she dies I shall always con-
sider myself responsible," Tim mut-
tered from between set lips. "I was
the oldest and should have knocked
out that worthless pup if necessary.
It was a needless accident."
Another thought occurred to me,
and I clung to his good arm. "Tim,
if anything had happened to you
I would not have known where you
were."
"I thought of all that while I lay
under that car waiting for help. I
decided if I got out alive several
things would be different. One is
—no more secrets."
"I should not have been suspi-
cious, Tim. It was all my fault.
And I shouldn't have let my work
come between us. I will give it up
tomorrow."
"Not on your life. But your work
did have something to do with it.
I was mighty proud when you were
put in president, but I knew some
expense would be involved; you
would need some one to look after
the children more often, and there
might be other expenses that
couldn't be helped."
"So you thought you would take
on extra work and not let me know."
"I thought if you knew you would
object. I know now I should have
told you what I was doing. To trust
is all right, but sometimes our sense
of trust is strained too far. Subter-
fuge always breeds occasions for
doubt."
"And I couldn't understand why
you wouldn't go places— when you
were so tired."
"Some of that was plain laziness.
I'd rather stay home. Then I was
asked to put another's affairs in
shape."
"Diane's?"
He looked at me sharply. "You
know about her?"
I nodded. "She died tonight."
He started to rise but fell back
with a groan. His face went gray.
36 - JANUARY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
not alone with pain. Later he said:
"She was a grand kid but head-
strong; like her father, Mrs. Grow
said. She had some land she wanted
to dispose of, so we planned on put-
ting Holman and Peters out there.
They both like to farm, and Bishop
thought it would be the best."
''He knew what you were doing?"
"Yes. We were working it out
together. But never again will I go
away without telling you."
I clung to him in silent thankful-
ness. He was my own, my Tim af-
ter all.
A FEW days later I called to see
Don. Mrs. Grow sat beside her
boy. On one side of his bed was
Nedra Williams. She held one of
his hands in both hers, and her face
fairly shone with the joy of love and
conquest. Don, too, looked at me,
but he was self-conscious.
"Mrs. Maylord," he began, "Ned
and I-"
"Don't bother to explain," I told
them. "It is written all over your
faces and I am so happy for you."
I meant the last more than they
would guess.
"Do you think— that Salle will
mind?"
"Not nearly as much as if she had
married you and then found you
loved Nedra."
After spending a few moments
with Don I left. Mrs. Grow went
down the long hall with me. "I am
glad," she said quietiy, "that he has
gone back to Nedra. He would not
have been happy with Salle nor she
with him. Nedra is his kind and
will make him a grand wife. But I
love Salle so much."
"Will you go in with me to see
her?"
"Not now. Losing her and Diane
at the same time has been hard.
I shall be a lonely woman. I shall
see her in another day or two.
Just now I will go to see Mr. Hol-
man. Peters left the hospital yes-
terday."
"I am glad they weren't hurt bad-
Her face blanched, and I wished
I could recall the words. Quickly
I said, "After all, the accident has
been a good thing all around. It has
straightened out several tangles. Don
probably won't drink again— and it
brought him and Nedra together.
You will soon love her. Come to
our meetings. It will give you an
interest in something."
She looked at me a moment and
then said quietly, "I believe I will.
If I can get a fraction of the satis-
faction from it that you get, it will
be worth while."
REJOICING in the way things
were clearing up I went into
Salle's room. I found her in tears.
"Why, Salle, what is it?"
"Nothing," between sobs.
"You must not excite yourself.
Doctor says you are going to be all
right. It is only a matter of time."
"I-I know it."
"Then why cry?"
"Nedra Williams was in here a
while ago—"
I brought her up sharply. "Don't
tell me, Salle Richards, that you are
crying over Don. Were you in love
with him after all?"
There was such dismay and incre-
dulity in my voice she started to
laugh, a half-crying, hysterical laugh.
"Would it have been that terrible?
Of course I wasn't. But it is— I
don't know what is the matter with
me. I am always doing the wrong
thing. And his mother hasn't been
in to see me. I thought she liked
me. She did send me some flowers
—so did the Mutual officers."
"Didn't you know?"
KLIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 37
"Know what?" she asked quickly. With a happy little cry Salle sur-
"She has been away. She was in rendered herself to him. I closed
to see you, but you were uncon- the door hastily.
scious. She will come later." Tim went home that day, and as
"Where has she been?" Salle's I rode beside him I found my
voice had gone deadly quiet. thoughts going back over the year's
"Taking Diane— home." work. I thought of the Holmans,
"Oh," that was all, but it told of a the Peters family, Salle, and the n?ys-
wound on the girl's heart that would tery that had surrounded the Grow
be long in healing. home— that hadn't been a mystery
after all. I thought of the way Gloria
THERE came a sudden sharp had sung "Dear to the Heart of the
knock, but before I could reach Shepherd" on my first official visit
it, the door was flung open and Kent to her. "Are there any of us who
Evans stood before us. His glance are not wandering sheep?" I asked
went immediately to the girl on the myself. But so dear are we to the
bed. Kind Shepherd that he leads us all
"Salle," in two strides he was be- into returning paths of security and
side her. Salle, Darling. I just service,
heard. I have been away." the end
EARTHBOUND
By Celia A. Van Cott
I love this world! I do not want to know
When last I see the sunset mold the hill
In aureole of gold, or the fluffy frill
Of pearled clouds afloat in the crimson glow
Of a dawning sky. I do not want to know
Which day will be my last. I want to thrill
With each new dawn, with birds enraptured trill,
Or the beauty of the soft, white falling snow.
My spirit's strong with earthly beauty, God,
So deep in love with greening field and sky.
With seasons' interwoven harmony;
My spirit's rooted in this human sod.
It would be hard, O God, to say goodbye.
To know the last of life's sweet melody!
HAPPENING
By Annie Wells Cannon
JANUARY— The perfect rainbow
of our today comes when the
sweetness of our yesterdays blends
with the hopes of our tomorrows.
A MANDA KNIGHT HALL is
the name of the women's dor-
mitory of the Brigham Young Uni-
versity at Provo, Utah. It is most
appropriate that the benefactions of
this estimable and cultured woman,
Amanda McEwan Knight, should be
thus recognized. Almost from the
inception of the University to the
time of her death Mrs. Knight was
a liberal donor and patron to this
excellent school of learning.
pDITH N. RODGERS, Jennie
Sumner, Mary T. Norton and
Caroline O'Day are the only women
representatives in the new Congress.
Only 93 women in the whole United
States came out for election to office
in 1938.
QUEEN MAUD of Norway, who
^^ died last November, was greatly
loved and deeply mourned. She was
the last survivor of the family of
Edward VII and Alexandra of Eng-
land.
pLORA CLAY, stewardess, played
a heroine's role in a crash over
the Pacific. After helping every one
out of the fusilage she swam ashore
but was swept back into the sea by
a careening plane wing.
T AVELL CHRISTENSEN, 16,
of Utah, was awarded a $200
scholarship at the 4-H congress at
Chicago. Irene Brown of Illinois
entered a young steer which she
bought for $60. He was pronounced
champion and sold for $3,785.50.
pRANCES RICH, noted sculp-
tress, forgot to put her name on
her first monumental piece— a me-
morial to the Army and Navy nurses
—unveiled in Arlington National
Cemetery last November, but her
mother, Irene Rich, screen and radio
actress, took her daughter back to
Washington by plane to cut her
name in the stone.
A LICE LOUISE REYNOLDS,
writer, educator and organizer,
of Provo, Utah, died last month.
Miss Reynolds was known nationally
and internationally as an authority
on English literature and for her
fine judgment concerning books. She
will be mourned by hundreds of
friends.
Tl/^ILHELMINA ROGERS, 104,
and Caroline Angerbauer, 93,
of Utah, celebrated birthdays recent-
ly, while Mere Whaanga, 90, trav-
eled 8,000 miles frorn New Zealand
to spend her last days in salubrious
Utah.
pEARL BUCK has gone to Sweden
to receive the award for literature
—The Nobel Prize. She is the first
American woman to have this honor.
yiRGINIA WOOLF'S "Three
Guineas," Sheila Kay-Smith's
"The Valiant Woman," Margaret
Ayers Barnes' "Wisdom's Gate" and
"Thrice A Stranger" by Vera Brit-
tain are among the glamorous books
of this last year.
interesting verse
AMONG the interesting and
talented women who have
served the Relief Society or-
ganization the names of Lula Greene
Richards, Emmeline B. Wells, and
Cornelia H. Home Clayton stand
out with prominence. Blessed with
unusual literary ability Sisters Rich-
ards and Wells served the organiza-
tion as the first Editor and Assistant
Editor respectively of the Woman's
Exponent, which was founded in
1872, a quarter of a century after
the pioneers landed in Salt Lake
Valley. Sister Home, gifted with
business ability, served as its first
business manager from December 1,
1875 to July 15, 1877, when she re-
signed to become the bride of James
Leroy Clayton. Their association on
the Exponent brought to these
women a deep appreciation and sin-
cere love for each other.
At the wedding feast prepared for
Miss Home the following, poem,
written by Lula Richards, was read
by Emmeline Wells. After the read-
ing of the poem President John Tay-
lor, who was one of the guests, pro-
nounced it "the choicest of the many
valuable and beautiful tributes of-
fered on the sacred and joyful occa-
sion .
Sister Richards is the only one of
the three still living. Her physical
and mental vigor are unusual. Nine-
ty years of age next April she still
serves the Relief Society organiza-
tion.
"Corneel"
By Lula Greene Bdch^ids
(November 2q, 1875)
Comeel, Dear Girl: This is thy day of
daysl
From maidenhood's fair path you step
aside.
Henceforth in woman's higher, mig;htier
ways
Thy walk in life must be — thou art a bride.
In bringing wishes tender, true and kind,
As friendship to such scenes should ever
XT ^""^'
No superfluities, howe'er refined,
I'd offer, nor one vain, unlikely thing.
It is not vain to wish that fruits and flowers
May crown thy lot instead of thorns and
weeds;
That which we plant and cultivate is ours,
Else life were vain, and all good thoughts
and deeds.
May faith's bright star illumine all thy path,
Love's sweetest blossoms 'round thy heart
entwine;
And all the wealth which truth and virtue
hath
For their firm votaries be forever thine.
May he to whom thou givest all in trust.
Who fondly, proudly claims thee as his
own.
Prove only nobler, purer and more just
Than thy warm hopes or brightest dreams
have shown.
Many might deem this wish not worth the
while.
For 'tis proverbial man never proves
As free from folly, selfishness and guile
As is believed by woman when she loves.
I will admit that cases may be rare
In which man falls not short, yet one I've
known —
But I'll not tell it here, 'twould seem unfair
To talk of love today except thine own.
God bless thee! This time-honored, sacred
phrase
Can best express the interest which I feel
For thee on this, thy brightest day of
days —
God keep thee ever blest, beloved Comeel.
THE RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
JULIA A. F. LUND - - General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Nettie D. Bradford Donna Durrant Sorensen
Emma A. Empey Ida P. Beal Vivian R. McConkie
Annie Wells Cannon Marcia K. Howells Leda T. Jensen
Lalene H. Hart Emeline Y. Nebeker Beatrice F. Stevens
Cora L. Bennion Janet M. Thompson Rae B. Barker
Amy Whipple Evans Belle S. Spafford Nellie O. Parker
Rosannah C. Irvine Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor - - Belle S. Spafford
Manager - .......... Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ......... Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI
JANUARY, 1939
No. 1
tDITORIAL'
Lyonfidi
^HE year 1938 is ended. All that
it gave of joy and sorrow, of
satisfaction and remorse is now rele-
gated to the past. With the new
year comes a feeling of new begin-
nings, of a fresh start in the battle of
life. Hope, which ''swells eternal in
the human breast,'' bids the new
year to be a better year than yester-
year, and reason says to each of us,
''This year you are older and wiser,
the experiences of the past qualify
you to meet whatever the new year
may bring better than you have met
any year heretofore."
But in reality many of us face the
future with anxiety. We lie awake
nights dreading possible calamities
of the morrow. Not knowing what
the future holds for us we stand be-
fore it afraid.
'ITie pace of civilization today is
swift. Progress, involving change,
seems to keynote man's existence
and brings a thousand disturbances
that gnaw at patience, upset poise,
ence
and work one into a state of ner-
vous uncertainty. Life today calls
for such power of adjustment that
it leaves many of us feeling innately
inadequate to cope with it success-
fully.
If the New Year could give to
every Relief Society woman one gift
I would say let it be the gift of con-
fidence, that feeling of adequacy to
meet whatever the future may hold.
Let her recapture the confidence of
her youth. Youth has its sorrows,
its obstacles to overcome, its adjust-
ments to make, but its thoughts and
ideas have not fallen into ruts; it has
not been intimidated by life.
Facing the future with confidence
actually renders one more capable of
utilizing the ability which he actu-
ally possesses to the greatest advan-
tage. It leads to well directed action
and, unafraid to dedicate one's life
to the purposes which challenge,
personal development is increased.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 41
Confidence is something which
we may give to one another. It
is one of the most contagious
things in the world. A confident
person readily transmits to his as-
sociates the same attitude. One in-
dividual sincerely believing in an-
other is like a stimulating tonic, in-
creasing that person's belief in him-
self and thus enlarging his power
to do.
Confidence is nourished by suc-
cess, and as success breeds confidence
so confidence in turn breeds success.
In approaching the future the
average adult needs to view life from
the vantage point established for us
by the Gospel. We need to take a
long-range view, seeing its place in
the eternal program. We need to
get a fresh vision of what we our-
selves could do if we would do all
that we can do. We need to live
every day courageously and '-let vir-
tue garnish our thoughts unceasing-
ly; then shall our confidence wax
strong." (Doc. & Cov. 121:45.)
Though 1939 may bring cloudy
and misty days alternating with clear
and sunny ones let us go forward
and partake of whatever the New
Year has to offer, unafraid.
Cicnnomedgment
a
|NE of the delightful customs
coming down through the years
is the expressions of good will from
one to another. This is always asso-
ciated with Christmas and the New
Year. It is a tangible evidence of
the spirit of the time. The Presiden-
cy and General Board have received
many such beautiful messages and
are deeply grateful. They reciprocate
fully the love and good will of every
sister and of the organizations. They
answer every kind thought with a
prayer for success and peace to be
with all.
U\affieS"(^ames of (chance— (^afnoling
From the December issue of the
circular "Progress of the Church,"
published bv the Presiding Bishopric
we quote the following:
"The rapid increase of practically
all forms of gambling, makes it ad-
visable to again call the attention of
stake and ward Church leaders to
the evils of this practice.
"Any game, device, plan or scheme
which has as its object the induce-
ment to try to get something for
nothing, or to win a reward at the
expense of others, is definitely ob-
jectionable and should be discour-
aged.
"Members of wards should be
urged to refrain from engaging in
such activities under whatever guise.
The instructions given by Church
authorities in the past regarding the
use of any such device or plan in
Church socials or gatherings are
a?ain called to the attention of stake
and ward leaders. The use of such
devices or schemes is definitely out
of place in Church gatherings and
should not be permitted."
We appreciate the clarity with
which the Presiding Bishopnc have
expressed the stand of the Church
in regard to these practices and urge
all Relief Society organizations to
observe the above instructions.
QjtsimA.
OF INTEREST
[Poem, (contest
I
N this number of the Relief Soci-
ety Magazine appear the poenis
and names of those awarded the first
three places in the annual poem con-
test conducted by the General
Board.
There were 124 poems entered in
this year's contest and the committee
feel to congratulate the many con-
tributors on the general excellence
of their contributions, with the hope
that they will continue to write and
send in their manuscripts. While
it is a fact that all cannot win, this
need not deter one from making the
effort, and continued work leads at
least towards the goal of success.
This year the first prize was award-
ed to Helen Hinckley Jones of Beav-
er, Utah, for her elegiac poem,
"Cycle".
Second prize was awarded to Eva
Willes Wangsgaard of Ogden, Utah,
for her lovely poem, "Always At
Night," and Third prize to Grace
Zenor Pratt of Colonia Dublan,
Mexico, for her heart-touching
verses, "Today I Gathered Roses".
The judges this year were Profes-
sor Harold F. Folland of the English
Department, University of Utah,
Maud Beeley Jacob, writer and liter-
ary critic, and Marcia K. Howells of
the General Board of Relief Society.
We are most grateful to the judges
for their patient consideration and
professional judgment. We thank
all who contributed in any way to
the success of the contest, and the
successful authors have the sincere
congratulations of the committee.
Annie Wells Cannon,
Julia A. F. Lund,
Rosannah C. Irvine,
Ida P. Beal
Rae B. Barker.
I iesK^ cJeatures of the l/lagazine for iq3q
TN line with the policy of the Relief
Society to publish a superior Mag-
azine a number of new features are
inaugurated with the January issue.
We are the first magazine to our
knowledge to use new Green-White
paper called "Nature's Tint." This
special paper eliminates glares, saves
the eyes and makes reading easier. In
view of the fact that the Magazine
is used many times during the month
in lesson work and visiting teaching,
and not always under the most favor-
able lighting conditions, we feel this
special "eye-ease" paper will be
greatly appreciated by our subscrib-
ers.
We are also using a new "Electra"
type face, which is more legible and
modern than the type we have used
previously. We are informed that
we are using the only font of this
particular type in the Intermountain
territory.
The January issue also inaugurates
a new cover design which we believe
will add to the general attractiveness
of the Magazine.
The general lay-out of the Maga-
liELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 43
zine is being improved by the use receive the same careful attention
of distinctive title heads and depart- which has always characterized its
ment names, and we are expecting selection. This, together with the
to increase the number of illustra- improved physical make-up, should
tions. give to our subscribers a magazine
The content of the Magazine will of quality.
cXo5 Cingeies Stake Scores
A DRAMATIC feature of the Los Hoglund, paid a sincere tribute to
"^ Angeles Stake Relief Society the efficient and energetic stake co-
Conference on November 5 and 6 ordinator. Sister Bessie Redding,
was the announcement that the stake who had planned and led the Cam-
had reached the final goal set for it paign, and her able assistants, the
in the Membership Campaign. It ward coordinators, for their arduous
had increased its membership work and signal success.
33H% and had thus achieved ^'key- ^t a proper moment each of the
stone success m one season. coordinators was called to the plat-
The membership of the stake m ^^^^ ^^^ presented with a corsage
1937 was 540. The quota set was ^f gardenias.
200 new members by 1942. Ihe
Campaign was inaugurated in the The plans for the Membership
wards September 6, and by Novem- Campaign were presented, thorough-
ber S. 6, 235 new members had been ^ discussed and copies distributed
enrolled, making the present mem- i" the membership department of
bership 77c. the Union meeting held in August.
The announcement of the final re- On September 6 they were intro-
sults was made in a large special Re- ^^ced in the ward meetings. Definite
lief Society meeting, attended by the rules were adopted and uniformly
stake presidency and a number of carried out. Prospective members
invited guests. The meeting was were made thoroughly familiar with
semi-social in nature, with a program the privileges and responsibilities of
of beautiful musical numbers and membership and were not enrolled
short speeches. At the close of the until they had attended three regular
meeting delicious refreshments were meetings. The new members are
served. ^^^ enthusiastically interested in the
The President, Sister Blanche work of the organization.
iq38 clndex
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lieVi> Serial
'T^HE February issue ot the Maga- quaintance with sophisticated Miss
zine brings to our readers a new Donavan. 7'he Shining Heart is a
serial. The Shining Hearty by Sibyl story of real-life people whose ambi-
Spande Bowen. tions and frustrations, selfishness and
Read about old Philander Mad- generosities, dislikes and loves, lead
dox, rich, eccentric, naive. Beconie the reader with absorbing interest
acquainted with Brilliant Alaska through a story carrying a delightful
Carey whose absorbing life interest element of mystery, centered in a
is the charming and gifted Nell. Fol- Chinese chest and a shining heart,
low the actions of Robert Lathrop, Sibyl Spande Bowen needs no in-
resented by Nell, "For one thing," troduction to our readers, having
she said, "because a man has no busi- been a contributor to local magazines
ness wearing ties as beautiful as those for the past i :; years. Her work in
worn by Mr. Lathrop." Enjoy the the field of fiction is of unusual
homely life-philosophy of practical merit, recently receiving national
and unromantic Fred; benefit by ac- recognition.
f/lagazine LOnve
nr^HE Magazine Honor Roll pub-
lished in the December issue
omitted the American Fork First
Ward, Alpine Stake. This ward has
an enrollment of 82, with 62 sub-
scriptions, giving them a percentage
of 76.
The Rapid City, South Dakota
Branch and the Grand Island, Ne-
braska Branch should have been list-
ed Western States Mission instead
of North Central States Mission.
The Lebanon Ward should have
been listed Mt. Graham Stake in-
stead of St. Joseph Stake.
The Manavu Ward, Utah Stake
has an enrollment of 104, with 108
subscriptions, giving them a percent-
age of 104, instead of 104 enrolled,
84 subscriptions, giving them a per-
centage of 81 as listed on the De-
cember Honor Roll.
The Archer Ward of Rexburg
Stake was given credit instead of
Burton Ward which has an enroll-
ment of 35, with 30 subscriptions,
giving them a percentage of 86.
<*>
"The measure of our civilization is not good roads, or parks, or public
buildings but the homes of our people."— Thomas Mann.
"Come Join Our Ranks"
By Leone G. Lay ton
AS partakers of the spirit and with us in our organization and re-
blessings of Relief Society ceive its benefits" in exactly the
membership we are all anx- same words, yet there is response
ious to pass this privilege on to oth- to one and not the other. Why?
ers. There is a real need in our One lives Relief Society. She is filled
communities for Relief Society and v^th the spirit of it; it has become
the opportunities for growth that it part of her life; she sees not duty,
presents to its members. Those who but privilege in all that it presents
are actively participating in its pro- to her.
gram, who have a vision of the or- The other? The sister who does
ganization as a whole, are proud to enlistment work feeling that it is im-
say, "I am a member of the Relief possible to get new members, who
Society." dutifully tenders each invitation but
We like to meet people who are doesn't feel in her soul the real bene-
sure of their values. As we value fits which will come to the sister she
anything, so is our enthusiasm com- is inviting, cannot be as successful as
municated to others. No salesman the one who senses Relief Society
can convince us of the excellency of values in full and presents them en-
his product until he has first con- thusiastically.
vinced himself. He may have a flow- All humanity is seeking greater life
ing sales talk, be letter-perfect in its satisfaction. All are searching for
delivery, but if a lack of conviction the things that will bring into their
of the value of his product is sensed, lives the greatest sense of accom-
one does not buy. plishment, the greatest happiness.
Others are prone to accept the Our organization can do this,
\'alue we place upon our possessions. Our Prophet said, "This charitable
You may have a treasured keepsake society is according to your natures,
that has no appeal for me, but as I You are now placed in a situation
sense the value you place upon it, where you can act according to
I find myself unconsciously accept- those sympathies which God has
ing it at its worth to you. planted in your bosoms. If you live
We want to like what others like, up to your privileges the angels can-
whose opinions we regard. We hear not be restrained from being your
someone say that a certain book has associates." Do you know of any
a wonderful message, that everyone other organization which holds out
who is up with the times is conver- such promise to its members?
sant with it; we read of a review to Only as we value our organization
be given and drop our tasks to find can we make it attractive to others,
the values in the highly rated book. There is no substitute for enthusi-
Do we all understand and like it? No, astic conviction in enlistment work,
but someone has said it was worth If we are filled with the vision and
while. We all want to get out of life spirit of Relief Society it wall radiate
all the good that others find in it, from us. If through enthusiastic ser-
so we follow those who are con- vice we are obtaining the blessings
vinced that they have found values, promised by the Prophet, then we
can say, "Come, join our ranks," in
'Tp WO women may give out exactly such a manner as to make others de-
the sam^ invitation to, "[oin sire that which we have received.
TioJtuA,
FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretaru
AVERY delightful and profit-
able beginning for the New
Year is to reflect for a mo-
ment upon some of the fine accoih-
plishments of the past. We regret
that we cannot publish all of the
outstanding achievements of the Re-
lief Society organizations during the
past year.
Eastern States Mission
AN outstanding meeting held at
Palmyra is reported by the Pres-
ident:
"The Relief Society organizations
"The roll call showed a large at-
tendance of Relief Society members,
representing every Branch in the
Mission. General President Louise
Y. Robison addressed the audience.
Her words were received with inter-
est and enthusiasm and have stim-
ulated fruitful works. As the sisters
left for their homes many of them
expressed a determination to attack
their work with renewed zeal. They
were truly filled with the spirit of
their calling. All of the members
were given the long-awaited privilege
of greeting Sister Robison personally,
SINGING MOTHERS AND DAUGHTERS,
EASTERN STATES MISSION
of the Mission were given a special
place on the Palmyra conference
program. The period was devoted
entirely to Relief Society work. This
is in line with a policy to recognize
each of the auxiliaries in these con-
ferences. The experience of this
session fully justifies the policy.
and to each she gave encouragement
in their several undertakings. All
felt the influence of her gracious
friendliness and her unaffected hu-
mility.
"Nearly a hundred mothers and
daughters joined in the choruses spe-
cially prepared during months of
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 47
practice in the branches. It was re-
garded as a high privilege to hold this
notable Relief Society meeting in
the Sacred Grove, and the Singing
Mothers and their daughters, attired
in white, presented a beautiful pic-
ture on this holy ground."
Mount Ogden Stake
\/f USIC is recognized everywhere
as one of the most potent of
civilizing influences and certainly
one of the most inspiring in its ef-
fect. Good music like any art is a
treasure not for the chosen few but
one that all may enjoy. Though
one works with his hands in the
shops or in the fields, his soul may
reach the heights through music.
An outstanding musical program
was given in the Weber College
also helped the people to realize that
the Mothers' Chorus in each ward
plays an important part in the pro-
gram of the Relief Society.
Althea B. Zinn was the director;
Fern Clark, the organist, and Lydia
Burrows the reader. ,
Teton Stake
A /TANY stakes used vacation time
for social activity in keeping
alive the spirit of Relief Society. The
Teton Stake Relief Society Board
entertained all the ward executive
officers, the stake presidency and a
number of special guests at a dinner,
after which a delightful program of
appropriate numbers was rendered.
Every one enjoyed the "get togeth-
er" party where a spirit of unity, in-
terest and love prevailed.
SINGING MOTHERS, MT. OGDEN STAKE
Auditorium by the Singing Mothers
of Mount Ogden Stake Relief So-
ciety. The theme was the story of
the life of the Savior, portrayed in
music: His Birth, His Ministry on
Earth, His Crucifixion, His Resurrec-
tion, and His Ascension into Heaven.
The knowledge and inspiration
gained by the chorus members has
been taken into the wards and has
helped to raise the standard of music
in the ward organizations. It has
Bannock Stake
TN this stake the lesson work has
aroused great interest. This is
especially true of the Theology and
Visiting Teacher work, as well as the
Home Reading project. A play,
written by Sister Elsie Hubbard, por-
traying the spirit of the work, was
successfully produced in the ward
conferences held throughout the
stake.
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Pocatello Stake
npHE great enthusiasm that has
been aroused far and wide by
the Singing Mothers in the Relief
Society is very gratifying. In addi-
tion to the other fine work which the
Pocatello Stake is doing the above
picture tells its own story. Interest
taining information and pamphlets
from the Extension Division of the
Agricultural College.
The first lesson on nutrition was
the Daily Food Supply. In con-
ducting this lesson, fresh vegetables
and fruits were used, and ribbons
of various lengths and colors were
SINGING MOTHERS, POCATELLO STAKE
in membership, in the study pro-
gram, and in all other activities is
stimulated by the cultural opportu-
nity offered women through the
chorus work.
Highland Stake
CINCE the subject of nutrition is
of such importance in keeping
the body in perfect condition the
Highland Stake welcomed the sug-
gested study "Food Selection and
Preparation" for discussion in the
Work and Business department.
With the earnest support of execu-
tive officers, both in the stake and
wards, each month a simple discus-
sion of nutrition has been presented,
together with sewing;, handicraft and
quilting.
Stake leaders obtained informa-
tion from pamphlets suggested in
the July Magazine and were also
very graciously assisted by Miss Elna
Miller of the A. C. and Sister Ivy
Hall, County Home Agent, in ol>
attached to denote the content of
the vitamins and minerals.
The accompanying picture shows
how this was illustrated with the use
of a blackboard. Fruits and vege-
tables were attached to the black-
board, left to right, as follows: peas,
string beans, onion, tomato, orange,
parsley, carrot, potato, pepper, beet,
cauliflower, cabbage, spinach, celery,
and corn.
The food elements and their val-
ues were listed as follows:
Vitamin A — ^Yellow ribbon
Vitamin C — Blue ribbon
Calcium — White ribbon
Iron — Red ribbon
Phosphorus — Green ribbon
Protein — Purple ribbon
Calories — Brown ribbon
A — ^Avoids colds
B — Be not nervous
C — Correct connective tissue
D — Dental and bone
E — Enlarges families
F— Lost
G— Growth
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 49
Calories are units of measure-
ments for determining the amount
of heat and energy obtained from
food. Vitamins are substances in
food which make it possible to prop-
eriy nourish every part of the body.
To inspire friendly interest and
participation in the course a drama-
tization was presented. One of the
older sisters was chosen as a bride
to show that all ages might benefit
by these lessons on nutrition.
THE VITAMIN SONG
There are foods we like to eat
That are mighty hard to beat
They contain all vitamins from A to G.
If you want to keep in step
Eat the foods that give you pep,
Serve the ones that have been planned
For you and me.
•
Chorus
Come, come, come each second Tuesday,
Bring another friend with you.
We are sure that you'll agree
Vitamins from A to G
Can be found in recipes both old and new.
EDGEHILL WARD, HIGHLAND STAKE
At the begininng of the class the
"Weddine March" was played; the
bride entered, marched to the front
of the room carrying an attractive
bouquet of cauliflower, parsley, rad-
ishes, brussel sprouts and cranber-
ries. She recited a clever jingle on
food values, after which the audi-
ence sang the following original
verses to iie tune of "In Our Lovely
Deseret".
A prize is being given to the sister
contributing the best verse each
month, which will be added to the
song.
The same program is being carried
out in various ways in each ward in
the stake.
Each month a chart, "The Day's
Food Supply," which lists the proper
kinds and amounts of food necessary
for an adequate day's supply, is kept
before the members.
LESSON DEPAHTMENT
cJheologii ana cJestimony
Lesson 7
PETER THE FISHERMAN
Helpful References circles. To the contrary. Peter was
r T-. rri 1 T XT. the leader of the Church following
James E. Talmage - Jesus the Christ's death and highly respected
ChnsU pp. 218 f. 197-199. 091 t 3s s^ci^ rj^^^ ^.^i5 ^^3 5Q 5ggj^5 to
A. B. Bruce-The Training of the bg attested by the fact that the Gos-
Twelve. Consult index under the pels and Acts devote so much space
heading of Peter. to him as compared to the other
Gustaf Dalman— Sacred Sites and apostles. We can quite understand
Ways, pp. 121-183. (Macmillan Co., the situation by reference to our own
New York, 1935). This book con- day. The President of the Church
tains a wealth of reliable and stimu- wields great influence wherever he
lating material on the topography of goes. Consequently newspapers and
the Gospels. Will be of great value magazines devote much space to him
to close students of the New Testa- in their columns. Accounts of his
ment. travels and sermons are fully chron-
C. E. Macartney— Of Them He icled. The special attention paid by
Chose Twelve, pp. 108-121. our Lord to Peter and the fact that
0___ _ . 7 A 7 n t^G latter was promised the "keys
UR Interest in the Apostle Peter, ^f ^he kingdom of heaven" are also
The Gospels and the Acts tell us strong evidences in favor of his pri-
more about Peter than about any ^acy in the ancient Church. The
other member of the Twelve. Our ^0^^ of Peter in this dispensation
interest in him is very keen for that jg an added reason for our interest
reason if no other. Enough is said j^ him.
about Peter to give us a reasonably
clear picture of the man,— his strong CIMON PETER'S Early Life.—
points and weaknesses are admirably We do not know many details of
pictured in the New Testament writ- Peter's early life, but fortunately re-
ings. The sheer humanity of Peter search has disclosed to us much of
makes a strong appeal to the average interest respecting Galilee (the prob-
individual. He has a winsome per- able place of his birth) in New Tes-
sonality that commands the love of tament times. The apostle was the
all who read the accounts of his life son of a man by the name of fona
and work. Latter-day Saints and (Matt. 16:17) who may have been
Catholics probably hold him in high- a fisherman by trade. It would be
er esteem than do most other Chris- quite natural therefore for Jona's
tian peoples because of their special sons, Peter and Andrew, to follow
views on priesthood and Church or- in his footsteps. But even if Jona
ganization. We as a people do not was not a fisherman it would have
believe that Peter was overshadowed been easy for Peter and Andrew to
by Paul and John in ancient Church pick up the trade from other men
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 51
because Bethsaida, the little village
in which they lived, was a fishing
center on the northeast shore of the
Sea of Galilee.
Dr. Gustaf Dalman points out
that Galilee was "eminently condu-
cive to the development of a unique
type of Jew/' Josephus writes of
the courage and pugnacity of the
Galileans. The Galilee fishermen
were a humble but hardy group of
men, and it is significant that so
many of the Master's Twelve came
from their ranks.
As a boy Peter probably learned
Greek as a matter of course for it was
frequently used and had a wide
sphere of influence in Galilee. His
native language was Aramaic, and a
knowledge of Latin would come to
him through his contact with the
Romans. We have already pointed
out in a previous lesson that Peter's
brother, Andrew, had a genuine
Greek name. Professor Dalman says,
''It is very probable that the brother
of Andrew, Simon, was not called
in the family circle by the Hebrew
form Shim'on, but by the Hellenised
(Greek) form, Simon, a form which
together with Shim'on, is also found
in [ewish literature. Even his sec-
ond name, Petros, in its Greek form,
is not rare there.''
When entering into young man-
hood Peter and Andrew seem to
have formed a partnership with each
other in the fishing industry. Then
as business grew Peter and his broth-
er entered into a partnership with
James and John, the sons of Zebe-
dee, for the purpose of enlarging
their opportunities and profit. Such
it is reasonable for us to conjecture.
Business seems to have been profit-
able for the Gospels indicate that
they owned their boats and hired
other fishermen to help them.
(Mark 1:16-20; Luke 5:7, 10.) Peter
and his immediate colleagues were
therefore substantial business men
in the community in which they
lived.
nr'HE Life oi a Fisherman.— Tlie
Sea of Galilee still contains many
varieties of fish, and the fisherman
still carries on his trade as gf yore.
The net still remains the favorite
means with which to catch fish.
There are two types of nets, the cast-
ing net and the drag net. Occasion-
ally fishing was done by means of
hooks attached to lines. This prac-
tice is reflected in the advice of the
Master to Peter: "Go thou to the
sea and cast a hook, and take up the
fish that first cometh up and when
thou hast opened his mouth, thou
shalt find a piece of money." (Matt.
17:27)
After fishing it was necessary to
wash the nets. (Luke 5:2) They
were then spread out on poles near
the shore to dry.
It will be recalled that Peter was
standing unclothed in his boat when
he recognized the Risen Lord. (John
21:7) Little or no clothing was
worn while fishing in order to be
able at a moment's notice to dive
into the water and free the net from
rocks and debris as it was brought
to shore. When Peter recognized
his Master he drew on his short
shirt in order that he might not ap-
pear before him unclothed. Dr.
Dalman says, "It has been thought
strange that Peter should don what
was probably a wet garment. Sven
Hedin, however, states that when
sailing on the lake in July, with an
air temperature of 87.7° Fahr. and
the water 84.1°, he found it very
pleasant to pour water over his
clothes and let them dry in the
wind."
It is not at all unlikely that in
Peter's day the art, not now^ used,
of salting or drying fish was prac-
tised. This is deduced from the fact
52 - JANUARY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
that the Greek name of the city of
Magdala was Tarichaeae (preserva-
tion of fish by salting or drying).
Magdala is said to have had a popu-
iation of 40,000 people and 230 fish-
ing boats. This city's position on
important roads was of great conse-
quence to the fishing trade. At times
business visits were probably made
to this place by members of the firm
of Peter, Andrew, James, and John.
The town had an unsavory reputa-
tion.
Most of the fishing of these future
apostles was probably in the waters
of the Sea of Galilee between Beth
saida and Capernaum.
n^HE Galilee District.— The dis-
tricts around the western, north-
ern, and southern shores of the Sea
of Galilee must have been very beau-
tiful anciently according to the testi-
mony of Josephus and others. Fruit-
trees, palms, fig-trees, olives, walnut-
trees, the vine, and citron abounded
as well as forests in some districts.
It is not as beautiful today. How-
ever, there are lovely spots to be
found even now as the writer can
attest. The winters are extremely
mild and the hills and shores seem
almost everywhere green. Even in
February and March roses and other
flowers can be plucked. The sum-
mers are very hot and one escapes to
the hills and mountains for relief.
Probably Peter and his companions
occasionally did that.
Plantations of oranges and bana-
nas, groves of eucalyptus trees, nu-
merous palms and cypresses, as well
as date trees are now to be seen in
certain districts around the Sea of
Galilee. In time the Galilee district
will probably be comparable to what
it was anciently.
The most important towns on the
Sea of Galilee were Magdala, Tiberi-
as, Chorazin, Capernaum, and Beth-
saida. We have already said some-
thing about Magdala in connection
with the fishing industry. Probably
most of its inhabitants were non-
Jews and entertained themselves in
the Greek fashion. Josephus men-
tions the fact that a hippodrome was
in the city. Magdala was the most
important town on the western shore
of Galilee until Herod Antipas built
Tiberias. The town had a very bad
reputation as we have already indi-
cated. The more nationalistic type
of Jew would generally avoid the
town because of its high non-Jewish
population.
Capernaum had a greater Jewish
population and was frequently visit-
ed by Peter and his colleagues and
by their Lord and Master. (John
1:44, 2:12; Mark i:i6-y; Matt. 8:5,
14; Luke 4:31, 38). Some of these
passages seem to indicate that Peter
and some of his friends had moved
from Bethsaida to Capernaum be-
cause of matrimonial circumstances.
Bethsaida had a very mixed popu-
lation. It was much frequented by
foreigners, and Greek culture must
have been prominent. These cir-
cumstances may partly account for
the confidence certain Greeks had
in Philip (John 12:20-22) who pos-
sibly was acquainted with them and
their customs. The spiritual tone
of Bethsaida must not have been
high for the Christ pronounced a
woe over it. The same must be said
of Capernaum and Chorazin. (See
Matt. 11:20-23; Luke 10:13-1^) Per-
haps we are justified in saying that
most of the Galilee region was any-
thing but spiritual and many centers
of population were sinks of iniquity.
Peter and the other future apostles
were representative of a little group
who might be termed the "salt of
the earth" in their respective com-
munities.
IDETER Marries.— Peter probably
married young as do most Orient-
• RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 53
als. The marriage would be arranged
by his parents or a go-between ac-
cording to the usual customs prevail-
ing. (Cf. Gen. 24) The settlement
would include a satisfactory dowry
and the exchange of gifts. It is even
possible that Peter never saw his
bride until the day of his marriage.
The actual wedding ceremony may
have lasted several days depending
upon the financia Istatus of the fam-
ilies. The women gathered at the
home of the bride and the men at
the home of Peter. We unfortunate-
ly do not know the name of Peter's
bride nor the family she came from.
On the great day of the wedding the
bride, who had waited in her own
home until night, and the groom
were brought together.
''The hours of waiting for the
coming of the groom seem to drag
slowly along, and the women and
girls who are waiting with her often
drop off to sleep. Suddenly those
who are watching see the lights of
torches and lanterns in the distance,
and the shrill wedding cry is raised,
amid the shouts of There he is!
The bridegroom is coming!' Then
all is confusion and excitement the
bridesmaids trim their lamps ( Matt.
25:5-7), and go forth a short distance
to meet the groom. The intimate
friends enter the house of the bride,
while the others wait outside. After
a time the entire party returns to the
house of the groom. Soon the bride
and groom retire to another room;
the friend of the groom, who has
been one of those who helped to
arrange the marriage, waits until the
groom appears at the door to an-
nounce his satisfaction and happi-
ness in his bride, and then his joy
is full (John 3:29)."
The above quotation for all prac-
tical purposes may be considered a
description of Peter's marriage. Pe-
ter must have found it more con-
venient at a later time to live in Ca-
pernaum than at Bethsaida. Pos-
sibly his mother-in-law had lost her
husband. At any rate the Gospels
seem to disclose the fact that she
was being taken care of in Peter's
home at the time our Lord cured
her of fever. (Mark 1:29-34; Matt.
8:14-17; Luke 4:38-41).
Questions and Piohlems
(Deal only with as many as time
permits)
1. Give all the reasons you can
why we are interested in Peter.
2. In the case of Joseph Smith
the Lord chose a young boy. In
the case of the ancient apostles he
seems to have chosen full grown
men. Explain the difference as best
you can.
3. A large foreign population lived
in Galilee. What possible effects,
good or bad, would this have upon
the development of the ancient
apostles?
4. Palestinian parents arranged
the marriages of their children.
What would you say are the good
points and defects of this system?
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visiting cJeacher iDepartment
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 7
Cast The Beam From Thine Own Eye
"Thou hypocrite, cast out first the beam out of thine own eye, and then shalt
thou see clearly to pull out the mote that is in thy brother's eye." — Luke 6:^7-42.
TF a modern psychologist should
give this same advice he would
say that one must gain first an
objective attitude of himself and
then he will be sufficiently able to
avoid his own shortcomings to help
others. The objective attitude is
the ability to stand off and look at
oneself objectively; to note just what
is wrong with oneself and what to
expect. In doing so one becomes
better able to solve his own person-
ality problems.
Actually each of us have limita-
tions and capacities, an objective
estimate of which is essential to the
fullest development of character and
personality. We have ''beams" in
our eyes, the presence of which we
are sometimes quite unconscious.
Our jealousies, prejudices, fears, an-
gers, etc., bias our behavior and deter
desirable personality development.
We may not always be able to pre-
vent these feelings from occurring,
but we can develop the ability to
weigh them objectively in order that
we may estimate their true import-
ance and deal with them construc-
tively. No one need fear an accurate
estimate of himself.
Removing the "beam" from one's
own eye makes social adjustment
more efficient for both self and
neighbor.
The highest development of per-
sonality demands a responsibility to
our fellowmen. Jesus does not deny
that ''motes" need to be cast out
from our brother's eye, but He does
insist that clear vision is essential to
doing it well. He warns against ad-
verse criticism which looks for the
evil in people and seeing it tears the
character to pieces.
The tendency to see the "mote"
in the eye of our brother, to criti-
cise and even gossip about it, is all
too common. Dr. Ernest M. Ligon,
psychologist of Union College, says
this is a method by which one en-
deavors to compensate for his own
feelings of inferiority. He directs
attention from his own "beams" to
the "motes" of another.
Jesus ably illustrates these truths
in the parable of the unmerciful ser-
vant recorded in Matthew iSiii-T,-^.
Discussion
1. Explain how seeing the "beam"
in our own eye enables us to deal
more justly with the "mote" in a
brother's e5^e.
2. Explain why an objective view
of oneself does not cause inferiority
complex.
3. Explain the word gossip. What
is its effect upon personality?
Visiting Teachers are to call attention to
Theology, Literary and Social Service les-
sons, also Work and Business programs
planned by the ward.
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JLi\
terature
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 7
Lorna Doone, a Story of Exmoor
T ORNA DOONE, by Richard Lorna Doone, on account of her
Doddridge Blackmore, was beauty, which John constantly re-
written in 1 869, at the peak of the veals to us— beauty of face and form
Victorian period, but its author, de- and figure as well as of spirit— is one
scribing scenes and activities of the of the most loved heroines in fic-
seventeenth century during the reign tion. Blackmore was astute when
of King James II of England, uses he entitled his book Lorna Doone
the style of that period. It is an rather than John Kidd, for by so do-
important novel belonging to the ing he centered the interest upon
list of classics of our language even the heroine whereas the hero is
though Blackmore is considered a really the center of all action,
minor novelist. The story may appear to be a bit
Edwin L. Miller, writing in his long to the casual reader. That
book English Literature, says: 'The weight of length has been brought
book (Lorna Doone) in short, upon us by the speed of our modern
should be read by everybody/' Mil- world. When the book was writ-
ler says further: "Its plot is good; ten there was plenty of time for long
its style has the pleasing flavor of its books because books were fewer in
age, that of James II; it is saturated number and much more inaccessible
with the joy of open air adventure; than they are at the present time,
and John Ridd, its hero, is imper- The story is founded upon the le-
ishable." • gends of the Doone's, a fierce band
Miller is but one of many critics of robbers who once inhabited Ex-
who have acclaimed Lorna Doone moor. However, the romance is
one of the best romances in the Eng- scarcely a historical novel in the
lish language. It is a delightful tale, sense that Sir Walter Scott's The
told in the first person, in a half- Ta/isman is historical. The Doones
archaic style that is unusually pleas- may have actually lived, but the
ing. Blackmore throws around his scenes in which they figure in the
characters an aura that makes them book are, in all probability, pure fic-
appear as beautiful etchings done in tion.
tempera on old parchment. Lon^ says of this tale of young
John Ridd, the stalwart Exmoor love: 'The story abounds in roman-
youth, early in the story takes his tic scenes and incidents; its descrip-
place in the center of the stage and tions of natural scenery are unsur-
scarcely leaves it until the last line passed, the rhythmic language is at
has been devoured. John has almost times almost equal to poetry, and
superhuman strength, a delightful the whole tone of the book is whole-
sense of humor, a naive way of saying some and refreshing. Altogether it
things to make the reader feel that would be hard to find a more de-
he is gently boasting in a most mod- lightful romance in any language,
est manner, and it well deserves the place it has
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won as one of the classics of our lit- sort of fairy place at the head of a
erature." great waterfall, in the hidden valley
It has been said that Lorna Doone formed by precipitous peaks.
*'to a Devonshire man is as good as The charm of Blackmore's style
clotted cream". Hellen Rex Keller is to be found throughout the nar-
in her ''Reader's Digest of Books" rative but scarcely in bolder relief
says: '\ . . it is Blackmore's special than in the following passage which
pride that as a native 'he has satis- also suggests hidden meanings, sug-
fied natives with their home scenery, gestive qualities which abound in
people, life, and language'." She the books that really live. John is
continues, ''Even without so swift a walking along through his lovely Ex-
succession of exciting incidents the moor when he is thrilled, as we all
unhackneyed style, abounding in are at times, by a sudden inspiration
fresh simile, with its poetic appre- of beauty, something akin to reve-
ciation of 'the fairest county in lation more than to observation.
England' combined with homely "It is all very pretty to see the
realism, would make it delightful trees big with their hopes of an-
reading. Much as Hardy acquaints other year, though dumb as yet on
us with Wessex, Blackmore im- the subject, and the waters murmur-
presses Exmoor upon us, with a ing gaiety, and the banks spread out
comprehensive 'Englishness' of set- with comfort; but a boy takes none
ting and character. It is out-of-door of this to heart, unless he be meant
England, with swift streams, treach- for a poet, and he would liefer have
erous bogs, dangerous cliffs, and free a good apple, or even a bad one, if
winds across the moors." he stole it."
Lorna Doone begins with John John Ridd meanders along
Ridd, a husky boy at school just be- through his lovely countryside and
ginning to show promise of the pow- finally climbs the roaring stream in-
erful man he was to become. Told to Doone glen. There he falls and
in the first person, it soon estab- we find this bit of description of
lishes a feeling of verisimilitude Lorna Doone: "When I came to
which carries the reader into the myself again, my hands were full of
reality of the story. young grass and mould, and a little
Early in the book big John Ridd girl kneeling at my side was rubbing
meets the charming little girl who my forehead tendedy, with a dock-
is to become the heroine of the leaf and a handkerchief .
story. From that moment forward, " 'Oh, I am so glad,' she whis-
even though he does not learn her pered, softly, as I opened my eyes
name during their accidental meet- and looked at her; 'now you will be
ing, the story is given direction and better, won't you?'
the pleasing outcome is inevitable, ''I had never heard so sweet a
for no one of the temperament of sound as came from between her
John Ridd could very well become bright red lips, while there she knelt
the hero of a tragedy. and gazed at me; neither had I ever
The second meeting between Lor- seen anything so beautiful as the
na Doone and John Ridd is de- large dark eyes intent upon me, full
lightfully told. John goes fishing of pity and wonder. And then, my
to capture loaches for his mother, nature being slow, and perhaps, for
and in following the stream he that matter, heavy, I wandered with
comes into the Doone country, a my hazy eyes down the black shower
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of her hair, as to my jaded gaze it
seemed, and where it fell on the turf,
among it (like an eariy star) was the
first primrose of the season. And
since that day, I think of her,
through all the rough storms of my
life, when I see an early primrose.
Perhaps she liked my countenance,
and indeed I know she did, because
she said so afterwards; although at
the time she was too young to know
what made her take to me. Not
that I had any beauty, or ever pre-
tended to have any, only a solid,
healthy face, which many girls have
laughed at."
From that point forward, the
story moves steadily on with the
strength of big and brave John Ridd
a comfort and shield to his own peo-
ple as well as to the girl whose lot
it was to live among the fierce
Doones.
The plot concerns itself chiefly
with the rescuing of Lorna from the
Doones and marrying her, but of
course, in the telling, as a good nov-
elist should, Blackmore weaves in
many of the happenings in England
at that particular time. Such pro-
cedure gives the story a genuineness
that makes it sound like factual his-
tory.
Some of the great descriptions in
the book, as Keller points out, are
John Ridd's rescuing of Lorna from
Doone Glen, ''the attempted mur-
der in the church, the final duel
with Carver Doone, and others,"—
these, Keller says, "stand out as great
and glowing pictures."
Descriptions such as those men-
tioned present pictures of the hero
and heroine in colors that will live,
they are so full of quaint declara-
tions which give the slant of the big
fellow's mind. I shall cite one such
scene:
John is in the Doone valley bent
upon rescuing Lorna, eager to be
unseen and unheard when this bit
of description follows: "And then
I crossed, with more care, and to the
door of Lorna's house, and made the
sign, and listened, after taking my
snow-shoes off.
"But no one came, as I expected,
neither could I espy a light. And
I seemed to hear a faint low sound,
like the moaning of the snow-wind.
Then I knocked again more loudly,
with a knocking at my heart, and
receiving no answer, set all rny power
at once against the door; in a few
moments it flew inwards, and I
glided along the passage with my
feet still slippery. There in Lorna's
room I saw, by the moonlight flow-
ing in, a sight which drove me be-
yond my sense.
"Lorna was behind a chair,
crouching in a corner. In the mid-
dle of the room lay Gwenny Carfax,
stupid, yet with one hand clutching
the ankle of a struggling man. An-
other man stood above my Lorna,
trying to draw the chair away. In
a moment I had him round the
waist, and he went out of the win-
dow with a mighty crash of glass;
luckily for him the window had no
bars, like some of them.
"Then I took the other man by
the neck; and he could not plead
for mercy. I bore him out of the
house as lightly as I would bear a
baby, yet squeezing his throat a little
more than I fain would do to an in-
fant. By the bright moonlight I
saw that I carried Marwood de
Wichehalse. For his father's sake
I spared him, and because he had
been my school fellow; but with ev-
ery muscle of my body strung with
indignation, I cast him, like a skit-
tle, from me into a snow drift, which
closed over him. Then I looked for
the other fellow, tossed through
Lorna's window, and found him ly-
ing stunned and bleeding, neither
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able to groan yet. Charleworth
Doone, if his gushing blood did not
much mislead me."
That passage would, of course, be
hard to accept had not Blackmore
carefully built up a character for
John Ridd that would make the
conquering of two men seem easy
and the throwing of them through
windows and into snow-drifts ordi-
nary, indeed.
Scarcely in literature is to be
found a sterner picture than that of
the mighty Ridd meeting the
mighty Carver Doone. Ridd is fol-
lowing the fleeing Carver. Being
unarmed, the mighty John ''rising
from my horse's back although I had
no stirrups, I caught a limb, and
tore it (like a wheat-awn) from the
socket.
''Men show the rent even now,
with wonder; none with more won-
der than myself."
The pursued Doone stops at the
edge of the bog where John Ridd
uses his oak limb to good effect. He
strikes the Doone horse knocking
him to the ground. Then we have
a picture of a struggle that is classic:
"I stretched forth my left hand, as
I do to a weaker antagonist, and I
let him have the hug of me. But
in this I was too generous; having
forgotten my pistol wound, and the
cracking of one of my short lower
ribs. Carver Doone caught me
round the waist, with such a grip
as never yet had been laid upon me.
"I heard my rib go, I grasped his
arm, and tore the muscle out of it
(as the string comes out of an or-
ange); then I took him by the
throat, which is not allowed in
wrestling; but he had snatched at
mine; and now was no time of dal-
liance. In vain he tugged and
strained and writhed, dashed his
bleeding fist into my face, and flung
himself on me, with gnashing jaws.
Beneath the iron of my strength—
for God that day was with me— I
had him helpless in two minutes,
and his fiery eyes lolled out."
Those were strong and mighty
men. Surely nowhere in fiction,
even in the great stories of Richard
the Lion-hearted, by Sir Walter
Scott himself, is there to be found a
stronger or braver hero.
John Ridd, true to his simple
character, closes his narrative with:
"Of Lorna, of my lifelong darling,
of my more and more loved wife I
will not talk; for it is not seemly
that a man should exalt his pride.
Year by year, her beauty grows, with
the growth of goodness, kindness,
and true happiness— above all with
love. For change, she makes a joke
of this and plays with it, and laughs
at it; and then, when my slow na-
ture marvels, back she comes to the
earnest thing. And if I wish to pay
her out for something ver}^ dread-
ful—as may happen once or twice,
when we become too gladsome— I
bring her to forgotten sadness, and
to me for cure of it, by the two
words 'Lorna Doone'."
That is the last paragraph in this
book of six hundred forty-six pages,
each filled with beautiful descrip-
tions, fine characterizations, splen-
did bits of smart conversation, and
a delightful and ever-present humor.
Big John Ridd is a quaint chap,
powerful beyond measure, though,
according to his own words, a bit
slow in the head. The narrative,
however, denies the latter.
Suggestions
1 . Read The Advance of the Eng-
lish Novel, Chapter i;.
2. Become a little acquainted
with the times of King Charles II,
King James II, and Queen Anne.
You may do this by reading in a
history book or the encyclopedia.
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^. List the principal characters in few examples: Ridd's fight at school
Lorna Doone and characterize each, —reveals his courage; his meeting
4. Outline very briefly the plot of with Lorna Doone— from chapter
the story. 8; from chapter 26— as revealing
5. Have passages of importance John's powers of repartee; from
or interest in the book marked for chapter 27— as revealing John's love;
reading. These should advance the etc.
plot, reveal character, or they should 6. Find and read what you can
reveal the style of the author. A of Blackmore.
Social Service
Lesson 7
MARITAL ADJUSTMENT
JWfODEKN Conditions Make in former days when the children
Marital Adjustment a Difficult grew up to take a natural share in
One. Of all the adjustments, wheth- the lands and live stock. Many of
er educational, vocational, religious, the youths of earlier days were able
or social, perhaps marriage is the to take over their share and support
most difficult. It is highly emotional, themselves and family by age twenty,
intimate and constant. No other re- Today we have become accus-
lationship throws such a strain on tomed to a standard of living which
one's capacity for good adjustment, is difficult to reach and maintain
and no other reveals so clearly weak- when the young people marry early
nesses of personality and character, and have large families. Many of
Modern conditions have tended our young people migrate to the
to make marriage increasingly diffi- cities where large family groups are
cult. The youths of today find likely to have more of a struggle to
themselves forced to postpone mar- exist than was the case on the farm
riage at a time when they find them- where children were somewhat of
selves physically capable of mating, an economic asset and where much
Mental, educational and eonomic was produced in the home toward
preparation for marriage is delayed their maintenance,
years beyond sexual maturity. We Moreover, in recent years, women
have not stressed the value of early have become more prominent in in-
marriages so much in recent years, dustry and public life; and perhaps
as we have become more eager for with the broadening of their inter-
higher education for many of our ests, they have had a tendency to
youths. Missions are often added look upon the home not so much
to the program of our young people, as an exclusive career. Many of our
and marriage usually must be post- young women have achieved ability
poned until this entire program has in supporting themselves before en-
been completed. After education tering marria^^e, and on that account
and missions, our youths find great they find certain difficulties in com-
difficulty establishing themselves ing to feel financially dependent
economically, more so perhaps than upon their husbands.
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With the spread of birth control
propaganda, sex has largely been sep-
arated from reproduction for many
people. Marriage too often has be-
come established solely upon a sex-
ual foundation, a foundation upon
which the winds and rains of pas-
sion and irresponsibility beat and
soon cause a great fall of the mar-
riage structure.
Fortunately, the Latter-day Saint
community has resisted many
serious changes and we find the
home and family still our strong-
est social organization. Certainly in
the home lies the strength of the
Church anjd the nation. We have
not loosened our standards, and we
still hold to a virtuous home as the
highest goal young people may have.
The question comes to our minds
as to whether romance loses its fla-
vor if we make too much of a study
of it. This is a real possibility, al-
though it need not be the case. To
the average person, love is consid-
ered to be quite separate from good
judgment. It is an ''instinctive re-
action which asks for no reasons as
to why it functions as it does. Many
matings are based purely on roman-
tic attraction with little considera-
tion as to the hereditary background
or intelligence of the loved one.
Likewise, it is thought that infor-
mation can be mixed with as little
success as the image of clay and
iron of which the scriptures speak.
However, with the progress of edu-
cation and the extending of scien-
tific knowledge of sex and person-
ality, we may rightly hope that atti-
tudes based on information and in-
telligent understanding of sex and
mating will gradually shape our aes-
thetic taste and finally come to have
considerable control over our selec-
tion of mates and over our romantic
lives in general.
Some recent authorities on the
psychology of sex have emphasized
sexual compatibility as the basis of
all successful marriages. Because
the sexual side of marriage had so
seldom entered into polite discus-
sion, there was a trend of thought
which swung to the other extreme of
explaining everything in human con-
duct on a sexual basis. However,
more conservative thought on the
subject today is recognizing that,
while sexual adjustments are impor-
tant, marital happiness rests upon a
much broader foundation. Indiffer-
ence and boredom are the end re-
sults of a marriage that does not in-
clude intellectual comradeship, per-
sonality traits in the two persons
which blend without too much fric-
tion (including all of the personal
peculiarities of both parties), social
life which is mutually satisfying, and
some unfolding, creative aim in
which both parties take part. Ro-
mance may be much broader than
sex; it may include all of the coop-
erative adventures that make life in-
teresting and worth living.
PERSONALITY Strain Calls foi
Constant Revision of Habits and
Attitudes, Romantic love is
''touchy", i. e., it may be destroyed
by the many lingering irritations
which may arise in the course of ad-
justing two lives to the task of living
together. When we think of the
unkindness we show in the home to-
ward those who mean the most to
us, there is little wonder that so
many marriages are destroyed, either
in spirit or in fact. We wouldn't
think of insulting our neighbors as
we do the members of our own fam-
ily. Perhaps the reason for mucli
of our bad behavior toward each
other in the home is that we are able
to set up our own rules of conduct
there without much criticism from
the outside, since the home is rela-
tively private.
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In no other relationship are the
• flaws in our personaHty and char-
acter revealed so clearly as in mar-
riage. Nowhere else are such ex-
acting demands made upon us, and
in no other relationship are we re-
quired to give and take so much. In
our personal wishes, we must always
take account of the welfare and
wishes of others, and personal en-
joyments must in many cases give
way to those that suit others in the
family. Personal associates who are
obnoxious to the other party to the
marriage must be dropped in pref-
erence for those who are acceptable
to everyone.
Of course, all of these adjustments
cause the most severe strain on one's
personality and are likely to reveal
in a short time both parties' greatest
weaknesses. Disagreeable disposi-
tions appear first; if the strain is pro-
longed and severe, then appear weak-
nesses of character, such as dishon-
esty, infidelity, alcoholism, and de-
sertion.
That differences of opinion and
conflicting habits and attitudes will
appear should be expected, and even
welcomed if they can be properly
met. Happy couples usually estab-
lish some court between themselves
to which they can take their diffi-
culties and make good-humored and
intelligent adjustments promptly be-
fore deep emotions are stirred up to
blind their judgment.
Among the most difficult kinds
of adjustments required are those
between the partners to the marri-
age and the relatives on both sides.
This is particularly difficult when
the couple are forced to li\'e with
either of the families. When peo-
ple marry, they must exercise con-
siderably more independence of
judgment and action than was the
case when they lived under the shel-
ter of their parents' homes. Unless
married people are thrown on their
own resources, both financial and in-
tellectual, they are likely to remain
immature and to have greater diffi-
culty making their own decisions
and their own way when they finally
must. Furthermore, troubles be-
tween the couple are usually made
worse by those who listen to them.
Romance often helps to solve diffi-
culties, but those who are not par-
ties to the romance are likely to
carry feelings longer and keep stirred
up unpleasant subjects which would
otherwise be forgotten.
However, it would probably be un-
wise for married people to attempt
to sever all contacts with their pre-
vious homes, friends, interests, and
hobbies. Contacts outside the home
are probably necessary to give one a
proper view of life and human un-
derstanding. Marriages may go sour
simply because of the attempt of
one party or the other to break off
all contacts outside the home. For
the most wholesome personality de-
velopment, mingling with many peo-
ple is important.
Professor Lewis M. Terman, of
Stanford University, published in
1935 the results of a study in which
he administered a variety of person-
ality tests to a large group of hap-
pily married people, divorced cou-
ples, and unhappily married couples.
His results indicate some personality
qualities which contribute to the dis-
ruption of marriage and others which
seem to be the basis of happy mar-
riages. He summarizes his results as
follows :
''Outstanding traits of the happfly
married, both husbands and wives,
include emotional stabflity, social
adaptability, uplift interests, and a
tendency to conservatism, the men
showing more tolerance and sym-
pathy than the women. The un-
happily give most evidence of neu-
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rotic and introvertive tendencies, in-
tolerant attitudes, and volitional in-
adequacy." (Johnson W. B., and
Terman, L. M. 'Tersonality Char-
acteristics of Happily Married and
Unhappily Married, and Divorced
Persons," page 311. For connplete ar-
ticle, see Cliaracter and Personality,
1935, Vol. 3, pp. 2go-!5ii.)
'Y'RAINING foi Marriage Begins
in the Cradle. Most of the causes
of difficulties in marital adjustment
have their beginning in childhood.
To train our children to be good
husbands or wives we should begin
in their infancy. Failure in mar-
riage is most often explained by the
development of inadequate social
habits— respect for the rights and in-
terests of others, tolerance, honesty,
good humor, sociability, and a gen-
eral high level of moral and religious
life. These qualities are acquired in
the course of growth, if the educa-
tional and social influences are right.
Temper tantrums are planted in the
cradle and often bear fruit in the di-
vorce court. Any two people enter-
ing marriage bring into the bargain
all of the effects of good or bad
training from infancy up. Little de-
fects of personality can often be
corrected when they conflict with
the personality of another in the in-
timate relations of marriage; but of-
ten the parties are either unwilling
or unable to make corrections in
their habits of dealing with people,
which they have practiced all their
lives. Chronic irritations of this
kind frequently make marriage so
disagreeable that, if separation is not
resorted to, the lives of both parties
are permanently blighted. The wo-
man whose parents have given her
every advantage is often defeated
when she must meet the hard reali-
ties of keeping house and limiting
her spending. The romance of mar-
riage suddenly changes into a con-
tinual round of unpleasant duties,
such as dish-washing, floor-mopping,
mending, and budget keeping. How-
ever, if a sense of responsibility has
been developed in the young girl as
she grows up, it is much easier for
her to lighten the load of these
tasks by fitting them into the person-
al ideal of making an efficient and
happy household. The husband, on
the other hand, who as he has grown
up has developed responsibility for
meeting certain of his duties about
the home and who has already
learned something of earning his
own way and caring for his own
property will find marriage a much
easier adjustment than the one who
has had over-solicitous parents who
have done all of his thinking and
provided for all of his financial
needs.
One psychologist, G. W. Crane,
has presented some evidence from
census records to show that the or-
der in which children come into the
family has something to do with
their chances of being divorced. He
found that boys who were ''only
children" have a divorce hazard
about five times as great as their
number in the population would
justify, and ''only girls" about four
times as great. Children who are
born in the middle of the family,
i. e., those with at least one older and
one younger brother or sister, have
the lowest divorce hazard. Children
who have been ill more than average
are likely to have personality diffi-
culties which make happy marriage
difficult. In fact, any of those cir-
cumstances which are likely to con-
tribute to behavior difficulties in
children are likely to affect the hap-
piness of a marriage. Particularly
straining on a marriage are those ex-
tremely strong parent-child fixations
which prevent the young people
from truly growing up and finding
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their rightful place in the adult
world.
CHILDREN Are Often the Best
Protection of a Happy Marriage.
After the romantic period of a mar-
riage has passed, the need becomes
important for acquiring some un-
folding, creative aim which can be
shared by both husband and wife.
Some couples take up hobbies, such
as landscape gardening or art col-
lections, which frequently aid in
holding them together. Others be-
come mutually absorbed in making
a living through a business enter-
prise. To Latter-day Saints, one of
the best fields for mutual endeavor
is in the Church program. Unques-
tionably a devout religious faith
which is shared by both parties with-
out serious disagreement as to de-
tails is one of the best safeguards
against drifting apart.
However, the most common and
most satisfactory bond that can be
made is the rearing of a family.
There is no other undertaking in
which the interests of a couple can
be so mutually enjoyed. Home
duties and making a living, both of
which may have naturally distasteful
elements, at once become lightened
and directed toward a common goal
when the first child comes. Better
behavior toward each other becomes
more necessary on the part of the
parents, since the example they set
begins to affect the lives of their chil-
dren. Good conduct between the
parents at home is then carried into
the school and community through
the good behavior of the children,
and public opinion enters the fam-
ily picture.
Tliere is no worse preparation for
marriage than for one to have par-
ents who have separated after iFail-
ure to make the necessary adjust-
ments themselves. Children who
are moved from one parent to the
other acquire conflicting ideals with
resulting confusion and strain which
reflect in difficulties in school, and
which often lead them into the ju-
venile court as children, and into
the divorce court as adults.
CPIRITUALITY in the Home Is
One of Its Greatest Safeguards.
Marriage is something much more to
Latter-day Saints than arf earthly
contract for the satisfying of emo-
tional needs. It bears deep signifi-
cance as to our welfare in the here-
after. To bring children into the
world and properly care for them is
asked of us by the Lord. Our re-
sponsibility then becomes doubly
serious. When we think of our re-
lationships in marriage as being a
preparation for greater opportunity
to live happily together in the here-
after, we are impelled to redouble
our efforts to make a success of our
relationship on earth.
Problems For Discussion
1. Show why marriages which are
built on a purely romantic basis are
likely to be unsatisfactory. Enum-
erate some other important factors
in marital adjustment.
2. What would you say is the
place of children in preserving mari-
tal happiness? How can differences
over children disrupt a marriage?
3. Discuss how a common religious
faith may contribute to the perma-
nence of a marriage.
4. Show how marriage brings out
all of the defects and virtues of per-
sonality and character.
5. When and how do we learn to
be good husbands or wives?
6. Discuss the spiritual signifi-
cance of marriage. Show how this
should make marriage more perma-
nent.
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(baucation for c/amuy JLife
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Lesson 4
Crowing Up Emotionally
By Paul Popenoe, Sc. D.
(Director Institute of Family Relations, Los Angeles, Calif.)
SUCCESSFUL family life de- IIL Soon the love-life expands
pends so much upon the at- again. It is important to note that
tainment of emotional maturity this development is not a process of
that it is worth while to devote leaving something behind, as the
an entire lesson to the subject. Some caterpillar leaves the cocoon be-
of the evidences of emotional ma- hind to emerge as a butterfly. It
turity (e. g., attainment of self- is merely a matter of expanding the
knowledge, self-control, and unsel- horizon. It is like throwing a stone
fishness) were mentioned in Lesson into a pond. The circles become
No. 2. This lesson will deal more larger and larger, but the center,
particularly with the development where the stone lit, is always there,
of the love-life. Using that term That center is you. You never
very broadly to refer to human re- cease to love yourself if you do,
lationships, it is evident that the you are insane, literally! But as
love-life develops normally through time goes on you expand the area
a number of successive stages: of your love-life until you occupy a
I. The infant loves only himself, much smaller part of it than you did
He is entirely self-centered, 100 per when a baby.
cent selfish. He is concerned solely In the pre-adolescent period the
with the satisfaction of his own child begins to emancipate himself
needs and desires (not to say the from exclusive dependence on his
gratification of his whims); he does mother; to develop more interests
not care how much he inconveni- outside of the home; to begin to
ences anyone else, so long as he can adopt the standards and values of
have his own way. If he does not those of his own age and sex (the
get his own way, he will have a tan- "gang", whether this be male or fe-
trum and tr)^ to compel attention in male). Formerly, whatever his
that fashion. mother said was so; now v/hat his
II. Shortly, however, the child mother says is wrong if the gang
broadens out his love-life to include thinks otherwise.
his parents and in particular his At this stage he is learning how
mother (or her substitute). She oc- to get along with his equals (his
cupies a relation to him that no one parents may give him the best of it,
else holds. His love-life turns on an or the worst of it, but can never
axis suspended between himself and treat him as a real equal). This is
her. She is very largely the object a particularly important stage in
of worship and the source of author- development, because he is being
ity. socialized.
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IV. In the high school period,
he begins to take more interest in
the other sex. At first this is a gen-
eralized interest. The girl is inter-
ested in all boys, just because they
are boys and she wants to learn what
boys are like. But little by little,
attention is focused for longer and
longer periods of time on one per-
son of the other sex, until by a pro-
cess of trial and error each learns his
own nature and that of the other
sex and finally . . .!
V. The adult level of mate-selec-
tion is reached, in which each picks
a partner for life-long, unique com-
panionship, the establishment of a
home, and the founding of a new
family.
Tliis is the normal process, but
unfortunately, development of the
individual may be arrested at any
stage.
Many an adult has really not
passed beyond the infantile stage of
self-love, of wanting to be waited on
and having a tantrum if he does not
get his own way.
Many an adult is still tied to his
mother's apron strings— he has never
been weaned, emotionally. (This
is a common cause, among men and
to a less extent among women, of
failure to marry.)
Many an adult has not passed be-
yond the Boy Scout level, emotion-
ally.
Still more have remained at an
adolescent level, in which any girl
is about as attractive as any other
(or vice versa) and a love-life can
not long be maintained at an adult
level— hence broken homes and
broken lives.
Fundamentally, the failure to go
on at the normal time from one
stage to the next is due to fear. The
child attached to his mother is
afraid to go out with the gang—
they won't treat him as well as his
mother does, so he stays where he
is comfortable. The boy who is
getting along well with the gang,
is afraid to go out with girls. He
knows how to deal with the gang,
but he finds that the girls don't ad-
mire his accomplishments which the
gang thinks are smart— they laugh at
him. The boy who is getting along
pretty well with a lot of girls is
afraid to risk himself in a situation
(i. e., marriage) where he has to
hold one girl's affection all his life.
That seems a big undertaking; he
feels safer to stay at the level of a
playboy where he can merely "love
'em and leave 'em."
Boys are a little more likely to be
arrested in development at the moth-
er-love stage, girls at the gang stage.
A girl who has been taught, more or
less unconsciously by her own moth-
er, that ''men aren't all that they
ought to be" and that a girl's safety
and happiness depends on keeping
at a safe distance from them, will
naturally have trouble in making
the swing of interest over from her
own sex to the other sex. If at the
same time she lacks normal social
life and plenty of informal associa-
tions with boys, it will be easy for
her to go through life always afraid
of boys and repelling them either
by a morbid "hands off" attitude or
on the contrary, if she is trying to
overcome this fear by aggressiveness
and becomes a little desperate, by
pursuing them too openly.
It is necessary to go through all
the stages, if one is to grow up. None
of them can be skipped. Jim, for
instance, never learned to get along
with other bovs: he missed the gang
stage. At college he wants to get
along well with girls and he should
be having some romantic friend-
ships with them. But this is im-
possible because he has never
learned to get along with his own
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equals (the function of the gang
stage) and therefore never can deal
with girls as equals. He has in his
make-up only two kinds of love,
namely, self-love and mother-love;
therefore that is all he can offer the
girls; and that is not what they
want!
Since the tendency to grow up
emotionally is inherent, all that is
necessary is to give it a chance. This
means merely that the young people
at each stage must (a) be free from
fears, inhibitions, frustrations; (b)
that they must have opportunity for
a normal social life, appropriate to
their age; and (c) they must have
before them all the time the normal
patterns appropriate to the next
stage, so they will be able to go
ahead.
While every one of these stages is
important, in actual practice the
adolescent stage seems to be the
''last resting place'' of a large pro-
portion of the population. This is
due to the fact that some parents do
not themselves have any adult pat-
terns to furnish the children; they
themselves have never grown up.
In the next place, the children often
have too little association with their
own parents, especially in cities.
Schools and colleges have not al-
ways recognized the problem and
given young people help in growing
through the adolescent stage. Fi-
nally, most of the patterns of the
modern world, which surround our
children from morning until night,
are infantile or, at the best, adol-
escent patterns, provided by the
movies, the popular songs of the
day, the newspapers and magazines,
the billboards, and other educa-
tional agencies.
Take the matter of married hap-
piness as an illustration. The
newspapers are constantly mention-
ing marriages, but not because thev
are happy. They are always telling
of unhappy marriages— of the brok-
en homes of wealthy, important, or
conspicuous people. Married hap-
piness is rarely a theme of the mov-
ies, of popular songs, of fiction, or
of the "funny papers": they are al-
ways presenting the opposite. Is it
not almost inevitable, unless par-
ents, church, and other serious in-
terests make a much greater effort
to counteract all this, that young
people should grow up with the un-
conscious belief that married hap-
piness is rare, that most of the prom-
inent, wealthy, admirable, and in-
telligent people of the world fail in
marriage; that it's just a gamble-
but after all we might as well try it
because a license costs only $2 and
if we don't like it we can quit at
any time!
To succeed in marriage and par-
enthood, therefore, emotional ma-
turity is almost indispensable. Tlie
attainment of this ought to be one
of the principal concerns of modern
life.
Questions and Piohlems
1. Suggest two or three changes
that you think should be made in
the social life of many high school
students, in order to promote their
normal emotional development.
2. Describe briefly some case from
history, in which an intelligent man
or woman was characterized by
marked emotional immaturity.
^. A recent writer says that if par-
ents are embarrassed by the sex
questions of their children, it shows
that the parents are not emotionally
mature. How do you explain this?
4. A girl who is a freshman in col-
lege is not interested in boys; says
that in comparison with her own
father they all seem too frivolous,
insincere — not worth while. How
would you counsel her, in order to
^ive her a better perspective?
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JLiterature for the 1 1 iissions
TYPICAL WOMEN OF THE CHURCH
Lesson 6
ANNA K. G. WIDTSOE
(A Norwegian Lady)
ANNA KARINE GAARDEN
'-^ (WIDTSOE) was born June
4, 1849, in the famous fishing vil-
lage of Titran, on the island of
Froya, the outermost island, off the
coast of Norway. She came of good-
ly parents and lived in easy circum-
stances under her father's roof.
From her earliest childhood she
manifested unusual intelligence and
power. She was active, with a sensi-
tive spirit that responded quickly to
human needs or to the manifesta-
tions of nature. Indeed, her char-
acter was early nurtured and mould-
ed by the contrasts of nature and
constant battle with the ocean on
her native island.
She was trained well in her child-
hood. Every day there was work
to be done by the family and the
men employed by the father in his
fishing outfit. The seasons brought
their own tasks— candle making,
soap making, putting up fruit, card-
ing and spinning wool, weaving
cloth and, with the aid of a tailor,
measuring, cutting and sewing the
clothes for the family. In these
tasks Anna and her sister, Petroline,
were required to take part. Thus,
they grew in usefulness and under-
standing.
In the home also it was the cus-
tom, whenever possible, to hold a
family gathering every evening, at
which hymns were sung, a chapter
frem the Bible read, selections from
musical instruments given and se-
lections from history and literature
read or recited. If the mail had ar-
rived, these evenings also included
recitals of the news of the day. It
was a valuable type of education.
The outermost island was not iso-
lated, for, during the fishing sea-
son, thousands of men gathered
from all parts of Norway and other
countries of Europe to participate in
the profits of the fishermen. The
village had a cosmopolitan charac-
ter. Many men of influence sat at
the table of the Gaarden family.
This was all educational for Anna
and her sister.
Anna's father, the government
pilot, often took her with him on his
trips to distant places; consequent-
ly she gained early a wide experi-
ence with conditions prevailing in
the world.
When she was twelve years of
age her beloved mother suddenly
passed away. The father, who never
remarried, placed the burden of
household responsibility upon An-
na, guided and directed by her old
nurse, Ingeborg Mikkelsen.
Soon after Anna's mother died,
a new school teacher came to Tit-
ran, a black-haired, blue-eyed, deep-
voiced, athletic young man, who
soon, because of his intelligent
helpfulness, became the idol of the
people of the village. He comforted
the sick, built up the depressed,
helped the families with their legal
affairs, provided a community house
with hterature and lectures for the
thousands of fishermen who gath-
ered on the island in the fishing sea-
son. This young school teacher,
John A. Widtsoe by name, deter-
mined that some day he should
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marry Anna Gaarden, who attracted
him both for her beauty and her in-
teUigence. Anna had many suitors,
but decided to give her Hfe into the
hands of the schoolmaster, and
when a Httle past twenty-one years
of age, married him.
The years that followed were
very happy. Soon after the mar-
riage the schoolmaster obtained a
teaching position in one of the large
cities of the mainland; thus she for-
sook permanently the island of her
youth. Seven years after her mar-
riage came the catastrophe that com-
pletely changed the current of her
life: One day the schoolmaster took
sick in the school room, was brought
home ill, and three days thereafter,
died.
The young widow could not un-
derstand why the Lord permitted
such a thing to happen. She and
her two boys needed the husband
and father. She fought intense
spiritual battles at the time, but
came out victorious, with a greater
trust and faith in God than she
ever had before. The Bible became
her constant companion. For a
while she taught domestic art in the
school in which her husband had
taught, but soon settled in the city
of Trondhjem, the home of her hus-
band, where she set up business as
a dressmaker.
One day she took a pair of her
son John's shoes to a shoemaker.
When she was about to leave the
shoemaker said to her, ''Madam, I
have something better to give you
than soles for your son's shoes." As-
tonished, she asked him what he, a
shoemaker, could offer her better
than shoemaker's service. He de-
clared solemnly that he could teach
her how to win happiness on earth
and in the life to come; he could tell
her whence she came, why she was
on earth, and where she was going
after death. The shoemaker was a
Mormon convert who in this fash-
ion was bearing testimony to his
customer.
When she discovered that the
shoemaker, Olaus Johnson, was a
Mormon, she was horrified. How-
ever, when John's shoes were re-
turned, a Mormon tract was found
in each one of them. To her aston-
ishment she found that the asser-
tions made by the tracts were sub-
stantiated by Holy Writ. She ven-
tured to attend a meeting of the
little branch in Trondhjem. The
Elders began to labor with her; she
fought valiantly, for she did not wish
to become a Mormon. She sat up
throughout the nights seeking argu-
ments with which to vanquish the
Elders, but she was always van-
quished.
After two years, she became defin-
itely convinced that the despised
Mormons possessed the true gospel
of the Lord, Jesus Christ. She
asked for an early baptism. On
April 1, 1881, the ice was broken on
the fjord and she was baptized in
ice-cold water. She bore the testi-
mony throughout her life that never
before or since was she filled with
such genial warmth.
She began to tell relatives and
friends of the pearl of great price
that she had found. The usual thing
happened— her friends turned away
from her, her relatives would hardly
speak to her. In despair she went
back to the island whence she had
come and where with tender heart
she had for many years as the daugh-
ter of a well-to-do family distributed
charity to all who were in need.
Yet when she returned as a Mor-
mon, every door was closed against
her. She could not find a bed or a
meal among relatives and former
friends.
Thoroughly disillusioned she con-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JANUARY - 69
tinued her daily work in Trondh- ing better than to encourage her
jem, and made plans for emigration boys to follow in their father's foot-
to Utah. Tickets were secured; she steps. In course of time she secured
sold part of what was left of her training for both boys in the schools
husband's library, collected the rem- of that day. Tlie older son, after
nants of her property, and with her finishing high school, went east to
two boys set sail to join the Latter- study at Harvard University and
day Saints in the valleys of the graduated in 1894. Her son Os-
mountains. borne soon afterwards graduated
She arrived in Utah in 188^ and ^I,^^ ^^^^ Utah State Agricultural
settled in Logan. There she set up College, where her son John was
her dressmaking shop and began to employed. From then on, life was
earn a meager living under condi- easier tor the widow,
tions very different than those she Soon, Osborne was sent on a mis-
had known throughout most of her sion to the South Sea • Islands and
life. Her native country had a soft the family was separated again. A
and easy climate, high mountains little la^er John was married. Sister
covered with green forests, sunlit Widtsoe and her sister then took
summers, darkened winters; here the up their abode together in Salt Lake
mountains were barren, the climate City where she lived until her death,
dry. Nevertheless, she loved the She was a lover of flowers. She
country to which she had come, for spent hours in her garden caring for
here she was with her people, and them, and she insisted that flowers
here she could sit under the voices did best when they knew that a lov-
of the Priesthood of Almighty God ing hand was tending them. Along
The early days in Zion were not with the care of her flowers, she en-
easy, and here in a strange land joyed doing good to those in distress,
with few friends the path at times Emigrants from her native country
seemed thorny. There were weeks always found a welcome in her home,
v/hen the little famfly had little or She advised, counseled and directed
nothing to eat, and her foolish pride them. Many had a successful be-
kept her from seeking assistance ginning in the new land through the
from those who had ample. There influence of Sister Widtsoe. As she
were long nights through which she became better off financially, she was
sewed for a pittance. However, able to help not only spiritually but
gradually she prospered. She built materially. Her home, first in Logan
a small home; she took part in the and later in Salt Lake City, was
activities of the Church; she won always a gathering place for young
many friends; she grew greatly in people who loved the inspiration
spiritual power. that flowed from her.
In her thinking and planning, the In 1903, she and her sister accept-
welfare and the future of her two ed gladly a call to do missionary
boys were uppermost. She was very work in Norway, where they remain-
loyal to the schoolmaster's mem- ed for more than three years; and
ory; she never remarried. She had after their release spent nearly an-
promised him to care for the boys other year in a successful search for
and to provide for them training to their genealogy. Upon their return
fit them for the battle of life. Her in 1907, Sister Widtsoe became ac-
husband had been a school teacher, tive in many public enterprises; be-
and she felt that she could do noth- longed to a number of organizations
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to advance human welfare; kept up
her acquaintanceship with her peo-
ple, especially with youth and those
who needed help.
She was exceedingly happy in the
realization of her ambition to edu-
cate her boys. John, some years af-
ter graduation, had gone abroad to
study in Europe. Osborne, after
graduating from the Utah State
Agricultural College, had acquitted
himself at Harvard University most
creditably. Both became teachers.
When she returned from her mis-
sion, John was the president of the
Utah State Agricultural College, and
Osborne held an important position
in the Latter-day Saint College, of
which he ultimately became the
principal. Later on, John became
the president of the University of
Utah and Osborne the head of the
Department of English in that state
institution. Each of these onward
steps gave great joy to Sister Widt-
soe, who felt that thereby she was
fulfilling the wishes of her departed
husband. She was still happier to
know that both boys were faithful
to the restored Gospel and active
in the Church.
She was always a lover of educa-
tion. From her childhood the po-
etic instinct had beat strong within
her. Nature reacted strongly upon
her. In later life she devoted a good
part of her time to writing poetry in
her native language, much of it of
exquisite beauty. She also engaged
in Temple work and together with
her sister sought eagerly to complete
the genealogical records of the fam-
ily. Her spiritual life was of an ex-
ceedingly high order. At one time
she was president of the Women's
Press Club of Salt Lake City. She
held, at various times, other posi-
tions of service.
Throughout her life her testimony
of the truth of the restored Gospel
of Jesus Christ never wavered; she
grew stronger in her faith day by
day. All who came within the
radius of her influence were touched
by the vigorous, unyielding faith
that she possessed. She grieved,
as all Latter-day Saints do, over the
blindness of those who fail to un-
derstand the Gospel.
A few days before she died, she
declared that the greatest joy that
had come into her life was derived
from her possession of the Gospel
of the Lord Jesus Christ as first
brought to her by Brother Olaus
Johnson, the shoemaker, in Trond-
hjem. 'There has been nothing else
so precious in my life," she said. She
died in the faith, July ii, iQiQ.
Topics for Consideration
1. Describe Anna Widtsoe's per-
sonality.
2. Why was it natural for her in-
stinctively to impress one as a su-
perior person?
3. Why do you think it was at
first hard for her to accept Mormon-
ism?
4. How and why did she become
well informed on the scriptures?
5. Relate the similarity of the
things she did in girlhood with those
Elizabeth Hoagland did.
6. Account for the persecution ac-
corded early converts to Mormon-
ism among all peoples in all lands.
7. What were Anna Widtsoe's
greatest desires?
8. Keeping in mind the abilities
and achievements of her two sons,
what do you estimate her own abil-
ities to be?
9. How did she prove that she was
a sincere, devoted Latter-day Saint?
10. She lived a typical Latter-day
Saint life. What kind of a life is
this?
11. WTiat of value to us may be
learned from Sister Widtsoe's life?
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Charity 7^
Frontispiece — Roads and Illustration Grace Zenor Pratt 72
Faith Donald G. Lyman 73
A Valued Gift Mary C. Curry 75
Another Great American Lottie Barber Brown 76
Contentment Evelyn Wilde Heath 79
The Shining Heart Sibyl Spande Bowen 80
Transition and Illustration Annie Wells Cannon 85
Anniversary Day 86
"Making Friends With Life" Lais V. Hales 88
Evidence Delia Adams Leitner 89
The Valentine Alice Morrey Bailey 90
Old Volumes - Carlton Culmsee 95
The Body's Need For Protein Rose H. Widtsoe 96
Spring Thaw Helen Martin 100
How Psychology Can Help Me As An Adult Mark K. Allen 105
Not Forever Sad Terrence Sylvester Glennamaddy 108
Happenings Annie Wells Cannon 109
Radio Message Kate M. Barker 110
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"Priesthood and Church Welfare" 115
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Notes from the Field Julia A. F. Lund 117
Music Department Wade N. Stephens 122
Lesson Department 123
Apples On A Plate Gertrude Perry Stanton 143
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CHARITY
7f ye have not chanty, ye are noth-
For chanty never hileth.
*'Wheie{oie, cleave unto chanty,
Which is the greatest of all,
For all things must fail . . ,
'But charity is the pure love of
Christ,
And it endureth forever;
And whoso is found possessed of it
at the last day.
It shall he well with him J'
—Moroni 7:46-47.
ROADS
I have often wondered about roads . . .
Traveled by myriad feet-
Travelers who come and go,
Some happily, some sadly, some with hope . . . others hopeless.
Some roads lead to high and wooded hills
With purple shadows and sylvan dells,
And waterfalls . , . green glades and pines
And crystal atmosphere and peace—
And others toward a desert where the sun
Is ever ardent, where cacti is monotony;
Wliere the wild things seem too lonely—
Where life moves futilely
There are other roads, smooth roads which lead
Through fertile plains, o'er daisied sloj^es
Toward golden sunsets ...
I have often wondered about roads
And the mystery of their travelers. ...
Grace Zenor Pratt
The
Relief Society^ Ma3,azine
Vol. XXVI FEBRUARY, 1939 No. 2
Faith
By Donald G. Lynmn
THE philosopher James Allen has world to come and are patiently con-
said, "Spiritual achievements tent with all kinds of unsatisfactory
are the consummation of holy and unsavory conditions in this pres-
aspirations. He who lives constantly ent life? Do you go along through
in the conception of noble and lofty life with the false hope that the
thoughts, who dwells upon all that transition from this life to the next
is pure and unselfish, will, as surely one will automatically solve all your
as the sun reaches its zenith and the problems, or do you seek with faith
moon its full, become wise and the aid of your Heavenly Father in
noble in character, and rise into a your daily attempts to meet your re-
position of influence and blessed- sponsibilities and accomplish those
ness." things that will bring you happiness
Most women's wants are spiritual now?
in their very nature. They are closely It is perfectly normal to desire the
associated with the desire for an good things of the earth for our
ever improving home, a husband loved ones and those about us. The
who stands firmly for the right, and Lord has told us to seek after the
children of whom they may well be things that are of good report and
proud and who will 'arise up and praiseworthy. However, the forces
call them blessed". of evil are ever present to tempt and
How can we get what we want? lead us through our desires into
What is it we are all seeking? Is it paths of wickedness and unright-
happiness? Perhaps so. That's a eousness. So it is well to follow along
vague term, and it means something the Lord's path to obtain all things
different to everyone of us. What we want in life,
do you want? Perhaps you want your Some of us overlook the fact that
daughter to stop smoking; perhaps the Lord has said that we may have
vou want vour boy to be more care- what we will if we have faith. Our
ful about choosing his associates, or Savior gave us the key after the in-
your husband to magnify his calling cident in which he cursed the un-
in the Priesthood; maybe you would productive fig tree: ''Verily I say
enjoy being more used in Church unto you. If ye have faith, and doubt
work; or are you like some who not, ye shall not only do this which
want salvation and exaltation in the is done to the fig tree, but also if ye
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shall say unto this mountain, Be
thou removed, and be thou cast into
the sea; it shall be done. And all
things, whatsoever ye shall ask in
prayer, believing, ye shall receive."
(Matthew 21:21-22.)
The Apostle James gives us a little
more insight when he said, ''From
whence come wars and fightings
among you? Come they not hence,
even of your lusts that war in your
members? Ye lust, and have not; ye
kill, and desire to have, and cannot
obtain; ye fight and war, yet ye have
not, because ye ask not. Ye ask, and
receive not, because ye ask amiss,
that ye may consume it upon your
lusts. . . . God resisteth the proud,
but giveth grace unto the humble.
Submit yourselves therefore to God.
Resist the devil, and he will flee from
you. Draw nigh to God and he will
draw nigh to you. Cleanse your
hands, ye sinners; and purify your
hearts, ye double minded. . . . Hum-
ble yourselves in the sight of the
Lord, and he will lift you up."
(James 4:1-10.)
To walk in the Lord's path and
get the things we want, we must have
FAITH and ask our Heavenly Fa-
ther, doubting not, but believing,
and at the same time ask not amiss.
This requirement of asking with
faith is more simple than most of
us realize. It simply means that we
review our status before the Lord.
We honestly acknowledge our sins
and shortcomings, repent and resolve
to do better. We make mental note
of the progress we are making to-
wards perfection and ask with hu-
mility and faith for those things that
are in harmony with our measure of
perfection under the Lord's plan of
life.
A repentant man or woman may
approach the Lord with faith and
gain His help in developing strength
in righteousness which is the basis of
faith with power. When we ap-
proach the Lord we can tell when
we are asking with faith and when
our prayers are a mockery in his
sight.
TF a mother wants a son to stop
smoking, she usually knows what
his answer will be before she asks it.
It will be based on their previous
association, and the result will de-
pend upon the influence the mother
has over the son. Our Heavenly Fa-
ther can predict the general course
of his earthly children, because he
knows just how susceptible we are
to his influence for good. How im-
portant it is that we be conscious of
our power to develop through right
living and faith the necessary pow-
erful influences to lead our loved
ones into the paths of truth and
righteousness.
When we do to the best of our
ability all the things that are re-
quired of us in carrying forward our
family and Church obligations, then
we can approach the Lord in humil-
ity but with a confidence or faith
that is born of God that our labors
are accepted and our desires in right-
eousness shall be granted. No truer
thing was ever said than, 'The pray-
er of the righteous availeth much."
Our prayers will be answered as long
as and only when they harmonize
with our thoughts and actions.
Here is one of the clearest exam-
ples found in the scriptures: "In
those days was Hezekiah sick unto
death. And Isaiah the prophet the son
of Amoz came unto him, and said
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unto him, and Thus saith the Lord, neglecting our family prayers and
Set thine house in order; for thou thinking lightly of the Sabbath Day?
shalt die, and not live. Then Heze- Are we concerned about our youth
kiah turned his face toward the wall, who do not have a testimony and
and prayed unto the Lord, And said, yet seldom if ever bear our own tes-
Remember now, O Lord, I beseech timony of God's work in their pres-
thee how I have walked before thee ence at home or elsewhere? Are we
in truth and with a perfect heart, content to stay home ourselves and
and have done that which is good in urge our children to attend Sunday
thy sight. And Hezekiah wept sore. School and other worth while
Then came the word of the Lord to Church meetings?
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kiah^^Thussaith the Lord, the God 3^1^ little questions that just
of David thy father, I have heard ^^^^^^^i the surface of our responsi-
thy prayer, I have seen thy tears; ^ility to our children, then there
behold, I will add unto thy days ^^^^^^ ^e no question in our minds
fifteen years. (Isaiah 38:1-5.) ^^ ^^^ Lord does not answer our
Hezekiah sprayer was one of faith We can not pray to the
coupled with humility uttered by an Lord with faith, believing, when we
upright king, and the Lord was ^^^^^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^ putting forth a real
bound by this man s faith. ^^^^^ ^^ j.^^ the Gospel.
Can we not follow this simple pat-
tern, the Lord's path? When we can go before the Lord
We want our sons and daughters ^^ humble King Hezekiah did and
to do right. Are we willing to do say, "Remember now, O Lord
right? Are we using tea and coffee, ^ ^^^e walked before thee in truth
at the same time deploring the fact ^"^ with a perfect heart, and have
that our sons and daughters are ^^^^ t^iat which is good in thy
smoking and drinking? Are we won- sight. . . ." Then will the Lord be
dering why some of our sons and bound to answer our prayers of faith,
daughters have no love for the re- and we shall have the desires of our
stored Gospel, and at the same time hearts in righteousness.
A VALUED GIFT
By Mary C. Curry
If one might choose a gift
From those designed for humankind,
A gift more precious than the gifts
Of wealth or fame or brilliant mind,
No gift could be more valued
For the good it may impart
Than to have and operate
An understanding heart.
(Courtesy, "The Union Signal")
Another Great American
By Lottie Barber Brown
HORACE GREELEY for forty hard for him to understand why
years was America's busiest others of his profession did not have
and boldest editor. He seemed at their command the thousands of
to be everywhere, speaking, lecturing, facts, dates and events which he held
attending conventions, never seem- in recollection. His aversion to to-
ing to tire. If there was ever an bacco was very pronounced, for upon
important occasion, there you would being offered a cigar he pushed it
find Horace Greeley, either as a aside with: ''No thank you. I
delegate or a reporter, and he con- haven't got so low down as that yet.''
stantly conferred with the great Not only was he a remarkable
and near great. Through his fear- writer of editorials, but his ability
lessness and hard work he made as a reporter and his mastery of the
the New York Tribune. The name printer's art all combined to make
of Greeley and The Tribune became the Tribune a model paper,
almost synonymous.
Through this great medium Gree- A T Amherst, New Hampshire,
ley climbed to fame, and men and Horace Greeley's mild, blue eyes
women throughout the nation fol- first opened on February 3, i8ii,
lowed his guidance in many great being the third child of Zaccheus and
causes. Despite the fact that he Mary Woodburn Greeley. His father
was reared in poverty he felt that and mother struggled hard to lift
money should be the reward for hard the mortgage from their forty-acre
work, and he severely condenmed its farm, which was covered mostly with
acquisition in any other way. He large boulders and trees,
said, 'The darkest day in any man's Horace was quite a wonderful
earthly career is that in which he child, being able to read when he
first fancies that there is some easier was little more than a baby. He
way of gaining a dollar than by started school when he was three,
squarely earning it. He has lost his when he went to Bedford to live
way through the moral labyrinth and with his Grandfather Woodburn.
henceforth must wander as chance He found school very entertaining,
may dictate." He not only continued in his ability
Greeley was a peculiar fellow. His to read, but he also had an extra
high shrill voice was not pleasant to fancy for the spelling book, and the
listen to, and many times his hearers "spelling bee" was his delight, for he
would put their fingers in their ears, ''spelled down" all opponents. Imag-
But the logic of his message seemed ine a child of five having finished
to penetrate the very soul, even reading the Bible! Other books of
though he lacked the charm of flow- his choice at which he spent his time
cry presentation. He had a wonder- while others of his age were playing
ful memory, and as a result, it was were: Pilgrim's Progress, The Arabi-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, FEBRUARY - 77
an KnightSy and Robinson Crusoe.
When he was thirteen he was taken
out of school because the teacher
could no longer instruct him.
As he grew up it was plain to him
that farming was not the proper vo-
cation for him, although he strongly
recommended it to others. He de-
cided to become a printer, and at
the age of eleven made his first ap-
plication, but being small of stature
he was not accepted. Four years
later he was accepted as an appren-
tice with the Northern Spectator,
a paper in a town some twelve miles
distant. His board was his only re-
muneration for the first six months,
at which time he received a raise
which amounted to forty dollars a
year. In June, 1830, he was freed
from his contract by the closing of
the doors of the Noithein Spectator.
He was greatly admired by the
townsfolk who sorrowfully watched
him leave on foot to go to his par-
ents who now lived four hundred
miles away in Vermont.
Scarcely a year had passed before
he found himself in the citv of New
York, a city of two hundred and
twenty thousand people. He was
just past twenty, tall and slender,
with very few clothes other than the
ones he had on, and ten dollars in
his pocket. He knew the world was
before him, and with the knowledge
of the art of printing which he had
obtained he set to with all his might.
Surmounting all the difficulties of a
stranger in a strange place he was a
partner in a printing business within
three years.
The firm did well and shortly be-
gan the publishing of a weekly liter-
ary journal. The New Yorker, which
Greeley edited himself. His great
editorial ability was quickly recog-
nized, and the paper grew steadily
in popularity, for without fear or
favor he spared none, either in praise
or condemnation, in his opinions
through the editorial columns.
CEPTEiMBER 16, 1839, when the
''Mormons" were being so un-
justly persecuted in Jackson County,
Missouri, there was a mass meeting
held in New York at which resolu-
tions were framed denouncing the
conduct of the Missourians, about
whom Greeley wrote: ''It is a burn-
ing disgrace to civilization and hu-
manity that the outrages of which
the poor 'Mormons' were the victims
were committed, but a far deeper
disgrace that those enormities have
not to this day been made the sub-
ject of any judicial investigation. The
grand juries and prosecuting attor-
neys of the counties adjacent to the
scenes of horror are grossly culpable;
but what shall we say of a governor
(L. W. Boggs) who officially coun-
tenanced the murder of a people
whom he was bound to protect?
Missouri, until the blood is washed
from her garments, is a disgrace to
the Union."
The young editor's talent as a
critic of public affairs was quickly
recognized by the political leaders
of the time, and he was prevailed
upon to edit a daily campaign paper.
The Constitution, during a New
York City election. He was then
asked to perform a similar duty in a
state election in which the JeHer-
sonian was equally effective in help-
ing to elect the governor. Then in
1840 the Whig party decided that
a campaign paper should be issued,
to be called The Log Cabin, to be
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conducted by Horace Greeley. He ing the President of the United
became the vital center in the cam- States. I consider him the equal if
paign in state and nation, for besides not the superior of Benjamin Frank-
editing, writing and setting type, he lin."
sat in party councils and made many Greeley's just and fair conclusion
speeches. The Log CMn had been about Abraham Lincoln was read
so popular that it did not die when in the columns of the New York
the campaign was over, but the bur- Tribune after the assassination of
den of carrying two papers became the Great Emancipator. To quote in
too great, and it was decided to start part:
a daily morning newspaper to re- -He was no inspired Elijah or
place the two. Accordingly on April John the Baptist, emerging from the
10, 1841, the first issue of The New a^ful desert. ... He was simply
York Tribune came off the press. a piafn^ true, earnest, patriotic man,
gifted with eminent common sense,
/^REELEY first met Abraham which in its wide range gave a hand
Lincoln at Washington, D. C., to shrewdness on the one hand, hu-
in 1848. Lincoln was a representa- mor on the other, and which allied
tive in Congress. Despite the fact him intimately, warmly, with masses
that Greeley doubted the wisdom of mankind. There are those who
of the choice of the Convention of say that Mr. Lincoln was fortunate
i860, which nominated Abraham in his death as in his life; I judge
Lincoln for President in opposition otherwise. I hold him most inapt
to Stephen A. Douglas, Lincoln's for the leadership of a people in-
victory at the poles can be attributed volved in a desperate, agonizing war;
to Greeley's whole-hearted support, while I deem few men better fitted
Throughout the great conflict to guide a nation's destinies in time
which followed closely upon Lin- of peace. Especially do I deem him
coin's entering the White House, fitted to soothe, to heal, and to unite
the Tribune played an important in bonds of true, fraternal affection a
part in expressing public sentiment, people just lapsing into peace after
Greeley stood well in the graces of years of distracting, desolating inter-
President Lincoln, yet never did he nal strife. His true career was just
exercise any ''pull," either for him- opening when an assassin's bullet
self or his friends, except as it was quenched his light of life."
done through the New York Tiib- The town of Greeley, Colorado,
une. was founded as a model town by his
Shortly after his second inaugura- former agricultural editor, N. C.
tion, Lincoln said of Greeley: '1 Meeker, and in September, 1870,
have been a constant reader of the Greeley made a tour of the West
Tribune since its establishment and and visited the town that was named
have regarded Mr. Greelev as the in his honor. Nineteen years earlier
ablest editor in the United States, he had made a trip to California and
if not in the world. I believe he has had interviewed Brigham Young
exerted more influence in the coun- while in Salt Lake City,
try than any other man, not except- Greeley wrote several books, the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, FEBRUARY - 79
most important of which was The
American Conflict.
It is rather strange that we find
Horace Greeley opposing Grant in
the election of 1872, but it came
rather unexpectedly to him as well.
Perhaps it will seem still more pe-
culiar when we note that, though
The New Yoik Tribune was recog-
nized as the voice of the Whig
Party, which later grew into the Re-
publican Party, Greeley was now a
Democratic standard bearer. But it
was not to be his lot to enter the
White House. Neither was it hard
for him to take defeat.
Two weeks before election he was
called to the bedside of his wife
who passed away after a long illness,
October 30, 1872. Those two weeks
were very telling on this overworked
mental giant. His last contribution
to the paper he had made so power-
ful appeared on November 8, 1872.
He was confined to his bed from
then until the end came November
29 of that year. Thus passed a great
friend of the poor, the laborer and
the oppressed, a great American.
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CONTENTMENT
By Evelyn Wilde Heath
Dawning and sunrise splendor.
Another task begun;
Noonday with light and beauty.
Evening with work well done.
And over and over and over.
Each day bringing well earned bliss;
Why should we wish for glory?
Glory must be like this.
Gloaming and sunset hour.
Darkening shades of night.
Stars in a moon-bright Heaven,
Memories and firelight;
Home with sweet contentment,
Love and the joy of a kiss;
Why should we wish for Heaven?
Heaven must be like this.
The Shining Heart
By Sihyl Spande Bowen
CHAPTER ONE
BEFORE old Philander Maddox protested, ''she's coming to see you.
would consent to come North She never calls on us any more. Any-
and visit his son Tom and his way, she won't stay long. One thing
family, he had to be assured that about Miss Brill, she comes straight
every last vestige of the old family to the point."
mansion he himself had built in the Old Philander sat down again,
first flush of his Alaska prosperity arranging his long thin legs on the
had been demolished. He had to long chair and sitting tense as a
know that the face of the estate had stubborn child. ''Confound it," he
been changed entirely by the huge complained, "I wish she'd stay away.
Georgian brick house and the ex- You can spend a fortune changing
pensive landscaping Tom had un- houses and furniture, and then she
dertaken this last year. bobs up. It makes a man feel old
The place was finished now, and to meet a woman in her dotage and
old Philander sat upon its western have to remember he dandled her
terrace facing a superb June sunset on his knee as a baby."
on Puget Sound, listening to the "But she isn't so old," Phoebe
soothing and unimportant chatter protested, "about fifty-five— though
of Tom's plump wife, Phoebe, and I'll admit she looks all of seventy."
telling himself that if a man is to Old Philander made impatient
keep himself young in this rushing noises in his throat. "Wish she'd
world he has to clear the decks of hurry up, get it over with— say, what
the old things every so often and the—" The old man scrambled ner-
surround himself with the new. And vously to his feet,
old Philander was convinced he had "She's fallen!" cried Phoebe, and
indeed hoodwinked Time with the betook her plump self over the ter-
clean sweep of the new house. race and lawns with surprising speed.
The lawns of Oakwood sloped in calling to two gardeners working
an almost unbroken expanse of beau- near the greenhouse as she ran down
tiful sod to the beach, where it was the flagged path to the prone figure
separated from the public footpath of Miss Brill.
by a hedge of shrubs. As old Phil The gardeners laid the thin wom-
gazed over the crimsoned water with an on the long chair hastily vacated
his clear, hard, blue eyes, he sat by old Phil, and it was only m.inutes
suddenly upright and snorted. before she opened her eyes and
"There's that old pest Brill Carey struggled to a sitting position,
coming along the path, Phoebe, or "Hello, Uncle Phil," she said con-
I'm a walrus," he grumbled, and at- fusedly, "you're looking right spry
tempted to get up. "I'm going in." as usual."
"But you can't, father," Phoebe Mr. Maddox winced at the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, FEBRUARY - 81
"uncle" and growled. ''Why
shouldn't I? I take good care of
myself. Expect to live to be a hun-
dred. But you won't live that long,
my girl, unless you can learn to
keep both feet on the ground."
"Lie down again, Miss Brill,"
Phoebe advised in her soft tones,
"you struck a rock when you fell.
You ought to rest a minute."
"I'm all right," Miss Brill mut-
tered. "I'll rest when I get this
business for my girl settled." She
tucked a wisp of gray hair into place
with a long hairpin and looked at
old Phil over her high Roman nose.
Old Phil fidgeted and looked
vague. "Your girl?"
"Yes. My niece, Nellis Adair
Carey," Miss Brill said.
Old Philander chewed the end of
his moustache furiously. "Fancy
name her folks gave her," he said.
Niece? Niece? Was there anything
he did not know about his old friend
Tom Carey's family?
"I gave her the name," Miss Brill
answered. 'Nobody knows what I
suffered as a child with Brilliant
Alaska Carey attached to me, just
because my father happened to make
a strike there. I wanted Nell to
have a lovely name, Nellis Adair.
And I want you to find a job for
her."
Old Phil chuckled. "I remember
Tom coming back with his gold
jingling, finding you a big girl and
still without a name, so he made it
Brilliant Alaska. I like it." His face
puckered. "Times are hard in San
Francisco," he grumbled, "don't
know as I have any jobs."
"You can find one, in one of those
big office buildings of yours," Miss
Brill insisted. "Nell is eighteen, she's
bright, and she's talented. 1 want
her to do something that will give
her time to work on her painting."
"Painting!" Philander Maddox
snorted. "So she paints, does she?
If your father'd put his Alaska gold
to work when he came down here,
same's I did, instead of frittering
away with his painting, maybe you
wouldn't need a job for thb girl.
You'd much better teach her to
cook."
"I have. She's a good cook," re-
torted Miss Brill, "but she paints,
too. The way I could have done, if
I hadn't let people talk me out of
it." This last, resentfully.
"Tom Carey had sense there, at
least," Mr. Maddox observed
shrewdly, "he knew how to manage
his womenfolks." As yet he had
promised no job. He didn't know
that he would. People presumed a
good deal on an old friendship.
Almost as if she had heard the
thought. Miss Brill settled that no-
tion with her next breath. "When
father died, twenty years ago." she
reminded him dryly, "I believe you
offered to do anything you could for
me. I've never asked for anything
for myself. Now I want a job for
Nell. Switchboard operator, or
something like that. Nothing fancv."
"Of course," old Philander agreed
hastily. Confound the woman, that
offer had been made when she was
younger and more appealing, and
people thought Tom had left her
plenty of money. He fidgeted about,
blew his nose, then sent for some
note paper. He scribbled a message
on it to one of his building superin-
tendents in behalf of one Nell Carey
and handed it to the girl's aunt. Miss
Brill examined it to see if it reallv
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meant anything, folded it and got Cartwright, down in San Francisco,
shakily to her feet. could find the girl a cheap, safe
"You mustn't think of going yet/' room. Miss Brill got up stiffly from
protested Phoebe, ''or perhaps you'll the bench and continued down the
let me send you back in the car." path to the beach trail.
"No," said Miss Brill, "Fll walk. Her leg dragged a bit. The doc-
Air'll do me good. Clear my head." tor had said, that last time, that
She turned to Mr. Maddox. 'Tou she'd have to avoid any excite-
won't lose anything by this. You'll ment. Well, she wouldn't be asking
have the best switchboard girl you for a job from Philander Maddox
ever had, and the prettiest, too." again in a hurry, and there was no
The scowl lifted from the petulant excitement at the gray house. She
old face. "Pretty, is she?" He sat had difficulty getting over^the Mad-
up suddenly. "Tell her to come and dox stile, but once on the sandy
see me. I like pretty girls in my beach path she felt better. There
buildings. The tenants like sightly were the huge driftwood logs to rest
faces about 'em." upon from time to time.
Miss Brill looked at old Philander Ahead of her, a haven, loomed the
coldly. "But she's got plenty of Carey house, foursquare, rising from
sense, too," she said shortly, nodded the thicket of fir to three grim, gray
to Phoebe and stalked steadily stories of moldy grandeur topped by
enough across the flagstone terrace a once red-roofed cupola. Miss Brill
to the path through the shrubbery, left the path, went down into the
ravine made by the spring on her
jDEHIND the thicket of laurel was property, crossed the cherr\^ wood
a stone bench. Suddenly Miss bridge Nell had built over the stream
Brill crumpled upon it, breathing in the gloom of the fir thicket and
heavily. She was much shaken. It gained her kitchen. She sat down
was a bitter thing, after twenty years heavily in the wooden rocker and
of struggling by herself, to have to closed her eyes. It was a long time
ask Phil Maddox for a favor-even before she felt able to open them
for Nell. She took out her handker- again. Like a vague dream in the
chief and wiped the moisture from back of her mind was the picture of
her upper lip. She took several deep the Chinese chest. The chest in the
breaths and felt better. upper hall! She shook her head im-
She mustn't tell Nell she had patiently and got up.
asked old Philander for the job. The Her weakness frightened her.
girl must think he had offered it. What would Nell do if— anything
Nell wouldn't mind it, that way. No should happen. Nothing on earth
Carey ever asked favors. Miss Brill but the old house, and who would
took the note from her pocket and want that? Miss Brill winced
read it again. Sixty dollars a month before this fact, but she faced it.
that Barstow girl got at the Smith Passionately she loved the gray
Building for the same work. Nell house. Its three uncompromising
would be rich on sixty dollars— and tiers of gray wood rising from the
the money in the chest. And Mary rocky beach she thought just as gor-
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geous, just as aristocratic as had old
Tom Carey when he built it in the
warm flush of his new Alaska money.
A Carey family seat he had planned
it to be, blue Puget Sound at its
feet, acres of towering virgin Douglas
fir guarding it on three sides. The
Sound was there, and the old house,
but the forest had dwindled to the
few trees in the ravine, and of the
Careys there remained but Miss Brill
—and Nell. A grand place for Car-
eys, but too near the water for ready
sale. People liked their homes away
from the water, on a rise of ground
like the big Maddox place, where
the noise of the surf wouldn't disturb
them on stormy nights, where the
hoarse note of the foghorns wouldn't
annoy them. Surf and foghorns!
Miss Brill would die without these
sounds of her youth, of her home.
She fumbled in her pocket for the
note. Of course! Nell wouldn't
need to cling to the old place. She
would have her job and her painting.
Just a start was all Nell needed, Miss
Brill thought vaguely. Nell ought
to be here now, so she could tell
her the news.
She noticed a note on the table
then and managed to grasp it with-
out getting up. Fred, Nell wrote,
had to go into town, so they were
staying to a movie, if they could get
the afternoon rates. Just like Fred,
Miss Brill thought scornfully, rush-
ing Nell off in the middle of the
afternoon to save a dime on his
courting.
She found bread and butter, fresh
strawberries and milk under the
clean towel on the table. After she
had eaten the simple meal she felt
stronger. It was proving to be noth-
ing at all, this weakness. It would
soon go, soon leave her strong and
independent again, leave Nell free.
Suddenly Miss Brill bestirred her-
self, put on her old hat and raincoat,
locked the kitchen door and started
slowly up the road again. She need-
ed air and might as well go up to
Carsons at the big fruit farm for that
job of linen-hemming while she was
getting it. The linen-hemming for
Mildred Carson's trousseau would
buy Nell the dress she needed for
traveling. It was two miles to Car-
son's, and the leg dragged just a bit
more heavily, but Miss Brill prom-
ised herself she'd go slowly. ''Air-
work— money — " the tired woman
mumbled to herself.
nnWILIGHT lingers in the North-
west. It was still vaguely light, in
spite of the misty rain that had begun
to fall, when Fred Nagle's small
coupe threaded back along Cove
road. Nell Carey, rather silent, sat
back in the seat beside Fred. He
drove with nervous care, never quite
easy at the wheel, but anxious to
impress the girl beside him with his
mastery of all things material.
"You're sure quiet," he protested.
Deep in his heart he felt a girl had
no right to help spend a fellow's
money and then sit silent as a clam
on the way home.
Nell smiled. '7^^^ thinking of
that show, Fred. It was beautiful,
wasn't it, where the girl went to her
sweetheart and married him, even
after he was blind."
''What were they going to live on
was what I'd like to know?" Fred
objected. "Things aren't like that
in real life."
"Oh, Fred, you aren't one bit ro-
mantic, are you?" Nell said impa-
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tiently. "Say, stop a minute! That
looked as if someone was lying beside
the road back there."
Fred reversed the car, and stopped
beside a blackberry thicket. Sitting
on the ground, leaning against an
abandoned water pipe, was indeed
a woman. Nell scrambled out of
the car and ran to her. Even in the
dim light she could recognize her.
"Aunt Brill!" she cried, terrified,
"whatever are you doing here?"
Miss Brill murmured dazedly,
"Oh, it's you, Nell. I just sat here
by the fire and sort of dozed— why—
I—" she lifted her hand helplessly
to her head.
"She's gone balmy," Fred said
bluntly.
Nell hushed him angrily. "Of
course not. Just a little dazed. Help
her into the car. Maybe she hurt
her head when she fell." As they
struggled to get the woman into
the little car, Nell saw the brown
paper parcel.
''Why, she's been way up to Car-
son's. No wonder she's all in. Aunt
Brill, you need a good scolding. I
told you I'd run up for that work
in the morning."
Miss Brill aroused herself briefly,
embarrassed. "I— thought I was
home. By the fire. I had to rest-
just a bit." Then she burst out tri-
umphantly, "Old Phil gave you a
job. Honey. A good job, down in
San Francisco."
For a moment Nell was speechless,
holding tightly to Miss Brill's lax
hand. "A job in San Francisco! You
can't mean it, Aunt Brill. Fred, did
you hear that? I'm going to art
school. Now! This summer!"
Fred stepped viciously on the gas.
''Craziest notion I ever heard of.
What a girl like you, with a chance
to get married, wants to go to art
school for!" He turned angrily on
Miss Brill. "That's your notion,
Miss Brill. Nellie never would have
thought of it by herself."
Nell laughed. "Thanks, Fred, but
it was as much my idea as hers. I
don't want to get married yet. I'm
too young, and I've never seen any-
thing, never been anywhere."
Miss Brill sat back, grimly pleased.
That'd teach Fred Nagle. He wasn't
worth Nell, or anything like it, him
with his head full of nothing on
earth but his coop full of prize chick-
ens and more money to put in the
bank. She wished she did not feel
so dizzy, and she'd enjoy this tri-
umph more. As it was—
" '17 RAID you'll have to help me
out," she muttered as Fred
brought the car to a petulant stop in
the Carey driveway.
"Don't stay tonight," Nell whis-
pered to the fierce-browed young
man as they settled the woman in
the rocker near the kitchen range,
"Aunt Brill isn't well."
"You mean you don't want me
to interfere with your talk about
that pesky art school business," Fred
retorted, lifting the lid of the stove
and shoving in a couple of lengths
of split pine. "Well, I'll go, but
vou haven't heard it all from me
yet. A promise is a promise, and
I have a few rights. I think we ought
to go on as we planned."
"As you planned," Nell corrected
him softly. "Good-night, Fred, and
thanks for the movie."
He nodded sullenly and went out.
The girl sighed as she opened the
oven door and lifted Miss Brill's
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damp teet up to the warm perch.
She put water in the kettle and set
it over the blaze. 'Til have you
some cocoa in a minute. That'll
w^arm you up/' she said cheerfully.
The old lady roused herself. *Tou
go to art school, Nell. The money—
the Chinese chest— you know—" her
face reddened with the effort of
speech.
"Yes, of course. T know where
we hide our money," Nell mur-
mured, ''but don't worry about it
now. Just relax."
"But you don't know— more mon-
ey—the shining heart—" the old lady
muttered, and that was the last word
she said that night. For in that
instant she gave a shudder and fell
to the floor in an unconscious,»moan-
ing heap.
{To Be Continued)
TRANSITION
By Annie We//s Cannon
/ know there are clouds in the sky
And a sheet oi snow on the ground,
But what care I? E'en though I die;
For I have found
Beyond the clouds the stars still shine.
And under the snow sweet violets grow
All things await the touch divine.
Anniversary Day
44
THE Spirit of God Like a Fire
Is Burning/' the opening
song of that memorable
meeting held March 17, 1842, in Jos-
eph Smith's store in Nauvoo, Illinois,
gave voice to the spirit that burned
within the hearts of eighteen women
gathered together, that a prophet of
God might organize them into a
society for service and self-develop-
ment.
With the passing years the hearts
of thousands of women have burned
with the spirit of Relief Society. Its
benevolent administrations have
been a blessing; its endless opportu-
nities for self-expression have
brought joy and development to Lat-
ter-day Saint women; its achieve-
ments have been glorious.
March 17 the gratitude of Relief
Society members will be expressed in
Anniversary Day observances. Thou-
sands of women in twenty-two na-
tions will ''honor those who fash-
ioned for good the ideals we cher-
ish". An entire sisterhood will pause
to take thought of the divinity with-
in our organization, of the inspiration
that guides its destinies, and will
pray that it may know an even more
glorious future.
Therefore it seems fitting that An-
niversary Day programs interpret the
spirit of the organization. Though
not necessarily somber and formal, a
certain dignity and appropriateness
should characterize them.
A N understanding of the purposes
of the organization, an apprecia-
tion of its history and accomplish-
ments, an insight into the lives of
those who have contributed to its
onward march is evidenced in manv
interesting programs of the past.
An entertaining and appropriate
program centering around Eliza Rox-
ey Snow, the first general president
of the Society in the valleys of the
Rocky Mountains, was given in one
of the wards. Sister Snow was pre-
sented in a brief biographical sketch
as patriot, poetess, and religious lead-
er. This was followed by the rendi-
tion of ''O My Father", that in-
spired gem for which she will always
be loved and remembered. Other
familiar songs, the words of which
were her compositions, were ren-
dered as vocal and instrumental
numbers. Two of her poems were
read, "I Love My Flag" and ''My
Heart Is Fix'd". Concluding the
program a brief explanation of the
Eliza Roxey Snow Memorial Poetry
Gontest was given, and the prize
winning poem for the year was read
by its composer.
Each of our general presidents
have been unusually endowed, their
contributions unique, and might be
similarly featured on Anniversary
Day programs.
Ward Relief Society histories lend
themselves to profitable entertain-
ment. A recent Anniversary pro-
gram dramatized the most outstand-
ing contribution of each administra-
tion to the growth of the Ward or-
ganization. A reader introduced each
scene by reading explanatory ex-
cerpts directly from the history and
concluded the scene by introducing
the sister who was president of that
particular administration. This ward
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was fortunate in having each past
president present. A bouquet of
flowers was presented to each, and
a brief response given. The Singing
Mothers rendered musical numbers
between each scene.
Delightful entertainments have
been given featuring various phases
of the Relief Society program— wel-
fare, education, homemaking, etc. A
large replica of the Magazine was
utilized by one ward in its x\nniver-
sary program. The Magazine was
opened, like a door, by a woman
beautifully gowned in white, repre-
senting Relief Society. From the
pages of the Magazine the sisters
stepped forth and formed effective
still pictures of each phase of the
work; each picture was introduced
by a reader. Special musical num-
bers were rendered. This program
closed with women ranging in age
from very young to those of ad-
vanced years, representing Relief So-
ciety membership. The last scene
was most effective, summing up the
meaning of Relief Society in the
lives of its members.
Wholesome social contacts have
always been encouraged. How many
delightful Relief Society birthday
parties have been given, where tables
have been made beautiful with the
Relief Society colors, gold and blue
(never green and white), centered
with a birthday cake, where delicious
luncheons have been served and clev-
er toasts given. Many of our sisters
are almost entirely dependent upon
the Church for their social life.
What an ideal time is our Anniver-
sary for providing this needed enter-
tainment.
Anniversary programs should util-
ize Relief Society members as far as
possible. If the entertainment is
given at night the use of children
should be avoided. Relief Society
is an organization of mothers work-
ing for the best interests of children.
Little children should not be de-
prived of sleep in order to entertain
mothers. If games are used in our
entertainments they should be games
which challenge the interest of ma
ture women.
CHOULD those eighteen charter
members of Relief Society step
from the pages of history on March
17, 1939, would they be proud and
happy to join with your ward in its
Anniversary observance? Would they
feel again the spirit felt that March
17, 1842? Would they see their
ideals a living issue, magnified, bring-
ing joy to every Latter-day Saint
woman? Anniversary Day programs
should be more than ordinary pro-
grams, with the usual run of music
and verse. They should stir us afresh
with an appreciation of our organiza-
tion. They should bring together
the women of the Church in a spirit
of love and fellowship. Anniversary
Day should be a day when every
woman has a good time, when she
returns to her home grateful for the
completeness of the organization
and her membership in it, singing
in her heart,
'Tor glorious achievement through-
out the passing years.
For wond'rous devotion that ever
endears.
We honor and love those who fash-
ioned for good
The ideals we cherish, ennobling
womanhood,"
''Making Friends With Life''
— Dr. James Reid
By Lais V. Hales
ONE of the crying needs of our instrument for making us what He
day is that we should make wants us to be, and for giving us
friends with Hfe. The Chinese His own best gifts." There are
have such a habit. There, even things God can give us through the
though a man is desperately poor sweet and lovely experiences of life,
and unfortunate, he will sit in the But there are things He can give us
sun with his bit of bread and taste only when some wound has made
the beauty of the flowers, the trees, an opening for His love and care,
the birds. No outside influence can There are things He can say to us
destroy his inner calm or take away through a sunset, and there are
his joy. '1 have learned, in whatso- things He can say to us through a
ever state I am, therewith to be con- sorrow.
tent." Life to many of us is like a We must realize that whatever
dog with an uncertain temper. We happens, it is all good. We can be
never know at what moment it may sure of God's love in everything. He
turn and bite us. Some people are does not strike the cruel blow. Sor-
suspicious of life. Some are hostile row comes jio us in a world which
to it while others fight it. Most of He has made. "His power to control
us are never quite happy, never whol- and transform for our good that
ly at our ease. We have not made which happens we must keep in
friends with life. mind. We become friends with
In making friends with life two life when we make friends with
things should be remembered. One God."
is the habit of realizing joys as they To attain this Christ tells us to
pass. "I mark only the sunny find time or make time for quietness
hours," is the motto on a sundial, and solitude. ''Be still, and know
That way of living is not possible, for that I am God." It is in inner quiet-
the dark hours cannot be cut out of ness with God that our souls are
our lives. But "much of the good of nourished. Like plants in the gar-
life is lost for want of noting it and den, the quality of our life on the
tasting it with gratitude before its surface depends on the roots— the
passing." The other fact that we life below the surface. Peace comes
must remember is acceptance. Re- from knowing that God is our
bellion is foolish and the way to bit- friend. "The world," said Keats,
terness. In life there will be things "is the vale of soul-making."
that annoy and wound. Accept
them, for they are part of God's dis- T7RUSTRATION is a very com-
cipline. With this acceptance will mon feeling. Some of us are
come peace. frustrated by ill health, weakness of
Christ tells us that "life is God's will, moral failure, physical limita-
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tions. In a sense none of us fulfil
our dreams. Our reach exceeds our
grasp. This feeling of frustration
may come from missing the real
meaning of life. "The real purpose
of our being is that God's Spirit
should be kindled in us and come
to burn in our hves." We feel frus-
trated unless we are of use to others.
Only by learning to give ourselves
do we find ourselves. Happiness
cannot be found by seeking it— even
in religion. It can only be found
by forgetting ourselves.
God cares for each of us. We need
to hold this belief close to our
hearts today. We must not lose our
sense of being worth while to God.
If we do life becomes ''just a mean
struggle in the dark".
Why do good men suffer and evil
men often prosper? This question
goes "sounding and sobbing"
through the Psalms. Why are pros-
perous people so often spiritually
blind? This often happens where life
is uneventful. No reverses, no sor-
rows, no trials, enter their lives. But
let these come and they seek God.
Most of us come to God through
some sense of need. This may seem
cruel if we don't remember that,
"The whole meaning of life is that
we should grow out of the material
world into the spiritual."
In these busy days we need to
learn the art of resting. "The quiet
Sunday has behind it a law of nature,
and the laws of nature are the laws
of God." We should not only rest
on Sunday— we should rest with
God. For this quietness Sunday
provides the time, and its worship
the opportunity. If it were only for
these things our Sundays should be
cherished and guarded.
Heaven is a condition not a place.
"He who has put his weak hand into
the hand of Christ knows that he
has been gripped by something
which is not going to let go. If we
know God in Christ and trust Him,
we know that this love is the founda-
tion of all things.
"Surely His goodness and kindness
Will abide when my seeing is dim.
He is everlasting divineness;
I will house me in Him."
EVIDENCE
By Delia Adams Leitner
We say we love the Sermon On The Mount,
It is the true ideal for all good things.
In contemplation of its noble truths
Our hearts are thrilled, our inspiration wings,
And we are lifted up, our spirits soar;
And this is well. But if we fail to take
Back to the valley of our daily lives
These things to live by, then we only make
A pretense that the doubters scoff to see.
Interpreting is our responsibility.
The Valentine
By Alice Money Bailey
44
MOTHER, don't get cross if
I ask you something, will
you?
"Well, go ahead. What is it?"
Marian raised her head from the
pillow to look at Tommy.
''Mother, I- Well, Mother, it's
like this. You see, all the kids are
giving all the other kids valentines.
I haven't enough to go around."
''Oh! Is that what you disturbed
Mother for. Tommy? Couldn't you
see I have a headache?"
"I'm sorry. Mom. You've always
got—" Tommy bit his lip on the last
word and left the room, his face
drained of the hope it had held.
Marian sighed. Tommy should
have known better than to intrude
on her when she was in this mood.
His steps had sounded so like Her-
vey when he walked to the bed. It
was cruel never to know Hervey's
steps coming toward her again like
that, to see his bright, impish face.
Her eyes filled with tears again, and
she buried her face in the pillow.
She had had the "blues" all day,
beginning in the morning when she
had run across Hervey's brown
school oxford in a box in the closet.
The mate to that oxford had been
lost in the accident that had taken
him forever from them.
She heard Therese come in and
put her school books on the table
in the hallway.
"Goodness!" she thought. "Is it
that time?" Alf would be home in
less than an hour and nothing done
towards dinner.
Arousing herself she went intq the
kitchen. She decided that she'd bet-
ter prepare the vegetables before she
started the lunch dishes, stacked not
too tidily on the sink. Oh dear!
What could she have for dessert?
Too late for anything except a bottle
of fruit and some wafers— if there
were any left.
Therese came from her room.
With a glance at her mother's face
she attacked the dishes, hex lovely
mouth a little grim, her eyes rebel-
lious.
THINNER was a heavy meal. Alf
looked at her sharply and fell
to eating silently. It seemed to her
he was not sympathetic lately. There
were times when expressions of dis-
tinct annoyance flitted across his
face.
She looked at the other four mem-
bers of her family: Therese, nineteen,
Isabel, seventeen, and Janice, fifteen
—Alf used to call them his "step-
ping stones"— and Tommy, nine.
Hervey had left a gap. He would
have been twelve now. Marian
smothered a sob with a sigh.
"Mother, the funniest thing hap-
pened in school today," recited
Janice, her eyes sparkling with rem-
iniscence. "You know old Funny-
face, our Algebra teacher? Well, I
was sitting by Marie and he—"
Janice's story died a natural death.
No one laughed, and she, too, fell
to eating silently.
"By the way, Isabel, where were
you last night?" said Therese sud-
denly.
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"Wouldn't you like to know?"
tossed Isabel.
''What do you mean by that?"
said Alf.
''Nothing/' said Isabel blandly.
She looked at her father with clear,
unreadable eyes.
"Well, Daughter, where were
you? Didn't you go to Mutual?"
"Probably running around with
Gib Spencer again," put in Therese.
"Therese!" reproved Marian.
"You haven't answered my ques-
tion, Isabel," reminded Alf.
"Well, I wasn't doing anything
out of the way. Gib is nice— as nice
as Dewey."
Therese widened her eyes at this
blasphemy, but held her tongue.
"That isn't the point, Isabel. You
should have been in Mutual; and
we'd like to make Gib's acquaint-
ance."
"Yes, imagine bringing him here,"
said Isabel under her breath.
"What?" said Alf.
"Nothing," mumbled Isabel.
"May I go out to play after sup-
per?" asked Tommy.
"Yes, an hour," granted Marian.
After supper Alf dispatched Isabel
and Janice to the kitchen to take
care of the dishes. Therese took
the vacuum and the dust cloth to
the living room. By that token they
all knew that she was expecting
Dewey. Dewey, a bright young law-
yer, and Therese had been engaged
for over a year.
''^^^^^ in the world is that?"
said Alf, putting down his
paper. Outside there was a rising
clamor of angry little-boy voices. Alf
stepped to the door. Tommy, pa-
per-white and sobbing, was holding
at bay on the front sidewalk a mob
of jeering, shrieking boys. When
Alf opened the door they fled.
"Yes, the old cowards!" Tommy
sobbed. "Why don't they come and
fight me on my own property?"
"What's the matter, son? , Calm
down now so that you can talk."
"Well, they said I-I didn't hold
up my end of the bargain. They
aren't going to send me any valen-
tines 'cause I didn't give a present on
the school tree at Christmas. I
don't care. I don't want their old
valentines. They're my enemies.
Everybody's my enemies — my teach-
ers, and even my own mothei."
"Tommy! Tommy!" said Alf,
shocked. Oh dear! thought Marian,
distressed. What a terrible child he
is growing to be— a problem child.
"You'd better apologize to your
mother, now," said Alf sternly.
Tommy choked. "Well, I'm sor-
ry. Only I don't get a handkerchief,
and I can't remember to brush my
teeth and our row doesn't get a gold
star on account of me."
"That's enough! Now why didn't
you give a present at Christmas?"
"Well, I didn't have one to give
and we drew names, and 1 told
Mother, but she didn't give me
one."
"I forgot about it," said Marian.
"But I've been so nervous and upset.
You just can't imagine—"
"Yes, I know," said Alf. "Well,
surely you can see where all this is
leading to, Marian."
"I can see where all what is lead-
ing to?" said Marian. "I'm sure I'm
not to blame. Tommy will have to
learn to brush his teeth without
being told. You know what I've
been going through this last year."
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The inference disquieted her,
however, and later she asked Alf
what he meant by it, but he only
grunted and retreated behind his
paper.
D
lEWEY came.
''I suppose you are all aware of
my designs/' he said after his greet-
ing, slipping an arm about Therese.
They all laughed but Isabel, who
looked at them with silent distaste.
Dewey was quick to notice it.
''Do I hear a dissenting vote?"
he bantered. ''What are your ob-
jections, my girl.''
"I'm not on the witness stand,"
flashed Isabel, but she laughed.
"Mother, come and see what
Tommy has done," wailed Janice
from the kitchen. "Cut up my pic-
tures for my Home Ec. scrapbook.
And just look what he's done to the
kitchen."
"You'll have to pick up every scrap
of paper," scolded Marian. "Why
don't you ever ask? What did you
do that for?"
"Oh, she don't need to make such
a fuss just because I wanted to make
a few little old valentines."
Dewey left before Tommy had
obeyed and been packed off to bed,
sulking.
Isabel jumped every time the tele-
phone rang and turned each call to
other members of the family disap-
pointedly. Finally she went to bed.
Janice had already gone, after scold-
ing a little about the clothes she
must wear the next day.
Therese waited until there was no
danger of interruption and then laid
down her book.
"Mother," she began, "Dewey
was asking me again tonight how
soon we can be married. I've been
wanting to talk to you about it for a
long time, but—"
"Oh, Therese, must we go into
that again tonight? This has been
such a hard day for me. The eve-
ning has been terrible."
"They all are. Mother, and this
thing has to be settled," said Therese
with unprecedented callousness.
"You've been putting us off so long."
Alf looked at Therese keenly, but
said nothing.
"You're plenty young yet, Ther-
ese. Nineteen is too young."
"I can't see what difference it
makes so long as I am sure about
Dewey. I'm a year older than I was
last year, and it was all set then.
We've waited a decent interval, and
we have to have something definite
to work toward. Besides, I'll either
marry him soon or break with him.
I think too much of him to keep him
dangling."
"What was your idea, Therese?"
said Alf quietly.
"Well, I did have an idea— of
course, it's too late now— that a Val-
entine wedding would be beautiful.
There are so many things you can
do with decorations. Some of the
girls want to give me showers, and
I still think a valentine trousseau tea
would be lovely."
Marian caught her breath.
"I couldn't bear it. Have you for-
got-ten that it was last Valentine
night that Hervey was—" she
paused, "and that he had a party
that night? He jumped on his bike
to go after someone he had forgotten
to invite. He never came back."
Marian was crying again.
"Oh yes. Mother. I truly had for-
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gotten," said Therese contritely.
"Oh, I'm sorry/'
'*I don't see how you ever could
forget," Marian wept.
npHAT night after they had gone
to bed Marian wept again. She
expected Alf to take her into his
arms and comfort her, as usual, but
he didn't.
"The children are so thoughtless,"
she complained. "Tommy is getting
so rude. They are all so selfish and
self -centered. They don't seem to
miss Hervey, nor to realize how 1
miss him. No one knows how I
feel."
"Don't blame them too much.
They are normal young people with
their own lives to live. No one can
stop them."
"Not even the loss of a brother,"
Marian couldn't help saying.
"We have living children," said
Alf sharply. "There is more than
one way to lose a child." He turned
his back.
It was more than Marian could
stand. The children, and now Alf!
How true it was that a father
couldn't feel the love that a mother
could. Alf had never failed her be-
fore. In that minute she was certain
that she had made a mistake in her
marriage. She wept silently and
didn't sleep for hours. She was ill
again when she awoke. She didn't
get up to get breakfast. "They'll
have to do the best they can. I just
can't, feeling as I do." She was re-
lieved when the house was silent.
Her mind followed a well-worn
track— a track that had its beginning
and end in Hervey, his characteris-
tics, his words, his tragic death.
Around ^nd around he^ thoughts
flew, like birds in captivity. Her
heart ached with an actual, physical
pain, almost beyond the limit of en-
durance. It seemed, with the
thoughtlessness of these others, that
the only precious thing she had in
life had been snatched fron-u her.
She had an overwhelming desire
to be nearer Hervey, and suddenly
she thought of some notebooks he
had given her at the end of his fifth
grade year— his spelling book with
not a single mistake, his Nature
scrapbook with the "A plus" mark.
Tliey must be in the bottom of her
trunk.
She delved, piling the things on
a chair. Only old treasures v^'ere
kept here— her wedding dress of
changeable white and blue taffeta,
Alf's uniform with his overseas cap,
his black box that he always kept
locked. Marian had suspicioned, not
without jealousy, it must contain
keepsakes from former sweethearts.
She put it on top of the precarious
pile and bent into the trunk.
With a clatter the black box fell,
springing the lock and spilling its
contents around her knees. Letters!
She turned them over one by one.
Without exception they were letters
from her to Alf. He had saved every
written word— her greeting cards and
postcards. She read them all as the
morning slipped by, and they re-
vealed to her a girl, a bride, a young
mother that she had long forgotten.
And with revelation there came cen-
sure— her own censure of herself. It
came from scraps of letters, scraps
of yesterday's conversation.
"I must tell you of Isabel's birth-
day party. What a hospitable child
she is, and how she sparkled with all
that company! We must keep our
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home open to them always." That
must have been that trip to Denver
Alf took when Isabel was seven.
''—I wish you could see him. He
has such an honest little chin. Do
you think that some day he might be
president?" That had been the aw-
ful time when Tommy was born and
Alf had had to be away. And a little
farther in the same letter: ''We have
such an ideal family. I think we
might even crop out with an artist.
Janice paints everything in sight with
her crayons— and is amazing for a
five-year-old."
That hadn't been an idle predic-
tion. What had happened to Janice's
painting? It had been months since
she'd thought of it.
The last one was a valentine ad-
dressed to Camp Lewis in 1918. On
the back in her girlish hand: "I mean
it. I offer you all my heart. How
much longer will it be? Eternity is
too short to spend with you." That
February she had been nineteen!
Poor Therese! Poor little Tommy!
Fighting a world of enemies. Making
his own pitiful valentines.
'There's more than one way to
lose a child," Alf had said.
She looked at the clock. Twelve-
thirty. There was time for a begin-
ning.
CCQH, Mother! Who washed the
curtains? May I have a party?
How clean everything smells," en-
thused Isabel several hours later.
'Til tell you what! Bring the
crowd in for cake and punch Tues-
day night after Mutual, but right
now I want you and Therese to make
out a list of guests for a Trousseau
Tea on Valentine day," said Marian,
and was rewarded by the glory that
filled Therese's eyes.
"Great day!" sang Isabel.
"Mother, you make the best sup-
pers. I bet those mean old kids
didn't have pie, and I'm glad. Moth-
er, if I had Hervey they wouldn't
dare beat up on me." Tommy sub-
sided at the warning glances from
around the table.
"Indeed they wouldn't/' said
Marian, seeming not to notice.
"Tommy, let's clear off the table and
figure up how many valentines you
have to have."
"Oh, boy!" Tommy obeyed with
alacrity, and in a few minutes Janice
approached them shyly.
"Mother, have you time to look
at something I painted to-day?"
All evening Alf's surprised eyes
were on her.
"I'm sorry, Marian, that I was rude
last night," he said later. "Don't
think I haven't noticed how much
Tommy walks like Hervey. Some-
times it—"
Poor Alf! Marian told hini, then,
about the letters and the valentine.
"So you see, it's terribly clear to
me how selfish grief can be. Not that
I love or miss Hervey any the less,
but I'm afraid I was more concerned
about myself. Anyhow," she fin-
ished, "I'm glad Tommy '11 ^et his
valentines."
OLD VOLUMES
Weary of the winter, let us go to the fields
Rejoicing in the power that the high sun wields.
On the lifeless furrows he bends his ken,
And multitudes of fruitful lives are born again.
But let us not envy him the might of his eye
We who can gaze at ink long dry,
Printed by presses that are long since rust,
And awake strong souls from the powerless dust.
In the barren, silent old volumes they lie;
See them stir at the warmth of your eye-
Hear them murmur like far-off thunder,
The singers of beauty, the seers of wonder.
—Carlton CuJmsee.
The Body's Need for Protein
By Dr. Rose H. Widtsoe
Home Economics Department— University oi Utah
IN the previous article the body's
need for heat and energy was dis-
cussed. The present article will
consider the body's need for build-
ing materials. The reader will re-
call that one depends largely upon
the sugars, starches, fats and to a
lesser extent upon protein foods,
such as milk, cheese, eggs, cereals
and meat, for the heat and energy
needed by the body. For growth
and maintenance of body tissue one
needs the above mentioned foods,
but in addition water and the min-
eral salts are required. All of these
building materials must be supplied
in the food if the body is to grow
and function normally.
Next to water, protein composes
the greatest proportion of the body
tissue. The term ^'protein" is de-
rived from a Greek verb meaning
"to take first place". The word pro-
teins is a group term covering a large
number of foods which include the
element nitrogen. Today we know
much more about the growth and
functioning of the body than was
known when protein was assigned
the ''first place" in nutrition. How-
ever with this additional knowledge,
protein foods still occupy a very im-
portant place.
Nature of Proteins
'"pHE proteins are essential con-
stituents of every living cell,
both plant and animal. No cell can
be formed without the help of pro-
teins. They make up the greater
part of all the muscle tissue as well
as the brain and nerve tissue. Pro-
teins are important constituents of
the blood and of the secretions of
the various glands that have so much
to do in regulating the functions of
the body. Proteins are also used
in the manufacture of the digestive
juices.
Proteins differ from oui other
foods — starches, sugars, and fats— in
that they contain the element nitro-
gen. This important element is
taken from the soil by the growing
plants. Nitrogen, together with the
water from the soil and the carbon-
dioxide from the air, is used by Na-
ture to manufacture protein foods.
The original source of all proteins
is the vegetable kingdom. Man and
animals eat the vegetable proteins
and use them to build animal pro-
teins which are used for the growth
of body tissues and to perform the
many other important functions as-
signed to them.
Protein is a very complex sub-
stance. There are many different
kinds and sources of proteins. The
animal proteins, such as milk, cheese,
eggs and meat, are the principle
sources. The cereals, because of
being used in such large amounts,
constitute an important source.
There is a limited amount of protein
in all fruits and vegetables.
Proteins are made up of varying
combinations and quantities of
twenty-three amino acids or building
stones each containing the import-
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ant element nitrogen. All the amino
acids have characteristics in com-
mon; yet each one is a distinct chem-
ical unit. Borrowing Mary Swartz
Rose's' means of explaining the com-
position of proteins, one thinks of
the amino acids as a large assort-
ment of beads of twenty-three dif-
ferent colors and sizes and many of
each kind in the collection: 'To
represent a protein we may select
one sample of each of the different
beads and arrange a figure; or we may
take the same twenty-three amino
acids, some kinds singly, others by
threes or fours, perhaps some by the
dozen and arrange another figure of
quite a different pattern." Each
figure will represent a certain protein
and yet each will be very different
in its composition. Some proteins
contain all the amino acids, some
only seventeen while others are made
up of only ten or twelve amino acids.
The writer is refraining from giving
the scientific names of the amino
acids as they are difficult to remem-
ber and would only be confusing.
ChssiBcation oi Proteins
U" ACH amino acid is an entity and
has a special role in nutrition.
No one of them can take the place
of any other. They can, however,
supplement each other. We speak
of a protein that contains all of the
amino acids, twenty-three of them,
and each one in a sufficient amount,
as a complete protein. Complete
proteins are capable of maintaining
growth and supporting new growth.
Examples of complete proteins are:
milk, cheese, eggs, lean meat, certain
nuts and part of the protein in corn,
The Founcktions of Nutrition, Mary
Swartz Rose.
wheat, and soy beans. Proteins are
spoken of as 'partially incomplete"
when they are lacking in certain
amino acids and are capable of main-
taining growth but cannot support
new growth. Part of the proteins
in cereals are of this group. There
is still another group known as "in-
complete" which are incapable of
either maintaining life or supporting
growth when fed as the only protein.
Gelatin and the zein in corn are the
best examples. All of the proteins
that are partially incomplete or in-
complete are found almost entirely
in the vegetable and cereal foods.
The fact that proteins differ in
their amino acid make-up is not so
serious as it may appear. Proteins
have supplementary values and in
our customary diets we combine pro-
teins from the different groups, for
example: one eats potatoes, an in-
complete protein, with meat, a com-
plete protein; macaroni with cheese;
bread with milk; vegetables with
meat, eggs or cheese, etc. Through
these supplementary values all pro-
teins may function as complete pro-
teins.
Growth and Repair of Tissue
Requires Protein
npHE adult does not store protein
in his body, so that his need for
this type of food is not so great as
it was during growth when he was
storing protein in the new tissue that
was being formed. All living cells are
undergoing changes as long as life
lasts and are in constant need of re-
pair or renewal. The food supply
must carry this repair material to the
blood stream. All of the proteins
are broken down, through the pro-
cesses of digestion, into their amino
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acids. As these amino acids are car-
ried by the blood to the cells all
over the body the ones that are
needed for repair are utilized.
In growing children it is not only a
matter of repairing worn-out cells
but of building new tissue; hence
the need for protein food is much
greater than for adults. A baby
doubles its weight in six months and
trebles it in one year. There is no
time during the entire life cycle
when growth is so rapid. Nature
realized this and provided the best
and most complete protein, milk,
to supply the need for protein.
Throughout the entire growth pe-
riod the body requires a compara-
tively large amount of protein. Of
the total amount needed at least one-
half should be the complete proteins
such as milk, cheese, eggs, and meat.
These complete proteins combined
with cereals and vegetables will make
all of the proteins complete. It is
interesting that long before we knew
anything about the chemical or nu-
tritional values of protein^ such
combinations became traditional.
Amount of Piotdn Needed by the
Body
CTUDIES made of protem con-
sumption show a great variation
in the amount consumed. Families
with higher incomes consume a
greater amount than those with low-
er incomes. Meat, milk and eggs are
usually expensive sources of proteins
and are used liberally where the bud-
get will permit. Families of lower
incomes use greater quantities of
cereal and vegetable proteins, supple-
menting them with the cheaper cuts
of meat. Milk is usually reduced to
a minimum.
The investigators are not agreed
as to the best amount of protein, but
it seems wise to avoid either extreme
and to use a moderate amount.
There are evils associated with either
an excessive or an insufficient
amount. Dr. Sherman, an outstand-
ing authority in the field of Nutri-
tion, recommends one gram per kilo^
of body weight, or in other words,
one-half gram per pound. Since this
standard is not practical for general
use these simple suggestive menus^
for the day's protein may be fol-
lowed:
FIRST DAY
Food
Milk
Cottage Cheese
Liver
Bread
Amount
1 pint
3^ cup
3 x5 x/2
4 slices
Gram
Protein
i6
i6
12
Total
58
SECOND DAY
Gram
Food
Amount
Protein
Milk
1 pint
16
Pork chop
1 medium
17
Kgg
1
7
Bread
4 slices
12
Shredded Wheat
1 biscuit
3
Baked Beans
Yi cup
7
Total
62
Most other foods usually appear-
ing in the diet may be counted on
to furnish small additional amounts
of protein. Generally, if one includes
in the daily diet one pint of milk,
one average serving of lean meat,
one other protein-rich food such as
an egg, a serving of cheese, beans,
etc., together with a serving of whole
cereal, one will be assured of suffi-
cient protein.
h kilo equals 2.2 pound.
'^Nutrition: Chaney and Ahlborn, pg. 99.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, FEBRUARY - 99
As stated above if the income is
adequate, it is not difficult to supply
a sufficient amount of protein when
one may select freely from milk,
lean meat, eggs and cheese, but
when the budget is limited it is
much more difficult to supply an
adequate amount and still keep the
diet palatable. The writer suggests
that each mother send for a copy of
"Diets at Four Levels of Nutritive
Content and Cost," by Stiebeling
and Ward, Circular 296, United
States Department of Agriculture.'
This circular will suggest a good
selection of foods to meet all the
dietary requirements at different cost
levels. The low-cost dietary will sup-
ply the protein from the food groups
as follows:
Cereal products 31%
Milk and cheese 3i7o
Vegetables and fruits 15%
Meat and eggs 1 8%
Fats, sweets 5%
The Growing Child's Need ioi
Protein
CINCE the principle function of
protein is to build and repair
tissue it is obvious that at no time
in one's life is it as important to
provide adequate protein in the diet
as it is during the growing period.
The child grows more rapidly during
the first year, consequently its need
per pound is greater than at any
other time. Nature has recognized
this need and has provided in moth-
er's milk the best possible protein,
lactalbumin. The superior quality
of this protein meets the needs of
^Address your request to the Supt. of
Documents, U. S. Dept. of Agriculture and
enclose ten cents in money,
the infant in a smaller amount than
would be possible in artificially fed
infants. Eggs are also a splendid
source of protein for growing chil-
dren. Lean meat, fish and cheese
appear early in a growing child's diet.
Whole cereals, well cooked and
served with whole milk should enter
into the daily diet of growing chil-
dren. The protein allowance for
growing children is higher according
to their weight than that of adults
and will be met if approximately a
quart of milk is consumed daily.
More eggs will enter into his diet,
otherwise the suggestive protein
diets for adults will serve as a guide
for the growing child's diet.
There is no dietary deficiency
more rapidly noticeable in animal
experimentation than a deficiency of
protein foods. While it does not
furnish so striking a picture in hu-
man nutrition, its evil effects arc
nevertheless present.
Muscular Activity and Protein
Requirement
npHE common understanding that
muscular activity is carried on at
the expense of muscle tissue is not
true. In extreme muscular activity,
such as football or prizefighting, the
muscles are actually enlarged, not
torn down. What is needed for
hard physical work is an additional
amount of energy foods, not addi-
tional protein foods. When suffi-
cient energy is provided for muscular
activity there will be sufficient pro-
tein. There is no scientific reason
for supplying more meat in the diet
of the working man than of the man
at the desk.
Spring Thaw
By Helen Martin
THE smoke from the outside fur-
nace fire rose black against the
sun as Ernest Miller threw a
pine log under the tubs of boiling
water. Effie Miller, pouring brown,
slightly smoky lard grease into the
spotless buckets standing on the
pantry shelf, glanced up as her hus-
band's laughter and pleasant voice
drifted in through the partly open
window. She loved to hear his voice
and to watch his precise movements
as he went about the task of butcher-
ing an animal. He always knew
exactly what he intended to do, and
did it. Of course, he had had four
years' training at State University in,
as she laughingly said, ''matters agri-
cultural", but not all of his ability
along this line was due to education.
Something there was which mere
education could not supply.
Her attention was caught by the
mailman closing the box at the end
of the lane. Piling the rinds from
the fat carefully in a bowl, she slid
into her galoshes and sweater.
Running up the lane she called to
her husband, ''Oo— Hoo Ernest! Fm
off for the mail."
Her trip back to the house was
slower. She opened the single letter
and read it as the crisp wind blew her
hair around. The snow crunched
under her feet.
The conversation of her husband
and the neighbor, whose pig he was
butchering, stopped suddenly as she
came up to them. 'Tunny," she
thought quickly to herself as she
tucked the letter in her pocket,
''Funny how Ernest gets on with the
neighbors; prosperous and poor
alike look up to him and value his
opinions, while with me they just
shut up like clams."
"Bad news?" asked her husband.
"Must be, or you wouldn't have deep
furrows in your brow."
"Hope not," added the neighbor
politely, but coldly.
"Yes, it is bad news. Sister Sandra
is ill, and with Ben on full-time work
and the children in school there is
no one to look after her. She's been
used to hired help. Her family isn't
used to doing for themselves. I guess
they're in pretty much of a mess. At
any rate Ben writes that they wish
I could come in for a few days just
to help get them straightened."
"You'll do just that!" spoke up
the neighbor warmly, almost too
warmly.
But the remark passed unnoticed
as Effie turned into the house. She
called over her shoulder to her hus-
band, "Please hurry. Dear, I'll need
some help if I'm to get everything
done and packed to leave on the
early evening train."
Then as the thought struck her—
"You think I better go don't you?"
"Of course! I'll be through here
in half an hour, then we'll get every-
thing attended to so you can leave
without a worry." Turning to the
neighbor as Effie closed the door, he
added, "She'd worry all the while
she was gone if the house wasn't
spotless and the pantry full."
"There's some things more imr
portant," dryly observed the old
man. 'Take for instance, raising
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children/' He looked closely at Er-
nest as he spoke and was instantly
sorry, as he saw the look that crossed
the younger man's face. "Sorry/'
he muttered, 'guess it's none o' my
affair."
''We'd have a family, but Effie
feels that the country doesn't offer
the opportunities for educating chil-
dren that a city does. She won't hear
of having a child until we can afford
a small house in town as well as the
farm"— he stopped suddenly as if he
just remembered he was telling se-
crets not meant for gossip, and added
quickly, "never you mind, some day
we'll have a family that will rival
yours. Will. How's the 3'oungest
grandchild?" From here the conver-
sation drifted off to general topics.
'T^HE electric sped on leaving the
brown and grays of the village
and darting into the midst of square
patches of white fields which were
broken here and there by clusters of
willows and a few trees. The topped
grain poking occasionally through
the snow shone slightly yellow in
the setting sun. Ahead, although
still far off, the smoke of the ap-
proaching city hung like a threaten-
ing cloud over the valley.
Effic's head hummed. The ap-
proach to the city always thrilled
her. She loved its busy hustle, its
crowds, its impersonal tolerance, and
its everlasting noise. In spite of
her sister Sandra's illness she
couldn't help leaning forward in an-
ticipation. There would be no talk
here of how many calves were being
fed, no endless "quilting bees" with
the sharp gossipy tongues wagging,
no one watching every move she
made with an eye to its value as
future material for conversation.
Here in the city her marriage to the
genial Ernest would have been read-
ily accepted, but only briefly noticed.
In the village it was deeply resented.
What right had she, a city girl, to.
come into the village and, after two
years' teaching in the small high
school, marry the most socially and
financially eligible young man in
town?
The familiar yellow and black cab
stood by the entrance to the station.
She gave the driver Ben and Sandra's
address and sat back to enjoy the
trip through the center of town.
Lights— slush— horns— bustle — she
loved it all. If it weren't for the
worry over her sister she would really
have enjoyed the entire trip. The
cab stopped by a large town house
and Effie got out, paid the driver,
grabbed her suitcase and rushed up
the steps to ring the bell.
But no Ben answered the bell.
Instead a burly gentleman barked,
"Well, Sister? What is it?"
"I— I thought this was the home
of Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin Christen-
sen," gasped Effie.
"Sorry, Sister. They lost it over
two months ago. We took up their
mortgage. They're living down town
somewhere. My wife's put their ad-
dress away, but I don't know where."
Effie pulled Ben's letter out of
her purse. Sure enough there on
the first page was the new address
underlined. She had missed this de-
tail in her worry over the contents
of the letter.
"May I use your telephone to call
a cab?" she asked.
"Sure thing, Sister. Help yourself.
It's here in the hall."
Pacing up and down the street
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Effie awaited the arrival of the cab.
Strange, Sandra had never hinted in
her letters that there v^as so much
wrong with them. Of course, she
had written that Ben had lost his
supposedly permanent position and
had only lately obtained something
which, though not in his line, would
be a beginning again.
The cab arrived and urging the
driver to hurry across town they
went through the lights, slush, horns,
and bustle to an apartment house
of ancient vintage.
In the dim hall of the apartment
house she looked over the mail boxes
hunting for the one that held the
name of Ben and Sandra. Three
flights up she hurried and back to
the last door in the hall. She rang
the bell. Ben answered. The wor-
ried look on his face gave way to
a half smile as he saw Effie.
''Come in, come in! Gee, am I
glad to see you!" he greeted her.
'This isn't the big house, but you
are just as welcome as if it were.
Give me your bag and coat and then,
please, go right in to San. I just told
her today that I had sent for you."
/^N a bed in the small bedroom
lay Sandra pale and listless, hair
stringy, and nails unkempt. So un-
like the smart, well-groomed sister
Effie remembered that the difference
brought her up short. Tr}'ing to
hide her surprise and shock she gent-
ly grasped her sister's hand, "Darling,
Fm so sorry you're ill. You should
have written me sooner. I could
have come any time."
Tears running down her pale
cheeks, Sandra sobbed, "I couldn't,
I just couldn't. It was my pride
I suppose. You don't know how
hard it is to come down to this after
all I've been used to. Dear, I'm so
glad you are here! You were always
a good manager. You can help us
if anyone can."
Effie looked around— so much to
do— house mussy— boxes piled in the
corner. Sandra must have been ail-
ing for a long time; she must get
right busy. These thoughts rushed
through her mind. Then she became
more human. These people had
worried and suffered. It could even
be seen in the eyes of ten-year-old
Billy and fourteen-year-old Susan,
as they stood in the doorway and
watched her
"Say, I'm starved. I see dinner's
on the table, why don't we eat? Billy,
open my bag, you'll find a sack of
your favorite cookies. They will go
good with whatever we're eating."
The potatoes were watery, the
meat tough, the cookies didn't help
the cocoa much! Ignoring these Effie
kept up a string of conversation. She
told them all the funny things that
had happened on the farm. How
the new calf wobbled. How Ernest
and she had gone skiing and how she
tumbled half way down the hill.
After dinner Effie became imprac-
tical for the first time in her life.
Strangely she felt the need of this
family for a mental lift rather than a
physical one. She laughingly said,
"Let's not even worry about these
dishes tonight. Let's just relax."
So she kept up her high spirits.
The faces of all of them relaxed and
wore smiles as Effie rolled into the
pull-out bed with Susan. Bill and
his father had been using the pull-
out. Effie helped them make a lark
out of sleeping on the floor.
The next day being Saturday the
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children did not have to go to school.
Ben worked a half day. Effie and
the children working together and
making a high game of everything
soon got the small apartment in ship
shape.
Going through the shelves in the
very small kitchen, Effie realized just
how bad things were. She found
beans, a few eggs, one square of but-
ter, part of a loaf of bakery bread,
some sacks containing a little maca-
roni, some brown sugar, and a hand-
ful of rice— only these! How differ-
ent from her own pantry! Her shelves
were filled with many things found
on the country table: bacon, eggs-
plenty of them, jams, jellies and
numberless cans of fancy ''city food".
Then there was her basement: bot-
tles of fruit, vegetables, meats, bins
of apples, potatoes, carrots, cabbage
and onions. In the cooler stood
lovely rich milk, butter and cream.
She had never really appreciated
these things so much as she did now,
realizing how difficult it must be to
keep house without them.
She must bring herself to the task
of finding just how bad Sandra's
condition was. Most important she
must find some way to bring them
all out of their mentally depressed
state. It wouldn't do to have this
going on longer. Of course, she
didn't know just what was wrong
with Sandra, but with half an eye
she could see that she was underfed
and terribly worried. Well, she
would have all those problems out
with Ben when he came home in the
afternoon.
TN the afternoon Effie sent the chil-
dren out to skate on the ice in the
park. Sandra under the influence of
Effie's kind rubbing and her nour-
ishing lunch, dozed off into a restful
sleep. Ben and Effie sat down at
the kitchen table to settle the many
problems facing this unhappy family.
First, and easiest settled, was San-
dra's condition.
Ben said the doctor had given
her a number of examinations to de-
termine just what the trouble was.
It had been decided that she was
just generally run down and worn
out, with her nerves a complete
wreck.
''So you see," Ben pointed out,
"she needs rest, good food, and fresh
air. Then when she is stronger, if
she will have her tonsils out, the
doctor feels that she will be almost
new again."
"We will settle this first," insisted
Effie. "She will come home with
me. You and the children can man-
age alone. In the country she will
get all of the things she needs. We
have a good doctor who can take
care of her tonsils. Now let us get
on to the other worries."
In going over the financial figures
they found that Ben had been able
to save a fair equity out of the big
house, but it had been used for the
purchase of other unproductive prop-
erty.
Ben told Effie how they had
stored their furniture, because San-
dra couldn't bear to part with it. She
couldn't give up the idea of some-
time coming back to her old place.
However, since they had been
snubbed so much by their old
friends, Sandra had lost interest in
going back. He told her that even the
apartment was too expensive when
he considered his present salary,
especially when he kept the children
in their schools.
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With a sweeping hand it was de-
cided to sell all of the furniture ex-
cept that which was needed. The
equity was to be put into a small
place in the suburbs, one that had
a chicken coop and room for a small
kitchen garden. Then the children
were to leave their private schools
and enroll in the public school near-
est their new home. Together Effie
and Ben went over and over his sal-
ary to budget it to the best possible
advantage. They finallv arranged
things so that Ben wouldn't have to
drop his insurance; the children
wouldn't have so many clothes, but
they would get along very well if they
were careful.
Standing up, stretching his legs,
straightening his shoulders, Ben said,
'1 feel like a man let loose from a
trap. I have been so stunned by
everything that I haven't been able
to think. When I remember how
we held on to that large house, hop-
ing things would change and wast-
ing money, I could kick myself. Now
I'm going out to hunt the best sub-
urban house at the most reasonable
price I can find. It'll be grand for
the children. I know I'm going to
be happier."
As he was putting on his overcoat
Ben turned to Effie, ''Say, please,
will you forgive me? I've always
figured you a sort of 'high and
mighty' person. You're a 'peach.' Be-
lieve me I'll not forget it soon."
A
WEEK later Effie and her sister
left on the electric for the farm.
As the country scenes slid by Effie
remembered Ben's words — "high
and mighty" person — maybe that
was what everyone in the village
thought. That was her trouble! She
looked down on people— not on a
level with them.
The country seemed unusually
lovely. The February winds were
melting the snow, and here and there
the road showed black. The mud
looked deep, rich and sticky. She
loved it. How she loved it! The
city had lost its glamor. She knew
now that it was the way a person
lived not where he lived that made
him happy. It was a spring thawing.
Her pride and heart and the country
were thawing together.
"We're staying thawed out too,"
Effie spoke out loud.
"Thawing what?" asked her sister.
"Nothing— or everything— I don't
realize what I'm saying I'm so hap-
py to be going home. Oh see, San-
dra, there is the village! Isn't it love-
ly! There is even a little green grass
to the south of the big trees. It is
a real spring thaw!"
How Psychology can Help
Me as an Adult
By Mark K. Alien, Psychologist, Utah State Training School
(Address, Relief Society Conference, Oct. 4, 1938)
CENTRAL theme of Latter-day
Saint philosophy is that the
spirit of man is eternal and
that it progresses through the ex-
periences it undergoes. The im-
provement of self through service
to others becomes the great aim of
life, since this improvement fits one
better for the service he is to render
in the life to come. But we need
not think of eternal progress in vague
and abstract terms: rather we should
think of it as the daily improvement
of habits, the acquiring of new infor-
mation and outlooks, and the acqui-
sition of new skills. We prepare our-
selves for eternity to the extent that
we succeed in getting along well
with people, spread happiness into
the lives of others, and mutually as-
sist each other in reaching a higher
plane of living, as well as in comply-
ing with the more formal require-
ments of the Church.
Formation and revision of habits
is one way of moving in the direction
suggested above. Habits are formed
only as there is incentive to acquire
them. Three steps are necessary for
the acquiring of a new habit: first,
get a clear conception of the goal of
the habit you wish to form and a
clear idea of the reasons why you
think it is important; then, analyze
the results of your efforts to deter-
mine exactly what methods lead
most directly to the goal; and finally,
repeat the proper acts as often as
possible once they have been recog-
nized. "Good intentions" are not
always enough to form good habits;
we must make sure the habits we
are to form are important, and not
simply mental gymnastics to show
that we can do what we set out to
do. Likewise, we should not under-
take tasks that are too new to us, but
rather choose habits which are neces-
sary and which we feel morally cer-
tain we can achieve. Choose habits
that are concrete and definite, not
generalities like abstract "goodness".
Many a person's will is paralyzed be-
cause he has formed the vicious habit
of trying to form new habits and to
do tasks that are too difficult and
which force him to fail. The power
to do, or will power, grows by our
successes more than by our failures.
We need not think of the forma-
tion and revision of habits as being
something only for the young. Popu-
lar opinion as to the inability of
adults to learn is in error. Recent
experiments have shown that there
is very little decline in learning abil-
ity from one's twenties until after
one's sixties. New tasks can actually
be learned as well by people in mid-
dle life as at any other time, provid-
ed the incentive is there. Unfor-
tunately, many adults lack the incen-
tive to take up new endeavors,— new
skills, subject matter, and outlooks.
People differ greatly in the way they
change with age, just as they differ
in intelligence or personality; but
speaking of most people, there is no
need for discouragement as to the
mature person's abilit^^ to learn al-
most as well as he did when he was
young.
In fact, faith that one is able to
continue his progress gives a kind of
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hope which itself promotes learning, after the danger or provocation has
''Keeping one's hand in" learning been removed,
activities helps us to keep plastic We become angry or afraid when
and adaptable to new conditions, circumstances get out of control,
partly because it keeps up our con- When someone frustrates our plans,
fidence in our learning ability. This we generally become angry. The
ability to make changes in one's life mental result of anger is the reduc-
as needed is very valuable as old age tion of intelligent control; hence, we
approaches. Habits must then be re- say ''he is blind with anger". The
vised according to new physical emotion of anger in primitive times
needs, changing conditions in the had a valuable place in combat, in
home as the children marry, and that it increased physical endurance
other changes in the home picture, and power. But in modern life, we
Old age need not be a period of seldom must meet anger situations
despair and unhappiness provided with combat. We have cultivated
one has made the changes that are our emotional life until we more
required, and provided that new in- often fight with words than with
terests are acquired to fill up vacan- fists. In modern living our emo-
eies left by the marriage of the chil- tional reactions must be more brainy,
dren. more intelligent, if they are not to
lead us into difficulties. To gain
TIT'E are told by modern psych olo- control of our emotions we must
gy that learning has much to delay our reactions until we can take
do with the way we react emotional: an intelligent look at what is re-
ly. Emotional habits are among the quired. Intelligent control of our
most important we have, since they emotions is one of the best signs of
relate so closely to our ability to get emotional maturity, of being truly
along with people and the general grown up.
happiness-tone of our lives. Emo- Fear is much like anger in its phys-
tions have a physical basis which ical basis and in its relation to in-
makes them linger sometimes after telligent action. While in anger the
the condition which gives rise to usual response is that of attack or
them has been removed. Thus, we aggression, in fear the response is
say people "get out on the wrong that of withdrawal or retreat. We
side of the bed," or they go around fight when we are angry and run
"with a chip on their shoulder". when we are afraid. But in modern
When we are in an emotional state, society again, running from the
we are likely to make the wrong re- things we fear is not always required,
spouse to new situations which arise, because today we fear physical dan-
For example, after we have had a gers less than loss of security in the
rather unsatisfactory argument with love of others, or economical secur-
someone, we are likely to proceed to ity, for example. Nevertheless, even
the next contact we have with people in fears of this kind we most often
in an argumentative mood which is have a tendency to withdraw, not to
likely to lead us into more difficul- want to know the "awful truth",
ties. A chemical substance, adrena- Fear is based on uncertainty and lack
lin, is poured into our blood which of knowledge of what is going to
persists for some time after an anger happen, or, knowing what is to hap-
or fear emotion, which may help to pen, not knowing how to prevent it.
account for this "hanging on" feeling Knowledge is the best antidote in
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, FEBRUARY - 1 07
either case. To dissipate fears of any
kind we should investigate, find out
all of the facts. Often this convinces
us that there is nothing to fear; in
other cases it fortifies us to meet the
inevitable, and in still other cases it
leads to ways of avoiding the im-
pending danger.
npHE great test of how one has
succeeded in revising his habits,
in gaining control over his emotions,
appears in the ability to get along
with people. To get along with
others we must recognize that they
have egos as well as we do. Con-
sideration for the happiness of others
generally redounds to one's own
happiness.
Learn to recognize the hobbies and
enthusiasms of others if you would
get along with them. People with
inferiority feelings often have diffi-
culty getting along with people be-
cause they are too absorbed in them-
selves to be generous with praise and
recognition of the interests of others.
Marriage is the great testing
ground for personality. Here all of
the virtues and flaws of one's na-
ture are brought into full view. Poor
emotional control makes marriage
difficult, and so does the inability
to change one's habits to conform
to the new ways of life which are
inevitable when marriage is under-
taken. Many marital difficulties are
the result of failure to grow up emo-
tionally—children unable to go alone
without the help of their parents,
and parents who are unwilling to
let the child grow to full maturity
and find his or her own way. Train-
ing for happy married life should
begin in the cradle.
Marriage is a very complex rela-
tionship, and the causes of discord
are legion. Dr. Terman of Stanford
has recently published the results of
an interesting study on marriage in
which he investigated thoroughly the
personalities of a large number of
couples who were happy in marriage
and compared them with a large
number of divorced couples. He
found that among the factors which
contribute to happiness in marriage
were the following: having had hap-
py parents, a happy childhood, firm
but not harsh home discipline, par-
ents who were frank about sex, and
the possession of happy tempera-
ment. Factors which he found con-
tributed to unhappy marriages were
the following: unhappy tempera-
ment, too much difference between
the intelligence of the husband and
wife, wife's slovenly appearance, and
sexual incompatability.
Happiness in marriage is perhaps
the most important preparation for
eternal progress, as well as content-
ment throughout this life. Children
are, of course, an important part of
the picture. In later maturity chil-
dren and happy home life are often
the means of fighting off a feeling of
emptiness and despair.
'T^HE problem of marriage involves
many other persons besides
those who are parties to the marriage.
One of our most difficult tasks in
later maturity is that of being a good
mother-in-law. If a young person
is properly trained emotionally
through childhood and adolescence,
the ''mother-in-law" problem would
not be a serious one. This is the
problem of emotional weaning. The
mother must gradually permit the
child to assume mature status with-
out too much interference. She can
do this only by exercising great emo-
tional control herself, because to
step aside and see the child throw
off his or her dependence upon her
is not an easy task. Training for
this weaning should begin in child-
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hood and should be almost complete do; (2) keep out of the quarrels of
by the end of adolescence. In some the child with his or her ''in-laws";
cases missions or a period at school (t^) guard against gaining personal
away from home are valuable in emotional satisfaction by being too
bringing about the transition from lavish and over-solicitous with the
youth into maturity. grandchildren; (4) be courageous in
When weaning is not complete, accepting the fact that your child has
there is likely to be much interfer- transferred his or her major affection
ence on the part of the parent after to someone else,
the child is married, and this inter- These are a few of the ways in
ference has made mothers-in-law which science tries to aid in the
famous as the object of all kinds of solving of human problems. We
jokes. A few suggestions are offered have tried to make the doctrine of
as to what a mother-in-law can do progress concrete and real, to show
to promote a happy married life for that it consists of making good ad-
her child: (1) substitute the "com- justments to everyday needs, and to
panion attitude" for the ''mother emphasize that progress is possible
attitude," and avoid taking a prom- by aiming at attainable personal im-
inent place in the new household provement and intelligently pursuing
by living there or dictating what to these well defined goals.
^^
NOT FOREVER SAD
The trees once green, then red, then brown, stand naked on the hill.
The stream that whispered as it ran, is frozen at the rill.
The field where waved the golden grain, is naught but stubble now,
The gentle wind that sang in May, is but a dismal sough;
The lad that gathered daisies in a meadow far away
Is lonely, oh, so lonely! now his golden hair is grey.
But the trees are getting ready to bud again in spring,
The stream below the ice has not forgotten how to sing,
The field where waved the golden grain is resting for a day,
And the wind that howls like a fiend will sing again next May;
The lad that gathered daisies, in his soul is still a lad.
There's nothing in this life can make a man forever sad.
— Terrence Sylvester Glennaniaddy.
HAPPENING
By Annie Wells Cannon
pEBRUARY— Love notes in lacy
valentines do oft portend
Affections deeper far than ''Just a
friend".
pEARL BUCK, with no other
notable guests, sat at a banquet
table in the royal castle in Stock-
holm on December ii and received
from the hands of King Gustav him-
self the Nobel prize for the greatest
contribution to literature. The prize,
beside the Nobel medal v^as $37,975.
Wliat the emotions of this modest
woman were can only be imagined.
The prize was for no single book but
the entire body of the author's work.
No other author has ever brought be-
fore the world so much knowledge
of China and her people.
J)OROTHY THOMPSON, pop-
ular commentator, in a recent
broadcast gave an amusing disserta-
tion on women's hats. She cleverly
demonstrated that the best dressed
women are those who wear becom-
ing clothes, regardless of fashion, a
fact so poignantly told by two lead-
ing couturiers in their books, "De-
signing Women" and "Fashion is
Spinach".
Vy^OMEN of Rumania may be
called to military service and
mobilized in case of war according
to a recent government decree.
jyr A R Y PICKFORD, piquant,
charming as ever, gives the fol-
lowing explanation of her vouthful
looks, "Time is the noise the clock
makes and means nothing else to
me."
CVANHILDE LARSON, daugh-
ter of a Norwegian skipper, as her
father's ship was floundering to de-
struction in a stormy sea, clung to
a broken mast and sang all the songs
she knew over and over to keep the
sailors working until all were res-
cued.
JULIA P. M. FARNSWORTH
J and Elizabeth H. Peery, two not-
able Utah women, died during the
holiday season. Both were daugh-
ters of pioneers and active in state
and Church work.
^ONA GALE, a popular novelist
and winner of the Pulitzer prize
in 1921, died last December.
jyjARGARET SANGER'S "Wo-
man of Destiny," an autobiog-
raphy, Anne Parish's "Mr. Despond-
ency's Daughter," and the lovely
new story "Song of Years" by Bess
Streeter Aldrich are new novels
for 1939.
QSA JOHNSON having lost her
suit against the Western Air Ex-
press for the death of her husband,
Martin Johnson, will have to post-
pone her hunting trip to East Africa
for some time.
jZATHARINE HEPBURN in
-^ "Holiday," Alice Brady in "Old
Chicago," and Wendy Hiller in
"Pygmalion," are listed by New
York critics as best actresses for 1938.
Radio Message
By Kate M. Barker
(Station KSL, Monday, December 19, 1938)
iT is a joyous thing to have our my disciples if ye have love one to
feeling of thanksgiving and praise another."
expressed in such beautiful mu- Paul, one of the most learned men
sic. It is a call to each of us to ''light of his day, came to this conclusion,
our torches and mount the heights". 'Though I have the gift of prophecy.
To be part of a world getting readv ^"^ understand all mysteries, and all
for Christmas is a wonderful experi- knowledge; and though I have all
ence, for Christmas is a kind and faith, so that I can remove moun-
charitable time, a loving, forgiving tains, and have not charity I am
time. Men and women the world nothing. And now abideth faith,
over, wherever the spirit of Christ hope. charity, these three; but the
has entered, are getting ready for greatest of these is charity."
Christmas, moved by a common im- These are the things which endure,
pulse, exhibiting a common joy. these are the things which fill all
T .,,1 1 -ij 1 1- f J hearts if we have the true Christmas
Little children are looking forward . ..
• SDirit
to Christmas with faces radiant with ^ rj ' ci.\ t t-u a -u i
, ,. .., , . ... Because or the raith and hope and
expectation, with glowing exquisite i • _ 1 . ^ .i ^^ ^r
, ^ , ' f .1 °f -.1 1 love in our hearts we, the women ot
dreams, because ot the raith and n r £c - *. t-u u 4. j-i,-
, ' , 1 • 1 . ^1 . rrm • Relief Society the world over, at this
hope and love which is theirs. Ihis r^u ■ *. r. *-• ^a^^a- 4- ^ r .
. .f, , , , , . ., , Christmas time, rededicate our lives
raith and hope and love is the real . .1 i c a^ -x/t i. 1 j •
. .. -. ^, .\ J n 1 1 to the work or the Master, pledging
spirit ot Christmas, and all who have ^ ^1 ^ . ^ i u -4-1, ^ ^ j ^ i
.|. , ... f If 1 .^1 r ourselves to labor with renewed zeal
this real spirit tace lite and the tu- , 1 ir j . -ui
.., ^., T 1 , . .1 • to make lite around us more noble,
ture with the same hght m their ^^^^ ^^^^^ j^^j^f^, ^^^ ^^^^^
eyes and the same expectation in ^^ ^^^^^ ^^ ^j^^ threshold of a
new year with an aspiration, a pur-
How grateful we are that, "God pose, a prayer that we may so grow
so loved the world that He gave. His in spiritual sensitiveness that we
only Begotten Son." may sense the needs and have the
How grateful we are for the testi- inspiration to meet the needs; that
mony of the Son that, "Though a if there is a kind word that should
man die yet shall he live." t>e spoken we may speak it; if there
__ . . . , , . is one soul who needs encourage-
How grateful we are for the glori- ^^^^^ ^^. ^^ comfort, we may* give
ous promise. Come unto me, all ye -^^ -f ^^^^^ -^ ^^^^ ^^^ ^ testimony,
that labor and are heavy laden, and ^^ ^^ ^^^j. ^^
I will give you rest." r^^^-^ -^ ^^^ ^^3^ gif^^ ^^^^ ^^1^ 3„d
Can we do less to show our grati- frankincense and myrrh, which we
tude than by heeding His plea, "By offer to Him whose birth we cele-
this shall all men know that ye are brate.
THE RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
JULIA A. F, LUND ...--.- General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Nettie D. Bradford Donna Durrant Sorensen
Emma A. Empey Ida P. Beal V^ivian R. McConkiy
Annie Wells Cannon Marcia K. Howells Leda T. Jensen
Lalene H. Hart Emeline Y. Nebeker Beatrice F. Stevens
Cora L. Bennion Janet M. Thompson Rae B. Barker
Amy Whipple Evans Belle S. Spafford Nellie O. Parker
Rosannah C. Irvine Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor - - - - Belle S. Spafford
Manager - .......... Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ......... Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI
FEBRUARY, 1939
No. 2
EDITOHIAL
J^avertising cJ^nfluence
A MONG the many influences
which affect the behavior of
people today perhaps none is more
potent than modern advertising. We
buy this brand of foodstuffs, that
make of car, we go to see this par-
ticular entertainment and read that
certain book, because consciously
or unconsciously we have been af-
fected by the advertising of these spe-
cial things. Modern advertising has
become a great and important part
of American life, drawing to it the
most talented and well trained indi-
viduals of our day, men and women
cognizant of its power to mould
opinion and influence conduct. The
advertising mediums of our day are
many and varied: the newspaper,
the screen, billboards, magazines,
radio, electric signs— all educational
mediums, far reaching, up-to-date,
and well financed. What person
planning a purchase does not look at
the ads in his morning paper? What
person does not give attention to the
attractively prepared ads in his mag-
azines? Who is not conscious of the
sponsor and the product behind his
favorite radio program? The very
best in music, art, drama, education,
the most sparkling wit, and enter-
taining comedy come to us through
the medium of advertising. With
ears tuned to popular trends, fads,
and interests the advertiser is alert
effectively to capitalize upon these
to influence the public to use his
special product or commodity. Catch
phrases, theme songs, slogans, easily
remembered and pointed in mean-
ing, unconsciously and without ef-
fort stay with the hearer identified
with the item advertised, and defi-
nitely influence his attitudes and
conduct.
Advertising has great constructive
power; that it should be used detri-
mentally is regrettable. Yet everv
day it is being used to further com-
mercial interests by popularizing
products injurious to our young man-
hood and womanhood.
Too often before the youth of our
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nation ads, striking in attractiveness,
present in an enticing and convinc-
ing way the benefits, the pleasures,
and the satisfactions of using this
or that brand of tobacco or liquor.
That these ads accompHsh their
purpose is proven by the marked
increase in the use of hquor and
tobacco by both men and wom-
en, and by the fact that constant-
ly increasing millions are being
spent to advertise these commodi-
ties. Advertisers are keen busi-
ness men, and unless the millions
spent were increasing sales, they
would discontinue such expend-
itures. Each sale increase means in-
creased use of those things which
science and the word of God have
said are not good for us.
Much advertising is of such a
nature that one scarcely realizes that
tobacco and liquor are being adver-
tised. A recent broadcast capitalized
upon the popular interest in ade-
quate dietary requirements of youth,
intimating that tobacco treated in a
certain manner contained elements
essential to health.
A magazine advertisement pic-
tured a doctor of medicine, in the
attitude of consultation, prescribing
tobacco for a young woman, as a
step toward happiness, with health
implied. This shrewd advertisement
implicated the medical profession in
its scheme to induce young people
to form the tobacco habit.
'T^HERE are many excellent fed-
eral and state regulations aiming
to control advertising evils, to insure
the presentation of true statements,
and to protect the consumer. But
that these need to be extended and
rigidly enforced with regard to' the
sister evils of tobacco and liquor,
there is not the slightest doubt. The
power of money behind these evils,
however, makes improved legislation
difficult.
A few of the laws of the State of
Utah with regard to liquor advertis-
ing are of interest:
"(b) No advertisement of any alcoholic
beverage or light beer shall suggest the
absence of harmful effect, or the presence
of healthful or therapeutic effect, resulting
from the use thereof.
"(c) No advertisement of any alcoholic
beverage or light beer shall include, be
connected with, or make any reference to
the conducting of any form of contest, or
the awarding of prizes, premium.s or con-
siderations, or refer to any testimonial, or
scientific test, proving the absence of harm-
ful effect or the presence of healthful or
therapeutic effect of the products so ad-
vertised.
"(d) No advertisement of any alcoholic
beverage or light beer shall include the
likeness or caricature of a woman, child,
or a family scene; an illustration of men
drinking; an illustration of groups of men
that might be interpreted as drinking
scenes; an illustration of anything which
might be interpreted as having any associa-
tion with children, particularly children's
pets, nor any illustration of fruits or agri-
cultural products, unless such illustrations
be a part of a trade-mark or Inbel already
in use, in which case a replica of the entire
trade-mark or label only, shall be permitted.
"(f) No advertisement of any alcoholic
beverage or light beer shall contain any
reference to any person, firm or corpora-
tion, real or fictitious, as one who recom-
mends, uses, or purchases such product.
" (k ) No advertisement of alcoholic bev-
erages including light beer shall be dis-
played upon the screen of any theatre.
"(1) No advertisement of alcoholic bev-
erages including light beer shall be made
by or through the sale or distribution of
novelties such as matches, score cards,
lighters, blotters, post cards, calling cards,
business or professional cards, menu cards,
pencils, coasters, meal checks, napkins,
clocks, calendars or similar articles or
cocktail recipes or any other recipes or
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, FEBRUARY - 113
formulas for the use of sueh products. Any
mention of brand name, code number or
sale price shall be considered a violation
of this section."
Excellent as the laws of Utah are
in this regard they do not control
periodicals published in other states.
pUBLIC opinion concerning the
use of liquor tends to sway back
and forth. At one time people were
aroused to such an extent that prohi-
bition on a national scale was ac-
complished. At first it looked as
though it would succeed, but before
long public opinion swayed in the
other direction resulting in repeal.
With repeal the liquor interests be-
gan to advertise. More people than
could possibly make a living stepped
into the industry; then a bold at-
tempt was made to step up consump-
tion. Now the pendulum of public
opinion is swinging toward limita-
tion and greater regulation. Cogni-
zant of this the liquor interests have
changed their method of approach,
attempting to meet the rising tide of
indignation with regard to excessive
use of liquor by pacifying and lulling
into inaction all who favor temper-
ance or abstinence by apparently
shouldering arms in the interest of
temperance. One of the cleverest
and most subtle attempts calculated
to advertise the interests of a certain
company along this particular plan
was the national tour made by a
famous ''hero of youth," who gave
lectures in the interest of temper-
ance, recommending only limited
drinking. The name of the company
sponsoring the tour and its commod-
ity was thus favorably kept before
the public. Much advertising fol-
lows this plan. By indicating an in-
terest in temperance, attention is
cunningly attracted and favor won
for the company and its particular
product.
npHAT there are still certain peri-
odicals and newspapers public
spirited enough and genuinely inter-
ested in the development of a strong,
clean citizenship to refuse to accept
liquor ads in their publications is
deeply appreciated by the Relief So-
ciety organization which represents
76,000 mothers.
From a letter to our office from
Walter D. Fuller, President of the
Curtis Publishing Company, we
quote: "We do not accept advertis-
ing of liquor in our publications."
A full-page statement in the Decem-
ber, 1938, issue of the Ladies Home
Journal outlines the attitude of this
large and influential publishing com-
pany. The caption in bold type
states, ''Sorry, we prefer not to in-
troduce him (liquor) to our guests."
Further it states, "It is a common
courtesy not to receive guests in your
home who might embarrass other
guests . . . influence some of them
to their detriment. . . . We will not
try to influence you (our guests) by
taking liquor advertising."
Our local papers, the Deseret
News, the Salt Lake Tribune, and
the Salt Lake Telegram are to be
highly complimented for taking the
same stand. The refusal has un-
doubtedly cost these concerns many
thousands of dollars in recent years.
Our Relief Society Magazine ac-
cepts no advertising that is not strict-
ly in keeping with Latter-day Saint
standards.
We urge our subscribers to exer-
cise every effort to discountenance
all advertising detrimental to human
welfare, actively to support those 0^
114 - FEBRUARY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
ganizations whose standards are our subtle and constantly increasing in-
standards, and to protect our chil- fluences which we know undermine
dren in every possible way from the health and character.
y^ulia 11 Lurdock cfarnsworth
n^HE passing of Sister Julia Mur-
dock Farnsworth at her home
in Salt Lake City, December 27,
1938, removed from our midst a
choice spirit and a beloved and ad-
mired Latter-day Saint woman. Sis-
ter Farnsworth, mother of our pres-
ent General Secretary, Julia A. F.
Lund, devoted many years of her life
to advancing the work of the Relief
Society organization, serving as a
member of the General Board from
April 4, 1899, to April 2, 1921. She
often said that next to her own
family the Relief Society held her
love. It is not strange that this would
be true. The motivating spirit of
Relief Society, love of God and love
of humanity, motivated her life. The
following message taken from Vol-
ume II of the Reliei Society Maga-
zine, published in 1915, and sent as
a greeting to the Relief Society sis-
ters by Sister Farnsworth is typical
of her:
"We as the children of one great Eternal
Parent, in this big world of ours, are ce-
mented by a bond of common interest, a
tie of universal love, if we cultivate our
affections unselfishly, if we follow the
teachings of our Savior, 'Do unto others
as we wish to be done by'. For as every
star in the firmament tends to light up the
heavens by night, so will each good deed,
noble life, and worthy thought of our
Latter-day Saint women assist in brighten-
ing, bettering and glorifying the name of
our Heavenly Father's people, for such
we profess to be."
Sister Farnsworth did not confine
her activities to her Church, she was
also prominently identified v/ith the
educational and literary development
of Utah. A charter member of the
Daughters of the Revolution she was
also one of the founders of the
Daughters of the Pioneers and of
the Daughters of the Mormon Bat-
talion. Her charm, intelligence, and
love of humanity made her one of
the beloved and valuable women of
the Church and state. We extend
to Sister Lund and to the other
members of her family our gratitude
for the life of their mother and in-
voke the blessings of our Heavenly
Father upon them in their time of
sorrow.
^^r^
'^tpDUCATION is essentially the process of discovering the values of
life. . . . Unless education places the higher and more spiritual values
first, we must expect distorted human characters and social disaster to
result. We cannot sow the wind without reaping the whirlwind."— Charles
A. EUwoody Pioiessoi of Sociology, Duke University.
^jblffUL OF INTEREST
NEW BOOKS
Lrnesthooa Jxna Cy/iurcn Vi/elfare
nPHIS is a new book published by 'The Priesthood should be ac-
the Deseret Book Company. It quainted with the material contained
is a study course for the quorums in this study course. It has perma-
of the Melchizedek Priesthood for nent value, and the volume could
the year 1939, prepared under the profitably be found in every Latter-
direction of the Council of the day Saint library. It is earnestly
Twelve by Dr. George Stewart, Dr. hoped that the labors here presented
Dil worth Walker, and E. Cecil Mc- may be acceptable to the Lord and
Gavin. It has been prefaced by useful to the body of the Priesthood.
Rudger Clawson, President of the ''May the blessings of the Lord
Council of the Twelve, and from rest upon the Priesthood of Latter-
that preface we quote: day Israel."
'The Latter-day Saints' Welfare The Welfare Plan, its organiza-
Plan, divinely inspired, is now under tion and functions, are all voTf clear-
way—in the wards, stakes and mis- ly explained, and it contains lessons
sions of the Church. The rate of on such subjects as: 'The Power Of
its progress will depend to a large Self-Help", "The Strength Of Co-
degree upon the actual support given operation", "Thrift", "The Bondage
it by the Quorums of the Priesthood. Of Debt", "Our Natural Resources,"
It seemed wise, therefore, to devote "Making Old Things New" and
the quorum class periods for one "Temporal Salvation". In addition
year to a consideration of the mean- to the above lessons there are many
ing, problems and opportunities of others of equal interest and import-
the Plan. . . . ance which can help us and our fam-
"The fact that several authors, ilies to establish ourselves as inde-
with different styles of treatment, pendent, self-sustaining, happy
have presented the main phases of members of a cooperative commun-
the subject, should make this study ity made up of our own ward or
course more interesting. branch members.
ofhe JLife \:yf y^osepk (y. Smttn
44 ^HE Life Of Joseph F. Smith", This book is not only a biography
a new book compiled by Jos- of a man gicat from every point of
eph Fielding Smith, and distributed view but covers a period of Church
by the Deseret Book Company, is history when the opinion of the
of interest to Latter-day Saints. world v^s in transition from misun-
116 - FEBRUARY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
derstanding and blind hatred of the safe anchor to his soul through all
Church and its teachings to one of the trials and viscissitudes of his
understanding and admiration. It eventful life. Well could he say:
reveals the place of President Joseph 'Nothing beneath the Celestial
F. Smith in helping to bring about Kingdom can surpass my deathless
this transition through his manifest love for the sweet, noble soul who
greatness and goodness of character gave me birth— my own, own, moth-
and his unusual leadership abilities, er. She was true! She was pure! She
Much light is thrown on Church was indeed a Saint; a royal daughter
doctrine through a recording of of God! To her I owe my very ex-
many of the words of this remark- istence as also my success in life,
ably spiritual man. Of particular coupled with the favor and mercy
value is the official statement, 'The of God.' "
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- .^.j^^ ^^^^^ prepared primarily for
day Saints to the World recorded ^^^ ^^^^g^ ^^ ^^^ descendants of
in the latter part of the book. president Joseph F. Smith, presents
The fore part of the book dea s ^-^ ^^^^ ^. ^3 ^ ^^ ^^^--^^ 1^^ j.
with the ancestry of Joseph F. Smith ^^ ^^^^ ^^ ^ genuinelv good husband
and furnishes an interesting and ^^^ father
comprehensive background for an
understanding of his character. In The careful attention to accuracy
the ''Introduction" the following of detail, characteristic of other
statement is of interest to mothers: writings of the author, also charac-
"The impression made upon his t^rize this new book,
soul through the humble and un- "The Life of Joseph F. Smith" is
wavering fidelity of his mother to the interesting and profitable reading for
cause of truth, became a sure and anv one.
Iliagazine ^JUnve
TN reporting the Eastern States Mission on the Honor Roll, published
in the December issue, the following branches were omitted:
Branch Net Enrollment Subscriptions Per Cent
Binghampton 4 4 100
Fair view 14 14 100
Scran ton 4 4 100
Errors were made in reporting four branches. Correct figures are as
follows:
Branch Net Enrollment Subscriptions Per Cent
Altoona 5 7 H^
Buffalo 6 13 217
Canandaigua 5 7 14^
Pittsburgh 20 23 115
TloJtcA.
FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretary
Cdliioinia. Mission
CC/^NE of the musical features of
the October Conference was
the 200 voices of the Singing Moth-
ers from the CaHfornia Mission. Five
numbers were rendered at the first
aid, the Mission Relief Society Pres-
ident, who traveled through the en-
tire Mission from Southern Arizona
to the northernmost woods of the
Sierras of California. These groups
assembled in one chorus for the first
CALIFORNIA MISSION SINGING MOTHERS
public session, Wednesday after-
noon, October 5th.
''Gathered from all parts of the
Mission, with but two brief rehears-
als, they were quickly welded into
an harmonious chorus by the dy-
namic leadership of Evangeline
Thomas Beesley, with Tabernacle
organist Wade N. Stephens at the
organ.
"These Singing Mothers had
been organized into groups and
trained bv Nelle Lesueur Macdon-
time when they reached Salt Lake,
bringing to Zion the spirit of the
missionfield.
''Throughout the summer, these
groups held dinners and parties to
raise money to meet the expenses of
the trip to Conference. Many stir-
ring stories could be told of their
efforts, sacrifices, and devotion to
their cause, of how families and
homes had to be left, of how hus-
bands and neighbors worked to
make possible the trip for many
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mothers who could not have attend-
ed otherwise.
''Following the session where
these mission singers sang their spir-
itual numbers, a special session in
the Salt Lake Temple was arranged,
with more than 300 Saints from Cal-
ifornia, Arizona, and Nevada par-
ticipating. A stirring testimony
meeting concluded the Temple ses-
sion, and it was a day long to be re-
membered by the California Mis-
sion.
"Continued enthusiasm is being
manifest since their return to their
scattered branches, and the joy,
thrills, and spirit of the General
Conference is being felt throughout
the mission.
"They are to be congratulated up-
on this achievement. They will long
remember and appreciate the oppor-
tunity and privilege of singing in the
great Tabernacle, made possible by
the generous invitation of President
Louise Y. Robison.''
South Sanpete Stake
A VERY encouraging account of
the educational work and the
general program of activities comes
from the South Sanpete Stake. Par-
ticular attention is called to the new
course of study.
Quoting from one of the letters:
"The response from the young
mothers is most gratifying. We feel
confident it will bring new life and
enthusiasm into the stake work. The
sewing center is a new venture of
which we are justly proud. It oper-
ates three days a week. From 8 to
12 women attend each day. Some
of them have never sewed a seam
before and are being taught how to
do it really well. We appreciate
anew the saying of President Rob-
ison, 'We work with women, not
for them'. We are trying to stimu-
late the membership drive in various
ways. Large posters patterned after
the one displayed from the Long
Beach Stake have been made for
each ward, with spaces for each year
until 1942. These posters are placed
in the ward with the thought in
mind that the members who see the
comparative report of each of the
wards will be eager to interest and
enlist others."
Moapa Stake
A N account of the work in Moapa
Stake Relief Society brings to
mind the wide diversity of interests
which our Relief Society program
fosters. While this stake is active in
all branches of the work, the account
of the Logandale Ward Relief So-
ciety program, which was held in
honor of Nevada's admission to the
Union, is most interesting. This
was one of a series given as a part
of the Sesqui-Centennial celebration
of the adoption of the Constitution
of the United States. The first one
of the series was held in 1937. This
dealt with the drafting and signing
of the Constitution in 1787. The
second was given in 1938 and was
devoted mainly to the ratification
of the Constitution. Nevada's early
history and her admission to the
Union formed one part of the pro-
gram, while the other part was de-
voted to national history. One spe-
cial feature was the playing of the
Federal March, originally composed
by Alexander Reinagle in 1788 and
played at the Philadelphia celebra-
tion of the ratification of the Con-
stitution in July, 1788. Altogether
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, FEBRUARY - 119
it was a most inspirational commem-
oration, miiting the young and old
in doing honor to our great Consti-
tution.
Logan Stake
nPHE picture below is that of
President Joseph Quinney of
the Logan Temple congratulating
Sister Maria Kristina Persson in front
which have been hers for nearly 57
years. Iler story is very similar to
the ones which we have considered
in our biographies of outstanding
women, whose lives are eloquent ser-
mons. Born in far-away Sweden she
emigrated to Utah in pioneer days
and has never ceased to carry on her
work as a consistent mother and
Latter-day Saint.
MARIA KRISTINA PERSSON AND PRESIDENT
JOSEPH QUINNEY
of the Logan Temple on her 92nd San Juan Stake
birthday. A MONG the interesting things
Sister Persson is a most interesting which the San Juan Stake has
character and is a living demonstra- succeeded in accomplishing is to
tion of what active, wholesome par- train the members of the Relief So-
ticipation in the Church can do for ciety to memorize well chosen mem-
one. Sister Persson is perhaps the ory gems taken from the teachings
oldest temple officiator in the L. D. of Christ. These gems have included
S. Church. She is still active after something from the Visiting Teach'
44 years of devoted temple service, ers' Messages and have been used
It is quite likely that she is the oldest in the Union meeting and at every
Relief Society visiting teacher, as she Board meeting during the month,
Still performs th^ duties of such^ All Relief Society women were ex*
120 - FEBRUARY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
pected to memorize the gems and though we have not yet reached this
apply them in their Hves. The visit- goal, much interest has been aroused
ing teachers were asked to carry and many families are holding these
them into the homes where they meetings. A feeling of good will and
made their visits and request all love for one another among both the
mothers to have their families learn old and young is the result of this
them as well. It was felt that project."
this would help mothers and fathers
and children to learn the scriptures Woodruff Stake
and come to a better understanding
of their significance. ^OODRUFF STAKE has been
The plan developed whereby the . , ^^^ ^^*^^^ ^" f }^' ^^^^ ^"^-
young mothers might attend Relief ^"^ *^^ P^^* y^^^' ^"^ *^S ^^^^ ^^":
Society is very inspiring. There were ferences were the most successful
many women who really desired to ^^^^ ^^^^' accordmg to the report
come but had no way of leaving their ^^"^ m to the office. There was a
small children. A kindergarten was ''f^""' f^^"^, *^^ f^^^^ ^^^^^ ^* ^^^^
therefore started where capable of the ward conferences,
young girls have been called to at- Each ward presented the pageant
tend the children and teach them. '7t Pays To Be A Member", and
These girls are in turn given instruc- this was productive of a wonderful
tions at the Union meeting by a spirit of enthusisam. Two of the
trained kindergarten teacher. Com- smallest wards in the stake made
fortable rooms have been fitted up most enviable records. It was inter-
as nurseries, and the little folk are esting to note the individual touches
entertained and taught while their which each ward added to the regu-
mothers attend Relief Society meet- lar production. Scenery painted by
ing. one of the sisters was used in a
In line with the program suggested tableau, representing the Literary
by the General Board a class was lessons on the Louis and Clark Ex-
started for young mothers. These pedition. The following picture is of
lessons are on child guidance and the Diamondville Ward whose en-
the training of the young mothers, rollment is 24. Many of the sisters
The young women are beginning to came for miles to attend the prac-
see how valuable this information tices of this pageant, and the re-
is to them in the rearing of their sources of the people, though limit-
children, and it has been the means ed, were generously donated in order
of bringing many new members into that a finished performance might
the Relief Society organization. be given.
The home-meeting project is an- A month before conference a
other activity the Relief Society is Union meeting was held at which
sponsoring. The slogan for the past the stake officers, assisted by local
year has been, ''A weekly meeting members, put over the pageant. At
in every home, with all members of this meeting every ward in the stake
the family taking part." To quote was represented, and the program
from a ktter from the secretary: "AI- was most enthusiastically received.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, FEBRUARY - 121
This was also a fine social occasion.
Refreshments were served by the
Stake Board. These gatherings do
much to keep up the enthusiasm and
feelings of loyalty and unity through-
out the stake.
Twenty- three awards, book mark-
ers of hammered copper with
"Woodruff Stake'* printed on them,
were awarded throughout the stake
to the sisters who had completed
the outside reading course.
DIAMONDVILLE WARD, WOODRUFF STAKE
**\X7'ITH malice toward none; with charity for all."— Abraham Lincolriy
Second Inaugural Address, March 4, 1865.
ft
A SLENDER acquaintance with the world must convince every man
that actions, not words, are the true criteria of the attachment of
friends; and that the most liberal professions of good-will are very far from
being the surest marks of it."— George Washington, First President of the
United States.
it
pEACE and friendship with all mankind; may we be permitted to
pursue it."— Thomas Jefferson, Third President oi the United States.
MUSIC DEPAHTMENT
ulifits for Studying the Lyonference Songs
By Wade N. Stephens
^'SANCTUS/' Gounod
T
ITiis will correct the natural tenden-
cy of untrained singers to flat. These
hard phrases can be learned only by
working on each part alone.
In the last two measures at the
bottom of page eleven, where the
words read ''Glory be to/' please
change them to read ''Glory, Glory
to".
2. "BENEDICTUS/' Gounod
*HE chief difficulty in this song
is to stay in pitch. The worst
place begins at page seven, bottom
line, measure two, and extends to
page ten, top line, measure two, in-
clusive. Since all the rest of the piece
is comparatively easy, it is best to
begin each rehearsal on this piece
with a study of this difficult part. In
each phrase the trouble occurs on ^HIS piece is printed in the same
the word "glory". Each time one leaflet as the "Sanctus". It is
part holds the same note, while the new to many of you. In teaching it,
other two move one half-step. In think of two things, which in ef-
the first occurrence, the alto note feet are really one. First, teach your
holds; in the next two occurrences chorus to sing it in strict time. The
the middle part holds. Teach the beat must be slow but steady, and
singers first to hold these notes un- must continue so through the rests
waveringly. Then proceed to the as well as the notes. Second, try for
parts that move a half-step. When a straight tone, without any vibrato
a part moves up a half-step, teach the or waver, and sing softiy throughout
singers to go a long way. When a except for the last phrase, which
part moves down a half-step, teach must be very loud and jubilant, with
them to move only a short distance, a resonant tone.
tlotes for IlLusic ^jDepartment
/QUESTIONS have been received
at the general office as to the
interpretation of the last lines of the
chorus in our rallying song, "A Hun-
dred Thousand Strong".
The following suggestion may be
helpful :
Beginning with "heart and will to
do," retard slightly to end of "grow,"
then resume tempo on last line.
In the rendition of "The Lord's
Prayer," by Gates, the words "for-
give us our debts" and "as we for-
give our debtors," are preferred over
"our trespasses," etc., and are used
more generally throughout the
Church.
V\/'E would appreciate knowing
soon just how many stakes are
planning to participate with the
Singing Mothers in April Gonfer-
ence. Will you kindly send this
information?
LESSON DEPAHTMENT
cJheologyi ana cJesttmony
Lesson 8
PETER, DISCIPLE and APOSTLE
Helpful References l^e said, '^Behold, the Lamb of God!"
(John 1:36) Then follows the fa-
James E. Talmage, Jesus the mous account of the future apostles'
Chiist, pp. 140, 197-199, 218 f., 314 first visit with the Christ. So im-
f., 360-364, 368, 370-376, 595 f., 599 pressed was Andrew that "He first
f., 610-612, 616, 629-631. findeth his own brother Simon, and
C. R. Brown, These Twehe^ pp. saith unto him. We have found the
3-22. Messias, which is, being interpreted,
A. B. Bruce, The Training of the the Christ." (Verse 41) Andrew
Twelve; consult index under heading brought Peter to Christ who looked
of Peter. at him and said, 'Thou art Simon
C. E. Macartney, ''Of Them He the son of Jona; thou shalt be called
Chose Twelve," pp. 108-121. Cephas, which is by interpretation,
W. M. Mackay, The Men Whom a stone." (Verse 42) From the
Jesus Made, pp. 17-35. story as told by John we cannot
quite escape the belief that Peter
T>ETER is Brought to the Chiist.— was also one of John the Baptist's
The Gospel of John tells us in disciples and was not far away,
very simple language how Peter was Earnest students of the Gospels
brought to our Lord. We are told are thankful for the limited ac-
that one of John the Baptist's disci- counts we have of these first meet-
pies was responsible for making the ings of Peter, Andrew and John with
Man of Rock acquainted with the our Lord, but are hungry for greater
Master. To our surprise it is disclosed details. What were the circum-
that the disciple was Andrew, Peter's stances that caused Peter, Andrew,
own brother. Andrew and John, and John to become disciples of the
brother of James, had left their work Baptist? How long had they been
at the fishing business to visit John with him when they met the Christ?
the Baptist who was preaching and These details and many others we
baptizing at Bethabara beyond the should like to know because of our
Jordan. They had probably made supreme interest in the characters
many similar visits before and had involved. It seems remarkable that
been won over to John's preaching, several of Christ's future apostles
On this particular occasion the Bap- should have come to him through
tist was standing with Andrew and the good offices of the Baptist, the
John and saw the Savior approach- last man holding the keys of the
jng. Turning to his two disciples Mosaic dispensation,
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CJMON PETER Goes Back to
Work.— The Gospel of John
(2:2) employs the word ''disciples"
or 'learners" of Peter and his five
companions who joined the Savior
at Bethabara beyond Jordan. At the
marriage feast in Cana the Master
turned water into wine. The mar-
velous power of the Messiah over
the elements must have deeply im-
pressed Peter and the other disciples
for the record says, "This beginning
of miracles did Jesus in Cana of Gali-
lee, and manifested forth his glory;
and his disciples believed on him."
(John 2:11) We do not know how
much time Peter and his colleagues
were spending in the company of
the Christ, but they did not give up
their vocations at that time. During
their absence it is probable that
"hired servants" (Mark 1:20) car-
ried on the fishing business. In the
next picture we find that Peter and
the others of the fishing firm had
gone back to their regular work.
UJ WILL Make You Fishers of
Men."— Our Lord is pictured by
Matthew walking by the Sea of Gali-
lee when he sees Peter and Andrew
casting their nets into the water. The
Savior says to them, "Follow me,
and I will make you fishers of men."
(Matt. 4:19) The Master is quick
to convert the word "fishers" to spir-
itual purposes. The fishermen were
from now on to fish for the souls of
men. We may perhaps regard the
Christ's words to them as a formal
call for training in his service. Far-
ther down the shore James and
John are found and receive the same
call as Peter and Andrew. (Matt.
4:21, 22) These disciples now burn
all their bridges behind them. "And
they immediately left the ship and
their father, and followed him." On-
ly strong convictions and high moral
courage could cause them to leave
their families and their business and
follow after a man who had been,
and would yet be, extremely unpopu-
lar in high circles. It is probable
that Peter, as the leader of the group,
had given some careful thought be-
fore this time to the nature of the
Messiah's teachings and to his super-
natural powers. Men do not usually
leave their homes and business at
a word without counting the cost.
JDETER is Chosen to he an Apos-
tle.—It is impossible for us to
deal with all of the events that con-
cerned Peter before the Savior called
the Twelve. The latter seem to have
been called when the organized op-
position of the Pharisees from Jeru-
salem brought about a crisis. Then,
too, the common people were so in-
terested in the Christ that they fol-
lowed him in great crowds. Probably
our Lord felt that the definite or-
ganization of the Church would pro-
vide him with some badly needed
assistance. We do not know how
long Peter and his companions fol-
lowed the Master before being made
apostles, but probably long enough
for the Lord to make amply sure
that his choice of men was justified.
Luke gives the following account of
the circumstances under which the
apostles were chosen: "And it came
to pass in those days, that he went
out into a mountain to pray, and
continued all night in prayer to God.
And when it was day, he called unto
him his disciples; and of them he
chose twelve, whom also he named
apostles." (Luke 6:12, 13) The
solemnity of the appointments is
shown by the fact that the Christ
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spent a whole night in prayer before apostles' hearts. Would they fail
he formally set the Twelve apart, him after long months of teaching
All the lists of the Twelve have Peter by precept and example? It would
named first. There can be little probably be impossible for ordinar)^
doubt that he was ordained before men to conceive the joy that filled
the others, and was intended by our our Lord when Peter impulsively,
Lord to head the Quorum, despite but with a full heart, answered,
all that has been written to the con- 'Thou art the Christ, the Son of
trary. the living God." This was a great
confession, and we can expect a
'T'HE Great Confession.— Prob- great rejoinder. It came. "Blessed
ably many months after the ap- art thou, Simon Bar-jona; for flesh
pointment of the apostles our Lord a"^ ^lood hath not revealed it unto
came into the region of Caesarea t^^e, but my Father which is in
Philippi. He had spent much time heaven. And I also say unto thee,
in teaching them of the true nature That thou art Peter, and upon this
of his work and mission. The Mas- rock I will build my church; and
ter, great teacher that he was, deter- the gates of hell shall not prevail
mined to test his apostles in relation against it. And I will give unto thee
to their understanding of him as ^^e keys of the kingdom of heaven;
compared with other people. The and whatsoever thou shalt bind on
Christ did not doubt the lovalty of earth will be bound in heaven;
the Twelve to him. That had been and whatsoever thou shalt loose on
sufficiently demonstrated at various earth will be loosed in heaven."
times. But the shadow of the Cross (Matthew 16:17-18.) Tliese verses
was near at hand and it was neces- ^^ave aroused supreme interest
sary for him to know their spiritual among Christian peoples and have
growth and insight. The Savior been variously interpreted. With due
therefore raised a preliminary ques- respect to the opinions of others,
tion in order to bring clearly the Latter-day Saints interpret the state-
issue before the apostles. "Wliom do ments of the Master as follows: By
men say that I the Son of man am?" the principle of revelation, Peter had
(Matt. 16:13) The apostles respond- received knowledge that Jesus was
ed immediately with the answer that the Christ. On this enduring prin-
the opinions of men differed. "Some ciple or rock the Christ meant to
say that thou art John the Baptist; build his Church. Peter was to be
some, Elias; and others, Jeremiah, or given the keys of the kingdom of
one of the prophets." (Matt. 16:14) heaven which means that he was to
This was common talk and not un- hold all of the powers necessary to
known to the Christ, but it paved carry on God's work in the earth. So
the way for his vital question : "But powerful were these keys that they
whom say ye that I am?" (See held the powers of binding and
Mark 8:29; Matt. 16:15; Luke loosing in heaven. Only the true
9:20) Tliis was the matter that Church of Christ on earth today
the Master was intensely interested recognizes and understands fully the
in. It was a searching of the nature of these keys.
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JpETER Receives the Keys of the glorious circumstances. Now we
Kingdom Upon the Mount of shall see him as a weak, feeble, mor-
Traiisiiguration.— The Christ fulfill- tal whose infirmities are laid bare
ed his promise to Peter by conferring during the trial of his great Master,
the keys upon him very shortly after After the Last Supper, Peter had
the above incident. He took Peter, protested to our Lord as follows:
James, and John upon a high moun- 'Though all men shall be offended
tain where ''he was transfigured be- because of thee, yet will I never be
fore them; and his face did shine as offended." (Matthew 26:33.) But
the sun, and his raiment was white Christ answered, "Verily I say unto
as the light. And, behold, there ap- thee. That this night before the cock
peared unto them Moses and Elias crow, thou shalt deny me thrice."
talking with him." (Matthew 17:2, The Gospel further records: "Peter
3.) The apostles were shown many says to him. Though I should die
marvelous things upon the mount with thee, yet will I not deny thee,
including the pattern according to Likewise also said all the disciples."
which the earth shall be transfigured See Matthew 26:34, 35.) Peter was
in due time. (Doctrine and Cove- with the Christ during his agony in
nants 63:21.) The Prophet Joseph Gethsemane and his subsequent be-
Smith points out that the keys of trayal. The Man of Rock attempted
the Priesthood were conferred upon to save his Master and in doing so
these apostles while on the mount, cut off the ear of Malchus which
He says, "The Priesthood is everlast- Jesus restored. Finally the mob pre-
ing. The Savior, Moses, and Elias, vailed, and the apostles all fled. Peter
gave the keys to Peter, James and at last decided to follow the Master
John, on the mount, when they were "afar off" to court for trial. We all
transfigured before him." {History know the familiar story of how he
oi the Churchy Vol. Ill, page 387.) drew near to where the trial was go-
This statement of the Prophet is a ing on and was accused by two maids
real contribution to knowledge. It of having associated with "Jesus the
seems so reasonable, too, when we Galilean". He denied the charge to
consider the fact that Matthew has each, and the third time when con-
the transfiguration story immediately fronted by others he "began to curse
following the Savior's promise of giv- and to swear, saying, I know not
ing keys to Peter. Note, also, the the man." (Matthew 26:74.) The
fact that the three men afterward to Gospel goes on to say, "And im-
function as the Presidency of the mediately the cock crew. And Peter
Church were the ones chosen to go remembered the words of Jesus, Be-
with the Christ. fore the cock crow, thou shalt deny
pETER Thrice Denies His Mas- ™^« ^^i^^^^^j ^J"^ '^^ ^^"* ""*' ^"^
ter.— We have seen Peter as fish- " ^'
erman, disciple of John the Baptist How are the mighty fallen! The
and the Christ, and as an apostle story of Peter's fall is told with sim-
who has had a revelation that Jesus plicity and great power in the Gos-
is the Christ, and who has received pels. There is no attempt to cover
the "keys of the kingdom" under up his mistakes or to justify thern,
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But Peter's greatness is revealed by
the fact that he is the one probably
responsible for our having any know-
ledge of his sin at all. Who could
have told the story of his thrice de-
nial of the Master? Aside from the
latter Peter is the only one who
knew the facts. Tlie Man of Rock
probably told and retold many times
over the story of his great mistake to
the ancient Church. His mental and
spiritual agony because of his sin can
only be imagined. We love this im-
pulsive character even in his weak-
ness.
Questions and Pioblems
(Deal Only With As Many
As Time Permits)
1 . It appears that Peter and some
of his immediate colleagues were dis-
ciples of John the Baptist. Do you
think they were disturbed over re-
ligion in the same sense Joseph
Smith was when he sought God in
prayer? Discuss.
2. Why do you suppose the Sa-
vior performed so many miracles in
the presence of Peter and the other
apostles?
3. List some of Peter's strong
points and weaknesses. Analyze the
character of the man.
4. The Savior seemed to love
John even more than Peter. Wliy do
you suppose he chose the latter to
be the chief apostle?
5. Why was it necessary for Mo-
ses and Elijah to be present on the
mount of Transfiguration when Pe-
ter, James, and John received the
keys of the Priesthood?
6. Discuss the serious nature of
Peter's thrice denial of the Christ.
7. In the light of Peter's life dis-
cuss the following proposition:
Christ loves men not necessarily for
what they are but for what they may
become.
8. The teacher is advised to read
Mrs. Browning's sonnet, 'The
Meaning of the Look," to the class.
(Luke 22:61.)
Visiting cJeacher ^Jjepai^tfuent
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 8
Obedi
JESUS said, "My meat is to do
the will of him that sent me, and
to finish his work." (John 4:34.)
Obedience is a most outstanding
trait in the perfect personality— our
Savior; indeed we may say He is obe-
dience personified. "Though he
were a Son, yet learned he obedience
by the things which he suffered; and
lence
being made perfect, he became the
author of eternal salvation unto all
them that obey him." (Heb. 5:8.)
Jesus contended that there was
only one way in which to build per-
sonalities sufficiently strong to with-
stand trials, and that was through
obedience to His teachings. The
progress made thus far by psycholo-
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gists can find no flaw in this conten-
tion, says Dr. Ligon, psychologist of
Union College.
It is impossible to build strong
structures upon weak foundations,
but it is possible to build strong
foundations. Obedience as taught
by Jesus forms a strong foundation
for desirable personality. Jesus, ex-
plains this matter in the Sermon on
the Mount, 'Therefore whosoever
heareth these sayings of mine, and
doeth them, I will liken him unto a
wise man, which built his house up-
on a rock: and the rain descended,
and the floods came, and the winds
blew, and beat upon that house; and
it fell not: for it was founded upon
a rock." (Matthew 7:24-5.)
By modern revelation Latter-day
Saints are commanded to study the
Gospel and teach it to their children :
(Doctrine and Covenants, Section
68:25-28.) In obeying this command-
ment of the Master they will develop
personalities v>^hich will meet life
understandingly.
Love must be the keynote in all
our teachings of obedience. If a
chfld is taught really to love God he
will give the type of obedience to
God's commandments which devel-
ops strong personality. Children are
naturally happy in obeying those
they love.
If parents are consistently obedi-
ent to these commandments their
teachings will be effective. ''By
strict obedience Jesus won the prize
with glory rife. Thy will, O Lord, not
mine be done adorned His mortal
life."
Discussion
1. Cite a commandment of the
Master and show how obedience to
it affects personality desirably.
2. What type of obedience should
be required in the home in order to
secure the best personality develop-
ment of family members?
Visiting Teachers are to call attention
to Theology, Literary and Social Service
lessons, also Work and Business programs
planned by the Ward.
JLiterature
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 8
A City of Bells
VX/'HEN men as great as Dickens
and Thackeray die, the world
gasps and people wonder if their
like will ever be seen again. How-
ever, the novel had come to stay,
and, therefore, it was natural that
men and women would be found to
carry on where those two giants, and
George Eliot, Richard Blackmore,
and a score of others had left off.
Today novels roll from the print-
ing presses in England and this
country by the thousands. Many
have marks of greatness on them;
others clearly are written only to be
read and tossed aside. In this coun-
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try such books as Anthony Adverse
and Gone With the Wind have sur-
prised the critics with their popular-
itv despite their length in an era
that "hasn't time".
Over in England a number of
women besides those mentioned by
Professor Phelps are writing their
stories and sending them out like
ships to sea. Among these there may
be women of significance.
As our last novel in this year's
course, we have selected A City oi
Bells y by Elizabeth Goudge.
This novel is very recent, having
been published first in 1936. The
author is still a comparatively young
woman, approximately thirty-eight
years of age, and is still writing.
In a biographical sketch furnished
by her American publishers she says:
"I was born in 1900 at Wells, Somer-
setshire, the cathedral town I have
described as Torminster' in mv
novel, A City oi Bells. When I was
born my father was Vice-Principal of
the Theological College, and we
lived in the house with the tower
in which Grandfather and Grand-
mother Fordyce live in the book.
When I was three years old, and my
father became the Principal of the
College, we moved across the road to
another old house, with carved an-
gels in the corners of the rooms and
dark passages that were wonderful
for hide-and-seek.
"Though I was only a child I was
never lonely in those early days. I
had perfect parents and a perfect
Nannie, and my invalid mother was,
and is, the most wonderful stor\'-
teller in the world. . . .
"My chief playmates in those days
were a family of boys who lived
across the road in the house with the
tower. . . .
"One of those litde boys and I did
lessons together with a. governess,
Miss Lavington. To look at she was
like the Miss Lavender of A City of
Bells, but she was not like her in
her methods of teaching. She was
a magnificent, if stern, teacher. I
have never had any memory nor any
brains, but what little I do know
was pounded into my unwilling
mind by Miss Lavington."
Being the daughter of a school
man. Miss Goudge moved with her
family from one school town to an-
other until her father finally became
connected with Oxford. She con-
cludes her sketch by saying: "Now
I am writing about my present home,
Oxford, which I love now as much as
the quiet little towns of Wells and
Ely. . . . But plays, just because they
are so difficult and I never have any
success with them, are still my first
love."
Miss Goudge's great desire was to
be a playwright. She says: "I was
thirty-two before any success came
my way: a Sunday night performance
in London of a play about the
Brontes. It was a small success, but
no bigger one could bring me half
so much joy again. I saw my play
beautifully acted by real live actors
and actresses, and I had some good
notices in the papers. I was in heav-
en."
She remained in "heaven," how-
ever, only a short time. "I returned
home so encouraged that I gathered
my plays together into a book and
sent it the round of several pub-
lishers, with the humble suggestion
that it would be nice if it could be
published. The publishers, however.
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did not think so; there was no mar-
ket for unknown plays. 'But/ said
one kind pubHsher, your work shows
promise. Why not try to write a
novel?' "
Miss Goudge took the suggestion
and has had the pleasure of having
three novels published, Island
Magic, The Middle Window and A
City oi Bells, each one a rather pleas-
ing success. Her first novel, how-
ever, was rejected once or twice by
publishers who were afraid to take
a chance with it.
A City oi Bells is having a de-
served sale in this country as well
as in England where it was first pub-
lished. It is a delightful story of
modern English life in which the
quaint charm of an English village
is to be felt and enjoyed.
It is a relief to many people to turn
to a story like A City oi Bells. In it
is to be found sunshine and laughter
as well as a sane, ordered existence
such as most people, after all, enjoy.
It is clean and wholesome, but be-
cause it deals only with the brighter
side of life, it may lack in depth and
significance.
It was well received by the book
reviewers as is indicated by the fol-
lowing excerpts from reviews. We
quote them because they may not be
obtainable by the literary teacher,
and because, in most cases, they pre-
sent so beautifully the tone of this
charming novel :
''It is good to have on hand a few
novels not only fundamentally hap-
py, but well and truly written. This
one is both; it should be marked
down for those reading for peace and
delight."— Booklist, M. L. Becker.
"A City oi Bells is a joyous tale,
whose rippling, magical prose is that
of the born story-teller/ —M. W. S.
in Books.
Jane Spence Southron, in the New
York Times, has caught the pleasing
spirit of this tale. Says she: "It is a
book of spring. A young book,
brimful of the spirit that animates
the beginnings of life; the same spir-
it that breathes in the joyfulest of
Shakespeare's lyrics, in so many of
the medieval chansons to Mary and
the Babe, in much of Shelley, and
in the works of those writers who
never wholely lose their sense of
wonder at the beauty of creation. . . .
It is a book that weaves for grown-
ups the same sort of magic as was
Hans Anderson's gift to nineteenth-
century children; or as was that of
Lohengrin seen when you were nine.
The philosophy of life explicit in the
sayings and doings of many of its
characters is as natural to it as per-
fume to a riower, and as acceptable."
One more review catches the
mood of this book: "Nothing is
harder to find, and nothing is better
in its way when you have found it,
than a pleasant book about nice peo-
ple; and if, in addition to being
amusing, it offers more plot than the
usual light novel, and yet has always
the comfortable assurance that ev-
erything will come right in the end,
then it is a find indeed— like A City
oi Bells. . . . This is something more
than a pleasant novel, for it has the
romantic fault of improbability; it
has in many passages great romantic
beauty."— Basil Davenport in the
BoohOi-The-Month Club News.
A City oi Bells is what these critics
have said of it— a delightful story,
pleasant, sunny, joyous, clean. Not
deep and heavy, not tragic and som-
ber, not disgusting and sordid. In
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it are to be found clean people and Miss Goudge, some lineaments of
a clean outlook on life that is whole- the author.
some and bright. Passages such as these are fresh
Miss Goudge has a delightful and pleasant: "For in ev^ry dream
imagination and a touch that is as Henrietta dreamed music had its
light as a zephyr playing upon the place. She even thought that col-
cheek in June. Speaking of wind, ors and scents had their sounds. Red
note this pleasing passage—" 'Our was a trumpet blast, and green was
destiny is like a wind blowing/ said the sound of fairy flutes, and the
Grandfather (speaking to Jocelyn). scent of the wisteria was a tune
'It carries us along. But now and played by the violins that made one
again the wind seems to drop. We want to sit down on a cushion and
don't know what to do next. Then never do any work any more."
it may be that a blade of grass grow- A description of Felicity: "Joce-
ing in the road beside us bends lyn did not hear him, he was too
slightly. It is a tiny movement, much occupied in gazing at the
slight as a whim, but enough to most enchanting back view he had
show us which way to take.' " ever seen. It was that of a slim girl
'In this story Jocelyn Irvin, dis- with an aureole of short, curly gold-
pirited because of a wound received en hair that stuck out all around
in the Boer war, traveled down to like the petals of a sunflower. She
the peaceful little English cathedral wore a childish cotton frock of del-
city of Torminster, there to visit his phinium blue, with short sleeves and
saintly (yet very human) old grand- no collar, that showed the warm,
father, Canon Fordyce. Practically creamy colour of her skin and the
forced to open a bookshop in a tiny lovely moulding of her arms and
house in the city (by the gossip of slender neck. . . .
the town delightfully revealed by "The girl swung round and Joce-
Miss Goudge) Jocelyn became in- lyn, entirely forgetting his usually
terested in the writings of a former excellent manners, rubbed almost
occupant, Ferranti, who had disap- feverishly at the window with his
peared. In the finishing and pro- handkerchief, so as to see her face
ducing of a play of Ferranti's, Joce- perfectly. It was the most alive face
lyn helped himself and others, espe- he had ever seen. Her eyes were
cially the charming child, Henrietta, tawny and full of light and her heart-
Canon Fordyce's adopted grand- shaped face, with its delicate yet de-
^""^- termined features, had a transparen-
The delicate pictures painted of cy that made it seem like a vdndow
Canon Fordyce and his beloved old through which she herself could be
wife and of the two adopted grand- seen with a delicious clearness. Joce-
children, Hugh Anthony and Henri- lyn felt that he was looking through
etta, are as pleasant and as quaint two windows at the most courageous,
as those sometimes found on old generous person he had ever encoun-
china. The portrait of Felicity, also, tered. She was pale, but not with
is well done. In her one can see, the moonlight paleness that was
after reading the autobiography of Henrietta's, for she looked sun-kissed
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and warmly loving, and somehow she
was familiar. Somewhere else, Joce-
Ivn felt, he had encountered that
vivid personality."
A person who can write descrip-
tion like that and make one feel that
it is true and genuine, is worth read-
ing. As Miss Southron said in one
of her reviews: ''Let it not be
thought, however, that Miss
Goudge's prose is either dithrambic
or what is usually designated as
poetic. It is distinctly prose; plain
and simple as primroses. Her dis-
tinction in style derives from fresh-
ness of outlook." That is very true,
indeed— freshness of outlook de-
scribes her style.
The book is so crammed with
quotable passages that perhaps it is
unnecessary to give any others, but
the writer cannot resist this one, it
is so rich, so vibrant, so fresh: "It
was this last today. The bare
branches of the elm-trees were
strokes of paint laid on sharply
against the primrose wash of the
sky. The Cathedral towers stood
out hard and black against the sheet-
ed gold of the west, and snow-cov-
ered grass stretched smooth and
pure. Here and there a sudden speck
of color burned as the painter's brush
touched the flat surfaces; an orange
square of lamplight leaping out in
a dark house, a flash of colour on the
snow as a robin hopped across it, a
gleam of blue and green as a child
in a gay muffler ran home from
school. As always on these days
when the earth is a painted picture
it was very still; the cawing of a
rook and the chime of a bell fell
sharply as pebbles dropped in a deep
well."
As a writer in the London Times
said of her: "She is happiest with
one foot at least off the earth. Her
sentiment is never forced or insipid;
her spiritual flights, not high, are
never pretentious, and she takes off
and alights neatly."
Miss Goudge's charm lies in the
fact that she can write beautifully
and at the same time convincingly
—a splendid achievement for any
author.
The book in its earlier chapters
is, to say the least, delightful. It
does not have the power to hold up
to its initial high standard to the
end. After the planning of the pro-
duction of the play begins, the au-
thor has to see that the thing is prop-
erly staged and produced. In so do-
ing she has to leave too much her de-
lightful persons— the Fordyces, the
incomparables, Hugh Anthony and
Henrietta, and the quaint loveliness
of Torminster. That is unfortunate,
for in them lies the charm of the
book. However, after the last page
has been read, one turns away from
it feeling that he has had a glowing
spiritual experience with people who
are the salt of the earth.
Suggestions
1. Read, if it is available, Island
Magic.
2. Elizabeth Goudge is writing for
several American magazines Her
stories may be had in libraries which
preserve such magazines as Good
Housekeeping and Woman's Home
Companion.
3. Read copiously from the book,
for in the language, rather than in
the story, is to be found the charm
of this book.
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4. It should be interesting to have 5. Grandfather and Grandmother
some visitor to a Cathedral Town, if Fordyce could well be discussed,
there be one in the community, de- especially their outlook upon labor
scribe such an English town. and their attitude toward the poor.
Social Si
ervice
Lesson 8
On Being A Good Mother-in-law
/^ENTRAL Thoughts oi the Les- conspicuous place in the home life
son. After a mother has nurtured of the children, and by taking par-
her child throughout the growth pe- ticular pains not to interfere with
riod, it is naturally very difficult for the disciplining of the grandchildren.
her to see the child grow up and n yrAnnrAr^r^ n r>j- 1
. 1 . i. • -ru- ]\/fARRIAGE Requires Radical
leave home to enter marriage. Ihis IVl ttt. ^ •• /t^ 1 ^^ .
change calls for radical revision of ^^^'^ ^e^'^°" "^ Both Moth-
habits on the part of both the moth- ^' f "'^ S°" °^ Daughter. After a
er and the child. Preparation for 1"°*^ ^^' ^P^"* . approximately
being a good mother-in-law begins *^f ^^ y^f " ministering to the phys-
during the child guidance period and 1^^'' "P^.f^^' ^"'^ «P'"'"^1 "^^^is °^
is continued throughout adoles- her child, it is to be expected that
cence. The transition to adolescence ''^« experiences great difficulty relin-
and later into marriage should not ?"'*"'§ ''«' ^"f^ ^' ™o*"- ^hen
constitute a crisis for either the par- ''".^°" °' ^^"f'^'^I "?^"'e^' ^^e ex-
ent or the child if proper training Pfnences much of the same pam
in independence and self-reliance ^^^^ 'l ?° ''f "^, ^'^e" ^^^^h calls
has been carried out during child- °"« f Y' 'f «^ °"^,^ ^^^^^ P^''
hood. Preparation for the role of haps for twenty years the mother has
mother-in-law should include a cul- ^'l^ "/'i'u'^', /^ duty which has
tivation of unfolding and creative f"'"'^^ ''^'J'^f^'° "?"^'' ^' '""^o?^
interests which in a measure substi- ° ^^^"7 "f ^ of her daughter. She
tute for the emotional outlet she '^? ""'^.f,^ '^" whenever she has
loses when her children marry. An- ^f^^^J^' *«,. '^^^ strugg ed
.1 f 1 . ^ r through every stirrmg romance her
other useful preparatory measure tor -, if. i i j j i i i
, ^T_ M 1 1 1 J • , 1 , daughter has had; and has been al-
both mother and child is to complete ^^^^^\ ^^ ^^^-^^^ ^^^^^ ^j^^ ^^^^^^^^^
the educational preparation of the ^f ^he daughter's school work or her
child by sending him or her away on p^.^ ^^ extra-curricular activities as
a mission or to school for a period the daughter has herself. Then one
long enough to wean both mother day she must suddenly step aside
and child to a certain extent. After and see her go into the arms of an-
the marriage, the mother-in-law can other to begin the great task of build-
promote harmony by not taking a ing a "kingdom" of her own.
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The marriage of a son or daughter A young man's mother has special
often means to the parents the as- problems of an emotional nature
suming of more burdens themselves, when he marries. Often she feels
if the childhood training has been the keenest competition with her
proper and the children have been daughter-in-law for the affection of
taught to take much responsibility her son. It isn't always a clearly
themselves. It sometimes means understood kind of behavior on the
leaving the parents all alone with an mother's part, because so often she
extremely unpleasant hole in their has developed a subconscious emo-
lives. tional attachment to her son which
Perhaps the most difficult test is a substitute for lack of affection
comes when the mother is required between herself and her husband.
to relinquish her position as sole This attachment may be the primary
advisor and disciplinarian. Her ad- source of emotional satisfaction in
vice and control, which was formerly her life. This is, of course, an un-
taken for granted, is now resented fortunate condition, but it is quite
more and more as the newly married common and explains many of our
one grows into the full measure of most difficult problems of inter-fam-
her adult status. ity relationships. A mother with a
T^ i-rr. 1.- 1 T tendency to be too much absorbed
These difficulties may be compli- .^ ^^^ ^^^ -^ jj^^j ^^ ^ ^ ^^^^^^^^^
cated for the mother by her feeling ^.^ j^^^ j^^^ daughter-in law neglect
that her son or daughter made a bad -^^^^^^ her responsibilities to-
bargain m the marriage, i. e. the one ^^^^ j^^^ husband. This sometimes
marned was not quite good enough, j^^^^ ^^ unsolicited suggestions on
In this case, the parent may remain ^^^ ^^ ^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^^ ^^^
over-sohcitous concerning the wel- ^^ ^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^ Obviously an-
fare of her son or daughter and may ^ ^.^ jj ij^ely to result,
contmue to provide m every way she
can to make up the deficiency. If pREPARATION for Being a
it is true that proper provision is not Good Mother-in-Law Begins
being made, (whether it pertains to During the Child Guidance Peiiod
financial, emotional, or social advan- and Should he Completed During
tages) the favors may be gladly re- the Adolescence oi the Child. In
ceived from the parents and their the lesson on marital adjustments,
continuance encouraged. This of we learned that preparation for mar-
course undermines the self-respect of riage begins in the cradle. We might
the other party in many cases and is say, as well, that she who would be
the starting point for a long and a good mother-in-law should begin
painful "in-law" antagonism. It also training herself and her child along
prolongs childhood dependence and certain lines in early childhood. The
postpones psychological weaning, mother who has achieved the funda-
We do not advocate here that aid mental attitudes necessary for proper
should not be given in some cases, ' child guidance should have a mini-
but we are simply pointing out a mum of difficulty in making the ad-
common circumstance which viti- justments after the child has ma-
ates family relationships. tured and married. Of these atti-
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tudes, perhaps none is more im-
portant than that of understanding
the needs of the child and the abiHty
to be heroic enough to let the wel-
fare of the child take precedence
over the emotional needs of the
mother.
Proper child guidance is based on
the aim of making the child as nearly
a self-sustaining and happy person as
possible. This means training the
child to take the consequences of his
own acts as far as is reasonable; it
means training the child in assum-
ing the responsibility for his share
of the tasks about the home, such
as regular attendance to washing be-
fore meals, putting away his articles,
taking care of his clothes, and clean-
ing up his own musses around the
home. As maturity approaches, it
means training in the care of money,
working for at least part of his sup-
port, and training in self-sufficiency
in pursuing his educational program.
For girls, it means training in house-
hold arts, responsibility with other
children, providing for their own
needs to some extent as regards
clothing, and cultivating whatever
artistic or other talents they may
possess.
Space will not permit detailed
consideration of the technique of de-
veloping responsibility in children.
We shall add here only the sugges-
tion that proper child guidance is
based on striking a happy medium
between expecting too much and
expecting too little in the way of re-
sponsibilities. Happy childhood is
based on a suitable balance between
freedom and play on the one hand,
and responsibilities and adherence
to routine on the other.
Over-solicitous mothers often be-
come difficult mothers-in-law. This
is true because over-solicitousness
breeds dependence in the child and
too much of a sense of responsibility
in the mother for the acts of the
child. These personal relations be-
tween mother and child are likely
to carry over into the marital period
and make a pleasant transition for
both almost impossible. In many
cases, an open breach is likely to
occur between the parent and child
during the stormy adolescent period
which precedes marriage. Most chil-
dren as they become mature phys-
ically and mentally have a strong de-
sire to feel grown up, to use their
own judgment, to find their own
companions without parental dicta-
tion, to explore a larger world than
is circumscribed by the family cir-
cle. The first signs of this inde-
pendence are forcefully resisted by
the over-solicitous parent, who can-
not bear to see the child grow up
and away from her.
Fortunately the struggle for inde-
pendence during adolescence pre-
pares for the still more vital step
toward independence which comes
with marriage. In fact, many a pre-
mature marriage is simply an escape
from an overdominating home influ-
ence. In less violent cases, adoles-
cence is simply a period during
which the parent and child must
intelligently begin to wean them-
selves apart. It need not be with
bitterness, but it must be done if
the marriage crisis is not to be a
painful one. With the proper edu-
cational program in the home, the
crisis of adolescence need not be
severe eitlier. Training for independ-
ence begins in early childhood; and
if intelligentiy carried through the
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whole period of childhood to ado-
lescence, there is little need for ado-
lescence to be the trying period for
parent and child it is usually con-
sidered. Likewise, if the weaning
process of adolescence is properly
managed by an intelligent and stable
parent, the marriage of her children
is not the trial to her it is usually
imagined.
This theme does not imply that
parents should simply leave their
children alone and let them find
their own way in life. The most
devoted parents are those who can
be ever conscious of what their chil-
dren are experiencing and who have
maintained such good relationships
with them that they are always in
the confidence of their children. The
parent who is more concerned with
nursing her own emotions rather
than considering the welfare of the
child is likely to "lose" her child
when the transition into adulthood
is made, for the simple reason that
she is not likely to want the child
to grow up and is likely to exercise
so much dominion that the child
finally has to rebel.
The mothers who are most prom-
ising as mothers-in-law are those who
find their greatest joy in seeing their
children develop strong characters
able to live happily largely on their
own strength, and ever loving and
grateful to their mothers because
they didn't help too much, and be-
cause they never made it necessary
to rebel in order to grow up.
/JONDITIONS Preceding Marri-
age Which May Foster Good
Relations in Marriage. Mothers
should begin long before the chil-
dren are grown up to cultivate emo-
tional substitutes to brighten their
lives after the children have mar-
ried and left home. They may cul-
tivate a taste for art or music. Per-
haps they can learn to play the piano,
to make some artistic kind of hand
work, to help their husbands in busi-
ness, or they may take up some
courses in school which they have
longed to take but for want of time
have never been able to. Relief So-
ciety activities permit the releasing
of reserve energy and are an excellent
source of aims that may make life
infinitely richer and more interest-
ing. Busy and intelligent women
find so many important activities to
fill up their lives that they have no
time to meddle in the affairs of their
children after they have married. ■
Sometimes, to send a young man
or a young woman away on a mission
or to school before marriage culti-
vates independence and tends to
lighten the shock for both mother
and children when marriage comes.
Homesickness is likely to make the
early months of marriage difficult
for everyone if the young man or
young woman has never been away
from home for any period before
marriage. An essential aspect of
growing up psychologically is to ac-
quire the ability to 'go alone", or
to find one's way about in strange
places if necessary. A story is told of
a man in his thirties, caught in the
military draft during the World
War, who was so upset at having
to leave home that he became men-
tally unfit for service. His mother
interceded at military headquarters
to have her ''baby" released because
he had never slept away from home
in his life.
With these two conditions satis-
fied, if the mother can learn during
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adolescence how much advice she
can give without offense and how
to give it, she should be faidy well
equipped to become a good mother-
in-law. She should have also made
up her mind to share the love her
child has for the future companion
in marriage, and if possible she
should have made her own enviable
character one of the reasons her child
is chosen in marriage. Someone
said that we don't marry a person
but a family.
TJ/HAT Can a Mother-in-Law Do
After the Marriage oi Her
Child to Promote Hainiony? First,
she should assign herself the fre-
quently unpleasant duty of not mak-
ing herself a prominent part of the
new household. If it is possible, the
newly married couple should be
made to find their own home inde-
pendent of the parents of either
party. She should take care not in
any way to complicate their lives;
she should not stay with them nor
interfere with any degree of inde-
pendence they care to exercise in
building their family life.
This means that the mother must
throw off the ''mother attitude" and
substitute the attitude of considering
her child as an adult equal, with
complete independence of judgment
and action. It does not mean that
the mother should lose all of her
influence for good in the life of the
son or daughter, but it means that
the influence must not come as
motherly dictation. She now influ-
ences through her wisdom and in-
sight, and not through parental au-
thority.
A common mistake mothers make
is in taking up the quarrels of their
son or daughter with their "in-laws".
In these matters she may act as
friendly advisor, but to enter into
the conflicts in an active and emo-
tional way rarely accomplishes any
good.
Then when grandchildren come,
there appears the problem of satis-
fying the grandparent's emotional
needs through the grandchildren.
Grandparents must continue to
practice what was good philosophy
in bringing up their own children:
caution against doing so much for
the child that he fails to develop
normal independence of action and
personal responsibility. Then, thev
must think too of the serious family
and discipline problems created by
interfering with the guidance meth-
ods used by the parents. Even poor
discipline methods are perhaps to be
preferred to conflicting methods by
different members of the family. Let
the child's parents draw on your wis-
dom as they need it, but avoid, so
far as possible, taking an active part
in the disciplining of the children.
Finally, a good mother-in-law
must not take offense at what seems
to be too much forgetful ness on the
part of her married children. She
must realize that the young have
their new emotional attachments
and their new home responsibilities
and life ambitions. The success of
the mother-in-law depends upon her
ability to make corresponding sub-
stitutes in her own life.
Class Exercise
Discuss the following list of mis-
cellaneous suggestions on the moth-
er-in-law problem and have the
members of the class add to it others
which they think are important:
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1. Avoid being a matchmaker; What preparation for her son or
don't make the child feel that she daughter would you recommend?
will be an old maid. 2. What is the effect of prolonged
2. Refrain from being too critical "infancy" of a child on the inter-
of the company your son or daugh- family relationships after marriage?
ter keeps during the courtship pe- 3. Why is it inadvisable for newly
riod. Suspend judgment until you married couples to live with the
know the person. Have a friendly, parents of either party? for the moth-
open-minded attitude until you have er-in-law to live with the young peo-
a sound basis for judgment. pie?
3. If the child marries without 4. Show what the effect on the
parents' consent, don't ^'disown" child is for the grandparents to take
him or her. Attempt to accept the an active part in the disciplining,
child's point of view and to make 5. How can sending a young man
the best adjustment to the situation, or woman away to school or on a
To refuse to acknowledge the child's mission simplify the mother-in-law
partner as a member of the family problem?
only causes unhappiness and may 6. Suggest a few new interests and
ruin what otherwise may be a sue- activities a mother-in-law can take
cessful marriage. Avoid saying, "I up to bridge the gap left by the
told you so" after marriage. marriage of her child.
4. Resist the tendency to feign References For Further Study
illness and other forms of malinger-
ing in order to postpone the child's i- Anonymous. "I Sent My Fa-
marriage, or to bring the child home ther to an Old Men's Home." Read-
after marriage. eis Digest, March, 1936, pp. 33-37.
5. See the folly of the contention ^^' ^^^§^"^1 ^/ti^^^' see The Forum,
that anything that was good enough February, 1936.)
for you when you were married 2. Anonymous. I Am the
should be good enough for your Mother-in-Law in the Home,
daughter-in-law. Encourage your ^^^^^^^ ^'^^'^^ November, 1937,
son to provide well for her. PP- ^ V'^' (^^' ^"i^al article, see
^ ^ J . 1. T. . T .^ Saturday Evening Post, September
6. Guard against being so solicit- o ^ x ^ ^
ous of the welfare of your son or ' '^'Womngworth, Lata S. "The
daughter-m-law that your own son Adolescent Child," in Handbook of
or daughter becomes jealous of you. ^^.^^ Psychology, Ed. by Carl Mur-
r. 7.7 r. T^- • chison, pp. 882-008. Worcester,
Problems For Discussion ^^^^ ^^^^ U^j^^ p^^^^^ ^^^^
1. What steps would you recom- 4. Morgan, J. J. B. Keeping a
mend a mother to take in prepara- Sound Mind, pp. 169-201. New
tion for her role as a mother in-law? York.
ibducation for cJamuyi JLife
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Lesson 5
The Ways of Men and Women
By Paul Popenoe, Sc. D.
(Director Institute of Family Relations, Los Angeles, Calif.)
1V/fENand women differ from each This simple difference produces
other not merely,— literally,— in far-reaching results in the behavior
every cell of their bodies, but in of many women, leading them (for
their behavior in every relationship the most part quite unconsciously)
of life. Successful family life de- to be dissatisfied with life, dissatis-
pends upon an understanding of fied with themselves, and more or
these differences. less antagonistic toward men as the
Woman's understanding of her- supposed authors of their misfor-
self is often confused by what Alfred tunes.
Adler called the ''masculine protest''. The adult woman should make
From as far back as she can remem- sure that her own outlook on life is
ber, the girl has been led to feel that not being confused by such an un-
this is a man's world, and that she conscious attempt to be a second-
is prevented from doing a lot of rate man,— which she can never be!
things that she could do perfectly —instead of a first-rate woman,
well, not by her inability but by the which she can be.
mere accident that she was born a She must then make sure that her
female instead of a male. daughters are brought up in a realis-
All her life, it seems to her, she tic way, protected as far as possible
has heard, ''Little girls don't do such from injustice, and prepared for mar-
things," and "That's all right for riage and motherhood rathei than
boys, but you're a girl," and so forth for failure and frustration,
and so on. Among sex differences to which
Through years of this she grows particular attention should be paid
up with the feelings that this Man's are the following:
World is organized to the disad- L Men tend to be more aggressive
vantage of women, and that there- than women. Terman and Miles in
fore she is unfortunate in not having their recent study. Sex and Person-
been born a man. Studies show that alityy consider this the fundamental
the great majority of educated wom- and most important distinction. It
en have at one time or another goes back millions of years in the
wished they had been born boys. It history of the race,
would be hard to find an educated Women, therefore make a mistake
man who ever wished that he had in adopting too aggressive a manner
been bom a girl. in dealing with men,— either before
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or after marriage. One of the com- her husband's self-esteem and build-
monest complaints of unhappy hus- ing it up.
bands who come to the Institute of This does not mean that women
Family Relations is that their wives lack vanity, but at least there seems
are too aggressive; one of the com- to be a difference in the quality of
monest complaints of unhappy wives the egotism of the two sexes. It has
is that their husbands are not ag- sometimes been said that men are
gressive enough! egotistic, women narcissistic (after
Unfortunately, modern life tends the legend of Narcissus, the Greek
to override this ancient pattern. In youth who fell in love with his own
the city, a boy sometimes sees little reflection in a pool, and pined away
of his father, has little association from unrequited affection ) .
with his father's work or with the III. Men have a feeling of sex
work of other men in the world, solidarity, of ''gang sociality", which
He is dominated first by his mother, is less pronounced in women. Per-
then by his school teachers, nearly haps it is associated with the fact
all of whom are women; then (at that for millions of years men have
adolescence) by the girls in his class, worked together in hunting and
who are the same age chronologically fighting, occupations that depend
but a couple of years ahead of him largely on discipline, teamwork, and
in their biological, emotional, and cooperation. Women have tended
social development (because the fe- to work more individually. Men
male matures more rapidly than does have little enough capacity for co-
the male). operation, but at least (in their own
Hence the boy grows up without opinion) they have somewhat more
normal masculine initiative, in deal- of it than women,
ing with the other sex. The girls This individualistic tendency
have taken it away from him and too sometimes leads to friction in the
often become used to exercising it management of women's clubs and
themselves. The result, after mar- other organizations. Possibly wom-
riage, is not satisfactory to either en have developed, through' a long
one. process of evolution, a greater in-
More association of boys with stinctive feeling of loyalty to the
their fathers and other men in the home than to other women,
work of the wodd (an association IV. On the whole, woman has
that is natural and almost inevitable more "social intelligence" than man.
on the farm) will help to remove For hundreds and thousands of
this handicap from city life. More years her ancestresses have had to
men, real men, happily married and study human, and particulariy
successful fathers, would also be a masculine, nature. A woman
desirable addition as teachers in the would not leave any offspring to
public schools. perpetuate her characteristics, un-
II. Men are excessively egotistical, less she acquired not merely a hus-
The successful wife has learned (or band, but a fairly good husband (and
knew by instinct) that she must perhaps such were as scarce a thou-
spend much of her time protecting sand years ago as they are now! ) . Yet
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she had to do this by indirection and
strategy, since the man had the ini-
tiative and was expected to be the
aggressor. In general, therefore, and
if she has not received a misleading
education, woman understands man
better than man understands wom-
an.
Unfortunately, this social intelli-
gence, desire for the best possible
home, concern over keeping up ap-
pearances, and the like, sometimes
becomes perverted into snobbishness
and ''social climbing". It is the
wife, not the husband, who is most
concerned with ''keeping up with
the Joneses". At the other extreme,
when she lets herself go and ceases
to care for appearances, a woman
seems to lose morale all around.
Terman and his associates, in their
recent exhaustive study on "Psycho-
logical Factors in Marital Happi-
ness" discovered that slovenliness in
a wife was more distressing to the
husband than dozens of factors that
might at first sight have seemed
more serious.
In conclusion, neither sex should
allow itself to be annoyed at peculi-
arities of the other that are simply
characteristics of the sex.
Girls, however, should be brought
up to understand their own natures.
In particular, they should know that
all studies show the importance to
a woman of normal marriage and
child-bearing, as a fulfilment of per-
sonality and as an aid to physical
and mental well-being. Actually,
the longest-lived and most vigorous
women in a normal group will be
found to be those who have borne
the most children, not those who
have borne the fewest or those who
are childless. The vital statistics of
the single woman, still more of the
divorcee, are highly unsatisfactory,
showing shorter expectation of life,
greater expectation of insanity, of
imprisonment, and of suicide.
Boys, similarly, should be brought
up to be first-class boys rather than
poor imitations of women. Since
they must inevitably be exposed so
much to feminine influence while
they are growing up, care should be
taken that these various women,—
the mother, the kindergarten teach-
er, the music teacher, the Sundav
School teacher, and the long list of
others,— do not try to mould him too
much in their own pattern. Dr.
Goodwin Watson has lately called
attention to the fact that women
school teachers tend to get along
best with the boys who are really
"sissies", and look upon them as
models of deportment. If a boy has
normal masculine patterns, they are
apt to call him a "behavior problem".
Neither sex is inferior to the other.
They complement each other. Each
depends on the other. When each
is at its best, both will get the most
out of life.
Questions and Pwhlems
1. Mrs. Chase Going Woodhouse
questioned 250 highly educated and
very happy wives as to their greatest
problem in marriage. A large part of
them said it was trying to under-
stand their husbands. What could
be done to help them?
2. Dr. Will Durant says, "Wom-
an surpasses man in love and is sur-
passed by him in friendship." Do
you agree? Why?
3. Make a list of 10 differences in
behavior between the sexes , not
mentioned in this lesson, which vou
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think might be of importance in he can become more popular with
understanding personal relations. the girls?
4. In the light of the psycholog- 5. Similarly, what advice would
ical differences between the sexes, you give to a young woman who
what advice would you give to a wants to know how she can increase
young man who wants to know how her popularity with men?
JLiterature for the II iissions
TYPICAL WOMEN OF THE CHURCH
Lesson 7
A Review and A Summary
'T^HE foregoing brief outlines of
the lives of seven typical women
in the Church could, obviously, pre-
sent only high lights in the lives of
these worthy ladies. Even so, each
one is seen to be a distinct person-
ality. No two of them are alike.
There are, however, many qualities
of character common to them all.
In a general way there is a typical
Latter-day Saint character, as is illus-
trated by these seven lives. The phi-
losophy of Mormonism must of ne-
cessity leave its imprint upon sincere
adherents of Mormonism.
Let us somewhat expand and pass
some of these things in review:
1. The Maesers were descendants
of cultured and educated people.
They themselves were educated and
cultured. How do you explain that
they accepted Mormonism and he-
roically endured all the consequent
poverty, suffering and humiliation
that befell them?
2. In a general way would this
same explanation apply to Anna
Widtsoe? Explain.
3. Outline the general features of
a typical L. D. S. character.
4. Compare this typical character
with the average character of a
worldly woman, that is, a woman
motivated by the usual ideas of
worldly people.
5. Show why you think the typ-
ical L. D. S. character is worth all
it costs.
6. What influence did want and
suffering have on the character de-
velopment of the women studied in
the foregoing lessons?
7. As the foregoing lessons indi-
cate, show that this L. D. S. charac-
ter exists in every land and among
every people who accept and live the
restored Gospel of Jesus Christ.
8. The American poet Longfellow
wrote the following lines:
"Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime.
And, departing, leave behind us
Foot-prints on the sands of time."
A Tsaim of Life.
Point out to what extent the
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thought of these lines applies to any have been a ''natural-born" teacher,
or all of the women studied. If she were such, what qualities and
9. The Belgian pessimist thought skills did she exercise to succeed in
there could be no God in heaven teaching?
for the reasons he stated. V/hat is 13. What must a person do if he
your explanation of the point he is to be a successful class-room
raised? teacher?
10. In former days ostracism and 14. In Lesson 5, speaking of the
persecution followed those who Cannons, reference was made to the
joined the Church in the worid. To "Donner Party". Relate the circum-
what is due the change between stances of this ill-fated party on its
those days and these? way to California.
11. The question is sometimes 15. Also in Lesson 5 reference was
asked "does blood count?" After made to the coming of Johnston's
reading the foregoing lessons what army to Utah and the ''move south,"
is your answer? Give reasons for it. etc. Relate the circumstances to
12. Jeannette D. Crane is said to which these references refer.
APPLES ON A PLATE
By Gertrude Perry Stanton
"Wliy be so Victorian,"— do you say,
"With a plate of apples on your buffet?
Use a Wedgwood tea set, or Sevres vase;
Those apples look so commonplace!"
Perhaps they do— yet on memory's page
I can see a child of tender age
Who never had apples enough to eat,
And the common fruit was her rarest treat.
There was nothing tempting in her lunch pail;
No wonder she seemed so small and frail.
So now that I live where apples grow,
In the cellar are baskets in a row,
And always upstairs, on table or shelf.
There's a plateful, so each may help himself.
Every hungry youngster that enters the door
May have one, or two, or three, or more;
It may be old-fashioned and out-of-date,
But ril still have my apples on a plate!
K
npHE General Presidency of the
Relief Society would like to im-
press upon mothers the need for
milk, particularly for growing chil-
dren. Relief Society Presidents
everywhere are charged with the re-
sponsibility to see that no children
suffer for lack of milk.
''Milk is a food no one should do
without, because it contains so many
elements of a healthful diet. We
should use it every day— a quart for
each child and a pint for each adult
is a good daily allowance, used either
in fluid form or in milk products.
It is important that growing children
have plenty of milk. It is especially
needed for good teeth and bones, as
milk supplies in almost ideal
amounts minerals that go into their
composition. Adults of all ages
need milk.
''Milk is always a good investment
even when very little money can be
spent for food. We do not usually
think of it as an energy food, and
yet a quart supplies from two-thirds
to three-fourths of the total energy
required per day by a year old child;
about one-half of the energy needed
by a child of five; and about one-
fourth of that needed by a man mod-
erately active. One cup of milk has
about the same energy value as lY?
eggs, or 3X ounces of lean round
beef, or SYz ounces of string beans.
"Milk should not be regarded as
a beverage; it is a food. Sip it slow-
ly; get the flavor out of it. Don't
use it merely to quench thirst, and
don't drink it rapidly. The gastric
juice of the stomach causes milk to
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Frontispiece -... Photo by Wayne Richards 146
Welcome Your I'asks - President Louise Y. Robison 147
Days At Harmony Gordon Burt Affleck 149
Relief Society Ward And Branch Presidents Counselor Amy Brown Lyman 156
The Joy of Creating Counselor Kate M. Barker 159
Relief Society, A Significant Woman's Movement.. ..Gen. Secretary Julia A. F. Lund 161
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Today's Youth William Peterson 165
Aaronic Priesthood Activities Joseph L. Wirthlin 170
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The Late Nineteenth Century to Date 207
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River Song (Frontispiece) Vesta P. Crawford 146
That Is Success 148
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cover design for our Anniversary issue. This piece of sculpture is
located in Penn Valley Park and was given to Kansas City by
Howard Vanderslice and is the work of A. Phimister Proctor,
New York sculptor. Believing that whoever increased the
beauty of his community also increased the character, wisdom,
and happiness of its citizens, Mr. Vanderslice presented this
monument to the city in commemoration of his mother who,
with unfaltering trust in God, suffered untold hardships of
pioneering when in 1857 she braved the unknown West that a
homeland of peace and plenty might be established for pos-
terity. The monument is not only a tribute to his own mother
but to the spirit that pioneer motherhood typified.
The sculptor has truly caught the spirit of the old unsettled
plains and its trail blazers in his work. He has put into it an
eloquence not very often expressed in this medium. At a dis-
tance as well as near it, one feels a forward pushing movement.
On the stone pedestal, which supports the figures, are carved
the words of Ruth: ''Whither thou goest, I will go, and where
thou lodgest, I will lodge. Thy people shall be my people and
thy God my God."
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RIVER SONG
Between its banks of leafy green.
The faithful river flows.
Between the bars of myriad days,
Down to the sea it goes.
With glint of sunlight on the shore
And silver on the tide.
With voice of praise and song of peace.
The waves in splendor glide.
The Susquehanna cleaves the hiOs,
It sweeps past Harmony—
And brings forever to our hearts
A sacred memory.
-Vesta P. Crawford.
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The Susguehanna River af Harraony'^'i
(now Oakland), Peruisylvania S|**
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Vol. XXVI
MARCH, 1939
No. 3
Welcome Your Tasks
By Piesident Louise Y. Robison
IN brief terse statements the
Prophet Joseph Smith gave to
the world some of the most stim-
ulating ideas ever given mankind.
Having positive knowledge that
spiritual progression depends upon
effort, one can almost hear the
Prophet's stirring voice when he
said, "And if a person gains more
knowledge and intelligence in this
life through his diligence and obedi-
ence than another, he will have so
much the advantage in the world to
come;" and at another time, ''The
glory of God is intelligence."
We have been given the ideal pat-
tern of life through the earthly mis-
sion of our Savior, who taught us
that service to humanity is the way
through which we might have "life
more abundantly". Life compels us
to some action by the necessity of
humanity to eat and sleep, but we
have our free agency in deciding the
quality of our endeavor and the man-
ner in which we accomplish these
obligations.
Opportunity for service, by which
we gain knowledge, is all around
us, but earnest effort is imperative
if we rise above the mediocre in anv
endeavor.
If as earnest attempts were made
in helping solve the problems of
underprivileged children, of making
happier homes, and of giving cour-
age to the heavy-laden, as are made
in material inventions over which
men plan and give their best
thought, there would be fewer dis-
couraged people. It is certainly as
necessary to put our best effort into
building lives as into material inven-
tions which may be discarded in a
few years' time, while souls are eter-
nal. In all ages strong people have
helped the weaker ones. Many
women, without special calling, have
given their time and effort for the
benefit of neighbors and communi-
ties. Since Relief Society was or-
ganized, however, women have been
called to definite fields of service
and have been set apart to those
positions by men holding the Priest-
hood of God. This gives greater op-
portunity for development, but it
also brings corresponding responsi-
bility which cannot be met by hap-
hazard service. There is no easy
road to success in any position— from
member to president; each activity
calls for thoughtful, prayerful con-
sideration. Sister Amy W. Evans
has outlined the responsibility of
Relief Society ward presidents as
follows:
"Acceptance of the position of
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Relief Society ward president carries
with it the obHgation to assist those
in the ward who are in need. To
meet this obHgation successfully she
must possess or cultivate the spirit
of understanding and a sensitiveness
to the sorrows and needs of her fel-
lowmen. . . . We can scarcely over-
estimate the value of insight into
and understanding of the motives
of others. It brings tolerance and
patience and gives one the power
to suspend judgment until the facts
are known. . . . Understanding is
especially necessary when one is
dealing with persons in need, be that
need material or spiritual. It is sel-
dom possible to recognize at sight
the nature of another person's prob-
lems."
This would be a tremendous task
if the president alone were called
upon to know the economic and
spiritual condition of each member
in her ward, but the Organization
provides for help in the well organ-
ized visiting teachers. A great re-
sponsibility is given to visiting teach-
ers who, when fulfilling their calling
as messengers of the president, bring
to her a report of the general con-
dition of the members.
It is not the teachers' duty to
inquire into conditions in the homes
visited, but if they have earnestly
studied the needs of each member,
if they prayerfully desire to help,
they will be able to interpret the
needs of the family to the president.
The strictest confidence is imposed
upon the visiting teacher— she must
never discuss conditions of homes
visited. To do so is ample justifi-
cation for her release from office.
Visiting teachers have rare oppor-
tunity for growing spiritually; they
rise to great heights by doing the
simple, kindly things in the Master's
way.
Sisters of the Relief Society! The
office given to you is the opportunity
to grow in intelligence and to gain
that knowledge which will give you
''advantage in the world to come".
The degree of success depends upon
your effort. The reward justifies your
best endeavor. "Welcome the task
that makes you go beyond yourself,
if vou would grow."
THAT IS SUCCESS
Wealth, prowess, power, only the few attain,
But this one triumph is denied to none.
To say each night, computing loss and gain,
"This was my task today, this I have done
With all the power I could command, no less."
That is success.
Time flies on phantom wings,
But no man needs to count the passing years as forfeit quite.
We live not in days but in deeds;
Every passing year has left you in its flight
New stores of wisdom, kindliness, tolerance, patience.
That is success.
— Selected.
Days At Harmony
By Goidon Burt Affleck
* "It J"Y beloved Emma— she that New York and the branches of the
Vl was my wife, even the wife Eastern States Mission each May
of my youth, and the 15, it may not be an exaggeration
choice of my heart," thus wrote the to assume that ''Harmony" will
Prophet Joseph of his wife, nearly come into its own as a recognized
seventeen years after he first met her landmark in the Church and Church
at her father's home in Harmony, history.*
Pennsylvania. And, despite the nu- But let us go back some years for
merous and untold hardships, con- a better understanding of Emma,
stantly moving, hiding, fleeing ever her people and the place of her birth,
westward and beyond her home, of- The parents of Emma Hale were
ten alone and greatly inconven- of revolutionary stock. Her father
ienced; and even though there were was fifth in a line from one John
those times when her patience Hale (Heald) of Berwick-Upon
''snapped" and in despair she "mur- Tweed in Northumberland, Eng-
mured," the record is quite clear land. This John Heald was one of
that through it all there was a genu- the "first settlers" of Concord, Mas-
ine mutual devotion between Emma sachusetts in 1635. His son Gershon
and Joseph. This natural, personal was followed in turn by the grand-
affection for Joseph was engendered son Samuel (Hail) Hale; Reuben,
in Emma at Harmony, Susquehanna the son of Samuel, born at Oxford,
County, Pennsylvania and helped Connecticut, served in the Revolu-
to carry her far in the path he was tionary Army and on the twenty-
making, ninth day of August, 1759, married
^r .1 ^ uj . TT yy Diautha Ward. Isaac Hale was the
Of those early days at Harmony „^^ j c .i- . , .
1 M.' 1 Ti.1.1 -1 u i. 1.1, • second son ot this union, havme
relatively little is known but their ^^^^ ^^^^ ^^ Waterbury, Connects
significance can hardly be overesti- ^^^^ y^^^^^ ^^^ .^ \^ ^^^
mated. Now, however, with the or- of sixteen, Isaac did revolutionary
ganization of a stake on the Atlantic service under Col. Ebenezer Allen,
seaboard, and with the annual (A marker of the Sons of the Amer-
Aaronic Priesthood pilgrimage from ican Revolution is now appropriately
♦During the next year or two many members and friends of the Church will drive
to the New York World's Fair. Surely they will want to make a tour of historical Church
points along the way. For this reason it may not be amiss to note that as the settlements
of fronrier New York and Pennsylvania grew to the stature of "township," the names were
often changed. So it was with Fayette, Seneca County, New York, and Harmony,
Susquehanna County, Pennsylvania. The traveler will note that Fayette, the place
where the Church was organized, is now called WATERLOO, and road maps show
it at the juncrion of U. S. route 20 and New York route 5, and between Geneva
and Seneca Falls, New York. Harmony is now known as OAKLAND, jtist across
from the town Susquehanna, on the north bank of the river, 23 miles southeast of
Binghamton, New York, on Penns}dvania route No. 692.
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placed on his grave in the old
M'Kune graveyard in Oakland,
Pennsylvania.) The tomb stone
reads:
"The body of Isaac Hale, the Hunter,
like the cover of an old book, its contents
torn out, and stripped of its letteiing and
guilding, lies here food for worms; yet the
work itself shall not be lost, for it will,
as he believed, appear once more in a new
and more beautiful edition corrected and
amended."
Isaac Hale had been to what was
then the West. So with the desire
field, Connecticut, November 17,
1767; married Isaac Hale, September
20, 1790, at Wells, Vermont.
'T^HE Isaac Hales in Harmony be-
came the parents of nine chil-
dren, six boys and three girls. Emma,
the seventh child, was born July 10,
1804, at Harmony.
Very little is recorded about the
early life of Emma, though one
would be well within bounds to
say that she was a ''churched" young
SCENE AT OLD MINE DIGGINGS, HARMONY
to push into new country in his
blood, and his natural aptitude as
a hunter, he took Elizabeth Lewis,
his new bride, together with her
brother and the brother's bride, and
moved from New England to Sus-
quehanna County in the northeast
of the State of Pennsylvania.
Elizabeth Lewis, Emma's mother,
came from an equally important
new-world family; she represented
the sixth generation from George
Lewis and the New England Lew-
ises. Elizabeth was born at Litch-
lady, having been under the parental
guidance of a mother who was "for
fifty years a member of the Method-
ist Church". Emma could ride a
horse and did so to advantage on
several occasions; she was able to
read and write quite well as was evi-
denced by her pleading letter to the
governor of Illinois in behalf of Jos-
eph at the time the extradition pa-
pers had been signed for the Proph-
et's transfer to Missouri; she was
both versatile and cultured, tall and
striking, but with a definite air of
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MARCH - 151
femininity. Nevertheless, she was continuing to assert that I had seen
in her twenty-third year when she a vision/' says Joseph, "persecution
married Joseph after a difficult court- still followed me, and my wife's fa-
ship of some fourteen months. ther's family were very rnuch op-
Three major factors contributed posed to our being married."
to this difficulty. In the first place, Then, too, Joseph left Harmony
Joseph's introduction to the Hales before Christmas, 1825, and the op-
m 1825 was as a
''money digger".
He had "hired
out" to Josiah
Stoal to dig for
Spanish treasure
and came to Har-
mony to work
with the other
"hands" in the
search for a silver
mine. About a
half or three-quar-
ters of a mile to
the east and north
of the foundation
remains of the old
Hale house can be
seen the sizable
hole dug in the
hillside, in what is
now a pasture.
After one hundred
and thirteen years
this pit is real evi-
dence of real work
as claimed by the
Prophet. The ven-
ture was aban-
SIGN ERECTED BY MANHATTAN
WARD AARONIC PRIESTHOOD
portunities for as-
sociation were few,
and the distance
between Joseph
and Miss Hale was
no small factor in
the way. (Palmyra
being some 125
miles by roadway,
over hills, through
the woods, and
along the stream
beds.)
Another unwar-
ranted attack on
the character of
Joseph came when,
because of family
opposition, the
young couple went
t o South Bain-
bridge, Chenango
County, New
York, and were
married by Squire
Tarbill on January
18, 1827. Despite
the fact that
Emma was over
doned in about a month at the sug- twenty-two years of age, and had,
gestion of Joseph. During this stay under the law of Pennsylvania, at-
at Harmony, Joseph boarded at Isaac tained her legal majority, Joseph was
Hale's and, of course, met and fell thereafter branded as an "abductor",
m love with the daughter Emma.
However, the name "money digger" The following August, according
attached itself to Joseph with no to the purported affidavits of Peter
uncertainty and with it a repulse Ingersol and Isaac Hale, dated De-
from Emma's parents. cember 8, 1833, and March 20, 1834,
In the second place, "owing to my respectively (both referred to as
152 - MARCH, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
"purported" affidavits because of
their appearance in Howe's discredit-
ed book, "Mormonism Unveiled"),
Joseph and Emma returned to Har-
mony for a visit and were then in-
vited to move to Harmony to make
their home.
TN December, 1827, the young cou-
couple moved to Harmony and
Hved for a short time with her peo-
ple. The translation of the Book
oi Mormon was commenced imme-
diately in an upper room of the Hale
home. Joseph purchased thirteen
and one-half acres from his father-
in-law, on which was situated a small
house. Brother Brigham H. Roberts
says: 'It was in this house that a
large part of the Book of Mormon
was translated. The house stands
on the north bank of the Susque-
hanna River, two miles west of the
Twin Rivers and is now not more
than sixty feet from the New York,
Erie and Western Railroad. The
building . . . looks as though it would
soon tumble down fr'om rot and
age."
It didn't take long for Brother
Roberts' observation to become a
reality. In 1936 only the walls of
the small foundation remained. The
excavation was partly filled. Al-
though very definitely there in 1938,
the grass was growing in and around
the remains so as to obscure it from
casual view.
It was near this foundation land-
mark that the adult Aaronic Priest-
hood of the Manhattan Ward, on
May 14, 1938, erected a sign which
they had made at their home in
New York City, one hundred and
fifty miles southeast. The sign
reads:
NEAR THIS SPOT
JOSEPH SMITH THE PROPHET
TRANSLATED
THE BOOK OF MORMON
1829.
The man who owns the ground
at the present time was not so cer-
tain that he wanted the sign erected.
The Priesthood group had received
what they thought was permission
from the man's sister across the road.
After some gentle persuasion on the
part of President Frank Evans of
the Eastern States Mission, coupled
with a little bargaining power, an
agreement was signed to let the sign
stand. One clause of the agreement
promised in substance that the own-
er would keep the sign up. In Oc-
tober, 1938, the sign was still in per-
fect order, and the assurance of its
remaining was evidenced by addi-
tional braces and anchors placed
there, no doubt, at the instance of
the property owner.
TT was in the little house which
stood at this place, the first-owned
home of the Smiths, that their first
son was born and died; it was here
that Emma came so near to death's
door; it was here that Martin Harris
obtained, after much persuasion, the
one hundred and sixteen pages of
manuscript which were subsequent-
ly lost; it was here that on April 5,
1829, Joseph met Oliver Cowdery,
in whose handwriting most of the
original transcript of the Book of
Mormon was written.
David Whitmer tells of an inci-
dent; it is not clear whether it hap-
pened at Harmony or at Fayette, but
it is sufficiently close to warrant at-
tention and is both interesting and
instructive. One record of the story
is found in a statement given in the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MARCH - 153
Kelley-Braden debate. The state-
ment was made September 15, 1882,
to Wm. H. Kellev and G. A. Blakes-
lie and others by David, who was
then upwards of seventy-six years of
age, in response to the question:
''What kind of a man was he (Jos-
eph Smith) when you knew him
personally?" The answer follows:
and I went upstairs, and Joseph
came up soon after to continue the
translation, but he could not do any-
thing. He could not translate, a single
syllable. He went downstairs, out in-
to the orchard, and made supplica-
tion to the Lord; was gone about an
hour— came back to the house, asked
Emma's forgiveness and then came
OLD HOUSE BELIEVED TO HAVE BEEN JOSEPH SMITH'S IN WHICH
MUCH OF THE BOOK OF MORMON WAS TRANSLATED
"He was a religious, straight-for-
ward man. He had to be; for he
was illiterate, and he could do noth-
ing of himself. He had to trust in
God. He could not translate unless
he was humble and possessed the
right feelings toward everyone. To
illustrate so you can see: One morn-
ing when he was getting ready to
continue the translation, something
went wrong about the house, and he
was put out about it. Something
Emma, his wife, had done. Oliver
upstairs where we were, and the
translation went on all right. He
could do nothing save he was hum-
ble and faithful."
Joseph had previously been taught
the lesson of humility at Harmony
when thie Urim and Thummim were
taken away from him at the time
Martin Harris lost the manuscript.
Joseph then turned to working on
his farm and continued this even
after the return of the "interpreters"
in order to provide for his family;
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this continued until the coming of
Oliver Cowdery.
It was at Harmony that many
revelations v^ere given, among v^hich
are those recorded as sections 3 to
13 inclusive and 24 to 27 inclusive
of the Doctiine and Covenants. Of
transcendent and immeasurable im-
portance was the appearance of John
the Baptist, a resurrected being, the
restoration of the Aaronic Priest-
hood and the true order of effica-
cious baptism. This appearance was
in the wilderness on the banks of
the Susquehanna River, possibly be-
tween the house and banks of the
river some 200 yards away.
Section 25 of the Doctrine and
Covenants, given at Harmony in
July, 1830, has always been referred
to as foreshadowing the organiza-
tion of the Relief Society at Nauvoo
in 1842, and rightly so. The section
also states the duties of Emma, even
to the selecting of hymns, which the
Lord said were pleasing unto Him
and to be had in the Church. The
revelation is likewise authority for
women in the Church— even as mis-
sionaries: 'and thou shalt be or-
dained under his (Joseph's) hand to
expound scriptures, and to exhort
the church".
npHE Smiths lived at Harmony
from December, 1827, to June,
1829, and only for short periods
thereafter. In the eighty-six days, at
most, between April 5, 1829, and
their departure in June of the same
year, most of the work and import-
ant events referred to had taken
place. ''But," says Joseph, "we had
been threatened with being mobbed,
from time to time, and this, too, by
professors of religion, and their in-
tentions of mobbing us were only
counteracted by the influence of my
wife's father's family (under Divine
providence), who had become very
friendly to me, and who were op-
posed to mobs, and were willing that
I should be allowed to continue the
work of translation without inter-
ruption; and therefore offered and
promised us protection from all un-
lawful proceedings, as far as in them
lay."
This would seem to offset the
attack on Joseph in the affidavit
purportedly written by Isaac Hale
in 1834 and found in Howe's book.
The old "Hunter" Isaac Hale was
no doubt a strict, stubborn New
Englander, but he believed in law
and order.
The true power of prophecy was
shown in that now famous experi-
ence of David Whitmer and Oliver
Cowdery at the time David drove
from Fayette, New York, to Har-
mony, Pennsylvania, to take Emma,
Joseph and Oliver to the Whitmer
Farm to complete the translation of
the Book of Mormon. David had
not met the Prophet as yet. Joseph
and Oliver went out to meet David
some distance from the settlement,
at the instance of the Prophet. David
later related the story as told to him
by Oliver as follows: "J^^^ph ^^^
informed him (Oliver) when I
started from home, where I stopped
the first night, how I read the sign
at the tavern; where I stopped the
next night, etc.; and that I would be
there that day before dinner, and
this was why they had come out to
meet me, all of which was exactly as
Joseph told Oliver."
Joseph and Emma left Harmony.
In 1831 they moved to Kirtland,
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AT SITE BELIEVED TO BE FOUNDATION REMAINS
OF JOSEPH SMITH HOME
Ohio. They had little or nothing
to do with Harmony thereafter.
From Kirtland they went to Hiram,
Ohio; Joseph visited Missouri, and
they had a short season in Nauvoo,
but with it all there was no pressing
to return to Harmony save the mem-
ories of the past.
In 1833 the Smiths sold their thir-
teen and one-half acres at Harmony
to Josiah McKune, Jr. In May,
1938, the present owner insisted that
the original deed to Joseph from
Isaac Hale, recorded in 1830, was
then in the possession of an attorney
in Binghamton, New York, a few
miles northeast of Oakland (Har-
mony). Be this as it may, the re-
mains of Le Chasseur— the hunter-
Isaac Hale, who died January 11,
1839, those of his wife, Elizabeth
Lewis Hale, who died February 16,
1842, and the infant son of Joseph
and Emma lie in the old McKune
cemetery, which is between the sites
of the old foundations of the Hale
and Smith homes at Oakland, once
known as Harmony, Pennsylvania.
^j€^
Relief Society Ward
And Branch Presidents
Counselor Amy Biown Lyman
AS we approach the birthday of of the bishop. She is called upon by
Relief Society, let us offer a night and by day for service,
special tribute to the ward and She should be broad in sympathy,
branch presidents of the Organiza- tender of heart, charitable. She
tion— to those of the past who from should possess wisdom and under-
the beginning and all down through standing, patience and tolerance, re-
the years have borne the chief bur- sourcefulness and executive ability,
dens in the local units; and to those Above all else a president should
of today who are so willingly assum- have faith in God and a testimony
ing these responsibilities. of the Gospel.
The general supervisory work of Ward presidents are constantly
the Relief Society is centered in challenged, but they are meeting the
general and stake governing boards, challenge bravely and successfully,
but the detail work, which is the real as all who are acquainted with their
work of the Organization, is carried work can testify. They have been
on in the wards and branches, which important factors not only in char-
are the vital, pulsating units of the itable work, such as looking after
Society. It is here that membership the wants of the needy and sick, but
is held; that the educational program also in constructive, preventive, com-
is carried on; that the welfare work munity welfare. It would be as dif-
is done; that contributions are re- ficult to estimate the incalculable
ceived for charitable purposes; that good they and their associates have
cooperative community work is accomplished in civic and commun-
done. Under the direction of the ity work as it would be to estimate
local president the needy are con- what they have accomplished in the
tacted and provided for; the sick are home and in the family. They have
visited; the sad and discouraged are also helped materially in establish-
cheered; the sorrowful and mourn- ing the high standards which the
ing are comforted; the dead are lov- Relief Society as an organization has
ingly and tenderly clothed for their attained, which are recognized both
last rest. nationally and internationally.
The responsibilities and require- As one travels both at home and
ments of the Relief Society presi- abroad, it is interesting to observe
dent are many and exacting, but she the similarity in spirit and procedure
assumes and carries them willingly, to be found in all the local units
Her office makes great demands on throughout the Organization—
her time, energy and ability. She is whether in America, in Europe or
usually the busiest volunteer worker in the Pacific Islands. Ward and
in the community. Her work is branch presidents could be ex-
comparable in many respects to that changed between countries as col-
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lege professors are exchanged, and,
providing there were no language
difficulties, they could function ef-
fectively and efficiently. The presi-
dent of either the North or South
London branch, or of the Dublin
branch, would be at home presiding
over a Salt Lake City ward; or a
president from a rural ward in Utah
or Arizona could be exchanged with
the president of the urban Washing-
ton, D. C, branch, and the work
would go on smoothly. The training
which the Organization gives helps
its workers to be resourceful and
self-reliant, and it teaches them to
think independently.
The spirit of the office and calling
seems to come to those who are as-
signed to do the work and to give
them the necessary insight, poise
and understanding and the desire
to accomplish.
npHE history of the Society is te-
plete with records of the deeds
of ward presidents and their asso-
ciates. It would take volumes to
enumerate them. The following in-
stance will illustrate the work:
A young doctor with his wife and
two small sons left their home in
Salt Lake City for a large eastern
center where the doctor was to con-
tinue his medical training. The wife
and children were to stop on the
way to visit a relative who was teach-
ing school in a near-by western
state, while the father was to con-
tinue his journey.
A few days after the mother and
children arrived in the small country
town, the baby boy of two years be-
came violently ill. The diagnosis
was scarlet fever, and the small com-
munity was greatly exercised and
even terrified over the situation.
As there was no hospital of any
kind in the town, the mother and
sick baby were isolated and quaran-
tined in a small, empty house on the
outskirts of the village, wh'ich had
been hurriedly prepared for them.
A trained nurse, who happened to
be in the vicinity attending a chronic
invalid, was permitted by the latter
to go to the desperate mother, who
had never witnessed serious illness
before.
In two days the baby passed on.
The nurse now felt it her first duty
to hurry back to her patient, and so
left immediately, leaving the little
mother alone with all that remained
of her precious child. Overcome
with grief and almost blinded with
tears, the mother walked about the
room and finally to the front door.
Her eyes followed the path down to
the little gate where she saw two
strangers standing — women they
were. Who could they be? And
why were they waiting there? One
of them beckoned to her and, as she
approached them, offered her warm,
nourishing food. They told her they
had come to remain near her until
further necessary arrangements were
made and completed, also that they
desired to prepare the clothing for
the child.
As the distracted mother looked
into the faces of the speaker and
her companion, she wondered if
they were ordinary human beings,
or if they were real angels sent di-
rectly from heaven to succor her in
the hour of her greatest need.
This Relief Society president and
her counselor had each suffered the
loss of a child and could sense in a
measure the sorrow of the desolate
and bereft mother. They felt sure
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the little one was safe and happy
in heaven and quoted to her the
words of the Savior: "Suffer littld
children, and forbid them not, to
come unto me: for of such is the
kingdom of heaven." (Matt. 19:14)
As the day wore on, the mother
pondered over this great act of hu-
man service. Then she remembered
vaguely something of Relief Society
Work in her home village, how even
her own mother used to be away
visiting homes and doing things for
others. But this had never appealed
to her as being work that was very
important. Now she understood
what it all meant, and in her sorrow
she resolved that she would join
and support and work for Relief So-
ciety throughout the remainder of
her life. She would feel blessed
indeed if ever opportunity came to
her to give any degree of the com-
fort to others which had come to her
from these devoted sisters in this
strange community far from her
home.
TN contemplating the work of the
Relief Society president, we are
not unmindful of the fact that
she herself is greatly blessed in her
labors; that while she gives she also
receives. Her work may be regarded
as a real opportunity personally for
growth and development, as is the
work of every other officer and mem-
ber of Relief Society.
Some women who have assumed
the office with great timidit}^ fear
and trembling have, with the re-
sponsibility, gained in strength,
knowledge, ability and power. They
have grown in sympathy, tenderness
and understanding — those graces
which are so inspiring and endear-
ing. Because of their faith, humility
and unselfishness the Lord has also
blessed them abundantly. Thus,
while a great portion of their ener-
gies have been consumed in activi-
ties that have helped others, the
process has added to their own
strength and culture, and their own
personalities have been developed
and enriched. Their lives and la-
bors have verified the truth which
was proclaimed by the Savior. In
speaking to and instructing His
apostles he said: "He that findeth
his life shall lose it; and he that
loseth his life for my sake shall find
it." (Matt. 10:39)
Let us salute these great women
—our 1,918 ward and branch presi-
dents—on this 97th birthday of the
Organization. Let us extend to them
our sincere love and deep apprecia-
tion, and say, "God bless these lov-
able, intelligent, self-sacrificing, gen-
erous ones who are true to their
trust and to their convictions." They
will be sanctified and richly rewarded
by their sacrifice and unwearied ef-
fort in doing good.
The Joy of Creating
By Counselor Kate M. Barker
^^\^OU work that you may keep pace
■*■ with the earth and the soul of the
earth.
"For to be idle is to become a stranger
unto the seasons, and to step out of life's
procession, that marches in majesty and
proud submission towards the infinite. . . .
"Always you have been told that work
is a curse and labour a misfortune.
"But I say to you that when you work
you fulfil a part of earth's furthest dream,
assigned to you when that dream was
born,
"And in keeping yourself with labour
you are in truth loving life,
"And to love life through labour is to
be intimate with life's inmost secret." —
Kahin Gfbran.
SUCH a love of life through la-
bor can only come when one
finds work which is both a de-
light to himself and a value to so-
ciety, and one only really loves the
work in which opportunity is given
for self-expression. In other words,
creative work has always been a nec-
essary part of a balanced life.
Not that many can be geniuses
and conceive great art, but many
do have creative hands which can
make objects of daily use more beau-
tiful and enjoyable, so that their
ownership becomes one of life's
pleasures. Learning to appreciate
and love the beautiful in little things
of daily use enlarges one's horizon,
and one learns to see the beautiful
in all of life.
I saw a piece of lace made by a
peasant woman in Czechoslovakia.
Life for this woman had been ex-
tremely hard, as it is for the women
of her class. Her work was in the
field— hard, manual labor. But she
saw the beauty in the wild flowers
which grew there, and as she
worked she planned and designed
lace patterns from the flowers, and
each night htr creative fingers knit-
ted a bit of the lace. She said this
rested her, and the little while she
created beauty kept her from becom-
ing embittered and helped her to
see beauty in all of life. As the old
Kentucky mountaineer said, "Hits
better for folkses character to larn
'em to do things with their hands."
In our country, with its mass pro-
duction and glorification of the ma-
chine, we have too long watched
articles being made lacking beauty
and individuality and people losing
not only the ability to create but
also the appreciation of fine work-
manship.
npHE Relief Society has always
maintained that women should
be given the opportunity of devel-
oping the skills of the hand and
have kept one Tuesday each month
for this training.
Then came the depression and
with it the idea: WTiy could the
Organization not guide and stimu-
late good work and at the same time
furnish the means for offering it to
the public in a practical way? And
so "Mormon Handicraft" began.
It is still in its infancy, but the
experience of the past year and a
half has proven that if handled wise-
ly it can become a real service to
the Church. Already many women
have found peace and joy in being
able to find self-expression in the
work. Because of having an outlet,
with all profit going directly to the
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maker, to many has come new cour-
age as well as a means of supple-
menting the family income.
Probably no group of people in
the world has more potentialities for
the development of a great handi-
craft movement than our own. Cer-
tainly none has such a variety of
skills and traditions as we have/ for
we have skilled artisans from many
different countries. But we have
been unwise in that we have failed
to build into our own culture the
fine contributions which our foreign-
born brothers and sisters have to
contribute. Before it is too late, let
us learn from them these fine skills,
which have been proven through-
out the ages to always make for
better living; for creative hands make
a happier people.
If ''Mormon Handicraft" is to
succeed, if there is to be a worthy
future for it, it must stand on its
own feet. The articles placed in
the shop must stand on their own
merit. We cannot appeal to the
public to buy because they are hand-
made. Many machine-made articles
are better than handmade. We must
accept the challenge and give to
''Mormon Handicraft" articles those
things that machinery cannot give-
distinction, personality, and artistic
charm. In design, decoration, and
coloring the artist behind the work
must be revealed. Only thus can it
have personality which makes it a
pleasure to possess.
To help meet this need an advis-
ory board has been called. This
group is now working on several
projects. So many women have cre-
ative fingers but need guidance in
creative designing and decoration.
We surely have inherited from
our pioneer mothers and fathers a
handicraft tradition of exceptional
beauty and dignity. If this inherited
culture is kept alive, developed and
added to, it should bear rich fruit,
which will mean much for human
happiness.
/^EORGE ELIOT represents Stradivari as saying about his violins;
". . . When any master holds
'Twixt chin and hand a violin of mine,
He will be glad that Stradivari lived.
Made violins, and made them of the best.
The masters only know whose work is good;
They will choose mine, and while God gives them skill
I give them instruments to play upon,
God choosing me to help Him
. . . He could not make
Antonio Stradivari's violins
Without Antonio."
Relief Society, A Significant
Woman's Movement
By General Secretary Julia A. F. Lund
ACCORDING to one of our its culmination in the sixth stage of
great modern thinkers, we 'pioneering". Relief Society is an
Americans have experienced excellent example of this:
''seven adventures in pioneering": It will soon be one hundred years
first, for spiritual freedom—the right since eighteen women, constituting
to worship God as conscience die- the charter members, were organ-
tates; second, for political freedom ized into the Relief Society. Much
—the right to have a voice in the has been written of this unique so-
government under which we live; ciety of women and the spirit which
third, for educational freedom— a was back of its organization— the up-
public school system with education lifting of all humanity. Its record is
for everyone; fourth, for racial free- one of splendid achievement, where
dom— the emancipation of the Ne- women have sought to educate
gro and the forbidding of any type themselves and to organize for co-
of racial enslavement; fifth, for free- operative effort that opportunities
dom in the control of the forces for advancement might be provided,
of nature and industrial organiza- that childhood might be safer, that
tion; sixth, for freedom from sex economic conditions might be im-
inequality— the granting of suffrage proved, that justice and right might
to women; seventh, still in process prevail, that happiness for all might
of pioneering, that the whole world be increased.
may sometime be really free, and The Relief Society, like the
men and women everywhere live the Church itself, is world-wide in its
life of free individuals. scope and has been recognized by
Women have been closely identi- the great organizations of women as
fied with all of these adventures and a very important unit in the great
have played a noble part in their woman's movement of the world,
development. We may even sug- As a charter member of the National
gest others that have been of par- Council of Women, the Organiza-
ticular interest: the adventure in tion participated in the Internation-
temperance, which is the struggle to al Congress of Women held in Chi-
deliver humanity from the slavery cago in 1893 and again in 1933.
of appetite; the untiring efforts to President Louise Y. Robison, who is
secure a basis for world peace, with- one of the members of the Board
out which there can be no security of Directors of the National Council
or hope for other achievements. of Women, was one of the Chair-
The most significant social adven- men of the Congress held in 1933,
ture of the past century, in its vari- presiding at the session devoted to
ous stages of advancement, is the the subject, "Women in a Chang-
woman's movement, which reached ing World," when Mrs. Emily New-
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ell Blair, Associate Editor of Good
Housekeeping, was the speaker. In
June, 1934, President Robison was
appointed as a delegate to the Inter-
national Council of Women, which
met in Paris. She not only repre-
sented Relief Society but went also
as a delegate from the women of
the United States, and served on
some of the most important com-
mittees, notably that on ''Equal
Moral Standards". Counselor Amy
Brown Lyman represented Relief
Society at the International Con-
gress in Yugoslavia in 1937, ^"^
again at Edinburgh, Scotland, in
1938.
The Organization has sent its
board members and officers to at-
tend the National Conference of So-
cial Work in its yearly meetings,
where great social and moral ques-
tions are discussed. These contacts
with the foremost organizations of
the world are of immense value, giv-
ing opportunity to extend our work
and broaden our vision of its scope.
/^UR seven General Presidents of
Relief Society have all been
women of destiny, especially fitted
for the place and the time of their
leadership, and each one has done
everything possible to strengthen the
Society and extend its usefulness.
The various standing committees, in
which all board members partici-
pate, have always been most ener-
getic and devoted in their research
and in doing whatever has been
called for in the different fields.
Under President Louise Y. Robi-
son many things of interest and im-
portance have been accomplished.
When the State Board of Public
Welfare was created in Utah, Presi-
dent Robison was appointed as the
only woman member of that Board,
and has given valuable service in that
capacity. She is also a member of
the General Committee on Church
Welfare, pledging, as she always
does, whole-hearted support to this
worthy plan.
The educational program has been
made uniform and given to the
whole world. This constitutes a dis-
tinct bond of interest and sympathy.
The lesson material is chosen with
a view to presenting that which will
be of the greatest interest and value
to the largest nwmber of women,
and the material lends itself to ad-
justment to the tastes and needs of
the different groups in all lands.
As a source of great inspiration
and help to class leaders, special
departments covering the various
courses of study are now held at
sessions of the October Relief So-
ciety General Conference.
As libraries are so essential to any
educational movement, the preserva-
tion and accumulation of books for
use in the wards has been urged.
The marvelous development of
the Singing Mothers groups is a
beautiful expression of the talent of
Relief Society women and their de-
sire for culture and self-expression.
The Mormon Handicraft depart-
ment and the opportunities here of-
fered provide another outlet for cre-
ative work in Relief Society.
Health, employment, social serv-
ice, spiritual welfare, education in
every form, bettei homes, wiser par-
enthood, and other ideals consist-
ent with Latter-day Saint standards,
are the goals for which Pvclief So-
ciety is striving.
Emma Smith — Church Hymns
By Audentia Smith Anderson
(Granddaughter of the Prophet Joseph Smith and Emma Smith)
EMMA HALE was born July lo, her determination to. serve Him to
1804, at Harmony, Pennsyl- the end of her Hfe.
vania, and on January 18, 1827, A specific commission laid upon
became the wife of Joseph Smith, her in this divine message, however,
founder of the Church of Jesus directed her to make a selection of
Christ of Latter-day Saints. From hymns for the use of the Church;
that day she was his faithful com- ''my soul delighteth in the song of
panion, counselor and helpmate, the heart, yea, the song of the right-
sharing fully in the toils, dangers eous is a prayer unto me, and it shall
and privations of his short but event- be answered with a blessing upon
ful life. their heads," said the Lord.
Accompanying him on the mem- Happily and with all diligence she
orable night in September, 1827, entered upon the task assigned, ap-
when he received, from an angelic plying herself with such zeal, despite
messenger on Hill Cumorah, the arduous toil and poverty, frequent
ancient records of the Book oi Mot- removals from one home to another,
mon, from that moment she gave occasional weakness of body (her
him full measure of sympathetic, in- twins were born the following April
telligent cooperation in his efforts to and her son Joseph late in 1832) and
preserve and translate them and to unremitting assistance given her
obey faithfully further commands of husband in his various enterprises,
God. Many pages of the manuscript that in less than two years she had
from which the first copy of the made a sizable collection. In May,
Book was printed are in her own 1832, a council of the Church "or-
clear, feminine handwriting, mute dered that W. W. Phelps correct
testimony today of her consecrated and prepare the hymns which have
assistance in the task God had given been selected by Emma Smith in
her husband to do. That this writing fulfillment of the revelation."
must be done in the brief interims The following month there ap-
between busy household and farm peared, in Independence, Missouri,
duties, and despite weariness, or the first issue of The Evening and
distress of body attendant upon Morning Star, in which number
child-bearing, only serves to empha- some hymns were printed, presum-
size the fine quality of her loyalty to ably from her collection. Other
the man of her choice and his God- hymns followed in the monthly peri-
appointed mission. odical during the year, but in July,
It was fitting, therefore, that soon 1833, the printing press and much
after the organization of the Church material were destroyed. Up to the
and her own baptism, she should time of that regrettable event 26
receive, through him, a communi- hymns had been printed, but there
cation from the Lord. The message . is no evidence that an attempt had
was one of encouragement and com- been made to put them into the
fort, and served to strengthen her form of a book. The printing of
faith and reliance upon God, and the revelations, which was begun.
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would doubtless have been given ous members of the Church for use
precedence over the publication of on special occasions, or under the
a songbook. gentle impulsion of divine inspira-
Emma's collection made prior to *^^^"-
this disaster must have been lost or Her ability along musical lines-
destroyed, for after Brother Phelps or was it a gift bestowed when she
returned to Kirtland, and the High was divinely called to the work?—
Council organized in 1834, among was recognized by the Reorganized
the minutes of that body is re- Church, which she joined in i860,
corded, dated September 14, 1835: and she was requested to make a se-
''Emma Smith was appointed to lection of hymns. This she did, and
make a selection of sacred hymns, to a collection of 249 hymns was pub-
be arranged and revised for printing Hshed. Three years later another
by W. W. Phelps/' edition, consisting of 286 hymns, was
Accordingly a collection was pub- printed— a result, doubtless, wholly
lished under the title: ''A Selection or in part, of her interested labors,
of Sacred Hymns, by Emma Smith," Emma Smith possessed an unus-
and contained 90 songs. This may ually fine voice. Often in the as-
have been the 'T. D. S. Collection" semblies of the Saints she would ac-
from which were chosen the hymns company the congregational singing
sung at the dedication of the Tem- with an improvised obligato, her
pie, in March, 1836, which are re- clear, high soprano soaring, true and
ferred to by page numbers in the beautiful, above the harmonies of the
minutes of that historical event. ensemble tones below. Fond of mus-
Troubled years followed. With ic, she sang about her work, with her
three small children Emma went children and neighbors. Often of
from Ohio to Missouri, from which an evening a small group of friends,
state, later, under the shameful ex- gathered in her home or on its porch,
termination order of its Governor, would comfort and encourage them-
she fled to Illinois, her little flock selves and each other by singing to-
now numbering four. The same gether the songs of Zion. This love
year of the settlement at Nauvoo, of music she bequeathed to her chil-
1839, the Joint Council voted ''that dren, and chfldren's children. Her
Sister Emma Smith select and pub- youngest son, David, was called 'The
lish a hymnbook for the use of the Sweet Singer of Israel," his gift ex-
church," and in 1841 this was done, pressing itself both in songs and
It was of "vest-pocket" size and con- poems.
tained 304 hymns, among which Emma's oldest son, my father,
were many that are still familiarly shared his mother's love for music
sung in our churches. Emma was and song, and gave his children such
well educated for the times in which advantages of study along fhose lines
she lived, and used discriminating he could afford. His own voice,
and admirable taste in choosing her much like his mother's, had that pe-
songs. Some were old standard fa- culiar, vibrant, ringing quality that
vorites in use in other denomina- made it easily heard even in the songs
tions, but many were written by vari- of large assemblies.
Today's Youth
By William Peterson
(Director Extension Service, Utah State Agricultural College)
THERE is no greater problem Students are compelled to attend
facing Utah today than that school from the time they are six
connected with proper adjust- until they are 18, unless they gradu-
ment of its young people. Facts ate from high school in the interim,
disclose that more than four thou- This training is being carried at a
sand young people in the State of high cost in comparison to the
Utah, past the age of high school wealth of the State. Every student
training, are at present unattached who graduates from high school—
and without employment. Statis- and all students have this oppor-
tics indicate that from the rural sec- tunity— requires an investment of
tions alone more than 2,400 young about $800 to finish the twelve
people are reaching the age of 21 grades. This is a complimentary ar-
each year. One county planning rangement, and the State can be
committee in its survey disclosed justly proud of such an achievement
that there were 240 married couples and of offering such an opportunity
without employment and without to all who grow up in Utah,
any home attachments, about 700 But after graduation from high
young unmarried men and some school, what is the outlook: A very
680 young unmarried women living substantial number of these students
at home but ready to take on the do not go to college. With some
responsibilities of life. At present it may be a lack of scholastic apti-
they have no jobs and no earnings, tude, with others it may be financial
Courage is needed to face this situ- reasons. Others may feel they want
ation. to assume the responsibility of estab-
Survey of the farms of the State ^'"^l"^ ^ ^^"^^- , , .
indicates that many of the farms ^.^"^ y^""g P^^P^^ .^P^"^ ^^"^^
have from two to four times more ^^^f^^"g .^"^^ complammg because
labor available than is necessary to "^thmg is offered to them. Com-
operate the farm. Still these people petition for work and )obs has grown
must have a living, and it is a tax ^^^y keen and each young person
on the farm industry to support peo- "^"^* f ^ ^^^ concept that it is going
pie far in excess of those necessary *^ be largely due to his personal ef-
to operate the farm. ^?'^ '^ ^^ ^^"^^ ^ satisfactory posi-
The same is true of the ranches
having herds of cattle and sheep. T JNFORTUNATELY, some false
It is not unusual to find a sheep notions have grown up that on-
investment called upon to support ly certain vocations are acceptable
four or five families when half this in modern society. The feeling is
number could perform all the labor that one must choose a profession-
necessary to take care of the herd. be a lawyer, a doctor, or a banker.
The school system in Utah is rated It should be cleariy understood that
as being among the best in the land, one vocation is as dignified and satis-
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factory as another, if it is operated in which he finds the greatest en-
on the same scale of efficiency, hon- joyment. If you look about you will
esty and integrity. The position of find a lot of men who say that they
a good farmer is just as dignified as have a "hobby". The "hobby" often
that of a banker or a doctor, if his means that the man has to do cer-
work is carried on with the same tain work in order to earn a living,
efficiency, and he should be rated and he does certain other things
just as high and should be just as because they are the things he likes
acceptable to society. to do. What a happy position that
The same is true with the artisan individual is in who is able to com-
or the tradesman. There seems to ^^^^ ^^^ ff "^"g ^^ ^ ^^^^^g ^^^^ *^^
have been a tendency in our educa- *^^"§ ^^ ^'^^' ^^'^'
tional methods to divert effort from rpHERE should be a definite effort
the trades-away from the use of 1 ^ stimulate handicraft in the
the hands. It would seem consist- yom^g people who are growing up
ent to say that the time has come j^ ^^e State of Utah. One step which
when young people should look with ^^1 promote this thing is to have a
favor on a greater use of their ability ^gU equipped shop in which young
to use their hands. The history of people can work. The shop should
Utah IS rich with reports of fine art- ^^ so positioned that the boys can
isans who came here m early days- ^o what they are inclined to do, and
men who knew how to build-fine be large enough to have their asso-
mechanics, masons, rock cutters, dates visit them at their work. The
wheelwrights, millwrights, etc. The ^^op does not need to be elaborate,
present generation are the descend- j^ should fit the inclination of users,
ants of these men and women and jt should have a good work bench
should be well trained and well ^ith a vise for holding boards and
adapted to handicraft. an additional vise for metal work.
There are those who question It should be equipped with some
whether our schools are giving full, good tools— not a lot of tools. The
rounded development. The curricu- boy should learn to appreciate and
lum is made essentially by school take care of tools and handle them
teachers, and some say, essentially so they are always sharp, clean and
for the training of school teachers, ready for service. The shop should
Of course, there was a time when be equipped with an oilstone, files,
advanced training did not apply to hack saw, hammers, planes, wood
those who were going to till the and metal chisels, etc. If the young
land or go into the trades; they boy who works in the shop is in-
should learn by experience and be clined, he may fit it with leather
apprenticed. Tliat day is past. The tools and sewing horse. The boy
best training that the schools can should be allowed something with
give should be used to stimulate which to work— either boards or
craftsmanship in any aptitude which metal. Of course, the boys will spoil
the student seems to possess. If one some things, but it is very much bet-
is going to enjoy the greatest happi- ter to have one or two boys spending
ness in life, he should do that work their time in a shop trying to make
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something than to have them loafing
and prowling around in other places.
A shop and an inclination toward
use of the natural resources that are
about us might lead to the develop-
ment of tradesmen and artisans who
will be outstanding in the communi-
It would be ill advised for anyone
to indicate what all boys and girls
should do. Yes, girls should have
access to the shop as well as boys.
Girls can build; they can paint and
give expression to their special artis-
tic ability. One may ask what this
shop could afford that would be use-
ful. Look about us and see what
we have outdoors. Thousands of
dollars worth of cedar chests are sold
in the State of Utah each year. The
cedar in these chests is the same
that is contained in the mountain
junipers. The mountain juniper is
known generally as cedar. The pre-
servative quality of the wood is the
strong aroma of the cedar oil it con-
tains. Spread over the State are
literally many thousands of trees suf-
ficiently large to saw into boards
which might be converted into
chests for preserving clothing. This
wood is actually the same material
that is found in the expensive cedar
chests sold on the market, except the
expensive chest has a veneer of at-
tractive wood glued on as an outside
cover. (Young people might even
try making the glue.) Trimmings
and equipment vary with the type of
chest. Native cedar-wood chests
offer a preservative receptacle for
the clothing in each home. The
young man or young woman with
unusually mechanical trends may
develop something especially attrac-
tive for the market.
Only recently a man made a trip
from the north end of the State to
the south end to visit a gentleman
who makes oak chairs seated with
woven rawhide.' These chairs were
taken back to New England. When
asked why he visited the Dixie area,
he said it is the only place where
such chairs can be obtained, and
they are prized very highly except
at home.
Utah is a mineral state and always
among the first two or three states
in production, but silversmiths are
few and not known in most locali-
ties. Both boys and girls with me-
chanical abilities could profitably
busy themselves in shaping and
forming silver into jewelry and or-
naments. Ninety-one years ago the
Wm. Rogers Company came into
existence in a small shop not well
equipped. Effort need not be con-
fined to silver, but silver adapts itself
to the forming of bracelets, rings,
brooches, silver plating etc.; and as-
sociated with it may be used Utah
stones. Variscite, a highly colored
aluminum phosphate, procured in
the Stansbury mountains, has been
called "Utah stone". The rough
stone can be obtained at little ex-
pense. The shaping of this into
settings that would be satisfactory
for jewelry is an invitation to the
finest craftsmanship. Other miner-
als might be obtained. Topaz crys-
tals on Topaz mountain have been
mostly investigated and surveyed by
people outside of the State. Re-
cently there was published a rather
fine description of the conditions
on Topaz mountain. The search
for these stones in that locality
might be as lucrative to inexperi-
enced people as to others who have
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spent years there. Utah abounds
in siHcified wood, opalized wood,
even high-grade opals that could be
readily cut and shaped for jewelry.
Copper is abundant and could be
easily obtained for shaping.
It might be interesting to young
people to go to the library and look
up William T. Baxter's hand-
book, "Jewelry, Gem Cutting and
Metalcraft". This may give a lot of
suggestions. Utah abounds in other
minerals that might be shaped and
put on the market. Many of the
ores are attractive. Elaterite and
ozocerite can be formed into all
kinds of attractive decorations.
A well equipped little shop and
a few tools with a grinding wheel
for working such material might
easily lead to a satisfactory industry
and a vocation for life. There is
always someone about who can help
and offer suggestions. Electricity is
easily available and may be used for
machinery and metal plating.
npO boys who live on farms there
is an important challenge to se-
lect and do those things that are
needed most. Why not try grow-
ing seeds — garden seeds, flower
seeds, or better grain seeds for farm
planting? Clubs can be formed for
this purpose either through the 4-H
club organization or the Future
Farmer organization. This is fasci-
nating and profitable.
Most boys and girls have been in-
terested in forestry but mostly in
identification. Every year many
trips are taken into the wilds of the
mountains, but too often these trips
are only a test of endurance and for
sociability. Too often this sociabil-
ity should be guided more carefully.
In Utah there is the appeal of the
out-of-doors. The out-of-doors may
be associated with people and crafts-
manship.
It might probably be the ambi-
tion of each young boy to make a
first-class hunting knife for himself.
This can be shaped from a good
piece of steel or a retempered file
ground into the shape desired and
handled with real buckhorn. Even
if the buck isn't killed by the maker,
horns can be found on the moun-
tains and can be carried back and
sawed into the shape desired. These
knives, if well made, could easily
be marketed and bring a profit for
the effort. They would be much
more attractive with a good leather
scabbard.
More work could be done with
livestock and poultry. There are
over the State a few very fine herds
which have developed from the se-
lection of a single, young, pure-bred
calf. The result signifies the interest
and sticktoitiveness of the young
people going into the project.
Fewer people are going into the
trades than in earlier periods. Often
boys will do some carpentry or other
work in school but fail to see the
advantage of taking up such work as
a trade. We must have mechanics,
butchers, tailors. Thousands of men
have their suits made by tailors, but
I have not noticed a young man
going into the tailor's trade. I am
sure there is an opening there.
npHESE opportunities in crafts-
manship induce effort and clean
wholesome thinking, while in many
cases if not taken up the person is
likely to be somewhat idle. Being
idle is not conducive to character
building. There is an old adage
that one is what one thinks. If one
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is occupied with problems which essence of religion is service to men.
are constantly challenging him to No man can live the abundant life
make a supreme effort, he cannot without being in a substantial meas-
help but be better in consequence, ure religious, giving whole-heartedly
The advantage of working with na- and joyously -of himself and his
ture is that nature teaches a lesson goods in the service and welfare of
of absolute honesty. It responds his fellow men. . . . The abundant
according to law and order. Let me life is promoted by knowledge:
emphasize that clean, honorable knowledge of things that surround
people develop from doing things us, knowledge of science, philoso-
which are clean and honorable, and phy, literature, music, the arts, song
that one vocation is not better than and rhythm, with the hands in
another, except as the individual handicraft and otherwise. The
makes it so. abundant life is promoted by
There are throughout the State ^^^ opportunity at times to be
organizations of young science ^^^^^ ^" *^^ ^^^^s, m the storm, be-
groups or home making groups, side the sea; at other times to mix
These have their advantage. They ^^^^ ^^^ crowds and be a part of a
provide a chance for discussion as social gathering-the convention,
to what is best and what is most de- the group, the camp, the recreation
sirable. In these groups ideals are center. In this new era we should
formed; character is built through a not be content until all men shall
more comprehensive outlook on life, have an opportunity to have some
I believe it is both profitable and work, some income, some leisure in
elevating for young people to not order that they may have a part in
only get the best education their the abundant life contemplated for
conditions will afford but also to get each man from the beginning."
the best training their inclinations If our young people expect to
will permit. succeed, be happy and satisfied, they
TT xirn jfLi t must give abundantly of their own
Henry Wallace, grandfather of ^/t^^j. rp,^ _ „i. u n- i.
i.c i.rA-1^ extort. Ihey must be willmg to pav
our present Secretary of Agriculture, i.i,^ ^^-^^ lL a^^ a I A
J r ^ J . • L ^^ ^ <<t- j thc pricc for the reward expected,
defines education as follows: Edu- au n j • i.i,
. . Ti. n • • 1 M r^^' Above all during those younger years
cation after all is simply the fitting .i ^ . i ^ i. i.- i.- i
£ . , . /J 1 , ^^ they must make a reputation which
ot the eyes to see, of the hands to n i„.i. 4.1, c ic 1. i.-
1 / . 1 • J ^ • M will last them for life, a reputation
work, ot the mind to perceive the c^^ ^ ^,. • . 1^ r • j ^■
J. i-i, £ i-u i. i.1 .. tor honesty, integrity, fair dealing,
truth, of the tongue or the pen to ^„ ^ ^ willingness to work. Thev
JTL .w "^ ^ ^ P'"', ' *ould be true to their religious con-
Ot all these that we educate ourselves ^ j ^ ^ .r^. i • ,
and become strong and clear-headed ^^P*' """°'f *° ^l^^'' *^t ^^^^
„ ^ they expect tor themselves. They
should study their own abilities and
Dr. C. B. Smith, who for many build on that which seems most
years has been chief of the Extension promising and most abundant. Any
Service at Washington, has become profession or vocation chosen can
a friend and philosopher among be dignified and satisfying if suffi-
young people. Dr. Smith says: "The cient effort and honor is put into it.
Aaronic Priesthood Activities
By Joseph L. Wiithlin of Presiding Bishopric
The following problem was brought to
us by a mother:
"My boy who now holds the office of
Teacher in the Aaronic Priesthood is less
active in his quorum than he was as a
Deacon, preferring Scout and other group
activities to those of his Priesthood quo-
rum. Where does responsibility for this
condition rest and how may the problem
be adequately met?"
Bishop Wirthlin's suggested solution is
here presented:
THE life blood of the Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints is activity. Activity is
to the Church what the sap is to
the tree. Prevent the circulation of
sap in a tree— the leaves wither, dry
up and fall; the branches become
brittle and hard; soon the tree be-
comes gaunt, ghostly, and unpleas-
ant to look upon. It is dead. Young
men, bearers of the Priesthood of
Aaron, must be free partakers of this
great dynamic force in the Church,
which stimulates faith, lays a foun-
dation for a testimony, and pre-
cludes all that is evil. That force
is activity.
The lack of Church activity is in-
evitable spiritual death. The salva-
tion of the youth of the Church is
inseparably associated with Priest-
hood work. Priesthood is the au-
thorized activity in the affairs of the
Kingdom of God.
To sustain the Aaronic Priesthood
membership in their active interests,
there are several factors to be con-
sidered:
First, the home and all of its re-
lationships to young men, particu-
larly the example set by the parents
in their activities, encouragement to
be dependable in Church assign-
ments, commendation for achieve-
ments. Point out the power of
prayer. Joseph Smith said, "Teach
them to pray. The prayer of youth
availeth much." Close cooperation
between parents, bishopric, and
Lesser Priesthood supervisors is of
paramount importance.
Second, the great need of the hour
is prepared, inspired leadership for
young men. A noted authority on
Lesser Priesthood work states the
case clearly in the following excerpt:
"We often speak of a boy problem,
but it is a man problem. \Vhen a
supervisor is efficient, prepared, in-
terested, and awake to the needs and
view points of the boy, there is no
boy problem. An interested super-
visor will meet his quorum Sunday
morning in consideration of assign-
ments, recitations, checking up, but
his real work is during the week, be-
tween meetings, checking up on ab-
sentees, encouraging the boy who
may have lost his interest in Priest-
hood work, and assisting boys who
may have personal problems.
lliird, if the Lesser Priesthood
Extension Plan is in operation, every
boy in the ward will be accounted
for, in some activity of the ward.
Should a Priest, Teacher, or Dea-
con manifest more interest in Scout-
ing than in Priesthood work, it is
the difference between a prepared
leadership and an indifferent one. It
is the difference between a well de-
veloped program of activities and
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one which has received no consider- Young men demand the positive
ation. I would say that mothers things in Hfe. They must have ac-
who have difficulty in having their tivity. They are searching for ad-
sons attend to Priesthood duties venture. These three are found in
should first take an inventory of the Aaronic Priesjthood work: positive
home and see that it is in order; sec- principles of life and Life Eternal,
ond, if the ward supervisor fails, con- activities by the score, and adventure
suit the bishopric; third, cooper- in searching out the truths of the
ate fully with all organizations in the Gospel. Activity is the life blood
ward that are interested in boys. of the Church.
HOW WISE
By Olive C. Wehi
How wise is man!
His wisdom has added years
To his life span.
He achieves to conquer Adam's curse
And to alleviate Eve's distress;
He has verily learned to create
Human comfort and happiness.
How wise is man?
He has wantonly created.
As only man can,
For himself and for his generations,
The ways and means that destroy
Mankind, body and soul, and rob
Life itself of meaning and joy.
How wise is man?
How good is he?
O God, in thy goodness
Judge mercifully!
Women We Should Know
LYDIA SPENCER CLAWSON-WIFE AND MOTHER
By Ramona W. Cannon
^ ' T AY me on an anvil, O God! the other girls would have lovely
I J Hammer and beat me!" party frocks. Lydia determined to
cries the modern poet, Carl have one, too. But how?
Sandburg. Sister Lydia Spencer Most unexpectedly she appeared
Clawson was much too young to at the old Octagon House' in the
make any such request when her Thirteenth Ward, near her home,
own shaping on God's anvil began, and asked to hem tablecloths and
It came without invitation, and, as napkins. 'Tou are too little," was
with many of our pioneer wives and the reply. 'Tou might give me a
mothers, the process was long con- trial," appealed the child. The trial
tinned and fraught with pain. Yet, led to what employment was avail-
Sister Clawson accepted her lot with able, but labor was cheap and dress
heroism, and from the ringing blows materials expensive. Lydia did not
of her life she emerged a character earn enough to buy her material,
of finest, staunchest workmanship Governor Woods' wife, a neighbor,
and beauty. knew the situation and left her sew-
From the first, she learned to ing machine with Lydia while she
master situations, however perplex- went on a trip. The child could now
ing, rather than become their vie- cut by the thread and sew flour sacks
tim. She was only eight when her from the factory at a penny apiece,
father, the gentlemanly and beloved Increasing her funds by making sev-
Daniel Spencer, died, leaving her eral hundred of these, she purchased
mother, Mary Jane Cutcliff, one of some black and purple checked cash-
his widows, with four small children mere. But alas, her mother was so
to support. There was a time when crowded with rush orders for dresses
each daughter had but one dress, that she could not even offer more
Yet the children were kept clean, than the slightest help to Lydia. So
for their mother washed their dresses the giri, not yet thirteen, laid papers
each night and ironed them each on the floor and experimented with
morning until the girls grew old cutting front, back, and side gores
enough to do their own and their until they looked right. She pinned
mother's too. the waist on her own figure many
At nine Lydia was tending babies times before sewing. Fortunately,
to increase the family income. At the dress and the party were a suc-
thirteen she regularly went out sew- ^^^s.
ing. That she could make dresses This same spirit of determination
was a chance discovery growing out not to be worsted, coupled with ex-
of her attempts to master her first traordinary ingenuity, dominated
great obstacle, the lack of a dress to Sister Clawson's entire life. She
wear to Prissy Jennings' birthday found a way to set Rennie's broken
party. Prissy was rich, and she and collar bone when no medical help
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was available; to remove from her
own throat the ulcers which were
choking her when she had diph-
theria; to manage Rudger Junior's
convulsions when, weak from her
own illness, she had no strength her-
self.
Soon Lydia was sewing, earning a
dollar a day, which she turned over
to her mother. Frequently, after a
long day's work, she would come
home and cut out and make a Moth-
er Hubbard. Quick and expert, she
could complete one in two hours.
"Ugly things. Mother Hubbards,"
confides Sister Clawson, ''but they
were in great demand, though I
could never come to being seen in
one myself." This pride in personal
appearance has always kept Sister
LYDIA SPENCER CLAWSON
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Clawson looking the superior person
that she is, and makes it a joy to
meet her now in her seventy-ninth
year, whether at home or on the
street.
Lydia's family moved to Pleasant
Green when she was still a young
girl. She became secretary of the
Sunday School and a visiting teacher
in Relief Society. Sometimes an
unprovided, expectant mother was
found. The teachers would gather
donations of money or materials,
supply the rest from their own slen-
der purses, and make a layette, with
petticoats and dresses to reach from
the mother's knee to the floor.
T YD I A, quick-witted, good-na-
tured, a worker and a noted
beauty, was frequently sought in
marriage. But she was in no hurry.
"I never want to marry an apostle,
a stake president, or a bishop," she
would say. 'Things are too hard
for the wives when the men have to
be away so much. I want a good,
genuine 'Mormon,' but I also want
a mate." She drove so many other
stakes that her family sighed, ''Well,
it looks as though we shall have to
have some one made to order for
you." But to Lydia one young man
had long seemed made to her order
— Rudger Clawson, who even quali-
fied religiously, having no more im-
portant Church positions than those
of ward teacher and home mission-
ary.
In the course of time these two
were wed. That was a difficult pe-
riod, however, and Lydia continued
to sew, using the cumbersome tin
pattern-models in vogue. Then she
became a pupil of the Mather sisters,
who were teaching the drafting of
paper patterns to fit the figure and
conform to any desired style. Lydia,
who had had some original experi-
ence along that line at the age of
twelve, soon became expert. She
was a favorite with out-of-town cus-
tomers, because she required only
one fitting to complete a satisfactory
garment.
The birth of her first baby was a
terrible ordeal in which Sister Claw-
son's life was despaired of. The
child was always delicate. As the
years passed, Lydia nursed him
through many sieges of illness until
at twenty he died of typhoid fever
after his mother had watched him
days and nights without removing
her clothing.
Brother Clawson was only thirty-
one when he was called to move to
Brigham City to preside over Box
Elder Stake. Here was Lydia, only a
girl, face to face with the experience
she dreaded. But now she did not
flinch. She, too, like so many other
women, must make her sacrifices
for the carrying on of God's work.
Certainly through Brother Claw-
son's ten years as stake president and
remaining years as an apostle, her
life was no easier than her forebod-
ings had pictured it. Hers was the
problem of rearing a large family
with the father away much of the
time. She nursed children through
severe illnesses and did the extra
work required of her. Her heart
cried out in terror when a precious
soul hung in the balance between
life and death and the father could
not be reached. Her spirit perhaps
ached along with her body when her
husband came in one evening with
a group of men to be provided for
only a few hours before one of her
difficult births. But those were the
days when traveling was slow and
difficult, when there was a dearth
of hotels, and when hospitality was
less a matter of social interchange
than of grim necessity. Her experi-
ence was not uncommon among
women of the Church in rural com-
munities. Sister Clawson's two char-
acteristic comments about such
times are: ''Well, no one heard me
complain about it/' and, "I couldn't
have done it by myself— a higher
power carried me through."
The Clawsons' move to Brigham
City was a dramatic experience. The
train ran into a terrific blizzard and
was stalled for three days. The fam-
ily almost perished from cold and
hunger. Finally, arriving in the dead
of night, they found the station
room locked. Rudger, weak and suf-
fering from the inclemency of the
weather, had to make his way a mile
and a half to Sister Minnie Snow's
home, harness a horse and drive back
for wife, child and luggage. Sister
Clawson, waiting, could only pace
up and down in the icy blasts, car-
rying her heavy two-year-old child.
The Clawsons were not at first
cordially welcomed by the people.
This man was young, inexperienced,
unused to country life, a stranger.
Why should he be sent to preside
over them? Tliey received their an-
swer in the wise guidance and the
humility and beautiful spirit of
Brother Clawson and in the helpful,
lovable nature of his wife. The
family income being meager, Sister
Clawson at once began to sew again
and was soon in great demand. She
also raised chickens, sold eggs, and
kept two boarders. During their
eleven years' residence in Brigham
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MARCH - 1 ')5
City, she gave birth to five babies,
and once nursed herself through
diphtheria, only to find that the deli-
cate eldest child had contracted
scarlet fever. . Sister Emma Stohl,
learning the situation, braved the
two dreaded diseases and moved in
to help Sister Clawson.
OACK in Salt Lake, with Brother
Clawson an apostle, the family
of seven moved into a small house.
"But children want a nice home,"
says Sister Clawson. So she magic-
ally made room for nine boarders,
and with the income began to build
in the front yard a comfortable
home where they still reside.
Better times came. There were
the years of presiding over the Brit-
ish Mission, where this experienced
woman gave wise advice to the mis-
sionaries and the women. There
were trips with her husband, visits
to her married children in Washing-
ton, Chicago, and elsewhere. All of
these have been delightful to her.
Her zest for life is still keen, her
observations quick and alert, her ap-
preciation deep and spiritualized.
Sister Clawson chose the best of
all careers— that of a true woman,
wife and mother, whose price is still
"above rubies." Her children have
laughed and wept in her presence
and have been comforted and sus-
tained by her patient understanding
and her delightful sense of humor.
Affectionate always, she still stimu-
lates them and spurs them on to
achievement. Tliey truly "arise and
call her blessed." She feels that her
days spent with them have all been
"jewels strung on cords of love."
Nine human souls she has launch-
ed—like stately frigates— on the
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stream of time that flows into the memories of earthly riches, ease,
sea of eternity. Four of them early power or fame are less than the dust
slipped over the brink; but they are to eternal souls. Sister Clawson,
still hers, waiting beautiful and un- hand in hand with her husband, can
sullied for their parents. Truly her look upon her nine beloved children
life has been selfless and sacrificial, with their posterity and say, 'These
yet most ample in reward. When are ours."
oc^|^>
THE QUEST
By Elsie Chamberlain CarroJJ
The search for Beauty is a quest He often states that Beauty is
That ever lures the soul of man; A yearning of the soul, a dove
In various avenues he's sought That sits within the heart and sings
Since time in this old world began. The blisses of eternal Love.
He sometimes cries, 'Tve found
her. Now
My quest is done. Behold her—
Truth!"
Again his shout of triumph rings:
''Lo! Beauty is a name for Youth."
Another search and he declares
She hides in Nature's varied guise.
And may be found by anyone
Who looks with eager, seeking eyes.
He sees her as a little Child
With smiling lips and eyes that trust;
As Age that walks serenely on
Though cynics warn, 'The end is
dust!"
It's true that he has found in each
Of these some answer to his call;
But in a lovely Woman he
Will learn that he has found them
all.
The beauty of her form and face
He loves; and yet he holds supreme
The beauty of her heart and soul.
It lifts him like a glorious dream
To heights he thought he could not
reach
Without her to inspire— his Best.
Within her womanhood she holds
Consummate answer to his quest.
How Poor A Thing
By Mabel Harmer
CELIA HUNTER sat on the
veranda of her lovely, white
home drinking in the sheer
beauty of a perfect May morning.
The row of lilacs along the south
side of the lawn were giant clusters
of purple and beyond was the pink
and white of an apple orchard in
full bloom. The green lawn stretch-
ed away in front of her until it was
met by the trim picket fence.
She glanced up the road now to
see David Marshall's two little boys
trudging along on their way to
school, little Jerry's cap just barely
showing above the top of the fence.
As they reached the gate she waved
as usual, but instead of waving back
and going on, they opened the gate
and came up the walk. Celia went
down to meet them.
''Hello, boys," she greeted them.
"How are you this morning?"
''We're fine," answered seven-
year-old Bud, spokesman by reason
of his one year seniority. "We
thought that maybe you would give
us some of your lilacs to take to
the teacher."
"Why, of course. I'll be glad for
someone else to have some of them.
There must be hundreds on these
bushes. We'll pick a big bouquet for
each of you."
"Your flowers are prettier than
anyone else's," Bud commented, as
Celia began breaking off branches,
"and your house is prettier, and I
guess you're prettier."
"Thank you, young man." Celia
was amazed to feel the color creep-
ing into her cheeks because of a
child's compliment. "And that was
a very pretty speech. Do you think
we have enough flowers now?"
"I guess so. Anyway we can stop
by tomorrow and get some more,"
Bud answered complacently.
"Of course you can," Celia agreed
with a smile, as she released the
branch and turned around. And
then noticing for the first time a
rather large tear just below the knee
of Jerry's trousers, she said, "Dear
me, did you get that from my lilac
bushes?"
"Naw," Jerry replied, quite un-
concerned, "I teared it yesterday."
"But why didn't Betty mend it
for you?"
"Betty's gone home. She doesn't
work for us any more. There's a
new girl coming tomorrow, and may-
be she'll mend it." It was plain to
see that one tear in his trousers more
or less meant little or nothing in
Jerry's young life.
"Shall I do it for you?" Celia sug-
gested. "If we hurry we'll just have
time before you have to get to
school."
"Well— I guess so," Jerry conced-
ed, after a moment's hesitation.
"All right. Come up on the porch
while I run in for needle and thread,
and we'll have you fixed up in no
time."
She returned to find the boys seat-
ed on the top step arranging the
lilacs into two bouquets. "I can't
do a very good job on these while
you have them on, but we'll mend
them in some fashion."
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A FEW minutes later the boys had given all of her love to David,
were once more on their way What his feelings had been after
to school while Celia sat staring af- his hasty marriage no one had any
ter them with yearning eyes. Poor way of knowing, of course. After
little motherless tykes, she thought, the birth of the second little boy,
Sometimes the ''help" on the place Viola had taken ill, and they had
took very good care of them, and scarcely ever been seen at the village
there were other times when they gatherings.
were almost neglected. David did Her musings were interrupted by
the best he could, but his own work Hilda, the Swedish girl who assisted
was about all he could handle with- with the housework. "Do I make
out doing more than was barely chocolate or nut cake for the party
necessary for the boys. Viola's long tonight, Miss Celia?" she asked, ap-
illness, dating back to soon after pearing in the doorway with a dish-
Jerry's birth, had been very costly, towel flung over her arm.
as everyone knew, and since her ''Oh, I—" she was tempted, as
death, two years ago, David had often of late, to say that she
never seemed able to get quite wouldn't go. She was too old now
"caught up." to feel entirely at home with the
It was queer the way things had unmarried crowd, and it was no
turned out after all these years. She great fun to dance with the husbands
and David had grown up together ^i her old school friends. But it
on the neighboring places of their wouldn't do to settle placidly down
parents, had hunted the first flowers to old maidenhood and complete
of the spring and the last colored retirement, so she said almost bright-
leaves of autumn together. They ^Y^ "We'll have a chocolate cake,
had become engaged while they Hilda, but I'll come in and make it
were still in high school. Then myself when I've had three more
there had been that fateful evening whifl^s of this delicious morning."
soon after graduation when they had TN other days Celia would have
quarreled over something so trifling been very gay as she dressed for
that she could scarcely remember the party. She had a lovely new rose-
afterwards what it had all been colored crepe dress that matched the
about. In her pique she had gone color in her cheeks and made a per-
to the annual school picnic with a feet foil for her dark hair. But new
visiting boy from the city while dresses, even gay ones that recap-
David had taken Viola, blond and tured some of her lost youth, didn't
tiny with a doll-like face. The make such a lot of difference now.
next day David and Viola had run She wondered, as did many others,
away and married. why she stayed on in the little coun-
No one but Celia knew what a try town. In the city she could per-
blow it had been, but she held her haps be a "bachelor girl" with a
head high and kept her heartache career or at least an exciting job of
and disappointment to herself. But some kind. And she ended, as she
she had never been able to bring had done a hundred times before,
herself to marr\A anvone else. She by assuring herself that it was be-
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cause of the home. It had belonged Pleasant enough words, except that
to her father and mother, and they the tones were much more polite
had spent a lifetime making it into than friendly, and the smile was far
the gracious, lovely thing that it was. too brittle.
She couldn't bring herself to turn David's arm around her once
it over to strangers. more! David's eyes were looking into
Jed and Marcia Patten from across hers with just a dash of that willful-
the road called for her at dusk, ness that she had learned to love so
and they drove a short distance to long ago, and that had been the
the social. ''You take a whirl with cause of their undoing. But Celia's
Celia," Marcia said to her husband face reflected none of the tumult
as they stepped inside the hall. I that went on within her heart, for
promised to help in the kitchen for more important than any of this
awhile." was her pride— her pride that had
"You bet I will," Jed responded been hurt so badly when David left
enthusiastically, as Celia handed her her for another girl. So she kept
cake to Marcia. smiling politely and carried on a
They had circled the hall twice meaningless conversation about peo-
when Celia's quick glance caught pie and things that mattered less
David sitting at one side. It was the than nothing,
first time she had seen him at a social David left soon afterward, without
gathering of any kind in years, and waiting for the late supper, and Celia
her first feeling of surprise was fol- would liked to have gone too, for
lowed by one of sympathy for his somehow or other the party had lost
careworn appearance. Poor David, all its flavor and seemed utterly
she thought. He must indeed have stupid,
been having a hard time. But on
second thought, it was no worry of HPHE following Sunday was Moth-
hers. He had chosen his own path, er's Day, and as Hilda had been
and if it had turned out to be a given the entire day off to spend at
thorny one, he had only himself to home, Celia stayed home from
blame. She caught his gaze intent church to take care of the house-
upon her and was careful to keep work. She finished in a short time
her head turned in the other direc- and spent the rest of the morning
tion. picking flowers and putting them
The evening was almost half over into every vase in the house. It was
before he came to where she stood, one sure way of bringing sunshine
"Oh, hello, David," she greeted into rooms that were too dull and
him in cool, even tones, as if they quiet. But one could not pick flow-
had never been on friendlier terms ers indefinitely, so without bother-
than that of the merest speaking ing to prepare any lunch, since she
acquaintance. "It's nice to see you." was all alone, she sat down in the
"Thank you," he answered, and living room with a magazine,
then after a brief hesitation, "may I She was glad when the doorbell
—will you dance with me?" rang. Interruptions of any kind
"Of course, I'd be glad to." were a diversion, but she was sur-
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prised to see that her callers were with tears starting afresh now that
Bud and Jerry, for they had never there were no puzzled eyes watching
before ventured within her gate ex- her.
cept when she was visible on the
outside of the house. ^liTHEN the bell rang again half
''Come in, boys/' she said, smiling an hour later, she went back
down at them. "I suppose you're to the door to find David standing
just on your way home from Sunday there.
School." ''Come in," she said, in some agi-
"Yes'm," Bud answered. "We tation lest there still be tell-tale
brought you something." traces of tears on her cheeks.
"Something for me? How lovely. "The boys just came home," he
What is it?" said, "and they told me. I'm sorry
"These." Bud held forth a large, if they bothered you. They meant
square, white envelope, and Jerry well, you know."
promptly followed suit. "Of course they did," Celia re-
Celia opened the first one and plied quickly. "It was sweet of
drew forth a Mother's Day card. On them." There was a dangerous
the cover was a picture of a flower- break in her voice. Oh dear, if she
bedecked garden gate. She turned could only keep those tears back
to the inside and started to read this time.
the verse, but the title "Mother "Celia," David's voice was husky,
Dear" was all she could see through too, now, "I've been an awful fool,
the tears that were fast dimming her I've been too proud to come near
eyes. you because you have so much and
"They gave them to us at Sunday I so little. Your home is so beauti-
School to give to our mother, but ful, while I—"
we didn't have a mother at home "Why, David," Celia interrupted,
to take them to, so we thought we "it is you who have much. What is
would bring them to you," Bud ex- my home compared to your boys?"
plained. Then a bit fearful because David's face filled with a new
Celia had made no response, he light and hope. "Then you might
questioned, "Don't you like them?" be willing to— Oh, Celia, I love you
Celia dropped to her knees and so much."
gathered both boys in her arms. "Of "And I you, David," she answered
course I do," she cried. "I love softly, as his arms went around her.
them, and I love you." "I, too, have been nurturing my
A few minutes later the boys were pride, and what a poor thing pride
on their way again, each with an really is!"
orange in one hand and a piece of "Too poor a thing to crowd out
cake in the other, while Celia stood love," he said, as his lips touched her
in the doorway looking after them dark hair.
The Body's Need For Mineral Salts
By Di. Rose H. Widtsoe— University oi Utah
TO refresh the reader's mind the
writer repeats that the three
general purposes for which the
body needs food are: to supply heat
and energy with which to maintain
the body temperature, and to supply
the energy for the internal and ex-
ternal work; to supply building ma-
terial for growth and for the main-
tenance and repair of the body tis-
sues; to regulate the body pro-
cesses. We learned that energy and
heat are obtained from all of
our foodstuffs: the carbohydrates
(starches and sugars), fats and pro-
teins. The body's chief sources of
building material are proteins (meat,
eggs, milk, cheese, nuts) and miner-
al salts. Water, vitamins and energy
are also necessary for body building
and tissue repair. Materials needed
for the regulation of the body pro-
cesses are obtained from all of our
natural foods.
COMPOSITION of the Human
^ Body
The human body is made up
of approximately twenty elements.
By elements is meant the simplest
forms in which materials appear.
These elements are named in the
order of the greatest amounts found
in the elementary composition of
the body:^ Oxygen, Carbon, Hydro-
gen, Nitrogen, Calcium, Phosphor-
us, Potassium, Sulphur, Sodium,
Chlorine, Magnesium, Iodine, Cop-
per. Many other elements are found
in the body, and even though they
^Chemistry of Foods and Nutrition,
Sherman.
appear only in very small amounts,
they are important.
CPECIFIC Needs of the Body for
^ Mineral Salts
1. To Build and Maintain Body
Tissues. Just as a building needs
a strong foundation and a sturdy
framework to support the weight
that will be superimposed upon
them just so does the body need a
strong, well-formed skeletal or bony
structure to carry the weight of the
body and to protect its internal or-
gans. In order to build this skele-
ton, mineral salts are necessary, the
most important ones being calcium
and phosphorus. A sturdy, well-
formed skeleton is conducive to
health and gives beauty of figure and
graceful poise to the body. Mineral
salts are necessary for the growth,
development and maintenance of
teeth.
Mineral salts also enter into the
composition of the soft tissues and
fluids of the body but in much small-
er amounts.
2. To Regulate the Body Func-
tions. By regulating the body func-
tions is meant the orderly working
of the various cells, organs, glands,
and fluids of the body. The internal
work of the body is so intricate and
so important to life itself that it must
be accurately controlled. This con-
trol is largely the work of the mineral
salts and the vitamins. Some of the
important functions subject to min-
eral control are:
(i) To make possible the ex-
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change of body fluids from one part
of the body to another. For exam-
ple, the food that we eat is digested
and changed into a soluble form
within the digestive tract. This sol-
uble food must then be carried
through the walls of the intestines,
and into the blood vessels which
carry it to all parts of the body.
Finally it passes through the cell
walls, and it is in these cells that it
is oxidized or burned.
(2) To enable the muscles of the
body to contract and expand, as in
the beating of the heart, the breath-
ing of the lungs and in the external
work of the body.
(3) Mineral salts help to make
possible the oxidation or burning
of our foodstuffs in the body cells.
It is due to this function that the
heat and energy bound up in our
foods are released for the various
uses of the body, such as maintain-
ing the normal body temperature
and performing the internal and ex-
ternal work done by the muscles.
(4) One of the most important
regulatory functions of the mineral
salts is to maintain the normal,
slightly alkaline condition of the
blood and to give to the other secre-
tions of the body their normal acid-
ity or alkalinity. Some of the min-
erals, such as calcium, magnesium,
potassium, and sodium are base
forming or alkaline; and others,
namely, phosphorus, sulphur, and
chlorine are acid forming. By means
of the interaction, largely of these
minerals, the proper balance is main-
tained in the blood. It is vitally
important to balance the diet in or-
der that the body may have the right
amount of acid forming and base
forming foods which will insure the
normal, slightly alkaline blood
stream.
Acid Forming Foods
Meat (all kinds)
Eggs
Oysters
Oatmeal
Rice
Wheat, whole
Wheat flour
White bread
Base Forming Foods
All fruits, except cranberries, prunes,
rhubarb
All vegetables
Nuts, except peanuts
Milk
JZINDS and Sources oi Minerals
Most Needed
1. CaJcfum and Phosphorus!^
Among the inorganic elements, cal-
cium and phosphorus hold first
place. These two minerals are used
together in forming bones and teeth.
The bones contain 99 per cent of
the calcium of the body and 70 per
cent of its phosphorus. For normal
bone structure a definite ratio be-
tween the calcium and phosphorus
must be maintained. A disturbance
of this ratio one way or the other
will cause the disease known as
rickets.
(1) Special Functions of Calci-
um. Calcium has other important
functions than bone and teeth build-
ing. It is necessary in regulating the
action of the heart muscles. Calcium
is necessary to the clotting of the
blood. It preserves the normal re-
sponse of nerve tissue to stimuli.
Calcium is said to be the great regu-
lator of all minerals in the body.
Bones may be thought of as store-
houses of calcium and phosphorus.
^Chemistry of Foods and Nutrition,
Sherman.
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This supply may be drawn upon
temporarily when the diet does not
supply sufficient amounts of these
minerals for the body's needs. In
growing children, where bones in-
crease so rapidly in size, a liberal
amount of both calcium and phos-
phorus must be supplied in the diet
if strong healthy bones and sound
teeth are to be formed.
The amount of calcium required
by adults as determined by H. C.
Sherman is 0.68 grams daily; 1 gram
daily for growing children; 1 gram
daily during the last two months of
pregnancy and 3 grams daily for the
nursing mother. One quart of milk
each day, together with other foods,
fruits and vegetables suitable to the
child's age, will insure an adequate
amount of calcium. An adult should
consume at least 1 pint of milk daily.
(2) Foods Rich in Calcium
Milk
Cheese
Hard water
Vegetables, especially leafy
Potatoes
Egg yolk
Nuts — almonds, hazelnuts
Fruits
Wheat bran
(3) Foods Rich in Phosphorus
Milk
'Eggs
Lean beef
Wheat
Dried beans
Apples
Oranges
Bananas
Cherries
Dates
Potatoes
Carrots
String beans
(4) Special Functions of Phos-
phorus. Phosphorus is needed in
all of the soft tissues of the body.
particularly in the brain and nerve
tissue.
The amount of phosphorus re-
quired daily by the adult is 1.32
grams and fof growing children 1.5
grams. Phosphorus is much more
widely distributed in both the ani-
mal and vegetable foods than is cal-
cium. It is much more difficult, un-
less milk is used liberally in the diet,
to supply the required amount of
calcium than it is to supply phos-
phorus.
2. Iron. Iron is one of the most
important minerals in the body even
though it is required in relatively
small amounts. The principle func-
tion of iron is as a constituent of
the red blood cells. Without iron
these red cells cannot be formed.
Oxygen is carried by these red cells
to all the tissues of the body where
it burns the food, thus releasing the
heat and energy that was stored in
the food. The heat is used to main-
tain the normal body temperature,
and the energy is used to perform
the internal and external work of the
body. Oxygen must be constantly
supplied to all of the body tissues
in order to sustain life.
Iron deficiency is intimately con-
nected with the disease anemia,
which means that the blood does
not contain a normal number of
red blood cells. This condition is
very often brought about by an in-
sufficient amount of iron in the diet.
In many young, growing people, we
note listlessness and lack of pep
which is often attributed to laziness.
As a matter of fact, the real cause
may be too few red blood cells to act
as carriers of oxygen to the body
tissue so that the food can be burned
and yield heat and energy.
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The body possesses little ability
to store iron, so the daily diet must
include the body's needs. This ele-
ment is so important that Nature
safeguards the welfare of the infant
by storing sufficient iron in the liver
during the fetal life to last the baby
until it is old enough to eat foods
rich in iron. Milk is deficient in
iron.
The amount of iron needed daily
by an adult is 15 milligrams. Grow-
ing children require much more than
adults. It is now thought that in-
organic iron can be used by the body,
provided copper is also present. As
a general rule, it is better to provide
a diet that will meet the nutritional
needs for the minerals and vitamins;
but occasionally the diet can be sup-
plemented to advantage with inor-
ganic mineral and the synthetic vita-
mins for the natural vitamins in cap-
sule form.
It has been determined that cop-
per is necessary in order that the
body may be able to use the iron.
Foods. rich in iron and copper ar-
ranged in the order of greatest
amounts are:
Iron
Beef liver
Chicken liver
Beef muscle
Apricots
Peaches
Raisins
Apples
Prunes
Raspberries
Spinach
Beet greens
Cheese
Whole grains
Copper
Fresh calf liver
Beef liver
Nuts
Dried beans and peas
Whole cereals
Dried fruits, especially yellow
Poultry
Fish
Meat
Green string beans and peas
Leafy vegetables
Fresh fruits, especially yellow
3. Iodine is necessary to the man-
ufacture of thyroxin, a secretion of
the thyroid gland. Thyroxin helps
to regulate the rate at which the
body burns the food. When there
is insufficient iodine in the diet,
the thyroid gland enlarges in order
to provide a greater area through
which the blood can flow and thus
give the gland a better chance to
secrete a greater amount of iodine.
Women and adolescent girls are par-
ticularly susceptible to the enlarge-
ment of the thyroid gland when they
live in a region where the iodine con-
tent is low in the water and soil.
Utah water and soil are very defi-
cient in iodine, thus the vegetables,
cereals and fruits grown here are de-
ficient in this element. Fruits and
vegetables grown on the Pacific coast
and trucked into Utah are rich in ,
iodine and have done much to
relieve the people in the State of
this disease. Inorganic iodine is of-
ten administered under the direction
of a physician. Iodized salt is quite
generally used for table salt. This
also should be used only upon the
advice of a physician, as toxic goiters
are made worse by its use.
Foods Rich in Iodine (where soil is not
depleted of iodine)
Sea foods, fresh and canned
Iodized salt
Vegetables
Fruits
Whole cereals
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4. Other Minerals. Potassium
and magnesium are important in nu-
trition. These minerals appear abun-
dantly in a wide variety of plant and
animal foods, so a diet adequate in
other respects will contain an ade-
quate amount of these minerals.
Sodium chloride or common salt
is extremely important in control-
ling body functions. This mineral
is widely distributed in our foods.
The practice of adding salt to our
food as a condiment insures an ade-
quate amount. The excessive use
of salt should be discouraged.
pFFECTS of An Insufficient
Amount oi Minerals
When one or more minerals are
present in the diet in an insutficient
amount, serious defects in body de-
velopment and in the maintenance
of body processes result. Deficiencies
of different minerals produce differ-
ent symptoms as follows:
Calcium and Phosphorus, stunted
growth, soft, imperfectly formed
bones, poor, badly shaped teeth and
rickets.
Iron, anemia.
Iodine, enlargement of the thy-
roid gland.
/^UIDES ioi Insuring a Sufficient
Amount oi Minerals in the Diet
Milk and other dairy products,
buttermilk, cheese, etc., should be
used liberally in the diet of both
adults and children. Dr. Sherman
suggests that as a measure of safety
every growing child should have a
quart of milk daily and adults one
pint daily.
Fruits and vegetables of all kinds
should be used liberally. It is ad-
visable to use fewer potatoes and
more green vegetables. Fresh, green
vegetables and the yellow fruits are
the richest sources of the mineral
salts. In order to insure an adequate
supply of vegetables and fruits for
all year use, the canned foods should
be used.
Eggs should appear frequently in
the diet alternating with meat.
Whole cereals are a good source of
mineral salts.
Cereals Made up of Whole Grains"
Oatmeal
Puffed wheat
Shredded wheat
Whole cracked wheat
Dark Farina
Wheatena
Graham mush
Whole rice
Highly Refined Ceraih
Cream of Wheat
Light Farina
Corn flakes
Cornmeal, white
Hominy
Grapenuts
Pearled barley
White rice
Puffed rice
^Nutrition and Physical Fitness, Bogart.
The Shining Heart
By Sibyl Spande Bowen
Character Description and
Resume— 1ST Installment
IN the moldy decay of the old family
mansion on Puget Sound lives
"MISS BRILL" CAREY, spinster of 55,
christened Brilliant Alaska in honor of
her birthplace, and earning a sparse hv-
ing as a seamstress. Her interest in hfe
is centered in her niece, red-haired
NELL CAREY, who has ambitions to be
an artist. Lack of means to study and
the opposition of her fiance are defeating
the cause of art and hastening the day
of her marriage to
FRED NAGLE, practical, unromantic
young chicken farmer, who believes
money should stay in the bank and a
woman should stay in the home. He is
determined to see that Nell finds her
place in his home.
Miss Brill pockets her stiff Carey pride
and asks her father's old friend, wealthy
Philander Maddox, to give Nell a job in
San Francisco, hoping the girl will develop
her artistic talents and forget the stolid
Fred at one and the same time. Miss
Brill is convinced Nell does not love Fred.
The old lady walks several miles in the
rain to get some sewing to do, overdoes
her frail strength, and is found on the road
in a dazed condition by Nell and Fred.
Nell's joy at learning of the promised job
is overshadowed by anxiety over her aunt's
illness. That night Miss Brill suffers a
stroke, and Nell foresees a halt to her
promised career. But to Fred the mis-
fortune spells hope for an early marriage,
and he waits impatiently to hear the re-
port of Miss Brill's doctor. Nell is mysti-
fied by her aunt's mutterings about a "shin-
ing heart," but dismisses it as the delirium
of a sick woman.
CHAPTER TWO
NELL CAREY, small and slen-
der in her blue print dress,
picked her way over the beach
boulders to where Fred sat waiting
for her. She had sent him there to
get him out of the house. Some-
how, Miss Brill sensed his presence
there, and it made her very nervous.
Nell never questioned her affec-
tion for Fred Nagle. As he sat, sol-
idly competent, upon his rock, he
visibly embodied all the commoner
virtues. Nell knew that. Every-
body in Pine Point knew it. Fred
had led his high school class. He
had gone competently to agricultur-
al college for just the two years re-
quired to learn the theories of poul-
try raising, and with a practicality
that amounted to genius had
scorned to waste any more time in
the halls of learning. The embell-
ishments of classical education were
not for Fred. Now he was raising
poultry and was already regarded as
an authority by the men thereabouts.
With his usual forthrightness he had
also acquired Nell. How, she was
sometimes at a loss to explain, but
engaged to Fred she was, nonethe-
less.
Nell sighed in relief as she took
her place on the boulder beside the
young man. Say what you would,
he was a reassuring person to see on
this uncertain day. The good, brown
sweater that outlined his stocky self,
the short, curly, yellow hair neatly
brushed to his round head, the earn-
est set of his square jaw, his blunt
nose and clear, depthless blue eyes
all looked steady and safe as the rock
on which he sat. Nell felt suddenly
secure merely to be near him. If
only he did not look so stubborn!
"Well?" Fred asked. His ques-
tion was for Miss Brilliant, but all
his concern was for Nell. There
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were heavy, violet shadows under
her gray eyes, and her face looked
whiter than ever against the dark
chestnut of her windblown, curling
hair.
''I— suppose she's better. You
can't tell. She looks at you but
doesn't say a word. And we worked
—all night." The girl leaned her
head wearily on her hand.
''Didn't the doctor say what's
wrong?" the young man demanded.
"It's— a stroke," Nell admitted
hesitantly. "It seems she's had one
before— that time she said it was a
heart attack. It's what has made her
leg drag now and then."
"A stroke!" Fred exclaimed. "Peo-
ple are bed-ridden with those. I
know, because my grandmother had
one. The second one always keeps
them in bed."
"Oh, no!" cried Nell. She
clenched her hands tightly, fiercely.
"Oh, no!" But this time it was a
whisper. Ahead of her the shining
vision of San Francisco, of the art
school, wavered, crashed, like bright
glass shattered by the flight of a
malignant, dark arrow. When she
left the house this thing that had
struck so suddenly had seemed tem-
porary, just a slight upset in her
plans. Now suddenly she knew
that Fred was right. The second
stroke always kept them bed-ridden.
She shivered.
Fred watched the girl gloomily.
He felt almost angry with Miss Brill.
If she hadn't insisted on overdoing
herself, Nell wouldn't be faced with
this catastrophe. Then suddenly he
brightened. This illness showed an-
other angle. He rolled the thought
about slowly a minute, then grinned.
He had an answer to that art school
talk.
"Why, Nell," he said, "now's the
time we ought to get married. I'd
help you take care of Miss Brill."
Tears filled "Nell's tired eyes. For
a moment she was tempted, sorely
tempted, to throw the burden of the
thing upon Fred's strong shoulders.
But Miss Brill! She had never liked
the idea of Nell's marrying him,
stalwart as he was. And now— no,
she could not worry that confused,
sick mind merely to lighten her own
cares.
"That's dear of you, Fred, but not
now. It would excite her too much.
There's Dr. Schmitz coming out
now." Nell scrambled up hurriedly
and ran up the rough path to the
drive, Fred following. She looked
mutely at the doctor.
Dr. Schmitz patted the girl's
shoulder kindly. "Now, don't wor-
ry. Your aunt isn't going to die.
Not right away. Of course, she isn't
talking, but she's conscious, and
she's in no pain at all. Mary Kelly's
here to take care of her. And don't
let that bother you either. I'll see
that Mary gets her money."
Nell choked a little. "We have
some money. Doctor,— in the
Chinese chest." Money saved, pen-
ny by penny, Nell thought bitterly,
from their endless berry picking, an
infinity of stitching, a wilderness of
jam sold to the summer campers.
"Oh," Dr. Schmitz said, "that's
what she meant. Your aunt tried
to tell me something about a
Chinese chest and a shining heart."
He climbed into his shabby car. "But
don't worry her about it," he
warned, "she mustn't be excited
about anything."
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^ELL nodded mutely and fled ''Say/' Fred protested, ''I'd be a
along the grass-grown drive, be- fool not to be. I never pretended I
yond the house, to a log cabin down wanted you to go down there, did I?
near the water. Fred followed si- Sensible thing for us to do is get
lently and helped the girl upon the married. You can't swing this thing
stone platform that made an open alone. We can start work on the
porch where she liked to sit when new house up on Maple Hill and
she was troubled and look out over stay on here until it's ready," he said
the soothing, never-changing, ever- practically,
different waters of the Sound. A cold little fear shadowed Nell's
This cabin was a copy, as true and mind, an indefinable shrinking,
exact as old Tom Carey could recall Without stoppmg to thmk about
it, of his house in Brilliant, Alaska, thmgs, she knew Fred was right. She
He had built it as a refuge when the couldn't take care of the invalid
grandeur of the new mansion had alone-not when the little nest-egg
pressed too heavily upon his simple i" the Chinese chest was gone. But
soul. There he had collected his instinctively the girl shook her head,
bear skins, his rifles, his mining tools, nibbling hard on a piece of grass
his snow shoes, his elaborate parkas, ^ne had plucked,
and the great chests he and Anne ''Why not? That's the sensible
Carey had first taken to Alaska with thing to do," Fred exclaimed heat-
them. Miss Brill had added to these edly, his neck beginning to redden,
treasures from time to time, until She couldn't tell him, not now,
the place was known as the Alaska why she refused— that Miss Brill
house, sacred to the memory of would surely die if she left the gray
youth, of dreams, of vanished for- house; that the vision of the art
tune. There was a huge rubble fire- school, dim as it was, was dearer to
place in the main room, a four-post- her than he was. "It wouldn't be
er bunk piled high with the weight fair," she said huskily, "to dump all
of Miss Brill's perfect "hope-chest" our worries on you. Let's wait
patchwork. There was even a little awhile. I can take care of Aunt
kitchen lean-to, where old Tom had Brill all right, don't worry."
sometimes cooked himself a catch 3^^ in her heart she was afraid,
of salmon after a night on the Sound ^ow on earth she would manage the
in his punt. doctor bills, the medicines, the extra
Nell settled on the platform and dainties, to say nothing of Mary
looked soberly at Fred. He sat down Kelly's modest pay, was a nightmare,
beside her. Somehow they'd never planned on
"Well?" he said, his familiar Miss Brill's never being able to sew
opening. again.
"San Francisco's off, of course. I Fred muttered sulkily, "I only
stay here," she said dully, and looked wanted to help you out. You know
up in time to catch a satisfied look I'd do anything to get you, Nell,
on Fred's face. "Fred Naglc, I do I'd even put up with Miss Brill."
believe you're glad," she challenged He wouldn't have to put up with
indignantly. her. "I'm not ungrateful, Fred,"
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Nell murmured, ''but this time we'll
wait and see. Maybe she won't be
in bed so very long. She's always
been so strong. And anyway, I have
to stay here and take care of the
garden and things."
Still mooning over that art school
racket, Fred thought, and rightly.
''Promise me one thing, then. If
your aunt's not on her feet by sum-
mer's end, we'll get married."
Nell agreed listlessly. She was
even too tired to feel anything, much
less be thrilled, at the prospect of
her marriage. Besides, she had
known for a long time she would
some day marry Fred. It was just
that she wanted to study first. "You
can draw interest on your house
money that much longer," she said
mischievously.
"Well, you don't see me putting
good money into a house before I
need it," Fred retorted, as he assisted
Nell down from her perch. "The
garage is good enough for me, and
a lot better than most single fellows
have."
It really was, Nell knew. Fred
was snug and comfortable in his
domicile, where neat filing cases,
scoured kitchen sink, shower bath,
and business desk elbowed each oth-
er in orderly flanks. Fred's house-
keeping was as efficient as his poultry
keeping.
T*HE young man left her at the
kitchen door, and Nell went
slowly into the darkened house, her
fears upon her like a weight. She
didn't want to marry yet— not before
she'd had her chance. If the sick
woman knew she was driving Nell
to the very thing she'd fought to
keep her from! But she must not
know, not ever.
Mrs. Kelly, the practical nurse
Dr. Schmitz had brought with him,
tip-toed out of Miss Brilliant's bed-
room. "She isn't asleep," she whis-
pered, "but you can keep an eye on
her while I run home a minute. I'll
be back to get her ready for the
night."
Nell slipped into the big bedroom
and sat down in the carpet-covered
rocker near the bed. Miss Brill was
not asleep. Her hands, curiously lax,
moved restlessly over the red and
white of the patchwork bed cover.
Then, without opening her eyes, her
lips moved; she tried to speak.
Nell jumped up and leaned over
the bed, watching closely, her heart
beating fast. The struggle went on,
but no words came.
"Don.'t, Aunt Brill. Don't tr}' to
talk. There isn't anything at all you
need worry about," the girl whis-
pered urgently.
But the old lady's face worked,
and finally she managed, "Chinese
chest— shining heart." Then she
stopped, exhausted.
"I know about that. Darling,"
Nell told her soothingly, "and I'll
go right up as soon as A4ary Kelly
gets back and see that everything
is there. Don't fret. Nobody'll
steal it. Nobody knows about it."
She stopped short. Somebody did
know about it. She had told Fred
and Dr. Schmitz this very day.
Miss Brill frowned impatiently
but made no more effort to talk. She
isn't satisfied, thought Nell, and
looked about until she found a pen-
cil and pad of paper. The invalid
tried to hold the pencil in the lax,
waxy hand, but the effort came to
nothing. She sighed, and was still.
Nell sat down again beside the
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bed, troubled. This ''shining heart!" When Mary Kelly returned, Nell
Never before had she heard mention put on a sweater and slipped out of
of such a thing. Probably it was the back door. She hurried along the
nothing but a fevered imagination, beach path, her chestnut hair flying
but the girl meant to search the in the stiff breeze from the Sound.
Chinese chest to its very bottom, Her heart was heavy, but her mind
and discover what, if anything, wor- was made up. Yesterday old Phil-
ried the sick woman. ander Maddox, the rich man from
She got up presently and found San Francisco, had given her a job.
the package of Mildred Carson's Today he would get it back again,
trousseau linen and began to hem. There was no use hoping, with Miss
Miss Brill watched her with her Brill lying inert as a log in her bed.
sharp, black eyes, and gradually some I'll be taking care of her, getting
small bit of peace came into them, thin and old as she is, all the rest of
She's worried about the money, too, our lives together, the girl thought.
Nell thought, and hemmed the fas- And the sorrow, the panic in her
ter. Work she despised with all her heart, was not for herself, but for
heart, this hemming, but she'd do Miss Brilliant, who had had such
it until she went blind if it would high hopes for her girl,
ease the fears of Aunt BrilL (To be continued)
^K^
SPRING FEVER
By Zara Sabin
Ah, yes, I know the snows are deep
Upon the mountain-side,
That e'en the hardy violets
And crocuses still hide.
[ have not heard a blue jay jeer
Nor seen a lark . . . Who cares?
I can not wait another day
To paint the kitchen chairs!
HAPPENING
By Annie Wells Cannon
lyiARCH— Gladness comes from
within and is a gracious gift.
PHARLOTTE, Emily and Anne
Bronte are to be honored with
a memorial in Westminster Abbey—
the highest distinction Great Britain
bestows on its gifted sons and daugh-
ters. When a book stands the test
of years in the choice of the intel-
lectual public, it becomes a classic.
This is true of the works of the
Bronte sisters, especially of Char-
lotte's Jane Eyre and of Emily's
Wuthering Heights. The latter is
listed among the very few best nov-
els by the critic and novelist W.
Somerset Maugham in a recent
article on books.
PLEANOR PATTERSON, con-
nected with newspapers all her
life, and director of the Chicago
Tribune Company and New York
Daily News Company, has recently
purchased the Washington Heiald
and the Washington Times— a great
venture for a woman.
jy[ARGARET BYERS advises
women to ''Dress in tempo with
your temperament" in her book De-
signing Women. She is considered
one of the best authorities on the
art, technique, and cost of being
beautiful.
gARAH JOSEPHA HALE, be-
sides being the first woman edi-
tor in America, is responsible for
Thanksgiving Day as a national holi-
day, the movement to make Mount
Vernon a national memorial, the ad-
dition of 'lingerie" to our vocabu-
lary and the elimination of the word
"female" from the facade of Vassar
College. Newspapers are fine weap-
ons for accomplishment. The name
of the Relief Society was changed
from "Female" to "Woman's" Re-
lief Society in 1872, word being
sent to the branches through the
columns of the Woman's Exponent^
edited by Emmeline B. Wells.
A LLADINE BELL COUTTS of
Logan, Utah, was one of six
winners of Dramatists Guild fellow-
ships—a grant of $1,000 from the.
Rockefeller Foundation for encour-
agement of dramatic art.
QRACE CANDLAND JACOB-
sen of Provo, Utah has been
invited to contribute some of her
beautiful poems to the Bozart West-
minster, a quarterly magazine of the
University Press, Georgia.
N
ANCY RICH PUGMIRE, 84,
of Idaho, Elizabeth Palmer
Frost, 94, of Utah, and Mary J. Ran-
some, 85, of Arizona are among the
notable women and Relief Society
workers who died this last winter.
jyi ARIA M. JOHNSON of Mount
Pleasant, poetess and contribu-
tor to western publications, died re-
cently in her southern California
home.
jyt AUD ADAMS, after 20 years,
appeared before a limited audi-
ence on the Town Hall stage, New
York. In recounting incidents of
her theatrical career, she said of all
her parts Peter Pan was her favorite.
THE RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
JULIA A. F. LUND _._.-_- General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Amy Whipple Evans Emeline Y. Nebeker Leda T. Jensen
Emma A. Empey Rosannah C. Irvine Janet M. Thompson Beatrice F. Stevens
Annie Wells Cannon Nettie D. Bradford Belle S. Spafford Rae B. Barker
Lalene H. Hart Ida P. Beal Donna Durrant Sorensen Nellie O. Parker
Cora L. Bennion Marcia K. Howells Vivian R. McConkie Anna S. Barloyr
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor Belle S. Spafford
Manager .___--__-.. Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI MARCH, 1939 No. 3
EDITORIAL
Sfhat Which A Q
urs
npHE history of woman is one of
ceaseless activity. Her versatili-
ty, resourcefulness, inventive ability,
charitableness, love of beauty, self-
sacrifice, loyalty and love have been
important in the advancement of
civilization. No one today insists
that woman's contribution has been
a modest one. The result of wom-
en's influence was concisely express-
ed by a certain gentlenian when he
said: ''So far from women exercising
little or no influence over the prog-
ress of civilization, they are capable
of exercising, and have actually exer-
cised, an enormous influence; this
influence is, in fact, so great that it
is hardly possible to assign limits to
it, and, great as it is, it may with ad-
vantage be still further increased. . . .
It has produced powerful results and
has affected the shape and character
of the society in which we live."
The native instincts of women
have directed their various activities
into avenues of love— helpfulness
and service— and this is the only
basis upon which a superior civiliza-
tion can be built.
The history of the Church is re-
plete with instances of loyalty, sacri-
fice, courage, and intelligent effort
on the part of Latter-day Saint wom-
en, and their contribution in ad-
vancing the program of the Church
is inestimable. In an address given
by President Heber J. Grant at Re-
lief Society Conference, he said: ''I
think that the Relief Society has
done and is doing today a very re-
markable work in this Church, and
their work is appreciated very much
by the First Presidency and each
and all of the General Authorities."
The Prophet Joseph Smith recog-
nized the natural instincts and na-
tive abilities of women and the part
they were to play in the work of
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MARCH - 193
the Church. Though the attitude reahzed their strength, they have
of his day was that woman's place moved on to greater and greater
was the home, and the home only, strength, and their accomplishments
he enlarged her sphere and ''turned stand a monument to them. How-
the key" that she might rise, go for- ever, women must not feel that the
ward, develop self and improve position which they hold in the
Church and community life; that world today, and which has been
she might ''manifest benevolence ir- gained through such earnest effort,
respective of creed or nationality; is entirely secure. Opportunities
care for the poor, the sick and un- that are present now may not be
fortunate; minister where death theirs tomorrow. Appreciating the
reigns; assist in correcting the morals advantages which are theirs, they
and strengthening the virtues of should safeguard them and con-
community life; raise human life to stantly strive for further advance-
its highest level; elevate and enlarge ment. Then, natively endowed with
the scope of women's activities and humane instincts and keen percep-
conditions; foster love for religion, tion, with opportunities to constant-
education, culture and refinement; ly improve, they should play an im-
develop faith; save souls; and study portant part in removing prejudices
and teach the Gospel". and evil practices of society, in im-
Through organization comes proving laws and institutions— in
strength, power, and influence, im- making Christianity a reality in the
possible to attain individually. Op- world.
portunities for individual advance- What does the woman's move-
ment as well as service to others ment of the past mean to us indi-
are multiplied manifold. Through vidually? Do we appreciate the pow-
the Relief Society organization, the er and influence of women in the
entire Latter-day Saint sisterhood world? Are we active in preserving
has been elevated. Active participa- what we have and in steadily push-
tion in Church and community af- ing forward? Do we take advantage
fairs has advanced the women of Re- of each opportunity for learning and
lief Society until they hold a position service that presents? Are we alert
of leadership among the important to conditions about us which may
organized women's groups of the be improved, and to our individual
world. responsibility in their improvement?
Do we appreciate and value the or-
"lATOMEN the world over have ganization provided for Latter-day
made great advancement in the Saint women by a Prophet of God,
last one hundred years. Many doors through which we may work most
of opportunity have been opened to effectively? Women today are heirs
them, and they have forced many to many advantages. Let us be wor-
other doors to open. As they have thy daughters of noble mothers.
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LZ/r. (bllis Lrie^noids Shipp
"To live, kind Father, just
While I can execute this trust
Of mortal life in usefulness.
So long as I can others bless.
No longer do I ask.
"When that time conies, take me
To realms of immortality;
Renew my useful powers then
So I can live and work again.
For that will Heaven be."
D
R. ELLIS REYNOLDS SHIPP
received her answer to this
prayer, so beautifully expressed in
poetic phrase, January 31, 1939,
when her spirit was released from
earthly bonds to enter into immor-
tality.
Dr. Shipp was one of Utah's most
remarkable and noteworthy women;
her long life one of unselfish service
and devotion to her family, her
friends and humanity.
She was born in 1847, on the Iowa
prairies, when her father, with his
family, were migrating with the driv-
en people from Nauvoo. When she
was five years old, they resumed the
westward journey, and many inci-
dents were recorded on her mind,
which in later years she related in
her writings.
She lived almost a centurv and
noted the changes in a changing
world, from the oxen-drawn covered
wagon to the airplane, from the tal-
low candle to the electric light. The
deprivations and struggles of pioneer
life moulded a character of courage
and dependability which helped her
meet life's vicissitudes with strength
and calmness. Hers was no flower-
strewn path; yet, from the beginning
to the end, it was an unfaltering
course that led to a goal of achieve-
ment.
Dr. Shipp was an ardent student,
possessed of many natural gifts and
charm of person, and found happi-
ness in intellectual pursuits.
She was a devoted mother and
desired beyond almost anything to
afford opportunities for her children.
She chose the field of medicine as
a way to give service and gain a
desired goal. As physician and
teacher, hundreds of women revere
her memory for kind ministrations
and wise instruction.
For many years a member of the
General Board of the Relief Society,
Dr. Shipp made rich contributions
from her experience and practical
knowledge to that great organiza-
tion.
Among honors bestowed upon her
in recognition of her great service
was that of being the honored guest
at her alma mater in Philadelphia,
where she received a gold medal for
sixty years' service as a medical prac-
titioner. In 1937, when she was nine-
ty-one, the Salt Lake Federation of
Women's Clubs selected her to a
place in the Women's Hall of Fame
and bestowed upon her a medal for
distinguished service.
Her book of poems called "Life
Lines" portrays in the magic of
words her refinement of soul, her
love of all things beautiful in nature
and humanity, her hope and faith in
God— the fountain of all knowledge
and intelligence.
Her family and loved ones are
rich beyond words in a heritage of
loving service and sublime faith.—
A. W. C.
O^jtaiu FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretary
Wells Suke ^^^^ ^.^j^ g.'^^j. y^^^^^ Tanner as
npHE Arch of Progress program of the first president. General Presi-
Wells Stake ReHef Society, dent Louise Y. Robison and Sister
launching a campaign for 1,000 Amy W. Towler, present president,
members by the end of June, 1939, were also honored. Appropriate and
was held
Thursday af-
ternoon, Oc-
tober 23, in
W h i 1 1 i er
Ward chapel.
The Arch
symbol-
ized the Re-
lief Society,
with the cor-
ner stone and
founda-
tion repre-
senting the
o r ga n iz a -
tion in 1842
i n Illinois,
composed of
a small but
stalwart band
of women or-
ganized b y
the Prophet
Joseph Smith.
The walls of
MEMBERSHIP ARCH
inspiring ad-
dresses were
given, and
beautiful vo-
cal and instru-
mental music
was rendered.
Stake Presi-
dent Thomas
E. Towler,
former Gen-
eral Board
Member Sar-
ah M. McLel-
land, and
Bishops Wil-
liam A. Bate-
man and Fred
W. Schwen-
diman were
in attendance.
The pro-
gram was con-
ducted b y
Eva C. Hein-
er and Lorena
the Arch represented the steady W. Anderson of the Relief Society
membership growth of the Organiz- Stake Presidency. Refreshments
ation during the past 96 years. The were served following the program,
program was planned to encourage The auspicious launching of the
and inspire the women of Wells drive has been followed by intensive
Stake to carry on the noble work and effort on the part of every ward,
to enlist every woman within the The quota of 1,000 members has
boundary lines of the stake in the already been reached, and it is ex-
service of this great Society. pected that this number will be con-
The program featured the creation siderably increased by June,
of Wells Stake Relief Society in To successfully put over the Mem-
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bership Drive in the stake an award
was offered to the ward that reached
its quota first. The same idea was
carried out in one of the wards,
which proved to be very stimulating
and successful: The ward was di-
vided into districts, and prizes given
to the district supervisor and to the
two workers in the district enrolling
the most new members.
the program. The Stake Board of-
fered four prizes: one for the oldest
mother, one for the youngest, one
for the mother having the most
daughters and one for the grand-
mother having the most granddaugh-
ters present. The Central Ward,
which has an enrollment of about
65, carried off the first three prizes;
and the Eden Ward, which has
LEFT, LUCINDA GUSTAFSON.
RIGHT, MARY L. RANSOM
St. Joseph Stake
A MONG the delightful reports
of stake activities comes the fol-
lowing account of the St. Joseph
Stake :
''With the idea of increasing en-
rollment and stimulating attend-
ance, the St. Joseph Stake Relief So-
ciety held a party on August 23. Ev-
ery married woman in the stake was
invited to come and bring her daugh-
ters. Each ward was called upon
to give one or more numbers on
PAULINE COOMBS, AGE 87
about half that enrollment, took the
fourth prize. The oldest mother was
Mrs. Pauline Coombs, who was 87;
and Melba Layton, aged 16, was
the youngest mother. Mrs. Alice
Dodge, president of the Central
Ward Relief Society, had seven
daughters present, while Mrs. Fran-
ces Hancock of the Eden Ward car-
ried off the granddaughter prize,
having 17 granddaughters present.
''Other interesting facts were
learned at the party. There were
present eight mothers who were over
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80 years of age, four mothers who
had been in the Rehef Society for
sixty years, and ten mothers who
had worked in the Rehef Society
for forty years. Sister Mary Ran-
som, a member of the original St.
Joseph Stake Rehef Society Board,
was present and also her sister, Mrs.
Lucinda Gustafson, who was a mem-
ber of the second organization of
the St. Joseph Stake Relief Society.
is suggestive of the results that may
follow Relief Society General Con-
ferences :
"While enjoying the very delight-
ful Relief Society General Confer-
ence, we conceived the idea of com-
ing back to our stake and holding, as
nearly as possible, a similar conven-
tion. We were very careful in our
note taking and in listing the songs
and poems used. As soon as possible
WORK AND BUSINESS ACTIVITY, SAN BERNARDINO WARD
'The party was held in the after-
noon on the Thatcher Ward lawn,
and each guest was served with ice
cream and cookies. It was estimated
there were about one thousand in
attendance. It was a most satisfy-
ing sight to watch old friends shake
hands who had not met for years.
The stake officers felt the entertain-
ment was most worth while and
hope to make it an annual affair."
San Bernardino Stake
nPHE following interesting report
from the San Bernardino Stake
after returning, we held our conven-
tion, calling it a Conference Report
Convention. All of our wards were
represented by large numbers. Each
board member reported the depart-
ment assigned to her. The spirit of
the Lord was with us, a kindly feel-
ing prevailed, and ward workers have
reported that they felt almost as if
they had attended General Confer-
ence themselves.
"Sunday, November 20, singing
groups were organized in each ward.
We were thrilled with a group of
sixty Singing Mothers from our
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stake, who furnished four numbers
for the stake Priesthood conference.
The group was also asked to sing
two numbers at the Municipal Audi-
torium for the Covered Wagon
Days' program, conducted under the
auspices of the Community Church
Service, at which President Grant
and Elder Richard R. Lyman were
guest speakers. We are most happy
for the opportunity that was ours.
"The Work and Business meet-
ings this year are being enjoyed very
much. The above picture v/as taken
at the San Bernardino Ward on
Work and Business day.
''Our stake leader suggested that
each ward have a contest, displaying
a centerpiece for a Thanksgiving ta-
ble. The displays were attractive, and
members received many excellent
ideas for beautiful Thanksgiving ta-
bles. Some of the wards also ex-
changed Thanksgiving recipes.
''Most of our wards have an all-
day Work meeting, where much
sewing is accomplished."
Carbon Stake
npHE following is a report of the
Carbon Stake Relief Society
Membership Drive, launched No-
vember 1 and closed December lo:
"Our first point of contact was a
talk given in the Sacrament meet-
ings, where we tried to convert every
one to the mission of our Organiza-
tion and create a receptive attitude.
We took an entire program, includ-
ing an orchestra, to some of the
wards. After we felt we had ac-
complished our purpose, we asked
that the most enthusiastic members
be appointed to meet with us at our
first Union meeting.
"We decided to use a Member-
ship Arch, divided into four distinc-
tive units, and at the end of the
four years to use the completed Arch
as a grand finale of the drive. The
first year's activity was to be symbol-
ized by a baby whom the General
Board had left in our care for normal
development. We wanted the baby
to grow during the year until it com-
pared favorably with the excellent
program offered by the Organiza-
tion. We demonstrated this with a
skit. In each ward increased mem-
bership was to be symbolized with
the idea of developing a baby. This
idea made so great an appeal to the
mothers that it was decided that
every member could contribute to
the growth of the baby by being re-
sponsible for enrolling a new mem-
ber. Of course, each new member
must understand the three requisites
for membership and be acquainted
with all phases of the work.
"For the Union meeting a special
preliminary program was planned,
each of the seventeen wards of the
stake being represented by a girl.
With marching and song, they
dropped a bag containing their per
cents into the stake bag. This was
a competitive program and had the
desired effect.
"The wards held receptions, giv-
ing a prize to the individual bring-
ing in the most new members. These
were followed by a stake reception
at which time a hymn book was
given to each of the six wards having
the highest percentage of member-
ship increase.
"At the stake reception we found
that our Membership Baby had at-
tained four years' growth in one
year and that every ward in the stake
had reached its quota, some going
over. We returned this baby to
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Sister Cora L. Bennion of the Gen- counts of produce from these were
eral Board, who was our conference kept.
\isitor, with a copy of the quotas "At the close of the season, di-
up to that time. rectors of the contest as well as en-
"The Stake Presidency met with trants were enthusiastic over the re-
us and were pleased with our efforts, suits of the garden project and ex-
'The drive was a very satisfying pressed a desire to make it a larger
piece of work to every one con- and better enterprise the coming
cerned. It created such a spirit of year. Four prizes were awarded,
good comradeship and fun that we ' still more and better vegetable
still hear the echoes, and the ranks ^^.^ flo^^^r gardens in this vicinity
are still swelling. We feel that it j^^^t year is the aim of the Relief
has done much to help the wards So^i^ty, and plans are now being
in the Carbon Stake. formulated to conduct another con-
KoJob Stake test the coming season.
"lATE are indebted to Sister Retta ''Beginning early in the spring, a
R. Harmer, Secretary, for the series of meetings to instruct contest
following fine report of a garden entrants on various phases of gar-
project in Kolob Stake. We print dening will be held from time to
it as a fine suggestion to other stakes: time, and garden tours will be con-
'Tlanned for the purpose of stim- ducted during the summer. Regular
ulating interest in raising better and forms on which entrants may keep
larger gardens for family use both an itemized account of their garden
in winter and summer months, production will be distributed, and
Kolob Stake Relief Society spon- several fine prizes are to be given at
sored an outstanding garden contest the close of the season for the best
the past season. garden projects.
"Under the direction of President "Judging will be based on pro-
Hannah Clyde, who initiated plans duction, appearance, care and other
for the contest, Mrs. Prudence Pal- items. It is also planned to have
freyman, also of the stake presidency gardens grouped according to size
and W. H. Anderson of the high and type to further facilitate fair
school agriculture department, visits judging. Mrs. Clyde, Mrs. Palfrey-
were made during the summer to the man and Mr. Anderson will again
gardens entered, and accurate ac- have the enterprise in charge."
AWAKENING
By Celia A. Van Cott
I heard \oices in the garden
As I strolled up and down,
Pleading to loose their fettered bonds
For Spring had come to town.
The Crocus pushed her golden head
Above the crusted sod;
I pressed my finger to her heart
And felt the pulse of God.
DEPARTMENT
J[t
tention
\ LETTER containing the fol-
lowing instructions regarding
the musical program to be provided
by the augmented group of Singing
Mothers at the Relief Society April
Conference has been sent to all
stakes and missions. These instruc-
tions are of importance to all groups
of Singing Mothers:
I. Special Invitation
The General Authorities have
invited Relief Society Singing
Mothers to furnish music for
both sessions of the General
Conference, on Thursday,
April 6. Due to the significance
of this day, we deem it a real
privilege to be so honored and
have accepted the invitation.
We should like to have as
many stakes as possible repre-
sented.
II. Registration
The office is anxious to have
definite information as to how
many stakes and missions will
participate at this particular
Conference. If you have not
already done so, will you please
notify the office as to the num-
ber your stake is sending. It
is imperative that we have this
information. Owing to the
number of stakes participating,
we are compelled to limit each
stake to twelve members.
III. Songs
The following songs will be
used :
"Sanctus"— Gounod
eh
onsters
''Benedictus"— Gounod
"O Bread of Life"-Franck
"O Morn of Beauty -Si-
belius
The Lord's Prayer' -Gates
"For the Strength of the
Hills"
"Abide With Me"
"He Died! The Great Re-
deemer Died"
IV. Requirements
Again may we remind our
Singing Mothers that all songs
(both music and words) are
to be memorized. The last
three hymns are to be learned
as follows:
"For the Strength of the Hills"
—all verses, soprano and alto
parts as found in the L.D.S.
Hymn Book,
"Abide With Me"-all verses,
soprano part only.
"He Died! the Great Redeem-
er Died"— all verses, soprano
and alto.
The Central Group will sing
additional parts to make the
harmony complete.
Regulation uniform dress will
be used— black or very dark
skirt, with white satin blouse.
Full description of blouse, ma-
terial, buttons, ribbon, etc.,
may be found in j:he Novem-
ber, 1937, issue of The ReUel
Society Magazine.
As heretofore we are expecting
each stake to send a balanced
group.
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V. Four Days Involved
The first song practice will be
held in the Tabernacle at 9
a. m., Monday, April 3, under
the direction of Professor
Wade N. Stephens. It is im-
portant that Singing Mothers
be present at this time.
April 3 and 4 will be devoted to
placing of groups, rehearsals,
etc.
April 5— Relief Society Confer-
ence.
April 6— General Conference.
VI. Reservations
May we suggest that if some
of our women contemplate
stopping at hotels, it might be
well to write directly to the
hotels for reservations and
rates, as.soon as possible.
A TTENTION is called to the fact
that a department will be held
for Choristers and Organists as a
part of the regular April Conference
program. For the discussion period,
will choristers and organists kindly
bring written copies of any questions
they may wish to have considered.
This will conserve time and make
it more profitable and interesting
for all.
uiints for Studying (conference i/lusic
By Wade N. Stephens
"O MORN OF BEAUTY"
T^HIS piece should be taught in
strict tempo, being sure that the
last long note in each phrase is well
sustained throughout its full value.
Where the second soprano part is
divided, the two notes should be
sung by an equal number of voices
if possible. Where this cannot be
done, put more voices on the lower
part. In dividing the first alto, if
you have an uneven number of
voices, put more on the lower part
also.
'O BREAD OF LIFE"
I
N the first verse of this piece, a
change in words is to be made.
Beginning in the last measure of
the top line on page four, the two
lower parts sing "the living bread.
Holy". Please change this to read
''the holy, living bread". Otherwise
the first verse is to be taught as
written, with careful regard for the
rests.
In the second verse, do not teach
the solo part. Use only the three
chorus parts. On page six, the last
two measures, where the words are
''Giv'n with Thy tender love," teach
the first soprano the following notes
instead of those written:
Giv'n with Thy ten - der love,
The tempo should be rather slow,
and regular throughout except for
the last line, which is sung more
slowly. Be sure all the rests are ob-
served.
ON DEPARTMENT
Q/heologyi and cJesttmony
Lesson 9
PETER, THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH
Helpful References
James E. Talmage, Jesus the
Chiisty pp. 692-694, 702-709, 219,
768.
Charles R. Brown, These Twelve,
pp. 14-22.
A. B. Bruce, The Training of the
Twelve, consult index under head-
ing of Peter.
C. E. Macartney, "Of Them He
Chose Twelve," pp. 112-121.
F. J. Mueller, Chiist's Twelve, pp.
25-29.
nr^HE Risen Lord Piohes Peters
Heart. — The third manifesta-
tion of the risen Lord to his apos-
tles was on the shores of the Sea
of Galilee. (John 21:1, 14) Our
Lord helped Peter and his associates
to another miraculous draught of
fishes. After dining on fish and
bread that the Savior had prepared,
Peter was subjected to a painful
questioning by the Master. It was
especially trymg to Peter because he
was by no means over the terrible
remorse incident to his thrice denial
of the Christ. '7^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^ Simon
Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest
thou me more than these?" By
"these" Jesus meant not fishes, as
some have suggested, but Peter's fel-
low apostles. One can imagine how
difficult it must have been for Peter
to reply, "Yea, Lord; thou knowest
that I love thee." (John 21:15)
Then came Christ's charge: "Feed
my lambs." Peter is no longer re-
ferred to as a fisherman, but as a
shepherd. The Savior asks Peter
substantially the same question
twice more. After Peter's agonized
declarations of love for him. He add-
ed respectively the injunctions:
"Tend my sheep" and "feed my
sheep." We may justly infer from
the Gospel narrative that the Christ
gave Peter the formal call to be his
earthly representative on the occa-
sion referred to. In addition our
Lord predicted to Peter— very ten-
derly we believe— the manner of his
death. "Verily, verily, I say unto
thee. When thou wast young, thou
girdedst thyself, and walkedst
whither thou wouldst: but when
thou shalt be old, thou shalt stretch
forth thy hands, and another shall
gird thee, and carry thee whither
thou wouldst not." (John 21:18)
The Gospel then adds: "This spake
he, signifying by what death he
would glorify God. And when he
had spoken this, he saith unto him.
Follow me." This meeting of Christ
and his apostles must have been a
most solemn occasion. Peter knew
that his Master had forgiven him
and expected him to carry on as a
true leader. In the end his love for
the Christ would be manifested by
martyrdom.
pETER Speaks on the Day of
Pentecost.— In another lesson
we dealt somewhat with the effects
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of the Holy Spirit on the apostles
following the day of Pentecost. At
this point we shall deal a little more
in detail with the part Peter played
in the drama of that eventful day.
According to the Acts, when the
Holy Spirit descended upon the dis-
ciples on the day of Pentecost, they
began to speak in tongues. The re-
sulting commotion was so great that
Jews from all parts of the Mediter-
ranean world (Acts 2:5-11), then
staying in Jerusalem, came running
to the spot. These were all amazed
to hear their own language spoken
by Galileans. "And they were all
amazed, and were in doubt, saying
one to another. What meaneth this?
Others mocking said. These men are
full of new wine." (Acts 2:12, 13)
Peter then arose to speak. He point-
ed out that those who were speaking
in tongues were not drunk, for it
was but 9:00 a. m. (Jews were not
accustomed to drink so early in the
day.) This unusual phenomenon,
he said, was nothing more or less
than a fulfillment of a prophecy
made by Joel (2:28-32) many hun-
dreds of years before. Joel had made
reference to the fact that in the last
days God would pour out his spirit
upon all flesh and show marvels in
the sky above and the earth beneath.
Peter seized upon this passage as the
quickest and most satisfactory way
of explaining to the crowd an un-
usual spiritual phenomenon. As a
matter of fact, his interpretation of
the passage was not correct, for when
the angel Moroni appeared to Joseph
Smith, he quoted the very same pas-
sage from Joel and said that it was
not yet fulfilled but soon would be.
(See "Writings of Joseph Smith,"
2:41 in Pearl of Great Price) How-
ever, the scripture served Peter's
purpose, and he went on from that
point to interpret to the assemblage
the meaning of the life and work of
Jesus the Messiah. The multitude
showed intense interest in Peter's re-
marks and asked guidance of him
and his colleagues of the Twelve.
The people were instructed to be
baptized in the name of Jesus Ghrist,
and there were three thousand souls
added to the Church that day. (See
Acts 2:14-41) It must have been a
day of great rejoicing. The young
Church of Christ had found itself.
So had Peter. He was a new man.
Gone was his fear, his timidity, lack
of spiritual insight, and desire for
political preferment.
\LL Things In Common.— Wise
men through the centuries have
attempted to solve the economic in-
equalities of society. So long as some
people have much more of this
world's goods than they need and
others have less than they need, or
even live in abject poverty and want,
so long must the Church of Christ
labor to solve the problem. Men are
born unequal in respect to mentality
and physical capacity. In a world
shot through with pagan concepts
and practices they are therefore
found to be unequal in ability to
acquire worldly substance. But the
economic necessities of most men
are roughly the same. When a man
has less than a certain minimum
of worldly goods, we know from
experience that such a situation is
liable to have far-reaching conse-
quences in terms of crime, sickness,
neglect, and other factors of direct
concern to religion. Tlie ancient
Church was aware of this. It would
appear to us that Peter was the lead-
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er in instituting a new and limited to the Gentiles. Peter was the guest
economic order. The Acts gives us of Simon, a tanner, who lived at Jop-
a very short account of what was pa in a house near the sea. Hotels
done. Living as we do in a day and inns were disreputable places,
when every conceivable economic and he naturally sought hospitality
panacea is being invoked, we should in a private home. That Peter
like to know the details of the an- stayed at a tanner's house is an in-
cient order. What we have is the teresting fact in itself and shows
following: ''And all that believed how the spirit of love and democracy
were together, and had all things was brought about in the ancient
common; and sold their possessions Church. The Jews regarded the
and goods, and parted them to all work of a tanner as absolutely un-
men, as every man had need: And clean. "It is impossible," said a
they, continuing daily with one ac- rabbi, "for the world to do without
cord in the temple, and breaking tanners; but woe to him who is a
bread from house to house, did eat tanner." The Gospel caused Peter
their meat with gladness and single- to judge men upon a much more
ness of heart. Praising God, and substantial basis than their trade. It
having favour with all the people, was while at Simon's home that he
And the Lord added to the church had the vision of the unclean ani-
daily such as should be saved." (Acts mals. (See Acts 10:9-16) Peter was
2:44-47) I^ow long did this order much perplexed over the vision and
last? Was it successful? Did it wondered what it might mean. The
spread into the various branches of answer soon came when the Spirit
the Church as Christian mission- sent him to accompany three men
aries carried the Gospel to the who had been sent by Cornelius, a
known world? Was Peter given a centurion from Caesarea. When
special revelation by the Lord to in- Peter arrived with his friends, he
stitute it, or had the latter taught found Cornelius and others waiting
the substance of the order to the for him. Cornelius related the story
apostles during his three years' min- of how an angel had appeared and
istry? These are interesting ques- had instructed him to send for the
tions, but their answers are yet to apostle at Joppa. Peter then preach-
come. However, the administration ed to those present. "Then Peter
of the order must have taxed the opened his mouth, and said. Of a
ability and ingenuity of Peter and his truth I perceive that God is no re-
colleagues to the limit. The experi- specter of persons: but in every na-
ence of the Church in this dispen- tion he that feareth him, and work-
sation has given us some idea of the eth righteousness, is accepted with
difficulties involved in the United him." (Acts 10:34) The Holy Spirit
^^^^^- fell on all who were present and
pETER Opens the Dooi to the ^^^e was another harvest of souls,
^ Gentiles.-One of the most im- ^^r many were baptized at Peter's
portant events in Peter's adminis- direction, (Acts 10:47, 48) The ad-
tration was that which made it pos- mission of Gentiles into the Church
sible for the Gospel to be carried created a sensation among the Jew-
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ish Christians and some dissension, tiles; but when they were come, he
(Acts 11:1-18) This was but natural, withdrew and separated himself,
for under the Law of Moses Jews fearing them which were of the cir-
were a "separate" people and had cumcision. ... I said unto Peter
special laws defining their duties to- before them all. If thou, being a Jew,
wards Gentiles. The Christians now livest after the manner of Gentiles,
began to see clearly that the Gospel and not as do the Jews, why compel-
of Christ had a universal character lest thou the Gentiles to live as do
and could be preached to non-Jewish the Jews." (Gal. 2:11-14) Evidently
peoples. the lines of cleavage in the Church
J n 7 T^ • .. 1 over the Law of Moses were so pro-
pEl LR and /auJ-It j^ "ahiral ^^^^^^^ ^j^^^ p^^^^ ^.^^,^ ^^^/^^^
to speak of Peter and Paul to- ^^ ^^ 3^t according to what
gether, for Peter opened the door ,^g ^^^^ ^^3 ^. j^^ B^f ^j^^ ^^jj
for preaching the Gospel to the Gen- p^^j ^-^^.^ ^^^-^^^^ ^^ ^^1, p^^^^ ^j^^^
tiles and Paul became the fiery apos- ^^ ^^^ -^ ^^^ ^ S^^^ ^-^-^^
tie to and champion of them. After ji,^^ p^^■^ ^^^ ^ ^^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^^
Paul s conversion Acts 9) he be- p^f^^ ^^j -^^ ^^ ^^^ ^-^^^^ ■^^■_
came the most brilhant expounder j^^^ as one of the proofs. At this
of Christianity Tlie contacts of j^^^ j^j^ ^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^^^ ^jj ^j
Paul with Peter are few but in- p^^^^.^ ^^^^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^^^.
terestmg. Paul mentions the cir- tremendous problems, and the ad
cumstances under which he first met rr^;„;cf^o4-,'^T. r^c *^u^ m...r...i. „,^o «
T^ . . T . 1 .. . .^ ^ 1 .• mmistration ot the Church was a
Peter in his letter to the Galat.ans. ^^^-^^^ ^^^^^^ Only a verv great
Then after three years I went up ^^^ ^^^jj 1^^^^ shouldered 'the re-
to Jerusalem to see Peter and abode jbility he did.
With him fifteen days. (Gal. 1:18) ^ ^
This meeting must have been an DETER'S Martyrdom.— Space pre-
unusually interesting one,— Peter, •* vents our treating other great
the apostle and man of business, events in Peter's life as we should
and Paul, scholar and orator. like to do. According to tradition
After fourteen years Paul went up he met a martyr's death. The First
to Jerusalem again. (Gal. 2:1) Ap- Epistle of Clement of Rome says,
parently there was a dispute in the "Let us set before our eyes the good
Church over keeping certain provi- apostle Peter, who, through unright-
sions of the Law of Moses. (See eous env}^ endured not one or two.
Gal. 2:1-10; Acts 15:1-29) Paul but numerous labors, and having
championed the cause of the Gen- suffered martyrdom departed to the
tiles and was upheld by Peter. On j^^^ ^f , ^^^ j^^^ „ Tertullian
another occasion, however, Peter Wj-at^x ^\. n v
1. 1 J 1 ' / , . • . • (about 200 A. D.) was the first
displayed a weakness (characteristic .. . , r 4^ . > i .i i
enough) which Paul immediately ^"^^^ *^ ^P^^t"" ,^*^'' ^^^ ^
noticed. ''But when Peter was come crucifixion m Nero s reign. Origen
to Antioch, I withstood him to the says that "at last, having arrived in
face, because he was to be blamed. Rome, he was crucified head down-
For before that certain came from wards, having himself requested that
James, he did eat with the Gen- he might so suffer." Peter evidently
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met death in his old age as the
Christ had predicted. (John 21:18)
Questions and Piobhms
(Deal only with as many as
time permits.)
1. On the day of Pentecost great
numbers of people were brought in-
to the Church. What apostle in
this dispensation brought great num-
bers into the Church in a short
time?
2. Why do you suppose the
Savior allowed Peter, Paul, and oth-
ers to preach to the Gentiles, but did
not do so himself?
3. Read I Cor. 9:5 and comment
on the probable difficulties and trials
of Peter, his colleagues, and their
families.
4. Have some one in the class pre-
pare a summary of the teachings in
the two Epistles of Peter. (We as-
sume here that Peter wrote both of
them. Some scholars deny that he
wrote either.)
5. Read Gal. 2:11-14 and II Peter
3:15-17 and comment on the traits
of Peter's character shown therein.
6. Wliat work did Peter do in this
dispensation? (See D. & C. 27:12;
128:20)
ViSitifig cJeacher 'Jjepartment
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 9
Healthy Mental Attitudes as Taught by Jesus
pAUL, an apostle of Jesus Christ,
says, "For God hath not given
us the spirit of fear; but of power,
and of love, and of a sound mind."
(II Tim. 1:7)
"The health of mind of an indi-
vidual will depend upon the emo-
tional attitudes developed. Some
are fundamentally unhealthy; some
are decidedly wholesome." (Ligon)
Jesus' teachings clearly indicate
those attitudes which are mentallv
healthy and which are the basis for
building strong personalities that
will stand against strong trials.
The attitude oi iaith in a father-
ly God is suggested by "Our Father"
from the Lord's Prayer. This rela-
tionship creates a feeling that we
are loved; a sense that all is well,
which minimizes the harassing ef-
ects of fear on the mind. This en-
courages faith in oneself, reducing
fear of personal failure. Jesus did
not say MY Father. All are His
children, all brothers and sisters.
Faith in the worthiness of humanity
is an impetus to serve the common
good.
Social interest, a healthy attitude,
is expressed in "Love thy neighbor
as thyself." Alertness to the needs
of others leaves no room for mental
disorders through self-pity or exces-
sive introspection. Giving through
genuine love strikes at selfishness
and at the danger of mental unbal-
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ance caused by the greed of getting, to better serve our fellows, we shall
''Love thine enemies/' Jesus have healthier mental attitudes,
taught. We cannot love our ene- }esus said, "Whosoever heareth
mies and at the same time be sick these sayings of mine, and doeth
with hate, anger, envy and suspicion, them, I will Hken him unto a wise
If we forgive freely, if we judge not, man which builds his house on a
we are not apt to be victims of a rock."
consuming bitterness of mind, or ,. . . ^ ,
•J f ]• f Visihng Teachers are to call attention to
acia retaliation. Theology, Literary and Social Service les-
If our motives for high persorial so^s, also Work and Business programs
achievement are guided by a desire planned by the ward.
JLiterature
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 9
The Late Nineteenth Century to Date
npHE novel, on account of its pattern for lesser people to follow,
length and very structure, is ad- His Treasure Island^ Kidnapped, St.
mirably adapted to a world which is Ives, and other stories, became the
rapidly becoming adult. In it, the fashion of his generation. They are
author, if he really has anything to still held to be classics of the lan-
say, has space in which to say it and guage.
an audience to which to speak. The This new type of romantic fiction
novel is the inside history of events is suggested by Phelps in the follow-
and people. It is history built from ing quotation : "Of all modern au-
the inside out, and therefore, is of thors, Stevenson is the best for
great importance to any age. youth. Our boys and girls follow
''Stevenson was thirty years old the arch-magician from wonder to
when George Eliot died," said Pro- wonder, and they learn the delight
fessor Phelps. of reading, and they absorb the
That young man stood ready to beauty of style, as one learns good
build a new literary tradition. The manners by associating with well-
realism of his predecessors was to bred exemplars. "For Henry James
give way to a new and gorgeous ro- describing a lady serving tea on an
manticism, though a restrained one, English lawn is not more careful
that places the novels of Stevenson with his language than Stevenson
in the front ranks of books of their describing one-legged Silver in the
kind in all the world. act of murder. Stevenson was
Stevenson, a painstaking worker, purely literary; he was not a great
produced his great romantic novels, dramatist nor a great poet, though
one after the other, setting a new he wrote verses and plays; but it is
208 - MARCH, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
abundantly clear that he was a great the so-called 'life" novels are Wil-
novelist, essayist, and maker of epis- liam DeMorgan, Arnold Bennett, H.
ties. In these three departments he G. Wells, and others in England,
stands in the first rank." All of these men wrote creditable
Stevenson, always sickly, died at novels which are already, in some
an eariy age in 1894. Almost im- cases, safely nominated for a posi-
mediately thereafter a sweeping ro- tion among the classics. Arnold
mantic revival got under wav that Bennett made an unusual stir with
flooded the markets of the Vorld his Old Wives' Tale; and H. G.
with romantic tales. Many of these Wells did much writing, especially
made excellent reading for pastime in the field of the so-called experi-
only. Among these which all of us mental novel,
can easily remember were fast-mov- Probably the man who looms
ing stories like The Prisoner of greatest among the English novelists
Zenda, which has recently had a of recent times is Thomas Hardy,
notable revival on the screen, When although Professor Phelps gives to
Knighthood Was in Flowciy and the Hardy's contemporary, George
Graustark stories which had such a Meredith, a place close beside him.
vogue nearly a quarter of a century Phelps, a Victorian at heart, likes
ago. the ''buoyant philosophy" of Mere-
During that revival, too, the de- dith better than the pagan philoso-
tective story had a revival in the P^Y of Hardy. He admits, however,
Sherlock Holmes series and the Raf- that Meredith's style is often ' per-
fles tales by Doyle and Hornung, re- Meetly opaque" and acts as "a hedge
spectively between him and his reader". So
These stories, though light and true is that statement that compara-
passing in nature, made interesting ^'^^\ few, other than the scholars,
reading; and many of us will remem ^P^"^ "^"^^ ^^"^^ ^^^^ Meredith,
ber hours of pleasure contributed "Meredith," says Phelps, "himself
by stories such as have been men- was a thousand times more interest-
tioned, as well as by manv similar ing than any of his works." Many
ones written about the same time readers will agree,
in America. On the other hand, Hardy's novels
Romanticism and realism, how- are most interesting even though his
ever, are usually to be found at the philosophy is stern and unyielding,
same time among men, although To him, man is in the unseeing, un-
during different periods one or the feeling hands of an inexorable fate,
other will have the ascendency ac- As Phelps puts it: "In Hardy's eyes,
cording to the greatness of the writ- we are mere bits of the vast machine;
ers. At the same time, therefore, we have no more influence than the
that these stories mentioned here spoke of a fly-wheel; we do not have
were being written, a greater school to wait until we are dead before we
of writers was busy upon what Pro- are rolled round with rocks, and
fessor Phelps is pleased to call "life" stones, and trees."
novels, a sort of reformed realism. For the benefit of those who may
Notable among these writers of not have an opportunity to read
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MARCH - 209
Phelps, the following bit is included:
"Thomas Hardy's superiority as a
novelist over George Meredith con-
sists mainly in three things: the per-
fection of constructive power (no
novelist was ever a better architect),
the beautiful stately march of his
style (First chapter of Return of the
Native, or Gabriel Oak telling time
by the stars ) , and the universal char-
acter of his dramatis personae."
"... of all living English novelists
(Hardy is now dead)/' says Phelps,
"none can possibly be considered his
rival. We may indeed truthfully
omit the word English; there is no
writer in the world today whose
prose fiction is of equal value."
Three of Hardy's novels have won
almost universal acclaim— Return oi
the Native, Far From the Madding
Cwwdy and Tess of the D'urber-
ville's. Phelps likes the first best, the
writer likes Tess best. It is a won-
derfully constructed piece of artistic
writing.
The twentieth century has seen
the rise of many writers among
whom are to be found several wom-
en novelists who may one day take
their places among the revered writ-
ers of their sex.
In order to avoid confusing the
reader, it may be wise to close this
particular discussion of the novel
with Thomas Hardy. He lived to
a good, ripe age, gave us many
poems, essays, and novels and has
gone to his reward. It is safe to
say that he will always rank as one
of England's very greatest novelists.
Some critics are already willing to
assign to him first place. Whether
he is eventually to occupy that po-
sition only the passing years can de-
termine.
A GLANCE at Chapter 9 in The Ad-
vance of the English Novel will reveal
the names of many novehsts of England
not mentioned in this brief discussion.
Many of them, as well as many whom
Professor Phelps has not named at all,
would be worthy of notice if there were
room.
Suggestions
1 . Read chapters 5, 6, 7, 8 of The
Advance of the English Novel.
2. Read passages from Steven-
son's Treasure Island as examples of
his style.
3. Read from chapter 1 of The
Return of the Native by Thomas
Hardy to get an idea of his style.
4. Brief book reviews of novels
by Wells, Bennett, DeMorgan,
Galsworthy, etc., would be appropri-
ate.
5. Review the definitions of a nov-
el found in Lesson 1 of this course.
6. Wilber L. Cross gives a list of
twenty-five prose fictions in his book
The Development of the English
Novel, Macmillan. They are Le
MoTte d'Arthur by Malory; Rosalind
by Thomas Lodge; Pilgrim's Piog-
less by Bunyan; Robinson Crusoe by
Defoe; Roderick Random by Smol-
lett; Clarissa Harlow by Richardson;
Tom Jones by Fielding; Tristram
Shandy by Sterne; The Vicar of
WakeEeld by Goldsmith; Castle
Rackrent by Edgeworth; Pride and
Prejudice by Austin; WaverJy by
Scott; Kenilworth by Scott; The
Pathfinder by Cooper (American);
The Scarlet Letter by Hawthorne
(American); Pelham by Bulwer-Lyt-
ton; David Copperfield by Dickens;
Vanity Fair by Thackeray; Barches-
ter Towers by Trollope; Jane Eyre
by Bronte; Adam Bede by Eliot; the
210 - MARCH, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Ordeal of Richard Feverel by Mere- changed some of these novels, but
dith; Return of the Native by Hardy; certainly all critics would have
Treasure Island by Stevenson; The agreed on the majority of them as
Brushwood Boy by Kipling. showing the development of the
Another critic might have English novel.
ibducation for cyamilii JLife
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Lesson 6
Relationship of Children in the Home
By Paul Fopenoey Sc. D.
(Director Institute of Family Relations, Los Angeles, Calif.)
A
T successive periods the child has
three different relationships to
the home. First, he must become
adjusted to the home his parents
have created. Then, he must break
away from that home. Finally, he
must go out and establish a home
of his own.
Obviously, this demands a high
degree of flexibility and adjustability
on the part of the young, favored
by a high degree of sympathy, un-
derstanding, and good management
on the part of their seniors.
I.
^HE child must become adjusted
to his own home.
This phase of the life process has
received attention in the first four
lessons of this series. In the light
of what lies ahead of him, it is ob-
vious that the child can not afford
to become too well adjusted to his
home; he must never be too depend-
ent. His natural tendency, almost
from birth, is toward eventual eman-
cipation. It becomes strikingly
manifest from the age of four or
five when he goes into the "nega-
tivistic stage" that often worries his
mother,— the stage of responding to
every request with "I won't". He
is trying to assert himself as an indi-
vidual, and (within limits!) he
ought to. For this reason, parents
must ever be alert not to let security
take the place of growth, but to keep
the two well balanced.
II.
HTHE child must then break away
hom his own home.
Sometimes this phase of adoles-
cence creates serious disturbances in
the family. It may end in juvenile
delinquency, runaway marriages,
and other behavior problems. Nor-
mally, however, it should be such a
gradual process that there is no
abrupt break or shock.
Older studies described adoles-
cence as a time of great stress and
mental turmoil, during which the
boy or girl went through various
crises. While this sometimes hap-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MARCH - 211
pens, all recent studies indicate that
this is not the normal picture. The
adolescent tends to move along a
fairiy smooth path, unless his par-
ents make it too rough for him.
The striking tendency toward re-
ligious doubt or religious fervor, to-
ward dramatic "conversions'' in par-
ticular, seems not to be experienced
unless as a result of outside pressure.
If sound patterns of religious life
have been built up in the years be-
fore adolescence, youth is likely to
go through the succeeding years
with a minimum of doubt and agi-
tation.
I do not mean to say that the
adolescent has no conflicts, for we
all have. I merely mean that they
are not as sensational as sometimes
supposed. He has many inevitable
conflicts, as for instance, between
his own desire for self-assertion and
independence, on the one hand, and
a carry-over of habits of submission,
obedience, conformity to family
ways, on the other. He also has a
consciousness of childishness, and a
strong desire to throw this off.
In a general way, the adolescent's
life is marked by three new trends:
1. Expansion of his social world.
He begins to read something more
than the ''funnies" in the newspa-
pers. He begins to take an interest
in politics, in labor questions, in
matters of church organization and
policy, in literature, art, and music,
to a greater degree than ever before.
He begins to get acquainted with
more people, to observe more and
think more.
This wider view makes him more
''family conscious," more sensitive
to the difference between his own
family and others. If he can be
proud of this difference, he will be
greatly helped. On the other hand,
if he comes to understand that the
ideals, the standards, the practices
of his family, are not a credit to him,
he can not help being resentful,
disillusioned, and sometimes vindic-
tive.
Parents will help in this important
period of growth by furnishing social
opportunities, promoting free dis-
cussion of controversial subjects in
the home, and by having the boy
or girl participate in as many con-
structive phases of the world's work
as possible. It is important not to
leave youth standing around the
edge, a mere onlooker. It must as-
sume responsibilities for its appro-
priate share of the work of the world,
especially at this period when it is
beginning to show a real concern
over such things.
As part of this general expansion
of the horizon, young people need
to feel that they are accepted by the
group outside their home. In other
words, they must make friends and
have a wide range of acquaintances,
associated with the feeling that they
are 'acceptable," well-thought-of by
those whose opinion they value.
Studies show that such popularit}'
belongs to those who are courteous,
helpful, co-operative, considerate of
others, honest, unselfish, and self-
controlled; who show qualities of
leadership; and who do not bluff,
bully, ''show off," quarrel, carry
grudges, think they are "picked on,"
try to evade responsibility or "alibi"
themselves, domineer over others, or
show too great dependence on oth-
ers.
These qualities (which are equiv-
alent to emotional maturity) can not
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be picked up overnight; they are the always be gradual. It's too late now,
products of parental training from —they'll have to let the young peo-
birth onward, which at this period pie go steadily out toward self-de-
will begin to produce "social divi- pendence.
dends" for their possessors. (c) Parents love a feeling of pow-
2. Increasing interest in the other er, and dominance over their own
sex. offspring is one way to gratify it.
This again has been discussed in (d) Parents are disappointed in
Lesson Four. Parents must be pa- their own lives and want to live them
tient and sympathetic with the man- over again, vicariously and more sat-
ifestations of youthful infatuation, i^factorily, in their children. Thus
must promote an adequate social a father may insist that his son (who
life under wholesome auspices, as wants to be an irrigation engineer)
through church organizations, and become a lawyer, merely because the
must particularly avoid anything like father himself always aspired to be
ridicule. If undesirable associations a lav^er, but was a farmer instead,
are formed, opposition and antagon- (e) Parents are lonesome. They
ism may only make the young peo- have not built up enough interests
pie more determined. Provision of outside the home, and feel panicky
plenty of more desirable and inter- at the thought of losing their main
esting associations will usually en- interest in life, their children. This
able the good to drive out the bad. is a common cause of interference
3. Emancipation from parents. ]>Y f mother-in-law: she simply
^ , ^ r J rt' £ hasn t anythmg on her mmd, so
Many parents find this process ot., .^ Si. t. - ^v. c
u 1 1 ^ • 1 • >> 1. T_ J takes too much interest in the at-
psychological weaning much hard- ^^.^^ ^^ ^^^ ,^
er on them than on the children. ,r^r^^^^ i »
Some are excessively lenient,-usual- (f) pccasionally parents don t
ly a reaction from their own child- ^^"^ ^^f'^ c^! J^^^^ J^ g^^^^ "P^ b^'
hood, in which they now feel that ^^^^^^ ^^^^ will make the parents
they were held down too strictly, ^emselves feel that they are old.
But the main danger is of the par- ^hey are clinging m an infantile
ents' refusal to give up control, ^^y ^"^ ^ semblance of youth, be-
which may be due to such causes ^.^^^^^ ^^^y ^'^ ^« immature emo-
as the following: t^«"^"y-
(a) The parents are reaching an (g) Sometimes parents keep a
age at which any kind of change child dependent because the child is
causes mental discomfort,-a char- financially valuable,-a girl helping
acteristic of the aged. her mother in the home, a boy as-
(b) They don't trust the results sisting his father in business or
of their own rearing of their chil- farming. If the child were allowed
dren; are afraid the young people to go out and live his own life, the
are not prepared to stand alone but parent would have to hire an assist-
will fall as soon as support is with- ant; and "business is business",
drawn. In such a case, the parents In short, failure of psychological
should have begun the withdrawal weaning or emancipation of the
process much earlier, since it must young is the fault of the parent, not
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MARCH - 213
the child. Its effects are so far-
reaching and disastrous that every
parent should begin, almost from the
birth of a child, to prepare it for
future departure from the parental
home and parental dominance.
III.
^HE child must establish a new
home on his own account.
Success in this undertaking, again,
is dependent on everything that has
gone before. It can not be learned
as some trick that might be taught
a few months before marriage.
If home, school, and church have
not built up the right attitudes over
a period of many years, the young
will be left to get their education
from the movies, the radio crooners,
and the newspaper headlines de-
scribing divorce scandals. Inevit-
ably, the young people will then
carry into marriage attitudes of pes-
simism, of cynicism, of defeatism,
which will make success difficult.
If, on the other hand, the home,
the school, and the church have
built up in the young an attitude
of determined idealism, a feeling
that the founding of a new home is
the most important job they will
ever undertake, that they will ex-
haust all the resources of religion
and science to make it a success,
that they will let nothing but a ca-
tastrophe interfere with success,—
then they will make a success of the
new home, as they would make a
success of anything they approached
in the same spirit.
Questions and Piohlems
1 . A mother says, ''Of course, my
married daughter must live her own
life; but after all, I have seen a good
deal more of the world than she has,
and if I find that she is living her
life wrongly, it's my duty as a parent
to prevent her from making irrepar-
able mistakes." Do you agree? Why?
2. A study of adolescent girls
showed that 40% of them began to
'pet" merely through curiosity. How
would you deal with this?
3. A recent writer remarks, "Fa-
thers and mothers will agree on disci-
pline and child care only when they
love and respect each other. When
husband and wife are emotionally
entangled and maritally unadjusted,
father has absolutely no place in the
rearing of his children" and should
let the whole matter be handled by
the mother. Do you agree? Why?
4. Dr. Edward Sapir, a distin-
guished American anthropologist,
answered the question, ''What is the
family still good for?" by saying that
it has four irreplaceable functions:
( 1 ) to give the sex relation its great-
est emotional value; ( 2 ) to rear chil-
dren in an atmosphere of intelligent
affection; (3) to socialize the indi-
vidual; and (4) to prepare the child
unconsciously for satisfactory mat-
ing in the future. What would you
add to this statement of the case?
5. Your high school boy has a
chance to get a job with a small
salary this summer. Someone says
that since you are perfectly able to
support him, you should not let him
take the job, but should leave it for
some boy whose family desperately
needs the money. What would you
reply?
Our Homeland Beautiful
Our homeland, wherever it is, holds
PERHAPS your home is one of
those along the trails that
many thousands travel to get a
glimpse of God's natural beauty. We
are proud of what Nature has done
for us. Can we be just as proud of
what we have done for ourselves in
furthering the beauty scheme and
making our homeland more lovable
and livable? Along our roads the
tourist spends most of his time
while traveling to the unusual spots
of beauty. Along these same roads
he collects an initial and continuous
impression of the inhabitants of the
community. He sees our homes,
our barns, our fences and our sur-
roundings reflecting our standards
of living. His impression is a lasting
one, collected as he speeds over our
splendid highways.
It is quite apparent that some parts
of the West have made some real
strides in the right direction during
the last few years, particularly since
the Church has fostered its Beautifi-
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still a great deal to do.
Certainly the least we can do is to
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after having the Word of Wisdom properly taught him, and he,
the official member, neglecting to comply with and obey it/'
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man can only be tested by his having temptation within his reach,
so no man can be considered as acting properly who cannot let
liquor alone, when that is within his reach/'
Wilford WoodruH:
"And when counsel comes we should not treat it lightly, no matter
to what subject it pertains, for if we do it will work evil unto us.
We have been called upon by the Lord and His servants to keep
the Word of Wisdom; it is time we did it."
Lorenzo Snow:
"Our mission is to the world and not simply to carry the Gospel
to the people, but to establish plans and lay schemes for their
temporal salvation. Our object is the temporal salvation of the
people as much as their spiritual salvation."
Joseph F. Smith:
"When I see a man professing to be a Latter-day Saint, or even
professing to be a member of the Church, though not making any
great professions of being a Latter-day Saint, befouling his breath
with intoxicating drink, with the fumes of tobacco, or unneces-
sarily indulging in stimulants, it grieves my spirit, my soul goes out
for him in pity and in sorrowful regret, and I wonder why it is that
we, individually, cannot realize our own folly, our own degradation
in yielding to these pernicious habits that are neither useful or
ornamental, nor in the least degree beneficial, but indeed harmful."
—Conference Address, April, 1908.
"During all my lifetime since childhood I have never known
of one man or woman who was an honest, conscientious tithepayer,
who observed the Word of Wisdom and who attended his or her
Fast meetings and Sacrament meetings and partook of the spirit
of those meetings, to lose his or her faith."
—President Heber /. Grant.
The
Relief Society Mag,azine
Vol. XXVI APRIL, 1939 No. 4
The Miracle of Carthage Jail
By Joseph A. and Eunice McRae
ILLINOIS was admitted to the 5 north, range 6 west, the northwest
Union in 1818. Hancock Coun- quarter of section 19. Their report
ty, situated on the western side was signed March 21, 1833.
of the state, bounded on the west Qne of the committee had been
by the Mississippi River, was organ- reading ancient history, especially
izedini825. At the time it was or- that of the Punic wars and the
ganized it was dependent upon founding of Carthage in Africa. The
Adams County, to the south. How- history stated that Carthage is a
ever, it became independent in 1829. Phoenician and Hebrew word, mean-
There was considerable controversy ing "New City". So our Carthage
in the beginning over the location came into existence as a ''New City'',
of the county-seat. The first four The town at the present writing
sessions of court were held at the has a population of 2,200, with beau-
home of James White, who lived tiful homes and seven churches,
on the river shore near the ferry
landing, directly west of what later HTHE historical center of interest in
became Commerce and then Nau- Carthage is the "Old Jail". Silent
voo. Two sessions were held in the and awe inspiring it stands, and few
home of Hazen Bedell, further south buildings in the vicinity are as old.
along the river shore. A log court The contract for the jail was let to
house was erected in the town of William Metcalf in the year 1839.
Montebello, six miles south of where Samuel Dickinson was associate con-
Nauvoo is now located, where court tractor.
was held until the close of 1832. In The building was constructed of
1833 *^^^ three commissioners of a peculiar limestone slightly yellow
Morgan County, on the north, were in color. The oldest residents do
appointed by the legislature to select not agree upon the location of the
a site for a Hancock county-seat, quarry from which the stone was
Two of these men met with the Han- taken. In an effort to locate similar
cock County commissioners and, stone to fill a small space below a
after making a thorough investiga- window, we hunted through several
tion, selected the site on township quarries in vain. At last, matching
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stone was secured from the founda- ried Elder John Taylor after he had
tion of an old barn. However, the been so cruelly wounded. Elder
owner did not know where it origin- Richards calls this room "the dun-
ally came from. geon"; hence, there was perhaps but
The building, which faces south, one window— at the present there
is two and one-half stories high, are two windows. TTie floor and
There are three rooms on the ground ceiling joists of this room are made
floor. The dining room in the north- of hand-hewed oak logs, eight
east corner is perhaps the one where inches thick and placed close to-
the Prophet and
his brother ate
their last meal
on earth. The
southeast corner
room was a liv-
ing room and
has a spacious
fireplace. Look-
ing at the smoke-
stained rocks on
either side, one
can well imagine
gether. The
floor and ceiling
were doubtless
covered with i ^
i n c h oak,
t o n g u e d and
grooved. There
was a cage at the
entrance, but
the cells and the
cage have long
ago been taken
away. The en-
William Metcalf, and Samuel Dickinson,
contractor and associate in building the Car-
thage Jail one hundred years ago this year.
the many tales here told of hero- trance is directly facing the head of
ism in hunting bear, wolves and the stairs.
other inhabitants of the forests as To the right and east of the stair-
well as tales of Indian encounters, way is a door leading into the room
The hearth was made of brick, much ^here the tragedy of the Martyrdom
worn during the years. occurred. This room has a fireplace
The other room on this floor is in and three windows, two on the south
the northwest corner of the buflding side and one on the east. Through
and is known as the "debtor's" room, the east window the Prophet
It is approximately 12X12 feet, about jumped to his death. The shot
the size of the dining room. On ^hich wounded Elder Taylor came
the floor of this room the Prophet through this window, the ball strik-
and his companions spent at least ing his silver watch and throwing
one night. This room is the only him back into the room. In this
room President Hyrum Smith's
body was found on the floor, his
head toward the east. The shot
came through the door— the bullet
one in the building showing any evi-
dence of bars on the windows.
There are two rooms on the sec-
ond floor. The north room was a
cell room where the more dangerous hole still remaining. Another shot
prisoners were confined. Just how was fired through the edge of the
many cells were in this room is not door, but this piece has since been
known, for the records are not in removed and a piece of pine fills
existence. This room is the one into the place. The piece that was taken
which Elder Willard Richards car- from the side of the door is here
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 219
in Carthage, and we have hopes
that some day we shall be able to
have it replaced. This room was evi-
dently the jailor's bedroom, for we
read that Elder John Taylor rolled
under the bed. Blood stains on the
floor are mute evidence of what hap-
pened there. The two rooms in
the attic were doubtless used as stor-
age rooms.
TN 1866 the building was sold to
Bryant F. Peterson. He remodeled
the inside and used it for a residence.
The cells were removed and also
the bars from the windows of the
''debtor's" room. Mr. Peterson paid
a French window installed, which
opened into a conservatory. A little
kitchen on the east was removed and
a larger addition took its place. The
well was filled and flowers planted
over the spot.
Considerable difficulty was expe-
rienced by us in locating the old
well. The oldest inhabitants were
not agreed as to its exact location,
but we began digging, and, though
we removed enough sofl to have dug
several wells, at last we found a place
which seemed to be earth filled. We
went down with a hole six feet in
diameter to a depth of 19 feet before
the wall of the well was encountered.
ARTOIS HAMILTON, OWNER OF THE HAMILTON HOTEL. HE TOOK
CARE OF THE BODIES OF JOSEPH AND HYRUM AT HIS HOTEL DURING
THE NIGHT OF JUNE 27, 1844 AND ACCOMPANIED THEM TO NAUVOO
THE NEXT MORNING
the county $1,100 for the property.
He sold it to J. M. Browning for
$1,500, who in turn deeded it to his
wife. Mrs. Browning purchased an-
other lot on the east, giving her one-
fourth of the block. In 1903 Mr.
Browning died, and Mrs. Browning
sold the property to President Jos-
eph F. Smith, Trustee-in-Trust for
the Church of Jesus Christ of Lat-
ter-day Saints, for $4,000. During
the occupancy of the Brownings sev-
eral changes were made. One win-
dow on the south was removed and
At the bottom we found two and
one-half feet of the old brick wall.
The well is now all walled up. There
is a curb on top, and we intend put-
ting in an old-fashioned windlass,
as was there in the beginning, with
an "old oaken bucket".
After the Church came into pos-
session of the place, it was left va-
cant for a long time, then it was
rented and turned into a rooming
house. This continued for about
eighteen years until the present oc-
cupants arrived.
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During the past year considerable of coming doom. Elder John Tay-
work has been done on the outside lor, who left his blood on the floor
and some on the inside. The cor- but was miraculously saved to later
ners of the building have been rein- preside Over the Church he so cour-
forced by concrete footings extend- ageously defended, said: ''We all of
ing ten feet each way. There has us felt unusually dull and languid,
also been a reinforced concrete wall with a remarkable depression of spir-
constructed around the building, its. In consonance with those feel-
which extends from below the bot- ings I sang a song that had lately
tom of the foundation to the soil been introduced into Nauvoo, en-
line. This should secure the build- titled A Poor Wayfaring Man of
ing for another hundred years. The Giief.
crevices between the stone on the ^'Xhe song is pathetic and the
outside have all been repointed with tune plaintive and was very much
lime and cement. in accordance with our feelings at
Paint has been removed from the the time, for our spirits were all de-
doors and windows on the inside, pressed, dull and gloomy, and sur-
There are six original doors in the charged with indefinite, ominous
house, and they are all made of solid forebodings. After a lapse of time
walnut. The door casings are made Brother Hyrum requested me again
of oak, walnut and butternut. Some to sing that song. I replied, 'Broth-
of the door frames have been made er Hyrum, I do not feel like singing;'
out of logs, hand hewed. Being full when he remarked, 'O, never mind;
of knots, they required considerable commence singing, and you will get
work to shape. Those who shaped the spirit of it.' At his request I
them were men with plenty of time did so. Soon afterwards I was sit-
and patience. This hardwood, af- ting at one of the front windows
ter all these years of seasoning, takes of the jail, when I saw a number
on a beautiful polish. of men with painted faces, coming
The hardwood used in the jail we around the corner of the jail and
found difficult to match, for a num- aiming toward the stairs." (See Rob-
ber of places had been eaten by rats, erts' Rise and Fall oi Nauvoo.)
and we had to find wood for repair.
On the whole we were quite success- /^ARTHAGE JAIL is known
ful, though the task required much ^ throughout the wodd. The reg-
time, some of the wood having to ister of visitors has names from Eng-
be ripped from larger pieces. Some land, far-off India, Brazil, Australia
of the solid walnut seats in the win- —in fact from the farthermost parts
dows are 25 inches wide, and they of the earth,
have plenty of knots, too. Soj^^ come to ridicule and make
Carthage Jail has a peculiar rec- light of the events that have made
ord. Some of the noblest and choic- the historic house famous, but usu-
est of God's servants were housed ally they go away with a quiet de-
here, and also some of his Satanic meanor and reverential respect for
majesty's most diabolical demons. the participants of that terrible trag-
The Prophet had a premonition edy. Some give way to denuncia-
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A VIEW OF THE OLD CARTHAGE JAIL SHOWING THE WELL IN PROCESS
OF RESTORATION. THE SECOND STORY WINDOW IS THE ONE THROUGH
WHICH JOSEPH WAS SHOT AS HE WAS ABOUT TO LEAP. JOSEPH A. McRAE
STANDS NEAR THE WELL
tions against the deed which was
committed. One gentleman said:
"I can tell you why those men were
murdered. They were too prosper-
ous; they were too high-minded and
had too exalted ideals to suit the
surrounding populace, who were
made up of the 'riff-raff' of human-
ity. Such people cannot look at the
success of others without envy." So,
various opinions are advanced, not
always unprejudiced, but those who
are unfair show how little they know
about what they say, when confront-
ed with the facts.
The "Old Jail" stands a monu-
ment to the past and a testimony
to the children of the future. Fin-
ished only four years before the
tragedy that stained its floors witli
the blood of martyrs, the only im-
portant event ever happening in the
old structure marks it from the thou-
sands of jails throughout the world.
The tragedy of the Martyrdom
marks the beginning of a great mi-
gration which almost parallels the
march of the Children of Israel. Jos-
eph Smith's name was little known
at the time of his death; now it is
known in every part of the earth.
His teachings are broadcast through-
out the world. Those misguided
men who took part in the assassina-
tion that deprived the world of two
of God's vicegerents thought they
had destroyed the work of those
men, but. they only gave it stimulus
that hastened it to greater heights.
Carthage Jail was the beginning, not
the end. Reputed to have num-
bered about 20,000 at the time of
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the Martyrdom, the adherents now In the midst of the thought that
approach nearly 800,000 in number, the "old must pass," the old stone
And where are the men who paint- building has weathered the storms
ed their faces for disguise and took of one hundred years, bearing mute
part in the terrible deed? Gone, and testimony that the ways of men are
their posterity do not boast of the not the ways of God.
deeds of their fathers; some of the We are happy in our work in this
principals died unenviable deaths. historic monument; we love it, and
Carthage Jail stands as a ''Miracle" we have many opportunities to de-
of a past age, in the midst of a fend the faith of our fathers. We
changing world, when buildings of have made many friends and have
the yesterdays are razed to make received many letters of appreciation
room for more modern structures, for the information we have given.
RESTORATION
By Lee Stokes
The youth and the angel
Alone on the hill
In the glory of sunset
In the peace and the still;
And the dust of the ages
Has spoken at last,
While the light of the Gospel
On error is cast.
The records of gold
By the angel defined
Are freighted with hope
For the good of mankind.
And Joseph the Seer,
No longer a youth.
Descends from the hill-top
A prophet of Truth.
Adventure With Books
By Sidney B. Speiry
ONE summer evening a few years
ago the class in Hebrew gath-
ered as usual in my office at
Brigham Young University. Brother
Howard Salisbury brought a book
which made this particular evening
unusually interesting and profitable.
It was a Hebrew Bible that had been
used by President Heber C. Kimball
in the School of the Prophets just
one hundred years before. The Bible
was bound in dark leather, and Presi-
dent Kimball's name was printed in
gold letters across the front of it.
Rich in historical associations, the
book gave us all a thrill as we ex-
amined it. It was to prove, however,
a forerunner of surprises.
Some evenings later Brother Jessie
Washburn, Principal of the Prove
Seminary and one of the veteran
teachers of the Church, came to
class and casually tossed two old
books on the table around which we
were seated. One of the books
caught my eye. It was a Hebrew
Bible about the size of President
Kimball's, but not as attractively
bound. I found the Bible to be the
same edition as the other. Hastily
turning to the front of the book I
searched for a signature. There was
one. A tingle went up my spine as
I read: "Horace K. Whitney, May,
1836." Here, without any doubt, was
another Bible that was used in the
School of the Prophets. I then ex-
amined the other book Brother
Washburn had brought and read on
the cover the following:
Manual Hebrew Grammar,
For the Use of Beginners
By J. Seixas
Second Edition enlarged and improved.
I knew this was a copy of Prof.
Seixas' Hebrew grammar such as had
been used by Joseph Smith and his
brethren in the School of the Pro-
phets. Turning to the inside of the
book we found Horace K. Whitney's
name and the date, as in his Hebrew
Bible. All of us by now were in-
tensely interested.
"Brother Washburn," I asked,
"where did you get these?"
"Oh, in an old bookstore in Salt
Lake today. I asked them if they
had any Hebrew books for sale, and
they brought these out. They gave
me both of them for fifty cents!"
Brother Washburn had not yet
had time to examine the books, and
our discovery of the signatures made
us all realize the value of his pur-
chase.
After a few days I came to Salt
Lake and acting on a "hunch" went
to a bookstore that dealt in second-
hand books. I asked the lady who
waited on me if she had any Hebrew
Bibles or grammars for sale. She
replied that she wasn't sure there
were any left because a man had
purchased several a number of days
before. But in a few minutes she
returned with three books. Two of
them I quickly discarded as being
of no particular value and turned to
the third. To my surprise and satis-
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faction it was another copy of Pro-
fessor Seixas' Manual Hebrew Gram-
mai. Hiding my excitement as best
I could I turned over the cover and
there on the fly leaf somewhat cov-
ered up by childish scrawls in red
crayon was the following:
N. K. Whitney
June 1836
I had in my hands the very Hebrew
grammar used by Newel K. Whitney
in the School of the Prophets. Bro-
ther Whitney was the father of
Horace K. Whitney and the grand-
father of the late Apostle Orson F.
Whitney. I turned to the lady who
was waiting on me and asked, ''How
much do you want for this?'' She
looked at the listing in the book and
said, ''It's marked fifty cents, but I'll
let you have it for a quarter." Need-
less to say, the book is one of the
principal treasures of my library.
Subsequently Brother James R.
Clark, now Library Assistant at Brig-
ham Young University, not to be
outdone, picked up in a Salt Lake
bookshop a copy of Riggs' Aramaic
Grammar with the name of W. W.
Phelps inscribed on an inner leaf.
The date, 1832, was also indicated.
Brother Phelps was closely associated
with the Prophet Joseph Smith in
the early days of the Church, and the
Aramaic grammar is a remarkable
commentary on the breadth of his
interests.
CPEAKING of Bibles-the reader
will note one of my hobbies—
about 1930 while teaching Hebrew
to a few students at Moscow, Idaho,
I sent an order for several inexpen-
sive Hebrew Bibles to a book dealer
in Chicago. In due time they ar-
rived. They were of many editions
and sizes. There was one edition in
two volumes beautifully bound in
leather. It was too bulky for stu-
dent use, so I put it on a shelf in my
office and promptly forgot it. Some
months later I was perusing a volume
dealing with various editions of the
Bible. It contained a picture of two
pages from the first American edition
of the Hebrew Bible. The general
make-up and style of these pages
vaguely reminded me of a Hebrew
Bible I had seen before. Getting
up from my chair I pulled down the
two volume Hebrew Bible from the
shelf where it had reposed for so long
and examined it carefully. Turning
to the title page in the first volume,
I found myself the happy possessor
of a set of the first American edition
of the Hebrew Bible printed in
Philadephia in 1814. The invoice
from the Chicago book dealer
showed that I had obtained the set
for fifty cents! I am informed by
a New York expert that it is worth
twenty times what I paid for it. The
satisfaction one gets from obtaining
a book of this kind lies not so much
in its pecuniary value as in the fact
that it has made history. Few persons
realize the tremendous influence the
Bible has had in shaping American
democracy.
OOOKS have personality. Some-
times one can take a book with
an ordinary personality and com-
pletely transform it in a very short
time, and usually an adventure ac-
companies the transformation. Let
me give an illustration: On the after-
noon of April 6, 1929, I attended a
reception at the University of Chica-
go in honor of Professor Adolf Deiss-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 225
mann, who had been a towering
figure in New Testament scholarship
for a generation. He was professor
of New Testament at the University
of BerHn. Scholars came hundreds
of miles to meet him. It was a mem-
orable occasion, and I determined to
make the most of it. Before leaving
my study room I pulled down from
my bookshelves a copy of Professor
Deissmann's New Light on the New
Testament, which had been pub-
lished in 1908. It was a little out of
date, but suited my purpose. Tak-
ing it in my hands, I proceeded to the
reception room where the crowd was
gathering. After a short program
we all lined up to meet Dr. Deiss-
mann. I was astonished at the
height and breadth of the man. He
was a giant physically as well as men-
tally. When it came my turn to
meet him he cordially shook my
hand, and I asked if he would auto-
graph the little dark blue volume I
extended to him. He looked at it,
and his face beamed with pleasure.
Stepping to a near by table he auto-
graphed the book in old German
script and added the date. Mean-
while I could hear several around me
expressing their regrets that they did
not bring books to be autographed.
Occasionally one may acquire al-
most by accident a book having an
unusual personality.
One day I stepped into a London
bookstore not far from the British
Museum. In an obscure corner I
discovered a number of old Syriac
New Testaments, grammars, histor-
ies and other works of interest to
specialists. I made a number of pur-
chases including a copy of William
Cureton's Four Gospels in Synac.
This book, published in 1858, re-
veals the text of an ancient manu-
script of the Gospels found by Dr.
Cureton in the Nitrian Desert in
1842-47. The manuscript is now in
the British Museum. Not until I re-
*
turned to America did the book re-
ceive a careful examination. On the
inside of its cover I made an inter-
esting discovery. Written in fairly
heavy ink was the following:
Francis Teluy Basett
(spelling of last two names uncertain)
Dulverton Vicarage
Immediately below this in lighter
ink was another name and notation
in a feminine hand as follows:
Agnes S. Lewis
bought April ii, 1893
Mrs. Agnes Smith Lewis was prob-
ably the greatest woman Bible schol-
ar of all time. She was the wife of
S. S. Lewis, a distinguished English
archaeologist. With her learned
sister, Mrs. Gibson, she discovered
in 1892, at a convent on Mt. Sinai, a
very ancient manuscript of the Gos-
pels in the Syriac language. She
published a translation of it in 1894
and a new edition in 1 896. The copy
of Cureton's work in my possession
is evidently the very one used by
Mrs. Lewis in making preliminary
studies of the Syriac manuscript she
and her sister had discovered. It is
another of my very prized posses-
sions.
AS a member of the Library Com-
mittee at Brigham Young Uni-
versity I have numerous interesting
adventures with books, sometimes
on a large scale.
Last spring I examined a catalog
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from a British book concern in Lon- versity. Even a layman can see the
don that had for sale several rare or value of having such fine sets at the
valuable sets of books dealing with Church university. The prices placed
archaeology. One set, Archaeologia, on these valuable v^orks were so low
published by the Society of Antiqu- as to surprise me. I went to Presi-
aries of London, contained 107 vol- dent Franklin S. Harris and asked if
umes running from 1770 to 1930. An- it would be possible to send immedi-
other set was the Proceedings of the ately for them. He was toiling over
Society of Biblical Archaeology and the University budget, and no funds
still others were the Proceedings of could be spared at the time; but he
the Cambridge Antiquarian Society promised that if possible he would
and The Survey of Western Pale- send for them later. I thought to
stine. I realized that these books myself, "These books will be snapped
would be of immense value for re- up by some institution before our
search and reference purposes in the order ever gets there." However,
fields of Bible, Book of Mormon, late in the summer I was happily
English, archaeology, etc. We are surprised by the arrival of all the sets
always especially desirous of getting in good condition. Our buy was a
fundamental works in the field of splendid one and will add materially
religion because of the importance to the religious sources available in
of the latter at Brigham Young Uni- the Heber J. Grant library.
NIGHT STILLNESS
By William A. Forsyth
The night was beautiful.
The atmosphere
Mystically still.
A full moon in a cloudless sky
Looking down
From a background of softly floating stars
Brought to my troubled mind
And saddened soul
A calm and gentle stillness,
A tranquil peace.
A Boy's Tithing Problem
By Presiding Bishop LeGrand Richards
The following problem has been sub-
mitted to us by a Latter-day Saint mother:
"My son who is a Priest in the Aaronic
Priesthood has been taught the principle
of tithing to the best of my knowledge.
I felt sure he was paying an honest tithing,
but upon a closer check-up I was surprised
and disappointed to learn that though the
boy was paying an honest tithing on a sum
which he received regularly from his fa-
ther's estate, he was not paying a full tith-
ing upon his own earnings. How may I
most effectively impress upon the boy the
importance of paying a full tithing upon
his entire income?"
Presiding Bishop LeGrand Richards'
suggested solution is here presented:
TRY to establish in the mind
of the boy the necessity of
being as honest with his Heav-
enly Father in the matter of han-
dling finances as he would be with
his earthly father or his employer.
If either were to leave him in charge
of his business with full right to
operate the same according to his
best judgment, with the understand-
ing and agreement that strict ac-
counting should be given; and if the
boy should sell $100 worth of goods
a day and report only sales of $50,
how would he feel about it? Would
his conscience be clear? Would he
feel that it was fair? How long
would he expect to retain his posi-
tion of responsibility?
It should not be difficult to teach
a boy that if it is right to pay tithing
on any portion of his income, it is
right to pay on all. How can we
make one part appear more import-
ant than another?
We are indebted to the Lord for
all we enjoy, even for life itself.
Without Him we could have no
existence. It is because of His plan-
ning that the earth was created and
that we are privileged to live upon
it. But He sent us here with a defi-
nite and distinct understanding that
we should account to Him for all
we do. In this accounting He has
asked that we give Him a tenth of
our increase annually. If we fail
to do this, how will we feel when
we appear before Him to account
for our stewardship? Will we feel
that we have been honest with the
Lord? Will we expect Him to say,
''Well done, good and faithful ser-
vant, thou hast been faithful over a
few things, I will make thee ruler
over many things; enter thou into
the joy of thy Lord." Or will we fear
that we will be regarded as an un-
profitable servant, of whom He said,
'Take away even that which he
hath. And cast ye the unprofitable
servant into outer darkness; there
shall be weeping and gnashing of
teeth."
Possibly the characteristic most to
be desired in life is that of dependa-
bility. The Lord must be pleased
when He has a son whom He can
trust under all circumstances. This
He indicated in the case of His ser-
vant Job. He permitted the evil
one to tempt him almost beyond
that which any man could be ex-
pected to endure, but the Lord
knew his heart and knew that He
could depend upon him, and Job
did not disappoint Him.
"Not mine to keep — not mine to spend,
Not mine to give, not mine to lend,
'Tis the Lord's part — 'tis the Lord's part,
A tenth of all I gain.
"He gives me all and asks this part.
To test the bigness of my heart,
'Tis the Lord's part — 'tis the Lord's part,
A tenth of all I gain."
Out-of-Door Development
of the Home Beautiful
By Rachel B. Morris, Landscape Aichitect
ORGANIZATION of the out- stranger gave her in exchange for a
of-doors into areas or units loaf of bread. Father may have
suited to different uses, just as planted the tree where it is because
indoors we have bedrooms, kitchen it was the only place he was sure
and such, according to the needs, to reach it with water and keep it
is the only satisfactory way to enjoy alive.
fully our home outside as well as But for you and me there are the
within the four walls. seed catalogs seductive with every
The wonder of our not-too-distant color and kind of plant, and the
past is that our "desert was made to nurseryman willing to supply the re-
blossom as the rose". If we are to quested plants in any stage of
build on that heritage in a manner growth, or nearby friends who are
worthy, we must not be content to complimented if we ask for a "start"
do the same things that our forebears of some attractive flower that they
did, for they knew many handicaps have been successful in growing,
difficult for us to realize, as they The responsibility that is ours is
struggled from day to day for exist- not to grow something— anything—
ence. but to select that which is best suit-
Grandmother may have had a ed for our particular purpose. What
flower because it was the only one might this purpose, this special ef-
that grew from the few seeds the feet, our individual problem of beau-
WHEN A VIEW LIKE THIS IS AVAILABLE FROM THE INSIDE OF THE
HOUSE, THE GARDEN BECOMES A BIT MORE A PART OF THE HOME.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 229
AN EXAMPLE OF A HIGHLY SATISFACTORY USE OF OUTDOOR SPACE
WITHOUT CENTERING THE HOUSE.
tification be? The answers to these
questions come only after we have
carefully analyzed each situation.
Planning outdoor property with
the thought of making it more beau-
tiful will first have to do with mak-
ing it more useful, for beauty with-
out usefulness seems artificial and
affected.
Best results will come for the aver-
age home when three aspects are
duly studied: first, that of the semi-
public, the view seen by all passers-
by; second, the service, which con-
sists of necessities used for living in
and maintaining the house; and
third, the private garden, which may
vary widely in size and development.
The location of the house on the
property, the floor plan or arrange-
ment of rooms, and the outdoor
plans should all be considered simul-
taneously.
A common opinion is that the
house should be "centered" on a
town property so as to present a bal-
anced effect. This is more often
untrue than not, and often the
cause of wasteful and disappointing
use of outdoor space. The front
facade is balanced by the proper
planting of enframing trees or
groups of shrubs. If the interest of
the house, possibly a doorway or im-
portant window, is far to one side,
the picture can be made to balance
by planting a large tree somewhat
to the other side and a much smaller
tree on the crowded side— never, of
course, in front of a window or door.
These trees serve as a frame for the
main part of the picture, which is
the house. Shrubs, chosen with the
size of the house definitely in mind,
will help to join the trees, the green
grass of the foreground, and the
house into a unified group. These
shrubs, to be in good taste, will not
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be individually too conspicuous
either in foliage or shape or they
will draw attention away from the
house rather than enframe it.
The distance of the house from
the street is largely determined by
the houses already existing in the
neighborhood, because an harmoni-
ous note is reached when there is not
too great variation. The ideal is to
allow just enough room for a simple
approach, without robbing the own-
ance of all adjoining lots, is to re-
serve this space for the setting of
the house, which the landscape
architect calls the semi-public area.
Because this area is semi-public,
it is definitely unsuited to any de-
velopment of a flower garden or use-
less architectural features such as
benches, free standing lattices or
other ornaments, which only detract
from the main interest of the house
and all in all result in an effect a bit
THIS ILLUSTRATES THE USE OF HIGH PLANTINGS TO OBTAIN A
DEGREE OF PRIVACY FOR YOUR GARDEN.
er of any of the private area that
might be developed in the rear.
n^HE charming American tradition
which makes the most pleasing
impression in the residential sections
of our towns and cities is that of
wide shady streets and open green
lawns. It expresses that very demo-
cratic freedom which is America.
Rather than push a high wall paral-
lel with a public walk, or hide the
house far back in the property, the
friendly, good-neighbor expression,
which improves the general appear-
ridiculous. Nothing will improve
this already well established front
lawn tradition in our country so
much as keeping lawns neatly cut
and green and uncluttered with a
number of shoddy ornaments or in-
congruous flower beds.
The next problem is to so arrange
the service— -kitchen entrance, gar-
age, coal chute and deliveries— so
that they are all easily accessible
from one driveway. Many unsight-
ly little sheds or old barns are left
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When It's Springtime
By Barbara Badger Burnett
JUST as soon as there's a tinge of portant to serve dishes intended to
spring in the air we all want to be warm, piping hot, and the chilled
do things, scratch around in the ones very cold,
garden, bring pussy willows and vio- Luncheon appetjzers are so versa-
lets and hyacinths into the house, tile that a whole book could be writ-
and entertain our friends. ten on them alone. Chilled and
The hospitality of every American jellied bouillons, iced tomato juice
household, whether it is a simple and fruit juices, tart fruit salads,
one or an elaborate one, centers molded or frozen, and strawberries
about its dining table. A luncheon with the stems left on arranged
is a delightful way of extending this around a mound of powdered sugar
hospitality. are attractive for spring luncheons.
A hostess who does things "just All kinds of scalloped dishes make
right" plans carefully every detail of excellent entrees. Scalloped fish
her luncheon. The menu, of course, baked in individual shells garnished
is of importance. There is a steady with lemon is a good spring dish,
demand for menus, and they are Then there are all kinds of creamed
always suggestive; but they seldom concoctions served in patty shells,
fit the case exactly. They depend on timbale cases, and even on toast
times and seasons, localities and points.
pocketbooks, community customs Spring is the very nicest time of
and individual notions. They are the year to make salads. The first
helpful but cannot be made whole- onions, tomatoes, radishes, and cu-
sale, and slavishly followed. cumbers seem to taste the best. Let
Every luncheon menu, no matter your salads be festive. Arrange them
how simple, must be balanced. It attractively, mold them, and garnish
must contain adequate amounts of them gaily. Mint sprigs dampened
each kind of food needed by the with cold water and dipped in pow-
body. There must be contrast in dered sugar are delightful for fruit
texture, harmony in color; and repe- salads.
tition of distinctive flavors must be Breads of all kinds, shapes, and
avoided. A simple rule to follow in sizes are served with luncheons,
planning the menu is to select an Quick breads and dainty tea bis-
appetizer, an entree, a salad, bread cuits are favorites. Have you tried
in some form, a beverage and a des- date muffins and orange biscuits?
sert. To this may be added extra Spring and summer call for chilled
dishes to accompany the entree— rel- drinks. Long, cold, fruit punches in
ishes, candies, and nuts. The entire frosted glasses garnished with cher-
luncheon may be served hot or cold, ries and mint add to any menu,
depending upon the season, the They should not be too sweet. Fruit
weather, and the foods selected. Hot flavors are delicate and are easily
and chilled foods may also be mixed, spoiled by too much sugar. Besides,
If this is done, it is better to serve a sweet drink ruins the appetite for
them in separate courses. It is im- other foods.
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The dessert can be the climax of accompaniments. Some foods need
the meal. If you want to hear "Ohs" a tart sauce. One food or flavor
and ''Ahs" from your guests, serve should not appear twice on the
a lovely ice cream mold garnished menu, such as tomato soup and to-
with fresh fruits, or a Baked Alaska, ma to salad, or onion in the meat
But if you are all on a "slimming" and also in the salad, or lemon with
diet, serve a dainty fruit ice. After fish and lemon pie.
all, we must remember that a lunch- ^p^ planning your menu take into
eon is a light meal served between 1 consideration the help you will
breakfast and dinner. We have a ^^^^ .^ preparation and serving; also
endency to serve more and heavier equipment for both cooking
foods than we should When you ^^^ ^^;^./ ^^^ ^^^^ ^ ^^^ ^^ J
serve at one o clock, let it be lunch ^^^^^-^^ ^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^^^ If
As to texture, liquid foods such .^^j^ ^^.^ ^^^^f^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^^1
as soups, beverages and sauces, along ^ .^ ^^^^^^^ ^^ .^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^,
with chewy foods and crisp ones, ^^- -^ ^^^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^ ^^
make the menu more interesting ^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^.^ ^^^^^ ^^-^^ ^ ^^^^.
and palatable - schedule and time chart, and pin
A scheme of one or more harmon- ^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^1^ ^^ ^^
izing colors is more interestmg than ^^^^ ^^^^ .^^ ^^^^^ ^^^ 3^^
one color alone. Foods are more ap- ^^^^ ^^^^. ^3 ^^^1^ You will
petizing m their natural color Oc- g^^j ^^^^ ^^^^^^3 ^f ^^^^ ^^1^^ i„
casionally a touch of violet, or blue, preparing dishes in their order so
for example, may be added in the ^^lat all may be assembled at once
form or a decoration or a garnish to ^^^ ^^ ^^^^
carry out some special theme. Color- r^^ 3. j^^^ ^f ^^,^^3 ^^^ ^^
ing of foods is permissible but must ^^^^ g^ ^^^ ^ ^' b the way in
be done with care, as over-coloring ^j^i^j^ ^^^^ ^^^ 3^^^^^ Th^ t^^l^
IS unattractive and distasteful. appointments and service should be
Garnishes are added for decora- perfect and in keeping with the type
tion, to give color to a dish and often ^f luncheon. If formal, the table
to add flavor. All garnishes must be covering and dishes are more elab-
edible. Crab claws have no more Q^ate, and the food is all served from
place on the salad plate than paper ^he kitchen. If the luncheon is one
flowers have on the ice cream. Gar- of those happy, informal kinds, the
nishing can be very easily overdone, table may be covered with dainty
A simply garnished dish is generally colored linens, fewer dishes may be
much more attractive than one used, and part of the food may be
which is completely disguised with ^^^y^^ f^om the table by the hostess,
decorations. Have the table large enough to
Contrasting flavors are just as im- comfortably seat the guests. It is a
portant as contrast in texture and good idea to place the chairs around
harmony in color. How unpalatable the table first and then lay the cov-
a luncheon would be if every dish ers to correspond. Allow at least
served was bland or if all had a sweet twelve inches for each cover,
taste. Bland foods need salty or spicy Beautiful linen is the pride and
Photo by courtesy of Z. C.
LUNCHEON SERVICE
joy of every hostess. The dignity and
beauty of white Hnen damask make
it appropriate for any table, and it
forms an exquisite background for
gHstening silver, glassware, and
china. Lace table covers and lace
and linen combinations may also be
used. They are more formal, how-
ever, than tinted damasks, hand-
blocked linens, and fringed runners
that are so colorful and attractive for
informal use. Some of the most at-
tractive luncheon sets today are
made from pastel organdies with ap-
pliqued flowers and fruits. Napkins,
of course, should match the cloth,
and are smaller than the dinner
napkin. Styles in table coverings
change as all styles do, but a "thing
of beauty is a joy forever.*'
Only silver and dishes which are
to be used should be placed on the
table. Unnecessary articles are con-
fusing and do not add to the attrac-
tiveness of the table. All knives and
spoons are placed on the right side
of the plate; all forks and the napkin
on the left— in the order in which
they are to be used, the first used
being on the outside. The water
glass is placed at the tip of the knife,
and the cup and saucer and side dish,
if used, to the right. The bread and
butter plate, which may be a com-
bination salad and bread plate, is
placed at the tip of the fork. If a
separate salad plate is used, it is
placed directly above the luncheon
plate. Since the club plate has been
so universally adopted most of the
food may be served on the one plate,
thus eliminating dishes and service.
Table accessories include the cen-
terpiece, place cards, salt and pepper
shakers, relish dishes and any other
form of decoration which may be
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used. The centerpiece adds charm top of the cover or against the water
and color to the table and should glass. Any other decoration used
be chosen to harmonize with the should not interfere in any way with
linen, dishes, and the foods. It may eating or serving,
consist of flowers, fruits, a beautiful- The type of service most accept-
ly decorated cake or a lovely orna- able today is the left-hand service,
ment. It should be arranged so that All foods are served, removed and
it does not inconvenience the guests passed from the left, except the cup
or interfere with their view. Candles and saucer and water, which are
really have no place on a luncheon served from the right,
table unless the room is dark, and "Happy is he who sits down to
they must be used to give light. the luncheon provided for him with
Place cards afford a graceful a mind free for social pleasure, se-
means of seating guests. They may cure in the skill and knowledge of
be of various forms from fresh flow- his cook." Happier still is the host-
ers to paper. Unless they are of a ess whose luncheon has been so de-
favor type they belong to the host- lightful that her guests remember it
ess and are left on the table. They and ask for her menu and recipes
may be placed on the napkin, at the for their own use.
HEAVEN IS NEAR
To share the rising sun with you,
To feel the sunset's glow,
To see a rosebud open full,
Watch summer come and go;
To roam through autumn's golden lanes,
Or pause on wintry night
And know that spring will come again —
Then life seems good and right.
To ease a body wracked with pain,
To soothe an aching heart,
To hft a care-worn brother's load,
To do a neighbor's part,
To dry an orphan's trembling tear,
To cheer the sad, depressed.
To serve my God and fellowmen —
Then life is at its best.
To know the joy that working brings.
To walk with ease and grace.
To hear the song of birds at morn,
To look in your dear face.
To feel your hand firm clasped in mine,
To say, "I love you, dear."
Ah, life is full, and life is rich,
And heaven's very near.
' — Mabel Jones.
Ghost Writer
By Wilioid D. Lee
SITTING on a chair by the kitch-
en table Mary Warwick winced
under Maizie McNulty's flying
fingers. "I think a man Hke that,"
Maizie was saying, "is cheap."
"But Maizie! After all, Burton is
my husband."
"Husband!" Maizie's voice sizzled
with scorn. "I don't want to hurt
you, but facts are facts. Today your
husband and his lawyer were togeth-
er in his office when my girl friend,
who stenos for him, listened in. Be-
lieve it or not, but 'dear Burton' is
trying to find a way to get rid of you.
And you sitting here like a timid
mouse!"
"Oh Maizie, he wouldn't do
that!"
"Listen! A woman like you is the
last person on earth to believe the
truth. You think he's perfect! Well,
I think he's ..."
But Mrs. Warwick raised her hand
in a quick gesture. When she arose
from the chair, she was crying.
"There you go! Crying over a . . ."
"Oh Maizie, please don't ... I
know ... I have probably ..."
"Yes, you've been the door mat
murmuring 'Welcome' to that un-
grateful politician. ..."
"Maizie . . . please!"
Maizie dropped into a chair. "Oh,
Mary, don't be angry with me. I
always have to burst out. . . "
Mrs. Warwick comforted her. "I
know ... I know ..."
"But I've lived with you so long,"
the girl went on. "Coming here
just out of school, and you taking
me in and treating me like a daugh-
ter because you hadn't one of your
own, and then . . . then . . . that . . ."
Mrs. Warwick walked to the win-
dow. "Divorce,"' she thought. It
chilled her. "He is trying to get a
divorce!" Parting the curtains, she
looked out at the garden. It was
true ... it was true. That other
woman, so sleek and sophisticated. . .
Mrs. Warwick was short, and
much too plump for her height. Even
with her glasses off, her face was
round; but with the thick lenses
in large gold frames before her eyes,
she looked positively owlish. Her
made-over frock had suffered dismal-
ly in the two processes through
which it had passed. Her flat-heeled,
comfortable shoes neatly finished
off a perfect picture of dumpishness.
Taking up a long nail file, Maizie
inquired, "Mary, how did you ever
happen to marry him, anyway?"
"It ... it was a peculiar thing,"
she half confessed. "Burton and I
were in the same class in college.
He was specializing in speech, and I
. . . well, I was just going to school.
He was such a masterful sort of a
fellow, tall and handsome; and when
his great voice boomed out over the
crowd, it made little tingles just
thrill down my spine. Yet I . . .
I'm afraid that I have never loved
him in the true sense of the word.
I ... I worshiped him!"
Maizie made a derogatory noise
in her throat.
"I had no idea of ever marrying
him. He often used to come and
get me to help him with some of
the more difficult passages in his
speeches. He always had ideas and
could memorize like lightning; but
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he had difficulty in . . . well, you
know ..."
'1 know. Positively, without you
he would be a nit-wit, nothing but
a big noise."
"Maizie!"
"And ril bet you'd never been
out with a fellow before in your
life."
"Oh, I would hardly say that. . . .
But of course, I didn't ... go out
much!"
"And then his sweetheart jilted
him and he married you out of
spite," Maizie snapped. "How
cheap! Married a cook, a house-
keeper and a ghost writer all in one!
It's you who have made him a sure-
fire candidate for the Senate. And
right now, when a swanky woman
would be a big asset to him, he's try-
ing to . . ."
npHE front door opened. Burton
Warwick came in and leisurely
divested himself of topcoat and hat.
Tossing his great mass of hair back
over his head, he strode into the
room and rubbed his hands together
before the fire. Half turning, as a
great tragedian might turn upon the
stage, he asked, "You have . . . a . . .
finished looking over those last few
words in my Rotary speech tonight,
dear?"
His deep voice rumbled like the
chords of a great organ; yet he did
not sound affected. He did not sound
hypocritical. When he spoke, there
was a deep and pervading sincerity,
heightened by a dignity that was
convincing even to Maizie. Every
movement of his body, every little
trick of facial expression, even his
slightest gesture, heightened the ef-
fect. One could not talk with him
a moment without feeling the power
of his personality.
Mrs. Warwick stood at hesitant
attention before him. "I'm sorry,
Burton," she confessed, "I have been
so busy. . . . But I have only a page
or two left. I will do those while
you are eating your dinner."
With her swift, capable hands, she
prepared the meal— chops, a salad,
the dessert. He was sitting with
a lawyer . . . divorce. . . . She had
been a failure! Her heart throbbed
painfully in her tight throat. Yet
maybe the girl was mistaken. . . .
Her husband had hardly finished the
headlines of his front page when she
stepped to his side and quietly "an-
nounced that his meal was ready.
But immediately she escaped. She
had always felt inferior; she always
felt the impulse to grovel at his feet
when he came into the room. She
couldn't help it. She attributed it
to the fact that she had been born
in the country, and that she had
never had much of anything before
—lived in a bare little house, and
scrimped eternally in order to get
through. This gruelling hardship
had done something to her. . . .
Given her a poverty complex, Maizie
said.
Before she sat down to her type-
writer, she surveyed herself in the
mirror. She did look a sight! Hair
wet, with metal clamps all over it.
She ran her hands down over her
ribs to her hips and then to her
thighs. Enormous rolls of flesh . . .
and that string of a belt ... a sack
of bran tied in the middle!
She turned and seated herself
quickly. Running her eyes over the
last few sentences, she picked up
the thread of his discourse. . . . "And
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so this economic system must be
changed. Although we do not wish
to do away with capitalism, although
we do not desire to embarrass those
who have made these United States
the greatest nation that has ever
graced the earth, yet we do wish to
set the stage for a greater civiliza-
tion. But a greater civilization can-
not be reared upon the foundation
of an outworn economic system.
'Blessed is he who buildeth his house
upon a rock. Though the winds
come, and the rains descend, the
house falleth not because it is build-
ed upon a rock. ...''* So he wants
an attractive looking wife does he?
What base ingratitude! He had
used her wit and her logic for the
last ten years, and now that success
was near. . . She sat there with her
fingers numb and cold upon the
keys. A great lump of pain welled
up within her. She gripped her
hands together. Yet he was so big,
so grand; she had admired him so
much for the good that was in him.
Suddenly she realized that ever since
she had known him she had volun-
tarily shut her eyes to at least half
of what he was. She knew that he
was not at all well informed. He
dared not answer questions after his
talks, and he never gave anything but
prepared speeches. He hid behind
that impenetrable dignity. Yet al-
ways he dressed her own pregnant
words with golden eloquence.
The opening of the door startled
her. There he stood, silent. She
had not finished his speech! She
had been sitting there for half an
hour, mooning out of the window.
Her fingers flew to their task. While
he was changing, she tapped out the
final paragraphs, swinging them to
a final close with three ringing sen-
tences which would resound through
the hall. She could always hear his
vibrant voice as she wrote. Great,
resounding words came to her fin-
gers, words that fitted his organ-bass
voice as perfectly as their profound
meaning fitted his dignity.
T^HE next week was torment itself
for Mary Warwick. Like one
suddenly struck dizzy and unable to
recover, she went about her work.
Her husband, preoccupied with the
swift-moving details of his campaign,
observed nothing. Having the name
of being a great liberal, he satisfied
the masses of the people.
Meeting his wife in the hall after
breakfast one morning, he instructed
her concerning his next big address.
It was to be at the laying of the corn-
er stone of the new Federal building.
It looked as if it had distinct possibil-
ities. Mary would recognize them,
of course. . . .
Mary did recognize them. All
through the morning as she did her
work, in the afternoon as she
shopped, throughout the evening
prowling through the book stacks
at the library, she planned and
thought. The great unemployment
problem, its complex causes, its mul-
tiple ills, the responsibility of the
government for the lives of such
men. Work projects such as this
Federal building was one answer.
Yet as she worked, something else
was going on within her. Bitterness
welled up in her soul; she could see
it all now. Wliy had she been so
wantonly blind! Bitterness ripened
into a new cynicism which bit deep-
er because it was unexpressed.
On Monday Burton went on a
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trip south, but he was back on Thurs-
day in time to rest thoroughly be-
fore the banquet. Before five o'clock
Mary came and laid his speech be-
side him on the end table. She
hesitated as he fumbled through its
crisp pages. "I would like to go
tonight, Burton," she murmured.
"But my dear,'' he rumbled. "You
don't understand. This is politics.
Rough and tumble attack and coun-
ter attack which you wouldn't enjoy
in the least. Stay here and rest your-
self. Read a good book. It will be
more to your liking."
The next morning the paper ran
an excellent candid camera shot of
her husband laughing behind his
hand into the ear of a bejewelled
and aristocratic woman. Mrs. War-
wick recognized her as the woman
who had been included in the hunt-
ing party which Burton had joined
on his trip south. She caught her
breath.
Why not slip out of it all and re-
turn to her old home? At home she
never felt the necessity of groveling
before anyone. It would be quite
easy. There was a time when Burton
needed her to prepare his meals for
him, but now he ate at hotels most
of the time.
But the thought of separation
caught her and tore at her heart
strings. What would she do to satis-
fy her longing to create.^ She loved
to write. She had never been able
to express herself in society. She
could punish him by not writing his
speeches, but that would punish her
more. How she loved to hear her
ideas, as they fell from the lips of
her husband, become the ringing
clarion calls for freedom and equal-
ity!
How could she leave all this? She
paced the floor in the agony of her
indecision. She looked up as the:
door flew open, and Maizie breezed
in.
"Hello, Mary, I've got us a couple
of hot tamales for our supper. Hope
'His Eloquency' isn't at home to-
night. Say*. . . " she stopped to
look at Mrs. Warwick more closely,
"what ails you?"
"Oh, Maizie, I'm so distracted!
I don't know what to do. I've just
about decided to slip away and go
home. That would give him a good
excuse for divorcing me; then he
could marry the other woman. ..."
Maizie turned upon her with
withering scorn. "You jellyfish!
Come on and eat a tamale with me,
and you will be a changed woman."
Changed woman! The thought
struck Mary with particular force.
Suddenly something inside of her
clicked, and she saw things in a new
light. She had no end of courage
when she was writing, but in just
about everything else she was a jelly-
fish. Here she sat never making any
effort to better herself . . . never
making any effort to make herself
acceptable. No wonder he didn't
want her! She wasn't beautiful, she
wasn't clever, she wasn't useful. . . .
"Maizie," she murmured, trying
to keep her voice calm in the excite-
ment of the new thought, "would
you help me do something?"
Maizie looked up from her plate.
"What is it? A burglary?"
Mary stammered. "It isn't, but
it's almost as bad. I'm going to be
a changed womanr
"A-Ah! I told you. It's the ta-
males! What ..."
"I'm going to dress up! I'm going
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to get me some cloth . . . some new a hint to a fellow worker who whis-
cloth. ..." pered it into the ear of a client; the
Maizie's face fell.. "Oh now listen, client, a sales lady, passed it on to
Mary. You know how you are as a the bookkeeper, who was a special
dressmaker." friend of the boss' secretary. The
The new light died in her eyes, secretary mentioned it in an off-hand
"Yes, you are right," Mary agreed, way to the boss Who hurried to the
"Yet . . . maybe I can get something man he was supporting for the
almost as cheap ready made. ..." United States Senate, and who was
Maizie yawned behind her hand, hard put to keep up his end of the
"Did I hear you say that you were race with the eloquent Burton War-
going to be a changed woman?" she wick,
asked languidly. The next morning Maizie drop-
"Yes! Tm going to dress up . . . ped a hint to Mary. "If you have
get clothes that will make me look a caller of consequence today, treat
. . . you know . . . but Fll have to him well." And she went off to
scrimp. ..." work.
Maizie nodded. "Scrimp? Did you That morning at ten. Burton's op-
ever do anything else?" ponent called. Mary donned a sim-
"Well, Burton can't afford ..." pie but becoming morning frock and
Maizie sniffed scornfully. "Say, stepped into the living room. Her
do you know how much money you hair, done high up on her head,
have earned that man in the last ten made her look taller. Her new octa-
years? Everybody but you knows gon rimless glasses helped to remove
that his bank account runs into six the owlishness. She greeted her
figures. And you talk of scrimping!" caller confidently.
"Not honestly!" Her eyes were The candidate squirmed a bit and
big behind her glasses. - beat about the bush, but finally
"Now listen, if you really want to came flat out and said it. "Look
be a changed woman, put yourself here, Mrs. Warwick, word has come
in my care!" to me that you're the one who writes
Burton's speeches. If that's true,
"lirHAT Maizie did to Mary War- you're a crackerjack. Now, to be
wick was, as she put it, no- right plain, how much would you
body's business. Golden afternoons take to come over into our camp?"
were spent in exclusive salons. Hours For a moment Mary's head swam,
of walking to and fro to get used to Treason . . . bribery. . . . The whole
high heels and flowing skirts. Minute proposition leaped into her mind
instructions on how to sit and stand, full formed. She almost burst with
and move. Like one possessed, the a fierce denunciation; but something
amazing Maizie pled, threatened, back in her head warned her.
coaxed and demanded, until Mary Maizie's words that morning. . . . "If
talked and walked with confidence, you have a caller of consequence. . ."
like a lady. The opposing candidate squirmed
All this was with Mary's consent, forward, taking this silence for tacit
But Maizie did more. She dropped approval. "I'm backed by some of
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the biggest industries in the state/' 'Tou are quite inarticulate. I will
he told her confidentially. "We write you out an ironical diatribe
have a little money set aside for the against women's clubs. You can
people who might help us organize memorize it while I put on my
our thoughts." He tried to read gloves."
the effect of his words in her face. "Mary! What is all this? What
A half hour later he left the house do you mean? You ..."
and bounded into his car. A sly She swept past him. A taxi at the
grin showed in the rear view mirror door swished her away to her meet-
as he jerked the machine into high. ing.
At ten-thirty that night she re-
'pWO days later Burton Warwick turned. Burton Warwick, his great
returned from his swing into the mane hanging over his ears, leaped
northern part of the state. Weary toward the door to meet her. "Great
and travel stained, he came into the guns, where have you been? Out all
living room, but Mary was not there afternoon! No supper! No news-
to greet him. He glanced about, paper! Where's my speech?"
irritated. Losing his dignity, for the It took all of her nerve, but she
moment, he turned and shouted, had steeled herself for it. Her knees
"Mary!" He threw open the doors, quaked under her.
finally arriving at her room. She She slowly stripped off her gloves
was standing before her mirror, taste- until she knew that her voice would
fully attired in an afternoon gown, be steady.
and was just adding a final touch -your speech? Really, Burt, I've
of lipstick to her now thoroughly ^^^^ ^oo busy this week to write it.
approachable mouth. Senator Jackson came over the first
"Hello, Burt," she tossed at him of the week and wanted me to help
indifferently. "Have a good trip?" him with some of his speeches. It's
He stood and looked at her dumb- been quite a job."
founded. He turned white. "Senator Jack-
"I'm off to a reception," she ex- son! You . . . you don't mean that
plained. "A women's club wants me ..."
to discuss some problems of the "I needed a little pocket money,
campaign." This was a fib. She You see the allowance which you
glanced slyly sidewise to see just how give me is so atrociously inadequate."
it landed. ..."
"Women's clubs!" he cried, seek- He leveled a terrible glance at
ing excuse for an explosion. "Of all her. "Traitor!" he cried,
the insane things! Women's clubs!" She arched her eyebrows. "Trait-
"But you find them very useful, or? Me? Oh I don't know. I
don't you? Women's votes count found Senator Jackson to be a really
just as much as men's!" charming man. Besides ..." her
"Yes, but . . . but ..." voice quivered . . . she was almost
"Just sit down a moment, dear." in tears. ... "I thought you were
(She had rehearsed this jab for days, about through with me."
It hurt her worse than it did him.) The shot struck hard. The accus-
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ing light died in his eyes. Gradually
he turned away. Casting a sly glance
at her as he slumped into his big
chair he asked suavely, "Through
with you? Why, I don't under-
stand."
She turned away from him, shut-
ting her eyes for a few moments to
fight back the tears. The line that
she had rehearsed so diligently came
to her mind, but it was almost im-
possible for her to say it. "My . . .
my lawyer," she faltered, "tells me
that you have absolutely no grounds
for a divorce. But I thought . . ."
her eyes swam in tears, "... I thought
that I might go out and give you
cause." She disappeared silently
while he sat startled.
The next day at the corner stone
rites Burton Warwick halted through
an erratic speech, while his opponent,
the clever Senator Jackson, sat back
in a distant part of the audience and
chuckled.
The following day, before a con-
vention of the State Manufacturers
Association, the Senator spoke as he
had never spoken before. His wit-
ticisms were more refined, and they
cut deeper, exposing deficiencies in
Warwick's character which none
knew except Mary. Eminently
pleased with himself, the Senator
reeled off his prepared speech, wind-
ing up with such a powerful scorch-
ing for those who meddled with the
status quo, that the convention sim-
ply went wild. When he was
through, he stepped into a near by
room in the hotel to squeeze the
small gloved hand of a certain per-
son who had "revised" his speech
for him.
"Little girl," he declared, "it was
great! Did you hear the hand I got?
And it's all because of you! Now,
the next will be the Wool Growers'
Convention. That's where I want
to tell them something about this
agricultural program and where it's
going to take them."
*
TT was just the week before elec-
tion. Burton Warwick came into
the house, his shoulders sloping with
fatigue. For the last three weeks
he had been fighting a losing battle
—alone. Somehow he had lost his
grip upon the people. In two short
weeks he had dropped from the
two-to-one shot for the senatorial
election, to a poor runner-up. Dur-
ing that two weeks he had done
some extremely incisive thinking.
Never before had he ever considered
his own worth as compared with that
of someone else. He had always
taken it for granted that he was su-
premely valuable, and that other
people were useful only in relation-
ship to his own advancement.
Jaded and forlorn, he dragged
himself into his own living room,
now cheerless and cold at eleven
o'clock. He must be prepared for
the rally tomorrow night, and he
hadn't begun his speech. He had
no heart for it. He knew dimly what
he wanted to say, but the effort that
it took to marshal the material, to
dig out the facts and figures, to veri-
fy them and recheck them for their
accuracy appalled him.
Dear Mary ... he was beginning
to appreciate her genius. What a
chump he had been. It had all
come too easy for him. For the last
two weeks he had felt so sorry for
himself that he could have cried.
But suddenly, tonight, he felt re-
lieved because he didn't feel sorry
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for himself any longer. "You big watched him. He didn't glance up,
chump/' he murmured half aloud, merely spoke on, his voice hardly
At about twelve-thirty Mary came above a whisper,
in, wrapped to her chin in becoming ''I'm afraid that I'm going to lose
fur. She was about to pass on to her this election. Deserve it, too, I
own room without a word when suppose. It's a hard pill, but I'm al-
Burton called to her. most glad that you left me to work
"Come and sit here with me out my own campaign."
awhile," he requested. His voice Her face was pulled into a tight
was lean and thin. When she looked little knot.
at him she was shocked. He looked After awhile he said, "I have in-
old and whipped. structed my lawyer to drop the suit
"Burton, you are ill," she mur- for divorce. I know that you will
mured sympathetically. be terrifically busy until after elec-
He nodded. "But not in body." tion; but when it is over, I wonder. . .
He sat there, his great head down I wonder if we couldn't start all over
between his shoulders, his cheeks again. I would like to take a little
sagged, and his eyes sunk deep in trip ... to California for the winter,
their sockets. For sometime they Would you . . . would you like to
sat thus. At last he aroused himself, come with me?"
"Mary," he said, "I've been a per- Mary slipped out of the big chair,
feet numbskull. But something has and forgetting that this was the
happened to me these last two great Burton Warwick, she curled
weeks. I have learned what it is to up on his lap, and putting her arms
be beaten. Never before ..." He about him cried on his shoulder,
shook his head with a pathetically The next morning, as he ate his
wry smile. "It isn't good to succeed sausage and eggs, he found beside
too easily." his plate a neatly typewritten script
She lay back in her chair and of his speech for the rally that night.
^^T OVE never looks for faults, and whenever it discovers them in others
it throws over them the mantle of charity and performs the two-fold
miracle of making itself more beautiful and the one in whom the fault is
found more happy."— Edward H. Emmett.
rjON'T be a fault-finding grouch; when you feel like finding fault with
somebody or something stop for a moment and think; there is very apt
to be something wrong within yourself. Don't permit yourself to show
temper, and always remember that when you are right you can afford to
keep your temper, and when you are in the wrong you cannot afford to
lose it."—/. /. Reynolds.
The Women's Field Army
for Control of Cancer
By Mrs. /. L. Gibson
•
THE National Women's Field radio, and to diagnose and treat in-
Army for the Control of Can- digent patients. We have also had
cer was organized in 1936 un- wonderful cooperation from the
der the slogan "Cancer is Curable, press and the radio.
Fight it with Knowledge". Each As our slogan implies, we are pri-
state has a Commander with local marily an educational organization,
units in counties and cities. The but we must also be self-supporting.
Army conducts an intensive educa- With the assistance of members of
tional campaign which reaches a the L. D. S. Relief Society, the
climax in April of each year. That Parent-Teacher Associations and
month has been set aside by Con- women's clubs, 400,000 pieces of
gress as "Cancer Control Month". literature have been distributed in
Through meetings, forums, news- Utah in the past two years. One or
papers, magazines, radio, posters and more of these organizations has rep-
all other means at its disposal, the resentatives in every corner of our
Army seeks through education to state. Through our literature we
teach people that cancer in its early urge people to consult their physi-
stages is curable; to replace fear with cians immediately about any persist-
facts and superstition with sound in- ent lump or thickening, especially
formation. about the breast; any irregular bleed-
This is a woman's war for two ing or discharge from any of the
reasons: Tradition has made it her ^o^y openings; any sore that does
duty to care for the health of the not heal, particularly about the
family and also, because of the large tongue, mouth or lips; persistent m-
number of cancers of the breast and digestion, especially when accom-
the uterus, more women than men Ponied by a distaste for meat; sudden
die from cancer. changes m the form or rate of
The Utah division of this Army growth of a mole or wart; that pain
was organized a little more than two ^s a late symptom and not to wait
years ago. All women's organizations for it; that most early cancers are
were invited to participate. We curable if treated by a qualified phy-
were told that we must do nothing sician, by using X-ray, radium or
without the advice and the approval surgery; that it is very important to
of the State Medical Association, visit a physician for an annual physi-
Their members have cooperated in cal examination,
every way. They have given gener- In "Civilization Against Cancer"
ously of their time to attend com- by Dr. C. C. Little, I found what
mittee meetings, to speak before he calls a few simple rules concern-
various organizations and over the ing the prevention of cancer. He
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says: ''Form and maintain habits of coming early enough that he thinks
mouth hygiene, wash the mouth, fifty per cent of them can be cured,
clean the teeth and gums. Remove After two years* experience in try-
or correct jagged teeth. Correct all ing to give a message of hope to
artificial dentures that press, rub or cancer victims we learn that it is not
chafe. If smoking irritates your lip enough to simply tell the patient
or tongue, stop it. * * * that early cancer is curable. In many
"Discuss with your doctor the ad- instances some kind of financial aid
visability of removing warts or must also be furnished. Many of
moles, especially deeply pigmented our best citizens go through life car-
ones and those that are rubbed or ing for themselves and very often
irritated by clothing or during shav- lending a helping hand to a less for-
ing. tunate neighbor, but when cancer
"Keep the skin clean and protect- strikes they are in no position to
ed from undue or excessively pro- meet such an emergency,
longed exposure to sun and wind. As I said earlier, we must be self-
"Do not abuse your stomach, supporting and for this purpose con-
Avoid extremely hot food, overeat- duct a membership drive each April,
ing, or any type of food or drink that The money we received in 1937 paid
causes distress. our expenses for 1938. We propose
"Establish and maintain regular to use that collected in 1938 ($945)
habits of emptying the bowels; avoid as follows:
constipation ^. ^ ^ Literature $400
Avoid tight clothing which rubs Commander and vice-com-
or chafes, especially brassiers which ^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^
do these things. ^-^^ ^.^^^.^^ i^^, ^^/
It a woman has borne children, nenses
she should check with her synecolo- ^- . " """' ,"
. ^ ^ T_ ^, ^ . ^^ . Ihirty county lieutenants
gist to be sure that any tears or in- ^ ^
? . . . r 11-^ 1 expenses ic:o
luries to the womb have been re- r> i.^- 1.
' . 1 « « :{e rart-time secretary 120
<<T^ • 1 1 i. £ i. 1. -J Miscellaneous ^c
Drink plenty of water to avoid ^^
the unnecessary irritating effects of ^^^^ Y^^r we hope to interest more
too concentrated urine on both the people and collect, m addition to the
kidneys and bladder." amount needed for necessary expens-
Members of the medical profes- es, enough money to start a loan fund
sion are reporting that more and so that when we receive an appeal
more people are coming for physical ^or help from someone, important
examinations. Dr. Ogilvie, director days may not have to be wasted
of the Wasatch Laboratories, tells while we contact county commis-
us that until recently most of the sioners or welfare boards.
cancer cases referred to them for Ours is a work that should chal-
biopsies were in such an advanced lenge the interest, the imagination
state that they could not be treated and the enthusiasm of all public
successfully, but that now they are spirited men and women.
Spring Tonics
By Dorothy Ndl Mail
ONCE again springtime arrives
in the Rockies. Mystifying
changes occur daily in our
mountains. Majestic peaks and
rocky ledges^ rounded out by deep
drifts of winter snow, become sharp-
ly pointed and more craggy. As
deep ravines and crevices are reveal-
ed, shadows shift and change in hue
to weave fantastic patterns on can-
yon walls. Skies become more blue;
clouds become whiter. Creeks and
rivers swell and race in tumbling
foam to the irrigation canals in the
valleys. The hillsides are green and
beckon to outdoor campers; the fish-
ing is good in the streams. Each
day winter's curtain is lifted a bit
higher as Nature entices us in subtle
ways to take our regular dose of
spring tonic, for she knows the only
cure for the drowsiness and the iner-
tia we call spring fever.
Spring fever is the weariness that
follows the indoor confinement im-
posed upon us by cold weather. It
is the tiredness that comes from too
much social activity and too much
work as well. We do need a spring
tonic, a pick-me-up, to restore our
ambitions. Certainly, no objections
are raised against the kind Nature
proffers, but being slaves to commer-
cial interests we postpone the taking.
However, Nature, also being a wise
mother, directs us to her liking.
Come the warm days when we sit
at our desks and yawn, and that mid-
afternoon drowsiness which tortures
us. The sound of nesting birds call-
ing one to another outside, and the
fragrance of fruit blossoms in the
breeze that stirs the papers we are
trying to peruse— all are weapons
against which we have no defense.
Our thoughts stray from operating
costs and budgets to camping equip-
ment, to shady places among tall
trees, to twisting trails, to crystal
lakes. We give up, pack the car,
don hiking togs and hie away to the
playgrounds where exist the best
spring tonics worth taking.
AH, but spring tonics have not
always been so easy to take. A
few of our old-timers, who were
school kids back in the early 1870's
will recall the old sage tea remedy—
with a shudder, too. In some of our
Utah towns (and one in particular)
during those colonization days, the
beginning of spring signified the
time of year when one's blood need-
ed "purifying". The teacher of the
little village school that snuggled
on the foothills of the mountains
did not trust to the pupils in her
charge getting this "purifying" at
home. She had ideas of her own
about that, together with unlimited
faith in the preventive and curative
qualities of sage tea.
Through the sagebrush scouted
this dynamic force— the teacher who
felt so responsible for the communi-
ty's health— with a basket on her
arm. She gathered the leaves from
the brush, returned to the village
and searched further for a brewing
pot. For want of a better vessel,
she appropriated a five-gallon oil can,
scoured it, and brewed the sage tea
on the school house heating stove.
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As long as the sage tea held out, it
was part of the morning ritual for
each child to drink a tin cupful
before taking his place in the school
room. And so it was done with
daily wails and sullen smirks and
inventive schemes to be absent. If
you have at any time tasted the bit-
terness of this brew, you know what
those poor children were in for. The
teacher certainly had the welfare of
the community at heart, if her meth-
ods were not quite sanitary. She
owned but one tin cup, and each
child took his turn drinking his dose
from it, and some of them had to
be held by the ears.
Gone are those old sage-tea days,
but sagebrush still is part of our
spring tonic. Growing in the low-
lands and on rolling hills, it affords
good rabbit nesting, and where there
are rabbits there are hunting and
long hikes. It perfumes the air after
a warm spring rain. The dry bark
and trunks provide wood for our
camp fires. It shields the pheasant,
the grouse and the quail. Yes, it is
still part of the formula.
Unlike the teacher in the little
rock school house, Nature cannot
take us physically by the ears and
compel us to drink our spring tonic
from a tin cup. But she does know
when we need the solitude that
brings comfort and rest to tired
bodies and weary minds. With a
subtle finesse she bids us lay aside
our money-making and 'look up
unto the mountains, for the moun-
tains bring peace".
nC^^
APRIL
By Mildred B. Hall
Warm sun slanting down the sky.
Fleecy clouds a-drifting;
Scent of blossoms floating by.
Song of bird a-lifting.
Tulips, yellow, pink and red.
Lettuce seed a-bursting;
New hat on a saucy head.
Youth -for love a-thirsting.
HAPPENING
By Annie Wells Cannon
A PRIL— Nothing makes so deep
a wound as ''Unkindness where
there is no remedy at law".
gLEANOR ROOSEVELT be-
cause of her high sense of justice
has withdrawn her membership from
a popular patriotic society. One won-
ders if she knew when she became
a member of this same patriotic or-
ganization that it carried a resolution
barring members because of religi-
ous affiliations.
CUSAN B. ANTHONY, grand-
niece of the great suffrage leader,
is crusading for suffrage in the Dis-
trict of Columbia.
pRINCESS FRAWZIA of Egypt
met her bridegroom for the first
time when he came to claim her and
take her back to his Persian throne.
QSA JOHNSON, who knows Af-
rica perhaps better than any oth-
er living person, declares the plan
considered in London of moving
Germany's harassed Jews to that
country most fantastic.
OORTENSE B. ODLUM, presi-
dent of Bon wit-Teller, says,
"The greatest asset of the business
woman is feminine charm and fem-
inine clothes." She evidently would
admire the prevailing styles of ''Up-
Do" hair with all its shining orna-
ments.
TANE GILES and Rachel Rader,
^ Iowa's oldest twins, age 94, are
both recovering from recent falls,
having sustained cut hands and brok-
en shoulder blades. Age seems no
bar to endurance and fortitude. Han-
nah O'Connor of Ireland, 111, and
Mary Adleman of Poland, 109, who
recently died, were both mothers of
large families.
J^ATHRYN LEWIS, distinguish-
ed and helpful delegate to the
recent Pan-American Peace confer-
ence at Lima, Peru, is the daughter
and efficient secretary of the great
labor leader John L. Lewis.
pHYLLIS BENTLY. British nov-
elist, expresses admiration for
American women— particularly their
ability to combine efficiently do-
mestic and public affairs.
jyrRS. DWIGHT DAVIS and as-
sociates of Washington, D. C,
in their efforts to awaken art-con-
sciousness at the National Capital,
gave a preview of modern pictures
one Sunday afternoon. Fashionable
Washington dressed in glamorous
gowns, silver fox furs and orchids,
making the air redolent of tropical
climes, came. The pictures were out-
shone; they only formed a back-
ground for life in action with art
looking on.
PDNA FERRER'S autobiography
"A Peculiar Treasure" is perhaps
the most publicized of the new
books. The life story of a Jewess,
so colorful and successful as Edna
Ferber, is particularly apropos at this
time.
QEORGETTE HEYER'S "Royal
Escape," an historic romance of
Charles II, and Sylvia Townsend's
"After the Death of Don Juan" are
among the late books by women.
THE REUEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN _ . . First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
JULIA A. F. LUND _-___.. General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Amy Whipple Evans Emeline Y. Nebeker Leda T. Jensen
Emma A. Empey Rosonnah C. Irvine Janet M. Thompson Beatrice F. Stevens
Annie Wells Cannon Nettie D. Bradford Belle S. Spafford Rae B. Barker
Lalene H. Hart Ida P. Beal Donna Durrant Sorensen Nellie O. Parker
Cora L. Bennion Marcia K. Howells Vivian R. McConkie Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor -- Belle S. Spafford
Manager ._______.-. Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI APRIL, 1939 No. 4
EDITORIAL
k/L uiecora ShaU [Be Jxept
IV/f ISTAKES are repeated and re-
peated not only in the lives of
men but in the history of nations.
A thoughtful study of the past is
potent in enabling the race to avoid
mistakes and thus go better forward.
If we had to learn everything
through our own experience, our
lives would be spent mastering the
primary principles of living. But
through acquaintance with the ex-
periences of others, through heeding
the advice and following the instruc-
tions, our horizons broaden, mis-
takes are avoided, and we acquire
skill in the art of living. Books are
the reservoir for the experiences of
men and nations. The wise person
searches them for understanding and
as a guide in the conduct of his own
life.
The Lord has always recognized
the necessity of truths being pre-
served for the guidance of his peo-
ple and has instructed his people to
record their acts whether they be
good or evil. Adam was taught to
write through inspiration that his
counsel and his prophecies might be
handed down for the benefit of gen-
erations yet unborn. We are told
that his children preserved these rec-
ords and added to them, and thus
were the acts of men recorded from
the first. When the records were
lost or destroyed, God restored them
through inspiration and revelation
to such men as Moses. When Lehi
left Jerusalem, the Lord deemed the
history of their fathers of such im-
portance to them that Laban's life
was sacrificed lest a ''nation should
dwindle and perish in unbelief.
A vivid illustration of the value of
a recorded history to a nation is con-
tained in the Book oi Mormon.
Contrast the people of Lehi with
the people of Mulek who, fleeing
for their lives, escaped to a new
land with no records and under the
stress of caring for their immediate
bodily safety began a new nation
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without recording its experiences.
Nearly 400 years later these two na-
tions met. The record-keeping na-
tion, led by King Mosiah, though
few in number compared with the
Mulekite nation, was culturally ad-
vanced and became the leader of the
combined nations; and the Mulek-
ites were brought back from an ex-
tremely low state of civiliz?ition to
one of advancement and culture.
The Book oi Mormon, representing
as it does a thousand consecutive
years of recorded history of one peo-
ple, shows to a remarkable degree
the fact that those people who keep
records, study them, and give heed
to their lessons are a great and right-
eous people. But when people either
fail to record their acts or when they
disregard the experiences of the past
and depend upon their own wisdom,
they repeat the mistakes of the past
and degenerate in direct ratio to
their disregard.
The Lord has placed upon us a
responsibility to keep records for the
benefit of those who come after.
''Behold there shall be a record kept
among you." (Doc. & Gov. 21:1.)
He has wisely preserved ancient rec-
ords for our use and profit, that our
horizons may be broad, that we may
avoid mistakes, that we may live ef-
fectively. He has commanded us to
study these records "... study my
word which hath gone forth among
the children of men, and also study
my word which shall come forth
among the children of men, or that
which is now translating, yea, until
you have obtained all which I shall
grant unto the children of men in
this generation, and then shall all
things be added thereto." {Doc. &
Cov. 11:22.)
Recorded life experiences of men
and nations, carefully studied and
intelligently applied in the solution
of our own problems enables us to
go beyond a mastery of the primary
principles of living to a mastery of
the complicated technique of abun-
dant living.
nviroor LO
A
RBOR DAY is celebrated
throughout the United States
and its possessions by the planting of
trees. The word aihoi comes from the
Latin and means tree. It was origin-
ated in 1872 at the suggestion of Jul-
ius Sterling Morton of Nebraska, an
American Journalist and Secretary of
Agriculture. Nebraska was called
"the treeless state," and it was for
the purpose of stimulating tree plant-
ing that the State Board of Agricul-
ture designated April 10 as an annual
state Arbor Day. The example was
emulated by other states until it is
now nation wide in its observance.
ay
Henry Van Dyke says:
"He that planteth a tree is the
servant of God;
He provideth a kindness for
many generations.
And faces that he hath not
seen shall bless him."
Arbor Day has come to mean more
than tree planting. Shrubbery, plants
and seeds of many kinds are planted.
It has become a general clean-up and
fix-up day. Many persons who might
otherwise fail to beautify their sur-
roundings become active in making
them sightly through the stimula-
tion of an annual Arbor Day.
QjtiumA.
OF INTEREST
y:yur Clover
Wf^ are happy this month to pub- 27, 1833, at Kirtland, Ohio. We are
lish on our cover excerpts from sorry that the space on our cover
the 89th Section of the Doctrine and would not lend itself to use the
Covenants, 'The Word of Wis- complete revelation. We have left
dom." We have done this in the out some parts of the revelation
hope that those who have never which may in your opinion be more
read, or those who have not read important than some we have in-
for some time, the word of the Lord eluded. In any case, we suggest that
in this matter, might be brought to you read the 89th Section complete-
a consciousness of His Wisdom ly and read again "The Prophets
which He gave to us through the Speak," found on pages 215 and
Prophet Joseph Smith, February 216 of this magazine.
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'The President of the United friendship uniting the twenty-one
States, by proclamation, has fixed republics of the Western Hemi-
April 14th of each year as Pan sphere. It symbolizes that spirit of
American Day, and the people of mutual helpfulness and cooperation
the country are called upon To ob- which is the essence of Pan Ameri-
serve the day with appropriate cere- canism.
monies, thereby giving expression to 'The Day affords an excellent op-
the spirit of continental solidarity portunity to direct attention to the
and to the sentiments of cordiality achievements of each Republic and
and friendly feeling which the gov- the united action of all in promoting
ernment and people of the United peace, commerce and friendship in
States entertain toward the peoples the Western Hemisphere."
and governments of the other re-
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pREQUENTLY requests come to stakes there are conditions, incidents
the office from Societies through- and historical data which could well
out the Church for plays and pag- be dramatized most effectively. The
eants. The committee of the Gen- committee therefore suggests that an
eral Board having this matter in effort be made in each community to
charge meet the demands wherever encourage people of talent to pre-
possible, but they feel that encour- pare such things of this type as might
agement should be given to local prove useful for presentation and
people to prepare these things for valuable in the development of em-
themselves. In your own wards and bryonic talents.— R. C. J.
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^ [Prater ofrom \^ur CJtrst ibaitor
JLula (^reene uiicharas
JUNE 1, 1872, in a room in the contributions from the pen of Lula
house of Lorenzo D. Young, in Greene Richards are to be found in
the Eighteenth Ward, a 23-year-old the columns of the Exponent and its
girl with dark curls and florid cheeks successor The Rdiei Society Maga-
assumed editorial responsibility of zine. April 29, 1939, Sister Richards
the only woman's paper between will reach the ninetieth milestone in
Boston and the Pacific Coast— The m^'s iournev
Woman's Exponent. Though she
left her editorial position in 1877, We are proud to mclude her latest
her interest in the Relief Society composition, written for the New
periodicals has been maintained Year, 1939, in the April issue of the
throughout the years, and many rich Magazine— her birthday month.
*yt LPrayer
(Written by request of Mrs. Alberta B. Ferris, visiting at Mesa, Arizona.
For New Year, 1939.)
Dear Sister:
You ask me to write you a prayer.
I pause, but would grant the request.
And now, first I pray that our thoughts may unite,
And we two be mutually blest.
Our Father in Heaven : Accept of our praise
And thanks for Thy merciful care;
For guidance and faith and the sacred permit
To approach Thee at all times in prayer.
We pray for the just who would uproot all sin,
All Truth and Intelligence plant.
We ask richest gifts for Thy Prophet and Seer,
Our President, Heber J. Grant.
His Counselors also, First, J. Reuben Clark,
Second Counselor, D. O. McKay.
And for all those who aid Thy great Latter-day work.
We humbly and earnestly pray.
These ''last days are shortened"— the time is too brief
For lengthy, unguarded appeals.
May our words be well chosen and pleasing to Thee,
As the sure Holy Spirit reveals.
Bless the Missions extending all over the earth,
All the world be enlightened— and then-
All the worthy be called to Thy glorious Feast.
In the dear name of Jesus, Amen.
All In A Day
A PLAY IN ONE ACT, AND TWO SCENES
By Rosannah C. Irvine
Ruth Armstrong, a discontented
young wiie.
Harvey Armstrong, hei husband, a
stiuggling young lawyer.
Sister Porter, a wise old lady and
Relief Society visiting teacher.
Sister Baldwin, a pleasant, middle-
aged woman, also a visiting
teacher.
Sister Armstrong, an understand-
ing niothei-in-law .
(The names of the characters in this
play are chosen at random. If they belong
to real people, it is merely a coincidence.)
SCENE I
The curtain rises on the living
room which also serves as a dining
room in the home of Harvey and
Ruth Armstrong. It is breakfast
time. A small table is set for two.
The room is comfortably furnished
but disorderly. Papers, books, and
clothing, left out of place the night
before, are scattered about. Many
of the things in the room are evi-
dently wedding presents, indicating
that the Armstrongs are newlyweds.
Harvey is seated at the table sipping
a glass of tomato juice and reading
the newspaper. He is dressed for the
office. He becomes impatient and
shows it.
Harvey: (calling) Ruth, Fm wait-
ing, and Fm in a hurry.
Ruth: {from kitchen sharply) Fm
hurrying as fast as I can.
(Several moments elapse before
Ruth makes her appearance. Har-
vey fidgets, rattles his paper, and
shows signs of irritation before she
Enally comes in. When she enters
she has a plate of toast in one
hand and a small platter of ham
and eggs in the other. She puts
them on the table in front of her
husband and goes into the kitchen
again, returning almost immedi-
ately with two glasses of milk,
putting one at each place. Ruth
is dressed carelessly in a pretty
kimono or lounging robe, utterly
impractical for housework. She
has on a pair of fancy bedroom
slippers. Her hair is in curlers,
covered by a net. Ruth is very
young, pretty and sweet, but she
has a fretful frown on her face
and a sharp tinge to her voice.)
Ruth: {seating herself) You forgot
to take out the garbage again last
night.
Harvey: Is it garbage day again? I
took it out about yesterday.
Ruth: No, you didn't. Tuesday's
garbage day— every Tuesday.
Harvey: I can't ever seem to re-
member. But I know that like
rent day it comes around oftener
than any other day. Did you take
it out?
Ruth: (indignantly) I did not!
What do you think I am?
Harvey: Well, you're the ''filler
upper."
Ruth: Well, Fm not going to be
the ''carrier outer" at any rate.
Harvey: {eating and trying to avoid
a quarrel) All right, darling, Fll
try to remember next time.
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Ruth: Aren't you going to ask a
blessing?
Harvey: I asked it before you came
in. I prayed long and earnestly
that I might have a breakfast and
not a burnt offering.
Ruth: (angrily and on the verge of
tears) I told you before we were
married that I didn't know how
to cook. You said you didn't care;
you wanted me just as I was. You
ought to have married one of the
Harper girls if you wanted a cook.
Harvey: Oh, skip it, honey. I was
only joking. I didn't want a cook.
I wanted a companion. I wanted
you.
Ruth: If that's your idea of a joke,
it's certainly a poor one. And I'm
getting tired of hearing about my
poor cooking.
Harvey: Well, seriously now, hon,
I'm asking in all love and kind-
ness, why don't you learn to cook?
Anyone witli your brains can learn
anything.
Ruth: Yes, if you like it well
enough. But I hate cooking and
housework. By the way, I had a
call yesterday from Mr. Smith.
He says I can have my old position
back again if I want it. I'd love
to take it, Harvey.
Harvey: Nothing doing. I want a
companion for a wife, not a sten-
ographer.
Ruth: Well, I'm not a good cook
and not a good housekeeper, but
I am an "A-i" stenographer. I
could hire a girl to do the work
and have a good share of my salary
left.
Harvey: {Eimly) Nothing doing,
I said! You gave up that job to
be a wife. A wife's place is in the
home. No woman can be a good
business woman and a satisfactory
home maker at the same time.
When a woman marries, that's
her job! Before we were married
you said that you'd love keeping
our little home, and you didn't
ever want any more office work.
You change your mind rather fre-
quently.
Ruth: Well, it's the only thing un-
der the sun, moon, and stars that
I can change. I ought to have
that privilege.
Harvey: {sotto voce) You might
try changing your disposition.
(He Enishes his breakfast, folds
his napkin, and gets up from the
table. He takes his hat and stands
hesitating. Ruth glumly sips her
milk and nibbles toast as if uncon-
scious of his presence.)
Harvey: Come on, honey. Can't
you give a fellow a goodby kiss?
(Ruth grudgingly turns her cheek
to him. He kisses her lightly.)
Goodby, darling. And forget
about a job. You have a full-time
one right here looking after me.
(Ruth remains cross and unfriendly.
Harvey feels her antagonism. He
pats her shoulder gently.)
Harvey: Cheer up, sweetness.
Times are going to brighten up.
I'm not always going to bp a poor,
struggling lawyer. We'll soon be
through the starvation period. It
won't be long before you can have
all the money you want to spend
without worrying about having to
earn it yourself. (Ruth remains
unresponsive. Harvey hesitates
a moment^ then with a sigh he
puts his hat jauntily on his head.)
Well, be grouchy if it makes you
happy; but you certainly make
yourself about the most childishly
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disagreeable person I've ever seen.
I don't see what you have to be
cross about. You surely don't get
any kick out of it yourself, and it is
anything but pleasant for other
people. And just remember this,
young lady, as a partner you're
nothing to write home about.
(Ruth lemains silent. Aitei wait-
ing a momentj Harvey goes out
slamming the door. Ruth at-
tempts to eat but chokes over
every bite. She is weeping softly
in seli-pity. Before she has fin-
ished, there is a knock at the door.
She goes to the door and opens it.
Sister Porter and Sister Bald-
win enter. They are smiling and
friendly. Ruth is none too cor-
dial)
Ruth: Oh, how are you, Sister Por-
ter? How do you do. Sister Bald-
win? {She shakes hands with
them.) Won't you sit down?
{The visitors sit near together.
Ruth sits a little way from them.)
You see I haven't done my morn-
ing work yet {with a deprecatory
gesture around the untidy room ) .
Sister Porter: {apologetically) We
shouldn't have called so early, my
dear, but we are very late with
our visiting this month. I was
too lame last week to get around,
' and Sister Baldwin was out of
town. You'll excuse this early
morning call, won't you?
Sister Baldwin: As Relief Society
visiting teachers we have an espe-
cially interesting and timely mes-
sage today—
Ruth: (Interrupting) Oh, yes, I
know all about your topic. I
heard Mother Armstrong talking
about it to her partner.
Sister Porter: {kindly) Then we
do not need to discuss it with
you, of course.
Ruth: {shortly) No, I know it off
by heart.
Sister Baldwin: That's a very good
idea. It's a wonderful thing to
have in your heart and think about
every day. We especially want to
invite you to our meeting this af-
ternoon. We are having a par-
ticularly good program today. We
are inviting all our young women
to join our Organization. We
want to enroll every woman young
and old who is not actively en-
gaged in some other organization.
"Every Latter-day Saint woman a
member, and every member ac-
tive," is our aim. We are working
to have 100,000 members by 1942.
Ruth: {indifferently) Yes, my
mother has told me all about it.
But I haven't time to go to Relief
Society.
Sister Baldwin: It won't be a very
long meeting today, and I'm sure
you would find it interesting.
Ruth: (firmly) I can't go today. I
told my mother I couldn't.
Sister Porter: {mildly) Well, my
dear, the old women in the So-
ciety, like myself, are rapidly pass-
ing away. We need the young,
active girls to carry on in our place.
You young ones are as necessary
to the success of the work as we
older ones are. You know the old
Greek adage, "Old men for coun-
sel and young men for war".
Ruth: Well, I don't think that you
need me yet awhile when there
are women like you two, and
mother Armstrong and my own
mother. I'm really not interested
in Relief Society. I'm not going
to join till I'm an old woman.
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maybe about thirty-five or forty
years old. (Her visitors exchange
amused glances. Even Sister
Baldwin is past ioity, and still
consideis herself a young woman.)
But I want to make a donation
for your charity fund. (She gets
her purse and hands Sister Bald-
win Bity cents.)
Sister Baldwin: Thank you.
Sister Porter: I hope, my dear,
that your heart will be as touched
with an interest in the work as it
is with generosity toward it. {The
visitors shake hands and exeunt.)
Ruth: (with a sigh oi relief) Thank
goodness that's over! {She throws
herseli down on the couch and
reads the newspaper. She is quite
oblivious oi her appearance and
the untidy room. There is a gentle
knock at the door. Ruth doesn't
hear. The knock is repeated.)
Why does everybody have to
come visiting in the morning?
Come in. (Sister Armstrong en-
ters. She is intelligent and sweet.)
Ruth: {rising in embarrassment)
Oh, Mother Armstrong, come in.
Fm ashamed of this mess, but Fve
been lazy all morning, and then
the Relief Society teachers called,
and that hindered me. Here,
have this easy chair. (They sit
down close together.)
Sister Armstrong: Yes, I met the
teachers. They're sweet women,
aren't they? Ruth dear, I came to
see if you wouldn't like to go to
Relief Society meeting with me
today.
Ruth: (laughing, her natural sweet-
ness overcoming her ill temper)
Say, what is this, a campaign? You
and mother, and Sister Porter and
Sister Baldwin have all been after
me. I'm too young. I'm not
quite in the old ladies' class yet.
Oh, I don't mean any offense,
Mother Armstrong.
Sister Armstrong: I'm sure you
don't, dear. I understand. Any
woman over tljirty seems old to
you. {They both laugh.) There
are many young girls joining the
Society now, some even as young
as you.
Ruth: Well, they must be hard up
for something to do.
Sister Armstrong: As a matter of
fact, they are all busy girls; but
they find Relief Society a pleasure
and a benefit.
Ruth: I can't imagine such a thing.
(Then more courteously) You're
wasting your time, Mother Arm-
strong, in trying to sell Relief
Society to me. Mother has been
at me ever since I was married.
I'm just not interested.
Sister Armstrong: I think that you
would be today. It's Sister Por-
ter's birthday. She doesn't know
it, but we are going to pay a lovely
tribute to her, besides the pro-
gram. Your mother is going to
present her with a lovely bouquet
and give a little talk of presenta-
tion. I thought you might sing for
us— one of Sister Porter's favorite
hymns. It would please your
mother and give us all a great deal
of pleasure.
Ruth: {affectionately) You're
sweet. Mother Armstrong, but I
couldn't possibly go today. I'm
going to wash as soon as I get my
work done.
Sister Armstrong: Harvey stopped
in for a minute on his way to the
office this morning. He seemed
quite worried about you. He
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asked me if I didn't know of a girl
who could come in once in a
while and help you. YouVe got
a mighty good husband, Ruth, if
he is my son.
Ruth: Being your son is what makes
him so good, Mother.
Sister Armstrong: That's sweet of
you, even if I don't deserve it. He's
very much in love with you, my
dear.
Ruth: Well, he ought to be. My
mother thinks I'm an awfully nice
girl.
Sister Armstrong: (laughing) I
think we form rather a complete
admiration association. We all
like each other and are happy in
our relationship.
Ruth: Mother, I have a chance to
work for Mr. Smith again. Har-
vey won't hear of it, but don't
you think I ought to? I try to be
a good wife, but I'm a lot better
stenographer than housekeeper,
and my check would help out a
lot right now. You see, when
we were married I was earning
more than Harvey is making. And
two people can't live as cheaply
as one, no matter what folks say.
I used to spend more on myself
than we have now for everything.
Sister Armstrong: I know it's hard
on you, Ruth. But Harvey is
working up a business, and that
takes time. Marriage means co-
operation and sacrifice. Harvey
had more to spend on himself,
too, before you were married. I
think it would be a mistake for
you to go back to Smith's. It
would undermine Harvey in his
business. It would give people
the idea perhaps that he couldn't
earn enough to keep you— that he
was not a good lawyer. Be a good
team mate, dear, and do your part
by being a good home maker.
Now, how about going to meeting
with me today?
Ruth: (laughing and lelenting un-
der the kindness oi hei mother-in-
law) I see where Harvey gets his
"go-get-it-iveness". Yes, I'll go if
I can rush through my work.
Sister Armstrong: I think that I
can get Aggie to come over and
do your washing. She has tomor-
row free. She's a good worker, and
she needs the work.
Ruth: That would be grand, if you
think we ought to afford it. I hate
washing and ironing next to cook-
ing, and I hate cooking next to
dish washing, and I hate dish
washing next to sweeping and
dusting and bed making, and,
{With a compiehensive gesture
around the worn) most of all I
think I hate tidying up a room
and keeping things in order.
Somehow things just won't stay
put. (Then seiiously) I do want
to be a good wife, but you see
I'd never done much housework
until I was married, and Harvey's
the first husband I've ever had.
Mother, it's surprising how much
time anyone can spend on a hus-
band. In terms of time they're
very expensive luxuries.
Sister Armstrong: (laughing) Ev-
ery woman passes through that
phase of marriage. When you
have a large family of small chil-
dren you'll look back on these
days as a time of child's play. I
think it would be all right to have
Aggie come in once a week to
help you with the heavy work.
You can go to fewer movies every
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month or cut down on your gaso-
line, perhaps. There are many
ways of saving. It's a good thing
to save on unnecessary things in
order to take care of the essentials.
It's astonishing how many little
things you can do without, and
how much pleasure you can get
out of seeing your bank account
grow if you make a game of it
instead of considering it a hard-
ship. But I didn't come here to lec-
ture you on economy. Can you
be ready to go to meeting at one-
thirty? I'll call for you then.
Ruth: {kissing her impulsively)
You're a darling, and I'll be ready.
What would you like me to sing?
Sister Armstrong: I believe Sister
Porter's favorite song is— ( they de-
cide on a suitable song.) I must
rush home now. Goodby, dear.
(Exit)
Ruth: Goodby, Mother dear. {She
begins biisMy to do her worky as
the curtain falls.)
SCENE II
The same room, but now it is oi-
deily and attractive. The table is
daintily set ioi dinner. Ruth is well
dressed and well groomed. She has
a dainty apron over her pretty dress.
She moves about smiling and sing-
ing. She puts Harvey's house coat
on his easy chair, a pair oi slippers
and a leg rest near by. A bouquet
of flowers is on the table. The entire
atmosphere of the place is changed.
There is a slight noise at the door.
Ruth goes to it as Harvey enters.
Ruth: {smiling and with affection-
ate concern) Hello, darling. How
are you tonight?
Harvey: {hesitating — surprised)
Why-hello-
Ruth: {sweetly) Let me take your
coat and hat, dear. Your house
coat and slippers are right there
at your chair.
Harvey: {bewildered) Thanks —
darling— I—
Ruth: Have you, had a good day?
Harvey: {astonished) Why— yes—
fine— that is— pretty good— but
(anxiously) are you all right, dear?
Ruth: (cheerfully) Never better!
{She helps him off with his coat,
takes his arm and walks with him
to his chair. Harvey is rather be-
wildered. A great deal of the hu-
mor and interest in this scene de-
pends on Harvey's acting.) Now
you sit there and read, darling,
while I serve the dinner. It's all
ready except the meat, and it's
going to be good tonight, and I do
mean good! I made a lovely ap-
ple pie, and I have a scrumptuous
steak and a—
Harvey: (reaJly alarmed) Ruth, are
you sure you feel all right?
Ruth: Yes, dear, I'm fine.
Harvey: Your face is flushed. Are
you feverish— or something?
Ruth: Not a fraction of a degree.
My face is red because I've been
working over a hot stove.
Harvey: {hesitating, but still anx-
ious) Well, you seem different—
somehow. As if you were happy
—or something.
Ruth: {laughing) Of course I'm
happy. Why shouldn't I be?
Didn't I marry the best man in
the world?
Harvey: Why, of course. Every-
body knows that. But lately you
haven't seemed to think so. You
and Mother agreed on that before
we were married.
Ruth: Yes, and we discussed it again
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today and reached the same de-
cision.
Harvey: {seiiousJy) You and Moth-
er ought to get together often.
But, dearest, I can't understand.
You're so different— so pepped up
— and so sweet — somehow.
What's happened to you today?
Ruth: I can't tell you now. Din-
ner's all ready except broiling the
steak.
Harvey: (sternly) You come right
here, woman, and sit down. Obe-
dience is better than beefsteak.
(Ruth meekly sits down beside
him. Harvey puts his aim around
hei. She snuggles against him. He
gives a sigh of satisfaction. ) Ah-
ah-ah! This is like old times. Now
tell me what's happened?
Ruth: I went to Relief Society.
Harvey: You what?
Ruth: I went to Relief Society
meeting today.
Harvey: That old ladies' club? That
couldn't make you happy. What's
the joke?
Ruth: (indignantly) It isn't an old
ladies' club! And it's no joke. I
enjoyed myself.
Harvey: I'll bet you did!
Ruth: I did, really, Harvey. It was
nice. I sang for them.
Harvey: How come? Did you sing
them to sleep? Lullabies?
Ruth: Harvey, behave yourself!
They had a wonderful meeting.
It was partly in honor of dear old
Sister Porter.
Harvey: But how did they happen
to rope you into going?
Ruth: Lots of young women belong.
Peg and Amy Hutchins are both
members; and Norma Alston's the
chorister. She's not much older
than I am.
Harvey: Well, what do you know
about that! Did you sew carpet
rags or stitch quilts? That's all
they do, isn't it?
Ruth: Harvey! Shame on you! You
know better than that. Your
mother has been a Relief Society
worker all her life. You know
perfectly well the good they do
in carrying comfort and relief and
happiness to people. And then
besides that they have lessons and
socials. You learn a lot of things
—how to sew and cook; you get
new recipes and patterns and new
ideas about lots of things, and
then they have a good time, too.
Harvey: Well, it must be some-
thing. (Pause. Then senously)
How often do they meet?
Ruth: You ought to know that, too.
They meet every week, on Tues-
day afternoon. Garbage day, you
know. That might help you to
remember.
Harvey: {thoughtfully and with
deep affection) Dearest, how
would you — I mean — wouldn't
you like to join the Society?
Ruth: (laughing) They invited me
to join today, and I'm going to.
Harvey: {with a deep and happy
sigh) Oh, darling, that's great!
I'm so glad! I do want you to be
happy!
{They beam fondly at each other
as the curtain falls.)
The Shining Heart
By Sibyl Spande Bowen
Character Description and
Resume— 2ND Installment
IN the moldy decay of the Carey family
mansion on Puget Sound lives
"MISS BRILL" CAREY, spinster of 55,
who once had wealth but now earns a
meager living as a seamstress for herself
and her lovely niece, red-haired
NELL CAREY, who longs to be an artist,
but lacks the money to study, and so has
drifted into an engagement with
FRED NAGLE, successful, unromantic
young chicken farmer, whose bank ac-
count is dearer to him than is Nell. He
strenuously opposes Nell's artistic am-
bitions.
Miss Brill humbles her Carey pride to
ask her father's old friend. Philander Mad-
dox, to give Nell a job in San Francisco,
hoping the girl will forget Fred in her zeal
for study. Miss Brill is convinced Nell does
not love Fred.
The old lady walks several miles in the
rain to get some sewing, overdoes, and is
found on the road in a dazed condition by
Nell and Fred, who are returning from a
movie. Nell's joy over the new job is un-
bounded, but that night Miss Brill has a
stroke that halts the plans for art study.
Nell is mystified by her aunt's mutterings
about a "shining heart",
Fred openly hopes Miss Brill's illness will
hasten his marriage to Nell. But the girl,
unwilling to give up the career so easily,
asks him to wait, knowing the news of the
marriage she hoped to avert will upset the
sick woman. Fred grudgingly agrees to
wait until the end of summer, but Nell
has secretly determined that she alone will
bear the burden of Miss Brill.
CHAPTER THREE
AT the sound of voices Nell
ducked hurriedly into a thick-
et of dogwood. Fred, there
in the Maddox poultry yard talking
with the man who cared for Mrs.
Maddox* prize chickens, she saw, as
the two men crossed the grounds to
the stables. Not until they had gone
in did Nell come out of hiding. She
did not want Fred to know she was
definitely giving up San Francisco
—yet. Later, of course. It did not
occur to the girl that all her thoughts
for Fred were buiU around that ''la-
ter".
The Maddoxes were not on the
terrace this evening. There was too
much wind and chill in the air from
last night's showers. Nell rang tim-
idly, and was told to go into the
library. She was almost afraid as
she stepped over the thick-piled Ori-
ental rugs of the big hall to the open
door of the library.
Old Philander was dozing by an
open fire, his white head just show-
ing above the enormous puffy back
of a red leather chair. Nell sat down
on the edge of another such chair
and watched the old man blink his
hard, blue eyes awake. He looked
at her with the round stare of an
infant.
"Hello, hello. Who are you?" he
barked abruptly.
Nell jumped. 'Tm-Pm Nell
Carey, Miss Brilliant's niece," she
stuttered. He was the first million-
aire she had ever seen in the flesh,
and a fairly startling one he was.
Mr. Maddox grunted and stared
at her. Suddenly he gave a cackling
laugh. "Nellis Adair Carey! If that
isn't just like a balmy old maid!"
'T just came to tell you," Nell said
stiffly, "that I won't be able to ac-
cept that job offered me yesterday.
Aunt Brill had a stroke last night."
"What job?"
"The one you offered me in San
Francisco. You told Aunt Brill
about it," Nell answered precisely.
The old man's pink skin fascinated
260 - APRIL RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
her; it was so babyish beside his up-
standing white hair.
He stared at her again. "A
stroke?" Then he laughed. "At her
age? Young lady, Fll be eighty-six
next birthday, and Fve never had a
stroke m my life." He slapped his
knee and chuckled to himself. Then
he looked intently at Nell.
She sat quietly under his scrutiny,
for she realized now that Philander
Maddox was indeed old. For all his
brilliant career, for all his money, he
was sinking gently down into a
vague, unremembering, selfish child-
ishness, though he thought himself
still so powerful.
'Tou're a pretty girl. A pretty
girl like you can always have a job
in my buildings. You've nice man-
ners, too. Here, Fll give you a note."
He had completely forgotten the
one yesterday. He fumbled in a
drawer of the small table beside him
and found paper and pen. He wrote
a letter to his superintendent that
was surprisingly clear and business-
like, telling him that Nell was to
have a job with him.
Nell accepted the note and
thanked the old man for it. It was
no use trying to explain again. Be-
sides, the note might be useful some
day.
Mr. Maddox looked curiously at
the girl again. "Where did she get
you?" he asked abruptly.
Nell had risen from her chair. She
sat down again in her surprise.
"Whom do you mean?"
"Old Brilliant. She did a good
job when she picked you up," he
said. "Pretty as an almond blos-
som, and Fll bet you're smart, too."
"Fm Aunt Brill's brother's daugh-
ter," Nell explained. "He died be-
fore my mother did. She died when
I was born."
Old Philander threw back his
head and roared. "She's a good pick-
er I say." Then he sat up. "Man
and boy," he said, wiggling a finger
at the girl, "Fve known Tom Carey
and all his family after him. I was
there when he died, and Fll swear
he never had chick nor child but the
girl. Brilliant."
Nell wondered if she had heard
him aright. She was dizzily sick.
Behind her the buttery voice of
Phoebe Maddox sounded, as she
came noiselessly in on the thick car-
pets.
"Why, Father, what are you say-
ing?" She whispered to the girl,
"Don't pay any attention to him,
Nell. He's getting so old he doesn't
remember." Aloud she said, "It's
time for your warm milk. Father."
But Nell had paid attention, and
so, it appeared, had the woman she
encountered in the doorway as she
ran blindly to the hall. A tall wom-
an, this, with enormous, disturbed,
gray eyes, and perfectly white hair
framing her youngish, beautiful face.
"Oh," gasped Nell, "I'm so sor-
The woman's face was rigid, froz-
en with a sudden fear. She stood
stock still and looked at Nell.
"Why Sally! Sally Delavan, how
nice of you to come way out here,"
cried Mrs. Maddox, her tone un-
emotional, soft.
Nell said again, "I'm sorry," and
rushed to the front door.
"Who," she heard the white-hair-
ed woman say sharply to Phoebe
Maddox, "is that girl?"
CHE was not Miss Brill's niece!
She had old Philander's word for
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it that there had been no Carey son.
He hadn't Hed. He was old and
queer, but his mind was still sharp.
He still remembered— things of long
ago. Nell stumbled along the road
unseeingly until a warning toot from
a car restored her alertness. Since
the Carey house was the only one
at this end of the Cove road, it had
come from there. Not the doctor's
car, nor Fred's, this small black road-
ster. Then she let the matter of the
car slip from her mind. She re-
membered only old Phil's chuckling
''she did a good job when she picked
you up". Just as if she had been
something cheap from a bargain
counter!
But bitter as this new knowledge
was, it made things clearer. Really,
there had never been anything defi-
nite about the supposed parents— no
pictures, never any souvenirs. She
remembered Miss Brill's evasive,
''Don't ask me, child," to early ques-
tions. Finally, the subject was
dropped. If Nell supposed anything,
she no doubt thought her aunt's
loss had been too painful to discuss,
and had not cared much. Miss Brill
had been all the family she needed.
She remembered when she had
been scarcely old enough to toddle,
following in the wake of Miss Brill's
long calico skirts through the rasp-
berry patch, into the thickets of
black caps that fringed the wooded
summer camp grounds to the north
of the gray house. Of filling her
small pail with the low berries, stain-
ing her little fingers with their dark
juice! At the end of the berry season,
when the last jar of jam had been
made and sold, a large, gorgeous
doll had come mysteriously. "From
Fredericks," Miss Brill had said
proudly, naming the magic depart-
ment store as she placed the doll in
the little girl's arms. Bought with
the hard-earned berry money, Nell
knew now. Tears stung her eyes.
She brushed impatiently through
the long grass be*side the road. And
there had never even been the claim
of kinship to such gifts.
There was the time Miss Brill had
sewed until morning on somebody's
dress so Nell might have the money
to take a boat excursion to Victoria
with her class. And Nell's gradua-
tion dress, that delicate thing of
many ruffles and frosty lace, that
the tall, aging woman had bought
and made herself! One of Tom
Carey's Chinese chests had disap-
peared just before the advent of the
dress. Miss Brill had been evasive
about it, and Nell had taken the
sacrifice lightly. Carey chests for
Carey graduates' finery, she would
have thought, if she had thought at
all. And now she was not a Carey.
A waif without any rights— that was
what old Mr. Maddox had meant.
"I'll make it up to her," Nell
thought yearningly, as she opened
the kitchen door. "I don't know
where, or why, she got me, but she's
been wonderful about it." Even
giving up San Francisco was not too
much, now.
npHE house was dark but for the
flicker through the mica of the
stove door. Mary Kelly whispered
tensely out of the gloom, "I'm glad
you've come, Nell. Somebody's
been prowling around. I've been
in a fever for fear your aunt'd hear
him. He looked in the Alaska house
windows, walked all around this
place, poking around. I didn't dare
light a lamp."
262 - APRIL, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
The man in the black roadster! down from the Httle shelf above one
Nell said, "Didn't he knock?" of the eight windows, that sided the
*'0f course not, with the lights little tower room and looked out
out. The idea! Now you go about over the Sound to the wide Straits of
and see that every single window in Juan de Fuca. She rolled the name
this big gloomy pile is locked tight, slowly off her tongue, aloud. It had
or I won t be able to sleep a wink." an adventurous, foreign lilt to it that
Nell lighted a lamp at once. "Oh, stirred her blood. The wide waters
nonsense, Mrs. Kelly. There's noth- merging into the sky always brought
ing here anyone would want." And to her mind a drift of lovely words
she thought immediately of the pre- from a poem, "Ulysses," a picture
cious little hoard in the chest up- of that hardy old soul's longing to
stairs. That anyone might be inter- fight again the pounding waves in
ested in the big, closed rooms full his stout ship. "To seek, to find,
of carved walnut, old satiny silver, and not to yield." That was a stir-
and the intricate glassware of days ring thought! It lifted your head,
gone by did not occur to the girl, somehow, and made you brave in-
She took a lamp and mounted the side. You didn't shrink quite so
stairs in the waterfront side of the much when you heard in memory
tall house, examining window and old Phil's high voice, "She did a
door catches faithfully, even to the good job when she picked you up",
third story. When she reached the Up from where? It would come out
door to the steep stairway that led sometime, somehow. The thing now
to the cupola, she opened it and was to care for Aunt Brill as best she
went up. could— even if she had to let Fred
Night was over the land, but it Nagle help her.
was still light in the watery west. /rr u
Nell took Grandpa Carey's sea glass (^^ ^^ contmued)
THE CRUCIFIXION
By Chiistie Lund
They nailed his stainless hands upon a cross
Against His sky. His heaven that soon must weep
At sight of slow and costly drops of blood
From Him, the Christ, whose sorrow was so deep
That man cannot conceive of it. They quarreled
And bartered for His robe that many times before
Had healed those who had stooped to touch it, those
Who wept about Him now .... the maimed, the poor.
They suffered Him to die with thieves; yet He
Forgave them, and forgave us all that we
Might some day dwell with Him within that Heaven
In peace and love for all eternity.
Have You A Hobby?
By Beatrice E. Linioid
IN this busy, madly rushing world, kinds of hobbies are as varied as the
do you still find that you have types and kinds of individuals. So
hours of leisure time on your numerous are they that it would be
hands, hours in which you seem ut- impossible to enumerate them all in
terly lost wishing for something in- one short article,
teresting to do, hours that might Hobbies may be separated into
easily be converted into pleasure and four groups : The first group is col-
profit if one knew just how to use lecting, which seems to be the most
them? To a great many people the common and widely pursued by hob-
days are not long enough to execute by seekers. One may collect anything
the tasks required of them; yet there from bugs to bedsteads. I know a
are also many who have endless, person who collects elephants— no,
lonely, uninteresting hours on their not real, live flesh and blood ele-
hands. phants, but those carved from wood.
We hear a great deal about hob- ivory, or blown from glass. She has
bies. Have you a hobby? I asked them in all conceivable sizes and
this question of a particular group colors. Many people collect antiques
of adults not long ago. They all an- which is a very interesting hobby,
swered, ''No, we have no such a especially if the objects sought hap-
thing as a hobby." Upon closer ques- pen to be treasures of some dearly
tioning, however, it was discovered beloved ancestor or famous person,
that several of them had hobbies One may collect vases, rare prints,
and were blissfully unaware of the etchings, paintings, dolls, stamps,
fact. One woman, for instance, loved photographs, clippings, poetry, auto-
to make quilts, and another had a graphs, books or butterflies, accord-
beautiful flower garden. ing to his own fancy.
Just what is a hobby? To analyze The second group is creative hob-
it, I would say a hobby is something bies. To me this is the most inter-
that we fancy, choose, and pursue at esting of all the groups. To those
will, something we particularly en- who paint a picture, model a bust
joy doing, something we may do at from clay, write a poem or a book
will or discard at will. That perhaps comes the joy of creation, which is
is the reason hobbies are so fascinat- the most satisfying joy one can ex-
ing. Some people have more than perience.
one hobby, thus satisfying their In this group are placed such
changeable moods and momentary things as writing, painting, garden-
interests, ing, building, designing, flower ar-
Choosing a hobby is an entirely ranging, basket making, copper ham-
individual problem; no other person mering, leather tooling and wood
may choose your hobby' for you. It carving. Of a little different type
must be something you love to do, are: keeping a diary or family his-
something that will bring keen tory, sculpturing, clay modeling,
pleasure and delight. The types and block printing, embroidering, sew-
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ing, quilting, and recipe creating, the name hobbies of action. Many
It is quite impossible to name all persons take a greater delight in
the interesting and even unexplored physical activity, in taking an active
fields for the creative person. Just part in things, than in either study-
for a day, pause and take notice of ing, creating or collecting. In this
your neighbors. Show me the one group v^e find such interesting ac-
who is interested in really doing tivities as taking part in athletic con-
something, and I will show you a tests or carnivals, participating in
happy person. pageants, celebrations, fairs, dancing,
''But I cannot do any of those entertaining, helping with bazaars
things. I can't paint a picture or and festivals, and participating in
write a poem," I hear you say. How outings and camping trips. Some
many individuals have thought the who are talented enjoy taking part
same thing; and, of course, if that in dramas, public speaking, or play-
is what they think, they naturally ing in vaudeville. Some people take
can't do things. But on the other active interest in pets, such as dogs,
hand, if they think they can, of birds, bees, horses, rabbits, pigeons,
course they will be able to. or fur-bearing animals, such as mink,
A third group is hobbies for ac- raccoon or fox.
quiring knowledge. Of course, we Among hobbies of action we find
all continue learning day after day, games such as baseball, basketball,
year after year, as a natural result cycling, boxing, golf, tennis, coast-
of our experience. However, there ing, skiing, skating, swimming, hunt-
are certain fields of study to which ing, fishing, horseshoe pitching, can-
we become attached, so fascinating oeing and many others,
are they to us that we wish to learn In these four groups I have at-
all there is to know on the subject, tempted to give a small idea of how
thus we take up our hobby of acquir- great the possibilities are for those
ing knowledge. seeking something for leisure hours.
Some of the studies man finds in-
teresting are: history, art, architec- AS the world advances in scientific
ture, aeronautics, economics, astron- knowledge, education, and me-
omy, botany, minerology, genealogy, chanical ability, men and women are
entomology, languages, mathemat- finding themselves with more and
ics, meteorology, ornithology, zoolo- more leisure time at their disposal.
gy, music, psychology, physics, pale- This condition is increasing rather
ontology, and all the other ologies than decreasing. Now is the time
that are so very fascinating to certain to find out our likes and dislikes,
individuals. Indeed, civilization and attach ourselves to some inter-
owes untold debts to those who have esting hobby,
followed one or more of these fields More often than not, hobbies that
of learning to the point where they are at first taken up with the sole
themselves have contributed some idea of pleasure or pastime turn out
great truth to the field of modern to be an individual's life occupation,
thought and science. Thus we have a person making a
To the fourth group is attached livelihood by doing the job he really
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 265
enjoys, and how very much easier
it is to accompHsh big things when
doing what we really want to do than
when spending our days plugging
endlessly away at some monotonous
job not so much to our liking.
I am intimately acquainted with
a man who as a small boy loved to
whittle with his pocket knife making
such a litter on the kitchen floor that
the immaculate mother had him
sit in the huge, old-fashioned wood-
box behind the stove to save sweep-
ing the shavings. As he grew, he
continued with this hobby of his
boyhood, learning all he could of
woods, of methods used in build-
ing, cutting, carving and glueing. His
hobby turned out to be his occupa-
tion in life, and for more than thirty
years he has been teaching wood-
work in the schools. He still loves
to make lamps, magazine stands,
tables, book ends, candle sticks and
all sorts of gifts for his family and
friends.
I have a neighbor who enjoys flow-
ers and very modestly began grow-
ing a few bulbs and shrubs. She
now lives entirely surrounded by a
beautiful garden of all varieties and
types of flowers, blossoming from
early spring until late autumn. She
has developed a small business sell-
ing bulbs and blossoms. But the
greatest pleasure that comes to her is
through the flowers she bestows up-
on the sick, the lonely and sad. She
keeps her church continually sup-
plied with lovely bouquets the year
around.
I know another person who paints
his spare time, another who
m
makes delicious candies, another
who raises pure-bred dogs, one who
keeps a most interesting family his-
tory, and stfll another who is a
genius with her apparently magic
needle. Day by day I see pleasure
derived from the pursuit of interest-
ing hobbies.
I believe that this individual hob-
by idea is bound to take care of many
of the nation's problems in the im-
mediate future. Hundreds of thou-
sands of our citizenry have been
thrown out of jobs in recent years,
others have been forced to change
from one job to another. Now we
are living in a period of readjust-
ment, struggling in every conceiv-
able manner to obtain a sensible
balance again. Let us adopt the
slogan, "A hobby for everyone".
TRUTH
npRUTH never dies. The ages come and go;
The mountains wear away; the seas retire;
Destruction lays earth's mighty cities low;
And empires, states and dynasties expire;
But caught and handed onward by the wise.
Truth never dies!
(Courtesy, "The Union Signal")
The Body's Need For Vitamins
By Dt. Rose H. Widtsoe
Home Economics Department— University of Utah
THERE is no chapter in the field and "water soluble B". Another re-
of nutrition so dramatic as the search worker, Dr. Funk, called
one dealing with the subject them vitamines A and B. Since more
of vitamins. The science of nutri- has been learned concerning these
tion met many difficulties in its de- substances, the names have been
velopment. For years the chemist changed to "vitamins",
could not make a complete analysis
of foods because of imperfect meth- Methods of Investigation
ods and apparatus. Finally in igo6 a
diet was worked out by the chemist There have been two methods of
which was thought to be complete ap.proach to the study of the yita-
in every respect. This diet was made '"l^^'J*^ chemical and the biologi-
up of pure protein, fat, carbohy- ^^'i The latter is the older method
drates and the essential minerals and ^^^^ ^^"'^'^ *" t""^ ?^ ""^^^^l °{ *^
was fed to experimental animals. Presence or the absence of these
They not only did not grow but soon naturally occurring vitamins in our
sickened and died. The addition of f°°^« wjien ^^^ t° .^'S"'"'^"*?! ^"''
a small amount of whole milk to this ™i^- ^" 1913 McCollum, Davis,
diet resulted in normal growth and Osborne and Mendel, in experi-
development What was there in '"«"'' T^^ mdependendy and at
whole milk that made such a dra- ^^_°"t the same time, found that
matic change? Zealous research of ^'^'^^ ^'H"° '^^ ^f °" ^ ^'^^ .'^o"'
many earnest workers over a period t^"'"/ ^^ *f ,'''?°^", nutrients
of years gave the answer to this ^O"'.'^ grow and thrive when butter
question. This experimentation re- ^1' '" *^ diet but when lard was
suited in the knowledge that there substituted as the only source of fat
are a number of important organic *^y ^.O"''^ f ^'^ g',"*'"f ^"^^ ,^^-
substances found naturally in foods ^"'"^ "'^'^ and soon die. Many other
that are essential to life and growth. ^^^^ ^^""^ ^^^^ ■" numerous expen-
These substances are now known to ™T*'' ^""^ '* was found that the fat
be the vitamins. Irl 1913 it was de- '" ''""^'' ^g§ T""' ''''';'1''^' °'''' ,'"
termined by a number of our nutri- *'"' gre^n leafy vegetables and the
tion research workers that there were y^'low fruits and vegetables and the
two general characteristics of these g^rm of cereals either contained
unknown vital substances: One was these fat soluble vitamins or sub-
that certain of these substances were stances that are changed into vita-
soluble in fat and others were solu- niins in the animal body. Most of
ble in water; hence, they were called the vegetable and commercial oils
by Dr. McCoUum "fat soluble A" resemble lard in their nutritive value.
Vitamin A Values in Foods
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 267
Chemical Investigation latter being changed into vitamin A
Chemical research has now estab- when eaten. Carotene is of a dis-
lished the identity of six vitamins, tinctly yellow color, while vitamin
Others are being investigated. It has A is colorless. All green vegetables
been determined that no single contain carotene, but the yellow col-
chemical description applies to the or is covered up with the green color
vitamins as a group. Each vitamin of the chlorophyll. Hence any col-
is a distinct chemical substance. In ored vegetable, cereal or fruit— red,
regard to their functions in nutri- yellow, or green— is a good source
tion, they may be grouped as a single of vitamin A.
class of nutrients. As a group they
have a regulatory action on the util-
ization of foodstuffs and in the con- Since carotene is the chief source
trol of body functions. But each of vitamin A, we look to the colored
vitamin has specific values. Research vegetables and fruits and to the milk
has determined that most of our fat and its products, whole milk or
vitamin values are formed by Nature cream cheese, eggs and fish oils as
in our foodstuffs. We have always our best food sources. The carotene
known that we eat to live, but we content of a plant increases up to
are fast learning that what we eat maturity. One must remember that
has an important bearing upon how the yellow color may be hidden by
long we shall live and the degree of the green color of the chlorophyll,
health we shall enjoy. When we eat these colored foods,
our bodies convert the yellow caro-
The Fat Soluble Vitamin tene into the colorless vitamin A.
Vitamin A is one of the most in- Cows and chickens feed upon green
teresting and one of the first vita- grass, hay and other forage crops,
mins to be discovered. The experi- thus making use of food sources of
ment cited above called attention vitamin A that man cannot use. This
to the fact that something soluble vitamin value is passed on for human
in the fat of milk was necessary to "se in the form of milk and eggs,
the life of the experimental animals. _ . . _ _. . . , r ,
With butter in the diet, the animals ^Measurement of Vitamm A Values
grew normally; with lard as the sole Vitamin A values of foods are now
source of fat, they sickened and died, measured in units in two different
In due time all of the important types of experiments: first, by feed-,
food fats were worked with and their ing known quantities of carotene or
vitamin A value determined. foodstuffs containing vitamin A to
The original source of vitamin A experimental animals and determin-
is built up by Nature in certain grow- ing the rate of growth; second, by
ing plants and is called carotene, feeding known quantities of vitamin
When foods containing carotene are A in its synthetic form and noting
eaten they are changed into vitamin the rate of growth. The chemist
A. Certain foods of animal origin now knows the chemical nature of
such as milk fat and egg fat contain vitamin A and can synthesize it in
both vitamin A and carotene, the his laboratory. The comparative val-
268 - APRIL, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
ues of vitamin A in different foods
are now given to us in what is known
as International Units. The follow-
ing partial list of vitamin A food
sources are submitted as a guide in
building dietaries.
THE VITAMIN VALUES OF FOODS*
The Average Vitamin Unitage per
100 Grams of Foodstuff.
Vitamin A values are given in Interna-
tional Units. 100 gms. equals 3.6 ounces.
I Vitamin
Food I A
Apples
90
Apricots, fresh
7,500
Apricots, dried
1 3,700
Asparagus, green
800
Avocado
700
Banana
300
Beef, lean
100
Blackberry
300
Bread, whole wheat
100
Broccoli
700
Brussels Sprouts
420
Butter
2,250
Cantaloupe
450
Carrots
4,200
Chard
25,000
Cheese, Cheddar
3J50
Cherries, Royal Anne
630
Cod Liver Oil. U.S.P.
60,000
Cornmeal, yellow
800
Cornmeal, white
0
Cream, 20 per cent
1,050
Dandelions
30,000
Eggs
2,500
Egg yolk
5,000
Escarole
30,000
Kale
36,000
Kidney, Beef
800
Kidney, Veal
1,100
Kidney, Mutton
1,100
Lettuce, green
6,000
Lettuce, bleached
200
Liver, Beef
1 3,000
Meat, Average
25
Milk, dried, whole
2,400
Milk, evaporated
680
Vitamin
Food
A
Milk, condensed
680
Milk, malted
6,140
Olives, ripe
Parsley
Peaches, yellow
Peaches, dried, yellow
350
70,000
1,400
1,200
Peas, green
1,000
Peas, dried
1^750
Peppers, green
Peppers, red
Potato, sweet
1,300
7,780
3,600
Potato, white
56
Salmon
Spinach
500
21, GOO
Squash, Hubbard
Tomatoes, green
7,000
1,100
Tomatoes, ripe
1,100
Tomato juice
900
Turnip greens
Yeast, Fleischmann
7,500
3,200
'Avitaminosis" by Eddy and Daldorf.
(Revised March, 1938)
Vitamin A Is Essential to Growth
Vitamin A is essential for the
growth of the young and for the
maintenance of the health of adults.
There is no period in life when this
vitamin is not needed by the body.
It plays a very important part not
only in the growth and development
of the body but also in the efficient
regulation of the body processes at
all ages. When the intake of vita-
min A is insufficient in experimental
animals, growth ceases, the hair be-
comes rough and shaggy, the char-
acteristic eye trouble develops, res-
piratory diseases are apt to occur and
a general weakened condition of the
body results.
Lack of Vitamin A Tends to Cause
Eye Infection
Susceptibility to eye infection is
one of the most outstanding char-
acteristics of vitamin A deficiency.
The eyes become dry as the natural
secretions fail. Such fluids naturally
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keep the eyes clean by washing out
bacteria and other foreign particles.
The eyelids swell, become sticky and
sore and the membrane becomes in-
flamed. If this disease progresses far
enough, blindness results. This con-
dition is found among children
much more frequently than among
adults. During the Wodd War the
poorer children in Holland suffered
this eye trouble due to vitamin A
poor dietaries. When whole milk
was introduced into their diet, the
trouble cleared up.
Lack of Vitamin A Tends to Cause
Respiiatoiy Diseases
Respiratory diseases are much
more frequent on vitamin A defi-
cient dietaries. The cellular structure
of the respiratory (bronchial tubes
and lungs) and alimentary (stomach
and intestines) tracts become so
weakened that infection readily at-
tacks them. Again the loss of the
natural secretions which tend to
cleanse such tissue, makes it possible
for germs to attack them and cause
colds, sinus trouble, ear infections
and bronchial trouble. While such
deficiency diseases are much more
readily observed in experimental ani-
mals, the same effects are possible
in the human body but in a less
spectacular manner. It is due to this
fact that any dietary deficiency in
human nutrition is so serious. The
effects are so slow and so insidious
and are usually not accompanied by
pain, so that serious damage is done
before one recognizes the evil. The
difference in the life span of the ex-
perimental animal, usually the white
albino rat, and the human being is
great, one day in the life of the rat
being equal to one month in the life
of a human being.
Chemical Nature oi Vitamin A
Vitamin A and Carotene are or-
ganic substances soluble in fat. The
chemist now knows the composition
of these two substances and is
equipped to test their comparative
values in food. Such chemical tests
will hasten the development of our
knowledge of nutrition. Vitamin
A is insoluble in water, so that we
do not lose any of this nutrient in
cooking processes. Vitamin A is not
destroyed by heat up to the boiling
temperature of water, nor by the
pressure cooker, unless the pressure
is exceedingly high and the cooking
is extended over a long period of
time, a condition seldom necessary
in the ordinary cooking processes.
The canning of food does not de-
stroy its vitamin A value. If vege-
tables are stored for a period of sev-
eral months, they lose considerable
of their vitamin A value due to the
oxidation of the air. Rancidity in
fats destroy the vitamin A value.
How Much Vitamin A Does the
Body Need?
Intensive research is in progress in
an attempt to determine the quanti-
ties of vitamin A, measured in units,
required daily by the growing child
and the adult. No definite stand-
ards are yet available, but Mrs. Rose
and her co-workers have suggested
that loo units per loo calories of
food for the average adult and 200
units for 100 calories for the child
would be a good guide. The follow-
ing table gives the best available
daily caloric requirement for chil-
dren.
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FOOD ALLOWANCES
FOR
CHILDREN OF AVERAGE
WEIGHT*
Age
Calories Per Day
Year;
; Boys
Girls
1
900-1200
800-1200
2
1100-1300
1000-1250
3
1100-1400
1050-1350
4
1200-1500
1150-1450
5
1300-1600
1200-1500
6
1500-1900
1450-1800
7
1600-2100
1500-1900
8
1700-2300
1600-2200
9
1900-2500
1800-2500
10
2100-2700
1900-2600
11
2100-2800
2000-2800
12
2300-3000
2100-3000
13
2500-3500
2300-3400
15
2700-4000
2400-2800
16
2700-4000
2250-2800
17
2800-4000
2250-2800
From this table one can easily de-
termine the vitamin A requirement
by dividing the caloric requirement
for children by 100 and multiplying
the answer by 200, the standard
units for 100 calories. Example: A
boy 6 years of age requires 1500
calories—
1500^100=15
15x200=3,000 vitamin A units re-
quired daily.
An adult will on an average require
* Based on Gellett's Food Allowance for
Healthy Childien and Rose's Laboratory
Handbook for Dietetics.
2500 to 3000 calories and 2500 to
3000 vitamin A units per day. By
using the table of vitamin A food
values one can plan a diet that will
supply these amounts. Any excess
of vitamin A will do no possible
harm as the body has the power of
storing it. This is a blessing as one
can eat liberally of green growing
vegetables in the season thereof, and
the excess will be stored for future
use. One cannot depend upon this
storage exclusively, but must supple-
ment it by feeding food sources of
vitamin A daily. In planning menus
refer to the vitamin A food value
table and select the available foods
rich in A. Use as many of the green
foods uncooked as possible. The
green outer leaves of lettuce are thir-
ty times richer in A than the inner
white leaves; green cabbage is better
than white; spinach, parsley and all
green leafy vegetables, carrots, yams,
sweet-potatoes, yellow corn meal,
yellow fruits and tomatoes are all
excellent sources of vitamin A. But-
ter, whole milk, cream cheese, fish-
liver oils, eggs and the vital organs
of animals are also rich sources of
A. If thought is given to the build-
ing of the family dietary, there need
be no deficiency of this important
food nutrient.
^^/^NE'S ideal is one's vision from the slope of the mountains of endeavor
—each step of climbing widens the horizon, not in one only, but in all
directions, while the wider vision inspires renewed effort."
^^CUCCESS can only be reached by climbing a very steep hill. Climb little
by little, but never turn back or stand still."— Nathaniel A. Biahmn,
TlohiiL,
FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretary
Nevada Stake
nPHE symbolism of gold mining is
original and challenging in the
report submitted by Hope Broad-
bent of the stake board.
The picture of the membership
arch and the plans for the drive as
launched in the Nevada Stake are
most interesting:
NEVADA STAKE MEMBERSHIP
ARCH
"Mining is one of the outstanding
industries of this particular locality.
Recently a gold nugget of unusual
size was found in the vicinitv. Much
excitement was caused by the find,
and the incident set us to thinking
how similar is prospecting and gold
mining to the Membership Drive in
the Relief Society. This thought
gradually shaped itself into a plan
for our membership campaign and
a symbolic arch that would graph-
ically show the growth of this plan.
'The present membership forms
the base of the arch. This founda-
tion is well laid and very valuable.
Hence, it is depicted in gold, because
each of the present members is as
priceless to the organization as is the
large gold nugget to the prospec-
tor. Through 'the common inter-
ests and activities of the Organization
these individual units have been
molded into a strong, enduring base
or foundation which is capable of
supporting the structure that is to
be built during the next four years.
"To give each ward its identity
the base was divided, each division
representing a ward. The number
of gold nuggets (members) compris-
ing each portion of the base was
specified. Each ward must not only
support its share of the arch but
must set about mining the gold with
which to build it, for when complet-
ed it will be built entirely of gold.
"All present members are desig-
nated as gold prospectors, to be led
and directed by the coordinators.
Their first duties are to learn how
to reach these gold mines and how
to extract the gold they find. To
accomplish this they must be alert
to the likes and interests of their
prospects. Sometimes these gold
nuggets will be found close to the
surface and will necessitate little
effort in discovery. Other times
they will be found buried deep with
much worthless mineral mixed with
them, but still well worth the time
and effort necessary to bring them
to the surface.
"A miner may choose to prospect
in territory never before mined, or
he may use more intensive and thor-
ough methods in reworking old
claims. So in our membership drive
we will have two fields in which to
prospect: one among persons not
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acquainted with the Organization,
who are entirely new to the work;
the other, with those who were once
active but for some reason are now
inactive. This second field may be
compared to the miner reworking
old claims. As with the miner, in
order to make this work worth while,
new, more varied and intense meth-
ods will have to be used to rekindle
the interests of these indifferent
prospects.
"Mining prospectors must have
certain tools and provisions to help
them in their labors; so must mem-
bership prospectors. The pick may
represent a firm conviction that the
gold nuggets necessary to complete
our structure can be found and ob-
tained. The shovel may represent
a determination to work. In the
knapsack must be had, as bread, a
thorough knowledge of our Relief
Society organization— its aims, pur-
poses, ideals, program, benefits and
obligations. In the canteen must
be carried a rich abundance of en-
thusiasm for the work.
"As each ward searches out and
gathers the precious gold nuggets
from within its boundaries, it will
be made a part of the arch structure.
By accepting membership and its re-
sponsibilities in the Relief Society
organization the nuggets will be-
come like gold bricks that fit into
the structure, performing a definite
and important role in its building.
Thus each new gold nugget (mem-
ber) will be represented by a space
filled in with gold in its respective
part of the arch.
"The variation in size of these
golden blocks is significant, too. In
some very small wards the limited
resources make the product rarer
and more valuable. As can be seen,
it will be necessary for each ward to
supply its share of the gold to com-
plete the structure of the arch."
The stake is confident that with
such a well laid foundation and a
capstone built of friendly service,
supported by cultural growth and
spiritual joy, each ward will diligently
work and add the nuggets necessary
to complete an arch of gold by 1942
for the Nevada Stake.
F
Oneida Stake
ROM the Glencoe Ward of the
Oneida Stake the following pic-
ture was submitted. Among the
group is the first president of the Or-
ganization, who is now eighty-four
years of age and still active. This
ONEIDA STAKE, GLENCOE WARD
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 273
group is of interest because it shows
the wide age range of people who are
active in ReHef Society work, from
young mothers with tiny children to
mature women who have had the ad-
vantage of years of experience in the
Organization.
The Preston First Ward is sub-
mitting the picture below, as it is
quite an unusual one. In this en-
terprising ward an old-fashioned corn
husking ''bee" was held. The sisters
of the Relief Society gathered, husk-
ed, and cut from the cob the corn
1938 was a very busy one for mem-
bers of the Parowan Stake. The
full allotments of canned fruits,
vegetables and meats, as well as the
dried fruits and vegetables for the
Church Welfarq Program were more
than filled. The members donated
funds to purchase drapes, dishes, and
cooking utensils and made rugs to
furnish the four apartments of the
Parowan Stake court at the St.
George Temple.
One new organization was ef-
fected, creating the Modena Branch.
CORN HUSKING "BEE," PRESTON FIRST WARD
produced on one-eighth of an acre.
Each sister dried as much of the corn
as she could care for at her own
home. To quote from the letter:
''We all worked hard, but it was a
novel experience, and we all had a
delightful time. A number of
batches of corn were dried for a share
by people who did not have their
own gardens and who needed corn.
Altogether more than 300 pounds
^ivere dried."
Parowan Stake
AN interesting report shows the
work in progress in one of our
Southern Utah stakes. The year
This makes twelve Relief Society or-
ganizations in the stake. In this
stake, distance is a problem. Wards
are scattered over a large area, but
the loyal members travel in all kinds
of weather— through winter storms,
summer heat, rain and wind— to
attend the Union meetings. All
phases of the Relief Society program
are going forward. The women are
eager to gain knowledge, and en-
thusiastically and faithfully study the
different lesson outlines. They are
interested in the opportunities for
musical development now offered in
Relief Society, and the health pro-
gram provides a splendid field of ac-
tivity.
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BENSON STAKE MEMBERSHIP PARTY
Benson Stake
T^HE above beautiful picture was
taken on the thirty-seventh an-
niversary of the organization of
Benson Stake. The Stake Board cele-
brated the occasion by launching the
Membership Drive. There was also
a wonderful exhibit of handwork and
flowers on display. A cake contest
was sponsored. Between four and
five hundred women participated in
the happy event, which was felt to be
an excellent beginning for the very
important work of recruiting mem-
bers.
Lethbiidge Stake
Wf^ are indebted to Sister Ida
Wood, president of Lethbridge
Stake, for the following interesting
statement of the Relief Society work
in her stake. The Lethbridge Stake
Relief Society Board is composed of
seven members— all mothers. Five
of them live on farms from two to
seven miles apart. These mothers
have sixty children in all, ranging in
age from three to thirty-three years.
They all take care of their own
homes in addition to the stake Re-
lief Society work, and they also work
in ward auxiliaries. The president
and counsellors each have a son on a
mission.
The stake is scattered over a large
area. The wards and branches are
far apart, one of the most distant
being 350 miles away from the cen-
ter. The president says: "When
making our visits to ward confer-
ences, our total traveling amounts to
1,400 miles. This does not include
the distance traveled to our newest
branch in Edmonton, the capital of
our province, which is 3 50 miles from
Taber, where our board members all
live. We are happy in our work and
want to give to it the best we have.
We feel that we work under difficult-
ies, but we are willing to carry on be-
cause we know that the Lord blesses
us abundantly, and the sisters in our
stake are most wonderful. They are
all anxious to do their part and help
the work along."
Shelley Stake i
"PROM the Shelley Stake comes a
most interesting report of the
Work and Business program as plan-
ned for the year 1939. Beginning
with January the program gives at-
tention to the balanced diet; Febru-
ary, the curing of meats; March,
cereals and grain products, and as it
is then nearing the housecleaning
season, hints to aid in that important
work are included; April, dairy pro-
ducts, also an exchange of quilt pat-
terns and some actual quilting; May,
the study of fats and sugars, and an
exchange of bulbs and seeds; June,
eggs— their treatment and uses, also
bookbinding and special hobbies;
July is set aside for the year's outing;
August, vegetables are to be consid-
ered, also attention given to remod-
eling of clothing; September, fruits
and aprons; October, serving food
attractively, and attention to the
Church Welfare Program; Novem-
ber, cookies and candies, also Christ-
mas suggestions; December, a display
of the year's work and a Christmas
party.
We feel that many helpful sug-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 275
gestions are contained in this ma-
terial, and all phases harmonize in
the making of better homes.
TooeJe Stake
nPHE project for the year 1938 was
one hundred per cent visiting
teaching. The picture below is of
a group who accomplished this ob-
jective and faithfully carried through
the project. Not only did they make
their regular visits, but they used the
Messages and carefully and wisely
reported the condition of people in
the districts visited. There are thir-
teen districts in this ward and in most
of these there are three teachers for
each district. Seven of the teachers
in this group made the visits every
month during the year. This fine
work has enabled the officers to give
needed assistance in sickness, also to
supply food and other commodities
where necessary, and to capably ren-
der service in homes where death
reigned.
At Christmas time a splendid
piece of work was accomplished; new
underwear and other clothing were
made and given to those in need.
VISITING TEACHERS, TOOELE STAKE
MUSIC DEPARTMENT
THE SINGING MOTHERS
By Ruth May Fox
Sing on, Singing Mothers, sing on and sing on;
Lift your hearts in rejoicing all the day long
For the Organization which leads you in ways
Of noble endeavor to honor your days.
Sing on, Singing Mothers, sing on.
Sing in the morning when over the hill
The sun sheds his glory o'er meadow and rill;
Awaking the earth to a newness of life.
Revealing such beauty one marvels at strife.
Sing on. Singing Mothers, sing on.
Sing to your babies as they cling to your breast;
Sing to your children when you lay them to rest;
As the shadows of twilight over them fall
Sing softly— the Shepherd is guarding you all.
Sing on. Singing Mothers, sing on.
Sing when you're weary, sing when you're sad;
The song of the righteous will make the soul glad;
The Father will listen, your sorrow He knows;
His tender compassion forever o'erflows.
Sing on, Singing Mothers, sing on.
Sing ye in triumph as did Miriam of old;
When evil is vanquished God's wonders unfold.
E'en in your wilderness, grim though it be.
You may walk on dry land through the midst of the sea.
Sing on. Singing Mothers, sing on.
npHE above tribute. The Singing said: "Well, it is a good subject.
Mothers, was penned by Sister Then, think what it means to have
Ruth May Fox, former General a 'singing mother' in the home. I
President of the Young Women's have always been proud of the Sing-
Mutual Improvement Association, ing Mothers. I have always regard-
February, 1939, shortly after cele- ed the Relief Society as a strong
brating her eighty-fifth birthday. religious organization and have felt
When questioned regarding the that I should contribute my best
circumstances which prompted the efforts to it whenever possible."
writing of these verses. Sister Fox These verses were thought out
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 277
completely and memorized before
they were placed on paper. Sister
Fox expressed it in this way: "I just
think words out and remember.
These words did not see paper until
the whole thing was finished." She
says her writing ability has come
through practice and that if people
will only work hard enough they can
accomplish almost anything. Sister
Fox writes from the fullness of her
heart and from actual experiences in
life. "Why shouldn't I write about
singing mothers?" she said. ''I have
a singing heart myself. I go to bed
humming and rise each morning
with a song in my heart. Beautiful
music keeps one young. Some peo-
ple say, 'Life begins at forty'; but I
say it begins at seventy. I don't
think 'old'. I am willing to admit
my years but ynwilling to admit
I am old."
We are indeed indebted to Sister
Fox for this inspirational poem. We
are proud of the eighty-five years
she has so generously shared. Such
years of wisdom, encouragement and
youthful enthusiasm will ever keep
alive the spirit of music in our souls.
By Janet M. Thompson
Pushing Back Last Year's Leaves
By Kathleen B. Nelson
PUSHING back last year's leaves
is a dramatic gesture. One
does it with such an odd mix-
ture of eagerness and timidity. Go-
ing into the garden the first warm
day spells rare adventure. That
clump of green looks promising. I
advance breathless. What? Only
catnip! I stoop down low to get the
proper leverage to oust that intrud-
er, and thus I perceive a dandelion
impudently flaunting its lush ro-
sette. With weed-digger poised for
a ruthless slaughter, I pause to in-
vestigate, poking gently with my
fingers, and see at the dandelion's
margin a colony of tiny seedlings.
One true leaf, crinkly and round,
confirms my first hope. They are
primroses. One false move, one
ruthless rake and where, oh where,
would all this potential loveliness
ha\^e fled? Fingers are the only tool
to trust in removing last year's
leaves if you truly love your garden!
This first discovery is followed by
another and another. The crocuses
have done their own pushing and
there a fat hyacinth wearing a brown-
leaf girdle reminds one of a portly
matron. Here are forget-me-nots,
lilies of the valley and violas thickly
studded with buds. One more warjn
day and loveliness will flash.
This pushing back last year's
leaves is doubly poignant after a long
illness or a catastrophe in our own
lives. For just so do we come back
pushing timidly among the ruins.
If this is your lot this spring, take
heart, be of good cheer, for if you
have ever planted there awaits you
happy surprise.
LESSON DEPAHTMENT
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Can The Family Have Two Heads?
Lesson 7
By Paul Popenoe, Sc. D.
(Director Institute of Family Relations, Los Angeles, Calif.)
T^HE contemporary theory of mar- can work out their partnership on a
riage looks on it as a democratic ''50-50" basis,
co-partnership in which husband Among the reasons for the failure
and wife have equal rights, privileges, of so many intelligent and otherwise
duties, responsibilities, and obliga- well-educated people to attain a gen-
tions. nine partnership in marriage are the
As a fact, only about one-third of following:
the marriages, even in a well edu- i- They scarcely know what co-
cated stratum of society, reach this operation means. The general pat-
ideal. A study of thousands of fam- t^^ns of American society are based
ilies revealed the following situa- too much on competition and con-
tion: fliet? rather than on cooperation.
Wife-dominated 28% l' ^" *^ P-^^^f ^ P"^"^ ^'^1'''°!
Husband-dominated 35% '/''^'"v.^'T f^ ^u' ,^'1 */^'"'
*'Fiftv-fiftv" in^ "^ childhood to thmk that com-
„ 1 "."" ^. petition of the sexes is the normal
But there was a great difference in ^^- ^^^ cooperation. From kin-
the happiness of these marriages, the jergarten onward, they compete for
percentage rated (by close friends ^^^^^^ f^^ ^^^ t^^^j^^^.^ f^^^^^ f^,
and relatives) as happy being: ^j^^^ion to class offices. In high
Wife-dominated 47% school they are taught that they
Husband-dominated 61% must go out into the world and get
Fifty-fifty 87% jobs in competition with each other,
Obviously, if the family is to have —that each sex will try to get the
only one head, it is safer that the better of the other, perhaps by un-
husband be that head. His abdica- fair tactics. All this is no prepara-
tion probably indicates that he is not tion for real cooperation in marriage,
a very strong character to start with, 3. The girl's patterns may be dis-
— perhaps brought up under too torted by the Masculine Protest (les-
much femine dominance and de- son No. 6).
prived of the opportunity to devel- 4. The boy's patterns may be dis-
op initiative, self-respect, and readi- torted by too much female aggres-
ness to accept responsibility. Such siveness and dominance (lesson No.
a state of affairs is probably just as 5).
unsatisfactory to the wife as to the With these handicaps, a special
husband. But it is obviously much effort must be made to prepare
safer to have a marriage of two emo- young people to cooperate with each
tionally mature personalities who other, in order that they may work
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 279
out the most satisfactory relation-
ship in marriage. This involves:
1 . Promotion of emotional matur-
ity.
2. Getting rid of the idea of "sex
equality". The sexes are not equal:
Equality does not exist in nature; it
is found only in the imaginary fig-
ures of the geometrists. The sexes
complement each other, supplement
each other, are mutually dependent.
Each has its own specializations.
Neither one is complete without the
other. To think that either one is,
in a general way, superior and the
other inferior is just as unscientific
as to suppose that they could pos-
sibly be equal.
3. Children should be brought up
family-minded rather than herd-
minded. This means closer associa-
tion with their own parents and
other adults (Lesson No. 8).
4. General patterns of coopera-
tion should be promoted (as for ex-
ample, through church organiza-
tions) in place of the selfish compe-
tition of much of the modern busi-
ness world. If people can grow up
with the idea of successful coopera-
tion as producers and as consumers,
it may be easier for them to transfer
these patterns into their homes. In-
stead of cooperating, husband and
wife are now too often competing
against each other, or even in actual
conflict, over such things as the di-
vision of the budget, the use of the
automobile, the opportunity for rec-
reation, the affection of the children,
and so on. (In cooperation one is
working with a person toward some
goal which it is possible for both to
attain. In competition one is work-
ing against a person toward a goal
which only one can attain. In con-
flict, one is not only competing, but
trying at the same time to injure or
destroy the competitor.)
5. More division of labor in fam-
ily life, based on biological special-
ization and on convenience, will also
remove likelihood of conflict. No
army ever won a battle if it was com-
manded by two generals, each with
equal authority and each determined
to assert his right to command. But
an army can have two generals of
equal rank and experience, each as-
signed to a particular type of work
and each responsible for his own de-
partment; and they can confer prof-
itably in staff meetings. Many a
home suffers from having two gen-
erals, each determined to be boss.
At the very best, this leads to a great
waste of time in talking over all sorts
of trivial affairs, because each is de-
termined to be heard before any-
thing at all is done. It is much sim-
pler to divide up the labor, each
being responsible for certain things;
then they will have time to discuss
the few really important matters of
new policy that arise from time to
time. Just how the division should
be made is wholly a matter of con-
venience. The important thing is a
clear understanding that each is ex-
pected to assume responsibility for
certain parts of the family enterprise.
6. This is greatly helped if young
people are taught, so far as possible,
how to cooperate intelligently in
some of the most important areas of
family relationships. Among these
are:
(a) The marital adjustment. Un-
less this is achieved fairly early in
marriage, it may result in all sorts of
unnecessary tension and friction,
which make cooperation in any
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sphere more difficult. It depends and talk about, include the children
largely on emotional maturity, un- (if there are any), is an absolutely
derstanding of the differences in the necessary part of family relations.
psychology of the sexes, and a mini- People should budget their time for
mum amount of information easily this purpose, just as carefully as they
obtainable through a number of budget their finances (much more
good books and pamphlets that are carefully than most of us do, in
widely accessible. fact! ) .
(b) Handling the family income. (f ) Attitude toward relatives.
Many men are generous, not so The husband (according to a wide-
many are just, in this respect. Some- spread complaint) expects the wife
times a man, feeling uncertain of to show deference to his relatives
his ability to maintain superiority but is sometimes careless about
in any other way, uses his control showing an equal amount to hers,
of the pocketbook as a club to bring This question of in-laws has been a
his wife into submission. In a large hard one since the beginning of
number of successful families, the time. There is no formula to solve
joint checking account with agree- it automatically, but it should be
ment on division of labor in taking faced frankly and in a broad spirit
care of expenditures proves satisfac- of cooperation.
tory, but there is no one panacea. Questions and Problems
In some equally successful families ^ i mi • ^ r
4.1, •£ 1? ji u 1.x. c 1- Check over the happiest fam-
the wire handles all the finances, .,. , , \v r ^
uu 1.1 -u u J ihes you know and name the factors
in others the husband. ^r ^-^ ^ -i. i. .. ..i- i.
that contribute to this happiness.
(c) Management of children. What factors contribute to unhappi-
These should be, and normally are, ^^^^ ^^ family life?
the strongest bond uniting husband ^ jf ^he wife has had a good job
and wife m a partnership; but every- ^^^^^^ marriage, do you think this
one knows that they sometimes experience helps to produce real co-
serve as a cause of discord instead, operation between husband and
If husbands as well as wives have a ^vife?
proper education for parenthood, . wh^t is the function of re-
much of the difficulty will disappear. ^-^^^^ ^^ ^-^^^ husbands and wives
(d) Housework. The huband to achieve larger happiness and mu-
who will accept no responsibility tual understanding?
whatever for what goes on at home ^. Would you say that there is
is matched by the wife who expects more or less likelihood of family dis-
her husband to do a hard day's work integration in a home where the wife
outside, then come home and do a has outside employment than where
full half of the housework as well, she gives most of her attention to
(e) Recreation. Abundance of the home? When? Why?
mutual, wholesome, inexpensive, 5. What changes in the education
constructive recreation that will of young people in high school do
break the daily monotony, bring you think would most effectively
husband and wife closer together, promote successful cooperation
give them something to think about, when they marry?
(^yut-of-door Uje\?eiopment
of the uiome {ueautiful
(ContinuGd horn page 230)
standing from year to year. We
become so used to them they are
hardly noticed, but the stranger is
shocked at their ugHness. Remove
them and see what a different picture
is possible.
The garage, which has now be-
come a necessity, is the logical nu-
cleus of the outdoor service. Farm
property is often treated similarly,
with the garage the center of the
service directly related to the house;
while the barn, farther removed, be-
longs to the group of other farm
buildings not necessarily in connec-
tion with the family living quarters.
Many practical solutions in modern
building include the garage as a unit
of the house. All in all our utmost ef-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, APRIL - 281
forts should be used to make this
service area convenient, of minimum
space, and inconspicuous as possible.
'M'OW turn to the property that
remains. Measure it carefully
and make a plaA of it on paper, for
convenience sake allowing one-
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that— I never could draw anything!"
With determination make an at-
tempt. It may prove to be rather
a curious shape when you have it
completed, suggesting two or more
areas. That only makes its possi-
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of any kind and trees or shrubs al-
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where the sun will shine and where
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Then ask yourself, ''Where does
the house 'connect' with this area?"
For this is to be the private area, the
outdoor living room, the spot you
call your own. In order to really
enjoy it, you must be able to reach
it easily and preferably get at least
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room. A slight change of the house
itself may be necessary to accom-
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of the most beautiful methods is
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such use. It grows readily from cut-
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ground either growing naturally or
clipped as a hedge. One thing to
especially remember in enclosing a
garden is that it is not "enclosed"
unless the enclosure is above eye
level, really making a screen. Often
in a very small space it is better to
use a lattice fence and vines in order
to conserve space, but always the
fence must be six feet high if it is to
be properly effective. Sometimes
this enclosure is also needed to shut
out unsightly things beyond. Then
what is called a background screen
is often successful. This would be a
planting of one or two trees along
with large, rapid-growing shrubs
with yet smaller, compact ones in
the foreground to make a pleasing
''mass" effect in all and at the same
time serve a special purpose.
Once we have our area related to
the indoors and enclosed, it only re-
mains for us to carry out our heart's
desire— but on paper first! The re-
sults we hope for will be much more
certain if we do it first by plan. A
shrub can be moved, an existing tree
taken into consideration so much
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Woman As An Interpreter of the Faith Maude Beeley Jacob 287
May First, National Child Health Day Bernice Moss 298
General Conference 313
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Calling All Remnant Fans Kathleen B. Nelson 299
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Much has been said in praise of the music which was so great a
feature of the Relief Society Conference. All praise falls short in the"
actual expression of what we really feel. Ninety stakes and three mis-
sions sent their talented women to form the Augmented Chorus number-
ing over 1200. The loyalty and devoted service of this vast group ex-
pressed something even finer than the beautiful music they rendered,
though the medium through which they found expression is the very
loftiest possible to humanity.
The Relief Society is proud of this splendid achievement- and real-
izes the enormous power for good which is expressed in this vast army
of women — in addition to the great cultural uplift they are in all of the
stakes, wards, and missions. From our hearts we thank every individ-
ual woman in addition to the fine soloists, the accompanists, Mrs. Alta
Cassity, and Dr. Frank Asper, and the Director, Professor Wade N.
Stephens.
The ioUowing tribute by President Frank Evans of the Eastern States Mission in his
General Conference address indicates the general appreciation felt for this fine chorus:
oJnbute cJo O/he Singing if Iothers
*1 wish they — all of them — (members of the Church in the Eastern
States Mission) could have seen especially one of the demonstrations
here during this conference, and I refer to the Singing Mothers. Not as
a musical demonstration, particularly, but as something far more than
that. . . . Twelve hundred minds directed to a leader here; twelve hun-
dred spirits responding to every gesture of the leader, in order that they
might give forth their message. ... It seemed to me that here was an
achievement in leadership. But more than that, in the high art of
following it was a triumph." — President Frank Evans.
TKe
Relief Society^ Mag^azine
Vol. XXVI MAY, 1939 No. 5
Woman As An Interpreter
Of The Faith
By Maude Beeley Jacob
"The Lord giveth the word: the women that publish the tidings are a great host.**
WOMAN'S position in the gave us our standards of thought and
world today is in a large beauty; and the Roman gave us our
measure due to the human- law and order. But it was Christian-
izing power of Christianity. To a ity that brought to woman a king-
world of conflicting racial condi- dom of usefulness and duty. Her
tions, dominated by ''might" rather influence has emanated- in the past
than by "right," Jesus brought a new through religion, education, service,
gospel, a gospel establishing the sa- and art and through equality, altru-
credness of the individual. To the ism and love. Now, as at all times,
humble fishermen of Galilee as to the greatest responsibility of woman
the rich young ruler; to the devoted is to become an interpreter of life
Mary of Bethany as to the erring to her generation.
Mary of Magdala, Jesus taught the What then shall we say of this
true meaning of life. sacred role of woman? An interpret-
The story of civilization is a story er is a discoverer, a translator, and
of conquest, dominion, and achieve- an interpreter of the faith is one
ment. In the conquest of the ma- whose word or act or thought re-
terial world the conquerer is Man. veals the love of God and the mean-
Into the tapestry of civilization ing of life in such a way that others
much that is good and beautiful has may understand. To comprehend
been woven by Woman. As the in- the deep significance of her task she
terpreter of life woman has played should be able to read in the heart
the role of the ''finisher of civiliza- of womankind the questions and
tion". Quick to love, to hope, to challenges of the day. To gain cour-
fear, the spiritual intuitions of wom- age for her task she can look at the
an have translated themselves into noble lives of those who have pre-
the ideals that have become the hu- ceded her as interpreters of the faith,
manizing forces of society. Looking For guidance she must ever follow
into the Far Away there are three Jesus of Nazareth who gave to the
great races contributing to the gen- womanhood of his day knowledge
eral heritage of mankind. The He- and vision and hope,
brew gave us our religion; the Greek Women today in the quest of the
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meaning of life are asking the age- Plains of Mamre, busy with her
old questions: How did man and weaving and her breadmaking, to
nature come to be? What are God's Madame Curie in her laboratory
purposes for mankind? What is the seeking a cure for human suffering,
relation between God and man? Is Many of the noble women who lead
this life all? What is the source of the procession are found in the
evil in the world? How can the in- Bible: Deborah, the valiant woman
dividual gain a knowledge of God's who stirred the youth of Israel to
plan for man's eternal growth and continue their fight for their na-
happiness? In the desire to live com- tional integrity; Ruth and her loving
pletely, women are seeking to un- friendship for Naomi; Hannah, the
derstand the laws of their own be- lowly mother, preparing her only son
ing, the appetites, passions, motives, for the service of the Lord; Esther,
desires, and emotions that stir them the patriotic queen, risking life itself
to action and yield satisfactions by for her people. Among the women
asking: Why am I an individual? of the New Testament record tow-
How shall I live? What pleasures ers the life of Mary of Nazareth,
and satisfactions will yield most to following the life of her Divine Son.
living? What is the place of knowl- What suffering she knew! What
edge and self-control in the scheme glory she must have known! Mary
of things? Can I by individual effort and Martha of Bethany knew Jesus
live in harmony with the highest as few knew Him. He taught them,
ideals of living? In the desire to un- and they in turn served Him in their
derstand the environment in which own home. Mary of Magdala knew
they live with its institutions and in very deed the mission of Jesus to
organizations, its customs and its erring humanity. Lydia, the seller
laws, its progress and its conflicts, of fine purple, is a glorious figure of
women are asking: What are my the missionary experiences of the
loyalties? What are my responsibili- apostles, giving her home, her re-
ties? Have I an obligation for the sources, and herself in service. Paula,
continuance and refinement of so- the Roman patrician, belongs to the
ciety? Can injustice, inequality, women of the Bible, giving of her
greed, selfishness, corruption and wealth to aid Saint Jerome while he
crime be corrected? Can opportun- made the translations of the sacred
ity, liberty, and happiness be as- records to become the Bible was not
sured to all? What are the pitfalls all, but saving time from the menial
of present living for myself and my duties of maintaining the little shel-
offspring? As life with all its com- ter at Bethlehem she rendered valu-
plexity crowds upon her, from her able assistance in translation, as she
innermost being issues the call for was an excellent Latin scholar,
guidance, and from the great heart As the centuries passed, hosts of
of her comes the desire to serve her noble mothers, teachers, patriots,
generation. and leaders joined the ranks of the
The procession of women we have interpreters. We recall the hosts of
come to look upon as interpreters mothers who, like Hannah of old,
of the faith is a long one. It reaches have stood beside little children and
from Sarah in her tent home on the the young people of their homes
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 289
with one hand in blessing upon their
head while the other pointed the
way to a worthy life. Our hearts
salute those interpreters in church
and school who have endeavored to
interpret life to the youth of the
age. Through the vision of such
women as Alice Freeman Palmer
and Mary Lyon, women have par-
taken of the blessings of education.
Through the ministrations of wom-
en like Florence Nightingale, Doro-
thea Lynde Dix, Clara Barton, Jane
Addams, the humanization of our
social institutions has been attained.
That woman might take her place
in the world of affairs the worthy
followers of Mary Woolstonecraft,
as Susan B. Anthony, Frances Wil-
lard, Anna Howard Shaw, have ever
striven to eliminate ignorance, sel-
fishness, and sentimentality from the
lives of women, believing that "If
women are souls, they are immortal
souls. Unless they cooperate in mak-
ing life better, they will act as a wall
to block progress. The place of wom-
an in the world is not to subdue or
subordinate but to refine and to im-
prove it". Just as the test of civiliza-
tion is its estimate of women so civil-
ization is "The power of good
women".
To the women of today concern-
ed with the needs of the world and
a vision of God's purposes for man-
kind comes the challenge of service.
Unable to see that they have any
service that the world needs, they
falter. To them comes the reassur-
ring words of the Master: "Ye are
the light of the world. Neither do
men light a lamp, and put it under
a bushel, but on a stand; and it shin-
eth unto all that are in the house.
Even so let your light shine". To
all women the words of the familiar
parable of the Talents are signifi-
cant. Each of the servants received
something for the use of which he
was held strictly accountable. To
discover the gift and to use it was
the challenge. As Paul said to his
young friend Timothy: "Stir into
flame the gift of God, which is in
thee," which gift is for the purpose
of interpreting "the spirit and the
faith of Jesus for the world's profit".
To the women of the Church, the
Gospel of Jesus Christ is the su-
preme gift. None are left out or de-
nied the privilege of a share in it.
So it is that the women of the
Church by the right use of their gift
interpret the faith which is so real
to them and so vital to all mankind.
The greatest role of the womanhood
of the Church is to serve as Inter-
preter of the Faith.
PROMISE
By Annie Wells Cannon
Unhappy world so full of sorrows
Lift up thine eyes.
Behold blue skies
Have laughed away the April showers
And decked the earth with fragrant flowers.
The darkest days have their tomorrows.
White Lily
By Linnie Parker Gold
SUSIE ran a finger through her nursery every morning as she went
short dark locks, and two puz- to school and called for him on the
zled lines appeared on her nine- way home. A visiting nurse came
year-old brow. She read the prob- to see Mommy every day, and Mrs.
lem again: 'If a farmer bought a Brown next door always brought
calf for $12 and it cost $3 a month Mommy some lunch and came any
to feed it, and he sold it six months time Mommy knocked on the win-
later for $42, how much profit did dow; but it was up to Susie to keep
he make?" The problem seemed the little three-roomed house clean
simple enough, but Susie wasn't con- and prepare their meals, with Mom-
centra ting. She had a problem of my to tell her exactly what to do.
her own which read like this: Whenever Susie thought about
"If a flower in Mr. Cowan's window Mommy, a soft, warm feeling crept
costs 98c, and a girl just has to buy over her. Mommy was so sweet and
it for her mother for Mother's Day, patient, and she understood about
which is only six days away, and the everything. That was why Susie
gid has only 22c, how can she get just had to buy the white lily for
the other 76c?" Mother's Day. It was the most beau-
The problem would be much sim- tiful thing in the world, and Mom-
pier if only she had some spare time, my was the kind who ought to have
but there was Mommy to be taken beautiful things. But the most im-
care of— and ol' Pudge. Mommy portant reason was because the
had to stay in bed all the time. She white lily would make Mommy well,
hadn't been able to get up since she Susie knew that it would. She had
hurt her back right after Daddy died known it ever since yesterday morn-
two years ago. The doctor said ing when the Sunday School teacher
Mommy could walk again if she had had told about the lady who touch-
an operation, but the operation ed Christ's robe and was healed. Of
would cost hundreds and hundreds course, Christ wasn't here any more
of dollars, and the little money Dad- so people could touch his robe, but
dy had left them was almost gone Susie knew there must be some way
now. That was why Susie didn't He could make people well, and
have an Easter dress, and why they when she saw the white lily in Mr.
didn't have desserts any more except Cowan's window on the way home
on holidays. Ol' Pudge was Susie's from Sunday School, a funny tin-
three-year-old brother. His real gling feeling in her heart had told
name was James, but he was just her that Christ had made that beau-
as wide as he was tall, and his legs tiful white lily just especially to
were ever so short, and wherever make Mommy well. If Mommy
they went he just barely moved could only touch it—
along, no matter how Susie coaxed She tried to tell ol' Pudge about
and pleaded. it, but he was more interested in
Susie took him to the free day breathing on the shop window to
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 291
make it all foggy. Susie had been of things. But Mrs. Carlyle didn't
saving her pennies ever since Christ- seem to think it would be a good
mas to get Mommy that set of col- idea for Susie to try to do any more
ored thread that cost a quarter at work.
McMillan's dry goods store on the ''Why/' she said, ''we're the ones
corner, but now she couldn't think that ought to be coming to you for
of anything but the white lily and work, my dear! You seem to have
how she could get the other seventy- a monopoly on 'it. I don't know
six cents. She just couldn't waste how you'd do any more than you
her time figuring out about farmers do!"
and calves. Let the farmer worry ^'But I want to buy a flower for
about that— Mother's Day," Susie explained.
^^j^r\\/n-> r> J i i>» c • "Your mother thinks you're the
^^^OME on Pudge, pte^^^^ Susie ^^^^^^^^ j.^^^ ^^^^^ .^ ^>^ ^^^^^ ,,
coaxed, if you 11 walk just a said Mrs. Carlyle kindly. "You don't
ittle faster well go round by the ^^^^ ^^ ^^^^^ .• A^^^^^
long way and see if the flower s still f^^ ^^^ B^i^g ^^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^^
in the wmdow. ^ l^^j f^j ^^^^^ ^ ^j^ol^ jo^ ^^^^ ^^
Don t wanna, Pudge said stop- n,others than things you can buy
ping to pick up a shmy pebble by ^^^^ money. Your mother appre-
?.A , ,„ ^^ ^ , , , ciates all you're doing for her, and
An well stop at Mrs. Carlyle s ^^^ ^-^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^ ^^ 1^33
an you can see the cats, Susie wouldn't make any difference to
promised. her'"
This being a little more to Pudge's .;^, . ,.,„ o •
liking, he quickened his pace imper- , .^^' y.!? '^ ^l a li
^«^4-i.i v^oi T-T,^ 11 «« ;j.-n claimed. You see, the flower would
ceptibly. Yes! Ihe lily was still , , „ ' , u n
4-1,^ ^ ' ^ ^ 4.^ ^ ^ -J •*.!, make her well— so she could walk-
there— way over to one side with a , „
little card on it that said 98c. It was ~~
lovely-whiter than anything Susie ^^^' ^^^^Y^e smiled indulgently,
had ever before seen. Pudge didn't '"^he only thing that will make your
seem interested, but then, he was mother well is an operation, little
so little— and you couldn't expect ^^^' ^"^ s^^^-
a three-year-old to understand about Susie guessed it wouldn't do to
things like that. He'd be interested explain about Christ and the lily,
enough if he only knew that it would Grown-ups were like Pudge— they
make Mommy all well again. Susie just didn't seem to understand about
sighed. She would liked to have things like that. But Mommy would
looked at it for hours, but Pudge was understand— only she couldn't tell
chasing a bug or something in the Mommy— it had to be a surprise!
gutter, and besides Mommy would At two other places Susie stopped
be expecting them home, and she to see if she could run errands or
wanted to stop and see if there was tend babies, but she met with prac-
any work Mrs. Carlyle would let her tically the same results, so they
do to earn some money. The Car- trudged on home to find Mommy
lyles had an automobile and a vac- waiting with a smile. Pudge curied
uum cleaner— and a lawn— and lots up on the bed beside her whfle Susie
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fixed stew and bread and milk for
their dinner.
When dinner had been cleared
away and Pudge was in bed, Susie
brought out pen and ink and paper
and laboriously set to work to write
in twenty-five words or less why she
liked Kleenzol Soap. It would mean
she'd have to spend three of her
precious twenty-two cents to send
it away with the wrappers; but it
would be worth it, for then she
might win two hundred dollars.
Every day they gave away a two hun-
dred dollar first prize and twelve ten
dollar prizes. Susie figured she
ought to at least win a ten dollar
prize. If she ran down to the corner
and mailed it tonight, it would get
there by Wednesday; and she had
heard over the radio that Wednes-
day's winners would be announced
Saturday. Of course, she wouldn't
get the money on Saturday, but
then, she guessed Mr. Cowan would
let her charge the lily if she had
been announced a winner and had
all that much money coming to her.
By Friday Susie was a bundle of
nerves, despairing one minute and
hopeful the next. She and Pudge
had delivered three packages for Mr.
McMillan on Wednesday after-
noon, for which he had paid her a
dime, and some kind old man had
given Pudge a nickel while he was
waiting outside the store with his
nose pressed flat against the jelly
bean display. That made thirty-four
cents they had altogether— sixty-four
cents left to get— a tremendous sum;
but there was still the soap contest
to hope for!
TT was on the way home from
school Friday afternoon that Susie
found the purse. Perhaps if Pudge
hadn't suddenly been seized by an
irresistible desire to wade in the gut-
ter, she would never have seen it.
But Pudge went wading, and when
she rushed over to pull him out,
there was the purse— right on the
edge of the curb! She pounced on
it with an excited little gasp and
sank down on the grass to examine
it while Pudge gleefully resumed his
wading. There was $2.85 in the
purse! Susie felt a bit dizzy. Such
wealth! Now she could buy the
lily, and Mommy would be well,
and they could go on picnics and
have all sorts of gay adventures!
But Susie noticed with dismay
that there was a card in the purse
that said it belonged to a Mrs. Nel-
son of 265 Del Monte Court. Del
Monte Court was the last street she
passed before she got to school. The
houses over there were pretty nice,
Susie argued. Mrs. Nelson wouldn't
need the $2.85. She probably
wouldn't ever miss it, and just think
what it could do for Mommy and
Pudge and herself! Resolutely she
tucked the purse between her books,
pulled Pudge out of the gutter and
started toward home. But she didn't
feel quite comfortable. She wished
that if God were going to let her
find a purse, it could have been one
without any name on it. Mommy
would say it wasn't honest to keep
it. Susie thought of how Mrs. Car-
lyle had said being good and honest
meant more to mothers than pres-
ents and things. But being honest
wouldn't buy the white lily— and
Susie had to buy the white lily! Her
heart beat more rapidly as they ap-
proached Mr. Cowan's florist shop.
She always held her breath until she
got close enough to see if it had
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 293
been sold— and ol' Pudge was so er's Day. Mommy had allowed her
slow! But it was still there— lovelier to make a cake because tomorrow
than ever with a new white bud just was a special day, and Susie planned
opening. She touched the purse to how they'd spread out a lunch on
reassure herself. Why she could Mommy's bed tomorrow— just like
walk in there and buy it right this a picnic— and she'd bring a carna-
minute! tion home from Sunday School and
But the longer she looked at the put it in that 'tiny vase in the win-
lily, the more she knew that she dow sill— and the lily would stand
couldn't do it! "It wouldn't do any right there on the— but Susie was
good, Pudge," she said thoughtfully, afraid to think of the lily now. There
"I guess if we bought it with this was such a little time left, and there
money it wouldn't make Mommy was only fifty-nine cents in the box,
well after all— on account of the no matter how many times she
money not really belonging to us, I counted it.
mean. It'd still be beautiful and Once she laid her flushed cheek
Mommy would like it, and all, but against her mother's cool one and
it just wouldn't work. We'll have said, ''Mommy, if you had your
to take the purse back." 'druthers' what would you druther
They turned around. It was five have than anything else for Mother's
blocks to Del Monte Court, and Day?"
Susie had to carry Pudge part of the "My health," Mommy answered
way, but it was worth it because wistfully, "so I could be a real moth-
Mrs. Nelson seemed very happy to er to my dear little kiddies."
get her purse back. She gave Susie "You're the realest mother in the
a quarter and took them home in world," Susie said staunchly; but her
her car. heart longed more than ever for the
Susie put the quarter with the lily that would make Mommy well,
rest of their money. All evening At 5:30 the Kleenzol Soap Com-
she kept thinking about the lily and pany announced their Wednesday
wishing that she had it tucked safely winners. Susie listened with bated
away all ready to surprise Mommy breath while they congratulated a
on Sunday morning. But she was Mrs. Stone of Dayton, Ohio, for
glad she had returned the purse, winning first prize. Oh well, she
That's what Mommy would have hadn't counted on winning that any-
told her to do. She wondered if way. All she needed was thirty-nine
God had anything to do with soap cents. A ten dollar prize would be
contests. Maybe if He knew about enough. But twelve names were
her returning the purse— read over the radio, and not one of
them was Susie Baker! She couldn't
CATURDAY was a busy day for believe it! Quick tears came to her
Susie. The house had to be eyes and she went into the other
thoroughly cleaned because the rest room so Mommy couldn't see. She
of the week there was not time for sat down by the table and buried
anything but straightening. All day her head in her arms. It wasn't fair
she worked because she wanted —after she'd returned the purse and
things to look extra nice for Moth- everything! But the steady ticking
294 - MAY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
of the clock reminded her that it
was almost six o'clock. Mr. Cowan
would be closing his shop, and she
wouldn't have any flowers at all for
Mommy in the morning. You
couldn't just stop living because you
didn't win a soap contest. She'd
just have to see what was the nicest
thing fifty-nine cents would buy for
the dearest mother in the world.
^^'M'OW, Pudge," Susie said sternly
as they pressed their freckled
noses against the window, "concen-
trate on flowers instead of bugs for
just a second, can't you? This mon-
ey's part yours and you got to help
choose. There's a geranium for fif-
ty cents. Do you think Mommy
would like it?"
"Uh-huh," grunted Pudge, his
eyes following a fat toad that was
hopping on the sidewalk. Susie
looked and looked— there were
sweet peas— Mommy would love
them; but they wouldn't last a long
time like the geranium or a fern.
Her eyes kept going back to the
white lily. It was no use. It was
so beautiful that everything else in
the window faded into insignificance
—even the things that were marked
five dollars! Susie closed one eye
and looked at the geranium again.
It was pretty—
A large car drew up to the curb
and a young man got out. ''You
just stay in the car," he said to a
young lady in a beautiful fur jacket.
I'll only be a minute!"
"I don't understand you. Bill,"
the young lady said sharply. "You
pass up all the nice florist shops in
town and come way over here to
this two-by-four joint. They prob-
ably have never even seen an or-
chid."
"Oh, but I'm not shopping for
orchids, my love," the young man
laughed. "You wait— it's a surprise!"
"Well," she announced, "if you
think I'm going to the Van Pelt
dinner without orchids, you can just
start looking for another date."
"Hold everything," said the young
man gayly. "We'll get you some
orchids in town on the way back.
This is just a special whim of mine."
He hurried into the store and Susie
almost choked as she saw Mr.
Cowan come to the window and
lift out the precious white lily.
She wanted to scream, but she
couldn't— she couldn't do anything
but clutch Pudge's hand and stare.
In a minute the young man came
out with the flower all wrapped in
green paper. He made an elaborate
bow and handed it to the young
lady through the open window of
the car.
"A potted plant?" she exclaimed
lifting a pair of carefully plucked
eyebrows. "What on earth do you
expect me to do with a common
potted plant— just sit here and hold
it— or give it to Gladys Van Pelt to
use as a centerpiece?"
"It's not a common potted
plant," said the young man defens-
ively. "It's a beautiful lily— exactly
the same kind that I have been buy-
ing at this same two-by-four joint
as you call it, on the evening before
Mother's Day for fourteen years. I
bought one for Mother when I was
fifteen with the first money I ever
earned. That was in the good old
days when a dollar looked as big to
me as ten thousand of them do now.
Mother was so thrilled with that first
lily that I've kept getting the same
kind year after year. She wouldn't
have traded them for a whole car-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 295
load of orchids. And now this year
no earthly gift can reach her— and I
thought maybe you wouldn't mind
if I bought a lily for you for Mother's
Day— just because I love you and
just because of the sweet mother
you're going to be—"
The young lady sat up very
straight and held the pot distasteful-
ly. ''Look, Bill," she said curtly,
"you've got this all wrong. I'm never
going to be a mother—"
Susie saw the young man's mouth
fly open.
"Well, don't look so shocked,"
the girl continued irritably. "Any-
body'd think that was a crime. You
asked me if I'd marry you— not if
I'd tie myself down to a cradle. If
you think I'm going to lose my fig-
ure and my health and good times
just to have a lot of sniveling little
dirty-faced youngsters like those—"
Susie blushed. There was no de-
nying that Pudge's face was dirty-
it usually was— and maybe even her
own— you can't always be looking
in the mirror when you're only nine.
"Now, Doris, you're just upset,"
the young man said, getting into the
car. Of course you want to be a
mother. Every girl does. It was
clumsy of me, though. Forgive me.
I should have known enough to wait
and buy the lily after there was a
little high chair highness—"
"There aren't going to be any
high chair highnesses!" the girl
snapped as she stepped out of the
car. "Not for me! Call me a taxi,
and I'll go on to the dinner alone.
The smell of this potted plant is
nauseating!" She set it down on
the running board, and stripping a
ring from her finger, she handed it
to the young man who seemed to
be in a stupor. "I'll find me a man
who thinks children are a bore— and
you can take your lily and go find
someone who appreciates such
things. As for me," she added,
making a motion to stop a taxi that
was cruising by, "give me orchids or
give me orchids— and I don't mean
'or kids'." .
With a toss of her head she
stepped into the taxi and was gone.
The young man stared after her in
blank dismay. Susie stared after in
disbelief— and Pudge just stared.
CUSIE didn't want to be rude, but
she had to act immediately. It
was almost six and the store would
be closing. The young man looked
as if he might sit and stare into space
for hours. On the other hand, he
might suddenly start up the car and
leave— and the lily was on the run-
ning board!
"Mister," she said weakly. The
young man didn't seem to hear. She
went closer. "Mister—" He looked
at her blankly. Her words tripped
over each other. "We wanted to
buy that lily for Mommy, but we
didn't have enough money— but it's
awfully 'portant because Mommy is
sick and it will make her well. The
doctor says only an op'ration can
make her walk, but the Sunday
School teacher says a lady touched
Jesus' robe, and she was all well, and
the lily is so white— like the robe, I
mean, and I— I— that is, I just know
Mommy would be well if she could
only touch it— and we was wonder-
ing if you'd sell it to us for fifty-nine
cents— on account of the pretty lady
not wanting it, I mean— We could
pay you the rest later if you'd tell
us—" She paused. The young man
didn't seem to have heard her. There
was a long silence, and then the
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young man seemed to come to life.
"Sure, sure/' he said, 'you can
have it. It's not of any use to me
now. Just take it."
Susie's mouth fell open in sur-
prise. *'B-but you'll let us pay you
the fifty-nine cents, won't you? I
mean— if we don't pay you for it, it
will be all from you and not from
Pudge and me at all."
A slow smile spread over the
young man's face. He got out of
the car and picked up the plant
from the running board. ''Okay,"
he said, "first you pay me the fifty-
nine cents, and then I'll give you
the flower. That's how they do it
in the stores."
Susie gave him the fifty-nine cents
—all hot and sweaty from being
clutched so tightly in her hand— and
he put the beautiful white lily into
her waiting arms.
"Oh, thank you!" she said, and
although she tried very hard not to
cry— on account of what the lady
had said about sniveling kids— the
tears just brimmed up in her eyes.
Sometimes when you're happy, you
just have to snivel!
TOURING the two-block walk to
their home all her good inten-
tions about keeping the lily until
morning completely vanished. What
was the use, she argued, of Mommy
having to stay sick any longer than
was necessary? She carried it in and
set it on the stand beside the bed,
and Pudge shouted, "S'prise!
S'prise!"
Mommy pulled back the green
tissue and looked at it. "Oh, how
beautiful!" she said. "It's the love-
liest flower I have ever seen! Where
on earth did you get it?"
"It's magic, Mommy," Susie said,
her black eyes snapping with ex-
citement. "Touch it! It will make
you well!"
"Oh, no," Mommie said gently.
"Flowers that are so fragile will die
if they're touched."
"But not this one," explained
Susie earnestly. Then she stood
first on one leg then the other while
she told Mommy all about the Sun-
day School teacher and Christ and
the purse and the soap contest and
the young man and the lady who
didn't want to marry him — and she
explained how the lily was partly
from the young man, too, because
she and Pudge had only fifty-nine
cents between them. As Mommy
listened she started to cry. Susie
had known she would understand.
"So now you can have your 'druth-
ers'. Mommy," Susie finished. "Now
you can be well. Touch it. Mommy
—then tomorrow we can go on a
picnic."
Mommy's face was very white—
almost as white as the lily. Silently
she prayed for faith as clear and as
shining as that of her little girl. She
prayed for wisdom that those trust-
ing dark eyes might not be clouded
with disbelief. Slowly she reached
out and touched a tiny white bud
that was just opening. As she did
so, her hand came in contact with
something cold and hard. Startled
she looked more closely, and there
around the tiniest bud was a dia-
mond solitaire, twinkling and spark-
ling in the light— holding the prom-
ise of health and happiness!
Susie cocked her head to one side.
"Can you walk now. Mommy?" she
asked.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 297
^'Walk?" echoed Pudge.
"Not tonight," said Mommy,
whose face had become almost trans-
parent with the thrill of the miracle
that had just taken place. ''But
very soon/' she promised, "perhaps
when school is out—"
"And we can go on picnics?" Susie
asked, clapping her hands.
"Yes, and to the zoo," Mommy
answered, pinching Pudge's fat
cheek.
"How did Jesus make the flower
magic. Mommy?" asked Susie
thoughtfully.
"He made it out of a child's faith
and love and work and honesty,"
Mommy spoke very softly. "It is
the most wonderful flower of all.
What woman could trade it for or-
chids?"
OH HEARTS BEREAVED
By Wiimihed M. Tibhs
Be comforted, and know that God is just.
He knows the pain the parting brings
From those we love; but they are His
And when He calls them home
It is His will, and we must yield
And thankful be for knowledge
He has given, that death is not the end
But the beginning of a better.
Happier life, where time's not gauged
By days nor years.
But by eternal law.
Be brave, oh hearts bereaved.
And keep the faith;
For then, when we are called.
We, too, shall live again
And mingle with the ones we loved so well,
Throughout Eternity.
Be reconciled and wait!
May First, National Child
Health Day
By Bernice Moss
4 4rTlHE health of the child is Day— Child Health Day in the State
I the power of the nation." of Utah— was delegated to the Re-
This 1939 slogan for Na- lief Society by the State Board of
tional Child Health Day on May Health. A state- wide committee
first, so proclaimed each year by was organized under the leadership
the President of the United States, of Marcia K. Howells, general chair-
challenges all citizens to serious con- man. This committee represented
sideration which will result in a fit- the organizations, societies, and state
ting observance of this day. departments most concerned with
May first gives us an opportunity child health problems. The general
to seriously evaluate the health pro- committee drew up plans and sug-
grams which we as individuals, fam- gestions concerning fitting observ-
ilies and communities sponsor in the ance of Child Health Day and sent
interest of the child, and to call to them to hundreds of interested per-
the attention of all the needs for sons. A week of observance, rather
further effort. We should ask our- than one day, was suggested, and
selves many questions: Are the chil- all groups invited to participate in
dren in our community properly effective community programs un-
fed, housed, and protected? Are ^cr the leadership of the local Re-
mothers and infants provided with ^^cf Societies,
medical and nursing care? Is com- Programs naturally vary with com-
municable disease controlled mumties. Some of the following
through immunization and isolation methods have proved and are prov-
programs? Are we making adequate i^g effective: church meetings de-
provision for handicapped children? voted to health, public lectures, pub-
Do we supply pure milk, pure water, lie forums, radio programs, news-
and pure food to our people? Are P^per articles, moving pictures,
there adequate playgrounds and ef- school activities including May Day
fective recreation programs for our festivals, health parades, assembly
children? Is our home conducive to programs, plays, pageants, etc., dem-
the best development of the child? onstrations, window exhibits, corn-
Are we. helping each child to attain munity surveys to determine needs
his most wholesome physical, men- and plan programs. Such a con-
tal, social, and spiritual develop- certed attack on the problem of
ment? We should ask ourselves ^^^^^ ^^^^th is bound to result in an
these questions and many more, and awakened consciousness on the part
.1 1 . f , •: , or our citizenry. When this con-
on the basis ot such serious evalua- • - 1. 1 2. j - 1. a w
^. , ^ . sciousness is translated into effective
tion plan a program of improvement pi^n^ing and effective action in our
for our homes and communities. hoj^^s, schools, and communities.
This year the responsibility for we will have marched far toward
organizing the observance of May the achievement of our goal.
Calling All Remnant Fans
By Kathleen B. Nelson
AT the remnant counter Serena a quilt for Mrs. Casoli. With that
stood, a neatly dressed worn- big family she can use it."
an with a happy, thoughtful At irregular intervals she made
face. The silvery wave of hair fresh discoveries until both arms
against the soft rose accent on her were well upholstered with them,
smart little hat looked like an award The girl at the counter was either
of merit. Her eyes were medita- a discerning person or else she was
tive, her mouth relaxed in pleasant held fast* and speechless in an en-
contemplation, as she surveyed the chantment of the older woman's
fabrics spread before her. She did weaving. Not once did the gid dis-
not paw them over. Her eyes did turb Serena's fruitful reverie by lift-
the probing. After a careful sum- ing her finger or raising her voice,
ming up, she removed her gloves A sigh of satisfaction as Serena
thoughtfully and reached for just contemplated her quarry; a smile at
the piece she wanted. She noted the gid as signal that the hunt was
the price, the amount; her fingers over, broke the spell so that she
caressed its softness; her eyes dilated could make the required motions
over its color; her mind said, "Marie with her pencil and sales pad. On
will be lovely in a blue dress. I'll paper the sale might have been in
make it plain, with good lines— just code for all the secrets that it held.
a girdle of rose-buds and perhaps a i Rem 2.20
handful scattered on the skirt." She J ^^ ^°
laid the piece over her left arm. J ^^ ^'^^
Another moment's contempla- ^^^•
tion. Then she picked up a piece . ^^^ena, takmg it to recheck, read
of soft, pink flannel, this time a bit ^^ thus:
uncertainly. Suddenly her imagina- ^"^^^^ ^^^ Marie
tion made of it a baby blanket, and ^^^/ ^^^^f % ^^'^^'^^
, . , -^ ^ 1 r Bath robe for Teena
it, too,^ took its place on the left Quilt for Mrs. Casoli
arm. ''My crochet hook and some Breakfast set for the girl at Simpson's
white yarn will turn that trick," she Nightgown for Jennie
thought triumphantly. J;!^^ PJ^^^^^^ ^""^ Ted's room
^ i^ J Iwo blouses
Suddenly her eyes popped and, ^Charge or cash?" the salesgirl in-
as she held up a piece of rosy eider- toned.
down, unreserved pleasure was writ- -Qh, I'll pay for them." Serena
ten on her face. "Just big enough presented a check. It was from her
for a bathrobe for Teena. Won't son in New York, enclosed with a
she love it? I'll finish the edges note: 'Tlease, Mother dear, buy
with white yarn, too, and make a something that you want-some-
cord and tassles and embroider a thing that will make you happy."
white duck on the pocket." If he had seen her face as she took
Next it was an ungainly bulk of her treasure from the clerk, he
silkaline her fingers caressed. 'Til would have known she had followed
cover my worn blankets and make his instructions to the letter.
The Body's Need For Vitamins
By Di. Rose H. Widtsoe,
Home Economics Department, University of Utah
The unique role of vitamins in general,
and the specific functions of vitamin A
were reviewed in the preceding article.
The present article will consider vitamin B.
VITAMIN B OR THIAMIN
Investigation
FOR centuries the disease, now
known as beriberi, was preva-
lent in the Orient before it
became generally known in our
Western civilization. Beriberi had
attracted world attention when in
1878-1883 Takaki, a medical officer
of the Japanese navy, became con-
vinced that the disease was not due
to infection but to a nutritional de-
ficiency. At this time the entire Jap-
anese navy numbered 5,000 men,
and out of this number 1,000 to
2,000 or 20 to 40 per cent were sick
each year with this disease. Takaki
succeeded in changing the navy ra-
tion and practically irradicated the
disease, but he was unable to give
any explanation of the astonishing
effect of the changed diet. We now
know that the new diet contained
vitamin B.
Research followed rapidly in an
attempt to discover the substance or
substances responsible for such dra-
matic effects. It was soon deter-
mined that this "unknown sub-
stance" was an organic material ap-
pearing naturally in certain foods
as well as in the water in which
these foods were soaked or cooked.
Finally in 1936 the chemical nature
of this substance was determined.
Now it can be synthesized and ap-
pears on the market in various
forms.
FUNCTIONS OF VITAMIN B
IN NUTRITION
Vitamin B Prevents the
Disease Beriberi
Beriberi is a disease that effects
the nervous system. There are two
forms of this disease, the dry and
the wet. In dry beriberi there is a
great wasting of the muscle tissue,
loss of sensation in the skin and fi-
nally paralysis of the nerves begin-
ning in the legs and gradually ex-
tending to the upper portions of the
body. In wet beriberi fluids collect
in the tissues of the arms, legs and
finally in the trunk. The heart en-
larges greatly and death results from
heart failure. This disease develops
slowly in human beings living on a
diet low in vitamin B, but a diet
completely lacking in it will pro-
duce the disease rapidly.
This disease can be cured with
dramatic rapidity through the ad-
ministration of vitamin B. The ex-
perimental animals respond to this
treatment in a few hours and are
completely recovered in a few days.
In human beings the recovery is
slower but still very dramatic. Vita-
min B treatment of severe infantile
beriberi is described as "almost mi-
raculous". The most marked effect
of the administration of vitamin B
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is its effect on the heart, which
quickly returns to its normal size.
Beriberi often follows cases of pro-
longed fevers where the effects of a
diet deficient in vitamin B are more
striking.
Maintenance of Appetite
Much that has been learned con-
cerning the vitamins has been
through animal experimentation.
The vitamin B deficiency disease in
animals is called polyneuritis. Very
often young experimental animals
on a deficient vitamin B diet will
die before they develop symptoms
of the nerve disease. Older animals
will live for a much longer time and
will show marked symptoms of the
disease. The experimental animals
soon lose their appetite. Upon the
administration of vitamin B, the ap-
petite quickly returns and the ani-
mals become normal. Doctors often
find this disease in mild forms in
children's wards in hospitals, the
most common symptom being lack
of appetite. Dr. B. R. Hoobler^ of
Detroit has observed that "when
about one-half teaspoon of brewer's
yeast concentrate was given daily
to infants suspected of receiving an
insufficient amount of B the appe-
tite increased and a certain type of
stiffness in the arms, legs and neck
disappeared." He cites an example
of one infant given this treatment
that "changed from a thin, pale,
spastic, restless, whining infant, re-
fusing part of its formula, to a happy,
rosy-cheeked, smiling baby whose
appetite seemed never to be com-
^Dr. B. R. Hoobler, Detroit: Syinptom-
atoJogy of Vitamin B Deficiency in In-
fants, Hour. Amer. Med. Assoc., Vol. 73,
(1922).
pletely satisfied, and whose gain in
weight was remarkable."
Effect Upon Digestion
The gastro-intestinal tract (the
stomach and the intestines) very
soon show disturbances in the di-
gestioi], absorption and assimilation
of food on a deficiency B diet. The
muscles of these organs lose their
tone so that the movement of food
in the stomach and along the in-
testinal tract is slowed up. Also the
vitality of the mucous lining of these
organs is reduced so that there is
less resistance against infection.
Studies^ made on human beings
suffering with chronic arthritis — a
disease in which digestion is often
impaired — showed that patients
"who had very greatly relaxed and
sluggish intestinal tracts, made re-
markable improvement when large
doses of vitamin B in the form of
yeast concentrate or wheat germ
were administered."
It has been observed in many
cases in which people are really not
ill, but who are always taking some-
thing to relieve a "sour stomach" or
a "bad taste" in the mouth and are
suffering from headache and consti-
pation, that there has been a mark-
ed clearing up of these symptoms
when a sufficient amount of vita-
min B was added to their diet.
Vitamin B and Growth
TN experimental work with both
animal and human subjects, it has
been proved that vitamin B is nec-
essary for normal growth and devel-
opment. White albino rats weaned
'^Drs. A. A. Fletcher and S. Graham at
the University of Toronto Hospital.
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at 28 days of age from a mother who determine whether or not the lack
has had an adequate diet, and then of vitamin B was the cause of the
put on a diet adequate in every re- trouble the doctor fed a large num-
spect except vitamin B, will con- ber of these babies a preparation
tinue to grow for a few days until made from wheat germ and added
they have used up the small amount it to the milk formula. These babies
that was stored in their bodies. At showed a remarkable change within
this time they begin to lose weight, a few months. Their appetites re-
the spinal column becomes mis- turned, their muscles became firm,
shapen with a decided hump. Such their color was good, and their gain
animals will die in four or five weeks, in weight was considerably above. the
If vitamin B is added to their diet average for their age.
before they are too far gone, they To see whether older children on
will show signs of feeling better a more varied diet would be bene-
within a few hours; they will become fited by more vitamin B, Dr. A. F.
interested in their food, all signs of Morgan of the University of Cali-
paralysis disappear, and the rapidity fornia, with Miss M. M. Barry, fed
with which they grow is startling, a group of undernourished school
White albino rats in the animal children between the ages of eleven
laboratory of the Home Economics and thirteen years, two rolls daily
Department of the University of as supplements to their school
Utah were given a vitamin B defi- lunch. The group was divided, half
cient diet for eight weeks at which of them getting two rolls made with
time they weighed less than at the 50 per cent wheat germ, the other
beginning of the experiment and* half receiving an equal number of
were completely paralyzed and could rolls made entirely from white flour,
not stand up. They were given a The increase in weight of the wheat
few drops of milk containing yeast, germ group was approximately three
In three hours they acted as if they times that of the white rolls group,
were just waking up. Repeated doses These experiments show conclusive-
of milk and yeast were given. The ly the effects of a diet containing
next morning these rats were walk- liberal amounts of vitamin B on
ing around. In a couple of days they growth and development,
appeared normal and began to grow. The presence of liberal amounts
In order to show the effect of vi- of vitamin B are also necessary for
tamin B in the diet of infants, Dr. successful reproduction and lac-
J. H. Dennett of New York City tation.
observed a ^roup of babies between -^.^__-^^ _^ x/TrrnAA^TXT r»
the ages of five and ten months who NATURE OF VITAMIN B
were fed on modified cow's milk plus "W^ITAMIN B is soluble in water
the orange juice and cod liver oil. and is widely distributed in nat-
These babies grew slowly or ceased ural foods. The richest sources are
entirely to gain weight, "they be- yeast and whole cereals. Vitamin B
come fretful, flabby and pale, and is found in the bran and germ of
either lose their appetite or fail to cereals. Among vegetables, dried
assimilate their food properly." To beans and peas, green asparagus,
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sweet corn, parsnips, turnip greens,
and watercress are good sources. All
whole cereals, nuts and meat con-
tain considerable amounts. Milk is
not a rich source of vitamin B. Fruits
are decidedly low in vitamin B con-
tent.
Vitamin B is not destroyed in
the ordinary processes of household
cookery. Cooking at the boiling tem-
perature, roasting or oven baking
or pressure cooking for a period of
time sufficient to cook any of the
ordinary foods, will not destroy the
vitamin B to any considerable ex-
tent. Vitamin B is readily destroyed
if soda or any alkali is added to the
food. The greatest loss of vitamin
B values results in the mechanical
preparation of foods or by throwing
away the water in which foods are
cooked. Often in the manufacture
of foods such as cereal preparations,
the outer coatings as well as the
germ are removed, and with them
goes the vitamin B values.
Drying or freezing do not appear
to affect the vitamin B values of
foods.
If care is used in the selection of
foods containing vitamin B values,
and if they are prepared for use and
cooked so as to save the water sol-
uble B, one can provide sufficient
vitamin B. It will, however, be nec-
essary to use whole cereals and nuts
and use the water in which vege-
tables have been cooked.
VITAMIN B REQUIREMENT
Much experimental work is being
done to determine the amount of
vitamin B that is needed by the
body. The American Medical Asso-
ciation suggests 50 international
units daily for infants and up to 200
I. U. for adults. Since there is no
evidence of harmful effect from ex-
cess vitamin B, one may safely feed
more than the suggested amounts.
The vitamin B requirement in-
creases with the rate of growth and
with increased energy expenditure,
so all rapidly growing children and
adults working hard physically
should receive liberal amounts of
vitamin B ranging from 300 to 600
I. U. daily.
The Vitamin B Values oi Foods^
{Revised March, 1938)
The average vitamin B values per 100
grams or 3.6 ounces given in international
units.
Food Units
Almonds 50
Asparagus, green 120
Asparagus, bleached 50
Bacon 89
Beans, dried, Pinto 500
Beans, Kidney 150
Beans, Lima, fresh 75
Beans, Lima, dry 100
Buckwheat 110
Cabbage 26
Carrots 25
Chicken 80
Corn, sweet 103
Cornmeal, yellow 70
Cornmeal, white 100
Eggs 25
Egg yolk 100
Farina ^ 105
Filberts 206
Flour, white 15
Flour, graham 106
Flour, rye 100
Flour, whole wheat 150
Ham 150
Hazel nuts 150
Hominy, white 66
Hominy, yellow 66
Lamb 100
Lettuce, green 25
^Avitaminosis, Eddy and Dalldorf.
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Food Units
Lettuce, bleached 17
Liver, beef 100
Liver, calf 50
Meat, average 35
Milk, malted ... : 500
Molasses, cane 100
Molasses, beet 160
Oats 70
Oranges 28
Orange juice 30
Oysters 75
Parsnips 60
Pears - 25
Peas, green 25
Peas, dried 70
Pecans 50
Pineapples 25
Pineapple juice 37
Food Units
Pork, lean 180
Potato, sweet 35
Prunes, dried 50
Rice, brown 55
Rice polish 300
Salmon 25
Sausage, Bologna 175
Sausage, Pork 115
Soy beans 130
Spinach 30
Tomatoes, green 27
Tomatoes, ripe 27
Walnuts 60
Watercress 30
Wheat germ 600
Wheat bran 100
Yeast, Fleischmann ...200
x^ass^
MY BABE OF YESTERYEAR
By Essie Batemaii Sisk
My little babe of yesteryear
Has grown so gracefully tall,
It's hard for me to realize
She was ever a child at all.
She's all I ever dreamed or hoped
That she might some day be;
And Oh! Fm glad that God saw fit
To trust her care to me.
The Shining Heart
By Sibyl Spande Bowen
Characters and Brief Synopsis—
3RD Installment
FOURSQUARE, tall and gray, the
Carey mansion stood on the shores
of Puget Sound, towered over by the
remnants of great fir forests. But its
grandeur had fallen into decay now, as
had its owner,
"MISS BRILL" CAREY, gray-haired spin-
ster, who made a meager living as a
seamstress. Miss Brill had overdone her
frail strength the day she had gone to
a wealthy friend of her father's to ask
for a job for her lovely young niece,
red-haired
NELL CAREY, who had ambitions to be
an artist, but nothing to pursue them
on. Her aunt was determined to pro-
vide this opportunity and in the so-
doing, perhaps break up the girl's half-
hearted engagement to
FRED NAGLE, a materialistic young
chicken farmer, who valued money too
much to satisfy Miss Brill's more ideal-
istic conception of what the husband
of her adored Nell should be.
On their way back from an early movie,
Nell and Fred come upon Miss Brill be-
side the road, dazed and exhausted. She
tells them of Nell's chance to study art.
Fred is angry, but before he has a chance
to voice his protests. Miss Brill has a
stroke.
Faced with the problem of giving up
the career she has in sight, Nell promises
Fred she will marry him at the end of
summer if her aunt does not recover. Se-
cretly she is aghast at the idea. Told by
the doctor that the old lady's recovery is
doubtful, the girl resolves to release Philan-
der Maddox from his promise of a job
and face the future at home.
Old Philander Maddox shocks her by
revealing that she is no relation to Miss
Brill. Distressed by this news, Nell rushes
out of the room, meeting at the Maddox
entrance exotic, white-haired Miss Sally
Delavan, who takes unusual notice of the
girl. On the road home Nell passes a
stranger coming from the Carey house,
but is too absorbed in the new aspect of
the problem of the duty she owes Miss
Brill to notice him. She knows now that
she, a stranger, has been taken into the
heart and home of her "aunt", to whose
care she must more than ever devote her-
self. Even if she must let Fred help her!
CHAPTER FOUR
THE morning wind blew chill
off the Sound, though the sun
was bright in a cloudless sky,
and Nell shivered as she carried her
weeding tools out to the vegetable
garden behind the Alaska house.
She would be warm enough, she
knew, when she started annihilating
quack grass. The garden had been
forgotten these last few exciting
days. The girl wore no hat, and
the sun flashed mahogany-red lights
from her lovely hair as her head
nodded to the rhythm of the hoe.
On the road up the slope a motor
droned, stopped. Nell couldn't see
the car. It was Fred, no doubt. He
often drove down from Maple Hill
after the morning work in the coops
was done. She worked on a few
minutes, then dropped the hoe,
went softly through the corn up to
the end of the cabin platform. A
man with eyes covered by dark glass-
es was looking through the window
into the Alaska house.
"What do you want?'' Nell de-
manded angrily. She looked at him
suspiciously. 'T'll bet you are the
man who nearly scared Mrs. Kelly
speechless."
The man turned. He was tall
and slender, and the face behind
the enormous dark glasses was too
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pale for a healthy man. "H'm, so Nell told him. That ought to con-
there is life in the old place. I'd vince him.
begun to think Fd strayed into the The man listened impatiently,
decade before last." His voice was "Nonsense," he said briefly, ''I
irritable, his mouth petulant. wouldn't eat the place. Would you
Nell's gray eyes blazed. 'Tou mind letting me talk to the owner?"
might have knocked at the door and "I can't," Nell said stubbornly,
found out. Or perhaps you are in "she's ill."
the habit of looking into windows The man shrugged and started for
and snooping about places." the house. Nell ran after him. He
He laughed briefly. "Oh, I say! must be insane. No sane person
I haven't the energy to quarrel with acted like this. She was right on
you. I want to rent this dingus," his heels, protesting, when he rapped
he indicated the Alaska house, "and on the open kitchen door. Mary Kel-
I want it at once." ly, working at the stove, saw the dark
Nell was shocked to the marrow glasses and cried out, "You're that
by the mere thought. "Oh, no, it prowler! Get out of here or I'll have
isn't for rent! Not possibly! So if the law on you."
that is all you want, I'll go back to The determined intruder did not
my work." She started back through get out. "I'm sorry, madam, but
the corn again. The idea! Rent I simply can't get any place with
the Alaska house and Miss Brill this young person here," he indi-
would certainly have another stroke, cated the pursuing Nell with a wave
"Hey! You with the green smock of the hand. "All I want is to rent
and bad manners! Can't we talk it your cabin down by the water, al-
over? You don't even know what though anybody would think I'd
I'll pay," the tall man called angrily, come to commit arson, at least."
striding after her. Mary Kelly dried her hands.
Nell turned. "I said the house "She heard you," she said, nodding
isn't for rent. That means it isn't toward Miss Brill's open door,
for rent, in the King's English." She "come on in before she starts fret-
was so angry now her cheeks were ting."
scarlet, her hands shook. The very So the three of them trooped into
nerve of him! the invalid's room, and Nell, white
"And why," demanded the man with anger at this high-handedness,
with equal heat, "isn't it for rent? explained the offer to Miss Brill.
I want the house. It's exactly what When she was through, and ready
I need. I'd like to know just why to put this upstart man in his place,
it's too precious to rent." He was she was astounded to see the old
smilingly sarcastic now. Nell longed lady indicate that she'd take the
to slap him hard, just once. • offer. And Nell had, perforce, to
"My grandfather buflt this place, accept the money for the advance
just like his home in Alaska. It's rent from this repugnant person,
filled with all sorts of relics, and he who bowed ironically over her hand
loved it better than any spot on and murmured, "Sorry, I take the
earth. Since he died we've never decision on this round. Better luck
used it. It's— it's sort of a shrine," next time."
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 307
CURELY life was hard enough
right now without having a dis-
agreeable man like this under one's
very nose for three long months.
"At least," said Nell to Miss Brill,
"it'll pay Mary Kelly." And Miss
Brill looked grimly satisfied.
So that was why, Nell thought,
humbled. She'd even let a stranger
tramp around the Alaska house to
save me worry. Impulsively she
kissed the old lady's cheek and ran
out of the room, flushing. They
had never been demonstrative of
their love, had Nell and Miss Bril-
liant.
She ought to like that man, Nell
told herself, again at her hoe. The
money was a life-saver. But she
didn't. He wasn't young enough to
interest her as a man. He looked all
of thirty-five. And his arrogance,
his supreme nerve, and his sarcastic
manner! No, she did not like the
new tenant of the Alaska house.
Mary Kelly's boy, who delivered
Seattle papers about the country-
side, whistled from the road. "Hey!
I've got an extra Times today. May-
be your aunt would like it." He
tossed it into the yard and rode
away on his bicycle. Nell picked
up the paper and returned to the
back steps. She might as well look
it over before taking it in. A daily
paper was a luxury the Careys did
not often afford.
On a back page a small item jos-
tled the steamship arrivals for space.
Nell read it and her face became
radiant, as if a light had suddenly
been turned on behind it. She read
the item again, carefully, word for
word. It seemed too wonderful to
be true. An art scholarship, right
in Seattle! Three of them, really—
for the first, second and the third
best paintings. She had a month
in which to paint a picture to enter
in the contest. She would put every-
thing that was in her into that pic-
ture; she would make it win the
first prize— a year at the Marks
School. And the victory would
fnake Miss Brill better. Excitedly,
the girl ran into the kitchen and
thrust the paper to Mary Kelly.
"Johnny left it," she said, and
stood on a chair to rummage in the
high cupboard where she stored her
few canvases, her tubes of precious
paint.
Mrs. Kelly already had the paper
open at the society section and was
settled down to a few vicarious min-
utes with the world of greatness and
fashion. "For-ever-more," she ex-
claimed, "Miss Sally Delavan is
home from her world cruise and
has"— she quoted, " 'opened her pa-
latial home on Queen Anne Hill'."
From her perch Nell looked down
into the four-column pictured face
of this lady with the familiar name.
A lovely face framed in beautiful
white hair! A face with enormous,
bored gray eyes, and a peevish, lovely
mouth.
"I've seen her," she said impul-
sively, "at the Maddoxes. Is she so
important?"
"Important!" said Mary Kelly,
who knew her social register. "She's
the daughter of Francis X. Delavan,
the big lumber man that was. And
she travels the world over, like a
witch was after her, that restless she
is, and comes home to the big red
stone house on the hill every so of-
ten when there's no place else to
go. All alone she is, with all her
family gone before her."
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"The poor thing," said Nell, "but in the back of her mind was another
with all that money, and so pretty, thought, that here was a reprieve
even with white hair—" if she won. She needn't be married
"It wasn't always white. I re- —yet.
member her when it was the color Firmly Nell smothered this un-
of yours, and the house was full of grateful thought. "I love him. Sure-
suitors. Why say," Mary Kelly ex- ly I do. He's so good, so depend-
claimed, "she looked the very image able. It's just that I'm too young,
of you yourself as a young girl. Only that I won't be happy until I've
more flashing and snobbish, if I may tried this thing out." She piled
say it." And the large woman com- brushes and canvases in her arms
pared the girl and the pictured Miss and jumped to the floor.
Delavan with lively interest for a "That man in black glasses, from
moment. the Alaska house I guess you might
But Nell had turned back to her say now, is movin' in," announced
painting materials, her picture al- Mary Kelly. "I must say he didn't
ready taking shape in her eager lose any time."
mind. It must be a wonderful pic- Nell frowned, her enthusiasm
ture, with the magic and mystery of dampened for the moment. That
the early-morning Sound in it. It man was like black clouds in an
must win for her— that year that otherwise sunny sky.
would be balm to Miss Brill.' And {To be continued)
LITTLE BONNET OF BLUE
By Jessie J. Dalton
Little bonnet of blue, with your frill of white lace—
A dainty sweet frame for a dear little face;
Blue eyes filled with laughter,
Mouth a rose's pink fold.
And hair just a promise,
A whispering of gold.
Little bonnet of blue, with your frill of white lace—
You have lain for so long in this dim-scented place,
Beside these wee dresses-
Worn and wasted they seem;
But you, little bonnet.
Still halo a dream.
HAPPENING:
By Annie Wells Cannon
lyt AY— Oh the joy of a spring day
when birds and flow.ers and all
things beautiful are ours.
jyt RS. JOSEPH p. KENNEDY,
wife of the Ambassador to
Great Britain, is a true exponent of
motherhood. She was especially
proud when Pope Pius XII person-
ally presented each of her nine chil-
dren a rosary after the coronation.
QUEEN GERALDINE of Al-
^ bania presented an heir to the
throne April 5. Almost simultane-
ous with the joyous event the guns
of Mussolini claimed the throne for
Italy.
PVE CURIE, biographer of her
mother, discoverer of radium,
has been given an honorary degree
of Doctor of Humane Letters from
Mills College.
gLISE B. BARB, 23, of New York,
is a modern Portia, with a choice
for criminal law. In her first case
she appeared as counsel for a negro
charged with murder.
T OUISE A. BOYD of California,
first woman to be elected a mem-
ber of the American Society of
Photogrammetry, has been signally
honored for her photograph surveys
of the far north. Denmark named
a part of Greenland, Boydland;
Norway made her a knight of St.
Olaf; France, a chevalier of the
Legion of Honor.
jyjARY SULLIVAN, director of
Police Woman's Bureau of New
York City, with her courageous
helpers, play their part in the Missing
Persons Bureau, in the narcotics,
shoplifters and pickpockets squads,
also obtaining evidence against for-
tune tellers and others occupied in
unlawful activities. Her aid is often
sought by police in foreign countries.
¥ I YA-CHING, Chinese woman
pilot, has secured money to train
women pilots for an aerial ambulance
corps; the Polish women are training
to serve in the trenches; Albanian
women have an auxiliary force to the
king's army; Osa Johnson, Eng-
lish woman pilot, is urging the train-
ing of women pilots. Are these
things ominous forecasts?
PLIZA W. SALM and co-workers
from Hawaii added interest and
color to the recent Relief Society
conference held in Salt Lake City.
M'
RS. HATTIE CRITCHLOW*
JENSEN of Salt Lake has again
entered the field of contemporary
verse in the daily press. This recog-
nition of Utah's literary women is
most gratifying.
rjOROTHY CANFIELD FISH-
ER'S new novel "Seasoned
Timber" is predicted to be one of
the most important books of the
year. "The Tree of Liberty" by
Elizabeth Page is a marvelous novel
of early American history, while
"Through Embassy Eyes" by Mar-
tha Dodd, "Danger Signal" by
Phyllis Bottome, and "The Patriot"
by Pearl Buck are outstanding books
of 1939.
THE REUEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
JULIA A. F. LUND _----.. General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Nettie D. Bradford Donna Durrant Sorensen
Emma A. Empey Ida P. Beal Vivian R. McConkie
Annie Wells Cannon Marcia K. Howells Leda T. Jensen
Lalene H. Hart Emeline Y. Nebeker Beatrice F. Stevens
Cora L. Bennion Janet M. Thompson Rae B. Barker
Amy Whipple Evans Belle S. Spafford Nellie O. Parker
Rosannah C. Irvine Anna S. Barlo"W
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor Belle S. Spafford
Manager .__--.-_--- Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI MAY, 1939 No. 5
EDITORIAL
oJne Spirit [Penetrateth
CO engrossed are people as a gen-
eral rule in the mundane affairs
of life that occasions are rare indeed
when souls are deeply stirred with
the finer emotions, "when the spirit
penetrateth men's hearts and giveth
them understanding''. When these
occasions do come, real values rush
to the fore; life takes on new mean-
ing, its purposes seem lofty, and in
our hearts are born new resolves.
Such an occasion was the opening
General Session of our Relief So-
ciety Conference.
From the opening number, O
Morn of Beauty, rendered by our
glorious Relief Society Singing
Mothers, to the benediction minds
were not only enlightened but souls
were nourished.
Rich in words of wisdom, beauti-
ful with song, abundant with spir-
ituality, the meeting reached its cli-
max in the simple, sincere testimony
"that God lives, that He hears and
answers prayers, that Jesus is the
Son of the Living God" borne by a
sister from a far-away island home.
The aloha of our Island sisters ex-
tended by Sister Salm, President of
the Oahu Stake Relief Society, to
all the Relief Society sisters of the
world met a responsiveness in the
hearts of everyone. Truly we expe-
rienced the power of the Gospel to
make us one "even as the Father and
I are one". The beautifully rendered
Sanctus which followed Sister Salm's
testimony, the concluding words of
which are "Glory be to. Thy Holy
name for ever and evermore" left
hearts touched and eyes moist.
Nowhere in the world could be
found a choicer group of women
than those assembled at our Con-
ference. Privileged women are they.
Enjoying the light of the Gospel,
their opportunities are abundant;
likewise, their responsibilities are
great. Their power as a leaven in a
world sorely in need can scarcely be
estimated.
In closing the Conference Presi-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY -311
dent Robison's blessings, her earnest
desire for the welfare of the women
of the Church, and her deep con-
cern that they fully measure up to
their opportunities and responsibili-
ties found an answering echo in the
hearts of all. With the purposes of
the great Organization to which we
belong redefined and reemphasized,
with our souls touched with love
and the spirit of the Almighty, with
the prayer and blessing of a divinely
chosen and inspired leader, future
accomplishments should be great;
our lives should enrich, elevate and
bless the lives of thousands.
[President IKobison is Lyaiied to Vi/ashington
T^HE Relief Society organization
is honored in having President
Louise Y. Robison invited by Secre-
tary of Labor Frances D. Perkins to
accept committee membership in a
Conference on Children in a De-
mocracy to be held at the White
House, April 26, 1939.
This Conference is being organ-
ized under the direction of President
Roosevelt because of his conviction
that a society founded upon demo-
cratic principles finds both its aim
and its security in the happiness and
well being of its people, and espe-
cially its children. The Conference
aims to develop practical suggestions
as to ways in which we in the United
States may give greater security to
childhood and a larger measure of
opportunity to youth.
President Roosevelt is to serve as
Honorary Chairman of the Confer-
ence and Frances D. Perkins is to
serve as Chairman.
This will be a working conference.
Its membership will comprise a lim-
ited number of men and women
from all parts of the country whose
experience prepares ihem for active
service on committees and panels
of consultants. They will be charged
with the preparation of material for
presentation to the Conference. The
first session will be held at the
White House, April 26, 1939, with
morning, afternoon, and evening
meetings. After a period of commit-
tee work the final conference will
be held early in 1940.
We are happy and proud to have
President Robison's ability and in-
terest in child welfare recognized to
the extent that she has been called
upon to render her services with a
few other outstanding men and
women of the nation.
fievcf Serii
enes
"Woman As An Interpreter of which will discuss Motherhood,
the Faith" is the first of a series of Friendship, Service, Education and
six articles by Maude Beeley Jacobs, The Challenge of Today.
MORMON HANDICRAFT
ulighlights
A
RE you acquainted with Mor-
mon Handicraft? Do you
know its worth and fully appre-
ciate the service it can render you
and your family? Not only is it es-
tablishing some fine community
projects, but it is offering you qual-
ity articles beautifully and artistical-
ly made such as might be found in
Bonwit Teller's, one of New York's
exclusive shops, yet costing no more
than machine-made things of the
same quality. The committee is
doing everything in its power, such
as buying material at bargain prices
or in wholesale lots, to reduce the
price of its finished articles to the
lowest possible level and still give
the makers reasonable compensation
for their work. Many medium and
low-priced articles are now available.
Just look at the hand-knit sweat-
ers, fairly radiating a personality of
refinement and style, modeled from
the very latest patterns with every
stitch perfect. Some are knit of
llama-down in lovely new shades and
fit very snugly to the waist; others
are made of snow-sheen which has
the appearance of very glossy ratine.
These sweaters are the last word in
material and classy style— just the
thing for campus and sports wear.
When one of our patrons saw a
dainty dusty-rose model, she could
not resist ordering one for her
daughter. If the shop hasn't the
size or color you desire, an order
will procure one for you within a
few days.
There are sweaters for men, too—
slip-ons with or without sleeves.
There is a dark maroon model of
knitted worsted with a cable stitch
and very masculine looking, suitable
for sports wear; another is made of
white cashmere sport-yarn, more
dressy. Any boy would be thrilled
to wear such a new spring outfit to
Sunday School. There are 18 expert
knitters working on this project.
Come and see the samples of place
cards and favors. A very gifted young
woman with loads of originality
makes these: dainty ladies in real
party dresses, pioneer women in
gingham aprons and bonnets, In-
dian heads, flowers and many others
motifs. They are different and
charming. Some of them cost only
five cents each; others, three for
twenty-five cents or ten cents each.
Whenever you want to extend
your felicitations, express your grati-
tude, or send your love and best
wishes, see if Mormon Handicraft
hasn't something which will say it
just the way you would like to have
it said. One hand-hammered copper
bowl with a sego lily etched in the
center carried a message of grati-
tude to a friend in New York, and
this is how she answered:
"If you had looked everywhere and shopped
in every store,
Not a gift could you have found that
would have pleased me more."
RELIEF SOCIETY
CONFERENCE
April 4 and 5, 1939
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretary
npHE Annual Conference of the . Oahu Relief Society Stake President,
Relief Society was held on Eliza N. Salm, was also present.
April 4 and 5, 1939, in Salt Lake It was a record-breaking attend-
City, Utah, with President Louise ance for Relief Society Conference.
Y. Robison presiding. The roll call showed the following
rm, r n . . Ill representatives: 1^ mission presi-
Tne following sessions were held: .^ ^ ^. ^ -j^o
A r^cL- » A? 1.- c r> ^ dcnts, loq Stake presidents, 148
An Officers Meeting, for General, \ ^ ^ ^ ^
, ,. . 1 Ci. 1 r\a- £ r\ counsclors, 71 sccretary-treasurers,
Mission and Stake Otticers: four De- o i, j i, i • i. *. i
^T., ^. o • lATT- i£ 401 board members, making a total
partment Meetings— Social Welfare, ^r ^ °
Work and Business, Music, and ^ttJ' . c 4. j. r
,^ . _, ..' ..ixT 1 he music was ot outstanding ex-
Magazine; a Reception at the New- ^^jj^^^^ ^„ ^ ^^^ furnished by the
house Hotel, for the combined ■,- ■, ■, rnrrci.
T_ ri^i-rc -i-c- • combined choruses ot Keliet Society
choruses of Relief Society Singing c- • a/t i.i, j 1.1,
,yr ^1 r> i.- £ ci. 1 5 Smging Mothers, under the very
Mothers; a Reception for Stake and 1 1 i j i- r r> r ai7 j'
\jf • r\a:' d -j 1. > able leadership of Professor Wade
Mission Officers: a Presidents xt o^. i. ^ t-. t- i ttt
Breakfast at the Lion House; and N- Stephens, with Dr. Frank W.
. ^ 1 c • • i-T, rr 1 Asper at the great organ, and Alta
two General Sessions in the 1 aber- r» S^ •.. 1. ii • ^r
, B. Gassity at the piano. Ihe organ
nacle j r o
prelude and postlude by Lily Priest-
The Conference was attended by ly^ as well as the artistic musical
enthusiastic workers from all of the contributions in the departments by
one hundred twenty-seven stakes Jessie E. Smith and Mrs. Dilworth
and thirteen missions. A special dele- Walker, added to the enjoyment of
gation from Hawaii, headed by the the meetings.
Kyfficers llieeting
GREETINGS
Fiesidtnt Louise Y. Robison
TT IS with sincere pleasure that that you have planned and worked
we meet you dear sisters in con- extra long hours that your dear ones
ference. There is always an ele- will be well cared for in your ab-
ment of wonder in the realization sence. Your presence indicates, too,
that you are here— such busy worn- that you have prayed as well as plan-
en— such splendid mothers. I realize ned— prayed for help that you
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might be of greater service to our
Father's children.
The program arranged for this
conference has been prepared with
the earnest prayer that each number
will be directed by the Holy Spirit,
and that you will receive the special
help and inspiration which you
desire.
You sisters are so faithful and
loyal. I sometimes wonder if the
"earthen vessels" spoken of by Paul,
have not become almost transparent
porcelain, scarcely retarding the light
of the heavenly "treasure" which
God, the Father, caused to shine
in your hearts. It is certain that a
person who uses this treasure for
the benefit of others, who has a de-
sire to vitalize the message she car-
ries, must become more and more
the personification of the truths she
would interpret.
We are delighted in having six of
our sisters from far away, sunny
Oahu Stake with us. We welcome
them and hope they will feel the
love and friendship which Relief
Society members have for each
other.
There is strength in the feeling
that all over the world our Relief
Society women are interested in our
Organization and are praying for its
success.
"It is always prayertime somewhere,
And across the awakening continents
From shore to shore, somewhere.
Our prayers are rising evermore."
OFFICIAL INSTRUCTIONS
President Louise Y. Robison
Child Health Day
npHE General Board solicits your
cooperation in the May Day
Child Health Day program. Re-
lief Society has been asked by the
State Board of Health to be re-
sponsible for the program in Utah
this year. We have appointed Sister
Marcia K. Howells to represent us
as State Chairman. In other states
you may be invited to participate.
The slogan, "The health of the child
is the power of the nation," is cer-
tainly a challenge to all Relief So-
ciety women to aid this cause.
Relief Society Funds
We are very happy to tell you
that the Presiding Bishopric has
made a definite ruling on Relief So-
ciety funds in reference to the Ward
Budget. The Piogiess of the Church
for February, 1939, makes clear that
there is to be no change in our meth-
ed of collecting either charity funds
or annual dues, and that our Relief
Society general, charity and wheat
funds are not to be placed in the
Budget. We request ward presidents
not to hoard general or charity funds
when there are legitimate needs for
their use in the wards. By legitimate
needs we mean such things as the
health of pregnant women and the
welfare of children. Interested as
we are in the missionary cause. Re-
lief Society funds are not to be used
to make gifts to missionaries if a
child in the ward needs milk or
medical attention to help it meet life
with a stronger body and would be
deprived of this aid if funds were
used for other purposes.
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Auxiliary Enlistment Census
Stake Presidents! Have the auxil-
iary organizations in your wards
taken the general Auxiliary Enlist-
ment Census which we asked to have
made last fall? The forms were sent
to you at quite an expense, thinking
this census would be most helpful
in the Membership Drive. The Sun-
day School Superintendent was
placed in charge of this under the
direction of the bishops with all the
auxiliaries assisting. Two of the
organizations were to have the orig-
inal and the other two the duplicate
copies of the census in order to
check their membership. We trust
that stakes have completed this sur-
vey and used the information ob-
tained.
Preparation For Missions
An appeal has come to us to urge
mothers to teach their sons how to
take care of themselves before they
go on missions. So few know how to
make their own beds, to wash their
clothes or do the simplest cooking.
These things are necessary to the
health of the missionary. Mothers
are proud of their sons or daughters
when called on missions, and they
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can make that mission more pleas-
ant and the missionary more useful
if they do their part in preparing
these fine young people for this great
experience. Although Relief Society
has urged Scriptural study in the
home, it is surprising how many mis-
sionaries are handicapped because
they know so little about the Scrip-
tures. One mother thought she was
helping her son when she made the
plea that he be not called upon to
pray, saying, ''It would scare him to
death for he has never prayed."
Surely this was not a Relief Society
mother!
Issuing Checks
We are asking again that checks
issued by Relief Society be counter-
signed; that the President and Secre-
tary know the amount of funds the
Organization has in the bank, and
that both of these sisters sign every
check.
Mormon Handicraft
The Mormon Handicraft has de-
veloped splendidly. We are sorry
it is necessary to return some ar-
ticles which do not come up to
our standards. Please help the sis-
ters to have more supervision in the
wonderful native ability which they
possess. In order to standardize our
work and to develop greater skill in
handwork the General Board has
called in a group of outstanding
women who act as an advisory com-
mittee. We strongly advise this
same procedure in the stakes and
wards. Select the most capable
women in your communities and
meet with them at regular periods.
You will be surprised and delighted
with the new ideas you will receive
and the enthusiasm your groups will
enjoy.
Deseret Indusiiies
We are happy to tell you that the
Deseret Industries are doing a fine
service in supplying work— with a
small wage— to people who are not
otherwise employed. Will you please
advise people to buy from Deseret
Industries rather than from install-
ment houses. There are fine mat-
tresses, articles of furniture and used
clothing for sale. Unlike the Bish-
op's Store House where merchandise
is obtained on a bishop's order, the
Deseret Industries sell to anyone
and at very modest prices. Arrange-
ments can be made where reliable
people can pay for goods purchased,
by the week or month.
Alcohol Education
We are greatly interested in the
Church campaign for alcohol edu-
cation. Brother Joseph F. Merrill,
who is in charge of this work, desires
to know how generally the three
small books dealing with this subject
have been read in your homes by
all members of the family. Brother
Merrill has asked the Relief Society
sisters to stimulate interest in this
project. We are not required to col-
lect money for these valuable little
books, but will you stake presidents
please advise your ward presidents
to ask the visiting teachers to fa-
miliarize themselves with this im-
portant subject and carry the infor-
mation into the homes on their regu-
lar visits.
Schools are excellent mediums for
teaching children and young people
the harmful effects of alcohol as a
beverage. Laws in many of the
states provide for this important in-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 317
struction. We hope the ReHef So-
cieties will sponsor the study of the
laws of your respective states, and
where provision is made for such in-
struction that you will see that it is
put into effect. Popularize it by
stimulating other organizations to
join with you in calling upon school
annual dues we pay for the visiting
teachers' books; out of the annual
dues we pay for our visits to the
stakes; out of the annual dues the
secretary's office sends to you our
instructions and helps, but please
know that annual dues are not spent
for any kind of party.
RECEIVING LINE AT RECEPTION
boards and school superintendents.
If young people knew what alcohol
does to the body, it would certainly
be a great deterrent against begin-
ning this terribly destructive habit.
Expenditures of Annual Dues
To clarify a misunderstanding we
would like to tell you that the
money for entertainments given by
the General Board does not come
from the annual dues. The annual
dues are spent solely for the benefit
of Relief Society work. Out of the
lyfY dear mission presidents, stake
officers and board members, I
express the appreciation of the mem-
bers of the General Board for your
splendid leadership. We are grate-
ful for your loyalty, for your gracious
kindness to us when we visit your
missions and stakes. Above all we
thank our Heavenly Father for your
spirituality and for the unselfish ser-
vice to His children. May He con-
tinue to bless you and sustain you
in your wonderful work of love, I
humbly pray.
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SOCIAL WELFARE INSTITUTES
Bishop Joseph L. Wiithlin
T AM happy and thrilled to have to Missouri and bring those people
the privilege of attending this to Illinois." This good woman,
meeting. Frankly speaking, I do in her distress, had not forgotten
not know of a group of people who those who were left behind; she
have in their meetings such an at- gladly gave of the things she had
mosphere of faith and of spirituality to make it possible for the Saints
as is found in the Relief Society in Missouri to come to Illinois,
meetings of this great Church. Then, I think, too, of the many
In the life of your first President, fine contributions of this great Or-
Sister Emma Smith, there is exem- ganization to the Church. To me
plified the spirit of this great Organ- you represent the true spirit of the
ization. A short time ago I was Good Samaritan. I am sure there is
reading of the exodus of our people no one who ever makes a call upon a
from the State of Missouri to Illi- Relief Society president, be she a
nois. Having had the privilege of stake or ward president, but that
covering some of that territory, I the call is answered— answered to
deeply appreciate what our people the utmost in every way that will be
passed through during that terrible for the good and benefit of those
experience. They were driven out who may be in need of assistance,
in the middle of the night by the You have a wonderful program-
mob, with very little notice in order a program that contemplates some-
to make the proper preparation. Sis- thing more than just the physical
ter Emma Smith and her family problems of our people— a program
were among these people. The that takes into consideration the
President of the Church was in pris- matter of health, of education, the
on; and when the mob came to her right kind of recreation, employ-
home she gathered together her ment, community welfare, and
small children and a few household above everything else, spiritual wel-
effects, put them into a wagon, and fare. You have afforded to many
made the journey to the site of Nau- women in the Church, and I dare
voo. After she arrived in Nauvoo say to some outside of it, opportuni-
and had established herself as best ties and privileges that they could
she could with her family, there never have enjoyed had it not been
being no one there to help her, the for the Relief Society organization,
brethren of the Church who were I do not suppose that you will ever
not in prison said: ''Now, Sister know how much happiness and real
Smith, we have left behind in Mis- joy you have brought into the homes
souri many of our brothers and sis- of many of the women of this
ters who are not able to come to Church because of the wonderful
Illinois because they have no means program that you have,
of transportation." Sister Smith The Church is making some prog-
said: "Take my wagon, take my ress relative to the problems that
team, take anything I have; go back confront us. There is no use in de-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 319
nying that we have problems— sen- The second objective has been
ous problems. Only Sunday I saw a that we provide employment. It
survey made in the United States, was never intended that the Church
and if I remember the figures cor- Welfare Program should become a
rectly, this was what was reported: dole, but rather an institution that
Part of the population of this great would take care of our people tem-
country have a month's reserves on porarily, and then give them some-
hand in case they were thrown out thing to do, the right to earn their
of employment. Another part of bread by the sweat of their brow,
the population of this great country This is the objective we are strug-
have enough reserves in the way of gling for, and I am sure in time we
cash and food to carry them for shall achieve it.
six months if they were thrown out In consideration of some of the
of employment. The conclusion of problems in connection with the
the survey was, that if something Church Welfare Program the Pre-
should happen in this country siding Bishopric has made some
whereby all of these people who are studies. We have made surveys
now on relief projects, those who in some of our wards. We se-
have some employment, and those lected a ward that was fairly well-to-
who have reserves from one to six do and went over the list of families
months were suddenly thrown out being assisted by the bishopric of the
of work, over half of the population ward. This bishopric was issuing
would be dependent upon the Gov- relief in the form of cash, which is
ernment or someone else for assist- contrary to the spirit of the Church
ance. So we have a great national Welfare Program. We discovered
problem; and as a Church we have that in some incidents individuals
our problems. were receiving cash allowances in
The President of the Church and amounts ranging from $25 to $50
his Counselors have decided that the per month, and that in some cases
Church should solve this problem as they were also receiving assistance
far as our people are concerned, from other agencies.
Some two and a half or three years Then we asked that a survey be
ago the great Church Welfare Pro- made of a ward in which there were
gram was inaugurated, the first ob- many cases where people were on
jective being to take care of our peo- WPA projects, and many who were
pie, the physical needs to be pro- wholly dependent upon the ward,
vided, such as fuel, clothing, and This particular ward was one that
food; and that has been done in a might be classified as not a well-to-
most magnificent way. The con- do ward. We discovered that the
tributions of our agricultural stakes bishop had fifty cases and that 29
in the way of food have been most of them were receiving assistance
generous. The city stakes made from outside agencies, either em-
cash contributions and contribu- ployed by WPA or receiving some
tions of clothing. By cooperating assistance from outside agencies
as a great Church we have been able such as the County. So with these
to reach, in a large measure, the first two surveys in our office, we won-
objective. dered if it would not be a good thing
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to inaugurate a plan whereby we making the survey in connection
could know, whereby the bishop of with the family shall have a com-
the ward could know, that those plete understanding of the relation-
who are receiving assistance from the ship between the Relief Society and
Church were receiving it because the bishop.
they were worthy of it, and that I should like to say a word about
there would not be any duplication the bishop and his position in the
of assistance. Church. In the ward he is the com-
mon judge in Israel; he is the presid-
VyiTH these thoughts in mind, ing authority, and all projects and
and after considering the mat- movements are under his direction,
ter very carefully with the General The auxiliary organizations of the
Welfare Committee, it was decided Church, such as the Relief Society,
that we would inaugurate a plan Primary and the Mutual Improve-
whereby our sisters could receive ment Association are helps and aids
some fundamental training in social to him in seeing that the Church
welfare work. It was decided that program is carried forward. No
we would make a beginning in the auxiliary organization ever takes
Salt Lake Region. From this Region precedence over the bishop, and I
we would branch out until eventu- am sure. Sister Robison, that there
ally every stake in the Church would is no group in the Church who un-
have in its organization some sisters derstands this more thoroughly than
who would be trained along the lines these loyal, devoted sisters. I pre-
of social welfare work, that they sided over a ward during the darkest
might do this work in an intelligent, days of the depression. Over night
systematic way, and give this infor- there was thrust upon the shoulders
mation to the bishops of the wards, of the bishopric forty families, and
In the Salt Lake Region we insti- I want to say to you, we were lost,
tuted a training class under the di- If it had not been for the fine Relief
rection of the General Presidency Society president and Relief Society
of the Relief Society and their Board, organization pointing out the way, I
This class has now met possibly five am confident we would have had
or six times; and here, under the many problems that would not have
direction of Sister Amy B. Lyman been solved; we leaned entirely upon
and Sister Amy W. Evans and oth- the Relief Society organization. We
ers, these sisters are being given the provided the food and clothing and
fundamentals that I have already all the necessities. They saw that
mentioned to you. this was properly distributed. They
In making a study of their out- visited families for us and brought
lines I have noted two or three back reports which were most help-
points which to me are most inter- ful. So, in connection with this
esting and vital in this great work of work you aid the bishop. You
understanding people and of know- are responsible to him. And no
ing how to approach them in con- doubt, in connection with the proj-
nection with their most intimate ect I am going to present to you
problems. In this outline it is con- in a moment, he will direct your ef-
templated first that the individual forts and prescribe more or less the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 321
plan he wants followed in his ward.
In connection with this training
class, there are some fundamentals
which are most pertinent to the suc-
cessful carrying on of this important
welfare work. First, the ability of
the worker to keep strictly confi-
dential the affairs of the people
being helped. There are * indi-
viduals in the Church, who because
of their pride, hate to go to the
bishop and confess that they are in
need, but when such is the case and
the bishop calls in his Relief Society
president and tells her of this situa-
tion, then the obligation rests upon
her to keep absolutely confidential
all matters pertaining to the family
involved. This is one of the most
important qualifications of a worker,
for a worker who cannot keep the
confidence of her people soon loses
her influence with them, and she
will not be successful. When this
call comes to your stake under the
direction of the General Board, I am
sure this particular phase of the work
will be given special emphasis.
There is the matter of good judg-
ment. I would like to say this in
connection with the needs of the
people of our Church— their home
needs, their physical needs— there is
no one better qualified to determine
what these needs are than you moth-
ers, the managers of homes. You
know more about these matters than
we men, so your judgment should
be good. In passing, let me read to
you a statement in connection with
good judgment: 'The worker should
be able to make plans that are prac-
ticable. She should not be over-
emotional, as it is a well known fact
that too much emotion interferes
with good judgment. Nor should
she be too impulsive, but should
be able to think through a situation
carefully before acting." I am sure
this statement is most pertinent to
the work you are called to do.
There is the matter of tact.
'Thoughtfulness for the feelings of
others, and a kind attitude toward
them is an essential element in the
personality of a worker." I should
like to digress here long enough to
tell you a little story where the feel-
ings of some good people were sorely
hurt. There was a Priesthood quo-
rum in the Church who knew that
one of its members was in distress,
and out of goodness of heart pur-
chased fine pieces of clothing for
this man and his good wife. Then
with the very best of intentions,
and without consulting the man
or his wife, these articles of cloth-
ing were presented to them un-
expectedly. It almost broke the
heart of the woman. She was proud
and did not know anyone knew of
her condition. Had someone gone
into that home and talked the mat-
ter through with them and found
out what their needs were, with tact
and diplomacy, no doubt these ar-
ticles could have been given to them
and would have been accepted with
no one's feelings being hurt. The
matter of thinking of the feelings of
people is essential, and I am sure
there is no one who can approach
these problems with finer tact and
diplomacy than the women of the
great Relief Society Organization.
Here is another point found in
the outline of the General Board:
"Sympathy and tolerance: Real
sympathy says little but does much.
To be tolerant a worker should be
able to suspend judgment until all
the facts are known and both sides
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of the question considered— never
condemn a person unheard; and she
should be able to see the other's
point of view." I am sure that is
splendid advice.
These workers should have the
ability to work with others and to
work under direction. As I said in
the beginning, you will work under
the direction of the bishop and the
president of the stake. If I am not
mistaken, it is the intention of the
Relief Society to give this assign-
ment of visiting families and making
the survey of the ward to the Relief
Society president; and should she
not be able to do this work, she and
the bishop should select a person
ideally fitted for it.
In the next place, the worker
should have a real liking for the
work she is called to do, and the sug-
gestion comes that she should have
good native intelligence and a
wholesome personality. I am sure
there is no group of women in the
world who have more native intelli-
gence than those found in Relief
Society, and every woman who
comes in contact with this Organ-
ization develops personality.
Here is the meat of this whole
outline — the important thing.
Through this suggestion comes the
achievement of our second objective,
that people shall be taught to help
and assist themselves. The Church
Welfare Program is not a dole. 'Tut
into every man's heart a sense of
his own supreme worth in the sight
of God"— that is the spiritual side.
Respect for the individual and for
his personality and character is a
fundamental principle in the art of
helping.
It aims to maintain the self-re-
spect of the individual— to help in
such a way that he will not suffer
undue humiliation.
The next aim should be to main-
tain his morale so that he will not
lose his desire for independence and
allow others to do for him what he
could do for himself. People must
be taught, and we must encourage
them to keep their independence,
and not allow us or anyone else to
do something for them that they
can do for themselves. There is no
question but that the program of the
past seven or eight years relative to
relief has had a demoralizing effect
upon the American people, because
the people have had things done for
them in many instances where they
could have done for themselves.
TN the Church Program it is our
intention to see that everyone
does what he can for himself, and
remove from his mind and thoughts
the idea that he is dependent upon
someone. Any normal individual
may require temporary assistance,
that is true. The first objective of
the Church Welfare Program was
to furnish temporary assistance in
the form of food and shelter and
clothing, but to keep him in a state
of dependence when he could main-
tain himself is a crime against the
individual as well as the society
which supports him. It robs society
of the kind of people who make a
self-sustaining social order possible,
and causes the individual to sell his
birthright for a mess of pottage.
You have had contact with fam-
ilies who will permit you to take
care of them indefinitely. They will
permit you to do everything that you
possibly can for them without mak-
ing any effort to assist themselves.
As members of the Church of
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 323
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints we Church Welfare Program come
want to go back to the fundamentals from the tithes. To me tithing is
of the pioneers and teach our people, the most sacred money that anyone
in so far as it is possible, to stand can handle. Taxes are sacred, but
squarely upon their own feet, and tithing is far more sacred because it
to meet the issues as best they can, belongs to the Lord. It represents
with the assurance that there is al- the widow's mite, and it also repre-
ways someone interested in them to sents the large income of the rich
the extent that they will ilot have man. We must handle it most in-
to go hungry. The Relief Society telligently so that the dollars will go
keeps in mind this principle in the as far as possible,
care of the needy. Its efforts will
always build up rather than destroy AS time goes on, as I said, the Re-
those qualities in personality which lief Society Board will come into
contribute to the welfare of the in- your stakes and bring to you this
dividual and through him to society, program. It had its beginning in
In looking over the annual report the Salt Lake Region composed of
of the Relief Society for the year sixteen stakes, and I am sure it is
1938, I find that you practice what going to produce for us some splen-
you preach. Many people have did results.
come to the office of the General I sincerely trust that the Lord
Board for assistance, and here is will bless and sustain you in your
what you have done: 3,877 women great work. Your faith and loyalty
applied for work; 3,375 employers to the Church are an inspiration,
were solicited for work, and there I met a man in the Temple
were 2,680 women placed in em- grounds yesterday as this great
ployment. That is real rehabilita- crowd of Singing Mothers emerged
tion, and if we could just accom- from the Tabernacle. He was a
plish throughout the Church what stranger within our gates, and he
is being accomplished in the Relief asked, ''Who are all these women?"
Society in this particular connection, 'They are Singing Mothers of the
I am sure we would preserve the Relief Society." He said, "It must
independence of all our people who cost the Church a great amount of
find themselves in need. money to bring them here and pay
As I said in the beginning, this them to sing." I said, "They are
matter of making investigations is a not paid; they pay their own trans-
serious one that must be done in all portation, coming from the remote
kindness; and if, after you have made parts of the Church, and paying all
an investigation for a bishop, he re- expenses." He said, "I cannot believe
fuses to follow your suggestions, do it; I do not know how that can be
not feel hurt. You have done your possible." But I told him such was
duty. You have fulfilled your as- the case, and that they were glad
signment. to come, feeling it a privilege to
There is just another word in con- serve the Church,
nection with finances. The finances I pray the Lord to bless and con-
that are used to take care of our tinue to inspire you in this great
people and the finances of the work.
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PROGRESS OF THE 1938 MEMBERSHIP DRIVE
By Rae B. Barker
/^NE-FOURTH of our time for of varied conditions, or the splendid
membership building has spirit with which you set out to do
slipped by. Are we one-fourth the work. Your original ideas and
nearer our objective? Whatever the ingenuity would indicate that many
result, it is the combined effort, sue- used the old but practical formula
cesses and disappointments of all for success, "Do what you can,
of us. where you are, with what you have."
The kind of report you want to From various reports we glean the
hear, of course, would be one of following pertinent observations:
progress. It is one of progress. There i. Stake presidents realized that
are some gratifying highlights of the attitude of the head spreads
splendid achievement. Those rank- through the entire body. They ac-
ing highest, in the order of their cepted the membership assignment
increase in numbers are: Western as an important one and entrusted
States Mission, Los Angeles, South the actual work to capable coordi-
Davis, Carbon, Blackfoot, Smith- nators backed by the support of the
field. Grant, Oakland, Pioneer, stake board.
Tooele and Wells. 2. The most fruitful methods in-
From the standpoint of percent- eluded personal contact work carried
age of increase, Los Angeles and on through the cooperation of the
Western States Mission more than visiting teachers and of the class
satisfied their four-year quotas, leaders assisted by small special com-
South Davis and Oakland completed mittees, all acting with the help
their three-year quotas. and direction of the coordinators.
However, this is not a complete 3. It was an incentive to excel
picture, for the report as a whole has when each ward coordinator knew
its hills and valleys. Those groups that her individual results in the
just mentioned reached the hill-tops; drive would be given in a suitable
others are still climbing. Some are stake gathering,
resting on the plateaus; others have 4. Many organizations recognized
slipped down a little into the valleys big possibilities for attracting new
—they have lost rather than gained, members through the new course,
The membership increase for Education for Family Lite.
1937 was two thousand. Our in- In one class there are thirty wom-
crease for 1938 was a little above en who have never belonged to Re-
five thousand, one thousand more Hef Society, another has twenty, and
being needed for this year's quota, there are many others with similar
Emphasis placed on membership the numbers. Its appeal particularly to
past year has definitely accelerated young parents has met with most
our rate of growth. favorable response. Perhaps to some
Numbers never tell the whole stakes that have made very little in-
story. They fail to show the handi- crease in membership, this may sug-
caps you struggled with in localities gest a new source for increase.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 325
Five thousand sisters have affili- may work dihgently to attract wom-
ated with us for the first time this en to our meetings, but the worth-
year. Will we keep them with us? whileness of the meeting itself will
The Prophet Joseph Smith gave us be the final answer as to whether
a helpful clue when he said to the we hold those whom we attract.
Nauvoo Relief Society this, in effect, Do you see membership building
if you want to lead people into new as an opportunity to share with oth-
ways, take them by the hand and ers the priceless thing you enjoy—
watch over them in tend*erness. Fur- do you see it as Relief Society's way
ther he said, ''When any person of spreading the blessings of the
manifests the least kindness and Gospel? If we have enjoyed choice
love to me, oh what a power it has privileges because of Relief Society
over my mind." Perhaps we could experiences, perhaps we should re-
stress a little more in our organiza- member the Savior's words to Peter:
tions bonding (cementing) through ''When thou art converted strength-
friendliness, en thy brother."
.... . . We give our love to the five thou-
Another thought worthy of our re- ^^^^ ^^^ members of 1938 and ex-
flection IS that all we may say to ^^^d our hands to yet other thou-
publicize Relief Society must be s^^ds during the coming year,
backed by the best organization ^^^ ^^^ress "Builders In Action" by
work we are capable of doing. We Bessie Redding will appear in a later issue.
Social vi/elfare LOepartment
Counselor Amy B. Lyman, Chairman
FAMILY CONSERVATION AN AIM OF THE
CHURCH WELFARE DEPARTMENT
Clyde C. Edmonds, General Welfare Committee
T HOPE I have a proper concep-
tion of what was expected when
the subject. Family Conservation an
Aim of the Church Welfare Pro-
gram was assigned to me.
I like to think of the Welfare
Program in terms of the Lord help-
ing those who help themselves.
Sometimes I wonder whether people
have lost the spirit of the faithful
and a willingness to do, particularly
when things stack up against them
and they become discouraged. It
would be a fine thing if all people
had the attitude that it is all right
to ask for blessings, provided they
are also willing to work for these
blessings. I sincerely believe we
should approach our problems from
the point of view that the Lord will
help those who are willing to help
themselves. That is another way of
saying, ''Charity begins at home,"
and is the angle from which I would
like to discuss the problem.
Have the necessary adjustments
been made in homes where misfor-
tune may have fallen? Have family
members squared themselves to their
problems? Have they taken the atti-
326 - MAY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
tude that adjustments must be us is just the lack of good old
made, or are they assuming that the thrift. When I think of what my
world owes them a living? mother did as a widow on a very
The sheriff told me that not so meagre income, I am truly ashamed
long ago he went into a certain sec- that I have not achieved more. My
tion of the state to repossess an au- plea is to make thrift the theme
tomobile. When he approached the song of rehabilitation,
home, he was absolutely dumb- I like the idea of a family budget,
founded. It was a two-room house, Plenty of our people do not know
and there were five or six children, what we mean by a budget. It is de-
All was confusion in the home. Mat- termining how we are going to let
tresses were strewn on the floor of our money be spent, and what we
one room, where all of the family intend to achieve through the
slept; they were living in the other budget; and once we live by it, we
room. Yet, here was a man driving will be surprised how well things
a Pierce-Arrow automobile. The work out. Our Church leaders have
sheriff said, '1 must ask you why always told us to live within our
you bought such an expensive au- means in order that we shall not be
tomobile." The man pointed across caught in a very unfavorable po-
the fields and said, ''Over there is sition.
my neighbor who has a fine automo- I like the idea of trying to catch
bile. My children are just as good a vision of the real values, the
as his and are entitled to enjoy just genuine values, the things that mean
as fine things; during the time we most to us in the final analysis. Our
had the automobile we enjoyed it." ideals are the things that are really
I think these people failed to recog- worth while in life. Let us implant
nize that in order to achieve their them in our lives and in the lives
purposes they should have adjusted of our children and help them to
themselves to their circumstances appreciate the fine things 'that mean
and tried to make the condition so much in making a rich life,
within the home better instead of I think about this a great deal
putting all they had in an automo- when speaking about living with-
bile. in our means. I have two very fine
I like the thought of cooperation friends. Both of these men at the
within the family, a division of re- present time are earning about the
sponsibility, so that everyone senses same amount of money. In one
the fact that he has definite work home you find system, order, con-
to do, and that the harmony of the venience, with things in a reason-
home depends upon his doing it. able state of repair. The four
I believe one way out of family children are well dressed, neat and
difficulties is through cooperation, clean. The father and mother are
When we discuss our problems and doing their duty and measuring up
make them family problems, we will to the requirements made of them
be able to bring about better adjust- in the ward. Altogether you find a
ments. very pleasing, happy environment.
I tliink the problem of many of In the other friend's home exactly
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 327
the opposite condition exists. The
front door-yard reveals things as
they are throughout— a poorly gov-
erned family and poor management
within the home. The husband
works hard and earns a reasonably
adequate income, but there is poor
organization somewhere— a lack of
cooperation; something is wrong.
These two homes have almost iden-
tical incomes, but the families are
different types. There is a job to
do with the one family— they should
be taught home management and
the value of a budget.
T WONDER if there is not a gen-
eral shifting of pride in the hu-
man family. In the past a great deal
of time and thought was given to
our homes and surroundings. We
enjoyed having our friends come to
see us so that they might also enjoy
our very comfortable and pleasant,
though often humble, surroundings.
Has pride shifted from the home
and its surroundings to the auto-
mobile!
It would be a good thing if the
shift could be turned partially back
till the home and families find real
pride and satisfaction in beautiful
surroundings— a garden— let us even
be thrifty enough to say a vegetable
garden. We do not see these as often
as we used to, and that is one of
the things we should consider in a
return to thrift.
As I travel over this country, I
come back to Utah chagrined over
conditions I have seen in our com-
munities as compared with what I
have seen in other states. Have we
failed to realize the need for a
cheerful and pleasing environment?
As you drive home, check up, and
you will find far more unpainted
than painted homes in the large
communities. Look at the fences
along the highway and see if you
can take pride in the surroundings.
When you do find a beautifully kept
place, it is like an oasis in a desert.
Wliat is the matter? Have we lost
pride in our homes? Have our
standards of living allowed us to sink
to such a level that we do not see
what is all around us? Have we be-
come accustomed to run-down con-
ditions in the midst of which we
live? I have never been able to un-
derstand why a fence is allowed to
fall down. Keeping things in repair
takes a few hours, of course, but the
satisfaction that comes from the im-
proved appearance more than pays
for the time spent. I cannot help but
wonder if children brought up in
an untidy home, growing up in care-
less surroundings, do not later re-
flect this carelessness. I urge that
we devise ways and means of im-
proving our homes, so that our chil-
dren may have greater pride in them
and a desire to bring their friends
to the home instead of going away
from it. One of the cardinal points
in the Welfare Program of the
Church is the raising of the stand-
ards of living. I believe we ought
to keep that uppermost in our minds
and influence our neighbors to make
Utah communities, by which the
Mormon people are judged, a little
more cheerful, bright and attractive.
If we can get this message over to
our people I am sure we will have
achieved our purpose.
The addresses "What Relief Society Has
Contributed To Family Welfare" by Amy
W. Evans and "Problems of Modem
Family Life" by Caroline M. Hendricks
will appear in a later issue.
vi/orR and ujusiness LOepartment
LaJene H. Hart, Chairman
/^NE feature of the Work and very attractive as well as education-
Business Department was an ex- al. The stakes participating under
hibit showing what has been and the direction of Mrs. Ivy L. Hall
can be accomplished in the field of were Highland, Cottonwood, Wells,
nutrition. A demonstration of food Grant, Oquirrh, West Jordan and
preparation and preservation proved East Jordan.
INTERPRETING HOMEMAKINC THROUGH
WORK AND BUSINESS
By Anna S. Barlow
TT is the ambition of every Latter- the importance of proper food sup-
day Saint woman to make her plies, food habits, and regulated ap-
home a place where family mem- petites. People are becoming more
bers live together in love and har- and more concerned with malnutri-
mony; a place in which they take tion of infants and children. Doro-
pride; a place where their minds, thy Thompson, famous news com-
souls and bodies are daily recreated mentator, in a recent magazine ar-
for greater accomplishment. Mod- tide entitled Children Starve in
ern life gives us an opportunity to This Land of Plenty said that from
make our homes fulfill their highest one-eighth to one-fifth of all chil-
purpose— that of producing happy dren in the United States are un-
citizens, physically, mentally, spir- dernourished.
itually healthy and sensitive to their The course of study suggested last
social responsibilities. In assuming year by the General Board, Selec-
their tasks as homemakers mothers tion and Preparation oi Food for
are more and more realizing that Nutiition, has been taken up in
knowledge, training, preparation, many stakes with success. It is sug-
and constant effort are essential to gested by the General Board that
success. for the coming year we continue this
rrm Txr 1 IT.- T>. study, and it is hoped that those
The Work and Business De- ^ho have not taken the course will
partment is irnmediately concern- ^^ ^^ r^^ following subjects have
ed with providing knowledge and ^^^^ 3^,^^^^^ ^^ ^ su^estive course:
trammg m the practical phases »
of homemaking. It will always be ^- ^^',' J°?^ ?"PP^y-
the function of the Relief Society to ^' ^^^^ D^shes°"'
sew for the needy on Work and ^\ Selection and Preparation of Vege-
Business day, but because of urgent tables.
needs and insistent demands other 5. Efficient Kitchen for Food Prepara-
programs have been inaugurated. *^^°"-
At the present time throughout ^- ^°,°^ "^^^*^ ^f ^PP^^^*^'-
.1 TT .. S ci. 4. 1 -u 7- Safe Cleaning Suggestions,
the United States people are be- ^ School Lunches.
coming more and more conscious of 9. Preservation.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 329
It is suggested that the plan given own Boards of Health and agricul-
last year for conducting the course tural colleges for additional material
be used this coming year. We refer on these subjects. Libraries, current
you to the May Magazine for 1938. magazines and newspapers will be
Material will be compiled, with profitable sources of information,
lists of pamphlets included, and sent What greater objective could the
to stake presidents in the near future; Work and Business department have
these lists will also be published in than that of aiding mothers in the
the Magazine. Additional material problem of developing physically
may be published in the Magazine healthy family members.
from time to time. ^, , , r- ^- ^u 1? j
T. • .j.i.Li iTT-i A he address, Guarding the Family
It is suggested that stake Work health, by Elna Miller will appear in a
and Business leaders contact their later issue.
(choristers and \:yrganists LOepartment
Janet M. Thompson, Chairman
A LARGE group of choristers and ident Louise Y. Robison. We are in-
organists attended the Music deed indebted to Sister Stevens for
Department, and the interest and her valuable contributions to the
enthusiasm manifested by them new song book,
gives promise of a most successful Professor Wade N. Stephens, As-
future for Relief Society musical sistant Tabernacle Organist, discuss-
activities. ed ''Fundamentals of Conducting".
With our objective for 1939- A full report of his talk will be given
1940 in mind— to improve the qual- in a later issue of the Magazine.
ity, the character and the effective- Another feature of the program was
ness of music in all of our Relief the introduction of a new Easter
Society organizations — the Music song. The words of this particular
Department presented the follow- number were taken from the Maga-
ing program: zine and were penned by Estelle
Ida Peterson Beal spoke to the Webb Thomas, which she titled
subject, 'Ten Minutes— They Are ''The Resurrection". Professor
Yours," and stressed the importance Stephens graciously consented to
of the ten minute song practice, compose the music, and we are de-
Beatrice F. Stevens, not only a lighted to have it among our col-
writer of verse but also a com- lection of new songs,
poser of music, introduced two new We sincerely appreciate the earn-
songs. The Work We're Called To est, untiring efforts of mission, stake
Do and Our Father In Heaven, Thy and ward choristers and organists.
Praises We Sing, composed espe- We are grateful for the work that has
cially for our Relief Society women, been accomplished in elevating Re-
The latter song is dedicated to Pres- lief Society music to a higher level.
330 - MAY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
in developing a greater appreciation ization, for their loyalty, coopera-
for it and in stimulating among our tion and good will,
members a desire for better music. The committee is zealously work-
We are deeply grateful for the ing on the new Relief Society Song
Relief Society Singing Mothers and Book, and missions, stakes and
are indebted to them for their out- wards will be notified when it is
standing contribution to the Organ- ready for distribution.
TEN MINUTES-THEY ARE YOURS
By Ida Peterson Beal
^^'lAT'ITHOUT practice there can deavor to have altos and sopranos
be no interest, and without well balanced. Stress proper posture
interest there can be no progress." and breathing— this is very essential.
Here indeed is a challenge! Our Never nag! Praise brings about bet-
music directors must accept it. Ten ter results. The personality of the
minutes of the regular Relief Society chorister is felt by the singers. Give
meeting, except the first Tuesday of them the leadership they need, and
the month, have been given to chor- the results will be very gratifying,
isters and organists for song prac- Choristers and organists should
time. Make these ten golden min- study the Magazine carefully. A
utes pay a rich dividend in better knowledge of the lesson material is
singing and in a keener and deeper important. It will give you the theme
appreciation of our hymns and good on which you base the selection of
music in general. hymns for the day. Do not neglect
In order to make them profitable this correlation; it has a definite
the chorister and the organist must place in your preparation. There is
be united in their aims. much good material in the Maga-
The work for each Tuesday zine for the instruction of music
should be well planned. Be conver- leaders.
sant with the songs you plan to You must not fail your ward pres-
teach. Choristers, know the words idency. Your preparation for your
of the hymns so that you may have ten minutes must be as painstaking
your eyes on the singers. Know the and accurate as that manifested by
tempo and beat time correctly. Ob- the wide-awake class leaders. Your
serve the marks of expression, em- part is important, and in the great
phasize them, and make them ef- scheme of Relief Society you must
fective. Draw attention to the beau- establish the value of good music. It
ty of the words— they are sermons, has been said that singing gives
Do not attempt too many songs for ''tone" to the meeting. The ward
one practice. The organist should presidency have confidence in your
play the hymns without errors, giv- ability; do not disappoint them,
ing a full rich tone so that the sing- Seek divine guidance, greet your
ers may hear the harmonies accu- opportunities and gratefully ac-
rately. She, too, should observe care- knowledge your part in improving
fully the marks of expression. En- the glorious gift of song.
IlLagazifie LUepartment
Belle S. Spaftoidy Chairman
MY CALLING
By Eleanor S. Mufr
T AM happy that my caUing is
identified with the Relief Society
Magazine. I want to share the joy of
its possession and its high ideals
with every Latter-day Saint woman
in my stake. My goal is not per-
centages. Percentages are useful as
a barometer; they tell a story; they
tell me whether or not we are a little
closer to our real goal. Our real goal
is to build homes by placing in
them a magazine which carries vital
messages every month.
How can we be sure of success in
our Magazine work? To me the an-
swer is organization. As stake Mag-
azine agents we should first plan our
own program, then assist the ward
agents to make plans, giving them
as much help as possible in the exe-
cution of these plans. Then comes
the check-up.
I think success is more assured
if some member of the stake board
is responsible for the Magazine all
of the time, rather than having the
work assigned to some member dur-
ing the Drive and then letting it
drift the remainder of the year. The
Magazine work is year around work.
There are many obstacles which
beset the path of a Magazine repre-
sentative. The greatest of these is
perhaps a wrong mental attitude to-
ward the work. If a representative
approaches her work feeling that she
does not care much for it and is only
doing it because it is her duty, then
she fails before she has started. If
she has the attitude that only half
the women in her ward can afford
the Magazine, then without doubt
her results will be disappointing.
Low incomes do not necessarily
mean low sales percentages, for there
is a great desire for spirituality and
culture among the low income
groups of our Church.
I consider the complete coopera-
tion of the ward presidency of vital
importance.
In the Union meeting department
we have dealt with such subjects as:
Promotion oi Good Reading, Personal-
ity in Your Work, Business-like Procedure,
How to Approach People, Foliow-up
Work, The Need oi the Magazine, Our
Magazine and Its Editorial Policy, and
Human Interest Back of the Magazine,
The ward agents report on their
work every month.
Prior to launching the Drive, I
hold a Pep Rally at my home with
the ward agents and ward presidents.
At this time I give the agents their
instructions: First, the specific in-
structions which come from the
General Board; second, the addi-
tional instructions and suggestions
necessary to make our stake Drive
successful. In addition to the free
subscriptions given by the General
Board, the stake also gives free sub-
scriptions and a framed award.
I don't know of any magic tricks
whereby the Magazine may be sold.
But I do know we must be enthusi-
astic and energetic; we must do our
work for the joy we find in it. The
Magazine has no tongue but our
tongues, no hands but our hands, no
feet but our feet; so it is our calling
to promote its circulation.
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SELLING
By Edith Wilson
"I^HEN I was called to work as tion. For example, some people say,
Magazine agent in my ward, "I cannot afford to take it." I ex-
I felt very humble. Our percentage plain to them that it costs less than
of subscriptions was low, and this 9 cents a copy. Some of the moth-
was my first experience in selling. So ers tell me they are now taking too
before undertaking my work, I asked many magazines. I tell them this
my Heavenly Father to bless me magazine is different because every
that I might be able to accomplish one in the family will enjoy reading
the thing which I had been called it. I suggest leaving one of my mag-
upon to do. azines in the home, saying I will call
It is very necessary to be orderly later for it. I find I get many sub-
in keeping a record of subscribers, scriptions this way.
I have a book used only for this Where the mother is not a mem-
purpose. On one page are the names ber of our Relief Society, and so
of those whose subscriptions begin feels she has no need of the Maga-
in January, another page is for Feb- zine, I explain about our Organiza-
ruary, and so on through the year, tion and also tell her about the con-
When it is nearly time for them to tents of the Magazine. Here again
renew their subscriptions I remind I leave a copy. I find that if she
them— early enough for them to put subscribes, she usually becomes a
away the dollar. member of our Society sooner or
I watch for people who move into later, and I feel this is real mission-
the ward and for new members and ary work.
workers in the Relief Society. I try I always get in touch with new
to become acquainted with them be- subscribers and ask them if they are
fore I call at their homes. I try to receiving their magazines and if they
learn what their interests are. Wben enjoy reading them. I often suggest
I call at the home I try to lead the some interesting article to them,
sister to talk about her interests be- I never feel discouraged if I fail
fore I mention the Magazine. Often to get a subscription the first time
there is some article in the Maga- I call. I manage to call again and
zine that contains information on again and find it always pays. I try
the very thing in which she is most to make the sisters feel that they are
interested. not just paying out money for a pe-
I appreciate having the visiting nodical but that the Relief Society
teachers speak of the value of the Magazine is really a messenger, sent
Magazine in the homes they visit, to their homes to deliver a real, tan-
Talks given in Relief Society and gible blessing in the form of good
Sacrament meeting are of great help will and valuable truths from our
also. leaders who are inspired by the Lord.
Every non-subscriber has a reason ^, , , ,,rru at • n/i a-
. / . 1 . . i_ TV T • T ^"^ address The Magazine a Medium
tor not takmg the Magazme, so 1 Yox Growth" by Dorothy Clapp Robinson
try to prepare to meet every objec- will appear in a later issue.
(general Session — iilorrung
THE CHURCH OF MY CHOICE
By Jennie B. Knight
TT IS to Dr. George H. Brimhall self, ''Every soul who forsaketh his
that I am indebted not only for sins and cometh unto me, and call-
the choice of my church but also eth on my name, and obeyeth my
for the outline for this talk. voice, and keepeth my command-
One day while in my teens I said ments, shall see my face and know
to him, "Father, you think I am a that I am." (Doctrine and Cove-
Mormon, but I am not and do not nants Section 93:1.)
intend to be one." His wise answer Fourth: My church provides for
calmed my rebellious heart and gave progress— eternal progress— through
me food for thought. Putting his continuous revelation to those
arm around me, he said: "If being whose duty it is to administer
a Mormon won't give my little girl church affairs. It accepts scientific
more happiness than anything else discovery as part of God's truth and
in the world, I don't want her to be adopts that which is advantageous
a Mormon." That was all, and the to the spreading of the Gospel or
subject was never referred to again, improvement of its members. It
As the years have passed and I encourages its members to seek
have been privileged to attend a knowledge from all sources; to study
church school, to work in the vari- and learn and become acquainted
ous auxiliary organizations, and to with all good books and with Ian-
be present at church gatherings, I guages, tongues and people,
have found some characteristics of ^■^^^, It recognizes recreation as
the Church of Jesus Christ of Lat- ^^^^^ ^o God. No ward is com-
ter-day Saints that are not common j^^^ ^-^^^^^ .^3 p^j^ ^^^^^^^^^
to other churches. R^ji^f S^^i^. socials. Old Folks'
First: Our church is linked to therings and Priesthood outings,
heaven by divine authority. I be- j^ ^^^ ^^^-^ confidence in youth that
heve that the same God who spoke -^ ^^^ • ^^ ^^^ supervision of rec
to Moses in the burning bush and ^^^^-^^ ^^ ^^^ 1^
gave him commandments on Mount _. , ,^. , or r
Sinai spoke to Joseph Smith in the , ^^^^h: We have our sacred tem-
Sacred Grove P^^ where youth, maturity and old
Second: My church glorifies in- ^g^ "^^^^ ^V ^ co"^.n\«" ^^"S^-
telligence and declares that willful ^^"P^^^ ^'^ ^^l^ "^^'"'^^ ^^' ^™^
ignorance is a bar to salvation; that ^"^. ^^J™^^ ^^^^^^ ^'^ ^^^^^"g ^^^
"the glory of God is intelligence, or *^^^^ ^^^^•
in other words light and truth." Seventh: My church honors and
Third: It holds sacred the free respects women; it grants them
agency of man, giving every individ- every opportunity for development
ual a right to go to God for him- in spiritual, intellectual and social
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lines. This great Relief Society was outstanding characteristics of the
organized by the Prophet. Its week- church of my choice — a place
ly programs are unsurpassed; its av- where faith in God will increase,
enues for service are unlimited. I where a love of Jesus Christ and
rejoice in my affiliation with it; it His Gospel will grow, where a tes-
has helped me to better appreciate timony of the divine mission of the
my blessings. Prophet Joseph Smith is to be had,
I understand now that my father where there is freedom through
knew the Mormon church and its right living, growth by self-effort,
value. Now I know some of the happiness through altruistic service.
THE GOSPEL-A PRACTICAL WAY OF LIFE
By Com L. Bennion
'TpHE Savior said, '1 am come that ye give them not those things which
they might have life and that are needful to the body; what doth
they might have it more abundant- it profit? Even so faith, if it hath
ly." not works, is dead, being alone. The
The abundant life is realized same author tells us that, "Pure re-
through the practical application of ligion and undefiled before God and
the principles which Jesus taught as the Father is this. To visit the father-
implied in another of his notable less and widows in their affliction,
sayings, "Ye shall know the truth and to keep himself unspotted from
and the truth shall make you free." the worid." This view of religion ap-
And again this knowledge is gained plies very directly to the purposes
through obedience as indicated in of the Relief Society. Women of
another passage in the Gospel ac- this Organization have given gener-
cording to John, when Jesus answer- ously of their time and strength
ed the doubting multitude as he both in pioneer days and also in re-
taught in the temple, "My doctrine cent times, in caring for the needs of
is not mine, but his that sent me. the people, but what does it mean
If any man will do his will, he shall to keep oneself unspotted from the
know of the doctrine, whether it be world?
of God, or whether I speak of my- Evidently it means to live in ac-
self." cordance with the moral teachings
The practical values of the Gospel of the Gospel and to keep free from
are especially emphasized in the the sins of the world. This, how-
Epistle of James. He wrote: "What ever, is no real sacrifice since it is
doth it profit my brethren though the only road to the enduring satis-
a man say he hath faith and have not factions of life, and to that joy
works? Can faith save him? If a which it was designed by the Cre-
brother or sister be naked, and desti- ator that men and women should
tute of daily food, and one of you have.
say to them, depart in peace, be ye While Relief Society women have
warmed and filled; notwithstanding important community responsibili-
MLIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 335
ties, these should not detract from confined, like prisoners, to the
their home duties. home. They will be more compe-
This is especially true of mothers tent for their home responsibilities
whose sons and daughters are still if they keep in touch with the com-
immature. Mothers and fathers are munity life and know something of
responsible for teaching the Gospel, the social life and outside interests
both by precept and by example, of their children. By these means
to their children. * This calls for and by wise use of leisure time for
closely-knit family ties and intimate study, mothers may keep abreast of
association of members of the fam- the times and continue to live in the
ily in their home life. The father's same world as their children. This
business often takes him away from will help them to "be strong and of
home much of the time, leaving the good courage" and to avoid the pit-
mother to carry the major responsi- falls of unwarranted fears and wor-
bility in the care and religious edu- ries. The Gospel of Christ will help
cation of the family. It is not de- us to develop those soul satisfying
signed that Relief Society women aspects of living, and will help to
shall neglect this duty. This does eliminate the negative factors that
not mean that mothers should be destroy the joys of life.
BUILDERS OF TESTIMONY
By Donna D. Sorensen
I
F to every woman in the Church sation Latter-day Saint parents have
was put this question: ''What been told of the necessity of teach-
do you desire most for your son ing their children the first principles
or daughter?" the answer would of the Gospel, and so upon the
come ringingly back from every true women of Relief Society devolves
Latter-day Saint mother, "I would this most important duty of the
want my child to have, most of all, proper training and rearing of their
a testimony of the Gospel." children in the faith of the Gospel.
Why a testimony? Because the The training of the human soul
Lord has said, "He that seeketh me for advancement here and joy here-
early shall find me and shall not be after calls for the greatest possible
forsaken." Because the strength of powers of mind and heart. It is
this Church lies in the individual generally admitted that the first
testimonies of its members. Because years of life are crucial in determin-
to possess a firm, strong testimony ing what the future of the child
acts as a way of life and points the shall be spiritually as well as phys-
direction as truly as a radio beam ically. The mother with a testimony
to the airplane. Because a testi- herself in the divinity of Jesus Christ
mony is the strongest shield one is given an authority and a certainty
can have against "the fiery darts of which she would otherwise lack,
the adversary". "To most of our young people the
Through revelation in this dispen- miracle of testimony is one of gradu-
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al growth or development. Un- question: ''How is the Relief So-
known to them, the mother's lulla- ciety fitting our women to be better
bies, the bedtime prayers, the fam- participants in this great work of
ily devotion ... are all making them building testimonies in their fam-
converts." ilies?"
Teaching by example is especially In our testimony meetings wom-
important in the rearing of children, en are given the privilege to partake
A mother should make it obvious of that same spirit that they desire
that she is seriously interested in re- to inculcate in their families. Then,
ligious things and believes in them too, hundreds of women are weekly
herself. giving knowledge which they have
To the Saints in this dispensation to their sisters and in the giving are
has come the command to teach growing more able to give to their
their children to pray. Secret and families. Many of our women are
family prayers and a blessing on playing the part of the good Samar-
every meal we eat all help "in form- itan in their vicinities and doing
ing a loving acquaintance with the good, and this, too, is one way to
Father''. increase and grow in the knowledge
We might well ask ourselves this of the truth.
REPORT
Eliza N. Salm, Oahu Stake Relief Society President
B
KING surrounded by our Relief greetings and alo-ha nui to you all.
Society Singing Mothers, look- Six of us. Relief Society mothers,
ing into your sweet, smiling faces, left our homes and loved ones and
and with the feeling I have that my traveled thousands of miles to come
beloved people back home are pray- to your beautiful land to participate
ing for me, gives me courage to stand in this conference. Three members
before you this morning. of our stake board are here with me
My dear sisters and friends, Presi- and two Relief Society ward presi-
dent Louise Y. Robison and her dents, one a mother of sixteen chil-
co-workers, my Alo-haa nui loa! dren, of whom fifteen are living and
When Sister Robison came to visit three attending the University of
our island, we greeted her with alo- California.
ha; that means aloha from within The few moments I occupy I
our hearts, the old way of the Ha- sincerely ask my Father in Heaven
waiians when they greet their loved to help me that I may be able to
ones. say those things that will make you
My heart is filled with gratitude proud of what we are doing in our
to my Father in Heaven for the Stake of Oahu.
privilege we have of coming to your On December 13, 1850, the first
beautiful land. The Saints from Ha- missionaries arrived in the Hawaiian
waii— the land of sunshine, flowers. Islands, George Q. Cannon and his
music and singing— extend their companions. Twenty-five years later.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 337
on July 6, 1875, the first Relief So- Societies on the Island of Oahu were
ciety was organized at Laie, on the placed under the direction of a dis-
Island of Oahu. Laie is my birth- trict board. It was my privilege and
place, and it is where the Temple opportunity to serve on this board
now stands— one of the most beau- for two years. Later I became presi-
tiful sites on the islands and one dent of the district board. It was
most frequently visited by tourists, difficult for us to change from the
Relief Societies are* now organized accustomed way of doing things,
on all the islands of the group. There Later, in 1935, President Heber
were fifty-five branches under the J. Grant came to Hawaii, and it was
leadership of the mission presidents, then that the Island of Oahu be-
Much was done. The Relief Society came a Stake of Zion— the only one
had charge of the care of the mis- in the group of islands. The officers
sionaries at this time. I want to tell of the district board were appointed
you that your sons and daughters the Oahu Stake Relief Society
are our sons and daughters, and we Board. From then on the responsi-
love them all. We saw that their bility was ours. We realized the load
clothes were laundered, fed the poor, was heavy. We were inexperienced
and cared for the sick. The mission- for this high position, not having
aries instructed the Hawaiian sisters had much education, but Heavenly
in the ways of today— sewing, cook- Father has been very kind, and
ing and so forth. The Gospel has we have been led through His
been preached by the sisters travel- guidance,
ing for miles on foot, visiting the
Saints scattered here and there. As \\[^ ^^^ve been carrying out in-
time has gone on, the work has pro- structions from our General
gressed. Several hundred sisters are Board and have tried to equip our-
now within our fold and are doing selves to the best of our ability, al-
much good. though we have come upon a lot
The art of handcraft has been part of difficulties, especially in the Lit-
of our work— weaving mats, fans, erary work. The Hawaiian sisters
hats, purses, cushions and other ar- have not had much education; most
tistic pieces of the lauhala. Crepe of them have only gone to school
paper leis, imitating the tropical up to the fourth or fifth grades,
flowers, have been made; the tour- We speak the Hawaiian and English
ists would not go home without languages in our meetings, trying to
them. We have also made layettes interpret to the best of our ability,
and quilts. When Sister Robison so as not to lose anything which is
visited our island, we presented her outlined for us.
with an Hawaiian quilt. The sale of The Hawaiian race have their
handwork has been a means of rais- own way of preserving their legends,
ing money to build up. our funds. So far they have not had books print-
It was during the leadership of ed, but they have been taught from
President Castle H. Murphy that father to son, from generation to
changes were made on the Island generation,
of Oahu. August 4, 1931, the Relief While the mission Relief Societies
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took care of all charity work, the
bishop of each individual ward now
has charge of that work. We carry
out instructions whenever any emer-
gency comes up. We have the bish-
op's sanction before we carry out
any charity work. The money paid
out for charitable purposes comes
out of fast offerings. The Relief So-
ciety, therefore, does not raise mon-
ey as it did in the years past, but is
allowed to raise money only in the
month of March, all the wards and
branches joining together and sup-
porting the stake board in one big
affair.
A week before we left our islands,
the Relief Society stake board gave
a concert, dance, and bazaar to raise
funds for our Relief Societies. There
were over eight hundred cooperating
in this great affair, which was held in
connection with our Anniversary on
the 17th of March. We are raising
money for our contribution to the
erection of our proposed tabernacle.
We have had this privilege for the
past eight years.
On October 29 the Saints of Ha-
waii prepared a luau. I am sure those
who have been on a mission to the
Islands know what that means. We
fed eight thousand people. We
served 4,000 pounds of pork, 4,000
pounds of poi— that is the main food
of the people of Hawaii, 3,000
pounds of sweet potatoes, 1,500
chickens, 1,000 pounds of luau,
2,000 pounds of fish, 2,000 pounds
of moss (sea weed), 5,000 coconuts,
500 boxes of starch — corn starch
to make the Hawaiian pudding, 100
pounds of sugar, 20 tins of kilola.
240 cakes, 100 pounds of ice used
for cold drinks. We served from
12 o'clock noon to 8 p. m. Twenty-
five men prepared the imu, and fresh
pork was served at each sitting.
Twenty-five men served poi. There
were 500 waiters, 90 for each sitting.
Altogether there were 1,500 work-
ers. I was in charge of the cakes,
and of the leis. The Hawaiian sisters
just love to make leis with their own
hands, and we greet our mission-
aries with leis; but you greeted us
with beautiful corsages when we ar-
rived in your land.
We can now see improvement in
our work, and the interest and sup-
port has been wonderful. We are
trying to support our General Board
in the Membership Campaign, and
we will do our best. It is our aim
to support the Mormon Handicraft.
I have brought with me handwork
which our Hawaiian sisters have
made as a token to our General
Board.*
I want to testify to you that if it
had not been for the Gospel we
would not have left our loved ones
and come to testify to you that God
lives, that He hears and answers our
prayers, and that Jesus is the Son
of the Living God.
May the choicest blessings of our
Heavenly Father rest upon us this
day, I pray in Jesus' name. Amen.
* Before the close of the afternoon ses-
sion, two of the Hawaiian sisters brought
leis to the tabernacle. Sister Salm put
a lei on each member of the General Board,
and also on the chorister and pianist, kissing
Sister Robison as she presented the lei to
her. This was very impressive.
LOVE, THE NUTRIENT OF LIFE
By Vivian R. McConkie
T OVE is a divine nutrient of hu-
man life and is the basis for
all of our work. It motivates man
•
toward the ''bond of perfectness
and peace". It strives for a full-
ness of life both here and hereafter.
It stimulates thoughtful attention
to the relationships of life. It is a
native endowment of women^ and
expands heavenward as the subject
grows in goodness. It encircles eter-
nally those who do the will of the
Father. It is manifested by the Son
of God, through the Gospel. The
atonement and the Holy Ghost evi-
dence the extent to which it will
reach to save us. It is inclusive of
many qualities and is the mortar
that holds the world together. It
is a plant that matures beautifully
or withers according to the cultiva-
tor of it. Let us surrender our per-
sonal pleasures and our ambitions
in earnest endeavor to develop it.
If so, then all things will work to-
gether for good.
Love is expressed by words and
deeds. True home culture can not
exist without it. Its signs and tok-
ens feed human affections. It is kind
thoughts manifest in action; it per-
petuates sentiment, considerations,
and chivalry. When unexpressed it
deteriorates. When expressed it re-
freshes parched places, and its sun-
shine awakens life. It continues
courtship after marriage and is the
sole remedy that will heal breaches
that lead to broken homes.
There is greater need for love
than for modern comforts. If choice
must be made between love and up-
to-date homes and automobiles,
those who are touched with under-
standing will choose love and home
and children and the standards of
the Church as guide wires.
If you would be loved be lov-
able, for love begets love. Like other
gifts it must be used faithfully; other-
wise it can not be enlarged. It
must be active to reach the heart of
another. Many hunger for it; yet,
out of fear of encouraging vanity
through lavish or unwise expres-
sions of love many are allowed to
starve for want of it. Malnutrition,
where the element lacking is love,
turns the heart to bitterness and the
soul to rust. A wise word of recog-
nition for a deed well done, or even
for a failure, if the purpose was
worthy, costs nothing and may
greatly aid a worthy cause, as well
as lighten a darkened soul.
Love is measured by what it gives
and by its purposes and its objects.
The greatest love of all is manifest
in the gift of eternal life, which is
God's gift to all who desire right-
eousness. Man's greatest manifesta-
tion of love is to help persons to pre-
pare themselves to receive eternal
life, and the greatest thing that can
be done to that end is to teach the
truth. Our love is measured exactly
by how completely we do this. If we
love the Lord we will teach the
Gospel, but we can not teach it if
we do not live it. If we do not teach
the truth it is because the light of
truth is not in us. "I love thy testi-
monies." (Psalms 119:119.)
A
ANALYZING VALUES IN PRESENT-DAY LIVING
By Leda T. Jensen
LL of us were anxious to come cule of our friends and associates
to this world, created for our influence us in the standards we set?
mortal probation. What are we Sometimes it seems we know not
doing each day with the life we which way to turn for inspiration,
came here to live? There is one sure source of right,
We all desire happiness, that in- one unerring pattern to which we
ward peace and security that is the may turn in spite of the complexity
result of righteous living. of modern living. Our Savior, Jesus
What each individual does, what Christ, has pointed out the way in
decisions he makes, what path he the Gospel of the Master, given di-
follows depends upon his sense of rectly by Him or through his proph-
values. ets to us. What about honesty.
The most important aim of edu- what about virtue, what about the
cation is the evolution of a personal Sabbath Day, what about using our
scheme of values. Our value con- leisure time, what about dealing
cepts condition our appreciations fairly and justly with all of God's
and satisfactions. They determine children? What the Savior has said
our distant goals and our present about the matter should be the final
decisions. As we learn to include tribunal. What would my Heaven-
in our daily living more of the es- ly Father have me do should be our
thetic, more of the ethical, and more constant question,
of the spiritual values we hold high- As Relief Society women, are our
est, life takes on greater meaning standards of living on the high level
and joy; it becomes more abundant, they should be? Are we assuming the
What has happened to us and great responsibility that rests upon
our children biologically is a thing us as mothers in Israel?
of the past. The environmental Because of the confusion in the
factors are immediately around us world about them children are prob-
and in them are the possibilities for ably more in need of the continuity
modification, adjustment and and security that the home alone
growth. can give than they have ever been.
Our social environment is a most After we have set our own house
intricate and complex one. The in- in order, we should strive constantly
dividual is being bombarded on ev- by precept and by consistent exam-
ery side by literally thousands of pie to raise the morals of the neigh-
social influences, all of which are borhood and the community in
shaping the individual's ideas, atti- which we live,
tudes, motives, and conduct. Then our lives will be truly happy.
In the midst of the existing con- for we shall have that inward peace
fusion, how is one to determine which comes from our Heavenly
which values are necessary for peace Father.
and happiness? Where are we to If we honestly strive to follow
turn for a guide, a pattern? Is public His example, we shall be blessed to
opinion a safe guide? Are the properly analyze values in present-
theories and philosophies of men day living and to live by those stand-
infallible? Does the praise or ridi- ards we know to be right.
(general Session — J/ifternoon
OUR GREATEST HERITAGE
By Counselor Kate M. Barker
^^l^ITHOUT faith it is impos- ards in the type of conversation, in
sible to please God." Faith the books read, in the love and unity
is pleasing to God because He of the family, in the spiritual life
knows how vital it'is to man. of the home. It is the sins of selfish-
As we think of the distress in the ness and unkindness which make
world today, are we not every day of for lack of love and unity in the
our lives filled with joy because our home. These were the sins which
faith tells us that God does live, Jesus hated above all else,
that there is meaning and purpose Let us make faith in goodness
and continuity to life, that right easy for our children,
will prevail? There is so much happening to-
But faith to be strong enough day to tend to destroy faith in life,
to endure must not stop at giving The home must make greater effort
us comfort and a feeling of secur- than ever to give youth the kind
ity. It must not only do something of faith which, though one is aware
for us but make us do things. Faith of the realities and difficulties of
is not an end to accomplish. It life, gives one an appreciation of the
should rather be a starting point for purposefulness of life and the cour-
new and greater things. age and zest to meet life. If youth is
The message of the Gospel to to succeed it must thus face life,
each of us is to get our values Another test of our lessons will
straight, then begin with ourselves, be: Is our own and our children's
our homes, our communities. love of the Gospel increasing? Is
Our Relief Societv lessons are our faith strong enough to inspire
planned to help us find the real them?
values in life, which are faith in Sister Spafford's little Scotch
God, faith in the purpose, beauty grandmother had a beautiful gold
and possibilities of life, and faith watch and chain. One day when a
in one another. They are planned little girl Sister Spafford, who ad-
also to give practical help in apply- mired the watch, said to her grand-
ing our faith to works. The measure mother, ''Grandmother, will you
of their worth is whether the stand- leave me your watch and chain?''
ards of home and community life ''My dear, I am leaving you some-
are being raised. thing much more valuable. I brought
The great need of the world to- it across the ocean from Scotland,
day is for leadership, and nowhere It is the Gospel."
is it so needed as in the home. I What an impression to make on
like to think of Relief Society as a a little girl's mind and heart, espe-
training school in leadership for cially when that testimony was cor-
mothers, providing such training as roborated by a wonderful life,
will result in higher home stand- The community is but the home
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writ large, and woman's responsibil- capable. Jesus never minimized the
ity reaches there— the same respon- discipline needed to be in His ser-
sibility which she has in the home vice. The Gospel asks us ''not to be
—protecting the weak, caring for the ministered unto but to administer",
sick and unfortunate, setting the Opportunities for service are
standards of spiritual and cultural many. The chief causes of regret
life. when we look back on life are the
We all love to help. But in our opportunities wasted, the responsi-
complicated society the need for bilities not met.
help is often not easy to see until Our faith is very precious to us.
tragedy comes. Our work is planned Let us resolve that nothing will rob
to help us understand human nature us of it, that it will be active, that
and the problems people are meet- it will be the starting point for new
ing today in order that we may be and bigger things,
more sensitive to the needs of oth- Let us remember that our Father
ers and more understanding. The in Heaven was speaking to every
test of our success will be measured member of the Church when He
by the number of breakdowns said, 'Therefore O ye that embark
which we prevent by extending a in the service of God, see that ye
lielping hand in time. serve Him with all your heart, might.
How wonderful is the challenge mind and strength." If we do this
our faith offers! A challenge so high our faith will never die. "We know
it calls for the best of which we are whom we have trusted."
SOME FUNDAMENTALS
By Counselor Amy Brown Lyman
'T^HE confused and disturbed con- in order. It has realized the serious-
dition of the world today, with ness of the situation surrounding its
its abnormal social and moral con- people and is trying to help solve
ditions, its economic and industrial their social and economic problems,
problems, its unemployment and I was especially impressed with the
unrest, has caused thinking men and gravity of world conditions last July
women to wonder what important when I attended a meeting of the
fundamentals have been overlooked International Council of Women in
or ignored in the world's economy, Edinburgh, Scotland, where I heard
or in life itself, that such conditions prominent women from 31 nations
are possible. discuss the pressing problems of the
Among the groups which are mak- day from many angles and from their
ing a comprehensive and prayerful various national and racial view-
study of conditions is our own points.
Church; and though we are a small These ordinarily well poised wom-
group, as world groups go, the en were greatly disturbed over the
Church is trying to set its own house serious conditions in their respective
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 343
countries. The European women This great concerted effort on the
especially were concerned, appre- part of the L. D. S. Church to help
hensive and filled with doubts and its people everywhere meet the com-
fears. They had not forgotten the plex conditions with which they are
last war with its consequent hard- faced has been most inspiring and
ships, sufferings and tragedies, and comforting to the people themselves,
now they feared another. Earnest and has won the admiration of other
prayers were offered daily in this groups. Definite objectives have
great convention that enlightenment been set up by the Church, the at-
would come to the world; that men's tainment of which will be sure to
hearts would be softened and turned bring good results,
from hate, selfishness, greed and war; The Church in its Welfare Pro-
and that the Golden Rule might be gram has been mindful of the values
revitalized and adopted universally and lessons of the past; mindful of
as a guide. the abstract principles of right and
Social philosophers, economists, wrong. It has stood firmly for those
newspaper columnists and other ex- fundamental principles and stand-
perts in our country are daily dis- ards and home-spun philosophies
cussing the complex situation and which have stood the test of time,
trying to point the way to recovery which apply in all ages and which
and to peace. do not change even in a changing
Dr. Henry C. Link in his new book world. It has emphasized the fact
The Rediscovery oi Man has made that work, self-effort and self-reliance
some interesting observations and are basic elements of personal secur-
constructive suggestions. He infers ity and independence, and to this
that much of our present-day trouble end it has sought to create work and
is due to the fact that the world has opportunity; that industry, thrift
drifted too far away from the funda- and economy are the foundation
mental principles and standards de- stones of success in business and in
veloped by the past, too far away home life; that too much social
from the great moral laws set up in security weakens personal security;
the Old Testament, too far away from that honesty pays; that straight-
the teachings and ideals of the forwardness, dependability and in-
Savior. He declares that conditions tegrity pay; that debt, whether na-
would improve readily if people tional or personal, is bondage; that
would but accept these universal waste is calamitous; that installment
truths and follow these laws. buying is too expensive generally to
Dr. Link's social philosophy in be indulged in.
many respects is not unlike that of In connection with this philos-
our own Church which a few years ophy the Church, as always, seeks
ago was re-emphasized and reaffirm- to develop faith in God and in His
ed by the First Presidency when they purposes, and obedience to the
issued a Recall to social service, to teachings of the Gospel,
the Christian ideals of the brother- It is gratifying that the Relief So-
hood of man, to religion— applied ciety is supporting and nobly assist-
religion, faith and spirituality. ing in this great Welfare Program.
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The General Board is most grateful has tried to use constructive, intel-
for and appreciative of the efforts ligent methods based on sound prin-
put forth by Relief Society women ciples, tempered with love, sympathy
in this additional work, as well as in and mercy. It has studied the prob-
carrying forward the regular cultural lems connected with this work seri-
and educational program of the Or- ously. It has tried to keep constantly
ganization. in mind the importance of normal
An article by President George H. life and opportunity for the indi-
Brimhall has stimulated me greatly, viduals and families it has served.
One excerpt from it I shall read. It has aimed to hold sacred their
He asks and answers his own pointed personalities and their confidences,
question. It is: ''Who are the It has tried to develop within them
honest, constructive, helpful mem- strength rather than weakness. And
bers of the Church?" now it is giving its full strength,
"They are those who pray for the power and support to the Priest-
poor and pay their fast offerings; they hood and the Church in this last
are those who pray for the building great project,
up of Zion, and pay their tithing; Relief Society women are con-
they are those who pray for the mis- stantly striving for greater knowledge
sionaries and contribute to their and understanding of the world we
support; they are those who pray for live in— for knowledge of the laws
forgiveness and forgive others; they of health, science, economics, morals
are those who pray for health and and religion. Their chief study,
keep the Word of Wisdom; they are however, is religion— the Gospel of
those who pray for divine support of Jesus Christ. They stress the im-
leaders, and stand for their counsel portance of good homes and the
and advice." proper rearing of children.
The Relief Society has just passed We as Latter-day Saints have
its 97th birthday. All down through constantly been taught that the
its history it has been a faithful and great object of the Church is to assist
loyal auxiliary to the Church, and in the establishment of the Kingdom
a devoted aid to the Priesthood. of God here on this earth. Recently
It has been both conservative and in an address before the students of
progressive; it has looked both back- Brigham Young University Brother
ward and forward, cherishing all of Stephen L Richards discussed the
the virtues of the past but always subject in a most interesting manner,
facing bravely the needs of the fu- He began thus: "How can we estab-
ture with its new conditions. At lish the Kingdom of God? By liv-
various periods during its existence ing, teaching, and establishing the
the Organization has emphasized laws of that Kingdom. WTiat are
movements that were of particular the laws of that Kingdom? They
importance to the women of each are the decalogue and the Gospel of
era. Jesus Christ."
Since the day of its organization Relief Society women stand firm-
in 1842, one of its major activities ly for the observance of the great
has been welfare work. In this it moral laws of the Bible. They stand
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 345
firmly for the Gospel of Jesus Christ all of the teachings and requirements
which has been fully restored. Their of the Gospel and to be considered
constant desire is to observe all the and known as orthodox Latter-day
laws of the Kingdom, to live up to Saints.
ADDRESS
By President Louise Y. Rohison
'lAT'E are near the close of this
wonderful Conference. I
wish I had words to express my
appreciation to our Heavenly Fa-
ther for His Spirit that has been
with us, for the beautiful weather
we have had, and for these marvel-
ous singers. In all my life I have
never heard anything lovelier, and
I do not expect to, not only in this
life, but in eternity. It gives me
great joy to give these sisters a bless-
ing for themselves and for their
families who have made sacrifices in
order that they might come, some
of them a long way.
We have been blessed with the
visit of our Hawaiian sisters. I am
sure those who have had contact
with them will never forget their
wonderful testimonies, their loving,
sweet spirits, their beautiful, colorful
leis, and how freely they have help-
ed us in all of our gatherings. I
have never experienced anything
more thrilling in my life than my
visit to these wonderful women—
to their wonderful people. I said at
the time, I had wondered when I
was a young woman why missionar-
ies were sent to those far-away
islands when we were just settling
this valley and hardly had homes
of our own— why send missionaries
such a long distance to the Sand-
wich Islands? But when I met these
people, saw their faith— the real
blood of Israel— I could see why. I
am sure you will let me express to
Sister Salm and her sisters our love
for them, and our aloha, and ask
them to take it to their people when
they return home.
We have so many things for which
to be thankful. A few days ago I
picked up a little book that Presi-
dent Grant had given me, entitled
Finding God in MiUeisville. I had
read this interesting narrative many
times, but never before realized that
the ideas which changed Mr. Thorn-
ton from a man who did not believe
in God to an earnest, ardent worker
for humanity were the very prin-
ciples which were given to Relief So-
ciety by the Prophet Joseph Smith.
Those of you who have read the
book will remember Mr. Thornton's
early business life; he was quite sure
there was no God and thought only
of material profit. Then a change
came. Let me read a few paragraphs:
"Gradually, as I got nearer to my people,
they began to move in close to me. With-
out realizing it until long afterward I had
made my first great religious discovery.
I had discovered my fellow men — my
brothers. The closer I got to them, the
more I admired them. The amount of
love, and patience and simple faith in the
average lowly man and woman became
to me nothing short of marvelous. Men
whom I had always regarded as rather slow-
346 - MAY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
witted, ordinary fellows, I found to be real
heroes when I got under their skins. Hu-
man personality became to me the most
marvelous and precious and wonderful
thing in the world,"
It is the human personality which
Relief Society is trying to develop;
it is seeing beyond the service the
real heroes and heroines and meet-
ing them with love and patience.
As evidence I have here a report of
the activities for last year of our
wonderful women.
Only last month the stakes were
asked for a report of the work done
by Relief Society for the Church
Welfare. This is entirely distinct
from the annual Relief Society re-
port. One hundred twelve stakes
responded within two weeks' time.
This is the compiled report:
629,325 quarts fruit and vegetables canned.
7,792 pounds fruit and vegetables dried.
195 glasses jelly.
25 pounds soap.
2,676 quilts made.
84 rugs made.
1 mattress and 5 sheets made.
11,902 articles of clothing — this includes
17 layettes.
$12,422,01 in cash.
Seventy-five stakes reported suc-
cessful gardens planted. Figures,
however, do not tell the real story.
If there were time I would like to
read the 112 reports, as they are all
equally inspiring, but as that is not
possible I have taken a few of the
first received at the office:
"In January, 1938, a cooperative
program on sanitation, beautifica-
tion and thrift was carried out by the
Elders' Quorums and the Stake Re-
lief Society. A definite assignment
was given for each month from Jan-
uary to October. The program in-
cluded fighting flies and weeds,
planting vegetable and flower gar-
dens, installing and painting sani-
tary toilets and rest rooms, and
screening doors and windows. The
climax was a flower show in Septem-
ber which was a grand success. A
great deal of activity was reported,
our visiting teachers and the elders
gathering the reports. An educa-
tional questionnaire was carried by
the stake board on special visits to
wards. The object of this was to
teach mothers how to buy, and what
should be made and produced at
home to meet the minimum stand-
ard of living. There was splendid
response to this. In June, 1938, the
ward bishops and Relief Society
presidents made a survey of the wel-
fare produce and clothing on hand
in their wards. The results of this
survey were compiled and a system
of exchange of produce between
wards was carried on, which was a
great help."
Another stake reports: "A year
ago it was called to our attention
that our stake was at the very bottom
of the list in our region when it
came to the payment of fast offer-
ings. We knew that the success of
the Welfare Plan rested largely up-
on the payment of fast offerings
together with other voluntary con-
tributions. So we, as Stake Relief
Society officers, decided we would
try and do something about it in-
asmuch as it is the mother in the
home who plans the meals, orders
the groceries and administers much
of the family income. Therefore,
we felt that the women in our stake
were just as much to blame for the
condition as the men were." Plans
were made and executed and the
report concludes: ''While we do not
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wish to claim credit for this, there had sent the request for these re-
has been a substantial increase in ports, the following report was re-
fast offerings during the last year." ceived, written by hand:
Another stake reports: "Ninety- "We have a stake sewing center
three families have been taught how well supervised by an efficient Relief
to can their own fruits and vege- Society sister where women from all
tables, with the use of a pressure our wards come to work. Some of
cooker. Six hundred'eighteen hours these women have been taught sew-
have been spent in sewing— sixty- ing from the first step. We also
eight women donating their services have a loom, with one of our women
and ninety-six women being in- in charge, where hundreds of yards
structed. Twenty-eight women sew- of rugs have been woven for the
ed one article for themselves and one needy and also for custom work."
article for the Welfare Center. Thir- One stake prepared its report un-
ty families have been assisted with der "Wards," "Priesthood Projects,"
new and used clothing and quilts, and "What Relief Society Did To-
Several talks on beautification and ward Helping the Projects." Where
gardening have been given in each the Priesthood project was the pro-
ward. Plants, seeds and bulbs have duction of sugar beets, the Relief
been exchanged, very choice flowers Society women served hot dinners
raised, many homes painted, meet- to 60 men in the spring at time of
ing houses and grounds improved planting, and again to 35 men when
and some vacant lots cleaned of the crop was harvested. Where to-
weeds. Where school delinquency mato and corn raising were the
is found to be due to lack of proper projects. Relief Society canned 1,600
clothing, we have supplied this so cans of tomatoes and dried 750
that children might continue their pounds of corn. This stake reports
school work and feel at ease with this interesting item: "During the
other children." summer months of last year the jan-
From another stake the Relief itor in one of the wards asked his
Society officers of all the wards urged bishop for a two months' leave of
the women to raise good gardens absence. The general fund of Re-
and can surplus vegetables and fruit lief Society in that ward was entirely
for winter use. If any of the women depleted, so the president asked the
did not know how to use a pressure bishop to let the women do the jan-
cooker someone was sent into the itorial work for those two months,
homes to teach them. There was receiving the janitor's compensation,
also much surplus canning done in This was done and the Relief So-
the homes and turned over to the ciety general fund was increased
bishops for Church Welfare. One $80."
ward reports they have a family One stake reports: "$600 has
where the mother is nearly blind, been contributed to the stake presi-
Relief Society women do the sewing, dency for welfare purposes by the
mending and darning for this fam- stake Relief Society. Eight hun-
ily as well as supplying the needed dred articles of remodeled clothing
bedding. have been supplied, and Relief So-
Only three days after Sister Lund ciety women have been sent into
348 - MAY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
the homes to teach and assist the I could tell you many interesting
families in sewing. The Relief So- happenings, but from the money in-
ciety furnished 354 women and the vested Walla Walla Relief Society
bishops 82 men to do 940 days' can- purchased two barrels of flour for
ning. One ward conducted a farm the storehouse,
project in which 30 women spent An outstanding item from one of
4 days cutting corn from the cob. the stakes reads: "Members of Re-
These same ward Relief Society lief Society in one ward cared for
women donated the food and served two little motherless girls while the
125 meals to men while they la- older children attended school for
bored on this ward farm. Several nine months."
of our wards have purchased cook- I feel very much like Sister Wen-
ers and sealers and paid a woman delboe of Cache stake, who added a
to go into the homes of needy fam- postscript to her reports as follows:
ilies to take care of fruit furnished ''Our activities are many more than
by the bishop, or vegetables grown the ones I have reported, but the
in their own gardens. As a special women . do so many kind and
project to help forward the Church thoughtful acts, and when they have
Welfare Program, the Relief Soci- finished they think no more about
eties have made a plea for every them; so in this way many activities
home to have a garden. The re- are not reported."
spouse has been very commendable. If the Savior were to ask today,
A very large per cent of our mem- as He once asked His disciples:
bers have grown sufficient vegetables ''What do ye more than others?"
to supply their own needs as well as these reports would be the answer,
to can for winter use." This type of activity is only one
phase of Relief Society work; it does
npHESE reports are so interesting bring us close to the needs of others,
and vital that I find it difficult In our desire to serve those of our
to leave them. I must read one Father's children who are in distress,
more item and this time I shall men- we strengthen our own faith. We
tion the name. I quote: "Walla realize that our first responsibility
Walla did a unique thing. This is to our children, to teach them
ward was not a part of our stake faith in God and help them to un-
when the budget allotment was derstand the principles of the Gos-
made, but they desired to do some- pel. In this important work, wom-
thing for the welfare work. Each en receive help through Relief So-
woman received ten cents from the ciety. Mothers gain insight into
Organization, and was asked to put many problems of child-life by dis-
the ten cents to work and bring cussing their problems with other
back as much as she could from the earnest women who are eager to im-
investment. One woman bought prove. Young mothers are benefit-
eggs, set a hen, sold fryers and re- ted by the calm faith of older sisters
turned $1.50. Another sister bought who have reared their families. On-
ten cents worth of beans and ly recently a young grandmother ex-
brought back $5. Another invested pressed concern that her daughter
in tomato seeds and returned $3." and other young mothers today do
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 349
not have the faith-promoting influ- why, who teach them the sacred
ence of mothers and grandmothers, privilege of partaking of the Sacra-
as girls and young women of her ment, the importance of honesty,
generation had— women who had truth and sharing with others, make
joined the Church in foreign coun- faith in God a part of their lives,
tries, who had given up comfortable I pray God our Father that He
homes, and without regret had walk- will bless you, and let us blend our
ed across the plains and established prayers with those of the heart-
homes in a new country. Their tes- broken women of Europe— our sis-
timony of the truthfulness of the ters— that their burdens will be
Gospel, and the calm positive as- lightened.
surance of the power of faith had a May our Father bless you with in-
lasting effect upon the lives of young fluence in your homes that your
people. Relief Society must try to children will love the Gospel. One
develop this same faith. We must of the sweetest things that can come
help our young people to distinguish to parents is to have a child know
between the essentials and non-es- the Gospel is true, and have a desire
sentials in life. to work for it.
In a recent testimony meeting a I do want to thank you for com-
member of the General Board told ing to this conference; it has been
us of an early experience which had a joy. My heart is so full of grati-
stayed in her memory all her life, tude to my Heavenly Father. We
Her father had taken a load of hay have prayed for this conference, that
to the city, and it was long past the we might give you something that
time when he was expected home, would help you carry on your work.
The mother was greatly worried, but A week or ten days ago the General
she took her very small children into Board of Relief Society held a fast
the bedroom with her, and each of meeting, a prayer meeting, that our
them offered a prayer for the fa- Father in Heaven would bless us
ther's return. A short time after both yesterday and today and
this mother and her children had throughout this conference, that you
prayed, the father came. Prayer was sisters would have the Spirit of the
answered. To those small children Lord, and bring it with you and
this established the fact that there have your hearts filled with it. I
was a Father in Heaven who did want to thank Him for answering
answer prayer. This was a beautiful our prayers. I want to thank you
foundation — so easy to establish, for making these prayers possible,
but wise mothers must continue to May God bless you and take you
build. Faith is peculiar— it can grow home in safety and keep you until
stronger even in the face of hard- we meet again I ask in His name,
ship and sorrow, or it can and does and I do it with all the earnestness
leave if one neglects to nourish it. of my heart. I do know that God
The more prayer becomes a regular lives; I do know that He answers
habit, the easier faith grows. Moth- our prayers; I do know that He loves
ers who keep the Sabbath Day as you sisters who work for His chil-
we are taught it should be observed, dren; and I do know that He will
who help children to understand bless you.
ANNUAL REPORT
Julia A. F. Lund, General Secretary
TT gives me great pleasure to ac-
knowledge the services of the
stake and mission secretaries. They
have been most cooperative and re-
sponsive to every request made of
them. The reports were in excellent
condition this year, with quite the
usual number of perfect ones, the
others showing slight errors which
we are sure the experience of the
present year will correct.
This has been a year of phenom-
enal growth in the number of or-
ganizations. The following is the
detailed statement of new organiza-
tions and reorganizations since last
conference:
Date
November, 1938
November, 1938
March, 1939
Date Stake
January, 1939 Blaine
January, 1939 Liberty
February, 1939 Taylor
October, 1938 Teton
March, 1939 Utah
Organizations
Stake
Nampa (Taken from
Boise Stake)
Weiser (Taken from
Boise Stake)
Provo (Taken from
Utah Stake)
Reorganizations
Released
Jennie Sanford
Cornelia S. Lund
Allie R. Jensen
Edna Atchley
Achsa E. Paxman
Appointed President
Minnie Rose
Edith H. Brown
Inez B. Allred
Appointed President
Eva Pond
Emma G. Phillips
Myrtle N. Passey
Emma Cordon
Edith Y. Booth
cJeach-cJitmng Champaign
/^NCE again we call the attention
of Relief Society organizations
to the annual Church-wide teach-
ti thing campaign.
From the Progress of the Church
we quote:
"A short talk on tithing is planned
to be given in every meeting of
Aaronic or Melchizedek Priesthood,
and all of the auxiliary associations,
during the month of May."
The influence of mothers upon
family members with regard to the
observance of this great law is a po-
tent one. "A wife and mother fully
converted to the law of tithing usu-
ally means a household where this
obligation is met."
We desire all Relief Society or-
ganizations to give careful attention
to the request of the Presiding Bish-
opric that short talks be given at the
regular meetings during the month
of May.
General Relief Society Consolidated Statement
Of Cash Receipts And Disbursements
Stake, Ward and Mission Reports, Year Ended December 31, 1938
By Julia A. F. Lund, General Secretary
Balance Cash on Hand January 1, 1938:
Charity Fund $ 62,622.22
General Fund 114,372.53
Annual Dues
Wheat Trust Fund 3,999.51
Stake Board Funds 39,811.41
Total $ 220,805.67
Cash Receipts:
Charity Fund $107,703.40
General Fund 144,067.65
Annual Dues 30,897.56
Stake Board Receipts 60,910.76
Total $ 343,579.37
Total Cash to Account for $ 564,385.04
Cash Disbursements:
Charity Fund $ 83,594.82
General Fund 153,227.62
Annual Dues 28,865.65
Wheat Trust Fund 568.00
Stake Board Disbursements 60,498.50
Total Disbursements $ 326,754.59
Balance Cash on Hand Decemhei 31, 1938:
Charity Fund $ 86,730.80
General Fund 105,212.56
Annual Dues 2,031.91
Wheat Trust Fund 3,431.51
Stake Board Funds 40,223.67
Total $ 237,630.45
Merchandise on Hand January 1, 1938 $ 10,208.29
Merchandise Received 21,958.10
Total Merchandise $ 32,166.39
Merchandise Disbursed $ 19,105.85
Balance on Hand December 31, 1938 13,060.54
Total $ 32,166.39
Consolidated Statement Of Financial Condition
Stake, Ward and Mission Reports, At December 31, 1938
ASSETS
Cash on Hand, All Funds $ 237,630.45
Cash on Hand, Presiding Bishop's Office 409,974.74
(Wheat Trust Fund)
Other Invested Funds 27,648.40
Total $ 675,253.59
Real Estate and Buildings $158,365.77
Furniture and Fixtures 94,181.30
Total $ 252,547.07
Other Stake Board Assets $ 67,270.63
Other Assets 38»735-03
106,005.66
Total $1,033,806.32
LIABILITIES
Indebtedness $ 2,146.33
Stake Board Net Assets 106,294.79
Balance Net Assets 925,365.20
Total $1,033,806.32
STATISTICS
Membership, January 1, 1938
Executive Officers 16,026
Visiting Teachers 25,486
Other Members 33^552
Total Membership January 1, 1938 75*064
Increase:
Admitted to Membership During Year i3»47i
Total Membership and Increase 88,535
Decrease:
Removed or Resigned 7,269
Died 1,026
Total Decrease 8,295
Total Membership 80,240
Membership, Decemhei 31, 1938:
Executive and Special Officers 18,392
Visiting Teachers 26,081
Other Members 3S'1^7
Total Membership December 31, 1938 80,240
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 353
The Total Membership Includes:
General Officers and Board Members 24
Stake Officers and Board Members i'493
Mission Presidents and Officers 108
Number of Stakes 124
Number of Missions 35
Number of Relief Society Ward and Branch Organizations 2,002
Number of Visiting Teachers' Districts 14,678
Number of L. D. S. Families in Wards 152,709
Number of Relief Society Magazines Taken 43'25^
Number of Executive Officers Taking Relief Society Magazine 1,503
Number of Meetings Held in Wards 57^996
Number of Stake Meetings Held ^433
Number of Stake and Ward Officers' (Union) Meetings Held 1,250
Number of Ward Conferences Held i>554
Average Attendance at Ward Meetings 36,526
Number of Visits by Visiting Teachers 1,055,618
Number of Families Helped 16,507
Number of Days Spent with the Sick 32,978
Number of Special Visits to the Sick and Homebound 208,061
Number of Bodies Prepared for Burial 1^478
Number of Visits to Wards by Stake Officers 7*987
COMPARATIVE FIGURES FROM RELIEF SOCIETY REPORTS
1936
Paid for Charitable Purposes $66,189.48
Total or Present Membership 73,062
No. of Relief Society Organizations 1,782
No. of Relief Society Magazines Taken 40,075
No. of Days Spent with the Sick 39,9^9
No. of Special Visits to Sick and Homebound .... 215,260
No. of Families Helped 15*152
No. of Visits by Relief Society Officers to Wards 6,690
No. of Visits by Relief Society Visiting Teachers 986,687
DISTRIBUTION OF MEMBERSHIP OF RELIEF SOCIETY
Stakes Missions
Arizona 2,953 Argentina 173
California 3,880 Australia 184
Canada 1,410 Canada 97
Colorado 523 Europe 4,483
Hawaii 398 Hawaii 535
Idaho 11,173 Mexico 182
Illinois 225 New Zealand 490
Mexico 155 Samoa 445
Nevada 1,017 South Africa 109
New York 201 Tahiti 254
Oregon 961 Tonga 214
Utah 41*333 United States 6,664
Wyoming 2,181
Total Membership in Missions.... 13,830
1937
1938
7,632.09
$83,594.82
75,064
80,240
1,918
2,002
41,721
43*252
36,477
32*978
204,125
208,061
16,185
16,507
7*595
7*987
991,623
1,055,618
Total Membership in Stakes 66,410
Total Membership in Stakes and Missions 80,240
(Note: In the foregoing report all funds are held and disbursed in the various
wards, with the exception of the Annual Membership Dues.)
LESSON DEPARTMENT
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Youth Faces A World Of Change
Lesson 8
By Paul Popenoe, Sc. D.
(Director Institute of Family Relations, Los Angeles, California)
YOUTH always faces a new young feel that there is no place for
world,— new to it,— but the them in the world. This deprives
present younger generation society of the enthusiasm, idealism,
faces two conditions that no young- and energy of youth, which it sorely
er generation has faced in American needs; and probably tends to make
history: youth more radical and revolution-
I. They are fewer in number, ary, more inclined to protest more
therefore more in a minority. violently, than is normal for adoles-
In the past, this has been a na- cence; they feel so much outnum-
tion of youth. The frontier was bered that they think they can at-
pushed back, the West was con- tract attention only if they shout,—
quered, the Civil War was fought to speak figuratively,
by young men,— largely a group that II. The gap between the older
would now be "college boys". Tak- and younger generation is becoming
ing 21 as an arbitrary line of divi- greater than ever, due mainly to city
sion, it will be found that 75 years life, where the children and parents
ago half of the entire population of have so little effective association,—
the United States was under 21 as compared with farm life where
years of age. the whole family shares in a co-op-
The falling birth-rate has changed erative enterprise. This intensifies
this situation. In the United States the feeling of youth that it is not
as a whole only one-third of the pop- an integral part of society but a
ulation, in Southern California group apart, in opposition to, and in
scarcely more than one-fourth, is conflict with, the older generation,
under 21 years of age. In other Many of the results of this chang-
words, where youth was formerly in ing situation are familiar to every
equal numbers with its elders, it is thoughtful person. For example:
now outnumbered two to one, or, 1. Small {amilies (the average in
in Southern California, three to one. the educated part of the American
This is becoming a nation of old population is now two children,
people, who are inevitably inclined which means that there are just as
to run things from their own point many families smaller than this, as
of view and unconsciously for their there are larger) give the child less
own benefit (witness the great crop chance to learn family relations, to
of old-age-pension schemes). In- acquire the habit of give-and-take,
evitably, this tends to make the to practice the invaluable art of re-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, MAY - 355
specting other people's rights; of controls,— less pressure on them to
protecting himself from the older make a success of marriage. They
and stronger while in turn protect- are perhaps in a large city where no
ing the younger and weaker. Parents one knows them and no one cares
may have more time for work, more what happens to them. Society
freedom for play, if they have fewer seems determined to make it as hard
children (obviously, they would as possible for them to succeed, as
have still more if they were child- easy as possible for them to fail!
less, and some deliberately adopt High schools and colleges, even
this extreme course); but this is some churches, have been slow to
offset by the lack of that experience do anything practical that would en-
which parenthood brings to the en- able young people to marry more
richment of life, and is also offset successfully. Fortunately, a nation-
tragically by the greater loneliness wide interest in the subject is now
and feeling of frustration and fail- manifest, and conditions are chang-
ure later in life. ing for the better. The spread of
During the World War a Ger- family relations courses in the
man psychologist published a study schools, the establishment of clinics
of 100 married couples, each of and counseling centers like the In-
whom had had but one child, a son, stitute of Family Relations in Los
and had lost this only child in battle. Angeles, will make it possible for
It was a tragic story of defeat and many persons to get help who in the
despair that the interviews brought past have groped blindly,
to light. But disease or accident may 3. The modern, urban family is
leave parents childless, just as surely loosely integrated,— it is not a tight-
as war. ly knit unit (one for all and all for
Beyond this, history is filled with one) like the pioneer family which
the remarks of those who, at the more nearly represents the normal,
close of a life spent in the pursuit biological, family unit. There is less
of fame, have described bitterly the training for character and citizen-
futility and disillusionment of it all, ship in it (no matter how much re-
agreeing with The Preacher that sponsibility the schools may assume,
"All is vanity." But I do not remem- the home must still take primary re-
ber ever reading of a father who, sponsibility for training children in
after successfully bringing up a character, religion, health, and rec-
worthy family, expressed regret over reation), because there is less shar-
a misspent life. ing of activity. The family's advan-
2. The modern family is more tages in this respect increase pro-
independent,— too often detached portionately with the number of
from its kinship. The whole burden children it contains,
of making a success in life is placed The farm family has a great ad-
on two young people,— husband and vantage over the city family. Every
wife,— without the help they would measure that strengthens rural life,
have had, in the pioneer period, that gives the farmer justice, that
from friends and relatives. At the makes the farm more attractive to
same time, there are fewer social young people and keeps them on it.
356 - MAY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
is indirectly a measure to strengthen
the nation's family life. The farm
family does for its members, natur-
ally and well, a lot of things that the
city schools can do for their pupils
only with difficulty and at great ex-
pense.
4. The family is individualistic.
Each child gets more attention, and
the individual rather than the fam-
ily is the collective unit. This makes
it hard for the child to adjust to life
later, when he goes out into the
world and has to get along with
other people.
The resulting lack of "adjustabil-
ity" is a handicap in many ways.
Some young people fail to marry,
because they have not learned how
to get along with others. Dr. Joseph
K. Folsom has calculated that, where
a girl one hundred years ago could
choose a satisfactory husband if she
had five eligible men to select from,
her granddaughter today must know
25 eligibles in order to have a chance
to make as satisfactory a choice as
her grandmother made. This results
from the greater variety of patterns
and backgrounds (emphasized in the
first lesson of this series) and the less
tolerance that people today have.
Incidentally, how many unmarried
young women today actually know
25 eligible men?
There is probably less harmony
among those who do marry. It is
sometimes alleged that the increas-
ing divorce rate does not show mar-
ried people to be less happy than
in ''the old days," but merely that
they will not put up with as much
unhappiness as their ancestors did.
Where their ancestors suffered in
silence, they will get a divorce. There
is some truth in this, but it is far
from the whole truth. No one can
apply it seriously to such a condi-
tion as that existing in Los Angeles
County, where an actual majority of
all marriages end in the divorce
courts! If it is true that we won't
put up with difficulties the way our
grandparents did, it is also true that
we can't,— we have never learned
how.
The consequence is an increase in
all sorts of maladjustments, neuroses,
and actual insanity, as well as in
marital misery.
Such problems as these urgently
demand attention today. Families
of normal size, with the children
growing up to be "family-minded,"
will avoid many of the social and
emotional difficulties associated with
the present all-too-common one-
and two-child households. A more
closely knit family life, with more
systematic preparation of young
people for marriage and more help
available for them after they marry,
will have far-reaching influence on
the happiness and success in life
of both older and younger genera-
tions.
Questions and PiobJems
1. Do you think that a "Youth
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Movement" helps to promote bet-
ter family life?
2. What sort of chores can be
found for the children of a city fam-
ily, that will help them to feel that
they have a real part in the work
of the world?
3. What makes some^ women
think home-makers inferior to wom-
en carrying on careers outside the
home?
4. Do children tend to prevent
the desire for divorce or merely to
prevent the carrying out of the de-
sire? What makes you think so?
5. What kind of social, econom-
ic, and industrial changes are likely
to affect family life during the next
ten years? What effects do you
think these changes will have on
the family?
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Frontispiece — San Francisco Fair 360
Brigham Young Looks Out of the Documents John Henry Evans 361
Church Participation at the Golden Gate International Exposition..Gladys R. Winter 366
Did Nauvoo Have A Spirit? Vida Fox Clawson 369
White House Conference On Children In A Democracy.. ..Pres. Louise Y, Robison 372
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The Shining Heart Sibyl S. Bowen 405
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Church Welfare as Interpreted by the Rehef Society 388
Happenings Annie Wells Cannon 401
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Our Viewpoint 403
The Legend of the Green Gates Edith Y. Booth 410
The Body's Need For Vitamins Dr. Rose H. Widtsoe 411
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20, 1897, as a part of the Jubilee Festivities commemorating
the semi-centennial celebration of the entrance of the Pioneers
into the valley of Salt Lake.
Elder James H. Moyle, in behalf of the Brigham Young
Memorial Association, presented the monument to the public,
and President Wilford Woodruff proclaimed, 'In the name of
God I now unveil this monument," and the stars and stripes fell
away from the heroic figure of Brigham Young. Governor Heber
M.Wells then said:
"... I now accept this monument in honor of Brigham
Young and the Pioneers.
''Let us, my fellow citizens, here and now, in the presence
of these surviving pioneers, whose forms are bent with toil,
whose heads are whitened by the frosts of time and whose hearts
are throbbing with gratitude to God that they have lived to see
this day— and in the presence of ail this honorable attendance let
us resolve to guard well this monument, to shield it from the
vandal and the marauder, to keep it as a solemn trust, to treasure
it as a sacred heritage.
"As we look upon its sculptural beauty, let the granite of its
base, hewn from our own mountain fastnesses, denote the hardy
heroism of the men and women who founded and reared this
splendid commonwealth; and let the bronze statue, carved by our
native sculptor (Cyrus E. Dallin), symbolize the civilization and
culture to which our people have attained. . . .
"And now let me indulge the hope that this monument may
stand on this historic spot as stands these rugged hills— 'rock-
ribbed and ancient as the sun'; that it may endure as they endure
down through the ages and be remembered ever as a tribute of
respect paid by a grateful people to their pioneers, as an emblem
of half a century of wisdom, progress and as an offering of peace
and good will to the blended brotherhood of Utah."
Elder B. H. Roberts in the Tabernacle that afternoon in
addressing the pioneers said, "... I congratulate you that the
monument which you have erected speaks only of that which
is good. It will not speak of man's victory over his fellows,
it will not commemorate scenes of carnage and desolation, the
groans of the dying and the shouts of the victors. It speaks of
the triumphs of peace, of the victory of mind over matter, of
fertility over sterility; such is the story it will tell to future genera-
tions "
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Vol. XXVI JUNE, 1939 No.6
Brigham Young Looks
• Out of the Documents
By John Henry Evans
ONE of the perpetually exciting et hidden away from view. It was
things (to me) is to watch a from this pocket that she drew the
man or a woman rise gradu- notebook on this occasion. Over her
ally out of an old diary, an old jour- shoulders, slightly bent, was a plaid
nal, or an old letter, yellowed with shawl, on her head a calico sunbon-
age and deeply creased, to re-enact net stiffened with ribs, and on her
his or her part on an imaginary stage arm rested the handle of a wicker
—always heroically, of course, for basket, in which were some eggs,
everyone is a star performer in his fresh-laid, and butter, hand-molded
own eyes. And the merest bit of and all the water squeezed out. The
faded paper will bring back to life ultimate destination of these articles
one of the dear departed. was the village store, where she
Not long ago, up in Idaho, a wom- hoped to exchange them for sugar
an showed me lovingly an old note- and spices— all but the Lord's tenth,
book that had belonged to her grand- which she delivered to the Bishop
mother. Tlie grandmother had lived as His representative. And when the
in Huntsville, Utah, and this was Bishop wrote the amount and added
her tithing record, neatly penciled his signature, how her face lighted
and okeyed on each page by Bishop up, as one who had never let the
McKay, father of our President Mc- Deity down!
Kay. We were standing in line,
waiting for our turn to pick up the JN the case of Brigham Young the
various items that go into a between- picture is more difficult to pro-
meetings luncheon, and so I had duce, because the parts of it have to
little time to examine the pages of be gathered with infinite pains and
that precious document. But as I pieced together, much as the chil-
thumbed it, there arose before me dren put together the parts of a
a picture of its original owner. puzzle map. For there are literally
A smallish woman, this grand- hundreds of journals, diaries, letters,
mother of my imagination, not so statements, what not, by men and
very old then. She had on a gray women who knew him more or less
woolen skirt, one of those many- intimately,
folded affairs, with a capacious pock- Only a few months ago, for in-
362 - JUNE, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
stance, President Grant told us a
new story about Brigham Young, in
which he himself figured.
President Grant was a boy then.
That would be when he was perhaps
eight or ten and President Young
about sixty-four, bearded and gray.
With other boys of his own age,
Heber Grant used to jump on the
back of a sleigh as it sped past his
home on Main Street, ride a block
or two, then catch a ride back on
another sleigh. And once Brigham
Young came along, and Heber leap-
ed on the runner at the rear. But
when he thought to drop off, the
sleigh was going so fast that he
feared lest he light on his head in-
stead of his feet. As they approach-
ed a stream coming out of the can-
yon, with slush in it, the President
spied the boy.
"Stop, Brother Isaac!"
Heber, looking a bit scared, was
taken into the sleigh, wrapped in a
laprobe, and placed by the side of
the great man.
Then he was plied with questions.
What was his name? Where did
he live? ''I knew your father and
loved him very much." Was the
boy warm and comfortable? And
would he come and see me often
in the Lion House, which was only
a little way off?
"Often," says President Grant,
"when the bell at the Lion House
rang for prayers at night, I used to
go over and kneel down with the
family in the front room, and upon
more than one occasion, while he
prayed, I caught myself looking up
to see if the Lord was not actually
standing there!"
npHAT gives us one peep at the
great pioneer*s character. George
D. Pyper gives another, in which is
revealed the alertness and presence
of mind of the President.
George was about ten years old.
"The President had purchased a
band of small Mexican mules to be
used on the street cars. These were
first driven into the corral at the
rear of the barn, to be lassoed, then
manger-broken.
"I opened the door leading from
the barn to the corral and stood
there watching Charles Crabtree in
his effort to catch the mules. Finally
he was successful in lassoing one
at the far end of the corral. At the
same moment the animal caught
sight of the open door at which I
was standing, and with an awful
snort, came toward me like a Bengal
tiger.
"I must surely have been killed or
at least seriously injured had not a
friendly hand grasped me and pulled
me out of the doorway, closed the
door, and shot the bolt. It was none
too soon, for the mule came against
the barrier like a catapult. As doors
were doors in those days, the brute
was stopped.
"I was awfully scared, but wholly
reassured when I looked up into the
kindly blue eyes of Brigham Young."
nPHE late Zina Y. Card, daughter
of Brigham Young, told me a
story that reveals the powerful sym-
pathies of this interesting man.
It was in 1856. The last of the
handcart companies was dragging its
tired way into the Salt Lake valley
from the eastern ridge. The com-
pany had been trapped in a late No-
vember snow and blizzard back there
in the mountains. Many of them
had died of starvation and the cold.
Rescue parties had been sent from
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JUNE - 363
the City, with blankets and food, reaped by later comers, after the
in wagons that were to bring the first company had gone on.
fagged and famished survivors to Nelson Whipple, with a compan-
safety and warmth. And now, hag- ion, was chopping down trees to be
gard and beaten in spirit, they were used in the cabins. Suddenly, drop-
entering the town amidst as much ping his ax, he sat on a log, com-
to-do as the circumstances warrant- pletely exhausted. In answer to a
ed. question by his friend, he answered,
On the sidelines was tHe Presi- "IVe had nothing to eat for two
dent. Zina, who was ten, stood by days." Nelson Whipple was one
his side, terribly serious, her hand of those whose food supply for the
in his. His face was grim and sol- journey had become exhausted
emn, even before the appearance of through giving away more than he
the company. Perhaps he was think- should have done to those who were
ing, not of those whose physical vi- worse off than himself, and he was
tality had triumphed over hunger too proud to ask help of others who
and the weather, but rather of those might have more. His companion
whose bodies had given out under advised him to go to President
extreme suffering and defeat and Young, but this counsel he put off
were now lying back there under the with, "Brother Brigham has more
snow in shallow graves — if the than he can attend to already."
wolves had not dug them up. However, on being pressed and see-
Zina felt the big hand clutch and ing no other way out, he went to his
tremble and jerk alternately. Some- leader.
thing was the matter. She looked ''You should have come to me
up into her father's face. He was sooner," the President chided mild-
crying! Great tears chased one an- ly. ''I haven't very much myself,
other over his cheeks and fell into only hard biscuits, but you're wel-
the gray beard. come to what I have."
Thereupon he went to his wagon,
^HEN there is that story of the took out a small bag of these bis-
hard biscuits on the Plains, while cuits, put half of them into another
the Pioneer Company rested at Gar- bag, and gave it to the young man,
den Grove, on the way between Nau- with— "When this is gone, and if
voo and the Missouri River in Iowa, you don't get any more by then,
Garden Grove was the first stop- come back to me. Only, don't go
ping place out from the town now hungry again, mind!"
being abandoned. Since spring was
approaching and the companies gRIGHAM YOUNG had great in-
would need a fresh supply of food- sight into character. With many
stuffs, it was decided to make use different kinds of jobs to do in the
of the land here. The place was new commonwealth, he sought out
fenced therefore, plowed, seeded to men to whom he could trust these
wheat and potatoes, and a large tasks. When the first missionaries
number of cabins erected— all by a left the Valley to go ta Europe, he
community of labor. The houses adjured them to keep a lookout for
were to be occupied and the harvest skilled workers wherever they went.
364 - JUNL RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
The result was that there came to first companies there were between
Utah such an accumulation of skill twenty-five and thirty thousand men,
as no similar community ever had women, and children. Most of
seen. these had insufficient equipment,
Once the President was attending clothing, provisions, and what not to
a meeting in Lehi, to the south of make a journey of that length. For
Salt Lake City. From the stand, they had been ejected from their
before the services began, he inspect- homes, their property taken or dis-
ed the congregation with those keen posed of at the most ridiculous
blue eyes of his. prices, and that expulsion had taken
Then to the Bishop: 'Who is that place before a decent preparation
young man sitting by the window, could be made. Besides, there were
at the rear left?" fifteen hundred miles between their
The Bishop cast his eyes in the lost homes and the new home in the
direction indicated. ''Oh, that is mountains — miles that included
Abram Hatch." prairie and hills and sandy desert.
"Have him call at the stand when While the objective and the general
the meeting's over. I want to see route thither had been chosen by
him." Joseph Smith, yet the responsibili-
And then, after the lapse of a ty of the trek, the execution of the
minute or two: "Who is that young plan, was left to his successor, and
fellow on the seventh row from the it is responsibility, decision-making,
back, sitting next to Brother So-and- details, that tear at the nerves and
So?" break down the strongest men.
''That's John R. Murdock." On the Plains food had to be
"Well, ask him to come up, too." grown, Indians conciliated, a bat-
Both of these young men (they talion of soldiers raised, a pioneer
were in their thirties at the time) company selected, and a thousand
were sent to open new communities particulars arranged. Besides, on ac-
— Murdock to what is now Beaver count of the call for soldier-volun-
and Hatch to the Wasatch valley, teers, the Mormons were on the
That Brigham Young's judgment Plains longer than they had expect-
was good is evidenced by the success ed. Furthermore, the plan for the
which these men met with in their trek had been materially altered by
pioneering leadership in the two that call for five hundred able-bodied
places. men, and their families would have
to be taken care of in their absence.
nrO conceive large projects and at Later, when the stream of immi-
the same time to attend to small, grants began to pour into the Salt
often petty, details— this is an ex- Lake basin, new settlements had to
tremely rare quality in men, even in be made, with good leaders, in other
great leaders. Yet Brigham Young valleys— all according to a given plan,
had this quality in a very high de- For Brigham Young, apparently,
gree. had decided to create an Inland Em-
That trek to the West must have pire under the flag of the United
been more of a heart-breaking affair States. It was to cover what is now
than we are apt to imagine. In the Utah, Nevada, and California. Lat-
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ter-day Saints in Canada and this woman have trouble with her hus-
country were to arrive by way of band? She sought out the Presi-
the overland trail; those in Euro- dent, and laid before him her griev-
pean countries, by way of the seas ance, and the President invited the
to Panama, across the isthmus, land- fractious spouse to the office, to
ing at San Diego, thence to be read him a lesson on domestic fair-
spread out over the Far West. It dealing. Did Brigham Young, on
was a gigantic scheme, the. like of his yearly trips to Southern Utah,
which we find in no other Western sleep in a bed with bugs in it, he
pioneer. said to the housewife the next morn-
To judge the size of a mind, we i"g', ''lister, whitewash will rid you
look into it. When we apply this ^^ those pests! He observed wheth-
test to Brigham Young, we cannot ^^ ff^^^s were down, the lack of
but feel that it was of noble texture ^hade trees or fruit trees, or msuffi-
and dimensional, particularly when ^J^^t care for wife or children and
to this we add his large executive ^^^^7^ told how to remedy these,
powers There was more than a religious pur-
pose in the ''all-seeing eye" over the
With this vast scheme m his ^-^^^i ^f ^i.^ ^,5^ Co-op in Salt Lake
mind, however, Brigham Young had city. It typified also the acute vi-
yet the ability to look after details ^^^^ ^f -^^ founder
and to adjust them. Did a man seek jf ^^^^ ^ ^^^ ^^^ ^ -^^ ^^^^ 3^^^.
employment? He went to the Presi- ed to each other, it was Brigham
dent, who, instead of giving him the Young and the task of conducting
charity that breaks down self-respect the Western Trek and establishing
and brings on perpetual pauperism, a commonwealth under adverse con-
found work for him to do. Did a ditions.
^^
SUNSET OVER THE TEMPLE
By Christie Lund Coles
Gold banners trail the far, infinite blue
Of the evening heaven; a roseate cloud
Is inter-mingled with the orchid hue
Of dusk and coming night that soon will shroud
This lovely, valley world where I behold
Before me now the splendor of these spires,
This high arch-angel, fearless as of old,
Etched on the sky by faith's undaunted fires.
How still and lifted is my heart, how clean
Of worldliness, when standing humbly here
I view this Temple and this twilight scene.
Draw close to faiths I cherish and hold dear.
Proud of each lofty tower and granite steeple-
Symbols of the courage of my people.
Church Participation at the Golden
Gate International Exposition
By Gladys R. Winter
LONG ago, through the efforts
of the Pioneers, the Salt Lake
valley was made an oasis in
the desert. The Church exhibit and
program at the Golden Gate Interna-
tional Exposition at San Francisco
has been credited with following this
tradition. Set in the middle of a
huge building and surrounded by
A SMALL SECTIONAL DISPLAY OF
THE MORMON TABERNACLE IN
USE AT THE CHURCH EXHIBIT.
material display and commercialism
is the Little Tabernacle, a replica
of the great Tabernacle on Temple
Square. There it stands, set in trees,
with an amazingly realistic lawn and
smooth paths. There is the familiar
dome, and the many doors open to
let us hear organ music and see a
softly lighted interior. Usually the
forty-eight seats are soon filled, and
the organist plays As The Dews
From Heav'n Distilling, which is a
signal for attendants to close the
doors, so the pictures may be shown
and the story given. 'Tour building
is an oasis in the desert— a haven of
rest" has been repeated by people
many times.
Just in front of the Tabernacle can
be viewed through a door of the
Homes and Gardens Building a sight
that seems almost an inspired setting
for the exhibit— the ethereal beauty
of the Gourt of the Moon, which has
a soothing, uplifting effect. As with
all the courts, this has a definite
color scheme, which seems especially
appointed for the Relief Society, for
its colors are blue and gold. On one
side of the path just now is a solid
bed of deep blue pansies, on the
other side an almost endless carpet
of blue hyacinths. Such beauty
truly feeds the soul. Just past the
hyacinths is a long, rectangular pool,
the tiling of which is blue, so the
water matches the sky. At frequent
intervals down its length are sprays
of water that rise in pairs from oppo-
site sides of the pool to form two
arcs as they fall back into the mid-
dle. It is always lovely in the Gourt
of the Moon— and peaceful.
nPHE lighting effects of Treasure
Island, as the Fair site is called,
are breath-taking. During her recent
visit to the Fair Mrs. Roosevelt said,
"Go from court to court, get all the
reflections in the water, and all the
different colors in the fountains."
From all over the world people
who have achieved success in every
field are coming to Treasure Island
for enjoyment and education. Many
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hear the program in the Little Tab-
ernacle, and their interest is delight-
ful and gratifying. A few organ
selections are rendered, then a
series of colored pictures are shown,
while a narrator tells the story con-
cerning them. Usually one of
the Elders sings one verse of Come,
CornGj Ye Saints. Once when it was
being sung, some of the audience
joined with the singer; two or three
times they have applauded; and ever
so many times they have come out
wiping their eyes. Many express ap-
preciation for the opportunity of
hearing our message, and invariably
they remark about the courage and
fortitude of our early Pioneers and
the fine heritage we possess.
One man whose home is in Nau-
voo said, ''Of course, those outrages
happened before I was born, but
my grandfather was one of the mob.
I have heard him tell of it, and my
family burn with shame because he
had a part in such an affair." An-
other gentleman from a small town
near the Hill Cumorah said, "There
is something different about the
place you call the Sacred Grove. I
know many Mormons in that vicin-
ity, and we are proud to have them
for neighbors."
There are many expressions of
respect and esteem for the Church
and its people. The Church Wel-
fare Program is commented on fa-
vorably.
A LMOST every state in the Union
is represented in the register, as
well as Alaska, Scotland, England,
Australia, Hawaii, Mexico and Ar-
gentina. One can't help but thrill
at the thought that a favorable ac-
count of the exhibit will be carried
to homes in so many countries. The
number of people visiting the exhibit
is much larger than was ever ex-
pected, and they are fine, intelligent
people. The first six weeks 28,000
people listened to the programs. For
about two weeks of that time it was
quite cold, so there were compara-
tively few people on the grounds;
and of course this was before the
tourist season opened. During the
ten months the Fair will run it is
expected the story will be given to
immense numbers.
INTERIOR OF LITTLE TABER-
NACLE WHERE MISSIONARIES EN-
TERTAIN WITH AID OF ORGAN
AND PICTURES.
Of special interest to the people
of the Church is the Temple of Re-
ligion and Tower of Peace. This
building was constructed by the
combined efforts and donations of
most of the recognized churches.
Our Church made a substantial con-
tribution. President Stephen H.
Winter of the San Francisco Stake
was chosen as one of the Board of
Directors. A Salt Lake architect
helped plan and design the building.
Although no doctrine may be dis-
seminated, opportunity is given for
each church to have one or two ob-
jects on display which deal with its
history or something specific con-
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cerning its religion. The Latter-day
Saint display is the large plaque
'The Glory of God is Intelligence,"
used at the San Diego Exposition.
There is also a copy of the first edi-
tion of The Book oi Mormon, pub-
lished in 1830. At the end of the
Hall of Exhibits is Friendship Walk
and beside it is the chapel which
seats about 250 persons. The vari-
ous churches alternate in furnishing
speakers and music for services. Two
A VIEW OF FAIR VISITORS LEAV-
ING THE LITTLE TABERNACLE
AFTER BEING ENTERTAINED BY
THE MISSIONARIES.
•
days have been assigned to the Lat-
ter-day Saints so far, May 7 and June
25, for what is called Vesper Services.
A S we leave the Temple of Re-
ligion, we skirt the edge of the
Lake of Nations to reach the Utah
exhibit.
The display from the state of Utah
is on the east side of the island, lo-
cated in the center of the block, U-
shaped building that is called the
Hall of Western States. Here each
of the western states and British Co-
lumbia have a separate room.
In the room where Utah is repre-
sented, our attention is caught by a
perfect miniature of Temple Square.
It is beautifully done and entirely to
scale, and gives a splendid impres-
sion of the famous landmark.
Altogether, Utah is well represent-
ed at this great Fair, but I think its
best representation is the staff of
young missionaries who give the
programs in the Little Tabernacle.
At present there are six full-time
missionaries from the California
Mission; six stake missionaries, three
each from the San Francisco and
Oakland Stakes, help in the evenings
and on busy days. Those who are
under the Mission jurisdiction stay
from one to two months, then are
replaced by others. Each is so fine
in his particular way that the feeling
of loss is keen when he is transferred.
The visitors who come to see the
exhibit cannot help but be impressed
with these clean, intelligent, fine
young men and cannot help but real-
ize the value of the church which
they represent. "By their fruits ye
shall know them."
''Every individual ought to resolve and strive and determine to do more,
and be more than he is. You owe it to the world to give not simply the best
of which you are capable but the best to which you can possibly aspire."
—George H. Knox.
Did Nauvoo Have A Spirit?
By Vida Fox Chwson
"The exiled Saints came Hocking into Nauvoo in the summer oi 1839."
A LITTLE over a hundred years presenting itself, I considered it
ago the Saints were indeed in wisdom to make an attempt to build
a sorry plight. For months up a city."
their enemies had persecuted them It was May 10, 1839, that he
almost beyond endurance." Many moved his family to this "wilder-
had been beaten, aye even murdered, ness/' and during the balance of the
and by ruffians, too, and driven from summer the Saints continued to ga-
their homes en masse, while their ther at Commerce and to settle on
Prophet-Leader was imprisoned. lands that had been purchased by
Just what should happen to them the Church Authorities,
no one seemed to know. However, Undoubtedly, there were weak
the Prophet's words from Liberty ones who wearied of the troubles
Prison indicated that, while no place that followed the Saints and decided
had presented itself, still he was un- life would be easier apart from God's
daunted in his determination to chosen ones, and there were a few
keep the Saints together. dissenters who could see worldly
At the time of the flight from possibilities elsewhere; but the main
Missouri the good people of Quincy, body of the Church carried with it
Illinois, opened their arms, and into the new "home" a spirit of
many of the Saints were being shel- absolute faith in its leader and the
tered, temporarily of course; for no message he proclaimed,
good member of the Church would Presumably, when the Prophet
ever think of becoming a perpetual announced to the people that he
leaner. Within the breast of every had changed the name of "Com-
true one of them burned a desire to merce" to "Nauvoo" and that the
once more gather together and build Hebrew word meant "beautiful lo-
anew! One wonders that with all cation" and carried with it "the idea
their heart-breaking experiences this of rest," that announcement meant
desire was still alive; but it must have encouragement to these weary and
been, for when Dr. Isaac Galland, exhausted refugees,
in a spirit of charity, preferred his When the purchase of Commerce
lands in Commerce at a reasonable was consummated, according to Jos-
rate and long credit, his offer was, eph there was one stone house,
after due consideration by the peo- three frame houses, and two block
pie in conference, and by the Proph- houses— that was all. One can easily
et after his release from prison, ac- imagine then, the endless hours nec-
cepted. The Prophet later said: essarily spent in providing even tem-
"Commerce was unhealthy, very porary shelter for the Saints who
few could live there; but believing were rapidly pouring into the little
that it might become a healthy place settiement! But how happy they
by the blessing of heaven to the were to have a place that would be
Saints, and no more eligible place their own— and how hopeful!
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But alas! Nauvoo was wet; it was
difficult for a person to walk through
the swamps and impossible for a
team to get through them; most
likely the place was infested with
mosquitoes. Due to their late ex-
posures and drivings, the people
were in an extremely run-down con-
dition, and many fell sick with the
deadly malaria.
And then what? Did their faith
in their Prophet-Leader persist? Un-
doubtedly there were complainers;
perhaps there were some who hur-
riedly moved their families back to
Quincy or elsewhere as soon as the
"sickness" set in; but for the most
part, in spite of this new calamity,
they had the spirit of absolute faith
in their leader and in the message
he proclaimed. How pleased our
Heavenly Father must have been
with this spirit, and in His great
compassion He justified their faith.
From Wilford Woodruff's Journal
we read the following:
''In consequence of the persecu-
tion of the Saints in Missouri and
the exposures to which they were
subjected, many of them were taken
sick soon after their arrival at Com-
merce, afterwards called Nauvoo;
Joseph had filled his house and tent
with them, and while meditating
upon the situation he had a great
desire to attend to the duties of his
office. On the morning of the 22nd
of July, 1839, he arose from his bed
and commenced to administer to
the sick in his own house and door-
yard, and he commanded them in
the name of the Lord Jesus Christ
to arise and be made whole; and the
sick were healed upon every side of
him.
"Many lay sick along the bank of
the river; Joseph walked along up
to the lower stone house, occupied
by Sidney Rigdon, and he healed all
the sick that lay in his path. Among
the number was Henry G. Sherwood,
who was nigh unto death; Joseph
stood in the door of his tent and
commanded him in the name of
Jesus Christ to arise and come out
of his tent, and he obeyed him and
was healed. Brother Benjamin
Brown and his family also lay sick,
the former appearing to be in a
dying condition. Joseph healed
them in the name of the Lord. Af-
ter healing all that lay sick upon
the bank of the river as far as the
stone house, he called upon Elder
Kimball and some others to accom-
pany him across the river to visit
the sick in Montrose. Among the
number were several of the Twelve.
On his arrival, the first house he vis-
ited was that occupied by Elder
Brigham Young, the president of the
Quorum of the Twelve, who lay
sick. Joseph healed him, then he
arose and accompanied the Prophet
on his visit to others who were in
the same condition. * * * There were
many sick whom Joseph could not
visit, so he counseled the Twelve
to go and visit and heal them, and
many were healed under their
hands."
AFTER the miracle, a renewal of
faith swept over the people. No
doubt they marveled one with an-
other, and a great desire to proclaim
to the world the restoration of the
Gospel with all its promises came
over them; and by the end of that
summer the Twelve were sent with-
out purse or scrip to preach the Gos-
pel to the people of Great Britain.
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To so small a community it must hibited for them, and the sacrifices
have been a great loss to have so he had made so uncomplainingly in
many important figures leave at their behalf. They had lost their
once; not only a loss, but the fam- friend! They thought of their own
ilies of these men were left to be conversions to the message he had
taken care of. All were poor in taught them; how often he had in-
worldly goods, but not poor in spirit, spired them to follow him. They
They cared for one another, they had lost their leader! How alone
worked together, they prayed togeth- they felt! His greatness became evi-
er, and confidently they looked to dent to them, and they wondered if
their Prophet for guidance. Through there would be another that could
this spirit of cooperation which was take his place,
among them, Nauvoo literally rose Sidney Rigdon came back from
from the swamps! It is interesting Pittsburgh and announced himself
to note the words of Heber C. Kim- as their ''guardian". Uncertainty
ball upon his return from his mission reigned; some there were who fol-
in July, 1841: 'Tou know," he lowed him, and some there were
writes, "there were not more than ^ho followed others, but for the
thirty buildings in the city when niost part the main body of the
we left about two years ago, but at church received the 'witness" when
this time there are 1,200 and hun- Brigham Young stood before them
dreds of others in progress which ^^d the "mantle of Joseph" fell up-
will soon be finished. * * * You will on him. The Twelve Apostles were
recollect when we built our houses sustained as Presidents of the
in the woods there was not a house Church
within a mile of us. Now the place, ry.! i j j ^ , . ,
wild as it was at that time, is con- , ^^^ leaders and the people united
verted into a thickly populated vil- ° J"^ °"* *^ P'^"' "^ *^" ™"-
j^ >» ^ ^ ^ tyred prophet concerning Nauvoo.
^ * Work on the Nauvoo House was
by 1843 the population of Nauvoo hastened, and they likewise worked
was computed at about 15,000. It vigorously on the Temple. The
was at that time the most thriving. Spirit of Cooperation manifested by
prosperous town in the State of Illi- the Saints alarmed their old ene-
nois-and it continued to grow! niies. Persecutions increased, and
But the Mormons were once on the 21st of January, 1845, the
again becoming too prosperous and Nauvoo Charter was repealed by the
powerful, and once more the old State Legislature. Supposedly dis-
hatred became evident. Like a ris- ruption would take place, but in-
ing tide it increased until 1844 when stead there was more unity. It is
the Saints were once more living in interesting to read a paragraph from
fear, and the awful Martyrdom oc- the Nauvoo Neighbor after the April
curred! Conference of 1845: "One thing
Deep sorrow came over the peo- further: having no charter with
pie. A new appreciation of Joseph municipal authority to protect the
came to them; they reviewed in their rights of an innocent people, a city
minds the deep concern he had ex- (Continued on page 430)
White House Conference On
Children In A Democracy
By President Louise Y. Robison
A FEELING of security for the fu-
ture of the nation is enhanced
when the Presidents of the United
States consider the welfare of the
prospective citizens — the children.
Under the inspiration of President
Theodore Roosevelt, the first na-
tional conference to consider the
needs of children was called in
1909. Possibly because this con-
ference was held in the White House
it was known as the White House
Conference. During President Her-
bert Hoover's administration a
similar, although a larger conference,
was held.
President Franklin D. Roosevelt
has called two such conferences; the
first, as the two preceding, was call-
ed the White House Conference,
while the gathering held on April
26, 1939 was designated White
House Conference on Children in
a Democracy.
The membership of the confer-
ence totaled 585 including repre-
sentatives of every state in the
Union, Alaska, Porto Rico, Hawaii
and the District of 'Columbia.
The city of Washington was never
more beautiful than on the morn-
ing of April 26. The famous cherry
blossoms were abloom in all their
loveliness. The magnolia and other
flowering trees and shrubs were
doing their utmost to gladden the
hearts of delegates, to make them
feel that this world is a wonderful
place in which to live. If only peo-
ple would give their best to estab-
lish peace and beauty as does na-
ture!
One's first visit to the White
House is a thrilling experience.
Every detail of the conference was
so well planned; there was not the
least delay nor confusion.
After presenting tickets of admis-
sion at the east entrance, we were
ushered into a broad corridor, where
hang the portraits of the wives of
the Presidents, then on up the
stairs to the historical ballroom.
Here the walls were lined with huge
baskets of flowers and with beauti-
ful mirrors reaching nearly to the
ceiling.
Attendants, dressed in smart uni-
forms with much gold braid, direct-
ed the seating in so orderly a man-
ner that in only a moment the dele-
gates were seated and Frances Per-
kins, Secretary of Labor, was extend-
ing a most gracious welcome.
The address by the President of
the United States was broadcast. I
hope you all heard President Roose-
velt, as every citizen should know of
his concern for all children. From
his address we quote:
"It is still our task to bring to bear
upon the major problems of child life all
the wisdom and understanding that can
be distilled from compilations of facts, from
the intuitions of common sense, and from
professional skill . . .
"We make the assumption that a happy
child should live in a home where he will
find warmth and food and affection; that
his parents will take care of him should he
fall ill; that at school he will find the
teachers and tQpls needed fpr ^n educg-
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tion; tliat when he grows up there will be
a job for him and that he will some day
establish his own home.
"As wc consider these essentials of a
happy childhood our hearts are heavy
with the knowledge that there are many
children who cannot make these assump-
tions.
"We are concerned about the children
of the unemployed.
"We are concerned about other children
who are without adequate shelter or food
or clothing because of the poverty of their
parents.
"We are concerned about the children
of migratory families who have no settled
place of abode or normal community re-
lationships.
"Wc are concerned about the children
of minority groups in our population, who,
confronted with discrimination and preju-
dice, must find it difficult to believe in
the just ordering of life or the ability of
the adults in their world to deal with life's
problems.
"We are concerned about the children
living beyond the reach of medical service
or lacking medical service because their
parents cannot pay for it.
"We are concerned about the children
who are not in school or who attend schools
poorly equipped to meet their needs.
"We are concerned about the children
who are outside the reach of religious in-
fluences, and are denied help in attaining
faith in an ordered uni^'erse and in the
fatherhood of God.
"We are concerned about the future of
our democracy when children cannot make
the assumptions that mean security and
happiness."
npHE Right Reverend Monsignor
Robert F. Keegan made a strong
plea for character development
which, he felt, v^^ould never be ac-
complished without a return to re-
ligion. Education in schools and
colleges has not developed high
standards nor moral stamina. Father
Keegan deplored the fact that in-
decent literature is destroying every
fine thought and action of American
youth. He compared obscene litera-
ture to termites in the destruction
of character.
Mr. Homer Folks made a clear
statement of the serious responsi-
bility the nation owes the children
of a democracy. He urged that we
look to 1980. Probably last year or
this year or ten years ago a baby was
born who will be elected to make his
home in the White House. How
carefully we would prepare that
child for this task of immeasurable
importance if we but knew his name
or address. As far as possible these
same opportunities for development
should be made available to all
children^ for among them are our
future governors, legislators, may-
ors and citizens who, if properly
prepared, will give us Democracy at
its best.
Mrs. Franklin D. Roosevelt urged
the group to know the needs of the
country as a whole— there should be
no areas neglected.
The afternoon session was held in
the beautiful new Department of
Labor building. After registering
and receiving instructions, the con-
ference was divided into four sec-
tions, each discussing specific topics
as follows:
Section 1. Objectives of a Democratic
Society in Relation to Chil-
dren,
Section 2. Economic Foundations of
Family Life and Child Wel-
fare.
Section 3. The Development of Chil-
dren and Youth in Present-
day American Life.
Section 4. The Child and Community
Services for Health, Educa-
cation and Social Protection.
Informal discussion of the special
needs of different localities occupied
three hours' time in each of these
respective groups.
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At a dinner meeting the chairmen
of the four sections made reports
of the proceedings of the various
groups, and delegates were asked to
send suggestions or comments to
the Planning Committee.
Specific questions were:
1. In your opinion, what are the most im-
portant subjects which should be con-
sidered by the Report Committee with
a view to recommendations?
2. In what ways do you think the mem-
bers of the Conference in the special
field you represent could work with the
Report Committee in the development
of its program?
Recommendations will be brought
in a final session to be held next year.
It then will be for all of us to de-
termine the extent to which they
will be translated into action.
VISION
By Lad Woolsey
Oh, I have seen how peach trees
Are lovely in the spring
With palely tinted blossoms
And robins there to sing.
And in the summer sunshine
Fve known their fairness, too-
Such bright leaves, green and shiny,
And ripe fruit gleaming through!
And then when comes October,
Tve seen, like flaming gold.
The peach trees flaunt the autumn
And greet the coming cold.
But on a winter's morning
They stand still, row on row —
A white lace testimony
To the miracle of snow.
A Dime is a Lot of Money
By Eva Willes Wangsgaard
JUDITH stood at the crossroads.
Behind her lay tlie long, dusty
road that led to home and on
over the river to the distant mining
towns. To the left lay the road that
led to the state highway. Straight
before her were two other tines of
the fork; the left tine ran on into
Main Street a few blocks away; the
right one ran into the lower part
of town, unless you did not turn
with the bend and so went on down
the farm lane to the lake.
But it was not the confusion of
roads that had stopped Judith.
These highways she knew as well
as a horse knows its way home.
What held her at the corner was
a serious loss. She stood looking
into her purse. She fingered the
coins again. She hoped it was not
so, but it was; there were only one
dime and a nickel in that purse, and
when she had left home there had
been two dimes and a nickel.
She closed the purse and ex-
amined the steel clasp and its edges.
That was what was wrong, she de-
cided; dimes were so thin and her
purse did not close tight. Dimes
could slip out, and Judith's dime
had. Well, it was gone, she thought,
and something had to be done about
it.
Should she go home and get an-
other? She looked at the market
basket at her feet. There was not
a single drop of water left on the
large rhubarb leaves that her mother
had held under the artesian well-
stream before she put them over the
bunches of asparagus to keep them
cool. The sun was hot, the dust
deep, the way long; and asparagus
would wilt. Besides, if she did hurry
down the lane to home a mile or
so behind her, her mother would
be cross because she had lost the
dime and because she was late, she
knew. Her mother would scold too;
she might do worse than that. May-
be, she reflected, her mother did not
have another dime, anyway. No,
going back home was not the way
out, she concluded.
Should she try returning to search
for it, she wondered. Wlio could
find a dime in all that dust? It
would be like looking for a drop of
ink in a lake. What could she do
then?
Two bunches of asparagus at ten
cents a bunch was to buy four yards
of calico at five cents a yard. The
two dimes and the nickel were for
a quarter's worth of meat for Sunday
dinner. Should she get a dime's
worth less meat? A dime bought
a lot of boiling beef, and without
it there would not be enough.
Should she buy less calico? No,
her mother needed four yards of
calico, not two. There had to be
some other way out. What was it?
Then suddenly she had it. She
would charge more for the aspara-
gus.
She picked up the basket and hur-
ried on. Judith was not one to hesi-
tate. She did her looking back as
she hastened on. She usually de-
cided and acted quickly, then faced
the results squarely and bravely if
need be.
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TUST over the rise which supported She was used to her. Judith's moth-
^ the railroad track Hved Mrs. An- er was deaf, and the child always
derson, her first customer. She did the shopping and bill-paying for
swung up the path exhibiting no the family. The townsfolk seldom
outward signs of the panic in her thought of her youthfulness. The
heart. "Wliat if she makes a fuss?'* large record book in the wardhouse
she was thinking. "What if the of the church had it that Judith
plan doesn't work?" She reached was eleven years old. Her slender
the door and knocked. body was, but her head in spite of
Mrs. Anderson answered the door its wreath of yellow curls was much
and greeted her with her usual in- older than that, and the townsfolk
difference. It was not her custom- recognized the fact,
er's manner that bothered Judith. All the tradesmen knew Judith.
That was just Mrs. Anderson's way, They had found out that she could
but she was a hard trader. Almost tell at sight the difference between
everything hinged on how she would serge and cashmere, calico and per-
react. If Judith got by here she cale, lawn and dimity. Even the
was all right, she felt sure. She butcher had to consider her judg-
tightened her courage. ment and step sharply.
"I have your asparagus," she said R f T d'fli dd f V th f
and lifted the rhubarb leaves to take , ^ . , j , j . n- ^ xr
_.i i,A/r Aj 1.1 people considered her diirerent. It
out a bunch. Mrs. Anderson took ^ ^^t_ 1.1.1,1. ^ i.i.-
.r .1 • i , ji , .1 . she thought about such things at
the thick bundle to the pantry. ^ .^ ^ . i j i.t_ i. ^.i.
.<TT ,-„ r 111 all it was to conclude that other
How much? she asked when ■,...
she came back. ^^^^^^^^ ^^^^ ^"^^^•
"Fifteen cents," Judith answered Just now she was stepping along
quickly. She had to speak quickly briskly toward Mrs. Harwood's, the
to get it out at all. market basket swinging two pounds
"Are you sure your mother said lighter from her crooked arm.
fifteen cents, Judith? I know I have There was nothing about her ap-
had as much for a dime." pearance to indicate the tumult go-
Something was growing bigger ing on inside. She knew that she
and bigger inside Judith, and her had acted without authority and
collar felt too tight. She put her against all she had been taught. She
hand to her throat, but her neck- knew what grownups would think
band felt all right to her fingers, of that sort of conduct in a child.
She'd have to see it through now, yet she felt that it was the only way
she thought. She met Mrs. Ander- to meet her difficulty without harm
son's eyes with a steady gaze. to anyone. The stores would soon
"Fifteen cents," she repeated. be closed for the Sabbath, and the
Mrs. Anderson looked into Ju- shopping must be done. If the
dith's clear brown eyes and paid, women did not want her asparagus
Judith's heart would have fluttered at Judith's price, they could refuse
less if she could have heard her cus- and she could try elsewhere. They
tomer's thoughts. Mrs. Anderson would take it, she knew, because the
had no reason for doubting Judith, butcher would charge them more
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for less. She came to the Har-
wood's.
Mrs. Harwood answered her
knock with a quick jerk at the door.
She always jerked. She began to
talk in a steady stream as soon as
she saw who was there.
''How's your mother today, Ju-
dith? I declare, that dr^ss is too
short. What is your mother think-
ing of to let you go around showing
your legs like that? There's a deep
hem in it, too." She stooped to
confirm the statement. 'Tell your
mother to let it down when you get
home. Tell her I said so. How
much is the asparagus?" Mrs. Har-
wood always ran her thoughts into
each other that way, Judith reflected.
She was so busy talking that she did
not question the price of the aspara-
gus. She just paid, and Judith
slipped out of her house as easily as
one of the chatterer's words from
her lips.
Well, Judith mused, there was
another nickel, which with Mrs. An-
derson's contribution made the dime
back; but there was still the shop-
ping to do. She hurried to Main
Street and the shopping.
npHEN she was on her way home.
A long row of poplars cast their
shadows down the side of the soft
roadway. Judith swung into their
cool depths, grateful for the respite
from the afternoon sun. The chip-
ping sparrows fluttered and cheeped
overhead. Judith longed to put
down the basket and explore the
trees for nests, but there was meat
in the basket. A dog might come
along, she worried. The climbing
would have to wait until some time
when the basket contained only
cloth. She trudged resolutely on.
At the crossroads that marked
half-way home, Judith quickened
her steps. Then she broke into a
run. Her big sister had often told
her stories about Indians who hid
in these willows that filled a corner
near the ditch. They were inter-
esting stories but dreadfully scary.
The faster she ran the more real
the Indians became. Then she
slowed to climb the rise over the
bridge of the canal. As her feet
slowed her heart quieted, and she
no longer felt the Indian's fingers
reaching for her hair. She sauntered
on after she had crossed the bridge,
but she kept to the center of the
road. The sides were dark with
shrubs.
Soon she came to the second wil-
lows. That is what the children
called that second clump. They were
friendly willows, she remembered
happily. No Indians hid there—on-
ly pollywogs. There was the puddle
now. She could play with polly-
wogs in spite of the meat because
she could keep the basket near her
quick hands. She began to catch
pollywogs.
Suddenly, she gasped! Her nim-
ble fingers reached into the mud
and pulled out a thin dime imbed-
ded there, all covered except one
tiny silver arc.
"Well, of all things!" Judith
gulped. "Here's where it fell out.
I stopped here on my way to town.
Oh, dear! What will I do with it
now?"
It did not occur to her to throw
it away. A dime was a lot of money.
She must keep it. She sat down on
a tuft of grass to think over the new
twist to her problem. She polished
the dime on the grass and sat staring
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at its shining roundness. A dime the dime in her handkerchief, put it
was a lot of money, her thoughts inside, and cHpped the stiff catch.
repeated. It would buy a yard of Tlien she arose and scurried to make
lawn, two yards of calico, or a pound up for lost time.
of beef— and now she was a dime
ahead. " CHE had to pause on the porch
To charge more for her mother's *« catch her breath. When she
asparagus, she reasoned, in order to entered the house, she found her
get the meat for the family's Sunday mother making cookies. Her moth-
dinner was one thing, but to do it to er went on working while Judith
get a dime was quite another. She unwrapped the meat for her inspec-
would have to give the coin to her t^^^-
mother, she knew, and what would "That's a fine boil," she said,
her mother say? That depended, "You strike a good bargain, Judith."
Judith judged, on what she told her Judith beamed with pleasure; the
mother. trip to town was paid for by that
Then a long chain of experiences praise. She presented the calico,
began to drag across her brain. She "Oh, how lovely!" her mother com-
had often been punished for having mended her again. "The tiny red
told family matters in the homes of vine in the pattern will work up
relatives, like the time when she had beautifully. I couldn't have done
told how much her father's check better myself." She wiped her hands
had been, and Aunt Geneva had on her full apron and threw the
told her mother. There was the goods over her left arm, from which
time, too, when Aunt Geneva had it hung down and nearly swept the
"pumped" her to find out what her floor. "There's enough here for
father's letter had said about the job both you and Mildred. Put it in
and about Uncle Al. Of course, the sewing drawer." She gave the
Judith reflected, her mother had not goods back to Judith,
known about the "pumping" and Judith turned to obey, but halted
about how Aunt Geneva had instead. She opened her purse, un-
stretched what Judith really had wrapped the handkerchief, and si-
told, so she could not blame her lently handed her mother the dime,
mother for the punishment. Now "Where did you get this?" her
Judith remembered her mother's of- mother asked,
ten reiterated question, "When will "I found it." The half-truth was
you learn not to tell all you know?" out. Judith stood rigid and waited.
That was an idea, she decided. "Then you may have it," was all
She would tell only what she was her mother said,
forced to tell. She would give the "But I don't want it." Judith
dime to her mother when she got wondered if her mother could hear
home, she concluded, tell as little her heart beat,
as she could, and then meet what Her mother made a sudden turn
came. She could not sit here any toward the oven and sniffed. If
longer. that was really a look of inquiry
She opened her purse, wrapped Judith had seen on her face it was
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quickly erased by concern for her
cookies. She bent to rescue the too-
brown cakes. Judith stood waiting.
Her mother made no other com-
ment.
Judith picked up a cookie and
walked thoughtfully out of the
kitchen. Like other children she
looked for punishment for any ac-
tion that deviated from the standard.
After a scolding or a switching the
responsibility slid to the shoulders
of her parents. This way it remained
with Judith.
She could not understand. She
had expected to be questioned and
lectured. She could not know that
twice that day she had met absolute
trust. That trust and her silence
made a wall within which Judith
wandered around and around alone.
She took the calico to the sewing
drawer in her mother's bedroom.
She dropped the dime into a tray
on her mother's dresser. She heard
it ring as it hit the bottom; she saw
it lying flat in the tray; but, she dis-
covered, it was not so easily gotten
rid of. It had fastened itself more
deeply into her consciousness than
it had in the ooze near the puddle.
A dime is so thin; it is amazing
how much one can weigh.
FOR YOUNG MOTHERS
By Vesta P. Cmwioid
Tlie days are winged and swift,
And the time is brief, I know.
That we may choose and plan
The path our children go.
These hours will not come again.
And this we realize.
That soon our children shall be gone
Beyond our watchful eyes.
Oh we must use these moments well—
Forget our doubts and fears.
And give the children a lamp of faith
To light them through the years.
Address
Elder Richard R. Lyman
(April Conference, 1939)
T AM wondering what I can say
that will not detract from the
fine program you have already had
in this Conference. I have always
said that in my opinion the music
and the flowers are as important a
part of religious worship as is the
sermon, and here we have both mu-
sic and flowers— perfect, it seems to
me, to the very last degree.
When President Clark called last
night and said that the First Presi-
dency would like me to come and
make a few remarks this afternoon,
representing the First Presidency of
the Church, I had a feeling a little
like that of Brother Joseph Fielding
Smith, when the promise had been
made to the people in one of the
stakes that President Smith was
coming to attend their conference.
President Smith was unable to go,
and they sent in his place our
Brother Joseph Fielding Smith,
and when Brother Joseph Fielding
arrived at the station the first thing
the stake president did was to ex-
press his surprise and sorrow to
think that President Smith was not
there, and after he had expressed
himself in that way several times,
and they were riding along toward
the conference, the President final-
ly said, ''My conscience, I cannot
tell you how badly the people will
feel when they know President
Smith is not coming." Brother Jo-
seph said, ''Well, how do you think
I feel?"
I have said repeatedly that men
may fail, but women never! I was
in the superintendency of the
Young Men's organization for
about twenty years. In that twenty
years the growth of the M. I. A.
was swift and effective. Some credit
was due to the Young Men's Board,
but I am sure it is not an exaggera-
tion if I say that most of the credit
was due to the women on the Young
Women's Board. Men may fail, but
women never!
Wlien Francis M. Lyman presided
over the European Mission, he used
to shake hands with the elders and
say, "I shake your hand, and you
shake mine, and we covenant with
each other that we will do our best
to live in accordance with the ideals
and standards of the Church." In
the mission field I aimed to follow
his example to a degree. I have
been visiting the missions of the
Church now for more than twenty
years and presided over the Europ-
ean Mission for two years. When I
have met missionaries in the field,
I have asked them to give me their
cards containing their names, the
place where we were in the mission
field together, the date and the
stake from which the missionary
comes. On the card I have prepared
for getting this information are the
words: "On my honor I will do my
best."
I tell these missionaries that I
will keep these cards, and when I
visit a stake I will read the names
of the missionaries that I have met
from that stake. These names will
constitute my roll of honor for that
stake. I say to these missionaries,
"When I read your name on my
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roll of honor, the question I will tomobile and undertake that task."
ask is: Did this missionary do the One little woman, with one auto-
most important thing that any mis- mobile, visited every house in that
sionary has to do in the mission ward and found and put upon the
field, and that is convert himself." Church records the names of 387
Oftentimes they say, 'lie has not people. Men may fail, but women
returned from the mission field." never!
Then I ask, "Is his mother here?" ,/r^xT^ i • t i hi
If she is living, practically always the ^MONG other thmgs, I would like
mother stands up in the'congrega- to say a word about this great
tion. Again I say. Men may fail. Church Welfare Program. I hope
but women never! that all the women of the Church
I have just returned from the fu- are supporting it, and that all the
neral of a mother who has a son in families are making their fast day
the mission field in Ireland. I could and other contributions to help
not help but think of the influence those who are less fortunate. We
that lovely mother, active in the are not to be rewarded by what we
Church all her days, has had on her possess or what we own. We are
missionary bov. I could, not help not to be judged by our clothing,
but think also what a tremendous but by our lives, by what is in our
influence her teachings and her ex- hearts and by what we do for others.
ample and her life are going to have I have told the story a good many
upon him all his days. I was espe- times of the Prophet Samuel, when
cially touched because neariy fifty he was told by the Lord to go to
years ago, while I was a student at the house of Jesse, take his horn of
the University of Michigan, I lost oil and pour the oil upon the head
mv own mother. Her teachings, her of a son of Jesse and anoint him king
life and her example have had a of Israel. Samuel went to the house
greater influence upon me than all of Jesse and told him that one of
the rest of the teachers I have had his sons had been chosen by the
combined. I say again, Men may Lord to be king of Israel. Jesse had
fail, but women never! his sons appear before the Prophet.
I was in Phoenix, Arizona, a week When the eldest son appeared, tall,
or two ago, attending conference, handsome and well-diessed, Samuel
One of the members of the high thought indeed this must be the
council had assigned to him the one that the Lord had selected.
duty of visiting all of the families When he picked up his horn of
in the Third Ward of Phoenix. He oil, the Lord said, ''Wait, wait,
made the remark that he did not Samuel, not that one, for I the Lord
know how he could find the time have rejected him." Then came the
to go from house to house and find second son, another tall, handsome,
all those of this ward who were well-dressed fellow. Samuel took
members of the Church but whose up his horn of oil to anoint him.
names were not on the records. His Again the Lord said, "No, no, not
good wife said, "If you will furnish this one, Samuel, for I the Lord
me a little help in the house to care have rejected him." Then came the
for the children, T will take the an- third, fourth, fifth and sixth, and
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for each and every one the Lord
said to Samuel, ''No, Samuel, not
this one, for I the Lord have reject-
ed him."
Then said Jesse, "You are not
looking for one of my sons." Sam-
uel said to him, ''Have you no other
sons?" Jesse said, "Yes, one other,
my little boy David; he is out here
herding the sheep."
Said the Prophet, "Send for Da-
vid." In came David, with his ruddy
face, burned by the rays of the sun,
his feet no doubt bare, head bare,
hair unkempt, and dressed in his or-
dinary shepherd's clothing. The
Lord said to the Prophet, "Take
your horn of oil, Samuel, and
anoint him King of Israel, for I, the
Lord, have selected him." And the
Lord said to the Prophet, "Remem-
ber, men look upon the outward ap-
pearance, but God looketh upon
the heart."
And so we are not to be judged
by what we wear; we are not to be
judged by our outward appearance,
but by what is in our hearts and by
the good we have done to our fel-
lowmen.
T WAS asked to dedicate a chapel in
the European Mission soon after
I went to Europe. I wrote to the
mission president and said, "I would
like to know if all the bills are paid.
The rule of the Church is that no
building shall be dedicated until it
is entirely paid for, and I want to
know if all the bills are paid for
this church." He wrote back very
promptly, "Oh, yes. Brother Ly-
man, all of the bills are paid; they
were all paid by the Church. The
Church has put up the building,
furnished the building, and the
Church has paid all of the bills."
"Do you mean to tell me, my
brother, that the people have not
contributed anything?" "That is
what I mean." "What have these
fine people done that you are thus
depriving them of a blessing. I
suggest that you find out what the
people are able to give, and have
them give that amount. We will
delay the dedication with the hope
that President Grant may visit Eu-
rope, that he will come after the
people have made their contribu-
tion, and that he will dedicate the
chapel."
Remember, the widow's mite
brings a blessing as rich and rare as
does the rich man's millions, if the
sacrifice in the one case is equal to
the sacrifice in the other. The
Church and Kingdom of God is to
be built upon the principle of sac-
rifice, and our reward is to be in
proportion to the sacrifice we make.
I am reminded of the words of
President Theodore Roosevelt, as
he stood before a congress of moth-
ers in the city of Washington and
said: "Since I am speaking to a
congress of mothers I shall have
nothing whatever to say concerning
an easy life, because no mother has
an easy life. Every mother has a
hard and difficult life." I say to you
glorious and glorified workers of the
Relief Society as did Theodore
Roosevelt, "Your burdens may be
heavy and your responsibilities great,
but remember greatest of all is your
reward." I extend my hearty congrat-
ulations to you. Sister Robison, and
to all of these, your faithful asso-
ciates.
It is not always the giving of food
and money that counts most. As
I understand it, you Relief Society
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women are making a careful study feathers. Far too many begin living
of this great welfare problem, and on a scale that they cannot maintain!
you are aiming to give to the people i ^ave said to the people every-
the thmg that they need most; and ^j^^^g^ <<jYig most important thing
oftentimes advice, counsel and m- ^^^^ 1^ ^^^^ ^^ ^^ ^^^^^^
struction mean more than food or ^^ ^^^^^ ^j^^ marriageable age is
clothing or money or shelter. The ^o qualify themselves to make a liv-
greatest blessing that you can give ■ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^^ boys to be train-
people is to teach them to stand ^^ ^^ ^^^^ ^ ^■^- ^^^ -^^ ^j^^ I
upon their own feet. • 1^^^^ pointed out a good many cases
A man once told me how well he in which young women have been
had been, how fortunate that he had left widows. One said, "I cannot
been employed for many years with- tell you how much I appreciate your
out losing a day's labor. I said to interest in me, but I am sure you
him, "My good friend and brother, will be glad to know I have a posi-
in all these years how much have tion already, and the work is much
you saved?" "Why, not a cent." like that you are offering me, only
"Why not?" "Well, Brother Ly- it pays about four times as much."
man, I never thought of it." t i i i • . .i r r ^ -
^ I looked into the face of this
A young couple came into my of- young woman and marveled that
fice a day or two ago and wanted a ^^^ gio^e could get under the bur-
little advice. They wanted to build ^gn and lift it and carry it as well
a home. They had been married it seemed as she and her husband
four years, and were paying $35 together were able to carry it before,
for rent and they felt that they she had been the private secretary
could add $15 to that and make ^ the attorney general of the state
It $50. I said to them, "You have f^^ seven years before she was
been married four years, and how married,
many months in those four years
have you saved $15?" "Not one." ]^OW the greatest ambition that
"Why?" "We never thought of it." ^^ ^an come into the heart of a
It IS often advice, counsel, instruc- ^^^^^^ ^^ not to be a doctor, a presi-
tion that people need, and above all ^ent, a politician or a legislator, but
they should be taught to live withm ^he mother of a glorious man. I hope
their income. that all Latter-day Saint mothers
I perform some marriages, and 1 have the ability to resist temptation,
sit down and look the two young We cannot have a generation of
people in the face, and tell them great men, powerful men, unless and
there are a number of causes for until we have first a generation of
unhappy and unsuccessful mar- strong, powerful women. You can-
riages, causes for divorce, and one not produce men with the ability to
of these causes is finances. And so resist temptation until you have
I advise them to live within their produced first mothers who have the
income, no matter what it is, to ability to resist temptation. The
practice economy and take a pride mother who has not the ability to
in what they save rather than in fine resist a cup of tea may produce a
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son who will not have the ability to arate them one from another, as a
resist a glass of liquor. shepherd divideth his sheep from
When a little woman, a widow, the goats:
sitting by her soldier son, was asked ''And he shall set the sheep on
if she wanted to be served with tea his right hand, but the goats on the
or coffee, said, '1 will have just a left.
glass of water, please," the son, in "Then shall the King say unto
the uniform of our country, said, them on his right hand. Come, ye
'Til take what mother takes." blessed of my Father, inherit the
Years rolled by, and I sat across kingdom prepared for you from the
the table from the same widow foundation of the world:
when the World War was over. I 'Tor I was an hungred, and ye
said to her, "I wonder, my sister, if gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye
your son, like some of the other gave me drink: I was a stranger, and
boys who went to war, got the cigar- ye took me in:
ette habit." She answered that he "Naked, and ye clothed me: I was
did not. I wondered if it was be- sick, and ye visited me: I was in
cause he had a mother who had the prison, and ye came unto me.
ability to resist temptation and thus 'Then shall the righteous answer
set him a fine example. The mother him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee
who can resist temptation will, I an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty,
believe, have a better chance to pro- and gave thee drink?
duce a son who will resist temp- "When saw we thee a stranger,
tation. and took thee in? or naked, and
Now I must close. I have asked clothed thee?
the women all over the Church what "Or when saw we thee sick, or in
their favorite chapter in the Bible prison, and came unto thee?
is. If you have not a favorite chapter, "And the King shall ansvv^er and
let me give you one. I give you the say unto them. Verily I say unto
25th chapter of Matthew. you. Inasmuch as ye have done it
"When the Son of Man shall unto one of the least of these my
come in his glory, and all the holy brethren, ye have done it unto me."
angels with him, then shall he sit God bless you. Remember your
upon the throne of his glory: burdens may be heavy, your respon-
"And before him shall be gather- sibilities great, but greatest of all is
ed all the nations: and he shall sep- your reward.
The Memorv of a Mother—
A man may go over all the world; he may become a pirate, if you please;
he may run through every stage of belief and unbelief; he may become abso-
ultely apostate; he may rub out his conscience; he may destroy his fineness
in every respect; but there will be one picture that he cannot efface: living
or dying there will rise before him, like a morning star, the beauty of that
remembered goodness which he called "Mother".— Henry Ward Beecher.
Pioneering in Welfare
By Franklin S. Harris
ONE of the fascinating by-prod- way to the Orient to investigate the
ducts of an ocean voyage is possibiHties of estabhshing the
contact with many personaH- movement in other parts of the
ties. The natural atmosphere of in- world. We roomed together as far
formality combined with the leisure as Honolulu, where we spent ten
time aboard lends opportunity to days and saw each other occasional-
meet many kinds of people from ly. We journeyed on to Japan to-
various parts of the world in different gether, though not as fellow cabin
walks of life. Therefore, when an- passengers. I saw him in various
ticipating my first extensive ocean parts of Japan, in some cities in
trip, which was to begin at San Fran- China, and later in India. I have
Cisco and eventually to continue seen him a number of times since
around the wodd, I was naturally returning to the United States and
curious to know who might share have visited the Goodwill Industries,
my stateroom. When I boarded which his organization fosters in
the ship and proceeded to my cabin, larger cities throughout the country.
I found that the baggage of my com- The Goodwill Industries had
panion had already arrived, and that their beginning many years ago in
on a number of pieces was written Boston. Dr. Helms had been sent
the name ''E. J. Helms". Some of there to take charge of a church lo-
the mail there was addressed to ''Dr. cated in the south end, which is the
E. J. Helms, Boston''. I saw nothing poor section of the city. In an ef-
of my companion, however, until af- fort to give help to unfortunate peo-
ter the ship had sailed through the pie in the neighborhood, an appeal
Golden Gate, for everyone had stood was made for the more prosperous
on the deck to watch the last point to bring in discarded clothing. The
of land disappear. After the last young pastor spread the various ar-
outline of land faded, I retired below tides out on the church pews and
and found a middle-aged man of invited the poor to come and take
very pleasant countenance who on what they needed. So great was the
my entry said, ''My name is Helms." clamor, it was decided to charge a
Thus began our first conversation few cents for the garments. It was
which was very interesting, as have readily seen that the articles would
been all of the many conversations be more useful if mended and re-
we have had since that day more paired. Why not give this work to
than a decade ago. those very people who needed the
It did not take long to learn that garments? Tlius was born an idea
Dr. Helms was interested in welfare which was to develop into a great
work in Boston and in a number of industry which each year would sal-
other large cities in the United vage discarded articles worth half a
States. He was the founder and head million dollars in the city of Boston
of the Goodwill Industries located alone!
in these cities and was then on his Dr. Helms would frequently say,
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''Our organization deals in waste
products, human as well as other
kinds." The essence of his work was
to take people who were not able
to care for themselves and teach
them to become self-sustaining. In
the early stages this was done by hav-
ing them make all sorts of waste
materials into useful commodities.
Special Goodwill bags were placed
in the homes of Boston and vicinity
into which were deposited old and
worn-out articles. Soon a fleet of
trucks was required to bring in the
goods, and factories arose to take
care of their reconstruction.
tpARLY in his work Dr. Helms dis-
covered that a few fundamental
principles applied in practically all
cases. Probably the first thing learn-
ed was that work is the foundation
of all human reconstruction, and
that if people are to rise from various
degrees of misfortune they must
work. Any person who came to the
establishment was taken in, given a
bath, a night's rest in a good clean
bed, and a meal or two; but after
about the first day it was necessary
for the person to work for further
benefits from the organization.
Some who came were able to do
nothing more difficult than to sort
rags. Some were ingenious in a me-
chanical way. Some had skill in
keeping accounts. Others could
cook, wait on tables, sew, or mend
shoes. Each was given the place in
the organization to which he was
best fitted and was paid on the basis
of work done or material produced.
From the very first day's work the
rehabilitation began. As long as the
individual was willing to work, Dr.
Helms was willing to continue his
help, but whenever a person rebelled
against work, nothing could be done
for him.
Various used articles are gathered
by the agents of the Goodwill In-
dustries. Casters may have been do-
nated by one person, mirrors by oth-
ers, and the fiame work of a dresser
by yet another. These are taken to
their shops and factories, where in-
dividuals in several stages of personal
reconstruction assemble the articles
into something that will have value.
The process serves two good pur-
poses: It provides work for the needy
and makes available a dresser to
someone of very scant means at a
price he can afford to pay. The
variety of articles obtainable is very
great, and the Goodwill Industries
in a city like Los Angeles are known
by the public as a source of very
inexpensive merchandise.
Dr. Helms is one of those kind
gentlemen whom to know is to love.
He has a sense of humor and an in-
variable good nature, but in his pres-
ence one can never get away from
the serious aspects of life and the
responsibilities we all have to be our
brother's keeper. His philosophy is
expressed in the following quota-
tion:
"Work is the great tonic. The man,
broken and discouraged, who is put to
mending chairs, repairs his own fortunes
and hopes in the process. Each article
repaired is made more valuable. To the
garment there is added the labor of man
or woman who works on it. So with peo-
ple. . . . No investment brings such returns
as money paid in wages. It brightens a
man up, gives him new incentive and a
new outlook. Work, says the psychologist,
is the greatest godsend ever given for the
restoration of men."
It will be of interest to many
members of the Church that Dr.
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Helms frequently mentioned in our them for their labor. When the re-
conversation that when prohibition cent welfare activities of the Church
was enacted there was a great drop took on new impetus, it became evi-
in the need for rescue work. He dent that there were many people
said that no matter what others may without the necessities and conven-
say about the success or failure of iences of life who, though willing to
prohibition, he had personal knowl- work had none to perform. This led
edge of the fact that the more un- to the establishment of the Deseret
fortunate stratum of mankind was Industries, which have much in
very much improved and its difficul- common with the Goodwill Indus-
ties greatly decreased the day the tries. To me it has become a matter
Eighteenth Amendment went into of great personal satisfaction to see
effect. my own people and my good friend.
Dr. Helms, both working toward the
npHE work of Dr. Helms is of par- same end through much the same
ticular interest to Latter-day technique.
Saints because it is not unlike some All who are aware of the condi-
of our own work. Welfare work in tions of the world know that there
the Mormon Church is as old as the are people in every community who
Church itself. Our Relief Societies have fallen on evil days, and through
and our Bishops have handled tens sickness or other misfortunes have
of thousands of cases in which peo- found themselves without means of
pie have been helped to rise from support. Anyone with any heart at
almost impossible situations. More all cannot fail to wish to help such
than a century of experience has persons find means of a more com-
shown the soundness of Dr. Helms' fortable living. The temptation is to
observation of the necessity of work follow the easy way and make direct
for human welfare. contributions to them. But the ex-
Our leaders have frequently spok- perience of the Church, as well as
en about the blessing of having many agencies such as the Goodwill
something to do and of being inter- Industries, has proved that this type
ested in one's work— of the degener- of help often does more harm than
ating influence of idleness. In the good, and that the kindest thing we
early days of Salt Lake City, Brigham can do is to help our unfortunate
Young set up special projects to keep brethren by finding means by which
the people busy. Rather than dole they can help themselves. We thus
out open charity, he put all the able- preserve their self-respect and at the
bodied to work digging ditches, same time increase their independ-
building walls and fences, and paid ence.
^^"DEHOLD how weak even good men are without faith! With faith, how-
ever crude or ill-informed, you may overcome the whole world; without
the faith that places God consciously at your side, you have no chance."
—A. B. Bruce.
Church Welfare as Interpreted by
The Relief Society
INFORMATION regarding the ac- from the depression wheat was being
tivities and accomphshments of sold at forty-two cents per bushel;
the Relief Society General Board yet bread was being brought into the
and the stake and ward organiza- county in truck loads and was sold at
tions in the field of Church Wei- ten cents per loaf. Many of the
fare is needed by the Church leaders women of this county were encour-
as well as by Church members aged by this Bread Making Project,
generally. Therefore this new de- had their wheat converted to flour
partment is being included in the and made their own bread. The
Magazine. It is designed to supply economic and health benefits of this
information, recognize outstanding service are self-evident although hard
achievements, bring an appreciation to estimate.
of what is being done, and stimulate While it is impossible to report on
increased activity. all the activities of every stake, it is
One of the most important and important to note that some stakes
successful activities of the General have demonstrated an ability to ini-
Board since the introduction of the tiate and execute welfare activities
Welfare Program by the First Presi- that should be an inspiration to us
dency is the compaign to educate the all.
women of the Church in the wise Union Stake held a clinic last
administration of the family income summer. The Relief Society ward
and the importance of careful food presidents made an intensive search
selection and preparation. The in- for cases of underprivileged and han-
fluence for good of this campaign dicapped children, staying strictly
has been felt throughout the with those where at least one parent
Church. was a member of the Church. They
One phase of this particular ac- did not merely announce the clinic
tivity is a Bread Making Project. A and wait for people to come— they
survey has been made of every home sought them out.
in the Church. The number of A surprising number of cases need-
women who were not making their ing immediate attention were dis-
own bread and their reasons for not covered. The cooperation of the
doing so were determined. Then community's outstanding doctors,
through the cooperation of county dentists and optometrists was se-
agents, the agricultural colleges and cured and most generous prices for
other experts the women were work arranged. The privilege of cut
taught how to judge and how to rates was extended to Priesthood
make good bread, its value in the members needing care, with the un-
diet, and the economic factors in- derstanding that the quorum assume
volved. Results of this project have the expense in cases where the indi-
been gratifying. For instance, in vidual could not. Over one hun-
one of the counties in Utah suffering dred persons benefited from this
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activity and over $1,000 was paid
to the doctors. The same amount
of work done at regular prices would
have cost $2,500 more. The Wheat
Interest Fund was drawn upon heav-
ily in meeting the expense. Where
people could pay for the services
themselves they did so. The money
was advanced by the Relief Society
in a number of instances and paid
back a little at a time; for some the
entire expense was assumed by the
Relief Society. All cases were dis-
cussed with the bishop and his rec-
ommendation as to procedure care-
fully followed.
Another important welfare proj-
ect is being carried forward by the
Snowflake Stake. A maternity home
is being provided for the help and
comfort of expectant mothers. The
project is not yet in a perfected state,
though progress is being made. A
home has been rented and furnished
with four hospital beds, two day
beds and a kitchenette. The state
has furnished a full-time paid nurse
(mainly for educational work), and
the county is helping pay the rent.
The ward Relief Society has fur-
nished the bedding and linen. Local
women and the stake board have
equipped the kitchen. The state
board of health has furnished new
equipment for a delivery room. N.
Y. A. is helping with the house-
keeping, and the county welfare de-
partment has contributed layettes
and some linen. This project bids
fair to be of genuine value in the
community. Enlightened women in
need of such service recognize that
opportunities of this kind not only
assure them proper care but also
safeguard their babies. An intelligent
attitude toward accepting these ad-
vantages will do much to assure thei'r
continued existence, thus making it
possible for many to be benefited.
Acceptance of opportunity is also an
expression of appreciation for the
efforts of those who make the op-
portunity possible.
It is a wonderful thing to note
that many wards have found time
and willing workers enough not only
to carry forward the full program
outlined by the General Board and
interpreted by the stake boards but
also to develop specific and individ-
ual welfare activities, as for instance:
One ward Relief Society gave each
member ten cents with instruction
to put the money to work and
bring back as much as she could for
the organization's budget allotment
for welfare work. One woman
bought eggs, set a hen and sold
fryers, and at the end of the season
returned $1.50. Another sister
bought ten cents worth of beans
and brought back $5; another to-
mato seeds and returned $3. When
this enterprise was closed, the funds
were used to purchase two barrels
of flour for the stake storehouse.
The Relief Society has been iden-
tified with the welfare work of the
Church for ninety-seven years. The
experience of the years demonstrates
that a welfare program within the
Church is feasible and necessary.
The various Relief Society units
through such activities as these here
reported are endeavoring to support
the general welfare plan of the
Church.
Problems Of Modern Family Life
By Caroline M. Hendricks
(Conference Address, Social Welfare Department)
IT is of great significance that such
a group of active workers and
leaders in this great Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
should meet together for the purpose
of discussing family life. The very
fact that we are concentrating our
attention on a study of family prob-
lems should not only prove to be
inspirational to each one of us, but
it should also enhance our hope,
our confidence, and our faith, in a
finer type of family life for the fu-
ture. Undoubtedly our neglect of
the study of family life in the past,
and our failure to train and prepare
our young people for the responsi-
bilities of marriage and parenthood
have been largely responsible for the
majority of family problems today.
That we have met here by ap-
pointment to follow a definite course
of discussion on family life is evi-
dence that we are cognizant of the
great importance of the institution
of the family, and also that we are
conscious of the fact that family life
today is confronted with problems
that are a challenge to family stabil-
ity, problems that are so distressing
that some of us are even fearful for
the future of family success.
If we agree with Charles W. Eliot
in his statement that 'The security
and the elevation of family life are
the prime objectives of civilization
and the ultimate ends of industry
and trade," and again if we are in
harmony with Thomas Jefferson who
said, 'The happiness of the domestic
fireside is the first boon of mankind;
and it is well that it is so, since it is
that which is the lot of the mass of
mankind," then we should be justly
concerned with this primary insti-
tution of society which has always
been and must continue to be the
foundation stone of our civilization.
In considering a discussion of the
subject. Problems oi Modern Family
Life^ naturally my first thought was,
which of the many problems of mod-
ern family life should I select to call
to your attention. In answer to this
question several other questions pre-
sented themselves, such as: Which
group in our society is in a position
to determine what are the problems
of greatest concern; which group will
suffer most in the future because of
unsolved family difficulties today;
which group is invited to give an ex-
pression on this subject the least fre-
quently? The answer to these ques-
tions undeniably is : The group com-
posed of our sons and daughters who
are just approaching the age for mar-
riage; our children who are entering
that period in their lives when they
will assume the responsibility of
founding families of their own; they
who will soon be engaged in the pro-
cess of rearing our grandchildren.
So with this answer in mind I de-
cided to get the opinion of such a
group and bring it to you this after-
noon. Therefore I present to you as
first-hand information, what our
children think about their homes—
the homes which we, as parents, have
founded for them.
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nPHROUGH the cooperation of
several of my colleagues, I was
able to contact some 450 college stu-
dents. The group, I feel, represent a
cross section of the young people of
Utah who are attending our institu-
tions of higher learning, inasmuch as
they are members of representative
families from twenty-seven of the
twenty-nine counties in our state.
However, in addition there may have
been a sprinkling of young folk who
came from communities scattered
from coast to coast. The group was
not selected in any way other than
that these students happened to be
engaged in class-room work during
certain periods last Tuesday morning.
The group includes college men and
women from freshman to senior
rank. These students were asked
to list in writing, without signing
their names, the three problems in
their parental family which they con-
sidered to be the most distressing
and difficult to handle and were
causing the most trouble from a
fariiily standpoint. These problems
were to be listed in order of their
seriousness to family welfare.
That only 5 of these 450 college
men and women responded to this
request in a facetious manner, is, I
think, indicative of the fact that our
young people have a serious attitude
toward family life. Had I the time
to give you in detail and in the stu-
dents' own words some of the many
problems as stated by them, you
would be greatly impressed and also
greatly surprised to learn how keenly
the younger generation analyze our
efforts of leadership as parents and
homemakers and how they view
them. But time will permit me to
give you only a crude report and
analysis of my findings. I have group-
ed the various problems into categor-
ies, because we wish to reserve a few
minutes in which to suggest at least a
partial remedy for sorne of these
most vital problems.
Approximately 67 % of the group
listed financial difficulties as the most
serious in their family: 250 said the
difficulty was a lack of sufficient
money, and 42 said there was suf-
ficient income, but trouble was
caused by the manner of distribution
and lack of wise expenditure of the
family income.
Many expressed strong resentment
against the vicious competitive fac-
tors to which we are subjecting our
family life. This was indicated in
such statements as the following:
We cannot afford to have what our
friends or our neighbors have; we
cannot live up to the standard which
mother and father try to maintain;
we cannot associate with the people
with whom we wish to associate be-
cause we cannot afford to do the
things they do.
Whenever such problems exist in
family life I think it indicates a lack
of courage on the part of parents to
face reality and to determine their
own standard of living according to
their own incomes and live accord-
ingly, rather than to follow in a herd-
minded fashion the standards of liv-
ing that someone else has set up in
their mad effort to keep up with a
third family. And so, on and on it
goes, the result being a vicious circle
of struggle induced by our ad-
herence to false and useless values.
Also, it indicates the lack of an ap-
preciation of some of the most
valuable elements in living, and
those that offer the source of greatest
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happiness and satisfaction; namely, young people which showed 61 % .
our human relationships, our love I wonder if many children would not
for one another, the esthetic values be willing and happy to accept the
in life. companionship of their parents as a
True it is, though sad, that our substitute for a part of the lack of
young people are so conscious of the money?
lack of money as to consider it the The third category of problems
most distressing problem in family had to do with the lack of coopera-
life; but this is not surprising when tion within the family. This was
we consider that there are some listed as the most difficult problem
11,000,000 young people in the by 36.6% of the group. This cov-
United States today, between 16 and ered a wide field of difficulties.
25 years of age, who are out of school Among those listed most frequently
and out of jobs. The seriousness of were: ''Mother and father never
this condition can only be realized talk over family problems with us
when we pause to consider that these children; we children never know
years represent the mating age. Bio- why we are not allowed to do the
logically and chronologically this things we wish to, but are just told
group of young people are ready for no with no explanation given." ''Our
marriage, but economically it seems family never does anything to-
they have no chance. gether,'' was another statement.
The second category of problems Surprising indeed it was to learn
includes those listed by 53% of the that in 10 families the use of the
group and expressed in terms of bathroom was their most serious
parent-child relationship. The single problem. One student wrote, "Our
problem which was mentioned the family starts out each day with the
most frequently was the lack of com- whole family quarreling over the use
panionship between parents and of the bathroom." This problem
children. In many cases it was the may seem trivial to some of us, but
mother who was away from home so it is not trivial when we think of the
much of the time that she could not hazards to family unity and stability
supervise the children. But in the involved in a family beginning each
majority of cases it was the father day with the entire group quarreling,
who spent no time with his children. And more shame to this family and
One student said, "We would have all families who engage in quarrel-
no problem if Dad could spend more ing because of a situation such as the
time at home with us." Another one referred to, one that could be
said, "We need a father more than so easily adjusted through coopera-
anything else. When Father is not tion, a little careful management, ac-
at work he is in some meeting; we commodation of one to another—
hardly know him." Still another the mere sacrifice on the part of one
wrote, "Our problem is the same one or the other, or each in his turn, of
most families have— our parents have arising a few minutes earlier in the
no time to spend with their children, morning. Several students said that
This response is in harmony with in their families one or two members
another study made among 800 were imposed upon by other mem-
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bers, and this resulted in conflict. Other problems listed were as
Oftentimes in such cases parents follows: Emotional instability of
themselves are not aware of the fact some member of the family was
that their children feel that they are recorded by 60 students; health by
being treated unjustly because of 52; religion 34; use of the automo-
partiality shown to some member bile by 23; death of a parent by 22;
of the group. But because it is what liquor and smoking 14; in-laws by
a person things is true, whether it 20; and 9 out of the total of 450
be so or not, that* influences his be- reported that they had no serious
havior, parents should be alert in ac- or distressing problems in their
quainting themselves with the ideas famflies. I say fortunate indeed are
the chfld has in regard to the famfly these nine young men and women,
relationship situation. This calls for I trust that even though we can-
cooperation, not discuss all of these problems,
Next came the 20 per cent who the mere mention of them wfll re-
listed the husband-wife relationship suit in stimulating many of us to
as causing their most serious diffi- investigate and analyze our own fam-
culty. This category of problems re- i^Y situation that we may more fully
vealed arguments between parents, recognize our famfly problems,
lack of consideration of one parent This is important because of the
for the other, lack of efficiency, fafl- fact that the first step in the solu-
ure of the mother or father to as- tion of any problem is to be cog-
sume his or her share of the family "iz^nt of its existence,
responsibflity, and lack of agreement
between parents in the handling of f^OW I wish that I had a solution
their chfldren, such as disciplining to offer for all of these famfly
them. May I call to your attention problems, but that probably wfll
just one statement that was record- never be possible. The achievement
ed in this category: ''My father and of successful famfly life will always
mother have a regular quarrel every remain a challenge to even the most
time they decide to go to a movie; wise and intellectual. In the first
they can't agree as to which show place, there is no one cause for any
to go to, so they always spend about famfly problem; each problem rep-
an hour arguing about it, then often resents a constellation of causes in
it is too late for them to go and which there is a sequence of inci-
cach blames the other." In this case dents; likewise, there is no panacea
the important element is that to or cure-all for any social problem,
the father and mother this repeated However, there must be an an-
occurrence means nothing more swer to the economic problem; there
than an argument over a movie, but must be some way of so distributing
to the chfldren it means a conflict our resources that every famfly wfll
relationship between their father and have sufficient income for essentials,
mother. We must always remember When we discover that answer, we
that the seriousness of any famfly will have gone far toward the afle-
problem must be measured in terms viation of the stress and strain that
of its effects on the children. comes as a result of our imperfect
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economic organization. That our amount of money can ever buy? We
economic structure does not provide must place the greater value on the
economic security for our homes, immaterial things in our culture,
and that it does not afford our chil- Each family must choose its level
dren opportunity for maximum ad- of life and strive for that level re-
vantages is a fact of which we are gardless of the level its neighbor is
all aware. And we agree, no doubt, maintaining. And each family must
that one of the most disastrous re- have an appreciation of the desir-
sults of this condition is the fact ability of the immaterial things as
that such a shortage tends to de- a source of happiness and satisfac-
base the fundamental ideals of fam- tion in family life.
^v ^"^- One other suggestion I desire to
But I wonder if the opinion ex- offer in the form of an ardent
pressed by our group of students plea for the democratic form of
does not offer an indictment against family organization— family organ-
parents from another angle; namely, ization based on the marriage of a
against the set-up of the present-day man and woman who enter into the
standard of values for which we, as marriage relation as partners in the
parents, are responsible. We cannot true sense of the word, on a 50-50
and we do not wish to ignore the basis, willing to share equally the
need for money as a factor in sue- sacrifices, the responsibilities, the
cessful living. We do desire to face services, and the love and happiness
the reality of the fact that the ma- that such a marriage has to offer—
jority of families in our nation today a family in which the council meth-
actually need more than they have od of management is adopted. The
in order to provide the essentials, council plan of family management
not to mention the cultural ad- is a subject worthy of the entire af-
vantages. Even so, is not a great ternoon's discussion. Just briefly I
amount of unnecessary stress added may point out that it calls for regu-
because of the fact that we are plac- lar meetings, at least once a week,
ing too high a value on the posses- at which the entire family group is
sion of money as such? Do we not present. During these sessions it is
need to develop a more Christian the purpose to consider all family
attitude toward money? By that I problems such as : The family budget,
mean, do we not need to look upon the discipline of members, the use
money as a commodity, a medium of the automobile, the assignment
of exchange for the desirable and of duties and privileges to each
good things in life, and not as a member according to his age and
means of gaining power and pres- ability to render service; a standard
tige? Should we not aim to develop of values and a goal toward which
an appreciation of what money can each member may strive, and which
buy rather than a love of money should serve as a guide for the be-
itself? And at the same time do we havior of both the individual and
not need to emphasize the impor- the group. To epitomize, it calls for
tance of the type of happiness and a frank and honest discussion of all
success in family life which no phases of family living with all mem-
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bers of the family taking part in the
discussion. I beheve sincerely that
the family council plan of manage-
ment offers the most hopeful pos-
sibility for the solution of all of the
problems which the group of stu-
dents have called to our attention:
Financial, parent-child relationship,
lack of cooperation, husband-wife
relationship, health, and the others
mentioned.
The council plan is a significant
factor in the democratic type of
family. This form of family organ-
ization has been tested and proved
to be the most desirable. Of 3,000
marriages of five years or more du-
ration among college educated peo-
ple which were studied by Dr. Paul
Popenoe, with whom you are all
familiar, it was found according to
the judgment of relatives and close
friends, that of the 37 per cent
which were of the democratic type
of family, 87 per cent were happy;
of the 35 per cent wherein the man
was dominant, but 61 per cent were
happy; and of the 38 per cent where-
in the woman was dominant only
47 per cent were happy.
If we are successful in the accom-
plishment of improving our family
life, we must realize at the outset
that the future of the family does
not rest with fate but lies within
our own hands. And that within
the family groups of today we have
the builders of the family life of
tomorrow; that upon the significant
developments in the family more
than upon the developments of any
other institution depends the turn-
ing point in all human affairs.
In closing may I repeat some-
one's prayer for the family:
Dear God:
We thank Thee for our homes.
We are glad Thou hast set us in fam-
ilies.
Help us to respect all homes.
When we have shut the door against
all that is without,
May we find Thee always within.
Speak Thou in our family councils;
Let Thy Spirit fix our family choices.
Ever be with us in our homes.
In sun or shadow be present all our
lot to share.
Make holy that blest fellowship with
those we love.
May all homes be havens, since Thou
art there. Amen.
God in the Darkness-
Robert E. Speer writes the following:
"I was awakened the other morning about four o'clock in my room by
a little voice just beside my bed in the dark asking for a drink. I got the
little lad a drink, and he lay quiet for a moment, and then asked, 'Father,
may I sing myself to sleep?' And I said, Tes, dear, go ahead.' But soon he
got up so much enthusiasm that I told him he had better stop, or none of
the rest of us could sleep. Then he was quiet awhile, but soon I heard his
little voice again in the perfect stillness of the night. 'Father, have you got
your face turned toward me?' I said, Tes, little boy,' and the darkness was
as the light of day to him."
Not Understood
By Loh H. Gibbons
"Not understood, how many breasts are aching
For lack of sympathy? Ah, day by day
How many cheerless, lonely hearts are breaking;
How many noble spirits pass away
Not understood."
MOTHER SEWELL waked, turvy; and she hadn't been allowed
uncomfortable, after a star- one hour for rest and quiet and re-
tling sense of being pushed membering, which she felt she need-
and shoved along a dark road. She ed so badly after the ordeal of bury-
looked at the clock on the chair— ing her life's companion. And she
4:50. She drew one arm from un- was oh so tired,
der the covers, but a sharp pain in Immediately, the day the letter
her shoulder caused her to draw it came, Edna had moved right in and
back quickly; and knowing that the other girls had come with their
when she would move her legs the babies, and oh what a lot of excite-
pain would shoot across her back, ment and talk and getting things
resentment welled up in her mind. done.
She stretched forth the other arm ''Ma, you can study Shakespeare
to reach for Jane's letter. at last!"
''Ouch," and the arm was drawn "And see the college opera!"
back with a resigned sigh. "Oh "Momie, maybe they'll let you
what's the use? I know what it says take part in one of their plays."
—every word: 'Dear Mother mine: "They might. Ma."
Fm going to tell you something Mother had always been a won-
thrilling! I've thought it all out. der to them, and often when help-
You're coming to live with me this ing them with lines they must learn
winter. You will, won't you? I'm they would exclaim, "Gee, Ma, you
coming after you next Friday, and ought to be in the movies."
we'll be back here Sunday night. Of course they were thrilled over
You'll just have to come. We've the idea of Mother going back to
all decided. Edna is going to give school. It had been her dream-
up her apartment and take care of after the family was reared. But
the home for you. Helen and Etta nursing ten children through mea-
will help you get ready. Al can sles and mumps, pneumonia and
take care of the cows and chickens, broken collar bones, falling in love.
You'll have not one single thing to going away to college and so on had
worry about. And Mother, we live made her stop talking about it, even
just under the college hill, and you stop thinking about it; but she still
can go to school again!' " remembered.
Three days ago this letter had Each of the children, as young-
come. So soon after the funeral— sters do at a certain age, had gone
even before the last flowers had treasure hunting in mother's mem-
withered and been thrown away— ories and had discovered her old,
and it had turned everything topsy- old high school letters and note
books. One scrap book, kept up dur-
ing her first few years of married
life, was full of pictures of college
campuses, reviews of college plays
and operas, graduation announce-
ments, pictures and lists of contest-
ants and prize winners.
"It's the only thing for you to do.
Mother," they had all insisted when
she hesitated and tried to think.
''Jane lives right in a college
town."
''Now your girlhood dreams will
come true!"
But that was such a long time
ago, those girlhood dreams. She
wished they could understand how
different it was now that Delmar
could not go with her, and how she
felt about leaving her home— their
home, his home.
The children didn't know that
every brick and stone and piece of
furniture in this home that Delmar
had built for her told of his presence;
that her mind held a thousand
images of him as he worked about;
that she would always lean on the
strength that had been his.
How could they know that the
good-by morning kisses, so much
routine to them, had carried her
through the countless tasks of moth-
erhood each day for forty years, and
that each night the beat of her heart
had quickened as he came through
the door? It would be hard to leave
this home.
She wished she could tell them
all to mind their own business and
let her stay and be lonesome in
peace.
But then maybe the children were
right. Maybe she was the one who
couldn't understand. Maybe once
she got awav everything would be
different, and she wouldn't miss him
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so much. It did seem though that
having husbands and wives of their
own should help her children to un-
derstand just a little how she felt.
Yes, Edna would live in the home
and she knew it would be well taken
care of, and Albert had laughed
amusedly when she seemed so con-
cerned over the stock and barns and
sheds and machinery which had al-
ways been kept in place like so many
chess men just before the game be-
gins. But there was J. Delmar, her
eldest son— Junior Delmar, named
after his father and cut down to J.
Delmar or just J. D. Somehow
even marriage hadn't stopped his
coming for help. He had always
demanded more of her than the
others. The boy with his problems.
Not a bad boy by any means, just
irresponsible. And to cap it all he'd
married a girl who was something of
a problem herself, and now they
had three little problems. Things
hadn't been going too smoothly for
them.
And besides, what was the use of
sponging off Jane when she had a
home of her own?
^^IV/IOMIE, aren't you going to get
up today? The fire's going
and breakfast is almost ready."
"You up, Edna? Well, well. I
must have dozed off again. That
sun is high."
It was the next day before Mother
found time to write:
"Aug. 30, '38.
"It's Wednesday morning, Jane. If I'm
lucky I'll get this finished today. I've
been so tired the last few days, getting
ready and all. Have hurried so fast get-
ting the big boys off to the mill and then
trying to pick tomatoes, which seems a
harder job this year than CNcr before; and
all the time keeping the stove full of
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grapes — juice and jam. Then right in the
middle of it we had company — the kind
that helps — and by last night we had 40
quarts tomato juice, 5 qts. jam, 10 qts.
grape juice, had sold some honey, bought
some pears, talked on the phone, and
everything else imaginable. Oh yes, we
finished taking out the honey the other
day — 145 gals. I wish Daddy could have
known that — the most ever taken out at
one time.
"Today most everyone is at the County
Fair but me. I'm too lazy. Still have a
lot of jerky pains in my di-a-phram, if
that's the way you spell the place where
it hurts. Slept though, after Edna decor-
ated me with mustard plasters and hot
water bottles. It makes me so peeved to
think I can't do things like I used to.
"We're having a fat hen and mashed
potatoes and ice cream for dinner. It's
company at Fair time you know. Here
come some of them now. I'm going to
hide out and finish this. Edna and Helen
can make the gravy and set the table,
'cause if I don't get this finished I'll beat
the letter there.
"Now I'm up in the store room perch-
ed up on a huge box like a queen. And no-
body will think to look for a queen in a
mess like this.
"I have already killed all my chickens
that won't lay this winter and put them
in bottles. You see I must bring some-
thing along to help pay for my keep.
"In between times we have been mend-
ing, sorting, remodeling. Have packed a
lot of things. But seems like the nearer
I get to leaving, the harder it is. I guess
I'll be rarin' when the time comes, though.
Sometimes I get the queerest feelings.
'They're calling, Jane. Something's
happened. I can tell by their voices. Finish
later—"
Mother Sewell slipped from her
box throne and hurried downstairs.
''It's a special delivery letter,
Mama, from J. Delmar. Read it/'
Edna insisted.
It was from J. Delmar. There
was something foreboding about it.
Her fingers shook a little, and there
was the place in her throat where
you could see her heart beat like a
tiny drum whenever she hurried or
got too excited. You could see the
tiny drum there now, beating away.
Years of mothering J. Delmar had
taught her that when he wrote he
was in trouble and coming to her
to find a way out.
'Til take it in here." Her eyes
pleaded with her grown daughters
as she slipped into her bedroom.
"Dear Mother: Sonia and I just can't
make a go of it. Don't you think I've
stood it long enough? She's been going
a little too strong while I was away, so
we're going to split up. I must find some-
one to care for the children. Would you
do that for me, Mother? I'll send you
at least fifty dollars a month. Love, J. D."
Her heart was beating like mad
and coming right up into her head
and pounding hard in her ears. The
tiny drum in her throat was beating
furiously.
"Now they cannot make me leave
my home. I will stay and help }.
Delmar who needs me," she vowed
exultantly. "I will stay and take
care of his babies." But then, oddly
enough, there flashed to her mind
the words of her husband the time
their eldest son had killed a horse
accidentally— he was seventeen then,
always breaking horses and riding
wild steers— and her husband had
said to her:
"Don't you think. Mama, that it's
just about time you let the boy fight
his own battles? It won't hurt him
to take the responsibility of paying
for that horse. You deserve a new
spring outfit with your butter and
cheese money."
With a sharp stab of pain she re-
membered that finally her spring
outfit had gone to pay for the horse
and that her husband had looked
hurt. Remembering that hurt look
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JUNE - 399
on his face, she had always felt
guilty.
Her thoughts wete suddenly shat-
tered. She could hear laughing and
joking and fun making in the kitch-
en. Her two big boys, not married
but wanting to be, were back from
the mill on the mountain and like
little boys, unable to wait for dinner,
had snitched the cookie plate. Of
course, she should have expected
them back for the big dance.
So much noise and confusion.
And then she remembered Al-
bert's pants.
"Momie," he called, his mouth
crammed with cookie, his head
poked through her bedroom door,
''did you fix that carpenter's square
in my Sunday pants?"
''Oh dear. I forgot all about it.
But I'll do it now." Rather shaky,
she arose from the little rocker she
kept by her bed, and tucked the let-
ter well under her pillow. The girls
would be curious, but they didn't
need to know— yet. No need to
have a big scene when they were all
having such a good time together.
"Forget it, Al," said Dick. "Profit
by your college training and do it
yourself. Ma isn't able to do those
things like she used to. I'll press
while you bathe and then you can
take a turn."
jyt OTHER SEWELL tried to be
gay with her children. She had
taken lots of jolts in her life, and
she had learned lots of things
through the years. But that queer
little hurt stayed in her breast. A
hurt because the big boys thought
she couldn't do all the things she
used to do. And there was a heavy
dull ache around her heart because
}. D. was in such trouble, and she
didn't know what Delmar would
want her to do about it. The flood
gates refused to open and give re-
lief.
That evening they all joyfully
went to the big dance and the fair
with its merry-go-round, and left
mother to rest up in the quiet. She
had asked them to let her stay, and
they thought perhaps it was best,
too, for Edna had noticed the little
drum beating most of the time this
afternoon. Mother Sewell took J.
Delmar's special delivery letter from
under her pillow, and also the letter
she had written to Jane, and bring-
ing the little oak rocker Delmar had
made for her she sat down and pray-
ed for understanding and guidance.
Her soul was on its knees. She must
know what Delmar would have her
do.
No woman had ever had a strong-
er, more reliable pillar to lean on
than had she. It seemed to her he
had always known which road to
take. The children hadn't under-
stood how much of her life he was.
He had been so quiet around the
house; they had dealt with her most-
ly—and she was still there. The
neighbors hadn't understood. Oh
if they needed a special prayer, a
prayer from an honest heart which
went straight to God, a prayer from
one who lived His commandment
that "Ye love one another as I have
loved you," then they asked her hus-
band in his strength of character to
utter that prayer.
But she alone knew his kindness,
thoughtfulness and humility. With
every baby her joy had been so full,
because he seemed to so fully sense
the glory and honor of motherhood.
She thought of him now as he had
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taken each child in his arms to bless
it.
A tear rolled down her nose.
Something must be the matter
with her glasses. She took them
off and wiped them carefully on
the underside of her tie-apron, then
put them on again. That was a lit-
tle better, not much.
She picked up the special delivery
letter. Again she could see so plain-
ly that hurt look on his face when
she told him she had given }. D.
the money to pay for the ''broken
horse/' and again when she had sign-
ed his note to buy the little red road-
ster. Suddenly she knew that it was
probably because J. Delmar had al-
ways depended on her that he was
unable to make a go of it now; and if
she were not here to take care of his
children he would probably forgive
his wife, and be able to keep her
close to him for future years of satis-
faction and hope instead of parting
from her and reaping only sadness
and regrets.
Yes. That would be what her
husband would want her to do. She
would go to Jane's. There the goal
she had almost gained forty years
before, and given up because of love,
could be realized. She would hunt
out that little blue and gold college
banner that she had bought just be-
fore Edna was born. It would be
such fun! And she would study
Shakespeare, even see some of his
plays. She would get a seat on the
front row. She could read Victor
Hugo's book Les Miseiahles and
take all the time she needed to think
about it, and it would be nice and
quiet in that big library so full of
books. She would hear the college
opera in the spring and hear the
chorus sing often. There were fine
lecturers and educators for class
work— she would take just one class
to begin with— but they gave won-
derful talks in assemblies, and she
would go to these. And she could
hear the band practice from under
the hill where Jane lived. It would
be hard to climb that hill in the
winter when it was icy. If Delmar
could just be there to go with her
and help her up that hill! What
fun that would be!
Trembling fingers lifted the pen-
cil; with determination she wrote:
"Dear son, I'm leaving for Jane's next
Sunday morning, colors flying — "
And then it seemed that her hus-
band came and stood by her side,
wanting her so.
She leaned back to rest a moment
—a moment in the little oak rocker
which she had used to rock each of
his babies. She could feel his pres-
ence tenderly, lovingly by her side.
He was so close.
It was like all the years— the years
they had worked and waited and
had their babies— had slipped away
and they were young again, and to-
gether.
There was no ache or pain as she
lifted her hand for his — and arose
to go with him.
HAPPENINGS
By Annie WeJ/s Cannon
TUNE— A world brimming over other lands are organizing to take
^ with fragrance, beauty, and song over naval jobs in case of war.
is a testament of God's beneficence. ^yjARJORY KINNIN RAWL-
QUEEN ELIZABETH is her own ^ ^ INGS received the Pulitzer
^ stylist, and English women take prize of $1,000 for the most distin-
notice. She shunned the extremely guished novel of last year, "The
short skirts in her wardrobe for the Yearling," a pastoral story of a Flor-
American tour. Did American worn- ida boy.
en take notice? p^ ^ TARBELL has delighted
OUTH BRYAN OWEN RHODE her many admirers by printing
is said to be as eloquent and ''All In The Day's Work," an auto-
magnetic as her distinguished father biography. It is the story of a great
on the lecture platform. Blood will American who has fearlessly ap-
tell. proached life and stood for liberal
thought and action. "My Days of
JgLEANOR ROOSEVELT, ver- Strength" is another interesting biog-
satile and accomplished, is a raphy by Anne Walton Fearn, an
patron of art and never happier than American woman doctor who spent
when displaying some of her col- forty years in China.
lections, among them her Goya xrzA a a/tttxtoz-n
etchings of which she is especially £;J-I>^AA.MUNS0N,9i, of Circle-
pjoud. ^^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^ month. She was
a member of the Daughters of the
T AURA INGALLS, most daring Mormon Battalion and Daughters of
aviatrix since the ill-fated Amelia Utah Pioneers and a devoted Latter-
Earhart, lost somewhere in the day Saint.
South Seas, has planned a solo dis- t^tt^tt t r>Ar)rT-r>TT^^T- r tt. i
tance flight record across the Pacific. R^™ ^' PARTRIDGE of Utah
has recently written a novel "Ad-
OILDA YEN, touring America in ventures With A Lamp," the story
behalf of Chinese refugees, was of a nurse. Elsie C. Carroll is a
severely injured in a plane crash, contributor to "Women Of The
Regaining consciousness she said, "I West" and Anna Prince Redd's Re-
would gladly die for the cause." li^f Society contest prize poem "No
Beauty Is" appears in "North Amer-
^NNA SCHETININA is the ican Book of Verse," while other an-
first of the Soviet seagoing thologies of 1939 are recognizing a
women to achieve the rank of Cap- number of Utah women poets,
tain, and there are 8,800 women among them Nellie Parker, member
sailors besides over 2,000 women of the Relief Society General Board,
running river boats. Besides the and Mary Leona Jolley, postmistress
Russians, women in England and at Tropic.
THE RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
lULIA A. F. LUND ------- General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Amy Whipple Evans Emeline Y. Nebeker Leda T. Jensen
Emma A. Empey Rosannah C. Irvine Janet M. Thompson Beatrice F. Stevens
Annie Wells Cannon Nettie D. Bradford Belle S. Spafford Rae B. Barker
Lalene H. Hart Ida P. Beal Donna Durrani Sorensen Nellie O. Parker
Cora L. Bennion Marcia K. Howells Vivian R. McConkie Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor __>_-------.-- Belle S. Spafford
Manager .__-------- Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI JUNE, 1939 No.6
DITORIAL
^Jjiviaea Kytttention
T^HE Savior said there are those If the radio is allowed to play dur-
who have ears but they hear not ing the reading and study period, it
and those who have eyes but they is bound to divert the attention and
see not. Some of us go through life decrease our ability to understand
and arrive at the sunset end with those things we find written in the
such a meager knowledge of the best of books. In some homes the
Gospel that we may well wonder jf radio is allowed to play all day
we are those to whom the Savior long, possibly with the hope that
referred— have ears and hear not. something worth while will come on,
The average woman reads one or or because of fearing to miss the
two hours a week, and is in regular good features that do come on the
church meetings and classes perhaps air.
two to four hours a week— some Some of our young people attend
more, some less. While much of church in a purely social way, and
our time may be spent in interpret- the officers conducting the meetings
ing the Gospel plan in our daily and classes are just taken for granted,
lives, only about five per cent of as the radio is at home; sometimes
our waking hours is actually spent they pay attention and sometimes
in study and contemplation of this not, but certainly the speaker or class
most important thing in life. leader need not interfere with their
If we really apply ourselves during thoughts or plans or the general so-
the five per cent of our time without cial experience they are having in
dividing our attention too severely, church.
we have great opportunities to grow Many of us are in the habit of
and increase in knowledge and wis- relaxing so completely when attend-
dom. But all too many of us allow ing church that we sleep or allow
our attention to be diverted from ourselves to get into a stupor so deep
the main purpose, and the five per that not even the most important
cent is reduced in some cases to a things penetrate our minds, and
point where it is a question if any much of the value of our five per
real, lasting benefits are received. cent is lost. Such a small portion
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JUNE - 403
of our time is spent at the feet of
good teachers and in spiritual and
cultural classes that we cannot afford
to waste that time by relaxing so
completely.
Some women have felt they were
conserving time to knit or do other
hand or needle work in the Relief
Society or other church meetings.
President Robison is particularly
anxious that this habit stop, as it di-
vides the attention of the women
so engaged, and it is evidence of
discourtesy toward those conducting
the exercises, including of course the
class leader.
Some one has said that "genius
is only the power of sustained atten-
tion". Let us see that our attention
is sustained until the very end, par-
ticularly during our study and read-
ing periods and in our organization
and church meetings that we may
better understand the Plan of Salva-
tion, the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
''He that hath an ear, let him
hear."
(!:yur Viewpoint
\ SURVEY of the activities of sponsibilities. Perhaps no one ever
Relief Society for 1938-39 reveals put his hand to the plow of an en-
a year characterized by unusual terprise without indulging for at least
growth and achievement. Over a brief moment in such thoughts.
5,000 women have joined our ranks. But natural as it is to want to reTm-
adding strength to the Society; ac- quish responsibility it is unwise. Only
complishments in the field of welfare as we accept it do we grow. The
are a source of satisfaction, while fundamental road to advancement
the educational program has never is individual effort— work,
been more ably carried forward. Latter-day Saint women, through
However, as the year draws to a divine inspiration, have been given
close the inclination of most of us definite assignments; the fulfillment
is not to focus attention upon of these brings development. When
achievements but rather to view in we assume the attitude that too
restrospect the difficulties encoun- much is required of us we not only
tered, the problems met, and the stand in the way of our individual
great amount of effort which per- advancement but we also retard the
formance of our duties has entailed, work of the Organization. The Re-
So easily wearied, we are prone to lief Society program -properly inter-
feel that it has all been so much preted, with work intelligently dele-
work. We rationalize: "In former
days before we assumed this re-
sponsibility we walked whither we
would. Shall we continue to be
burdened with the heavy load;
gated, does not unduly burden any
woman.
If we will erase from mind the
idea that we are overworked, that
we are making sacrifices out of pro-
obliged to continually think of others portion to what should be required
and not to please ourselves? Shall of us, we will find maximum enjoy-
we go on?" Such thoughts are both ment, advancement and success in
natural and common in view of re- the work of Relief Society.
World Center For
Women's Archives
By Virginia Diiggs Clark
4 4 \V 7"HERE are the official his-
\\/ tories and documents of
our pioneer women?"
This question was asked of four
hundred women assembled in the
city of Washington, D. C. at a
meeting of the World Center for
Women's Archives. The question
was asked by Fola La Follette,
daughter in the famous La Follette
family of Wisconsin. She explained
that having an unusual interest in
history she was fascinated with the
stories of western settlement but
felt something was lacking. She
concluded that stories dealing with
pioneer women had been omitted.
Careful research revealed numerous
records rich in the activities of men
but not of women; the story of wom-
ankind was probably hidden away
in diaries, letters, miscellaneous
notes and references, or in the mem-
ories of people— seldom written.
The World Center for Women's
Archives was organized two years
ago by Mary Beard, wife of our
prominent historian, Dr. Charles A.
Beard, with the support of Mrs.
Franklin D. Roosevelt and a group
of nationally known women. Its
purposes are:
"To make a systematic search for un-
deposited source materials dealing with
women's lives and activities, interests and
ideas, as members of society everywhere.
Included in such source materials will be
letters, diaries, speeches, pamphlets and
articles, manuscripts of books in special
cases, notes and memoranda, programs of
work and publicity.
"To reproduce important materials, al-
ready deposited elsewhere, by means of
microfilming and other modern processes.
"To become a clearing-house of infor-
mation with respect to the location and
character of source materials on women
in other libraries and institutions.
"To encourage recognition of women
as co-makers of history."
Inez Haynes Irwin, Chairman of
the Board of Directors of Women's
Archives, related the part played by
Kathryn Greene as co-inventor of
the cotton gin. The part played by
Eli Whitney in this important in-
vention has been fully emphasized,
but very little credit has been given
to Kathryn Greene. It is only simple
justice that women be recognized for
their contributions to life.
Mary Beard, speaking to this gath-
ering, declared that women should
be recognized as co-makers of his-
tory; the Hall of Fame has been
founded, but there are very few
women in it. An appeal was also
made by Dorothy Detzer, Secretary
of the Women's International
League for Peace, who urged that
in collecting the histories of women
we do not forget their hopes and
dreams.
The organization for a world
center for women's archives is only
two years old, but is growing rapidly.
At the present time there is no build-
ing in which to store precious col-
lections; there is no permanent fund
to assure the organization's stability,
but there are hundreds of women all
over the country whose interest in
preserving the traditions, histories
and writings of women will make the
dreams of the organization a reality.
The Shining Heart
By Sibyl Spande Bowen
Character Description and
Synopsis— 4TH Installment
WEATHER-BEATEN and gray, the
Carey mansion overlooks Puget
Sound. A crumbling reminder of the bet-
ter days of the Carey family, the dank, over-
grown place is beloved by its owner, gray-
haired
"MISS BRILL" CAREY, who earns her
living as a seamstress. Miss Brill had
overdone her strength the day she went
to ask wealthy old Philander Maddox
for a job for her niece. Returning home,
she is stricken on the roadside, where she
is found dazed and ill by the niece,
lovely red-haired young
NELL CAREY, who is returning from a
movie with Fred Nagle. Nell has ambi-
tions to be an artist, but no money.
Miss Brill had determined to provide
this opportunity and thereby perhaps
break up the girl's half-hearted engage-
ment to
FRED NAGLE, a too-material young
chicken farmer, bent chiefly on "getting
ahead". He was also determined not to
lose Nell, and was no more disturbed
by Miss Brill's news of Nell's job than
he was by the presence of the new ten-
ant of the Carey's Alaska house, young
ROBERT LATHROP, mysterious and ir-
ritable convalescent. Determined to oc-
cupy the sourdough cabin — comfortable
log replica of an Alaskan cabin — on the
Carey property, Lathrop rouses the ire of
Nell, who believes his presence will dis-
turb her aunt. The young man surprises
the girl by winning the complete confi-
dence of the stricken woman.
Hopelessly bed-ridden and unable to
speak since her stroke. Miss Brill is the
obstacle to Nell's career as an artist. But
the girl has discovered she is a foundling,
no relation to the supposed aunt, and re-
solves to give herself entirely to the in-
valid's care. She has promised to marry
Fred by the end of summer if Miss Brill
does not improve, and feels herself trapped.
Roused from her despair by the announce-
ment of a local art scholarship contest, Nell
busies herself to prepare an entry.
CHAPTER FIVE
IF there was one thing Nell liked
to paint better than another, it
was Puget Sound. All her days
and nights had been colored by
sights and sounds of that rambling
bit of the Pacific Ocean that found
its way between the pine-covered
hills of western Washington. She
knew it blue and calm, as soft and
silky as a baby's rumpled crib cover;
she knew it gray and sullen under
misty rain, its green border blotted
out by low-hanging clouds. She
knew it as a gay, brilliant playground
for the dancing whitecaps of its own
waves and the slanting sails of small
sporting crafts that dotted it on brisk
days. And she knew it angrily toss-
ing great logs from broken booms
onto its rocky beach under the lash
of a forty-mile gale.
The Carey house faced the widest
possible expanse of the water. To
the south the channel narrowed on
its way to the ports of Seattle and
Tacoma. Dividing it to the north
was the bulk of Whidby Island,
sending the water's eastern channel
to Bellingham, its western to follow
a wide path to lovely Canadian Vic-
toria. But westward were the Straits
of Juan de Fuca, and this gateway
Nell loved, this vast mystery of the
ocean out of which suddenly materi-
alized tiny specks that became the
freighters of Japan, of Italy, of far-off
Australia that made incessant parade
past the Carey front door.
Nell had placed her easel on the
old pier that Tom Carey had built to
moor his fishing boat. It was a good
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pier, on stout cedar piles that never
wavered under the heaviest water.
The girl had placed her stool' slightly
on an angle, and through the corner
of her eye she could see the Alaska
house.
Stretched in his deck chair on the
platform, hat pulled low over his
be-goggled face, was Mr. Robert
Lathrop, the ex-prowler, week-long
tenant of the cabin, but still a hos-
tile stranger as far as Nell was con-
cerned.
Nell resented him. She had never
actually talked with the man. His
curt nod when she passed him on
the path as he swung down the slope
to his cabin, an irritable ''great guns,
not even a telephone" when he had
asked if he might use theirs, and a
few arrogant inquiries as to the
source of supply of butter, eggs and
milk (they must be fresh) was all
the contact she had had with him.
She had been amazed once, com-
ing home from the village, to hear
his laugh coming from Miss Brill's
room, and after iic had gone the in-
valid had been pink-cheeked and al-
most gay. Nell had spouted her
indignation at his audacity in annoy-
ing a sick woman. Miss Brill had
merely smiled.
''Does me good," she had man-
aged, "I like him."
But Nell didn't. Fortunately, this
odious man spent most of his time
stretched on his deck chair in the
sun on the terrace, wrapped like a
cocoon in a rug of violent Scotch
plaid, sleeping, or pretending to. He
had told Mary Kelly he was con-
valescing from some nervous disor-
der. He had been most vague and
embarrassed about it.
"I've seen men as looked like that.
pale and hateful, when they come
out of prison," Mary Kelly had fin-
ished darkly.
"Oh, Mrs. Kelly," protested Nell,
"you mustn't say such things." But
secretly she had a suspicion the good
woman might be right. Somehow,
she did not trust Robert Lathrop.
For one thing, she resented his
clothes. A man had no business
wearing ties as beautiful as those Mr.
Lathrop wore.
Nell shook her hair back impa-
tiently. This would never do. Sit-
ting here resenting the Lathrop nui-
sance would win no scholarships.
For one thing, it put her in the
wrong mood. She dipped her brush
into the gray paint she had mixed,
and plied it with care. A little more
red! The Sound just before dawn
was a different gray than during a
rain. It had a peculiar cast of trans-
lucent rose that hinted of the com-
ing light but did not tell it clearly.
That was the effect she must get.
She forgot Robert Lathrop com-
pletely and painted furiously.
"H'm. Not bad. Not bad at all."
'T^HE voice behind her was bland,
a little patronizing, but friendly.
Nell had to stare to convince herself
that it belonged to the hostile tenant
of the Alaska house. He had his
glasses off, his dark hair was rumpled.
His sweater of hunter's green suited
exactly the slight tan that he had
coaxed on his face. Nell was startled
and not a little confused. He was
not thirty-five— not even thirty. He
might possibly be twenty-five, but
not a day older.
Robert Lathrop grinned. "You
act as if you'd never seen me before,"
he said.
"I haven't," Nell blurted truth-
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fully. She really hadn't seen him— Lathrop laughed a little as though
only the distorted image she had ere- he were ashamed of his enthusiasm,
ated of him. "I mean/' she indicated He looked curiously at the girl. That
the sun glasses in his hand, "not hair! Only once before had he seen
without those." hair that exact shade of dark red,
''They do make a difference. Have with highlights like old, rubbed ma-
to wear 'em though till the eye trou- hogany. Abruptly he realized he
ble clears up. But I wanted to have was staring, and turned hastily to
a look at your work. They tell me the picture again,
you are an artist." "Wliere did you get the idea? It
Nell smiled uncertainly. "That might hit the committee in the eye
remains to be seen. I want to be Y^^-
one. I'm going to enter this in the Nell sparkled again. "Ever since
contest, the one for the scholarship." I was big enough to climb out of my
Lathrop's pleasantness was drown- bed I've been up before dawn to
ed in a scowl. "What do you want watch the navy come up the Sound
to monkey with contests for? Work for fleet week. You look and look
yourself up to a pitch and get drop- and can't see a thing. You make
ped with a thud. Do you realize up your mind they aren't coming,
how many 'would-be world beaters' and finally you make the first one
try in those things? People with out, gray as a ghost, and so terribly
years of training! There are bound businesslike. I'd hate to be one of
to be dozens better than you." our enemies at sea. And then they
"And maybe not," Nell retorted ^^^^^ i"^* ^^ ^^^ ^P^^*^' ""^^^ ^^'^^^'^
sharply. "It's one way of finding ^ ^^^^ ^f them clear to Seattle from
out how good— or bad— I really am. *"^ straits.
I'm not afraid." "Sounds interesting," Lathrop
Lathrop shrugged. "So you're the murmured, watching the girl's face,
game kind, eh?" ^Fhen, grudgingly, "You paint too tensely, too careful-
"That's a fairly good picture you've ly, wave for wave, cloud for cloud."
got there. Too quiet, though. "I know, I've got to suggest more.
Doesn't smack you in the eye." He outline less. Trouble is, I can't seem
leaned closer, then stood back to do it. Well, I can only try."
squinting through lashes long and Lathrop shrugged, his mouth bit-
dark as Nell's own. "I don't know, ter again. "That's so, Pollyanna.
now — those battleships stringing 'Do and dare,' 'strive and succeed',
along, almost as gray as the water Those are the old saws upon which
and sky. The lights in the crows they build contests like this, child."
nests! Gosh, they look stealthy as Nell gasped under the cold deluge
Indians sneaking up on you. Sort of his cynicism. "Why shouldn't
of sinister." I 'do and dare'? Listen, you're so
Nell's eyes shone. Pink spots wise. A little while ago I thought
glowed in her pale cheeks. "You the world was down on me because
see that? That's what I'm trying I had to give up something I wanted
to get. Oh, I'm so glad you think desperately. So I just sat and gloom-
I'm going in the right direction." ed and felt so sorry for poor littie me.
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Then I heard something that jolted 'Toung men who marry restless
me out of it, so Fm in this thing to young women ought to receive a
win— to try and do as much for Aunt medal. They keep so many idle
Brill as she's done for me. Certainly brains out of mischief/' Lathrop de-
Fd never get any place sitting down clared, his cynical self again. ''A
in my despair in a deck chair and good cook is worth a dozen second-
going to sleep." rate artists, any day."
Lathrop laughed shortly. 'Thanks. IVTELL disdained to reply to this,
I deserve that, I suppose. But really, -i-^ so the young man resumed his
Miss Carey, you've chosen a hard goggles, his plaid rug and his hori-
role. The only people who aren't zontal position in the deck chair,
trying to be artists in this day and studying the bent head of the artist
age are those who want to be movie behind the screen of his dark glasses,
actors or writers. This thing, now. That hair had bothered him, but it
You think you're in a contest, and Jid so no longer. He knew where
a couple of hundred other earnest he had seen it. It was just shortly
young dupes think the same. But after the great war, and he had seen
you'll find out! The winning can- it on the head of a very pretty, if
vases will all be in the bag before haughty, young lady, who used to
a single 'contest' entry comes in." come to talk with his mother. He
Lathrop's face had become a dull remembered, did Robert Lathrop,
red, his voice almost a snarl. hanging behind his mother's chair
Nell said sharply, 'Tou can't and watching the lights play on the
mean that. There must be some lovely red hair of the caller until he
mistake!" was reminded sharply to go out and
'There's a mistake, all right," play with the other little boys.
Robert Lathrop said harshly, "and "^Vl1en this Nell gets some sense
you're making it. Don't tell me I she's going to be a beauty. Better
didn't warn you. Either go in this than the other one," Lathrop told
thing expecting nothing — which, himself. And the thought of that
please believe it, is all you'll get— or other red-haired beauty tantalized
stay out of it. You haven't a chance." him. He had so many pieces of a
"No," cried Nell, and indicated puzzle that lacked but little of being
the dank gray house behind her, the a complete picture. He lay so quiet-
overgrown, neglected yard, "I can't ly in his deck chair one would have
give myself— Aunt Brill— up to this, thought him asleep. At length he
Fve got to struggle out of it." whistled softly.
Lathrop's face was its normal pale "She's the one. She has to be,"
olive again. "You could always get he said aloud. Trouble was he had
married. Don't tell me that thick nothing but the looks of the girl
young fellow with the scrubbed look and the whispers of Mrs. Mary Kelly
about him comes to see auntie." to go on. If only Miss Brill could
Nell laughed, and the tension be- talk— or would,
tween them eased. "It's been sug- The young man's face glowed
gested— the marriage part of it, I with an almost fanatic fervor. This
mean." girl, if she had lots of money, would
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forget about her art. She'd abandon Carey, young, but lightly touched by
the long, heartbreaking quest for a the art madness yet, could be saved
mirage that would almost certainly from that, and he, Robert Lathrop,
never materialize. This quest that knew part of the way to do it. Some-
sucked the life blood of young, vital how the old lady must be made to
people and left them bitter, disil- tell him what she knew,
lusioned and forever haunted! Nell (To be continued)
DESERTED HOMESTEAD
By Olive C. Wehr
Litde deserted house
Here at the desert's edge.
Browned by the desert sun,
You wait forlorn—
A symbol
Of the unconquered—
A lost hope,
A broken dream.
And once— a home.
All day long
The desert winds
Cry their songs
About you.
Ghost-children
Of a long-forgotten past,
They run and play, »
And toss the sand
By little handfuls
In through broken windows.
A red tomato can
On a rusty stove.
An old love letter
On a dusty shelf.
And a broken toy-
Mute memories
Of a living past.
Heartaches,
And final despair.
The Legend of the Green Gates
By Edith Young Booth
WHOEVER has traveled
through the towns of south-
ern Utah must remember
the historic and interesting city of
Saint George, founded by a group
of outstanding men and women
whom the great pioneer leader, Brig-
ham Young, called to settle the
''Dixie" country. Here a marvelous
community was established as a re-
sult of perseverance and industry.
Even though extreme hardships
were encountered, St. George be-
came one of the outstanding early
pioneer settlements of Utah.
To reach this city near the border
line of the "Territory" required
weeks of travel over roads that were
scarcely more than trails; yet many
of the Church leaders built beautiful
winter homes here and thus enjoyed
a climate which excelled even Cali-
fornia's sunny vales. The homes of
President Young, Orson Pratt, Eras-
tus Snow and others remain as in-
teresting landmarks of the early
"sixties".
The beloved President, Brigham
Young, had designated this city as
the place where a temple should be
erected. This building was com-
menced several years after the foun-
dations of the Salt Lake Temple
were laid; yet, through the enthusi-
astic efforts of the St. George peo-
ple, assisted by willing volunteers
from all parts of Utah, it became
the first temple west of the Missis-
sippi River to be dedicated.
As the building progressed, vari-
ous materials were sent from Salt
Lake City and other places to be
used in its construction. As it neared
completion, the workers anxiously
awaited the paint and other materi-
als to be used in finishing the great
edifice. They had been compelled
to discontinue activities because of
the delay in receiving these. After
weeks of weary travel over muddy,
slippery roads, the supplies arrived.
Eagerly the unloading was watch-
ed, and how happy every one of the
big family of St. George felt when
they at last beheld the kegs of paint.
The temple grounds were buzzing
with humanity, as all hands were
ready and eager to assist in this great
work. After impatiently waiting for
what seemed an interminable pe-
riod, the containers were opened.
White paint had been ordered, but
in filling the order it was clearly ap-
parent that "some one had blun-
dered," for instead of white the
spectators gazed on paint of a bril-
liant green hue!
A wail of disappointment rent the
air, and a look of deep despair flood-
ed the countenances of the gathered
throng. Women wept and men
stormed at this unexpected turn of
affairs.
Travel was slow in those days,
but after weeks of delay another
consignment of paint of the right
color was received— this time ac-
companied by demonstrations of
great joy and thanksgiving.
When asked what should become
of the green paint. President Young
said that any man who would put
his fences in good condition and
build a suitable gate should be given
enough paint to paint the gate.
The numerous green gates still
remaining in all sections of St.
George manifest that the people
took advantage of Brigham Young's
offer.
The Body's Need For Vitamins
By Dt. Rose H. Widtsoe
Home Economics Department— University of Utah
(Vitamins C, D, and G will be considered in this article)
VITAMIN C ' however, as children are subject to
While each vitamin has its own scurvy if their diet is deficient in
specific identity and specific func- vitamin C over a sufficiently long
tions, as a group they work together period of time. Mary Swartz Rose
in regulating the body functions. in her text, The Foundations of
The disease known as scurvy is Nutrition, cites examples of children
caused by the absence or deficiency afflicted with scurvy. A London
of vitamin C in the diet and is one physician found three children out
of the oldest deficiency diseases of a large number in a certain hos-
known. Any group of people, such pital suffering from scurvy, while
as sailors, soldiers, or explorers, that all the others were free from this
was restricted to such foods as cereal disease. He sought out the cause
products, dried meat and fish, over and found that the diet of the first
long periods of time, were affected child had for the previous eight
with scurvy. Stories of spectacular months been "oatmeal, rusks, and
cures are cited. A group of explor- water with a little mutton broth";
ers camped during the winter near the second child had lived for the
an Indian village. Both the Indians previous three months on ''bread
and the explorers were ill with and butter with a one-seventh share
scurvy. These men quickly re- of a pint of milk together with a
covered from the disease by taking patent infant food"; the third 'liad
the juice and sap of the leaves of a been weaned two years and then fed
tree. While not definitely known, bread, butter and tea with occasion-
this tree is thought to have been the ally some sausage and a little brandy
American Spruce.^ Another in- and water". The other children who^
stance of remarkable healing in 1747 did not have the disease had been
was effected by the use of orange, accustomed to eating potatoes. The
lemon or hme juice. Since this scurvy children were cured on a diet
time the British Navy has prescribed of boiled potatoes, mashed and
lemon (called lime) juice in the served in raw milk,
dietary, and the British sailors are Recent research with guinea pigs
^ay familiarly known as 'limies". has contributed much to the under-
The introduction of the Irish po- standing and treatment of this dis-
tato into Northern Europe did much ease. It is now known that the cause
to decrease the occurrence of scurvy, of scurvy is the deficiency of ascor-
Scurvy is ordinarily thought of as bic acid or vitamin C in the diet,
adisease of adults. This is not true, Guinea pigs on a diet of oats and
iQr.r.,00 D^^ A *• 1, X- A 1 ^ran will soon become sick with
bpruce Beer as an Antiscorbutic: Apple- ^ • ^ -11 t ttt- i i ■,
ton, V. B., /our. Home Economics, Vol. ^^is terrible disease. With the ad-
13, page 604, 1921. dition of fresh vegetables— cabbage
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is especially good— the animals will
speedily recover.
Ascorbic acid or vitamin C is syn-
thesized both by plants and most
animals, the exceptions being man,
guinea pigs and monkeys. Since
vitamin C is found in most plant
and animal tissue, McCollum says
"it is somewhat difficult to under-
stand how our ancestors were so
slow in recognizing the preventatives
of scurvy— fresh fruits and vege-
tables". The chemist now knows
the chemical formula of Vitamin C
or ascorbic acid, and it is on the
market in a crystalline and other
forms.
Functions of Vitamin C.
Vitamin C in the diet prevents the
disease scurvy. Seldom is there a
deficiency of vitamin C alone in the
diet. There are usually deficiencies
of other essential nutrients so that
one will usually find varied symp-
toms" attributed to scurvy. In
general, scurvy in human beings has
the following symptoms:" "The
adult loses weight, is anemic, weak
and short of breath. The gums
become swollen, bleed easily, and
frequently ulcerate. The teeth
loosen and may drop out." Other
symptoms noted are: "Hem-
orrhages into the mucous mem-
brane and skin are characteristic.
Blue-black spots develop in the skin
and subcutaneous tissue, and ner-
vous symptoms of various types may
appear. Children and infants are
fretful, anemic and without appe-
tite. They fail to grow satisfactorily
and exhibit vague evidences of ill-
ness."
^The Newer Knowledge of Nutntion:
McCollum, E. v., 5th Edition, 1939.
Particularly does the writer wish
to call attention to the effect of the
absence or deficiency of vitamin C
in the diet, in that the body is unable
to produce intercellular material,
particularly the intercellular ma-
terial in the walls of the blood vessels.
This intercellular structure is "the
cementing substance which holds the
cells together" thus giving greater
strength and greater elasticity to the
walls of the blood vessels, thereby
lessening hemorrhages.
The effect on the teeth is also
marked. The general tooth struc-
ture is weakened, decays readily,
loosens and falls out. The gums
become reddened and inflamed and
are easily infected. The heart often
becomes enlarged and the heart
muscles become weakened. There
are many other important symp-
toms of vitamin C deficiency.
The boney structure throughout
the body is affected because of the
inability of the growing ends of the
bones to retain and make use of the
mineral salts, and they become soft
and break easily.
The deficiency of vitamin C con-
tributes to anemia due to the de-
struction of the blood-forming cells
in the bone marrow and the loss of
blood through hemorrhages.
The muscles throughout the en-
tire body degenerate and become
weak. Thus weakened, the tissue
throughout the body is more readily
subject to infection.
These effects of vitamin C defi-
ciency come on gradually and
do not manifest themselves in ob-
vious symptoms until much damage
is done . It is unfortunate that all
of the vitamin deficiency diseases are
not accompanied by aches and pains
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in the early stages so that attention
may be called to them before so
much damage has been done.
The above symptoms readily and
dramatically disappear when an ade-
quate supply of vitamin C is added
to the diet.
Nature oi Vitamin C
Vitamin C is readily soluble in
water. It is quickly oxidized or de-
stroyed when exposed to the air.
Light also has a marked destructive
effect. Even the light passing
through a milk bottle readily de-
stroys the vitamin C in the milk.
This vitamin is readily destroyed in
the ordinary cooking processes. The
vitamin, however, is much more
stable in an acid medium, and mod-
erate heat in such a medium does
not affect the vitamin. If soda or
other alkaline substances are added
to foods containing vitamin C, it will
be destroyed. Hence, the custom
of adding soda to hasten the soften-
ing of vegetables and to tomatoes to
neutralize the acid is a bad nutri-
tional practice. One gets his best
sources of vitamin C in the fruits and
vegetables containing free acids such
as the citrus fruits and tomatoes.
The modern canning methods do
not destroy much of the vitamin C
because of the practice of pre-heating
to drive out the air before processing
in the cans by heat. The drying of
food tends to destroy much of this
vitamin. The quick freezing method
of preserving fruits and vegetables
does not affect vitamin values.
Vitamin C Requirement
The best authorities are agreed
that we do not definitely know at
this time the best amount of vitamin
C for the various age groups. Dr.
Hess suggests that 2.5 milligrams
(100 International units) of vitamin
C— Ascorbic acid— daily will protect
a baby from scurvy, and that the
adult will need 7.5 milligrams (300
International units). One milligram
equals 40 I. U. In other words, an
infant should begin with one tea-
spoonful of orange juice in his drink-
ing water daily, gradually working
up to two ounces or four table-
spoonsful. The adult will need three
times this amount or three-fourths
cupful daily. There is no danger
of overdosage.
Sources oi Vitamin C
Vitamin C is produced by the
plant during growth. It is not pres-
ent in dry, mature seeds but develops
as soon as they begin to sprout. It
is more abundant in the fresh green
leaves. It is also found in the juicy
stems, tubers, bulbs, roots and
fruits. Citrus fruits and tomatoes
are the best sources. We now un-
derstand some of the old-time rem-
edies for scurvy, such as a decoction
of pine needles, grass, burdock, dan-
delions, and the use of water-cress,
turnip tops, etc. The potato holds
a unique place in the prevention of
scurvy. Apples are a very good source
of vitamin C, depending upon the
variety. Storage of fruits and vege-
tables results in considerable loss,
most of the vitamin C being lost
after nine months in an ordinary
earth cellar and one-fourth after six
months in cold storage.
Animal foods are not as good a
source of C as are the vegetable
foods. Meat and eggs have almost
none. The amount in fresh raw
milk depends upon the diet of the
cow. Fresh green food and certain
ensilage will produce three to five
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times as much vitamin C as when
the animal is on dry feed. Milk in
any form— fresh, pasteurized or
dried— is not thought of as good
sources of this vitamin. One's safety
lies in eating daily some good source
of this vitamin, such as citrus fruits
or tomatoes.
The vitamin C values of foods
will be found in a table at the end
of this article.
VITAMIN D
Space will permit only the briefest
discussion of the two remaining
vitamins, D and G, and the anti-
sterility vitamin E will not be dis-
cussed at all.
Vitamin D is known as the anti-
rachitic vitamin. Rickets is a disease
of the bones in which the mineral
salts are deficient, especially calcium
and phosphorus. While this con-
dition is generally due to a deficiency
of mineral salts in the diet, it may in
certain cases be due to the body's
inability to absorb and utilize the
mineral in the food. Rickets is a
disease affecting the entire body,
but its most characteristic symptom
is a failure of the bones to calcify
properly; they lose their rigidity and
become easily deformed. The first
defect is usually a row of protuber-
ances down each side of the chest
where the ribs join the sternum.
The chest fails to develop normally.
The bones project forward forming
what is known as a pigeon breast.
The entire chest space is smaller,
thus interfering with full, deep
breathing. The ends of the long
bones of the body become enlarged,
especially at the wrists and at the
ankles. Poor teeth are definitely a
symptom of vitamin D deficiency.
In the treatment or prevention of
these symptoms it is not alone suffi-
cient to provide an adequate supply
of calcium and phosphorus in the
diet, but vitamin D is necessary in
order to help the body utilize these
minerals. Sunlight during our sum-
mer season also helps the body to
utilize the minerals in the diet more
effectively. The effect of sunlight on
the skin actually produces vitamin
D which is utilized by the body in
making better use of the minerals
in the food. It is a fallacy to be-
lieve that vitamin D can take the
place of minerals in the diet.
Food Sources
The food sources of vitamin D are
very limited. The fish oils are the
best sources. The egg yolk is the
richest food source. Cow's milk is
a poor source of vitamin D. It can,
however, be successfully irradiated
thus producing vitamin D. For
safety one must include fish liver
oil in a growing child's dietary during
the periods of the year when ex-
posure to direct sunlight is not prac-
tical.
VITAMIN G
Vitamin G has been intimately
associated with vitamin B, but it has
recently been given a definite iden-
tity. It is now known to be neces-
sary to normal growth and develop-
ment, to healthy skin and hair. In
experimental animals on a diet de-
ficient in vitamin G cataracts de-
velop. Vitamin G appears to be
necessary to the maintenance of
health for all ages.
Vitamin G food values are not
sufficiently well established and not
enough is known about the amounts
needed by adults and children to
specify definite dosages. No inter-.
feELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JUNE - 415
national unitage has been estab-
lished, but dosages are given in the
Sherman-Bourquin units. These
authorities recommend 600 units
daily for adults and 400 daily for chil-
dren up to ten years pi age and 20
units per 100 calories thereafter.
Food Sources
Vitamin G is closely associated in
foods with vitamin B and is a water
soluble vitamin. The richest sources
of G are brewer's yeast, liver, muscle*
meat, and egg. Milk is the most de-
pendable source as it is found usually
in the diet of both growing children
and adults. Green leafy vegetables
are a good source.
THE VITAMIN C AND G
VALUES OF FOODS
(Revised March, 1938)
The Average Vitamin C Values per loo
grams or 3.6 ounces given in International
Units and the Vitamin G values given in
Sherman-Bourquin Units.
Vitamin C
Food
Units
Almonds
1,000
Asparagus, green
Brussels sprouts
Cabbage
400
550
1,000
Cantaloupe
Cauliflower
300
500
Currants, Black
Grapefruit
Kohl-rabi
3,900
650
1,000
Lemon juice
1,000
Liver, chicken
300
Mandarins
520
Oranges
800
Orange juice
900
Vitamin C
Food
Units
Paprika
2,100
Parsley
1,500
Parsnips
350
Peaches, dried, yellow
500
Peas, green
400
Peppers, green
2,000
Peppers, red
4,000
Pimentos, green
2,500
Pimentos, red
4,720
Radishes
500
Raspberries
350
Rhubarb
400
Rutabaga, white
400
Rutabaga, yellow
3,000
Spinach
1,000
Strawberries
600
Tangerines
500
Tomatoes, green
250
Tomatoes, ripe
300
Tomato juice
360
Turnip greens
1,000
Vitamin G
Beet greens
200
Broccoli
140
Cheese, Cheddar
220
Chick, Peas, dried
250
Eggs
125
Egg yolk
200
Heart, Beef
300
Kidney, Beef
800
Kidney, Veal
800
Kidney, Mutton
660
Liver, Beef
1,000
Liver, Calf
900
Liver, Lamb
600
Milk, whole
60
Milk, dried, whole
500
Milk, evaporated
100
Milk, butter
250
Peanuts
220
Prunes, dried
260
Soy Beans
250
Tangerines
250
Turnip greens
300
Wheat germ
300
Yeast, Fleischmann
500
A FATHER'S FAME
By Evelyn Wilde Heath
In loving memory of a Father's fame,
I see a face so gentle, kind and true.
It matters not — I shall not give his name,
He was my father — that alone should do.
For Father did not rank as over strong,
And he was never called the President,
Nor did they cheer him as he passed along;
But he was quite the best as fathers went.
He did not have a wealth of power or gold,
Nor did men sing the glory of his fame;
But he was true and honest, brave and bold.
And I was right-well proud to bear his name.
When night was black he eased my childish fears,
And taught me how to smile at darkened space;
A little awkward as he dried my tears.
His hand a little rough that brushed my face.
For Father's hands were strong hands like his soul;
Strong, capable — a little over tan.
His face bore signs where time had taken toll.
But honor, mellowed there, had made a man.
And as he smiled, his face with radiance beamed,
A twinkle in his eyes that spoke of mirth.
He went through life unnoticed, so it seemed,
But the Maker and the Master knew his worth.
Perhaps you may have seen an old violin
In some shop window on the edge of town;
The master knew its worth and took it in,
But they who searched for beauty turned it down.
The many mars the more would prove its worth
To him who loved the tarnished surface there;
And mellowed tones, like seeds deep in the earth.
Could move strong men to tears and whispered prayer.
Where thoughtless hands had severed it apart
It may have had a worn or broken string;
And if you searched the depths of Father's heart,
Perhaps you may have found just such a thing.
For fathers must grow weary of the load.
And while we sing the praises mothers win
How seldom is the debt to fathers showed;
And hearts must grow a little sad within.
And so I bow in sacred reverence.
My love a monument to his great name
Whose heart was filled with honor's recompense;
And just to be a Father was his fame.
MORMON HANDICRAFT
By Nellie O. Parker
FOR the world to beat a path to Let me tell you about the lunch-
the door of Mormon Handi- eon sets. There are several different
craft Shop is our aim; and if varieties so new and so smart we
Emerson is right, we are confident it know you will want one or more of
will be so when people know of the them. Some are crocheted of won-
fineness and skill of the workman- dersheen in large, open patterns, yel-
ship to be found here. Plans have low, green and white in color; they
been made to widen our circle of are oblong, round or star pointed in
patrons, and important strides have shape, and stiffly dressed so as to
been made this last month in its look crisp and cool for summer
march of progress. luncheons. They'd be suitable for
An attractive folder is to be placed any time for that matter. They can
in the dining and lounge cars of all be ordered in any color to blend or
trains coming into Salt Lake City, accentuate your china or crystal
The officials of the different rail- ware.
roads have been very gracious in ex- Mormon Handicraft specializes in
tendmg this privi ege. They feel as things for the hope chest. For this
we do, that It will bring added hu- ^ime, when dreams are being fulfill-
man interest to our historic moun- ^^^ ^^ly the loveliest and finest are
tam valleys. The folder tells m part: appropriate. Besides quilts, pillow
"Rare skill in handicraft from every cases, chair sets and rugS, there are
country has been perpetuated in Utah. . . . many dainty gUCSt towels — white
This cosmopolitan backgrouiid, unique for handkerchief linen with hemstitch-
thnft and versatility, has produced a handi- j j • j -ui -u j i
craft guild not to be found in any other ^^ ^^^igns and blue borders; pale
place in the world. . . . There is quality peach, green Or blue ones, with or
only hands can produce." without blending colored borders.
Two display cases have been wiU be perfect for the dream home
placed in the lobby of the Hotel -|ust to see them is a delight. There
Utah-be sure to see them when in ^'^ sturdier ones for more practical
this vicinity. Each hand-made ar- "^^ ^"* ^*'" ^^'T' acceptable gifts,
tide in the cases fairly radiates per- I must not close before I tell you
sonality, beauty and perfection of about the netted doilies as fine and
workmanship. filmy as a spider's web. (Fll let you
A representative of Altman Com- in on a secret, they make the sweet-
pany, New York City, visited our est jabots you ever saw.)
shop recently. Upon her return to
New York her company sent us an P- S. There is nothing more suitable
order for up-to-the-minute luncheon for a suit or separate skirt than a
sets, copper work and oxen-yoke lovely sweater perfectly knit by skill-
lamps. * ed, deft fingers.
TiobUL
FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretary
Cache Stake
TN commemoration of the organi-
zation of Relief Society in Nau-
voo, March 17, 1842, programs were
held in all the wards in Cache Stake.
These programs also honored Lucy
S. Cardon, 87 years old, who served
as president of the original Cache
LUCY S. CARDON
Stake for twenty-three years and
who has been a devout member and
loyal supporter of Relief Society
during her entire lifetime. She is the
only living member of the first Relief
Society organized in Cache Stake in
1868. The original Cache Stake
over which she presided has since
been divided into seven stakes.
Sister Lula Y. Smith, the present
president of Cache Stake, pays the
following tribute to Sister Cardon:
"She has won the love and respect
of every one who knows her, and
in the twilight hour of her life she
still sheds the inspiration of a great
personality. Years of public service
remove all sham and reveal a spirit
aglow with an inner glory. This is
true of Sister Cardon. Eighty-seven
years have added to the charm of
her gracious dignity, stately bearing
and humility of soul. Her life is a
lesson in the power of serenity and
understanding to shed great peace.
Her courage and faith through all
the trials of life have given strength
to so many of those who know and
love her. Her dignity, her wonder-
ful service and inspiring personality
will live with us always as a monu-
ment to a life made perfect. She
truly exemplifies Relief Society in its
highest form."
In appreciation of her wonderful
life and her untiring devotion to the
Relief Society cause, which she still
supports in her inimitable way, the
wards of Cache Stake presented her
with a beautiful flowering plan and a
letter expressing their love and ap-
preciation.
South Davis Stake
nPHE 17th of March was very fit-
tingly observed by the Farming-
ton Ward Relief Society at Mem-
orial Hall in Farmington, appropri-
ately decorated for the occasion.
The president, Sister Ethel Udy,
and her counselors were at the center
of the speakers* table, and on their
left were seated all the former pres-
idents of the Farmington Relief So-
ciety. At the right were women
representing the seven general pres-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JUNE - 419
idents of Relief Society. In front
the seats were occupied by the hon-
orary members of the organization
and special guests. The program
was in keeping with the occasion.
The sisters representing the general
presidents were dressed in the styles
of the periods in which the sisters
lived. Following the presentation
of a most appropriate program, a
hot luncheon was served to the mem-
bers and guests. The picture repre-
sents those who impersonated the
seven presidents.
cially launched on November 15/
1938. Each ward had the type of
party or social which it desired, di-
rected by the ward co-ordinator.
During the campaign each ward co-
ordinator prepared for her respective
group a friendship chain. This was
made of gold paper, and as each new
member joined the ranks a new link
was added. Each member, old and
new, was asked to write her name on
the gold link which represented her,
thus making a wonderful chain of
true and everlasting friendship.
SISTERS OF SOUTH DAVIS STAKE IMPERSONATING GENERAL
PRESIDENTS OF RELIEF SOCIETY.
SmithfieJd Stake
'pHOUGH Smithfield is one of the
newer stakes, it has made a most
enviable record in Relief Society ac-
tivities. This is especially demon-
strated by the Membership Drive,
which was conducted during the lat-
ter part of 1938. This particular ac-
tivity was known as the Friendship
Drive, and the stake has every reason
to feel that it was most successful.
The ward co-ordinators and their co-
workers were enthusiastic about the
work and proved in every way to be
good salesmen of the Relief Society.
The friendly campaign was offi-
The slogan, ''Members old, mem-
bers new, one hundred thousand by
'42," was extensively used with the
hope that people would become Re-
lief Society conscious. The slogan
was printed on very attractive ban-
ners and displayed in a prominent
place in each ward. Over this slogan
the friendship chain was hung. In
order to obtain golden key success
the wards understand that they must
obtain their four-year membership
quota. The stake board will then
present the successful wards with the
golden key.
It was the feeling of the stake that
420 - JUNE, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
a short and intensive campaign would
be more successful, so the Member-
ship Drive for 1938 ended officially
December 15. At its conclusion the
stake Relief Society board enter-
tained all members of the Relief So-
ciety. A short program was pre-
sented. One Hundred Thousand
Strong was sung by the group,
prayer offered by Bishop Roskelley
and an address of welcome given
by the Relief Society stake president,
Anne M. Farr. The chorus of Re-
lief Society Singing Mothers ren-
dered an original friendship song,
written by the chorister, Eugenia
Lundquist. The stake co-ordinator,
Sonoma Y. Toolson, gave a report
of the membership gains in each
ward. The Singing Mothers pre-
sented a group of Christmas songs
after which the picture David Cop-
peiEeld was shown. A large and
enthusiastic group attended.
Noith Sevier Stake
AMONG the many original and
significant symbols used in pro-
moting the Membership Drive, the
"Ship of Progress," used by one of
the wards of the North Sevier Stake,
is one of the most attractive. It is
designed to show the progress of
AMY J. Ff:TERSON
MEMBERSHIP SYMBOL,
SALINA FIRST WARD.
the Drive to its completion in 1942.
The ship has three decks. Each
member is represented by a candle.
The top deck includes all of the
active and honorary members. The
second deck includes the new mem-
bers. These are to be transferred to
the top deck when the total number
of new members reaches 27, which is
the number necessary for the ward
to make its quota. The third deck
includes all of the inactive members,
and when they become active they
are transferred to the top deck. This
ship is decorated in Relief Society
colors, blue and gold. The blue
banner running alongside the ship
contains the slogan, and the stream-
ers have all the ward members'
names written on them. As each
member pays her annual dues, a
golden star is placed by her name.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JUNE - 421
This symbol of the ship has very
successfully stimulated membership.
Since last fall the Society has
achieved 100% in the payment of
annual dues and acquired twenty
new members; sixteen inactive mem-
held a very appropriate celebration
on March 17. An interesting pro-
gram of readings and a tribute to the
Relief Society were features, to-
gether with beautiful music furn-
ished by the Relief Society Singing
ANNIVERSARY DAY, STAR VALLEY STAKE
bers have been transferred to the
active roll. It is the plan to light the
candles in 1942. This attractive, sym-
bolical ship was planned and built by
Mrs. James Kane and Mrs. Merle
Mickelson of the Salina First Ward.
Amy J. Peterson has been an active
member in the Relief Society for
over thirty years and is first coun-
selor in the First Ward Relief So-
ciety at present.
Star Valley Stake
'pHE Afton North Ward Relief
Society of the Star Valley Stake
Mothers. A delicious hot dinner
was served to about 175 people. One
of the interesting features was the
large four-layer birthday cake, a pic-
ture of which is here shown. This
cake was made and decorated by
the Relief Society presidency, carry-
ing out the color scheme of blue and
gold, with 97 candles. The happy
day was concluded with a successful
dancing party in which the South
Afton Ward joined. The music
featured both the old and the new
dances.
MUSIC DEPAHTMENT
[riequiSites d^f Jl (^ooa (^onauctor
By Wade N. Stephens
(Conference Address)
I. Mechanics of Time Beating.
A. Beat Patterns:
3 3 3 (and 9 in fast tempo)
248 8"
4 4 4 ( and 1 2 in fast tempo )
248 ""8
222 (and 6 in fast tempo)
248 8
Slow 6
"8"
Slow 9
S
Slow 12
B. Cue Beat:
1 . Has same duration as a full
beat in tempo to be used.
2. Comes from direction of
beat preceding beginning
of music.
C. Cut off:
1. If at end of piece or sec-
tion, cut off is straight
down, the hand continu-
ing down to relaxed posi-
tion at the side.
2. If music continues, cut off
moves toward the place the
next cue beat begins.
D. Hold:
1. The baton is held almost
horizontally, point slight-
ly up.
2. The movement is away
from the body, toward the
chorus.
II. Emotional Analysis of the Piece
A. Careful reading of the words
of a song will show the con-
ductor the general type of
emotion expressed therein.
These are types:
1. Love.
2. Grief.
3. Joy.
4. Religious fervor (or patri-
otism).
5. Unemotional, passive
moods.
B. When the emotional type is
discovered, a single word
should be found that will de-
fine the specific mood of each
moment of the piece.
There are an infinite number
of possible words. These are
examples:
1. Love.
a. Passion, tenderness,
longing, etc.
2. Grief.
a. Sadness, sorrow, hope-
lessness, etc.
3. Joy.
a. Happiness, joyousness,
gladness, etc.
4. Religious fervor.
a. Praise, thankfulness, re-
verence, etc.
5. Unemotional passive
moods.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JUNE - 423
a. Contentment, contem-
plation, restfulness, etc.
III. Translation of the Mood into
Music, Principally Through the
Judicious Choice and Variation
of Tempo and Dynamics.
A. Tempo:
1. Fast tempos usually ex-
press some form of joy.
2. Medium tempos usually
express passive moods
best.
3. Slow tempos usually ex-
press some form of grief.
4. The tempos of pieces ex-
pressing love and religious
fervor are usually faster
if the mood contains joy,
slower if it contains sor-
row.
B. Dynamics:
1. Intense emotion of any
kind may be expressed
either by extreme loud-
ness or extreme softness.
2. Less intense emotions
call for medium loudness
or medium softness.
3. In songs, the sentence
structure partially con-
trols the finer shading.
Nouns, pronouns, ad-
jectives, adverbs and
verbs are sung louder
than conjunctions and
prepositions. The most
important word of the
sentence or phrase is us-
ually sung loudest, pre-
ceded by a crescendo and
followed by a diminuen-
do.
4. The accented syllables of
a word are sung louder
than unaccented ones.
5. The musical phrase us-
ually consists of 4 (some-
times 2) measures, with
a point of rest at the end.
It should be treated in
one or more of the fol-
lowing ways:
a. It may be louder in
the middle and softer
at both ends, or vice
versa.
b. When the melody
goes up, sing louder,
when it goes down,
softer.
c. A very long note
should not usually be
the same loudness
throughout.
d. When a phrase or sec-
tion is repeated, do
not do it the same way
both times.
The words will usually
determine which to
do.
IV. Projection of the Mood to the
Singers:
A. A large beat goes with a
slow tempo, a small one
with a fast tempo.
1. Tempo changes can be
indicated by changing
both size and speed,
either gradually or sud-
denly. Change of speed
alone is not enough.
B. When tempo remains the
same, a large beat indicates
loudness, a small one soft-
ness.
1. Dynamics changes can
be indicated by changing
424 - JUNE, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
the size of the beat, keep-
ing its speed constant.
B. Intensity of any type of
emotion can be communi-
cated to the singers by tens-
ing the muscles of the baton
hand, the arm, or even the
entire body.
D. Think of the emotion to be
expressed. This will result
in appropriate facial expres-
sion, which is the most ef-
fective of all means of pro-
jecting mood.
E. The left hand is used always
for emphasis. When raised,
it attracts attention. There-
fore, it should be used only
when needed, and relaxed
at the side the rest of the
time. These are uses of the
left hand:
1. Attack
2. Release
3. Accent
4. Change in
speed
In these, the
motions of the
left hand par-
allel those of
the right.
5. Change in dynamics.
a. Soft, palm down
b. Louder, palm up
c. Loudest, doubled fist.
6. Intensity of emotion is express-
ed by tension in the muscles
of the hand and arm.
7. Special indications to individu-
al parts, accomplished by point-
ing at the section involved at
the proper time.
F. Breathing pauses can be in-
dicated by taking a breath
in such a way that the sing-
ers can do it with you.
NO SECRET
By Anna Piince Redd
A little wind, a little rain,
A breath of scented rhapsody half
pain.
Clouds in ultramarine blue.
Buds just swelling, wet with dew.
Bird a-tilt upon a limb
Joy of life quite bursting him;
Things a-tremble with new birth.
Pungent odors from the earth.
Reviving warmth, the clean washed
smell.
Oh all the world combines to tell—
It's Spring!
LESSON PREVIEW- 1939
cJheology^ ana cJestimon^
MINISTRY OF THE EARLY APOSTLES
~ir
'pHE course in Theology for the
year 1939-40 is to be a continu-
ation of the New Testament, con-
taining further information about
the "Ministry of The Early Apos-
tles/' their personalities and lives.
We feel sure the lessons will be
inspiring and helpful to all those
who study them, for great effort has
been taken in their preparation;
much research and exhaustive read-
ing have been necessary. The les-
sons on John the Beloved, Matthew
the Publican and Paul the Mission-
ary are especially colorful and inter-
esting.
Such a course carefully studied
will enrich the lives of all who have
the privilege of taking it. It forms
a foundation for character building,
for a better understanding of human
relations, and a greater appreciation
of everything worth while in life's
experience.
Following are the lesson titles:
John the Beloved.
John the Beloved (Cont'd.).
Matthew the Publican.
Saul the Pharisee and Persecut-
or.
5. Saul's Vision and the Changed
Life.
6. Paul the Missionary.
7. Paul the Missionary (Cont'd.).
8. Paul the Writer.
9. Paul's Lasting Influence.
Visiting cJeacher LOepartment
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
T^HE spiritual messages to be pre-
sented by the visiting teachers
are taken from the teachings of the
Early Apostles. These messages
correlate with the Theology lessons
and are designed to improve person-
alities and strengthen both home
and church relationships.
The following messages are to be
presented:
1. Establishing Goals.
2. Unity.
Befitting Speech.
Gifts.
Manifestations of Love.
Giving.
Kindness.
8. Unselfishness.
9. Charity Never Faileth.
vi/ork and ijousiness ^Jjepartment
The Selection and Preparation of Food for Proper Nutrition
I. Family's Food Supply
A. What to eat
B. How much to eat
C. Why to eat it (food values)
D. Preparation to retain food values
E. How to provide year's food supply
1. Production of food supply
(a) Home gardens, poultry, meat
supply (family cow), etc.
2. Purchasing of foods which cannot
be produced at home
II. Food Sanitation
A. Work shop (kitchen)
B. Worker
C. Food supply
1. Market
2. At home
(a) Milk, • vegetables, fruits,
meats, etc.
III. Clean Dishes
A. Why clean dishes?
B. What are clean dishes?
C. How to get clean dishes
1. Desirable equipment
2, Desirable methods
IV. Selection and Preparation of
Vegetables
A. What vegetables to use
1. Green, yellow or leafy
2. Potatoes
3. One other
B. Why to use them
1. Food values
C. How to prepare them
1. Cooking of the vegetables
2. Salad preparation
V. The Efficient Kitchen for Food
Preparation
A. Selection and Care of Equipment
and Utensils
1. Stove
2. Refrigerator
3. Sink
4. Tables, stools
5. Utensils
B. Arrangement
1. Time and effort saving arrange-
ment for preparing and serving of
food
2. Best arrangements for cleaning up
3. Storage for staples
4. Storage for perishables
5. Storage for utensils
6. A planning or business center for
efficiency
VI. Food Habits and Appetites
A. What are good food habits?
B. Why have good food habits?
C. How to develop good food habits
1. Start early
2. Introduce new foods gradually
3. Emphasize power of example
4. Provide proper environment
5. Use attractive service
VII. Healthful Kitchens for Whole-
some Food
A. Safe supply of water — running hot
and cold water
B. Sanitary disposal of kitchen waste
C. Light, both day and night — surface
finishes, natural light, artificial light
D. Heat and ventilation — screening
E. Freedom from accident hazards
F. Safe and efficient cleaning methods
1. Walls
2. Woodwork
3. Floors
4. Stove
5. Sink
6. Refrigerator
7. Utensils
VIII. Lunches Away From Home
A. What comprises a good lunch?
B. Why have a good lunch?
C. How to prepare a good lunch
IX. Preservation of the Food Supply
A. What to preserve
1. Amount to preserve
B. Why preserve foods?
C. How to preserve foods
1. Storage
(a) For winter
(b) Short-time storage
2. Drying
3. Canning
4. Freezing
Helpful material and suggestions
on each of the lessons will be sent to
stake presidents and mission presi-
dents in the United States.
oLiterary LUepartment
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
'pHE Literary study for 1939-40 is
a continuation of 'The Advance
of the Novel," with the same ob-
jectives as stated at the beginning
of the course: To trace the novel
from its beginning and show^ the
dominant position it holds in the
field of literature today; to develop
taste and judgment in selecting from
the very extensive number of books
available; to exercise literary guidance
and to help interpret some of the
masterpieces of fiction.
The Advance oi the English Novel
by William Lyon Phelps v^ill still be
found a stimulating and delightful
reference book.
The Story of the Worlds Liter-
ature by John Macy will be used as a
reference. This book was purchased
by the stakes and wards for use in the
1933-4 Literary course, ''Life and
Literature". It should have been
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useful in the present course.
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Social S(
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Psycholi
logy and Modern Problems
*HE aim of the Social Service les- cate the scope of the subject matter
sons for the coming year is to to be presented:
apply psychology to the problems
with which every mature person is
faced in an ever changing world to-
day. If we are to conduct ourselves
wisely in meeting the rapidly chang-
1. How Does Propaganda Affect
Me?
2. Psychology of Fads, Crazes, and
Fashions.
3. How Shall I Conduct Myself in
ing daily scene, we need most of all an Age of Automobiles?
to understand ourselves and each
other. The world is a troubled one
today, not because we lack control
over the forces of nature, but because
we do not fully understand ourselves
and each other. The course for the
coming year is designed to broaden
our understanding of human nature
and thereby to contribute to happy
living.
The following lesson titles indi-
4. Psychology of Resisting Sales
Pressure.
5. How to Sell the Gospel.
6. Psychology of Personal Effi-
ciency.
7. Superstition or Reason— Which
Shall I Follow?
8. Psychology of Happy Living.
No Social Service lesson or lesson in
Family Relationships is planned for De-
cember,
n iission JLessons
L D. S. Church History
(To be used on Literary day)
'pHIS is a course in the history of The revelations given to the Prophet
the Church of Jesus Christ of Joseph Smith v^ere intended for
Latter-day Saints. It does not aim those who hve in this Dispensation,
to include the teachings or doctrines just as the Bible was intended for
of the Church, except incidentally, the Christian and the pre-Christian
as they are associated with the his- Dispensation and the Book oi Moi-
torical events. mon for the peoples who lived on
Before an idea can properly be the American continents anciently,
understood, something must be Joseph Smith is pre-eminently our
known of the conditions under prophet, and he is so in exactly the
which it was received, something same sense that Isaiah was an He-
about the person or persons to whom braic prophet, Alma the Elder a
it was given, and something about prophet to the Nephites, and Ma-
the way it was developed and ap- honri the prophet of the Jaredites.
plied in human life. It is the purpose Since this is so, it should follow
of the present course to give these that nothing can be of greater im-
preliminary matters. Most of this portance to our generation than to
material is in the form of narrative, know how God has manifested him-
incident, story, and is for this reason self to us in this age of the world,
exceedingly interesting and under- As God adapted his revelations to
standable. the Hebrews and to the peoples of
In association with this history are the Book oi Mormon, so he has
some poems and songs composed adapted his revelations to us. And
under the spirit of the Restored the following lessons are the history
Gospel. It is hoped that these will of how that was done:
add to both the information and i. The First Vision,
the enjoyment of those who take 2. Cumorah and the Golden
this course. The poems may be Book,
memorized, discussed in the class, 3. The Ancient Plates,
and the songs sung, as the teacher 4. Our Book oi Mormon,
may see fit. In every case, however, 5. Witnesses,
they grew out of the situation treated 6. Organization of the Church,
in the lesson in which they appear. 7. Early Growth of the Church.
There can be no question as to 8. The Church Moves West,
the importance of such a course. 9. Events in Missouri.
education for cJamiiy JLife
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
TN harmony with the wishes of tion for Family Life as expressed by
members of the classes in Educa- stake presidents at our recent April
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JUNE - 429
Conference, we shall continue our
lessons in Family Relationships dur-
ing the year 1939-40.
The theme for the basis of our dis-
cussions shall be "My Home is My
Refuge". It shall be our aim to
make the lessons as' .practical, as
stimulating, and as interesting as
possible. In planning the lessons
we shall keep in mind particularly
the needs of our young parents,
those who have more recently as-
sumed the responsibilities of found-
ing a home and of rearing a family.
In our discussions we shall con-
sider the family as "a unity of inter-
acting personalities," thus empha-
sizing the great importance and the
high value of the human relationship
factor in family life.
The following are the lesson titles :
1. The Importance of Unimpor-
tant Things.
2. My Responsibility to My
Home Partner.
3. The Family Pocketbook.
4. My Parents Do Not Know Me.
5. The Place of the Father in the
Home.
6. Family Strength in Proportion
to Family Unity.
7. The Family Council Plan.
8. My Home Is My Refuge.
MY GOAL
By Flo SeegmilJer HaJI
If there's a thing I long for
In this old hectic life,
It is to keep my soul at peace
Through all the toil and strife.
I want the most a happy home
Where everyone is glad.
Where corn is popped and taffy pulled
Whether times be good or bad.
I want to grow old gracefully,
To keep alert and gay;
To keep the faith and know my God,
And not forget to pray.
But most of all I want my walls
A perfect haven of rest
For him who works so hard to earn
The things with which we're blest.
I want his steps to quicken
When he starts home at night.
His thoughts to be of loved ones,
A hearth that's warm and bright.
I want my home to be a place
Where sacrifice is known,
For it's by aches and tears and pain
That we become full grown.
430 - JUNE, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
I LIKE YOUR FACE
By Marguerite Buinhope Harris
'Tou're nice, my Mother/' said my five-year-old;
Then watching more intently, 'It's your face."
Ah, blessed am I that words so sweet should grace
My mom and turn a weary day to gold.
So now I pray that as the years unfold.
And I go onward in life's constant race,
That I shall weave their days like perfect lace
And merit sometime those same words, retold.
If blessings from the Heavens grant me life
When birthdays five times five my babe has had,
I shall be thankful, and my heart be glad.
And joy within will recompense the strife
If she can look at me and truly say,
"I like your face; you are so nice today."
^-
The sacrifices necessary for them to
®'J yi 57/ make were tragic, but did they sit
down and ponder upon it? No,
,yX Spirit? greater activity ensued! There were
wagons to build or repair, warm
(Continued from page 371 ) ^j^^j^.^^^ ^^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^^^ ^^p,
of at least twenty thousand people plies to gather, etc. What a busy
presented the glorious sight of being scene the little town presented!
protected by the counsel of God, and But spring was too long to wait
watched over by the trustworthi- for the self-appointed persecutors of
ness of bishops and deacons." the Mormons, and on a cold night
By May of that year the capstone in February the Saints were driven
of the Temple was laid. When one from their homes. Nine babies were ,
considers that this was just eleven born that night in the midst of ice
months after the Martyrdom, and and sleet! Yes, driven from the little
at that time the Temple was only city they had created and built with
one story high, a clearer insight in- their own hands; and with them was
to the intense activity that pervaded driven out the Spirit of Coopera-
the little town is gained. Evidently tion that had given Nauvoo life and
nothing could break apart this energy, and it remained behind life-
united people, but persecutions con- less!
tinned. By September of that year Like a canopy that spirit spread
mobbings began in earnest and over the people; they believed in
things became so intolerable that the their new leader, they obeyed his
Saints agreed to leave in the spring, word, they followed him to the
Mountains! Oh there were a few
who saw greener fields and strayed
along the way, or turned back, but
for the most part the main body of
the Church was loyal.
T HAVE led hundreds back to Nau-
voo, and always I fiave felt that we
were gazing upon the bier of the
departed. Departed loved ones, to
be sure, for there, among other noble
ones, lie buried the first Presiding
Bishop of the Church, Edward Par-
tridge, of whom God said, he was
like Nathanael of old— a man with-
out guile; and the first Presiding
Patriarch of the Church and his
wife, ''Mother Smith," and their
martyred sons, Joseph and Hyrum!
On such sober occasions one's
mind becomes reflective. We have
evidence that the Prophet knew the
Saints would be driven to the Rocky
Mountains. Knowing this, and with
the tragic experience of having lost
their homes in the past, and in view
of the immediate need for shelter,
one wonders that time would be
taken to lay out a city. The streets
are well defined and many named
for the Church leaders. Why should
the people build so well homes of
such beautiful design, and why
should the spot for the rearing of
the Temple be chosen with such
care? Standing on the site, which
is located on the crest of the little
city, facing the city, one can see the
bends of the river, for it is exactly
one mile distant in three directions
to the noble Father of Waters. Wliy
all this care and effort? Could it be
that the Prophet wanted the lifeless
Nauvoo to stand as a monument to
the accomplishments of the Spirit
of Cooperation?
(Continued on next page)
1839-
Nauvoo
-1939
ONE HUNDRED years ago a
band of Latter-day Saints,
^under the guiding genius of
Brigham Young, moved out of
Missouri.
Shortly thereafter, in a
swampy wilderness, they start-
ed work on their new home
which was destined to become
one of the most historic spots
in the mid-west as well as all
America. They called it Nau-
voo, which in Hebrew means,
"The Beautiful Place."
On your way to Nauvoo ride
the Exposition Flyer, new
through train service to the
East this summer.
Lv. Salt Lake City . . 9:30 pm
Ar. Burlington, Iowa .8:53 am
Ar. Montrose, Iowa ..4:14 pm
The Historic Train conducted by
Vida Fox Clawson leaves Salt Lake
City July 15th. This Historic Train
uses special Air-conditioned Burling-
ton equipment from Salt Lake City
to Chicago and provides an excellent
opportunity to visit Independence,
Nauvoo and other time-hallowed spots
near by.
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nPHROUGH this Spirit of Coopera-
tion the great Inland Empire
was founded, in spite of hardship and
persecution from within and with-
out. But as time went on, persecu-
tions from without ceased; competi-
tion became more keen, selfishness
crept in and the spirit of brother-
hood waned, but never at any time
did it die.
The time has now come when
the Spirit of Cooperation among the
people is again evident. Our pres-
ent-day Prophet, Heber J. Grant,
has given the word, and a renewed
spirit has taken hold of us. The in-
terest of the whole must be put
above the interest of the individual.
Oh, yes, once again we find a few
complainers, those who feel that
'part of a tithe is sufficient" and
those who say ''the Church shouldn't
get into business" and so on and so
forth, but the main body of the
Church is being thrilled with this
Spirit of Cooperation that is abroad
once more. And it will spead until it
passes beyond the Mountains and
will return once more to the western
shore of the Mississippi! Will it
stop there? No, it will cross, and the
SPIRIT OF NAUVOO will return!
In the opinion of this writer, once
again the tools of the worker will
cheerfully sing; homes of our leaders
will be rebuilt; and it is not even im-
probable that the Temple may rise
from the dust, and the Saints stand
by the grave of the Prophet and sing:
'The Seer, the Seer, Joseph the
Seer!
He loved the Saints, he loved
Nauvoo."
What a glorious time! I hope.
Gentle Reader, that you and I might
live to see that day, don't you?
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Our Cover 433
Frontispiece — Heritage 434
Woman As An Interpreter of the Faith Maude B. Jacob 435
Recreation of the Pioneers Juanita Brooks 439
Sweets For The Persistent Mable S. Harmer 443
Map of United States of America Leland Peterson 468-469
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Music Department (Sir Joseph Barnby) 482
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EstabHshing Goals 486
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HERITAGE
The will and power to make our destinies,
To seek, to choose, to cherish, and to work;
The right to worship how and where we please —
God gave; we must not, dare not, shirk
The task, the joy, of passing on this creed
To those whose strength must serve tomorrow's need.
— Cleone Montgomery.
The
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Vol. XXVI JULY, 1939 No. 7
Woman As An Interpreter
■ Of The Faith
By Maude Bedey Jacob
"A woman's rank lies in the fullness of her womanhood."
WOMEN today point with house". To reveal the delusion of
pride, and justly so, to their equality woman is constantly re-
accomplishments in the pro- minded that a woman has not yet
fessions, the arts, commerce, in- been a Shakespeare, or a Newton, or
dustry, education, and politics. To- a Michelangelo, or a Beethoven. Of
day, the position and service of the divinity of woman, her place in
woman is elevated to a point never the scheme of creation, what has
before attained; today, the power been said? Of the age-old role of
and responsibility of woman is most woman, that of mother-teacher, her
potent. In this new pride of supreme contribution, what is need-
achievement one pauses to ask, is ed most to be said? That which
the ancient pride of the mother of will bring to the heart of woman the
the Gracchi forgotten? In this new conviction that: "God has placed
elevation of responsibility is woman the genius of woman in their hearts,
neglecting her place in the trinity because the works of this genius are
of father, mother, and child? always works of love."
Many and varied are the opinions In the great heart of woman her
of those who are considering the significance intellectually, political-
role of woman in the world of to- ly, or socially is not the supreme
day. In discussing the heritage of issue. Now, as of old, she accepts
woman, invariably the emphasis is her dual role, that of mother and of
placed upon her ignominious role as teacher. Today, the sanctity of the
the possession of man in the ancient home rests primarily upon marriage,
world. Anathemas are still being The entire future of civilization de-
hurled at Eve for the woes of man pends upon parenthood. 'To open
and the world generally. The long the capacities of body, mind, and
struggle of emergence from ''female spirit, so that life may flow in upon
to woman" receives much historical a young soul" is the mission of
attention. Feminism and anti-femi- motherhood. To this double-natured
nism call for many a eulogy and motherhood St. Augustine pays tri-
many a diatribe. The pessimist bute as he records his eulogy of his
looks to the future of civilization mother, Monica : "She was twice my
with alarm as he claims that because mother, brought me to birth in the
woman has stepped out of her role flesh, that I might be born into this
family and fireside have "left the earthly light; in heart that I might
436 - JULY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
be born into light eternal." Ibsen, tion. Then yearly she went to pre-
the keen analyst of the social forces sent the family sacrifice, taking with
that have molded our modern civili- her the garments she had fashioned
zation, saw the significance of with her own hands for her son to
woman's dual role: ''Women will wear. This was her joy and her re-
solve the question of mankind, and newing. The reward of Hannah as
they will do it as mothers. They of the mother of Moses came in the
will serve also as teachers, the earliest service of the sons that they had pre-
of schoolrooms being the mother's pared for God's great purposes,
knee." From the pages of the great Christianity, through Mary of
literary expression of the ages as well Nazareth, the mother of Jesus,
as from the creations of art and brought to the earth the divinity of
sculpture it is in this dual role which motherhood. To us today Mary,
woman stands glorified and immor- the Mother, is a mystical figure un-
talized. less her life is re-created out of the
historical fabric of the New Testa-
^S the ''Mothers of Israel" he re- ^le^t. At her knee Jesus learned
vealed in the lives of the women the record, laws, and wisdom of the
of the Old Testament, it is the moth- jews. To Joseph and Mary as He-
er-love of the mothers of Moses and brew parents the training of a son
Samuel we turn to for inspiration, was a serious responsibility. By the
It was the mother-love that inspired age of twelve he must know the
the mother of Moses to place her commandments of Moses, the six
babe that the woman-heart of Phar- hundred other laws that had been
oah's daughter might cause his life added to them, also the two hundred
to be spared. It, too, was her task and fifty-eight forbids, for Judaism
to keep alive in her child's soul the had become a religion of exacting
faith of his fathers, trust in the God discipline. Then there was the his-
of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, a prep- torical record of the Old Testament
aration which was to make him to know in detail as well as the wis-
ready to be called by God to deliver dom of the prophets. Knowing as
Israel. It was gratitude for the gift she did the divinity of Jesus and ex-
of motherhood that gave Hannah pecting the fulfillment of the Mes-
courage to fulfil her promise and pre- siahship, how sacred the early train-
pare her son, Samuel, for God's ing of the boy Jesus must have been
service. Directing the boy's earliest to Mar}^ How she must have fol-
thoughts toward Jehovah she related lowed with eager concern the prep-
the great events in the history of the aration for the first Passover at
Hebrews, the lives of great leaders Jerusalem; how anxious for the ap-
were told and retold with pride of probation of the learned rabbis for
detail; for in the Talmud Hannah her son's preparation, preparation
had read, "Who is best taught?" also for the divine mission. Through-
the answer, "He that is taught by • out the ministry of Jesus we lose
his mother." To her this was her sight of Mary,
sacred obligation. After her son was Mary Borden in the biography
accepted for service in the temple, Mary of Nazareth paints an unforget-
Hannah's task received its approba- table picture of the unrevealed
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JULY - 437
mother of Jesus. It may err in detail, the inscription, ''Cornelia, the
but in portraying the heart of Mary, Mother of the Gracchi/' Great
the mother, it is a revelation of the mothers have seemed ''unhonored
mother-heart of v^omankind: It is and unsung" each generation, but
a Sabbath evening and Mary is teach- from their combined efforts have
ing Joseph and Jude, her grand- arisen the refining factors of civiliza-
children, one of the holy traditions tion. To man's material world of
that was to rule their lives. ''Say it, conquest and dominion they have
children," she urged; "with what brought the things of the spirit, "an
materials may the Sabbath lamps be influence constantly exerted on
lighted and with what may they not father, husband, son, or friend, a
be lighted?" But before the little power wielded from the family
ones could answer, Mary's mind had hearth to the homes of science and
wandered to Jesus teaching His new the halls of legislation",
and surprising doctrine in Galilee.
Strange reports had come to the tiny 'PO the women of today the Pro-
home in Nazareth to the effect that phet Joseph Smith brought the
Jesus had been cast out of the syna- true significance of woman's place
gogue for breaking the Law. Mary in God's plan of creation— the great
begged to be taken to" her Son think- principle of an Eternal Mother as a
ing that she could make peace with partner with the Father in the heav-
his enemies by pleading with Jesus enly spheres. Women's rights in the
to refrain from antagonizing the modern sense in the light of this
priests. But James had refused his sublime truth fade into nothingness,
mother, cautioning her to have noth- The divine right of woman is to par-
ing more to do with her son. At last ticipate in the spiritual gifts of the.
Mary started out alone. Always she Gospel through the holy Priesthood,
missed Jesus for He had gone on to Man and Woman! Truly, "they rise
Jerusalem. Then came the day when or fall together, dwarfed or God-like,
with Mary of Bethany and Mary of bond or free."
Magdala, the women who under- When the roll of honor is called
stood the mission of Jesus, she stood of the "Mothers of Mormonism,"
by the cross on Calvary. "These the mothers of the prophetic leaders
women who were the last at the of the Church will lead the list by
cross and the earliest at the grave." royal right of the glorious sons they
Thus we see in Mary, the mother of bore, God's chosen servants in the
Jesus, a pattern of motherhood often Dispensation of the Fullness of
puzzled and bewildered, yet trusting Times of the everlasting Gospel,
implicitly to the end. From different lands and creeds and
Good women have been the vehi- cultures they came but with one out-
cles of divine inspiration and in- standing characteristic, a deep and
fluence to the world continually, abiding faith in God. Lucy Mack
Few, however, like Cornelia, the Smith, mother of the Prophet
Roman matron, have been honored Joseph Smith, will head the roll of
by such a tribute for giving noble honor. Keen of intellect, benevolent
sons to the service of their country in heart and understanding in spirit
as she was in the statue erected with she accepted the calling and teach-
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ings of her son. Through persecu-
tion, suffering, and martyrdom she
remained faithful to the cause of
right. Brigham Young carried with
him through Hfe the memory of a
mother whose gentle manners, re-
fined taste, and beautiful devotion
influenced so completely the lives of
her children. A mother whose tact
and sympathy mellowed the Puritan
sternness of the father. A mother
who taught her children their letters
and what little schooling she knew.
Whose admonitions were ''Always
to honor the name of the Father and
the Son; to revere the Holy Book
and observe its precepts." The life
of Mary Fielding Smith, the mother
of President Joseph F. Smith, is the
record of a heroine in very deed by
reason of her greatness of spirit and
soul. Her glorious faith, her inde-
fatigable industry, her personal
charm, and her glorious courage are
a noble pattern for the young
womanhood of today to know and
to emulate. The mothers of Wil-
ford Woodruff, John Taylor, and
Lorenzo Snow, take their places in
the gallery of our honored women
as we know and appreciate them
through the lives of our revered lead-
ers. So often has the beautiful life
of Rachel Ivins Grant been made
the illustration of noble precepts and
testimony that we honor her for her
own life as well as for the life of our
living Prophet and Leader.
To the noble woman, Eliza R.
Snow, supreme in faith, superior in
intellect, and a genius in expression
the women of Mormonism owe the
beautiful expression of the place of
women in the philosophy of eternal
progression. Taught the sublime
truth by the Prophet Joseph Smith
she gave it to the world as the poem,
"O My Father," testifying to all
mankind of the existence of an eter-
nal motherhood.
All that modem progress has done
for woman is accepted, its liberation,
its education, and its opportunities;
all that women have achieved is ac-
cepted with gratitude as well as with
pride. With a more complete
understanding of her own mis-
sion comes the realization that what-
ever other role she wishes to com-
bine with motherhood, be it indus-
try, business, or professional life, is
her prerogative, but her obligation
remains unaltered in the mother-
teacher role.
With the assurance that comes to
the women of the Church of their
place in the eternal scheme of the
Creator what is the contribution
which may be accepted of them?
What is the great need of today?
The great need of the world today
is a true conception of the purpose
of life; that God is the Eternal
Father of all; that the laws of eternal
progress are divine laws; that to each
individual falls the responsibility for
his own acts; that personality is
sacred; and that the greatest of all
laws is the Divine law of Love.
To fill her role as mother to her
children is not all. As the mothers
of Israel of old, she must be in very
deed an interpreter of the faith, in-
terpreting for them God, His laws
and His love. To the women of her
generation she must bring through
the pattern of her life an interpreta-
tion of the true mission of mother-
hood. As the Gospel of Jesus Christ
has brought to woman her greatest
possession it should be now her
greatest responsibility to make her
life an interpretation of the Gospel
of Jesus Christ.
Recreation of the Pioneers
By Juanita Bwoks
"A merry heart doeth good like medicine,
but a broken spirit drieth up the bones."
BRIGHAM YOUNG realized
the hteral truth of this Prov-
erb and in all his colonizing
programs encouraged the people in
recreational activities, often "calling"
a man to a new settlement who could
furnish music or who could direct
the singing or dramatics. He knew
from his experience in crossing the
plains how often weary bodies were
refreshed when hearts were uplifted
in song or cheered by the dance.
The hardships attending the estab-
lishment of the empire in Utah were
no less strenuous than those on the
plains, and the people were in as
much need of recreation. I have been
interested in the accounts of pioneer
recreation found in some of the
diaries which it has been my priv-
ilege to handle. The following ex-
cerpts were taken from a diary in
which each day's activities were
chronicled:
"Jan. 1, 1882 — The whole town turned
out today to help finish the new school
house so we could dance in it tonight.
I put in the windows and hung the door."
"Jan. 9 — Storm. We could not hold
Sunday School in the new school house to-
day, the roof leaked too bad."
"April 10 — Myself and wives attended
the last day of school dance. Enjoyed
myself well. The new school house is
better than dancing in homes as we have
done. By just a little crowding we can
have three sets. The boys don't wring on
so bad. Two wagon loads from M
attended." (This was a town seven miles
away. )
Here certainly is more than meets
the eye. How clearly is pictured the
small building, as well as though the
dimensions were given, with the
thatched roof which leaked at the
first heavy storm. We may be sure
that the merrymakers who came in
the wagons seven miles would be
until almost morning getting home.
Here is another account illustra-
tive of the life in the smaller towns:
"Later in the fall the brethren got
pine logs out of Little Pine Valley and
Juanita Brooks of St. George found her great-grandmother's journal at the
age of thirteen when she was helping an aunt with the house-cleaning. It was
tucked away in the back of an old secretary, securely tied around with calico string.
The backs were loose, the pages yellow and brittle with age, but the handwriting
was still clear and legible. She says, "Forgetting my work, I opened the journal
and began to read. The room in which I sat with its whitewashed walls, its rag
carpet stretched over a bulging layer of crisp, fresh straw, everything vanished, and
I was with the Saints during the stirring days in Nauvoo."
Thus she was initiated into a hobby which has become more fascinating with
the years. She has had the privilege of reading more than a hundred handwritten
originals, collected from homes in all parts of Utah, Arizona and Nevada. Some
of them were daily diaries, some were made up of periodic entries, and some were
journals written from memory late in life.
They cover, one or another of them, the whole range of the history of the
Church. The part in which Mrs. Brooks is most interested is that dealing with
life in Utah, particularly in the smaller settlements.
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hewed them and built a meeting house
18 by 25 feet with a big stone fire place
in one end. It was built at the west end
of the fort, covered with lumber and dirt
and ready for use on the first of Jan. 1868.
To get wood to warm the house, they
chose up sides. They were to work two
hours, and the side that got beat was to
furnish supper and a dance for the town. ."
These are typical of what happen-
ed in most of the settlements. Usu-
ally they cleared a place in the brush,
leveled and dampened it, and
danced, first under the open sky,
later in a willow bowery, and still
later in homes before a public build-
ing was finished. The music might
be an accordion, or perhaps an
orchestra composed of a violin with a
guitar or organ accompaniment.
Many a dance has been held to the
music of a harmonica. The impor-
tant thing was that they did have
music of some kind.
And the dances! There was the
intricate pattern of the quadrille, the
grace of the lancers, the dignity of
the schottische, the rollicking fun of
the reels, the speed of the polka
which left everyone perspiring and
breathless, along with one or two
precious waltzes. The dances were
conducted in an orderly way. They
were opened and closed with prayer;
the ladies stayed on one side of the
hall and the men on the other, and
no one selected his partner until the
dance was called, when they would
''fill up the floor" either in quadrille
formation or promenade by couples.
This gave the floor manager a chance
to check and see that no one was
"wringing on". Each man was
given a number and was allowed to
dance only when his number was
called. Energetic young fellows who
wished to dance every time must buy
more than one ticket. Among the
poorer in the smaller towns, it was
not unusual for two boys to alternate
during an evening, using one ticket
and the same pair of shoes. On the
other hand, some of the dances were
quite elaborate and formal in the
larger centers, as their invitations
show.
One woman writes:
"I have gone to as grand balls in Dixie
as there was in Salt Lake City in the '60s,
with every article I had on but my shoes
spun and made at home. I felt just as
well dressed as I ever have in my life.
We took pains to make our dresses fine
and nice, and have our dresses fit us good."
Another from the same period
but by a different writer:
"Mrs. Pratt, the wife of the apostle,
came to the dance for a few minutes. She
wore a large crinoline and a dress with a
skirt of seven widths of cloth, all gathered
around the waist and gave the appearance
of a bustle all around. I can never forget
the grandeur of it."
There were many occasions for
holding dances. Regular holidays
were always appropriately celebrated:
Christmas, May Day, Thanksgiving,
the Fourth of July, but perhaps more
elaborately than any, the Twenty-
fourth of July. Often this was the
occasion for parades with covered
wagon trains attacked by Indians.
This account is quite typical:
"24 July 1867 celebrated in the new city
under a spacious bowery. The people
marched and rode to the bowery headed by
the brass band. I drove the H
carriage. After the services of song and
speech, tables loaded with the peoples' pic-
nic were surrounded and heartily partaken
of. The afternoon was spent in visiting
and games."
Contests sponsoring some com-
munity activity were common : Haul-
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ing wood for the meeting house, necrs, whether in large centers or
gravehng the sidewalks, killing off small. One is their reaching out for
predatory animals, or cleaning the culture, their striving to improve
town canal. This was followed by a their gifts. Along with the strenuous
town dinner and dance. In addition business of wresting a living from
there were *'bees" of many kinds: the stubborn soil, they did not lose
Spinning bees, carpet-rag bees, quilt- sight of these ideals. This entry,
ing bees, and husking bees probably made at St. George, while the city
being most comnion. The refresh- was still a camp of wagons, illustrates
ments often consisted of molasses this:
candy and parched corn, or raisins
and almonds, although occasionally "^^^^ ^ "^^y ^^ allowed, with some
a supper was served. But whatever f^ft^! tTnt'lSd by Chef A^a
they ate, the spirit of cooperation Calkins I was first to give a lecture on
and fun was present. English grammar, and had the honor of
being one of the first group to take part
TTLTTT^/ i. 1 J.1 • J in singing as a public choir while en-
HEY must make their own good camped '
times. Here was no commercial
entertainment prepared and present- How revealing that short item is.
ed. For this reason, a play put on by What volumes it speaks for the type
local talent was usually a feature dur- of people who made up our pioneer-
ing the holiday week, while in some ing ranks, people who, in the midst
of the larger towns regular theatrical of sand and sage, would sit in a tent
societies were organized and plays on the ground and listen to a lecture
presented regularly and the proceeds on English grammar. I doubt that a
given to some community enterprise, parallel can be found in the settle-
The late President A. W. Ivins, in a ment of any other state, certainly not
letter to Mrs. Zaidee Miles of St. in any of the mining towns of our
George, tells how the first play in neighbors.
that town, 'The Eaton Boy", was Another familiar institution was
presented in the willow bowery, and called the Lyceum, wherein young
his sister Caddie shocked the entire nien trained themselves in matters
community by taking the part of a of speech and information on his-
boy and appearing on the stage m tory and government. The serious-
pants. The records of the St. George ness with which this was taken is
Dramatic Company, organized a few shown by this entry from the diary
years after the town was settled, of a man then in his eariy twenties:
show that for the presentation of the
"Charcoal Burner" the proceeds to- "i have had a good time attending
taled $51.40, of which $1.50 was meetings this winter. The young men
cash and the remainder labor, mo- ^^^^ ^^Y^ ^^ve a Lyceum, which not only
lasses, dried fruit, wheat, etc. Prod- !^'^J"\f /o speak in public but have sub-
^ J .. 1 , . . jects that are mstructive. . . . Very seldom
uce was accepted as tickets in most i hissed one of my meetings; even when
of the early settiements. I lived out of town I attended pretty well
c«,,«,«i ^, ^^•^.■^r, 1 1.U 3nd went home 7 miles at midnight. I
Several qualities mark the recrea- (,.^1 the need of trying to learn as I am very
tional activities of the Mormon pio- bashful and awkward.
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"When I first commenced attending culture. Bound by common ties of
these meetings I used to dread for my f^jt]^ ^^d united in the common en-
turn to come. It seemed almost impos- ±. • r • ix. j l
sible for me to say anything at all-even terprise of COnquermg the desert,
if I knew it ever so well." they built up a social and community
life which was unique. Perhaps the
One might go on endlessly, quot- most important factor in this was
ing bits of colorful detail, all of the fact that the religious leaders
which would go to show that the were also the leaders in temporal
Pioneers were happy, though their matters and the general directors of
surroundings were hard, that they the recreation and leisure time activi-
were reaching out for the good and ties. They worshiped together; they
yearning for the beautiful. They worked together; they played to-
were gathered from all parts of the gether, and by so doing were able
earth and brought with them differ- to succeed in the face of great ad-
ent backgrounds of experience and versity.
IMMORTAL PIONEER
By Mollis Olsen
The sun that watched thy weary trek
Has faded in the west;
And even from the hand-carved post
That marks thy place of rest,
Time has erased the memory
Of thy mortal name and deeds;
And the little mound where flowers reposed
Lies hidden in the weeds.
Yet these are naught but syipbols.
Your sufferings were not in vain.
For in the pattern of our lives
Your spirit lives again.
The trails you hewed through forests dense'
Where light was dimly shed.
Still wind through our life's wilderness
And show us where to tread.
Sweets for the Persistent
By Mabel Harmer
THE State of Utah now boasts valley, nearly everyone had a garden
sugar factories with an enor- and some of nearly everything in
mous annual output and a pay- those gardens was boiled down in
roll of many millions, but the story an attempt to get "sweetening."
of the early attempts and struggles Among the various agricultural prod-
of the Pioneers to manufacture ucts that were boiled down to make
sugar, or anything resembling that a crude sort of molasses or sorghum
greatly desired product, is a story of were beets, squash, carrots, corn-
years of heartbreaking struggle. stalks and melons. The product ob-
When the first settlers of the State tained served fairly well for some
wanted to raise wheat, they broke a purposes but, naturally, could not
few plows in the inhospitable take the place of sugar for culinary
ground, learned to soften it with purposes or for table use. Neverthe-
water, and the worst of their struggles less, the Pioneers accepted the re-
was over. The process of manu- suits cheerfully until they could get
facturing cloth, from shearing the something better,
sheep to weaving on hand looms. After three or four years of strictly
was a lengthy one but not especially home manufacture the art of molas-
puzzling. The matter of sugar, how- ses making was taken into factories,
ever, was one that taxed the ingenui- three being established for the pur-
ty and resources of the Pioneers to pose in 1851. Among those early
the utmost. manufacturers were Joseph Young,
They knew sugar to be almost a Burr Frost and William Freely, who
necessity from the standpoint of advertised concerning their under-
health besides being almost indis- taking as follows: ''Beet this who
pensable for the making of palatable can! The undersigned would give
foods, but where or how to get it notice to the citizens of Deseret that
remained one of their most difficult they are manufacturing molasses
problems for almost two score years, from the beet at Burr Frost's on
Sugar brought in by ox team from Emigration street, one and a half
the states cost over a dollar a pound, blocks east of City Creek bridge. To
which made it all but prohibitive as all who have a surplus of beets,
a commodity for folk who seldom carrots or parsnips and will bring
saw a dollar and couldn't very well them to our molasses factory, well
afford to spend it for sugar when cleaned as for family use, we will
they did see it. Consequently they make from them all the molasses we
had to turn to every means within can and return the owners of the
their power to make substitutes for vegetables one-half of the molasses
sugar, hoping that some day they made. Those who are in want of
would learn how to manufacture the sweetening and are disposed to en-
genuine article, which, after a series courage domestic manufacture will
of heartbreaking attempts, they even- do well to call soon, as the earlier the
tually accomplished. vegetables are used, the better."
During the second summer in the The dark, gummy substance that
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was the result of this enterprise was sap thus obtained first to the syrup
so far from being satisfactory that stage and then to sugar. It was said
efforts to manufacture sugar went on to have some resemblance to maple
persistently. John Taylor, who was a sugar, but the twigs and leaves had
leader in the search for sweets, at- imparted a bitter taste and when a
tempted to make sugar out of corn, sample was sent to Brigham Young
He put together a sort of crude ap- it is reported to have been received
paratus to squeeze the corn stalk, with no great enthusiasm,
made a boiler out of some stove pip- The Pioneers soon learned that
ing and lumber, but he was forced to the white sugar beet was the best
concede that the manufacture was source of molasses, and consequently
not altogether a success. the emigrants were urged to bring
Early settlers down in Dixie dur- to Utah all the seed obtainable,
ing the early '60s learned that their which each family could plant with
warm climate would mature the a view to making its own syrup and
Chinese sugar cane from which they sugar,
produced a molasses that was
superior to any made in the northern 'T^HE largest of the early molasses
part of the territory. They found ^ factories was that built in '51 by
also, that by boiling it down to the s. M. Blair of Texas and a Mr. Beach
limit they could obtain a sugar resi- of St. Louis. The Mormon Church
due that would serve for some table leaders were loud in their praises of
purposes. this great enterprise but expressed
Enterprising settlers in Box Elder the belief that it would not be pos-
and Provo also clutched at ''sweet sible for them to supply all the sweet
straws" in the hopes of obtaining that was needed in the community,
something that could be converted and that if some expert manufac-
into sugar. In the case of the turers of sugar would appear upon
former, the straws were the small the scene the citizens would be only
box elder trees that grew in the vici- too glad to surrender their efforts at
nity, from which a sap was run off home manufacture in their favor,
that produced a "specimen of beauti- They also expressed the wish that
fully clear and remarkably sweet and the presidents of the foreign mis-
pleasant flavored syrup". A man sions would bend their efforts to-
who was familiar with the process of ward searching out such expert
making sugar from the maple sap manufacturers and send them, to-
put forth his best efforts to get the gether with the necessary equipment,
same results from the box elder sap, to the Territory of Deseret.
but in the end had to be content John Taylor, who was in charge of
with obtaining a fairly good con- the French Mission at the time, acted
fection. upon this suggestion and organized
During one spring a sweet, sticky the Deseret Manufacturing Com-
sap appeared on the leaves and twigs pany with a capital of $60,000. He
of trees in the city of Provo. The purchased machinery and apparatus
townspeople gathered the twigs, for the manufacture of sugar in
soaked them in water and boiled the Liverpool, at a cost of $12,500, had
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it shipped by boat to New Orleans
where the U. S. tax duties added
another $5000 to the costly enter-
prise. From New Orleans the ma-
chinery was shipped up the river to
Fort Leavenworth where it was load-
ed onto wagons and hauled by more
than 200 ox teams over the plains to
Salt Lake City at a labor and money
cost that can only be imagined.
For some unknown reason, the
machinery was hauled on to Provo
where in '52 the plant was assem-
bled. Only now was the heartbreak-
ing discovery made that the all im-
portant bone-cooking, sugar-clarify-
ing retorts had not been shipped
with the rest of the machinery.
The promoters threw up their
hands in despair upon learning that
they had spent a fortune with no
chance at making any immediate re-
turns; but the Church authorities,
having encouraged the enterprise,
came to the rescue and bought the
dubious assets of the Deseret Manu-
facturing Company.
Later on the plant was moved to
Sugar House— or what then became
Sugar House— and an attempt was
made to manufacture sugar. The
attempt resulted only in more molas-
ses and not too good a grade, at that.
In fact, it was reported by some to
be so sharp in flavor that ''it would
take the end of your tongue off".
Brigham Young still had great
hopes that the much needed sugar
would soon be successfully manu-
factured, and at the spring confer-
ence in '53 he urged that the Saints
generously plant sugar beets. In
October of the same year a news-
paper item made the statement,
"We know that some were disap-
pointed last fall in not getting sugar,
and some in getting poor molasses.
But brethren, don't get discouraged;
we have different workmen this year,
and if we cannot give you sugar as
you desire, no effort shall be want-
ing to give you good molasses. Bring
your beets and try. Now is the time,
at the old place before cold weather."
It is hard indeed to record that
these valiant efforts went for noth-
ing and that after a sugar beet crop
failure in '55 the venture was re-
luctantly given up.
The pioneers of Utah were not
the only ones, however, to experi-
ment unsuccessfully with the manu-
facture of sugar. Between the years of
1838 and 1879 fourteen small sugar
factories in states reaching from
Maine to California went down to
defeat in somewhat the same fash-
ion, although none had gone to the
tremendous amount of work to ob-
tain machinery that the Mormon
pioneers had done.
Finally, in 1870 a Mr. Dyer erected
a factory in California which by '79
was established on a profitable basis.
By 1890 after more research and
study two more factories were es-
tablished in California. Others fol-
lowed in '91 in Nebraska, and the
same year the first successfully op-
erated sugar factory in the Inter-
mountain West began operations at
Lehi, Utah, just forty years after the
Pioneers had begun their persistent
efforts to obtain sugar from the
white beets.
The raising of sugar beets and the
manufacture of sugar ranks today as
one of the State's great industries
with a total of fourteen factories and
an annual payroll of millions of dol-
lars.
Hoops For Amanda
By Maltha Robeson Wiight
AMANDA STOPHER sat on time because the piece goods was
the rough backless stool car- hand loomed after the spinning was
essing the shimmering maroon done, unless it was sent by your well-
silk that lay heaped before her on the to-do relatives who thought your
crude table. She did not need a new folks plain crazy for leaving comfort
dress for the party; her wedding and security to come out to a wilder-
gown would do. But Aunt Annie in ness full of savages and wild animals.
New York had sent by Josiah Med- The girl gathered the soft material
dlebury, who had just come in from into her arms and went to the round
a hard trip across the plains, this mirror that hung on the wall above a
belated wedding present, this mound short wash bench,
of silk, glistening garnet in the eariy "It does become you," she mur-
autumn sunshine that poured mured, holding the goods close to
through the open door and the small her face. 'It makes your hair and
square hole in the east wall which eyes look browner and shinier." She
served as a window. tilted her head this way and that like
Just having the goods would have a small bird looking at its reflection
made the longing to sew begin tug- in a pool. "I could make it up in
ging at Amanda's fingers. But there three weeks. For your first dance
had been included in the package a since you and John were married,
new magazine called Harper's that Mrs. Stopher."
showed the latest fashions. Aman- Amanda returned the silk to the
da's mother had always cut the pat- table and took up the new magazine,
terns for her clothes, but it was high She reckoned she could look just as
time Amanda tried it herself. Her pretty in those hoop skirts as those
grandmother's sewing chest that had ladies who smirked at her from its
been given her for a wedding present pages. She could get her waist that
had the top tray filled with notions, little, too, with proper stays; it would
even three precious needles and a sil- not be hard to do either, as her waist
ver thimble that was older than the was not so very big in the first place,
chest; but she knew it would be nee- It would not be such a chore to fix
essary to. ravel some of the silk to get her hair that way when it was natur-
thread to match. ally curly. But how could she get the
Amanda's hands gently patted the hoops in time for the party? Had she
beautiful fabric. They had never had been at home it would have been a
anything like this, even in Nauvoo, simple matter to have mentioned it
where her father had owned a fine to her father who would have patted
brick house right near the Prophet's her cheek or pinched her chin and
and they had good furniture and got her hoops from somewhere. But
lots of books which they had brought a married woman of sixteen gets her
with them from Tennessee. In money and clothing from her hus-
Brown's Fort, or Ogden as it was band. If he had no money, he bar-
now called, dresses had to last a long tered things for his family's needs.
John would never think of doing any
trading for a set of hoops for a wom-
an's dress. Judge Gerard would think
it clever and womanly to want such
flipperies, but John would never un-
derstand. His people had been very
poor pioneers who had come across
the plains suffering great hardships
for want of food and clothing, and
while some of them might have long-
ed for luxuries, they would never
dream of getting them for this wil-
derness life. Of course, she was
lucky in having a father better fixed
than most of the settlers, one who
had tools and supplies and read the
law; but she was married and had to
abide by her husband's ideas.
A MANDA liked being married to
John, but it was sort of a come-
down to be living in the old granary,
especially when Mary Anne Davison
made slighting remarks. Mary
Anne's father was almost as well-to-
do as Judge Gerard, and Mary Anne
was just the kind who, though she
knew they were only living there un-
til next fall, would start something.
John was going to build their cabin
the next fall, and he was proud of
living in the granary because it meant
he did not need help. John had been
like that when he had asked Aman-
da's father for permission to marry
her. She had wanted to go with him
into the small office in front of their
home, but John said he did not need
a woman's support.
Listening outside the lightly closed
door, she had heard her father say,
"You're a fine boy, John. Got good
blood in you. If Amanda loves you
I reckon you have my blessing. But
I thought it was Mary Anne you
were sweet on."
*'No, sir. I went dancing some
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JULY - 447
with Mary Anne, but Amanda— well
—she's like a young deer, her head
held high and her soft eyes." How
beautiful John could talk sometimes.
Amanda's listening heart swelled
with pride and love.
''She's young, John. We've kinda
petted her some, bein' she's the baby,
but she's sweet and a good girl. She's
inclined to be flighty and headstrong
sometimes like women will, but
she'll settle down if you keep a loose
rein on her at first till she gets used
to things. How about me building
you a house near us here?"
''No, sir, thank you." Amanda
could almost see John standing
proud and straight as an Indian—
maybe flinging back that long lock
of fair hair away from his eyes with
a backward flick of his head. "You
see the folks have an old granary near
my fields, not so far from Rader's
store. It's stout and warm, and I'll
cut a winda in the east wall and build
a good chimney. I aim to build my
own cabin next year after the crops
get done."
"You seem to know what you want
to do, my boy," Judge Gerard said.
"I admire your spirit, and you'll
make Mandy a good husband."
Amanda brought her mind back to
her present surroundings and glanced
about the granary where she now
lived with John. He had built a good-
drawing fireplace where now a kettle
hung, its contents bubbling and sim-
mering. On the rock hearth stood
an iron spider on which Amanda did
all her other cooking. Against the
north wall was built a crude cup-
board, while beside the west wall
stood her spool bed that her mother
had insisted she take; it had been
brought all the way from Tennessee
along with the round mirror that
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hung above the wash bench. The
two crude stools and the rough table
completed furnishings of the log hut.
It was snug and warm as John had
said, and someday John would get
her a stove like her folks had owned
in Missouri.
'If I can get those hoops I'll show
Mary Anne." Amanda took a wood-
en spoon and stirred the stew, then
added a bit of water with a gourd
dipper. 'T\\ go ask Mr. Rader about
them. He might get some from the
freight wagons coming through Salt
Lake soon.
Mr. Rader said he was going to
Salt Lake the next day, and would
try to make a deal.
''But don't tell anybody/' pleaded
Amanda, "I want to be the first to
wear them. How much do you think
they'll cost?"
. "I should jedge about five dollars."
The room seemed to spin around
her. Five dollars! She could never
get that much money. But she had
come into the store and told Mr.
Rader she wanted the hoops and
hadn't asked the price first, so she
could not back out now. "You go
ahead and see if you can get them,
please," she said hurriedly.
VyHEN she reached home again
Amanda once more sat on the
little stool and studied the pictures
in the magazine. Even if she didn't
get the hoops, the dress would stand
out nicely if she made it right full
and wore her petticoats. If Mr.
Rader was able to get the hoops and
she did not take them he would
probably sell them to Mary Anne,
and then Mar}' Anne's nose would
go a little farther into the air.
Amanda glanced at the sun. John
would soon be home for dinner. She
went to the cupboard and took out
a tablecloth, knives and forks. That
was one thing she was glad she had—
two nice tablecloths to make them
remember their manners. The two
plates, cups, and slices of bread and
butter were on the table when John
came in.
"Well, who's this in my house?
Haven't I seen you somewhere be-
fore?" John looked at her with as-
sumed surprise, as he always did; and
Amanda giggled and replied, as she
always did,
"Your face does look familiar, sir."
She dropped him a curtsy.
"Mandy, Mandy!" He gathered
her in his arms.
"John," Amanda began, as John
released her, "Josiah Meddlebury
stopped here and left me some
goods. It's from Aunt Annie in New
York for a wedding present to me."
She carefully lifted the silk out of
the chest where she had placed it
before setting the table. John fin-
gered the edge of it with his rough
fingers.
"It surely is fine," he said slowly.
"Won't it be beautiful for the
dance? I can make it up in three
weeks."
"You got your wedding dress."
"Oh, no," she said hastily, "it
would spoil it to wear it to anything
but a wedding."
He looked down at her. "You
mean you're savin' it for your next
husband?"
"Oh, John, don't tease me. You
know what I mean. It was Mother's
wedding dress, too, and I want it
saved for special things. This goods
will be wonderful made up, and it
was given to me."
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"A thrifty wife/' John laughed and Indians been steaHng corn again,
swung her into the air. Keep the door shut."
Maybe she was spoiled, as her John had just gone when Mr.
grandmother had often told her, but Rader sent his son Willie over to
was it so awful to be selfish enough tell her that he'd returned from his
to want to make your husband proud trip and had the hoops,
of you? John would be proud, too. 'Tell your father I'll be over to-
He might not say so, but his head morrow, Willie."
would beheld^ little straighter as he That night she lay beside John
walked into the dance beside her in wondering what to do. He slept
the billowed skirts that would gently soundly, but her eyes would not
sway. Mary Anne with her critical close. If she only knew of some way
airs would be so envious. to make John understand how much
Amanda sewed during every spare those hoops meant to her. But he
minute. She was not worried about wouldn't see the need of trading
getting the hoops. She had always good corn, wheat or vegetables for
had what she wanted, and something hoops. Then she thought of the keg
would turn up. Eagerly she measured of molasses standing in the corner.
her small waist after she had fixed Her father would not have given it to
the stays. Eighteen inches! She John if she was not his wife. Why
would have the smallest waist at the couldn't she take half the molasses
party, and the hoops would make it to Mr. Rader to pay for the hoops?
look smaller yet. Father had more molasses, and he
always gave her what she asked for,
J»WO days before the dance John ^^ ^^ ^^^1^ ^^^-^^ ^o^j^ij^g of -^
came m with a five gallon keg of jhe next morning John was out
molasses which he set in the east earlier than usual, for Carl was help-
corner. 'Tour father gave me this." ing him finish up in time to rest a
John was pleased, for sweets were little before the dance. As soon as
very scarce and needful. Judge Ger- he was gone, Amanda rushed over to
ard had made the molasses and given Mr. Rader's who stood smiling and
John part of it. cheerful beside the counter.
-More'n we could use at once so .you want to buy some molasses?"
I told Carl enson he could have a ^^^ ^^^^^ breathless from her hur-
couple ot gallons tor helping me with • j ii
the corn. His folks' ve had no sweets ^^. ' , ^ . , ,.
for weeks " ^^^^ peered at her through his
'They'll like this." spectacles. ^ "Wal, I might. Your
"Have I seen you somewhere be- ^^^^^^ ^^'"^ ^^^ ^"^y ^"^ "^^^^^ '^
fore?" John asked and kissed her. y^^ "^"^^ have some o'his'n."
She gave him a squeeze and giggled, "He gave me more than we need.
"Your face looks familiar, sir." I can sell you half— for the hoops.
"How's the dress? Done?" You can make a good profit."
"You'll see it the day of the dance, Mr. Rader nodded his head sol-
and you'll get a surprise." emnly though his eyes twinkled. "If
"Got to get back, Mandy. Want I didn't hev tuh pay too much fer it.
to get through 'fore sundown. Pesky Can't stock up too much on produce
450 - JULY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
fer 'em, an' cash money's as scarce as
sweets."
''How much could you give me?"
''Wall, les see. A dollar a gallon?"
A dollar a gallon!" Her half of the
keg would amount to only two dol-
lars and a half, not enough to buy
the hoops. If she could sell the
whole five gallons! Father would
give John some more.
Mr. Rader saw the hesitancy in her
eyes and hurriedly opened the box.
"Funny lookin' contraptions, ain't
they?"
"B-but I— I only had two and a
half gallons to sell," Amanda ex-
plained. "It isn't enough."
Mr. Rader's face fell. "I'd hafta
get five dollars fer 'em. An' then I
ain't makin' a mite o' profit, jest ac-
comodatin' yuh. Got somethin'
else?"
The whole keg would make the
five dollars! John could pay Carl
with something else, and her father
would give them more molasses. Mr.
Rader's smile was beginning to look
set. If she didn't take the hoops after
all the trouble he had gone to, she
knew the community would soon
know about it.
"W- would you take all the five
gallons for the hoops?" she asked.
Mr. Rader rubbed his hands to-
gether and chuckled, "Yup, I'll get
Willie tu take the hoops over fer
yuh, and he can bring back the mo-
lasses."
AT HOME she shoved the box
under the bed. She would put
on the new dress before John got
home. If she looked pretty he
wouldn't think about the molasses,
and even if he did he would be in
better humor. Because there was to
be a big supper given at the dance
she and John wouldn't eat very much
before they went. She straightened
the house, slid the shutter across the
window and bolted the door before
she took her bath before the fire.
She wet her hair just enough to set
the curls.
After the hoops were adjusted she
slipped the dress over her head. Her
hair was dressed with waves on each
side of the center part and curls
hanging to her shoulders in the back
but pinned up by her ears on the
sides. She was glad she had the mir-
ror even if it only showed her from
the waist up, though she could get
a glimpse of where the hoops began
to swell around her hips. She look-
ed pretty in maroon. Amanda look-
ed down at her feet. They seemed
almost as small as the ones in the
magazine. Then she remembered
to take John's suit from the chest and
hang it on a peg to get the wrinkles
out. She hugged the coat.
John was coming up the hard clay
path. With a final pat to her curls
she posed in the center of the room,
waiting. John opened the door, and
his face lighted as he saw her there,
slowly and gracefully turning before
him.
"My, my, woman, what are you
doing here?"
Amanda stopped in front of him
and curtsied. John's face assumed
that puzzled expression. "Haven't I
seen you somewhere before?"
"You're face looks familiar, sir,"
Amanda replied and kissed him.
"What's under that skirt?" he
asked.
"Hoops. Like it?" She raised the
skirt to show the bottom hoops. "It's
the newest style."
John grinned and ran rough fin-
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EMPIRE BUILDERS
'This is the place/' the leader cried,
Standing there on the mountain side,
Viewing the shrubs and sand and sage
Blowing and swaying to the water's edge.
Dreary and bare the desert spread
Out from the lake— for ages dead.
Hidden by cliff and crag and peak,
'This is the place we came to seek—
This is the place".
This is the place where deeds are done.
This is the place in sage and sun
Where dreams are dreamed and dreams come true,
And roses bloom where the sage once grew;
Once dreary and brown, now shining and green.
Moist and sweet the mountain stream
Spreads its waters over the waste
Whispering, 'Truly, this is the place—
This is the place."
This is the place where heart and brain,
Striving to build, and not in vain,
Nourished the grain and laid the stones.
Hewed the logs and builded homes.
Out of the waste a city sprung
Climbing the ladder rung by rung.
Slowly, steadily, not in haste.
The people came, for 'This is the place—
This is the place."
This is the place that faith has won.
With labor and love and deeds well done;
Nourished by Him who brought them here.
They learned to love and not to fear.
Building on hope and love of God,
Turning and tilling the virgin sod.
They built a city the desert to grace,
A light to the world, for "This is the place—
This is the place."
— Zella Jones Landon.
Relief Society Participation
in Church Welfare
\ GAIN our Father in Heaven has
blessed us with bountiful har-
vests. As one rides through the
country, he is impressed w^ith the
fact that there is food enough for
everyone and that no one should go
without the necessary amount and
variety of food needed for health.
The Pioneers who followed the
admonition of their prophet had this
security. President Brigham Young's
teachings are as applicable today as
then:
'This is the greatest wealth we
possess— to know how to direct our
labors rightly, spending every hour
advantageously for the benefit of our
wives and children and neighbors."
'It is good policy and economy to
sustain each other."
"Never let anything go to waste.
Be prudent, save everything, and
what you get more than you can take
care of yourselves, ask your neigh-
bors to help you conserve."
The season of abundance is here.
Now is the time for thoughtful plan-
ning for the future. When winter
comes, what a feeling of security we
would have if each home had its own
supply of fruit and vegetables and
the storehouses were full for emer-
gencies.
But let us not forget that the hap-
py satisfied people will be the ones
where the security comes through
their own efforts. Every one should
have opportunity for this satisfac-
tion. In the Salt Lake Region plans
have been made to assure this as far
as possible. The ward presidents and
work directors have made a survey
covering the following points:
The homes in which help will be needed.
The women from these homes who can
work at the canning center. (A woman
who has young children with no one re-
sponsible to care for them should not leave
home to work. )
The homes where there are facilities for
home canning.
Based upon this information, the
women who need the work will be
given first opportunity. If extra help
is needed to prevent waste, the Re-
lief Society women will gladly re-
spond. However, it is hoped that the
work and supply of food will be so
planned that our busy officers will
not have to be called upon often.
The women who have the facili-
ties for home canning will be en-
couraged as far as possible to have
members of the family gather surplus
fruit and do the canning in the
homes. Often there is more fruit at
the center than can be cared for and
which must be disposed of at once.
By knowing the homes where the
need is and the facilities for canning
much waste will be prevented.
Canning of vegetables should
never be done without well tested
pressure cookers and under the su-
pervision of experts. A community
center might be established in locali-
ties where the canning center cannot
offer this individual service.
The Uintah Stake had a project
last summer— "A vegetable garden
for each home". Where a family
had not a place for such a garden the
land was provided. Help was also
given when needed in procuring
seeds. In the fall the project was
"A vegetable pit for each family".
Would it not be well to revive the
pioneer way of having home vege-
table pits?
Ishbel, Marchioness of
Aberdeen and Temair
By Annie Wells Cannon
r\N April 22, 1939, Ishbel Mar-
joriebanks Gordon was laid to
rest in the. little family cemetery
near Haddo House, surrounded by
the roses and heather of her beloved
Scotland.
In the passing of Lady Aberdeen
the International Council of
Women has lost a great leader, and
the women of the world a staunch
and loyal friend.
Hers was a career of remarkable
activity throughout the years of a
long life. She knew no boundaries,
but her friendliness and good will
radiated generously to all who came
in contact with her.
The Golden Rule, adopted as the
symbol of the International Council
of Women, was her philosophy of
life, and she strove in a religious
sense to serve her Maker in work for
mankind.
Thus, we see her in girlhood a
Sunday school teacher; as a young
wife, with her devoted husband en-
gaged in educational and settlement
work not only among the tenants on
their own estates but throughout the
rural districts of Scotland; as Vice-
Reine of Ireland she founded health
associations and helped to build
sanitoriums to alleviate the suffer-
ings of the industrial workers in Ire-
land; as wife of the Governor Gen-
eral of Canada she found many op-
portunities for her humanitarian ac-
tivities, and here she founded in
1893 t^^ National Council of
Women of Canada.
At the Congress of Women held
in Chicago during the Columbian
Exposition, Lady Aberdeen was
elected president of the Inter-
national Council of Women, a posi-
tion she held for a period of thirty-
six years.
Many Utah women through affili-
ation with the National Council
knew Lady Aberdeen well and had a
keen appreciation of her brilliant in-
tellect, her executive ability, and her
general worth.
Delegates from the Relief Society
and Young Women's Mutual Im-
provement Association have attend-
ed all the Quinquennials and parti-
cipated in these great Council ses-
sions since the beginning as they
have been held in the great capitals
of the different nations. The last
three held in Paris, Dubrovnik and
Edinburgh were attended by Presi-
dent Louise Y. Robison at Paris, and
by Counselor Amy Brown Lyman at
Dubrovnik and Edinburgh; they
were impressed as always with Lady
Aberdeen's dignity and ability
though advanced in years. A most
notable Council was the one held in
1899 in London, when her late Ma-
jesty Queen Victoria received the
foreign and colonial delegates at
Windsor Castle. At this Quinquen-
nial there was a large delegation of
American women, including Susan
B. Anthony, Mrs. Stanton, Anna
Howard Shaw and other notables.
From Utah there were about fifteen
delegates, headed by Emmeline B.
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LADY ABERDEEN
Wells of the Relief Society and Susa
Y. Gates of the Young Women's
Mutual Improvement Association.
Lord and Lady Aberdeen in 1915
toured the United States in the in-
terest of their Irish philanthropies.
They were hospitably entertained in
Utah by the General Board of the
Relief Society and a committee from
other affiliated organizations. Among
the functions was a banquet at the
Hotel Utah at which many tributes
were paid the titled guests. The
decorations were shamrocks and car-
nations.
Lady Aberdeen's last visit to
America was to preside at the Quin-
quennial held in Washington, D. C.
in 1925. There was a large delega-
tion from Utah headed by the late
President Clarissa S. Williams.
The main theme of this session
was World Peace for which Lady
Aberdeen had always worked and
prayed. Though many were her dis-
appointments, she died with the
hope still nearest to her heart.
''Faith not Fear" was her watch-
word when she would quote the
Psalm, '1 lift up mine eyes unto the
hills from whence cometh my help."
Peace, through faith and work, is the
message she has left to the women
of the world.
A Gift of Wings
By Alice Money Bailey
SUDDEN apprehension doused
Mildred as she admitted Mrs.
Spencer, after a somewhat per-
emptory knocking at the door.
'I'll stand, thank you, and say
what I've oome to say right out/' she
replied to Mildred's offer of a chair.
Mrs. Spencer was trembling with
rage, and red blotches of anger stain-
ed her jaws. It needed only Mil-
dred's faint ''Why, certainly'' to
launch her into the tirade she had
come to deliver.
"I want you to spank your little
girl," she said flatly.
Mildred felt anger prickling up the
back of her neck and wondered, a
little mirthfully, if her "scolding
locks" might be rising.
"It's like this. Iris snubbed Dor-
othy. All the others have been mean
to her all along, but at least I thought
she had Iris on her side. She gets
left out of everything and children
say such terrible things to ber-
things I don't believe they think up
themselves. It's what they hear at
home, I tell Henry, and for Iris to
turn Dorothy down— and you a Re-
lief Society teacher and the Primary
president— I think she ought to be
spanked."
I certainly shan't spank my child
to please others, Mildred thought
hotly, and it was on the tip of her
tongue to say as much when she
noticed that tears were trembling on
the other woman's lashes.
"I'll talk to Iris as soon as she
comes home and see what the
trouble is," she promised instead.
"It's not that I don't appreciate
what you've done fof me from time
to time." The tears were falling now,
like rain. "Only she's over there sob-
bing her little heart out, and I just-
Well, I guess I've said enough. I'll
go now."
After she had gone Mildred sat
weakly in a chair, overwhelmed by
alternating emotions of unreasonable
anger and pity for Mrs. Spencer.
"Spank Iris!" she thought indig-
nantly again and again, only to be
amused at her "battling instinct".
When Iris came in she had to
steel herself against the flushed
sweetness of the child, against the
breathless chatter.
"Mother, I wish you'd decide who
is to be Goddess of Liberty soon. I
feel like I can't stand it. If you
weren't the president they might
choose me. Wouldn't that be
heavenly! Only I like my part so well
I'd hate to give that up— just think,
the obligato! A goddess ought to
be beautiful."
"We'll have to choose her soon,
dear. The time is drawing near."
"Oh, I know it. Only twenty-four
more days, and she'll have to prac-
tice, won't she?"
"Not a great deal. She only has—"
"To sit on the throne with the
maids of honor. The bugles, then
the prayer by the chaplain, then the
flag drill, and then comes America.
The curtain draws back, and there
she is! It makes me just shiver with
happiness."
"We must forget about it just
now. Iris. I must speak to you. Did
you snub Dorothy today?" asked
Mfldred, hoping for an explanation
that woul4 absolve Iris from bl^m^.
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"Well, Mother, I-" faltered Iris.
"Did you, Iris?"
"Yes, Mother." Iris hung her
head.
"Oh, Iris. Wliy did you? I thought
your heart was kinder than that."
"It is. Mother. Only I don't want
to be kind-hearted any more. My
friends won't play with Dorothy be-
cause her hair is bushy, and she wears
funny clothes."
"Well, darling, she must wear
what her parents give her. She is
sweet and wouldn't hurt anyone."
"I know it. I feel sorry for Dor-
othy, but now Jo and Anna and
Elaine won't play with me because I
play with her. I am losing all my
friends."
"Friends couldn't be worth keep-
ing if they would desert you for
that."
"I know,— only Mother! I don't
blame them for not wanting to play
with Dorothy. She— she— " as if this
were the last straw, "she doesn't
bathe often, and she smells!"
"Oh, dear!" said Mildred, non-
plused. She thought a long minute
but couldn't find it in her heart to
blame Iris.
It was really the fault of Dorothy's
mother. What the children said was
true. There was no sense in a moth-
er turning out a child in such ridicu-
lous looking clothing, and unclean.
Soap and water were certainly cheap
enough. The Spencers weren't the
poorest people in town. Look at
Mrs. Connor, sewing smart-looking
clothes out of hand-me-downs. Mil-
dred sighed.
"Mrs. Spencer came up to see me
and was very hurt that you hadn't
treated Dorothy right. She said Dor-
othy was at home crying."
"Oh, poor Dorothy," said Iris, con-
science-stricken. "I ought to go tell
her I'm sorry, only—"
"That would be lovely, dear. It
would make Dorothy happy again."
Iris went, but her feet were reluc-
tant on the path, and Mildred knew
she was facing a bitter tomorrow, and
the day after.
It wasn't fair. It was too much to
ask of Iris. Iris was dainty about her
person, particular about her apparel.
She was very little trouble. Though
she was only twelve she sewed on
her own buttons, took almost com-
plete care of her hair, and never had
to be reminded of her bath. Then to
be forced to play with Dorothy— it
wasn't right. The more Mildred
thought of it the more indignant she
became.
"Primary president or not, I think
I'll just go and give her a piece of
my mind." Mrs. Spencer hadn't
avoided plain talk. If she was really
concerned about the happiness of
her child she ought to be grateful for
helpful criticism.
Mildred took her sweater and
started toward the Spencer home.
Her thoughts kept time with her
feet and hurdled all the time-worn
warnings about temper. "I'll cer-
tainly tell her—"
But the conversation didn't run
right. Mrs. Spencer's face lit up with
welcome.
"Now, you didn't need to come
yourself and apologize. Iris was so
sweet about it— and I wish you could
have seen them— but it's just like
you. It's me that should be going to
you for forgiveness, tearing up there
like I did. I declare, it's having a Re-
lief Society teacher like you that
makes me feel like I ought to get out
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE. JULY - 457
and do my duty. My mother used to
go to Relief Society meeting all the
time, but she got her feelings hurt
and quit, and I never did start."
She could well use some Relief So-
ciety education, thought Mildred,
looking about the house, bare of
everything except the ugliness of ne-
cessity. She cleared her throat.
"I-" she began.
''Now you don't need to say a
thing," assured Mrs. Spencer. 'The
whole thing is settled, so far as I'm
concerned. Land, don't look at my
house. I've been behind with my
work all day." A confessions maga-
zine of the "true" type lay face down
on the sewing machine, giving mute
testimony to her statement. "Some
folks think there's nothing in the
world but keeping a clean house.
And clothes!" She sniffed. "It's just
like I tell Dorothy. If your friends
can't see anything but your clothes
they're not worth having."
Settled! So far as Mrs. Spencer
was concerned. As if anyone could
see anything but those hideous
clothes. No help for the situation,
either, so long as she took that atti-
tude. There had to be some other
way.
^n MEANT to just tell her," Mil-
dred told Walter that night. "I
could kick myself for being so spine-
less."
"You're nothing of the sort," said
Walter. "I love you for it. It wasn't
spinelessness, but your usual fine in-
stincts overcoming your impulsive-
ness. You were speaking for three
people— a Primary president, a Re-
lief Society teacher, and Millie Wil-
son. You'd have driven her farther
away, made an enemy of a neighbor,
and not have done the little gid any
good either. As for sacrificing Iris to
her carelessness and poor manage-
ment, I'm with you there. You'll
have to think of something else."
But try as she might, Mildred
couldn't. For one thing, she hadn't
the time. There was the Fourth of
July celebration coming up, with its
endless rehearsals on the long June
afternoons. This was the first time
the program had been turned over
to the Primary, and Mildred wanted
everything right. She had assumed
responsibility for choosing the God-
dess of Liberty, the coveted honor
among all the girls, hence a most im-
portant decision, one subject to
much criticism, and one which she
hadn't been able to make.
In the flurry of plans for costumes
and floats, flag drills and bands, ora-
tions and music, she might have for-
gotten the affair of Iris and Dorothy,
except for small things. Once at re-
hearsal she caught a glimpse of the
girls, lately of Iris' crowd, switching
their skirts spitefully past her, their
plain little noses tilted exaggeratedly
in the air. It might have been ludi-
crous if it weren't so cruel, for Iris
turned quickly to hide the sudden
tears in her eyes and her trembling
mouth.
At home Iris was increasingly si-
lent. She didn't complain, but the
whole family missed her gayety, and
one night Mildred thought she heard
sobbing in her room, but when she
listened closely there was no sound.
Dorothy followed her over-affection-
ately about, and Mildred found her-
self fighting against acute dislike for
the child.
One evening Iris was washing her
hair as Dorothy stood watching her.
"Would you like to do yours?"
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Mildred asked, and was surprised to
see the eagerness that flushed Dor-
othy's face.
''Oh, yes! Iris' hair is so beautiful.
We never have much hot water."
She went at it so clumsily that Mil-
dred helped her a little, telling her
the best method and the tests for
cleanness.
''Mother, what does independ-
ence mean?" asked Iris through the
looking glass, where she was waving
her damp hair
"It means," said Mildred, wrin-
kling her brow, "not to be depend-
ent. It means not allowing others
to do for you what you can very well
do yourself. I think we'd better get
the dictionary for the exact meaning.
Dorothy, I believe your hair would
lie in a beautiful wave. Let me see."
Independence, she thought. The
Independence Day celebration, and
I still haven't a Goddess of Liberty.
As she waved Dorothy's hair she
planned, offering and rejecting each
name in its turn, as she had done
over and over. Elaine, contrary to
the implications of her name, was
stubby and round as a churn. She'd
make a much better Humpty-Dump-
ty. Jo was to play her bugle; Anne
had been May Queen, and Iris, be-
sides being her daughter, in itself an
insurmountable obstacle, was in the
chorus. So it ran, down the list. The
thing had to be decided. It was the
twentieth of June, two weeks until
the Fourth.
"There," she said, pinning the last
curling tendril of Dorothy's hair,
which had miraculously turned out
to be blond. Dorothy sat motion-
less, gazing at her reflection in the
mirror, her blue eyes dark with ex-
citement,
"Independence," she breathed,
and the word sounded like an en-
chanting secret, newly revealed. "Iris
has it. She cares for her own hair,
her own bath and stockings and
teeth. I can do it, too, can't I, Mrs.
Wilson? Maybe I can learn to make
myself prettier, and then the girls
won't laugh at me, or snub Iris be-
cause she plays with me."
Her intelligent eyes met Mildred's.
The poor darling, thought Mil-
dred. To think she realizes all this.
A wave of affection and pity for the
child swept over Mildred. "Out of
the mouths of babes—" she thought.
Here, like a gift in her lap, lay the
solution of all her difficulties. .
"Why in the world didn't I think
of it before?" she chided herself.
"You certainly can have independ-
ence. I'll help you."
"Why, Mother," marvelled Iris,
"Dorothy is simply beautiful with
her hair that way, isn't she?" And
indeed she was. The arrangement
brought out lines of her forehead and
chin that had been entirely unno-
ticed before, accented the fine eye-
brows and her sweet mouth. Her
figure, despite the unsightly clothes,
gave promise of being straight and
tall, but nicely rounded, a fact that
had also escaped Mildred's attention
until now.
TT WAS five minutes of ten, and
Mildred had the wonderful knowl-
edge that everything was in perfect
readiness. The parade had gone off
without a hitch and had been a
beautiful and satisfying sight. Not
for ten years had the populace been
so completely in evidence for the
celebration, and the reason was
simple. Every child had a part to
play. The first time it had ever been
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done— all by children. Mildred was
as proud as if every child were her
own, and her heart pounded as loud-
ly in her ears as the cannon that had
roared at intervals since before dawn.
''Who is Goddess of Liberty?"
The repeated question ran over the
audience, but no one knew the an-
swer. The program began : Jo's bugle,
prayer by the chaplain, the flag drill,
and then AMERICA, roared by the
audience, as the curtain slowly pulled
back to disclose her, her hair the
color of corn silk beneath the gold
crown, her eyes like violets with sup-
pressed excitement, her mouth con-
trolled. Her straight figure, her
proud head were the very embodi-
ment of Victory and Liberty, and
only Mildred knew how much she
was the symbol of Independence.
A flag gently unfurled behind
Dorothy's head. Mildred choked
with emotion. Her heart almost
stopped when the song dragged al-
most to a whisper in the amazement
of the audience. Everything depend-
ed upon the reaction. Would it be
jealousy— envy? Would they laugh
or remain silent? Dorothy sensed
the tension, the reason for it, and her
frightened eyes sought Mildred.
Mildred smiled encouragement,
though tears pushed her lids. Dor-
othy caught the message and lifted
her chin with confidence. As if by
a signal the singing resumed its
heartiness. Tlie hurdle was past.
What a satisfying chfld! Mildred
caught Iris' glance, and a smile of
understanding passed between them.
Mrs. Spencer sat entranced, as if she
saw a vision, and was overwhelmed
with pride.
"Who is it?" a woman near Mil-
dred asked.
"Don't you know? Dorothy Spen-
cer, Mary Spencer's girl. She's a
friend of Anne's," said Mrs. Beau-
mont, in the voice of one who hob-
nobs with nobility. "A very sweet
child. Anne says she got fine marks
in school."
^'^'VIT'ELL, Mrs. Spencer, what do
you think of your daughter?"
Mildred asked, after the last chorus
of the Star Spangled Banner and dis-
missal, when the air was filled with
the noise of whistles and firecrack-
ers.
"Why, she's as good as anybody.
I'm so thankful I got her the white
slippers and silk underwear she's
been after me for. It made me clear
sick to think how she might have
looked up there if you hadn't
fixed her up so pretty. Have you a
pattern like that organdy dress of
Iris'? I think Dorothy'd look real
good in a blue one. I've been mak-
ing her dresses too long. I never real-
ized before what a difference clothes
make. Dorothy has got to be fixed
up, and the house, so she can have
company. When's the next Relief
Society meeting? I want to learn
how to make those pillows."
Over by the stage door Dorothy
was surrounded by a bevy of admir-
ing girls who touched reverently her
crown, her white robes and the silk-
en rings of her hair.
HAPPENING:
By Annie Wells Cannon
JULY— Service to God, country
^ and mankind is the watchword of
the good citizen.
yACATION time, and all who can
seek change from the routine of
everyday life— sightseeing, visiting
old friends, back to the old home
town— and somewhere among the
fishing tackle or the summer clothes
there is a book for the anticipated
leisure hour. Thanks to the radio
and cinema there is a revival of the
classics, and out from forgotten
shelves come Dickens, Hugo, Du-
mas and others; then the market of-
fers hundreds of new books.
QUEEN ELIZABETH held the
^^ limelight among women when
with King George she made the
grand tour through their Canadian
provinces and to the United States.
The Queen's charm, affability and
pretty clothes won admiration, but
her genuine delight when greeting
the beautiful quintuplets won the
hearts of all.
jyiME. HALINA SIENNICKA of
Poland, recently decorated with
the Order of the Yugoslavian Crown,
made a tour of the United States
lecturing on 'Tolish Women of To-
day".
J^ATERI TEKAWITHA, 'The
Lily of the Mohawks," an Amer-
ican Indian girl of the 17th century,
is being recommended for beatifica-
tion. A postulator has been appoint-
ed to consider her worthiness to be
proclaimed a Saint.
jyi ARGARET LAMB and Mary
Smith, 80, the oldest Utah-Ida-
ho twins, went to the San Francisco
Fair where they led the parade of
1 36 sets of twins and took the grand
prize.
lyiRS. THEODORE ROOSE-
^ ^ VELT, JR., friend of Mme.
Chiang Kai-Shek, put over an Ori-
ental exhibit in New York to raise
funds for Chinese war orphans.
Among the articles exhibited was a
Buddhist pagoda of white jade and a
gold lacquer and mother of pearl
teakwood Dragon Throne.
OERTHA GREENWALD BAM-
^ BERGER, of Utah, died last
May. She was widely known and
loved for her many charities and civic
service.
TEANETTE IRVINE McMUR-
^ RIN, 85, Bertha Parkinson Lar-
sen, 59, and Lucinda Jackson Parker,
91, three beloved mothers and Re-
lief Society workers, died recently.
ARY WILLIAMS HARTMAN,
97, and Sarah Neiber O'Dris-
coll, 90, pioneer mothers and work-
ers in the Relief Society, had great
honor shown them on their birth-
days last May.
T EONA SPEYER has been award-
ed the honor of the Golden Rose
by the New England poetry clubs for
her recent volume of poetry.
QDETTE KEUN in her book, ''I
Think Aloud in America," says
she believes Americans are the only
hope for the survival of Occidental
civilization.
M
THE RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
JULIA A. F. LUND _--_.-. General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
lennie B. Knight Amy Whipple Evans Emeline Y. Nebeker Leda T. Jensen
Emma A. Empey Rosannah C. Irvine Janet M. Thompson Beatrice F. Stevens
Annie Wells Cannon Nettie D. Bradford Belle S. Spafford Rae B. Barker
Lalene H. Hart Ida P. Beal Donna Durrant Sorensen Nellie O. Parker
Cora L. Bennion Marcia K. Howells Vivian R. McConkie Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor --_---------. Belle S. Spafford
Manager ---_--__--- Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI JULY, 1939 No. 7
EDITORIAL
(cyur J/Cvauame Vi/ealth
\ Local newspaper recently pub- of wisdom in not using her available
lished an interesting item titled wealth to secure the good things of
"Woman Lives In Poverty But life. Having at her command suffi-
Leaves Two Million." While this cient wealth to satisfy any normal
woman lived as though in destitute desire, to live in ease and comfort
circumstances and obtained advan- among the rich and well born, we
tage of low rates intended only for are aghast at her lack of judgment
the poor, she was worth nearly in choosing to live a life of poverty
$2,000,000. 'This was indicated among those who were poor,
when her safety deposit boxes were Such a philosophy of life is almost
opened. Among deeds to valuable beyond our understanding. Yet, the
properties and deposit slips for worldly wealth to which this woman
money in American and foreign in- had access was paltry compared to
stitutions, there was $125,000 in U. the wealth offered to the humblest
S. government securities for which Latter-day Saint. The Lord has said,
the coupons had not been clipped 'The kingdom is yours and the
since 1935. blessings thereof are yours, and the
''She had $900,000 in foreign riches of eternity are yours,
securities and 404,^58 francs on de- "And he who receiveth all things
posit in Paris; $25,000 on deposit in with thankfulness shall be made
the Toledo Trust Company, and glorious; and the things of this earth
parcels of valued Toledo land, ex- shall be added unto him, even an
amination of her papers indicated. hundred fold, yea, more.
"It was learned that a Toledo at- "For ye are the church of the
torney, believing she was poor, had Firstborn, and he will take you up
charged her only $8 for legal services in a cloud, and appoint every man
recently." his portion.
We saner mortals not only pity "And he that is a faithful and wise
this woman but wonder at her lack steward shall inherit all things."
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Doctrine and Covenants 78:18-22.
The securities listed here are un-
Hke those found in the safety deposit
boxes of this unfortunate woman.
Here is a promissory note given by
the one infalHble banker. Here is a
promise to pay not $2,000,000 but
all the riches of eternity. Are we
wisely making use of the wealth
available to us, or, like the foolish
woman, do we prefer to live im-
poverished? We clearly see her lack
of wisdom and scoff at her. Yet,
many Latter-day Saints are neglect-
ing to take advantage of the spiritual
wealth freely offered them and are
content to live among the spiritually
poor. They choose for associates
those who are spiritually under-
nourished.
All this woman had to do to bene-
fit from her wealth was to go to the
safety deposit box, convert her securi-
ties into cash, then buy according
to her desires.
Latter-day Saints must go to the
Scriptures, our safety deposit box of
knowledge, then must our knowl-
edge be converted into good acts,
and lo! the riches of Eternity are
ours.
Vl/heat interest
"liTARD Relief Society presidents
are advised that wheat interest
checks for this year will be mailed to
the bishops. Checks will be made
payable to Relief Society presidents,
as always, but are mailed to the bish-
ops in order to facilitate the handl-
ing of the immense amount of mail
in the Presiding Bishop's office.
Presidents will kindly contact the
bishops. Checks are to be used by
the Relief Society as formerly in the
interest of maternity and child wel-
fare.
Upon the advice of the First Pres-
idency and the Presiding Bishopric,
approximately one-fourth of the
wheat fund has been used in buying
wheat to be stored for need. The
General Presidency of the Relief So-
ciety are in perfect harmony with this
action. Due to this purchase, wheat
interest checks will be smaller this
year, as interest will be paid only on
the funds remaining with the Presid-
ing Bishopric. The Relief Society
appreciates the generosity of the Pre-
siding Bishopric in paying a 5% in-
terest rate in view of the greatly re-
duced interest rates being paid by
banks and other institutions. How-
ever, in all probability the rate will
be lower next year.
Wheat interest money has been
the means of accomplishing much
good in a special field. We com-
mend the Relief Society presidents
for their diligence and wisdom in
putting this money to use in the past
and trust that the same efficiency
will characterize its use this year.
The Shining Heart
By Sibyl Spande Bowen
CHAPTER SIX
MISS BRILLIANT CAREY
surprised even young Lath-
rop with her rallying powers.
Something, perhaps the excitement
of Nell's race against the closing date
of the art contest, unlocked the vise
that held her speech, and Miss Brill
talked again. Slow, studied, her
words were, but complete. Robert,
calling daily now, waited until he
thought the invalid equal to moder-
ate shock and then launched his idea,
full grown, abruptiy as an earth-
quake.
They were discussing the picture,
of course, and Miss Brill had told
him of her own and her father's tal-
ent. ''She'll win," she said confi-
dently. How can she help it, it's
in the blood."
This is your opening; go to it, son,
she's asked for it, Lathrop thought.
He bolstered his nerve and plunged,
''You surely can't mean that your
talents have anything to do with
Nell's, because, of course, she isn't
related to you. Where did she come
from?"
For one moment Miss Brill was so
white the man was frightened at
what he had done. Then she pulled
herself together heroically. "She's my
own niece," she said defiantly, and
did not falter.
Young Lathrop shook his head,
but his brown eyes were sympathetic.
He liked this old Spartan. "I know
she thinks she is," he said gently,
"but you really ought to tell me
about it. I've ideas about young
Nell. It's pretty important to know
who she really is."
The color had returned to Miss
Brill's cheeks. "You really know
something?" she demanded excited-
ly. "Yes, I'll admit it, she isn't ours,
and you're the very first I've said as
much to, but it'll have to come out
sometime."
"Exactly," cried Robert, "now
you're talking. Who is she?"
Miss Brill subsided wearily. "I
haven't the faintest idea," she said.
But she did tell him what she
knew. She had found the child in
the back seat of her car one April
evening about dusk. Just after her
father, Tom Carey, had died, it was,
and she still had a rather fine car.
The folks who put the child in that
car must have thought they were
landing her in a nest well lined with
money.
"And you haven't the faintest no-
tion who put her there?" Robert re-
peated, bitterly disappointed.
"No," the old lady admitted, "and
I've always been glad I hadn't. It
made her seem more truly mine.
But now, when anything might hap-
pen—I don't mind saying I'd hate to
see Nell tending chicken brooders
the rest of her life. She's got more
to her than the itch for money."
Young Lathrop sat hunched, chin
in hands, "I don't think," he said
finally, "that she'll ever tend chick-
en brooders on Maple Hill, unless
she wants to. I've a hunch about our
young lady, but I've got to know a
few details. You've just got time to
whisper them in my big ear before
Miss Nell comes in."
OOBERT LATHROP was of two
minds about the bit of sleuthing
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he had set himself to do. For one
thing, BrilHant Carey really did not
want Nell's origin established. ''She's
mine now," she told Rob, 'and if
you go stirring things up no telling
whose girl she'll be. Her people
threw her away, and I love her. She's
kept me from getting queer as a mad
hatter, living alone here."
"But you've no right to keep her
from what she was— from what she
might be again," Rob explained very
kindly, for he was fond of the blunt
old lady.
"They've let her be all these
years," Miss Brill insisted, "doesn't
seem likely she's very important to
anyone but me."
"And young Fred. Don't forget
the chicken fancier," Rob reminded
her drily.
"H'm," said Miss Brill. "Well, go
ahead and prowl. As for that Fred,
Fd like to know who that woman in
breeches with the hungry-looking
eyes is that he had in his car when
he came down yesterday."
"Now, now, you mustn't draw
false conclusions," Rob reproved.
Then he explained in detail, just as
he had heard it from Nell. The
gaunt young woman, a Miss Lola
Twillham, was just out of the poul-
try school at Pullman, had taken the
property next to Fred's, and was pro-
ceeding to raise chickens according
to the latest scientific precepts. She
was, he added, very properly chap-
eroned by her mother.
Miss Twillham rode to town with
Fred to get supplies and advice. It
seemed she needed an astonishing
amount of both of them, and she
always made it a point to need them
most just when Fred was about to
call upon Nell.
And here was he, knight-errant
Robert Lathrop, driving to Seattle
grimly bent on rescuing Nell from
the twin distresses of art and Fred.
And quite likely the girl would be
just perverse enough to refuse to be
rescued from either. Well, meddlers
never came to much of a good end.
Here, he was going too far down
Westlake! He turned a corner and
threaded a maze of short, diagonal
streets until he found the one that
would wind him to the very top of
Queen Anne Hill. At the very top
an overgrown red sandstone house
looked arrogantly down upon its
neighbors and had eyes only for the
polished expanse of Puget Sound.
Robert parked in the drive of the
red stone house. Too many laurels,
or was it the yews and holly that
grew too thickly? The place was
gloomy, and a bit unkempt. Sally
shouldn't let it go like that when she
had the money to keep it up. But
then she was away so much, to
Shanghai, to Hollywood, to the
,south of France. Rob rang the bell
of the huge, iron-grilled door.
A maid answered it. There had
been a massive butler the last time
he was here. It really looked as if
Sally were economizing. He was
shown to the south lookout on the
second floor, where the view of the
Sound was best. In modern houses
this glass-walled room would be the
sunroom, but since the nineties the
Delavans had called it the lookout.
It was furnished with sea glasses, a
globe, lovely old wall maps and a
barometer. Sally had added chrom-
ium furniture, Venetian blinds, a
huge tank of exotic, wicked-looking
tropical fish on a wrought iron stand,
and an overhanging canopy of plants
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trailing from baskets. Robert found
that lovely, bored woman reclining
in a large chair, looking as glorified
as an angel in her pale blue satin
house robe, with the beautiful white
hair dramatically outlined by a
Chinese red pillow. She was pre-
tending to read.
Robert stopped a moment to al-
low his artist's soul to admire the
effect. He knew in a moment the
cold, gray eyes, the petulant, selfish
mouth of Sally Delavan would over-
ride her beauties, and he would dis-
like them all. Even when Sally was
still young, in her late twenties, as
he had first known her, that selfish,
possessive nature had dominated,
crowding the then great beauty, even
to his childish eyes.
"An honor, and a rare one," Miss
Delavan murmured, and indicated a
puffy leather chair beside her with-
out rising.
'Tou're beautiful as ever and
have things as comfortable as a cat
licking cream," Robert remarked,
sinking into the soft cushions.
Sally gave him a long look from
her gray eyes. ''Rob," she said husk-
ily, 'Tm the most unhappy woman
alive."
Rob laughed. "It takes you wom-
en with well-feathered nests, good
looks and plenty of props to set them
off to be really unhappy. You ought
to meet a woman I just saw a few
hours ago. Bedridden, trying to get
along on an income that wouldn't
pay your light bill, and yet happy as
a spring day planning and plotting to
give a young waif her chance in life."
Sally waved a hand to stop him.
"Don't be a bore, Rob. If you've
come to preach, you may as well
leave. I can be preached at in church
—and by an expert."
She can't see anything but her-
self, the man thought angrily. Quiet-
ly he said, "Sally, what did you do
with Frank's baby girl?"
Miss Delavan grew slightly rigid
and clenched her magazine, but she
held herself well under control.
"She was sent to mother's cousin,"
she said finally, flatly. Then she
turned angry eyes on Rob. "You
knew that! Your own mother helped
write the letter asking Martha to
take the baby. What are you trying
to say?"
"I'm not trying to say anything
yet, Sally," Rob answered, undis-
turbed. "I'm merely asking a ques-
tion." He would not be side-tracked
by her anger. He knew she could
turn it on and off like an electric
switch. "It just happens that a few
months after little Frances had sup-
posedly been sent to Martha, mother
met Martha in Los Angeles. She
knew nothing of the baby. She had
never even received the letter which
Aunt Sarah insisted that mother
write. What was that letter? A false
lead— a red herring?
lyflSS DELAVAN was no longer
angry. She needed her wits for
something more important. "Are
you trying to cast doubt on the char-
acter and actions of my mother, who
is no longer here to defend herself?"
she cried dramatically. "I suppose it
didn't occur to you that perhaps
Cousin Martha was telling a fib, did
it?"
"Nothing at all occurred to me— at
the time," Rob replied, grinning,
"since I was only about seven. In
fact, I shouldn't have remembered
it at all if mother had not reminded
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me of it yesterday when I called in
at the house."
Sally glanced at him briefly. ''All
right, come to the point."
"I will/' promised Rob grimly,
''and ril begin at the first, so we'll
know where we are at. Seventeen
years ago, while you and Aunt Sarah
were still stunned by Frank's death
in that French hospital, his wife
came from France, bringing their
baby with her. You resented her.
You had been too jealously fond of
Frank, too broken up by his wound-
ing in the war, his staying there after-
ward, to like his wife. So you made
her as unwelcome as you could, you
and Aunt Sarah. She didn't stand it
long. She died, heartbroken, per-
haps."
''How pathetic. It happened to be
appendicitis," Sally remarked sarcas-
tically. "Your version makes better
melodrama, however."
"Doesn't it," Rob agreed, unshak-
en, "but then life is often more fan-
tastic than fiction. Anyway, it seemed
to increase your gloom that all you
had in place of Frank was a baby
girl you wouldn't let yourselves love.
You and Aunt Sarah had so devoted
yourselves to Frank that when he
went your whole interest in life went
with him."
"Stop that!" Miss Delavan de-
manded, her face twisting, "you've
no right to bring that up. I won't let
you."
"I'm sorry, Sally," Rob said, "but
I must. If I remember right. Aunt
Sarah brooded and moped and
wouldn't even see the baby. Then
suddenly she called mother to come
over, dictated that letter to Martha,
and after awhile the baby was gone.
What did you do with her?"
Sally Delavan said remotely, "You
seem to know so much. Suppose you
answer that question. I've always
thought Martha had her. I was never
interested enough in the child to in-
quire. I know mother left Martha a
considerable sum in her will. I pre-
sumed it was for the support of the
child." Deliberately she selected a
chocolate from a box that stood
open near her and indicated it to
Robert. He declined impatiently.
"All right, I will tell you. And
you'll be surprised— I hope," he
promised in annoyance.
Miss Delavan dropped her pose
of indifference and became tense.
"Well, let's have whatever story
you've cooked up," she said sharply.
"One night in April— moonlight,
by the way—" Rob began promptly,
"a large tan sedan was parked in
front of the apartments down the
street— those opposite the park.
Somebody concealed himself in the
shrubs of that park until the owner
of the car left. Then, with a baby
that had been carefully dressed in
cheap, new clothes that could not be
traced, this person slipped the child
onto the seat of the car through an
open window."
"And where is all this leading?"
"But the owner of the car had not
been in the apartments at all. When
she came out of a house farther down
the street, she thought she passed a
slight acquaintance, and spoke to
her. The woman was moaning and
seemed greatly disturbed, so the lady
stepped aside and let her go on down
the street, thinking she must have
been mistaken."
"Mistaken about whom?"— sharp-
ly-
"Sarah Delavan," Rob answered.
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and heavy silence filled the bright
room like thick mist.
And then Miss Delavan smiled.
She sensed the slight uncertainty in
Rob's last words. "And of course, it
later proved to be someone else/' she
suggested contemptuously. "I don't
know at all what you're driving at.
You* seem to have forgotten that
mother was your godmother, that
she treated you like a son."
'1 haven't forgotten," Robert an-
swered gravely. *'I was very fond of
Aunt Sarah. But I think she was not
herself when she put Frank's baby
out of her life, and she would be the
first to wish things cleared up."
Sally Delavan said angrily, "So you
think mother would like you to
brand her a woman who deliberately
left her grandchild in a strange car?
Who did it to cheat the child out of
her inheritance, people would say. I
won't have it. You shall not drag
mother's name through the mud,
just to heap my money in the lap of
some silly girl you happen to be in
love with. Yes, that's it! Someone
you're in love with!" Her voice rose
swiftly to a shriek.
Robert jumped up and ran to her.
"For goodness sake, Sally, control
yourself," he implored, trying to
grasp her flailing arms to quiet her.
"All you've got to do is produce
Frances to stop the story!" She was
laughing and crying in wild hysteria
now, and a maid ran into the room,
armed with smelling salts.
"We were just talking—" Rob said
helplessly.
The maid held the salts beneath
the nose of the moaning Sally. She
motioned for Rob to go out, and
formed the words soundlessly with
her lips, "She's all right." She even
winked.
Rob slid out, thankfully.
A large red person was standing in
the hall— the cook, evidently, listen-
ing to Sally's show. "It's been a
long time, sir, since she had one of
them spells. I believe she likes 'em,"
she volunteered.
Rob gave her a cold look and went
out. So Sally wouldn't hear him!
She'd turn on a tantrum every time
he'd try to talk to her. He remem-
bered tall tales of her rages, how
she'd ruled her entire family with
them— all except Frank. She'd been
his admiring slave— and hadn't eaten
for a week when he enlisted and
went to France. Well, no matter
how she resented Frances, the child
of the French war-time marriage,
Rob would see the thing through,
though to tell the truth. Miss Brill
hadn't supplied him with much of a
leg to stand on.
{To be continued)
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great faiths, great hopes, great ideals; to be inspired supremely by the Spirit of God. For
so we are lifted, until the things we tried to see and could not we now can see because
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The Selection of an
Adequate Dietary
By Di. Rose H. Widtsoe
Home Economics Department, UniveTsity oi Utah
POSITIVE or radiant health is
the goal which all are inter-
ested in reaching. Research
shows that the great masses of peo-
ple the world over are approaching
this goal, but they still have a long
way to go.
The strict medical examination of
our soldier and sailor boys at the
mobilization for the World War re-
vealed startling deviations from a
condition of normal physical fitness.
Health surveys at this time and im-
mediately following the war also
showed that 300,000 babies were dy-
ing annually in the United States
before reaching one year of age.
These findings aroused the concern
of the physicians, nutritionists, sani-
tary engineers and many others who
were working in the great field of
public health. Active research and
general education in preventive med-
icine, nutrition, child welfare, per-
sonal hygiene, physical education,
sanitary engineering, and food in-
spection were conducted by many
agencies all over the United States.
A definite improvement in the gen-
eral health with the extension of the
average span of life and a marked
decrease in infant mortality has re-
sulted.
Never before has the general pub-
lic been so "nutrition conscious".
Good nutrition has come to be re-
garded as perhaps the most import-
ant single factor in human well-
being.
Adequate Dietaries
The purpose of this article is to
suggest ways and means of building
adequate dietaries. Many factors en-
ter into the food problem. In the
average family there are persons of
varying ages. There is the adult fa-
ther and mother in the prime of life,
one of whom may be doing active
physical work while the other is en-
gaged in a sedentary occupation.
Then we have the baby who requires
certain foods adapted to its digestive
capacity and its need for materials
with which to meet the demands of
the most rapidly growing period dur-
ing its entire life cycle. The normal
baby doubles its weight in six
months and trebles it in one year.
How important it is then to supply
the proper building materials in suf-
ficient amounts during this period.
All through the rapidly growing per-
iod the kind and amount of food
requires the most serious considera-
tion. The next group in this average
family is composed of children from
two to five years and is known as the
pre-school age group. These chil-
dren are not yet ready to sit at the
family table and be served the food
which is suitable for older children
and adults. The food must still be
selected to meet the needs of rapid
growth and great activity and be
adapted to the digestive capacity.
This average family will also include
school boys and girls whose enor-
mous appetites are proverbial. This
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JULY - 471
age group, six to eighteen years, re-
quires an abundance of wholesome
food to meet the growth and activity
requirements. Dr. Lafayette Mendel,
in his public addresses, always ad-
monished parents not to ridicule the
enormous appetites of adolescent
boys and girls. Their food require-
ments, in terms of quantities, are far
grealier than that of adults under
similar conditions. The writer heard
Dr. Mendel say at one time that a
strong healthy boy or girl between
the ages of twelve to eighteen can-
not eat too much wholesome food,
including quantities of milk, vege-
tables and fruits, but he said, ''Do
not permit them to satisfy their ap-
petites with bread, potatoes, meat
and desserts alone". These are good
foods, but they must not crowd out
milk, green vegetables and fresh
fruits. This average family group
may also comprise one or more
grandparents whose food require-
ments revert back to childhood-
smaller amounts of easily digested
foods.
Eating is a Social Matter
Eating is a social problem. It is
not enough to count the calories and
build dietaries that will meet the
standard requirements for growth
and well-being. The present civiliza-
tion is rushing through life at such a
rate that it does not get the social
value out of the meal service in the
home that it should. Too often lit-
tle thought is given to the morning
meal. Individually, members of the
family come to the kitchen and se-
lect food which is ready to serve or
can be prepared quickly. Many
adults will take no breakfast at all.
At luncheon time, the family is scat-
tered. The older children are at
school, often the father is away at his
business, leaving only the mother
and the younger children to partake
of the noon-day meal. Rural condi-
tions are often much better as far as
regularity of meal service is concern-
ed. The evening dinner is very often
the one social meal at home. The
considerate mother plans a whole-
some meal for this occasion. She
plans as far as possible a well-bal-
anced menu, cooks the food to please
the family palate, to preserve its nu-
tritive value, and serves it in an at-
tractive, orderly manner. It is not,
in a well-regulated home, a make-
shift meal gotten up on the spur of
the moment, but careful planning,
ordering, preparation and serving
characterize this meal. It should be
a happy, peaceful occasion and not a
time for discussing family troubles.
The dinners to which outside guests
are invited should not be the only
dinners to be carefully planned and
prepared.
The Economic Piohlem
Another phase of building ade-
quate dietaries is the question of
food costs. Much research has been
conducted to determine the cost of
adequate dietaries at different in-
come levels. The best available ref-
erence is ''Diets at Four Levels of
Nutritive Content and Cost," Steibe-
ling, H. K. and Ward, M., United
States Department of Agriculture,
Circular No. 396*. These diets have
been carefully worked out on the fol-
lowing basis: The "restricted diet"
is only an emergency diet and should
not be used over a long period of
time. It is not an adequate diet but
* Write to Superintendent of Docu-
ments, Washington, D. C, and enclose
ten cents.
472 - JULY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
''represents a good choice of food for
its cost"; ''the adequate diet at min-
imum cost" represents a well-bal-
anced adequate diet composed of the
cheaper foods, yet wholesome food.
This diet includes a large quantity of
whole cereals, a limited amount of
fresh milk or its equivalent in evapo-
rated or dried milk, a large quantity of
potatoes and other root or tuber
vegetables as well as dried beans and
peas, a rather limited amount of
green leafy vegetables except in the
growing season when they are inex-
pensive, a limited amount of fresh
fruits and tomatoes except for a short
period of the year. This diet de-
pends rather upon dried, canned and
storage vegetables (peas and beans)
and fruits such as peaches, apricots
and prunes and stored apples and
pears; the cheaper cuts of meat are
selected. Such meat is just as nu-
tritious as the more expensive cuts,
but it requires greater care in its
preparation in order to make it di-
gestible and palatable. The "ade-
quate diet at moderate cost" and the
"liberal cost diet" include much less
of the cereal foods, potatoes and
other root and tuber vegetables, but
use fresh milk, green leafy vegetables
in much greater quantities through-
out the year, also fresh fruits and to-
matoes, a wider choice of meats in
greater quantities and eggs as desired.
Perhaps the most workable guide
that the writer can offer is the week-
ly market order worked out on these
four cost levels for a family of five:
Two adults, three children aged
three, five and thirteen years.
SUGGESTED WEEKLY MARKET ORDER AT FOUR LEVELS OF
NUTRITIONAL ADEQUACY*
Restricted
Adequate
Adequate
Very
diet for
diet at
diet at
liberal
Food
Unit
emergency
minimum
moderate
diet
use
cost
cost
quantity
quantity
quantity
quantity
Flour, cereal or
lb.
19
17
13
7/2
Bread
7r
9
8
13
8
Flour, cereals
7>
13.
11
4
2^2
Milk or its equivalent
qt.
H
24/2-28
28
28
Potatoes, sweet potatoes
lb.
13
13
12
12
Dried beans, peas, nuts
2
2
1/2
Vi
Tomatoes, citrus fruits
5
5
8
10
Leafy, green and yellow vegetabl
es "
4
7
9
11
Dried fruits
1
1/2
2
1/2
Other vegetables and fruits
3'/^
7
17
^7 ,
Butter
1
1
1%
1/4
Other fats
2/2
2/2
2/2
2/2
Sugar
3
2
2/2
2/2
Molasses, jellies
lYz
lYi
2
2
Lean meat, poultry, fish
2
4
7..
12
Eggs
doz.
1
1/2
1^
2%
Cod liver oil (child, under 2 yrs.
) oz.
2-3
3-4
3-4
3-4
*Stiebeling and Ward. Adapted from U. S. D. of Agr., Circ. 296, 1933.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JULY - 473
TN the previous articles on nutrition see that the first diet is deficient in
we have learned something con- its nutritive requirements and that
ceming the body's need for energy, each of the other three diets pro-
protein, fat, carbohydrates— starches vide daily adequate amounts of
and sugar, the minerals and vita- these nutrients the writer is again
mins. In order that the reader may quoting:
APPROXIMATE NUTRITIVE VALUE PER DAY OF DIETARIES*
•
Restricted
Adequate
Adequate
Very
diet for
diet at
diet at
liberal
Unit
emergency
minimum
moderate
diet
use
cost
cost
quantity
quantity
quantity
quantity
Energy value
Cal.
11,132
12,312
12,280
12,096
Calories from protein
%
11
13
12
13
Protein
gm.
313
400
368
389
Fat
gm.
349
470
519
592
Carbohydrate
gm.
1,623
1,608
1^515
1,291
Calcium
gm.
4.18
6.74
6.49
6.55
Iron
gm.
.0464
.0579
.0614
.0650
Phosphorus
gm.
5-97
8.08
7.48
7.65
Vitamin A
units
13^705
23,407
25^315
27,988
Vitamin C
units
407
565
787
935
*Stiebeling and Ward. Compiled from U. S. D. of Agr., Circ. 296, 1933.
Translating these dietaries into money values it is suggested, when prices are aver-
age, that the food dollar be used as follows:
DIVISION OF THE FAMILY FOOD DOLLAR*
Restricted
Adequate
Adequate
Very
diet for
diet at
diet at
liberal
emergency
minimum
moderate
diet
use
cost
cost
:5-3oc
Milk and cheese
(Liberal includes butter and cream)
Fruits and vegetables 25-20C
Lean meat, fish and eggs 10c
Bread, flour and cereals 20c
Fats, sugars and accessories
30-35C
25
-30c
30c
25-20C
30
-25c
30c
15c
20-
-15c
25-30C
15c
lOC
15-loc
including fats,
sugars and
accessories
20c
15c
5-20C
'Stiebeling and Ward. Compiled from U. S. D. of Agr., Circ. 296, 1933.
COME of the common weaknesses
of the American diet, ''meat, po-
tatoes, white bread and dessert", are:
First, twice as much money is spent
for meat as is necessary to insure
good nutrition. Meat is a good food
but very expensive in terms of its
food value. A little meat to flavor
a large quantity of vegetables is a
good practice. Second, this type of
474 - JULY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
diet is lacking in the necessary pro-
tective foods, fresh fruits, vegetables
and milk, that supply the mineral
salts and vitamins.
DAILY FOOD SELECTION
GUIDE
The following suggestions may be
of further help in building balanced
dietaries :
Milk:
Adults: At least one pint either as a
beverage or in cooked food; fresh milk
or its equivalent in evaporated or
dried milk.
Children: One pint to i^/^ pints or i
quart of fresh milk. Do not let too
much milk crowd out the green and
colored vegetables.
Vegetables:
Adults: One serving of green vegetables,
raw in salads or cooked; two other
vegetables including colored vege-
tables, carrots or tomatoes, and pota-
toes two or three times a week.
Growing Children: Two vegetables
other than potatoes. Include green
leafy or colored vegetables, carrots and
tomatoes as often as possible.
Fruits:
Adults: One glass of fruit juice or to-
mato juice or fresh citrous fruits.
Children: One glass fruit juice or to-
mato juice and two servings of fresh,
raw or canned fruits.
Whole Grain Cereals:
Adults: One serving of cereal or one
serving of whole wheat bread.
Children: One serving of cereal and
two of whole wheat bread.
Meat, Eggs, Cheese:
Adults: One serving meat; one serving
eggs or cheese.
Children: One serving meat; one serving
eggs or cheese.
Cheese is an excellent protein food
and should be used more extensively.
Growing children require much
more protein food in proportion to
their weight than do adults.
Cereals should be the dark, whole
grain varieties such as whole cracked
wheat, dark farina, oatmeal, or whole
puffed cereals. It is an excellent idea
to add a small amount of wheat germ
to the cereals.
EXAMPLES OF WELL-BALANCED DAILY FOOD SELECTION
These foods and amounts meet the average requirements for energy,
protein, calcium, phosphorus, iron and vitamins A, B, C, G:
Infants:
Mother's milk or a modified milk formula with supplements such as cod liver oil,
orange juice, vegetable juices, vegetable purees, etc. as prescribed by a physician.
Child One Year:
Class oi Foods
1. Cereal grains
2. Milk
3. Vegetables
Fruits
Quantity
Dark farina with added wheat germ.
Bread — thoroughly toasted.
Fresh liquid.
Peas, canned or fresh ]
Carrots }■
String beans J
(All well cooked and strained)
Baked pototo.
Orange, pineapple, grapefruit juice.
Prunes, apricots, peaches, pears
(Cooked and strained — Canned fruits may
be used.)
yi cup
2 slices
13^2 pints — 1 quart
2 tablespoons
2 tablespoons
6 tablespoons
1-2 tablespoons
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JULY - 475
5.
Butter
Butter — fresh.
1 teaspoon
6.
Sugar
Sugar.
3/2 teaspoon
7-
Egg yolk
Egg yolk, soft boiled.
Vi yolk
8.
Cod liver oil
Cod liver oil.
As prescribed by a
physician.
re-
school Child:
1.
Foods from whole
Whole cereals with added wheat germ.
>4 cup
cereal grains in-
Bread, whole wheat.
2 slices
cluding whole
Flour for thickening white sauce.
2 teaspoons
t
wheat bread.
Crackers, whole wheat.
2 small
2.
Milk
Milk.
i3/2 pints — 1 quart
3-
Vegetables
All mild flavored vegetables:
Peas, beans,
H-H cup
carrots, beets, well cooked but not
strained.
Potato baked.
1 medium
4-
Fruits
Orange, pineapple, grapefruit
All cooked fruits.
Banana.
juices.
Vi cup
Vz-Vz cup
5-
Butter
Butter.
2 teaspoons
6.
Sugar
Sugar, honey, molasses.
1 teaspoon
7-
Eggs, cottage
Egg, boiled or coddled, or
1 egg
cheese, meat.
Ground lean beef patty, or
Cottage cheese.
1-2 tablespoons
3-4 tablespoons
School Children:
Larger servings of each of the food
groups as the children advance in
age, leading up to a maximum
amount for an active boy, should in-
clude all kinds of well-cooked whole
cereals with top milk, all kinds of
bread rolls, Graham crackers; a quart
of milk used as a drink or in cooking;
large servings of vegetables, potatoes
—2 medium size, cabbage— i cup or
more, cooked or raw; all kinds of
cooked vegetables— at least two
kinds daily other than potatoes, let-
tuce—^ head; butter— 3-4 table-
spoons; bacon— 2 slices; sugar, honey,
molasses, 3 tablespoons; eggs, cheese,
meat— one helping daily, one or two
eggs and 2-3 ounces of cheese.
Adults:
Tt is a serious ynistak^ for adults
to feel that since they have ceased
to grow they do not need to give
special consideration to their diet.
There would be far fewer sets of false
teeth, far fewer cases of digestive dis-
turbances and much less premature
aging if adults were well nourished.
To maintain health there is never a
time in life when adequate nutrition
is not an important consideration.
The adult needs all the various nutri-
ents that children require but in dif-
ferent amounts. Our quantities of
food for energy will vary in terms of
our activities, but our needs for ade-
quate protein, mineral salts and vita-
mins is urgent throughout the entire
life cycle. The problem for adults
is to select a balanced dietary and to
limit the quantities to our needs.
Overreaching is a common error.
TbbUL
FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund,
A Pioneer Mother
AT THE approach of July our
thoughts turn with gratitude and
reverence toward our Pioneers. We
Hve again in memory their fearless
devotion to duty, their self-sacrifice
and their mighty achievements, the
benefits of which we today enjoy.
Men and women stood side by side
in this great era.
We are indebted to Nettie Hunt
Rencher for the life story of one of
these heroic women, Mary Willie
Richards, born May 31, 1850, in Salt
Lake City. Her father was captain of
the "belated" Willie Handcart Com-
pany. One of Mary's earliest recol-
lections was seeing her father upon
his return, after suffering greatly
from cold and hunger. When Mary
was nine years old, the family moved
to Mendon, Cache Valley, where her
mother became first president of Re-
lief Society. Though the school per-
iod was limited to a few months dur-
ing the year, the little pioneer maid
learned many things that enabled
her to become a competent wife and
mother. Among the household arts
she learned to be an expert spinner.
At the age of seventeen she married
the man of her choice, Joseph Hill
Richards. When President Brigham
Young called the Saints to settle in
Arizona, Brother and Sister Richards
were among those to respond. The
long journey, covering more than
three months, from Cache Valley to
Arizona was attended by all the dan-
gers and privations incident to pio-
neering. The story of these Arizona
settlements parallels anything re-
corded in the building of the West.
(general Secretary
Only unfailing faith in our Heaven-
ly Father and devotion to the high-
est ideals could have sustained Sister
Richards in the marvelous work she
did as a wife, mother, church worker
and community builder. Her life
sketch is the recital of ingenuity, re-
sourcefulness, courage and determin-
ation to surmount all obstacles,
coupled with sympathy and tender-
ness. Her devotion to Relief Society
is typical, and her work as a midwife
is a record of service unsurpassable.
Only through the sustaining spirit of
the Gospel could she have lived and
accomplished so much. In the words
of her biographer, ''Service is so
much a part of her very life, she must
continue it, so she turned to temple
work. She has worked in the Salt
Lake, Logan, St. George and Mesa
Temples." On May 31 Sister Rich-
ards reached her ninetieth birthday.
What a record of achievement, what
a heritage she will leave to her fam-
ily, what an example of Latter-day
Saint womanhood she has set.
Chuich Institute at Laiamie
AS AN organization of mothers,
the Relief Society is very much
interested in the Church program of
education. It is always a great pleas-
ure and a source of pride to hear of
the work of the seminaries, colleges
and institutes of religion. Today,
more than ever before, the need for
religious education is apparent. We
are indebted to Alice K. Chase
whose husband, Daryl Chase, is Di-
rector of the Institute at Laramie,
Wyoming, for the Laramie Branch
News, This little publication not
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JULY - 477
only carries a most interesting re- 'They come to the home with the
port of the Institute and its excellent spirit of Jesus— love for their fellow-
work but also gives news of the aux- men.
iliary organizations and the fine work ''One of the most significant mon-
they are doing. We congratulate the uments in America today is that one
Relief Society upon its interesting erected to the unknown soldier. We
message. We thank Sister Chase for know that the strength of our armies,
the following beautiful tribute to our and the strength of our nation lie in
visiting teachers, written by her the lives of the common soldier and
mother, Rinta T. Koford: the citizen whose name never ap-
'In the first letter of St. Paul to pears in the paper. The strength of
the Corinthians, he said. Though I the Latter-day Saint Church consists
speak with the tongues of men and primarily in the loyalty and sacrifice
of angels, and have not love, I am of men and women who are rarely
become as sounding brass, or a tin- known outside their own stake and
kling cymbal And now abideth ward. Without the loyal lay-work-
faith, hope, love, these three; but the ers our leaders would have no one to
greatest of these is love.' lead, and our Church would cease to
"The truth of Paul's statement be Christ's Church,
was recognized when, on July 28, 'There is no corps of workers in
1843 there was organized at Nauvoo, the Latter-day Saint Church today
Illinois, a group of sixteen women more anxious to serve their fellow-
known by the quaint name of the men than the Relief Society visiting
'Necessity Committee'. Their in- teachers. No group follows any
structions were that they should more closely the advice of our Lord
'search out the poor and suffering, Jesus in doing good to one another
call upon the rich for aid, and thus than these Latter-day Saint mothers
as far as possible, relieve the wants who give of their time, their goods,
of air. l^his simple beginning was and their talents to assist the needy
the forerunner of an elaborate sys- and to offer words of instruction to
tem of visiting teaching in the Relief their brothers and sisters in the Cos-
Society organization today. pel. No group in our Church today
"The responsibilities of those who exemplifies any more cleady the reli-
comprise this group have been in- g^^n described by the Apostle James
creased many times over what they ^hen he said, 'Pure religion and un-
were in the days of the Prophet Jos- ^^^^^^ ^^^f^re Cod and the Father is
eph. Today they are to carry aid to t^^^^, to visit the fathedess and wid-
the suffering and relief to the poor, f ^s in their affliction, and to keep
but are known as teachers-visiting ^™'^^^ unspotted from the wodd.
teachers, who come to the door with "And so to these teachers we ex-
the same spirit of love advocated by press our sincere gratitude for their
Paul, with the same desire to assist untiring efforts and for the peace,
advocated by our eady Church lead- love, and instruction which they
ers, and, in addition, with helpful bring into our homes.
and educational topics for discus- "May they ever follow in the foot-
sion. steps of the Master Teacher!"
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RELIEF SOCIETY WARD ORGANIZATION, CHICAGO STAKE
Chicago Stake
npHE picture is one of the progres-
sive wards of the Chicago Stake,
and though young in years the or-
ganization has a splendid spirit and
has every assurance of a very bright
future. From Lois E. Astin, ReHef
Society Stake President, comes a very
fine report of the activities. The
teachers' message is in the form of
a leaflet carrying the program of les-
son work, which is an excellent way
of giving this needed information in
a city of great distances and scat-
tered membership.
''The Relief Society work here is
showing progress. Our Sisters are
very much interested in the courses
of study. Most of our class leaders
all through the stake are very effi-
cient and trained in their special
fields of work.
"We are happy to see added in-
terest in the visiting teachers' work.
Our Sisters are handicapped in this
work because of members being scat-
tered all over the cities, but they are
meeting this condition as best they
can.
''Sunday, January 8, we had a very
successful leadership meeting. The
Teachers' Training Class held in
connection with M. I. A. workers
and under the direction of Dr. Royal
Garff is proving to be very successful.
Our ward conferences have been
held. All were well planned and a
very splendid spirit manifest among
the officers and members. Sister
Matheson, our stake chorister, is
creating interest in Relief Society
mothers' choruses. At present we
have three very fine choruses organ-
ized and working."
Cottonwood Stake
pRIDAY, May 12, 1939, National
Hospital Day was appropriately
observed by the Cottonwood Mater-
nity Hospital. A short program, fol-
lowed by a visit through the institu-
tion, did honor to the day. Relief
Society Stake President, Lyle M.
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Berry, who is also superintendent of
the hospital, presided. Counselor
Florence H. Bennion conducted the
exercises. President and Sister Heber
J. Grant, members of the General
Board of Relief Society, former Stake
President U. G. Miller, former Re-
lief Society President Sister Amanda
N. -Bagley and her counselors, were
among the distinguished guests pres-
ent. A brief history of the hospital
was given by Secretary Josephina J.
Miller, from which the following ex-
cerpt is quoted:
''Some time ago Sister Amanda N.
Bagley, the first president of the
Cottonwood Stake Relief Society,
was asked: 'J^^t what was it that
prompted a desire in you to establish
the Maternity Hospital?' Her reply
was: 'Having had two mothers in
my neighborhood die during child-
birth from conditions which could
have been prevented had they re-
ceived proper care, seeing children
left motherless, I longed to do some-
thing for mothers to make mother-
hood safer/ "
Her counselors, Mary S. Corn-
wall and Rena M. Wheeler, were
with Sister Bagley in thought and
action. A plan for a hospital, ap-
proved by Stake President U. G. Mil-
ler, was submitted to President Clar-
issa S. Williams. The plan was then
referred to the First Presidency of
the Church and the Presiding Bish-
opric who purchased property for the
hospital site with the understanding
that the Relief Society furnish and
maintain it. Aid was given the en-
terprise by the doctors of the com-
munity, public-spirited citizens, ward
Relief Societies, the stake sewing de-
partment. Salt Lake County, and
Jordan Stake.
December lo, 1924, the hospital
was formally opened to the public, at
which time Apostle Melvin J. Bal-
lard offered the dedicatory prayer.
There have been a number of
changes in the Relief Society stake
organization since that date, but
there has been no interruption in the
service rendered by the organization
in maintaining a modern hospital.
The number of patients has con-
stantly increased as well as the qual-
ity of service. Sister Lyle M. Berry,
present president of the Cottonwood
Stake and superintendent of the
hospital, has been purchasing agent
from the time of its opening. Up to
date there have been 422 patients ad-
mitted, with no deaths of mothers
directly due to the complications of
childbirth. A missionary service of
thirteen years without a penny of re-
muneration has indeed been render-
ed by devoted stake Relief Society
workers.
MY PRAYER
I'm making tiny garments
For a baby wee and fair,
And with each httle stitch I take,
T breathe a silent prayer
For patience, and for wisdom.
That I may always be
Worthy of this sacred trust
That God has given me.
^Vera P. Bol/schwei/er,
ORMON HANDICRAFT
(jiighughts
By Nellie O. ParJcer
"Rhodora, if the sages ask thee why
This charm is wasted on the earth and sky
Tell them, dear, that if eyes are made
for seeing
Then beauty is its own excuse for being."
— Emerson.
JPYES certainly get a feast when
they behold the lovely guest
towels available in our Gift shop.
Like Rhodora, these towels are
so charming in workmanship and
color harmony that just to see them
is a delight and according to the
poet is excuse enough for their exist-
ence. Guest towels have their uses,
however, and not least among these
is the eloquent declaration they
make, as they hang in dainty array, of
the hostess' thoughtfulness in pro-
viding every detail of hospitality.
They speak louder than words of her
artistic taste and whisper sweet com-
pliments to the friends whom they
serve. The gift of a set of guest
towels will bring joy to any woman's
heart be she prospective bride or
matron.
Foiming A Fine Tiadition
Brother O. G. Reichman of Bon-
neville Stake Presidency said this
stake would always choose a gift
from Mormon Handicraft to express
its gratitude to those whom it wishes
to honor for faithful, loyal service.
We commend this stake for its loy-
alty to our worthy home industry
and also for its discriminating taste
in choosing such high quality articles
for gifts. We wish to express our
grateful appreciation.
News From Over The Counter
Last year a visitor from New Jersey
purchased some things from Mor-
mon Handicraft. She was so pleased
with her purchases and her friends
back home admired them so much
that she came again this year. She
inquired at the Bureau of Informa-
tion about the location of the Shop.
This time she spent thirty dollars
with us.
Another patron is one who is fur-
nishing a country home near New
York City. She bought seventy dol-
lars worth of quilts and other things.
Two women from Chicago made
substantial purchases. This is just
to mention a few of our customers.
Everyone is profuse in their praise of
the excellence and beauty of work-
manship of the articles. Nowhere
can finer things be found they say.
Netted and Crocheted Gloves
For the warm summer days these
gloves look so cool and airy and are
very flattering to sun-tanned hands
for either street wear or dress-up oc-
casions. Come and get a pair of
these dainty gloves for your summer
wardrobe.
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M'
Snoods
Snoods are popular and very con-
venient. They are so easily adjusted
over one's hair and will keep one
looking trim and smart for any sort
LKuies for Suvmi
jORMON Handicraft has now
. been operating two years. While
it is not yet paying expenses, the
General Board feels that its growth
in the two years warrants the faith
they have in the project that it will
eventually be of great service to the
women and carry its own operating
expenses— rent, heat, light, service,
insurance, advertising, gift boxes,
paper boxes and all the necessary
things for any business.
The two years has been the ex-
perimental period. Now we feel that
it must be definitely put on a busi-
ness basis, and we call your attention
to the following rules which we are
asking the ward presidents to make
known to all wishing to participate.
These rules will be effective from
July 1, 1939.
Membership is $i per year. The
membership year is from January i
to January -1. If the ward takes out
a membership, then any active mem-
ber of that ward is considered a
member without paying individual
dues. Those who wish to participate
from wards where the ward has not
taken a membership, and any woman
not an active member of Relief So-
of outing. They can be had in colors
to match any costume.
Yes, a path is being made to the
door of Mormon Handicraft!
tting ulanaicraft
ciety, must pay individual dues of
$1 per year. The membership fee
must be paid before articles are ac-
cepted.
No articles will be received unless
the ward Work and Business leader,
or the owner with the approval of
the Work and Business leader, writes
to the office, submitting a sample of
the work and then receives an order
from the Shop.
Those members who now have ar-
ticles in the Shop will be contacted
by the Shop as the articles sell, and
if more can be used the order will be
given, provided the membership
dues have been paid.
This is the only way in which we
can control the number of articles
and not be overstocked with certain
items. We are now much over-
stocked with lace doilies, pillow
slips and bedspreads.
We are asking the cooperation of
the ward presidents and Work and
Business leaders as well as all mem-
bers who wish to send articles to the
Shop. Our only desire is to be of
service to the women, and with your
aid we feel confident we can succeed.
ii
TT is usually not talent, but what we do with our native equipment, that
counts.''
MU
IC DIEPAHTMIENT
SIR JOSEPH BARNBY
(Composer of music for Tennyson's Crossing The Bar)
r\F all the lovely verses the poet
Tennyson has v^^ritten perhaps
no one verse has been more frequent-
ly quoted or has been accorded more
popular favor than the one so fami-
liar to all, dossing The Bar.
Today these words are of par-
ticular interest to us due to the fact
that they have been set to appropri-
ate music. Sir Joseph Barnby, the
English composer and organist, was
perhaps the first person to compose
music for Tennyson's Ciossing The
Bar. This music is of "survival
value/' for it has lived through the
years to comfort and bless humanity.
Quite recently, through the fine co-
operation of Dr. Frank W. Asper,
this particular music was arranged
for women's voices, and at the pres-
ent time most of our Relief Society
Singing Mothers are very familiar
with both words and music, and
copies of it are to be found in many
of our Relief Society music libraries.
Sir Joseph Barnby lived an in-
teresting, active musical life. He was
born in York, England, August 12,
1838, the son of Thomas Barnby, the
organist. At the age of seven he en-
tered the Royal Academy of Music
and also became a merAber of the
choir of York Minster at the same
time. At the age of twelve he was
appointed choirmaster.
In 1854, while a student at the
Royal Academy of Music, he was
''narrowly defeated" by Arthur Sulli-
van in the competition for the first
Mendelssohn scholarship offered to
the school.
During the years of 1851 to 1863
he was known as "precentor and
choirmaster". The word "precentor"
was quite commonly used at that
particular time, designating a leader
of a choir or a singing director, or
probably more specifically a leader
of a choir in a cathedral.
He was at one time music instruc-
tor in Eton College and later head
of the Guildhall School of Music in
London for many years. From 1871
to 1886 he was organist in St. Ann's
School.
"In 1867, Novello, to whom he
had been musical advisor since 1861,
established Barnby's Choir, which
gave oratorio concerts from 1869 to
1872 when it was amalgamated with
the choir formed and conducted by
Gounod, under the title of the
Royal Albert Hall Choral Society,
now the Royal Choral Society.
"He was appointed precentor of
Eton in 1875, a post of the highest
importance in the musical education
of the upper classes, and retained
this until 1892 when he succeeded
Thomas Weist Hill as Principal of
the Guildhall School of Music."
Several of his fine compositions,
such as King All Gloiious, The Lord
Is King and his cantata Rehekah, a
sacred idyll, as well as several secular
choruses and songs won for him
many favors both in England and
in America, and in 1892 he was
knighted. His works include 246
hymn tunes as well as some part
songs, among them the popular
Sweet and Low.
It has been said of him that as a
choirmaster he had great gifts and
managed to secure a wonderful de-
gree of accuracy.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJheoiogyi ana cJestanony
Lesson i
John The Beloved
Helpful References
James E. Talmage, Jesus flic
Christ, pp. 256, 257, 140, 198, 220,
679.
A. B. Bruce, The Training- oi the
Twelve, consult index under heading
of John, and Peter and John.
W. M. Mackay, The Men Whom
Jesus Made, pp. 57-75. (Harper &
Brothers, New York. 1933.)
E. F. Scott, The Literature of the
New Testament, pp. 230-259. (Co-
lumbia University Press, New York.
1932.)
JOHN'S COMING FORESEEN.
•^ —The Book of Mormon makes
mention of the Twelve who were to
follow the Christ, but special atten-
tion is given to the work of John
the Beloved. Nephi was permitted
to see in vision many events that
were to happen far in the future.
He wrote of some of them but was
forbidden to write the others. His
account is as follows: ''And it came
to pass that the angel spake unto
me, saying: Look! And I looked and
beheld a man, and he was dressed in
a white robe. And the angel said
unto me: Behold one of the twelve
apostles of the Lamb. Behold, he
shall see and write the remainder of
these things; yea, and also many
things which have been. And he
shall also write concerning the end
of the world. Wherefore, the things
which he shall write are just and
true. . . . And behold, the things
which this apostle of the Lamb shall
write are many things which thou
hast seen; and behold, the remain-
der shalt thou see. But the things
which thou shalt see hereafter thou
shalt not write; for the Lord God
hath ordained the apostle of the
Lamb of God that he should write
them. . . And I, Nephi, heard and
bear record, that the name of the
apostle of the Lamb was John, ac-
cording to the word of the angel."
(I Ne. 14:18-27) This statement or
prophecy of Nephi's is a marvelous
one when we consider that it was
given nearly six hundred years be-
fore John was born. Theologically
it is of great interest because it states
that the apostle should 'write con-
cerning the end of the world". The
Apocalypse or Revelation of John
seems to fit this statement better
than any other book we know.
JOHN'S EARLY LIFE.-John
•^ was the son of Zebedee and
Salome of Bethsaida. It will, of
course, be remembered that he was
the brother of James. Some writers
have pointed out in the case of Peter
and Andrew, who were also broth-
ers, that Andrew was far overshad-
owed by his brother. A similar re-
lation cannot be said to hold be-
tween James and John. James was
of higher rank in the Presidency of
the early Church, but John became
by far the more famous of the two.
In his youth John probably lived
the life of a normal Jewish boy.
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Brought up in a good home he was
early taught to read the Jewish scrip-
tures. This early training greatly
helped him in the acquisition of the
spiritual insight for which he later
became so famous. Like all Jewish
boys, John learned a trade or pro-
fession. Inasmuch as his father was
a fisherman, it was quite natural that
he should take up the same occupa-
tion.
JOHN A DISCIPLE OF THE
J BAPTIST.— John it is who gives
us the modest account of the cir-
cumstances under which the Christ
was visited by two disciples of John
the Baptist. (See John 1:35-42)
Andrew is named as one of the two,
and John the Beloved, the writer, is
usually assumed to be the other. As
indicated in other lessons we should
very much like to know how it came
about that John, Andrew, and possi-
bly Peter, became disciples of John
the Baptist. It is a great tribute to
the latter's preaching and personality
that men like John and Andrew
came all the way from Bethsaida to
hear him, and became his disciples.
It is not known just how long John
was with the Baptist. At any rate
we can consider the time he spent
with the latter as an effective period
of preparation for his apostolic
ministry. We must remember that
John the Baptist was a great prophet.
(See Matt. 11:11) He could not
fail to leave a valuable and lasting
impression on the man who was des-
tined to be one of Christ's special
witnesses.
JOHN THE APOSTLE.-It is
•^ scarcely necessary to relate the
circumstances under which John be-
came a disciple of the Master and
later an apostle. They were essen-
tially the same as in the case of Peter
and James. We are more interested,
however, in finding out what John
did as an apostle.
John was one of ''the Three" who
were to enjoy a peculiar intimacy
with Christ. He was with the latter
at the raising of the dead and was
present at the time of ''the Trans-
figuration" upon the mount. (See
Mk. 5:22-43; Matt. 17:1-13) He
and Peter were sent to make ready
for "the Lord's Supper". He was at
Gethsemane with Christ (Matt.
26:36-46) and was the first to re-
cover himself after the latter's arrest.
He was present at his Master's trial
and was the only apostle who dared
follow Him to the cross. It was
John who received Christ's charge
to care for his mother. (John 19:
25-27) It would seem that he was
more intimately associated with
Christ than any of the apostles be-
cause he speaks of himself as "the
disciple whom Jesus loved". (See
John 13:23) Macartney comments
on Christ's affection for John as
follows: "On the side of His human
nature Jesus gave full play to His
natural affections, but in a way that
never excites the anger or the jeal-
ousy of the disciples. Peter, James
and John enjoyed a peculiar inti-
macy, and John had a place all to
himself. There was something in the
youth that attracted Jesus and made
easy the exchange of spirit. We
think of John as the one who, above
all the rest, had deep spiritual in-
sight and a quick and easy appre-
hension of the mystery of God in
Christ. These traits appear in his
Gospel and his Epistles; and it may
have been because he was the first
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to catch the meaning of Christ, to
understand how He was the Eternal
Son of God and how He came to
give Hfe, that Jesus showed unusual
affection for him. We like those
who get our meaning quickly, whose
thoughts range in the same atmos-
phere, and who do not, like Philip,
need to have every step and every
figure explained."
John's spiritual penetration and
insight were remarkable, and it is
not accident that his Gospel is
known as one of the most beautiful
writings in the world. As a writer
he was peculiarly adapted to deal
with spiritual matters.
JOHN AND THE FOURTH
J GOSPEL.-The Gospel of John
was universally accepted as the work
of the apostle, the son of Zebedee,
until the beginning of the last cen-
tury. It was commonly believed
that John moved to Asia Minor
when over eighty years of age and
that he wrote his memoirs of Christ
in the City of Ephesus. The testi-
mony of the early church fathers
seems to support that view.
But today various theories are set
forth as to the authorship of the
Gospel. We may point out some
of them: (i) That John the Be-
loved is only in a secondary sense the
author. According to this view
John's teaching was put into literary
form by one of his disciples, so that
in reality we have the Gospel 'ac-
cording to John," but not by the
apostle himself. (2) That the ori-
ginal author was not the Apostle but
another individual by the same
name, possibly ''John the elder," a
prominent figure in the ancient
church at the beginning of the sec-
ond century. ( 3 ) That the author is
not known at all, and the church
from the earliest time could only
guess at his identity. (4) That the
Gospel as we have it at present is the
composition of at least two persons,
perhaps more.
The trend of modern views of the
New Testament may justify us in
reviewing in some detail the reasons
for believing that John the Revela-
tor was the author of the Fourth
Gospel: (1) It was written by an
authority of the ancient church
whose influence was sufficient to
secure for it universal recognition as
a genuine gospel. It is not likely
that an obscure disciple could have
written and obtained such a result.
( 2 ) The great historian of the fourth
century, Eusebius, who had sources
before him not now known to us, ac-
cepted the current tradition that
John the Beloved was the author.
Other eminent writers representing
practically all sections of the Chris-
tian world support him in his
opinion. To this may be added the
testimony of the Muratorian frag-
ment.* Such evidence proves that
by the last part of the second
century the Fourth Gospel was well
known and used over much of the
Christian world because it was be-
lieved to have been written by John
the Apostle. Professor H. E. Dana
points out that there was a wide-
spread belief that the Apostle John
wrote the Gospel. From the Gos-
pel itself (21:24) we read, 'This is
the disciple which testifieth of these
things, and wrote these things: and
we know that his testimony is true."
*A mutilated fragment containing a list
of New Testament Scriptures. This early
list was published by Muratori, at Milan,
Italy, in 1740.
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The context seems to indicate that of Doctrine and Covenants 93:6-26
"the disciple" referred to was ''the and comparison with John 1:1-34;
disciple whom Jesus loved/' who is M-i? "^"^t go far toward convinc-
believed by most students to have ing our people that the traditional
been John the Apostle. While these ^i^w of the authorship is correct,
statements in the Gospel do not ab- Questions and Piohlems
solutely prove the apostolic author- (Deal Only With Those That Time
ship, they do show that the author And Circumstances Permit.)
was an eye witness. (See also 19:35 ^ jj^^^^ ^^^^ circumstances do
and 1:14) That this eye witness you suppose John, Andrew and Peter
was a Palestinian Jew seems appar- ^^^^^^^ ^-J. ^^ r^^ ^^^ g
ent because ot his easy familiarity ^.-^^p
with Jewish manners and customs, ^; ^^^^ ^U ^^^ ^^^^^^^ ^^^
ideas, etc. His knowledge of the ^^^^ r^^^^ Andrew and Peter may
geography of Palestine IS not of the ^^^^ ^^^-^^^ ^^^^ becoming dis-
second-hand variety as the present -^^^ ^f j^^^^ ^^^ Baptist,
writer can attest from personal in- Explain as best you can Matt,
vestigation while m the Holy Land. ^^.^^^ (See Edwin F. Parry,
Furthermore, the Gospel has a mark- j^^^^pj^ Smith's Teachings, 3rd ed.,
ed Aramaic style as could be expect- pp g-y.gg 27-21:.)
ed if written by John the Apostle. ^ qj^^ as good an explanation
Latter-day Saints have additional as you can why John was specially
reasons for accepting John the Be- beloved by Christ,
loved as the author of the Gospel: 5. What is there in the teaching
First, Doctrine and Covenants 7 of the Fourth Gospel that convinces
definitely points to the Apostle John you it was written by the Apostle
as ''the disciple whom Jesus loved". John?
(John 21 :2o.) Therefore, John 21 :24 6. Have some member of the class
would indicate that John the Revela- report upon incidents of interest or
tor is the actual author of the Cos- specific teachings contained in John's
pel. Furthermore, a careful reading Gospel.
ViSiting cJeacher 'JUepartment
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 1
Establishing Coals
"And /esus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking
back, is fit for the kingdom oi God." — Luke 9:62.
'pHE ultimate goal of the Latter- know thee the only true God, and
day Saint is life eternal, which Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent."
according to the beloved apostle There are many furrows to be
John (17:3) is, ''that they might plowed in the field of life before this
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final goal is reached. Many of these
will be watered with tears, some of
joy, some of sorrow. The central
theme of Latter-day Saint philoso-
phy, that the spirit of man is eternal
and that it advances toward its goal
through the experiences it under-
goes, impels us to seek and value ex-
periences whether they be pleasant
or difficult.
We do not think of the attain-
ment of our goal in abstract terms;
rather we think of it as the daily
improvement of habits, the acquir-
ing of new information and outlooks,
the acquisition of new skills. We
prepare ourselves for eternity to the
extent that we succeed in getting
along with people, in spreading
happiness into the lives of others,
and through mutually assisting one
another in reaching a higher plane
of living, and in complying with the
more formal requirements of the
Church.
Cognizant of his goal, and under-
standing the means by which it is
attained, the Latter-day Saint is con-
stantly seeking experiences which
will enrich and improve his daily life.
Faith plays an important role in
the attainment of any established
goal. As our testimonies become
strong, faith is increased and our ad-
vancement toward our goal of eternal
life more assured. ''Do you in all
that thou doest acknowledge Him
and know that He will direct thy
path."
Discussion
1. What is the advantage of es-
tablishing goals?
2. How may our daily habits be
improved?
3. How may faith be increased?
Explain how faith aids in the
attainment of established goals.
JLiterature
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 1
"Personal Recollections Of Joan Of Arc''
I
N resuming the study of the Novel
as a type of literature, attention is
called to the first lesson in the course,
''The Advance of the Novel", found
in the July, 1938 issue of The Rdiei
Society Magazine.
The Novel, as a social register, has
become a very definite part and par-
cel of our existence, and it is neces-
sary to consider the different types
and the scope of each, and their
place in literature today. One liter-
ary critic observes that in history life
is presented from observation, in the
Novel it is presented from the im-
agination. History tells what has
been done by the human race; the
Novel tells of the thoughts and
feelings of humanity in what it has
accomplished. Every great novelist*
presents his work with the feeling
that it is but a chapter from the
larger book of life.
The effort in this course^ 'The
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Advance of the Novel/' has been to
choose those ''chapters" which show
the Novel at its best and are most
strongly representative of the period
and race. The great works studied
have faithfully sought to observe
and portray the spirit of the times
and scenes, since it is the spirit
which directs the course of events in
this world and gives life its mean-
ing.
Turning to the field of American
fiction, it is most proper that Mark
Twain be considered, for according
to John Macy he is ''the most orig-
inal of all our writers and the most
deeply and broadly American
He is the prose laureate of our
democracy." William Dean Howells
called him "the Lincoln of our litera-
ture". Samuel Langhorne Clemens
has made the name he assumed
when he began his earliest work as
a newspaper reporter to so com-
pletely usurp his own name, that it
is safe to say that "Mark Twain" is
known to more people of all condi-
tions the world over than any other
American author of his century.
This "pen name" was a term used
by the Mississippi River pilots to in-
dicate the depth of water (two
fathoms) when throwing the lead.
Mr. Clemens, or Mark Twain, as
we shall call him, was born in Hanni-
bal, Missouri, a small town on the
west bank of the Mississippi, in 1835.
Macy names William Dean How-
ells, Henry James and Mark Twain
as the three American writers of
first importance in the generation
which came to maturity after the
Civil War. Mark Twain was in
very deed a son of the Middle-west,
which was also part southern. He
grew to young manhood in this en-
vironment, and spent some time in
Nevada and California while the
West was still "young." He lived
for many years in New England and
New York. He traveled all over the
world and knew from actual contact
all types of men and all ways of life.
Quoting from Macy again: "No
writer was ever better fitted to in-
terpret the country in which he
lived, and no country ever had a
writer better equipped to interpret
it."
In many characteristics Mark
Twain suggests the first great nov-
elist, Daniel Defoe. They were both
born newspaper reporters and great
pamphleteers. They both said all
they had to say, and, masters of style
as they were, they knew how to say
it. Mark Twain was always in great
demand as a lecturer and after-
dinner speaker. His magnificent
command of language and his knowl-
edge gathered from the whole world,
his bitter indignation at wrong, his
inimitable skill in using the same
intellectual weapon, ridicule, em-
ployed by Voltaire and Swift, con-
tributed toward writing Mark
Twain's name in indelible charac-
ters upon the pages of American
literature.
There is a wealth of material on
this great author in addition to an
excellent autobiography published a
few years ago. His books and their
characters are like old acquaintances.
Great numbers of newspaper articles,
Sketches, Innocents Abroad, Fol-
lowing the Equator, A Tramp
Abroad, The American CJafmant,
Puddhi Head Wilson, A Connecti-
cut Yankee at King Arthur's Court,
The Prince and the Pauper, Life on
the Mississippi, Tom Sawyer, and
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Huckleberry Finn are only part of understanding and sympathies. The
his voluminous writings. One critic story professes to be a translation
has said, ''His fun may sometimes from the ancient French of the
grow stale, as fashions in humor original unpublished manuscript in
change, but the serious Mark Twain the National Archives of France,
is a classic as sure of immortalitv as I'his was written by the Sieur Louis
any prose writer of his age." de Conte, Joan's page and secretary.
It is the ''serious Mark Twain" This treatment by the author, using
w^ are to study in The Persona/ the first person, establishes the same
RccoUections oi Jo^n oi Arc. No ^l^^^^^^y of verisimilitude found in
less a critic than that of The Charles Robinson Crusoe, giving the stamp
Dudley Warner Library considers ^^ reality and sincerity. The sup-
this "The most serious, dignified, l?osed author, de Conte, is of noble
imaginative work of the author's life, ^^^^ ^w^ y^^^^ ^\^ f "l^.^ ^^ J^^"'
in which he strikes the universal He had been taught by his uncle, a
chords of sympathy and pathos and P^^^^^, to read and write xyhich was
heroic elevation." It is said to have \ "^°^\ """^^^^^ accomplishment in
been Mark Twain's own favorite [^^^^^ ^f y^^ ^^^ it accounts for his
among his works. Perhaps there is ^^"?§ ^^^^^^^ ^^ J^^^/ secretary,
no one in modern times who has ^he story is logically divided into
made a more careful study of Joan * ^^^ parts:
of Arc or who is more familiar First, In Domremy-beginning
with Mark Twain than the dis- with Joan's early childhood, the
tinguished American author, Albert scenes of simple country life and the
Bigelow Paine who has this to say: happy association with the children
"Considered from every point of and people of the village,
view, T'he Personal Recollections oi Second, In Couit and Camp— fol-
/oan of Arc is Mark Twain's supreme lows her through her stormy but
literary expression; the loftiest, the marvelously successful career of a
most delicate, the most luminous ex- year's duration; her audiences with
ample of his work. The reader will the king, her marches with the army,
know the true personality of Joan her entry into Orleans, the crowning
of Arc more truly than ever before, of the king.
and he will love her, as the author Third, Trial and Mart}Tdom— the
loved her, for the most innocent, the story of her betrayal, her infamous
most lovely, the most adorable child trial, her execution,
the ages have produced." At this period, France was still in
In type, this work belongs in the the throes of feudalism, and from
historic, romantic novel class, as do the time of William the Conqueror,
Scott's Jvanhoe, The Talisman, and who, though King of England, was
Thackeray's Henr}/ Esmond and its still Duke of Normandy, England
sequel The Viiginian. Historic continued to lay claim to parts of
characters and events are closely fol- France. The time of the appearance
lowed, while the fictitious form and of Joan of Arc is near the close of
simple style adopted by the author the Hundred Years' War in Europe,
bring the strange drama within our and some knowledge of this is neces-
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sary to a correct understanding of the ents were descended from wealthy
relations of the French and English and ancient stock, but through ad-
at this time. The war began in the verse circumstances had been great-
year 1328, when Edward III of Eng- ly reduced. They lived the life of
land claimed the French crown. Ed- simple peasants and shepherds. The
ward and his successors tried to en- youthful Joan was a great favorite
force their claims by war, and the with the children, but she was dis-
English won some important vie- tinguished for her simplicity, her
tories which gave them a strong foot- industry, her great reverence for the
hold in France. They were aided church and all sacred things. Her
by the weakness of the French kings patriotism was early inflamed by the
and by the bitter civil strife between fact that her section of France was
the two powerful rival French loyal to its native king,
houses. Burgundy and Orleans. Special attention should be given
Burgundy was an ally of the English. ^^ ^Yie account of the Fairy Tree of
Henry V, one of England's strongest Domremy, and the innocent sport
warrior kings, took advantage of this ^f ^he children, as this was recalled
civil strife and forced a most humili- ^^ 1,^^ infamous trial. Even as a little
atmg agreement with the French, g^^j j^er patriotism for France was
He was given Catherine, daughter equalled only by her deep devotion
of the French king, for his wife, was ^^ ^^r religion. Her compassion for
recognized as Regent of France dur- ^n ju^ib animals is beautifully por-
ing the life of King Charles VI up- trayed. The rabbits, birds, cats and
on whose death the throne of squirrels were all her pets and un-
France was to pass to the King of ^f^aid of her. Her tender sympathy
England. Both kings, Henry V of f^j- suffering was exquisitely display-
England and Charles VI of France, gj in her conduct toward the beggar
died in the year 1422. The Dau- to whom she gave her own bowl of
phin, afterward Charles VII of porridge. The report of the mad
France, refused to be bound by the nian of the village shows her utter
agreement, and claimed the throne lack of fear and the power of her
of France, so the war dragged on. f^ith. This episode is most grue-
In the spring of 1428, the Eng- some and dramatic,
lish and their allies made a deter- The war finally penetrated into
mined effort to capture Orleans, the the peaceful country, and Domremy
key to southern France. This is was pillaged and burned,
the time when the story of Joan of According to the biographer, "All
Arc begins to assume historic in- through her childhood and up to the
Merest. middle of her fourteenth year, Joan
The opening chapter presents a had been the most light-hearted
terrible picture of the depths to creature and the merriest in the
which France had sunk, and the village; . . . She was everybody's pet.
awful state of affairs in Paris. This ... But now for a whole year and a
was in contrast to the beautiful coun- half she had been mainly grave; not
try around Domremy, where Joan melancholy, but given to thought,
was born January 6, 1412. Her par- abstractions, dreams. She was carry-
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ing France upon her heart, and she 2. Shakespeare's Henry V gives a
found the burden not light." She very excellent picture of this time,
first heard "voices" in the year 1425, early 15th century, in England and
but continued her simple domestic France. A brief review of this might
life until in 1428 she went with her -^^ given
uncle to the Governor of her prov- d j n r d i x • d 7
TT 1. T- t- -u u ^- Read all of Book I m Personal
mce. He sent her home aeam, but n^„.. r r f a jti^
in the first of the year 1429 Joan said Recollections of Joan oi Arc and list
gopd-by to her home and dear ones, ^^e important characters.
It was her birthday— she was seven- 4. Give your impressions of Joan
teen years old. as this first part of the story presents
Suggestions for Discussion ^^r. Note her deep spirituality even
1. Read Chapter 47, "American ^^ childhood.
Fiction," The Story of the World's 5. What is the proper classifica-
Literature by John Macy. tion of this novel as to type?
Social Si
ervice
Lesson 1
Psychology of Fads, Crazes, and Fashions
1. What Are Fads and Crazes pressions are usually soon overdone
Psychologically? Fads change rapid- and forgotten, having left little
ly and frequently and seldom leave change on our accepted language,
any permanent impression on the The course of most fads is a brief
habits of a people. They usually one. They sweep from one group
consist of some slight change in to another in an informal way, being
language, dress or manner. The introduced or used by those seeking
motivation back of fads is a desire of distinction in the recreational group
leaders, or would-be leaders, in —the boys' gang, the club, the
friendly relationships to assert that neighborhood, or the community,
leadership; that is, to attract atten- But as soon as fads become wide-
tion, to be marked off from the rest spread in the group, they kill them-
of the group by some novel differ- selves as suddenly as they were born,
ence. Thus, new words are coined They die because their usage no
or old ones are given a new and longer gives distinction or leadership
vivid usage because it attracts atten- to the users. Aside from the novel-
tion to the user. So many changes ty, they serve no purpose,
appear in English usage that some- The term craze does not imply an
one has called it the "English slang- insane way of doing, but activities
uage". Youths of recent years have which have frenzied social accep-
made fads of expressions such as tance are called crazes. Fads are of
"oh, yeah?", "so what?", and "you've incidental importance in the life of
got something there". These ex- the one who adopts them, but crazes
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take over almost all of a person's
spare time. They captivate a per-
son's interests and become preoccu-
pations or obsessions. Crazes do
not spread so freely to all classes as
do fads; but, like fads, the motiva-
tion back of crazes is usually a desire
to attract attention: A craze gives a
person something novel and in-
teresting to talk about, or it is an
activity which will catch the notice
of people. A craze ''runs itself out/'
just as a fad does, as soon as it ceases
to be novel and to attract attention.
II. A Few Additional Examples
oi Fads, Crazes, and Fashions. Fads
come and go so quickly that they
sometimes spread through only a
small part of the population and are
quickly forgotten. The radio and
movies have greatly speeded up the
process by which fads come and go,
particularly fads .in speech such as
slang expressions and ''gags".
Dress fads are very common,
especially among women. During
1937, many new fads arose in
women's hats. All sorts of objects
from gloves and boots to stuffed
birds were worked over into hats.
So extreme did the rage become that
one person tried the experiment of
tying bunches of vegetables or even
sink stoppers and chains on the side
of the head to see if they would be
accepted as hats. (See Liie, Dec.
20, 1937, p. 80; see also Dorothy
Thompson's reaction to the "hat
situation" a year later: Readers Di-
gest, January, 1939, pp. 89, 90.)
Perhaps fads that concern us most
vitally are the food and drug fads
which sweep the country. We have
had vegetarian diets advocated as the
"only thing," then there was the fad
for gland treatments as panaceas for
all human ills. Yeast had its turn as
a highly exploited health food. Vita-
mins and cod liver oil fads also held
sway for a longer period but are now
being recommended more cautious-
ly. (See Consumers' Research Bulle-
tin, Annual Cumulative Number,
Sept., 1938, cols. 195-198.) Obvious-
ly, many of these fads are promoted
by commercial interests.
Crazes in dances, songs, and games
are very common. We from time to
time fall into the grip of "catchy"
songs which have a brief but violent
life. In 1918 it was K-K-K Katy, in
1923 it was Barney Google and Yes,
We Have No Bananas. In January
of 1936, the Music Goes Round and
Round was being accepted with great
enthusiasm, but by March 2, 1936
Time magazine reported it was no
longer a hit.
"Swing" music became a craze in
1936 and still holds considerable
popularity in 1939. Other specific
dance crazes have been the Charles-
ton, Black Bottom, Big Apple and
Lambeth Walk.
In May, 1935, the "send a dime"
craze taxed the facilities of the postal
service. The idea back of it was to
send a dime and a list of names in-
cluding one's own to a person and
to request that he do likewise. Fin-
ally, enough dimes would come
back to the original names (presum-
ably) to make a huge sum. "Get rich
quick" crazes appeal to self-interest
in such a manner as to almost always
acquire a large following. (See Ol-
son, T., "Brother Can You Share a
Dime?" New Republic, May 22,
1935, pp. 43, 44.) Various mara-
thons, such as walkathons, bicycle
endurance races, and dancing mara-
thons are also crazes. In 1928, tree-
sitting marathons came; in 1930,
dancing marathons; walkathons in
1932; and roller skating marathons
in 1936.
Even nudism, suicide, and "com-
panionate marriage" have been crazes
at one time or another. Bicycle rid-
ing became a craze in 1935, v^hen for
the first time since 1899 *^^ national
production of bicycles exceeded a
half a million.
Fashions in dress are so well
known we need only mention them.
But fashions are also to be found in
automobiles, political doctrines, and
even in science. The motivation be-
hind fashions is the desire to be
marked off from the rank and file of
people and to identify oneself with
a rather mythical group called "fash-
ionable people". There is usually a
desire to attract attention by some-
thing new. Fashions change more
slowly than fads and crazes because
they are less superficial.
A most serious influence fashion
may have on us as Latter-day Saints
is in the realm of morals. In recent
years it has become "fashionable" for
both men and women to smoke (of
course, it is not fashionable among
Latter-day Saints). The use of
liquor by men and women has
gone through a similar change. The
modern newspapers, radio, and
movies are making it more difficult
for Latter-day Saints to resist this
trend of fashion. Whether the fash-
ion of smoking and drinking will
crystallize into a custom and remain
indefinitely is difficult to predict. So
long as it remains a fashion, there is
hope that it will "run itself out" by
losing its novelty from too common
acceptance. Latter-day Saints should
thoroughly understand the subtle in-
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fluence fashions in the use of liquor
and tobacco have upon our attitude
toward them. We must guard our-
selves against making a sacrifice of
ideals for the sake of being fashion-
able.
in. What Pioduces Fashion
Trends? How and when fashions
will shift is more than anyone can
accurately predict. Many attempts
have been made to artificially change
a trend, but most such attempts
have failed. It is true that leaders in
fashion have something to do with
trends. Before the moving picture
industry took firm root, fashions
were brought from Paris; but often
by the time the pictures were finish-
ed fashions had changed. Producers
then brought great designers to
Hollywood, and it became the fash-
ion center of America. The name
"Hollywood" has such prestige that
fashions are influenced by the fact
alone that they came from there, re-
gardless of their originators. But such
a name as Adrian also gives prestige
to a creation and may affect fashion
trends. However, great fashion cen-
ters probably do not create the fash-
ion trends so much as they interpret
trends already started and shape
them in some ways.
Most fashions originate with the
more well-to-do classes. English roy-
alty have great influence on fashion
trends. Note some American fash-
ion changes which resulted from the
visit of British royalty. When fash-
ions reach the masses, the groups
who originate them immediately
adopt something different. The five-
and-ten-cent jewelry departments
have thrived upon the desire of or-
dinary people to ornament them-
selves with the appearance of lux-
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ury. This fact has perhaps tended to Usefulness is often overlooked in the
reduce the amount of really ''showy" clamor for style, i.e. wearing stylish
dress and jewelry worn by the more but poorly fitted shoes. Other finan-
wealthy classes in America during cial needs in the home are sometimes
recent years. subordinated to the fashion needs.
Streamlining and other fashion Likewise, certain crazes may be-
changes in automobiles are made by come similar to manias which absorb
manufacturers fast enough to make more than their legitimate share of
a person who desires to keep up with one's time, interest and money,
the styles definitely out of fashion Crazes may afford recreation, but
every year or two. Many a new auto- they are seldom suitable hobbies be-
mobile is bought not because the old cause they are usually so soon thrown
one is no longer good transportation, ^gide. A person who is well adjusted
but because at first glance it is now a ^nd who therefore has charm and
"last year's model," and the neigh- direct influence with his group ordi-
bor's car makes ours look somewhat narily does not need to take up crazes
out of fashion. to attract attention or to feel like a
IV. How Should I Concern My- ^^^^^r.
seU With the Piohlem oi Fads, However, parents will do well to
Crazes and Fashions? Fads, crazes consider thoughtfully the motivation
and fashions seldom leave much per- back of fads, crazes and fashions,
manent beneficial effect upon a peo- These activities are especially appeal-
pie. However, better esthetic tastes ing to adolescents who feel so keenly
may result from fashions. A person the need for being recognized. Faddy
also frequently benefits in his per- clothes, language and gestures are
sonal contacts with people by keep- often a necessary part of the "grow-
ing up with the times. Prestige often ing up" process and should be inter-
is gained by judiciously following preted, not in terms of a parent's
fashion trends. This is particularly dislike for the particular things the
so in so-called fashionable society, adolescents like, but in the light of
One cannot maintain his social the adolescent needs they satisfy,
standing without being alert to It is important for all mature per-
fashion. sons to learn to detect the fleeting
Proper personal appearance should forms of social behavior as contrasted
be commended to all, and a reason- with those of permanent significance,
able following of style trends within People who are inclined to follow
one's own immediate group is neces- every new fad or rage do not always
sary for proper grooming. This take time to become absorbed in
means, of course, wise planning those more permanent contributions
within one's own means and circum- to culture, such as good literature,
stances, and striking a happy medi- fine music, fine art and sound philos-
um between too readfly discarding ophy. There is so much "trash" in
the old and taking up the new. radio programs, literature, moving
But occasionally "fashion chasing" pictures and conversations today that
becomes a mania and results in fool- it behooves intelligent people to sift
ish and unnecessary waste of money, the wheat from the chaff, because
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we usually haven't time and money Behavioiy New York: McGraw-Hill,
enough for both. ^93^7 PP- 185-207.
Piohlems ioi Discussion Concerning foods, drugs and medi-
1. Show what motivates the ap- cme:
pearance of fads, crazes and fashions. 2. Fishbein, M., Fads and Quack-
2. Discuss how you think the cry in Healing, New York: Covici-
woman of good taste will be affected Friede, 1932.
by fashion trends. 3. Mitchell, Helen S., and Cook,
3.* Discuss the problem created for Gladys M., Facts, Fads and Frauds
our people by the influence of ad- in Nutrition, Bui. 342, April, 1937.
vertising which makes the use of to- Free from Massachusetts State Col-
bacco and liquor look fashionable, lege, Amherst, Mass.
What do the movies have to do with 4. Morgan, H., ''Dietary Delu-
this problem? sions. Past and Present." Hygeia,
4. What part do persons with April, 1936, pp. 313-315.
prestige, such as the 'movie colony," Concerning fashions in clothes:
have m mnuencmg fashion trends? a i • ao ..• o i i ^
How do they affect ''fashions in mor- ,, 5- Adrian, Setting Styles through
als," such as marriage ideals? *t ' ^° '
Feb., 1933, pp. 10-11.
References " 6. Hurlock, E. B., The Psychol-
General sources, semi-technical: ogy of Dress, New York: Ronald,
1. LaPiere, Richard T., Collective 1929.
(bducation for C/amu^ JLife
Family Relationships
Lesson 1
The Family Council Plan
w
'E PRESENT as our first topic concerning successful family life. So
for discussion in the present we suggest that after having given
series of lessons dealing with family the Family Council Plan a trial over
relationships, The Family Council a period of several months an at-
Plan, with the hope that some of tempt be made to evaluate the ex-
our members will become sufficient- periment on the basis of the primary
ly interested to adopt it as their pat- function of the family, which is the
tern for family living. building or molding of personality.
All family life is more or less ex- and make available to other families
perimental; therefore, every family our findings that they may profit by
who has achieved any degree of sue- our experience,
cess has something of value to con- We understand the Family Coun-
tribute to our limited knowledge cil Plan to mean that the family as
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a group shall participate in the solv- they will have the responsibility ol
ing of family problems, in determin- not only encouraging but also of
ing family policies, in sharing family providing opportunity for the devel-
duties and responsibilities, rights and opment of initiative, of useful parti-
privileges; that each member of the cipation, and of voluntary coopera-
family be given an opportunity to tion on the part of each child. If
function in the group according to such functioning is experienced, the
his ability. We shall refer to this child v^ill cultivate the essential char-
type of living as the democratic form acteristics for life in a democracy. As
of family life. some of the most important of these
A marriage that represents a part- characteristics we list the following:
nership, in the true sense of the The ability to make intelligent
word, between a man and a woman choices, resourcefulness, courage, tol-
who sincerely love each other, is the erance, a strong sense of justice, a
foundation stone upon which to high regard for the proper use of
build a democratic family organiza- freedom, and the spirit of sportsman-
tion. In such a family the father ship.
and mother serve as the accepted Because the home has lost many of
leaders, with each child cooperating ^^^ ^^^^^^ functions, because the
with the other members of the group ^^^^ ^ends to do fewer things as a
so that all are working together to- p ^^at call for sharing of duties
ward the realization of a common ^^^ services, and because life in the
objective. ^[^y offers a comparatively limited
A democracy can succeed to the number of chores to be done around
extent that it is composed of people the home, parents must make the
who are trained and who are willing most of every opportunity to make
to occupy positions of leadership and use of the services of the child. This
responsibility, and who are conscien- means that when the four-year-old
tiously dependable. The family, as girls says, ''Mother, I want to help
the primary social institution, must you with the dusting", the mother
provide this necessary training for its will not reply, ''Oh, you are such a
members so that the nation can de- nice little daughter to offer to help
pend upon the family as its constant Mother, and I know you are a fine
source of supply for adequate leader- little worker, but you run and play
ship. and Mother will do the work." Such
To rear a child in a democratic a reply offers the easiest course of
family environment offers the great- action, but the wiser way would be
est possibilities for preparing that for the mother to say, "I do need
child to take his place as an active your help, so I shall show you how
citizen in a democracy. This accom- to dust all the articles that you are
plishment is the responsibility and tall enough to reach. I shall do the
duty of every family. higher ones, and together we can
Naturally, because of their matur- soon have all the dusting finished."
ity, experience, and sympathetic un- This method will take time and pa-
derstanding, the parents will assume tience on the part of the mother, but
the position of leadership, in which the value to the child can scarcely
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be overestimated. To make use of
the child builds up self-confidence.
Feeling an active part of the family
gives him a sense of security; it gives
him an opportunity to experience
the satisfaction that comes with the
realization that he is a contributing
member as well as a receiving mem-
ber of the group. To deny the child
the opportunity to share in family
activities gives him a feeling of in-
feriority because he feels useless.
Huxley declares the sense of use-
lessness is the severest shock which
the human system can sustain, and
that if persistently sustained it re-
sults in atrophy of function.
Only as the child takes part in the
planning of the family's activities
and in the solving of the family's
problems will he develop the coop-
erative behavior pattern necessary
for good citizenship in a democracy.
The Family Council Plan offers this
opportunity; it gives to the parents
the privilege to suggest and advise
without seeming to unjustly over-
ride the wishes of the child.
It is impossible to outline in detail
a technique for the procedure of the
Family Council that would be work-
able in all families. The most that
can be done is to offer some sugges-
tions that have worked out satisfac-
torily in some families and which
may, with little modification and ad-
justment, prove helpful to others.
Before the family adopts the
Council method of control there
should be a consensus of opinion
that such an arrangement is desirable
or at least that all members are de-
sirous of giving it a trial. Without
the voluntary cooperation of each
one the plan cannot work out suc-
cessfully.
A definite time should be deter-
mined when the entire family group
can be together for the purpose of
discussing affairs of family living. An
hour once a week has proved to be
the most effective arrangement for
most groups. If the meetings are
held less frequently it necessitates
longer sessions, which is objection-
able. The time selected should be
when neither the parents nor the
children will be too weary or fatigued
to take an active part in the discus-
sions. When a regular time has been
decided upon, there should be an
earnest agreement that each mem-
ber shall consider the Council meet-
ing the most important engagement
for that hour.
Some families have found that
meal time is the only time when all
members of the family can be pres-
ent; therefore, they discuss their
problems at that time. The serious
objection to this method is that un-
pleasant as well as pleasant subjects
must be brought up for discussion.
Other groups have found Sunday af-
ternoon to be the most feasible time.
In considering the plan for adoption
it may appear an almost impossible
task to find a suitable hour, but in
a surprisingly short time it will be
looked forward to as one of the most
valuable and interesting of all family
routine functions and will require
little effort to bring the members to-
gether.
Preceding the meeting the par-
ents will have anticipated the more
important problems to be discussed.
At the discretion of the parents
they, may invite one of the older chil-
dren to lead the discussion. Many
times a problem of such importance
will come up that inspiration is
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needed in its solution. As the prob- 5. Sets up a common objective so
lem is discussed and the need for that the group as a whole is con-
inspiration felt, the family should scious of a definite aim towards
unite in prayer. which they are exerting their ener-
An attitude of mutual respect, ex- gies.
pressed through courtesy and polite- The democratic mode of family
ness in the interaction between hus- life establishes the home as a labora-
band and wife, between parents and tory for family living, thus better
children, and between child and preparing the parents and the chil-
child, should be a feature of every dren to live more fully each succeed-
family gathering. Every suggestion ing day by putting greater emphasis
or idea offered, even that from the on .the human relationship values,
youngest member, should receive ^ .. i -n 11
due consideration. Questions and Piohkms
We shall sum up a few of the 1. Discuss the activities in which
benefits to be derived from the Fam- your family as a group has partici-
ily Council Meetings as follows: pated during the last month. Who
1. Tends to inhibit the parents assumed the responsibility for the
from making too many choices for making and carrying out of the
the child. Permits the child to do plans?
his own choosing as far as possible 2. Do you believe that all family
and thus develops discriminating problems should be discussed by
tastes. children and parents? If not, what
2. Cultivates a more intimate per- are some of the problems that should
sonal relationship between parents be settled by parents only? Which
and children. Brings to the atten- ones by children only, if any?
tion of the child the whys and where- 3. Should the use of the automo-
fores of his parents' actions and de- bile by John, the eldest of four chil-
cisions. dren be a problem for John and his
3. Prepares the child to meet his parents to solve or for the entire
own problems by training him to family? Who should decide how
think through and discuss problems many party frocks eighteen-year-old
of adjustment. Mary should have?
4. Builds up an appreciation of 4. A family consisting of father,
the value of family unity and soli- mother, two daughters, ages 10 and
darity. Thus it gives the child a 14 years respectively, and two sons,
sense of security and the satisfaction ages 12 and 16 years respectively, live
that comes from the feeling that he in a five-room house. They have a
belongs and is an active part of the small lawn and a small flower garden,
family; that he is loved and respected and they own an automobile. How
by other members. He responds would you have each child share in
with the attitude of loyalty and the tasks and responsibilities of the
affection. family life?
nUssion JLessons
L D. S. CHURCH HISTORY
Lesson i
The First Vision
(To be used in place of Literary Lesson.)
TN- the year 1820 there Hved in
Western New York a boy whose
name was Joseph Smith. At this
time he was not yet fifteen, for he
had been born just two days before
the Christmas of 1805. That event
took place in Sharon, Windsor coun-
ty, Vermont.
His parents were Joseph and Lucy
(Mack) Smith. The father's ances-
tors had come to America from a
town near London, in England, and
the mother's from Inverness, Scot-
land. In all, Joseph and Lucy Smith
had ten children, of whom one had
died in infancy. Their son Joseph
was their fourth child and their third
son. One of his brothers was named
Hyrum, of whom we shall hear a
great deal in these lessons.
The Smiths had not always lived
in New York. Their home before
this was in Vermont, where Joseph,
the son, was born. There they
owned a farm, but failure of crops
through drought for three years in
succession had forced them to look
for another place to live. In Man-
chester they bought another farm.
This change of homes took place in
1815, when the boy was ten years
old. God had thus brought the
family to where Joseph's work for
Him was to be.
Perhaps it should be said here that
Manchester, where the Smith family
lived, was not really a town, as one
might be led to think. Rather it
was a township— that is, a large tract
of land on which there are scattered
farms with people on them. Like
a good many other places in Amer-
ica, it had been named for an Eng-
lish city. About two miles away was
the town of Palmyra, with its stores
and factories and a printing press,
and about twenty miles from there
was the town of Rochester, a much
larger place.
In those days the whole country
thereabouts was a great forest, except
of course where the "clearings"
were, as the towns were called. The
Smith farm in Manchester, before
the trees and underbrush were clear-
ed away, was in the woods. And so
the Smiths had to cut down and
burn about one hundred acres of
forest before they could put the land
to use. This they did, the father
and the boys doing their share of
the work. For, while the family
were poor, as you may have guessed,
they were hard workers. They were
glad to be on their own land once
more, where they could be reason-
ably independent.
Now, the people in this part of
New York State were religious at
heart. That is to say, they believed
in God, in the Bible, and in another
life after this. Most of them be-
longed to one of the three churches
in the place— the Presbyterian, the
Baptist, or the Methodist. But some-
times they were careless, like other
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folk elsewhere. Religion did not A preacher named Lane was
mean very much to many of them, brought to the settlement. In order
because they used just words instead to make the ''revival" as complete as
of deeds. And so it became neces- possible, the three churches united
sary, every once in a while, for them in rousing the people to a sense of
to be ''revived" in the religious spirit, their sins. It was understood that,
The parents of Joseph, while relig- when the "revival" was over, the con-
ious and believers in the Bible, never verted might join whatever church
had belonged to any church, al- they wanted. Members of the Smith
though the mother had been bap- family, including the boy Joseph, at-
tized. tended these meetings.
Usually in those days people were Since some of the family had
"revived" after they had become joined the Presbyterian Church,
spiritually dead, in special meetings Joseph was greatly troubled as to
held for this purpose. A preacher what he should do. For, after the
would be brought from another meetings were over, he believed he
town, and this man would hold "re- ought to become a member of some
vival meetings," often in the woods, church. But he did not know which
As a rule, the preacher would be one church to join. One church, for in-
who could arouse the feelings of the stance, asked its converts to be bap-
people to a high pitch. Generally, tized by immersion, while another
too, this would be done by picturing permitted them to be sprinkled,
the terrors of a never-ending hell, Joseph saw clearly that both forms
where sinners would burn eternally could not be right. So he could not
without being consumed. make up his mind.
To these "revivals" men and Then, one day, he read the Epistle
women and children would come of James (1:5, 6): "If any of you
from near and far. Sometimes there lack wisdom, let him ask of God,
would be as many as ten thousand that giveth to all men liberally, and
persons at the same "revival." They upbraideth not; and it shall be given
brought with them enough food to him. But let him ask in faith, noth-
last a week or ten days, and during ing wavering. For he that wavereth
this time they lived in tents and is like a wave of the sea driven of
wagons. Under the spell of the the wind and tossed. Let not such a
preacher they would do very strange man think that he shall receive any-
things, as we think nowadays. Some thing of the Lord."
fell down in a swoon, others shouted This passage exactly fitted his case,
and cried, and many would go to the He lacked wisdom, for he did not
"mourners' bench" and join the know what to do. And here was a
church. When the most of them promise that he should receive-if
had been "saved," as they said, every- ^e had faith. So he went out into
body went home and joined the the woods not far from his home,
church of his choice. where he could be alone. It was a
It was such a "revival" as this that beautiful spring morning. The leaves
took place in Manchester in the were out, the air was fresh, and every-
spring of 1820. thing was still.
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We can easily believe how fright- trines of men, not the doctrines of
ened he was. Although he had often God. And they had the form of
prayed in his heart, this was the first godliness, but denied the power of
time he had ever attempted to pray God." He was again forbidden to
aloud. For he had determined to join with any of them,
use his voice in this prayer. Kneel- These two personages were God
ing on the soft earth, he began to the Father and his Son, Jesus Christ,
pour out his thoughts and desires to Joseph told the vision to his family
God^. and to some of his close friends.
Then something strange happen- Among the latter was the minister
ed. Darkness overwhelmed him— who tried to convert him to the
literal, thick darkness. Then, too, all church. His family believed him, for
of a sudden, he could not speak. An they had always found Joseph to be
unseen power took hold of him. It truthful. But the minister told him
was a terrible thing! But he had the vision was of the devil, that vis-
presence of mind enough to pray in ions had been done away with. Soon,
his heart— this time it was that he as news of the vision spread, Joseph
might be delivered from this wicked found himself the center of unfavor-
power which was trying to destroy able attention. His neighbors ridi-
him. Just at the moment when he culed and reviled him, and the
was about to give up, he saw above preachers warned their congregations
him in the sky a brilliant light. At against him. But Joseph was un-
once the evil power left him. Mean- daunted. He said to himself:
time the light continued to come -j had actually seen a light, and
nearer, till it enveloped the tree tops, jn the midst of that light I saw two
and he thought they would be set on personages, and they did in reality
"^^- speak to me; and though I was hated
"When the light rested upon me,'' and persecuted for saying that I had
Joseph tells us, '1 saw two person- seen a vision, yet it was true; and
ages, whose brightness and glory defy while they were persecuting me, re-
all description. They were standing viling me, and speaking all manner
above me in the air. One of them of evil against me falsely for so say-
spoke to me, calling me by name, ing, I was led to say in my heart,
and said, 'This is my beloved Son. Why persecute me for telling the
Hear him!' truth? I have actually seen a vision,
"My object in going to inquire of and who am I that I can withstand
the Lord was to know which of all God? I had seen a vision; I knew
the sects was right. No sooner, there- I had, and I knew that God knew it,
fore, did I get possession of myself, and I could not deny it, neither
so as to be able to speak, than I dared I."
asked which church I should join. I So far as the churches were con-
was answered that I must join none cerned, Joseph had now got his mind
of them. They were all wrong. The satisfied. He had learned several
people drew near to God with their things about religion. For one thing,
lips, but their hearts were far from he had learned that God would an-
him. The preachers taught the doc- swer prayer, no matter how humble
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the person. Tlie heavens were not
sealed against men, in spite of what
the churches taught. And then, for
still another thing, he had learned
that man had really been made in
the image of God and that Jesus
Christ had truly risen from the dead.
He had learned, too, that the Bible
could be depended upon, that it was
an inspired book.
We shall learn, as we go on with
these lessons, what use Joseph made
of these truths.
Questions and Suggestions
1. Where and when was Joseph
Smith born? Who were his parents?
Why did the Smiths not belong to
any church prior to 1820, in Man-
chester?
2. Where is Manchester? Where
is Palmyra? Where is Cumorah with
respect to these places? (Study the
map.)
3. What is a religious revival for?
Tell something about the one in
Manchester. How was Joseph af-
fected by the revival? Why did he
not go to the ''mourners' bench"?
4. Relate the First Vision. What
truths do we learn from this vision?
5. Read or sing the hymn ''Oh
How Lovely Was The Morning,"
and explain why this hymn was
chosen in connection with the les-
son.
<^e^f>
(yamilyi iKeiations SJ^nstitute
npHE Utah Agricultural College Elsa B. Bate, Assistant Professor of
is holding an Institute of Child Development, Utah Agricul-
Family Relations for five days, July tural College; and others.
17 to 21 inclusive. Three lectures The public is invited to attend the
will be given daily with a concluding sessions. No tuition will be charged,
daily session devoted to a summary Housing arrangements at a very
of reports. Outstanding visiting nominal cost can be made through
educators as well as prominent local contacting the school. In view of
ones will be heard: Dr. William E. the fact that the Relief Society is
Blatz, University of Toronto; Dr. E.
Lee Vincent, Merrill-Palmer School,
Detroit, Michigan; Mable Wilker-
son, Montreal School of Interior
vitally interested in promoting whole-
some family life and is also con-
tinuing the "Family Relations"
course of study, we regard this as a
Decorating; Arden Frandsen, Psy- splendid opportunity for all who can
chologist, Utah Agricultural College; possibly attend.
dioops of or Jxmanda
[Continued from page 450)
gers over her curls. 'I'll wash and
get changed. You're too fine for
me."
With her young arms around him
as far as they would go she hugged
him and cried, ''Oh, no, but we'll
be the handsomest couple there."
Lifting her from the floor he held
her close before releasing her. Aman-
da put on a large apron. It didn't
cover her as it had when she wore
no hoops. With a pad in her hand
she lifted the pot of hot water from
the hook and carried it over to the
wash basin to pour into the cold
water John had dipped out of the
water bucket. John took off his shirt
and stood waiting.
"I'll stop to give Carl his share of
the molasses on the way. We still
got that two gallon bucket around
here?"
Amanda felt as if the hot water she
was pouring from the kettle was go-
ing over her. She hadn't planned on
telling John about the molasses un-
til after the dance. John grabbed a
handful of soap, using it vigorously.
What could she do? Mechanically
she handed him the towel.
"Where's the bucket?" he asked
through the towel.
"It's in the spring house. Won't
tomorrow be soon enough to take it
to Carl?" she managed to say.
"His folks 've been without sweets,
and it'll be good for breakfast.
What could she do? This would
spoil everything. She stood shiver-
ing.
John was combing his hair in front
of the looking glass. She picked up
the milk crock and began to pour
milk into the cups.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JULY - 503
"Did you move the molasses to
the spring house? It's not in the cor-
ner."
Amanda took a deep breath. "It's
gone," was all she could say.
John looked at her, comb in hand.
"Where?"
"M-Mr. Rader's boy Willie took it
over to the store." She stood very
still beside the table, but her hands
made the bread knife tremble.
"Why'd Willie do that? I didn't
say I had any molasses to sell.
There's a mistake."
"N-no- 1- 1- sold the molasses."
John put the comb slowly down
on the bench. "YOU sold the mo-
lasses?"
She could only nod her head. It
wasn't easy to talk when she might
cry.
"It wasn't yours to sell, Mandy."
"It was half mine— wasn't it?"
John looked like he would drop to
the floor. "Half yours?" he echoed.
"Father gave it to both of us, did-
n't he? B -because you were married
to me?"
"He gave it to me to do with as
I saw fit. Part of it was promised
for payment of work done." John
took a deep breath. "Where's the
money?"
"T-there wasn't any." The tears
were giving way to anger.
He stared at her open-mouthed.
"He had to give you something in
money or barter."
"Th-the hoops— I got the hoops
for my dress."
"Those things under your dress?"
She nodded. "He allowed me a
dollar a gallon."
John sat down on the nearest stool
with a thump. "You set vanity be-
fore honor," he said slowly.
504 - JULY, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
''But father'll give us some more/'
''That is not the point. You
knew the molasses was promised."
"S-supper's ready," she said weak-
"I don't want any."
"You'd better change then or we'll
be late."
"I'm not going. I promised mo-
lasses to Carl before the dance, and I
can't give it to him. I don't feel like
partying now."
"But it's the first party since we've
been married."
"You spoiled it. We stay home."
"John Stopher, I had to have those
hoops, but you'd never understand
that. Mary Anne Davison'll be there
and she's so—"
She stopped at the bewildered
expression on his face.
"I won't stay home," she finished.
"You can't go without me."
"Oh, can't I?"
Sobbing, Amanda rushed to the
bedroom, tied on her bonnet and put
on her heavy cape. She sailed past
John with head high. If she hurried,
it would be possible to get to the
Jenson's before they left in their wag-
on for the amusement hall, for the
building was too far away to walk in
party finery. Anger and pride soon
dried the tears that had slipped from
her lashes.
"Could I ride with you to the
dance?" Amanda asked as Mrs. Jen-
son answered her knock. The ten-
year-old twins stood with their cloaks
on ready to go out the door. Mrs.
Jenson's eyes shone with admiration.
"Sure, Mrs. Stopher. Say, you got
hoops underneath that skirt?"
"Yes. John h-has something to
take care of before he goes, and I
thought I could go ahead with you
folks— if you don't care."
"I should say so. Girls, stop your
staring and go get into the wagon.
You can sit up with Carl and me in
front."
npHE new amusement hall was
fairly bursting with laughter,
bustle and hustle and light. Candles
stood on the rough little shelves
on the walls of the room, but
there were none above the roaring
fireplace, as the flames threw their
dancing light over that end of the
room. On a long table with log legs
were pies, side pork, roast wild tur-
key and sage hens. Homemade bread
and cornpone was piled high on a
wooden platter. Fresh butter glis-
tened like captured gold. Puddings
made of "Mormon" corn gave forth
savory odors, while jugs of milk and
cider waited for the thirsty dancers.
On one side of the fireplace Jeff
Minton and Asael Trestor tuned up
their fiddles while old Hezzy Whip-
ple ran the scales on his accordion.
Mary Anne had arrived before
Amanda. She lifted her eyebrows
when she saw that John was not with
his wife. And when she saw the new
dress her face seemed frozen with
surprise.
Amanda hung her things on a peg
and giving her waves and curls a pat
she went to the fire to warm her
hands. Mary Anne followed her.
"So the little girl-wife has grown
up now? You're dress is beautiful,
Amanda. Is it a wedding present?"
"The goods is. I made the dress."
It made Amanda feel less triumph-
ant when Mary Anne was so nice.
"But the hoops. You must have
seen a picture."
"Aunt Annie sent me a new maga-
zine called Harper's." Amanda felt
almost ready to offer Mary Anne the
book when Mary Anne said, ''Well,
it makes you look more like a woman
and less like a slat/' and hurried
away.
Amanda had many partners.
Charlie Winton had told her she'd
never be happy with John and should
marjy him, but here he was dancing
with her and admitting that he was
wrong. Anyone as radiant and love-
ly as she, and in such new style,
must be very happy. Amanda ex-
plained about John's tardiness, never
doubting that he would come and
save her reputation, for women did-
n't go to dances without their hus-
bands. No one said anything, but
she felt guilty. The evening went on
and still no John. Mrs. Jenson came
up with a worried look.
'Tou want Carl should go see if
nothing's wrong?"
''No, thank you, Mrs. Jenson.
He'll be here soon," Amanda replied.
Then the thought of Indians shoved
itself into tlie foreground of her
mind. Indians had been prowling
around. What if they got mean,
knowing everyone was at the dance?
Amanda's heart almost stopped beat-
ing. "If he isn't here in fifteen min-
utes Carl can go after him," she told
Mrs. Jenson.
"He's got to come. Heavenly Fa-
ther, he must come," Amanda kept
saying to herself. "I'm a selfish pig.
He's right. I put vanity before his
honor." But she couldn't rush into
the night after her husband, nor
could she tell everyone present that
her husband might be in trouble
and it was her fault. She was a baby
and should be spanked. Why did
she have to have such silly pride?
She shouldn't have sold the molasses.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, JULY - 505
But if John was staying away to
frighten her he should be ashamed-
just as she was ashamed.
CHE was dancing with Fred Brown
when she saw John standing just
inside the door. Her heart felt as
though it had pushed itself up
against her breast-bone. She wanted
to cry out, to run to him. John did-
n't look very cheerful, but that didn't
matter as long as he was safe. Mrs.
Jenson was talking and gesticulating
with expressive arms in Amanda's
direction. John had to look over and
wave a hand, so she waved back with
what she hoped looked like airiness.
If she only could keep from crying.
Darling John! So stern and unbend-
ing! He had saved her face by com-
ing—just to be there. The music
was brisk, and Amanda had to watch
her step. John went over to the fire-
place and talked to Carl. The older
women were busy at the long table
now. Would John come to her after
the dance was over? The couples
began moving around when the mu-
sicians stopped to rest, and Fred
guided Amanda over to John.
"Evenin' Fred."
"Glad to see you here," said Fred.
"We wus just beginning to think
we'd better form a posse and go back
to your cabin."
"I told them you'd be late, but
we all got worrying," Amanda said
hurriedly. John looked at her with
such a sober glance it made her catch
her breath.
"Everybody git your partner fer
the Virginia Reel," called old Sam.
"Git ready now. Last dance before
the eatin'."
"I'll get my wife fer this dance,"
said Fred Brown and ducked his
head in a little bow.
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'Tou promised this to me," Char-
lie Winton had come rushing over,
then saw John. Amanda looked mis-
erably at her husband.
*'Sure," said John, ''go on with
Chariie."
Oh, dear, this would never do.
She'd have to dance the whole thing
through with John standing there,
and her heart was broken. He did not
care after all.
''Bow to your partners," sang out
old Sam.
Just as Charlie went back to his
place opposite her, Amanda saw John
leave the fireplace with a quick stride
and come toward them. He took
Charlie gently by one arm and pull-
ed him out of line. Chariie grinned
and stood back. Amanda almost
stumbled. She knew everyone there
was amused and thought it some lit-
tle joke.
As they held hands and went skip-
ping up and down the line, John
squeezed her hands and whispered,
"Haven't I seen you somewhere be-
fore?"
She smiled at him from the cor-
ners of her eyes, and her heart kept
time with her feet. "Your face does
look familiar, sir," she giggled as
John grinned. As they held their
arms high to allow the other dancers
to pass through, John looked deep
into her eyes, and Amanda felt like
a flash of lightning had welded them
together. The world was a cloud,
and they were floating upon it.
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Woman as an Interpreter of the Truth Maude B. Jacob 509
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A UGUST is vacation time — play time. It is im-
portant for people to play, to forget their tasks
and engage in some recreation that is healthful
and interesting. The child with his dog plays in
the shady lane and is happy. The adult, too, must
take time to partake of the enriching human plea-
sures that are so abundant. Unwise indeed is he
who spends all his energies in work, who never
takes time to play with his friends and family.
**Sweet recreation barred, what doth ensue
but moody and dull melancholy, kinsman to grim
and comfortless despair; and at their heels, a huge
infectious troop of pale distemperatures and foes
to life."
o/ JLo\>e k/L \Jorook
By Anna. Piince Redd
I love a brook, a swiftly moving stream
That tumbles down a mountain from the snows
And finds its way across the town to gleam
Like silver ribbon through the meadow as it goes.
It bides its time and flows beneath the clover,
If storms becloud or earth's mould holds it back
It but accumulates in strength, and spilling over
It clears and finds its way along a crack.
Then still and deep and stately-wending, proud
To be a-moving, happy just to be.
It presses on till joyous, bounding, loud,
It surges over rocks to meet the sea.
So runs my life: Reunion is my goal.
Thus must I strive, and striving find my soul.
The
Relief Societj/^ Magazine
Vol. XXVI
AUGUST, 1939
No. 8
Woman as an Interpreter
of the Truth
By Maude B. Jacob
"One is richest in soul who has given most to enrich souls."
WOMAN'S opportunity i n
friendship is limitless in de-
gree and scope from the out-
side world of life and beauty to the
inner world of affection and com-
munion. Life is gladdened, en-
nobled, and inspired in varying de-
grees as each day the intimacies of
nature, of art, and of music, the hu-
man associations in work and in plav,
and the communion of home and
church touch us. If intimacy, com-
panionship, and communion may
be considered in the range of friend-
ship, then "the problem of life is the
problem of friendship". It is no new
thought that the spiritual life is but
a deepening friendship with God.
The world today, individuals as weJl
as peoples, are yearning for friend-
ship.
It is the peculiar glory of woman-
hood to be friendly. This superior
quality, friendliness, comes from a
combination of heart and mind,
from woman's spiritual perception
and sensibilities, from her ability for
self-effacement and her sympathy for
human frailties, and from her inde-
finable sense of and power of living
for immaterial things. Lamartine,
the great French humanist, says of
woman's adaptibility for friendli-
ness, ''Nature has given women two
heavenly gifts which distinguish
them and often raise them above
human nature — compassion and en-
thusiasm. By compassion they de-
vote themselves and by enthusiasm
they exalt themselves."
It is the tendency of woman to
prefer to be the "inspirer" rather
than "creator," a condition which
may be due largely to her disposition
but in part, no doubt, to the influ-
ence of the social and religious forces
that have directed human progress.
The role of woman as inspirer is one
which on the whole is most advanta-
geous to general progress. Neverthe-
less, it is evident that many of the
social, political, and aesthetic influ-
ences of civilization have seen birth
in women's minds long before they
were carried to public organizations.
All in all, it appears most providen-
tial for man, the conqueror of the
material world, that woman with her
intuitiveness, ingeniousness, and en-
couragement has proved herself
worthy of the role of inspirer. Ten-
nyson, the Victorian poet, as he
considered the effect of education
upon woman's influence, saw this
greater role and recorded it in the
delightful idyll, 'The Princess:"
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"Everywhere
Two heads in council, two beside the
hearth,
Two in the tangled business of the world,
Two in the liberal offices of life.
The woman's cause is man's: they rise or
sink
Together, dwarf'd or godlike, bond or free,"
To make new laws, to discover
new truths, to invent new devices, to
write books, to paint pictures is some-
thing measurable. For such creations
the laurels of the world have been
given in grateful tribute. To shape
traditions, mold lives, increase an-
other's efficiency, create harmony by
eliminating chaos is not measurable.
There are no statutes for these vir-
tues. Yet, in every age and in every
hamlet women have served as in-
spired companions of loved ones and
friends, as guardians of the good and
beautiful in life.
The role of woman as ''compan-
ion," one of her noblest functions,
has received but little attention from
those who have written of the place
of women in the world. From the
individual biographies of the leaders
of thought and affairs one may glean
evidence of the sympathy, encour-
agement, and cooperation of moth-
ers, wives, sisters, and companions
that have aided in the achievement
of success in the face of obstacles
and despair. The encouragement
given to Galileo by his loving daugh-
ter Marie Celeste, to Pasteur by his
devoted wife, to William Herschell
by the sacrifices of his sister are part
of the progress of science. Inspired
by the confidence and sympathy of
woman's love Liszt, Wagner, Mo-
zart, Chopin, and Beethoven yielded
imperishable creations in the realm
of music. Michelangelo speaks of
the influence of his friend, Vittoria
Colonna, as "the tool by which his
genius had been formed". In the
field of literature the examples are
legion. Wordsworth writes of his
beloved sister, Dorothy:
"She in the midst of all preserved me still
A Poet, made me seek beneath that name
And that alone, my office upon earth."
For the immortal Dante, Beatrice
was "the solitary star" which directed
him through all the vicissitudes of
life, unlocking his brains and heart,
thus guiding him to the sublime
creation of 'The Divine Comedy".
These and many others are exam-
ples of what Aristotle terms as friend-
ship: "The friendship that is com-
munion."
npHE supreme example of friend-
ship that is "understanding"
comes to us from the life of Mary
of Bethany, her friendship with Jesus
of Nazareth. The home of Mary,
her sister Martha, and her brother
Lazarus was a haven of refuge in the
latter days of the ministry of Jesus.
Homeless, misunderstood, and per-
secuted, Jesus, the Man of Sorrows,
found comfort with these friends.
As Jesus spoke to them of his mis-
sion to mankind it seemed that Mary
realized more than Martha what
Jesus needed, understanding, not
nourishment. The humble associ-
ates of Jesus, His disciples, seemed
unable to sense the significance of
the events of those last weeks. It
was to Martha Jesus had given assur-
ances of everlasting life upon the
death of Lazarus but with Mary
Jesus wept. It was at the home of
Simon that Mary's understanding
was to be given supreme expression.
Realizing the closeness of the death
of Jesus she took the priceless oint-
ment used in anointing for burial
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 51 1
and kneeling at his feet, anointed Church under Pope Damasus as the
him, seeking to comfort Jesus with greatest authority upon the lan-
an expression that might symbohze guages of the time. In the year 382
the everlasting power of his life. And A. D. Jerome was given the task of
Jesus understood Mary's act and was revising the translations of the Gos-
comforted by it, for He said of her, pels from the Greek. Because of his
''She hath wrought a good work saintliness and his learning many of
upon me. Wheresoever this gospel the patricians of Rome appealed to
shall be preached in the whole world, Jerome for instruction. A noble
that also which this woman hath Roman matron upon becoming a
done shall be spoken of for a memor- Christian established a convent to
ial of her." It has been said of Mary which women could come for reli-
of Bethany that of all the followers gious instruction. To this school
of Jesus she, more than anyone else, Paula and her daughter, Eustochium,
appreciated his deepest longings— both widows, came for direction,
she understood whether an unbur- Paula's keen intellect, superior
dening of heart or an alabaster box knowledge of Latin and Greek, and
was needed. The world today needs her intense spirituality quickly ap-
its Marys to help to teach the lessons pealed to Jerome as he worked with
of friendship. "Long after the menu her at the convent. So that Jerome
has been forgotten, the companion- could complete his great task he left
ship about the table remains the Rome and established himself at
richest part of any feast." There is Bethlehem building a tiny monastery
always the need of the instinct of near the scene of the Nativity. Later
Mary for friendship which is under- Paula and her daughter followed,
standing to detect and satisfy the giving all of their wealth to the estab-
need in the life of another. There is lishment of a convent at Bethlehem,
also a great restless world about us. From the menial duties of the con-
eager not so much for "the material vent she assigned herself, Paula saved
delicacies of Martha's table as for the time to serve Jerome as scribe and
spiritual joys of Mary's companion- translator. Under her encourage-
ship". ment the task assigned to Jerome was
The inspiration of the great com- extended to the re-translation of the
panionship of Saint Jerome and works of the major prophets and
Paula of Rome has been lost to the then to the historical and literary
world in the stupendous contribu- books of the Old Testament record,
tion of the Latin Vulgate of the These saintly women through their
Bible, yet its production was due to encouragement and aid sustained
the intellectual and spiritual com- and guarded Jerome. Many times he
panionship of two great souls. Saint would have yielded to despair at the
Jerome is best known today as the magnitude and difficulties of the task
translator of the Bible from the origi- had it not been for Paula and Eusto-
nal tongues into Latin from which chium. The complete story of this
translation all others have been prodigious undertaking, the Latin
made including the King James Vulgate, is little known but less
translation. Jerome as a young man known are the facts of the loving
was recognized by the Christian service, intellectual aid, and spiritual
512 - AUGUST, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
understanding of Paula. Paula died
before the completion of the task,
but Jerome gave to the world as he
had promised her the completion of
her dream, the Latin Vulgate of the
Bible. For Jerome, Paula, and
Eustochium the Christian Church
gave the reward of sainthood, but
from the world the friendship, holi-
ness, profound learning, and su-
preme genius of the three receive
tribute every time the pages of the
Divine Library are turned and yield
to humanity the testimony of God
and His Divine Love.
AS MUCH as has been said of
woman's gift of friendship, shall
nothing be said of her great need of
friendship? Her need, as great as
man's, is met from the same sources
as his in the realm of material and
human contacts. Of friendships,
woman for woman, none have been
more beautiful than that of Ruth
and Naomi. Never was the lonely
heart of woman comforted more
than when Ruth spoke to the sorrow-
ing Naomi the words, ''Whither
thou goest, I will go. . . Your peo-
ple shall be my people, your God
shall be my God." Many have been
the admirers of George Eliot's great
work, appreciating her understand-
ing of those qualities of character
which create tragedy and happiness
in human lives. The Hetty Sorrels,
the Tom and Maggie Tullivers, the
Silas Marners, the Dollby Win-
throps of life have more meaning for
us because of George Eliot's unfor-
gettable portrayals. Only a few
courageous biographers have given
credit to George Henry Lewes for his
contribution to this great author. He
it was who gave up his life work as
author and literary critic to protect,
encourage, and inspire George Eliot.
To Mary Ann Evans, the critic of
the Westminster Review^ he pointed
the way to become a novelist. For
him she was a great cause. Truly
''they rose to greatness together."
What shall be said of the greatest
of all companionships, marriage?
The greatest of earthly joys have
come to man through the sacred ties
of marriage as also have come the
greatest tragedies when the mystery
of death has severed those ties. The
great quest for evidence of immor-
tality has received its greatest impe-
tus from man's desire for the contin-
uation of the loving associations of
earth life for all eternity. The great-
est truth given to the world by the
Prophet Joseph Smith in the Dis-
pensation of the Fullness of Times is
that marriage is to be for eternity,
that man's everlasting joy and prog-
ress depends upon his completion
through marriage. Happiness
through self-completion is the goal
of those who know God's purposes.
With this supreme concept of eter-
nal progress and happiness must
come the understanding that mar-
riage must be more than physical at-
traction and satisfaction; it must be
more than intellectual harmony; it
must be a spiritual companionship.
Woman's ability for friendship
lies not in her learning but in her
understanding; not in her rank or
calling but in her spirit, for "the
humblest light may kindle a light
brighter than its own". To have
Mary's sacred gift of understanding
is the desire of every woman seeking
to fill her sacred role of "Interpreter
of the Faith" for her generation and
those to follow.
Apostle Melvin Joseph Ballard
By Belle S. Spafford
AN overwhelming loss came to
the Church Sunday evening,
July 30, 1939, in the passing
of Apostle Melvin J. Ballard, follow-
ing a brief illness. Born of sturdy
pioneer parentage, who assisted in
the establishment of our great West-
ern Empire, Elder Ballard has with
diligence and faith devoted his life
to the establishment of the work of
the Lord in many parts of the world.
Henry and Margaret McNeil Bal-
lard, parents of Apostle Ballard, early
located in the beautiful Cache Val-
ley of Northern Utah, Many hard-
ships attended early life there, but
their strong testimony that God
lives and overrules to bring about
the perfection of his obedient chil-
dren never wavered. A few years
prior to the birth of Melvin . . .
"when the clouds of darkness hov-
ered long about them, the mother,
with a 'broken heart and contrite
spirit' bowed in solemn supplication
before her Father, and received the
assuring comfort that she should be
given a son who would be numbered
among the Apostles of the Lamb,
and to her last day she maintained
that this would come to pass just
as it had been revealed to her." (L.
D. S. Biographical Encyclopedia,
Andrew Jensen )
In harmony with this revelation to
his mother. Elder Ballard was or-
dained an Apostle, January 7, 1919,
by President Heber J. Grant. This
high calling came at the age of 46, as
a culmination of years of devotion
and tireless service to the Church in
ward and stake capacities.
ELDER BALLARD
For many years one of the
Church's leading missionaries.
Brother Ballard's power and influ-
ence has been felt near and far. He
has organized stakes, he has filled
special missionary assignments, for
ten years he presided over the North-
western States Mission. In 1925 he
opened the South American Mis-
sion. He has labored with zeal in
the interest of the Religion Class,
the Sunday School, the Mutual Im-
provement Association, serving at
one time as Assistant General Super-
intendent of the Y. M. M. I. A. He
has always been a staunch and con-
siderate friend of Relief Society.
Blessed with a studious mind and
great spiritual insight, coupled with
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an unusual gift of oratory, his ser-
vices have been constantly in de-
mand throughout the Church and
elsewhere. Because of his earnest
desire to serve, his response to all
calls has been most generous. Per-
haps the Church has had no more
energetic servant.
His unusual gift of music has
brought joy not only to himself but
to thousands of souls. For years he
has been chairman of the Church
Music Committee, and under his
supervision the latest Church Psalm-
ody was published. Through his ef-
forts a finer appreciation of good
music has been awakened.
His boyhood experiences, no
doubt, gave him a keen understand-
ing of the heart of a boy and led
toward his great activity among the
youth, so evidenced by his work in
the Boy Scout movement.
Love for humanity which express-
ed itself in both spiritual and ma-
terial administrations has always
been characteristic of this great lead-
er. As a little boy holding the
office of Deacon, he took delight in
chopping wood for widows and those
in need. It was his custom to spend
a part of each Christmas day, with
a sleigh as a vehicle, in distributing
gifts which had been given through
his father, the Bishop, for the bless-
ing and comfort of those in need.
It is but reasonable that one so
endowed with the interests of the
unfortunate should be chosen as
chairman of the Church Welfare
Program, when it was established in
the spring of 1936. His faith in the
Welfare Program was expressed in
these words: 'It is the greatest thing
in the Church today. It must not,
it will not fail." At the time of his
passing he was acting as advisor to
the present General Welfare Com-
mittee.
A man of magnetic personality
and easily approached, his advice has
frequently been sought by those in
need of comfort and guidance, and
all who came to him have met with
tender understanding and wise coun-
sel.
His innumerable religious, busi-
ness, and civic activities have en-
deared him to thousands — his friends
are legion. Truly a man of God,
devoted to the uplift of humanity,
his life has been as the Master would
have it be.
Counting him a special friend of
Relief Society, the General Presi-
dency and General Board mourn
with Sister Ballard and her family,
and pray that our Father's comfort-
ing influence will attend them.
''Blessed are the dead which die
in the Lord . . . that they may rest
from their labours; and their works
do follow after them." (Rev. 14:13)
The work of the Lord has been ad-
vanced immeasurably through the
ministry of Elder Melvin J. Ballard,
a gifted man, a genuine Latter-day
Saint.
Mothers' Influence In
Priesthood Work
By Achsa E. Paxman
I WONDER if mothers express
joy and appreciation for the
good deeds of their sons to the
same extent that they offer disap-
proval for failures and wrongdoing.
Appreciation and encouragement for
good deeds bring joy and a desire to
continue actions that will bring fur-
ther approval. Encouragement is
one of the greatest needs of human-
ity.
A normal home and good parental
training are essential in the life of a
child. ''We form all our concepts
and habits of good, truth, loyalty,
faithfulness, and morality, immedi-
ately around us." The future of the
individual depends upon the wis-
dom and guidance of parents.
Every child needs the influence of
a church. Wise parents recognize
the importance of the church influ-
ence in the lives of children and en-
courage every possible contact with
it. Our Church, through the Priest-
hood, provides an influence most
vital in the lives of our boys and
young men.
How can mothers influence sons
to be active in the Priesthood? Every
mother who is prayerful, who has
faith in God and a desire to live the
principles and teachings of the Gos-
pel will be an influence in the spirit-
ual life of her boy. 'Trovoke the
brethren to good works" is one of the
admonitions given to Relief Society
women by our Prophet Joseph.
The woman who is wielding in-
fluence over her own boy is also,
through that boy, wielding influence
over other boys. The following few
incidents, which Brother Newell K.
Young relates in his lesson book for
the ordained teachers are illustra-
tive of the fine influence and spirit-
ual direction of mothers:
A young man had been sent to
Germany on a mission. His first
three months in Germany were
months of distressing doubts and
misery. He took no part in the
actual missionary work and found
but little results from his study of
the German language or the Scrip-
tures. Many times he would have
given up and gone home, in spite of
his desire not to hurt his father and
mother and friends, had it not been
for the sympathetic understanding
and unfailing kindness of his mis-
sionary companion.
At one of the meetings, in which
were three learned sectarian minis-
ters who had confidently come for
the avowed purpose of confounding
our Elders, the president of the
Swiss-German Mission called upon
the missionary companion of the
doubting and troubled boy to speak.
This missionary did not dispute
nor argue. He simply bore his testi-
mony. In an earnest, manly manner,
under the inspiration of the Lord, he
told of the fruits of Mormonism in
the lives of our people. He told of
his experience as a soldier in the
United States Army in the Philli-
pines during the Spanish American
War. He related his parting with
his mother as typical of Mormon
life. He quoted her last words to
516 - AUGUST, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
him as he left home: "My boy, a much needed pair of shoes for her
come back as clean as you are now, boy. In response to his complaining
as pure as a child." And with a spirit and coaxing she said, '1 cannot get
and influence that even the ministers you shoes. When you pray even-
could not challenge, he bore record ings and mornings, ask the Lord and
that he came home clean. He will open some way for us to get
The force of this testimony touch- them."
ed these men's hearts, and they con- 'Twice each day during my prayer
fessed themselves misled regarding said at Mother's knee I put the case
Mormonism. They declared their up to our Father in Heaven. A few
good will for the Elders, saying that days later an uncle's wagon stopped
such men as these could be only a before our door. Unmindful of the
blessing to Germany and her people, snow and cold, I scampered out with
This testimony let in a stream of my bare feet. 'Hello, what have we
light to the doubtful and disheart- here? Bare feet! A barefooted boy in
ened Elder. He, too, found God. all this snow! Climb up here and see
Since that time he has not ceased to what I have for you.' The uncle
proclaim Him at every opportunity, handed me a pair of boots. 'See here
The mother who wielded influ- how good my Heavenly Father is to
ence over her boy in the Priesthood, me,' I exclaimed. 'I asked Him only
as a soldier, and also as a mission- for shoes and He has sent me red-
ary, had helped influence another topped boots.' "
missionary boy. Tm sure that you will agree that
A widowed mother with four chil- this mother had already established
dren was suddenly bereft of her only in her boy a sympathetic understand-
adult kin, her mother. Speaking of ing and faith in God that would later
the trials and faith and courage of be influential in promoting interest
his mother, her eldest son said, "I in Priesthood work. In all probabil-
think it was not so much what she ity, before her boy is twelve years old
said as what she was. Her very life he will have received such further
breathed a beautiful peace into the training that he will be prepared and
souls of those about her. This gentle, desirous of becoming a deacon,
quiet, suffering little mother of mine When your boy is ordained to the
lived into my life the feeling that Priesthood of Deacon, impress him
heaven was near, and that God was ^vith the importance and privilege
good to her and all of his children of having the Priesthood bestowed
even in their sorrows." upon him. During his term of of-
The mother who can inspire con- fice, know whether or not he has
fidence that God is good and is look- collected his fast offerings and at-
ing after His children will promote tended his meetings and other duties
faith and devotion in her boy and as he should. If he has been a trust-
will build a foundation for Priest- worthy deacon, he will be a better
hood work. teacher and priest, but each time he
A mother who was working early is advanced in the Priesthood the in-
and late to provide for her five small terest of the mother should be dis-
children found it impossible to get played in this new honor. Probably
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 517
special mention of the added honor encouragement will be filled with joy
of receiving a promotion in the and satisfaction and will enjoy more
Priesthood could be made at meal abundantly the Church and its spir-
time when the family are together, or itual blessings,
perhaps a cake or special dessert ^ ^^^ p^^j^^^ -^ Heaven bless
served in his honor. Contmue with ^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^ ^^
mterest and encouragement, that the , . , . i . • u .
1 f u- IT J niay have wisdom that is seldom at
boy may magnity his calling and . ( . r t . . i
know the joy of work well done. If ^^"1*; patience unfailing trust, love
some question regarding the Priest- unfaltering, faith m God. Then we
hood arises, honor the young man are sure that our influence in sup-
holding the Priesthood by referring porting the Priesthood will be felt
the question to him. The home that and the young men of the Church
is blessed with this vital interest and be brought into greater activity.
OPPORTUNITY
By Mabel Jones
So swift the moments follow in their flight
That like the setting sun's fast dying ray
They fade from view into the yesterday
Until the world again is hushed in night.
Then mortal man forgets his daily plight
Of toil and struggle in the ceaseless fray,
And from the shop and farm, from every way
Of life, comes home to dream by candle light.
So all too soon this life ebbs out its span
Of golden moments, and our day is done.
Too soon the night comes on wherein no man
Can work. Go, then, whfle there is yet the sun
And do your work with care and thoughtful plan,
And leave at close of day no task undone.
Little Old Glass Slipper
By Fae Decker Dix
THE old man was lonely, it's Linnie, the only girl, had died when
true. But you would never she was seventeen. It was Linnie
suspect it if you stepped up who made the little glass slipper so
to his rickety door sometime and important.
caught him looking at the little old During the long months she lay ill
glass slipper on the mantel shelf. she would stare up at the bit of shiny
Mostly he'd be there at sundown, glass on the old mantel and look very
for that was the time when he longed very happy. It meant such a lot to
for them— the children and Betsy, them when she could look happy, as
Not that he wasn't used to being all if the pain had fled for a moment,
alone, for he'd had nineteen years Every night when the sun was about
of it now come September. But he to set, she'd ask one of them to
still couldn't help getting restless move the slipper out to the edge of
about chore-time. Not that there the shelf and over toward the far end
were any chores for him to do any so the last rays could slant over every
more. There was nothing for him to Httle point in the yellow glass and
do. That was what bothered him make it dance for her. Sometimes
so. People didn't need you for any- the points reflected back with pris-
thing when you were poor and going matic loveliness on the whitewashed
on seventy-seven. But there was his chimney, and Linnie would clap her
own little fire to lay at sundown and thin hands and call it her ''rainbow"
a few weeds to pull from the row of and beg to hear again how mother
radishes he planted each spring. It had brought the little slipper all the
made him feel right useful to be way across the ocean to this cabin
gathering the chips and pulling the home in an American village,
handful of weeds as dusk drew on. And Betsy, treading heavy-footed
It was such a still time at sundown, from cupboard to table and back,
He couldn't ever quite get used to would repeat in her equally heavy
not finding Betsy there over the voice, the story of how her own
cookstove heating the porridge, hum- grandmother had given her the glass
ming a tune, treading from cupboard slipper for a keepsake, how it used to
to table and back. He would think have a lock of her first sweetheart's
of her straining the pail of milk he hair tucked down in the toe, how
brought, shooing the last sleepy Father made her throw the lock
chickens from the doorstep, telling away when he married her. Here the
the dog to go out to the woodshed. old man always shuffled his feet and
Betsy had been the last one there, looked sort of foolish, and Betsy
It had been years since the children would give him a swift glance and
were with them. The boys some- tell how she had kept locks of each
how didn't take to the land and left of her babies' hair in the glass slipper
as soon as they could do a day's work until the night of the fire,
elsewhere. Married now, they were, Then the old man would cut in
all four of them, and living far away, with the story of the fire. He would
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tell how everything in their first little their staunchest friend. Everything
home burned except the little glass else had seemed to go— the chickens,
slipper and the treasure chest. The the dog, Linnie, Betsy. Only he and
treasure chest was a wooden box the little slipper held on. Pleasantly,
bound with iron bands containing almost mysteriously, he would smile
many old trinkets reminiscent of up at the shiny ornament as he sat
their life in the old country and on a summer evening watching the
many little keepsakes of the chil- sun's last rays slant through it.
dreu's. Most of its contents were There was an old rose vine still
now distributed among the boys and clinging to the bedroom window,
their families. But no one could get Occasionally during the summertime
the old man to part with the chest a single rose would burst forth as if
itself, or the brass candlesticks in the to bring him a fleeting memory of
old bedroom, or the little glass slip- what had gone. When one bloomed,
per. He kept Linnie's and Betsy's he always left it a day, then picked it
clothes packed in the treasure chest for the little glass slipper. The
now that the trinkets were gone, slipper could hold only a few drops
Each year he unfolded the beloved of water, just barely enough to wet
garments, shook them in the air a the stem, so the rose could live only
bit, and put fresh mothballs in the a few hours on the mantel shelf. But
chest again. It was a pleasant inter- a few hours would be enough, for
lude for hijn, this handling of the they were filled with sweet mem-
past, this bringing to light again the ories for the old man who rocked
things that Betsy and Linnie had and dreamed of his past before the
worn when they were alive and busy decrepit mantel at sundown time,
and laughing about the old place In the mornings he would rise and
with him. make a pretense at sweeping his
How sweet it had been to watch floor, washing his tin cup, plate and
Linnie feeding the ducks and the knife, which he deemed the only
chickens out in the yard, and later necessities for a well served meal,
from her bedside. They'd get so Pushing his chair into the corner, he
they'd walk across the clean board would mop his face a bit and take
floor right up to her cot and peck out his daily walk down to the village
of her hands. And, if she could smile main street.
at all, she would smile and talk with All morning he loafed about,
the clucking hens and pretend she There was nothing else to do, and
wasn't lonely. But it was lonely for no one car^d anyway. At noon he
Linnie in the village. There were would go home for his crust and
not many girls her age anyway, and bowl of porridge with sometimes a
those who were had been too "boy- bit of fruit, then sleep through the
struck" to think much of giving warm mid-day.
friendship to a sick girl. Asleep on Linnie's cot, he was a
The old man reckoned, as he pitiful sight with his gray be-whis-
rocked to and fro in his quaint, rough kered face burrowed in the smudgy
chair by the tumbling cookstove, that pillow, his hollow eyes closed, his
the yellow glass slipper had been funny little mouth opening and shut-
520 - AUGUST, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
ting at intervals to accommodate his
snoring.
Some days kindly Mrs. Vanter
down the road would waken him,
bringing him a bowl of cherries or a
loaf of bread. Some davs one of the
farm hands from a neighboring field
would stop by for a chat. Once in a
while there was a brief note from one
of the boys with a five dollar bill en-
closed, or a box of good things to eat
from a daughter-in-law. At Christ-
mas time the grandchildren would
scrawl impersonal notes to this
grandfather whom they had never
seen and send them along with the
family box to wish him a merry holi-
day. He would muse over these, pre-
tending he could imagine what each
little grandchild looked like.
r\N A DAY in August a letter came
to say they would all be there
for the village homecoming at the
end of the month. They would
bring their children and stay at a
tourist lodge. The old man grew a
little excited at the news. He tried
to sweep the corners of his cabin
out a bit better, and to brush his old
Sunday suit. He even dusted off the
mantel shelf and put the shining
slipper right in the center of it where
it could catch the most sunlight
when they entered the door.
They came. The old man spent
four days of scurrying about to the
celebrations, mostly with Tom and
Miranda and their twins, because
they had the biggest car and the
fewest children. He was very shy
and wearied in the presence of these
strangers of his own blood.
Miranda had an aggressiveness, a
sort of smugness that carried over
into the twin's attitude and gave the
old man no real peace of mind while
they were with him. Although he
could not exactly say he hadn't en-
joyed the homecoming, there was
an uneasiness about him that spoke
of longing for his old rut. Ruts were
his style. He would be glad to get
back into his daily habits again.
''Grandpa, you'd better come and
live with us. We'll be glad to fix up
a spare room somewhere for you.
Well, why not? You surely can't
stay like this! My, I had no idea of
— . You won't? Well, of course, if
you prefer THIS!"
It had been Miranda who had
made the offer. To be sure, the old
man rejected it. It had also been
Miranda's voice that spoke the words
he couldn't believe,
"Well, Grandpa, I'll have to take
a keepsake with me. Something to
remember you by, for no telling
when we can come out here again. I
guess I'll just help myself to this old
glass slipper. No use to you is it? I'd
love it for my new "what-not"!
Those old pieces are all the fashion
again, and Tom brought me the
loveliest one. It's the best in Anter-
ville— genuine antique, you know.
This little thing will be just right to
put between a pair of wedgewood
vases I bought. Tell me is there a
story to it? I'm quite fond of an-
tiques. Isn't there something I can
tell my friends about its history?"
The old man didn't believe it was
his voice, but it must be for he could
feel his lips forming words. Maybe
he was dreaming. He would shake
himself. He would tell Miranda no,
she mustn't take that from him. It
\\'0uld sound silly, but he must stop
her. ,
"No. No— there isn't a story—
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about— the little glass slipper. None enough to say no to the things he
at all." wanted to say it to. And here he was
She had swished it off the shelf still paying at this late date— paying
and was tucking it inside her hand- in a funny, sentimental little way,
bag with that odd smugness Grand- but it was a supreme price to him.
pa couldn't comprehend. ''I ought to have told her no/' he
''Good-bye, Grandpa. Good-by-y- kept reflecting after they were gone,
ye!" "and she ought to have known
VGood-bye, my dear children. Fm enough to wait until I'm gone for
glad you came." good. It wouldn't be so long. I
There were tears in the old man's ought to have asked her to wait."
weak blue eyes. They thought he So, the old man just sits and rocks
was crying because they were saying at sunset time and stares at the va-
good-bye, and Tom gripped his fa- cant place on the mantel shelf. He
ther's wrinkled hand with unusual waits and waits and wishes the time
force as he left him. None of them would hurry by so he could tell Betsy
had the understanding to know how how somebody's thoughtlessness de-
in that moment he hated himself be- prived him of a certain joy in those
cause he had never been strong closing years of his loneliness.
THE SUMMER SUN
By WiUoid D. Lee
The fierce consuming sun of summer day
Leaps from his hiding place, the mighty crag,
To race across the sky to sear, and brag
To every obstacle upon his way!
How fiercely stabs he every bickering stream,
How battles he with spire, and shaft, and rail;
How drives he from their meadow fox and quail.
And mounts on high to call himself supreme!
Yet, when the calming wisdom of the hour
Which brings to rest his lance, impassionate
Impetuosity is cooled, and fret
Of lost contentions fail from want of power.
Our life is like the wanton summer sun:
It finds a cooling peace when day is done.
The Sea Lion Gave
By Doiothy Ndl Mail
SUMMERTIME brings vacation
days, and vacation days bring
the question, where shall we
go?
Motorists throughout the nation
will this year, perhaps more than any
other, include the popular trip down
the entire stretch of Pacific Coast.
Every mile of the way is filled with
scenic beauty, said by some to excel
the famed Amalfi drive of southern
Italy. Beginning at Seattle, Wash-
ington and continuing on south over
the coast highway through the forest
of giant redwoods and on into San
Francisco and the Golden Gate Ex-
position gives one a most delightful
tour. It is one which should not be
rushed through, for there are side
shows along the way that are well
worth stopping for. Yet, vacation-
ists by the thousands speed on down
this beautiful strip and in the rush
to arrive at some prearranged point
overlook many interesting spots
along the way. One frequently pass-
ed by, for the sake of conserving
time, and which never should be
passed by without 'regret, is the Sea
Lion Cave. The cave itself is three
hundred feet directly below the main
coast highway near the small to\^n
of Florence, Oregon.
All sea caverns are mysterious and
interesting, but three things make
this one unusual : First, it is the only
known mainland home for sea lions;
other such rookeries are rocks and
cliffs apart from the coastline. Sec-
ond, nowhere else on this continent
are seen those colorful sea-loving
birds, the Pigeon Guillemots. Third,
and possibly most unique of all, the
sea lions and the birds live todav in
the same unmolested freedom they
have known for many years in the
past. They have chosen this home
for themselves, and it is among the
very few places left on the North
American continent where wild life
lives in its natural habitat without
fear of a hunting season.
The cave was originally formed
during the Ice Age. As the centur-
ies rolled by, battermg waves of the
Pacific Ocean enlarged it. Today it
is fifteen hundred feet long, one hun-
dred feet from floor to ceiling, and
has three entrances. One of these
entrances is a corridor extending
through the cliffs toward the sea for
one thousand feet. The main cav-
ern has a beautiful dome-shaped ceil-
ing, and jagged rocks and ledges pro-
ject above the water that covers the
floor. Other rooms in the cavern are
upon a higher level, and the floors
are perfectly dry, permitting one to
explore. The whole interior is light-
ed by a ghostly green glow. This
eerie light reflects upon the ceiling
and the walls where the Pigeon Guil-
lemots are nesting. Threading like
ribbons through those walls are sul-
phur-colored streaks of volcanic ash,
deposited thousands of years ago. At
one time those streaks were the
earth's surface. Today three hun-
dred feet of solid rock cliffs rise
above them. Around their base
waves hammer in a constant rhythm,
chiseling arches and fantastic pat-
terns through the rocks. They have
smoothed the sharp ledges where the
sea lions bask and play in the sun.
The precipitousness of the cliffs pro-
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tects the mammals from human in- those of our domestic pigeons, for
trusion on their own bathing beach, they love the water and prefer to
This is the rookery for the Stellar roost on the waves. Out upon the
sea lions, the largest known variety Pacific Ocean they spend most of
and also the most quarrelsome. It their lives. Returning to the cave
is mid-July when the herd begins to in March, they lay their eggs among
congregate upon the rock ledges near the rocks and return to the sea each
the cavern. By Labor Day many day. In July the eggs hatch, and
Irundreds have returned, and there parent birds fly back and forth from
will often be as many as one thou- sea to cave all day long, feeding their
sand in the winter herd. They stay young small fish at half-hour inter-
until the first sunny days of March, vals.
After that they grow restless and be- The young birds stay in the nest
gin to roam up and down the coast- until September. Even by then they
line, going into the northern waters do not have their beautiful plumage
of the Arctic and into southern wa- and have to go to sea in their swad-
ters as well. dling clothes when the entire flock
There seems to be an understand- flies out over the ocean. Where they
ing between the sea lions and the spend their winters no one knows,
Pigeon Guillemots. When the sea but they are not seen again until
Mons begin to leave the cave in spring comes and it is time to rear
March, the Pigeon Guillemots move another family,
in and nest among the crevices of the Fortunate indeed is the vacationist
rock walls. The birds leave in Sep- who arrives at this spectacular spot
tember when the winter inhabitants during the month of August, for
again return. then the cave is filled with the color-
The Pigeon Guillemots are color- ful birds and a good representation
ful birds having red, webbed feet and of the Stellar sea lions. To view at
a large patch of white on each black close range a large sea lion weighing
wing. In shape they resemble our nearly two thousand pounds as he
domestic pigeon, only much larger, lolls lazily upon the rocks but a few
They also utter a shrill cooing note feet away adds an experience to your
as they wing about the cliffs. Their vacation trip which will not soon be
habits, however, are not at all like forgotten.
^^npO awaken each morning with a smile brightening my face, to greet
the day with reverence for the opportunities it contains; to approach
my work with a clean mind; to hold ever before me, even in the doing of
little things, the Ultimate Purpose toward which I am working; to meet
men and women with laughter on my lips and love in my heart; to be
gentle, kind and courteous through all the hours; to approach the night
with weariness that ever woos sleep and the joy that comes from work
well done— this is how I desire to waste wisely my days."— Thomas Drcicr.
Good Taste In Home Decorating
By L A. Fisher
CULTURE is what we do and Turkish, or Indian rugs with Duncan
appreciate. Phyfe, Early American or Queen
Each era is largely judged by Anne, They put style correctness
its cultural attainments. This truth before comfort, fashion before de-
makes evident the tremendous im- sign, and smartness before common
portance of making life as fine as sense. Nearly always the results
possible, since what we do and what were tawdry, over-draped festoonery
we appreciate places us not only in that was utterly repugnant. There is
the era to which we belong but also nothing more ridiculous than a
in our individual niche in that era. Duncan Phyfe table on a Chinese
Since the beginning of time there rug, a Spanish house filled with
have been many eras in which the Chippendale, or an Indian rug in a
people of that day reached cultural white man's house. A winged chair,
perfection in their period: The Per- no matter how practical before the
sians, the Chinese, the Greeks, the fireplace of a draughty room in a
Goths, the Rennaisance, the Victo- manorial mansion, is out of place in
rian and so on. a modern apartment.
Today we are near the cultural per- Floor coverings have always been
fection of another great period; an obtrusive and depressing. People
age, whose beauty, grandeur and still buy rugs and carpets with ridicu-
magnificence will make all others lous floral designs and gaudy and de-
seem so nothing that we can only pressing colors. Yet the market is
describe our position by saying, ''We filled with beautiful varied textured
cannot see the forest for the trees." rugs from very soft to very shaggy
No other period has been so pile, self-patterned addero toned rugs
abrupt or developed so swiftly. Fast in the loveliest neutral tones and soft
transportation, electricity, radio, tele- pastel shades that would brighten
vision, new conveniences, new think- and make cheerful any home,
ing and new living all demand new Color is something quite capable
backgrounds — backgrounds where of taking dimensional form and
people eat, sleep, work and play. The depth, and its beauty is unlimited,
tables they eat from, the beds they Yet we have always had the habit of
sleep in, the desks they write on . . . painting backgrounds in drab colors,
all must define the people that use not from choice or good taste, but
them. from practicality. Almost all wall-
Older generations have never been paper is incongruous because of over-
concerned with purity of style, design and drab or intense colors,
Functionalism combined with but people still buy it because it is
beauty of design never entered their practical. Such practical people for-
minds. They bought what their get that the joy of living is half of
neighbors bought, not what was life itself.
right, but what was stylish. They New metals, new plastics, new
were perfectly willing to mix Persian, woods and new fabrics are not only
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 525
fascinating but offer a million new souls blaze a trail, but the rest are
possibilities. Women today have far like the man, who desiring to be hu-
more technical knowledge about in- mane, chopped off his dog's tail a
terior decoration than any other age. little at a time.
Children play with streamlined toys The modern home will come, and
and feel the influence of modern life eventually everyone will have one
on every side. The only two great possessing some degree of beauty and
retarding factors probably are that individuality. Those with good taste
merchants still buy what they think and determination will of course en-
they can sell . . . and that the public joy a combination of comfort and
fears drastic changes. A few brave beauty beyond all description.
CONTEMPLATION
By Bertha M. Rosevear
There's a still and beautiful moment.
Between darkness and daylight, called dawn.
When night slips away into silence,
And the soul to its Maker is drawn.
There's mystery that thrills in the sunrise.
In the flickering birth of a day.
As the portals of heaven swing open
Disclosing each heralding ray.
There's glory and grandeur at noontide,
When the sun in the heaven is high.
Soaring majestic, resplendent.
In his course through the dome of the sky.
There's a charm in the blush of the evening.
When the west is all crimson and gold,
That speaks of the great Master Painter
In terms that are reverent, yet bold.
There's an awe that comes strangely stealing
As the black velvet curtain of night
Drops softly, and stars like tapers
Keep watch with their pale glimmering light.
There's a truth that's convincing, eternal.
As each moment its rapture bestows:
The heavens declare God's glory,
The firmament His handiwork shows.
The Relief Society in
the Welfare Plan
By Harold B. Lee
4 4 T N all that relates to the sup- Unity of the Priesthood with the
I plying of clothing, the prep- Relief Society in Welfare Work.
aration and preservation of For nearly loo years the Relief
foodstuffs, the nursing of the sick, Society organization has been charg-
the burial of the dead, in all that re- ed with the responsibility of search-
lates to the infinities of kindly atten- ing after those in need and provok-
tion and sympathy, in all that relates ing the brethren in looking after their
even remotely to the love and ritual poor, and they have kept this charge
of motherhood, the Women's Re- most faithfully,
lief Society carries the burden. The Recently from our Presiding Au-
bishop.is the father of his ward; the thorities has come a new interpre-
Relief Society is the mother. The tation of the work of a Priesthood
Church Welfare Plan could not be quorum in welfare work. There has
carried on without them; it serves in been called to service in every Mel-
greatest measure where they are most chizedek Priesthood quorum in the
active. They establish sewing and Church an activity group known as
cooking centers, they help with mak- a Personal Welfare Committee
ing budgets, they encourage the whose business it is to safeguard the
heavily burdened and despondent, welfare of every member of the quo-
th ey hold up the hands of the faint- rum and to search out those in need,
hearted, they sweep despair out of It should be clear to everyone that
the hearts of the distressed, they with two great organizations such as
plant hope and faith and righteous- Priesthood quorums and Relief So-
ness in every household. Woman- ciety entering into the field of wel-
hood is the nearest approach to the fare harmony is essential. Perhaps
divine which mortals know. Moth- no one thing is more imperative to-
ers make up the great membership day in the Welfare Plan than team-
of the Relief Society." work and coordination of the work
The above tribute to the Relief assigned to Personal Welfare Com-
Society organization of the Church ^ittees and Relief Society organiza-
was paid by President J. Reuben tions.
Clark, Jr., in an address delivered Organizations of the Church
before business executives at Estes Welfare Plan.
Park, Colorado, on June 20, 1939. To foster this unity, the Church
It would be difficult to describe any Welfare Committee has described a
activity relating to the Welfare Plan Stake Welfare Committee composed
in which the Relief Society is not of the following:
expected to play an important role. Members of the Stake Presidency as
Truly, it bears a relationship to the advisors, a member of the Stake Presidency
bishops of wards and Priesthood f chairman of the Coinmittee and the
^ , r -1 rollowmg as members: Stake Work Ui-
quorums that suggests a family re- sector, Chairman of the Bishop's Execii-
lationship. tive Council, Chairman of Stake Agricul-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 527
tural Committee, Stake Relief Society
President and Stake Relief Society Work
Director. This Committee is expected to
plan the welfare program for a given stake
and to stimulate corresponding committees
in the various wards of the stake to activi-
ties that will accomplish the objectives
that have been outlined for the Plan.
In each ward the Ward Welfare Com-
mittee consists of the following: Ward
Bishopric as advisors, the Ward Bishop or
one of his counselors acting as chairman,
and the following as members: Ward Work
Director, Chairman of Personal Welfare
Committees of the High Priests, Seventies,
Elders, Leader of the Aaronic Priesthood,
Ward Relief Society President and Ward
Relief Society Work Director. This Com-
mittee is expected to meet together weekly,
and by the use of surveys and reports that
may come periodically, and in harmony
with instructions from the Stake Welfare
Committee, is to conduct such activities
and promote such projects as will assist
needy individuals of the Church to become
self-sustaining.
Suggested Types of Projects .
The Ward Welfare Committee in
cooperation with the Stake Welfare
Committee is expected to carry on
in every line of endeavor to promote
the welfare of the people of the
ward. Projects and activities that
may be stimulated by this group
may be classified under the three
following headings:
A. Projects for the production of com-
modities needed by unemployed
persons or which may be exchanged
for commodities that are needed,
such as: Canning of fruits and
vegetables, production of meats and
meat products, producing flour,
cereals, soaps, cleansers, poultry
products, fish, butter, cheese, milk,
clothing, fuel, building materials
and furniture. Many of these ar-
ticles are not yet produced in suffi-
cient abundance to meet the re-
quirements of those who are forced
to subsist on Bishops' Orders after
having done all they can to help
themselves.
B. Church activities carried on by oth-
er organizations and closely related
to the Welfare Plan, such as:
1. The payment and collection of
tithes and fast offerings as out-
lined by the Presiding Bishop's
office.
2. Home and Church Beautifica-
tion.
3. Activities of Priesthood quorums
in finding employment for our
unemployed members in private
industry.
4. Conduct of Priesthood Quorum
projects to assist dependent
members to become self-sustain-
ing.
5. The Genealogical projects to
raise funds to assist elderly or
handicapped persons to work in
the temples on subscription lists
submitted by donors.
6. Vocational training and guid-
ance for young people through
the M. I. A.
C. Industrial or commercial enter-
prizes designed to create new wealth
in the communities and to furnish
new employment. Under this
head may be listed the following:
1. Industrial projects that grow out
of efforts to assist distressed in-
dividuals.
2. Cooperative industrial and mar-
keting organizations.
In the planning of all these proj-
ects the Relief Society presidents are
to join and so coordinate their work
with the Priesthood groups that all
able-bodied, unemployed persons in
need of assistance will be required
to give service on such projects. All
individuals who are so engaged are to
be properly fed, clothed, and housed,
according to the desires and wishes
of the Presiding Brethren.
The Relief Society workers should
be constantly alert to find points of
contact where a closer relationship
with Priesthood quorums would
make for increased power and great-
er opportunities in the Welfare Plan.
What Is Public Health?
By Dr. /. L. /ones, Utah State Health CommissioneT
PUBLIC health is the science On account of this, health is very
and art of preventing disease, much a concern of the public at
prolonging life and promot- large, it is a matter of public wel-
ing physical and mental efficiency fare."
through organized community The great educator, Charles W.
effort; -Dr. M. J. Rosenau, Emeri- Eliot, wrote: "Nothing is better
tus Professor of Public Health, Har- ^orth paying for than public health,
vard University. There is no more profitable form of
It is to be emphasized that public conservation than saving and pro-
health service has to do with the longing human life; and no more
promotion of positive health and abominable waste than that caused
the prevention of disease, in all their by preventable sickness and pre-
various aspects, but not with the mature death.''
treatment of disease. The entire Former President Herbert Hoover
field of medical care and corrective wrote of the purpose and value of
procedures is, and properly should public health in his message to Con-
be, the province of the practicing gress in 1929: "The advance in
physician and dentist. scientific discovery as to disease and
The purpose and value of public health, imposes new considerations
health service is briefly but well upon us. The Nation as a whole is
stated in the following statement by vitally interested in the health of all
the Public Health Advisory Com- the people; in protection from
mittee to the State Planning Board: spread of contagious disease; in the
"Next to the immediate needs of relation of physical and mental dis-
food and shelter, there is no matter abilities to criminality, and in the
of greater importance to the indi- economic and moral advancement
vidual or to the public at large than which is fundamentally associated
health. On it depends the individu- with sound body and mind. The
al's happiness as well as the efficiency organization of preventive measures
of work; whether he will be an asset and health education, in its personal
to the community, or a liability to application, is the province of pub-
the society of which he forms a part, lie health service. Such organiza-
The health of many individuals be- tion should be as universal as public
comes the health of a people. It education. Its support is a proper
may be said that the effectiveness of burden upon the taxpayer. It can
a whole people in their work of de- not be organized with success, either
velopment of the resources on which in its sanitary or educational phases,
they live, in their ability to enjoy except under public authority. It
life, as well as their power of repro- should be based upon local and state
duction and continuation of the responsibility, but I consider that
line of progress, depends on health, the Federal Government has an ob
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ligation of contribution, to the es-
tablishment of such agencies. . . ."
President Franklin D. Roosevelt,
while Governor of the State of New
York, wrote: 'The success or failure
of any government in the final analy-
sis must be measured by the well-
being of its citizens. Nothing can
he more important to a state than its
public health; the state's paramount
concern should be the health of its
people "
r\R. LOUIS I. DUBLIN, vice-pres-
ident and statistician of the
Metropolitan Life Insurance Com-
pany, in his book, ''Health and
Wealth" (pages 5-6), stated a
money-value of human life and
made a scientific estimate of the
amount wasted through failure to
conserve the greatest asset of any na-
tion—its human life. We quote Dr.
Dublin: "The value in dollars and
cents of the male and female popula-
tion of the United States is esti-
mated at one trillion, five hundred
billion dollars. This represents our
vital assets, assets in human lives.
"Our material wealth, consisting
of real property, livestock, machin-
ery, agricultural and mineral assets,
and manufactured products, is esti-
mated to be worth three hundred
and twenty-one billion dollars.
"Hence, our capital in human
lives exceeds our material wealth by
about five to one. Is it not, there-
fore, worth an expenditure of $2.50
per person per year to safeguard the
health of this mighty national asset,
human lives?
"Sickness costs directly in lost
wages, reduced production and nec-
essary sick care, two and one-quarter
billion dollars annually ($9,000,000
for Utah).
"The total capital value of lives
which can be saved every year
through the application of modern
preventive medicine and public
health measures is over six billion
dollars.
"Every year more than 30,000
young people between the ages of
25 and 29 die from entirely prevent-
able illnesses. Their capital value is
seven hundred and fifty million dol-
lars.
"Every year 120,000 babies die in
the first year of life from preventable
diseases, due either to the ignorance
of mothers, the indifference of the
communities where they live, or
both. The capital value of these
babies is seven hundred and fifty
million dollars.
"Not to provide adequate health
protection is to squander the greatest
asset in national life, allowing a
'pennywise, pound foolish' practice
to run up losses far more costly. Sick-
ness is always expensive. The cost
of preventing disease is seldom more
than a small fraction of the cost of
the disease itself.
"Economy in public health, there-
fore, demands adequate appropria-
tions for providing health services of
proven effectiveness in every locality
according to its needs."
Conservation of the human re-
source is one of our most imperative
public responsibilities.
The State Board of Health has
the legal responsibility for leadership
in this function.
GUARDING THE FAMILY HEALTH
By EIna MiJIer
Conference Address, Work and Business Department
THE question of guarding the
family health through nutri-
tion is one that is receiving not
only state-wide but national and in-
ternational attention.
At the League of Nations' Con-
vention a Nutrition Department was
conducted with representatives from
different countries in attendance.
Their report was that a great deal
of improvement has been made re-
cently in food consumption habits,
but there is still a great deal of mal-
nutrition present in all countries.
Their recommendation is that we
improve diets by increasing the use
of the supply of protective foods-
milk, fruits, proteins, and whole
grains.
Food supplies for optimum and
adequate diet are receiving a great
deal of attention now. The adequate
diet is one which has just enough
of the proper food elements to pre-
vent any serious disorders develop-
ing. The optimum diet, on the other
hand, is one which promotes the
most favorable degree of physical
development.
Dr. H. C. Sherman is largely re-
sponsible for the optimum diet. He
has done a great deal of research and
experimental work, largely with al-
bino rats and guinea pigs. To the
adequate diet he added more milk,
vitamins, proteins and the whole
grain cereals. The results of his
study show that optimum diet re-
sults in an increased rate of growth
and development during the grow-
ing period, increased adult vital-
ity after the adult stage is reached,
and also increased retention of the
characteristics of youth, more vigor,
and also an increased life span.
"lAT'HILE we have been doing a
great deal to improve the diet
of the child, we must still keep in
mind that the adult also needs the
right diet.
In about 1934 the Bureau of
Home Economics made a study of
the dietary habits of 25,000 families
in eight regions of the United States.
The only families considered in this
study were families who had defin-
ite incomes. Both urban and rural
communities were represented. Fam-
ilies were classified according to the
amount of money spent in a year's
time for the food supply— $50, $100,
$150, to above $350. From this study
we found that proper diet is not just
a case of getting enough money but
of spending money wisely. Many
families who were spending enough
money for a fully adequate diet, were
not getting it.
In analyzing each group for ade-
quacy, examinations were made to
determine if diets contained suffi-
cient minerals and vitamins. In de-
termining calcium adequacy, it was
found that less than half had a suf-
ficient supply, not enough for good
bone and tooth development, for
maintaining muscle tone, and mak-
ing it possible for the blood to clot
normally. Only about half were
getting enough iron— an essential
mineral. The best source of iron is
in whole grain cereals.
Only about one-fifth were getting
an adequate vitamin A supply, so
necessary for protecting lining tis-
sues. Tlie lack of vitamin A in
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sufficient quantities causes nutri-
tional night blindness; individuals
fail to make the proper adjustment
to light, especially during the twi-
light period of the day. This is being
given as one of the probable causes
of so many automobile accidents.
Vitamin B was found to be defi-
cient in the diets of about half of
those studied. An animal whose diet
is low in B is a nervous little crea-
ture. This is typical of the condi-
tion of children when they have a
low supply of vitamin B.
Diets low in vitamin C were found
in about the same number as those
low in vitamin B— just about half
of the group having sufficient. We
need this vitamin along with calci-
um and phosphorous. We find if
we can increase the supply of vita-
min C in the diet of people who
have sore gums, this condition will
clear up. Vitamin C will help to pre-
vent pyorrhea.
In 1934, 70 per cent of the 43,000
young men in the prime of life, who
should be in the very best possible
physical condition, who applied for
entrance in the U. S. Navy were re-
jected because of physical defects
largely due to malnutrition. The
year following, 1935, 75 per cent
of 28,000 were rejected.
COME of our people have been
quite disturbed because of the
reports of our findings through our
health examinations of school chil-
dren. These examinations are made
by our school physicians. Reports
from all of the counties in Utah are
similar; and from what we learn
from other states, conditions are not
\'ery much better there— some are
worse. People will say, "I know my
child is not malnourished." It seems
to be such a shock to people to tell
them that anything is wrong with
their children. Unfortunately, we
find a high percentage with physi-
cal disorders, poor posture, crooked
bones, etc. Much of this is due to
poor diet.
As I have gone into some of our
schools to select children as exam-
ples of well developed boys and
girls, I have found it exceptionally
hard to find good specimens. The
hair condition is one of the first
things we look for. The condition
of the young child, or any individu-
al for that matter, shows in the hair.
If the hair is dull and lifeless-look-
ing, we usually find nutritional dis-
orders.
Teeth examinations have been
quite revealing. Of one hundred and
sixty-eight school children exam-
ined, 7 were found with good teeth,
46 with bad teeth, 30 had very
bad teeth, and 85 had extremely
bad teeth. These children attend-
ed school in one of our well-to-do
communities. There is no good rea-
son, from an economic standpoint,
why the teeth of these children
should have been in such a con-
dition.
In one of our public clinics 16
babies were examined; 1 5 had defin-
ite signs of rickets. This is not a
very hopeful condition. It is not
hopeless, however, because we can
do much toward correction or pre-
vention. If we are going to guard
the family health through good nu-
trition, we must supply the mother,
in the prenatal period, with the right
kind of food. Tliis good beginning
must be carried on through the en-
tire life span of the individual.
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"lATE want to train the public in A whole grain cereal supply is
good food habits. Milk supply also important for iron and some
is important — one quart of milk of the vitamin B.
every day for the growing child, and We want a vitamin D and A sup-
preferably for the adult, in order to ply which we get from cod liver oil,
supply the needed calcium. Calcium or its equivalent. Cod liver oil is
comes from other sources also, but not a medicine; it is a food. All peo-
it is quite difficult to get enough pie do not need it; some can get
from these. enough from the natural foods, but
After milk we want to insure the many people, growing children and
vegetable supply. Three vegetables nursing mothers, should be taking
are needed— one leafy, green or yel- this vitamin either in the form of
low, one serving of potatoes, and one capsules or liquid,
serving of some other vegetable. Then there is our water supply.
Our fruit supply comes next. We Many people neglect this. Small
want at least two servings of fruit children should have four glasses,
in the diet every day. Our total of the next age group six glasses, and
five vegetables and fruits during the adults eight glasses per day.
day should include tomatoes, or cit- Rickets can be prevented by vita-
rus fruits. This is particularly im- min D, with calcium and phos-
portant in preventing scurvy. One of phorous.
these fruits or vegetables should be ''The education of the general
raw, so that we can get the tooth population in the principles of cor-
exercise and gum stimulation nee- rect eating, so that they may avoid
essary. dietary deficiency states and dan-
We need a sufficient quantity of gerous dietary fads and attain a max-
protein, which is so necessary in imum of resistance to disease and a
building muscle tissue, and which is nearer approach to a life of perfect
found in fish, eggs and meats. health," is of greatest concern to all.
ON BEING PRESENTED WITH A LOCKET
By Ruth Louise Partiidge
They stood beside me wide eyed, Nine and Six,
And put the golden trinket in my hand,
Child fashion.
With mouths drawn into rosebuds with their secret,
Both tried at once to make me understand.
I had coveted a locket all my life.
At nine and six gold filled me with amazes.
But now —
How strange it is that now it's cherished only
Because it holds a picture of their faces.
4 4
The Ancient Beautiful Things"
A Short Short Story
By Vesta P. Ciawfoid
JOHN WILSON sat on a round-
ed rock half way up a long hill
in the South Downs country.
Below him at the base of the white
sea cliffs the little village of Shore-
ham jutted out into the Channel. It
was a fine clear day, but John was
tired. He took off his worn shoes
and pressed his feet down into the
cool grass. The salty breeze swept up
the hills and ruffled the man's white
hair. Here he was in England again,
back home after so many years.
From his coat pocket he took out
a blue notebook, a small bottle of
ink, and his pen. He balanced the
book on his knee and began to write
slowly: 'Today is the tenth of
August, 1896. I am in my sixty-fifth
year and have been on this mission
nearly fourteen months. Here I am
in this lovely South Downs country,
the land of my birth. Shoreham, my
native village, lies below me. Forty
years ago I left this place and sailed
to America with my wife and child.
Forty years, and now I am back
again, a Mormon missionary tracting
in the very section where I played as
a youth.
''Forty years— so much has hap-
pened. The child we had then has
been dead thirty-nine years. My wife
died twenty years ago. I am very
poor in worldly goods. Yet, in Amer-
ica I found great wealth of spirit, joy
in the Gospel, and happiness with
my family.
"Utah is a strange country — so
very new. I realize this more fully
now as I sit on the hills above that
place where the ships of the Saxon
kings lay at anchor nearly a thousand
years ago. Near me, along the roads
that wind inland, are old castles and
steepled churches with intricate carv-
ings and stained glass windows. Not
far away is London with its great
museums and magnificent libraries
housing the art and culture of the
centuries. Indeed, when I think of
all this, I am more sympathetic than
ever with the efforts of my people in
the mountain valleys to bring educa-
tion and opportunity to their chil-
dren. It is I, and others like me,
who must take back all that we can
of the good things of the earth, the
ancient beautiful things "
JOHN closed the book and put it
•^ back in his pocket. He stood up,
stretched himself, and picked up his
shoes. He turned them upside down
to get the pebbles out. Then, when
the shoes were again neatly laced and
tied, he started slowly up the hill,
holding his head high, feeling the
wind on his face.
At the summit he stopped and
breathed deeply. How different
the moist air was from the dry at-
mosphere of Utah, the dusty, dry air
of the desert. He wondered how
things were going now, far away in
that little farming community
known as Dover. The hills, high
crested, blue, now would be glinting
in the hot sun of late summer; the
river, shrunken in its steep banks,
now would move slowly, drift along,
unruffled. His little adobe house
perched above the stream, how did
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it look? His fields, how would his
fields be now? Dry, withered, no
doubt, burned up with alkali— his
hard- won fields!
Now he took another look at the
sea beating endlessly against the
white cliffs, beating against the
shore. He turned around and walked
down the other side of the hill to-
ward Kingstone. Secluded, safe, the
village lay, coved in by the hills, its
crooked streets curved through 3
green meadow.
John thought of the long roads of
his Utah home, rutted, dusty, bor-
dered with sagebrush. Perhaps even
now, at this very moment, his daugh-
ter Maud might be walking along
the road toward the adobe house.
Dear Maud, black-haired, gray-eyed,
a frail little thing for being all of
twenty- two. And his daughter Kate,
where was she? Home in the house
singing, very likely, or perhaps out
in the garden. Let's see, it was
Maud's birthday this month and six
weeks later Kate would be twenty-
four.
What would he send them for
their birthdays? He couldn't spend
much money. If only he could find
something to bear a message from
England to these children of his,
something to carry the beauty and
culture of this mother country to the
far Utah valley— some token of a
father's love, to bridge the sea and
bring the green hills of England and
the gray hills of Utah close together.
It was nearly sundown when John
came into Kingstone. Ahead of him
he could see a second-hand book
store. Nearly every village in Eng-
land had them, crowded little shops
where you might find anything from
an Atlas of the World to a first edi-
tion of Shakespeare. John never
could pass a bookstore without at
least looking. How he loved books.
How his daughters loved books.
Books, that was it. Books are the
carriers of all ancient beautiful
things. They bear messages of hope
and achievement and high thoughts
from one generation to another,
from one land to another, from great
minds to lesser minds. Books are the
treasure chests of the ages.
He read title after title. He kept
saying to himself, 'Td better hurry
along. I really can't afford to buy
books."
Then he saw them right together,
two volumes— The Poems of Eliza-
beth Barrett Browning, and the
other. The Poems oi Felicm Hemans.
Both were selling for three shillings.
John's fingers touched the good
leather bindings. The title letters
were written in gold.
He turned the pages of the Brown-
ing volume. He scanned the immor-
tal words of that Elizabeth who said
she was "but a cricket," compared
to her husband, the great Robert,
who was *'a mandolin". John turned
the pages. He noted the perfection
of the lines of poetry, the music of
the words ''Because God's gifts
put man's best dreams to shame. . ."
John laid the volume down and
picked up the Hemans poems. He
turned to his favorite, that great
American poem, written by an Eng-
lish poetress— The Landing of the
Pilgiims "The breaking waves
dashed high on a stern and rock-
bound coast, and the woods against
a stormy sky their giant branches
tossed "
npHE Englishman from America
handed the two volumes across
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the counter. 'Til take both of these/' he said. "Here's the address— The
he said, and took three schillings out Misses Kate and Maud Wilson,
of his purse. Dover, Sanpete County, Utah, U. S.
He stood there and wrote on the A."
fly-leaf of the Browning volume: It was dusk when he came out of
'To my dear daughter Kate, with the shop. Deep quiet lay upon the
best birthday wishes, from your fa- village and stretched away to the
ther in England, 1896." Upon the hills. Peace and beauty. John
fly-leaf of the other, he penned in thought again of the land of his birth
"large letters: 'To my darling Maud, and the land of his adoption. He
many happy returns of your natal thought of the sea and ships and the
day, from your father across the sea." long roads in Utah. He thought-
John laid a fourth shilling on the I have sent some of England home
counter. "Mail these books, please," to America.
WALLS
By Gertrude Perry Stanton
Walls may be built of brick or stone
To hedge in what one calls his own;
Sometimes they're made so wide and high
They shut out all the sun and sky,
And human lives must forfeit pay
For walls built in a selfish way.
Walls may be built by thoughts inclined
To lead to words and deeds unkind;
Then soon come bitterness and pain.
Until repentance is in vain.
Watch well your thoughts and acts each day
That no foundation you may lay
To build a wall of hate or doubt,
And thus shut love and friendship out.
HAPIPENIN
By Annie Wells Cannon
\ UGUST— How can human heart
conceive a thought of wrong
In a world aglow with beauty, rhap-
sody and song?
T ADY ASTOR, Virginia born,
member of Parliament, recent-
ly won a debate against her antagon-
ist, a burly Scotch Highlander, by
presenting him with a deer park on
which he was proposing high taxes.
ALICE MARBLE, Helen Hull
Jacobs and Sarah P. Fabyan,
three American tennis champions,
carried off the honors again this year
at Wimbledon.
gARONESS LIZETTE VON
CAPRI, Swiss aviatrix, made a
good will tour of the United States
this summer. She contemplates or-
ganizing a woman's ambulance corps
affiliated with the Red Cross.
A DA PATTERSON, noted news-
paper woman, who recently
died in Florida was at one time as-
sociated with the Salt Lake Herald
and an early member of the Utah
Women's Press Club.
jyt AY ROBSON was signally hon-
ored by the American Institute
of Cinematography for her fifty-six
years of achievement on the stage
and screen.
pHEBE LOUISE HOLMES
^ WELLING, a daughter of Utah
pioneers, who recently died was a
daughter of Elmira Coles, first treas-
urer of the Relief Society in Nauvoo.
TANE BALLANTYNE ANDER-
^ SON whose death occurred last
month was an ardent worker in the
cause of education and social work
and will be greatly missed.
QRACE ABBOTT, famed social
worker and head of the United
States Children's Bureau for 14
years, died last June in Chicago.
Miss Abbott's career as a welfare
worker was a 30 year fight against
infant and maternity mortality,
child labor, and juvenile delinquen-
cy.
WILHELMINA GARN
^^ ROGERS of Ogden, Utah,
died last month nearing her 104th
birthday. What memories, inven-
tions, discoveries, wars, thrones gain-
ed and lost, unfolded during her life
of more than a century. One mar-
vels at the miracle.
A GNES KEITH, a Californian,
was awarded the $5,000 Atlan-
tic Monthly prize for her book
"Land Below The Wind", the most
distinctive non-fiction story; while
Maurine Whipple of Utah won the
Houghton Mifflin fellowship prize
of $1,000 for her novel ''The Giant
Joshua" and Mary King of New Or-
leans and Helen Todd of St. Louis
also won literary fellowships for new
novels.
PATHARINE OGLESBY has
written and issued a lovely illus-
trated book on Indian arts, describ-
ing the pottery, weaving, basketry,
carving, etc., of the different tribes of
the Great Plateau.
THE REUEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON ----- President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER - - - Second Counselor
JULIA A. F. LUND _..---- General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Amy Whipple Evans Emeline Y. Nebeker Leda T. Jensen
Emma A. Empey Rosannah C. Irvine Janet M. Thompson Beatrice F. Stevens
Annie Wells Cannon Nettie D. Bradford Belle S. Spafford Rae B. Barker
Lalene H. Hart Ida P. Beal Donna Durrant Sorensen Nellie O. Parker
Cora L. Bennion Marcia K. Howells Vivian R. McConkie Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor --------.-... Belle S. Spa'ford
Manager ----------- Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI AUGUST, 1939 No. 8
EDITOHIAL
,yx y^olaen cJuture
<^TN the laboratories of today the
future is being born." Scien-
tists predict some interesting devel-
opments in their workshops that will
intimately affect the life of the aver-
age man, adding to his comfort and
increasing his well-being. Indeed,
we may say with Dr. Millikan, ''a
golden future lies ahead". But he
adds: "This is based on the assump-
tion that civilization will not be de-
stroyed by man's present or pros-
pective wickedness, stupidity or folly.
The most burning and uncertain sit-
uation about the future has to do
with social and political matters."
He says he knows of no direct way
in which science can turn some new
type of ray upon human individuals
and transform them from lust-filled
creatures into humanitarians. This
must be accomplished in other lab-
oratories than that of the scientist.
A golden tomorrow can only be
assured if the highly perfected prod-
ucts of science are utilized by highly
perfected characters. The labora-
tories of citizenship— the home, the
school, the church, and the commu-
nity—must be as patient, tireless and
intelligent in the production of fine
characters as is science in the prod-
ucts of its laboratories.
"The youth of today is the citizen
of tomorrow." Beginning life at a
time when vast social changes are
taking place, it must be fitted to
meet the challenge of its day.
The home, the initial laboratory,
must recognize its responsibility and
opportunity. It must realize that
within its sacred precincts the basic
elements of good character are most
readily established. Here ideals
which direct the course of conduct
throughout life are most easily in-
culcated. The home should impress
upon young people that the only
tool they have to work with is them-
selves, and whatever tempers them
to truer steel, whatever compels
them to adjust their efforts to their
obstacles is the best thing that can
happen to them. It must help them
to realize that persons grow big not
only doing big things but also doing
lesser things in a big way. It must
teach them that they owe something
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to the world not that the world it has great need for men trained to
owes them, and that the world which work with the hands as well as for
lies ahead for them will be of their men trained to work at a desk,
own making. The influence of the church in
The future of our country has al- moulding character must be felt in
ways been dependent upon the edu- tomorrow's world. Its imprint must
cation of its young men and women be seen in the deep-seated desire of
—education which builds up a sense individuals to do right; motivating
of responsibility to help develop a conduct, it must function in making
cultural civilization and a better the Golden Rule a reality,
world. Every child has a right to The community can best dis-
an education. This does not neces- charge its responsibility by provid-
sarily mean a university education, ing opportunities for healthful recre-
but rather a right to the education ation and constructive activities,
for which his talents and tastes fit This is important in making the
him. Children are differently en- youth of today the useful citizen of
dowed, and if our schools are to ade- tomorrow. Playgrounds, libraries,
quately function as a laboratory for recreation rooms, ball parks, tennis
tomorrow's citizenship they must of- courts, health clinics, music centers,
fer a curriculum which will provide lectures, club activities, gymnasiums,
opportunities for the varying apti- art centers should be made available
tudes, interests and abilities of youth, and their activities directed to meet
and they must help each individual the special needs of youth,
to see the need of his special endow- The work of developing a fine
ment in the world's work. The pres- citizen is a big one. It is beyond the
ent tendency toward trade schools ability of any one agency to accom-
and vocational institutes is a recog- plish alone. But if each sees its in-
nition of the varying educational dividual responsibility and meets
needs of youth. Too many parents that responsibility, the citizen of to-
have felt that any kind of position morrow should be a superior one.
in a well furnished office, even doing In the laboratories of today the
the most uninteresting routine work, future is indeed being born. The
was somehow superior to a job which laboratories of citizenship must not
required work with the hands. But fail to keep abreast with the labor-
the world is fast teaching us that atories of science.
^^lyiANY people have risen to wealth and prominence without giving
any consideration to spiritual values. But history fails to record
among all the outstanding figures of the world one who ignored the spiritual
side of life and continued to make his influence broadly felt. ... It is the
duty of mature citizens to point out to youth the importance of spiritual
ideals as a spur to lasting success."— ''Spiritual Inventory," by Thomas J.
Watson, Think Magazine.
The Shining Heart
By Sibyl Spande Bowen
CHAPTER SEVEN
BY THE time Robert Lathrop
had reached the bottom of
Queen Anne Hill, he was of
the opinion that Miss Brill hadn't
supplied him with any evidence. He
even doubted the evidence of his
own senses that had first led him on
this windmill-tilting expedition.
Standing in the shelter of the bus
stop on Westlake was Nell Carey,
her red hair in damp tendrils on her
tweed collar with the mist of the
slight rain that was falling.
Rob drew up at the curb and beck-
oned to her. It was the Delavan hair
all right. And he'd say to the court,
''Gentlemen, I give you this perfect
copy of the Delavan hair tint and ask
you to accept her as the missing heir-
ess." And the court would say mild-
ly, ''But is there a missing heiress?
Nobody ever asked us to find one."
He said out loud, disgustedly, "And
isn't it the truth."
"Isn't what the truth, my cryptic
friend?" Nell inquired.
Rob did not answer. He looked
at the girl and was confused at his
own reaction.
"If I'd known you were coming
to town, you could have driven in
with me," he said, needing to make
conversation. Then suddenly, as Nell
sat near him, Sally Delavan's hysteri-
cal scream rang in his ears, "You're
in love with her, that's what!" Was
he? He stole another look at the
girl, and his heart began to pound
like a schoolboy's. He shook his head
impatiently— pure suggestion, that.
"Look out! You'll land us in the
lake!" Nell cried.
"Or in the lap of the law," Rob
said grimly. "Sit tight. There's a
boat coming up the locks. Let's make
it before the bridge goes up."
Recklessly they dodged in and out
of traffic and reached the middle of
the bridge just as the guard came out
to halt the traffic.
"I've always," Rob declared, "had
an urge to stay on the bridge until
it's completely up. Some day I'm
going to do it."
Nell said promptly, "You'd roll
off, of course, the minute it began
to rise."
"That's so," he admitted, undis-
turbed. "Anyway, it's a grand
thought."
"And once," Nell said, "I thought
you were thirty-five."
"Did you?" he said, delighted. "I
didn't think you gave me a thought
of any kind. Miss High-and-Mighty
in a green smock, stalking through
the corn like avenging justice with a
hoe in her hand!"
Nell laughed at this picture, and
Rob laughed with her. Very gay,
they were, aloud. But secretly each
one was gnawing at a small tight
knot of apprehension, hoping for the
success of things hopeless in their
very nature.
"And what," said Robert Lathrop,
"were you up to in Seattle, if one
may ask?"
Nell hesitated. "I was delivering
my picture to be entered in the con-
test."
540 - AUGUST, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Lathrop's good humor dropped thought. ''Go your own way/' he
from him like a cloak. He scowled, said morosely. ''For myself, I decline
"Fm sorry. You're just riding for a to go back to planning old ladies'
good hard bump." kitchens when I could create man-
'1 don't think so/' Nell retorted, sions. I prefer to go down to the
'1 know Fm no Whistler, but I opposition."
think I have a fair chance to win Nell laughed. "And I may be mak-
something." She understated. Really, ing Dutch Boy book ends in ten
she expected first place. If Rob but years. Who knows?" But in her
knew it, it was his own praise that heart she did not think so. There
had given her this hope. was success before her in a shining
''I'hat's what I thought, once. aura. There must be, for the sake
Slaved away in college like an earnest of Aunt Brill's faith in her.
little fool, spent a year East, worked Rob looked at her cynically, as if
in my dad's architectural office for he read her thoughts. 'Tou are still
two years, all to find out I couldn't so frightfully young," he sighed, "it's
even pass muster with a lousy little too bad you have to wake up." They
library," he growled savagely, step- made him feel like a skeleton at a
ping hard on the accelerator. feast, these Careys, with their eternal
So that was his trouble! Robert optimism, their utter unconcern over
Lathrop had entered a design in the their poverty. And that Ulysses thing
Graham Library contest— and lost. Nell was always quoting: "To seek,
Nell looked at him thoughtfully. to find, and not to yield." It would
"That was just the opinion of a get past his guards yet.
few people," she said gently. "You "I'm having a wheelchair sent out
lost faith in yourself too soon." for Miss Brill," he said abruptly.
"Too soon!" he echoed excitedly, "Mr. Lathrop! Oh, that's wonder-
"after seven years of it? That contest ful. I—"
was all in the bag before a single He cut in, "She needs to get out
'contest' plan was sent in. I suppose in the sun," he explained,
you expect a man to be a second "I know," Nell admitted. "She
Jacob serving for his Rachel— start all ought to be down on the desert for
over again, with a grin on his face, the winter."
when he finds he's drawn a Leah." If they had the money, that's
"Something like that," Nell per- where they'd go, both of them. Art
sisted sturdily. "Every person in this lessons overboard, forgotten, Rob
world who has done anything worth thought excitedly. Get ready for
while has had to do it in spite of another pitched battle, Sally Dela-
sorrowing friends who hate to see van, because I'm going to make it.
him make a fool of himself. If you This girl isn't going to be another
are ready to go down before the first sacrifice on the altar of second-rate
opposition you run into— the fact is, art if I can help it!
art takes time, and I'm willing to Rob's eyes shone. He almost miss-
use mine that way." ed the car that passed them, a car
And bend those straight little driven by Fred Nagle, with the hun-
shoulders into a weary hump with gry-eyed Miss Lola Twillham beside
fruitless years over an easel, Lathrop him. Not too late, Fred glanced back
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 541
and saw Nell and Rob, so that he
almost ran off the road staring at the
two in Lathrop's car.
Rob laughed, "Does he look con-
science stricken, or is that my
gloomy imagination? And he's driv-
ing so recklessly. Must be doing all
of thirty-five."
'Toor Fred," Nell sighed, "I'm
afraid I'll never understand chickens
as I should. Miss Twillham is an in-
spiration to him."
"I've noticed that," said Rob drily.
Why must a girl like Nell be put to
it to choose between a moldy old
palette and a dull, unimaginative
chap like Fred? More power to the
efforts of Miss Twillham, but he
was afraid even Fred would have the
sense to prefer Nell's flower-like
charm to the mousy-haired Twilly.
^^PjO you remember your parents?"
he asked Nell abruptly.
She looked at him quickly. "No.
Why?"
"I— just wondered if the red hair
ran in the Carey family," Rob said
lamely.
"My father was not a Carey," Nell
answered quietly, "I don't know who
he was— nor my mother either."
"How did you discover that?" Rob
burst out. Miss Brill had certainly
not told her.
"An old man told me," Nell said.
"It was torture for a time, but now
it doesn't make any difference. Aunt
Brill's been more than a mother to
me. She mustn't know that I know.
It would break her heart," she warn-
ed sharply.
"She won't find out from me,"
Rob promised, "and she certainly
won't find out from—" He stopped
in time.
"From whom?"
"Did anyone," Rob asked, "ever
tell you how much you resemble
Sallv Delavan?"
"Do I? She's— beautiful, you
know," Nell exclaimed. "Her pic-
ture was in the paper awhile ago,
and Mary Kelly looked at it, then at
me, and got quite excited. Do I
really look like her?"
"Oh, she's not so wonderful," Rob
said, and added hastily, "her looks
are all right, but she doesn't measure
up to them."
"Oh, don't say that! Do you
know, I saw her once— at Maddoxes.
She fascinates me. She's mysterious,
as though she'd had a great sorrow
in her life."
"She's had one, all right, but it's
not the one she thinks it is," Robert
said grimly. "Her biggest sorrow is
her own selfish heart. She's had the
cream of everything all her life, and
she wouldn't give up a bit of it— even
to a starving cat. That is, she thinks
she wouldn't. She'll find out!"
They were on the last bit of road
to the gray house. Nell was silent.
She seemed to have no more to say
of Sally Delavan. Rob told himself
he was a fool to have mentioned
her. What if nothing came of his
efforts? If they succeeded, what
then? Nell's life would be hopelessly
confused by the claims of the two
women, for if Sally once admitted
Nell's identity, she would attempt
to absorb her entire being. She had
done that with others she had loved.
Said Nell abruptly, "You haven't
wished me luck yet, about the pic-
ture."
Rob frowned. "You know what I
think, but if there's any luck to be
squeezed out of the whole dreary
mess, I wish you to have it, with all
542 - AUGUST, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
my heart. End of the Hne. Every-
body out." And a good thing it was,
almost ready to make some kind of
fool of himself, as he was.
^^'M'ELL, I want to talk to you." It
was Fred's voice, behind them.
He was sitting between two closely-
placed fir trees south of the house,
in the little seat Nell had built there,
waiting for the girl to come.
Nell flashed Rob a glance and
climbed out of the car. She went
over to Fred slowly and sat on an old
stump some distance from the young
man. Rob was about to drive on to
the old barn where he kept his car
when Miss Brill called to him from
the house.
"What is that contraption they
put in the kitchen?" she demanded
sharply. "Some impudent fellows
walked in without so much as by-
your-leave and left the thing here
half an hour ago."
"Didn't you ask them?" Rob in-
quired.
"I did not! Do you think I want
strange men traipsing into my room
answering questions, and Mary Kelly
not here?" cried Miss Brill indig-
nantly. "What did they leave?"
"It looks," said Rob, standing in
Miss Brill's door, "like a chair for
ladies of leisure."
"A what?"
"Common people might call it a
wheel chair," Rob expanded, seating
himself in the carpet rocker, "but—"
"Wheel chair!" exploded Miss
Brill, her cheeks pink, "what do I
want with a thing like that? I'm go-
ing to be up on my own feet in a
week or two. Whoever had the
nerve!"
"A weak-minded fellow who
thought you'd like to beat nature by
a few days and get around in the
sunshine a bit," Rob admitted, twirl-
ing his hat and fixedly gazing at the
portrait of the departed Tom Carey.
Miss Brill stared at him a moment.
Her lips trembled, and she blew her
nose vigorously. "I'm— just an un-
grateful old woman," she sniffed,
wiping her eyes. "You know, Rob,"
she said damply, "I can see now why
women are so daft about their sons.
Somehow the things a boy does to
please you— they're so young and
clumsy."
"Think nothing of it," Rob said
uncomfortably, and they both fell
into a silence, in which Fred Nagle's
voice boomed like a near-by loud
speaker just turned on.
"—and she thought you'd be sore
at me— thought you'd think I was—
well— interested in her," Fred said,
"while all I— well, she does know a
lot about chickens. Some of the
newer ideas that have just come
out."
They could hear Nell's slight
laugh. "Why, of course, Fred, I un-
derstand. Tell Miss Twillham I'm
glad you have her to talk with. I'm
so little help about the chickens."
"It isn't only chickens," Fred said
baldly. "I took her to a picture, and
we had dinner at the cafeteria."
"Oh," said Nell in a small voice.
It struck Rob for the first time
that to her Nell's romance was not
humorous. It was deadly serious. He
jumped up guiltily.
"I can tiptoe out of this," he whis-
pered to Miss Brill, "but you have to
stay here and be an eavesdropper.
Now don't you wish you were in
your wheelchair?"
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But Miss Brill looked quite satis- Rob shot back, "Fred's no easy
fied. *'I never thought that Twill- mark."
ham woman looked much like an ''Oh, I hope so," said Miss Brill,
angel— but you never can tell/' she ''He's got to be, because Nell's such
declared in a tense whisper, and a goose herself; that woman's my
waved Rob out. only hope."
"Don't bank too much on Twilly," (To be continued)
THE GREATER HAPPINESS
By Adeline Rasmussen Ensign
My girlhood years were filled with dreams
Of rising up to fame.
To spend my time in study
Till I had the world's acclaim;
I'd strive to reach the topmost heights
Of what I called success,
And there, in rivalled splendor,
I would find my happiness.
And so I studied how to sing,
But then love came along,
And listening to my eager heart
I learned a sweeter song;
It was the song of happiness
That love alone can bring.
The tender song of faith and hope
That only mothers sing.
And sometimes now I dream again
My dreams of long ago.
And see in them a loneliness
That now I'll never know,
For though I did not reach the heights
That once I called success,
I found that only love can bring
The greater happiness.
Eliza Roxey Snow Memorial
Poem Contest
THE Eliza Roxey Snow Relief
Society Memorial Prize Poem
Contest is conducted annually
by the Relief Society General Board.
Three prizes are awarded— a first
prize of $15, a second prize of $10,
and a third prize of $5. The prize
poems are published each year in
the January issue of the Relief
Society Magazine. Prize winning
poems are the property of the Relief
Society General Board and may not
be used for publication by others ex-
cept upon written permission from
the General Board.
The General Board reserves the
right to publish any of the other
poems submitted, paying for the
published poems at the regular Mag-
azine rates.
The contest opens each year upon
publication of the announcement in
the August number of the Magazine,
and closes October 15.
Rules oi the Contest
1. This contest is open to all Lat-
ter-day Saint women.
2. Only one poem may be sub-
mitted by each contestant.
3. The poem should not exceed
fifty lines, and should be typewritten,
if possible; where this cannot be
done it should be legibly written.
4. The sheet on which the poem
is written should be without signa-
ture or other identifying marks.
5. Only one side of the paper
should be used.
6. Each poem must be accom-
panied by a stamped envelope, on
which should be written the contest-
ant's name and address. Nom de
plumes should not be used.
7. Statement should accompany
the poem submitted that it is the
contestant's original work, that it has
never been published, that it is not
now in the hands of an editor, or
other person, with a view of publica-
tion, and that it will not be pub-
lished nor submitted for publication
until the contest is decided.
8. Members of the General Board
and persons connected with the Re
lief Society office force are not elig-
ible to enter this contest.
9. A writer who has received the
first prize for two consecutive years
must wait two years before she is
again eligible to enter the contest.
10. The judges shall consist of one
member of the General Board, one
person selected from the English
department of a reputable education-
al institution, and one from among
the group of persons who are recog-
nized as writers.
1 1 . The poems must be submitted
not later than October 15.
12. All entries should be address-
ed to Eliza R. Snow Memorial Poem
Gontest Committee, 28 Bishop's
Building, Salt Lake City, Utah.
The Magazine, A Medium
For Growth
By Dorothy Clapp Rohinson
(Conference Address, Magazine Department)
GROWTH, as I see it, is a Hft- movement of our time. Up-to-date
ing up to higher ideals, a information and instruction on Re-
reaching out to broader activi- hef Society welfare work is also con-
ties, an expansion of vision that de- tained in the Magazine,
velops sympathy and understanding. CREATIVE: What a world of
To what extent does the Magazine opportunity that word covers. Did
promote such development? Years you know the Magazine is doing a
of reading and study have indicated unique work in helping to develop
five points of growth. While easily writers of the Intermountain West?
identified, there is no sharp distinc- It offers a sympathetic, understand-
tion between them, for each unites ing market, while in no way letting
with and supplements the others, down the bars to admit sloppy work.
These points are: Intellectual, so- I have been especially interested in
cial, creative, vision and spiritual. the growth of poets in the Church
INTELLECTUAL: To stimulate as evidenced by the Eliza R. Snow
intellectual growth one must have poetry contest. Some of our poets
mental food that is timely, instruc- are taking a place among the out-
tive, thought-provoking and chal- standing poets of the nation,
lenging. All material in the Maga- While not much space is devoted
zine may be said to come under this to art, the make-up of the Magazine
head it is true, yet the lessons and is a work of art. The paper is easy on
a certain type of article especially tired eyes. The type is easily read
promotes this growth. by young and old. The art repro-
SOCIAL: In this line the Maga- duced is of the highest type and fos-
zine offers a great deal. The Social ters an appreciation of the same. I
Service and Family Relationship les- especially like the illustrated poems
sons not only prepare our women to used as frontispieces,
fit into community betterment pro- The love and knowledge of music
grams but actually help prevent com- is being definitely fostered in the
munity delinquency by developing wards and stakes by the illustrations
them into better wives and mothers, of and notes about the Singing
These lessons are excellent supple- Mothers as well as by the Music De-
mentary material for students of so- partment proper,
ciology. Articles on sociology and So much for the finer arts. In the
social legislation are timely and tied interest of creative work done with
to our everyday living. The Maga- the hands there is no end of sugges-
zine keeps us informed about the tions: Fancywork, remodeling hints.
Church Welfare Program which, to recipes, illustrations, gardening, notes
me, is the most significant social on Mormon Handicraft and Deseret
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Industries. Every issue contains about other women and thus make
something along these Hues. The ar- their own problems easier to solve,
tides on nutrition have a money They may find out what is going on
value for any homemaker. This in the wards, stakes, and missions
point of growth appeals to a wide and gain a viewpoint that cannot be
range of readers, from the weaver of obtained from attendance at meet-
words to the cook. ings alone. A world view of Relief
What is VISION? To me it is Society may be obtained— what it
seeing beyond present obstacles to stands for, what it is accomplishing,
future opportunity. It is finding new its place among world organizations,
ways to present old material. It is This alone is justification for the
having faith in the future in spite of Magazine's existence,
present discouragement. A prophet SPIRITUAL: In the teaching of
said that without it the people per- children educators acknowledge two
ish. Certainly growth is the re- kinds of learning. The first is that
suit of vision. Unless its officers which comes by word of mouth from
have vision Relief Society can never the teacher or through books. The
accomplish that for which it was or- second comes by virtue of what the
ganized. The Magazine broadens the teacher is: Her poise, her voice, her
vision of Relief Society officers. ethics— in short, her personality. The
To agents and membership co-or- Magazine has a definite and dynamic
dinators the use of the Magazine is personality. Greater than facts, more
imperative. How can they transmit far-reaching than precepts is the in-
a vision of the work without it? To fluence of its strong, spiritual person-
tell all the essential features of Re- ality. It is around and about and
lief Society would take more time through every line of every issue. To
than any one woman has to spare, place one's finger on the reasons for
A magazine can tell it in odd mo- this is not easy, but editorials, in-
ments over a period of time. ferences, theology lessons, absence
Husbands, through the Magazine, of questionable advertising, stories
may get a vision of the power and of people of high moral integrity,
scope of Relief Society. Too often each has its influence; but the great-
their knowledge of it is limited to est reason is the spirit back of the
the work done by their wives. Given work.
understanding they will give their Here then is material— a ladder
support more freely. Bishops who for growth. What is done with it
need a comprehensive view of the depends on the individual. Certain-
work can find it here and can also ly, if used, it will lift our women and
find help in directing their welfare our organizations to higher ideals of
work. intellectual, creative and social activ-
Lay members find many avenues ities. Vision will be broadened,
of development in the pages of the bringing sympathy and understand-
Magazine. Tlirough it they may con- ing; when this becomes Church and
tact the minds and personalities of nation wide, it will lead to a univer-
the General Board. They may read sal sisterhood.
Magazine Drive
CTAKES and missions are again
preparing for the annual Maga-
zine Drive, which in most places is
conducted from September 15 to
October 15. The unusual success of
the 1938 Drive forecasts another
outstanding achievement in 1939.
The Membership Drive, which has
increased enrollment figures in prac-
tically every ward and branch, gives
renewed impetus to the work of
Magazine representatives.
Our Goal
The goal of the Drive is a subscrip-
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lief Society members— active, honor-
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Grouping
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However, in some cases two Re-
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years have been very successful. The
circulation of the Magazine has
steadily increased. The General
Board extends its appreciation and
best wishes for a banner year in 1939.
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ESCAPE
By Aiton Clegg
Oh come away with me today
Where woods are still and green;
I know a pool, so deep and cool,
We never will be seen.
Forget awhile your dusty file,
Oh leave your desk and play;
The world won't mind if it can't find
You for a single day.
MORMON HANDICRAFT
By Nellie O. Parker
uLighiights
Needles and pins, needles and pins.
When a girl marries her trouble begins.
There's dishes and doilies, cushions and
quilts.
And rugs for the floor if a home's to be
built.
A hint is sufficient, enough for the wise.
There's a shop full of choice and varied
supplies;
Mormon Handicraft offers the loveliest
things
To make the "Home Beautful" where
happiness sings.
THE business of homemaking is
a very important one, in fact
one of the most important in
the world. Home implies more than
just a house or rooms to live in and
things to live with. The home
should be the fountain head of true
living and real happiness. It should
be a haven, a warm, gay, loving re-
fuge to its members. To be this it
must be comfortable and usable as
well as beautiful, and it should be
built upon the rock of durability to
stand the wear and tear of full living
and long service.
Handmade articles of quality and
fine workmanship help to build a
real home. Their genuineness and
potentiality for long service gives a
feeling of permanence and stability.
Their beauty and distinctiveness
add character to the home and give
a satisfying delight that makes them
a joy forever. They administer to
both the body and the spirit which
is so essential to abundant living.
During the month of June Mor-
mon Handicraft paid $836.91 to
women for articles that were sold.
The records are showing a steady
increase in business, but the sales
are not yet sufficient to pay all ex-
penses of the Shop. There is a
monthly overhead for rent, heat,
lights, equipment, etc., which must
be met if our enterprise is to be
self-supporting and permanent. The
General Board has been making up
the deficit. The Advisory Commit-
tee feels that with the support of our
own local people this very worthy
project can be self-maintained. The
aim is not to make a profit but to
make just enough to cover expenses.
The aim is also to give our women as
much as possible for their work and
still keep prices low enough for
people generally to buy.
Our prices are not high when qual-
ity and workmanship are considered.
They are lower than machine-made
articles of the same quality. They
are more economical in the long
run because our articles will out-
wear cheaper grades many times.
Then, also, there is the good feeling
that comes from loyalty to home
people and home projects.
MUSIC DEPARTMENT
(^ioaccmno J/tntomo LK
ossini
By Janet M.
AMONG the many lovely mu-
sical numbers used by the Re-
lief Society Singing Mothers per-
haps no one composition holds
greater general interest then Ros-
sini's Jnfiammatus. The popular-
ity of this number may be attribut-
ed to the fact that it not only af-
fords excellent opportunity for
combined solo and chorus work,
but it also provides a particular type
of melody that immediately engages
the attention of its listeners.
Gioacchino Antonio Rossini was
born in Pesare, Feb. 29, 1792, the
only child of Giusippi Rossini.
At a very early age he displayed
marked musical talent. He first
learned to play a harpsichord. Under
the tutelage of Angelo Tesei he soon
learned to read, to accompany and
to sing well enough to take solos in
church.
When about 10 years of age. Che-
valier Guisti, commanding engineer
of Bologna, became very much inter-
ested in Rossini. He read and ex-
plained the Italian poets to him
and helped him to comprehend
the possibilities of his inborn ta-
lent and the ideals he should strive
for, and it was due to the efforts of
this distinguished gentleman that
Rossini owed the stimulation of
his genius.
He produced his first opera when
18 years of age. Between 1815 and
1823 twenty others had been pro-
duced. His friends at one time dis-
puted as to which was his best
(composer of ilnfiammatus
Thompson
opera and appealed to him for an
opinion. Rossini said, "You want
to know which of my works I like
best— Don Giovanni." Perhaps this
opera is not so familiar to Ameri-
cans as Barber oi Saville. This latter
opera was written in 13 days— an
incredible feat.
His position among the world's
greatest composers has been much
discussed. His happy disposition and
light-hearted manner have been
used as arguments against classing
him with such profound composers
as Mozart and Beethoven. How-
ever, we do know that Rossini's me-
lodies are conspicuous for great
sweetness. His compositions were in-
tended to please the public for
whom he wrote, and they fulfilled
their mission. "Rossini possessed
genius of an extraordinary character,
yet many are inclined to believe that
his inventive faculties were confined
within quite measured limits. In
spite of all this there can be no
doubt that his compositions form
a memorable epoch in the history
of musical art.
He died Nov. 13, 1868. He be-
queathed to Bologna Institute an
annual sum of £240 for a competi-
tion both in dramatic poetry and
composition, specifying particularly
that the object of the prize should
be to encourage composers with a
turn for melody. He also gave the
greater part of his property to the
foundation and endowment of a
conservatory of music at his native
town, Pesare.
Tlobiiu
FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretary
Hollywood Stake
'T^HE picture is of a grand Song
Festival held by a group of Re-
lief Society Singing Mothers, May
19, 1939. This delightful event was
held in the Hollywood Stake under
the direction of the Stake Relief So-
ciety. The Singing Mothers from
Southern California, which included
Hollywood, Pasadena, San Bernardi-
no, Long Beach and Los Angeles
Stakes, presented the very wonderful
event as a climax to their season's
work. The combined chorus repre-
sented 350 women. In addition to
the beautifully presented music
''Our Town," the Pulitzer prize-win-
ning play by Wilder, was read by
Mrs. Jean Spencer Farr. The chor-
uses participated in this as numbers
were required. The ensemble num-
bers were conducted by Mrs. Mary
B. }ex, chorister of the Hollywood
Stake.
Following this delightful hour of
drama and music, refreshments were
served in the patio. The event was a
memorable one in every particular
and demonstrated the fine training
and the spirit of cooperation which
enables Relief Society women to do
fine and artistic work.
Beaver Stake
I7ROM the Beaver Stake we are in
receipt of a very fine account of
the celebration which was held in
the Milford Ward recreation hall
March 17, the anniversary of Relief
Society. It was particularly interest-
ing that this date was also the 34th
year of the organization of the Mil-
ford Ward Relief Society.
The program was inspired by the
anniversaries commemorated. A
beautiful pageant which presented
the history of the Milford Ward Re-
lief Society as well as the background
of the early organization was read.
Music formed a very important part
of the program. Refreshments were
served following the program. The
decorations were in keeping with the
day.
A - t ' fl'
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RELIEF SOCIETY SlNfrlNG MOTHERS
bp SOUTHERN CALIF.''
OF THE CHURCH OF JfSUS CHRIST
LATTER DAY SAINTS 5-19-1939
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FAMILY RELATIONS GROUP, IDAHO FALLS STAKE
Idaho Falls Stake
ANOTHER activity which has
been a source of satisfaction and
demonstrates the resourcefulness
and abiHty of ReHef Society women,
comes to us in the report from Idaho
Falls Stake. In addition to the excel-
lence of the regular work which has
been accomplished in this stake, a
delightful report comes of the activi-
ties of the young mothers in the
Family Relations group. Many en-
thusiastic young mothers have made
great effort to join the group. The
picture shows this class of young
women. Many of these have small
children and for that reason have not
been as active as they wished to be
in the Organization work. Between
45 and 50 young women were found
really eager to join the Family Rela-
tions class and yet were so tied at
home that they were scarcely ac-
quainted in the ward. In order to
permit these young mothers to at-
tend, provision was made to care for
their children through the establish-
ment of a successful nursery. The
young women who joined these
classes feel richly repaid in the very
important discussions held on family
life. It has been the desire of the
Relief Society stake board that the
suggestions of the General Board in
relation to the conduct of this class
be carefully followed.
Portneuf Stake
npHE great appeal of music in Re-
lief Society is in evidence in all
places. The picture is a group of
Singing Mothers from the Downey
Ward of Portneuf Stake. This or-
ganization has been a source of spirit-
ual and cultural uplift in the stake.
It has furnished music for funerals
and for many ward functions. It con-
ducted a very fine open-air concert
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which took the form of an Easter
cantata. A sunrise service was held
at 6:30 in the morning when an in-
spirational program was presented to
a large and appreciative audience.
The cantata, 'The Thorn-Crowned
King/' the theme of which is the cru-
cifixion and resurrection of the Sa-
vior, was given on the afternoon of
Easter Sunday. The spirit of the
the Membership Drive was formally
launched. The symbol adopted by
this stake is unusually appropriate.
It is that of a mountain, the sum-
mit of which will represent the
achievement of the 100% quota in
the Membership Drive. On the side
of the mountain 8 canyons are indi-
cated, this to symbolize the 8 wards
of the stake. The mountain is bar-
SINGING MOTHERS, DOWNEY WARD, PORTNEUF STAKE
occasion was emphasized and inter-
preted by the beautiful music and
Easter decorations.
Summit Stake
A VERY interesting report of the
activities of Summit Stake comes
to the office. This stake has many
obstacles to overcome, but the sis-
ters of the Relief Society have car-
ried on and have the satisfaction of
feeling that their work has been suc-
cessful.
During the latter part of the year
Daughters' Day was observed for the
first time and was a source of great
satisfaction to the sisters. At the
closing Union meeting of the season
ren, but there is a growth of ever-
green trees at the base. As each new
member is enrolled in the various
wards, an evergreen tree will appear
in the canyon where it belongs. It is
the hope of this stake at the conclu-
sion of the Membership Campaign
in 1942 to see the mountain, clear
to the summit, completely covered
with evergreen trees.
The picture is of Echo Ward, one
of the small wards of the stake. Two
other wards have made an enviable
record. A report from the stake
states: ''Echo is another one of our
very small wards and had been with-
out a Relief Society organization for
some time. Late in the fall we met
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 555
with them, at their request, and re-
organized. They have done a won-
derful work in spite of many draw-
backs, which very small groups ex-
perience. Almost all of their mem-
bers paid their dues, and quite a per-
centage subscribed for the Maga-
zine. Only a few weeks after they
started meeting, a very fine and suc-
cessful bazaar was held. Their An-
nual Day celebration was a dinner
rather difficult to go about. How-
ever, our faithful sisters go bravely
through the storms and carry on
their work most of the winter. Their
Annual Day party was held March
17 in the evening. It consisted of a
program, dancing and refreshments.
Almost the entire ward population
attended and had an enjoyable time
together.
"Rockport is another small ward
ECHO WARD, SUMMIT STAKE
party held at the home of their presi-
dent, Sister Sarah Ann Richins. The
table was beautifully decorated and
the afternoon was so happily spent
they feel they shall always retain the
spirit of love and good will felt on
that occasion.
''Upton Ward is our only ward off
the main highway. It is composed
of twenty families and is situated
about ten miles east of us up in
the mountains. During the summer
it is a very beautiful valley, but dur-
ing the winter the snow makes it
which began its Relief Society work
in October, after being disorganized
for some time. They were very
anxious for an organization because
they keenly felt the loss after hav-
ing had one. When they began
preparations for the Annual Day
party, they intended to make it an
afternoon just for Relief Society
women, but some of the husbands
wanted to know why they could not
be included, so the time of the pro-
gram was changed to evening; all of
the husbands attended and had such
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a splendid time they wished there
were two Annual Days each year
instead of one. These sisters are
doing a good work and have all but
two women in the ward enrolled in
their association."
Sharon Stake
npHE office is in receipt occasional-
ly of a copy of The Voice From
Sharon. From this we learn of the
fine work which is accomplished
through the Relief Society. This
stake has been very active in its
health work and welfare program as
well as in the work of its Singing
Mothers. The picture is of the
group who offered a very delightful
pre-Easter concert.
SINGING MOTHERS, SHARON STAKE
The Touch of the Master Artist
Earth is a symbolic canvas
Of artistry and bliss,
I blot from out the picture
The things which seem amiss,
And choose to see the landscape
Of blues and greens all mellow,
Harmonizing the portrait
Of humanity— my fellow.
Brown, yellow, red, or white.
He's the animation of the sod.
The touch of the master Artist
The personality of God.
— Lorine Hutchinson L^cc.
LESSON DEPAHTMENT
Q/heology^ ana cJestimonii
John The Beloved
Lesson 2
Helpful References. and confirm the members of the
James E. Talmage, Jesus the early church in the faith. He ex-
Christ, pp. 693, 694, 716-718, 720. pressly intimates that what he tells
A. B. Bruce, The Training oi thG them is not new; his desire is to give
Twdvc, consult index under head- them a firm assurance that the
ing of John, and Fetei and John, knowledge which they already have
W. M. Mackay, The Men Whom will save them. (See I John 2:7;
Jesus Made, pp. 57-75. 2:20 4:16; 5:13) As professor Scott
F. J. Mueller, Chiist's Twelve, says, "He does not lecture his read-
pp. 40-53. e^s, but talks to them, and to its art-
E. F. Scott, The Litemtuie oi the less, spontaneous character the
New Testament, pp. 260-284. charm of his letter is largely due. We
feel as if he is engaged in meditation
J'HE EPISTLES OF JOHN.-It and allows us to overhear his
is appropriate in our Theology thoughts as they arise in his mind."
lessons to become acquainted with Still there seem to be three main
the literature attributed to John and ideas around which his meditation
the trends of modern thought con- revolves: (Scott)
cerning it. In this lesson we shall, (1) The test of ethical conduct,
therefore, consider the Epistles of ''And hereby we do know that we
John and the Apocalypse, or Book of know him, if we keep his com-
Revelation, in addition to other mat- mandments. He that saith, I know
ters of importance. The First Epist- him, and keepeth not his command-
le of John contains five chapters ments, is a liar, and the truth is not
while the other two contain but one in him." (I John 2:3, 4)
short chapter each. Many of the (2) The test of belief,
best scholars of our day are willing ''Hereby know ye the Spirit of
to admit that these epistles are all God: And every spirit that confes-
written by the same author who was seth that Jesus Christ is come in the
in turn the author of the Fourth flesh is of God : And every spirit that
Gospel. We shall therefore assume confesseth not that Jesus Christ is
on the basis of what was said in the come in the flesh is not of God."
last lesson that they were written by (I John 4:2, 3)
the Apostle John. The second and (3) The test of brotherly love,
third letters contain little of doctrinal "Beloved, let us love one another:
significance, and we may pass them for love is of God; and every one
by. The first letter is in the form of that loveth is born of God, and
a written sermon which has little or knoweth God. He that loveth not
no ordered plan. John's main pur- knoweth not God; for God is love."
pose seems to have been to exhort (I John 4:7, 8)
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It would appear from the general of the Christian apocalypses were
tenor of the letter that a division had probably never committed to writ-
taken place in the Church. Certain ing. By their nature they were
members were attracted by heretical ecstatic utterances, thrown out by
or "liberal" teachings, which appear- 'prophets' when suddenly possess-
ed to offer them ''deeper truth and ed by the Spirit. They would hardly
a larger liberty than the traditional be intelligible to those who spoke
Gospel". Probably the remainder and heard them, and would be for-
of saints, honest and straightforward gotten as soon as the momentary
folk, not pretending to much in- excitement was past. But there was
tellectuality, were puzzled and one Christian apocalypse which was
troubled by the division. John's written down and preserved. . . From
letter reassures them and lays down the book of Revelation, we learn
the tests by which any sincere mem- something of what the mass of
ber of the church may test the valid- Christians in that age were thinking,
ity of his faith. It was written for the people, and re-
Most of the ideas in John's Gospel fleets the beliefs and emotions of
reappear in the Epistle, but in a the plain men and women who must
more brief and general form. always make up the great majority of
COME VIEWS CONCERNING ^^^ Christian church."
^ THE BOOK OF REVELA- That John never wrote the Re-
TION. - The Book of Revelation velation and that it has nothing to
was traditionally assumed to have ^^ wiA the future are views that
been written by the Apostle John, should be scrutmized m the light of
Today, however, few scholars be- modern revelation. In the previous
lieve him to have been its author, lesson it was pointed out that Nephi
Neither do they believe it refers was told by a heavenly messenger
to the distant future. "More im- ^^^^t an apostle of the Lamb should
portant," says Dr. E. F. Scott, "has 'write concerning the end of the
been the recognition, on the part of world" whose name was John (I
almost all scholars, that is was meant Nephi 14:18-27) . The book of Re-
for its own time. The old assump- velation we pointed out fits tins
tion was that it had reference to a statement better than any other we
distant future, and endless attempts ^^ow. Then m the seventy-seventh
were made to apply its prophecies section of the Doctnne and Cove-
to the events and personages of later "^nts the Lord reveals certain keys
history, and to the coming destinies f^^ understanding the book of Rev-
of the worid. This was a strange elation. John is expressly referred
error, since the writer himself de- t^ ^s "the Revelator". (See verse 2)
Clares more than once that he is ^ close readmg of the revelation de-
dealing with his own age." ^^itely shows that John did write
Most writers declare the Revela- concerning events that are still
tion to be of a type of apocalyptic future. Modern critical interpreta-
literature very common in New tions of this book of Revelation at
Testament times. Note the follow- best can only be partly right, cer-
ing description by Scott: "Most tainly not completely, in the light
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 559
of what the Lord says. It is then the
business of teachers of the Gospel
not to perpetuate the errors made
by uninspired men.
COME TEACHINGS OF THE
^ REVELATION OF JOHN.-
In the first chapter of the Revelation
the circumstances under which John
received his mighty vision are record-
ed. He was on the Isle of Patmos,
presumably in bondage to the Ro-
mans when he received the manifes-
tation on the ''Lord's day". He was
told to write what he saw in a book
and send it to "the seven churches;
to Ephesus, and to Smyrna, and to
Pergamos, and to Thyatira, and to
Sardis, and to Philadelphia, and to
Laodicea." (Rev. 1:11) Doubtless
they are what we should today call
seven branches of the church. John
was further instructed to write "the
things which are about to take place
after these". (Rev. 1:19) We can
readily understand that some of
John's writing dealt with contem-
porary matters, others with future
events. Chapters two and three
contain instructions directed to the
seven church branches. Each was
reproved or blessed as conditions de-
manded. Tlie interpretation of
many important matters in chapters
4-11 are contained in D. & C. 77.
The reader should also consult D. &
C. 130:10 which helps us understand
Rev. 2:17. Why the Prophet inter-
preted the Revelation to the ele-
venth chapter only we do not know.
However, much of what follows,
even though incompletely under-
stood, manifestly pertains to the
future viewed from John's day— yes,
and even as viewed from our own
time. Certainly Rev. 14:6, 7 has in
recent times been partly fulfilled
(see D. & C. 133:36-38), and Rev.
14:1 is yet to be fulfilled (See D. &
C. 133:18). The chapters of the
Revelation which follow mostly ap-
pear to await future fulfillment. John
saw the thousand years of the Mil-
lennium when Satan is to be bound
(Rev. 20:1-3 and compare D. & C.
29:22) and even the winding up
scene in which there is to be a ''new
heaven and a new earth". (Rev. 21:
1 and compare D. & C. 29:23-29).
The Revelation of John is in com-
plete harmony with other revelations
of the Lord pertaining to the future
destiny of this earth and its glori-
fication, the teachings of men to the
contrary notwithstanding.
J'HE GLORIOUS MISSION OF
^ THE APOSTLE /OHN.-The
seventh section of the Doctrine and
Covenants clearly points out that
John never tasted death, but was to
remain upon the earth until the
Lord's advent in glory in order to
bring souls unto him. What a great
and marvelous work John has un-
doubtedly accomplished throughout
the ages! The Prophet Joseph Smith
tells us that in the thirties of the past
century the Revelator went among
the Ten Tribes to prepared them for
their gathering to Zion. (See Joseph
Fielding Smith, Essentials in Chinch
History, p. 126)
It appears that John still has a
great work to do in helping to gather
scattered Israel and in bringing to
pass their redemption.
Questions and Problems
(Deal only with those that time
and circumstances permit.)
1. Have someone report on specific
teachings of interest in I John.
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2. Who was the individual that ap- 4. Have a member of the class show
peared to John on the Isle of Pat- how D. & C. 77 helps in the inter-
mos? (See E. F. Parry, Joseph pretation of certain chapters of the
Smitlis Teachings, 3rd ed., p. 186 or Revelation of John.
Hist oi the Church, Vol. IV, p. ^ ^ame all the individuals you can
4"^5-/ who, like John, were translated.
3. Have someone report on the rer-
erences made by Joseph Smith to 6. Let some member of the class
the book of Revelation as given in consult a good encyclopedia on
Parry's, Joseph Smith's Teachings, apocalyptic literature and report her
pp. 44-47. findings.
Visiting cJeacher 'Jjeparttnent
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 2
Unity
" that whethei I come and see you, or else be absent, I may hear of your
affairs, that ye stand fast in one spirit, with one mind, striving together for the faith of
the Gospel." — Phil. 1:27.
]V/|OST of the worth while things the principle of unity the Church
in the world have been accom- has grown in strength and influence,
plished through the principle of The quotation from Longfellow may
friendly cooperation. This is not a well be applied: ''All your strength
new principles nor peculiar to the is in your union; all your danger is
Latter-day Saint Church; it is as old in discord."
as the society of men. It is essential Our faith today must be concen-
to progress, whether in family, com- trated in one great work, the build-
munity or national life. Unity comes ing of the kingdom of God on earth,
from seeing eye to eye, from under- Those who keep this faith are united,
standing born of knowledge, from of one heart and of one mind,
perfect honesty, unselfishness, and ''And because the Saints have free
love. access to the Holy Spirit and may
The Master gave the pattern. He walk within His light and fellowship,
prayed for Llis apostles, "that they and possess the intelligence which
may be one even as you and I are He is able to impart, a stricter har-
one."— John 17:22. mony among the Saints may be in-
To Latter-day Saints the principle sisted upon than in any other organ-
is revealed anew, "I say unto you be ization of men whatsoever."
one; and if ye are not one ye are not "Unity in God's work is the
mine." Doc and Cov. 38:27. Upon strength of Zion."
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Questions , history where dissension has retarded
progress.
1. Analyze causes of lack of unity 3. What is our individual respon-
among Church membership. sibility toward unifying Church
2. Point out instances in Church membership?
^^
JLi\
terature
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 2
''Personal Recollections of Joan of Arc''
T GUIS KOSSUTH, the great Hun- forest, and the flowery plain, and the
garian patriot, makes the follow- river, as if she was trying to print
ing statement: ''Consider this unique these scenes on her memory so that
and imposing distinction. Since the they would abide there always and
writing of human history began, Joan not fade, for she knew she would not
of Arc is the only person, of either see them any more in this life."
sex, who has ever held supreme com- The people now recalled an an-
mand of the military forces of a na- cient prophecy made by the Welsh
tion at the age of seventeen." prophet Merlin, in the fifth century,
Book II, In Court and Camp, be- to the effect that France would be
gins with a most touching farewell of lost by a woman, and that she would
Joan to her native village and her be saved by a maid. Many felt that
loved ones. She said: 'The time is Isabel of Bavaria, wife of the king of
come. My voices are not vague now, France, was responsible for the be-
but clear, and they have told me trayal of the country because of her
what to do. In two months I shall influence in the humiliating treaty
be with the Dauphin." Her father with Henry V of England. They saw
was bitterly opposed to her course Joan of Arc as the maid who was
and did everything he could to re- sent by heaven to complete the
strain his daughter from taking any prophecy.
part in the war. This was a source It was Joan's plan to go first to
of great sorrow to Joan, as she had al- the governor of the province, to se-
ways been most obedient to her par- cure his aid so that she could go on
ents' wishes, and it caused her great to the Dauphin. She won the hearts
anguish to have to leave without of the common people everywhere,
their blessing. She had a premoni- but it was more difficult to convince
tion -that she would never return, the governor and his advisors. Joan
There was no thought of turning waited patiently and worked at
back, however. "And Joan took one household tasks to pay for her lodg-
long look back upon the distant vil- ing. She was absolutely unshaken
lage, and the Fairy Tree, and the oak in her story that "voices" from heav-
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en instructed her, and though by
nature most modest and retiring, she
was never confused in the presence
of high officials nor in doubt as to
the course she should take.
It will be recalled that this was
her second visit to Robert de Baudri-
court, governor of the province.
More than a year before he had sent
her back to her home, but this time,
though he at first refused to send her
to the King, she said: "I must still
come to you until I get the men-at-
arms; for so it is commanded, and
I may not disobey. I must go to the
Dauphin though I go on my knees."
Her persistence and her sincerity im-
pressed the governor to such an ex-
tent that he decided she was either
a witch or a saint, and he was deter-
mined to find out which it was. He
brought a priest to her, but the priest
could find no devil.
It must be remembered that this
was two centuries before the Refor-
mation, and the church held abso-
lute sway over the minds and lives of
the people. All authorities are
agreed that Joan was deeply spiritual
and devotedly attached to her reli-
gion, but neither the priests nor state
officials nor her loved ones could
shake her belief that she was commis-
sioned of God to rescue France.
''But indeed I would rather spin with
my poor mother, for this is not my
calling, but I must do it, for it is
mv Lord's will." The governor was
disturbed; he did not know what to
do. At last Joan went to the castle
and said, ''My voices have brought
the word to me, and it is true. A bat-
tle was lost today, and you are in
fault to delay me so." The governor
walked the floor, and finally said:
"... Wait— If it shall turn out as
you say, I will give you the letter and
send you to the King, and not other-
wise." After this Joan had no doubts
that she would go. Finally a mes-
senger came from the governor, who
said: "You said true, child. The
battle was lost on the day you said.
So I have kept my word. Now go,
come of it what may." With re-
markable accuracy the historical facts
arc closely followed, but the narra-
tive is singularly free from the mor-
bidly superstitious.
Joan's was a pure and unshakable
faith that admitted of no doubt. Her
prophecies were only in relation to
her own work, and she foretold that
her mission would last but a year.
Book II deals with this year, begin-
ning with her departure from her na-
tive province; it relates the superhu-
man achievements of this little coun-
try girl in whose words or deeds not
a suggestion of self-seeking can be
found. The author expresses his
worshipful admiration for her in the
Translator's Preface. "When we re-
flect that her century was the brutal-
est, the wickedest, the rottenest in
history since the darkest ages, we are
lost in wonder at the miracle of such
a product from such a soil. The con-
trast between her and her century is
the contrast between day and night.
She was truthful when lying was the
common speech of men; she was
honest when honesty was become a
lost virtue; she was a keeper of prom-
ises when the keeping of a promise
was expected of no one; .... she
was modest and fine and delicate
when to be loud and coarse might be
said to be universal; she was full of
pity when a merciless cruelty was the
rule; she was steadfast when stability
was unknown, and honorable in an
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age which had forgotten what honor
was; she was a rock of convictions in
a time when men beHeved in noth-
ing and scoffed at all things; she was
unfailingly true in an age that was
false to the core; . . . she was of a
dauntless courage, when hope and
courage had perished in the hearts of
her nation."
"The journey to Chinon, where the
King had taken refuge, was full of
adventure and danger. The King re-
ceived Joan with suspicion and the
Court with jealousy. The deception
practiced upon her in substituting
another for the King at the first inter-
view is quite typical. The army offi-
cers were contemptuous, theologians
examined her, and it was not until
April 1429 that she was permitted to
march upon Orleans. There is a
thrilling recital of her audiences with
the King, her marches with her army,
her fighting at its head, her battle cry
being always, 'Tollow me!" and her
triumphant entry into Orleans on
April 29. In May, the English were
in full retreat from southern France.
Joan rapidly followed, until in less
than three months after she was
given command of the army, she saw
her King crowned in the magnificent
Cathedral at Rheims. (The same
cathedral— one of the finest speci-
mens of pure Gothic architecture in
the world— came into great promi-
nence again during the World War.)
The author fills the pages of his
narrative with pen pictures of the
events and figures of the time; stir-
ring action and romantic atmosphere
carr)^ it through to conclusion. There
is a remarkable individuality about
the characters— the native villagers,
the generals of France, the cour-
tiers and the clergymen. In the
person of the Paladin, a boastful
peasant of Joan's native village, who
became her standard-bearer, is inter-
woven a humorous clement in Mark
Twain's own unmistakable vein.
Chapter 35, 'The Heir of France is
Crowned," gives the picture of
Joan's supreme triumph. Following
the splendid ceremony, the King
said, 'Tou have saved the crown.
Speak, require, demand, and whatso-
ever grace you ask it shall be granted,
though it make the kingdom poor to
meet it" . . . 'Then, O gentle King,
if out of your compassion you will
speak the word, I pray you give com-
mandment that my village, poor and
hard pressed by reason of the war,
may have its taxes remitted." ''It is
so commanded. Say on." "That is
all." "All? Nothing but that?" "It
is all. I have no other desire." It
was so ordered — the tax gatherer
never visited Domremy.
After the King was crowned, Joan
felt that her mission was accomplish-
ed, and she wished to return home
to the quiet life she loved so well
in her native village, but the King
would not permit her to leave. Of
the accomplishment of Joan's brief
career the author makes this com-
ment: "The work wrought by Joan
of Arc may fairly be regarded as
ranking any recorded in history,,
when one considers the conditions
under which it was undertaken, the
obstacles in the way, and the means
at her disposal. Caesar carried con-
quest far, but he did it with trained
and confident veterans of Rome and
was a trained soldier himself; and
Napoleon swept away the disciplined
armies of Europe, but he also was a
trained soldier, and he began his
work with patriot battalions inflamed
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and inspired by the miracle-working and followed her. She led it from
new breath of liberty, breathed upon victory to victory, she turned back
them by the revolution, eager young the tide of the Hundred Years' War,
apprentices to the splendid trade of she fatally crippled the English pow-
war, not old and broken men-at- er, and died with the earned title of
arms, despairing survivors of an age- Deliverer of France, which she bears
long accumulation of monotonous to this day/'
defeats; but Joan of Arc, a mere ^ . ^ _.
child m years, ignorant, unfettered, a Suggestions For Discussion
poor village girl unknown and with- i . Compare the character of Joan
out influence, found a great nation as reflected in Book II with Book I.
lying in chains, helpless and hopeless Demonstrate the consistency of the
under an alien domination, its treas- character development,
ury bankrupt, its soldiers disheart- 2. Have someone relate the story
ened and dispersed, all spirit torpid, of the Cathedral at Rheims during
all courage dead in the hearts of the the World War.
people through long years of foreign 3. It would be very appropriate to
and domestic outrage and oppres- have the noblest war song, ''Jo^n of
sion, their King cowed, resigned to Arc We Are Calling You," sung,
his fate, and preparing to fly the 4. Relate some of the most dra-
country; and she laid her hand upon matic episodes in this year of tri-
this nation, this corpse, and it rose umph.
Social Service
PSYCHOLOGY AND MODERN PROBLEMS
Lesson 2
How Shall I Conduct Myself In An Age Of Automobiles
I. Automohiles Have Created Oi7e In total, these wars extended over a
of the Most Serious Hazards to Life, period of fifteen years. The number
Medical progress during the past of American soldiers killed in action
few decades has succeeded in elim- or who died of wounds during these
inating small pox, diphtheria, mala- fifteen years of war was 244,357."
ria and typhoid as major causes of (p. 3). In fifteen years since 1923,
death; but in their wake has come there have been killed 441,912 per-
the constant danger the automobile sons, or about twice as many as dur-
is to life and limb. In a booklet dis- ing the same number of years of
tributed by the Travelers Insurance active war. Another alarming fact is
Company, Death Begins at ^o^ we that only once in these fifteen years
are told that ''Our nation has en- before 1938 did the number of
gaged in six major wars since 1776. casualties decrease from the previous
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year, which was in 1932 when car
registrations and perhaps the amount
of driving done was reduced by the
depression. In 1923 theie were
18,031 deaths from car accidents,
whereas by 1937 the total reached
40,300! Fortunately, since this re-
port was written, the facts for 1938
available at this writing indicate a
probable decrease for the year of
approximately 8,000 deaths less than
for 1937. The public has finally be-
gun to realize that something must
be done about the appalling dangers
on our highways. It is gratifying to
see that the broad educational and
enforcement campaign carried on
during the past year has brought
some improvement. In Utah, how-
ever, there was an increase in fatali-
ties during 1939— Utah being one of
only three states in the Union that
did not reduce the number of
fatalities.
Fatality statistics show only part
of the sad picture, too. In 1937,
there were 1,221,090 persons injured
by the automobile, many of whom,
as Furnas says, would be ''Better off
Dead".
II. The Principal Causes oi Acci-
dents Are Human, Not Mechanical.
Automobiles are being improved
much more rapidly than is the per-
son who uses them. Automobile
brakes are better than they have ever
been, and the cars protect the per-
son inside better than ever; roads
are continually being widened, ob-
structions removed, and safer curves
are being constructed. But the acci-
dent toll remains unbelievably high,
nevertheless.
The answer, of course, lies in the
persons who drive. A man's ''reac-
tion time" is the time required to
make an appropriate movement after
a sign or stimulus has been given.
The time it takes to apply the brakes
after a car has been seen to approach
from the side is the reaction time.
This speed of reaction is quite fixed
in a person and improves only mod-
erately with practice. In most indi-
viduals, it takes about three-quarters
of a second to apply the brakes after
danger has been seen, then it takes
some time to stop after that, even
with good brakes and on a good
surface.
Modern cars are built to go faster
and faster with each new model, but
man's reaction time and judgment
of speed and distance do not im-
prove from one generation to the
next. This fact is very important. If
a car is going fifty miles an hour, it
will travel fifty-five feet during the
three-fourths of a second spent in
getting the brakes set; by the time
the car has come to rest, it will have
gone 243 feet. At thirty miles per
hour the brakes can be applied, and
the car can be completely stopped
within a hundred feet.
The human mind is likewise limit-
ed in the number of things to which
it can attend at once without confu-
sion. In city traffic there are often
many cars and persons to be watched
at once. The resulting confusion
definitely slows down reaction time,
which requires slower speeds to
avoid accidents.
Judgment of speed and distance,
upon which all driving depends, is
affected greatly by fatigue and vari-
ous poisons. Long driving in heavy
traffic, where much carbon monox-
ide gas is breathed, blunts the driv-
er's judgment. Studies of accidents
by truck drivers have shown that a
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great many very serious accidents oc- "repeaters" are found poor vision of
cur as a result of going to sleep, and one kind or another— near-sighted-
probably a great many more are ncss, partial blindness, and crossed
partly a result of drowsiness and bad eyes. It is little v^onder that they
judgment. jiidge speed and distance so poorly.
Alcohol is probably responsible Other persons on the highways are
for a great many more accidents mentally deficient and naturally
than the statistics show. The causes lack the general good judgment re-
of an accident are often reported as quired in driving. Then there are
"recklessness/' ''speeding/' or some the occasional epileptics whose
other cause rather than ''drunken minds are often cloudy, the mildy
driving". One reason for this is that insane, to say nothing of the warped
proof of intoxication is very difficult personalities who "bully" their way
in some cases. Convincing evidence, through traffic, or who "show off"
however, has been given recently with their speed, or who throw tan-
that even mild quantities of alcohol trums when not given the full right
will definitely decrease reaction of way. Absent-minded persons,
speed, accuracy and judgment. In often of high social standing, are a
spite of this, the person who has great menace because their driving
been drinking acquires great confi- does not fully occupy their minds,
dence in his skill and has a "sense of These groups, along with habitual
well-being" which makes him take drinkers, are to be found among the
chances. He will race to beat red "accident prone drivers" who cause
lights, will try to race with other cars, more than their share of the acci-
and will take curves too fast. Usually dents.
the more passengers he carries, the The solution to the problem they
more daring he becomes. We should create is to require stricter examina-
use every effort to prevent such per- tions before giving driver's licenses
sons from driving, just as we should and stricter laws by which to remove
stop an intoxicated person or an irre- from the highways this accident
sponsible child from pointing a load- prone group.
ed^gun at people, which is really less m ^ ^^^ j^-„g^ 3 j^,.^^,
angerous. Should Remember. Good drivers by
We have been discussing the limi- practice develop judgment of speeds
tations that are likely to occur in all and distances so that they are able
so-called normal drivers. We shall to allow enough margin to avoid
now turn to some of the abnormal collisions. This judgment is what
persons who menace our highways, makes the difference between an
There are a relatively small number experienced driver and an inexpe-
of drivers who have a relatively large rienced one who may know all of
number of accidents, and there are a the rules of the road and the routine
large number of drivers who have of operating a car. The margins of
very few accidents. One survey show- safety necessary will vary according
ed that 100% of the accidents were to many conditions, such as the
caused by 24% of the drivers. Be- strangeness of the road, condition
sides the normal limitations of these of the surface as to dampness and
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 567
ice and snow, and the possibility of
pooriy visible objects such as live-
stock and pedestrians on roads at
night. Many accidents are caused
by poor judgment as to the amount
of margin of safety required under
these various conditions; for ex-
ample, allowing a child on a bicycle
plenty of room to make the unex-
pected turn into our path or for a
cow to "change its mind". As we
have suggested, this kind of judg-
ment will be affected by experience,
fatigue, alcohol, and personal fitness
in mind and body.
A few of the more common
chances taken in disregard of neces-
sary margins of safety are: (i) Pass-
ing on a hill another car going in
the same direction when the pos-
sible approach of a third car cannot
be seen; (2) passing on turns when
the approach of another car or the
presence of some obstruction can-
not be seen; ( 3 ) failing to estimate
the speed of an approaching car
when passing one going in one's
own direction, followed by "cutting
in" on the one car and driving the
other off the road; (4) driving too
slowly and inattentively for the flow
of traffic. Most traffic laws forbid
these practices, but they are never-
theless common mistakes with
serious results. A common failing
many people have is to assume that
because the law is on our side we
have nothing to fear. We should
always make allowances for people
who will break the law, because
there are always plenty of them.
An especially important rule of
the road is to always allow for what-
ever the other person may do un-
expectedly, particularly children
playing, children on bicycles and
rollei' skates, as well as loose animals,
and drunken drivers and other per-
sons who give evidence of not being
responsible.
IV. A Few Things the Pedestrian
Should Remember. During 1937,
43,290 of the fatalities were a result
of collision of cars with pedestrians.
Of fatal accidents to pedestrians,
27.8% occur while the pedestrian is
crossing somewhere along the block
between the intersections, and only
25.5% occur at intersections, al-
though most of the pedestrians cross
at the intersections. The reason for
this fact is that cars go faster along
the block and are less alert to pedes-
trians than at the intersections. Many
accidents result from pedestrians
stepping into the street from be-
tween parked cars, which allows the
driver a very small margin of safety.
Most accidents to pedestrians, in
fact, occur within a few steps from
the curb, about where people stop
to look around. Never step from the
curb until the way is clear, then
walk resolutely across, and show no
indecision after you have made sure
you are safe.
Of pedestrian fatalities, 20%
occur while walking on rural high-
ways, where the traffic is usually fast.
Most of the pedestrians struck on
rural highways are killed; only a
small per cent (4.5%) of injuries
occur here. Always walk on the left
side of the road in order to face the
on-coming traffic. When two cars
are passing in opposite directions at
the point where they pass you, al-
ways give them all of the road, be-
cause for an instant they are per-
fectly blind to everything but the
glaring lights of the other car. This
partial blindness may remain until
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some distance after they have p"^ssed,
due to a limitation of the human
eye in adapting to extremes of light
and darkness. A flashlight or lantern
should also be carried by pedestrians
as an added precaution.
Remember, too, that automobiles
are much quicker than humans, and
that as later maturity approaches,
the reaction time of people becomes
slower and we must revise our habits
to allow ourselves as pedestrians still
greater margins of safety than were
necessary when we were younger.
V. What Shall We Do About the
Piohlem oi Youth and Automo-
biles.^ Serious problems created by
the automobile are not limited to
the road. Modern youths have an
almost irresistible urge to feel the
sense of power which comes from
driving a car. They look to privi-
leges with automobiles as a sign of
maturity even more than the change
to long trousers formerly was. So
strong is the desire to drive that car
stealing has become one of the ma-
jor forms of juvenile delinquency.
Youth is often over-confident,
daring, inclined to display, and to be
irresponsible with property and Hfe.
The mastery of the mechanics of
driving comes easily to most young
people, but not so easily does good
judgment and mature responsibility
come.
The proper approach to this prob-
lem seems to be not unlike that re-
quired in meeting most other prob-
lems of adolesence. Development
of responsibility begins early in life
by parents requiring children to
comply with reasonable require-
ments, and by gradual growth
through their exercising new powers
and privileges. More concretely.
this means that young people should
begin their training in the use of the
automobile considerably before they
are legally prepared to drive (six-
teen years of age in Utah). This
should be done by an understanding
father who takes every care not to
"fall out" with the youth in the
process of training. Training, of
course, should be in some isolated
place where there is little chance of
accident. Encouragement for suc-
cess and good example are more
effective than scolding and preach-
ing. What the youth needs is con-
fidence based upon genuine and
thorough skill and judgment.
Parents are wiser not to empha-
size the differences in judgment be-
tween themselves and their children.
Parents should be aware that their
judgment is better; but to be of
service as teacher, antagonism and
resentment must be avoided. In
giving advice while the youth is
driving, avoid excitement and dis-
traction which result from sharp,
scolding remarks. Mothers often
utterly fail to have any beneficial
effect on young drivers, because they
have "fallen out'' with their children
at least so far as the driving situation
is concerned. Too much nagging is
especially harmful and ill-advised.
Consideration for parents in the
use of the automobile should be en-
couraged as one of the "good things
in life" and an essential part of the
larger problem of wholesome per-
sonality development in youth.
VI. Are You a Back Seat Driver.?
We have seen that distraction de-
creases reaction speed and may
thereby contribute to accidents.
"Back seat driving" does this, and
more. Personality conflicts between
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the driver and the ''would-be-driver*'
are likely to result. The driver may
then take out his antagonism by
being discourteous to other traffic.
Psychologists have long contended
that judgment is not so good when
we are angry. Moreover, the driver
seldom takes the advice of the ''back
seat driver/' even though it be cor-
rect. There is a difference between
"back seat driving/' which is held
in considerable disrepute, and occas-
ional offering of suggestions, which
may be compared to what has been
said about attitudes that should pre-
vail between father and son in learn-
ing to drive. "Back seat driving"
is usually a failure in influencing the
driver in the same way that any at-
tempt to influence other people is a
failure if it is not based upon a
recognition and respect for the ego-
feelings of the one to be influenced.
Pwhlems For Discussion
1. What do we mean by "accident
prone drivers"? Name a few types
of persons who fall into this class.
2. Read Child Guidance Lesson
5, Relief Society Magazine, June,
1937, pp. 755-58. Show the im-
portance of the automobile in psy-
chological weaning.
3. Show how "back seat driving"
is likely to defeat its own purpose.
4. Carefully examine your habits
as a pedestrian. How can you revise
them in order to increase your own
safety?
References
1. Barsantee, Harry. Death Be-
gins at 40. Distributed free by
Travelers Insurance Co., Hartford,
Conn. Presents great many facts on
causes of accidents, in popular and
humorous style.
2. Forbes, T. W. Accidents in
Tiafiic and Industry as Related to
the Psychology oi Vision. National
Society for the Prevention of Blind-
ness, 1936. 50 West 50th Street,
New York. Price 10c.
3. Furnas, J. C, Smith, E. N.
Sudden Death and How to Avoid
It. Simon and Schuster, New York:
1935: 25c. Includes reference 5,
also two articles describing horrors
of car accidents; not recommended
for persons easily affected. "And
Sudden Death," by J. C. Furnas, ap-
peared in Readers Digesty August,
1935-
4. Reisner, E. J., deOnis, H., and
Stolper, T. M., eds. Parents and the
Automobile. 1936. Teachers' Col-
lege, Bureau of Publications, Colum-
bia University, New York. Espe-
cially good on problems of youth
and automobiles.
5. Smith, Ernest N., Manual for
Safe Diivingy Simon and Schuster,
New York, 1935. Distributed free
by Glen Falls Indemnity Co., Glen
Falls, N. Y. Included in reference 3.
Also request a copy of the state
motor vehicle laws from your high-
way department.
sbducation for c^amily^ JLife
Family Relationships
Lesson 2
The Family Pocketbook
npHE working out of a cooperative 1. It is of primary importance to
plan for the management of the recognize the fact that the financial
family pocketbook that is acceptable status of the family is determined by
to all members of the family group the competent management of the
will result in enhanced happiness income quite as much as by the
and satisfaction in family living, amount of the income. Many people
Agreement in the financial relation- are poor because of how they spend
ships within the family will deter- rather than because of how much
mine more than will any other factor they have.
the nature of all other relationships. 2. Skill and efficiency in the dis-
One writer has said, 'Tell me the tribution and expenditure of the in-
degree of success a family has come can be acquired by every nor-
achieved in handling its financial mal person who has a sufficiently
relationships and I can predict with strong determination and who is
surprising accuracy the degree of given an opportunity for experience
success which that family will be in the handling of money,
able to achieve in its social and emo- 3. There will be greater happiness
tional relationships." and cooperation if there is an un-
Economic conditions of today derstanding between husband and
are so different from those of earlier wife that the income is theii in-
periods and the conditions confront- come, as each is doing the special
ing each family are so varied that work needed in maintaining a happy
we must consider the problem of successful home. As the family
finance in each family as an in- increases and there are more wage
dividual case involving specific fact- earners, it makes for greater family
ors. However, we can select funda- unity and solidarity if each one earn-
mental difficulties and needs which ing contributes to the family budget
are present in the task of manage- for meeting necessary family ex-
ment of finances in every family. We penses according to his ability to
can also offer some suggestions as earn.
to methods of handling income that Today, when so many young peo-
have been experimented with by a pie are unable to find work, care
sufficient number of families to war- should be taken that they are not
rant an evaluation of such practices, made to feel they are a burden.
At this time we present only a few of Work around home should be given
tiliose practices which are recom- them so that they may feel they are
mended on the basis that they are a real member of the group sharing
in harmony with the most commonly in the responsibilities and opportu-
accepted philosophy of successful nities of the group,
family life in the world of today. True it is that the special responsi-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 571
bility of the father is to provide for and methods of spending should be
the satisfaction of the material needs well established before the child
of the family. And in turn it is the leaves home permanantly. If such
responsibility of each member to training has not been acquired before
cooperate in the spending process marriage, it will necessarily have to
so that full value will be received for be obtained largely through the trial
every dollar expended. To insure and error method. In addition to
against the father being considered knowledge gained through their own
as merely a money-making machine experimentation those who are wise
he should take an active interest in will seek advice and will profit by
all the functions of the family so the experience of those who show
that he will have a sympathetic un- evidence of skill in the control of
derstanding of the daily affairs of the domestic exchequer. Take for
family living. example the case of the Brown fam-
4. There should be mutual un- ily:
derstanding concerning the amount Mrs. Brown says, ''John dear, I
of income that is available for fam- just can't understand why it is that
ily living. It is unjust for any member the Greens can have so many more
of the family to be deceived as to things than we can, and I know that
the available resources of the group, your salary is nearly once again larger
5. Husband and wife should ac- than Mr. Green's." Mr Brown has
cept the democratic viewpoint of been wondering the same thing
joint control of the income. And for quite some time. At the sug-
they should discuss with the children gestion of Mr. Brown, the Greens
the financial problems of the family were invited to spend an evening
as far as they are able to understand, with the Browns for the purpose of
6. Whether the income be large chatting over the subject of family
or small it should be budgeted. If finance. The Greens considered the
the income is not regular, the mini- invitation to be a real compliment,
mum average should be taken as the since it signified that in the opinion
basis for the budget. of other people they had achieved
7. In order to achieve well ,bal- success in one of the most important
anced spending the income should phases of family living. Hence,
be apportioned so that each member they welcomed the opportunity to
of the group will have some money share with others their experiences
under his control. The proportion as well as the practices to which they
for each will vary according to his gave credit for what they called their
age and ability to assume the re- ''financial salvation",
sponsibility that accompanies the During the first two years of their
possession of money. married life the Greens incurred suf-
The art of managing the family ficient debt to cause them both to
income should be developed during be in a state of constant worry and
childhood to the extent that the anxiety, and needless to say intense
child is allowed to share in the rights irritability. At times even their mar-
aud duties that are involved in the riage seemed to them to have been
problem of finance. Sound habits a mistake. Fortunately, each realiz-
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ed the seriousness of the situation
and was wilHng to accept his or her
share of the responsibiHty for the
condition into which they had
drifted.
The first task they assigned them-
selves was to carefully scrutinize past
expenditures and present bills. This
brought to their attention the fact
that the major part of their income
had been spent not for the purpose
of supplying their own needs but
rather to satisfy their desires to have
what their friends had and to do
what they did. Obviously, they were
trying to keep up with a group of
young married couples with much
higher incomes than theirs, and
at the same time they were cultivat-
ing a purely materialistic attitude
toward values.
In the interest of brevity, we shall
say that the Greens decided to with-
draw from their immediate circle
of friends and to make new friends
among those of their own economic
class. This determination called for
courage, tact, and sacrifice, all of
which have been well repaid in in-
creased happiness. What would
probably have been the wiser and
more sensible solution?
Next they worked out a budget
which included a column headed
''debts for trying to keep up with the
Joneses". Their next decision was to
pay cash for every article purchased
unless it was an article that offered
relatively permanent utility.
In order to more completely es-
tablish a new set of spending habits,
Mrs. Green decided that she would
arrange her household tasks so that
she would be able to go to the mar-
ket for her supplies rather than to
order them over the telephone, and
that her buymg list would be care-
fully prepared before she left home.
These two practices resulted in the
purchase of fewer food supplies and
the serving of more adequate meals,
also in increased power to resist the
temptation to buy expensive, out-
of-season foods, and to resist the
pressure of high-powered advertis-
ing and salesmanship.
Trying to live within the budget
soon became an intriguing game for
both mates, a game in which they
have succeeded to the extent that
they are now enjoying the great hap-
piness of the anticipation of the ar-
rival of a third member in their fami-
ly, the expense of which has been
provided for by wiser spending and
not by an increase in income.
It is not within the limits of this
lesson to discuss all of the seven
points previously mentioned; how-
ever, it is the hope that all will be
discussed in class.
It is unfair to either the husband
or the wife to be placed in the humil-
iating position of having to ask the
other for money for necessities.
Money for the satisfaction of needs
should not be considered as a gift
by either mate. If the income is
considered as a partnership fund and
is placed under joint control, the
danger of either of the above situa-
tions arising will be eliminated.
Many families who handle their
income as a partnership fund have
found that the joint checking ac-
count works out most satisfactorily.
This is true, however, only if each
mate is absolutely honest, frank, and
conscientious in regard to spending
and to keeping the other mate daily
informed as to the amount of money
that has been withdrawn from the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 573
account, and each must keep an ac-
curate account of his expenditures.
Other famiHes have found that a
division of the income according to
an agreement v^hich is satisfactory
and just to each, with the major
responsibihty of handHng the funds
assumed by the mate who is best
prepared to carry on this task, is a
more desirable plan.
To many the word budget is a
regular bugbear, either because of a
misconception of the meaning of
the term or because of an unpleasant
experience connected with it. By
budget we simply mean planned
expenditures for the future based on
the record of past expenditures and
estimated income.
Any book on family economics
will give detailed instructions for
setting up and carrying out the
budget system. A few general sug-
gestions may prove helpful at this
time.
The figures for the family budget
should be decided upon by the en-
tire family group. Begin by decid-
ing what are the essentials for good
living. Special consideration should
be given to the differentiation be-
tween self-indulgences and worthy
desires. Food, shelter, operating ex-
penses, clothes, and opportunities
for growth are considered primary
needs. For Latter-day Saint fam-
ilies it should not be necessary to
mention that the matter of tithing
is also of primary importance. Per-
sonal needs should receive consid-
eration only after group needs have
been determined. The amount of
money for personal expenses should
be decided on the basis of the fol-
lowing factors:
a. Total income.
b. Primary needs of the group.
c. Individual needs of members
of the group.
d. Extent to which each member
is willing to cooperate.
e. Social values of the group.
One should face the fact that it
requires determination, courage, and
self-control to live within the bud-
get, but the satisfaction that comes
as a result of the elimination of fami-
ly squabbles over money matters,
freedom from undue pressure of in-
dividual demands, increased coopera-
tiveness of family members will
repay for the effort involved in the
form of peace of mind, order in
family living, and the more complete
satisfaction of needs.
We should not become discourag-
ed or feel that we have failed if the
budget does not balance the first
month or two; practice will improve
our technique. It will be of great
help in guarding against upsetting
the budget unnecessarily if the pur-
chase of any costly article is post-
poned until the method of payment
has been determined upon.
The fundamental philosophy of
family finance should be discussed
and a plan for handling the family
pocketbook should be decided upon
before the marriage ceremony.
Whatever the plan may be, it should
not be considered static, but rather
as a method to be experimented
with until a more suitable plan for
the particular family has been
evolved. It is wise, however, to
make sure that one plan has been
given a thorough trial before it is
discarded in favor of some untried
plan. There is a plan that will work
out for your family.
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Problems and Questions for soon after they were married that he
Discussion did hope that she would not object
,_- , . 1 1 T r to having to ask him for money
1 Work out a trial budget for a ^^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^^ -^ ^^^1^
family with a $900 annual income. ^^^^ ^-^ 3^ j^^pp^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^
2. Do you think it was wise for the money when she asked for it?
Greens to give up their circle of 4. Discuss methods of joint han-
friends? Discuss. dling of income that you know have
3. Can you justify the statement proved successful among your ac-
of the bridegroom who told his bride quaintances.
n Lission oLessons
L. D. S. CHURCH HISTORY
Lesson II
Cumorah and the Golden Book
(To be used in place of Literary lesson)
TN THE vision which we have just never in my nature. I was guilty only
considered, Joseph Smith was told of light conversation, and sometimes
that in due time he should receive associated with jovial company,
further light and guidance from which was not consistent with that
heaven. Yet three years and a half character that ought to be maintain-
passed without the fulfillment of ed by one who was called of God as
that promise. It was now Septem- I had been. But this will not seem
ber, 1823, and he was approaching strange to anyone who recollects my
his eighteenth birthday. youth and is acquainted with my na-
How was this to be accounted for? tive cheery temperament. In con-
Here is his own story: sequence of these things, I often felt
''During the time between the vi- condemned for my weakness and im-
sion and 1823, 1 was left to all kinds perfections.
of temptation. For, being very ''On the evening of the twenty-
young, and persecuted by those who first of September, after I had retired
should have been my friends, I did to my bed for the night, I betook
not join any of the churches, having myself to prayer and supplication to
been forbidden to do so. And ming- God for forgiveness of all my sins
ling with all kinds of society, I fre- and also for a manifestation, that I
quently fell into many foolish errors might know of my state and stand-
and displayed the weakness of youth, ing before him. For I had full con-
In making this confession no one fidence in obtaining a divine mani-
need suppose me guilty of any great festation, as I had previously done,
sins. A disposition to do so was "While I was thus in the act of
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 575
calling upon God, I discovered a stones in silver bows deposited with
light appearing in my room. This the plates. This was the urim and
light continued to increase until the thummim. The possession of these
room was lighter than at noon-day. • stones were what constituted 'seers'
Immediately a personage appeared at in ancient times. God had prepared
my bedside. He stood in the air, for them for the purpose of translating
his feet did not touch the floor. He the book.
had on a loose robe of most exquisite ''He told me that, when I got
whiteness. It was a whiteness be- those plates, I should not show
yond anything earthly I had ever them to any person, neither the
seen, nor do I believe that any earth- breastplate with the urim and thum-
ly thing could be made to appear so mim, only to those to whom I
exceedingly white and brilliant. His should be commanded to show
hands were naked, and his arms also, them. If I did so I should be de-
a little above the wrist. So, also, stroyed. While he was conversing
were his feet naked, as were his legs, with me about the plates, the vision
a little above the ankles. His head opened to my mind, and I saw the
and neck were also bare. I could dis- place where they were deposited,
cover that he had on no other cloth- and that so clearly that I knew the
ing but this robe, as it was open, so place again when I visited it.
that I could see into his bosom. Not ..^f^^^ ^^-^ communication I saw
only was his robe exceedmgly white, ^j^^ ^-^^ -^ ^^^ ^^^^ ^^- ^^ ^j^^^
but his whole person was glorious immediately around the person of
beyond description, and his counte- ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^^ 3 ^^^^i^ ^^ ^^^
nance truly like lightning The room ^^^ ^^ continued to do so until the
was exceedingly light but not so ^^^^ ^^^ ^^^ l^f^ ^^^^^ ^^^^^ -^^
very bright as immediately around ^^^^^^ ^-^^ ^^^^^ instantly I saw,
his person. ^^ -^ ^^^^^ ^ conduit open right up
''When I first looked upon him, into heaven, and he ascended until
I was afraid. But fear soon left me. he entirely disappeared, and the
He called me by name and said that room was left as before his appear-
he was a messenger sent from the ance.
presence of God to me. His name, 'i lay musing on the singularity of
he said, was Moroni. God had a the scene, marveling greatly at what
work for me to do. My name should had been told to me by this extra-
be had for good and evil among all ordinary messenger, when, in the
nations, kindreds, and tongues. He midst of my meditation, I suddenly
said there was a book deposited, discovered that my room was again
written upon gold plates, giving an beginning to get lighted. In an in-
account of the former inhabitants of stant, as it were, the same heavenly
this [the American] continent, and messenger was again by my bedside,
the source from which they sprang. He again related the very same
He also said that the fulness of the things which he had done at the
gospel was contained in it, as de- first visit without the least variation,
livered by the Savior to the ancient ''By this time, so deep were the
inhabitants. Also there were two impressions made on my mind, that
576 - AUGUST, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
sleep had fled from my eyes, and 1
lay overwhelmed in astonishment at
what I had both seen and heard. But
what was my surprise when again !•
beheld the same messenger at my
bedside, and heard him relate the
same things as before. He added a
caution that Satan would tempt me
to get the plates for the purpose of
getting rich. This he forbade me to
do; otherwise I could not get them.
''Almost immediately after the
heavenly messenger had ascended
from me the third time, the cock
crowed, and I found that day was
approaching, so that our interviews
must have occupied the whole of
that night.
'1 shortly after rose from my bed
and, as usual, went to the necessary
labors of the day. But in attempting
to work as at other times, I found
my strength so exhausted as to ren-
der me entirely unable. My father,
who was laboring along with me,
discovered something to be wrong
with me, and told me to go home.
I started, with the intention of going
to the house, but in attempting to
cross the fence out of the field where
we were, my strength entirely failed
me, and I fell helpless on the
ground, and for a time was quite
unconscious of anything.
'The first thing that I can recol-
lect was a voice speaking to me, call-
ing me by name. I looked up and be-
held the same messenger standing
over my head, surrounded by light as
before. He then again related to me
all that he had done the previous
night, and commanded me to go to
my father and tell him the vision
and commandments which I had
received. I returned to my father
and did so. He replied that it was
of God and told me to do as the
messenger had commanded me. I
left the field and went to the place
where the plates were deposited.
"The hill was convenient to the
village of Manchester. On the west
side of this hill, not far from the top,
under a stone of considerable size,
lay the plates in a stone box. Hav-
ing removed the earth around the
stone, I obtained a lever, which I
got fixed under the edge of the
stone, and with a little exertion rais-
ed it up. I looked in, and there in-
deed did I behold the plates, the
urim and thummim, and the breast-
plate, as stated by the messenger.
"I made an attempt to take them
out, but was forbidden by the mes-
senger, and was again informed that
the time for bringing them forth
had not yet arrived, neither would
it for four years from that time. He
told me that I should come to that
place precisely in one year from
that time, that he would meet with
me, and that I should continue to
do so until the time should come
for obtaining the plates.
"Accordingly, I went at the end of
each year, and each time I found the
same messenger there, and received
instruction and intelligence from
him at each of our interviews re-
specting what the Lord was going to
do and how and in what manner
His kingdom was to be conducted
in the last days.
"At length the time arrived for
obtaining the plates, the urim and
thummim, and the breastplate. On
September 22, 1827, the same heav-
enly messenger delivered them up to
me with the charge: 'You will be
responsible for them. If you let
them go carelessly, or through any
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, AUGUST - 577
neglect, you will be cut off. But if 4. When did Joseph first see
you will use all your endeavors to Moroni? When were the plates
preserve them, they shall be pro- given to him? How many times, so
tected." far, has Moroni appeared to Joseph?
That is the story of how Joseph Figure out the time which the two
Smith received the plates from must have been together,
which the Book of Mormon was 5. Why do you think Moroni ap-
translated. peared so many times to Joseph?
Questions and Suggestions ^^y did he repeat his message so
■^ ^^ many times and m every detail?
1. In what way does Joseph's How well do you remember the de-
description of the angel Moroni tails of a conversation which you
differ from the descriptions of angels have heard but once?
generally in his time? 6. Read or sing the hymn An
2. Who was Moroni? Why was Angel From On High, and explain
it that he, rather than someone else, why this hymn was chosen in con-
was given this mission? nection with this lesson.
2. Give as many particulars as xr ^ x^ • . j • r ^
^ f .1 "^ ^ r .-I Note: Map printed in Tuiy magazine
you can of the appearance of the ^, ^o be used in teaching Church History
heavenly messenger. lessons.
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"No Excuse For Thee, My Son" Donald G. Lyman 583
The Homemaker of Tomorrow Vivian Minyard 585
Opportunities For Youth Irvin S. Noall 588
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"No Excuse For Thee, My Son"
By Donald G. Lyman
.... "Now my son, I would that ye seeking to rationalize and to justify
should repent and forsake your sins, and j^-g conduct and his inability to live
go no more after the lusts of your eyes, j. j.i, i ^c 1.1^^ r>^^^J.i
but cross yourself in all these things; for "P tO the kws of the Gospel.
except ye do this ye can in no wise inherit Brigham Young Said: "Tradition
the kingdom of God." hgs taught US that the great purpose
STT^TT Ai . 1 .. 1-- oi rehgion is to prepare people to
UCH was Alma s counsel to his ^j^. ^.§^^ ^^^^ they have passed
wayward son Conanton. ^^^^^^ ^ ^y^ ^f j^^^^ and be-
As there are many phases of ^^^^ converted, they are ready for
Faith there are also many things to ^ ^^ moment, and to dwell
be said of Repentance Some people ^j^j^ jj^g p^j^g, ^^d the Son in the
have been lead to believe that they j^gg^g^j ^^ all eternity. This is a
may transgress almost any law, then ^i^^^y.^. fo^ they have to improve,
repent and find themselves on the become substantially changed from
same spot on the path of eternal pro- ^^^ ^^ ^^^ f^o^ 5j„ to holiness,
gression as though they had not j^^^^ ^r somewhere else, before they
transgressed; some may even feel that ^^^ prepared for the society they
they will be ahead, having indulged anticipate enjoying." (Journal of
in some or the so-called broadening Discouises )
experiences of life, which in the j^^ ^^^'^ ^f ^-^ -^ downward in
stricter sense come under the head ^^^^- ^^^^^ .3 ^^^^- ..^^_
of transgressions. -^^ [^ ^^^ ^^ .^^ ramifications. The
There are some young men and path of Righteousness is continually
women with good church back- upward and elevating. If the down-
grounds, some who have even had ward road is taken for ever so short
the opportunity to fill missions, who an interval, one finds himself at a
take the attitude that this life is one lower level, and steps must be re-
of experience and that to know good traced before one can arrive at the
and evil they must experience every- point where he departed from the
thing possible and then choose the path of Righteousness,
good and build an upright character
on the foundation of actual experi- TN the 82nd section of the Doc-
ences. This attitude is wrong; it is trine and Covenants the Lord re-
one of defense and excuse. The veals that, "Unto that soul that sin-
person, though knowing better, is neth shall the former sins return."
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This presents another hght on the
idea of conducting ourselves con-
trary to the revealed word of the
Lord in an attempt to get experience.
In the same section He says, 'Tor
unto whom much is given, much is
required; and he who sins against the
greater light shall receive the greater
condemnation."
Another element that should not
be overlooked is that the effect of
sin and wrongdoing is never (in this
life at any rate) left completely be-
hind, even though the Lord has
promised us that under certain con-
ditions He will remember our sins
no more.
Alma could never forget that "he
had gone around with the sons of
Mosiah seeking to destroy the church
of God".
The Lord had sent an angel to
cause a right-about turn in Alma's
life, and his services from that time
on were acceptable in the sight of
the Lord, but Alma carried always
the regret that he had sought to de-
stroy the church* of God.
Paul, great missionary that he was,
could never forget his part in the per-
secution of the saints. So let us not
deceive ourselves. We can never
leave the effects of our wrongdoing
entirely behind.
QLIVER COWDERY wrote
nearly every word of the Book
of Mormon as it fell from the lips of
the Prophet Joseph Smith. He re-
ceived the Aaronic Priesthood with
Joseph at the hands of John the Bap-
tist; he was the first to be baptized
in this dispensation; he received with
Joseph under the hands of Peter,
James and John the Melchizedek
Priesthood; he was one of the three
witnesses to whom an angel present-
ed the plates of the Book of Mor-
mon, and he heard the voice of God
concerning them. He was called of
God to be the first preacher and first
Elder in the Church.
However, with all this background
and rich experience, Oliver Cowdery
was excommunicated from the
Church because several serious
charges against him were sustained.
Some ten years afterward at a
special conference held at Kanesville,
Iowa, October 21, 1848, presided
over by Orson Hyde, Oliver Cow-
dery said, ''Friends and brethren, my
name is Cowdery, Oliver Cowdery.
In the early history of this Church I
stood identified with her and one in
her councils. True it is that the gifts
and callings of God are without re-
pentance; not because I was better
than the rest of mankind was I call-
ed, but to fulfill the purposes of
God." Shortly afterward before the
High Council he said, "Brethren, for
a number of years I have been separ-
ated from you. I now desire to come
back. I wish to come humbly and
to be one in your midst. I seek no
station. I only wish to be identified
with you."
Oliver said that the gifts and call-
ings of God are without repentance.
What is to become of our particu-
lar gifts and callings if we cast them
aside or cover them up while we
follow along a worldly path? Re-
pentance at the end of the road will
not restore our gifts and callings, as
they are without repentance. We
shall have to retrace our steps to at-
tain our former station, and we shall
ever be conscious of a great loss of
time and corresponding advance-
ment that might have been ours.
The Homemaker of Tomorrow
By Vivian Minyard
Extension Specialist in Clothing
Univeisity of Idaho Agricultural Extension Service
NO other profession occupies the
attention and efforts of more
people than that of homemak-
ing. Every homemaker should strive
to do the best possible job and be
the highest type of individual. She
should have certain ends to achieve
and thereby develop her personality.
The following worth while aims are
worthy ones for consideration:
1. She should always look her best.
2. She should have outside interests.
3. She should be willing to accept other
people's viewpoints.
4. She should improve her outlook
through good reading.
5. She should take care of her health.
1. She should always look her
best. The adornment of the human
body is one of the oldest arts. One
never goes through a museum with-
out seeing something which has
been used to adorn the body. This
may be an ancient costume, a bit of
jewelry, footwear, etc. The Greeks,
5,000 years ago, used cosmetics of
various kinds. The only difference
between now and then is that they
are now available to everyone, and at
that time only a few could have
them. So it has always been a natural
desire to want to look one's best.
The first requirement is to know
one's own figure. One individual
looks her best in ruffles and frills,
and another looks better in tailored,
plain costumes. The dainty, femi-
nine type requires different clothing
than the active, athletic type. Cloth-
ing should always be selected for
the individual rather than fashion,
for it tells much about the wearer.
The highest compliment one can
receive is to be told that her dress
looks like her.
After knowing one's type, the sec-
ond step in looking one's best is to
plan carefully as to color, style, etc.,
so new purchases will look well with
the wearing apparel already on hand.
To be well dressed one needs to
consider the entire effect, which is
much more important than details.
Clothing should be selected for the
occasions for which it is to be used.
Good grooming is a very import-
ant factor. To be well groomed at
all times implies respect for those
who have to live with us and look
at us. Good grooming is merely the
intelligent use of information about
the care of the person and the clothes
one wears. Good grooming results
in self-respect, better poise, more
self-confidence, beauty, and is the
first requirement in style. Any home-
maker owes it to her family to look
her best at home as well as out in
company. A pretty dress, well fitted
and suitable to the wearer, helps
make living more pleasant. The
smartest looking dress will do noth-
ing for the person who neglects the
fundamental principles of cleanli-
ness and neatness. One needs to
care—
"Oh, I could talk for an hour," said Nell,
On the psychic basis of dressing well.
It isn't a question of pocketbooks,
It isn't a figure, it isn't looks,
It isn't going to first-rate places,
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586 - SEPTEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Believe me, the thing has a psychic basis.
It's caring — caring a terrible lot
Whether you're right, or whether you're
not.'"*
— Alice Duer Miller.
The attractive individual has good
posture. Good posture indicates
self-confidence and poise. Good
posture is restful. One might think
of posture as being "position of
body". Therefore, it pertains to sit-
ting and lying positions, as v^ell as
standing. Every minute the body is
being shaped, whether one is sitting,
reading, washing dishes, sewing or
driving an automobile.
The person with poor posture can
never look as well in her clothes as
one with good posture. Everyone
can, with persistent effort, improve
posture by taking exercises. There
are hygienic, spiritual, economic and
social values in having good posture.
Organs in the body cannot function
properly if in a cramped position,
which results in poor health. With-
out good health all other values are
lost to a great extent.
There are several factors which
may be the cause of poor posture;
namely: Malnutrition, overfatigue,
carelessness on the part of the person
in not using all muscles, wrong men-
tal attitude, poorly fitted clothing,
foot arch trouble and defective eye-
sight. Any individual with poor pos-
ture should determine why, and then
make an honest effort to correct it.
Those with good posture should al-
ways strive to keep it.
The one who looks her best has
a ready smile. The memory of a
smile lasts forever. Leave a smile
for those who have none left to give.
*Verse from Dress Design and Selection,
by Marguerite Stotts Hopkins, Macmillan.
2. She should have outside inter-
ests. It is an absolute necessity
for every homemaker to have out-
side interests. These may vary
considerably. For some, it may
be church work or community work
of some nature. Others have hob-
bies for their outside interests. Every-
one should get more joy out of life,
and the happiest people are the ones
with hobbies.
Great people have hobbies so they
can completely lose themselves and
forget their work. The hobby should
be as different as possible from regu-
lar work.
Each individual must make his
own choice of hobbies. Some may
wish to collect things, and others
will want to learn facts about some-
thing in which they are particularly
interested. Any one of these makes
for a more interesting individual and
gives one an opportunity to work out
original ideas, which is valuable in
itself.
One should not confuse a hobby
with a fad.
Many great inventions have been
the result of hobbies. Photography,
the electric motor, the telegraph,
the typewriter, the sewing machine
and others were invented through
"play".
3. She should he willing to accept
other people's viewpoints. One's
views are more valuable if the other
fellow's point of view is understood.
From others come the greatest les-
sons.
An individual should not mind
criticism, but rather, profit from it.
If it is justified, do something about
it and make a better individual. If
it is ignorant, say nothing. If it is
untrue, merely disregard it. If it is
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 587
unfair, show strength of character by
refraining from irritation.
4. She should improve her outlook
through good reading. Every home-
maker should plan to have some time
for reading. It is through reading
that one is able to understand other
people and appreciate their prob-
lems. The understanding person is
a good citizen. It has been said
that no man is poor who possesses
a good book. It might also be said
that no man can be lonely among
books.
A variety of types should be read :
Autobiography, fiction, travel, poet-
ry, etc. All have their place.
Michelangelo, it is said, once
stood in contemplation of a block
of marble on which he was to begin
work, in rapt thought as to its po-
tentialities. "Within you," he said,
"there is both beauty and ugliness.
Which comes out depends on the
sculptor."*
What comes out in the individual
may be greatly influenced by the
reading one does. The individual,
like the plant, either grows or with-
ers. It is the duty of each home-
maker to keep growing.
5. She should take good care oi
her health. Health is of vital im-
portance to every homemaker and
should not be neglected, ever. It is
more than being free from sickness.
Health means having enough vigor,
endurance and enthusiasm to make
life worth living. Physical, mental
and spiritual health are each impor-
tant and dependent on each other.
Proper food and personal habits
must be obeyed to make for good
health. The individual should get
*The American Soioptomist.
knowledge, then understand it, ac-
cept it and practice it.
Bodies vary greatly as to strength
and endurance, so it is necessary for
each person to know his own possi-
bilities and then strive to maintain
them.
Recreation should be considered
in connection with health. Everyone
should have a few minutes daily to
do something for themselves.
Clothing, in relation to health,
needs careful consideration. The
homemaker whose feet hurt because
her shoes are poorly fitted and not
suitable has a difficult job.
As each homemaker works toward
developing her personality, she will
profit by keeping in mind the fol-
lowing thoughts suggested by Mar-
shall Fields of Chicago as being wor-
thy ones to remember :t The value
of time, the success of perseverance,
the pleasure of working, the dignity
of simplicity, the worth of character,
the power of kindness, the influence
of example, the obligation of duty,
the wisdom of economy, the virtue
of patience, the improvement of tal-
ent and the joy of originating.
Personality is that which distin-
guishes a person and makes him
stand out as different from someone
else. It radiates when one has a
natural, easy, unafraid and alert man-
ner, a pleasant, happy disposition or
outlook, a fresh, well-groomed ap-
pearance, a costume which empha-
sizes desirable features and good
posture. The personality of the
homemaker is reflected in the home
and community. The stabflity of the
nation depends on the security of
the home and community.
tPublished in National 4-H Club News,
Chicago.
Opportunities for Youth
By hvin S. Noall
Supervisor of Industrial Arts and Occupational Education, Salt Lake City Public Schools
THE question of ''what one can which business and industry are not
use for money" begins early prepared to meet. Youth are becom-
with children these days, but ing restless and discouraged, law en-
the question of what one can do forcement agencies are much
to earn money and the larger ques- alarmed, and parents are justly con-
tion of what kind of a job to look cerned.
for and where one can find that job The answer is not to be found in
are problems that worry parents and more police officers, nor does it lie
that become serious to youth about in more recreation centers, though
the time of high school graduation, these are an aid. Society, collective-
It is becoming more difficult for ly and individually, must recognize
youth to observe adults at work or the new situation and meet it in an
to get miscellaneous job experience intelligent way. Two lines of ap-
as a basis for the selection of a vo- proach are open to us. One consists
cation. Also, the population has of the study of human wants and
overtaken the undeveloped western abilities to consume and the adjust-
domain, so that today the problem ment of production and distribution
of surplus labor has become large, machinery to meet demands. When
This creates another difficulty for this problem is properly solved, it
youth; namely, that competition has will become a relatively simple mat-
become keen and only the best qual- ter to lengthen or shorten the work-
ified get jobs. ing day to effect a balance between
The training of the new worker more goods, more work and less
is now an important factor of cost, leisure on the one hand; or less
and the employer who sees the ulti- goods, less work, and more leisure
mate necessity of young people learn- on the other hand. This problem
ing to work and who desires to help is now before us, but will hardly be
in the process is placed at a disad- satisfactorily solved this side of the
vantage by his competitor who takes millennium.
the worker only after he has learned The other problem is that of guid-
enough to become an asset. When ance and training of youth to meet
children went to work at 14 or 15 the new situation. The answer to
years of age, often their earnings were neither problem is an end in itself,
only three or four dollars a week, but each will be an aid and a sup-
Today when they demand twenty- plement to the other. Both problems
five cents or more an hour and still are being attacked, and progress is
have to learn the business, they are being made in both fields. The re-
definitely a liability. mainder of this article will be devot-
These problems of labor surplus, ed to the present opportunities and
limited opportunities for work ex- accomplishments for the guidance
perience and observation, delayed and training of youth. It is under-
employment, and demand for higher stood that this phase of the problem
wages, have created a new situation is not concerned with unemploy-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 589
ment, as such, but that it does offer
a partial solution to unemployabil-
ity.
The finding of the right vocation
offers the first obstacle. Most peo-
ple can learn to do a great many
things reasonably well. The prob-
lem of which occupation to try raises
three major questions. The first is
the level of the job. Not all persons
can reach the level of the professions.
To attempt to do so means disap-
pointment and sorrow for those not
fitted. Also, it is a human waste
when talented people content them-
selves to work at menial tasks. One's
job should be stimulating and call
JFor the best one can do. Social po-
sition and unwise ambition of par-
ents for their children cause the most
serious errors in the level of voca-
tional selection. Examples of this
sort may be found in most families
and in every neighborhood. It is
better both for the individual and
for society for one to be a good
blacksmith or farmer than a poor
lawyer or doctor.
The second error lies in the ap-
praisal of special talents. It requires
an exceptional voice and superior
tone discrimination to be successful
in music; if one lacks manual dex-
terity it would be folly to attempt
dentistry, the machinist trade, or
dressmaking; the shy person will en-
counter difficulties in salesmanship.
The third major error in voca-
tional selection is to ignore oppor-
tunities for employment. During
the past twenty years there has been
a great increase in high school en-
rollment. The lack of work oppor-
tunities has led many to improve
their time by attending colleges and
universities. Often this is for cul-
ture and general education, but usu-
ally the student feels the need of a
job and takes training for a profes-
sion before leaving. When less than
eight per cent of our wage earners
are now in the professions, it is ob-
vious that the much larger per cent
which goes to college cannot find
opportunities in these fields.
Similarly, since the advent of com-
mercial aviation, every boy aspires
to be an aviator, or at least an avia-
tion mechanic. A study of this field
will show that there is not employ-
ment opportunity for one class of
twenty students a year in the entire
state of Utah. Training too many
in selected fields results either in
the student's moving out of the state
or in his giving up his field of train-
ing and shifting to some other occu-
pation which may or may not utilize
the preparation received.
'pHE Vocational Center and Adult
School in Salt Lake City are at-
tempting to meet these difficulties
by providing a counseling and train-
ing service. Hundreds of boys and
girls in their late teens and early
twenties have been helped to ap-
praise their talents and abilities and
to survey the employment oppor-
tunities in an effort to obtain occu-
pational adjustment.
The previous school record is care-
fully studied in an effort to find ele-
ments of strength and weakness.
Any employment experience is in-
vestigated for possible clues. Then
a series of aptitude and occupational
tests are given to determine as nearly
as possible learning aptitude, motor
coordination, finger dexterity, spatial
relations, color blindness, emotional
adjustment, etc. The resulting pro-
file helps to see the possibilities of
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the individual in relation to those of bookkeepers, and salesmen for store
other people and is used as an aid in and specialty work. These and vari-
counseling the student in the inter- ous other classes will be offered also
view which follows. in evening school for those who al-
The number to train in any oc- ready have work. Similar opportuni-
cupation requires careful study. To ties, in lesser variety, will be pro-
train too few may deprive someone vided at the Utah State Agricultural
of a chance to work. To train too College and the several Junior Col-
many not only results in unemploy- leges.
ment but also in the demoralizing In Salt Lake City, students who
of wage rates. To better determine have been approved by the coun-
numbers and other aspects of train- selor and coordinator may enroll in
ing, an advisory committee is organ- suitable pre-apprentice classes where
ized which consists of representa- they are taught the fundamentals of
tives of employers, employees, and theory and practice of the trade. The
the school. This committee studies instructor is a practical tradesman
available data from the United selected for his superior character,
States Census, the state employment personality, and standing in the
office, and from employer and em- trade. The training course is based
ployee experience in getting jobs or upon a careful review of what the
finding qualified help. When the worker needs to know to get and
annual labor turnover is known, the hold a job.
number needed is not difficult to fig- it is anticipated that all students
ure. will be placed at the end of one year
It would be an ideal situation if of training, but it is also planned
the needs of all occupations could that those who are not ready and
be ascertained and training provided those who cannot work for want of
for every need. Where many work- labor demand may continue into
ers are required, many classes could the second year or until such time
be established, and these could be as they are ready and are needed,
located in several communities. This flexibility, together with the
Where very few are required it various precautions implied in coun-
would be possible to provide only seling and acceptance, gives high as-
one class for a state, or perhaps one surance of employment to all who
class for several states. enroll.
Naturally, occupations where de- It is not possible to teach all of
mand is greatest are selected for the a trade or to develop a high degree
establishment of local training op- of competence in a school room,
portunities. It is contemplated that Judgment and skill are acquired in
for 1939-40, Salt Lake City will offer subsequent apprenticeship and in
day trade or pre-employment classes further technical training in evening
for carpenters, cabinet makers, school. To assure placement and
millwork, machinists, auto mechan- progress of the learner after employ-
ics, electricians, printers, sheet metal ment, school coordinators maintain
workers, plumbers, body and fender close contact with the trade, advising
workers, upholsterers, stenographers, with employers, observing employ-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 591
ees, checking on the shortcomings of these grants and made partial match-
previous training, and advising on ing appropriations to further the
possible improvements. This close work. It is still required that stu-
coordination of school and work dents contribute a share because of
and close follow-up and counseling the limitations of tax funds. In Salt
of the young worker after training Lake City such fees for the day trade
are the secret of the fine cooperation school, which operates five hours a
being received in Salt Lake City and day through the school year, is
will be found indispensable in any $30. The evening school fees are
successful training program. approximately seven cents per hour
It is anticipated that boys and in addition to the cost of the sup-
girls who have made a wise selection plies used.
of a vocation and who have received That the public is responding to
training and work experience as out- the opportunity is evidenced by en-
lined above can and should equal rollments. Many who attend trade
the best American and European classes move into the city or take
craftsmen. They will know the what, room and board. Evening students
the how, and the why of things, drive to school from as far as forty
They will have an open mind, a miles and will not miss a session even
studious attitude, and a capacity to though they have done heavy labor
adjust to the rapid changes in em- ^n day. A good trade school record
ployment. They will soon be the [^ becoming the best recommenda-
backbone of American mdustry. tion for a job, and a good evening
CINCE the economic well-being of school record is the most effective
^ both individual and state is tied recommendation for job promotion
up in the occupational competence and security against depression un-
of the people, and since competitive employment.
industry will not carry the burden The provision of opportunities for
of training and cannot do it effect- additional fields of training to meet
ively, it is fitting and proper that at the needs of youth and industry will
least initial job training, as well as wait upon public demand. If the
the subsequent technical training people want and are willing to pay
which may be required, should be for more service, it is theirs for the
provided by the public training asking. Their recourse will be de-
agency, namely the public school. mand upon local boards of education
The Federal Government made and the state legislature. We are be-
such a decision in the establishment ginning to learn that occupational
of Agricultural and Mechanical col- training through the public schools,
leges. In 1917 it began the policy of supported by taxation, is cheaper and
directly subsidizing vocational train- better than can be had through pri-
ing on the high school level through vate resources, and that counseling
the passage of the Smith-Hughes and training hold the key to the so-
Act. This was expanded and en- lution of one of the two great prob-
larged in 1936 in the George-Dean lems facing youth as they move into
Act. The State of Utah accepted adult life and responsibility.
Help Our Missionaries
By Grace S. Colton
FROM observations in the Mis-
sionary Home and in the mis-
sion field we find that girls as
well as boys are lacking in a knowl-
edge of how to go about cooking a
simple meal or washing a few clothes,
the necessity of the daily bath and
clean linen, and the art of making a
bed and keeping a room in order.
Health is the most important fac-
tor in a missionary's career. Upon
it everything depends. It is impor-
tant that missionaries realize the im-
portance of this and have a thorough
knowledge of how to keep well. A
clean and healthy body always gives
spontaneous cheerfulness, joy, and
a sense of well-being. One can think
more clearly, quickly and deeply
when one's mind and body are one
with health. Goethe said, "What
a man does not understand he does
not possess." Self-possession is
something of which no one can rob
us. Therefore, if we have a knowl-
edge of what we should do and what
we should avoid in maintaining
health, we possess, to an extent, that
something which Christ spoke of
when He said, "The truth shall make
you free". Certainly we are free to
enjoy a happy, rounded life when
we have good health.
Because of illness, many of our
missionaries are not doing as effi-
cient work as they could do, and
some have to return home. Now
what could mothers do to assist their
boys and girls before they leave
home? They could advise them to
take a course in school for a few
months in the art of cooking, or
teach them in the home how to
cook simple, wholesome meals. Pros-
GRACE S. COLTON
Missionary Home Mother
pective missionaries should be taught
how to select the right combinations
of foods, so that the body will have
the proper daily proportion of min-
erals and vitamins. One great diffi-
culty is a lack of knowledge regard-
ing the amount of each food to pur-
chase for, say, two or four persons,
so that there will not be any waste.
They should be taught that it is
harmful to eat the same foods day
after day without change and variety.
For instance, one young elder was
heard to say, as he came in from a
hard day's tracting, "My stomach re-
volts against vegetable soup or pork
and beans; that has been our daily
diet for the last six months. Wliat
wouldn't I give to put my feet be-
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neath my mother's table and have
a daily square meal!"
Often canned foods are purchased
because they are cheaper than the
fresh, are cooked, and easily pre-
pared. However, we learn from
those who have studied this impor-
tant question that canned foods lose
some of the food values. Heat in
some cases has removed some of the
nourishing elements. Fresh vegeta-
bles and fruits are more wholesome.
In this day and age we can find
fresh vegetables and fruits in the
markets the year around, and on the
farm they are stored in cellars. If a
missionary knows how to prepare
these, health is more assured.
Water is a very essential element
of the body, and many of us do not
drink enough of it. We should not
depend on our thirst as an accurate
guide. We should drink our daily
six or eight glasses, or one glassful
daily to each twenty pounds of body
weight.
From another quarter we hear,
"Oh, we have dandy, good appetiz-
ing meals. Elder X is a better cook
than a woman. He sometimes threat-
ens to let us go hungry if we do not
take our turn, but so far he has been
a good sport and cooked the meals."
Elder X is an exception. He was a
boy who had been taught by a wise
mother that all honest work is hon-
orable and that cooking, washing
and cleaning are not sissy jobs.
[ANY of the missionaries have to
wash their own clothes while
they are away, and they leave home
without the slightest idea of how to
go about it. We find this to be true
because of a number of instances
which have occurred in the Mission-
ary Home. For instance, a number
M^
of elders decided to wash their soiled
clothes. Without asking for assist-
ance, they concluded it would be a
simple task; they had seen their
mothers doing the washing in the
home, and it had seemed so easv
just to put hot water in the washer
and throw in the clothes. They pro-
ceeded to do this very thing. It was
unfortunate that they had not ob-
served that mother had always cut
up the bar of soap, and that she had
sorted the clothes. One boy sug-
gested that they put in some soap;
so a bar was thrown in, and then
socks, colored pajamas, white under-
wear and white shirts were put in,
all at the same time. The washei
went merrily on for some time. Then
it was opened, and they proceeded
to take out the clothes. Nothing
looked natural but the socks, and
it was a sorry group of young men
who asked what could be done about
it.
The missionaries have to make
their own beds and keep their rooms
tidy. There is an art in making a
bed, and it is a simple art that any
boy or girl can master. We see some
beds, however, where it looks as if
the spread had been dropped from
an airplane and had fluttered down
and settled on top of the bed. Such
a bed makes a room look very un-
tidy. Shoes, suitcases, ties, etc.,
should have a place and be found
always in place. A girl or boy is
judged not only by how he keeps his
room but by his personal habits and
appearance. A daily bath is very
essential. Missionaries ■ are always
walking, exercising, attending meet-
ings, getting warm and perspiring,
and a bath is not only refreshing
but invigorating. A clean body, fresh
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linen and cheerful surroundings re-
sult in self-respect.
In one of the missionary groups,
one of the elders could cook a meal
and was proud of it, could do a
washing equal to any woman and
tidy up the washroom afterwards,
putting everything in its place. Al-
so, he displayed with pride a pair
of socks he had darned. His mother
had provided him with a sewing kit,
thread, needles, buttons, scissors and
a large black satin apron to wear
when at his work. He is going to
enjoy his mission for his body will
be kept well nourished, and he will
not worry about doing the little es-
sential tasks that come each day.
A young woman who had been
doing splendid work and was very
happy and had written enthusiastic
letters to the home folks, later be-
gan writing discouragingly, and her
mother asked why the change. A
letter came back telling about her
new companion. This companion
had refused to take her share of the
duties about their small apartment,
and she was very untidy and unclean
about her person. She would leave
things all about the place and sleep
beyond the time when she should
have been about her tasks. Wher-
ever this girl went, she made it un-
pleasant and embarrassing for her
friends and companions. She had
not read, perhaps, what the Prophet
Joseph Smith said: "Cease to be
idle; cease to be unclean; cease to
find fault one with another; cease
to sleep longer than is needful; re-
tire to thy bed early, that ye may
not be weary; arise early, that your
bodies and your minds may be in-
vigorated."
V^TE do feel, we missionary moth-
ers, very proud of these boys
and girls and want to do the things
that will help them most in caring
for their health and well-being. We
have faith in them, and we must
teach them to have faith in them-
selves.
No one else can breathe for us.
No one else can keep our heart beat-
ing. We must eat nourishing food
and digest it ourselves; and because
we must do these and many other
things ourselves— things no one else
can do for us— it is necessary for us
to have faith in ourselves, faith in
our capacity to go on until the work
we have to do is done, ever mindful
that everything we do, or shall do,
is motivated by religious faith. We
should never exist an hour without
exercising it.
Faith gathers up life, pulls it to-
gether and gives it direction. Let our
boys and girls possess knowledge of
important useful things and always
remember the prayer of a good man
who said, "Eternal Father, who has
equipped the arsenal of our souls
with weapons which we have barely
used, forgive us all and send us out
to walk more intelligently and pow-
erfully by faith."
^^
Prove Me Now
By Marguerite Johnson Giiffin
IT was Saturday night and pay day, statement from the doctor. There's
but Bruce Boynton's face bore the bill for the wood, and the rent
no signs of joy and pleasure at is due in a week," he said bitterly,
his home-coming. Despair lay upon Then he laughed ironically,
his features making worry lines into ''And there's two ten dollar bills,
'deep furrows. He had no kiss of Stretch them over if you can. How-
greeting for his wife, and he passed ever, you must remember they're
his little six-year-old son, Bobbie, just paper, not rubber."
without a word or a touch. The ''Don't, Bruce," cried the woman,
little fellow's smiling face length- putting her arms warmly around
ened, and he stood speechless in him. "We'll get by. It'll take care
wide-eyed amazement, silenced by of the lights and the gas. I saved
the austere expression of his father, some out last week to apply on the
Something was wrong. Even a child wood, and I think with that we'll
could feel that. have enough. Next week we'll pay
Alice, the mother, waited too. She the fifteen dollars for rent, and the
understood the despair which so of- following week we can pay the doc-
ten gripped her husband's heart. It tor five. We'll get by."
was financial problems, a diminish- Bobbie had slipped quietly and
ing salary which was becoming more unnoticed into the next room,
and more difficult to expand over "But who wants to get bv?" thun-
their needs. If only Bruce had the dered the man. "We want to get
Gospel for comfort at times like ahead."
these. That was the thing she al- "Everybody's in the same boat,
ways felt, for to her it was a bulwark, Bruce. It isn't just us. If it were,
a refuge, in which she became re- we might complain. As it is, we've
freshed and made more able to cope got each other and Bobbie."
with her problems. But as yet Bruce "Bobbie! Where is the kid?" the
had never seen fit to join, though he man remembered suddenly. "I for-
studied and knew the doctrines as got all about him."
well, she felt, if not better than she. "Here I am. Daddy," the child
Perhaps some day— said seriously. "Here's a penny.
Her eyes were silently watching I couldn't make any more come out
every movement. Every pay day was of my bank, but you need some
very similar, except that the man's money, so I want to give you a pen-
discouragement deepened. He pull- ny, 'cause I love you so."
ed forth two wrinkled ten dollar The little boy's devotion com-
bills from one pocket and placed pletely softened the man's heart,
them on the table. Then from "Bless you!" he said, and crushed
another he extracted several slips of the small boy to him.
paper which he threw in a crumpled "Here, Daddy, take it," insisted
heap beside the money. the child, not to be put off.
"There's a light bill, a gas bill, a Such unselfishness and thought-
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fulness were overwhelming to the This was an unusual occurrence for
man. Such a noble, manly little son a Saturday night, but they had been
he had! The father held him back asked to fill out some ward member-
at arm's length and looked proudly ship survey cards, and they were
at the solemn little face whose earn- trying to get their task completed
estness could not be denied. Such in order that they might hand the
generosity was a priceless thing and cards to the bishop the following
should be cultivated. day. Brother Martin and Brother
So accepting the copper piece he James were very surprised to find
said, 'Thank you very much, son." that Bruce Boynton was not a mem-
It was one of life's exquisite mo- ber of the Church, and they said
ments, and the mother, watching, as much.
read the loving desires which filled "For a non-member, you are out-
lier husband's eyes. She knew what standing in your attendance at meet-
he was feeling. She knew how he ings. You seem to be one of our
would like to be able to lay the good old stand-bys. You attend every ac-
things of the earth before this child's tivity. Surely you are planning short-
feet and her own as well. She knew ly to join our ranks?"
the frustrations which rose up to ''No-o-o," Bruce drawled slowly,
torment the man's soul. What '1 have no such plans as that. Alice
chance did a man have today to build enjoys her meetings. I have no
up a heritage for his family? church of my own, so I enjoy going
''Dear Bruce!" thought the wom- with her. But I think it's best to
an. ''If you could only see. If you leave things just as they are."
could only know that there is a gos- Brother James, the elder Teacher,
pel which provides for mankind a now assumed the role of spokesman,
heritage which is above all price, and and he voiced a question which on
in which both rich and poor have some occasions might seem very
equal chance. But the pain which blunt, but his voice was gentle and
was filling her husband's eyes now earnest.
was more than she could bear, so ''Do you believe Mormonism to
she severed the tension abruptly. be true?"
"Get ready for dinner," she urged ''Of course he does," Alice an-
therti, forcing her mind and her at- swered eagerly. "He's read our doc-
tention to return to the preparations trines from cover to cover." She
for the evening meal. turned her clear, studious eyes full
Bruce went to the bathroom to upon his face. "You do believe it,
wash and clean himself up. He don't you, Bruce?"
carelessly laid the penny upon the The man smiled affectionately up-
window sill, while the incident slip- on his wife.
ped from his memory as his problems -Well, in a way perhaps I do.
crowded in once more upon his at- yes, I do believe that it has the most
Mention. t^ offer of ^^y church."
PEARLY in the evening, shortly af- "Then why," persisted Brother
ter Bobbie had gone to bed, two James softly, "why do you not em-
Ward Teachers called at the house, brace it?"
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"Oh, I don't know," shrugged the
man.
'Tes, you do," insisted the elder
Ward Teacher. 'There is something
about it which bothers you. Per-
haps we can help. Tell us what it
is.
In the presence of this gentle earn-
•estness Bruce could no longer en-
velop himself in self-restraint.
"Very well," he said. "I doubt
if you can help me, though. You
see, Fve read everything on it that
I can find, but I still can't swallow
the doctrine. And I want to believe
it, too!" The man's voice was
strangely tense. '1 do want to be-
lieve Mormonism! There is no use
for me to join if I can't live it, and
I'd h'lce to be able to live it as my
wife would have me do."
The room was silent while all
waited for Bruce to continue. Alice's
eyes were fastened anxiously upon
her husband as if the very fate of
her life hung in the balance.
''But there's one thing I'm not
converted to, and that is the pay-
ment of tithing. I figure if I can't
whole-heartedly accept that, I had
better remain a non-member than
become one of those members who
must constantly be admonished to
do his duty."
"I see," mused Brother James.
"Tliat is a very honorable attitude,
but what is there to tithing that you
can't accept?"
"Everything," answered Bruce
with spirit. "I make only $20 a
week. Tliat is not enough for a man
with a wife and child to live on.
It is only because of Alice's careful
management that we have as much
as we do. We get by. But there are
doctor bills which have come along
in the seven years of our marriage
which we have never been able to
keep up with, and other bills which
we have had to pay by small install-
ments, just as we can. Don't you
see? We don't make enough to
cover everything as it is. Therefore,
I can't see how a just God would de-
mand ten per cent of that meager
income -from us. Why, that would
be two dollars a week, eight dollars
in a month, more than we are ever
able to pay all at once on our doctor
bill. We couldn't manage. It would
be impossible."
Alice looked expectantly at Broth-
er James. If only he could say some-
thing to convince her husband, how
willing she would be to try to man-
age on the smaller amount. She
had told him all too often, but he
had only kissed her brow and insisted
that a just God would not expect
it of her, that she had to do without
enough as it was.
Brother James was speaking again,
very gently.
'Terhaps it might seem so in the
light of cold reasoning, but we must
not fail to remember that it is a
commandment with a blessing, you
know."
"I know," Bruce countered quick-
ly. "I can quote it: 'Bring ye all
the tithes into the storehouse, that
there may be meat in mine house,
and prove me now herewith, saith
the Lord of hosts, if I will not open
you the windows of heaven, and
pour you out a blessing, that there
shall not be room enough to receive
it.' Brother James, you can tell me
nothing about it that I do not know.
I know what it is, how it was substi-
tuted in these latter days for the
United Order which was first prac-
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ticed in the early days of the Church.
I have spent hours, days, trying to
understand it."
The man ran a large hand through
his hair as if the thought wearied
him.
''But so far I cannot accept it.
What does money mean to the
Lord? He with His power does not
need it when the whole earth is His
already, when the elements them-
selves would obey the command of
His words—"
'Tou have such faith in His pow-
er/' murmured Brother James softly,
'yet you cannot accept His words
that blessings will be returned to you
an hundred fold?"
''Do you think," Bruce argued
quite heatedly, "do you think a Su-
preme Being like God would treat
man so like a child as to say: 'If you
pay Me this money, I will give you
blessings—'?"
"But man is, after all, only a
child."
"Granted. But the whole thing
seems based on superstition to me.
The Perfect Father would not bribe
His children. The Perfect Father
would not accept pennies from His
impoverished children, for our dol-
lars must be as paltry to Him as our
children's pennies are to us."
Elder James' lips refrained from
further argument, and disappoint-
ment laid its hopeless blanket about
the cold shoulders of the young
woman. It was hopeless, utterly
hopeless. Bruce would never see the
light. It was hard to shake off the
despair which had come once more
from the shadows of her aching
heart. So, shortly after the visitors
left, she said she was tired and went
to bed, because she needed to cry
a little, and in the darkness Bruce
could not see. He, too, was glad
to have her retire, for then he could
let his face relax with the weariness
and despondency which he was too
exhausted to hide from her penetrat-
ing eyes any longer.
TT was quite late when the man
finally bestirred himself and went
into the bathroom, as was his nightly
habit, to scrub his teeth. And there
he saw it again— saw upon the win-
dow sill the small round copper pen-
ny which he had placed there so
carelessly a few hours before. Auto-
matically he picked it up, fingered
it a moment, while he thought lov-
ingly of the small blond boy who
had bestowed it so whole-heartedly
upon him. Then his steps moved
into the living room, and he went
up to the mantle where stood Bob-
bie's small penny bank. It was a
very cheap little metal bank, and the
paint on it was scratched by the hard
usage of childish hands. Without
hesitation he placed the coin over
the slot. Then he separated his fin-
gers and the penny dropped into the
bank with a clink which resounded
throughout the still room.
There was something joyous in the
ring of that clink! Something so
resonant that it sang into his very
soul! It set his heart hammering
with jubilance. It set his pulses
racing. It set his mind free, and it
drew away his blindness. Now he
could see the thing which had trou-
bled him. Now he knew and under-
stood.
"Indeed we are as little children,"
he thought, "even as Brother James
said; when we pay tithing our
good Heavenly Father eventually
slips it back into our penny bank.
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even as I slipped back the penny writing numerous receipts as the
which httle Bobbie so generously tithe payers had encircled his desk
gave me. There is no superstition after meeting. He had been writing
about it! It is reasonable! It is and receiving money so fast he had
natural!" scarcely looked up at any of the con-
His soul sang within him. tributors, contenting himself by
"Prove me now, herewith, saith speaking to them with head bent
the Lord of hosts, if I will not open over his work. But now he paused
•the windows of heaven and pour you suddenly and raised his eyes,
out a blessing!" ''Brother Boynton? And you're
The words raced through his mind not a member—" he breathed, while
as though borne on a breeze which a wave of radiance swept over his
was sweeping away all ugly doubts features,
and fears. ''But I will be as soon as it can
"I do not need to prove Thee, be arranged," Bruce promised.
Heavenly Father," he prayed. "I The Ward Clerk rose to his feet
know now. I understand how it is. and clasped the man's hand.
I thank Thee." "Congratulations, Brother!" he
The next evening after sacrament said earnestly. "May the Lord bless
meeting Bruce said to Alice, "Wait you and your wife!"
a moment. I have something to Alice was now at his side, and her
see to." small hand had crept into her hus-
She watched him go toward the band's free one and lay there quiver-
Ward Clerk's desk, and she won- ing with an uncontrollable joy. She
dered what his intentions might be. could not speak for her soul was so
Slowly she followed him and arrived full, but her thoughts winged a
at his side in time to hear him say: grateful prayer:
"Two dollars tithing for Bruce "Thank you. Lord, for this bless-
Boynton." ing which is so great there is scarcely
The Ward Clerk had been busy room in my heart to receive it!"
0?
^^npHE supreme benefit of tithing is not the money it brings to the
church. It is the joy, the contentment, the individual personal happi-
ness it brings into the daily life of the tither. To these the money standard
does not apply. They can be neither weighed, measured nor counted, yet
these and not the money are what God cares for. His glory is enhanced
by the happiness of His children."
Grace Abbott
By George Gardner
"The golf links lie so near the mill
That nearly every day
The laboring children can look out
And see the men at play."
— Sarah Cleghoin.
STUDENTS of history are quite innocent people. While in Chicago,
agreed that one of the greatest she was attracted to Hull House
contributions of Christianity is where she became acquainted with
the better life for women and chil- Jane Addams and Julia Lathrop and
dren. The Master said that He came their great humanitarian work. Here
to this world that we might have Hfe Miss Abbott with her legal knowl-
more abundantly. In the light of edge was largely responsible for the
this truth, Grace Abbott has been organization of the Immigrants'
one of America's foremost crusaders Protective League. This Organiza-
for Christianity and has rescued for tion was one of the first to protect
women and children many of those immigrants from unscrupulous peo-
things Christianity wishes for them. pie. These she has described in her
Women and children should know book, The Immigrant and the Com-
something of this great woman who munity.
has secured for them an increased Later she became Executive Secre-
part of the blessings of life and has tary of the State Immigation Com-
shielded them from many of the mission of Massachusetts and also
hardships. No advancement in civ-
ilization stands more to America's
credit than the improved condition
of its women and children.
Miss Abbott's early education was
secured in Grand Island, Nebraska.
This was more than a school educa-
tion in the common sense of the
term. She secured an education in
justice, for at that time her father
took part in some of those early so-
cial movements that secured more of
the benefits of modern progress for
the common people.
As a girl, she went to the little
red school house; as a young lady.
of Illinois, where she continued to
be a friend to strangers in a strange
land. This Organization not only
corrected many grave wrongs, but it
did much to advance Americaniza-
tion work.
Her training in Chicago, both at
the University and at Hull House,
was important in the life of Miss
Abbott. Her scholastic training
enabled her to work efficiently and
effectively; her contact with Hull
House stimulated those humanitar-
ian traits that gave her the driving
force and the spirit of a crusader.
It was here that she first directed
to Grand Island College and^ the her efforts toward the problems of
child health and child labor, the
fields of her later greatest usefulness.
'T^HERE are no subjects in all
America on which public opin-
ion has changed more than it has
University of Nebraska, and later
she attended the University of Chi-
cago. There, in the school of po-
litical science and law, she laid the
foundation of a career which ena-
bled her to protect the rights of
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on the problems of child labor and
child health, and Miss Abbott was a
central figure in this educational
campaign. This educational work
required a tremendous amount of
time, work, patience, wisdom, and
cooperation; it required integrity and
sacrifice of many of the personal
' things which give flavor and richness
to life.
Through the efforts of Miss Ab-
bott and her associates, the National
Child Labor committee was formed
in 1904. In 1909, President Roose-
velt called the White House Con-
ference and recommended the estab-
lishment of a Children's Bureau in
the United States Government. This
bureau was created in 1912 by an act
of Congress and was authorized to
investigate and report upon all mat-
ters pertaining to the welfare of
children among all classes of our
people. This was one of the first
public agencies in all the world given
the responsibility of supplying facts
with reference to child life as a
whole and is one of the most hu-
manitarian movements since the be-
ginning of the Christian era. The
Bureau disclosed facts at once to
show that the death rate among chil-
dren and mothers was disgracefully
high. It called attention to the
seamy side of efficiency in business
that led to the use of women and
children as though they were ma-
chines. Miss Abbott saw the tre-
mendous cost of that type of effi-
ciency and knew that none can
escape the harmful effects of such
treatment of women and children.
In 1917, Congress passed the
Child Labor Law, and Miss Abbott
was chosen director of the Child La-
bor Division of the United States
Department of Labor. This was a po-
sition of great advantage, for it ena-
bled her to see even more clearly the
situation of children.
She found associated almost every-
where poverty, child labor, illiter-
acy, illness, misunderstanding and
delinquency. She saw that the cost
of widowhood was being borne by
little children. In 1920, more than
a million children between the ages
of ten and sixteen were being em-
ployed in the mills, in the factories
and in the fields. She realized that
this was a great waste of youth and a
great cost to the nation in spiritual
power.
Her position placed her in close
touch with the strong advocates of
the Child Labor Law in the states.
These persons she enlisted as her
allies in an educational campaign for
a better life for children, which has
gone steadily on.
The declaration that the first and
then the second Federal Child Labor
Laws were unconstitutional must
have been a severe blow to Grace
Abbott. A lesser stateswoman would
have given up the fight. Not so this
great champion of childhood; with
increased energy she struggled anew
for a constitutional amendment.
Though the Child Labor Law has
not yet been ratified by all of the
states, the work of Miss Abbott and
her associates, for she did not work
alone, has borne good fruits through-
out the land, and women and chil-
dren everywhere have reaped bene-
fits. Many fine state laws have
grown from the good seed sown in
the campaign for the National Child
Labor Law. Provisions for safeguard-
ing the health of children, care for
dependent and neglected children,
increased recreation facilities, greater
efficiency in prevention and correc-
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tion of juvenile delinquency, in-
creased school attendance, and other
equally important things have grown
from the crusade of Miss Abbott and
her associates; they accomplished in-
directly what they appeared to fail to
do directly.
Regarding her work in the interest
of children, Miss Abbott said of her-
self: ''Sometimes when I get home
at night in Washington, I feel as
though I had been in a great traffic
jam. The jam is moving toward the
hill where Congress sits in judgment
on all the administrative agencies of
the Government. In the traffic jam
are all kinds of vehicles moving up
toward the Capitol, all kinds of con-
veyances, which I have not even the
vocabulary to describe. But they
all finally reach the hill, and they
make a plea that is a very old plea.
The Army says to Congress, 'Give,
lest you perish,' and fear as a mo-
tive produces results on a scale which
leaves the rest of us feeling very en-
vious of the kind of eloquence the
Army and Navy command. . . .
"I stand on the sidewalk with a
great deal of timidity watching it
become more congested and more
difficult, and then because the re-
sponsibility is mine and I must, I
take a firm hold on the baby car-
riage and I wheel it into the traffic.
There are some people who think it
does not belong there at all; there
are some people who wonder how
I got there with it and what I am
going to be able to do, and there are
some who think that the baby car-
riage is the symbol of bolshevism
instead of the home and the future
of America. . . .
'They call me impatient, perhaps
I am.
"I've said again and again, the
only time we can save the babies
who are going to die this year is this
year. If we wait until next, they will
be dead. The future rests in the
hands of the children of today.
What we do for them now is going
to determine not only the future of
the United States but the future of
the worid."*
jyilSS ABBOTT was appointed
chief of the Children's Bureau,
United States Department of Labor,
in 1921. In 1923, she served as un-
official observer for the United
States on the advisory committee
of the League of Nations on traffic
in women and children. Just five
times in the past half century has
the National Conference of Social
Work elected a woman as president.
Miss Abbott was one of these; two
others were Jane Addams and Julia
Lathrop, her beloved associates.
In 1931, a national poll chose
Grace Abbott as one of America's
twelve most distinguished women.
In 1934, she resigned her posi-
tion as chief of the Children's
Bureau to become Professor of Pub-
lic Welfare Administration in the
School of Social Service at the Uni-
versity of Chicago, a position which
she held until her death.
June 19, 1939, saw the passing of
a wise leader, a woman trained in
handling social problems with fore-
sight and balanced judgment. Her
service in the field of public welfare,
characterized by concentration upon
the problems of children, entitle her
to her position as one of America's
most distinguished daughters.
*From Adventurous Ameiicans, edited
by Devere Allen and published by Farrar
and Rinehart.
The Relief Society
and the Welfare Plan
By Ezra C. KnowJton
"She had an understanding with the years:
For always in her eyes there was a light
As though she kept a secret none might guess —
Some confidence that Time had made her heart.
So comely did she bear the weight of pain,
With such serenity accept the joy,
It seemed she had a mother love of life.
And all the days were children at her breast."
— Scudder Middleton.
THE inauguration of the Wei- breakdown which always follow. Fi-
fare Plan by the General nally, our day, when it has been mar-
Church Authorities three years shalled into the great and complex
ago found the Relief Society ready field of social service in the whirl
and prepared to fulfill its very im- of a confused economic world,
portant part. Sustained by a back- where, in the midst of plenty, want,
ground of nearly loo years of con- suffering, frustration, and discour-
tinuous and illustrious history in the agement stalk the land,
field of true Christian service, it From the beginning the Relief So-
stood ready to begin this new and ciety has been committed to a two-
important activity. phased mission, representing the
What a remarkable background of loftiest heights of Christian idealism
preparation it has had, which might —a mission first of relief to the poor,
be divided into four great epochs: the orphan, the sick and the needy;
First, its birth unto a people strug- second, and of great importance,
gling for recognition and the right a mission of spiritual support and
to organized existence in the world, uplift to the discouraged, the waver-
Its early years were tested in the ing and the tempted. Never failing,
crucible of persecution, mobbings never flinching, this great Organ iza-
and drivings. Second, its coming tion of women has kept aloft its
into maturity during that eventful noble banners through the colorful
pioneer period when the people, vicissitudes of nearly one hundred
though separated by kindly distance eventful years,
from human foes, were called upon In the days that are ahead, as this
to make almost superhuman sacri- great Church Welfare Program un-
fices against nature's relentless folds and vastly greater opportuni-
forces. Third, its important years of ties and like responsibilities appear,
preserving and upholding the high the women of the Church of our
standards of womanhood during the day should ever keep in mind the
period of the coming of economic glory of that background and, sus-
security and comparative popularity tained by its power and stimulation,
accompanied by the disintegrating meet the new challenge,
elements of spiritual and moral In order to combat effectively the
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complicated and serious economic
and social conditions existing today,
the Church Authorities called into
the field of social service, or social
welfare, all the great forces of the
Church organization for an attack
upon all fronts. Without a funda-
mental change in organic form, this
undertaking has been launched with
closely coordinated organization be-
tween the various Priesthood quo-
rums, the man power of the Church,
and the Relief Society, the woman
power of the Church. This has ex-
tended from the head down through
the stakes and wards.
The Regional Unit
I
N order to group the stakes of the
Church into units, in so far as pos-
sible, of economic self-sufficiency.
Regions were created, the Salt Lake
Region being typical. This Region
comprises sixteen stakes located in
Salt Lake, Davis, and Tooele Coun-
ties and contains 143 wards and
branches and approximately 120,000
Church members.
Presiding over this large unit is a
Regional Council, consisting of stake
representatives from each of the fol-
lowing groups:
Stake Presidency
Bishop's Council, Chairman of
Relief Society Presidency
Male and female Work Directors
Agricultural Committee
A Regional Co-ordinator acts as
executive officer.
For efficient correlation and stim-
ulation of activity, monthly Regional
meetings are held at which, after a
short general session, intensive, well
planned departmental sessions are
conducted by the five groups above
named. Important plans and pro-
grams, requiring time and special
study, such as various agricultural,
fruit and vegetable canning projects,
group hospitalization, general hous-
ing and temple apartment-housing
plans, the production of meat, dairy,
poultry, cereal, soap, and wood prod-
ucts, and other project activities are
assigned to quorum, ward, stake and
Regional committees. Serving on
these are men and women especially
trained in each field to make thor-
ough investigations and reports.
The important policies and pro-
grams adopted by the Regional
Council are carried by spoken word
as well as by written proceedings
back to stake and ward welfare units
for placing into actual operation.
Economic Self-Sufficiency
TT is fundamental that in order to
efficiently realize the objectives
announced by the Presiding Authori-
ties of furnishing life's vital neces-
sities to the needy faithful members
of the Church and employment to
those otherwise unemployed but
able to work that, up to the very
limit of the natural resources of our
land, we must produce within the
Program those elements of food,
clothing, fuel, and shelter which are
needed. Projects are, and must con-
tinue to be, put into operation that
will produce these things. 'Trogram
Produced Commodities" must be
the slogan. The Program Produced
Commodity index must be raised
higher and higher in order to ac-
complish the twin vital aims of fur-
nishing employment and achieving,
as nearly as possible, economic self-
sufficiency within the Program.
It is readily seen that in order to
carry on a complete program as out-
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lined, in our present-day world of
economic confusion and uncertainty,
there must be brought into action
all those elements of production, dis-
tribution and consumption of the
necessities of life which characterize
our complex social and industrial
life. In order successfully to do this
all the quorums and organizational
power of the Priesthood of the
Church must be called upon.
The Mission of the Relief Society
lATITHIN this complex social wel-
fare program, the work, the
mission, of the Relief Society is un-
diminished. It is enlarged in scope
and effectiveness. Its work, intelli-
gently co-ordinated with the Priest-
hood agencies of the Church, places
in its hands new tools, new aids, new
powers. It is responsible for search-
ing out and investigating all cases
of need and correlating this work
with other existing agencies; for the
preparation of carefully and intelli-
gently considered family budgets
adapted to each case at hand; for
planning food and clothing projects
as required; for the important mis-
sion of teaching mothers in their
homes thrift and the conservation of
family resources, and the thousand
other large and small things which
make up the art of true Christian
homemaking and which only a wom-
an's hand and a woman's heart can
accomplish. All these are just the
temporal services to which must also
be added the larger service, that of
looking after the spiritual welfare
of the women of Zion. And so the
Relief Society, as a most important
agency in the Welfare Plan, arm in
arm with the Priesthood of the
Church, will go on and on to greater
destiny.
"Some there be that sow the seed and reap
the golden grain;
And some there be that buy and sell, and
find therein their gain;
And some do build with skillful craft; and
some with curious art
Do paint or carve; and some do sing. So
each doth do his part.
And some there be — most blessed these —
to deeds of mercy given;
And some do heal the sick, and sonic do
lead the way to heaven."
— Sarah I^oin'se Arnold.
THE BURNING BUSH
By Olive C. Wehr
God spoke to Moses
In the burning bush long ago,
And now each autumn
I think each flaming bush aglow
A memorial stands;
And in it God's whisper low
The waiting heart commands.
Good Taste in Home Decoration
By I. A. Fishei
SINCE the beginning of time, War, 1919-29, there was a compara-
man has been the victim of his tively fast growth of ideas and tech-
environment. H i s limited nique among the world's leading de-
knowledge left him helpless against signers, particularly in America,
the overwhelming forces of his sur- Sweden, and Germany. Through
roundings— forces over which he had experimentation and exchange of
no control. ideas and information, they devel-
For his first shelter, man utilized oped an entirely different approach
caves formed by Nature or those to designing. They were unanimous-
made by wild animals. Later, bam- ly convinced that copied designs
boo, grass, or skins (whichever was were inadequate for our times, since
easiest to obtain ) served as his pro- earlier designers not only lacked the
tection against his enemies. With technical knowledge, materials, and
man's gradually widening vision tools of today, but their creations
came the use of clay, cloth, and were always the result of some per-
stone; following these came lumber, sonal like or fad, rather than that of
glass, and paint, bringing with them applied fundamental rules of art.
the first degree of individuality and They definitely felt that almost all
the first semblance of civilization, decorative objects then in use were
But always limited materials, slow in reality historic pieces that be-
transportation, climatic and social longed in museums rather than in
conditions controlled him. If his the homes they were in. So they
social life was warlike, his home be- began what will be, no doubt, the
came a fort. When it was restricted most beautiful and important period
to frontier isolation, his home be- of design in history,
came a storage and manufacturing This new modern designing was
center and, at times, a shelter for so drastically different that it was
his livestock. With the advent of impossible to imagine it receiving
the industrial age, his home often general public approval. Since it
became a crowded hovel in a near-by would not mix with existing designs,
tenement. and large scale changing being im-
Within the last few years, man's possible, it received only mediocre
emancipation has been phenomenal, acceptance.
Fast and inexpensive transportation To make matters worse, many in-
has brought the products of all the experienced, insufficiently trained
world within his reach. Chemistry designers flooded the market with
and science have provided innumer- poorly designed articles, which were
able new materials for him to choose accepted by most people as fads,
from, as well as hundreds of wonder- And although designers, manufac-
ful conveniences for his enjoyment, turers, and distributors were whole-
so that today he stands ready to heartedly enthusiastic, sales were
build almost as he pleases, the only slow and tremendous losses were in-
force controlling him being his own curred.
good or bad taste. In their fevered attempt to find
For ten years following the World what the public wanted, period in-
\r-^
Simplicity, harmonious lines and balance are represented in the above picture.
While most of us cannot build new homes or completely refurnish our present ones, this
picture suggests the beauty that is achieved through unadornment and proper arrange-
ment. The plain mirror above the fireplace, reflecting the opposite side of the room,
gives an impression of spaciousness.
fiuences were again resorted to, and
we had another series of bad designs
taken from the Directoire, Renais-
sance, early American, and Swedish
periods. While these were modified
and much better looking than their
earlier appearances, and while they
partially fit into the existing decor-
ative schemes, they still were and
are revolting to the artistic mind.
lyj ODERN design has such power
and value that it will continue
to grow. Each day new streamlining
will be applied to modern living. A
greater appreciation of art, beauty,
and simplicity will grow until finally
everyone will be freed from these
age-old atrocities.
The basis of modern design is
simplicity— in fact, it is the basis of
almost everything we do. For years,
men have preached that simplicity
is the secret of all success in life,
but only recently have they applied
it in any degree to their daily life.
One of the fundamental rules of
modern design is that of Variety,
achieved through contrast. The rec-
tangle is more interesting than the
square. The uneven sides of a rec-
tangle produce contrast, while the
even sides of the square give it a
monotonous appearance. The prob-
lem of variety in design is to obtain
the proper balance: A house can be
too tall or too squatty for its width,
windows too large or too small for
a room, colors too numerous for a
pleasing effect, and so on to the
very smallest detail.
In planning a house, it is impor-
tant that wall spaces are not broken
with too many recesses, too few or
too many small or even areas, wall
niches, small windows. For a simple
illustration: If one wall is to be
broken up into three areas, the cen-
ter one for a fireplace or bookcase,
it should take approximately 50 per
cent of the space, with each side
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space about 25 per cent. If it is to
be broken into two areas, one should
be 60-70 per cent and the other 30-
40 per cent, according to the spacing
on the other three walls. Countless
homes could be improved immense-
ly by enlarging one window, filling
in a window, wall niche, transoms
over doors, or removing wall lighting
fixtures so that proper contrast of
wall spaces would result. The good
taste or ability to determine the
proper amount of contrast is inher-
ent in most people. Those who do
not have it can easily acquire it by
a little observation and study.
Multiplication of this rule of con-
trast gives "Variety", which is the
relationship of groups and series of
groups to each other.
The second principle of design is
Harmony of Line. Just as a rectangle
is more interesting than a square,
so a circle is more beautiful than a
square. The lines of a square meet
in direct opposition at the corners,
while the circle flows in one continu-
ous and harmonious sequence. It
is this principle that accounts for
the sweeping lines of modern stream-
lining, for the popularity of round
mirrors, for cornerless modern fur-
niture.
In the function of these two fac-
tors of design— Variety and Har-
mony of Line— we encounter a third
principle called Balance. Balance
determines the relationship and pro-
portion of mass to space and can be
achieved in four ways. First and
simplest is a symmetrical balance.
This is the use of equal mass or
masses on each side of the center.
The second is an informal balance,
achieved by two small masses bal-
ancing a large mass, such as a small
window and door on one side bal-
ancing a large window on the other.
Third is the balancing of a large light
mass by a small heavy mass, such as
a spot of bright color balancing a
large pastel area. The fourth is off-
center balancing, or the moving of
the fulcrum. This makes possible
the balancing of a small light mass
with a small heavy mass. For in-
stance, the roof of a house may be
equally important with the walls; but
inside, the upper two thirds of a
room is less important than the bot-
tom third. Under this rule, three
times as much mass can be crowded
in on the lower third of a room be-
cause of the optical off-center.
In approaching the problem of
decorating a room, the total area,
called "volume", should be consid-
ered in its relationship to the "mass"
(furniture) and "space" (where
there is no furniture). The different
shapes that the mass takes are called
"forms". Where form, mass, and
space have the proper relationship
to each other and to the volume,
then a pleasing appearance results
that conforms to the principles of
art.
Things to be avoided in planning
a room are: A vacant appearance
(too little mass), a crowded appear-
ance (too much mass), a spotty or
monotonous appearance caused by
too many pieces the same size, too
many horizontal lines, bad groupings
of pieces too near the same size,
or contrasted too much in size.
If these problems are eliminated,
then one has only to choose the
forms, textures, and tone values to
express his own taste or personality
and to have a perfect modern home.
Grand Lady
By EUnoi B. AlJen
MARTHA MEIKLE pushed Martha's hand flew to cover the
her heavy body through the dark scar on her cheek. Even yet,
shoppers on Second Avenue, she could not bear the memory of
droning ''Chronicle — Evening v^hat that scar had cost her. A chilly
Chionicle'\ Her strident voice cut evening, and two lovers sitting to-
through the street noises like a fog gether. She had jumped up to pre-
horn. ''All about—" What was that pare a bit of lunch and in her con-
about the eye doctor now? fusion had poured gasoline into an
She stopped short to read the oil stove. Thefe had been an ex-
story, the crowds veering sharply plosion and wicked flames had licked
from her bulk to the right and the her face and hands with disfiguring
left. The wind tore at her strag- tongues. Never would she forget
gling hair, flattening the graying that the sweetheart who had loved
curls against the scars on her cheek, her beauty so much had later been
Then her keen eyes softened into driven from her by the sight of the
concern as she tried to span the two scars he could not look at.
blocks that separated her from blind "Oh," she said, 'Tm just a wind-
Johnny Carter. She plunged cross- roughened woman with the strength
ways through the traffic, not stop- of a man."
ping till she stood by the rough box "But your eyes must have some
that held his papers. color," Johnny urged, "and your
"Are you calling your headlines, hair."
like I said, or just mooning about "Eyes, 'blue like the flax' "—the
that girl again?" she scolded, to hide phrase came unbidden out of the
her worry. Her hand rested on his past. "Hair, brown, and fuzzy some-
shoulder for a moment. "And don't times," she humored him.
forget, you'll be having dinner with "Too modest," he scolded. "I'll
me tonight. It'll be mulligan stew finish: Cheeks like roses, skin like
and served hot, as it should be." flower petals, hands capable and
Later in the evening, when the kind."
stew had been eaten and the pair of She closed her fingers to hide the
them were resting comfortably. Mar- scars. Why was it that men must
tha told her big news. always have beauty?
'Tm going into the magazine bus- "I would paint your picture if I
iness, Johnny," she said. "I've spok- could." There was bleak longing in
en for the Hole-in-the-Wall, that bit his tone.
of a place down on Post Street, with "Yes, and it would end up in being
the sliding windows. I'll have candy a cartoon, I judge." Her voice
and gum, too. It's $800 I have in changed. 'Talking about eyes, I
the savings, to begin with." was reading about some famous eye
"I've no doubt it will be a sue- doctor right here in the city. Maybe
cess," he answered heartily. he could help you. Johnny, you
"Martha," he asked suddenly, must ask him to try."
"what do you look like?" But Johnny shook his head, his
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face drawn with discouragement. "I
did try, from one end of the land
to the other, till my money was all
gone. It's no use."
''But this one might be different,"
pleaded Martha. ''And— and, what
about that gid?"
"She stopped caring long ago. We
broke off entirely."
"And what did you do that for?"
demanded Martha indignantly.
"Because it was t^e only thing to
do. There's quite a difference be-
tween being a successful artist and a
—blind beggar," answered Johnny.
Martha nodded. Scars for him,
too. But all she said was, "So I sup-
pose she married someone else and
lived happily ever after, worse luck
to her."
"I don't know," dully. "She went
traveling with her aunt. That was
three years ago. Well, good night."
He arose abruptly. "I don't know
how I would fare if it were not for
you, Martha."
"Wait a minute, Johnny. I still
think it was your fault about that
girl. And you didn't answer me
about the doctor."
"It was not," he retorted, "and I'm
through with doctors."
"But I'm not," said Martha to the
empty room.
l^HEN it came to doctors, there
was only one Martha knew.
She poured out her story to Dr.
Davis as he bought his paper, and
he scribbled something on a card
for her, with an address. She lost
no time in her search for the famous
specialist, but it was after five when
her solid feet took their way across
the soft carpet of Dr. Tolman's of-
fice.
She held Dr. Davis' card before
her like a charm, but she hesitated
as she saw Dr. Tolman talking to a
very lovely girl.
"The doctor's sweet on her,"
Martha decided. "And I don't blame
him, though he seems a bit oldish
for her."
As the girl smiled and left the
room, the doctor swung around, and
the atmosphere grew icy as he tapped
the desk with Martha's card.
"Your errand?" he asked crisply.
Martha gulped and told her story.
He was utterly bored. Sorry, but his
calendar was too full now.
Her heart sank, but she must make
one more effort. She planted her
broad hands on the smooth desk.
He saw the scars and winced. Im-
mediately she folded them in her
lap.
"I didn't mean to do that," she
said. "I hate them, too. They lost
me a lover. And Johnny's eyes lost
him his girl. I was hoping you'd
help him. I know about your skill.
And it wouldn't be charity. Will
you, please?"
He shook his head. Then Martha
saw the girl beside him again, curi-
ous and interested.
"I heard you. Why don't you see
this man, Chandler? I know you
could bring back his sight. And
think, if you could give back that
girl to him!"
Martha held her breath while he
considered her indulgently. "Well,
we have to encounter a certain
amount of this. At any rate, I'll make
an examination. Bring the young
man to the General Hospital at nine
tomorrow morning."
JOHNNY scoffed at the idea. "So
^ his girl thinks he can bring
back my sight, But did he prom-
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ise that?" he pinned her down.
"How could anyone promise
that?" Then she flared, "but you're
going to be there tomorrow, if I have
to call the police to get you up."
Things happened so fast the next
morning that Martha felt helpless
for the first time in her life. They
bundled her into a small waiting
room while the examination was
being made. Then came the doc-
tor's decision to operate immediate-
ly. Then more waiting, while she
twisted her hands in an agony of
suspense. Suppose the doctor failed!
Then suddenly her spine prickled
as she saw them wheeling Johnny,
blanket-covered, back down the hall
to his room. What had happened in
that small, ether-filled room? Utter,
stark fear took possession of her.
In the days that followed she hur-
ried from paper selling to the hos-
pital and back again. Dr. Tolman
was cheerful but promised nothing.
Johnny was tense and silent under
the growing strain.
Once Martha blurted out nervous-
ly, "I know what— it's that girl. If
we could find her."
"Never mind about that girl," said
Johnny peevishly. *'U I see again,
that will be time enough to look for
her."
Martha v^ped her eyes with trem-
bling hands. Why, oh why couldn't
they know now whether or not he
would have his sight again? "A mir-
acle, a miracle," she whispered
prayerfully.
The doctor hurried in, and Mar-
tha moved back to make room for
him. She noticed with pleasure that
the girl she had seen in the office
was with him. Maybe she could
cheer Johnny up.
"Either Dr. Tolman is highly
pleased with what the examination
shows, or else," thought Martha,
"it's the girl."
"Tomorrow they'll come off, Car-
ter," he said. "Then we'll know
for sure." As an afterthought, "I've
brought you a visitor— Miss Ken-
nedy."
As the girl took Johnny's hand
impulsively, Martha saw him quiver
and straighten up in his chair.
"I asked Dr. Tolman if I might
come," her lovely voice was filled
with friendliness. "He is so proud
of this case that I believe he thinks
as much of his own success as of
what it will mean to you."
Martha smiled at the doctor's pre-
tended indifference. But what was
the matter with Johnny?
"What is your first name?" he was
asking.
"Nona— Nona Kennedy." She
studied his bandaged features. A
petrified silence followed, then a cry
of amazement, "Johnny! Johnny!
Blind! Oh, how long has it been
this way?"
A kind of bewildered glory spread
over Martha's broad face. Johnny's
girl, at last! Breathlessly she listened.
"A year and a half, Nona, since I
went into the dark completely. ... I
didn't want you to know."
"Not know? Why?" she demand-
ed.
A warm flush was spreading over
Johnny's face. "It wouldn't have
been fair to hold you to a blind beg-
gar," he said simply. "Everything
I had went with my eyes— my work,
my money, my future."
Martha leaned forward tensely.
"So that," said Nona, "was why
you quarrelled with me!"
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"I thought your Aunt Laura
would explain it to you. I — I
couldn't hold you to a promise that
would have made you miserable for
life." His voice was low.
Nona laughed hysterically. "So
that explains Aunt Laura's gener-
osity. A whole year of travel— to
make me forget! And when I came
home you had disappeared complete-
ly; traveling, too, someone said— and
never a letter."
''Traveling, yes, from one doctor
to another, until there was no more
money and no more hope, and so, no
more traveling."
'I'm glad I've found you again,"
she clung to him.
"Especially if I stay blind." He
pushed her away. "Do you know
what I've been doing this winter,
Nona? Selling papers on a street
corner."
Her lips quivered. "But after this
you won't. He is going to see again,
isn't he. Dr. Tolman?"
OER voice and manner changed
suddenly. There was a strange
troubled look in her golden brown
eyes.
It was then that Martha saw how
the doctor was staring at Nona, as
if ready to burst. And at the same
moment she saw the big diamond
Nona was wearing on her left hand.
Poor Johnny!
The doctor picked up his case.
"Another twenty-four hours will tell
the story," he said with reserve.
"You see, Nona," came Johnny's
voice. "He promises nothing. But
I would like to know— just in case . . .
Are you engaged to someone else
now?"
There was no answer. Martha
came a step closer. She could see
the doctor's hard eyes and Nona's
flushing helplessness.
"Nona?" pleaded Johnny. Then,
"Nona, Nona!" His voice rose fran-
tically. "Are you there? Martha,
has she gone?"
Suddenly Johnny sprang to his
feet, jerking at the bandages. "I'll
find out for mvself," he shouted.
The doctor jumped toward him,
pinning his arms down until the fit
of rage subsided.
"It's no use," babbled Johnny in-
coherently, "and you know it, Nona.
That's why you don't speak."
Battle light raged in Martha's eyes,
but before she could open her
mouth, Nona said timidly,
"Could I help you, Doctor?"
Dr. Tolman turned on her in
fury. "Haven't you stirred up
enough mischief already?" he rasped.
"Do you know— or care— that if a
strong light should strike his eyes,
the vision might be destroyed en-
tirely? After all I've done, then you
must tear down my work like this!
What about me? Nona, are you lis-
tening to me? What are you look-
ing at?
Nona was sitting on the window
ledge, her head bent, studying some-
thing intently. For an instant she
met the doctor's furious eyes, tiny
barbs of anger darting from her own.
Then she wet the tip of her finger
in her mouth and began rubbing it
slowly up and down the side of her
leg.
"A run in my stocking," she said
calmly. "I snagged it on this."
Martha tiptoed closer.
Nona drew the diamond ring off,
slipped it into the doctor's hand,
closing it firmly. "There. You keep
it. I'm a little afraid of it."
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Then, head up, she went to John-
ny. ''No, Johnny," she said clearly,
* Vm not engaged to anyone, unless
it might be you." Her hand was
holding his, tightly.
Martha's face wrinkled into ten-
derness.
"Doctor," Johnny's voice thrilled
strangely, "if it's only a matter of
hours, would a small trial now hurt
so much?"
"I would not advise it," Dr. Tol-
man began formally. Then his tone
changed, "but I'm going to risk it.
You might as well see the proposi-
tion you are letting yourself in for."
He glared at Nona, "and I wish you
happiness."
He darkened the room carefully,
and as he lifted the lower edge of
the gauze slowly, complete stillness
fell. Johnny moved his head, search-
ing, stopped.
"Nona," his voice broke, "my
beautiful!"
Martha let her breath go in a huge
sigh of satisfaction.
Triumph lit the doctor's face. He
was suddenly generous. "A perfect
success." He was replacing the band-
ages. Johnny stopped his hand.
"Martha?" he asked.
Like a flash, Martha turned her
head. Tliis was no time for scars.
The bandages descended.
"It's going to be a side view, Mar-
tha, when I paint your portrait,"
said Johnny. "The profile of a
grand lady!"
Martha scrambled toward the
door in confusion. Dr. Tolman fol-
lowed, laughing.
By now, Nona's hands were back
of Johnny's head, drawing him close
to her face. And as Martha took
one backward look, she saw his arms
go tightly about his girl, as he felt
the radiance within her.
Out* in the hall, Martha stopped
for one dazed moment. "Glory be,"
she whispered in awed tones. "A
profile portrait of me! And the way
he said it, it's going to be good/"
SEPTEMBER
By Vesta P. Ciawioid
Now she shall be alone
The morning through—
For all the eager feet are gone.
Pattered off to school.
The mother shall see the morning
Beam across the sky-
She shall stand listening,
And wonder why.
As a Woman Eateth
By Ellen Day
MAY dropped a penny in the pounds a year!" the Imp jibed,
slot, heard it tinkle like an 'Tour Patriarchal blessing says you'll
impish laugh, and watched live to a good old age. Won't it
the wavering indicator until it be nice to come up on the resurrec-
stopped. tion morning looking like Aunt Pat-
''Seventeen pounds in a year! You ty? Remember how she dripped
hit it exactly," the voice of the laugh- over the edges of a chair when she
ing Imp seemed to say in her ear. sat down? And she was always sit-
''Just as the magazine article said— ting down. You're getting that way,
a few extra calories each day not too. Tired all the time, when your
used for repairs or growth or energy, weight is on your feet!"
and you get seventeen pounds in a "Sarah told me after Relief So-
year!" ciety that she'd never seen me look
''I don't eat much!" May thought so well."
defensively. 'Tes, and asked if you hadn't been
''No?" queried the Imp. "Now putting on weight! She didn't mean
think. Three meals every day. Fine. well. That was just her tactful way
Remember Sunday afternoon when of saying fat."
you sat alone reading? Remember "Sunday night Eva raved about
that salad and cake left from dinner? how slim I looked."
And the candy bar? You stopped "Sure! In that black dress you
eating it as you read about the seven- made with lines of white all down
teen pounds— but you didn't stop the front. And why did she rave?
long." Because you look slim so seldom!
"I don't like good food to waste!" Do you want to wear nothing but
"Oh, yeah? A couple of romping, black with long white lines forever?
growing, hungry children would There's one way to look slim in any
surely have let it waste! And with style or color!"
them it wouldn't be three seconds "But I can't exercise it off! Exer-
in the mouth, three hours in the cise makes me hungrier!"
stomach, and forever on the hips!" "Bears don't exercise their fat off.
"Can I help it if I take after my Hibernate. Live on yours a while."
father's people?" "Starve? Go on some crazy diet
"Can't you help it if you eat salads and ruin my health?"
and cake and candy after dinner, and ''No. Go on, will power," the Imp
oranges and apples and milk after advised. "Remember the gid's two-
supper? Remember the Sunday and-a-half-minute talk about people
School boy's talk on the Word of conquering the tobacco habit by
Wisdom about eating sparingly?" faith and prayer and will power? A
"He twisted it! It's only meat convert who has done that sat next
the Word of Wisdom says to eat to you in church. She conquered
sparingly." the nicotine habit. The only habit
"So you want seventeen extra [Continued on page 652)
HAPPENIN
By Annie WeJJs Cannon
CEPTEMBER — Vacation over,
one takes up the tools of labor
with renewed vigor. "In the sweat
of thy face shalt thou eat bread"
* are the magic words to happiness.
OUTH ST. DENIS, famous inter-
pretive dancer, is one of the
"new renaissance" group working
for an age of moral rearmament.
"All the arts must be mobilized for
the interpretation of the wisdom of
God instead of the follies of men" is
her message, urging with her group
a return to the "age of faith".
r^AROLYN WELLS takes up the
challenge in her story "Crime
Tears On". A shocked public might
help in the crusade by stopping
beauty contests; frequently, the first
wayward step is when lovely maidens
parade their beauty along the prom-
enades of summer resorts and world
fairs, with modesty thrown to the
wind and vanity riding high.
lyiAUD MAY BABCOCK, correct
speech expert, is now publishing
a new book, "Public Speaking".
PARRIE CHAPMAN CATT, vet-
eran feminist, in a recent im-
passioned broadcast urged women to
maintain all the privileges gained af-
ter a century of struggle and to
"keep the banners of Women's
Rights flying until every vestige of
the old tradition ordering subjection
has been chased from the earth".
PORDELIA THURSTON
SMITH, 93, pioneer of 1847,
died last July. She had written the
story of her life so full of pioneer
experiences that it will be a valuable
contribution to Utah's history.
I^ANOMAS GIBSON ANDRUS,
97, and Mary Park Brockbank,
96, the only survivors of Utah's 1847
pioneers at the time of the state
celebration this year, received hon-
ored attentions.
T ILY PONS, little French soprano,
said she had the thrill of her life
when she sang at Chicago's lake
front this summer before a crowd
of 200,000 people.
QRA BAILEY HARDING of
Price, Utah, who died last sum-
mer, was a young woman of unusual
musical ability who gave liberally of
her talents to church and state.
PROWN PRINCESS JULIANA
has a new daughter, born August
5. Feminine rule seems to be the
order for the Netherlands.
ALICE MARBLE, America's
champion tennis star, now tow-
ers over the game internationally,
having won in all the finals at Wim-
bledon.
D
R. D. E. BEEMAN of Los An-
geles suggests less work for wom-
en to avoid varicose veins caused
through standing too much. Lord
Beaverbrook of London suggests
conscription of women for more
work, especially useless society wom-
en "who eat and drink too much".
THE RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN - - First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
JULIA A. F. LUND - - General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Rosannah C. Irvine Emeline Y. Nebeker Leda T. Jensen
Emma A. Empey Nettie D Bradford Janet M. Thompson Beatrice F. Stevens
Annie Wells Cannon . _ ' Belle S. Spafford Rae B. Barker
Lalene H. Hart ^^^ ^- ^^al Donna Durrant Sorensen Nellie O. Parker
Cora L. Bennion Marcia K. Howells Vivian R. McConkie Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor - Belle S. Spafford
Manager - Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager --- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI SEPTEMBER, 1939 No. 9
EDITORIAL
QJ ranees fe. vi/illara
AS we view the past, we see a pan- all humanity was touched by it.
orama of far-reaching move- From her 'beautiful life' the church
ments, which have held aloft Chris- learned the power of consecrated
tian ideals and advanced civilization, womanhood; nobler aspirations grew
born and directed by exceptional in men because of her uplifting
women— women who have made a thought; self-distrusting women
mark on their generation by the were inspired by courageous deeds;
good work they have done. youth found in her an ideal, and
This issue of the Magazine con- children loved her as their friend."
tains a brief sketch of the life and Her interests and activities extend-
works of Grace Abbott, a great leader ed in many directions. She worked
in the field of public welfare and the ceaselessly for the cause of woman-
special friend of children. A retro- hood, first speaking in favor of wom-
spective view of her life brings an an's suffrage in 1877. Some one has
appreciation of her accomplishments said that Frances Willard created a
and a realization that she has left new order for women. Under her
with us a great legacy in the goals she leadership the women of her own
set. Another gifted and versatile country, and world women as well,
woman who has left the imprint of were brought out into active work for
her life on the sands of time is the common welfare and were en-
Frances E. Willard. Born one hun- abled to take their place among the
dred years ago this month, Septem- best and noblest of the world's work-
ber 28, 1839, ^" Churchville, New ers. In 1890 she was elected presi-
York, her service to humanity en- dent of the Woman's National
titles her to recognition as one of Council which represented nearly all
the greatest women of her age. of the women's societies of America.
A sketch of her life says: 'The Great as were her activities in the
life of Frances Willard was so broad woman's movement, she is probably
in its sympathy and purpose that best known for her activities in the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 617
temperance movement. She cease-
lessly fought the inroads of the liquor
traffic, hanging the banner of "total
abstinence" wherever she set her
foot or wherever her pen wrote its
message.
Visioning a liquorless world, the
major portion of her life was devoted
to organizing women for prohibition
of alcohol as a beverage. From 1879
until her death in 1898 she was pres-
ident of the Women's Christian
Temperance Union. In 1887 she was
elected president of the Internation-
al Women's Christian Temperance
Union. She was one of the founders
of Out Union, a temperance publi-
cation, and also The Signal. These
were later combined as the Union
Signal, which periodical she edited
from 1892 until her death.
Memorials without number are
erected to Frances Willard— school-
houses, fountains, halls, hospitals,
even a beautiful marble portrait in
Statuary Hall of the Nation's Capi-
tol. A Willard Memorial Organiza-
tion Fund has been established for
the extension of the work to which
this great reformer gave her life.
But there is no greater way in
which honor could be bestowed up-
on Frances Willard than for women
everywhere to continue to wage war
on alcoholic beverages. Intemper-
ance still exists; liquor is on sale
everywhere; drunkenness on the
highway takes its annual toll; cock-
tail parties have become a mark of
social acceptability; the bootlegger
still plies his nefarious traffic.
We must not forget that the fight
for morality and decency must be
constant and progressive. We must
not allow the moral fiber of our
young people to be sapped by sur-
render to an appetite for liquor. Or-
ganized women can do much to con-
trol the alcohol evil. Mothers in the
home must develop in their children
the moral fiber to say ''No" to temp-
tation. Children must be taught to
master their own appetites. The
world today needs its Frances Wil-
lards.
SHUT IN
By Beatrice Knowhon Ekman
A wind from the western prairie
Swept into the town today,
Strained at the doors and the windows,
Ran over the roofs and away.
It stirred my heart with yearning
As it tossed and swayed the trees,
For a lonely stretch of sky-bound plain
Where beard grass blows in the breeze,
For scarred and lifted mountains
Where the eagles soar and dip.
For the churning foam of the ocean
In the wake of an outbound ship.
I wanted to rise and follow,
But only my winged thoughts soar;
Cloistered I watch and remember
I will run with the wind no more.
The Shining Heart
By Sibyl Spande Bowen
CHAPTER EIGHT
THE actions of Fred Nagle were
becoming decidedly peculiar.
He would stay away for days
at a time, then burst suddenly upon
the scene in clean slacks and sweater,
aglow with a terrifically scrubbed
look about him. Sometimes he came
armed with a pound bag of candy,
much to the amazement of Nell,
who was well used to his thrifty
habits. He would sit moodily in the
big shabby kitchen cf the gray house
and stare at Nell as she moved about
her work.
"Beauty and the poultry man,"
Rob murmured to himself as he left
the Carey house one day in late
summer. Fred was there. He had
scarcely noticed Lathrop who had
spent his time exchanging lively
thrusts with Miss Brilliant. The in-
valid was feeling very much up to
form now that she could push her
way about the house in her wheel
chair.
Rob was excited. In his pocket
was a small package Miss Brill had
just given him. In his mind were
several things he intended to say
very plainly to Ward Meacham, Sal-
ly Delavan's attorney. He wouldn't
trust his precious find with Sally her-
self. He drove the twenty mile
stretch to Seattle erratically, wonder-
ing just why he was doing this.
"If I could have stayed put in my
steamer chair, like any other nervous-
breakdownee!" he thought morosely,
then chuckled. His "nerves" had
gone, disappeared completely, the
day he had forgotten to be concern-
ed about them.
"That's one thing I have to thank
the Careys for," he told himself,
then shut his mind to thought. That
other thing he must forget. He had
been mad to even think that Nell
would look his way.
The Meacham office overlooked
the Sound from wide windows in a
high floor of the Smith Building.
Old Ward must have plenty of fat
fees to afford the thick soft rugs,
the good paintings that made this
large room so very pleasant to be in.
That painting over the magazine ta-
ble, for instance, the gray-blue ma-
rine! It was like Nell's picture, not
a whit better.
From behind the door of the inner
office came the hum of voices. The
door opened and a woman came out,
followed by the cadaverous Mea-
cham.
Rob was on his feet. "How are
you, Sally?" he said politely.
Miss Delavan looked at him cold-
ly. She was lovely as a princess in
her violet tweeds, with a silver fox
fur framing the pale skin of her
throat and face, her somber eves
shadowed by a smart black hat. "We
can settle that nonsense at once,
Ward," she announced, and swept
back into the office, followed by the
two men.
"Where do I start?" Robert asked
amiably. The sight of Sally in her
expensive clothes selfishly rushing to
secure her money against the vague
threat he had suggested put spirit
into Rob. He was ready to do battle.
"I've already told him that high
tale you concocted about mother's
taking the baby and putting her in
some strange car," Sally said inipa-
RaiEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 619
tieatly, "so we won't go into that."
"That's fine/' Rob said, "and per-
haps Mr. Meacham can tell us to,
whom the income from Frank's
property has been paid all these
years?"
"I can/' Ward Meacham said,
looking at Sally. "It has been paid
. to Sally since her mother's death.
There was no Frances Delavan men-
tioned in Mrs. Delavan's will. Of
course, if there is one, she would
inherit her father's share."
"But there certainly was such a
child," Rob said.
"Yes," said Sally, "and in spite of
your silly accusations, Frances was
sent to Martha."
OOB opened his little package. In
it were several articles of baby
clothing and two letters. One of
these he handed to Mr. Meacham.
"This arrived yesterday from Los
Angeles. Martha Lane has been
dead five years. Nobody ever heard
of a girl called Frances Delavan liv-
ing with her."
Sally whispered fiercely, "You
meddling, interfering—"
Ward Meacham's deep eyes came
alive. "What on earth is this? Are
you actually convinced there is such
a child— that I've paid Frank's
money out for these seventeen years
when it should have gone to a daugh-
ter?"
"There is," Rob shouted, "and
Sally's been spending her money.
You'll tell everything, or I'll spread
it all over every paper in the coun-
try."
Sally was dead white, but her face
was calm. "There isn't anything to
tell," she said stubbornly. "I was
in New York at the time. When I
got home the baby was gone. Moth-
er was much too ill to be questioned,
but I understood she had been sent
to Martha. I never asked after her.
I hated her," she cried, "that French
girl's child."
"She is also Frank's child," Rob
said sternly. "Look at these, Mr.
Meacham, look at these clothes. All
of them new, cheap, untraceable.
All," he paused dramatically, "but
this little shirt. Aunt Sarah forgot
about this."
He held them out, a little yel-
lowed baby shirt smelling of cam-
phor balls, and also the other clothes.
He pointed out a laundry mark on
the shirt, distinct and clear.
"FXDQ," he read, "Francis X. Del-
avan, Queen Anne Hill, is what it
means. The Palace Laundry did
Aunt Sarah's wash with that mark
on it for years."
Ward Meacham took the little
shirt in his hands. He turned it
over, studying it; his green eyes nar-
rowed, but he said nothing.
Strangely, Sally relaxed. A smile
enlivened her face. "I recall," she
said negligently, "that as Frances
grew out of her things, mother had
them sent to the charity maternity
hospital. There must be dozens of
things about with that mark on
them."
Sally was slipping out of his hands,
quite gracefully. Furiously, Rob
knew this, and there wasn't a thing
he could do about it.
Ward Meacham tapped his desk
thoughtfully. "That's right, Sally,"
he said, but his face had a curious
look, as though he looked on at a
robbery he was powerless to prevent.
"Would a court admit the shirt
as evidence?" Rob demanded.
"Oh, surely, but it wouldn't prove
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anything/' Ward said, ''not even
several pieces of clothing with the
mark on them. You see, they've
been scattered all over the country.
And Sally's word that she was away,
and the well-known mental collapse
of Mrs. Delavan— crowned wdth the
fact that Martha Lane is dead— I
don't see that anything is to be
gained by opening up the affair now,
Lathrop? Do you?"
"Only," cried Rob angrily, ''that
I can produce Frances Delavan. On-
ly that she is a dear sweet girl who
ought to have the money her father
left for her. Only that-"
"Only that Robby here has fallen
in love with a pretty girl and thinks
he can foist her off on us as the heir-
ess to the Delavan fortune, which
isn't so large as you might think,"
Sally taunted, and stood up. "Now
I really must go. If it won't bore you
to death, do let Rob tell you all the
sad tale. I'm sure he'll dote on it.
And you," she turned with some-
thing of fear to Rob, "better decide
to forget this nonsense. I've had
enough of it." She slammed the
door behind her perfumed person.
^^\\TELL, young man," Ward
Meacham sighed, "you can
begin your story now."
So Robert told it, from start to
finish, fact and fancy combined.
How the striking resemblance of
Nell Carey's hair to the special
Delavan type of red hair had started
him off, how Miss Brill's story and
the baby clothes had rounded out
the tale; even of Sally's hysterics at
mention of the affair— all this he
told.
Ward Meacham was silent for
some time. "I guess that's Frank's
girl, all right, but your proof won't
stand up in court. Now if Sally
wanted to find her— but she doesn't,
and in a way, you can't blame her.
Imagine the hue and cry in the pa-
pers! Then Sarah Delavan's failing
mind at the end would be known,
and that's been kept a secret from
all but her closest friends. And
finally, Sally has accustomed herself
to a large income. She'd hate to
give up a single penny of it."
"But think of it, man! A child
disappears, goes completely. Doesn't
the law want to know where?" the
exasperated Rob cried.
"Not at all. Plenty of people dis-
appear. Nobody's asked the law to
help find Frances Delavan. And
I'm convinced that Sally herself had
nothing at all to do with it, and at
the time she couldn't have recovered
the child without screaming publici-
ty. You know Sally would never
do that— for a child she admits she
resented." The gaunt lawyer stood
up and yawned. "If you find any-
thing conclusive, Lathrop, let me
know. I'll be glad to work with you
if you find anything."
Rob gathered up his exhibits and
went out moodily. He found his car
and drove back to Pine Point with-
out even stopping in to see his moth-
er. The feeble sunshine that had
lighted the landscape earlier was
gone, and the sky was filled with the
flying scud of black clouds. The
wind was whipping the gray water
of the Sound to a foam-flecked
beach, and leaves of trees were show-
ing white against the drive of the
coming storm as Rob turned in at
the Carey place.
[To be continued)
Builders In Action
By Bessie E. Redding
(April Conference Address, Officers' Meeting)
THE Los Angeles Stake Relief
Society made plans for their
work just as soon as they were
apprised of the fact that there would
be a Membership Drive. As early
as June they had perfected their
plans and had their machinery put
in motion. On the opening day
in September, all the wards had
unified programs constructed around
the theme, ''Building Latter-day
Saint Womanhoo d." At these
socials inspirational talks were given
and the Membership Drive explain-
ed. There were so many fine features
connected with these stimulating
programs that it would not be pos-
sible to mention all of them. We
feel, however, that they furnished a
good start— a splendid impetus.
At an early date our membership
department was organized. All
wards sent representatives to Union
meeting to get instructions from the
stake coordinator. We made out-
lines for Union meetings from ma-
terial found in the Handbook, from
valuable suggestions in the Relief
Society Magazine and by gathering
here a little and there a little. Sali-
ent points beneficial for the Drive
were emphasized. There were five
things especially featured as valuable
for ward coordinators:
1. To keep a sense of humor.
2. To be tolerant of ignorance,
3. To be sympathetic and smiling.
4. To be enthusiastic and friendly.
5. To be well informed, gracious and
humble — radiafing the Gospel of Jesus
Christ.
Naturally, we encountered some
handicaps, but these were soon sur-
mounted. During this period I
think I am safe in saying that I be-
came a very proficient saleslady for
the Relief Society Handbook. With
my mind's eye I now see page 180,
and in fancy hear myself saying,
'Turn to page 182."
We are happy to report that there
has been no "let down" in our stake
since we obtained our quota. The
follow-up work is progressing splen-
didly. The wards are keeping a
record of the attendance of all new
members since September. The stake
has offered a prize to the ward co-
ordinator who scores the highest
percentage of attendance of new
members by the close of the season's
work.
There is harmony existing between
the presidents and their ward co-
ordinators.
We must be cognizant of the
scope and magnitude of Relief Socie-
ty, knowing that its power and
strength are measured by the num-
ber of women it serves. Relief
Society improves the standards of
any community in which it is found.
Relief Society improves the whole
life of the individual, making her a
distinctly outstanding personality
and giving her more power for better
service to humanity.
Relief Society in building for per-
manency holds high her ensign of
lofty ideals and elevated standards.
It brings together thousands of
women inspired with a desire for
greater intellectual growth, for spirit-
ual uplift, imbued with high moral
purposes and full of the love of God
and His children.
Facts Speak
■pOLLOWING is a copy of a letter reporting the results of tests for
alcoholic content in beer made by two different brewing companies:
"Utah Women's Christian Temperance Union
Hotel Utah
Salt Lake City, Utah
Mesdames:
Complying with your request of recent date, I respectfully submit
herewith Test Report No. i and No. 2, covering Chemical Analysis of two
samples of Beer for Alcohol, as received at my laboratory. No. 35 State
Capitol, Salt Lake City, Utah, from Mrs. D. W. Jenkins, President, on June
10, 1939, at 11:10 a. m., as follows:
TEST REPORT NO. 1
Sample marked: Beer, 3.2% Alcohol by Wt.
Quantity: 12 fl. oz. in original bottle
Analysis
Alcohol: 3-57% ^y Volume
2.86% by Weight
One 12 oz. bottle contains: 12.67 ^^- 200 Proof Alcohol
TEST REPORT NO. 2
Sample marked: Beer, 3.2% Alcohol by Wt.
Quantity: 12 fl. oz. in original bottle
Analysis
Alcohol: 3.91% by Volume
3.13% by Weight
One 12 oz. bottle contains: ^3-^9 ^^' ^^o Proof Alcohol
Respectfully,
(Signed) M. Elmer Chris tensen,
State Chemist."
Note: The names of the brewers have been omitted.
Note: See illustration on next page.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 623
The following excerpts indicate the ef-
ects of alcoholic beverages on individuals
even when the alcoholic content is as low
as that found in light wines and beers:
Vial, reproduced actual size, showing
the amount of alcohol contained in a
12 oz. bottle of beer.
jyjARCISSUS ACH. "Ach showed
that perception, the faculty
used in seeing and recognizing sig-
nals, was weakened by very moder-
ate quantities of alcohol. Doses
even of ten cubic centimeters, equiv-
alent to the amount of alcohol in
one large (ten ounce) glass of beer
caused impairment of perception un-
der some conditions. Twenty or
thirty cubic centimeters caused dis-
tinct impairment."
-Ur ALTER R. MILES, in his book
Alcohol and Human Efficien-
cy, states that "Amounts of alcohol
corresponding to that found in three-
fourths to one pint of wine, or to
about four eight-ounce glasses of
3.5% (by volume) beer, increased
typewriting errors from 14 to 50%."
From a review of The Effect of
Alcoholic Drinks, by Transeau:
In the experiments of Dr. Miles
the pursuit meter showed that ability
to give close and steady attention
was poorer by an average of 14%
after alcohol was taken. Effect did
not reach its worst stage for about
one hour and a half.
-DENEFICENT REPROBATE.
'In the one-fifth of a second one
of our subjects took to make up his
mind, his car traveling at sixty miles
an hour would traverse over eighteen
feet; but when, after drinking forty-
five cubic centimeters of alcohol, he
took one-third of a second, the car
would have covered over twenty-
eight feet, or ten feet further. In a
world where split seconds count, ten
feet is frequently the wavering mar-
gin between life and death."
O^jbliu TO THE FIELD
I Lotice to SX/nters of Lrlays ana Lrageants
npHE committee on Plays and Pageants regret to announce that there is
an over supply of this type of material in the Relief Society office. We
therefore suggest that no more manuscripts be submitted for publication
except by request.
In spite of our inability to accept more contributions for publication,
owing to lack of space in the Magazine, we still urge our members to con-
tinue to write. We are deeply interested in the development of literary
talent, especially along this particular line.
Many of the manuscripts which we have received have merit but are
sometimes lacking in general appeal. These can perhaps be used locally
with good effect. We earnestly desire that this be done.
Latter-day Saints have a spiritual heritage possessed by few other
people. There is also much dramatic and literary ability among our Relief
Society members. Our Mormon history is full of stirring, soul-inspiring
incidents that may be dramatized so effectively that any Latter-day Saint
woman possessing literary ability can make, if she will, a valuable contribu-
tion to our very limited group of worth while plays and pageants.
There is a constant and growing demand in our Organization for
dramatic productions. There is hope that in the not too distant future
a genius will be born who will make use of the wondrous events in our
Church history and present to the world a dramatic masterpiece.
JLiteraryi [Books
npHE books used in connection with the 1938-39 Literary course were
handled for the Relief Society by the Deseret Book Company. Through
their cooperation special editions were secured and offered for sale at the
following nominal prices:
The Advance oi the English Novel, William Lyon Phelps $1 .2:;
Robinson Crusoe, Daniel Defoe ].oo
The Talisman, Sir Walter Scott 1.00
Loina Doone, Richard Dodridge Blackmore 1.00
City of BeUs, Elizabeth Goudge 2.00
The Book Store still have a number of these on hand, no doubt due to
the fact that being older titles a great many of the sisters had them in their
libraries.
Each of these novels holds an important position in literature. They
are delightful and profitable reading and a valuable addition to the home
library.
We suggest that those who do not already own these books avail
themselves of the opportunity to purchase them at these low prices before
the limited supply is exhausted.
The Advance of the English Novel is again recommended for use in
connection with the 1939-40 Literary course,
Tlojtiiiu
FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretary
FiankUn Stake
• TT is with feelings of profound sor-
row that we note the death of
Sister Bertha P. Larson on May 26,
1939. For many years as president
of the Frankhn Stake ReHef Society
her accomphshments were magnifi-
cent. Under her capable leadership
the organization operated for the ad-
vancement of the women of her
stake along every line— material, so-
cial, spiritual. The general office al-
ways found whole-hearted coopera-
tion from this progressive stake. Such
women as Sister Larson are the
strength and the glory of the Relief
Society. The Presidency and Gen-
eral Board extend to Brother Larson
and his family sincerest sympathy in
their great bereavement.
On the 18th of June the stake
Relief Society was reorganized with
Alice S. Merrill as president, Louie
M. Cole first counselor, Marie M.
Merrill second counselor, and Bertha
M. George secretary-treasurer, with
all necessary board members and
special workers. We welcome them
into the group of stake officers. True
to the traditions of the past and the
high standard set, the future of
Franklin Stake Relief Society is full
of promise.
Yellowstone Stake
'T^HE picture below is of the Relief
Society sisters of the stake in
conference and also shows the beau-
tiful handwork on display. The
Membership Drive has been an out-
standing activity of this stake. A
stirring membership song has been
composed and a membership chart
designed— a thermometer showing
the present membership of each
ward, each year's quota, and the
YELLOWSTONE STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE
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PAGEANT, ST. ANTHONY FIRST WARD
number to be enrolled by 1942 in
order to achieve keystone success. A
membership arch, divided into as
many parts as there are wards in
the stake, with old members desig-
nated by a blue star, new ones by
a gold star, and prospective members
by a red star, is also effective. An
award of merit will be presented by
the stake to the ward reaching its
quota in the Membership Campaign.
The accompanying picture is of
a pageant presented by the St. An-
thony First Ward as a part of the
ward conference and the 17th of
March celebration.
Cottonwood Stake
PRRATUM: A report of the Cot-
tonwood Stake Maternity Hos-
pital published in the July issue
stated that 422 patients had been
admitted to the hospital. This
should have read 4,222.
Oneida Stake
npHE enthusiasm with which the
stakes have conducted the Mem-
bership Campaign is again called to
our attention by a report from the
Oneida Stake, where the efforts of
the sisters have been very successful.
A prize was offered by the stake
board to the ward making the great-
est membership increase. This prize
was won by the Preston Fourth
Ward. The coordinators of this
ward are shown in the accompany-
ing photograph. Sisters Annie Mc-
Queen and May Larson. These sis-
ters have made a visit to every fam-
ily in the ward and brought many
members who have been inactive for
years back into the Relief Society.
They were also successful in enroll-
ing thirty new members, which was
their quota for three years. They
also made the arch shown in the pic-
ture. This arch has a flower with
the name of each member of the
Fourth Ward Relief Society, both
old and new, inscribed upon it.
This is only one example of the
very excellent leadership always
found in the Oneida Stake under
the capable direction of Sister Ellen
B. Larson, whose splendid accom-
plishments in all branches of the
work have been outstanding for
many years. On June 25, 1939, the
stake was reorganized with Sister
Ora W. Packer president, Harriet J.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 627
MEMBERSHIP COORDINATORS, PRESTON FOURTH WARD
Greaves first counselor, Ida E. Evans
second counselor, and Alida Neeley
secretary-treasurer. The General
Board congratulates these sisters and
expresses the hope that the fine co-
operation always found in the Onei-
da Stake Relief Society will con-
tinue.
San Francisco Stake
r\^ Saturday, April 29, a spring
exhibit, food sale and fashion
show was held at the social hall of
the San Francisco Ward. The sis-
ters brought a wide assortment of
foods prepared at home— quantities
of homemade bread of many varie-
ties, home-baked rolls, cakes, etc.
Two large tables were loaded with
these contributions. The quantity,
variety and quality of handwork ex-
hibited was the finest ever shown
in this stake.
The purpose of the fashion show
was to demonstrate that labor, skill
and thoughtfulness in the remodel-
ing of wearing apparel which might
otherwise be discarded can produce
attractive clothing. This was a defi-
nite encouragement to thrift and in-
dustry and afforded the women stim-
ulation in providing family needs in
this way. Models were grouped ac-
cording to age and type, and posters
were used to introduce each group.
Clothing suitable for all seasons and
occasions, including a bridal cos-
tume, was demonstrated. The Lit-
erary teacher, Lila Barstow, added
interest to the occasion by describ-
ing each garment — the materials,
their source and total cost. In some
cases the expenditure was a few
cents, in others it was nothing more
than labor.
SISTER MABLE OLSEN AND YALECREST
WARD MEMBERSHIP ARCH
In the exhibits and the food dona-
tions the women of the stake re-
sponded generously. A spirit of love,
harmony and loyalty, which brought
success and happiness, characterized
the entire affair.
Sister Josephine Thatcher Dan-
ford, to whom we are indebted for
this report, says, 'There was an at-
tendance of approximately 350 or
0
400 members to whom refreshments
were served. A worth while sum
was realized from the sale of the
foods and the admission charges."
Juab Stake
N the 17th of March a very in-
teresting program was presented
by the Juab Stake. A typical Maga-
zine cover was reproduced and each
of the educational courses personi-
fied and appropriately presented.
''The Key of Promise", a beautiful
anniversary pageant, was the medi-
um of expression through which the
story of the Relief Society organiza-
tion, its objectives and accomplish-
ments were graphically related. The
picture below shows the cast.
Bonneville Stake
T^HE favor with which the arch
as a symbol of the Membership
Drive has been accepted by the
stakes is borne out by reports com-
ing from all over the Church. The
campaign was enthusiastically con-
ducted in every ward of the Bonne-
ville Stake. The above picture is
of the Yalecrest Ward arch and
Sister Mable Olsen, the coordinator.
With each new member a flower is
added to the arch.
ANNIVERSARY PAGEANT, JUAB STAKE
MORMON HANDICHAFT
(jitghlights
By Nellie O. Parker
The charm of the party is not in the display
Of elaborate or costly things,
Or the formal serving of sumptuous viands;
It's in the quality of friendliness offered,
in the opportunity set
For the joyous interchange of w^ord and of
spirit.
When the soul is fed as well as the body,
And the warmth of the heart is in it.
NEARLY every woman would
like to be a charming hostess
and entertain friends gracious-
ly and easily, but many feel that
their things aren't nice enough or
that they can't afford to give parties.
But if they only knew it, friends love
to come where there is a warm, cor-
dial hospitality and an informal at-
mosphere that's conducive to con-
versation and friendly interchange of
ideas. Material things are of second-
ary importance. The homely ''old
honesties" with simple food attrac-
tively served are as effective as ele-
gant, expensive things. Get friends
talking about their interests and
hobbies and they'll never notice
whether they are eating an hors
d'ouvre or a ham sandwich. And
they'll have a wonderful time.
Using common things in an un-
common way is often a means of
adding interest and charm to a party.
Daintily tinted popcorn baskets
made effective motives for a lunch-
eon that honored Sister Amy W.
Evans recently. They repeated the
color scheme of the centerpiece and
served as placecard favors; for a little
take-off on Sister Evans' work in
welfare, each basket was filled with
candied corn, beans, etc., typifying
a food basket sent out at Thanks-
giving and Christmas.
These baskets were obtained from
Mormon Handicraft. They can be
made any size or in any combination
of colors. They are especially suit-
able for children's parties.
From Mormon Handicraft also
came the beautiful crocheted, fillet
table cover that was presented Sister
Evans as a token of the love and
esteem in which she is held by the
General Board. It was an exquisite
piece of handwork.
Come and see if Mormon Handi-
craft hasn't just the right gift for
that birthday or wedding that's com-
ing up.
I saw two lovely new sweaters at
the shop. One was turquoise blue,
knit of llama-down yarn, buttoned
in front with- buttons of the same
color. The other was of white angel
crepe with coral-colored buttons.
They are ideal for early fall wear
and very desirable for daughter's
wardrobe for school. Order now to
insure having one when needed.
iMasic Department
cJhe Lyonductor and the \:yrgarnst
By Wade N. Stephens of the Tabernacle Organ Staff
npHE conductor's problem is first
to interpret the music to be
sung and then by means of her con-
ducting technique to convey to the
chorus her ideas so definitely that
the singers are compelled to sing as
she wishes.
It is obvious that a conductor
must have certain musical and per-
sonal characteristics. Most impor-
tant among these is a knowledge of
music. Without this she cannot
secure a tasteful and effective inter-
pretation of a piece, nor can she
hope to command the respect neces-
sary for the implicit obedience in
all musical matters that must be re-
quired of the chorus.
A conductor must have the tech-
nique in conducting that is necessary
for projecting to the singers the
mood of the composition and the
small changes in the speed and loud-
ness of the music that make up an
artistic performance.
A conductor must know very defi-
nitely what she wants and be willing
to work to obtain it. This firmness
of character should appear in the
assignment of parts, as well as in
rehearsal and performance.
But if firmness is necessary, tact
is equally so. Tactfulness does not
imply weakness.
npHE organist's problem is first to
learn the accompaniments and
then to play them as the conductor
wishes. She must be able to follow
closely the movements of the baton,
the left hand, the face and body,
which show what the conductor
wishes. A good accompanist falls not
far short of being a mind-reader.
It is as an accompanist that we
will think of the organist in this
series of articles. We will assume
a knowledge of music and technique
sufficient to play the accompani-
ments required, and attempt to teach
the organist the movements she
must interpret when used by the
conductor. A good accompanist fol-
lows the conductor even when she
is wrong.
The articles you will read during
the following months are for both
conductor and organist. They will
teach the conductor what to do, the
accompanist how to interpret and
follow. It is suggested that the
chorister and organist meet together
once a week outside meeting and
rehearsal for the purpose of working
together on these lessons. The or-
ganist will be able to tell the chor-
ister when her movements are un-
readable, and the conductor can tell
the accompanist when she has not
interpreted aright. It is only by such
cooperation that we can hope to at-
tain the best possible in singing,
whether by congregation or chorus.
And only the best possible can satis-
fy us, for we believe that "The Glory
of God is Intelligence".
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJheology^ ana cJestimon^
Lesson 3
Matthew The Publican
Helpful References
James E. Talmage, Jesus the
Christ, pp. 193-195, 222f.
A. B. Bruce, The Training oi the
Twelve, consult index under heading
of "Matthew".
E. F. Scott, The Literatuie oi the
New Testament, pp. 65-75, ^^S^-
Because of the many references
listed in this lesson, it would be well
to read the entire Gospel of Mat-
thew.
AN UNUSUAL CALL. - Our
Lord's call to Matthew was one
of the most unusual and noteworthy
acts of his ministry. His choice of
a publican, one of a detested class
in Jewish society, to be one of His
disciples and apostles indicates that
it is not always best to follow the
usual maxims of worldly wisdom. An
executive in a business or church
would never pick men to fill respon-
sible positions whose social status
and reputation were such as to prove
embarrassing or dangerous. In re-
spect to the Savior's choice of Mat-
thew, Professor A. B. Bruce wrote:
"A publican disciple, much more a
publican apostle, could not fail to be
a stumbling-block to Jewish preju-
dice, and therefore to be, for the
time at least, a source of weakness
rather than of strength. Yet, while
perfectly aware of this fact, Jesus
invited to the intimate fellowship
of disciplehood one who had pur-
sued the occupation of a tax-gather-
er, and at a later period selected him
to be one of the Twelve. His pro-
cedure in this case is all the more
remarkable when contrasted with
the manner in which He treated oth-
ers having outward advantages to
recommend them to favorable no-
tice, and who showed their readiness
to follow by volunteering to become
disciples; of whom we have a sample
in the scribe who came and said,
'Master, I will follow Thee whither-
soever thou goest.' (Matt. 8:18-20)
This man, whose social position and
professional attainments seemed to
point him out as a very desirable
acquisition, the Master deliberately
scared away by a gloomy picture of
his own destitute condition. ..."
Matthew's formal call to disciple-
ship is very interestingly told by
Luke who applies to him his more
strictly Jewish name Levi. "And af-
ter these things he went forth, and
saw a publican, named Levi, sitting
at the receipt of custom: and he
said unto him. Follow me. And he
left all, rose up, and followed him.
And Levi made him a great feast
in his own house: and there was a
great company of publicans and of
others that sat down with them. But
their scribes and Pharisees murmur-
ed against his disciples, saying, Why
do ye eat and drink with publicans
and sinners? And Jesus answering
said unto them. They that are whole
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need not a physician; but they that his own profit. While the law was
are sick. I came not to call the right- supposed to determine a maximum,
eous, but sinners to repentance." it was so irregular in practice that
(Luke 5:27-32) This quotation re- room was left open for extortion,
veals the bitterness and hatred of The collectors or 'publicans" (from
the Jews for the publicans as a social the Latin publicani) were much hat-
group. The above scripture is inter- ed by the Jews, both as extortioners
esting in two other respects. One and as Roman agents. Now Mat-
is that Matthew had a generous and thew was one of this hated class to
hospitable soul. The other is the whom the disliked foreign power
use of veiled sarcasm in the Savior's farmed out taxes. It would, of course,
rejoinder to the scribes and Phari- be unfair to suppose that all publi-
sees. ''A hated publican may be cans were extortioners and unfair in
better material for an apostle than their exaction of taxes,
a self-righteous hypocrite," we may Matthew made his home in Ca-
justly believe Him to be thinking, pernaum and for aught we know
"Confident in the power of truth, that city may have been his special
He chose the base things of the district for tax collection. It is pos-
world in preference to things held in sible, of course, that he had charge of
esteem, assured that they would con- some other district but kept his of-
quer at the last." (Bruce) fice in the city for convenience. The
'ARMING OUT TAXES. - In ''^l 'Jf.*"'^^ .°V"v ^"^'"^^V^^^'^
, . r ^1 • 1 r niake him widely known in Galilee,
the time of Christ the country of ^^^^ -^ ji^^l^ ^^^^^^ ^^
Judea was nominally under the sur- ^j^^^ Matthew, in his office of tax
veillance of the governor of Syria, collector, was not well acquainted
and received a procurator. The lat- ^^^h the preaching of our Lord be-
ter lived at Caesarea, though at spe- ^^^^ ^he latter formally told him to
cial times he took up his residence ^^^i^^^ ^^>> It j^ even possible
in Jerusalem m order to give the ^hat he had met the Master person-
large number of people there his per- ^n^
sonal attention. The procurator had
three main functions: To collect JUATTHEW BECOMES AN
taxes levied by the Romans; to act APOSTLE.— After the Savior's
as a judge on important cases; and first call to Matthew, he found am-
to command the military forces in pie opportunity to study the new
the country. The taxes collected in disciple. The latter's qualities of
Judea went directly to Caesar, be- mind and heart satisfied the Christ
cause Palestine was an imperial and that he should hold one of the high-
nota senatorial province. (See Matt, est offices that can be conferred on
22:17 ff.) Many Jews were hired man in the flesh— the Holy Apostle-
to collect the taxes. Each one of ship. Matthew was therefore a
these individuals secured the priv- member of that famous little band
ilege of collecting the customs in a of twelve whom Christ ordained and
certain district, for which he paid a set apart for the ministry. (See Matt,
stipulated sum each year. All reve- 10:3) Aside from the facts already
nue beyond that amount would be mentioned, we know little or noth-
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ing of Matthew's career. There is
an old tradition to the effect that
he carried the Gospel to distant
lands and later met a martyr's death.
Common tradition credits him with
writing the Gospel of Matthew. We
shall now consider that book.
' n^HE AUTHORSHIP OF THE
^ GOSPEL OF MATTHEW .-
The authorship of the Gospel of
Matthew, like that of John, has been
debated.
Among Latter-day Saint theologi-
ans it is claimed that Matthew wrote
the Gospel for the following reasons:
(i) The internal evidence in the
Gospel shows throughout that the
author was a Palestinian Jew as is
evident from his knowledge of the
Old Testament, the geography of
Palestine, Jewish history, manners
and customs, etc.
(2) The cosmopolitan and univer-
sal points of view exhibited by the
Gospel. This would be expected
from a true apostle. Most of the
views held to be narrowly Jewish can
be readily explained.
HTHE TEACHING OF THE
"* BOOK OF MATTHEW.-As-
suming Matthew was the author of
the Gospel by that name we may
point out its importance and teach-
ing. Matthew may not be the most
beautiful of the Gospels— perhaps
we can accord John that honor —
but it is by common consent the
most important. From the first this
Gospel has been placed at the very
beginning of collections of New Tes-
tament books. As Professor Scott
remarks, "It has been accepted in all
times as the authoritative account of
the life of Christ, the fundamental
document of the Christian religion."
As he further points out, Matthew's
primacy is due to the following
causes: (1) It has an arrangement
excellently adapted for teaching pur-
poses—much better in fact than the
other Gospels. ( 2 ) It has the fullest
and most concise account of Christ's
teaching. ''Not only have a great
number of the Sayings been pre-
served, but they are grouped with
remarkable skill, so as to reinforce
and illustrate one another. Of this,
the most notable example is the so-
called Sermon on the Mount. ... As
arranged by Matthew, the discourse
has always been regarded as the
classical exposition of the Christian
ethic." (3) It is by all odds the most
comprehensive of the Gospels. The
presentation of Christ's teaching and
activities is many-sided. Its univer-
sal outlook has commended it to all
interests. (4) Church interests are
constantly before the author. He is
the only writer of the Gospels who
mentions the church. (See 16:18;
18:17) Matthew "records a number
of parables in such a way as to make
them apply to the needs and condi-
tions of the church. ... As the
church Gospel, it has taken its place
in all ages as the standard presenta-
tion of the faith."
One of Matthew's outstanding
teachings is that Christ is the long-
looked-for Messiah. He constantly
refers to prophecies in the Old Tes-
tament that foretell His life and
mission. (See 1:23; 2:6, 18; 3:3; 4:6;
12:18-21; 13:14, 15) In certain in-
stances it would even appear that
his use of the Scriptures is somewhat
strained. Matthew furthermore em-
phasizes the contrast between the
teachings of our Lord and tlie re-
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quirements of the ancient Law. (See
5:i7ff.) We have already considered
the Sermon on the Mount in an
earher series of lessons. Certainly
Matthew should be thanked for giv-
ing to us this matchless exposition
of the good life. In his teaching
Matthew constantly relates the in-
struction of Christ to the practical
needs of the people in the church.
Note the direction on ( i ) marriage
and divorce (5:27-32), (2) fasting
and prayer (6:1-18), (3) rules for
conduct toward children and breth-
ren (18:10-14; 5:25-26; 7:12, 18:15-
22), (4) being steadfast under per-
secution (10:17-36; 16:24-28). Mat-
thew's discussion of Christ's promise
to Peter (16:18, 19), the Transfig-
uration (17:1-13), Christ's mission
''to the lost sheep of the house of
Israel" (15:24), of the events per-
taining to the Lord's Advent in
glory (24), and the parable of the
Ten Virgins are all of great interest
and doctrinal worth. Our limited
space precludes mention of other im-
portant teachings.
Our Western world owes much
to Matthew, the despised publican.
Questions and Pioblems
(Deal only wdth those that time and
circumstances permit.)
1. Comment on the principle of
democracy that should exist in the
Church in the light of Christ's
choice of Matthew, the publican, for
an apostle.
2. Explain as best you can why
Matthew was willing to suddenly
leave his business at Christ's call.
( Show that he could have been well
acquainted with Christ's teachings
at that time.)
3. Have some sister contrast and
compare the attitude of Matthew
and Simon the Zealot toward the
Romans. Which of these two inen
would be better liked by the Jews
so far as their foreign views were
concerned? (Hint: Compare a Pub-
lican and a Zealot. See encyclope-
dia)
4. How would you answer a per-
son who asserts that Matt. 15:24 is
"narrowly Jewish" in outlook and
anything but unselfish? (Consult 3
Nephi 15:15-16)
5. What is the practical value of
Matthew's Gospel for today?
0?
Visiting cJeacher 'JUepartment
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 3
Befitting Speech
"Only let your conversation be as it becometh the gospel of Christ." — Phil. 1 :27.
"Boys flying kites, haul in their white winged birds;
You can't do that when you are flying words.
"Thoughts unexpressed may sometimes fall back dead,
But God himself can't kill them when they're said."
—Will Carkton.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 635
CPEECH is the verbal communi-
cation between man and man.
It may be common and degrading;
it may be commonplace; it may be
lofty and sublime. It lays bare the
contents of the mind, the desires of
the heart, the inner urges, the petti-
ness or bigness of the human soul.
When refined and seasoned with
grace, it proclaims the lady or gen-
tleman; when vulgar and profane, it
indicates low taste and ill breeding.
Speech is a power in every depart-
ment of human relations. When the
wrath and bitterness of the human
heart are moulded into words and
thrown with violence, speech has the
power to break the spirit of a person,
while words directed by love and
understanding cause one to feel al-
most God-like in strength to over-
come evil and in power to go for-
ward.
Conversation which becometh the
gospel of Christ elminates all that
is coarse or unrefined. Profanity,
faultfinding, backbiting, gossip, slan-
der, are unbefitting the Latter-day
Saint. Our leaders, constantly cau-
tion us to guard our tongues. Brig-
ham Young counseled, "Let not thy
tongue give utterance to the evil that
is in thine heart, but command thy
tongue to be silent until good shall
prevail." Francis M. Lyman con-
sidered decorous speech one of the
important standards by which Lat-
ter-day Saints are expected to live.
He advised them to "speak ill of no
man, not even in a matter of truth,
but rather excuse the faults charged
against others, and upon proper oc-
casion, speak all the good they know
of everybody." Joseph F. Smith ad-
monished, "Look for good in men;
build up the good; sustain the good;
and speak as little evil as you possibly
can. It does no good to magnify
evil, to publish evil, or to promulgate
it by tongue or pen."
In every one of us there are power-
ful drives or appetites, which moti-
vate our behavior, color our judg-
ment, and which insist upon being
satisfied. We too often seek satis-
faction through an unbridled tongue,
not considering the destructiveness
of such a course to both self and
others.
In dealing with an unbridled
tongue we must recognize that our
unrestrained verbal expressions are a
form of emotional release. Behind
them is usually found petty jealous-
ies, wounded vanity, a sense of in-
justice, blocked behavior, or an in-
feriority complex. If our speech is
to be as it becometh the gospel of
Christ, we must be sure our funda-
mental attitudes are right. We must
approach our relations with our fel-
lowmen with a broad sense of right
and wrong. We must focus our
view, not upon that which is wrong
and evil, but upon that which is right
and good. We must practice the
Master's doctrine of love. Then,
cognizant of our own shortcomings,
we must strive to live so that our
own lives may bear the closest in-
spection.
"The measure of a man is the size
of a thing it takes to make him say
a mean or little thing."
Discussion
1. Analyze your own attitudes.
Discover which ones prompt you to
evil speech.
2. What would be the spirit of
your home if speech were always
befitting the Gospel? Of your Re-
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lief Society organization? Of the 4. How may the habit of coarse or
Church? unrefined speech be overcome?
3. Why is it unwise to retaHate 5. Read James, Chap. 3.
when some one speaks ill of us?
JLiterature
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 3
"Personal Recollections of Joan of Arc"
^^npHE details of the life of Joan
ot Arc form a biography which
is unique among the world's biogra-
phies in one respect: It is the only
story of a human life which comes
to us under oath, the only one which
comes to us from the witness stand.
The official records of the Great
Trial of 1431, and of the Process of
Rehabilitation of a quarter of a cen-
tury later are still preserved in the
National Archives of France, and
they furnish with remarkable fulness
the facts of her life. The history of
no other life of that remote time is
known with either the certainty or
the comprehensiveness that attaches
to hers/' says our author. It is well
to bear this in mind; otherwise we
might be inclined to doubt the
amazing, the startling and the un-
speakably tragic life of Joan of Arc.
BOOK III. TRIAL AND MAR-
TYRDOM. Joan had often fore-
told that her mission would last but
a year, and with the last chapter of
Book II that year was fast drawing
to a close. She begged to be allowed
to go home: ''Ah, if it might but
please God to let me put off this
steel raiment and go back to my
father and my mother, and tend my
sheep again with my sister and my
brothers who would be so glad to
see me!" She was forced against her
will to remain to make marches and
to fight. She fought English, Bur-
gundian and French conspiracy, and
it was French treachery which be-
trayed her. Her 'Voices" had spok-
en to her of this time and warned
her that she would be taken prisoner.
She prayed that she might die before
she was captured, for her enemies
had threatened that they would burn
her as a witch if they caught her.
She fought on bravely, however, and
did not allow her fear to overcome
her courage. In March, 1430, she
was captured by Jean de Luxem-
bourg of the Burgundian forces, who
hoped to get a large ransom for her.
It might be supposed that the King
and the people of France would have
been glad to pay any sum for her
safe return because of her marvelous
service to her native land. But the
King was weak and indolent, and his
selfish advisors, who were jealous of
Joan, counseled him not to ransom
her. Therefore, he made no effort
to save her, nor did he show at this
time any interest in her fate. She
was sold to the English for 1,600
francs.
Book III goes very much into de-
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tail in the recital of the year's im- mates. ... I fought at her side in
prisonment and the trials to which the wars; to this day I carry in my
she was subjected. She was first mind, fine and clear, the picture of
brought before the Tribunal of the that dear little figure, with breast
Bishop of Beauvis on the charge of bent to the flying horses charging
being a witch and a heretic. This at the head of the armies of France,
defenseless girl was not allowed even her hair streaming back, her silver
an advisor, while her judges were mail plowing steadily deeper and
of the highest clerical authorities in deeper into the thick of the battle,
the land, both English and French, sometimes nearly drowned from
including the Vicar of the Inquisi- sight by tossing heads of horses, up-
tion. Her case was reviewed by the lifted swords, arms, wind-blown
University of Paris, which decided plumes, and intercepting shields. I
against her. Her last trial began in was with her to the end, and when
February and lasted until May, 1431. the black day came whose accusing
The author consistently stresses shadow will lie always upon the mit-
Joan's piety and great devotion to red French slaves of England who
the church and her constant contact were her assassins, and upon France
with the clergy, who could find no who stood idle and essayed no res-
evil in her. In these trials, her judges, cue; my hand was the last she touch-
who were all churchmen, completely ed in life. As the year and the
reversed the findings of all the others decades drifted by, and the spectacle
who had known her intimately and of the marvelous child's meteor
heard her even in the sacred confes- flight across the war firmament of
sional. Joan of Arc's Trial is one France and its extinction in the
of the outstanding mistrials of his- smoke-clouds of the stake receded
tory; injustice, inhumanity, intoler- deeper and deeper into the past and
ance and bigotry sat in the judgment grew ever more strange, and wonder-
seat, ful, and divine, and pathetic, I came
On the 30th of May 1431 Joan to comprehend and to recognize her
of Arc was burned at the stake in the at last for what she was, the most
market place of Rouen, with every noble life that was ever born into
detail of indignity and cruelty. She this world— save only One."
was just nineteen years old-one Joan's father died shortlv after her
year given to savmg France, one m martyrdom, but her mother and her
barbarous imprisonment. brothers, Jean and Piere, lived to
T^EIE Personal Recollection of take part in the Process of Rehabili-
Joan of Arc, purported to have tation, which took place in 1456.
been written in 1492, when De- Joan of Arc had crowned the King,
Conte, her secretary, was 82 years and he had permitted her to be
old, verify fully what was said of burned as a sorceress and heretic,
Mark Twain in relation to the book: without making an effort to save her.
"I was reared in the same village No nation could be proud of such a
with her. I played with her every king, so he appealed to the Pope
day when we were little children who appointed a commission of
together, just as you play with your churchmen to examine the facts of
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her life and award judgment. Her
case from first to last was minutely
retried, and everyone from her own
family to the great generals of France
was interviewed. In this process
every stigma of heresy or sorcery was
removed from her name, and those
directly responsible for her death
were punished. Her family was en-
nobled, and the effort to have Joan
of Arc recognized by the Catholic
Church continued for centuries; but
it was not until February, 1903, that
the formal proposal for canonization
was entered. Pope Pius X gave her
the title of Venerable in 1904. The
decree of beatification was made in
1909, and she was canonized by
Pope Benedict XV in 1920. Her
name was added to the list of Saints.
lOAN OF ARC has been a subject
•^ for the learned and the wise for
centuries. They have tried to ac-
count for her achievements and ex-
plain the source of her power. She
has been the theme of numberless
literary efforts. The English essay-
ist, DeQuincy, and the poet Southey
wrote of her. One of the greatest
works of Frederick Schiller, the emi-
nent German author, is his Jung-
frau von Orleans, a noble tribute
from one of the world's greatest
geniuses. In our own day we have
Albert Biglow Paine and George
Bernard Shaw who have been at-
tracted by this most unique charac-
ter in human history.
The last biography of her to ap-
pear was in 1936. It is V. Sackville-
West's Saint Joan of Arc. It received
the Literary Guild award and is con-
sidered by some critics to be the
most accurate record of her life yet
written.
Joan of Arc's biography is a dra-
matic portrayal of the never-ending
struggle between right and might.
Her service to her country was not
so much in the battles she won as
in the fact that she challenged the
manhood of France to action. Her
power was the inspirational faith
and belief in her own country and
her own people and her ability to
impart this to others. This is the
genius of real leadership.
In the words of the author: ''With
Joan of Arc love of country was more
than a sentiment, it was a passion.
. . . Love, mercy, charity, fortitude,
war, peace, poetry, music— these may
be symbolized as any shall prefer:
by figures of either sex and of any
age; but a slender girl in her first
young bloom, with the martyr's
crown upon her head, and in her
hand the sword that severed her
country's bonds— shall not this, and
no other, stand for Patriotism
through all the ages until time shall
end?"
Suggestions for Discussion
1 . Do you think the book accom-
plishes what Albert Bigelow Paine
says that it will do, "make you love
Joan of Arc as Mark Twain loved
her"?
2. Select some of the most dra-
matic episodes of the Trials and have
them read, pointing out the incon-
sistencies.
3. Have someone briefly report on
some of the other works on Joan
of Arc— Schiller's Jungfrau, Paine's
Maid in White Armor.
4. What is there in the life of
Joan that is vital today?
5. Stress the spiritual guidance
which was undoubtedly hers.
Social Si
ervice
Lesson 3
How Does Propaganda Affect Me?
I. HOW DOES PROPAGAN-
DA DIFFER FROM EDUCA-
TION? The method of science is
to let facts lead where they will. The
'method of propaganda, one method
of creating public opinion, is to em-
phasize only one side of the ques-
tion, to ignore or disparage all other
ways of thinking, and to appeal more
to emotion than to reason.
Education is different from propa-
ganda in that it is designed to dis-
seminate knowledge and skills as well
as to develop attitudes, whereas
propaganda, has to do only with af-
fecting people's attitudes and feel-
ings. If any information is given
through propaganda it is for the
purpose of changing attitudes. Edu-
cation usually has no "ax to grind";
propaganda always has one. Educa-
tion and propaganda are natural ene-
mies; but some methods of educa-
tion are similar to those of propa-
ganda, because education is also in-
terested in determining attitudes as
well as in giving information. When
the motive back of education be-
comes the same as that back of prop-
aganda, the distinction between
them vanishes, as is the case in the
Russian school system today where
only the facts which serve the pres-
ent government are taught and the
desired attitudes developed.
II. EVERYONE IS AFFECT-
ED TO SOME EXTENT BY
PROPAGANDA. Try as we will to
resist propaganda, we are all vitally
affected by it at times. The agencies
of propaganda are particularly active
during political campaigns and dur-
ing war. Mobilization of public
opinion by both sides during the
World War was as important as fur-
nishing armaments. Probably words
are as important in war as bullets.
Every defeat of the enemy and every
victory of one's own side are widely
publicized in order to build up the
fighting morale of the armies as well
as the moral courage of those back
of the lines.
Since the average person cannot
learn the facts first hand during
wars and political campaigns, he
must rely largely upon the newspa-
pers, radio, and public speakers for
his information. These organs, to
a greater or less extent, become dom-
inated by the interested govern-
ments or parties during periods of
crisis. Public opinion is, therefore,
determined through these organs to
suit the purposes of those in control.
Only facts favorable to the parties in
control of the publicity are circulat-
ed. The average person cannot fully
escape these propaganda influences,
because he cannot gather facts for
himself concerning events occurring
far away or concerning the inside
workings of governments or political
parties.
Now, all we say here does not
mean that propaganda works only to
evil purposes. Strong public opin-
ion is imperative in times of crisis,
and public opinion cannot often be
aroused to effectiveness without the
use of propaganda. People must feel
strongly about a great cause before
they will lay down their lives for it.
In time of war or threat of war.
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public opinion is aroused by devel-
oping strong emotions toward the
mother country and against the ene-
my. The propaganda at such a time
is usually directed toward arousing
three particularly strong emotions:
Fear and hate of the enemy, hope oi
victory, and Jove of country. We
should learn to detect efforts to
arouse these emotions, and we
should learn to see to what a great
extent our thinking during critical
times, such as the present, is influ-
enced by our feelings rather than by
our knowledge of the facts.
We dislike to admit that we act
more from feeling than from reason.
Propagandists realize this fact and
furnish us good "reasons" for feeling
the way we do. Often they are not
the real reasons, but they satisfy us
and give us some justification when
anyone attacks our attitude on a con-
troversial question.
The American people are immedi-
ately affected by the incidents of
each day, whereas a generation ago
news traveled so slowly that public
opinion was not aroused by world
happenings until weeks or months
after their occurrence. The organs
of public opinion which are used by
modern propagandists are: (i) The
radio, long wave systems for local
broadcasts and short wave for distant
influence, such as European broad-
casts to South America; (2) the
newspapers, which utilize the radio,
telegraph and cablephoto; (3) mov-
ing pictures, particularly news reels;
(4) the platform, in conjunction
with the radio, so effectively used by
politicians; (5) face-to-face gossip.
Gossip becomes particularly impor-
tant when the people learn that the
other organs are being censored.
III. WHAT ARE SOME OF
THE TECHNIQUES USED IN
PROPAGANDA? An understand-
ing of the "tricks" of propaganda
should help us better to resist its
influence, or perhaps suggest some
methods that can be legitimately
used in a truly educational campaign .
1. An appeal is made to the emo-
tions, first and foremost, by various
methods. A good politician has his
picture taken while holding children
in his arms. He takes time to shake
hands with the children who meet
him at the platform. He will also
take pains to speak respectfully of
motherhood, virtue, fair play, pa-
triotism and other emotionally col-
ored ideals. Glittering generalities
are used to appeal to the feelings
rather than to the intellect. Such
words as "liberty", "social justice",
"national honor", and "democracy"
are symbols which arouse strong
feelings, but the meanings of which
are vague enough to cover anything
the person cares to think. These
are simply descriptive words recall-
ing certain kinds of experience, and
they are used because they reduce
the amount of thinking required to
revive those experiences again. The
feelings then spread to the speaker,
and he leaves us with pleasant feel-
ings toward him, although he may
have left us scarcely any information.
2. Name Calling is another tech-
nique for arousing public opinion.
Names become symbols for negative
feelings just as the glittering gener-
alities mentioned before symbolize
pleasant emotions. Thus, we call
anyone who is un-American a "red",
"communist", or "Fascist". These
names are symbols for certain feel-
ings already organized within us. A
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recent careful study revealed that placate British public opinion; but
most Americans react to these names the Spanish rebels were given almost
with strong feelings of rejection. continual assistance, in spite of de-
When Mr. Hugo Black was being nials and repeated pledges. This has
discussed in Congress, before his ap- all become very clear since the close
pointment to the Supreme Court of the war, and Mussolini publicly
had been approved, his enemies boasts of his successful campaign in
waged an unsuccessful propaganda Spain.
war against him. A newspaper re- 4. Exaggeration oi hali-tiuths is
porter dug up the fact that he had a common propaganda technique. In
once held a membership card in the a political campaign, some minor
Ku Klux Klan, which influenced flaw in the arguments of the opposi-
some people against him. As an- tion is picked out and magnified into
other example, the fact that Al Smith something basic. It is built into a
was a Catholic was used against him "straw man" which can easily be
by all who were prejudiced against knocked down, and the enemy be
Catholics. Propagandists use these made to appear defeated; whereas,
words freely in their campaigns, frequently the point so magnified is
knowing that people will not stop of no real importance. The psycho-
to think what they mean but will logical principle underlying the tech-
permit the words to uncritically nique of exaggeration is the fact that
arouse prejudices which spread to people tend to generalize our feel-
the person in question. Other words ings toward a person or doctrine and
widely used because of their power to wholly accept or wholly reject on
to arouse prejudices are: "Alien", the basis of a few points of judg-
"foreigner", "Bolshevik", and "an- ment— not by a careful examination
archist". of all aspects.
3. Misrepresentation is one of the 5. The illusion oi universality is
most vicious techniques used in the tendency most people have to
propaganda. The promoters of a think that what nearly everybody
propaganda campaign may believe so does must be right. The impression
sincerely in the rightness of their that "everybody's doing it" leads us
cause that they consider any method, to accept many courses of action
foul or fair, of promoting the cause without stopping to ask the question
to be justified. This method is cal- as to whether "everybody" knows
culated to prevent the opposition what he is doing. Parades, mass meet-
from finding the true facts. Atrocity ings, Army and Navy games, popular
stories are manufactured in war time petitions, and censuses of public
to inflame public opinion, and, of opinion give us the impression that
course, there is no way the average "everybody" is on the move and that
person can verify these stories. Out- if we do not fall in line we might lose
right deception of one nation by out on something. We should re-
another is not uncommon in time member that these impressions are
of crisis. Thus, Italy pledged not carefully planned by organized
to intervene in the recent Spanish groups behind the scenes and that
war, which pledge was intended to they may not represent the spon-
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taneous action of most of the people tions. There is a great need for more
at all. The source of these mass thorough general education of the
demonstrations is sometimes con- masses of the people. Education
cealed, and the motives are almost alone can discount the effects of
always somewhat obscure to the propaganda. In a democracy where
masses. "Spontaneous" applause and all of the organs of public opinion
"boos" in political audiences are of- are permitted to play upon the ig-
ten planned by political organizers norance of the people without re-
to start mass acceptance or rejection striction, there is only one hope-
without critical examination of the democratic educational opportuni-
issues involved. If the source of ties, which is also one of the great
these outbursts were known, of guarantees we have under our form
course, they would have little effect, of government.
The thoughtful reader will ob- Xo be able to resist propaganda
serve that in most of these propa- ^^ j^^st have habits of looking for
ganda techniques the basic psycho- emotional as contrasted with intel
logical principle is the transferring Jectual appeals. The demagogue
of a feeling from one symbol or as- j^^ows the wants of the people bet-
pect of a situation to other parts ^r than he knows how properly to
only remotely related. Be on your satisfy ti^^se ^^^ts. Platform prom-
guard against all devices which are [^^^ ^^^ appealing to us because they
likely to short-cut your thinking pro- g^^ aimed at giving us the impression
cesses and which make you form that our wants are to be satisfied,
attitudes without proper considera- when our personal benefit is in
tion of the facts. Beware of "catch question, it is almost impossible to
words" and slogans. Guard against ^hink straight. We should not won-
your class and race hatreds: There ^g^, then, why we cannot see how
is where propaganda works most ef- unlikely it will be for all such prom-
fectively because our thinking is so jges to be kept. All of the econom-
emotional on these issues. ically unsound schemes for getting
IV. ANTIDOTES FOR PROP- rich quickly, such as radical old age
AGANDA. pension ("$30 every Thursday")
1. Bioad education is the safest plans, touch upon a personal want
protection against propaganda. This so directly that clear thinking is very
means broad reading, training in ac- difficult. Many radical politicians
curate thinking, and acquaintance ride to victory on the basis of this
with many points of view. Very few kind of demagoguery. Our national
Americans cast their vote as a result capital is full of various kinds of
of informing themselves upon the pressure groups attempting to get
issues of an election and logically de- special benefits for interested groups
ciding which is the best course to who are looking to their personal
follow. Most voting is a response welfare ahead of the national good,
to the emotional appeals of the Until we can detect the difference
radio, newspapers, and community between facts and wishes we cannot
gossip. The same could be said of be free from propaganda. Educa-
most opinions on international ques- tion should bend every effort to train
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the people in the art of straight 1938, pp. 265-303. A more technical
thinking, as well as to furnish the reference, thorough and well docu-
information with which to fight men ted.
propaganda. 2. Starch, D., et al, ContioUing
Human Behavior, New York: Mac-
Problems Foi Discussion millan, 1936, pp. 557-574. An ex-
cellent general source, up to date,
1. Distmgmsh between propagan- semi-technical but elementary and
da and education. readable
2. Discuss the question as to ^^^' ^ j^ Psychological As-
whether all propaganda should be ^^^^^ ^^ /^^.^^^^^ ^^^ York: Mc-
condemned. Graw-Hill, 1938, pp. 265-286. Best
3. Name and give examples of ^j j^ semi-technical reference, well
three tricks of propaganda. documented.
4. Show how transfer or reeiing is ^ j a 7 • i.i-i
i.-!- J 1- i.T_ J- 1. 4- Propaganda Analysis, a monthly
utilized by the propagandists. , J .11 .1 • . n- . .• ^
ei-'^ii^. ^ ^ ^ letter to help the intelligent citizen
c. Show what an important part j . . j i j
-^ J I . ^ ^ J ^ ' detect and analyze propaganda. 1:^2
propaganda plays m present-day in- Morningside Drive, New York, N. Y.
ternational struggles. Give examples. ^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^^^^ ^^.^^ ^^^.^^^^ ^^
References *^^ techniques of propaganda and
special analyses of methods and cam-
1. LaPiere, Richard T., Collective paigns of the present time. Sub-
Behavior, New York: McGraw-Hill, scription $2 per annum.
\baucation for CJamilyi JLife
Family Relationships
Lesson 3
My Responsibility to My Mate
OOW often it is that each of us ship are determined by the purpose
turns his thoughts, casually or and aim for which that relationship
otherwise, to the subject of my exists. Therefore, in order to de-
mate's responsibility to me, and in termine my responsibility to my
his thinking multiplies arid magnifies mate, I must be conscious of the
incidents of failure on the part of his common purpose toward which we
mate to measure up to expectations, are working. Students of family re-
But how seldom it is that we pause lations today have accepted the ful-
to contemplate the subject of my fillment or development of person-
responsibility to my mate and to ality as the most valuable value that
attempt to determine to what extent comes from family living. Striving
I am failing to make the grade. toward such a value constitutes a
Responsibilities in any relation- worthy aim for all family groups.
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The richest realization of the ful- personaHty. This, undoubtedly, will
fillment of personality is possible require knowledge concerning his
only through the unselfish coopera- earlier life in the parental home,
tion of a man and a woman united Many of his behavior patterns would
in marriage for the purpose of car- not appear as stumbling blocks in
rying on normal family life in which our path of happiness if I knew the
the group consists of husband, wife background concerning their forma-
and children. We use the phrase tion. In order to understand per-
unselfish cooperation in the true and sonality I must seek causes of be-
full sense of its meaning, for only as havior. If I know the reason for
we can develop unselfishness in our certain actions, I shall not be so
character can we be instrumental in prone to take a fatalistic attitude
facilitating the fulfillment of the per- toward the faults of my mate and
sonality of our mate. will try to tactfully and slowly bring
Unselfish behavior does not mean about a change rather than to use
that I shall be a passive person, al- up my energy in criticism and com-
ways ready and willing to relinquish plamts.
my own wishes for the momentary Merely because two people live
satisfaction of the wishes of my mate, under the same roof year after year
but rather that I shall preserve my as husband and wife does not neces-
own identity as a person and be will- sarily assure either one that he knows
ing to sacrifice the lesser value of the the other, and yet such knowledge is
present for the more permanent and taken for granted by the majority of
richer value of the future as it re- mates.
lates to our relationship. It implies "Guess I might just as well give
further that I enter marriage with a up trying to make Mable happy/'
conscious determination to do all in said Bill, in a discouraged tone of
my power to make possible the full- voice. ''I give her everything I pos-
est realization of the purposes and sibly can, clothes, spending money,
possibilities of my mate. On the trips, the use of the car, and a maid
other hand, it does not mean that I so that she will be free to go when-
shall decide what is good for my ever she wishes; but somehow she
mate and devote every effort toward does not seem to be happy — at
making him or her over, justifying times I even think she hates me."
my action on the basis that it is for And about the same time Mable
his or her good, while in reality I said to her friend in an equally dis-
am thinking of myself. It means couraged tone of voice, '1 wish I
that I shall take a careful inventory knew what I might do in order to
of all of our internal resources and please Bill. I feel certain that he
try to use them most advantageously is disappointed in me, but I simply
for the fulfillment of the person- cannot discover why. He is so dif-
alities of both of us according to ferent from what I thought he
our wishes, desires, and the standard would be. Before we were married
of values to which we have agreed. I thought that he would want me
My next obligation is to know my to be what we call the 'old-fashioned'
mate. I must try to understand his type of wife, to spend most of my
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time with the children and making home constitutes a powerful chal-
the home attractive; but instead of lenge to family unity,
that, he seems to think that all I it is difficult to believe, but true,
should do is dress up and go to that a presumedly intelligent wife
parties. I truly dislike to live the made the following remark while
way I do, but if it pleases Bill Fll present at a midnight party: "I know
do it. If he would just make me if i eat another piece of cake I shall
feel that I am a part of his life and have a headache when I wake up
would take me into his confidence in the morning, but what's the dif-
rather than to treat me as if I am ference. If I am ill, dear old Dave
merely someone to whom he can ^ill get up eariy enough to give the
give things, I am sure we both would kiddies their breakfast and get them
be much happier." off to school. You know, I have
One reason why there is so much the grandest husband in the whole
unhappiness and disappointment in world." Probably she will find out
marriage is because there are so ^n too late that there is a limit to
many Bills and Mables— not neces- which even the grandest husband
sarily persons in the same financial will tolerate being imposed upon,
situation, but in the same situation Lack of space prevents our giving
as far as knowing each other is con- similar cases in which the situation
cerned. is reversed, the husband being guilty
We do not know a person unless of selfish indulgences that result in
we know his needs, his wishes, his the wife taking on double duties.
goals, his unsatisfied longings, and * „^^„^ ^r „^ T.„o-ko«jo „,^ ^
?. ' . . ^ , ••!.•. A group ot young nusDanas were
his capacities. Such an insight into dis^ufsing, in a more or less serious
the personahty of another can he ^^^^ ^g^ ^^^ characteristic each
gained only through concentrating ,^^ that had seemed to make
attention and focusing interest upon ^-j^^ ^^^ ^ ^j ^^ ^^^ ^^^^^
the problem, together with an earn- ^j^^^ j^ ^ ^jj,^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^^
est desire to know. standing member of the group said:
/^THER things being equal, my 'The answer that Genevieve gave me
ability to measure up to the re- when I asked her to marry me is my
sponsibility of being a real mate is contribution to this discussion, and
determined largely by the condition I should like to say that her answer
of my health. To build up and has been the most powerful force
preserve one's health is a duty that in whatever success I have achieved,
every person should accept as being Naturally, when I proposed to her, I
basic to happiness. To give a reason- had to explain that I had nothing to
able amount of attention to the care offer her in addition to myself and
and protection of health is one of my love. I half expected her to turn
the earmarks of an intelligent per- me down or at least suggest that we
son. The true husband or the true wait a few years until I had accumu-
wife is never a better friend and lated something in the line of world-
helpmate than when illness is in the ly goods— but not Gene. I can see
home, or when any other crisis arises; her now as she looked straight into
however, prolonged illness in the my eyes and said, 'Ruddy, you are
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all that I could ask my husband to
be at twenty-two years of age. You
have my love and my respect, and I
have confidence and faith that you
will make the most of your capacity
to grow and develop into a man
equally as fine as my father is. Now
the important question is, do you
have faith in me that I will develop
along with you so that when we are
sixty-five years old we can experience
the same sort of companionship that
Mother and Dad are enjoying
now?' "
To grow is another responsibility
I owe my mate— to keep up in de-
velopment spiritually, intellectual-
ly, emotionally, and esthetically— so
that I shall always hold first place
in the life of my mate, in love and
in interest.
If we as mates are to realize ful-
fillment of personality we must have
the opportunity to function as par-
ents. Therefore, it is my responsi-
bility to prepare myself for parent-
hood. The tendency is for physical-
ly sound parents to beget physically
sound offspring. This stresses again
the need for giving health first con-
sideration. At the present time it is
a reflection on the intelligence and
wisdom of any parent who remains
ignorant concerning child care and
guidance, because this information
is available to all without mone-
tary cost. It is not sufficient to
prepare myself mentally and phys-
ically; I am not worthy of the bless-
ing of parenthood unless I am
living an exemplary life so that my
behavior may serve as a pattern for
the behavior of my children. If I
am a wife, it is my duty to so live
that my husband can truthfully say,
"I want my daughters to grow up
to be like their mother." If I am a
husband, I owe it to my mate to so
live that my wife can say with pride
to our sons, ''Follow in the footsteps
of your father, make his habits your
habits."
True, I must be the partner of my
mate, but I must be so much more
than that term implies: I must be
husband or wife, sweetheart, mother
or father of our children, and a pal.
When we face failures, great or
small, I shall look first for the cause
within myself, and without self-pity
and with ample courage I shall as-
sume my part of the responsibility.
I shall be liberal in my forgiveness,
remembering always that true for-
giveness requires a consistent willing-
ness to help the forgiven one so that
the same offense will not be repeat-
ed.
As a mate, it is my responsibility
to serve as a constant inspiration,
fairest and severest critic, strongest
and most dependable backer, and
trusted confidante. I must comple-
ment my mate's weakness with my
strength; I must be the co-pilot, and
when the way becomes dark and we
are lost in fog I shall suggest that we
kneel together in prayer, and in the
presence of my mate I shall speak
frankly concerning our difficulties to
our Heavenly Father, plead for light
and guidance and for His spirit to
be with us.
If I am unselfish, if I know my
mate, if I exercise wisdom in mat-
ters of health, if I keep up with my
mate in growth, if I am a worthy
parent, and if I have faith in God
and have His spirit with me I need
have no fear that I shall fail in my re-
sponsibility to my mate.
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Questions and Piohlcms ioi
Discussion
1. In your opinion which mate is
more responsible for creating the
atmosphere of the home? Give rea-
sons and examples of cases that justi-
fy your answer.
2. Which mate should assume the
' initiative in promoting active par-
ticipation of the family group in
each of the following fields of ac-
tivity: Religion, social contacts, edu-
cation, recreation, economics.
3. Mrs. Rice complains and nags
at Mr. Rice because she says he has
changed from being the most cour-
teous and gallant fiance to the most
discourteous and ungallant husband.
What would you do if Mr. Rice were
your husband? Suppose that it was
Mrs. Rice who had changed in a
similar manner, what would you do?
4. Mr. Lee owned and operated a
grocery store in a small rural com-
munity. At the time of his death
Mrs. Lee had no knowledge of her
husband's business or of his financial
condition. There were three chil-
dren ranging in ages from nine years
to sixteen years. At the time of
marriage, Mrs. Lee had had one year
of college training. In what way, if
any, does this case represent failure
on the part of each mate?
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liLission JLessons
L D. S. CHURCH HISTORY
Lesson 3
The Ancient Plates
(To be used in place of Literary Lesson)
TUST what did that golden book
^ look like which Joseph Smith took
out of that stone box in the Hill
Cumorah on the morning of Sep-
tember 22, 1827?
To answer this question, let us
use our imagination a little.
Suppose, for one thing, that you
take a piece of common tin, cut it
into a sheet seven by eight inches,
and color it so as to make it look like
gold. Suppose, further, that you
take enough sheets like that to make
a book about six inches in thickness,
put on them, if you can, lines of
beautiful engravings, and then bind
them all together by three rings at
the side. Suppose, now, that you
somehow seal a part of this book, so
that the leaves cannot be turned by
anyone.
Having done all this, you will have
as good a likeness as is possible of
the book that had lain hidden in
Cumorah for fourteen hundred
years.
One other thing, however, must
be taken into consideration: If you
wanted to read that book, and could
do so, it would be necessary for you
to turn to what we now call the
last page and read gradually toward
what we know as the beginning.
That is not all. On the page you
would have to read from right to
left, not from left to right as we do
648 - SEPTEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
nowadays in English. That is be-
cause it would be a sort of Hebrew,
or "reformed Egyptian", that you
would be reading.
Now do you have a picture of the
Nephite Record as it was when the
Prophet received it from Moroni?
We may be sure that, when Jos-
eph received the golden book from
its heavenly keeper, his heart beat
faster than it had ever done before.
It was a priceless treasure. What
would not the world have given for
it! It was of gold, for one thing, and,
for another, it was a message from
an unknown people. What a trust
to be given! It must have frightened
the young man when he thought
about the matter. He must not fail,
come what might! Besides, had not
the angel told him that, if he would
do all in his power to carry on, God
would do the rest?
The work expected of Joseph had
not been kept a secret. Who could
keep such a secret under the circum-
stances? It was known, therefore,
that he was to receive the plates from
an angel, that they were of gold, and
that they contained the history of the
ancient Americans. All this was
talked about in Manchester and Pal-
myra and other places near by in
Wayne county.
So some curious, de^ignmg neigh-
bors lay in wait. Or were they only
curious neighbors, after all? It mat-
tered not. They made it necessary
for Joseph to be ever on guard.
"No sooner," says the Prophet,
"was it known that I had the plates
than the most strenuous exertions
were used to get them from me."
On the way home he was attacked by
some men. He got away, however,
with no more hurt than a dislocated
thumb. The plates were safe. Af-
ter that, other attempts were made
to find them in the house and in an
old cooper shop across the road.
Joseph decided that he must leave
Manchester so as to obtain the nec-
essary peace and quiet to translate
the record. So he went to another
State— Pennsylvania. On leaving
Manchester he hid the golden book
in a keg of beans. At length he ar-
rived at Harmony, about one hun-
dred and twenty-five miles away.
Meantime, he had married. His
wife was Emma Hale, the daughter
of Isaac Hale, and her home, before
her marriage, was in Harmony, now
Oakland. This is why the Prophet
went to that place. He had met her,
two years before, when he went
there to work and boarded at the
home of her father. They were mar-
ried January 18, 1827. It was now
December. Meantime, too, Joseph
had worked to help the family and
tu keep himself, for the Smiths were
poor. There was a mortgage on the
farm, and Alvin, the eldest son, on
whom the family depended, had died
when he was most needed.
Sometimes Joseph worked on the
farm, clearing the land of trees and
brush, planting and reaping, and
doing other things. Sometimes he
did odd jobs for other farmers in
the neighborhood— hauling firewood
to Palmyra and digging wells. He
was laboring for a man named Josiah
Stoal at the time he first met Emma,
in Harmony.
But what with work, anxiety over
the safety of the golden book, and
the need of someone to write for
him, he had been unable to do any
translating, to speak of. Indeed, up
to the end of the year, he had only
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 649
copied some of the characters on the
record and turned them into Eng-
Hsh.
In Harmony he waited. First he
had to get settled. He bought some
land from his father-in-law and a
yoke of oxen from his friend Stoal
—all on time. And then he waited
for someone who could act as his
secretary.
In April, 1829, after he had been
in possession of the plates for eight-
een months, Oliver Cowdery came
along. Oliver had taught school in
Manchester. Having some of the
Smith children in his school, he thus
became acquainted with the parents
and learned from them the story of
the golden book. It was such a
strange story that he prayed to know
whether or not it was true. His
prayer was answered to his satisfac-
tion. So, in the spring when his
school was out, he went to Harmony
to act as scribe for the Prophet.
In April, 1829, then, the transla-
tion of the Book of Mormon as we
now have it was begun. Part of the
translation was done in Harmony,
but part of it was done in Fayette,
New York State. For Joseph and
Oliver had found it necessary to
move from the first place to the sec-
ond.
As in Manchester, so in Harmony,
people were curious and suspicious,
to say the least. Wliat were these
young men doing behind closed
doors? That is what their neighbors
wanted to know. And they were
so determined to find out that they
made life uncomfortable for Joseph
and his friend. Even Mr. Hale, Jos-
eph's father-in-law, was at last won
over to the side of those meddling
neighbors. He had defended the
young men at first. When matters
became too disagreeable for them,
they left Harmony.
Fayette was the home of the
Whitmer family. David, one of the
sons, knew Oliver Cowdery very
well. The two had met in Palmvra,
a town not far away. When, there-
fore, Oliver decided to go to Har-
mony, it was agreed that the two
should write to each other, and that
is what they did. David became
convinced that Joseph Smith was
indeed a prophet. And so it was on-
ly natural that, when a change of
residence became necessary, Joseph
and Oliver should be invited to the
Whitmer home. While the transla-
tion was going on in Harmony, a
Mr. Joseph Knight, who lived in
Colesville, New York State, often
took provisions to the sacred work-
ers.
Thus God moved in a mysterious
way his wonders to perform!
The work was finished during the
early summer of 1829. As soon as
the gold plates were translated, the
Prophet began to look about for a
publisher. After some difficulty it
was decided to have the work done
in Palmyra, on the Grandin press.
But first a copy of the writing was
made by Oliver Cowdery. It was
this copy that the printer had. For
Joseph had learned to be careful.
The book appeared in March, 18:50.
It bore the title The Book of Mot-
mon, by which name it has always
been known. The printing of the
new book was paid for by Martin
Harris, who sold his farm to do so.
He was paid back from the proceeds
brought by the sale of the book. The
price for each copy was $2.50.
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Questions
1. Describe, as nearly as you can,
the appearance of the gold plates.
2. What was Joseph Smith to do
with the ancient Record? What did
Moroni tell him about the care of
it? What steps did he take to pre-
serve the book from the hands of
others? Why did he leave Manches-
ter? Where did he go? Why there?
3. Who was Oliver Cowdery?
How did he become interested in
Joseph's work? When was the trans-
lation begun? Where was it fin-
ished? How did Joseph and Oliver
come to move to Fayette? Tell
about David Whitmer. Who was
Joseph Knight?
4. Where was the book publish-
ed? Why was a copy of the manu-
script made and by whom? When
was the new book published? How
was the printing paid for?
5. Trace the hand of God in this
work from the time Joseph received
the plates till the appearance of the
book.
Note: Map printed in July magazine is
to be used in teaching Church History
lessons.
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For black is black and white is white!
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you'd have to fight is eating too
much."
''Remember that story in Mu-
tual/' the Imp continued, ''about the
boy who had taken up bad habits
after his brother v^as killed in a
drunken wreck, hearing that broth-
er's voice begging for just one puff
of his cigarette? He woke up and
quit. He didn't want to go through
eternity craving tobacco. Do you
want to be resurrected with seventy-
five or more pounds of surplus fat
cells craving food?"
"Maybe I won't be fat when I'm
resurrected. Some one said in Sun-
day School that we'd look our very
best, and people who are crippled
and deformed may, through right-
eousness, receive perfected bodies
then. If God can perform the mir-
acle of resurrecting us at all. He can
surely perfect our bodies as He does
it."
"Christ was resurrected with the
scars of His wounds. Why should
He slenderize your body if you have
willfully fattened it, when you know
better? If they who are filthy shall
be filthy still, why should not they
who are fat be fat still? If you had
defective glands, like poor Bertha,—
but you only have defective will
power."
"Oh, shut up! I have other things
to think about."
TV/f AY was at the big department
store now, where she was to
see the repair man about her electric
ironer, and the Imp was hushed for
a few moments.
The repair man was out for an
hour, so she went to the ready-to-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, SEPTEMBER - 653
wear department, where the Imp re-
turned to his heckhng again.
'Think you'd better try on a thir-
ty-six hke you used to?" he quizzed.
"Even last year a thirty-six was too
tight where you store your fat. And
youVe put seventeen pounds more
between your waistline and your
knees since then. Better try forties!"
She ignored his jibes and selected
three thirty-eights that were marvel-
ous bargains. The saleslady looked
dubious as May took them to try
on, but said nothing.
The first one would not pull
down below the waist. The next
was cut fuller in the skirt, but fitted
so tightly every curve bulged. May
did not try the third.
How the Imp chortled as she took
them back and selected forty-twos!
"Have another bar of candy!" he
sneered. "Little bites of candy,
tastes of this and that, make a slender
lady grow so nice and fat! Get a
forty-eight!"
The forty-twos were fine from the
waist down, slightly large at the
waist, too long in the skirt, and posi-
tively sloppy in the upper regions.
But May would take in the sleeves,
shorten the shoulders and skirt, and
cut out the extra cloth under the
arms. She loved that saleslady for
her tact in not smiling.
Her smitten vanity lulled, by
thinking how nice she could make
the dresses look, May went to see
if the repair man had returned. He
hadn't.
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while she waited? The furniture de-
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partment! She tried out this chair^
watched a young couple choose rugs,
moved to that davenport. Soon the
feet were rested, but the man was
not in yet. It was so hot! Wander-
ing here and there, she discovered
the breeze from the artificial cooling
system and stopped.
There was no chair in the path of
the breeze, but she could stand a
while for the sake of coolness.
Directly in front of her was a
bedroom vanity with a full length
mirror. She was far enough back
from it to get a good perspective of
herself, and others were passing by
to afford vivid comparisons.
This dress, with its bias-cut skirt
and its large print bouquets on a
light turquoise background, was per-
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value every ounce that shouldn't
have been there. Looking, she lis-
tened to the Imp now without a
word of argument, but with a hot
flame of anger burning within her
heart. Anger against herself!
"Not drugs! Not glands! Just plain
greediness! From the waist up and
from the knees down, lovely; but
from the waist to the hips! Aren't
you a fine figger-of-a- woman! Don't
you look young and slender? Not
nicotine, nor alcohol, nor caffeine,
nor tannin! Just food! Common, or-
dinary, delicious food! That is what
has you whipped! When you get
up from the table you ied as stuffy
as you look. Greedy-gut!" he taunted
inelegantly.
''Why don't you do something
about it? Can't you?"
"I can!" May resolved. 'Til figure
out how much I eat for an average
meal and spread it over three meals.
I won't talk about it, I'll just do it.
I have as much self-control as a new
convert! I'll get myself down to
1 30 pounds and stay there. I'll show
you!"
The repair man came at last, and
May finished her shopping and went
home to set about showing her Imp.
Five pounds a month she con-
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she felt her anger cooling, she sought
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was a triumphant day when the
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And the Imp said, "You showed
the world, lady! You licked the old
appetite! And if you keep it licked,
you'll be looking like this on the
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seein' you then!"
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Lessons
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My Need Claire S. Boyer 702
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"Once more the liberal year laughs out
O'er richer stores than gems of gold;
Once more with harvest song and shout
Is nature's boldest triumph told."
— Whittier, '^Harvest Hymn."
**s-^'.'"'»
t^^:^-^^
AN AUTUMN SONNET
The scattered leaves, wind-drifted, flutter by-
Dead whispers from a recent, hving past;
Their red-gold beauty spent too soon, too fast,
Now paupers, scorned and brushed aside they lie.
'Tis autumn— all things must fade and die,
Till stripped all naked, leaf by leaf, at last
The trembling earth, aware, shivers aghast;
The only answer is the wild bird's cry.
'Tis autumn— aloud my heavy heart cries out
A protest that beauty and life must go.
And knows again the age-old fears, the doubt;
The only answer is a whisper low:
When spring shall come again and buds new sprout,
Can you deny what love would have you know?
-Olive C. Wehr.
The
Relief Societj/' Magazine
Vol. XXVI OCTOBER, 1939 No. 10
The Life-Centered Approach
to ReHgious Education
By Di. M. Lynn Bennion
(Supervisor of Seminaries, Church Department of Education)
THE paramount concern of we but they should seek in genuinely
who teach the Gospel is that cooperative fashion to strengthen
our instruction be reflected and support the great primary force
positively in the lives and conduct for character development; namely,
of our students. We seek a definite the home.
correlation between our teaching The teaching of our Church aux-
and growth toward higher moral and iliaries and our seminaries and in-
spiritual levels of behavior. We can- stitutes, if properly done, should be
not be contented with religious in- reflected in the home, school, and
struction resulting in the acquisition leisure- time experiences of youth. A
of information and knowledge but discussion on prayer in the classroom
minus any improvement in character should culminate in the evaluation
and conduct. of present prayer practices and plans
We recognize, of course, the limi- for their future improvement. A
tations of the Church or any other discussion on keeping the Sabbath
single agency as an influence in Day holy should be counted unfruit-
character development. The time ful unless it eventuates in heighten-
devoted to the Church program by ing and enriching the spiritual ac-
children and youth is an insignifi- tivities of the Sabbath Day. In
cant part of their total time; and, other words, there must be the right
furthermore, highly potent forces af- combination of discussion and doing
fecting character are at work the rest to be effective. Our task, therefore,
of the time. Further, the character- is not limited to instruction in the
forming process is so complex that Bible, theology, or the history of
we must, if we are to be effective, the Church. Students may score
utilize for constructive purposes all well on the content of these courses
the educational agencies. The and still not be materially enriched
school, the church, and the com- in their lives. In fact, recent re-
munity should not only find their search has revealed a lack of correla-
own particular distinctive functions tion between religious teaching and
in the light of the needs of youth, conduct which should give every re-
658 - OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
ligious educator cause for serious
consideration.* Students, further-
more, often lack interest in our les-
sons simply because they see no re-
lationship between them and their
own ongoing lives. One test, there-
fore, for deciding the inclusion or
exclusion of a given subject in the
course of study must be its signifi-
cance for living the religious life to-
day. We must constantly seek ways
and means of integrating teaching
and living. To enlist the interests
and purposes of youth we must cen-
ter our lessons in the realities of life.
We must also stimulate thinking
about life's serious problems. Christ
habitually provoked men to think
for themselves, sometimes by calling
on the questioner to answer his own
question: "Who thinketh thou was
neighbor to him that fell among
the thieves?" Sometimes he put
questions to his audience and in-
vited their answer: ''Wliat think ye
of Christ? Whose Son is He?"
We must, furthermore, relate
thinking to doing. In the words
of the Scripture, our students, if they
are to develop a living religion with-
in themselves, must: ''Be doers of
the Word, and not hearers only."
Our problem is not the lesson pri-
marily but the student, the immor-
tal spirit who must grow and develop
from within through self-impelled
activity. His total life and environ-
ment is our great concern— a life and
living— both of which are dynamic.
We must seek to guide growing
persons toward great ideals and only
by the "mustard seed plan" can
healthy change occur. We must be
content patiently to motivate stu-
dents toward a consciousness of God
as a reality in their lives and an ap-
preciation of their personal relation-
ship to Him as children. Religious
education seeks to bring the achiev-
ing powers of man, his capacity to
think, discover values, erect ends
and form judgments, into coopera-
tion with the spiritual resources of
God. Man so energized has within
him "the power of God unto salva-
tion". This, then, is the life-cen-
tered, functional approach to relig-
ious education. Blessed is the teach-
er who can, through his insight,
knowledge, and love, awaken and
stimulate these divine forces in his
students.
npHE test of our teaching from
this point of view is not what
an individual has learned or the
theories he has evolved for himself,
but what he has become through
*Hartshome and May, Studies in De-
ceit; Studies in Service and Self Control;
Studies in the Organization of Character.
For a brief report see, "A Summary of the
Work of the Character Education In-
quiry," Religious Education, September-
October 1930.
Thrasher, Frederic M., 'The Boys' Club
and Juvenile Delinquency," American Jour-
nal of Sociology, July, 1936
Hartshorne and Lotz, Case Studies of
Present-day Religious Teaching; Hart-
shorne, Stearns, and Uphaus, Standards and
Trends in Religious Education; Hartshorne
and Ehrhart, Church Schools of Today;
Hartshorne and Miller, Community Organ-
ization in Religious Education.
Jones, Vernon, Character and Citizen-
ship Training in the Public Schools.
Shaw, Clifford R., Delinquency Areas;
Shaw and McKay, Social Factors in Juve-
nile Delinquency. Published by the Na-
tional Commission on Law Observance and
Enforcement.
Dimock, Hedley S., R,ediscoverin^ the
Adolescent.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 659
the application of truth. The truly traveled the ways of righteousness
religious person is recognized less and joy, we must guide them to the
by what he believes than by the way Bible and other great resources of
he dedicates his life to fulfilling his spiritual direction. But why go to
beliefs. Only when we have found a book as ancient as the Bible to
values that evoke our total capacity solve the problems of present-day
for devotion have we truly found living? Simply, because the Bible
our religion. To find such values touches the heartstrings of life. It
calls for constant growth and recon- records faithfully the experiences of
struction of life as higher and nobler men and women in their search for
insights are discovered and adopted, happiness and in their strivings for
Great is the joy that comes when God. These experiences touch the
out of hard study and right living good and the evil; they reach from
are evolved convictions which give the depths of the most sordid crime
life meaning and direction. The to a glimpse of the eternal. The
Apostle was undoubtedly speaking Bible is a great laboratory of life
of this inward spiritual growth to- where the details or the experiments
ward godhood when he said, ''Eye with life are not stinted or the re-
hath not seen nor ear heard, neither suits camouflaged. Neither have the
hath entered into the heart of man experiments of men with lies, hy-
the things which God hath prepared pocrisy, cheating, stealing, adultery,
for those who love him." murder, truth, goodness, mercy.
We live in an experimental age 1^"^"^^^ forgiveness, prayer, and all
when people want to apply the the tend of humanity been so
pragmatic test to decide whether a ^^^^f ^ chronicled or so graphical-
thing is true and valid. Does it \ Portrayed as in the Bible. Out
work? Christ invited that test. He ^/ *^^^5 ^^P^.^^^f ^^ truths of God
„ -J i,jc -n J Ml stand tortn in stark reality, sign-
said: It any man will do my will . . ,, , . • t . •
he shall know of the doctrine wheth- f^'l' ^o all subsequent civilizations,
er it be of God or whether I speak P"* ^^^ the strivings of these people
of myself." Thousands have done ^^ ^"^ and serve God has come,
His will and know of a surety that ^^^^^ P^^^^l ^^^^^^'^' ^'\^y. ^'^^ ^
His doctrine is of God. Our great P^^*"^^ ^^ wholesome, so loving, so
challenge as teachers is to motivate intimate, as to turn the hearts of
young people to want to make this !^^" *° ^^.^'' ^^^^^' ^" understand-
test. If we can so control their '"§ worship.
environment and guide their experi- It is an ancient saying: "Experi-
ences as to lead them in the way of ence is a dear school, but fools will
the Savior, they will soon begin to learn in no other." It would be
feel and know the concomitant joy utter foolishness to disregard the ex-
and satisfaction that accompany this periences of other men and women,
way of life and thus be stimulated The boy who would learn all his
to go on and on toward better things, knowledge of mathematics from his
To help them profit by the disas- own experience would perhaps get
trous effects of sin and to be guided little further than the multiplication
and stimulated by those who have tables in a life-time. In all scien-
660 - OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
tific fields we accept the truth which omy, botany, zoology, or the history
past experiments have revealed, and of nations through the Bible have
we progress from there. The young either found it greatly lacking in
man or woman who insists upon material or have left a warped or
learning the sweetness of virtue and stunted picture in the minds of stu-
t h e bitterness of immorality dents. The Bible is not adequate
through his or her own experience material for such objectives, for it
and who turns deaf ears to the ex- does not purport to teach the secrets
periences of the past has indeed en- of the heavens or the earth but the
tered a school of fools. It is the secrets of the human heart. It is
high privilege and responsibility of not a history of mankind upon the
Church teachers to use the great earth or even a history of the He-
moral and spiritual experiences of brew people, although it contains
the race to stimulate youth to enter useful material for both. It is pri-
into wholesome spiritual experiences marily concerned with individuals
whereby they may sense the joy of and those problems of individual
fellowship with God without pass- conduct which are as old as the race
ing through the bitterness which in- and as new as the toddling child,
evitably accompanies the unaided present-day teaching also centers
search for happmess. In this func- in these eternal problems. For ex-
tion the Bible proves a veritable j ^^^ i objective in
storehouse of experimentation. It is teaching the story of Joseph must be
like the carefully written chemistry ^^^ to increase the student's knowl-
manual which aids the students to ^^ ^f Egyptian history but to im-
learn the laws of gases and chem- ^^^ ^^'/ ^^^ (j^f^j ^^^
icals without the bitterness of blmd- fhrough vicarious experience the
ed eyes and acid-burned hands. ^^^^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^ cheerfulness, pur-
t>Y way of summary, then, teachers % of thought, and faith in God
^ in all of the educational activi- ^^^^g ^he only lasting happiness, and
ties of the Church should repeated- ^^^ P^^^on who possesses these qual-
ly ask themselves the questions: ^^ies in rich abundance can never be
What is my objective in teaching ^^Pt down. The story must be used
this particular lesson? What is it ^nly as a means to prepare students
that I would have m)' pupils do, or ^^ ^^ce the problems which Joseph
do differently than before? What i" Egypt faced. Subject matter en-
information and what activities will ^^^^ ^^^ teaching process not as an
best contribute toward the change ^^^ ^^ itself but as a means of fur-
I wish to make? These questions thering and enriching present indi-
must be answered before the ma- vidual and social life. The first and
terials for the lesson can be wisely last concern of religious teaching is
selected or properly used. Those the growing life of the boy or the
who have attempted to teach astron- girl.
Woman As An Interpreter
Of The Faith
By Maude B. Jacob
"Education is the power to think clearly, the
power to act well in the world's work, and
the power to appreciate life." — Brigham Young.
TO education has been given the ern world. One of the most com-
credit for making the woman prehensive statements of the general
of today. Education has not objectives of education today is the
only found new powers within statement: "Education in the broad
woman, but it has found new uses sense is the process whereby individ-
for her powers. The achievements uals develop in personality through
of woman in every age have been the interaction and relationship with
product of her capacities and her their enviroment— material, human,
opportunities. Her opportunities for and divine— and whereby society re-
education came with the last cen- news its life and brings about its re-
tury. Freedom for self-realization has finement and progress." By the side
grown rapidly in this age. New of this statement, we place that of
powers, new opportunities, new free- Brigham Young quoted above. It
dom directed by her spiritual powers is the statement of a man whose days
will fit woman for one of her great- spent in formal education numbered
est roles, "the refiner of civilization", less than a dozen, but which under
Education is as old as the race, divine guidance continued for well
its task being that of patterning lives, over half a century. According to
In tribal tents, in igloos and boweries, the formal statement, lives are to be
in cabin homes and in million-dollar patterned for successful living and
buildings lives have been patterned, for the refinement of society. From
Customs, beliefs, and ideals have the divinely inspired statement, we
played a significant part in the pat- know that the appreciation of life
terning, and still do. Thus, educa- includes the truth that man's eternal
tion has passed through many chang- progress and happiness is predicated
es in its adjustments to the changing upon the experience and wisdom
values of life. It is the ever-changing gained during earth-life. If, then,
intellectual, social, and material earth-life is God's school, what then
needs of each age that have builded is the supreme role of education?
the formal pattern of today's educa- Today as never before the product
tion. During the past few decades, of education is being scrutinized,
a never-ceasing process of evaluation The complexities of modern life are
has been in progress. Those individ- creating new challenges for young
uals and organizations who are con- and old alike. It is natural, then, that
cerning themselves with individual the system developed to pattern life
progress and happiness are keenly for successful living should discover
alert to the challenges of the mod- its strengths and its weaknesses. Sat-
662 - OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
isfaction comes from the glorious ly than ever before. SeUing new de-
opportunities given to modern youth sires by business, to use the products
to meet Hfe more adequately equip- of industry, is utilizing all the avail-
ped than any generation before. The able educational resources. Definite-
alarm which exists in the minds of ly planned campaigns suggest to us
many is the failure of information to what to eat and what to wear, not in
assist in the formation of wholesome terms of need always but in terms
attitudes, of high ideals and the con- of what industry has to sell. The
trol of appetities and passions, im- lure of automobile advertising is
pulses and desires. A most significant evident on all sides. For several years
statement of alarm has been made the tobacco industry has employed
recently: ''A large part of the youth every available means to increase
of America at the present time are the consumption of its products,
;Upaccustomed to discipline in musical programs and advertising
thought and life. Their education being the chief vehicles. The subtle-
is lacking in those activities which ty of it all is revealed in the bill-
develop intellectual vigor, power of board advertising: First, it portray-
decision, restraint, and concentration ed a beautiful girl admiring a young
with a view to finding successful man smoking; next, the girl was
solutions to the problems they are being handed a cigarette; finally, the
encountering in living in the world girl is smoking. What was happen-
today." It would seem then that ing in the interim of the develop-
formal education is failing in helping merit of this desire by industry?
young people in general to think Science continued to publish the
clearly and to act wisely. How shall facts concerning the evil effects of
this challenge be met? Formal edu- tobacco. Parents and leaders plead-
cation has its responsibility. But to ed and denounced in turn. What of
the home and the church comes the formal education? Had the educa-
responsibility of bringing to educa- tional forces used the same skill as
tion its spiritual values, ''the power industry had used to promote the
to appreciate life". desire to smoke to direct understand-
OERHAPS the greatest immedi- ^^g^ ^^ cultivate attitudes and to
^ ate need of all lives, young as finiulate idealisni for the control of
well as old, is direction for the behavior, the problem would not be
control of human desires. For as alarmmg as it is today. The chal-
.-[•. 1 ' c 4.- 1 • • lenge is obvious, new vision and new
this task, inrormation alone is in- ■,. .. . , . , .i
^ . 1 I. -u J • 1. J direction to meet this and many oth-
adequate; values must be designated , . ,i ^ • j- .j i i
J ir . 1 .1 ?• i. J cr desires that individuals must con-
and selr-control must be motivated ^ ^ -r ^i j i
.1 1 .... J J • J 1 rp. J trol it growth and happiness are to
through attitudes and ideals. Today, v> f*. • j
an analysis of the paramount desires
of mankind are health, security, sue- To pattern lives, lives must be
cess, and pleasure. The business of touched. A professor of literature,
the world is organized to meet the from whose lectures students must
needs and satisfaction of mankind, be driven to attend the other classes
The greatest human need, security for which they are scheduled, has this
of living, is being met more adequate- for his teaching guide: ''Keep away
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 663
from young minds unless you have or tallow candles provided the finest
something inspiring to impart." To in recreation. Life for them demand-
the hundreds of Wellesley young ed courage and fortitude, but the
women who came under her care, greatest challenge was the physical
Alice Freeman Palmer was a true in- environment to be conquered. In-
spirer. As she herself expressed it, "I dividual challenges and handicaps
am trying to make girls wiser and have been met heroically in all ages,
happier. It is people who count, you John Milton, the poet, met his blind-
.want to put yourself into people; ness nobly with verse of greater
they touch other people, then others grandeur and to nobler purpose. Bee-
still, and so you go on working for- thoven and Dvorak, the musicians,
ever." Her greatest admirer, her hus- created greater harmonies because of
band, said of this great teacher, "She their deafness; the heroic struggles
adopted the idea of Jesus that if you of Helen Keller and Laura Dewey
would remold the world, the wise Bridgeman are known universally,
way is to devote your time to friendly while every day in every part of the
talks with a dozen young fishermen." world men and women in every
The Alice Freeman Palmer Mem- station of life are becoming conquer-
orial at Wellesley has a message for ors, subduing self and rising above
all teachers as vital as methods of this their difficulties through their spirit-
great teacher. At one side of the altar ual reinforcements. Again the ques-
with its flame representing knowl- tion must be considered, is the ap-
edge stands a young girl who has just parent lack of the necessary subli-
lighted her lamp. In the center of mation for the challenges of today in
the monument is a beautiful fem- reality a weakening of spirituality?
inine form with one hand resting on Is the weakening of spirituality as
the girl's shoulder, directing her in- George Meredith defined it, 'Tor
to the future— a fitting memorial to this reason man falls from God, that
one who lovingly and earnestly in- they cling to Him in their weakness
* spired the lives of those whom she rather than in their strength"? In
touched as she pointed out to them other words, it is reasonable to as-
a worthy pattern of living. The lov- sume that the spirituality needed to
ing tenderness of the Teacher of meet the challenges of this age is
Galilee made of simple fishermen inadequate,
the greatest heroes of Christianity. To the women of today comes the
T
HE natural conclusion that challenge to direct all the education-
comes from an analysis of the ^^ forces available to the achievement
challenges of modern life is that ^^ patterning lives more effectively
life today demands a higher degree ^^^ complete livmg. This can be
of sublimation than ever before. The woman's great adventure in educa-
Pioneers were not concerned with "^"*
automobiles and movies. A wagon Educating herself, of necessity,
and team was to them the greatest will be part of the task; training her-
of travel convenience; a rag or husk- self to think clearly, to understand
ing bee and an occasional dance on a the forces that build attitudes and
dirt floor to the light of burning logs ideals and those that create desires
664 - OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
and direct inpulses; to appreciate
life with all its facets. For her, under-
standing must follow on the heels
of knowledge; poise and self-con-
trol must refine her own actions, and
her recourse to divine guidance
must be sincere and constant. Then,
her life will be as a light set upon a
hill for the women of her own gen-
eration. This task will fall to the
ordinary woman. It is this woman,
not the professional woman who
busies herself with many specialized
services, the average woman who
makes or unmakes life for us. They
are the women who carry the bur-
dens of the world— the homemakers.
Because the homemakers are realiz-
ing their responsibilities outside the
home as well as inside the home,
because they are availing themselves
of the opportunities of education,
and because with all the newness
and opportunity that has come to
them they still cling heroically to the
highest ideals of living, they can be-
come the servants of all.
The teachings, activities, and ex-
periences of the Church are inspired
guidance to the women of the
Church to become, in very deed, a
beacon light in this great cause.The
sublime truth given to the Prophet
Joseph Smith "the glory of God is
intelligence" was the initial motiva-
tion of education to the Latter-day
Saints. Believing sincerely that earth-
life was in reality God's school
which would carry man along the
eternal path of progress, education
has been a sacred obligation to them.
The history of the early settlements
of the Church, Kirtland, Independ-
ence, Far West, Nauvoo, Winter
Quarters, and all early settlements
of Utah reveals that schools were
planned as homes were being built.
When Brigham Young commission-
ed that great teacher Karl G. Maeser
to direct the general activities of the
Church, he did not designate sub-
jects or textbooks; his only command
was, "Teach nothing, not even the
multiplication table, without the
Spirit of God." Today, the Sunday
Schools, other auxiliary organizations
and the seminaries and institutes
carry on the religious education
program of the Church for all its
members that through their reac-
tions and relationships to their en-
vironment, material, human, and
divine, they are progressing toward
eternal perfection and happiness.
nPHINKING of the Relief Society
and its part in the educational
program of the Church, we appre-
ciate more completely how sincerely
and courageously it is attempt-
ing to meet the greatest of all ob-
jectives, to bring to all women a true
appreciation of life. This great school
for the women of the Church was
divinely inspired. In this school
again it is the average woman who^
fills the role of teacher. Ever mind-
ful that facts are only valuable as
they are an aid in interpreting life,
she prepares her lessons amidst the
manifold duties of everyday life. Her
sincere desire to touch the lives of
the women of her association helps
her to surmount any obstacles of
academic experience. With recourse
to divine guidance and the counsel
of her leaders she carries the torch
of a great cause, the cause of individ-
ual progress and happiness.
There comes to all women a new
opportunity, to become a motivating
force to aid all the educational for-
ces available to pattern young lives
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 665
for complete living. In this role, the great task of education— the re-
like Deborah of old, she can with finement of society and the hap-
moral energy and spiritual guidance piness of mankind.
become a crusader in a great cause. rm. • •. i c
^., J i.r° • Ine spiritual powers ot women
Other women and other organiza- ,\ . . r ., r . c
tions must be brought to a realiza- ^^^"^^^* important for the future of
tion of the place of education in the civilization. Wisely directed the
welfare of mankind, the need of a ^^^rgies of the woman-power of the
Inore intelligent understanding of Church are a great force. Thus can
the conflicts of modern life, and the the women of the Church turn all
possibilities of a more vital and more the powers of their womanhood to
inspired approach to the problems the interpretation of their Faith that
of human and social progress. In all may come to a true appreciation
this way women may render aid in of life.
INTERIM
By CeJia A. Van Cott
Last night the frost came pitiless and still,
Grim winter spread his vengeance on the land;
A crystal moon hung ice upon the hill
And death defied all beauty with his hand.
A rose hung lifeless in the garden row;
A maple stood denuded of each leaf-
Swift transition from summer's mellow glow
This swath of death and poignant winter grief.
I could not bear this lonely solitude.
Nor winter's icy breath upon our hill.
Nor could I bear the muted interlude
Or feel content without the songbird's trill,
Unless I knew that God healed earthly pain;
That life will throb when springtime comes again.
European Mission Presidents'
Conference
AN interesting and revealing
glimpse of the spirit with
which Relief Society work is
carried forward in the European
Missions, as well as the splendid
leadership found there, comes to us
in a letter from Sister Zina Y. C.
Brown, President of the Relief So-
cieties of the British Mission, in her
report of the Mission Presidents'
Conference, held recently in Lu-
cerne, Switzerland. President and
Sister Thomas McKay were the gra-
cious hosts.
Mission Presidents and their wives
from all of the European Missions
assembled in this picturesque loca-
tion. Morning, afternoon, and even-
ing sessions, characterized by gen-
uine religious fervor, were held. In-
spiring addresses, special instructions
and reports were given.
In addition to the Conference
sessions, an afternoon spent on Lake
Lucerne, a two-hour trip to Wagner's
home, which is now an interesting
museum containing Ojne of his
pianos, some original compositions
and family portraits, a trip by
cog-wheel train up the Alps where
they gathered Alpine flowers and
viewed the lofty peaks in all their
glistening splendor, furnished de-
lightful entertainment.
Quoting from Sister Brown's let-
ter: ''Best of all, we felt close to our
Creator and were stirred by emo-
tions and thoughts that are difficult
to voice but which put one in har-
mony with God's great plan for us,
His children. The close and lasting
friendships formed with our fellow
workers in this part of the Lord's
vineyard are so precious! I, for one,
cannot be grateful enough for these
experiences."
Elder Joseph Fielding Smith and
his wife were in attendance at the
Conference. The wise counsel and
blessing of Elder Smith, together
with the beautiful singing of Sister
Smith, brought joy to all assembled.
Each Relief Society president re-
ported her mission, bringing to the
Conference her vision and also her
own ''brand" of enthusiasm. Each
brought to the Conference some-
thing beyond price, and everyone
present found her own personal
store of blessings added to.
'T^HE quality of leadership and
the outstanding accomplish-
ments found among the Relief
Society Presidents of the European
Mission is revealed in comments
made by Sister Brown:
'"Sister Toronto has borne two
children since coming to the Czech
Mission, the youngest arriving dur-
ing the dark days of that land. When
she arose to speak, she strove to hide
the depth of her emotion. Her in-
tense, almost passionate, loyalty to
the Saints there could not be hidden.
I have never been privileged to know
a Latter-day Saint couple more un-
swerving in the discharge of appoint-
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Ida D. Rees, Norma S. Evans, Zina C. Brown, Margaret M. Peterson, Evelyn Wood,
Jessie E. Smith, Claire T. Murdock, Virginia B. Larson, Martha S. Toronto, Gertrude R.
Garff, Fawn B. McKay
ed responsibility than the Torontos.
They have gone through so much
and yet refuse to acknowledge that
they have done anything unusual.
Sister Toronto speaks the Czech lan-
guage ably. Besides her other ac-
complishments in that mission, she
has left the Relief Society there a
fine handbook in their native tongue.
"Sister Rees (East German) has
worked untiringly. One of her in-
novations was the training of the
elders in Relief Society work. When
she was unable to contact the sisters
in their meetings, Sister Rees sent
the elders to make the visits and
bring back reports. She and President
Rees have labored under constant
strain and have been blessed with
great wisdom.
''The dear faithful Petersons (Nor-
wegian), solid and dependable as
the 'Rock of Gibralter'! Their re-
ports showed a marked improvement
of conditions in general. Sister Pet-
erson has worked hard for all the
auxiliaries and has brought about
excellent cooperation in their work.
The Relief Society will lose a noble
leader when she returns home this
summer. She radiates sunshine, her
big heart and sense of humor en-
dearing her to all.
*'The Evans (French) are another
splendid family. We miss Brother
and Sister Ursenbach. Sister Ursen-
bach had the love of all the Saints
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and the missionaries. It seems as if
her mantle has fallen upon Sister
Evans, for the fame of her sweetness
and hospitality has already gone
abroad. The Evanses are capable mis-
sion parents and are delving into
every phase of that mission's needs.
They are establishing a fine mission
home in Paris. They have occupied
it about three months but are still
hard at work creating a home of el-
egance and refinement— and on the
smallest sum of money imaginable.
The atmosphere is entirely French.
The exquisite, crystal lighting fix-
tures, needle-point coverings for the
drawing room, furniture, carpets and
rugs are all 'finds' hunted out by Sis-
ter Evans and secured at auction.
The furnishing of that house would
make a story as interesting as fiction.
The marble stairway leads onto a lit-
tle balcony where one can look down
into the beautiful drawing-room. All
the other rooms show the same har-
mony in the selection of furniture
and hangings as does the living-
room. Two lovely daughters add to
the charm of the home. They are
as practical as they are charming,
too. They and their brother have
played a big part in working the
magic of that house.
"Sister Murdock of the Nether-
lands Mission is accomplishing a
great deal. Her big contribution
this year is a hymn book translated
into the Dutch language. She work-
ed eighteen months preparing it,
proof reading the music and words
three times before sending it to
press. Making the selection of hymns
was a tedious part of this project.
It took ingenuity to ascertain
the favorite songs of the people.
Another basis for her choice was
suitability and beauty of the song it-
self. The Murdocks have translated
The Way to Perfection and have also
published a very fine yearbook.
Sister Larson (Swedish) has done
outstanding work with her chorus.
She has organized, trained and
directed choruses which have sung
before important audiences. She and
President Larson have given intelli-
gent and abundant service. Their
mission term, now ending, will ever
be a record period for that mission.
''Sister Gertrude Ryberg Garff
(Danish), another of our young
matrons, brings to her position all
the poise and understanding of one
twice her years, coupled with the
energy of youth. She is literally
building the people body and soul.
She has prepared a four-page diet
guide for the missionaries. This has
been mimeographed and prepared to
fit the missionaries' loose-leaf book.
With her expert knowledge of foods,
this should prove to be a priceless
help. We shall adopt it in the British
Mission. She is also giving food dem-
onstrations to the women, who are
enthusiastic about it. This naturally
brings her into close contact with the
women, and she has gained their con-
fidence and love.
"Sweet, brilliant Sister Wood
holds one spellbound relating the
things being accomplished in the
West German Mission. Listening
to her makes one feel as if he were
emerging into pleasant meadows. She
has dramatized many beautiful
truths. Her story illustrating the
beauty of purity of life, which she
demonstrated with a fluff of white
cotton and the perfect rose; is one
of her methods of teaching a mes-
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sage. For one conference she wrote sions given; there is even a well-
a play about a branch family, de- marked map within its pages. Sis-
monstrating the power of coopera- ter McKay was assisted in this by
tion. Each of us thrilled to her gifts her daughter Barbara,
and felt proud of her and her accom-
plishments. The faith and works of "AA/E are delighted with the pres-
the Woods is bringing results. * * ent lesson set-up for the
*'The welding of parts of missions coming season's work. We have
into one big mission has been no joined the ranks of the Maga-
easy task. Our beloved Sister Kelly zine users. We are thankful to an-
would be very grateful to see her nounce that we no longer have to
dreams coming true for those Saints, print a lesson manual. The 1939-40
It is a great wrench when the various lessons have already been enthusias-
missions change leaders and our old tically welcomed by the district su-
friends return to Zion; but God raises pervisors to whom they were pre-
up someone else, and the work goes viewed at our Mission Conference
forward. by members of our Mission Relief
''Sister McKay, so genuine and truly Society Board,
fine, was the perfect hostess. One ,,^^^ , r i i • 1. • j
feels the refining and cultural in- , Wonderful work is being done
fluence of her presence, and recog- ^V =>" °^ ^e wives of the mission
nizes her to be an ideal Latter-day Presidents. They are all concerned
Saint wife and mother. Her appre- for the missionaries welfare and are
ciation of the beautiful was reflected ^"'"g ^^ m their power to strength-
in the places she planned for us to e" ^o* ^^f character and testi-
see. One instinctively drew near to mony of each one, that he may be
catch her understanding observa- trained for the mmistry and for life
tions. Sister McKay has prepared a 't/elf . These women are meeting the
book outlining European travel that challenge of their positions in a man-
is filling a long-felt need. It is a per- "«' ^^^^ l^^^^s no room for criticism,
feet guide for returning missionaries "There is a spirit of unity and co-
and will facilitate matters greatly operation among all the mission
for both missionary and mission pres- heads. Our hearts are filled with grati-
ident. All of the most noted places tude for the many blessings that are
are listed, prices of hotels and pen- an accompaniment of this calling.
SILENCE
Christ sought the mountain's solitude
And there His touch with God renewed.
So I to meet each daily care
Refresh my strength in silent prayer.
—Mabel Jones.
On The Way To Persia
By Estdle S. Harris
THE desire to go places seems
to be almost universal. Know-
ing that only a few of the
readers of this magazine will be able
to go to far-off Persia in person, I
am sending a few notes to help them
make this interesting journey in
imagination. From western America,
Persia, or Iran as it is now officially
known, is almost half way around
the world and so situated in relation
to travel routes that it is considered
the most remote post to which our
diplomatic representatives are sent.
From the Bible and Ancient His-
tory we have read about the Medes
and Persians; we know about Cyrus
the Great and Darius. More recent-
ly, we have heard of Persian gardens
and rugs, of dates and melons, but
almost everything about this land
has always seemed remote and un-
certain.
My husband* having been given
a commission to serve as ad-
visor to the government of Iran, we
left Provo, Utah, on the evening of
July 15, 1939, to journey to Teher-
an, the capital city. I can assure you
it was not without conflicting emo-
tions that we bade farewell to our
family and friends, although keenly
appreciative of the opportunity to
visit this unknown land.
At New York we took our second
look at the World's Fair, which is
a picture of the World of Tomor-
row; we found it vastly different
from the world we are seeing today.
The S. S. Deutschland gave us a
very pleasant crossing of the Atlan-
*President Franklin S. Harris, Brigham
Young University.
tic. Many interesting persons from
all parts of the world were met, most
of them being German speaking.
France was the first land seen; its
green fields and red roofs were wel-
come after seven days of the deep
blue of the ocean. The Deutschland
did not go into the port at Cher-
bourg, but the passengers and lug-
gage were taken aboard a tender. We
also made a stop at Southampton
where there was an exchange of pas-
sengers.
The trip through the English
Channel was delightful, with occa-
sional glimpses of land on either
side. The feeling of ''aloneness" dis-
appeared as we saw the many ships
of all types; especially pleasing were
the small sailing boats with their
sails full of wind. Some fog was en-
countered in the North Sea, but the
morning we landed at Cuxhaven,
Germany, at the mouth of the Elbe
River, the sun shone in all its glory.
After the usual customs formalities,
we boarded a train for Hamburg and
from there to Berlin.
After completing our business
with the Iran Legation and buying
tickets from the S. S. S. R. Intourist
office for Persia, we called at the
mission headquarters where we met
Apostle and Sister Joseph Fielding
Smith and President and Sister A.
C. Rees. We enjoyed a visit and
luncheon with them and the mis-
sionaries who had come for a special
meeting with Elder Smith. Sunday
morning we were present at a large
gathering of the Saints and felt their
sincerity and devotion to the Cause.
Three days in Berlin gave us an
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opportunity to see the improve- declared. At the last station in Fo-
ments which had been made since land I had the experience of being
our last visit there several years ago. led by a woman attendant into an-
Some of these were: The stadium other room and searched. This was
where the Olympics were held, the a decidedly novel experience for me.
immense recreational field, the We passed into Russia at Schepe-
splendid new paved highway, and towka. After the usual and rather
many new buildings. We left Ber- rigorous customs examinations, we
lin Tuesday morning, Dean Gerrit boarded the Russian train which was
• de Jong being at the station to see to be our home for three days and
us off. nights. It was made up of more than
-TTAT^ ^ • IT- i_r a dozen cars including one Wagons-
I ^^P "°^ previously been east of ^jts with four first-class and six sec-
Berlin, so it was with great interest ond-class compartments. All the
that I watched this new territory, other cars were "hard," which means
Wlien we reached Poland, especially ^j^gj^ ^^^^^ ^^^^ ]ai„ ^^^^^ Most
from Posen to Warsaw, we found a ^f ^j^^ 553^3 ^^^i^ ^^ j^a^e double
level country rich agriculturally. At ^^^-^.^^^^ ^^ich had the appearance
Posen two Poles shared the same ^f ^^^^^^^^ fa^j^ g^^j, ^^^leT, with
compartment with us and speaking ^^^ ^^^^ ^ ^^ the aisle. These
German they were able to converse ^^^^j^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^gj ^-^^ a„t5
with my husband. One of them was _ ^^^^^ a^j children. They
born in the part that belonged to ^^^ ^^^ ^^ ^. ^^ ^^^^^ j^a^j ^^^^^^.
Gerniany before the war^o natur- ^^^^ ^^j ^ ^^^- ^^ ^j ^
ally he spoke German. They gave „„ ^ ^^g^ „^ ^^1^^^ ^^^^- ,
us a good idea of conditions and how ^„ ^gg^^j f^^ j of watermelon, the
the people fe t. remains of which did not reduce the
It was night when we reached condition of general confusion.
Warsaw. We had several hours to ^^ j^a^ ^^ ^j^^p , g^^ j^^j^
wait for our tram, so we walked ^^^3 ^^ reach the diner three times
around the main streets until we ^ ^ In doing so we would fre-
saw a sigp. Ice cream soda . The j, ^ ^^^i^^^. ^ p^truding
name had magic m it; we sat down ^^^^ f^^^. ^^ j^^^ck the sheet off some
at a table on the sidewalk watching f^^. ^^^ ^j^^ 3^^^^^ to ^^ 3,^ j„
the people go by as we slowly con- practically naked. The odor in these
sumed our soda. cars did not increase our appetites.
As we passed several confection- Russian diners are decidedly lim-
ers' windows, I noticed sunflower Jted in menus and attractiveness,
seeds side by side with candy and We had sliced tomatoes and cucum-
nuts. I learned they are quite a deli- bers, both unpeeled, for every meal,
cacy in Poland and Russia when A dressing composed mainly of
roasted. They taste somewhat like vinegar was put over them. At
our pme nuts. breakfast we were served the ones
As you know, at the border of left from the night before. There
each country one has to go to the was an abundance of bread and po-
customs office and have all luggage tatoes with some kind of meat once
opened and examined and money a day and eggs twice a day. The
672 - OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
dessert was stewed prunes or apples. Another woman was carrying a baby
The Russians are fond of ''chi/' their in her arms and balancing a loaded
weak tea, which they drink very hot basket on her head. This took fine
and often. coordination of muscles.
It was interesting to watch the Our last place in Russia was Baku,
people hurry off the train as it stop- an important oil city on the Caspian
ped at the station to get some hot Sea. Oil from here is piped to
water for ''chi". At most of the stops Batum on the Black Sea from which
there were small houses with tanks place it is sent all over the world,
of boiling water, which was available The city itself is old and has a de-
to the passengers. cidedly mixed population. It is built
From what we could see of Russia, on hillsides over the bay. There re-
its people seemed very serious and ^^^^^ some of the old wall which
almost stolid. Laughter was rare, once surrounded the city and many
Only once did I hear a group of girls of the old huts. Our guide passed
laugh outright. They seemed to be lightly over these to tell us of the un-
amused at my hat, which doubtless precedented growth of schools, pub-
was a bit queer to them. Few wear lie buildings .and parks of culture
hats; most women wear a kerchief ^^^^ recreation that have been built
around their heads or go bareheaded. ^Y ^^^ Soviet regime. We left Baku
I could not help being sad at seeing ^Y ^^o^t about nme o'clock m the
the lack of good clothes in Russia, evenmg after agam passmg the cus-
Everyone seemed to wear any old toi^is formalities,
thing, and one had the feeling that A S we passed out of the harbor, the
a number of attics had been raided ^^ ligi^^g of t^^ ^ity were even more
for old dothes of a previous genera- impressive than the buildings had
hon. The absence of fine silk hose ^^^^ ^ ^ As these became dim,
for women was especially noticeable, ^^r attention was turned to a full
My chiffon hose were under constant ^loon rising out of a calm sea. It
scrutiny. Even the porter who cared ^^^ ^i^s^ly accompanied by Jupiter,
for our compartment pointed to my ^^^^ ^^^ ^^,3 dominated the
stockings and then to himself say- southern sky. Here we were leaving
ing, Madam . I presumed he ^ European shore to land the next
wanted my hose for his wife. ^^^ ^t ^ port ^^ Asia. It seemed
As we went through the country, appropriate, therefore, that the sky
we saw women doing all sorts of should have a sort of Oriental touch,
work. Some were repairing the The combination of sea and sky and
track, others moving heavy rocks or the strange mixture of Slav, Tartar
doing the farm work. Women work and Aryan passenger groups so en-
in offices and as street car con- thralled us as we sat on deck during
ductors. It is said Stalin selects a the warm evening that we were not
woman engineer when he travels, sorry the serving of the evening meal
I saw one woman carrying a baby was delayed till past eleven o'clock,
straddled across her back and hips, Eariy the next afternoon we ar-
holding it with her hands and sup- rived at Pahlevi, Iran. At last we
porting a heavy load on her head, were in Persia, the land which had
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 673
been reaching out to us for three slopes. The flowers were famfliar
weeks. It seemed so very strange, and ones— petunias, golden glow, geran-
we had difficulty in thinking of it iums, salvia, canna and roses— nearly
as a home even for the limited time all the flowers we have at home,
we planned to remain. From the This first night in Iran was spent
first, however, it was hospitable. in a type of splendor that combined
Several hours were required to at- the age-old art of Persia with the
tend to port regulations. We then modern conveniences of an up-to-
had to get luncheon and hire an au- date hotel.
tomobile to take us to Teheran. We The next morning our progress to-
drove through a delightful tropical ward Teheran was delayed by the
country for several hours, stopping fact that a portion of the road was
for the night at Ramsar. closed because the Shah was passing
The beautiful new hotel here was over it. We did not mind the wait,
built by the Shah. Our first intro- however, as it enabled us to have
duction to Persian rugs had a splen- luncheon and stay at another of the
did setting on these immense floors Shah's modern hotels at Tschalouse.
and halls. This hotel is spectacu- While the location of this hotel was
lady located on a hillside overlooking not so imposing as that at Ramsar,
the Caspian Sea. Many wide steps it was, nevertheless, in a beautiful
lead up from the road and lovely location at the foot of the moun-
formal gardens cover the terraced (Continued on page 728)
AUTUMN IN THE SOUTHWEST
By Sadie OUoiton Chrk
This is the time, the season of the year
When earth yields bounty from her treasure horn;
As far as eye can see, distant or near.
Is ripe red fruit, brown leaves and yellow corn.
Gone are the dusty, shrieking winds that tore
Frail branches from the bowed and naked trees.
Gone is the driving heat that summer bore.
The withering, arid heat the desert sees.
The field is mellow, as the setting sun
Pours out his golden rays on grain and flower;
Trees, spreading out their leafy arms, have won
First right to lavish beauty in this hour.
All is so calm. Afar the ancient hills
Have clothed themselves in dignity and peace.
Their quiet falls upon my head and fills
My soul with gratitude that will not cease.
A Rest For Rose Ellen
By Mabel Harmer
ELIZABETH turned off the elec- cooking a dinner for all six of her
trie iron, took young Walter children and all twenty-two of her
firmly by the hand, so that he grandchildren, as well as whatever
would not tamper with it in her spare uncles and aunts and cousins
absence, and went to answer the she can gather in, you know as well
front door. as I do that it's too much for her."
''Oh, it's you, come on in," she ''But isn't it fun?" asked Eliza-
said to her sister Margaret waiting beth, a look of happy reminiscence
outside. "Don't tell me that you've coming into her eyes. I am so glad
finished your ironing already?" she that she didn't give the big house
asked, leading the way back to the up after Father died. I just dote
kitchen. It was an entirely super- on going back there and sitting
fluous question for she knew that down to the long table filled with
Margaret, being like herself a daugh- Mother's jellies and pickles. And
ter of Rose Ellen Foster, would nev- when those turkeys are brought in—
er leave home until the Tuesday I guess there isn't a woman in the
ironing was laid neatly away in whole country that can roast a tur-
drawers or hung in closets. key like Mother can."
"I did part of it yesterday after I "Of course there isn't," Margaret
finished washing," Margaret explain- agreed, "but that still isn't a logical
ed, as she settled herself in a rocker reason why she should wear herself
and drew forth some darning from out every Thanksgiving Day feeding
the large bag she carried. "Mac a crowd like ours."
was coming into town today, and I "It is an awful lot of work," said
wanted to come in and have a talk Elizabeth, "but anyway, just how do
with you." you think you could talk her out
"Anything special?" asked Eliza- of it? You know how Mother
beth, bearing down on the collar of adores making all those pumpkin
the blue shirt she was ironing. pies and how triumphant she is
"Yes, in a way. I wanted to talk when she has filled all of her prog-
to you about Mother. Isn't there eny to the danger mark. The last
something we can do to keep her two years we have suggested that
from giving those enormous Thanks- we all have our dinners at our own
giving dinners? It's too much work homes, but she just wouldn't hear
for anybody, let alone a woman of of it."
her age." "I've thought it all out," said Mar-
"Oh, Mother isn't so old," said garet, plying her needle industrious-
Elizabeth, surveying her finished ly. "We'll have Genevieve invite
work with justifiable pride. "Most her up to spend a week in the city,
women are still active at sixty-eight." Mother can't resist her youngest
"Active, yes," Margaret agreed, daughter, and all the cooking that
"and I wouldn't object to anything can be done in that little apartment
in reason. But when it comes to will never raise anybody's blood
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 675
pressure. I'll write to Genevieve to- invite Henry up to your house-
night, before Mother starts laying in Althea is such a poor hand to cook
supplies." a big dinner."
Less than a week had elapsed be- ''Surely. Til take care of Henry
fore Rose Ellen called her two eldest and Althea/' said Margaret, glad to
daughters into conference. 'I'm remove the last obstacle that stood
just awfully disturbed," she said, in the way, "and I just hope that
handing each a paring knife so that you go up there and have a good rest
they could help peel apples for for a week."
mincemeat. "I had a letter from ...^^ot- t-t t t-xt i r i i
Genevieve this morning, and she R^.^^ ELLEN left home on the
says that Frank can't get more than , Monday before Tlianksgivmg,
one day off, so they won't be down doubtful to the very last as to wheth-
for Thanksgiving; she wants me to ^' ""' "«* she was justified in leaving
come up there and spend the whole her family to the fruits of their own
week with her. I just don't know cooking on such a momentous occa-
what to make of it." ^^^",-
"Why, I think it would be rather Genevieve met her at the station
nice," said Elizabeth cautiously. "It ^"^ ^^^^ ^^^ home to her tiny
would be terribly lonesome for Gen- apartment where Rose Ellen sat
evieve to have to spend Thanks- around for the remamder of the day
giving up there away from all the g^^^.^^g ^ "g^^J^ r^,^^" ^^^ /^^^"g
familv " terribly cramped and stuffy after the
,,^r .. 1 J >> n T-n freedom of her big nine-room house.
Or course it would. Rose Ellen ,.t .i if. i.i j »»
J . 1 <m i. 1, i. 1, i. I never thought to see the day,
agreed vigorously. But what about i i j c ^^ « -u i.r. >j
rrn ^ ••J- ->TT_ >i. she remarked ruefully, when they d
my 1 hanksgiving dinner? 1 haven t i i •. i, n i.T, i. i
< J ?. ^ 1 . rr^r 1 • • make a kitchen so small that only
missed cooking a big 1 hanksgiving . .. u ^ . -^
J. r 11 ^1 £11 °- 1 one person at a time could get in-
dinner tor all the folks one single • j >, °
year since I moved into this house r-\ ^ j i.i, t c ■ 1.1. L
^ .1 . . A171 • 1. ^n luesday, they left right after
over thirty years ago. Why, lust i i . ^ / j -r i...i
i-T, 1.1, J /-. • <T lunch to see a movie and do a little
the other day Oscar was saying, I ,^ ^ At least, "a Htfle shop-
lust look forward from one year to • ,, ^ i. i. r> • i j • j
ii . . ^1 1- / pmg was what Genevieve had said
the next to them dinners of yours, fi^ ij, i.vr j.i.
u pii » >> ^ they would do; but she found that
^ , ' , even after living with her for twen-
I don t doubt it, Margaret said ty years, she didn't know her moth-
dryly. And it wouldn t hurt him er, or at any rate, didn't know her
to rustie one for himself once, just capacity for going through store af-
to sort of get the feel of it." ter store and walking down street
"Of course, we'd miss coming after street,
home like everything," Elizabeth *'But you remember we're going
added, "but I really think you owe to see a movie," Genevieve inter-
it to Genevieve to go up there when posed, when her mother started to
she's without any of her own folks." make a bee line for a large depart-
"I guess maybe ypu're right," ment store that they had not as yet
Rose Ellen admitted reluctantly, covered,
"but I do wish that one of you would "Oh, that can wait," Rose Ellen
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answered. "1 can see movies any have to be held over until another
time at Poplar Grove, the very same day.
ones you have here, but I don't often -Jt's too bad we had to miss the
get a chance to go through a store movie," said Rose Ellen, as they
that has a whole counter with noth- dropped into seats on the crowded
ing but lace collars on it. And now bus, "but maybe we could go to-
that I've started to take something night."
home to each of the grandchildren, ''Maybe," said Genevieve, trying
11 have to finish the list out. So ^o stretch her tired toes inside the
far I ve only_^bought eight presents, ^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^3 ^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^ u^^^ I
or is it nine. think perhaps we had better wait
From the ache in her feet, Gene- ^^^^ tomorrow. You came up here
vieve thought that it must have been ^^^j f ^^ ^ ^^3^^ ^^^^..
ninety, but she acquiesced helplessly
and followed her mother into the f\^ the following day, Genevieve
store. On the third floor, in the toy settled her mother in an easy
department, Genevieve had a flash chair with a supply of magazines be-
of inspiration, born no doubt of her fore she ventured forth to do her
rebellious feet. ''Why don't you buy shopping for tomorrow's dinner. She
the same things for each of the little had a slight twinge of conscience on
boys, so that there won't be any leaving, because she knew that Rose
hard feelings?" she said. Ellen would thoroughly enjoy the
'That's a good idea," Rose Ellen activities of the big market; but she
agreed. "Now, if I can just find dared not take a chance on a repe-
something that will suit all of them tition of yesterday's shopping melee,
from Paul down to Mac, Jr. There's "Who knows," she thought, "but
seven of them between the ages of what Mother might decide to buy
six and twelve, if we count Rupert up a lot of fancy fruits to take home
who will be six by Christmas." in addition to the toys."
Before long, Genevieve began to After Genevieve left. Rose Ellen
regret her inspired thought, for it settled herself down contentedly
seemed that Paul didn't care for enough, but had turned only the
books, Benny was the only one in- second page of her magazine when a
terested in a chemistry set, and it ring of the doorbell brought her out
would be foolish to buy seven foot- of the easy chair in a flurry of ex-
balls. They made the rounds time pectancy. Interest always attended
and time again in hopes of find- a chance caller,
ing something that would please all The one that stood before her
seven. when the door was opened was a
They finally agreed on games for young woman, evidently a resident
varied tastes and ages, and Gene- of one of the apartments in the same
vieve discovered, with deep and sin- building, since she wore no wrap,
cere thankfulness, that it was time She showed unmistakable signs of
to go home and get Frank's dinner; agitation, and Rose Ellen was im-
therefore, shopping for the half doz- mediately all sympathy,
en presents still unbought would "Come right in," she urged. "My
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daughter has gone shopping, but a few minutes was rubbing the tiny
she'll be back soon. Isn't there chest with the warm oil. "I guess
something I could do for you?" youVe given him a laxative and
"I am Mrs. Parker from across plenty of water?" she asked, looking
the hall/' the young woman said, up at the baby's mother, who ap-
"I can't come in— I've just left my parently had become completely
baby, and he's ill. I thought that helpless with the advent of more
maybe Mrs. Bradford could help me practised hands,
give him a vapor bath. I'm so ner- Mrs. Parker nodded, and Rose
vous, I can't seem to manage it Ellen went on. 'Tou could be
alone." bringing out the electric plate to
"Shucks, no. Genevieve wouldn't put the solution on, and a blanket
know anything about that, but I'll to put over the bed."
be glad to come. I've brought more The younger woman hurried off,
babies through colds and pneumonia grateful to have something definite
than you could put in this apart- to do, and before long the child was
ment. I guess I don't even have to in his cot, breathing the healing
take off my apron, do I?" she fin- vapors of the steaming croup kettle,
ished, stepping out into the hall pre- "The Doctor says to leave him
pared to follow the mother without twenty minutes at a time," Mrs.
further invitation. Parker ventured. "Won't that be
In the apartment across the hall terribly long? And I can't remem-
Rose Ellen found a nine-months- ber whether I was to put these drops
old baby suffering with what ap- in his nose before or after."
peared to be a very bad case of "After will do just as well," Rose
bronchitis. He was breathing with Ellen answered. "And it won't seem
difficulty and his temperature was so long. We'll just sit here and
running high. talk. 'Or maybe you'd better fix
"He seems terribly hot," said Mrs. yourself a bite of lunch. I'm just
Parker, wdth a catch in her voice, sure you haven't had any. I'll sit
"and all this vapor stuff seems so here by the crib and call you if he
complicated. He's never been sick lets out the least peep."
before, and I feel so helpless." Por the rest of the afternoon she
"Of course you do," soothed Rose worked over the baby, alternating
Ellen. "Every mother does with the croup kettle with the medicine
her first one, but don't you worry and nose drops. By five o'clock he
a mite. I know just what to do was sleeping peacefully, and his fe-
for him, and that vapor stuff, as you ver was almost entirely gone,
call it, isn't anything more than an "That's the nice thing about
old-fashioned croup kettle. Have babies," said Rose Ellen. "Tliey
you got camphorated oil? Let's raise a temperature quickly, but it's
give his chest a good rub first and easy to bring it down, too. I guess
loosen him up so as he can breathe Yd better go back now. My land!
easier." What will Genevieve think? I didn't
Rose Ellen set to work with all leave a note or anything. I'll come
the assurance of an expert and in back later to see if he's all right for
678 - OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
the night, and, in the meantime, a job worth doing. Maybe they
don't hesitate to call me if you need would let her tackle part of it.
me." ''Could you give me an apron?"
'1 can't thank you enough," the she beseeched Letty. "I'd just love
girl began, with more than a suspi- to help for a time."
cion of tears in her voice. 'I'm up ''Well, there's plenty to do setting
here alone without my mother, and on a dinner for one hundred and
being Thanksgiving time and all—" fifty," Letty admitted. "Here's an
The tears long held back became a extra you can take. \Vliat would
reality, and Rose Ellen's motherly you like to do? How about making
arms went around the weeping girl, pumpkin pies? I never have forgot
"There, there," she said, "just those pies you used to make."
have a good cry. Sometimes it's the "Fd love it. You'll need about
best thing in the world for you. And twenty-five, won't you? I never
don't you worry about the little fel- made more than ten at one mixing
low. He's going to be perfectly all before. It'll be a real treat."
right. ' Rose Ellen assembled the materi-
qPHE young Bradfords were not als for her mixing with a zest. Fox
^ planning upon eating theii ^^^ ^^st time now she felt recom-
Thanksgiving dinner before six, be- Pf "^^^^ ^^^^^ ^''''}^ ^^.^ P^f ^"^^
cause Frank wanted to attend the f ^^^^^"g ? Thanksgivmg dinner
football game, so Rose Ellen filled ^^^ her own family. At home there
in the early part of the morning ^^^^^ ^^^^ b^^" ^^^Y ^ "^^f ^}''^'
telephoning to a few friends from ^^^ ^^ ^^^^y at the most. And here
Poplar Grove now living in the city, '^l ^^^ ^" the inidst of preparing
"Letty Evans is helping to put on ^^,^^"^^^ ^«i ^"^ hundred and fifty.
Thanksgiving dinner for the blind," ^he wished that she would have
she said to Genevieve, after finish- time to do the dressing, too. Every-
ing her last conversation, "and she's ^^^X f^^^y^ f'^ ^^^ "^ one could
going to call for me in a few minutes ^^^^^ ^^' Turkey dressing Maybe
and let me look on for a while. I ^^ '^^ g^* through with the pies in
guess you won't mind if I go, will ^jme she could do it. Or if not,
° y7'» ^ there was the salads to make. 1 hey
Instinct made Genevieve some- would be left until the last anyway,
what dubious, but there was no real ^"f ^he was sure to get a chance to
reason for insisting that her mother *^^^P "^^ t^^"^-
stay at home, so Rose Ellen changed She glowed with pride when all
her dress and was all ready to ac- of the women took time out to come
company Letty to the Civic Center and admire her pies as they were
when she arrived a half hour later, brought forth from the ovens, fluffy,
In the spacious dining room and golden and fragrant,
kitchen of the Center they found a "I'm sure glad you made a couple
dozen women scurrying around at extra," said Letty. "I just couldn't
a \^riety of jobs. Rose Ellen's head have stood to be this close to your
went up like an old-time fire horse pies and not had a piece."
at the scent of smoke. Here was With the pies all done and placed
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in opulent rows upon the tables
waiting their final complement of
whipped cream, Rose Ellen turned
her attention to salad-making and
finally to helping set the tables.
Then, after the guests had arrived,
there was turkey to be carved, plates
to be filled and carried in and re-
filled until no one could be per-
suaded to eat any more.
*'I feel just terrible, keeping you
all this time and letting you
work like that," Letty apologized,
as she and Rose Ellen finally
climbed into the car to be driven
home. ''Whatever will your daugh-
ter say?"
"ril tell her that I've just spent
one of the happiest days of my life,
and she won't say a word," said Rose
Ellen cheerfully, ''if I don't go any
further, of course."
CHE left for home on Friday be-
cause it looked as if it might be
sort of quiet in the city after the
holiday, and, anyway, a whole week
was much too long a time to stay
away from home. She didn't bother
to let the girls know that she was
coming, because there was bound to
be somebody at the station that
would give her a lift.
Sure enough, there was Millicent
and Sam Hennefer, come down to
see their daughter off for home after
the holiday, and, of course, they
were delighted to take Rose Ellen
home, especially since it wasn't more
than a mile or two out of their way.
"And how did you like the cit)^?"
asked Millicent, as they settled
themselves in the rear seat and Sam
started the ancient car with a jerk.
"It's just grand," Rose Ellen an-
swered with a happy sigh. "There's
so much to do."
<^m^^'
OCTOBER
By Lydia Hall
Earth dreamed a dream of loveliness
Upon an April day.
When lilacs exhaled ecstasy
And hills were blossom gay.
Then, when October meadows burned
And autumn skies were blue
Beyond belief, she found her dreams
Had ev'ry one come true.
Just A Bundle Of Nerves
By Alice Money Bailey
4 4 \ Y 70RRY:" (according to cial; if it healed the sick, made the
Y^ Webster) "To tease; to rain to fall, or swelled the bank ac-
trouble; to fatigue; to count. But it does none of these
harass with importunity or with things. It saps your pep, puts lines
care and anxiety." In the complete in your face, makes you ill and robs
definition he used the word 'Tia- you of actual money,
rass" four times. People say it dif- All sorts of calamities can be
ferently: "I live on my nerve," a pet traced directly to its devastating ac-
delusion. 'Tm so worried, Fm near- tion. Not the least of these is that
ly crazy," usually an exaggeration, it often attracts the very things
'All I am is a bundle of nerves," an which it fears most. For example, in
inaccuracy. *'I have the jitters," war time a person may be worried
which is the modern version. over the fact that sugar may increase
Streets, homes and businesses are in cost. Worry is catching. Soon
full of people who are worried. The mass worry causes a rush on the mar-
farmer is caught between the mort- ket and sends the price to abnormal
gage and the watershed; the busi- heights, heights not warranted by
nessman between the slump and the the laws of supply and demand,
overhead; Mother and Dad can't Worry crowds out efficiency, domi-
choose between lack of funds and nates the emotions, and hampers
the immorals that menace growing physiological activity,
children. Marital problems, prob- Years ago, I heard a doctor make
lems of health and old age, money, the statement that worry, fear and
social obligations, all are causes of anger pour a definite poison into the
worry. system. More recent study throws
All of these may be legitimate new light upon this statement. No
causes, but people who have none definite poison has been isolated,
of these worry about other things: but the human body is more and
The hats women wear, the way girls more appreciated as an extremely
dress, new styles in love-making, delicately-balanced mechanism. Na-
crime in a remote city, war on an- ture measures for it exact propor-
other continent, or the weather, tions of certain elements: Electric-
The Government budget in i960 or ity, positive and negative currents;
the trials our forefathers had to bear gland secretions, etc. Nature counts
are worried over by some— not be- the blood cells, red and white; it
cause they are really interested in measures the liquids, the chemicals,
anv of these things, but because takes the temperature. The yes and
thev have an appetite for worry, and no are inflexible in the human body,
it must be appeased. Whenever this perfect balance is
Now, such a worry diet would be upset, there is trouble. Worry hits
fine if it took the place of vitamins directly at the nervous system and
or exercise: if it could be substituted upsets this perfect balance, because
for a shampoo, finger-wave and fa- the nervous system controls all the
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bodily functions. Its intricate tele- myself in hand. I argued to myself
phone system is connected with that I had no children who were
every minute part. Under normal being robbed of pleasure which that
operation everything goes smoothly money could buy; my husband was
—circulation, breathing, gland se- pleased that I had the coat; the
cretions, elimination, digestion, all money I paid for it was prospering
the workings, large and small. But other people, furriers, artisans, trap-
a worried person is like a factory pers; I could well afford to buy it.
. with a prankster at the controls I stopped worrying and enjoyed the
—some operations are slowed down, . beauty and warmth of my fur coat."
some are speeded up; the nerves This intelligent woman applied rea-
not only say when to stop but when son to worry.
to go. "I couldn't sleep one night be-
cause I had neglected so long visit-
^^T HAVE a terrific headache," '*I ing a woman who had lost her hus-
can't sleep," '1 can't eat," band, so I made it a point to visit
"I'm so upset," "I'm just a bundle her the very next day. The result
of nerves," people say. They have was a feeling of satisfaction and a
nausea, and the doctor calls it a g®od night's sleep." Thus, the good
nervous stomach; they become men- old gospel of removing the cause to
tally ill, and we speak of them as correct the disease was applied,
having a "nervous break-down"; they There are many recipes: "If you
die, and we say, "She died of shock." are worried about a decision, sleep
Fear, worry, anger, strife, and de- «" '^-^ ''\ Y?" '^'f^ ^^"^^^ ^"^
struction are the five generations, l""^?/^ ^^" back and let your mmd
Fear is the father of worry who is g^ ^^^"^ ^^^ ^^^^ ^" ho"[- ^^^^
the father of anger, whose son is ^^^k for some. You may have your
strife. The first-born of strife is de- o™ ^^^^^P^-
struction. It is a chain that breaks ''^^ Y^" ^ust worry,' says Vash
civilization, nations, institutions, Young m his book, "do it only on
families and friendships. And of the ^ hursday.
chain, worry is the weak link. ''I'll not think of it today. I'll
^ . , _ . .. think about it tomorrow," Scarlett
To worry IS human. It is one of Q'Hara of Gone With The Wind
the things that distinguishes us from p^jnijes herself,
beasts and trees. But reason and self- ..j substitution," the psycholo-
control also distinguish us As the -^^ ' !„ ^^^^ Victoiy, Bette Da-
nervous system controls the body, ^j^ jrays a girl who cannot con-
so reason and self-control can pro- j^g^j,^ ^^ s^^ tj3„3fg„ ^er
tect the nervous system. How shall g^^ ^^ conquering fear, and suc-
we apply them to worry? ^^^^ By ^^ ^^-^^^ ^1,^ j^ ^^^-^^^^
"I bought a fur coat," one woman of strain and puts a lifetime of hap-
told me. "Then I laid awake nights piness into the short space allotted
and worried because it cost so much. her.
Finally, I could hardly bear to wear Is your grief for the one who has
the coat. Then I decided I was gone in death, or for yourself who
spoiling it with worry, and I took is left behind? Answer to yourself
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the question, and then, if you still
weep, work is the antidote say the
psychologists. Work until you must
sleep; rest and time will ease the
burden.
Many worries can be prevented.
"I never make a promise I can't
keep," an excellent guaranty for se-
renity. If you can't stand disappoint-
ment, don't allow yourself to an-
ticipate too much. Give yourself
whole-heartedly to every job, and
there will be no regrets that you
didn't do it better.
"I can't stand remorse and' worry
about not doing right," says one
man, "so I live my religion."
If you have worry or sorrow, skirt
it, shun it, go out to meet and con-
quer it, argue yourself out of it, re-
lax and forget it, prevent it, substi-
tute work and other interests for it.
Do anything— but don't worry.
-Qi:^^
OUR LITTLE PRAYERS
Our little prayers, dear God, remember, pray,
A woman cries them out so, night and day.
Let Baby sleep awhile— he needs his rest.
Please help our Danny Joe to do his best.
Don't let old Mrs. Peele have too much pain.
And bring the thirsty grass Thy tender rain.
I thank Thee, Lord— I count my blessings o'er—
Keep me from blaming John, when feet are sore.
And take the fever from the child next door.
Help me to hold Thy peace and keep the morning song
All the way long—
And hold Thou safely all I love today.
Our little prayers, dear God, remember, pray.
-Kathleen B. Nelson
Good Taste In Home Decoration
By I. A. Fisher
THERE are many reasons why form, material, and construction
modern design is far superior constitute the framework of useful-
to traditional or period design, ness, the test of everything you buy
Of these, probably the most impor- should be on these three points,
tant are: A greater variety of mater- Ask of every piece: Does it do,
ials to choose from, tremendously perfectly, what it is supposed to do?
better tools to work with, and— Is there anything about it that does
most important of all— a greater de- not contribute to its usefulness? A
gree of understanding of the prin- chair, for instance, must fit the hu-
ciples of art and design. man figure. It must be strong, light
In traditional design, appearance and have a minimum of bulk. There
was the end. All Duncan Phyfe, are many materials from which such
Sheraton, Chippendale, or Colonial a form can be made; but as their
furniture had identical characteris- flexibilities, weights, and textures
tics. If ladder-back chairs were the vary, the perfect choice depends on
fad, every home had them, no mat- the particular function the chair is
ter how inappropriate they were in to fill . . . such as writing, dining,
the different decoration schemes. or lounging. If the materials are ex-
In modern design, appearance is pertly put together in a strong, sim-
a result— not an end. Its evaluation pie way, if the chair is comfortable,
is a problem to most people because light, and steady, if the materials fill
the approach is entirely diflFerent. the requirements of strength and
To understand period design, a durability, then, it is a chair of per-
study of classic principles is neces- feet modern design. Its place in your
sary; to understand and appreciate home should theia be determined
modern design, all that is needed is by the ability of its form, texture,
plain common sense. and color to harmonize with its sur-
There are three easy ways to judge roundings.
modern design. The first is by its Any piece of modern design will
form. Considered from the stand- possess beauty to the degree that
point of use, form must be practical, form, material, and construction
comfortable, and efficient. Its lines, serve usefulness. A composite of
bulk, and proportions must be ade- elements reach perfection of beauty,
quate for its particular function, and this is possible only when de-
The second way is by its material, sign and function blend so perfectly
Does it serve its utility? Do its sur- that there is no dividing line,
face, weight, and strength meet the To be able to apply this reasoning
demands that will be made of it? to each part and object of your home
The third is by its construction. Is would be to achieve lasting beaut^^
it balanced, durable, and secure? Is The function of ceilings is to
it economicallv efficient? Is its fab- close what would otherwise be an
rication sound as to form and ma- uglv opening. Walls are to support
terials? Since the sole purpose of roofs and keep out the elements,
its creation is usefulness, and since Win^o\ys are to let in sunlight,
684 - OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Floors are to hold furniture and to
walk on. Yet in most cases ceilings
are too obtrusive, walls too oppres-
sive, windows too small and heavily
draped, and floors dark, gloomy, and
too broken up. Most living rooms—
particularly in older homes— are
either too dark, crowded and clut-
tered, or too dismal, bare and unin-
teresting. Either type, if complete
modernization is out of the ques-
tion, could be made more livable by
a little effort and imagination.
It is impossible to think that the
average person is sufficiently well
trained to judge thoroughly the ma-
terials, construction, and functions
of all designs. Nor could the average
person possess infallible taste in col-
ors and textures. Some people can,
however; those who cannot, have ac-
cess to sufficient professional help
in the well-equipped Home Fur-
nishing centers.
I7OR those who, through necessity
or desire, wish to build or mod-
ernize their own homes and do all
the work themselves, the following
eas5^-to-follow suggestions are of-
fered:
Almost all kitchens and bath-
rooms are functional— partly because
their purpose is thoroughly under-
stood, and partly because very few
furnishings are involved. The ones
which are not functional can be
traced to antiquated equipment, bad
color, or poor lighting. As the prob-
lems of color and lighting will be
discussed later, we will concern our-
selves at present with the living and
dining rooms only.
These rooms should fit your own
mode of living and eating, and these
individual problems can be solved
in the main by no one but you. Less
drastic changes are possible in re-
modeling than in building, so the
suggestions have been made suffi-
ciently general and flexible to allow
for both. It is hoped that the reader
realizes there are exceptions to every
rule. The better informed a person
is, the greater are the possibilities
to achieve good taste through any
one of a million variations. These
rules, if studied and followed, will
result in the expression of good taste
and individuality in your home.
Floors
Keep floors plain, simple, and un-
broken. Small rugs catch the feet
and eyes, breaking up floor areas
into uninteresting and unbalanced
spaces. If recarpeting, do so from
wall to wall. Tliis is very important.
Do not buy rugs or carpets smaller
than the floor space if you want sim-
plicity and beauty. Be sure your rugs
and carpets have underpads for econ-
omy, and that they are a trifle small-
er than the area covered. If dining
rooms, living rooms, halls, or stair-
ways open up into each other, com-
pletely cover all floor surfaces the
same. If you are building your home,
have the floors made of cement or
inexpensive wood, and then carpet
them completely. Hardwood floors
are hard to keep up, not harmonious
with m(*)st rugs and too expensive.
Not being functional, they are not
beautiful. If you are already using
rugs and plan to leave them, paint
the surrounding space to match the
rugs or harmonize as closely as pos-
sible.
Dark rugs show lint and footprints
and have a gloomy and depressing
effect. If you want a cheerful, sunny
atmosphere in your home, avoid
them. However, dark rugs are at
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times very desirable and effective for
use in certain rooms, according to
general impression created and color
schemes used. Usually plain gray,
beige, or natural shades are best.
Self-patterned, self-textured, high
pile, shaggy, hand-carved, or hand-
tufted rugs always look best in any
room. Avoid contrasting patterns of
any type. The more neutral your
floor coverings, the greater are
your possibilities for different color
schemes in your decorations.
Walls
Walls, to be functional, should
be as neutral as possible. Remove all
baseboards; they spoil the beauty of
a room, catch dirt, and harbor in-
sects. Remove all mouldings from
walls. Avoid patterned wallpapers
for they press in on you, and the
corners give one the impression of
being inside a box. If patterned pa-
per is used, contrast one wall with
a heavy, draped curtain, paint, or
plain paper. This eliminates the box
effect and gives the impression that
the walls continue on indefinitely.
Eliminate all door and window
frames. If this is not possible, cut
them down to narrow, plain frames.
Cover all panelled doors with plylox
or other veneered woods and paint.
Paint all woodwork to match walls,
or in very close harmony with them.
If in doubt, remember that off-white
is always right.
Most woods are not only dull and
unattractive but need continual re-
finishing at tremendous cost, over
the years. The new modern, bleach-
ed woods are beautiful and attractive
and recommended wherever wood
is to be used. Otherwise, complete
elimination of wood for walls and
frames within the home is desirable.
Windows
Windows should be as large as
possible. If building, the problem is
simple, for with the use ot structural
steel, windows can be as large as one
whole wall. If remodeling, enlarge
windows as much as possible in rela-
tion to outside and inside areas.
Treat double and triple windows as
one where possible. Hand blinds arc
scarcely ever completely up; tlic}
keep out light and add ugly lines lo
a room. Replace them with N'cnc-
tian blinds. There are several prices,
but if the cost is prohibitive, bam-
boo roll screens with draw draperies
are smart and practical. If Venetian
blinds are used, they should be the
same color as the window frames,
or if there are no window frames,
then they should match the walls.
Draperies are optional but not nec-
essary.
Draperies
Draperies look best when they
match or harmonize closely with
wall or woodwork. Plain, dull fab-
rics are best. Small patterns, figures,
or fine horizontal stripes are next
best; if these patterns are in con-
trasting colors, the color should be
carried out elsewhere in the room.
For example, with bone-white wood-
work, white and canary yellow wall-
paper, and white ceiling, use canary
yellow draperies with small rust hor-
izontal line, one rust chair, gray rug,
etc.
Avoid crisscross draping of win-
dows or gaudy patterns. Simplicity
is always best. Pictures should be
few and well spaced, with never
more than two or three at the most
to a room, unless they are placed by
an expert. Discard cheap pictures
of the Lone Wolf type; confine fam-
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ily portraits to bedrooms or cedar only spoils the beauty of the walls,
chests and replace with prints of but attracts too much attention to
masterpieces. They can be purchased the ceiling.
for as little as seventy-five cents and ^^^jj wallpaper borders. Paper
up to three dollars, and are the next ^j^^ ^^jj^ g^j^i/^^ ^1^^ ^^■^- ^^^
best things to original paintings, leave plain. Remove all paneling or
Frames should match the wall or ^^^^^ ^^^. decorations and see
woodwork as nearly as possible. ^j^^^ jjg^y^| g^^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^
Ceilings low, too high, or inefficient.
Ceilings should be as unobtrusive If all these parts of your home are
as possible— either white or in faint functional, doing what they are sup-
pastel shades. Never bring ceiling posed to do perfectly, then it is a
paper down on the walls to make place of charm, graciousness and
the ceiling look lower. This not enduring beauty.
^^
MY MEMORY
By La Vina Dodge Moellei
There's a memory deep in the heart of me,
Beautiful, silent and tender.
Making me humble and grateful to Him—
The Master of Life, her sender.
Here it lies deep in my heart all the while,
Keeping me happy and cheerful.
Keeping me in the straight, narrow way;
Sometimes inclined to be tearful.
Wonderful memory, pure as the dew.
Clear as the sunlight I see her;
Guiding me constantly, keeping me true;
Never to lie or deceive her.
Never to go against what she has taught;
God never gives us another—
So deep in my heart and sacred I keep
My wonderful mem'ry of Mother!
The Relief Society and
the Welfare Plan
By Roscoe W. EaidJeyy Church Storehouse Supervisor
SHE is one of the modest moth-
ers of Israel. She sacrifices pa-
tiently for husband and chil-
dren. Her home is humble but well
kept. Yet, in some almost miracu-
lous way, she is able to help her
neighbors. When they are sick, she
visits them. When they sorrow, she
comforts them. When they hunger,
she sees that food is provided, and
when they are cold fuel is sent.
When discouragement and despair
depress them, her cheerful spirit
fills them with faith and hope to
try again— to carry on. Humble and
plain in her bearing, she graces her
calling with the spirit of a true aristo-
crat—an aristocrat of service. Her
name? Shall we call her Legion?
For she typifies the hundreds of
women, officers and members of the
Relief Society, who have served their
people, their Church and their
Maker for almost a century.
Elder Brigham H. Roberts has
written beautifully about this "Aris-
tocracy of Service" in the Church.
Changing his words slightiy to meet
the ideas of today, he expresses the
following inspiring thoughts:
Men and women blessed with di-
vine insight and power are giving
their services practically without re-
muneration for the welfare of their
people. They are laboring in season
and out of season foi them. They
are giving not only a teaching ser-
vice, tending to make the truth clear
and the inspiration which has come
to our present leaders easily under-
stood, but they are giving freely of
their business, professional, execu-
tive and judicial abilities and crafts-
manship. Men and women of the
highest intelligence and spiritual
qualities are devoting their lives to
their people, practically without
earthly reward, and are rich only in
the consciousness that their services
to their fellowmen are being well
performed.
As you read these words, you will
think instantly of men and women
in your own communities, as well as
of men and women in presiding po-
sitions in the Church, who are num-
bered today among the Aristocracy
of Service. You, too, may become
such an aristocrat. The great Church
Welfare Plan, as well as other oppor-
tunities for unselfish service in the
Church, makes this possible.
What is the Welfare Phn?
Briefly stated, it is a union of all
the forces of the Priesthood and the
women of the Church to assist our
people to help themselves to solve
their economic and spiritual prob-
lems. In this inspired undertaking
the Relief Society represents, large-
ly, the women in the Plan.
One of the pressing problems is
to care for the temporal needs of
the unemployed and needy. To
reach this objective four things seem
essential. They are:
1. To produce the food, clothing
and other necessities that are
required.
2. To distribute these necessities
to all who are in need.
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3. To provide work in regular in-
dustry or by work projects, so
that all who are physically able
may labor for what they receive,
thus relieving them of the
''curse of idleness and the evils
of the dole".
4. To meet the social problems
that have grown out of the de-
pression and its attendant evils.
What is the Relief Society Doing?
To solve any problem it is neces-
sary to ascertain the facts and then
face them bravely. To know what
has to be done gives one power to
begin to do it. It is the work of
the Ward Welfare Committee,
which is composed of the Bishop or
his representative. The Ward Relief
Society President, The Ward Work
Director, The Relief Society Work
Director and representatives of the
High Priests, Seventies, Elders and
Adult Aaronic Priesthood to ascer-
tain what economic and other prob-
lems confront our people. To assist
the Ward Welfare Committees to
gather the facts easily and accurately,
the Presiding Bishopric, the General
Church Welfare Committee and
the General Board of Relief Society
have cooperated to prepare a survey
card, which is usually spoken of as
"the green card." This card prop-
erly filled out is one of the prin-
cipal tools in the hands of the Ward
Committee. Without this tool the
Committee is almost as helpless as
a mason would be without a trowel
or a carpenter without a hammer
and saw.
The gathering of the information
is the responsibility of the entire
committee, but experience has prov-
en that many of the most successful
surveys have been made by experi-
enced Relief Society workers who
have tactfully and gently secured
the facts required. Special surveys
were recently required in a number
of stakes, and it was remarkable how
thoroughly and quickly our sisters
secured them. In one ward where
the ''green cards" had been kept
up to date the information was avail-
able in two hours.
How the Relief Society Functions in
Supplying Food and Clothing for
Bishops' Storehouses.
The food, clothing, and other
commodities supplied by the Bish-
ops' Storehouses are largely the fruits
of the labor of our people and of
individual donations to the Welfare
Plan. The projects to produce the
raw materials needed are carried on
principally, but not entirely, by
Priesthood Quorums and other
groups of men; the preparing
and preservation of the food, the
canning and the drying is done
mainly by the women under the di-
rection of the Relief Society. The
work has been organized so that the
following four classes of workers are
recognized:
1 . Those who are the direct recip-
ients of the Program— those whose
needs have been and will be pro-
vided for and who are physically
able to work.
2. Women from the "borderline"
cases— those whose incomes are
scarcely adequate to meet their needs
and who, through work projects, are
given the opportunity to increase
their incomes.
3. Volunteer workers who desire
to donate their time.
4. Relief Society members and
their friends who respond to the
call when an emergency arises.
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As for clothing and bedding, it plied by other members of the com-
is provided almost entirely by our mittee, the canning and sewing cen-
women under the direction cf the ters, the Budget-assigned projects
Relief Society. In wards and stakes and the Bishops' Storehouses— place
this important phase of the work facilities at the disposal of the Re-
is being carried on and in the larger lief Society organizations which en-
communities sewing centers have able them to meet promptly the
been organized. The Relief Society new and larger demands of present-
is a most vital force in the produc- day economic and social conditions,
tion program of the Welfare Plan. That the present-day challenge is
The Reliei Society's Important ^^^"g successfully met is attested by
Duty in Distiihution. ^^^ thousands to whom help has
A171- i. J i.T- • J- -J 1 £ -1 heen given during the past three
What does the mdividual family ^rn, ... ftc t_
J . r J 1 .1 . r ^^ rn."^ Ycars. Ihe necessities ot lite have
need in tood, clothing, fuel? lhe(^ .,, j j- i. -u ,. j
•J 1. c 1.1 J Sire -x. been provided and distributed,
president ot the ward Relief Society, Txriir-u r j£t,jj
^ , . ^. J. • i.1 Work has been round for hundreds
or her representative, ascertains the . i - 1 x ^ r
facts by visiting the home and talk- ^^ ^"^ women and girls. Many o
ing with the mother in the home. *^^ f ^^^^ problems growing out of
Having learned the family's needs, *^^ depression have been solved and
she presents the list to the bishop ^ system of record keeping has been
for his approval or suggestions, and set up to assure down-to-the-minute
it is then sent to the Bishops' Store- information and prompt assistance
house. The Storehouse promptly in cases of need. It is not thinkable,
fills the order. The enlarged facili- but suppose the Relief Society
ties of the Welfare Plan— the green should stop, what would happen to
survey cards, the information sup- the Welfare Plan?
SUMMER IDYLL
I'll give you half my heart.
For if I give it all
I'll have no heart to say that this must end—
This summer's romance, destined ere begun
To die with winter's snow.
I'll give you half my heart
Tlien say goodby, and smile at summer's romance-
Dead, like fallen leaves.
And only half my heart will bear a scar
With winter's snow.
—Beatrice Rordame Parsons
HAPPENINGS
By Annie Wells Cannon
/^CTOBER— Such sweet content- er and has been taking lessons from
ment does October bring John MacCormack.
With garnered fruits and golden tx7v t t-xtct^xt r tti. i_ j-
& 6 JVY T. ENSIGN of Utah, director
grain— 1 r i t j /->i • j t j-
Rich promise for grim winter's reign. ^^^^ ^^^ Lund Charninade Ladies
Chorus, is very proud that her chorus
npHE renewal of the work of the won first place at the Golden Gate
women's clubs and organiza- International Exposition Eisteddfod,
tions and the fall opening of the The prize was $250.
schools has started a rush for books ,. >--adt7t cM^AD-rr/ Ax^T-r-Trr-kTrT-
a i-i, Tu • J T, 1 t- IvlABEL SWAKIZ WllHUI^l
from the libraries and book shops, i^^l , ^ . • i
Numerous new books on a variety , of Georgia, past national presi-
of subjects as well as the old favor- ,^^"* ^^ ^^^^S" ^*'' ^^T' a
ites are ready for the eager reader, ^f * ""T*' f^ ^^' t "^""Tu ^f
° the author or a number or books.
jyi AY ROBSON, grand old lady Her poem Seeded Ground was pub-
of the films, has purchased lots lished in numerous leading maga-
in Culver City, near Hollywood, on zines.
which she has built fourteen houses . xtxtt- ^ 7TXTr>T-xTrT- r -t-
^f c « ^^ 1, J i. J i.1, A NNE VINCENT of Tremon-
ot fave rooms each and rented them Jt\ ^t i i .i
to "only large growing families" at . *^"^ ^^^}' 99 last month, was
a nominal rental. A film studio ad- f ^^ *? ^^^^ ^^^[J *^^ ^'""^^'^'^ V"?^-
joining the lots has tried vainly to ^^' ^^ *^ P^^^ ^* ^ ^^^^"^ ^^^^^'^-
buy them. tion.
ARLENE DAVIS, the only wo- N^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^^ ^''
^ man in the United States hold- „ T*!n" tP^Z^'^ ^^™^^ '^'''X
ing a license to fly transport planes ,^^"?^ ^^ ^^i, T^omonows, and
over land and sea, with another red- ^^^^^ ,^^""^' , Shanghai 37, botn
haired aviatrix, Jacqueline Cochran, f^^, ^,^^^^ ^^^T^^ ,'''"'^ ""^ ^^^
famed operator of cosmetic salons, ^^'''^^' ^^^"^ ^^^'^ ^"^^•
entered the transcontinental speed /^RACE M. CANDLAND of
dash of the national air races last ^ Provo has issued a choice book-
"^^"^"- let for the Christmas time contain-
ALICE MARBLE, queen of the !?§ ^'^f pioneer poems, GJorfnda,
^ worid's tennis courts, won the ^"^'^^' ^"^ ^ ^''''^'"^ ^^^^"S"-
Essex Bowl championship for the /^LARISSA YOUNG SPENCER>
third time. Helen Wills Moody is ^ daughter of Brigham Young, a
the only other tennis star to retire an talented, versatile and beautiful wo-
Essex Bowl in fifteen years of his- man dearly beloved for her fine
tory. Incidentally, Miss Marble has qualities of friendship died last sum-,
ambitions to become a famous sing- mer.
THE RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
lULIA A. F. LUND .._.... General Secretary and Treosurei
THE GENERAL BOARD
Jennie B. Knight Rosannah C. Irvine Emeline Y. Nebeker Leda T. Jensen
Emma A. Empey Mottm D RroHford Janet M. Thompson Beatrice F. Stevens
Annie Wells Cannon ^f "'® ^- ^''°^'°'^° Belle S. Spafford Rae B. Barker
Lalene H. Hart ^°° ^- ^®°^ Donna Durrant Sorensen Nellie O. Parker
Cora L. Bennion Marcia K. Howells Vivian R. McConkie Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor Belle S. Spafford
Manager .--_--.-... Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI OCTOBER, 1939 No. 10
EDITOHIAL
y^udging Vau
npHE great difficulty with human-
kind is that it knows so poorly
how to pursue its own best interests.
People generally are genuinely
anxious to better their own con-
ditions, but all to often strive to do
so through satisfying their immediate
selfish desires. This isn't a thing for
which we should be too severely
criticised, for after all, we are still
but children; the fine qualities of
God-like judgment are in us as yet
undeveloped.
We use money as a standard of
value. Yet, to one unschooled in the
use of money as a standard of value,
something of far less intrinsic
worth, fulfilling a desire resulting
from past experience, would be val-
ued more highly. A small child al-
lowed the choice between an ice
cream cone and a ten dollar bill
would not hesitate in choosing the
ice cream cone. We who are more
sophisticated, counting ourselves
mature in our judgments, smile in-
dulgently at such a choice.
ues
But we may well look to ourselves
and see if we, like the child, are not
seeking present gain rather than fu-
ture good. Given a choice between
such things as worldly pleasure, as-
sociation which brings excitement,
power, or material gain on the one
hand and on the other the opportun-
ity for service in the kingdom of
God, which brings incitement to do
good and results in development of
spiritual strength enabling us to
achieve eternal life, we too frequent-
ly show the immature judgment of
a child and like him choose the thing
of lesser value which satisfies our
immediate selfish desire— we choose
the ice cream cone.
The Lord recognized this ten-
dency in man when He said: "Ver-
ily, verily, I say unto you, ye are lit-
tle children, and ye have not as yet
understood how great blessings the
Father hath in his own hands and
prepared for you."
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if iuddling cJhrough
"lATOULD you have stoned the
prophets? A ridiculous ques-
tion to ask, perhaps, because the
Latter-day Saints believe in reve-
lation and look back upon the
holy men of God as prophets and
instruments in the Lord's hands to
guide His chosen people. Joseph
Smith and those who have succeed-
ed him in the Presidency of our
Church are instruments in the Lord's
hands to guide us, His chosen peo-
ple, of the latter days. What do you
think of their revelations?
Do you pay your tithing?
Do you keep the Word of Wis-
dom?
Do you prepare your children for
baptism?
Do you keep the Sabbath day
holy?
Do you have family prayers?
Do you love the Lord with all
your heart, mind, might and
strength?
Do you love your neighbor as your-
self?
There are many members of rec-
ord in our Church who are figura-
tively stoning the prophets, both old
and new, with indifference and dis-
obedience. Are you one of them?
There are too many of our people
just "muddling through". They have
a passive love for the Church and the
heritage the Pioneers have left for
us but are a bit lax when it comes to
paying tithing, living the Word of
Wisdom, observing the Sabbath day,
and generally are a bit indefinite
about placing themselves on the
Lord's side.
There is no doubt in the minds
and hearts of thousands of us but
that we have had and do have proph-
ets in these last days, and we know
them and respect them for what
they are.
Referring to these last days the
Lord revealed through Joseph Smith :
"And all things shall be in commo-
tion; and surely, men's hearts shall
fail them; for fear shall come upon
all people;" and further, "I have
sworn in my wrath and decreed wars
upon the face of the earth and the
wicked shall slay the wicked, and
fear shall come upon every man.
And the Saints also shall hardly es-
cape."
It is not only death we wish to
escape; it is a death of wickedness
which we all desire to avoid.
Paul said near the close of his
life: "For I am now ready to be of-
fered, and the time of my departure
is at hand. I have fought a good
fight, I have finished my course, I
have kept the faith: Henceforth
there is laid up for me a crown of
righteousness, which the Lord, the
righteous judge, shall give me at that
day: and not me alone but unto all
them also that love his appearing."
Paul had a full portion of the sus-
taining influence of the Gospel with-
in him, and death held no horrors.
If we wish to have peace in our
hearts and minds in these trouble-
some times, we must honor the
prophets and serve the Lord. If we
want to be ready to die as Paul
was ready, we must fight a good
fight, finish the course, and keep the
faith.
"Muddling through" will bring
nothing but disappointment, heart-
aches and regrets.
Attention Membership
Top-Notchers
By Rae B. Barker
DECEMBER 15 of this year
(1939) will find us midway
in our four-year Membership
• Drive. Some stakes and wards are
traveling in high gear. The rest
must earnestly try to ''step up" their
efforts if half the desired increase
is to be accomplished with the pass-
ing of half the time.
Interesting accounts of the best
things done in the interest of the
Membership Drive by stakes and
wards who have shown unusual ini-
tiative, originality and consistency is
of great benefit to others. To stimu-
late interest and activity in mem-
bership, the General Board is offer-
ing not awards but RECOGNI-
TION for superior achievement in
the following directions:
Relief Society grows because it
offers practical opportunity for in-
dividual growth to its members.
Ward units gather new strength
through the ability and talent of
new members. To make increase
in membership possible it is, in
some instances, necessary to over-
come definite obstacles or handicaps,
such as transportation, care of little
children, conflicts with other social
or study groups.
Besides the steady, consistent week
to week work of coordinators, com-
mittees and individual members,
there is a place in every campaign
for high-grade publicity or showman-
ship features.
npHESE four things will be the
basis of four articles to be pub-
lished in the Rdiei Society Maga-
zine in recognition of exceptional ac-
complishment.
The articles will be submitted
to the General Office through the
stakes and will deal with the follow-
ing:
1. Benefits derived by a new member
in Relief Society. To be submitted
by a new member. Title, "Treasures
I Have Found."
2. Outstanding contribution by a new
member to her organization. Not to
be written by a new member. Select
own title.
3. Most effective showmanship work by
a ward group.
4. Handicaps solved by an organization.
Regulations:
1 . Articles will be limited to 800 words.
2. Sifting of articles must be done in the
stakes. Not more than one article to be
sent from each stake on each subject.
3. Four articles will be selected from
those submitted to the General Office and
published either in the March or April
issues of the Magazine.
4. All entries must be in the Editor's
office by January 31, 1940.
5. Address entries to Membership Com-
mittee, 28 Bishop's Building, Salt Lake
City, Utah.
6. Articles will not be returned unless
accompanied by postage.
Appropriate recognition at Gen-
eral Relief Society Conference will
also be given coordinators attaining
the highest percentage of member-
ship increase.
The Shining Heart
By Sibyl Spande Bowen
CHAPTER NINE
ROBERT LATHROP hurried
into the Alaska house and
started a fire in the rock fire-
place before he took off his coat.
These Northwest summers! Chill a
man to the marrow! He had better
have taken the nervous breakdown
to the California deserts where he
could bake to his heart's content, as
his mother had advised. Then he
wouldn't be in this affair— and he'd
never have heard of Nell Carey, with
her red hair, her tantalizing eyes.
Rob laughed. He wondered what
had been in his mind before he saw
the girl, because she most certainly
filled it— every corner of it— now. It
must have been there, his love for
Nell, since the first day he saw her
coming through the corn, the sun
in her bright hair, indignation flash-
ing from her eyes like points of light
on deep Sound water. The brave
darling, shouldering the weight of
the whole moldering place, Miss
Brill's illness— and still finding the
will to paint in spite of it all.
Rob threw his coat upon one of
the numerous chests that flanked the
room, and in the so-doing tumbled
a smaller one that rested upon it to
the floor. Its patchwork cover slid
off; it lay sideways, its lid open, its
carved Chinese depth disgorging a
musty assortment.
Rob set the old chest upright and
began to put the trinkets back— some
little bone idols, bits of Indian bead-
work, an old doll with elaborate pink
silk skirts and staring black eyes,
carefully wrapped in old linen.
Women cherished old dolls. Just
why, a man couldn't say, but they
all kept them.
And then he found it! Carefully
wrapped in yellowed tissue paper
tied with a bit of ribbon, its heart
shape shining through the thin cov-
ering, was this bit of fate Miss Brill
had muttered about in her illness—
that which she had haltingly told
Rob about. But she'd forgotten
where she had hidden it. Of all
the Chinese chests Rob had rum-
maged through, nobody had thought
to disturb this little one, this baby
chest of all Tom Carey's collection.
Flinging the scrambled pile of
things on the floor into the chest,
Rob grabbed his coat and hat and
ran out.
A furious wind lashed the trees
and shrubs back and forth in the
darkened air. The deep boom of
breakers pounding the beach kept
time to the hoarse croak of foghorns
out on the almost invisible Sound.
Rob lowered his head and ran to
the gray house. About to knock, he
stopped short. Inside, he could hear
Miss Brill laughing uproariously, out
of all reason. He pushed the door
open and rushed in.
Miss Brill was in her wheel chair
near the glowing kitchen fire, wiping
the tears from her laughter-wet eyes
and clutching a newspaper in her
hands. She saw the open-mouthed
Rob and thrust the paper at him.
"It's Fred," she gasped, "and Twil-
Rob glanced at the county paper.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 695
On the back page was a news cut
of a lanky young lady in breeches
smiling up at the frowning, be-sweat-
ered Fred. The couple was standing,
significantly enough, outside the
courthouse. 'Toung Poultry Grow-
ers to Wed," the caption read.
''I never knew a girl could look so
silly in breeches/' Miss Brill chuck-
, led. 'Tm going to send that girl
a wedding present."
"But Nell loves the fellow," Rob
cried indignantly.
Miss Brill gave him a sidelong
look. ''Not at all. This may hurt
her pride a bit, but not her heart.
Fred was purely a matter of habit
with her, and I don't believe in such
marriages."
But Rob wasn't so sure, in spite
of the pounding of his heart. "Has
Nell seen this?"
"I don't know. Mary Kelly saw
Nell down at the post office, and she
had a paper. Nell ought to be here
now. I can't understand why she
isn't here. It's going to rain any
minute, and there she is out in her
good blue dress and no raincoat."
'Til drive down the road and pick
her up," Rob offered, and at the
door he remembered his errand.
'Tve found it," he called back,
"but we'll talk about it when I get
back."
"Found what?"
"Nell's heart." Rob had the door
open against the buffeting wind.
"Well," retorted Miss Brill cryp-
tically, "it's about time."
"Now what," the young man
thought, "did she mean by that?"
T ARGE drops of furious rain were
already flattening in spatters on
the highway. Rob drove slowly,
scanning the landscape to the turn
of the road, but no Nell was in sight.
On past the wooded Oakwood estate
he drove and by the grassy paddock
where the Maddox horses huddled
at the gate, wanting the shelter of
the stable. Someone was hurrying
along the distant beach path. It was
Nell, shielding her head against the
storm with a newspaper.
Rob parked his car beside the road,
grabbed the raincoat and ran
through the paddock. The rain was
lashing down in sheets now, and
Rob stumbled over the stile into the
beach path only to find it empty.
Nell had vanished. He was exhaust-
ed by his run against the storm, and
for a moment the emptiness of the
landscape angered him all out of
reason. He sagged against the stile
and looked about. Just as he had
decided to return to the car, he saw
her.
White against the slate gray of
sky and water, and nestled in a tan-
gle of blackberry thorn, was the
Maddox beach pavilion pillared and
open on all sides. Huddled on the
floor of the small place was Nell, her
face buried in a crumpled newspaper.
"And that's how she feels about
that bird Fred," Rob said bittedy.
His fingers found the package in his
pocket, and he smiled a tight smile
without mirth.
Rain had lashed into the open pa-
vilion with saturating thoroughness,
but the spot Nell had sought was dry.
Rob went to it and stood there mop-
ping water from his face with his
handkerchief. "Something tells me
this is all wrong," he said with forced
lightness, "I was supposed to keep
you from getting wet, and look at
me." He indicated Nell's compara-
696 " OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
tive state of dryness and his own
soaking condition.
Nell was not diverted. She sob-
bed quietly into the papers and de-
clined to be concerned. Rob shrug-
ged. Just how did a man go about
comforting the girl he loved for the
defection of the other man? He
found a bench, dragged it into the
dry center spot and sat down.
"See here/' he said, 'Tred's not
the only man in the world, and
eighteen's not too old to start look-
ing for another one."
''Nineteen,'' corrected Nell damp-
ly, lifting her head, 'yesterday."
"Why," cried Rob, "didn't some-
one tell me. I'm an expert at birth-
days. Anyway, there's no use mourn-
ing. We'll go into town tonight and
have dinner and a show. That'll
show young Fred you aren't heart-
broken."
Nell got up and dusted herself
off. "Just what are you talking
about?" she inquired coldly.
It was Rob's turn to be nettled.
"You're crying, aren't you? And
you've just read about Fred's wed-
ding plans? Girls make me sick.
Go out of your way to sympathize
with them and what do you get?"
"Find out first what to sympathize
about," Nell retorted. She dabbed
at her eyes with a soggy handker-
chief. "Then you might get some-
where. Yes, I'm crying, and yes, I
know Fred's going to marry Twilly;
but there's no connection. I'm glad
he is— so glad I could jump for joy.
This," she choked, thrusting the pa-
per at Rob, "is it."
The art contest! Across the top of
the page were the winning paintings.
Nell's was not there.
"Don't take it too hard," Rob
urged reasonably. "After all, out of
so many entries it would be sort of
a miracle if a girl like you, almost
without training, should win a
prize."
"But I did win," said Nell. "If
you'd read about it you'd see. I didn't
get first, or even second place, but
I am third."
Rob leaped up. "Why girl, that's
marvelous! I take it all back. You've
got more than talent. Third place
against that mob, and you cry about
it!"
"Yes," Nell told him, "they've de-
cided to send the third-place winner
down to that art colony on the beach
in California, and I won't leave
Aunt Brill. Oh, if I could only
take her along! As it is, I might
just as well have lost out. I'd feel
happier, really."
Rob stared at her. "That settles
it, Sally Delavan gets the works," he
said firmly, "then you can take Miss
Brill with you. I'll have no more
pity on our fine lady."
Nell looked at him warily. "You
haven't by any chance lost your
mind?" she asked. "Just what has
Miss Delavan to do with me?"
"Plenty," Rob told her. He took
the small package from his pocket
and tore away the wrappings. It lay
in his palm, the trinket, a heart en-
tirely covered with small diamonds.
"I know," cried Nell, "that's the
shining heart."
"You've seen it before? Then you
know what's in it."
"No," said Nell, "but Aunt Brill
talked about it. I thought she was
delirious."
Swiftly Rob opened the large
locket with his penknife and handed
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 697
it to Nell. "Those," he said, "are
your parents."
CILENTLY Nell studied the two
tinted miniatures. "He has red
hair, too," was all she could say.
The enormous fact of finding her
parents had dazed her.
"He was Frank Delavan, Sally's
brother," Rob told her.. "Your
mother was French— a little nurse
at the hospital where Frank was a
shattered war invalid. But she's
dead, too, of course. It was like
this—" and with Nell's hand in his
own, Rob told her the story.
"And of course," he said, touching
the jeweled locket, "this clinches my
evidence. A dozen orphans may be
running around with your baby
shirts on, but you can bet my life
they didn't have Frank's picture
tangled up in them. I remember the
fuss they made when this gadget
showed up missing. It's worth mon-
ey, you know, and Sally hunted for
the thing for weeks; so she can't
deny whose it is. And it's my guess
that after you've worked your wily
way with her she won't want to.
I think even Sally of the hard heart
will soon be eating out of your
hand."
Nell fingered the locket. "Every-
thing changed by the shining heart,"
she said. "It's sort of a magic talis-
man." To Rob's amazement, she
did not seem particularly happy over
it.
"By your shining heart," he mut-
tered, almost to himself.
"It means," whispered Nell, "that
with all that money we'll go away
where Aunt Brill can be in the sun
and get better— where I can study.
Rob," she cried suddenly, "what will
you do?"
He flushed, caught off his guard.
"I— why, I've just been choking over
a large piece of humble pie. Your
earnest little soul will be delighted
to know that I'm going back to Dad's
office. He's going to let me design
old ladies' kitchens and corner cup-
boards. Now aren't you satisfied?"
"No!" she said, and abruptly she
ran out of the pavilion.
And suddenly it dawned upon the
young man. He ran after her. "Nell!
Wait a minute, darling." He called
recklessly, "Nell, do you love me?"
She didn't turn, but hurried on
through the diminishing rain. "Of
course I do. Everybody but you
knows it. Even Fred had the sense
to see how it was" — indignantly.
And then he did catch her, breath-
lessly, into his wet tweed arms. "I've
been such a mole, such a blind bat,
darling; but I never dreamed—"
"Rob, Rob, you'll make me lose
the shining heart — "
"No, sweet, never again— not that
one, nor yours, nor mine."
Nell murmured, "We're being
selfish, Rob. Let's hurry and tell
Aunt Brill about it— and us—" And
they hurried up the path to the old
house where lights already chal-
lenged the lowering night.
The End
<^S5SS?>
^yijOJtiiiu FROM THE FIELD
By Julia A. F. Lund, Qeneral Secretary
A GLANCE at the map of the
world is sufficient to present
a picture of the vast distances
covered by ReHef Society. The tie
is a strong one, uniting women of
many races widely scattered through-
out different lands.
South African Mission
pROM Josephine H. Folland, Re-
lief Society president of the
South African Mission, comes a
very interesting report. The sisters
of this mission are, for the most part,
expert in knitting and handwork,
and, though many of them are at
business during the day, they find
time to make attractive articles for
use in the bazaars. While the out-
lined lessons present some problems,
they are using them to the best of
their ability. Sister Folland writes:
'1 cannot express fully how much I
appreciate the wealth of material in
the Relief Society Magazine. I had
to travel a distance of 1300 miles
and also to have a vital interest in
Relief Society work to gain an ap-
preciation of this wonderful organ-
ization and its splendid Magazine."
Brazilian Mission
'TTHE accompanying picture was
taken in Novo Hamburgo and
shows the Relief Society members
with their first quilt, all made by
hand. They are justly proud of this
quilt. There are six members of the
Church and several friends in this
Society, which was organized during
the year 1938. Sister Bowers tells
us that due to climatic conditions
quilts are seldom used, and this,
coupled with the high cost of ma-
Quilt Made by Novo Hamburgo Branch Relief Society Members,
Brazilian Mission
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 699
terials, makes the project almost pro-
hibitive. However, the sisters are
anxious to cooperate in all that is
suggested by the officers of the Or-
ganization. They are greatly inter-
ested in the work, and this natural-
ly is a factor in increasing the mem-
bership. There are some very capa-
ble missionaries in Brazil. They co-
operate with the Relief Society in
the program which it is endeavoring
to carry forward among a very de-
serving people. The lesson material
is translated into German for the
German-speaking sisters, and it is
the plan to have the lessons trans-
lated into Portuguese as soon as pos-
sible. The Magazine is a great aid
here in putting over the Relief So-
ciety message.
Relief Society Social, Norwegian Mission
Norwegian Mission
pROM the pen of one of the El-
ders in this mission, we have
a very delightful report of the work
as it is progressing in Norway. The
accompanying picture is of a party
held during the past year with Mis-
sion President A. Richard Peterson
in attendance. While the branches
in this mission are small, the sisters
are enthusiastic about Relief Soci-
ety. In the branch at Salesund, Nor-
way, there are fifteen members, with
a fully organized presidency. Very
fine meetings are held, which attract
many friends as well as members.
Brother Homer P. Johnson, the au-
thor of the letter, says, *'We two
Elders, Floyd A. Knight and I, en-
joy the Relief Society meetings very
much. I receive the Magazine from
the Relief Society in my home ward
and read each issue very thorough-
ly."
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Bazaar, Argentine Mission
Argentine Mission
\ LETTER from Corraine S. Wil-
liams, president of the Argentine
Mission, presents a picture of the
work of Relief Society in that mis-
sion. The lesson work as published
in the Relief Society Magazine is
quite generally used in the organiza-
tions in this country of the south.
Through cooperation with the Mex-
ican Mission, the lessons are trans-
lated into Spanish, which is the lan-
guage in use in this part of the world.
The lessons are very interesting to
the sisters. Quoting directly from Sis-
ter Williams: ''We thoroughly enjoy
the Relief Society Magazine. Our
Elders find that it is very helpful
in many ways. We regret tliat our
Saints are unable to enjoy it fully
because they are unable to under-
stand the language. However, we
translate much of its contents for
their use. The picture which accom-
panies this item is of the annual
bazaar held March 17. Nine branch
Relief Societies participated in this
happy event. The motto seen above
the display is 'La Caridad Nunca
Falla' ('Charity Never Faileth').
Seen in the picture are Sister Wil-
liams, the president. Elder Oren E.
Moffett, assistant mission supervis-
or, and a group of Relief Society
branch officers. Due to its size,
approximately half of the display is
all that could be included in the
picture. The total sales from the
bazaar amounted to 434.20 Pesos
Argentinos.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 701
Beirut Branch Relief Society, Palestine-Syrian Mission
Palestine-Syrian Mission
I7ROM this very historic and in-
teresting part of the world comes
a delightful account of the Rehef
Society work. Sister Leone O. Jac-
obs, mission president, writes: "The
work here is progressing. Of course,
the limited number of members
makes it impossible to carry on the
activities as at home, but under the
circumstances good work is being
done. There has been an increase
in attendance since the beginning
of the year. The sisters are bright
and eager to learn, and the lessons
are enjoyed by all." Visiting teach-
ers' work is carried on to a certain
extent. Regular minutes and also
complete records of other activities
are now being carefully kept, so
complete reports will now be avail-
able. As uniform a schedule of Re-
lief Society meetings will be follow-
ed as climatic conditions will per-
mit. TTie accompanying picture is
of one of the Relief Society meetings
here in Beirut. President Jacobs is
present at the meetings whenever
possible and translates and explains
much of the work for the sisters.
0
UR attention is called to another
group of Relief Society organi-
zations far removed from those we
have considered.
Swedish Mission
QISTER VIRGINIA B. LAR-
SON, president of the Relief So-
ciety of the Mission, writes: "It is
a pleasure for us to report that the
Relief Societies held outstanding
sessions in connection with the re-
cent district conferences. The Sing-
ing Mothers of the Mission were a
delightful feature of the program. In
connection with these meetings
there were well organized handwork
exhibitions, which showed the Swed-
ish women's talent for creating col-
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orful and artistic things. The sisters
of the Mission greatly enjoy the
Relief Society organization and wish
to extend their greetings to the
Presidency in Salt Lake City."
Danish Mission
pROM Sister Gertrude R. Garff,
we have a pleasant message from
the Danish Mission. The sisters are
interested in the lesson work and
follow it through very much as it is
printed in the Rdiei Society Maga-
zine. Sister Garff says, "We use the
lessons as they come from the office
with a few minor changes." This is
a well organized mission, and the
sisters are enthusiastic about the Re-
lief Society work.
ibiia Jeremy uiichards
*HE passing of Sister Ella Jeremy the Society but rendered unusual ser-
Richards recalls the splendid ser- vice to the Lamanite sisters of the
vice rendered by her as president of
the Malad Stake Relief Society. Her
accomplishments were many. Not
only was she enthusiastic in carrying
into effect the general program of
Washakie Ward.
The General Board extend sym-
pathy to the family of Sister Rich-
ards.
Q?
MY NEED
This is the courage I need today-
Courage to walk the Christly way,
To know His word is as true for me
As it was for them at Galilee;
To know that I, too, must give my all,
That I must follow the higher call,
Believing what I cannot see,
Proving that truth can make me free.
To love and live the Christly way
Takes courage— and this I need today!
—Claire S. Boyer.
MOHMON HANDICHAFT
cKighlights
By Ndlie O. Parker
"In the elder days of art
Builders wrought with greatest care
Each minute and unseen part.
For the gods see everywhere."
DISCRIMINATING people in
our modern day are proud to
own articles that are very care-
fully and skillfully made, even to
the minutest detail. There is a con-
stant pleasure derived from viewing
fine workmanship and in using
things that are exquisitely fashioned
by expert, clever fingers.
One of the nicest compliments to
pay a friend is to present him wdth
a beautiful hand-made gift from
Mormon Handicraft. The blue and
white beehive sticker is the label
of fine, unexcelled craftsmanship.
Such a gift is evidence of your ap-
praisal of the friend's high apprecia-
tion of lovely, distinctive things.
Dainty Lamps
An unusual little alabaster lamp
from the Shop— a lighthouse on a
rocky coast— received marked atten-
tion and admiration in the gift room
at a recent wedding reception. Be-
sides this enchanting little light-
house there is a beehive model which
would glow very appropriately on a
man's desk. There are other types
of lamps available also.
Wool Mittens and Ski Sets
Prepare for the cold weather now
by getting hand-knit mittens, scarfs
and socks. There is a nice variety
to choose from for street, sport, or
party wear. These ski sets are very
desirable in our mountainous coun-
try where skiing is a favorite sport.
The dainty llama-down mittens for
formal evening wear are 'Veritable
poems" in their exquisite beauty of
workmanship and color harmony.
These and some of the sport models
for both adults and children have
attractive designs embroidered on
them. Nothing could be nicer for
birthday or Christmas gifts. Early
shopping assures getting one's choice
without delay or disappointment.
New Sweaters
Some new sweaters have come to
the Shop. They are smart and up
to the minute according to Vogue's
dictum.
Party Favors
A number of pretty and original
motives for party favors, nut cups
and place cards are now available.
Come and see them when planning
your next luncheon.
IC DEPARTMENT
Lises of the ioaton
Wade N. Stephens of the Tabernacle Organ Staff
npHE purpose of the baton is to
increase the visible length of the
right arm. It should be held easily
with any grip that will permit the
baton to continue in a straight line
with the forearm.
The first function of the baton
is to indicate the rhythm by using
a definite beat-pattern, which shows
where the accent occurs as well as
the speed of the beat. The down-
beat, which is always the strongest
beat, indicates the strongest meas-
ure-accent—the first beat of the
measure.
The established beat-patterns are
as follows:
Duple rhythm (3/8, 2/4, 2/2, ^, fast
6/8) down, up, with a hook or bounce
at the bottom.
Triple rhythm (3/8, 3/4, 3/2, fast 9/8)
down, right, up, forming a triangle, with
a bounce at the end of each beat.
Quadruple rhythm (4/8, 4/4, 4/2, fast
12/8) down, left, right, up diagonally
to the beginning of the down-beat, with
bounces to make beats definite.
Slow 9/8 is beaten as triple time, with
each beat divided into three, thus:
DOWN, down, down, RIGHT, right,
right, UP, up, up. The first beat of
each group is large, the others small.
Slow 12/8 is beaten as quadruple time,
with the beats each divided into three
as in 9/8.
The baton is also used to give the
cue beat. This is a small beat given
before the first note to prepare the
singers to start together. It is small-
er than an ordinary beat but takes
the same direction as the beat before
the singing begins and the same
length of time as a beat in the tempo
of the piece. A small down beat
will start the singing on the second
beat; a small second beat will start
the piece on the third beat, and so
on.
At the end of a piece or section
of the piece, the singers must all
be stopped together. This is ac-
complished by the cut-off, a sharp
downward motion of the baton. At
the end of the piece the downward
motion continues until the baton
disappears from sight at the con-
ductor's side; if the piece is not fin-
ished, the baton is moved down-
ward, then raised quickly to be ready
to go on. When used this way in
the course of a composition, the cut-
off is also the cue beat for the next
note.
The fermata or hold is indicated
by a movement of the baton direct-
ly toward the singers, holding it par-
allel to the front of the body with
the point elevated a little. It is
followed by the cut-off or by the
cut-off and cue-beat combined. This
motion may also be used on the last
note of the piece instead of beating
time for the duration of the last
note.
In addition to these purely me-
chanical functions, the baton is used
to indicate tempo and to change
the loudness. The tempo is indi-
cated by the speed of the beat and
(Continued on page 727)
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJheologyi ana cJestimony
Lesson 4
Saul the Pharisee and Persecutor
Helpful References
. F. W. Farrar, The Life and Work
of St Paul chs. II, III, IV, VIII, IX.
A. T. Robertson, Epochs in the
Life of Paul, pp. 1-38.
B. W. Robinson, The Life of Paul,
(1918), pp. 25-42.
J. Paterson Smyth, The Story of
St. Paul's Life and LetteiSy pp. 1-27.
F. A. Spencer, Beyond Damascus^
chs. Mil, VII, IX, X.
CAUL'S FAMILY AND ANCES-
TRY.—Saul was a prince among
men. He will be remembered as
long as the earth lasts. For that
reason it is fitting to inquire about
his family and genealogy.
He was a Jew who was only too
glad to boast descent from Abraham
(2 Cor. 11:22). In his letter to
the Philippians (3:5) he emphasizes
the fact that he was ''of the race of
Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a
Hebrew of Hebrews". In his early
zeal there can be little doubt that
he was much concerned about fam-
ily trees. His later reference to ''end-
less genealogies" (1 Tim. 1:4) is
probably an allusion to some prac-
tices not unknown in his own family.
Pride of race and family was com-
mon among the Jews of his class.
It is extremely unfortunate that
we know so little about Saul's fam-
ily. We do not even know the
names of his father and mother.
However, we are told that he was
not only a Pharisee himself, but the
son of a Pharisee (Acts 23:6). His
father was, furthermore, a Roman
citizen. This fact is an important
one, for Saul was therefore a Roman
by birth (Acts 22:28). The fact
that he was a Roman aided him im-
mensely in carrying the Gospel to
various parts of the Roman Empire.
Rome made the world respect her
citizens.
Saul was born in Tarsus, one of
the great Greek cities in the Roman
Empire. Sir W. A. Ramsay has
definitely shown that it was possible
for Jews to become Roman citizens
in a city like Tarsus by being enroll-
ed in "a Tribe set apart for them,
in which they could control the re-
ligious rites and identify them with
the service of the synagogue". It
was not necessary, therefore, that
such Roman Jews take part in idol-
atrous sacrifices to pagan gods and
other hated ceremonies inimical to
their religious interests.
It is quite probable that Saul's
father was an influential man in his
community and an individual of
considerable means. He probably
financed his son's schooling in Jeru-
salem. Every Jewish boy learned a
trade, and Saul was probably taught
to be a tent-maker by his father.
Even in his later life as an apostle,
Saul made good use of his trade
so that he should not be too de-
pendent upon anyone for his living.
In relation to Saul's mother, the
late Dr. A. T. Robertson wrote:
"The mother ... must have been a
woman of force to have reared such
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a son. We catch a faint glimpse of ture. Therein lay salvation. It was
her also when Paul says: 1 thank thought just as bad to violate a min-
God, whom I serve from my fore- or religious statute as to commit a
fathers' (2 Tim. 1:3). She is in that grave sin, because the whole Law
pious line. That is the noblest heri- was revealed by God. The Pharisees
tage of all. In the mention of Tim- found it necessary to have a com-
othy's mother, Eunice, and grand- plete and careful explanation of ev-
mother, Lois ( 1 : 5 ) , it is not difficult ery minor requirement of the Law
to catch the reflection of Saul's own in order to avoid sins of ignorance,
fireside. When Paul reminds Tim- Every single injunction of the 613
othy of whom he had learned the parts of the Mosaic code in addition
Holy Scriptures even from a babe to the oral prescriptions of the rab-
(3:i4f), he was echoing his own ex- bis had to be observed. There were
perience in the home in Tarsus. This over 1500 listed things which a Phar-
Jewish matron must not be over- isee might not do on the Sabbath
looked when we study the influences day. The freedom of our day makes
that moulded Saul. She made the it hard for us to believe that the
home where he grew and whose ancient Pharisees could be so strict,
stamp he always bore." A splendid description of the life of
We do not know how many sis- a Pharisee is contained in the second
ters Saul had, but we do know he chapter of Professor F. A. Spencer's
had one. When he was in dire recent book. Beyond Damascus,
straits in the city of Jerusalem as an Notwithstanding the strict nature
apostle, and in danger of being killed, of Saul's early training, we cannot
we are told that "Paul's sister's son, help but believe that the city of
hearing of their (the enemy) lying Tarsus with its Greek background
in wait, he went and entered into left also a deep mark upon him.
the castle, and told Paul". (Acts 23: The Greeks had a marvelous culture.
16) As Professor Robertson reminds Their literature, art, architecture,
us, a later story calls Saul's sister, games, philosophy and science have
Rachel. If there were other sisters, left a wonderful impress upon our
and even brothers, history has left Western civilization and cannot
us no record. have failed to attract the intelligent
CAUL AS STUDENT AND and receptive young Saul. Note his
^ PHARISEE.-As a boy Saul comment in 1 Cor 9:24-27: ''Know
was probably brought up in the Y^ ^^^ *at they which run m a race
strict fashion of the Pharisees. His ^^^n all, but one receiveth the prize?
father would be well schooled in ^o run, that ye may obtain. And
the Law. Israel's great advantage every man that striveth for the mas-
over the rest of the world was tery is temperate in all things. Now
thought to consist of her possession they do it to obtain a corruptible
of the Scriptures and the rabbinical crown; but we an incorruptible. I
commentaries upon them. Accord- therefore so run, not as uncertainly;
ing to strict Pharisaical views it was so fight I, not as one that beateth
necessary to know in detail the reve- the air: But I keep under my body,
lation of God as contained in Scrip- and bring it into subjection. ..."
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Between the ages of six and twelve one of the famous characters in the
Saul went to school (the House of early church, defends himself before
the Book) and thoroughly learned the Jewish Sanhedrin for heresy and
all matters pertaining to the Scrip- treason. His biting words cut the
tures normally required of a young Jewish leaders to the quick, and
Pharisee. He then learned a trade without the formalities required by
before entering the advanced rab- law they thrust him without the
binical schools at the age of fifteen city and stoned him to death. The
years. At a later time he could say historian then introduces the subject
that he was ''brought up" at Jeru- of this sketch as follows: ''And the
salem (Acts 22:3). This would im- witnesses laid down their garments
ply that he was in Jerusalem at an at the feet of a young man named
early age. Saul tells us that he was Saul." His (Luke's) psychology
"taught at the feet of Gamaliel ac- could scarcely be improved, for the
cording to the perfect manner of the young Pharisee is soon to be pre-
law of the fathers, and was zealous sented as one of the greatest forces
toward God". (Acts 22:3) Gamaliel in the Christian Church. The next
was a famous teacher who followed chapter of Acts recounts other deeds
the more liberal and lenient pre- of Saul. "And Saul was well pleased
cepts of the school of Hillel rather with his (Stephen's) death. . . But
than the stern orthodox tradition of Saul made havoc of the church, en-
Shammai. He allowed his students tering into every house, and haling
to study Greek literature in addition men and women committed them
to the strictly Jewish subjects. Ap- to prison." (Acts 8:1, 3) The
parently he had a more tolerant atti- very force with which the young
tude toward the Gentiles than most Pharisee sought to blot out the he-
other teachers of his time. The in- retical Christian movement perhaps
cident mentioned in Acts 5:34-39 portrays the sincerity by which he
warms us in his favor. Saul un- was actuated. In after years, Saul
doubtedly owed much of his later bitterly reproached himself for the
breadth of view and generosity of attacks he made on the Church. "I
spirit to this Jewish teacher. Judg- persecuted this way unto the death,
ing from the events mentioned in binding and delivering into prisons
the Acts, Saul learned his lessons both men and women." (Acts 22:4)
well, for he was quickly recognized Again: "And when they were put to
as a brilliant and zealous advocate death I gave my voice against them."
of Pharisaic principles. Nevertheless, (Acts 26:10) At another time he
the strict discipline he underwent writes: "For I am the least of the
in the Jewish schools was later to apostles, that am not meet to be
prove of inestimable value in his called an apostle because I perse-
presentation of Gospel principles to cuted the church of God." (1 Cor.
Hebrews and Greeks alike. 15 -9) All these are serious condem-
nations and reveal by their vigor and
CAUL, THE JEWISH RABBI force his recognition of the great
^ AND PERSECUTOR. — The damage done by him as a persecut-
seventh chapter of Acts is remark- ing Rabbi. (See also Gal. 1:13; 1
able for its dramatic power. Stephen, Tim. 1:13)
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Questions and Pioblems ' rar, The Liie and Work of St. Paul,
(Deal only with those that time and chs. II, III.)
circumstances permit.) 3. Assign someone to describe the
TT 11 . r .1 beHefs and practices of the ancient
1 How wou d you account for the ph^risees. (Spencer, Beyond Damas-
fact that so httle is known of Saul s ^^^^ ^^ ^\, ^P^^^^^^ /^^ ^.^^ ^^^
^^^^^y- Work of St Paul, ch. IV.)
2. Have a member of the class 4. How would you explain the
report on the city of Tarsus as it fact that Saul consented to the death
existed in Saul's day. (See Spencer, of innocent people, yet was eventu-
Beyond Damascus, chs. I, III; Far- ally made an apostie?
visiting cJeacner LUepartment
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 4
Gifts
"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the
Father of lights, with whom there is no variableness, neither shadow of turning."
— ^James 1:17.
/^IFTS may be classified as spir- "And he that had received five
itual, intellectual or material, talents came and brought other five
and "every man hath his proper gift talents, saying, Lord, thou deliv-
from God" to cherish and enlarge eredst unto me five talents: behold,
upon. The apostle Peter says, "as I have gained beside them five tal-
every man hath received the gift so ents more,
minister." "His Lord said unto him, Well
From the Doctrine and Cove- done, thou good and faithful ser-
nants, 46:11, we learn: "For all have vant; thou hast been faithful over
not every gift given unto them; for a few things, I will make thee ruler
there are many gifts, and to every over many things: enter thou into
man is given a gift by the Spirit of the joy of the Lord. ..."
God." To one is given the word of Then he which had received the
wisdom, to another faith, to an- one talent was afraid and hid it in
other the gift of healing, to others the earth and his Lord said, "Take
power to cultivate the virtues that therefore the talent from him, and
make Christian character. give it unto him which hath ten tal-
Whatever one's gift, it becomes ents. For unto every one that hath
his responsibility to develop it fully shall be given, and he shall have
and completely for the work of the abundance; but from him that hath
Master and the advancement of self, not shall be taken away even that
The Savior taught this in the parable which he hath."
of The Talents (Matt. 25:14-30). The Prophet Joseph Smith said.
RELIEF SOCeY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 709
"Everything that God gives us is artist, writer, reader, homemaker,
lawful and right; and it is proper teacher, leader or follower our am-
that we should enjoy His gifts and bition should not be to excel one
blessings whenever and wherever He another, but rather to develop our
is disposed to bestow. . . Blessings gift to the utmost, that we may bet-
offered, but rejected, are no longer ter serve God and our fellowmen;
blessings, but become like the talent then, will the gift be added upon,
hid in the earth by the slothful ser- Discussion
vant; the proffered good returns to ^ List some spiritual gifts; intel-
the giver; the blessmg is bestowed lectual- material
on those who will receive and oc- ^ j^ow may each of these be im-
cupy; for unto him that hath shall proved upon?
be given, and he shall have abun- ^j^^^ ^J^^^^l^ 1^^ ^^^ objective
dantly, but unto him that hath not -^ developing our gifts?
or will not receive, shall be taken ^ Analyze yourself. What do
away that which he hath, or might you consider your special gift? How
have had." niay it be used for the advancement
Whether we are gifted as poet, of the work of the Master?
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THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 4
Les Miserables
N a course on the novel the dom- officer in the service of the Army
inant literary figures of nine- of the Republic, accompanied Jos-
teenth-century France cannot be eph Bonaparte, brother of Napole-
omitted. By almost universal con- on, first to Naples, then to Madrid;
sent Victor Hugo is recognized as the family had rather a wandering
one of the greatest French poets, existence.
His splendid collection of lyrics, his Victor's first book of poems ap-
masterpieces in drama, his stupend- peared in 1822, when he was just
ous novels place him among the twenty years old, and he was early
most renowned writers of all ages recognized as the foremost leader
and races. It was said of him that in that literary and artistic revolu-
hc wrote as if he had "dipped his tion which has been called Roman-
pen in incandescent lava". Readers ticism. Macy calls him ''The prince
are always struck by the passionate of poets who held his throne for
fervor, the dazzling color, the splen- fifty years." He also says, "The
did imagery of his writing. He was variety and abundance of his work is
born in Besancon, an old town and past belief, and the disposition of
fortress in the east of France, in later criticism to reduce his stature is
1802. His father, who had been an in part a protest against his very
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bulk." Phelps says 'The great Ro- Dame de Paris, Toilers of the Sea,
mantics are supermen." Certainly Ninety Three, The Man Who
this is true of Hugo— poet, dramatist, Laughs, and Les Miserahles, which
novelist— preeminent in all three was published April 3, 1862. Before
fields of literature. His son, Francois- publication Les Miserahles had been
Victor, made a complete translation translated into nine languages, and
of Shakespeare's works into French, its simultaneous appearance at
a remarkable achievement, and the Paris, London, Brussels, New York,
father wrote an introduction which Madrid, Berlin, Saint Petersburg
fills a whole volume. It sets forth and Turin was a literary event. It
Hugo's view of the nature of the has since been translated into twelve
great English poet's genius in so other languages. Les Miserahles is
brilliant a manner that it shows how a universal book, for it has an appeal
high he might have risen as a literary to readers of "every age and every
critic. Politics occupied a great deal taste". It appeared when the au-
of Victor Hugo's time and thought, thor was sixty years of age. Accord-
He lived practically through the ing to Phelps, not any of the very
nineteenth century, which has been great novels have been written when
called the age of revolution— indus- their authors were young. There
trial and social as well as political— must be a seasoned judgment, a per-
and much of his finest writing was fected experience for the best crea-
occasioned by public events as he tions, impossible to youth. So in Les
experienced them, history in the Miserahles we have Hugo with his
making. His writings were colored enormous knowledge of life and his-
by his early life in Spain. He found tory and his magnificent power in
himself in difficulties many times full maturity, producing 'a social
by his fearless expression, and spent record" of irresistible fascination,
years in exile from France. His life The immediate success of the book
was as active, as sad, as romantic and was astounding, and it has continued
as thrilling as the great literary rec- to hold its place in the front ranks
ords he has created. of the world's best fiction.
His biographer, Adolphe Cohn, ^he work is divided into five main
says: Posterity, in placing Victor ^ooks, but the central figure in the
Hugo among the greatest writers of ^^^^^ j^ t^^^ Valjean, a convict who
all ages, will smgle out Hernani as ^^^^^ ^ ^g^I, g^^ ^3^^ a ^oul
his dramatic masterpiece, Les Chati- transfigured and redeemed through
ments, his magnificent collection of suffering. It is a complicated his-
lyrics as far above all the rest, and j^ ^jji^h involves many charac-
Les Miserables as his best novel." ^^,5, chiefly types of the poor, the
It IS with the novel that our par- unfortunate and the vicious of Paris;
ticular interest lies m this course. j,ence, the name-Miserable-in the
TJUGO'S activity in this field be- full etymological sense of the word,
gan early. When only twenty- France had lived through centuries
three he published Hans of IseJand, of misrule and oppression under
but it was merely a forerunner of the Bourbons, which reached a dra-
his great works of later life— Notre matic climax in the Revolution.
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Napoleon had played his marvelous ance and sympathy. Hugo's con-
role in French history; there had ception of the real Christian is por-
been the re-establishment of the trayed in the man, who was also a
monarchy and its overthrow, the Re- very fine scholar. ''He could say
public again created. It was a time the grandest things in the most
of tlie most intense political unrest common language; and as he spoke
and unstable economic conditions all dialects, his words entered the
with the people, as always, the most souls of all. Moreover, his manners
acute sufferers. There were social with the rich were the same as with
problems which might well occupy the poor. He condemned nothing
the mind of a great writer. Les hastily, or without taking account
Miserables presents them with un- of circumstances. He would say,
forgettable vividness. Are these peo- 'Let us see the way in which the
pie, whom society cannot but de- fault came to pass'. . . He was in-
clare law-breakers, really guilty? Are dulgent towards women and towards
they responsible for their deeds, or the poor upon whom the weight
does the responsibility belong else- of society falls most heavily. . . .
where? Is the real offender the man Teach the ignorant as much as you
who performs the deed, or the man can. Society is culpable in not pro-
who places him in a position where viding instruction for all, and it must
he can hardly escape sinning against answer for the night which it pro-
social and moral order? One feels duces. If the soul is left in dark-
that Victor Hugo, with his great ness, sins will be committed. The
tenderness, is always asking: "Above guilty one is not he who commits the
all, are not these people to be pit- sin, but he who causes the darkness,
ied?" As we see he had a strange and pe-
ES MISERABLES is a most com- ^uliar way of judging things. I sus-
prehensive picture of Paris, and P^^^' ^^^ '^° ^'^'l"''^*^ '* ^'°'^ *^
expresses the author's conception of P
his own time and his suggestions This sets the stage for Hugo's love
for the future. It is undoubtedly of contrast— never more dramatical-
a novel with a purpose, as are the ly employed than in the introduc-
great humanitarian works of Charles ^io" of the great character who is
Dickens, but the author's poetic tl^e central theme of the novel. It
genius and his feeling for the ideal is also a terrible indictment against
and the picturesque find ample op- society for its cruelty to the unfor-
portunity for expression along with tunate.
the reformer's practical sense and In the beginning Jean Valjean
science. was a simple hard-working peasant
The opening chapters present one who sought in vain for employment,
of the most saintly characters ever and in desperation one night he
portrayed in fiction. The Bishop stole a loaf of bread for his sister's
of D shapes his life in literal starving children. He was arrested
obedience to the teachings of the and condemned to the galleys for
Savior. He is the living embodi- five years, a punishment lengthened
ment of mercy and kindness, toler- to nineteen years by his attempts to
L
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escape. Cruelty and privation made
him inert and brutish. "J^^^ ^^^'
jean entered the galleys sobbing and
shuddering: he went out hardened;
he entered in despair: he went out
sullen." The author shows himself
to be a master psychologist in his
analysis of the workings of this man's
mind. After savage treatment en-
dured nineteen years for breaking
a pane of glass and stealing a loaf
of bread, Jean Valjean was, as his
yellow passport indicated, ''a very
dangerous man" when he was at last
set at liberty. It is impossible to
conceive of a more tragic demon-
stration of ''man's inhumanity to
man" than the experiences of the
released convict as he begs for food
and shelter, and though he offers to
pay for it he cannot find accommo-
dation in a stable or even in the
jail. He learned that 'liberation is
not deliverance. A convict may
leave the galleys behind but not his
condemnation."
Hungry and utterly exhausted,
despairing of finding a place to stay,
he lay down on a stone bench on
a public street when 'a good wom-
an, coming out of the church," asked
him why he was there. He told
her he had knocked at every door,
and they had all been closed to him.
" 'You have knocked at every door?'
she asked. 'Yes.' 'Have you knock-
ed at that one there?' 'No.' 'Knock
there.' She pointed to the Bishop's
little low house across the Square."
That door opened to receive him.
These two men are thus placed be-
fore the reader with all the dramatic
skill of a supreme artist— the Bish-
op of D , in very deed a saint,
Jean Valjean, the convict. "Any-
thing less than the first would have
failed to soften the second."
With wonderful accuracy of de-
tail, the events of that memorable
night in the home of the Bishop
are related. The powers of good
and evil in their eternal conflict
stand revealed in the flesh. This
conflict, presented by a master nov-
elist, shows with unflinching touch
on the one hand the captivity of
the soul and the inevitable misery
that follows the breaking of moral
law; on the other, the matchless
unconquerable power that lies in the
truly good.
In return for the first hospitality
and kindness he had ever known,
Jean Valjean steals the sflver plates
and escapes in the night. When
the police bring him back the next
day, the Bishop saves him by de-
claring that the silver had been a
free gift. " 'Ah, there you are!' said
he, looking towards Jean Valjean, T
am glad to see you. But I gave you
the candlesticks also, which are sil-
ver like the rest, and would bring
two hundred francs. Why did you
not take them along with the plates?'
. . . He went to the mantle-piece,
took the two candlesticks and
brought them to Jean Valjean.
'Now', said the Bishop, 'go in peace.
... By the way, my friend, when
you come again you need not come
through the garden. You can always
come in and go out by the front
door. It is closed only with a latch
day or night. . . Forget not, never
forget that you have promised me to
use this silver to become an honest
man.' " Jean Valjean, who had no
recollection of this promise, stood
confounded. The Bishop had laid
much stress upon these words as he
uttered them. He continued, sol-
emnly: " 'Jean Valjean, my brother:
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you belong no longer to evil, but so many new and unknown influ-
to good. It is your soul that I am ences. When the intellect awoke
buying for you. I withdraw it from and saw this act of the brute, Jean
dark thoughts and from the spirit Valjean recoiled in anguish and ut-
of perdition, and I give it to God tered a cry of horror!" He fell on
Almighty.' " his knees and burst into tears— it
The chapter entitled "Petit Ger- was the first time he had wept for
vais" is one of the most important nineteen years,
in the story. It describes Jean Val-
jean's hasty exit from the city, his Questions and Suggestions
encounter with the little boy. Petit ^ why was Victor Hugo so well
Gervais, and his theft of the forty qualified to write a great novel? To
sous piece from the child. This ^^^t literary school did he belong?
chapter is one of those which places 2. Do you agree with William
Les Miseiahles among the finest Lyon Phelps as to the age of those
type of the psychological novel as ^^q i^^^e produced the greatest nov-
well as of the romantic realistic. The ^i^? cite examples of other authors,
theft itself had a very important ^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^ conditions in
reaction upon Jean Valiean s later t, ^ ■, - tt ^^^ ir^*.- i.i,«4.
life Whv had he stolen the ch\]c\\ ^'^"^^ "^"""^ ^"^^ ^ lifetime that
lite. Why had he stolen the child s 0^^^^^ the setting for great liter-
money? He could not have explain- ^ i p o d
ed it. "Was it the final effect, the ^^ ^,^^, . , . .,
final effort of the evil thoughts he . 4- Wh^,V' the significance of the
had brought from the galleys? . . . ^'^^ ^^^ Miserables?
It was not the man who had stolen, 5- ^^^e someone describe the
it was the beast which from habit household and home life of the
and instinct had stupidly set its foot Bishop of D .
upon that money, while the intel- 6. Briefly discuss Jean Valjean as
lect was struggling in the midst of he first appears.
Social Service
Lesson 4
Psychology of Resisting Sales Pressure
I. WHAT DOES A PURCHASE ters in this lesson, may better fortify
CONSIST OF PSYCHOLOGIC- himself against sales pressure by un-
ALLY? While there can be no derstanding something of the meth-
hard and fast definition of the steps ods of selling,
in a purchase, we find that a formula E. K. Strong, of Stanford Gradu-
which shows roughly the stages ate School of Business, has given
through which a purchase progresses us the following formula of a pur-
is helpful in understanding the men- chase: (1) A want must be felt by
tal processes involved in buying. The the buyer; ( 2 ) a commodity which
purchaser, in whom our interest cen- is considered adequate to satisfy the
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want is thought of; ( 3 ) a trade name used in selling specialties when the
of some particular commodity or salesman is not aiming to build up
store is then thought of; (4) a pur- a repeat business, include resorting
chase is made, after which ( 5 ) satis- to subterfuges and tricks to get
iaction or dissatisiaction is experi- access to the prospective buyer, rush-
enced. If the purchase is carried ing of decisions, and forcing of pur-
through and satisfaction is found, chases by the sheer force of talk
the process is likely to be repeated and personality. The salesman is
the next time a similar want is felt, usually working under a strain; he
With further repetition a habit of depends more upon talk and im-
buying then becomes established. pulses aroused to bring orders than
A salesman aims to point out to lie does upon any attempt to ascer-
us, or to arouse within us, wants of tain and satisfy the wants of the par-
which we might not have been fully ticular buyer." (Tosdale, H. R.,
aware before. He also suggests his Principles of Personal Selling, p. 242,
commodity as the best way to satisfy New York: McGraw-Hill Book Co.,
the want. The aim of far-sighted 1925. Quoted by Strong, E. K.,
salesmen is to make a customer, not Psychological Aspects oi Business, p.
merely to make a sale. He, there- 347-)
fore, arouses in us pleasant feelings jj SOME DEVICES USED TO
m connection with his commodity INFLUENCE OUR DISCRIM
and Its trade name in order to make INATION IN BUYING. Modern
us more likely to buy the same thing competition in business has perfect-
again when we again feel the same g^j j^^ny competing articles up to
want. To do this he often tactfully ^ear the same standard of qualitv.
flatters us on our good judgment Toothpastes, for example, contain in
and reminds us of the satisfaction ^^^^ ^ases essentially the same sort
of using his article. A store will do ^f compounds. Tliey may differ in
the same through surrounding the taste, smell, color, and texture; but
article with pleasant impressions these differences are greater than the
and through courteous treatment differences in their cleansing power,
during and following the purchase. We are, therefore, often led to buy
If so-called "high pressure" sales one or the other because of some
tactics are used on customers, a sale rather superficial characteristic,
may be made but not a customer. Salesmanship and advertising lead
because too often the buyers are us to think of differences in products
not satisfied and because they ex- whether the differences are impor-
perience too much unpleasantness tant or not.
to repeat the transaction. Tosdale There are certain tricks by which
defines ''high pressure" salesmanship articles are made to appear larger or
as follows: "The meaning of the better, which we should fully realize
term is not particularly clear, but if we are to use good judgment in
usually it is taken to mean that the buying. For example, articles pack-
salesman dominates the buyer and ed in bright colors look larger than
compels him 'willy-nilly' to sign on those in subdued colors. Experi-
the dotted line. Such tactics, often ments have also shown that cans
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with a certain proportion between
their width and height look larger
than others with different propor-
tions. For articles packed in glass
containers the proportion most fa-
vorable to size illusion is used; and
in addition, the glass is made to
magnify the appearance of the con-
tents, i. e. green and stuffed olives.
A more direct way to give an er-
roneous impression of size is to pack
a small quantity in a large container,
as is done with many candy bars in
order to attract the 'large eyes" of
hungry boys and girls.
The color, shape, and "feel" of
an article has considerable influence
over our ability to discriminate its
value. The successful merchant has
his customers feel the goods in or-
der to make a deeper impression.
The more senses through which we
are impressed with an article, the
stronger is the impression made.
III. HOW A PLEASANT FEELr
ING TONE IS CREATED. In
the section in which we discussed
the steps in a purchase, we saw that
the arousal of pleasant feelings is
essential, not only to bring about
the sale in the first place, but in or-
der k) lead us to come back again
when we feel another need. Many
clever devices are used for creating
pleasant feeling tone.
A pleasing package goes a long
way toward selling an article. This
is particularly true with most cos-
metics. Daintily, well proportioned,
delightfully colored bottles and box-
es create a pleasant feeling toward
the article they contain, and our
ability to discriminate actual quality
is influenced by this impression.
These devices for creating pleasant
feeling tone are especially important
in influencing our buying when we
have no established habits of asking
for trade-named articles. The ar-
rangement on shelves so as to en-
hance the attractiveness of the pack-
ages is also important.
The radio in recent years has done
much toward arousing pleasant feel-
ings by enjoyable music, humor, and
other entertaining features. These
feelings are carefully associated in
our minds with the trade name of
the articles so that when we enter
a store and are in doubt about what
to buy, this trade name is likely to
be pleasantly aroused. The very
sound of the trade name itself is
carefully planned to create pleasant
feelings, and pleasant names are per-
haps more easily remembered.
PJeasant clerks or salesmen play
a most important part in creating
the right feeling tone toward a store
or product. Repeat orders often re-
sult simply from a pleasant remem-
brance of the clerk, and when only
small differences in the actual qual-
ity of similar articles exists, the prev-
ious impression made by the sales-
man becomes the deciding factor
between making only one sale or
making a customer.
IV. A FEW DEVICES USED
BY SALESMEN IN INFLUENC-
ING CUSTOMERS. In making a
sale, a salesman must first of all
make contact with you. In stores,
this is simple because you come to
the counter with a want in mind;
but salesmen who must rustle their
own prospects have the task of get-
ting to talk to you. This is difficult
because when they come you are
usually busy with something else
and are annoyed at their coming.
To start with, then, you have un-
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pleasant feelings toward them. They may carry over when she is finally
will use every device to make you urged to buy.
feel happy that they came, so that The price of quality goods is also
you will give them a hearing. If avoided until the listener seems to
you are not interested in what they be convinced of the advantages of
have, you do well not to permit the new products and until the
them to get started on their argu- wants of the buyer seem sufficiently
ment at all. aroused. The obstacle that the price
In the sales manual of a well- may present is minimized in view of
known brush company, the salesman the satisfaction the purchase will
is told to pursue the following pro- bring, or "easy" payment plans are
cedure in getting an interview with suggested.
Madam Housewife. He is to call Finally, there will be an effort to
just before dinner on the first day, hasten the close of the sale, which
present a card stating that if she will effort is designed to prevent cooling
keep it for a few days he will bring oS and reflection on the appealing
a free brush which he will give her but illogical arguments given. If a
in exchange for the card. The in- house is the article to be sold, we
terview is then ended with a pleasant are told that another prospect is to
"Good Morning". Madam House- give an answer on the deal tomor-
wife thinks, "Now, there is a con- row, and haste is therefore impor-
siderate salesman to offer to give me tant. A good salesman knows that
something, and he did not bother if we "think it over" we probably
me while Fm preparing dinner." A will talk to others in the family or
few days later, he calls in the after- perhaps to other salesmen and much
noon with the brush in hand and of his glowing talk will be neutral-
asks for the card to be exchanged for i^ed; hence, the sale must be closed
it. While the lady is gone after the "^w.
card, the salesman is to step inside V. FURT HER WAYS OF
the dooT so that she cannot slam it MAKING BUYING EASY. We
in his face. He then asks for the purchase something when our want
privilege of showing some of his for it is strong enough to overcome
other brushes, and so succeeds in the obstacles to buying. Perhaps
getting an interview. we want something, but we want
A good salesman, once he gains more to keep our money for some-
an interview, exerts himself to estab- thing else. Or, suppose there is al-
lish friendly relations with his pros- most an even balance between our
pective customer by pleasant con- want for some article and our want
versation, clever flattery, or some for thrift. In that case, slight ob-
other device. He then proceeds in- stacles such as the nuisance of hav-
to his sales argument by leading the ing to go to town in the crowds is
customer to admit some minor enough to favor our thrift. Or per-
points, thereby establishing the "yes haps before it becomes convenient
response". This is done frequently to buy something of which we have
to build up a receptive or yielding thought, it becomes more conven-
attitudc in the customer so that it ient to buy something else, (thanks
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to a salesman who may cross our and service that they will tell their
way). Delivery service often induces neighbors. The salesman is as de-
buying because it does away with pendent upon his customers for
the inconvenience barrier. The dis- what he wants as the customer is
play of articles in our modern drug upon the salesman. You may also
stores makes it easy to pick up some- influence the salesman by making
thing we may want but for which him like you through your courteous
we would not ask. "Cash and carry" and pleasant treatment. If he likes
stores utilize the convenience ad- you, he will often exert a greater
vantage in letting people serve them- effort to satisfy you.
selves. 2. Dont let an aggressive sales-
The most common objection we man know what your wants and
raise against the purchase of an ar- "buying manias" are, because they
tide is that we have insufficient are the weak links in your chain of
money just now. In recent years resistance. The salesman is likely
this objection is easily overruled by to strike you at these vulnerable
suggesting "easy" payment plans or points if you let him know what
charge accounts. We are persuaded they are. In conversation, say as
to take the satisfaction of a new little as possible about your real feel-
automobile or a new refrigerator ings and desires.
now and to postpone the "pain" 3. Likewise, don't reveal your ob-
of paying for it until some other jections to a purchase, because if
time. Needless to say, much finan- they are the fortification by which
cial bondage is brought upon the you are resisting the purchase, you
heads of people with limited means have no other defense should they
by easy payment plans. That time be broken down. Say that you do
purchases always cost considerably not care to buy and that you prefer
more than cash purchases seldom not to give your reasons for not buy-
occurs to most people, and salesmen ing.
are careful to quote the price in j^^j^ ^j^^ p^.-^^ ^^^j^ -^ you jj^-^j,
small monthly amounts rather than ^^^ ^j^^j^ proposition depends upon
m terms of the large total outlay. ^.^w much it costs. Insist that the
VI. WHAT RULES SHALL price come before the sales argument
WE FOLLOW IN RESISTING so that as you proceed you can dis-
SALES PRESSURE? Resistance of count each point in terms of what
sales pressure depends upon our un- it may cost you.
derstanding of sales methods, be- 5. Refuse to make minor admis-
cause many of the same "tricks of sions which may prepare you for ad-
the trade" can be used by the pur- mitting that you should buy. As-
chaser. The seller is human and sume a non-committal attitude and
has wants just as the buyer has. refuse to say "yes" to anything un-
1. Reverse sales strategy and use less you have to.
it on the seller. For example, appeal 6. Learn to discount irrelevant,
to his desire to build up his business unimportant features of an article,
through making his customers so We should learn to detect the dif-
well satisfied with the price, quality, ference between sound fact and the
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"halo effect" of pleasant feelings
which comes from the salesman or
the superficial qualities of an article
which often deceive us as to the
real value of what we are buying.
Learn to look for actual weight and
quantity labels on containers rather
than permitting their appearance to
misguide you.
7. Postpone all important pur-
chases. Discuss them with other
persons who have not been under
the spell of the salesman. Give
yourself a chance to reflect on the
really important considerations.
Shop around, compare prices and
values. There is usually a saving to
be found by shopping judiciously,
and on large transactions the saving
is well worth the effort.
8. Patronize reputable dealers
who are interested in building up
trade through satisfied customers, ra-
ther than ''fly by night" salesmen
who work hard for sales today but
who care nothing about making sat-
isfied customers. A reputable deal-
er will stand behind what he sells,
whereas transient salesmen sense no
such responsibility; and even though
there might sometimes be a slight
saving in price from the canvasser,
the final value for your money is
likely to be less.
VJI. BUDGETING ONE'S
MEANS IS THE SAFEST PRO-
TECTION AGAINST FOOLISH
SPENDING. We may have won-
dered why we should resist sales
pressure anyway. The main reason
is that we want to be sure to spend
our money for those articles and
services which we want and need
most. If we follow a sensible budget
plan, such as suggested by the Re-
lief Society, we are prevented from
forgetting a greater want while satis-
fying a lesser one. A budget pre-
pared in advance of sales pressure is
our most sensible way of seeing just
what our real needs and wants are.
A budget schedule in the back of
our minds goes a long way toward
preventing clever sales and advertis-
ing appeals from carrying us away
from common sense principles of
spending. Care in being economical
does not mean we need be "stingy",
but means that we want to let our
money go farther toward satisfying
all of our wants, including saving
for our children's education or mis-
sions, for the purchase of a home,
for our security during declining
years, to say nothing of being pre-
pared for the many emergencies
which are likely to befall us.
Problems for Discussion
1. Show how small differences in
actual quality of articles are used
to advantage in selling and advertis-
ing strategy.
2. What part do pleasant feelings
play in establishing buying habits?
3. What does true economy mean
to you? How does budgeting fit in
with your idea of economy?
4. What rules have you found in
your experience to be valuable in
resisting sales pressure?
References
1. Chase, S., and Schlink, F. J.,
Your Money's Worth, New York:
Macmillan, 1931. Popular discus-
sion of various sales methods which
should make the buyer keep on his
guard.
2. Phillips, M. D., Skin Deep,
Washington, N. J., Consumers' Re-
search. Popular discussion of cos-
metic sales abuses.
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3. Schlink, F. J., Eat, Drink and sumers' use of psychology in buying.
Be Wary Washington, N. J Con- ^ ^ ^ Psychological As-
sumers Research. A popular dis- ^. / 73 • xt v i a/t
r Ti- j£j jii. pects or Business, New York: Mc-
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Kbaucation for Cyamilyi JLife
Family Relationships
Lesson 4
The Place of the Father in the Home
TN our discussions of family rela- even at the expense of the many
tionships the place of the father additional family functions that can
in the home is worthy of special be effectively performed only by
consideration because of several rea- him.
sons, only two of which we shall Due to this shifting of the relative
mention at this time. importance of these two primary
First: In considering the changes functions, many fathers are in a state
that have come about in the family of more or less bewilderment as to
during the last century, we are prone just what is expected of them,
to place great emphasis on the fact One father said recently that if
that the father no longer occupies he provided the members of his fam-
the position of domination which ily with sufficient money to main-
he held in earlier periods; thus, tain a comfortable standard of liv-
obviously, his power of authority has ing, if he directed the education of
declined even though he continues his older children and handled the
to represent the final authority in problems of discipline that were too
family life today. This is most sig- difficult for his wife to handle, he
nificant when we recall that until thought he was doing all that any
the beginning of the present century father should be expected to do.
the exercise of authority was one of Such a definition of the role of the
the two most important functions father ignores completely his func-
accepted by our culture in defining tion in maintaining intimate con-
the role of the father. The other tacts and establishing companion-
function was that of providing for ship among family members, and it
the economic needs of the family, does not conform to our present
As we minimize the exercise of concept of the successful father's
authority by the father, we tend role,
to emphasize his role as provider Second: The decrease in the num-
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ber of hours per day and in the num- of yesterday become the needs of
ber of days per week that the father today. Hence, only through careful-
spends at his job allows him addi- ly planning the use of our time and
tional time for participation in fam- our money are we able to use them
ily activities. If he does not appre- wisely. If the father does not value
ciate the importance of his place in the need and the importance of his
the home, he probably will engage participation in family life, he will,
in other activities that will demand undoubtedly, spend his leisure time
all of his leisure time. in other activities upon which he
Elmer* says: "In the early years does place a high value,
of the present century, the long We do not wish to imply that
hours, the full six and often seven- the father can or should spend all of
day week, practically eliminated the the time that he is not at his work
father from family activities and with his family. This would be im-
from close contact with his children, possible; because, if he is a worthy
The shorter day and the shorter member of the church, he will de-
week have given the father a greater vote a part of his time to service for
amount of leisure than any genera- his church; if he is a citizen, in the
tion of fathers in America have ever true sense of the word, he will be
known. When he lacked leisure, expected to devote some time to
the attitude of aloofness from his community interests. We shall not
children was developed. Details of attempt to mention all of the activi-
childhood association were delegat-- ties that may make demands on his
ed to the mother, to employees, and time, for there are many, indeed,
to outside agencies. With the in- and these demands increase as life
crease of leisure for the father, he becomes more complex. With life
is at a loss to know what to do. He as complicated as it has grown to be,
lacks the technique, as well as the it seems desirable that each person
emotional habits, of becoming once consider it his duty to set up for
more an intimate member of the himself a standard of values in re-
face to face group. It is, of course, gard to activities, and that he appor-
a temporary and transitional situa- tion his time and energy according
tion, which when once recognized to his determined values. On such
will mean 'the return of the father a scale of life's activity-values, should
to the household'. His active par- we not place family functions at the
ticipation will tend to eliminate high point?
many of the problems of social mal- ^hg question is often asked: How
adjustment now so apparent m ^^^^^ ^-^^ sl^o^j^ ^ father reserve
young people. £q^ f^j^jly association? One author-
We spend our time just as we ity suggests ten per cent of each
spend money— the more we have the twenty-four hour period. However,
more we spend, because the luxuries we feel that we cannot be so specific
, as to suggest the number of hours
*Elmer, Manuel Conrade, Family Ad- ^^^^ ^ ^^^ .^ -^ ^ ^^^^^^ f^, each
lustment and Social Change. New York: . . ^. * . ^ . , . ,-
Ray Long & Richard R. Smith Inc., 1932, father to determme for himself, ac-
p. 286. cording to his own particular situa-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 721
tion. The important point is to get
every father to reserve a sufficient
portion of his time for family activi-
ties so that he will be a participating
member of the group in all aspects
of family living. His own apprecia-
tion of his importance will be en-
hanced in proportion to the amount
of time he spends with his family
and by the nature of his participa-
tion in family activities.
A CASUAL survey of some twenty
fathers revealed the fact that
fifty per cent of them were firm in
their belief that their family enjoyed
more freedom and were under less
strain when they were away from
home. One father said, 'The minute
I step into the house, I detect a strain
and a forced reserve on the part of
every member of the household. I
feel that all are on their good be-
havior just because I am present. I
am treated with the greatest of re-
spect and consideration, but some-
times I doubt if they have much real
love for me."
A somewhat close observation of
the practices of this family group
revealed the following: The mother
had instilled within the children
fear of their father by threatening to
tell him about any misdemeanor of
which the children may have been
guilty during his absence, never for-
getting to add, "and you know what
your father will do". Another prac-
tice was for the mother to gain obe-
dience and cooperation from the
children by promising to keep cer-
tain knowledge concerning their
"bad" behavior from their father,
or to indulge the children in ex-
travagances to which the father un-
doubtedly would object had he
known of such expenditures. Sun-
day was the only time when the
father was expected to be at home,
and the children had been trained
to think that every Sunday was "Fa-
ther's Day". This was the one day
of the week when they were expect-
ed to exercise an undue amount of
self-discipline, restraint, and extreme
quietness, because "after all, Sunday
was the only day Father was at
home". The children looked upon
the walk to and from Sunday School
with their father as a duty rather
than a pleasure; respectful answers
to questions constituted the conver-
sation that was carried on between
father and children, and each
thought he was behaving according
to the wishes of the other. The
children actually had the attitude
that this self-restraint in the pres-
ence of their father was the sacrifice
he expected of them in return for
what he gave them. The father ac-
knowledged that frequently he
might have spent more time at
home, but he thought that his un-
expected presence would not be
entirely welcome to the children.
He knew that if his eighteen-year-
old daughter, Elizabeth, was enter-
taining some of her friends in the
living room, there would be no place
for him to go except to his bedroom;
the younger children would be there
with their mother, and he would feel
as if he were an intruder, interrupt-
ing their play and laughter. He of-
ten wondered why a father should
be kept so far outside of the lives
of his children.
Husband, wife and children were
all greatly dissatisfied with the family
situation but did not realize what
the difficulty was until these prac-
tices, and some others, were called
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to their attention. Within a year, and 'head of the household'. We
through the conscious and deter- are sometimes prone to overlook less
mined effort of the parents to modi- obvious, but no less important, func-
fy their own attitudes and behavior tions. Fathers themselves are likely
and to re-educate the children, to minimize some of their functions
changing their attitudes with regard in the family, which I wish to men-
to the place of the father in the tion:
home, the family experienced no "Leaving aside his important so-
less than a revolutionary change in cial psychological role as a husband
their relationships-and needless to to his wife, I wish to suggest his
say, a much happier situation exists, profound importance in the emo-
At the present time there is volun- tional development of his children,
tary cooperation on the part of each "With respect to his daughter,
member of this family in practicing the father's attitude and behavior
great economy so that sufficient toward her and his relationship with
money may be saved to reconstruct her will determine in a fundamental
the front porch, making it into a way her attitude toward her femi-
cozy den; then, there will always nine role and her basic pattern of
be a place for Father, as well as other relations with men and with the
members of the family, even if Eliza- man she finally marries. This com-
beth or some one else is entertaining plex process calls for the greatest
guests. skill and insight fathers can muster.
We think it is not too dogmatic to "With respect to his son, the fa-
say that children who are reared by ther furnishes a model which will be
members of one sex only are not taken over to some extent by the
adequately prepared to live success- son, whether or not the son wishes
fully in a world of people composed to or is conscious of it. There is
of members of both sexes. Other a deep need for the son to receive
things being equal, every child who affection from the father. More-
is denied the companionship of over, the pattern of relationship the
either parent suffers a severe handi- father demonstrates in his marriage
cap in his development. Such a will determine in large measure and
handicap can only be partially over- in many ways the relations the son
come by even the most efficient will later establish with his own wife
agency outside the home. and children.
''Another important result of the
£)R. LEONARD S. COTTRELL, father's behavior is the child's basic
JR., who is one of our most out- attitudes toward authority. Will it
standing authorities on family living, be one of passive submission, ado-
made the following statement when lescent defiance or one of construc-
asked recently for his opinion con- tive and motivated participation in
cerning the place of the father in the establishing, reconstructing and
home: "We are inclined to think of maintaining cooperatively the rules
the place of the father in the family of common life? Much of the an-
primarily as that of breadwinner swer to this will be determined by
(provider) and as final authority the way the father establishes and
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 723
maintains authority in the family
situation.
''These are only a few of the many
fundamental ways in which the fa-
ther plays an important part in the
family besides that of breadwinner
and authority.
"It is indeed unfortunate that so
many fathers as well as mothers op-
erate on the assumption that the
fathers have little contribution to
make to the personality develop-
ment of their children."
By and large, that person is held
in highest esteem in the community
whose characteristics, attitudes and
behavior conform most nearly to the
cultural definition of his role in the
group of which he is a member.
If we consider the cultural con-
cept of the role of the "good father",
we shall find the following charac-
teristics to be outstanding, accord-
ing to Dr. Cottrell:
1. He is the wage earner— the pro-
vider
2. He represents final authority
3. He is the administrator
4. He is protector in crises.
5. He is a companion to his wife
and children
6. He is instructor— adviser
7. He performs the heavy work in
the home
8. He is morally respectable
9. He is kind and patient
10. He is affectionate
11. He is well informed
12. He is just
13. He is strong and active
14. He can always be depended
upon and trusted
15. He is consistent and somewhat
stern
16. He is to be obeyed and respect-
ed and held in mild awe
When Henry Van Dyke was
asked what he owed his father, he
gave the following reply: "What do
I owe my father? Everything! He
was my best friend; a parent who
knew how to be patient with an un-
ruly child; a preacher of joyful faith,
who practiced what he taught; a
good companion in the woods and
the library; a fearless man with a
kind heart; a Christian without pre-
tense or bigotry; a true American
gentleman of the democratic type.
Every day I give thanks for him."
Questions and Pioblems for
Discussion
1. Add as many more characteris-
tics as you can think of that will fit
into the cultural definition of the
role of the "good father". (Good is
relative)
2. Giwe examples from your ob-
servation of family life to show the
extent of the father's influence on
his sons and on his daughters, ac-
cording to Dr. CottrelFs statement.
3. To what extent and under what
circumstances, if any, do you think
the father should assist with house-
hold duties?
4. Can you cite cases illustrating
what you consider an ideal relation-
ship between father and son? be-
tween father and daughter? Analyze
your cases with the idea of trying
to determine the relative happiness
that is derived from such relation-
ships.
iliission JLi
essons
L D. S. CHURCH HISTORY
Lesson IV
Our Book of Mormon
(To be used in place of Literary lesson)
lATHY was the translation of the
Nephite Record called the
Book of Mormon? What is the
Book of Mormon about? And how
important is this work in our
Church?
These questions we shall answer
in this lesson.
When the Book of Mormon was
first published, which, as we already
know, was in March, 1830, people
who did not like it began to call it
the "Mormon Bible" and the "Gold
Bible". This was because they
wished to ridicule it.
The reason why it was named the
Book of Mormon is very simple. Its
author was named Mormon. Mor-
mon was an ancient prophet, army
general, and writer. He lived about
four hundred years after Christ. One
of the last of his nation, he was led
to make an abridgment of the his-
tory of his people, who had been
on the American continent ever
since about six hundred years before
Christ. ~ His abridgment was on
plates of gold, such as we have al-
ready described. And so his book
was called the Book of Mormon—
that is, the Book written by Mor-
mon. Thus we speak of the Book
of Isaiah, the Book of Matthew,
and so on.
There is no book in the world
like the Book of Mormon. It comes
more nearly to being an inspired
book than any other in all sacred
literature.
First, it was written by inspiration.
Mormon was led by the Spirit of
God to compose it. Then it was
revealed by a holy angel— that is, a
man who had been raised from the
dead for the purpose. Finally, it was
translated "by the power of God"
by means of the urim and thum-
mim. As we shall learn presently,
the Voice of God bore record that
the translation was correct. Of no
other literary work ever written can
all these things be said truthfully.
The Book of Mormon does not
displace the Bible, as some people
have imagined. It is not really "the
Mormon Bible". The Book of Mor-
mon only supplements the Hebrew
Scriptures. It tells us something
more than does the Bible, something
more about the dealings of God with
man. The Nephite Record no more
does away with the necessity for the
Bible than the New Testament does
away with the necessity for the Old
Testament.
T^WO peoples are told about in
the Book of Mormon. These
are, first, the Lehites and, secondly,
the Jaredites, although, perhaps, we
should reverse this order, and men-
tion the Jaredites first.
The Lehites were the descend-
ants of Lehi, a minor prophet among
the Hebrews. Under divine guid-
ance he conducted his family and
some others, about twenty persons
in all, from Palestine to what is now
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, OCTOBER - 725
America. This was about six hun- Book of Ether, by Moroni, Mor-
dred years before Christ. mon's son.
After the death of Lehi, the Httle Thus the Book of Mormon tells
colony divided, unfortunately. Some the story of two separate and dis-
followed Nephi, Lehi's fourth son, tinct peoples— the Jaredites and the
into the Wilderness; the rest stayed Lehites. But the Lehites comprise
with Laman, Lehi's oldest son, near three different nations — the Ne-
the coast where the company had phites, the Lamanites, and the Mu-
landed. The former were called Ne- lekites. About two hundred years
phites; the latter, Lamanites. before Christ, however, as we have
These two peoples increased great- seen, the Mulekites and the Ne-
ly in numbers, but they lived very phites joined and became one na-
differently. The Nephites were civ- tio^^-
ilized. That is, they knew how to That, in brief, is the story of the
read and write, they were skilled in Book oi Mormon,
the art of smelting ore and making i . i
tools with which to work, and they A^ ''''^ '' *""
had a copy of the Hebrew Scriptures ^ook of Mormon besides its
-our Bible down to the time of story? The answer is, in a word, its
Lehi. The Lamanites, on the con- wonderful teachings,
trary, had no literature, no mechan- Since the Nephite Record is a
ical skill, and no religion to speak history of God's dealings with the
of. ^\^lile the Nephites wore clothes ancient Americans, we would not be
which they themselves had made, justified in thinking that the teach-
their neighbors went almost naked, ings of this book are different from
After the Lehites had been on the those of the Bible. And as a matter
American continent for about four of fact they are not. To be saved
hundred years before Christ, the Ne- one must obey the same general
phites, on their way farther into the principles and ordinances, no matter
wilderness, came upon another peo- where or when one may live. This
pie— the Mulekites. The Mulekites is made clear in both the Bible and
had come to America eleven years the Book of Mormon,
later than the Lehites. They were In the Book of Mormon, how-
80 glad to see the Nephites that ever, these doctrines are much plain-
they took the name of the newcom- er and simpler than they are in the
ers, and the two peoples became one Hebrew Scriptures. Anyone who
nation. ^ will read the statements about the
Shortly after this time the Ne- same teaching in both of these
phites discovered twenty-four gold works, will readily see that this is so.
plates which, when the record on Take baptism, for instance,
them was translated, proved to be In the Book of Mormon we learn,
the history of still another people first, that baptism is essential to en-
who had been led by inspiration to trance into the Kingdom of God;
the American continent. They were second, that it must be by immer-
the Jaredites, of whose national life sion, not by sprinkling; third, that
a brief summary is given us in the infants are not subject to baptism.
726 - OCTOBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
because of their innocence; fourth,
that baptism is for the remission of
sins. And these aspects of the or-
dinance are made so clear that no
one can misunderstand.
To be sure, all this is in the New
Testament also, but one has to hunt
for the ideas. They are not put in
such clear language. This is why
modern Christian churches, which
claim to be based on the same teach-
ings, have different forms of bap-
tism. One baptizes by immersion,
another by sprinkling, and still an-
other by pouring water on the head.
Then, too, some will baptize only
grown people, while others baptize
babies.
Take, for another example, the
teachings concerning the Christ.
In the New Testament the idea
that Christ is God, the Savior, the
Redeemer, is not so plain that one
reader will have the same idea as
every other reader on this important
point. No two readers of the Book
oi Mormon, however, can possibly
get two different views on the sub-
ject. Christ is God, the Son of
God, the Savior and Redeemer of
the world.
This is true of almost everything
that is common to the two books—
the pre-earth life of man, the spirit
world, the doctrines of the Church,
and so on.
The most striking thing, though,
about the Book oi Mormon is its
spirit. Jesus, after his resurrection
from the dead, appeared to the Ne-
phites, and the description of this
great appearance is touching beyond
anything we have elsewhere. But
before as well as after that event
the idea of Christ colored everything
in the lives of the better class of
Nephites. The whole book is sat-
urated with the spirit of our Savior—
his mercy, his tenderness, his com-
passion, his anxiety over mankind.
Of this phase of the Nephite Rec-
ord the Prophet Joseph says, '1 told
the brethren that the Book oi Mor-
mon is the most correct of any book
on earth, and the keystone of our
religion, and [that] a man would get
nearer to God by abiding by its pre-
cepts than by any other book."
On another occasion he said,
''Seek to know God in your closets,
call upon him in the fields. Follow
the directions of the Book oi Mor-
mon, and pray over and for your
families, your cattle, your flocks,
your herds, your corn, and all things
that you possess; ask the blessing of
God upon all your labors, and every-
thing that you engage in."
Questions
1. How important is the Book oi
Mormon to us? How came it to be
called by this name?
2. Tell the story of the Lehites
down to the division; of the Laman-
ites; of the Nephites; of the Jared-
ites; of the Mulekites.
3. Give instances of the clearer
statement of the Book oi Mormon
over that in the Bible.
4. How much of this book have
you read? What parts of it do you
like best? Why?
Note: Map printed in July issue of the
Magazine is to be used in teaching Church
History lessons.
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i/lusic 'jDepartment
(Continued from page 704)
emphasized by its size. A very large
beat indicates a slow tempo, a small
one is used for fast tempo. The
tempo may be retarded during a
composition -by slowing down and
enlarging the beat, or made faster
by speeding up and making smaller
the beat.
When the tempo remains un-
changed, a large beat will indicate
loudness, a small one softness. The
loudness may be changed during
performance by changing the size of
the beat in proportion to the loud-
ness desired, keeping the speed con-
stant.
The primary functions of the ba-
ton are to indicate the rhythm and
tempo, to start and stop the singing,
and to indicate holds during the
progress of the piece. Its secondary
functions are to change the tempo
and loudness as required by the
proper expression of the emotional
message of the composition. In
these it is assisted and emphasized
by the left hand, the use of which
will be discussed next month.
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Frontispiece — Early Winter Celia A. Van Cott 730
(IJJustrated by Leiand N. Peterson)
The Grateful Heart Kathleen B. Nelson 731
Amy Whipple Evans Julia A. F. Lund 732
Relief Society Conference 749
Fiction
Cathedral of Peace (1) Dorothy Clapp Robinson 734
Thanksgiving For Emily Beatrice K. Ekman 739
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Social Service — How To Sell The Gospel 790
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Dear Lord, all those we hold most dear
Are fed,.and safely home tonight. Their gay
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Song has not been scarred by martial tread.
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In ghastliness across these hills and plains.
No man is slave-born to the will of power.
No screaming terror drops from aerial lanes.
In humbleness, we thank Thee for this hour.
— Alice Morrey Bailey.
EARLY WINTER
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Flying low through autumn's steel-gray skies.
A marsh lake looms below; the huge flock swings
Downward with their wild coarse honking cries.
A startled rabbit scuttles through the brush;
A deer leaps from a thicket with a bound.
A storm sweeps down the hill, a sudden rush
Of snowflakes swirls across the frozen ground.
Strong webbed feet churn green waters to the
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To seek release from winter's icy night;
When dawning breaks they brave dull skies once
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Vol. XXVI NOVEMBER, 1939 No. 11
The Grateful Heart
By Kathleen B. Nelson
"It is a good thing to give thanks unto the Lord, and to sing praises unto thy name,
O most High:
"To shew forth thy loving-kindness in the morning and thy faithfulness every night.
* * *
"For thou, Lord, hast made me glad through thy work: I will triumph in the
works of thy hands.
"O Lord, how great are thy works! * * *
"O brutish man knoweth not; neither doth a fool understand this."
Psalm 92.
rjAVID is one of the best loved that comes through gratitude and
characters in the Old Testa- its expression,
ment. Perhaps this is because he was There are degrees of gratitude,
blessed with a grateful heart. The and each degree differs in the joy it
Psalms are revealing poems of praise, brings. It takes more discernment,
Whether downcast or uplifted in more spiritual energy, to pluck from
spirit, David's faith in God's good- suffering the thorn of bitterness and^
ness and power is unfailing. Un- find a blessing there than to see in
der all circumstances he is positive the laden table the evidence of
of His mercy and love. Through the God's great kindness to us. But just
cries from his grateful human heart, as it takes more, so its returns are
one feels the love of David for God greater.
and also God's watchful care of Thankfulness is a form of com-
David. munication between God and man.
Blessed is any man or woman with 7^^ communication hue should be
a grateful heart. The grateful heart ^^P^ ^^" ^Y ^^?P^"g '^ ^5^ "f ' ^^"'
is the giving heart and places one in ^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^ the grateful heart we,
the certain way of bringing happi- ^^^' "^^^ ^^y*
ness to others. "How excellent is thy loving-kindness, O
We should be thankful for the ^''^^ Therefore the children of men put
1 11 . c i-r rri . 1 their trust under the shadow or thy wmgs.
ever^^day blessmgs of life. To take .^^^ ^^^^^ be abundantly satisfied with
for granted God S provision of food, the fatness of thy house; and thou shalt
shelter and clothing, to be unmind- make them drink of the river of thy pleas
ful of the blessings of sunlight, trees "res.
and stars, to lose sight of the value "^^' ^^^^^ *^^^ ^^ ^^'^ fountain of life: in
of friends menns u-e arp ln<;incr ihe ^^'>' ^'^^^ ^^^" ^^ ^^^ ^'S^*'
or rrienas means we are losing the .q continue thy loving-kindness unto
opportunity of acquiring a grateful them that know thee."
heart— losing that precious feeling Psalm 36.
Amy Whipple Evans
By Julia A. F. Lund
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 733
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'HEN former President Clarissa student of social welfare and as a
S. Williams chose her Board, professional social worker, I have
Amy W. Evans was among the num- yet to find a professor of social work,
ber, and she remained with the group an executive of any social welfare
when President Louise Y. Robison office, or a social case worker who
assumed leadership. For more than has been as inspirational to me as
eighteen years Sister Evans gave Mrs. Amy W. Evans. I consider
splendid service as a member of the it a privilege t® have worked under
General Board of Relief Society. Fa- her supervision because from her I
miliar with the work of the Organi- have learned the most valuable les-
zation through her association on sons that a person in my profession
the Granite Stake Relief Society could learn. She possesses the quali-
Board, where she was a member of ties which go to make up eminence
the social committee and had charge in her field: First, she has a keen
of the teacher-training work, she intellect which she applies well in
brought to the general organization her work; second, she can make
knowledge and experience added to proper decisions because she has the
a wealth of native ability. capacity to weigh all parts of a situa-
Sister Evans is a woman of ex- tion carefully."
tensive and varied interests. Highly In recognition of the fine service
intellectual, she is deeply spiritual, rendered in the field of social work,
a combination which blends beau- a Fellowship established at the Uni-
tifully in a womanly woman, which versity of Utah School of Social
Sister Evans is in the truest sense. Work was named in her honor. The
During her many years of service, Amy Whipple Evans Fellowship is
she has been a member of every a fitting and enduring tribute to her.
standing committee on the Board The members of the General
and has wielded a great influence in Board who have had the privilege
shaping its educational policy. In of serving with Sister Evans feel
addition to visiting practically every their lives greatly enriched by asso-
stake in the Church, she has helped ciation with her and a sense of deep
prepare the Conference-Convention personal loss since she has resigned
programs. from the Board.
She was the Acting Editor of the A clear thinker, she is also deliber-
Reliei Society Magazine during the ate, so her opinions carry much
year Miss Alice Reynolds, while Edi- weight. She has a fine sense of
tor, was absent in Europe. humor and abundant originality.
Splendidly trained through exten- Her deep insight into life gives her
sive study and much experience as great sympathy and good judgment,
a case worker, Sister Evans was the Sister Evans is an artist of which
supervisor of the Social Service De- harmony is a vital element. She
partment of the General Office for believes that the art of living is "the
a number of years. The following finest of the fine arts". Her contri-
is a tribute from one of her students: bution has been a rich one in helping
**Thus far in my experience as a her fellowmen to realize this.
Cathedral of Peace
By Dorothy Clapp Rohinson
CHAPTER ONE
AS Carolyn entered the cotton-
wood grove, she flung her
arms in surrender to black
despair.
Dropping to a fallen log, she jerk-
ed her hat from her head and ran
her fingers through her hot, clinging
hair. The hair was prematurely
white and might with care have
been beautiful. About her damp
brow, little faint-hearted curls em-
phasized the harshness of a cheap,
nearly-grown-out permanent. Her
•skin, though deeply tanned, was
smooth and clear. She looked to
the trees, the undergrowth, to the
blue sky, seeking an answer for that
throbbing insecurity within her; her
glance came back barren.
''Why? Why?" she repeated over
and over. The listening silence gave
back no answer.
With a half-smothered cry of pain
she stretched her length upon the
log, and with hands under her head
looked about. Here she was alone
physically, just as everywhere she
was alone mentally and spiritually.
A deep sky, patterned into blue
lace by leaves and branches, cano-
pied the grove. It reminded her
of a cathedral window. This was her
cathedral— her Moment of Peace—
the spot to which she could flee
when in need of communion with
strength. Each segment of blue, or
white, or gray, if there were clouds,
was to her a prayer, an unfulfilled
want. There were so many unful-
filled wants, and today there was
no peace. y
"Why, why did he do it?" she
asked.
A slight breeze set the leaves quiv-
ering, and her lips quivered with
remembrance. Long ago she had
thought she had lost the faculty for
being hurt. She wished she could
weep and wash the hurt away.
The woody silence, the smell of
rotting log, the earthy fragrance of
damp ground gradually worked their
miracle, and the spinning, confusing
wheel of her emotions slowed to a
dull rhythm. Thoughts, like spokes
on a wheel, became separate and
distinct.
"Why should I take you?" Turner
had asked this morning. "There is
no place there for you."
Carolyn tried to remember just
when he had drifted into saying
such blunt, cruel things to her. It
had been a long time ago, and they
had not been so blunt in the be-
ginning. It had been equally as
long, until this morning, since she
had asked to go with him, so he
might have taken her this time. She
had especially wanted to go— per-
haps, because she was tired; perhaps
a vague warning was sounding with-
in her; perhaps, because yesterday
Want had been brought to life with-
in her.
"Why are men so selfish?" she
cried in rebellion. "Turner is
ashamed of me. I bore him. He
doesn't make a secret of it any
more."
Fifteen years ago Carolyn Evans
and her husband. Turner Evans, had
come to this remote valley, perched
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 735
high among Idaho hills. Life had
been stern at first, while Turner was
building up his herd. Work, babies,
and saving to get ahead had been
her world. When a branch of the
Church had been organized, she had,
against his protests, insisted that he
take the children to Sunday School
without her; she hadn't finished her
work. Her work still wasn't finished.
It wasn't necessary that she go to
town; he could make her purchases.
She was always too tired when he
suggested some form of amusement;
besides, dressing to go places was
expensive for a woman. It had
grown increasingly hard and less es-
sential with the passing of years.
Now, suddenly, she realized Tur-
ner was no longer a husband, but
a stranger — a stranger whose
thoughts and feelings she knew not
at all. He had not ''settled" as she
had. He had reached beyond the
confines of this small valley. Men
came to him for advice. They gave
him responsibilities. But into his
expanding life he went alone— his
ivife had no share in it.
"Why am I put aside?" she de-
manded, "I have worked hard. I
have sacrificed personal desire to
economy. I have helped pay for the
place. Months on end I haven't
been to town. I have been a good
wife— and now my husband is
ashamed of me."
A great bitterness welled up in
her and dried her unshed tears. So
many men as they rise to power
discard the bride of their youth.
With a twinge she remembered
what one of her neighbors had said
years ago: "Who is it the men no-
tice?" This worldly-wise old woman
had said, "Did you ever hear a man
sav, 'Look at dear Mrs. Brown. She
works so hard, and scrimps and
saves. She never spends m.oney on
herself.' Did you every hear one
say that? No, indeed. Tliey say,
'Notice Mrs. Green. Isn't she
smart? Always ready to go places
with her husband. Lucky man,
Green.' "
At the time, Carolyn had turned
up her nose, mentally, at such crude
philosophy. Now, looking back over
the passage of years, she wondered
if Mrs. Bassatt had been trying to
warn her. If so, she had not received
the warning. She had been so se-
cure then.
\ T the sound of approaching foot-
steps, she sat up quickly. She was
thankful now that she had not cried.
It was Kane Holland, the bachelor
rancher from across the highway.
He stopped short at sight of her.
"Hello, Carolyn," he said, and
even in her perturbed state she no-
ticed his voice was harsh and strain-
ed. "Imagine you resting this time
of day. Anything wrong?"
Startled at the question, Carolyn
met his eyes then turned her own
quickly away. His eyes had lost their
familiar kindness and told something
she had never heard before.
"No. Certainly not." Her em-
phasis was unnecessary.
He sat down beside her. "We
have been friends for many years,
Carolyn, and acquaintances even
longer. You need not pretend to
me." He took a short breath and
then hurried on, "So you are not
going to the Stock Growers' Con-
vention at Crystal Springs."
"Who told you?"
"I didn't need to be told. I can
s^it in your face, in your bearing—
in the fact that you are here."
736 - NOVEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
''Well? Is there anything so ter-
rible about that? A great many wives
will be staying home."
''Not many. Yes, I think there is
something quite terrible about* you
staying home while Turner goes
abroad to cover himself with popu-
larity and prestige. I wonder if you
even know that he is to give the
main address?"
Carolyn had risen quickly. "That,"
she said sharply, "even if true, is
not your affair."
He, too, rose and faced her. He
was a slight, fair man with mild gray
eyes, through which he viewed the
world with sympathy. His manner
was usually one of detached con-
cern. Now, his eyes were not sym-
pathetic nor his manner detached.
His voice took on unexpected depth.
"I think it is my affair. It is al-
ways the affair of a man who—".
She rose abruptly, and Kane, sens-
ing her feeling, left quickly.
T EFT home! Again! And Kane
knew— knew the reason as well
as the fact. Probably every one did
—and she had been so careful even
around her own children. That
knowledge, with all its implications,
killed her last subconscious hope.
People knew and were talking. She
would not have their sympathy! She
would not be a discarded wife! But
that left only one thing to do. She
stood aghast at the sudden thought.
But wasn't it better to be alone than
to lose the last shred of self-respect?
Then suddenly the dread of strug-
gle took possession of her. No. She
hadn't courage to be a divorced wom-
an. It would be too hard alone.
There was no use in a woman—.
Again she saw Kane's eyes, heard
the timbre of his voice. Could it
be—? Her heart gave an excited
flutter, then raced. Yes. Yes, that
was what he meant. That was what
he had been trying to tell her for
a long time. Her quickened pulse
brought a flush to her cheeks, a spar-
kle to her eyes. Could it be possible
that Kane Holland loved quiet, drab
Carolyn Evans? How could it be
possible; but it was, for now she
remembered certain words and
tones. He loved her, and he was
kind. The boys liked him, perhaps
better than any man they knew.
This was her way out. She would
do the discarding, quickly. It would
not be right, but then nothing in
this life of hers was right, any more.
"Hi, Mom."
She started guiltily. Through the
trees came Robert, her first-born,
with a shovel over one shoulder. At
twenty-one he was a tall, powerfully
built young man who measured six
feet two without shoes. He moved
deliberately and a little heavily, as if
the weight of growth was still upon
him. His words were few and quiet-
ly spoken.
"What are you doing here?"
"I came to think."
He put his free arm over her
shoulder. 'Tm sorry. Mom."
She did not want to discuss it,
even with him.
"Where have you been. Bob?"
"On the west eighty, irrigating."
He drew a deep breath. "I talked
to Kane."
"What about?" she asked in
alarm.
"Money to finish school. He is
going to loan it to me."
"No," she cried quickly, "you
can't do that."
"Why not?"
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 737
"Dad would not allow it."
The boy stiffened. "He hasn't
offered it."
"Did you ask him?"
"No. Don't intend to."
"You asked Kane."
"That is different."
"Oh, dear," she sighed. She
thought of something that had hap-
pened years ago. Her churn had
gone to pieces with a big churning
in the offing. They had gone to
town for another. Once there. Tur-
ner had gone about his business
without offering her any money. She
had not asked. That evening, with
the churning still undone, Turner
had exploded.
"Couldn't you have asked, or re-
minded me?" he had stormed. "I
am not supposed to think of every-
thing."
Now Bob was making the same
mistake. "Speak to him about it,"
she said.
His lips tightened into stubborn
lines. "He knows I want it. I
shouldn't have to ask."
"But you do."
"But I won't. I am getting it
from Kane. It will be purely a busi-
ness arrangement. We went into
that pretty thoroughly."
"Not from Kane; he has been so
—so neighborly."
"Exactly." He looked closely at
her. "Listen, Mom, you needn't
be afraid of what Dad will say. I will
see that you are not mixed up in
the deal."
She sighed with relief. He had
not guessed. Reaching out she
touched his arm.
"Come. Let's walk on."
nPHE path led up away from the
trees and over a high point that,
disdaining the highway, extended
like a finger into the bottom land.
It was covered with dried grass and
some straggly sagebrush. There they
paused. Before them, and slightly
lower, stretched a long narrow valley
cut by a tree-fringed river. About
three miles north, where the valley
widened, suddenly the river split into
three channels. Between the main
and west streams lay many lush
acres— goodly acres of grass and al-
falfa. This was the Evans ranch. It
included, also, an eighty west across
the highway, and all the bottom land
between where they stood and the
river. It extended south past Caro-
lyn's Cottonwood grove.
In the triangle where West Fork
made a sharp turn to rejoin the par-
ent stream was a higher spot of
ground. There stood the Evans
home, unadorned; peeling paint
gave it a spotted effect. Flanking it
were the outbuildings and the cor-
rals.
Across the main channel to the
east was another ranch with many
and pretentious buildings. That was
the Elkhorn ranch, bought early this
spring by A. B. Straughn. Its twen-
ty-four hundred acres embraced all
the land between the middle and
east channels, and crossing East
Fork ran well into the hills beyond.
The coming of the Straughn fam-
ily to this valley had abruptly
changed the course of many lives.
Due largely to their leadership, the
Church branch had been, only last
Sunday, changed into a fully man-
ned ward, with Mr. Straughn as bish-
op. Mrs. Straughn, as Relief So-
ciety president, was in the process of
officering the organization. Last
evening she had called on Carolyn
738 - NOVEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
and asked her to be a counselor.
Carolyn had immediately refused.
She could not do such work. It had
been years since she had even neigh-
bored with the other ranch wives.
She had never, since coming up here,
belonged to a club or even the P.
T. A.
"Please do not make that decision
final," Mrs. Straughn had begged, in
parting. "Think it over for a few
days and let me know."
Now as Carolyn stood on the
point overlooking the valley she
wondered for the first time if she
should reconsider. It would mean
a great deal of work and necessitate
being away from home a great deal.
At the sound of indrawn breath
she turned quickly. Bob, too, was
looking toward the Elkhorn, and in
his eyes was a poignant fire that
frightened her. It frightened her
because it came to her for the first
time that this one beside her was
a man, with a man's mind and emo-
tions. Work and responsibility had
aged him prematurely. Premature-
ly? Perhaps not. Turner had been
just his age when they had been
married. Time passed so quickly.
Bob, so quiet and reticent vdth
girls, had been touched at last. Caro-
lyn's eyes softened.
"She is such a lovely girl."
"She is perfect," he whispered.
Then, startled at his own statement,
he stiffened. "What do you mean?"
he demanded.
She smiled and laid a hand on his
hard-muscled arm. "The same thing
you mean, Son, but—," her voice
faltered.
The reflection of the soft happy
dream left his face. "But—" he cried
fiercely. "I know what you were go-
ing to say— Fm not her kind.
That's-"
"No, Bob, I-"
"Yes you were. Well, if I am not,
why not?" He was excited now and
stuttered a little in his efforts to
speak quickly. "Why aren't we like
them? Why aren't we like a lot of
people? Why isn't our home what it
should be?"
"What is wrong with your
home?"
"It is shabby and— confused and
stagnant. We live to work and eat.
Spending a dollar is a crime. Why
can't Dad be human?"
"Bob!"
"Why act surprised? If our home
is all right, why don't we associate
with other people? Why does Dad
have absolute say-so about every-
thing? Have you ever tried having
your way? Why should he look like
a million and you resemble a poor
relation? How you have stood it all
these years is more than I can figure
out." He stopped at sight of her
white, stricken face. "I'm sorry.
Mom, honest I am, but all this isn't
fair to us."
He was a man now. Love was
opening his eyes and heart, helping
him to appraise, to search out values.
Man's desire to possess, to be inde-
pendent, was shaking him with its
intensity. If she left Turner, she
would have Bob's support. A warm
glow softened her tenseness.
"Why," the boy returned to his
complaint, "don't we live as the
Straughns do, only on a smaller
scale? Why isn't our home kept up?
Why haven't you kept up?"
"In the beginning," she began
gropingly, "we had a hard pull finan-
cially. We were—"
{Continued on page 802)
Thanksgiving For Emily
By Beatiice Knowlton Ekman
IT was a raw November morning. She combed her gray hair, still
Emily made a fire in the Home streaked with black, and put on a
Comfort range with chips that fresh apron. Her slender hands tied
were piled in the woodbox back of the strings in a neat bow at the back,
the stove. She filled the teakettle They were useful hands that had
from the water bucket in the pantry done much service. Maybe there
and put the oatmeal on to cook, would be a letter. She put on her
When the kitchen was warm, she wool shawl and went outside. The
opened the door to the sitting room mountains to the east were blue with
adjoining and, putting on an old haze, and the tree branches were
sweater, went out to milk the cow. naked in the wintry sun. Water
In spite of her years, her step was from the flowing well dripped over
light and quick. the wet barrel and ran down the
Her fingers numbed with cold as ditch to the chicken yard and thence
she unfastened the chain on the gate along the fence to the field,
of the corral, but the warmth of the ''It is cold even in the sun,'' Ellen
cow's udder soon warmed them, and said to herself, as she moved with
the milk quickly filled the small quiet dignity down the enclosed road
brass bucket. toward the mail box, her thin form
She set the bucket on a barrel in- ^^ect. She espied something white
side the gate and turned the cow ^^ the mail box and hurried a little,
into the field. The chickens were T^^^e was an almanac advertising
pressing against the wire netting of pil^s, an envelope with an unsealed
the coop. Strewing some grain in flap— nothing else,
the straw, she opened the coop door, Suddenly she felt tired. Could
and out they flew in wild disorder any of them be sick? There were
to scratch and scatter the yellow many things that could happen. She
waste. knew that they loved her; they were
Tlien, taking the bucket of milk, good children, even if they did not
she returned to the house for her write often. She always excused
breakfast. While going about her t^^m. Her older ones had small
work, her thoughts ran far afield, families that needed a lot of time
The house was too large now that ^nd attention. Her younger two,
tliey were all away— strange that she John and Nancy, had not been mar-
had once thought it too small, llie "ed iong. She had missed them
large dining room and pador were most. When her husband had died,
only opened to be aired and dusted, they were so young— John four;
and the upstairs rooms were only Nancy, only eighteen months,
used when the children came for a A long time to be a widow. . . .
visit in the summer. Her own room Allen would have been an old man
with the walnut furniture, the north by now. Try as she would, she
room as it was designated, was just could see him only as he looked
as it had been before Allen died. when he had kissed her that last
740 - NOVEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
morning. She could see his broad
shoulders and strong arms when he
tossed little Nancy above his head,
his blue eyes and wavy hair, his
white, even teeth when he laughed
and looked back at her from the
wagon as he picked up the reins.
She had watched him until he was
out of sight beyond the south field.
. . . Then, they had brought his body
home after the accident. . . . Never
while he lay in the house was it her
Allen— he had gone completely. Al-
ways it gave her a feeling of agony
to remember.
She looked up and down the lane
before she went through the gate.
The lake stretching to the west was
like molten silver; Antelope Island
was a dark line inverted in the water.
When plowing was underway, white
gulls circled and followed the dark
upturned furrows swooping down
with shrill cries. Now the fields were
drab with stubble.
Emily sighed and closed the gate.
Her shoulders drooped as she made
her way back. "Among them all,
someone might have written; even
a card would have been a comfort.
There was not time now before
Thanksgiving for her to hear. She
had usually gone to them at Thanks-
giving time. It is strange that they
did not send any word. . . . Not a
line from one of them. . . . Why
are children so thoughtless? This
is what one gets for being old."
npHE chickens were wandering
about looking for bugs and
worms along the ditch bank. It was
less lonely outside. She sat down on
the steps and leaned against the
porch post; her shawl slipped from
her shoulders. The sun went be-
hind clouds— it got cold. Suddenly
she pulled the shawl up, looked at
the sky and arose stiffly. ''I shouldn't
have stayed out so long," she said
apprehensively. Returning to the
house, she found the fire was out;
she felt chilled.
The day continued to grow colder.
Later, she fed the chickens and
brought in wood and coal and water
from the flowing well. It was as
much as she could do to milk, and
she was very tired when finally she
had taken care of it. She covered
herself with a blanket on the sitting
room lounge. She was subject to
violent headaches and feared them.
"No one would know I was sick,
the neighbors are so far away, and
they know that I go to the children
every year. It's rather a thankless
job, being a mother. Not one of
my children to be with me. . . .
What do they care?" Slow tears
came to her eyes, and she wiped
them away on her apron. How ten-
der Allen had always been when she
was sick. "Oh, Allen, Allen, I am
so alone!" Then, dozing off to
sleep, she dreamed that he came
and held her hand, stroked her fore-
head; she was comforted and less
lonely.
When night came, she drank some
warm milk and got into bed. Some
time later, she woke with one of
the worst attacks she had ever had.
Finally, she had to get up and make
a fire. The rest of the night she
either walked the floor or sat in the
rocker by the stove. When dawn
came, she crept into bed and fell
into an exhausted sleep. The night
had been very cold, but when she
waked the sun was shining. She
tried to get up, but it was too great
an effort. She lay back on the pil-
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low with a moan of pain. "No one 'Tes/' laughed Nancy, the tears
will come, the children will not wor- clinging to her lashes, "We thought
ry before tomorrow anyway, and the surprise was on us." Ellen looked
goodness knows what might happen at them both. "You might as well
by then," she fretted. The curtain tell me what you are up to, you
stirred at the window, and the sun never could keep things from me."
made ripples on the mirror of her But they did not tell her; they
dresser. "I must get myself some- went to work as if they had never
thing warm to drink, maybe a glass left home. John found an old sweat-
of milk or a bowl of gruel," she er, shoes and pants that he had left
said. But the hours wore on until there two summers ago. Nancy had
she became light-headed with weak- brought a house dress, and she put
ness and hiinger. on one of her mother's aprons.
There was some one sitting by her "How did you get here?" asked
bed-quite a young man. At first, Emily later when they were in the
she did not recognize him. Then, sitting room and she was tucked in
she asked softly, "Is it you, Allen?" the big chair where John had carried
He smiled; his teeth were white and her, a blanket about her and her feet
even. "Of course, Emily, I have on a pillow. He moved his chair to
been here all night." He had not let Nancy by with a bowl of hot
changed at all; yet, she had not gruel, which she had prepared for
known him right away. Just his her mother. "We came on the train,
being with her brought a sense of and old Marriot brought us down
peace and well-being. She lay con- in his mail wagon," John told her.
tent, watching him until she fell Then, looking out of the window,
asleep. John said, "The sun goes down pret-
TT was late afternoon when she ^Y ^^^ south now; it's getting low.
^ waked. She was entirely free from \ ^^PP^^e it's up to me to milk
headache and felt stronger. The *^^ ^°^ ^"^ ^^^"g A" *^^ "y.x?"^-
chair was empty. She heard voices ^^^^ y°V ^"^ ^x^'f ' ^,^"i' ,^°*
and wondered whose they could be. very much, son; I thought I wouldn t
Nancy and John were in the room. "^^^ .^"Y "^^^^ ""^il sprmg, but
Emily looked at them, "Where did ^^^'^ '^ F^"^y ^^ ^^od.
your father go?" she asked. They "Leave it to me, I'll have a pile
looked startled, almost frightened, as big as the house in no time." Tak-
They came to the bed and kissed her ing the brass bucket, he went out
tenderly. Nancy began to cry, "Oh, whistling. Nancy slipped out and
Mama darling, are you very sick?" quietly put away the packages which
"No," Ellen answered, "I am she and John had smuggled into
fine." She stroked Nancy's thick the house.
blond hair. "Your hair is like your After John came in with the milk,
father's, Nancy. You have his blue she made preparations for dinner,
eyes, John, and his broad shoulders." while he got the ax from the granary
"Well, you gave us a good scare and went out to the pile of wood,
when we arrived and found you so The strokes of the ax sounded sharp
ill," said John, smiling down at her. in the still twilight. When he came
742 - NOVEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
in with an armful of wood, the table
was set, and the supper was ready
to serve. Nancy had piled her moth-
er's hair high, her eyes were bright-
ened with pleasure, and she felt re-
freshed.
They were so merry, and Emily,
looking at her two children, could
almost believe that they had never
left her. It seemed only yesterday
that they were all living together in
the large, busy, happy home.
'Tomorrow," John said, "Fll cut
some logs for the grate and get the
dining room stove going."
It was getting dark, and Nancy
lighted the hanging lamp over the
table and the small side lamp in the
kitchen. ''Do you think she caught
on to the surprise, Nance?" said
John, while they were washing the
dishes. "I can't tell whether she
has or not, but she looks fine now.
It surely gave me the creeps to hear
her talk about Dad that wav: she
must have been dreaming when we
first came in."
John went back to his mother,
and Nancy took a candle and went
upstairs to John's old room over the
parlor. She stood looking around
the old familiar room— nothing was
changed. She opened the door and
stepped out onto the little porch ex-
tending over the bay window below.
Tlie fields, stretching out under the
stars, were still and somber; the new
moon hung over the lake far to the
south. "It is still home to me," she
said wistfully. Then, leaving the
door open, she returned to the sitting
room. "You look tired. Mama, I
think we should all get to bed."
I7MILY waked in the morning to
the sound of the ax, chickens
and turkeys flapping and scratching.
For a moment, she could not re-
member. -She felt refreshed and
free. She was used to the cold
bedroom; she laid back the covers
and reaching for her shoes and
stockings, hurried into her clothes.
Nancy was peeking into the hot
oven as she went into the kitch-
en. A pan of warm corn bread sent
forth a delicious savory odor, as did
the sausages that were sizzling on
the back of the stove. The table
was set by the window with a white
cloth. There was jam and fresh
butter and thick cream for the oat-
meal.
"Oh, Nancy, why did you let me
sleep?" Nancy gave her a light kiss
on the cheek, "I tried to be quiet,
but I guess I made a lot of noise."
Emily poured water into the basin
on the washstand, bathed her face
and hands, combed her hair before
the little mirror and arranged her
dress collar. Opening the door to
throw the water from the basin, she
saw John coming with some stove
wood. She held the door for him.
"Hi," he greeted her, "aren't you a
bit late with my breakfast?" He
bent and kissed her lightly as he
squeezed past. At the table he drew
out her chair; when she sat down,
he sat beside her. "Which turkey
are we to have, Mom?" Emily
smiled as she unfolded her napkin.
"I don't care, son, take your pick;
take two if you like." "I have my
eye on the big bronze; he must
weigh at least twenty-five pounds."
Nancy brought the oatmeal and
slid into her chair, "Trust him to
take the biggest," she teased.
After breakfast, they both went
out to watch John catch the turkey.
It was hard to get him into the wire
MLIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 743
enclosure where John had put some
corn, but finally he cornered him
and, though a bit disheveled, John
came out triumphant. ''Are all of
the family coming?" asked Emily,
as they turned toward the house.
Nancy laughed, "No use trying to
surprise you, is there? Yes, they are
all coming in time for dinner
Thanksgiving Day; we are the ad-
vance guard. It will be such fun.
I am so thrilled. Are you glad that
we will all be home again? John
and I are to do all of the work; you
don't have to do one thing." Emily
stood still and looked at Nancy, her
fine eyes bright with pleasure. All
she said was, ''Come down and see
what is in the cellar." Nancy helped
her raise the heavy door of the out-
side cellar and followed her down
the clean steps.
The sun shone through the east
window on neat rows of bottled
fruit, pickled cucumbers, red beets,
glasses of jelly and preserves, red
tomatoes and catsup. There were
bins of potatoes, onions, hubbard
squash. There was a small barrel
of sauerkraut. Nancy looked around,
"But Mama, this is so wonderful!
I don't see how you did it." Emily
went to a shelf at the far end of
the cellar and raised the lid of the
stone crock. Nancy, close beside
her, peered in. "Mincemeat!" she
cried, delightedly. "I made it from
the old recipe that has been in the
family for one hundred and fifty
years," said Emily proudly. "I want-
ed all of you to have some of my
own making this year." Nancy
sniffed and rolled her eyes, as her
mother replaced the lid. She looked
with enthusiasm at everything. Em-
ily reached for a jar of beets, "John
is so fond of beets. Is there any-
thing you want to take up?" "Yes,"
Nancy said, as she took down a jar
of mustard pickles, "no one makes
mustard pickles to suit my taste like
you do." She followed Emily up the
steps and closed the trap door.
Standing on the porch, Nancy
looked away toward the south and
east, toward the mountains that
were looped in austere grandeur, to-
ward the valleys sloping with their
checkered fields to the lake bottoms.
"This is so much freer than being
cooped up in a city; I suppose I am
spoiled," she said, as she took a deep
breath of the sweet air. She watched
John as he hung the huge turkey
under the mulberry tree by the cel-
lar. Emily called to him, "There
is a pail of lard on the shelf by the
window in the cellar. Will you
bring it up for the pie crust?" She
knew how he would love to see the
well-stocked shelves.
When the two of them came into
the house, Emily was picking over
the cranberries. Nancy made the
pie crust, and Emily baked the hub-
bard squash for the filling and made
the cranberry jelly. Afterward, they
laid out the long linen tablecloth
and the best silver knives and forks.
John had made a fire in the hot-blast
stove and had piled logs in the fire-
place in the parlor. Great chips and
small firewood banked the logs ready
for a blazing sheet of flame when
lighted.
Emily was her old self. There
was hustle and bustle, talk and
laughter. The turkey was made
ready to be stuffed in the early
morning. There would be turkey,
mashed potatoes, small creamed
onions, dried corn, giblet gravy—
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Emily typed them all off in her
mind — cranberries, crisp celery,
squash and mince pie. It would be
a feast— a feast of love.
"l^HEN night came, she was tired
but happy; she had gone from
room to room— everything was in
order, even the cloth on the exten-
sion table in the dining room. She
felt strangely young and vibrant.
The station wagon that had brought
the family from the depot had gone.
The children and grandchildren
were all assembled.
The house was warm and filled
with savory odors. The logs blazing
in the fireplace filled the rooms with
luxurious comfort. Outside, the sun
gave out no warmth, but the air was
fresh and bracing.
Emily sat at the head of her own
table as she had done through all
the years of her widowhood— a table
elegantly set, with food well prepar-
ed and delicious. She looked down
the long table surrounded by her
dear family— Allen's children and
hers, gathered at her home. How
Allen would have loved it! She
waited for John until he finished
sharpening the carving knife and
placed it on the platter where the
turkey lay brown and hot from the
oven. As he bowed his head to bless
the food, tears of gratitude came to
Emily's eyes. All her family with
her once more— home for Thanks-
giving!
<^ass^
THE LONG YEARS
By Hoitense Spencer Andersen
Today she gathered berries, lush and sweet
Along the sunny hillside, by a row
Of river willows. Her aged faltering feet
And time-worn, fragile self forgotten; though
From yearning and vain expectations, grief
Had ravaged her in manner most unjust.
She fluttered as a sear and yellow leaf
Hung loosely by a fusty stem of trust
Blown thin before a wind of famishment.
Forgotten, yes, the torment and despair
Of empty long years. Now, the day had lent
Itself to rare enchantment. She breathed air
From off Parnassus' heights, while on the loam
She knelt. Her children, now, were coming home.
HAPIPENIN
By Annie Wells Cannon
JU'OVEMBER-Thanksgiving can
only be a reality when wars shall
cease and men accept the Prince of
Peace.
npHE Red Cross is again called into
service, and the revered name of
Clara Barton, whose ardent plead-
ings brought America into that great
mercy organization, comes to mind.
Miss Barton was in Geneva, Switz-
erland shortly after the international
treaty known as the Treaty of Ge-
neva had its birth at Geneva, Switz-
erland in 1864.
The idea of neutralizing all na-
tions and parties in efforts of relief
was conceived by a Swiss gentleman,
Henri Dunant, who when traveling
near the scene of the battle of
Solferino in northern Italy was hor-
rified at the sight of the unburied
dead and uncared-for wounded and
dying. On his return to Geneva, he
immediately went to work to per-
fect an organization for the ameli-
oration of such conditions.
QUEEN ELIZABETH, the Duch-
^ esses of Gloucester and Kent are
busily engaged this fall in organizing
the British women for all kinds of
war work.
The Dowager Marchioness of
Reading headed the responsible task
of getting the children and invalids
out of urban danger spots, and the
country estates of the titled English
are their refuge.
ITATE M. BARKER of the Relief
Society General Presidency re-
cently visited all the stakes and mis-
sions of the central, eastern, and
southern states, and Julia A. F.
Lund, General Secretary of the Re-
lief Society, made an official visit to
the Oahu Stake and Hawaiian Mis-
sion.
JOHANNA SANDSTROM, 98,
•' and Martha Wolstenholm, 85, of
Utah were both honored recently on
their anniversaries. Both are still ac-
tively engaged in good works.
A NNA FREUD, daughter of the
psychoanalyst the late Sigmund
Freud, will edit and publish her fa-
ther's views on the mentality of
Adolph Hitler. She was her father's
collaborator.
J^THEL VANCE'S new book
Escape was reelected by the
Book of the Month Club. It is an
unusually satisfying mystery story.
lyr ARTHA ALLEN ROBBINS of
Kaysville, Utah died recently.
She was 95 years old and one of the
early pioneer mothers whose life
story was full of interesting inci-
dents.
jyjARGARET CRISMON SPEN-
CER, a lovely daughter of pio-
neers, died late in September. She
was a prominent figure in Salt Lake
social and club life and active in Re-
lief Society work.
THE RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
---------- Second Counselor
- General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Rosannah C. Irvine Janet M. Thompson Beatrice F. Stevens
Nettie D. Bradford Belle S._Spafiord p^g g Barker
KATE M. BARKER
JULIA A. F. LUND
Jennie B. Knight
Emma A. Empey
Annie Wells Cannon
Lalene H. Hart
Cora L. Bennion
Ida P. Beal Donna Durrant Sorensen ^^ ... ^ „ ,
Marcia K. Howells Vivian R. McConkie Nellie O. Parker
Emeline Y. Nebeker Leda T. Jensen Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ------- Belle S. Spafiord
Manager -----_.-..- Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI
NOVEMBER, 1939
No. 11
EDITpRIA
[Jtjig (bister Jtctivitii
CTAKES and wards are once more
intensively engaged in the Mem-
bership Drive. Though not entirely
attaining the goal set last year, suffi-
cient impetus was given the work
to justify our looking forward to a
secure 100,000 by 1942. The in-
geniousness and efficiency of coor-
dinators merits our highest commen-
dation. The fine support of execu-
tive officers as well as all groups
within the Organization has played
an important part in the momentum
attained and membership secured.
The clever, original, dignified show-
manship has created and sustained
interest and stimulated activity. We
congratulate all who have so earnest-
ly furthered this important program.
While we appreciate the ingenui-
ty of our sisters in securing new
members, we urge that great care
be exercised so that nothing will be
introduced which will in any way
work a hardship upon the sisters
or prove in the least embarrassing
to them. It has been called to the
attention of the General Board that
a few of our organizations have in-
troduced "The Secret Pal" or "Big
Sister" movement. We recognize
that this capitalizes upon a deep-
seated need of all sisters for an inti-
mate, personal friendship, that it car-
ries with it the element of surprise,
which is delightful, and the joy of
giving. However, there are in our
societies many sisters for whom pro-
viding even the least expensive gift
— a card — would be a hardship.
Health as well as financial circum-
stances makes it difficult for many
of our most devoted women to se-
cure appropriate remembrances,
small though they may be. Then,
it is a truth that strive as we will
to hold these gifts to a mere expres-
sion of love and friendship some
people are so filled with the love of
giving and their circumstances make
it so easy for them to give generously
that they go beyond what is intend-
ed—first, they send a card, next a
linen handkerchief, then silk hose.
The sister receiving these more ex-
pensive gifts may be one who can
scarcely afford a card; yet, within her
heart she longs to be equally gener-
ous to her "big sister". So, rather
than being made happy over the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 747
gift which is hers, she is unhappy thing that may in the least degree
because she cannot in turn give as make anyone feel inadequate. We
much as she has received. Then, too, are a great sisterhood, loving one
when the time comes to disclose the another irrespective of economic or
identity of the ''pal" or ''big sister," social levels. Our expressions of
if gifts have not been comparative love and friendship are continuous,
in value, there may be great embar- everyday expressions, the kind word,
rassment. We realize the motives the good deed. Required, material
behind the introduction of such gifts for everyone irrespective of
things into our Society are the finest, need or circumstances have no place
But Relief Society discourages any- in our program.
uied L^ross 1 1 iemhership Lt)
nve
F
OR years the red cross has been ties of suffering in the year to come,
the emblem of mercy at scenes It is only good citizenship to re-
of disaster and suffering. Depend- spond to the call of this great hu-
ent solely on the willingness of the manitarian organization, to pledge
public to alleviate suffering, the our confidence in it by enrolling as
American Red Cross is again appeal- members. The cost of individual
ing to the nation for a million more membership is $i per year, or as
members to expand its various ser- much more as a person wishes to
vices and to stand ready for the un- gjyg
predictable days ahead. The Organ- _. . ,, ,
ization will embark November 1 1 on ^^ongh many calls are made upon
the greatest membership campaign ^"r members m furthermg our own
since the Wodd War. Only through welfare program, we feel that we
strengthened membership can it should cooperate and participate in
meet more effectively the eventuali- the service of the Red Cross.
J/xttention: Vi/ard ^Presidents
r\NCE again we call the attention of Relief Society presidents to the fact
that the General Board is not endorsing any commodity of any man-
ufacturer irrespective of what it may be or the merit of same. Presidents
will be notified by the General Office or through the columns of the Mag-
azine regarding any endorsements of the Society. We trust presidents
will bear this in mind when approached by salesmen,
QiSl^yUL OF INTEREST
//ew Serial
\\0 you have a problem? Then good man, Kane Holland. Shall
you will want to read about she try to build a life for herself?
Carolyn Evans, married to harsh, Shall she for her children's sake
brilliant try to bridge the slough of fifteen
Turner Evans, whom she bores and Years' mental stagnation? Is divorce
who has long ago left her behind, the answer?
Their unequal development, with Read how Carolyn worked it out
its attendant conflicts and disa- and perhaps you will see somethmg
greements, is in a fair way to ruin- that will help you with your prob-
ing the life of her son lems in the story, CATHEDRAL
Robert, a tall, powerful lad, in love ^l ^^^^^^^^Z "'^ T^^. ^l ^°''
with cultured, refined othyClapp Robinson, beginning in
T f, ' 1 . 1 .11 this issue of the Magazine
JUNE StRAUGHN, but who will not tvt n i.- J
tell her of his love because of his
home condition.
Mrs. Robinson needs no introduc-
tion to our readers. Her contribu-
^, , ...... tions to the Relief SociQ.iy Magazine
The home situation is affecting. ^3 ^^^ ^^ ^^^^^^ l^^^l publications
Carson, the second son, in quite have long since established her as
another way. In his search for a fiction writer of merit. Her ap-
security he is setting his feet upon preciation of home life as interpreted
the wrong path. by Latter-day Saints enables her to
All these things Carolyn senses, bring to us an important message
Then, there is her own heart to con- in her story CATHEDRAL OF
sider and the love of another kind, PEACE.
Character Education Ujuiletins
npHE Utah State Department of cohol, tobacco and harmful narcotics;
Public Instruction has recently No. 61, an act to provide for special
placed in all public and school li- education in those qualities of char-
braries copies of two excellent bul- acter and habits of living that will
letins, Ch2LxactGT Education and Sug- make for upright and desirable
gestions for TQ^ching the Effects of citizenry.
Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Nar- -m-ni-rc-i-'j li.
J.- T-k T-T- T_ 1 r M The Relief Society is deeply inter-
cotic Drugs. The schools of the i. j • . u 1,1 r *!, j
c. . ^ • r J ested in the problems of youth and
State are carrying forward a program i, i i, . ii j
11 .1, i.- r S- whole-heartedly endorses any pro-
based upon the suggestions of these , . .\ .mi
bulletins, adapted of course to the f ^"^ ,^^f.?f ^ to promote the wel-
local needs, in compliance with the ^^^^ ^^ children. We urge our mem-
following House Bills: No. 60, an bers to acquaint themselves with the
act to provide for special education bulletins, which have been made so
for persons under 18, regarding the easily available, in order that we may
harmful effects of alcoholic bever- more intelligently cooperate vWth the
ages, including beer containing al- schools.
RELIEF SOCIETY
CONFERENCE
October 4, 5, 1939
Julia A. F. Lund, General Secretary
npHE Semi-annual Conference of Following the custom of previous
the Relief Society was held in years, the subject matter for the de-
Salt Lake City, October 4-5, 1939. partment meetings was the formal
The Conference consisted of eight educational program of the Relief
sessions: An opening meeting, five Society.
department meetings, a general of- The music, instrumental and vo-
ficers' meeting and a general session cal, was especially fine. During the
for the public. President Louise Y. public session, Mrs. Vincent Hilles
Robison presided over the Confer- Ober, President of the National Fed-
ence. The attendance was excep- eration of Music Clubs, was in at-
tionally large, consisting of general tendance and spoke in high praise
officers, board members and class of the work of Relief Society in the
leaders. The response to the roll field of music, especially compli-
call was as follows: 120 stakes, 3 men ting the efforts of the Relief
missions, 3 mission presidents, 91 Society Singing Mothers,
stake presidents, 139 counselors, 52 The following reorganizations
secretaries, and 491 board members, were reported:
REORGANIZATIONS
Date
Sept. 10, 1939
Sept., 1939
June 18, 1939
July 5, 1939
1939
July 16, 1939
1939
Aug. 27, 1939
May 31, 1939
Sept. 30, 1939
Sept., 1939
Aug., 1939
June 25, 1939
Sept., 1939
Aug. 27, 1939
Central States
Hawaiian
New England
Northern States
Stake
Cache
East Jordan
Franklin
Highland
Hollywood
Idaho Falls
Maricopa
Ogden
Oneida
North Weber
St. George
St. Johns
Sevier
Star Valley
Wayne
Released
Lula Y. Smith
Alta F. Andrus
Bertha P. Larson
Jennie B. Duff in
Zatelle F. Sessions
Martha R. Telford
Mary M. Davis
Cora S. Jenkins
Ellen B. Larson
Julia E. Parry
Appointed President
Mary M. West
Lucy B. Godfrey
Alice S. Merrill
Allie R. Barnes
Mary S. Jordan
Cora Christensen
Clara Goodman
Kate F. Woodbury
Ora W. Packer
Nellie W. Neal
Juanita L. P. Brooks Marian M. Snow
Camelia J. Rencher Clara R. Sherward
Estella Poulsen Myrl B rugger
Pearl B. Holbrook Arvilla Hyer
Mary A. Brinkerhoff Ruby M. Forsyth
Missions
Nellie D. Woodruff
Cassandra D. Bailey
Fern C. Eyring
May G. Hinckley
Edna M. Bowman
Armada B. Cox
Valeria B. Young
Ethie M. Muir
(cypening Session
GREETINGS
By Piesident Louise Y. Robison
MY dear sisters, although I ap- the excellent work you are doing,
preciate the honor of extend- Hardly a report has been given this
ing greetings to you, I have year by the General Board member
difficulty in expressing the sincere who has visited your stake which has
admiration and love which the Gen- not been high in praise of the way
eral Board has for you dear co-work- you have treated the topics assigned
ers. Many of us have worked togeth- to you. I sometimes wonder, though,
ed for years, we have solved prob- when you are engrossed with your
lems together, we have prayed for special lesson, if you create the de-
each other, we have witnessed un- sire in the ward class leader to think
selfish devotion to the work of Re- of the development of the whole Re-
lief Society until our hearts are as lief Society program, or only the les-
one. We miss some of the dear ones son which the class leader is giving,
whom we have learned to love until The theology lesson could be made
they seem part of our very lives. In much stronger, and the members of
their places, however, are new mem- the class would receive a broader un-
bers of our great ''official family" derstanding if some correlation could
whom we greet with love, having be made between it and the literary
confidence that they will carry our and social service lessons. There is
banner forward with the same spirit hardly a lesson given in literature
of devotion as the former sisters have and social service, and certainly not
done. a teacher's message which would not
I wish we had some way of intro- be vitalized by reference to some
ducing the new members. Each of principle taught in the theology les-
us might try to see how many she son, and all lessons should be ap-
can individually welcome. If you plied to everyday life,
newer sisters (I dare not say young- Relief Society is working for the
er) only knew how delighted all of development of the individual wom-
us would be to meet you, I am sure an. A well-rounded program is pro-
you would go out of your way to vided. We place it in your compe-
introduce yourselves. tent hands with the prayer that you
Our meetings today will be de- will be given inspiration from the
voted entirely to the educational Great Teacher, that you, too, will
work, and we especially welcome the bring life more abundant to those
class leaders. We deeply appreciate whom you teach.
Visiting cJeacher ^Jjeparttnent
Belle S. Spafford, Chairman
SENTIMENTS FROM THE HOME
By Vera S. Hilton
President, Deseret Shike Relief Society
rj^ROM a scientific standpoint, a
response from ten to twenty per
cent of a group is considered a very
accurate representation of the opin-
ion of that group. With this thought
in mind, mimeographed sheets were
sent to twenty per cent of our 930
family heads (of course, by heads
I refer to the women) asking for
their reaction to Relief Society vis-
iting teaching.
Of the 142 women replying, onlv
two did not enjoy nor approve or
the visits of the visiting teachers,
stating that they had no benefit nor
spiritual value in their homes. One
woman thought the effort required
was very great for the amount of
benefit derived in any home; the
other, that the main value was to
the visiting teachers themselves and
suggested that they visit only in the
summer or occasionally, as need
arose. The remaining 140 women
reported that they enjoyed and ap-
preciated the visits and felt they had
benefited by them. The following
values were listed: Educational— new
ideas brought into the home; improv-
ed morale— cheered, rested, encour-
aged, comforted; inspirational— filled
one with a desire and determination
to live better lives and perform duties
more faithfully; social— appreciated
kindness and friendship of the visit-
ing teachers; community — develop-
ed good will and sense of communi-
ty responsibility; spiritual— left fine
spirit in the home and better under-
standing and appreciation of the
Gospel; Relief Society— general re-
minder of Relief Society, its values,
purposes and responsibilities.
Criticisms and suggestions for im-
provement of the work had to do
not with the system itself but with
the administration of it. In every
case where comment was made, the
women preferred having a message
and having it discussed, not read,
hurried through, nor broken into
with discussions foreign to it. Other
suggestions were: Visits should be
short, business-like and friendly, not
curious nor personal. News should
not be carried from one home to
another nor teachers indulge in fault-
finding or talk about personal trou-
bles. Teachers should be more hum-
ble and prayerful; they should be
better prepared and use better meth-
ods. The teacher-training meeting
should be more faithfully attended
and visiting teachers have and use
the Relief Society Magazine. Fam-
ilies in the district should be studied
and special needs in each home un-
derstood. Attempts should be made
to find new ways of appealing to
those who do not attend Relief So-
ciety.
It was suggested by a few Relief
Society women that teachers remind
them of their dues and donations.
Some women suggested that fathers
and children, if at home, be includ-
ed in the discussion of the Message
and that it be discussed with them
if the mother were absent. Others
thought the attitude of homes visit-
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ed should be improved, while some sage: First, in the teacher-training
felt more care should be exercised meeting, then as they took the Mes-
by Relief Society presidents in the sage into the homes in their districts
selection and assignment of teachers; and again as it was brought into their
that teachers be so instructed as to own homes by other visiting teach-
more fully sense their duties and feel ers.
their work a privilege. It was also May we, through our visiting
suggested that a definite time be set teaching, be able to strengthen our
for visits. people, give them new thought, new
A few, and these were visiting comfort, new courage, new desire
teachers themselves, felt that they and determination to live the abun-
had too much contact with the Mes- dant life— the life of service.
VISITING TEACHING TODAY
By Counsdoi Kate M. Barker
I
T is a wonderful experience to ceptance of the fatherhood of God,
meet together as we are this morn- and this the world has not. Our
ing— a group of people coming from Father in Heaven is expecting His
so many different places and yet Church to take the leadership in this
understanding one another so well movement. The fatherhood of God
because of common ideals, common is a reality to us. He has not only
interests. This is the great purpose given us the greatest of laws, "Thou
of life. Our Father in Heaven wish- shalt love the Lord thy God with
ing for the greatest development and all thy heart, and with all thy soul,
happiness of His children, planned and with all thy strength and with
a wodd where they would love to all thy mind; and thy neighbor as
learn, to live and work together. The thy self (Luke 10:27), but He has
world is coming to realize that the also given us the perfect machinery
biggest problem it has is the problem for the realization of this love. This
of human relationships. machinery is the Church, and every
'To be alive in such an age! organization in the Church has a
With every year a Hghtning page very definite responsibility.
J^T^^ in the world's great wonder book ^^ ^^^^ of Relief g^^iety visit-
Whereon the leaning nations look. . . , . ., . ,, -^ ,
When men speak strong for brotherhood, '"§ teachers Strikes at the very heart
For peace and universal good." of brotherhood. When the Relief
More and more, men are speaking ^"^f^ty ^^ ^''^ organized and the
strong for brotherhood. Organiza ^'^'''"S '^^'"^^'f aPPO'nted there
.•„ .• 1 ji. J.1 were verv definite needs to be met.
tions, national and international, are ^ \ ^ . . . , ^, ,
being formed for the purpose of People were )oming the Church, one
bringing about brotherhood, which ^^ ^ ^^^^i^y^ two of a city, and corn-
means understanding, appreciation, ing to Nauvoo. How lonely some of
helpfulness, peace and love. them must have been! But these
But before there can be real broth- friendly visitors went about, saying
erhood, there must be a common ac- by their visit, "You are not alone,
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you are with your brothers and sis-
ters/'
It was a hard winter. There was
sickness and poverty. People had to
keep close to one another, to render
aid where there was need and in or-
der that those who had might share
with those who had not.
Throughout the pioneer days
there was a great need for this ser-
vice. But as the population in-
creased, the need was not so great.
Gradually, mutual helpfulness was to
a great extent replaced by special-
ization. There were hospitals,
nurses, undertakers, social workers.
But there is still need for this type
of service— no one knows when, and
it is better to go ninety-nine times
when there is not a need than to
miss the one time when there is.
There is always the spiritual need.
The need for the friendly hand, the
encouraging word, the comforting
word. There are always people who
are discouraged, those whose faith is
weakening, those who are in sorrow.
This service is probably the greater
challenge, for to be of real service
in the spiritual realm one must have
the "understanding heart", as ex-
pressed in the poem 'The Visiting
Teacher's Prayer" by Afton Free
Baird:
"Give me, Oh Lord, this day.
The power to do one kindly deed;
Help me this day, I pray,
To plant one little seed
Of faith and hope within the heart
Of one despondent.
"Give me, Oh Lord, this day,
The power to lift another's sorrow;
One word of comfort say
That will brighten the tomorrow
Of some sad heart that ever longs
For one departed.
"Help me. Oh Lord, this day,
Unselfishly to give;
Show me the way, I pray,
A better life to live.
For I shall dedicate this dav
To Thee, Oh Lord."
Do we appreciate the wonderful
efficiency of our Organization? In
an emergency, practically every
home in the Church could be con-
tacted in a day. No one need ever
be desperately in need if the visiting
teacher's work is 100% efficient.
The Relief Society is for every
adult woman of the Church, and in
our Relief Society meetings we con-
tact regularly only about one-fourth
of them. It is easy to say they are
not interested, that we plan a fine
program and are ready to hold out
the hand of fellowship, if they will
only come. But that is not the spirit
of the Gospel. That was not Jesus'
way. He did not stand on a moun-
tain and teach those who would
come. He went into the homes and
market places to seek the people.
The message of the visiting teacher
is the only Gospel message which
reaches many of the homes.
In our complex civilization, with
the rapid tempo of living, many spir-
itual values arc being lost. The
Church must guard these values if
we are to know the fellowship which
our Father in Heaven wishes us to
know.
Before the days of quick and easy
transportation, there were "neigh-
borhoods". People exchanged labor,
the social life was largely the life
of the neighborhood; neighbors
worked together, played together
and developed a strong 'we" feeling.
The sorrow of one was the sorrow
of all. No one felt he was standing
alone. There was a feeling of secur-
ity because of being one of the neigh-
borhood group. But now we do not
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know the people living on the same
block, or in the same apartment
house. Life today is expressed in
this verse:
"I thought the house across the way was
empty,
Till yesterday crepe on the door, made
me aware
Some one had been living there."
Have you ever been in a large city
and had sickness in the family and
felt that terrible loneliness which
comes at such a time? People want
neighbors. Human beings crave
that security which comes from feel-
ing that there are those near who
are interested in them. When the
Relief Society visiting teachers come
to our homes, their presence says
to us, "You are not alone. We are
your friends. If you need help, we
are ready to help, and back of us is a
great organization of sisters who are
also your friends."
The sense of security which we feel
will be in direct proportion to the
sincerity and dependability of the
teachers and the regularity of the
visits.
We are awakening to the full im-
port of the great principle laid down
by Paul, ''No man liveth unto him-
self" and, ''Finally be ye all of one
mind, having compassion one of an-
other, love as brethren, be pitiful, be
courteous; not rendering evil for evil,
or railing for railing, but contrari-
wise blessings; Knowing that ye are
thereunto called that ye should in-
herit a blessing."
John's message was, "Love one an-
other". But love does not come
from a sense of duty; love comes
from understanding and apprecia-
tion.
In the hurry of life today we do
not learn to really know people. We
see so many people in this fast-mov-
ing age that our so-called friends
are scarcely more than acquaint-
ances. Lives touch only on the sur-
face.
In the horse and buggy days, one
could drive along the street, see a
friend at the side of the road, drive
to the side, stop and visit for awhile.
But today, our eyes are glued to the
road; we do not see who is at the
side of the road, and as a result,
there are many neglected kindnesses,
many forgotten courtesies and often
stupid blunders and misunderstand-
ings. We judge people too often
by things that do not count— exter-
nal things, little peculiarities. We
see, too often, the little weaknesses
and fail to see the strengths. As
life becomes more complex, it is
increasingly difficult for us to know
people whose natural interests are
different from our own. But if our
Church cannot bring together peo-
ple whom the ordinary affairs of life
tend to push apart, because of educa-
tion, economic levels, social back-
grounds etc., if the testimony of the
Gospel which we have does not make
for a "fellowship" based on under-
standing and appreciation, then we
are failing.
npHE visiting teacher comes into
our hornes each month with a
spiritual message. She comes to talk
with us. We have an opportunity
to know her because we are meeting
on the highest level, talking of those
things about which we feel the deep-
est. We have a common meeting
ground— a testimony of the Gospel.
The prophet Ezekiel was com-
manded by the Lord to visit some
convicts. Ezekiel was a learned man,
he was a prophet and resented the
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idea of being sent to visit the con-
\icts. He thought, ''What have I
in common with them?" But he
went and sat with them and talked
with them and came away astonish-
ed at what he found in the hearts
of these convicts.
In one of our wards was a woman
whose standards of housekeeping
were not as high as the standards
of the community. As a result, she
was criticized, not taken in as an
intimate member of the group. A
visiting. teacher who was assigned to
that district said, "How can I talk
with her? What have I in common
with her?" But she visited her sev-
eral times, and soon after in a group
when as usual some one was criticiz-
ing this sister, the visiting teacher
said, "But you don't know her. If
you knew her as I have come to
know her you would love her as I
do." We need more such loyalties.
In another district was a woman
who because of educational advan-
tages and wealth was considered
proud and unapproachable. The
visiting teacher assigned to this
home said, "How can I visit her?
How can I talk with her about the
Message?" But after a few visits,
after sitting and talking about the
Message, the teacher said, "I have
found that she is one of the most
humble women I know." We need
more such interpreting of one to
another.
In our affairs of everyday life, how
many of us get an opportunity to
talk to another regarding the things
we feel deepest about? We are so
busy with making a living and with
the mechanics of living that most of
our conversation is about these sur-
face things of life. But all of us have
longings and ideals which if not ex-
pressed are more or less smothered.
Even in our Church meetings wc
are passive. Our ideas are enlarged
and intensified as we bring them in
contact with those of others. Ex-
pressed, they became a part of us.
The visiting teachers come to our
homes each month. They come to
talk with us for a few moments about
spiritual things. They are sisters of
like ideals even though they may not
have had the same experiences. We
have an opportunity for self-expres-
sion and growth in talking with them.
The last night which Jesus spent
with His disciples before His betray-
al He prayed for them, "Holy Fa-
ther, keep through thine own name
those whom thou hast given me,
that they may be one, as we are. . . .
"Neither pray I for these alone,
but for them also which shall believe
on me through their word:
"That they all may be one, as
thou, Father, art in me, and I in
thee, that they also may be one in
us: that the world may believe that
thou hast sent me."— John 17:11;
20: 21.
This prayer is for us today. If we
are to have the unity which Jesus
prayed that we might have, if we
are to build the brotherhood which
He wishes His church to have, it
must be based on more than cooper-
ation in work, more than general in-
terest in people, or on general love
for mankind. It must be built on real,
personal friendship based on under-
standing and appreciation. To
achieve such a unity is the real chal-
lenge of the Church today, the
achievement of which will bear our
testimony to the world that Jesus is
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the Christ and His gospel is the prac- portunity for service in helping to
tical way of life. The Relief Society bring this understanding and ap-
visiting teacher has a wonderful op- preciation.
THE MESSAGES AND THEIR USE
By Leda T. Jensen
0
NE very definite part of the mis-
ion of the visiting teacher today
is to carry the Gospel by precept
and example into the homes of our
people. The name "visiting teacher"
implies that we do something about
teaching, about stimulating those
whom we visit to better thoughts
and ultimately to better ways of life.
The "Messages to the Home" have
been prepared for this special reason,
to provide a definite thought which
would stimulate profitable discussion
during the visit of the teacher in the
home. The Messages are of a spir-
itual nature and are correlated with
the theology lessons.
The titles of the subjects for this
season are found in the June, 1939,
issue of the Relief Society Magazine.
The subjects selected contain the
very essence of true religion. They
are practical rules of conduct, which
should be brought frequently to the
minds of the women of the 'Church.
Religion is the most vital force in
life to keep people living on a higher
plane. The teaching program of the
Church is very extensive, but there
are many baptized members of the
Church who do not avail themselves
of any of the avenues of learning
that are opened freely to them.
Should not some effort be made to
take the Gospel to them if they will
not come and partake?
Visiting teachers have access to
many homes denied all others. The
teaching in the homes will be infor-
mal, but the best results have often
been found where individual teach-
ing is possible.
If the Messages are not being car-
ried to the homes in the wards and
are not being discussed in a credit-
able manner, renewed effort in the
stakes is necessary.
In order to establish a friendly re-
lationship in the home, a prerequis-
ite to successful teaching, and to
know what approach to use to the
lesson, it is necessary to know the
families in the district. Visiting
teachers should be interested in
them, in their interests, and in what
they are doing, so they will have a
common ground on which to meet.
One meets several types of women
in visiting the homes. Each will
have to be approached in a different
way. What appeals to one type prob-
ably will not appeal to another. The
faithful, the busy, the indifferent,
the haughty person— each will have
to be studied and wisely approached.
Move slowly but persistently.
Don't be too easily offended or think
too much of being inconvenienced.
Remember, "Ye that embark in the
service of God, see that ye serve
Him with all your heart, might, mind
and strength."
Make your preparation meeting
held the first Tuesday of each month
a teacher-training meeting. Don't
use the time to embellish the ma-
terial in the Magazine. There is
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sufficient material there for the use of it. How to present the topic,
length of discussion advisable in the difficulties encountered and success-
home, ful visits made would be of practical
Instead of devoting too much assistance to the teachers. Make the
time to the what of the message, teachers' preparation meeting so in-
more time should be given to the teresting none can afford to miss it.
cJheologti LOepartment
Annie Wells Cannon, Chairman
PAUL THE APOSTLE TO THE GENTILES
By Dr. Lowell L. Bennion
W
'HEN first asked to speak to you to Jesus Christ, greater love in the
on the subject "Paul the Apos- service of Jesus Christ, than that of
tie to the Gentiles'', I was very dis- the Apostle Paul? Where will you
appointed, because I did not feel go to find a person better prepared
authoritative in connection with the to fulfil his mission as a disciple of
life of Paul; second, I thought of the Lord, than was Paul?
so many things that I would rather Paul was a Jew; yes, a member of
talk with the Relief Society group the strictest sect of the Jews — a
about than the missionary work of Pharisee. He was schooled in the
Paul. However, after some reflec- law of Moses. Yet, Paul was more
tion I was very glad that such a topic than a Jew; he had more than a Jew-
had been assigned to me, for I found ish background. Paul was also a
so much in the life of Paul that is Roman; he had the rights of Roman
closely related to the spirit of Relief citizenship; he had the Roman view
Society work. I became aware of of an eternal empire; he had the
the difficult problem of selecting Roman concept of a universal king-
from many things one or two that dom. More than that, Paul was
we might discuss together. Of all reared in Tarsus, in a great gentile
the people in our Church, and I city of Greek learning; therefore,
say it without reservation, I believe Paul took into the ministry of Christ
the Relief Society sisters are most an understanding of the Gentiles,
whole-heartedly devoted to the ser- In Paul, we have this great Hebrew
vice of the Master, Jesus Christ, faith, moral courage and earnestness
I think that Relief Society sisters coupled with his vision of the work
are preparing themselves intelligent- of God and an understanding of the
ly through a fine program to be able people to whom he went to give his
and worthy messengers of the Mas- message.
ter. We could well take some time this
Where in the world will you go morning talking about Paul as a
to find a life and soul devoted more teacher. Let me illustrate with one
whole-heartedly first, last and always example. You recall the time that
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Paul was at Athens; Paul, a man
engrossed in the Jewish faith, who
had faith in the Jewish God, a per-
sonal, living God, trying to teach
pagans who had no such concept of
God; trying to teach people who be-
lieved in many gods, or in abstract
definitions of God; trying to reveal
to them the true and living God.
How was he to do it? He might
have simply explained the Jewish
God to them. He might have been
so engrossed in his own understand-
ing that he would forget the position
of the people to whom he spoke; but
very wisely and cleverly Paul spoke
to his people on the level of experi-
ence and understanding at which he
found them.
May I quote a few verses, to my
mind among the most beautiful in
Scripture :
"Then Paul stood in the midst of Mars'
hill, and said, Ye men of Athens, I per-
ceive that in all things ye are too super-
stitious.
"For as I passed by, and beheld your
devotions, I found an altar with this' in-
scription. To the Unknown God. Whom
therefore ye ignorantly worship, him de-
clare I unto you.
"God that made the world and all things
therein, seeing that he is Lord of heaven
and earth, dwelleth not in temples made
with hands;
"Neither is worshipped with men's
hands, as though he needed any thing,
seeing he giveth to all life, and breath,
and all things;
"And hath made of one blood all na-
tions of men for to dwell on all the face
of the earth, and hath determined the
times appointed, and the bounds of their
habitation;
"That they should seek the Lord, if
haply they might feel after him, and
find him, though he be not far from every
one of us:
"For in him we hve, and move, and
have our being; as certain also of your
own poets have said, For we are also his
offspring.
"Forasmuch then as we are the offspring
of God, we ought not to think that the
Godhead is like unto gold, or silver, or
stone, graven by art and man's device."
— Acts 17:22-29.
He did not offend the Athenians
in that statement, he talked about
their unknown God and made them
understand the unknown God as a
knowable God, a living God.
We might well spend our time
this morning talking about Paul's
great work as a missionary to the
Gentiles. Paul's task was not mere-
ly to convert the Gentile world, he
had also to convert his fellow disci-
ples to some aspects of the mission
of Jesus. Peter and the other disci-
ples who lived in Palestine, and had
lived there all their lives, found it
difficult to enlarge their vision great-
ly beyond the scope of the Jewish
religion. In the beginning, it seems,
they wished to make converts to
Christianity first become Jews. In
other words, Christianity was to be
a Jewish sect. Christianity was to
those disciples in Jerusalem, to many
of them it seems, nothing more than
Judaism plus the resurrection of
Christ. To Paul, it was entirely
new— a new religion, a new and uni-
versal church that included Judaism
but was much more. Paul told Pe-
ter and the other disciples in Jeru-
salem that the Gentiles need not
become Jews in order to become
Christians.
Had Paul not had that vision and
understanding it is doubtfuH if
Christianity would have become the
great universal religion that it did
become. I know the Lord may have
found other ways, but the fact is,
He found it through Paul. We
should be grateful to Paul for his
great understanding of Christianity.
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T WOULD like to spend the rest
of the time this morning, not in
talking about Paul as a great teacher
and not in speaking of him as a
missionary to the Gentiles, but in
talking about Paul, the apostle to
the Gentiles, and his meaning in
our lives today and to our work as
messengers and disciples of Jesus
Christ.
In the mission field we teach our
converts the first principles of the
Gospel. We will not baptize any-
one unless he exercises faith and re-
pents of those things which are not
in harmony with the Gospel, unless
he is willing to be baptized and re-
ceive the gift of the Holy Ghost. I
think that we, as members and work-
ers in the Church often forget that
these pre-requisites to entrance to
the Church are not merely for the
investigator. Faith, repentance,
baptism and the gift of the Holy
Ghost are not just things which pre-
cede one's entrance into the Church
of Christ; faith, repentance, baptism
and the gift of the Holy Ghost are
the very foundation of our lives as
Latter-day Saints. These four prin-
ciples or ordinances of the Gospel
are not dead events in our remote
past. Most of us were baptized at
the age of eight, and since that time
baptism has not always meant a great
deal to us. Faith and repentance
we think of as preceding baptism, so
they sometimes almost vanish from
the picture of adulthood. Paul has
brought home to me the fact that
faith, repentance, baptism and the
gift of the Holy Ghost, each one
of them, can continue as hving prin-
ciples throughout our lives; they re-
ceive increased meaning and signifi-
cance as we grow older. I am going
to illustrate the meaning that Paul
put into these first principles of the
Gospel.
Is faith the first principle of the
Gospel? Paul had faith before he
was baptized into the church, before
he had his vision on the road to
Damascus. He had faith in the law
of Moses, in the words of the proph-
ets; he had faith even that the thing
he was doing in persecuting the
Christians was the will of God.
The first principle of the Gospel
is not merely faith. As our fourth
Article of Faith states: "We believe
that the first principles and ordi-
nances of the Gospel are: first. Faith
in the Lord Jesus Christ;" if any
great teacher of religion or any
prophet has brought home to us the
fact that the first principle of the
Gospel is faith in the Lord Jesus
Christ, it is certainly Paul. Faith in
the Lord Jesus Christ became to him
something quite different from the
faith which he had before. Previ-
ously Paul had tried to obey the law
of Moses; he had struggled with his
consciousness of sin. He had come
to realize that no one can completely
fulfil the Law, and especially that
intricate law of Moses; but when he
caught the spirit of Christ he be-
came a new creature, he became free
from sin, he rose above law. Paul's
faith became a glorified faith in
Christ. He said this of his relation-
ship to Jesus:
"For I am persuaded, that neither death,
nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor
powers, nor things present, nor things to
come,
"Nor height, nor depth, nor any other
creature shall be able to separate us from
the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus
our Lord." — Romans 8:38-39.
We need faith today— whether we
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be eight years of age, twenty, thirty,
forty or fifty—faith in the Lord Jesus
Christ, faith in everything that Jesus
Christ stands for in this world of
ours. We need to use faith in the
principles of love, mercy, forgive-
ness, integrity and unselfishness.
Your very work as Relief Society
workers is to exercise faith in these
basic principles which we associate
with the life of Christ.
Although we associate faith with
Paul, I think he reveals to us also
the meaning of repentance in a very
complete way. The first step in re-
pentance, I believe, is not a feeling
of remorse and regret, and I give
you Paul's life as an example of the
beginning of repentance. On the
way to Damascus, seeking to get per-
mission to persecute Christians, Paul
had a vision. He saw a light and
heard a voice which said: "Saul,
Saul, why persecutcst thou me? And
he said. Who art thou. Lord? And
the Lord said, I am Jesus whom thou
persecutcst." That was the begin-
ning of Paul's repentance. He saw
a light, he got a new conception of
truth and right, and in the light of
that new truth his way of living
seemed wrong, and Paul repented.
The first step in repentance, I
believe, is a new conception of truth
and right — increased knowledge.
The only people who have no need
of repentance are those who cease
to learn, who cease to enlarge their
understanding of what the gospel
of Jesus Christ means. As teachers,
we do not get people to repent by
telling them to repent. I believe
that people will repent when we
show them a better way of life, a
greater truth, in the light of which
they will be ashamed of their own
way of living as Paul was ashamed
of his. Not only did Paul reveal
this first important step in repent-
ance but also the completion of it,
for the last step in repentance is to
right the wrong that one has done—
to substitute right living for wrong
living, to overcome evil with good.
Wliere do we have a better record
of a man who devoted the rest of his
life, and gave his life, to make good
the wrong he had done against the
works of Jesus Christ? I am sure that
Stephen who had been stoned with
the consent of Paul was not stoned
in vain, because of the repentance
that Paul wrought.
It may seem more difficult to
think of baptism, the third principle
of our Gospel, as a living principle
such as that of repentance, but Paul
reveals to us the meaning of baptism
in a way that should make it live on
in our everyday lives. In the ver\'
beginning, after he had had this vi-
sion on the road to Damascus, Paul
humbled himself and went to one
Ananias, a disciple of the Lord, and
was baptized. We might think that
Paul, having received a vision, hav-
ing been called of God as an apostle,
would think that it would be unnec-
essary to humble himself in the wa-
ters of baptism, but the record says
that he went and was baptized. It
is Paul again who portrays to us the
meaning of baptism when he com-
pares it with the death and resur-
rection of Jesus Christ. We enter
the waters of baptism as the old
creature, the sinful but repentant
creature, and come up washed and
clean, a new creature in Jesus Christ.
Not only is baptism a means of
entering the Church and a way of
gaining remission of sins, but bap-
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tism is also a covenant. I am going
to step ahead into modern revelation
and read from the Doctrine and
Covenants, Section 20, verse 37:
"And again, by way of commandment
to the church concerning the manner of
baptism — All those who humble them-
selves before God, and desire to be bap-
tized, and come forth with broken hearts
and contrite spirits, and witness before the
church that they have truly repented of all
their sins, and are willing to take upon
them the name of Jesus Christ, having a
determination to serve him to the end, and
truly manifest by their works that the}'
have received of the Spirit of Christ unto
the remission of their sins, shall be received
by baptism into his church."
It is a pledge to accept Christ and
be His disciple. Every Sunday v^e
have the privilege of renewing that
covenant in our Church services.
Our sacramental prayer reveals the
meaning of the sacrament as a re-
newal of the baptismal covenant. In
that prayer it is written:
"That they may eat in remembrance of
the body of thy Son, and witness unto thee,
0 God, that they are willing to take upon
them the name of thy Son, and always re-
member him and keep his commandments
which he has given them; that they may
always have his Spirit to be with them."
Every Sunday, as we partake of the
Sacrament of the Lord's Supper, if
we will meditate upon the life of the
Master, evaluate our own living in
the light of His character and love,
and have a desire to serve Him, I
know that baptism will continue as a
living principle of our lives.
After the Lord had said to Paul,
"I am Jesus whom thou persecutest,"
He continues:
"But rise, and stand upon thy feet: for
1 have appeared unto thee for this purpose,
to make thee a minister and a witness
both of these things which thou hast seen.
and of those things in the which I will
appear unto thee;
"Delivering thee from the people, and
from the Gentiles, unto whom now I send
thee,
"To open their eyes, and to turn them
from darkness to light, and from the
power of Satan unto God, that the)' may
receive forgiveness of sins, and inheritance
among them which are sanctified by faith
that is in me.
"Whereupon, O king Agrippa, I was
not disobedient unto the heavenly vision."
Over the whole known world Paul
declared this covenant that he him-
self had made with Christ, and his
testimony was so strong that king
Agrippa said unto Paul:
"Almost thou persuadest me to be a
Christian.
"And Paul said, I would to God, thai
not only thou, but also all that hear me
this day, were both almost, and altogethei
such as I am, except these bonds."
This illustrates PauPs loyalty to
the baptismal covenant. On several
occasions, Paul said he was unworthy
to be a disciple of Jesus Christ; on
other occasions, he said he had done
more work than all the rest put to-
gether, which shows his great spirit
of humility and yet his determina-
tion to not only repent but be loyal
to the covenant he had made with
his Lord.
In relation to the fourth principle
of the Gospel, the gift of the Holy
Ghost, I think Paul reveals to us
the great two-fold mission of the
Holy Ghost. First of all as a witness
that God lives and Jesus Christ is
indeed His Son, he writes:
"But I certify you, brethren, that the
gospel which was preached of me is not
after man.
"For I neither received if of man nei
ther was I taught it but by the revelation
of Jesus Christ." — Gal. 1:11-12.
"Wherefore I give you to imderstand.
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that no man speaking by the Spirit of
God calleth Jesus accursed: and that no
man can say that Jesus is the Lord, but
by the Holy Ghost."— I Cor. 12:3.
Paul certainly received his knowl-
edge of the gospel of Jesus Christ
through the revelations of the Holy
Ghost. Paul certainly had complete
conviction, absolute assurance that
Jesus was indeed the Lord, the Son
of God. No only that, but Paul
wrote intimately about the gifts of
the Holy Spirit. In conclusion, I
am going to read to you the very
familiar chapter in I Corinthians in
which Paul talks about the gifts of
the Holy Ghost:
"Though I speak with the tongues of
men and of angels, and have not charity,
I am become as sounding brass, or a
tinkling cymbal.
"And though I have the gift of prophecy,
and understand all mysteries, and all knowl-
edge; and though I have all faith, so that
I could remove mountains, and have not
charity, I am nothing.
"And though I bestow all my goods
to feed the poor, and though I give my
body to be burned, and have not charity,
it profiteth me nothing.
"Charity suffereth long, and is kind;
charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not
itself, and is not puffed up,
"Doth not behave itself unseemly, seek-
eth not her own, is not easily provoked,
thinketh no evil;
"Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth
in the truth;
"Beareth all things, believeth all things,
hopeth all things, endureth all things.
"Charity never faileth: but whether
there be prophecies, they shall fail; wheth-
er there be tongues, they shall cease; wheth-
er there be knowledge, it shall vanish
away.
"For we know in part, and we prophesy
in part.
"But when that which is perfect is
come, then that which is in part shall be
done away.
"When I was a child, I spake as a child,
I understood as a child, I thought as a
child: but when I became a man, I put
away childish things.
"For now we see through a glass, darkly;
but then face to face: now I know in
part but then shall I know even as I am
known.
"And now abideth faith, hope, charity,
these three; but the greatest of these is
charity." — I Cor. 13.
Sisters, may we exercise faith in
the Lord Jesus Christ such as Paul
exercised. May we recognize repent-
ance as a living, continuing, growing
principle of our lives. May we be
true to the covenant that we made
with Christ and our Father in Heav-
en through baptism, and may we,
I pray God, enjoy the assurance en-
joyed by Paul through the power
of the Holy Ghost, that Jesus Christ
is indeed the Son of God. Growing
out of that assurance, may we pursue
the life of love and service which
Paul pursued.
THE ESTABLISHMENT OF TESTIMONY
Edith P. B^chnan
Former President South African Mission Relief Society
npHE established testimonies of
those dear, faithful, pioneer
women, numbering eighteen, who
were the charter members of our
Relief Societv, have been handed
down to us as a real inspiration, a
true pattern to follow, and a chal-
lenge to carry on the great work
which they began.
T'he love, devotion, loyalty and
untiring service shown by the won-
derful leaders and members up to
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the present time is proof of their
testimonies of the divinity of this
work, and their testimonies have led
them to great accomplishments.
A testimony that God lives, that
Joseph Smith is a prophet of God
is the most valuable possession one
can have. Our testimony may be
more firmly established by attending
meetings, partaking of the sacrament
and hearing the testimonies of
others. We are told to meet to-
gether often in His name. Even
though the number may be few. His
spirit may be there also.
Think' of the blessings in store for
those who are honest with God in
paying tithes and offerings. What
a wonderful thing if we, as mothers,
could instill the beauty of that prin-
ciple into the hearts of our children.
Tliousands of testimonies which we
have heard are proof that the faithful
tithe payer is blessed an hundred-
fold.
A famed American scientist, after
quietly studying and living among
the Mormons for. three summer va-
cations, said he thought the Relief
Society was the premier auxiliary or-
ganization in the Church because
of its efficiency and effectiveness and
the opportunity it offers its members
to be of service. Certainly we should
take advantage of the opportunity it
gives us for development and growth.
We should give our best to the work
we have been called to do. Magnify
it no matter how humble it may be;
the Lord will give us more power to
achieve in the various fields of our
choice only when we have earnestly
and diligently used the power we al-
ready have. He never calls on us
to hold a position that He does not
give us strength to carry on if we are
faithful. Being of service is the great-
est means of bringing joy, happi-
ness, satisfaction and contentment.
''When ye are in the service of your
fellow beings ye are in the service
of your God."
For more than one hundred years,
our Church has been sending mis-
sionaries into the field to preach the
Gospel— the most wonderful mis-
sionary system in the world. Mis-
sionaries know, as Joseph Smith
knew when he started the mission-
ary system, that when the Holy Spir-
it bears testimony to the inmost soul
of man, there is no danger of his
being led away by other systems of
adverse doctrine. Such a testimony!
Four years ago last November we
were called to go fifteen thousand
miles away to preside over the South
African Mission. After making it a
matter of prayer, my husband said, "I
am going to tell President Grant we
will go." We were given blessings
and promised health, happiness and
success, and that we would return
home and find our loved ones well
and happy.
I thank my Heavenly Father and
the Presidency of the Church for
giving us the opportunity of going
with our children into the mission
field to partake of the heavenly spirit
existing there. I know this is the true
work of God, and nothing else in life
matters. It is the only source of
true joy and happiness.
May our Heavenly Father help us
all to appreciate every opportunity
given us to be of service to Him, and
may we live lives that will be worthy
of His wonderful blessings.
(bociai Service 'jOepartment
Jennie B. Knight, Chairman
SOCIAL SERVICE GOES TO WORK
By Rae B. Barker
¥ IFE, as we know it, is group life. When in 1936 it was finally ac-
No one is independent of oth- complished (it now has four sne-
ers. The social concept is the group cessful summers and service to five
concept. Social service then is ser- school districts to its credit), those
vice in the interest of the group. who had conceived the idea and set
Growing out of Relief Society so- it in motion wisely let the open rec-
cial-consciousness have come some ognition go to the ''Finishers".
successful, vital community projects Another remote Relief Society
which have earned our social service ^ ^^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^ ^-^ ^^^^
work beyond the class room into "noticing" and "finishing" on even
practical service pro)ects. 3 ,3 f^ale with a different phase
In 1934 m a ward social service ^f jc^^ice. They recognized
class an idea took root Something ^ ^■^^^^^. ^eed for more women
must be done with children s leisure ^j^j^ ^^^^- experience and for a
time. A neighborhood library was ^^^^.^n^^ hospital,
a suggested remedy— a simple re-
quest it seemed, but actually so From April, 1937, to January,
complex its realization involved the ^939^ persistent, intelligent leader-
Parent-Teacher Association, the ship played a winning game. Rebuff
school board, public library and the and discouragement were turned in-
city recreation department. to success. Stake and county inter-
the project was engineered by est was built up until sufficient ma-
the local Parent-Teacher Association Serial support for nursing service and
president in conjunction with the scientific equipment for a maternity
Relief Society representative. To- delivery room was secured. This
gether they were a splendid com- was matched with housing facilities
bination of ''Noticer", ''Specification and other furnishings by the Relief
Writer" and "Finisher"; they could Society stake board, supplemented
see what needed to be done, how it by ward Relief Societies and one
could be done, and they earnestly set generous brother.
out to do it. They moved carefully, ^,.,, . .. r ^ ^u • u j
•^ ' . .' i Still in its first year, this six-bed
earning one concession at a time. . ... ^ ' , .
They convinced all supporting hospital is a source of great satisfac-
groups that the thing could be done, t^o" to the thirty-five mothers al-
Contributions ranged from dimes to ready served, to other mothers reg-
ten-dollar bills, building space and istered for care in the months ahead,
books (five hundred in one lot) to and certainly to those who were
a budgeted appropriation for a li- courageous enough to start and to
brarian's salary. finish so fine a social service project.
Qjamily^ [Kelations UJepartment
Kate M . Barker, Chanman
PURPOSE AND CONDUCT OF COURSE IN
"EDUCATION FOR FAMILY LIFE"
By Nellie O. Parker
nPHE course '^Education For Fam- magazines abound with excellent
ily Life" was launched one year thoughts and discussions concerning
ago. While it has not been the it. It is an important subject for
entire success we wished it to be, everyone, especially parents. It as-
there have been some very gratify- sists them in aiding the family to
ing results. function as it should, to build char-
We feel that in many cases the acter and develop responsible citi-
aim of the course has not been clear- zens, to make better and happier
ly understood, and difficulties have homes and communities, and to
arisen that need not have been; for build a true democracv.
example, the conflict with the social It is recommended that the course
service lesson and its class leader. It be held on the fourth Tuesday of
was never intended that this course each month and that it run simul-
conflict with or detract from the taneously with the social service les-
social service lesson. son but not draw from the social ser-
The Relief Society program has vice class. It is the consensus of
always been planned to meet the the General Board that if it is im-
needs and interests of the women possible to hold the class at this time
and has been expanded to embrace because of the inconvenience to
new things as progress in a changing mothers with young children, an-
world has demanded. other hour be chosen that will allow
We find that we are not reaching these women the privilege of attend-
all eligible Latter-day Saint women ing. The class is not to be held
through our regular courses of study, on any of the other Tuesdays; we
We are not getting all of our young suggest that four p. m. on the
mothers, many of whom are high fourth Tuesday may permit mothers
school and college graduates. Many to secure older children, home from
of these young women are joining school, to care for the babies. An
clubs and study groups to the exclu- evening hour, or Sunday evening af-
sion of Relief Society. ter church, may be an advantageous
To meet this situation, the ver}' time. It would be convenient for
popular subject of ''Education For fathers to attend if the classes were
Family Life" was chosen as the new held in the evening,
course of study. The class proced- An officer of Relief Society should
ure was so planned as to give as many meet with the class; this should not
opportunities as possible for person- be too great a burden as the class
al participation and development of meets but once each month,
leadership ability. The class is to be recruited mainly
Family relations is a very vital and from new women. Seek out and in-
timely subject. Current books and vite all women who should be inter-
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ested in the course and who would
enjoy taking an active part either as
class leader or giving topics and
otherwise particpating in the dis-
cussion. The class should be a means
of adding new members to the Re-
lief Society organization.
In conformity with our aim, we
suggest that the class be allowed as
much opportunity for personal ini-
tiative and activity as possible within
Relief Society regulations and stand-
ards. Use your best judgment in
guiding the course. It is to be under
the supervision of the counselor in
charge of education.
It is recommended that a commit-
tee of three be chosen, with one
member as chairman, to serve as pro-
gram committee, to manage pro-
grams and to arrange for those taking
part each month. If there is diffi-
culty in securing a different class
leader for each lesson, members of
the program committee themselves
may take turns being class leader,
giving other members assignments
and allowing considerable time for
discussing and solving the family re-
lationship problems.
There should be a department in
Union meeting to instruct and guide
leaders in planning, organizing, and
presenting the lesson material.
There should be open sessions oc-
casionally to which husbands are in-
vited and opportunity given tliem
to participate in the discussion.
HINTS AND AIDS FOR TEACHING
FAMILY RELATIONS
By Caioline M. Hendiicks
npHIS morning I shall discuss three
points with regard to the Family
Relations class: First, what we are
hoping to do— our aim in this de-
'partment; second, some of the fun-
damental characteristics of a leader
in Family Relations third, the ma-
terial in the lessons.
In teaching Family Relations,
please do not hope to tell people
how they can be happy. There is
no recipe for happy family life, there
is no panacea; all we can hope to do
is to help each other to see our prob-
lems and analyze them with a degree
of intelligent understanding.
Family relations is one of the most
difficult subjects to teach yet, it is
one of the most satisfactory subjects.
Do not attempt to use the number
of members in your class as a cri-
terion of your success. If during the
entire year you can help one family,
you are justified in feeling that your
time and efforts have been very well
spent.
It is worth while for parents to
come together and discuss their
problems if they do nothing more
than learn that their family is not
unique in its problems. As long as
we have family life, we will have
problems to solve, and fundamental-
ly these problems are the same. They
differ in degree. One family may
have a problem that is more serious
than that of someone else in one
respect, but the other person will
have another problem that seems to
balance it. We all have problems,
and we always will have problems;
what we are attempting to do is to
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help people get an intelligent under- bers of yonr class feel that you have
standing of family relationships so a fund of information back of what
that they will be able to solve their you are saying, it will inspire con-
problems more satisfactorily. fidence in you and add greatly to
You have already heard that class your success. It is essential that any
discussion is the most desirable person who serves in the capacity
method of handling this subject mat- of a leader in family life inspires con-
ter. Encourage members to talk fidence in people,
over their problems, but never let g r Groves' book The American
them feel that you realize they are Family, is worthy of your considera-
talking about their own family prob- ^ion. Groves says that home is not
lems, even if you know they are. ^ pjace, it is a habit of life, and some
Make discussion absolutely imper- people have this habit, of course,
sonal. You must be careful in the ^lore fully than do others. What
example cases discussed not to be- ^g call '^domesticity" is a habit that
trav the- confidence of people who ^as come forth from associations in
probably have come to you to talk our former family experience. If we
over their problems. have this habit of home, this habit
Be sincere in your work, have faith of domesticity, we have it as a result
in family life. Feel in your hearts of our earlier life. Domestic ex-
that the greatest happiness in this perience is not attained by the power
world comes from human relation- of the will but it must come through
ships and that the most important experience and growth. Help these
human relationships are those with- young mothers, these young married
in the family group. Help your class people, to realize that we all have
members to realize that the greatest problems when we start out, and
source of happiness and satisfaction that living together in the family is
in this life comes from satisfactory simply an experience; emphasize the
family relationships. fact that there can be no happiness
Be vitally interested in vour sub- without growth and development,
ject. Are you interested in family ^^^P ^^^^ ^^ appreciate the serious-
life? Are you interested in gaining "^-^^ of domestic failure; it influences
information about it-the best infor- throughout life every person who is
mation available? I would suggest » part of that family group,
that during the winter at least two I cannot tell you where you can
good books dealing with the family find well written material on the
be read. Do not depend entirely first lesson, which deals with the
upon the material contained in the family council, but I do know of
lesson. Such an important subject many families who have practiced
as Family Relations requires more the family council plan, and it has
information than can possibly be giv- been their salvation. I hope you
en in the space devoted to these les- will discuss the importance of com-
sons in the Magazine. This ma- ing together in family life and its
terial will serve, I hope, to stimulate value in binding people together
you; then, you must do research within the family. Use your own
work. If you can make the mem- ideas and your own initiative and
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work them into the ideas contained curity, love and affection; a place
in the outlined lessons. where those who are weary and tired
The second lesson deals with the after the day's work will find peace
handling of family finances. Stress ^^d rest. "It is not life that matters/'
the point that whatever plan the Cornell Hart, ''it is the courage
family de^cides upon must be agree- you bring to it." There is no prob-
able to both mates. Ihere must ; ., . . . ,.„•. i. r .i • j-
1. 1. i. i.1, 1, JT £ leni that IS too dirticult tor the mdi-
be agreement as to the handlins; ot . , , .f ., . . ,. . , , , ,
family finances vidual if that individual has the nec-
I wish to stress again the impor- ^^^ary courage with which to meet
tance of faith in family life as the that problem. This is the message
foundation of success in your work, we have for our young people who
Our major aim is to make the home are beginning to found their homes
a refuge, a place of peace and com- during this very difficult period of
fort where every individual has se- time.
\:yfficers llieeting
ADDRESS
ByWillmmE.Ryheig
Member of Church Welfare Committee
I SINCERELY appreciate the making her calls in the district al-
honor of representing the Church lotted to her.
Welfare Committee at this meeting. I recognize that today I am speak-
As long as I can remember, one of ing to a group of sisters to whom
the most impressive things in my Church Welfare is not at all new.
life, and one from which I received The fundamental principles of the
great inspiration, was the work of Relief Society, as I understand them,
Relief Society as expressed in my are exactly the ideals which Church
own mother. I well remernber that Welfare is attempting to put into ac-
through the most depressing periods tual practice. If there is anything
of our early life a consoling thing new to Church Welfare, which the
which seeined to hold our family to- Relief Society does not understand,
gether was the great confidence and it can only be that their service has
the firm testimony of my mother in been augmented by the service of
the truth of the church to which we certain brethren who have been call-
belonged, and I am confident this ed to assist in solving the economic
testimony was largely influenced by problems and the distress of those
her activities in Relief Society, who are unfortunate in a period of
When my mother approached her time when conditions are too serious
eightieth birthday, she was still in for any one unit of the Church to
the service of Relief Society, still handle alone.
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Sister Robison has asked what the There are many of us who are will-
Rehef Society can do, as a body, to ing to accept high positions of honor
further the plans of the Church Wei- and responsibility in the Church
fare Program. I am thoroughly con- without accepting the actual work
vinced that without the assistance and effort which go with these
of Relief Society, the Church Wei- honors. A man who accepts a posi-
fare Program cannot be successfully tion of responsibility and honor and
consummated. There is no organi- who does not fulfill the obligations
zation in the Church which has the of that honor is not only unfaithful
ability and which has had the ex- to the Church but is unfaithful to
perience in relief work that the Re- that woman whom he admires most
lief Society has had. The Relief and also to himself. One of our
Society does not only hold and main- first considerations should be the
tain the admiration, respect, love and temporal welfare of our less fortu-
esteem of members of the Church, nate brethren. I do not think it is
but throughout the world the influ- quite consistent for our Church to
ence of this organization is known, pose as the spiritual savior of man-
Therefore, there is no question in my kind if it cannot, here in this wodd,
mind but that the ultimate success help in the temporal salvation of the
of the Church Welfare Program will less fortunate. Remember, sisters,
be measured in terms of the amount there is no other place in all the
of activity into which the leaders of worid which is as blessed as is our
the Church bring the Relief Society, own country. We should be grateful
A very important factor in the sue- ^^^^ ^^'^ li^'e in a country which is so
cess of tlie Program, and one, I be- blessed. The majority of Church
lieve, that lies directly within the members are not more than three
hands of the members of the Relief generations away from the war-torn
Society, is the influence of women. European countries, and the Gospel
If we were to analyze the underlying message is the thing that brought
reasons for tlie success of men who ^^^^ grandparents here. Is it then
have contributed to the world in ^^^ ^^eh that you sisters use your
the fields of science, literature, social influence to help the brethren ap-
service, or any phase of public life, preeiate the blessings and recognize
we would find somewhere the in- ^^e obligations which arc theirs as
spiration of a splendid woman. In members of this Church?
the totalitarian or dictatorship coun- Before I close, I want to answer
tries, the influence of womanhood is two other questions that were pro-
not present, while in the democra- pounded to me: \\1iat can the Re-
cies, the place of women in the af- lief Society do in furnishing supplies
fairs of the state is almost equal from the efforts of their own auxil-
to that of men. Men should recog- iary organization for the Church
nize the influence for good exerted Welfare Program, and how may
by women. I believe the Relief So- credits be received?
ciety can influence the brethren to In the first instance, the Relief
fulfill their obligations as members Society presidency of anv ward
of the Priesthood. should contact the bishop and dis-
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cuss with him first of all what ar- to him, she should report the Condi-
tides are required in that particular tion to her stake president. If it is
ward, or what that particular ward not then corrected, the stake presi-
might profitably contribute to the dent should report it to a higher
stake, and from the stake to the re- source. It is not human, it is in-
gion. If the Relief Society in that hum.an, to allow people to suffer,
ward has surplus commodities of any and I think it is definitely the re-
type, which are also surplus in the sponsibility of the Relief Society to
stake, there is ao reason why these see that no such conditions occur",
cannot be contributed to the region. j^^ie following statement was
There is no reason why that particu- ^lade to me at the close of a certain
lar Relief Society cannot receive nieeting: "Brother Ryberg, I know
credit for that contribution, and ^i-^^^ j ^an get assistance from the
there is no reason why they should ^^j-d if I only dared ask, but I would
not draw from the region other need- rather be put against a wall and shot
ed articles up to the amount of the t^^n to go through the humiliation
^^^^^t. tJiat I would have to go through in
The other question is: How can o^^er to get that assistance. My
Relief Society develop new projects business would immediately become
in their own local ward units, and ^he business of the entire ward."
from what source can the money That 15 tragic, sisters, and I have
be obtained? enough confidence in the rank and
The Relief Society stake president file of the Relief Society to believe
knows, or should know, the things that such situations exist only in a
which are surplus in the region, and minority of cases. When a member
the things which the region is in of the Church comes to any person
need of. In the event a program is with authority in the Church and
developed in a stake or ward to sup- confesses the problems which are
ply these shortages, the funds nat- bearing him down, the information
urally come from the bishop. The given is confidential, and the person
bishop can in turn take his funds who gives it has the right to expect
from the fast offerings. In the event that it will be kept in strictest con-
the fast offerings in his ward are not fidence.
sufficient for this purpose, he has the The question has been asked:
right to request funds from the stake What part does the Relief Society
fast offerings. In the event the fast play with reference to the Priest-
offerings from the stake are not suf- hood? Every Friday morning the
ficient, he has the right to request General Committee meets with the
funds from the region. First Presidency, a representative of
I think it is purely within the right the Presiding Bishopric, a representa-
of the president of a local unit to tive of the Council of the Twelve,
inform her bishop if she knows of a representative of the First Council
any worthy members of the Church of Seventy, and a representative of
within her ward who are suffering, the General Board of Relief Society.
I think if the Bishop does not re- No step is taken in the Church Wel-
spond after the information is given fare Program, as related to the Relief
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 771
Society, without the General Board Church where this is being over-
first being consulted. Now that looked, I am of the opinion that
should hold true throughout the en- the Church Welfare Program is not
tire Program. There is a definite particularly successful. In the event
place for the Relief Society in the this condition exists in your stake
ward set-up, in the stake set-up, and or ward, you sisters holding respon-
in the regional set-up. If the First sible positions should report it to
Presidency, the Presiding Bishopric, your stake president, and failing
the Council of the Twelve, the there, to your general officers. When
First Council of Seventy and the it is reported to them, I am sure they
General Committee feel that the will report it at the council meeting
advice and counsel of the sisters of on Friday morning,
the General Board is necessary, sure- I am happy to have been with
ly the ward units and stake units you this morning, and have at-
should recognize that fact in their tempted to explain some things
deliberations. If there is any place which seem to have been in ques-
in a ward, stake or region in the tion.
OFFICIAL INSTRUCTIONS
By President Louise Y. Rohison
W>
'E are very happy to meet with soon be ready. It will be a handy,
you this morning under such loose-leaf style so that when open it
favorable conditions, to discuss prob- will lie perfectly flat. The words and
lems of common interest. music are photographic, making it
New Books: I should like to call very easily read. We are striving to
your attention to some new books keep the price of the book as low as
which are of special interest to Lat- possible. The stakes will be notified
ter-day Saints. Brother George D. as soon as the book is ready.
Pyper has just published a volume Last year some very excellent nov-
entitled The Story oi Our Hymns, els were used in our Literature
which presents in his delightful style course. The Deseret Book Com-
the stories of our Latter-day Saint pany still has a number of these
hymns. Sister Janet Bingham Dee books on hand, which can be pur-
of the Primary General Board has chased at a nominal price. We sug-
published a valuable and beautifully gest them as very appropriate Christ-
illustrated book, A Yoice From The mas gifts.
Dust, which presents the story and Pie-nataJ Cnre: There are still
doctrine contained in the Book oi women in our Society who do not
Mormon in a form easily read. This know where to obtain information
publication should result in a greater on pre-natal care. Splendid material
understanding of the Book oi Mot- may be secured by writing to your
mon. We unhesitatingly recommend state board of health. Stake presi-
both books to you. dents kindly notify the sisters.
The Reliei Society Son^ Book vjiW Child Health: We have a great
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responsibility in safeguarding the groups who would aid in this impor-
health of our children. Children tant welfare program. Children must
with weak bodies grow up greatly not go through life handicapped be-
handicapped. In a school district cause of the small amount of money
within one hundred miles of Salt necessary to insure good teeth.
Lake City, an examination of 338 Reliei Society Funds and The
pre-school children revealed only 78 Ward Budget: The Presiding Bish-
with teeth in normal condition— opric have instituted ward budgets
these, of course, were baby teeth, throughout the Church. Tlie Relief
An examination of 476 sixth-grade Society heartily approves of the prin-
children— an eleven-year-old group ciple of the budget. The budget
with permanent teeth— revealed on- plan has been clearly set forth in
ly 60 with teeth in good condition, the August, 1939, issue of Prog-
The other day I heard of a man who Tess oi the Churchy published by
earns $180 per month. An examina- the Presiding Bishopric and sent to
tion of the teeth of his five children all bishops. We suggest that Relief
revealed that each child had more Society presidents ask the bishops to
than five cavities. permit them to read this. Due to the
The proper care of children's "^t"^^ ^^ ^^^i^^ ^^^^^^ work, it is
teeth may well be a project for Re- deemed advisable that there be cer-
lief Society. This does not mean ^am modifications in the application
we are to pay for the dental care of ^^ ^^e budget plan with regard to
all children, but rather that we im- ^^^'^^ Society funds,
press mothers with the importance The charity fund is not included
of good teeth and stimulate them to in the budget. This fund is created
make use of the opportunities avail- from collections received by the vis-
able to have teeth examined and iting teachers and is used only for
properly cared for. Of course, there the purpose indicated by its name,
are families in the Church who have Membership dues are not includ-
difficulty in supplying the basic ne- ed; we believe that when women
cessities of life for children, and for make the effort to pay their own
this reason teeth are neglected. In annual dues they appreciate their
such cases, tide them over. Let them membership more,
feel it is their responsibility as far xiie general fund, which is a con-
as possible to carry the expense of tingent or operating fund of the Or-
corrective work, but arrange for ganization, has in the past been cre-
them to pay a little down and meet ated by the industry of the women,
the balance as they best can. it has been used for the purchase
Where families positively cannot of textbooks, record books and mis-
meet the expense themselves and cellaneous things. Now, in wards
where the ward and stake are unable operating on the budget plan, the
to do so, call on the General Board, general fund may be allowed Relief
This problem is of sufficient impor- Society from the ward budget, just
tance to attract community interest, as other auxiliaries receive their op-
I believe there are doctors, city and crating fund. To determine the
county commissioners, and other amount necessary, we recommend
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that expenses incurred during the
past three years be averaged and the
amount of this average be requested
of the bishop when the ward budget
is set up. Do not draw on the
bishopric for any more than is abso-
lutely necessary. If you have avail-
able funds, use these before drawing
on the ward budget. These rulings
may change in the future, but for
the present this is our plan.
Even though a ward is on a budget,
we can see no reason why Relief
Society should not hold a bazaar to
display useful handmade articles and
to encourage people to make beauti-
ful things! We cannot see any pos-
sible objection to the sale of these
articles, but there should be no ad-
mission fee charged.
We trust Relief Society will do
everything within its power to aid
the bishop in making the budget
plan succeed.
Relief Society Singing Mothers:
The question has been asked wheth-
er the Relief Society Singing Moth-
ers from all over the Church will
again be invited to sing at April
Conference, 1940. The plan now is
to concentrate efforts on a glorious
centennial in 1942. So we ask the
Singing Mothers to perfect them-
selves and sing in the stakes and
wards, but the Augmented Chorus
will not be assembled again until
1942. We hope that by next April
we will be prepared to announce the
details of the program for our hun-
dreth anniversary.
Family Relations: Sound family
relationships are of vital importance.
The course "Education for Family
Life" has been introduced into the
Relief Society program to help
young mothers better understand
and meet the problems of family
life.
Magazine Drive: We are delight-
ed with the work of our Magazine
representatives. Most of the stakes
are now engaged in the Drive and
excellent results are being obtained.
Do not feel that people are too poor
to subscribe; those who have the
least money are in many cases our
most faithful subscribers.
Class Leaders: Before calling any
person to a position in Relief So-
ciety, in either ward or stake capaci-
ty, advise her of the full requirements
of the position. Attendance of class
leaders at Union meeting is almost
a necessity. There may occasionally
be a woman who is able to render
fine service to Relief Society and
thus tie herself to the Church, yet,
because of being in school or at busi-
ness, is unable to attend Union
meeting. Such cases, however, are
rare. Before asking women to ac-
cept positions, ask them if they have
time to attend Union meeting.
Church Beautificatfon: Church
beautification, and that also in-
cludes home beautification, can be
carried out better with the women
interested than in any other way.
Encourage the sisters to plant gar-
dens, shrubs and trees. A fine prac-
tice is to plant a tree in honor of
a birthday or some other important
event. I heard an Idaho man say
that the thing which made him want
to go back to his home in the East
was a great big oak tree that had
been planted in his honor when he
was born. That tree tied him to the
East even more than did the people.
There is sentiment in tree planting.
Encourage the sisters to see that
ward chapels are kept clean, that
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children are taught not to throw pa- Rehef Society. Please check up and
pers and other things about meeting see if any of your women are depend-
house grounds. ing upon the ward to take a mem-
Nutiition: The following question bership.
has been asked: 'Is the nutrition Literature Course: Due to present
class, held on Work and Business international trouble, it has been
day, optional with the wards?" We deemed advisable to change the
refer you to the following ruling in third book in the Literature course,
the May, 1938, issue of the Reliei A new book will be substituted for
Society Magazine, page 334: ''The the Four Horsemen of the Apoca-
General Board suggests that the use lypse. While the Four Horsemen
of this material (nutrition) be op- is a great novel, presenting a vivid
tional in the wards and may be used picture of the horrors of war, we
in connection with the traditional believe that a more cheerful book
activities of the day (work and busi- should be used,
ness) ." However, need should deter- Reteshments on Woik and Busi-
mine the advisability of having the ness Day: We have found that some
course. It there is one woman in wards are going rather to the ex-
your ward who needs help, there is no treme in serving refreshments on
question but that the class should Work and Business day. Serve light
be held. refreshments occasionally; they
Raising Funds For New ChapeJs: make for sociability, and Work and
Help the bishops all you can, but it Business day is the social day in Re-
is not the ward Relief Society presi- lief Society, but do not make this
dent's responsibility to raise funds a burden,
for new chapels. Visiting Teachers: The following
Mormon Handicraft: Mormon new ruling has been made: When
Handicraft sales have increased at a reorganization of Relief Society
least one-third this year. We appre- takes place in the ward, all visiting
ciate the cooperation of the local teachers are to be released when
sisters as well as the fine support of the president is released. In many
the advisory committee. Articles re- wards the great number of inactive
ceived have been of higher standard visiting teachers has become a bur-
— fewer have been returned. We den. In reorganizing the visiting
still need inexpensive articles but teachers, do not overlook any sister
well made and attractive. We are who has rendered good service. Be
still overstocked with some articles, prayerful about making your new se-
so please write to us before the wom- lections. In some way, try to honor
en go to the expense of making ex- those who have given faithful service
pensive things, such as bedspreads, over a long period of years,
and ascertain whether or not there Tlie question has been asked:
is apt to be a sale for these articles. Should non-members of the Church
Membership dues are from January serve as visiting teachers? Generally
to January and are $1 a year for the speaking, we say no. There is, of
ward or for an individual member- course, an occasional exception. For
ship of anyone not a member of the example, in the mission field where
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 775
they are greatly handicapped for
workers, we may find a woman wlio
is genuinely converted but for some
good reason has not yet joined the
Church. This sister might reason-
ably be used. But in our wards, let
us use Latter-day Saint women who
understand the principles of the
Gospel to bear the Relief Society
message to the homes.
We request that visiting teachers
be not asked to sell books or tickets
for any organization or cause, in-
cluding Relief Society. We do not
want them to act as Magazine agents
when making their regular visits. We
also request that they be not used
as an advertising medium for any
cause, unless it be some special Re-
lief Society activity. The teachers
may carry such an announcement,
but do not have them go as solicitors.
Visiting teachers are to go with a
spiritual message for the purpose of
uplifting the family.
QJirst (general Session
RELIEF SOCIETY WELFARE WORK
By Counselor Amy Brown Lyman
TT is interesting as well as inspira-
tional for us to look back and
recount the many achievements of
Relief Society women of the past
in the field of human welfare, and
we love to do this. But it is equally
interesting as well as gratifying to ob-
serve the fine work being done by
Relief Society women of today in
this same field.
The General Board appreciates
your interest in the Church Welfare
Program with which we are cooper-
ating and to which we are devoted,
and we commend you dear sisters
for your efforts in this great under-
taking—for the hours and days you
have given to the cause. We appre-
ciate also your ready attention to
cases of need in your own wards.
In all of our welfare work I am
sure we are keeping in mind our
ideal of helping people to help them-
selves and of trying to provide op-
portunity for them to do this.
We appreciate your work in the
interest of health and maternity wel-
fare; in the general and special clin-
ics you are aiding, and in the follow-
up work you are doing in connection
with them. We know that through
your faithful efforts many children
have been able to enter school this
fall physically fit. But we are won-
dering if all the defects discovered
were looked after or corrected. We
are wondering if there are children
in your communities who still have
diseased tonsils and bad teeth, eyes
that need glasses, ears that need at-
tention, with apparently no one able
to do anything about it. And what
about malnutrition? We are hoping
that our special nutrition work for
this year will bear good fruit in this
direction.
We are mindful of the fact that
last year you spent 33,000 days in
volunteer nursing of the sick, and
that you made 208,000 comforting
and helpful visits to the sick, home-
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bound and handicapped. Also, that Riding on a railroad train recently
the visiting teachers made over one was a group of men discussing the
million friendly family visits. futility of laws restricting the right
We appreciate your interest and to drink intoxicating liquor. The
activity in the campaign of the idea prevailed that all men have a
Church for the non-use of liquor right to drink, the same as the right
and tobacco and thus for the pro- to eat; that to attempt to regulate
tection of our children from these drinking is an interference with a
devastating poisons. Education and man's personal liberties,
prevention in this matter, as you The conversation was interrupted
know, are especially important. The by a passenger who drew near the
first cigarette is, for the youth, the group and asked this question, ''Do
easiest to refuse; the first drink, the you believe that the engineer and
easiest to pass up. When once a the train crew that operate this train
young person becomes a cigarette ad- should enjoy the liberty to drink in-
dict, an alcoholic or a drug addict, toxicating beverages?" The unani-
you who have had experience in case mous reply was, *'No". He then
work know that you have a real prob- asked why these should be discrim-
lem and a heartbreaking situation, inated against and denied this right
It is gratifying to know that we are and this freedom. The verdict was
united in our stand for total absti- that the law should require these
nence in these things. men to be sober so as not to en-
In Utah, California and probably danger the lives of passengers on
in many other states, the schools the train. Then there was a ques-
have a definite program for teach- tion about air pilots, with the same
ing the effects of alcohol, tobacco conclusion. It was then computed
and other narcotic drugs. Let us that there are 60,000 railroad engin-
find out what these programs are eers in the United States, all of
and support them. Let us ask what whom should not be allowed this
each of our schools is doing in this freedom and right. It was also com-
respect. Dr. Skidmore, State Sup- puted that besides the 60,000 rail-
erintendent of Public Instruction in road engineers, there are about 35,-
Utah, says: 'The responsibility of 000,000 licensed automobile engin-
carrying on this particular program eers who are entrusted with high-
for the good of our young people powered gasoline engines on the
rests largely with the school execu- Public highways, where there are no
tives but can not be successful un- rails, no guards and no signals. The
less it has the backing of communi- question was asked, "Is it not neces-
ties, churches, all public-spirited or- sary that these latter should be re-
ganizations and the best citizens of quired to be sober as well as the rail-
the State." road engineers?" Again the answer
I recently read a stimulating ar- ^as, "Yes". So we might go on,
tide by Charles Longacre, Secretar)^ says the author, and ask about drunk-
of the American Temperance Asso- en pedestrians walking in front of
ciation, on the subject, "Who Has the automobiles and causing acci-
A Right To Drink?" dents, and about the parents of in-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 777
nocent little children who dethrone the family. We have faith in the
their reason and impair their good family. We feel that the most vital
judgment by the use of intoxicating concern of society should be the cul-
liquor. Personal liberty surely can- tivation and conservation of the fam-
not in justice infringe upon the ily and its restoration and rehabili-
rightful liberty and freedom of oth- tation where necessary. In recent
ers. Even "wets" are agreed that years the family has been the subject
the sale of adulterated foods that of much discussion and criticism,
are injurious to health should be Critics representing the most radical
prohibited as well as that dangerous group contend that the maintenance
drugs and firearms should be restrict- of family life is surely threatened,
ed. The author then asks, "Who It is most heartening to learn, from
has a right to drink?" In the last a survey made recently at the Uni-
paragraph of his article he sums up versity of Minnesota, of the fine
as follows: ideals held by many young people
"Who has a right to drink? Do today. A long questionnaire was
I as a prospective father or you as sent out to 1600 Minnesota alumni,
a prospective mother have a right asking about the things they thought
to drink alcoholic beverages, or use most important and most desirable,
cocaine or marihuana when science The first five choices of things the
tells me that my offspring will have men most wanted were: A happy
to suffer the blight and curse of both married life, financial success, secur-
mental and physical defects for it? ity for old age, a comfortable stand-
No father has a ri^ht to come ^'^ ^^ ^'""^"S' ^""^ ""^^'"^ ^ ^^^^
... IXU IdLlld lido d lielllL L\J CvJiilC i rrri n t r il *
T . . J • 1.1, • J home. The first five thmgs women
home staggerm? and labbermg and ^ ^ , at, • j
J u • V- •£ J most wanted were: A happy married
cursing and abusing his wire and ,.. t \j\ ^ j j rv •
1 -1 1 ^ , £ J • 1 XT i-i, life, a comfortable standard of living,
children because of drmk. No moth- \. ,, ,.,, . , °
1, • i,j. J. T. • T, J making a good home, children they
er has a right to bring shame and m\_ jrji. i
,. J 1, J- T, could be proud or, and travel,
disgrace and a handicap upon her ^ '
offspring because of drink. No son It will be noted that the first
or daughter has a right to bring re- choice of both men and women was
proach and dishonor and ingratitude a ^^ppy married life, and the fifth
upon an upright and respectable fa- choice of the men and the third
ther and mother because of drink, of the women was "making a good
No citizen has a right to make a home". This is surely encouraging
pauper out of himself, to be sup- m this day of easy divorce,
ported by society because of drink. We commend Relief Society
Any nation that debauches and cor- women for their devotion to the
rupts its youth through the curse of Gospel and its teachings. In this
drink destroys its own future and day of wodd confusion, we are chal-
commits national suicide." lenged as are all other Christian
groups to preserve and maintain the
"lATE appreciate your interest in ethical, moral and religious stand-
homemaking and in the build- ards and ideals set up by the Master.
ing up of stable family life. We Let us dedicate ourselves to these
are a family agency. We believe in ideals. It is evident that there is
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need to work not only for economic The guiding power of religion and
recovery and for health, but also for spirituality is desperately needed in
moral and spiritual recovery— for the world today. May this be our
moral and spiritual rearmament, first interest is my earnest prayer.
(becond (general Session
ADDRESS
By Mrs. Vincent Hilles Ober
President, National Federation of Music Clubs
T^HE National Federation of Mu- ness with reference to humanity as
sic Clubs is complimented in our keynote,
having a place on the program of the Music has a greater mission than
Relief Society Conference. We are to merely create a friendly reaction
proud, with you, of the Singing among individuals, or furnish enter-
Mothers. The National Federation tainment; it can be a great influence
of Music Clubs is better and strong- for good in the wodd, because peo-
er because of the membership main- pie who are engaged in cultural de-
tained in it by the Singing Mothers velopment have no time for evil
of the Relief Society. planning. In these days of misun-
America's foundations were laid derstanding and friction, we pray for
332 years ago— quite recently in con- the peaceful influence of the gospel
trast to those of Europe, and along of music, that nations and neighbors
very different lines. In a country may be interpreted to each other,
which has carried forward the great- We are not a singing nation. We
est and the most successful experi- would be a more confident nation
ment in democracy which the world if we sang together. The organiza-
has known to date, it is important to tion which I represent, the National
preserve our freedom of musical ex- Federation of Music Clubs, has func-
pression along with our freedom of tioned for over forty-one years in
speech and religion. The music of making America more musical. Our
the United States should be a demo- members— men and women, boys
era tic music, and music should be and girls— in their club life have ac-
used as a means of building and complishcd a record of which we are
insuring the freedom of American proud. We work with children, and
institutions. Through music we can last year we had over eight thousand
do much to integrate nationalities participate in our contests. We sup-
within our country, working toward port young artists, giving them en-
the ideal of developing life so that gagements. We inspire the com-
it will include a pattern of peace, poser and recognize compositions of
of brotherhood, of harmony and un- value. We create scholarship funds
derstanding, of sympathy, of noble- for the underprivileged, talented
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child. In 47 countries, through our and friendly relations between the
international music clubs, the com- Americas. We know of the inter-
positions of American composers pretative powers of music between
have been presented. We have es- nations; we are at this time empha-
tablishcd a MacDowell Fellowship sizing sending music abroad. Last
for the use of the American com- week we sent a large supply of music
poser. We are collecting music and to Belgium, Sweden and Scotland,
sending it to stricken China. May our foundations in the Unit-
We are going to a conference ed States be strengthened by a high
called by the Secretary of State in purpose for the support of all things
the interest of maintaining happy good!
ADDRESS
By Piesident Louise Y. Rohison
TN the eariy part of this year it was Book of Mormon as a land choice
my privilege to attend a confer- above all other lands,
ence held in the White House. I There were representatives from
wish you might have the thrill which Alaska, Hawaii, Porto Rico, as well
came to me the day I spent there, as from every state in the Union
It was not the beautiful buildmg, it except two in attendance at the con-
was not even the thought that presi- ference. It was interesting to see
dents or officers of our government how earnestly the subject of charac-
lived there, although I honor these ter education for our children was
men in their positions. It was some- approached and how sincerely ways
thing more than that; it was my and means of accomplishing this
country, and it stood for opportunity were sought. I was interested in
and the fine things of life which it the address of Mr. Homer Folks,
gives to us just to the extent that I will read just a bit of his address
we are prepared to receive them. to let you see, as I do now, the pos-
I was a bit early for the conference, sibility of every little child, whether
possibly twenty minutes before the it be your child or another person's,
opening of the meeting. I was so if properly cared for. Sister Amy
glad that I had a few minutes to W. Evans, a former member of our
think, and I thanked God that I General Board, used to say that good
could say, 'This is my country," and social work, good community service,
it is my country because my parents means that the community gives to
accepted the gospel of Jesus Christ every child the same attention that
and came to this land. My parents one would want given to his own
were English-born. I was never more child. The following paragraph
thankful for them, that they were the from Homer Folks implies the won-
type who heard the voice of the dcrful opportunities there are for
Shepherd through His servants when children. He said:
he called them to gather to this land, "In planning for this 1939 con-
described by the prophets in the ference, we have been looking ahead,
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not to 1940, but to 1980 or there-
abouts. Somewhere within these
United States, within the past few
years, was born a child who will be
elected in 1980 to the most respon-
sible office in the world, whose in-
cumbent lives here. We cannot
guess his name or whereabouts. He
may come from any place and from
any social or economic group. He
may now be in the home of one
of the soft-coal miners, or in the
family of a sharecropper, or quite
possibly in the home of one of the
unemployed, or in a family migrating
from the Dust Bowl, or in a college
professor's family, or he may be sur-
rounded with every facility, conven-
ience, and protection which money
can buy. Very likely his home is on
a farm. Even Dr. Gallup with his
poll can give us no light on this
problem."
Children born in any of these situ-
ations can become leaders in this
great country of ours. Mr. Folks la-
ter said that even though a child
does not become President, there are
hundreds of governors, mayors and
lawmakers needed. In our Church
think of the number of bishops,
stake presidents and apostles need-
ed, as well as the great office of
president of the Church. What
wonderful opportunities there are for
children! But there are other things
that must also be given them. Of
course, attention was called to their
need for good homes, food and
medical help, but a fine Catholic
Priest said, "Character, more than
brains and brawn, is the essential for
successful living and for an ordered
society. To build character, youth
must be taught the art of right think-
ing and the science of self-control."
Speaking further, he said: ''Man or
child cannot do without absolutes;
namely, the existence of God, the
eternal and immutable principles of
right and wrong, and the inherent
dignity of man."
\X7HEN I heard these things, of
course my mind turned to the
Relief Society. What is Relief So-
ciety doing to uphold these standards
and meet these needs? In listening
to Sister Lyman and Sister Barker as
they told of the real work we are
doing, I realized that we have a
program that will take care of every
one of these needs. Statistics given
me by a school nurse from a com-
munity within one hundred miles of
Salt Lake City reveal that out of
476 examinations of sixth grade chil-
dren, which means children about
eleven years old who have their per-
manent teeth, only 60 children's
teeth were in good condition. Now,
much depends upon Relief Society.
We have the means, we have the
provisions for caring for these things.
No matter how fine the spirit of a
child or how hard he tries, he is
handicapped when grown to man-
hood if he has a weak body. So
we must build up the bodies of chil-
dren and also direct them so they
will live in accordance with the prin-
ciples that have been given us. The
thing that pleases me in contemplat-
ing all of this is that we were told
to do these things by a prophet of
God, a man whom God the Father
and His Son Jesus Christ spoke to
and told of the needs of the people
not only a hundred years ago, but
right today.
Sisters of the Relief Society, see
where you can put these things into
practice. It was the opinion of the
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conference held in the White House
that the home, the school and the
church are responsible for those
things which they deemed even
more essential than material things
—the emotional and religious train-
ing that will result in good charac-
ters.
I pray my Heavenly Father that
He will bless you wonderful women,
that He will go with you to your
homes and to your groups, and that
you will have the spirit which we
have had in this conference. Yes-
terday was marvelous; there were so
many splerfdid instructions— read
them in your Magazine.
I think a very interesting thing is
revealed in the life of the Savior,
the Son of God. He had power to
call legions to His command, but
when that terrible hour came and
He knew He had to pass through a
terrible ordeal, the Bible tells us in
Matthew that He went to Gethsem-
ane with His disciples and He was
sorrowful, and He said to his friends
Peter and the two sons of Zebedee,
''Tarry ye here, and watch with me."
He was sorrowful unto death, and
while He prayed they slept, and
when He came to them. He said,
"What, could ye not watch with
me one hour?"
I wonder if there is any one here
who does not need the human
touch, who does not, through the
Relief Society, have the opportunity
of watching the one hour with those
who are bearing heavy burdens!
Look after those who have heavy
burdens. You have been given that
privilege, you can comfort and bless
souls. May God help you that you
may see how to do it, and may you
have His spirit to lead you I humbly
ask in the name of Jesus Christ,
Amen.
liotice: (conference x/Lddi
resses
TN the interest of time and wide distribution, it has been deemed advisable
to publish Relief Society Conference Addresses in the Relief Society
Magazine rather than in a special Conference pamphlet.
The Address by President David O. McKay will appear in full in a
later issue of the Magazine. Digests of the following will also appear:
"Lesson Objectives"— Mark K. Allen
"Good Reading— Joan of Arc", Rosannah C. Irvine
"Les Miserables", Belle S. Spafford
"Report of Family Relations Work in Stakes", Annie M. Farr, Smith-
field Stake, Emma G. Phillips, Liberty Stake
"Educational Work of the Relief Society", Counselor Kate M. Barker
LESSON
DEPARTMENT
oJheology^ and cJestimony
Lesson 5
Saul's Vision and the Changed Life
Helpful References
F. W. Farrar, The Life and Work
oi St. Paul, chs. X, XL
A. T. Robertson, Epochs in the
Life of Paul, pp. 39-102.
B. W. Robinson, The Life of Paul,
PP- 4373-
J. P. Smyth, The Story of St.
Paul's Life and Letters, pp. 28-52.
F. A. Spencer, Beyond Damascus,
chs. XI, XIL
^^CAUL, SAUL, WHY PERSE-
^ CUTEST THOU MEr -
SauFs zeal and abiHty made him the
scourge of the early Christians. He
went from house to house ferreting
out men and women who were
members of the accursed society that
proclaimed allegiance to Jesus, the
arisen Messiah. Saul must have sat-
isfied himself in time that the threat
of a flourishing Christian commun-
ity in Jerusalem was past, for we next
find him seeking another field of la-
bor. "And Saul, yet breathing out
threatenings and slaughter against
the disciples of the Lord, went unto
the high priest, and desired of him
letters to Damascus, to the syna-
gogues, that if he found any of this
Way, whether they were men or
women, he might bring them bound
unto Jerusalem." (Acts 9:1, 2.) We
shall have to admit one thing about
Saul— he was thorough. Nothing
short of complete extermination of
the early church satisfied him. The
unusual quality of Saul's intellect
and training shows up plainly even
in his persecution activities.
But the Lord took a hand. A vig-
orous, sincere, well-disciplined Phar-
isee, if rightly taught, could do just
as much good in the service of the
Church, as he could evil under the
influence of a mistaken Jewish phil-
osophy. Let us not be misled. Saul
was no ordinary Pharisee. He had
undoubtedlv led a clean, wholesome
life which, judging from certain
statements of Christ in the Gospels,
could not be said of some Pharisees.
Furthermore, he had the special
qualities necessary to make a suc-
cessful apostle. Otherwise, the Mas-
ter would never have chosen him
for the important service he had in
mind. We truly believe that Saul in
all of his persecutions and drivings
of the Christians did so with a firm
conviction that he was in God's ser-
vice. (I Timothy 1:12, 13.) He was
no hypocrite.
Shortly before reaching Damascus,
Saul had his famous vision. "And
suddenly there shined round about
him a light from heaven; and he fell
to the earth, and heard a voice sav-
ing unto him, Saul, Saul, why per-
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secutest thou me?" We need not
argue, as some have done, over the
details of this vision and attempt to
wrest from the Scriptures more than
they plainly tell us. (Acts 9:3-9;
22:6-11; 26:12-18; I Cor. 15:8.) Suf-
fice it to say that Saul knew, better
than it was possible for mortal man
to express, that Jesus was the Christ.
He was henceforth to be in the ser-
vice of the Master.
SAUL REVERSES HIMSELF.
We can only imagine what it must
have meant to a man of Saul's train-
ing and temperament to suddenly
find that the hated Jesus of Nazar-
eth, whose humble followers he had
been persecuting, was in reality the
Messiah for whose coming the Jews
were all looking. The greater the in-
telligence and training of a man un-
der such circumstances, the greater
the shock— and Saul was highly in-
telligent. Wlien he could find words
he said, "Who art thou. Lord?" The
Lord said, ''I am Jesus, whom thou
persecutest. But rise, and stand upon
thy feet; for I have appeared unto
thee for this purpose to make thee
a minister and a witness both of
these things which thou hast seen,
and of those things in the which I
will appear unto thee; delivering
thee from the people, and from the
Gentiles, unto whom I now send
thee, to open their eyes, and to turn
them from darkness to light, and
from the power of Satan unto God,
that they may receive forgiveness of
sins and inheritance among them
which are sanctified by faith that is
in me. Go into the city, and it shall
be told thee what thou must do."
(See Acts 26:16-18; 9:5, 6.) It will
be noted that Saul mentions not one
word of reproach from the Savior.
He was taken, physically blind, but
spiritually very much awake, to Da-
mascus where he was left at the
house of one Judas, who was prob-
ably expecting him. (Acts 9:11.)
Saul's three days of blindness rough-
ly correspond in effect to the repeti-
tion of visions experienced by the
Prophet Joseph Smith— his afflic-
tion gave him a good opportunity foi
mental readjustment and impressed
the teachings he had received more
firmly upon his mind. His theology,
like Job, was on the ash heap, but
out of it a new one, incomparably
greater, was to arise. Saul's remark-
able training in the Scriptures en-
abled him to understand quickly the
teachings of Christ. Soon the whole
panorama of Christian philosophy
would be spread out before his quick
mentality. After Ananias had healed
Saul (Acts 9:10-19) the latter began
to preach of Christ as zealously as
he had formerly persecuted him. He
did so well that soon the Jews sought
to put him to death. (Acts 9:20-25.)
This change on Saul's part we may
call the Great Re\'ersal. It is prob-
ably the greatest in history and has
had greatest effects.
A JEWISH THEOLOGIAN
LEARNS CHRISTIANITY. One
gets the impression from reading
Acts 9:26-30 that Saul, immediately
after escaping his enemies in Damas-
cus, set out for Jerusalem and on
arriving there conferred with the
apostles. In the letter to the Gala-
tians (1 :i6-i9) we get a different un-
derstanding of what happened. *'I
immediately conferred not with flesh
and blood; neither went I up to Jer-
usalem to those which were apostles
before me, but I went awav into
Arabia, and returned again unto Pa-
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mascus. Then, after three years, I
went up to Jerusalem to see Peter,
and abode with him fifteen days.
But other of the apostles saw I none,
save James, the Lord's brother." We
do not know what part of Arabia
Saul departed to, whether Sinai in
the south, or elsewhere. He found
quiet places where he could medi^
tate and be taught by the spirit of
revelation. In his letter to the Ga-
latians, Saul emphasizes the fact
that he did not receive the Gospel
from man. "Nor was I taught it, but
I received it through revelation of
Jesus Christ." (Galatians 1:12.) It
is perfectly possible that Saul, like
Moses, John the Baptist, and even
the Christ, learned many or most of
the principles he was to teach by
revelation while in Arabia. Because
of the fact that he was to be a spe-
cial emissary to the Gentiles he no
doubt received instructions pertain-
ing to that calling.
We should much like to know
what passed between Peter and Saul
during the latter's visit to Jerusalem.
It is probable that Peter told Saul
first hand his experiences in the ser-
vice of the Master and received in
exchange the younger man's story
of his unusual revelation. The visit
of the future Apostle of the Gentiles
to Jerusalem was not devoid of un-
pleasant experiences. The disciples
still remembered his former perse-
cutions and were afraid of him until
Barnabas reassured them. (Acts
9:26, 27.) While in Jerusalem Saul
preached boldly and soon was forced
to flee to Tarsus via Caesarea. (Acts
9:28-30.)
Saul seems to have worked in Sy-
ria and Cilicia for a long time, appar-
ently fourteen years. (Galatians
1:21; 2:1.) During this period he
received remarkable revelations that
set him apart as one of God's great
men. (See II Corinthians 12:1-4.)
All of these experiences prepared
Saul for the wider fields of mission-
ary service that were yet to come.
SAUL APPROVED FOR THE
WORK. It is not to be inferred by
this topic heading that Saul had not
already been preaching. But his most
vital and lasting contribution to
Christianity was yet to come. The
young Church of Christ had not yet
formally declared its approval of a
mission to the Gentiles. And work
among the Gentiles was destined to
be Saul's special work and joy. One
of the many points showing the Acts
to be an inspired book is that Peter,
not Saul, formally opens the mission
to the Gentiles. (Acts 10, 11.) That
is as it should be for, according to
the order of the Priesthood, it was
Peter's prerogative to receive the
revelation pertaining to and give the
orders to set in motion any momen-
tous undertaking. True enough, Saul
had apparently been preaching to
the Gentiles, but not officially. (Ga-
latians 2:2.) According to Acts
11:19-30 a thriving branch of the
Church had been built up at Anti-
och. A number of "Greeks," or Gen-
tiles, had also believed and "turned
to the Lord". The report of them
created great interest in Jerusalem,
and Barnabas was sent to investigate.
He sought out Saul, and both of
them worked a year in Antioch with
great success. At the time of the
great famine, Barnabas and Saul
were entrusted with relief funds for
the brethren at Jerusalem. (See Acts
11:27-30.) It is probable that this
visit is the one lefened to in Gal.
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2:1, 2. "Then, fourteen years after, Saul and Joseph Smith in relation to
I went up again to Jerusalem with age, education and experience at the
Barnabas, and took Titus with me, time they received their first visions.
also. And I went up by revelation,
and communicated unto them that
Gospel which I preach among the
Gentiles." Apparently the time was
at hand for Saul to begin his formal
mission to the Gentiles, and the
Lord wanted him to explain his
views and calling to the heads of the
2. Name as many qualifications of
Saul as you can that eminently fitted
him to be an apostle to the Gentiles.
3. Describe Saul's character as
portrayed in the ninth chapter of
the Acts.
4. Why did such a long time
Church. In fact, Saul says that he had elapse between Saul's first vision and
been intrusted "with the gospel of the time the Church Authorities
the Uncircumcision, as Peter was gave him the right hand of fellow-
with that of the Circumcision." ship to carry on work among the
(Gal. 2:7.) The Church Authorities Gentiles? (See Gal. 2:1-9.)
then gave Saul and Barnabas "right ^ g^^ -^ y„„ ^„ ^^^^^g^ ^ ^„„.
hands of fellowship" that they
should go to the Gentiles. (Gal.
2:9.)
Questions and Pwhlems
nected story of Saul's activities from
the death of Stephen to the time he
went up to Jerusalem to consult Pe-
ter, James and John about the gos-
(Deal only with those that time and pel he was preaching to the Gentiles,
circumstances permit) (See Acts 7:11; 22:26; II Cor.
1. Compare the backgrounds of 11:32, 33; Gal. 1:2.)
ViSiting cJeacher LOepartment
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 5
Manifestations of Love
"This is the love of God, that we keep his commandments." I John 5:3.
nPHE love of God is manifest in
the love of fellowmen.
"If a man say, I love God, and
hateth his brother, he is a liar; for
he that loveth not his brother whom
he hath seen, how can he love God
whom he hath not seen? And this
commandment have we from him,
Tliat he who loveth God love his
brother also." (I John 4:20-21.)
"Love worketh no ill to his neigh-
bor; therefore love is the fulfilling
of the law." (Romans 13:10.)
Love of one person for an-
other consists "in doing what is for
that other's best good— his highest
and most lasting good," but never
in using another as a means toward
realizing one's own satisfaction. In
the language of the philosopher
Kant: "Treat every person as an end
in himself, never as a means."
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The manifestation of love is well
illustrated in the attitude of the ideal
parent toward his child. He would
provide conditions most favorable
for the child to develop his own ca-
pacities to the full, and to realize
for himself the most lasting satisfac-
tions through his usefulness to his
fellows. This parental attitude
should be extended to all those with
whom we may be associated. Thus
may love be manifest in the true
spirit of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Discussion
1. What conditions in your com-
munity are not favorable for the best
development of all individuals?
2. What can Relief Society do to-
improve conditions? What is our
individual responsibility?
3. How did the Master manifest
love?
JLiterature
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 5
Les Miserables
o
NE literary critic has said: ''For tions of life as they play a part in
the great mass of the reading the life drama of Jean Valjean.
public, Les Miserables has a decided Fan tine, the girl from the Latin
superiority over all the other produc- quarter, was, in the words of the
tions of Victor Hugo. . . . Even for author, ''one of those beings which
one who does not care for his mag- are brought forth from the heart of
nificence of style, or for his striking the people. Sprung from the most
way of presenting humors and social unfathomable depths of social dark-
problems, or for the stream of po- ness, she bore on her brow the mark
etry that runs through everything he of the anonymous and unknown. . .
wrote, the story told in this great Who were her parents? None could
novel is as fascinating as anything tell, she had never known either fa-
written by that greatest of amusers, ther or mother. . . At the time of her
Alexandre Dumas." birth the directory was still in exist-
When Jean Valjean realizes what ence. She could have no family name
the Bishop of D has done for for she had no family. She could
him, he is touched to the heart and . have no baptismal name, for then
henceforth believes in goodness and there was no church. . . She was
makes it his law. His future life is called little Fantine. Nobody knew
a series of self-sacrifices resulting in anything more of her. . . At the age
moral growth. of ten, Fantine left the city and
As this novel is a "social record," went to service among the farmers
the pages of Les Miserables are of the suburbs. At fifteen she came
crowded with characters represent- to Paris to seek her fortune. Fantine
ing all types of people from all sta- was beautiful and remained pure as
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long as she could. . . She worked to entering it. He noticed that society
live; then, also to live, for the heart closes its doors v^ithout pity on two
too has its hunger, she loved." classes of men, those who attack it,
She was abandoned by her lover and those who guard it; he could
and forced into a life of degradation choose between these two classes
to support her child Cosette. A only. . . He entered the police. He
wonderfully dramatic and pathetic succeeded. At forty he was an in-
picture of Fantine is drawn. Her spector. . . This man was a com-
mother-love is exquisitely described, pound of two sentiments, very sim-
Hugo says: "She had committed a pie and very good in themselves, but
fault; but in the depths of her na- he almost made them evil by his
ture, we know dwelt modesty and exaggeration of them; respect for au-
virtue." thority and hatred of rebellion; and
Realizing that in order to provide in his eyes all crimes were only forms
for the child she must place it with of rebellion. . . He had nothing but
others, Fantine left Cosette at the disdain, aversion and disgust for all
Inn with the infamous Thenardiers. who had once overstepped the
The story of the child's life here ri- bounds of the law. . . Tliey are ir-
vals the worst experiences of Oliver remediably lost; no good can come
Twist and Nicholas Nickleby. It is out of them ... and his whole per-
the same kind of compelling protest son expressed the spy and the in-
against the abuses of children. former."
Master novelist that he is, Hugo Under the name of Monsieur
delights in contrast. In the Bishop Madeline, Valjean has become a
of D he has drawn a character rich manufacturer, mayor of the
embodying tender mercy and divine town, and a noted philanthropist,
hope, the influence of which re- Among his many kind acts, he be-
deems Jean Valjean. In Javert, the friends Fantine, whose life has be-
police officer, is expressed the dark come a series of sordid tragedies as
shadow of an evil past. He has rec- she tries to earn money to send to
ognized the ex-convict, and though the Thenardiers for the care of
Valjean temporarily evades him, Cosette.
wherever he goes Javert ferrets him Chapter VI is tlie recital of a mar-
out. In Book V, Chapter V, a re- yclous act of self-sacrifice on the part
markable picture is given of Javert, of Monsieur Madeline. At the risk
who is quite as distinct a character of his life, he saves a man in the vil-
in one field as the Bishop is in an- lagg known to be his enemy. Javert
other. It is an interesting study to has been among the spectators and
note in this great novel the two is convinced through the demon-
forces in conflict as they influence stration of marvelous strength of the
the life of Jean Valjean. identity of Madeline. Though his
"Javert was born in prison. His whole life is a series of kind acts and
mother was a fortune-teller whose generous thoughts for others, the
husband was in the galleys. He evil genius of the past is ever present
grew up to think himself without the in Javert, who seeks Valjean for
pale of society, and despaired of ever stealing the forty sous piece from the
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child the day he left the Bishop's rest. He is not the man whom ye
home. In atonement for that act, for seek; it is I. I am Jean Valjean.' "
which he was not responsible, Val- His speech to the court is a model
jean had never ceased to search for of simplicity and sincerity. It leaves
the little fellow to make restitution, no room for doubt. He tells where
and had given thousands of francs they can find the forty sous piece of
and befriended all children. He is which, seven years before, he had
the only real friend Fantine has ever robbed Petit Gervais.
had; she tells him of Cosette, whom It is Javert who arrests Valjean as
he promises to bring to her. Jean he is paying a visit to Fantine who
Valjean, to save another man mis- is dying. A world of pathos is ex-
taken for him, surrenders himself pressed in this death scene. Not un-
and is returned to prison. til Fantine is dead will Valjean leave
The chapters dealing with Mon- ^er. Then he goes with Javert to the
sieur Madeline's mental conflict are ^ity prison from which he makes his
among the most thrilling and graph- escape during the night. He returns
ically presented psychological stud- ^^ his home where the two nuns are
ies to be found in fiction. His sur- watching the body of Fantine. He
render means the giving up of the "i^^^^ provision for a decent burial
fine business which is the very life ^^r her; he is very generous in his
of the village, it means giving up g^^^s for the poor, and he entrusts
the social security he had obtained }^^ ^^^^^ to take charge of all he
with such effort. The man suspected ^^aves behind. He carefully packs the
is a ne'er-do-well. The struggle is a two silver candlesticks with which
fierce one. The chapter relating the ^^ ^^^^^ P^^^^- ^J^ ^f' ^^^ turned
interview between Javert and Mon- ^now white m the fearful ordeal
sieur Madeline is one of the most ,t^^«^§^ ^hich he has passed. He
dramatic climaxes in literature. The \^^^f the village to go to Paris. The
spirit of the Bishop of D is ^^^^^ ^^ ^^"t^"f closes the first ma-
ever with Jean Valjean, and in the J^^ ^i^^^^^" ^^ ^^^ "^^^1-
end his conscience triumphs. The 'pHE second division consists of
officer relates the circumstantial evi- ■■■ the famous treatise on Water-
dence against the prisoner and ex- Iqq Xo quote from one of Victor
presses his positive conviction that PTugo's biographers: "No writer so
it is Jean Valjean. He tells what the constantly and fervently joined in
nature of the conviction will be for t^e Napoleonic worship aS did Vic-
the ex-convict and finally apologizes tor Hugo; we must add that in no
to Monsieur Madeline for having subject was he so much at ease as
suspected him. in these themes on Napoleon. The
Chapter XI, Book Seven, records greatness of the man, the greatness
the famous trial. The accused has of the events, the contrast between
been identified as Jean Valjean and the height of power to which he at-
convicted when Monsieur Madeline tained and the depths of misery
appears and says in a mild voice: which succeeded the splendor of his
" 'Gentlemen of the jury, release the triumphs— all these elements admir-
accused. Your honor, order my ar- ably blended with the love of the gi-
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gantic, the admiration for contrast
and antithesis, the gorgeous imagery
which distinguished Hugo's muse."
As Jean Valjean wandered over
the battlefield of Waterloo, the au-
thor takes occasion to reveal, as he
saw it, the whole of that gigantic
military tragedy. It is a classic com-
plete in itself, but it has a very di-
rect bearing on the novel in its final
development. The comments on the
nations and the leaders of their ar-
mies in this mighty conflict are in
Hugo's best style.
Chapter XVI deals with the Duke
of Wellington and the English.
''Waterloo, moreover, is the stran-
gest encounter in history. Napoleon
and Wellington; they are not ene-
mies, they are opposites. Never has
God, who takes pleasure in antithes-
is, made a more striking contrast and
a more extraordinary meeting." Wel-
lington is calculation. Napoleon gen-
ius—and "this time genius was van-
quished by calculation. . . Waterloo
is a battle of the first rank, won bv
a captain of the second. What is
truly admirable in the Battle of Wa-
terloo is England; English firmness,
English resolution, English blood,
the superb thing which England had
there— may it not displease her— is
herself. It is not her captain, it is
her army."
Another quotation: "Was it pos-
sible that Napoleon should win this
battle? We answer no. Why? Be-
cause of Wellington? Because of
Blucher? No. Because of God. For
Bonaparte to be conqueror at Wa-
terloo was not in the law of the
nineteenth century. Another series
of facts were preparing in which Na-
poleon had no place. The ill-will of
events had long been announced. It
was time that this vast man should
fall. . . . Reeking blood, over-crowd-
ed cemeteries, weeping mothers,
these are formidable pleaders. When
the earth is suffering from a sur-
charge, there are mysterious moan-
ings from the depths which the
heavens hear. Napoleon had been
impeached before the Infinite, and
his fall was decreed. He vexed God.
Waterloo is not a battle; it is the
change of front of the universe."
Jean Valjean was retaken and re-
turned to the galleys. The chapters
under the heading, 'The Ship Ori-
on" give an account of the collapse
of the fine business he, as Monsieur
Madeline, had established, and the
lapse of the village again into pov-
erty, a sad comment on the irony of
life.
The story of Jean Valjean*s rescue
of the sailor who had fallen over-
board is a marvelous demonstration
of physical strength and self-sac-
rifice. "The throng applauded; old
galley sergeants wept, women hug-
ged each other on the wharves, and
on all sides, voices were heard ex-
claiming, with a sort of tenderly sub-
dued enthusiasm: 'This man must
be pardoned!' . . . The next morning
the Toulon Journal published the
following lines— November 17, 1823.
Yesterday a convict at work on
board the Orion, on his return from
rescuing a sailor, fell into the sea,
and was drowned. His body was not
recovered. It is presumed that it has
been caught under the piles at the
pier-head of the arsenal. This man
was registered by the number 9430,
and his name was Jean Valjean."
Questions and Suggestions
1. Briefly relate the story of Fan-
tine.
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2. What great English novehst of 4. Why did Hugo write with so
this period in some characteristics much feeling of the Battle of Water-
suggests Hugo? loo? Estimate the literary value of
3. Have someone give a brief the sketch.
sketch of Javert. Compare him with 5. Describe the transformation in
the Bishop of D . Jean Valjean.
Social Service
Lesson 5
How To Sell The Gospel
I. WHY IS IT IMPORTANT Saint message is a bold one and re-
TO SELL THE GOSPEL? We quires great skill in presenting it if
who are convinced of the truthful- it is to be accepted,
ness of the Gospel often fail to see A wise approach to those we would
why other people do not feel as we teach or convert is first to try to un-
do about it. We are convinced that derstand the person, all of his inter-
the "Lord hath spoken" and that ests, enthusiasms, and the calibre of
the world should be warned. But his intelligence and the language in
let us not overtook the fact that we which he thinks. We then should
must "sell" the idea to the world present aspects of our message that
that the Gospel has been restored, will appeal to him, that will lead him
To say the "Lord hath spoken to ask for more information,
again" does not arouse much inter- Qne wonders if an intelligent ap-
nl ^'^T ^^^^ ^"^^'"^^ *^^ proach to prospective converts, along
^T. 1 *^ •^* , the line of attack just mentioned,
We live m such a practical age ^jn ^ot appeal to a distinctly differ-
that everyone wants to be shown . ^^t type of people than does the old-
Our own members are also affected gj. j^^thod of blunt, dogmatic, and
by this spirit of the times. To keep authoritative preaching,
our own members active we must
continually "sell" the Gospel to IL WHAT DO PEOPLE WANT
them by demonstrating concretely ^^OM A RELIGION? Formeriy
how it meets the fundamental wants ^^ ^ere taught that we have a def-
of mankind. The use of commands ^"^^^ "mstinct" for religion which
and authority to keep people active ^^^^ everyone to search out God
in the Church is effective only with ^^^^ ^^^^ ^" '^^^ ^^^^' ^^^^^ thought
certain dispositions. There are other ^" ^^^^ S"^)^^* contends that the
dispositions who can be stimulated "mainsprings" back of religious be-
only through showing them how the ^^^^°^ ^^^ ^^ numerous and compli-
Church serves its members. The cated as the motives behind any oth-
word of the Lord must be presented er phase of life. Some people par-
in such a way that the people will ticipate in the Church as a result
want to accept it. The Latter-day of one set of motives while others
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are driven by distinctly different On the other hand, we should
ones. perhaps admit that wants that are
There is still considerable differ- somewhat removed from spiritual
ence of opinion as to what are the questions also are satisfied by
principal wants back of our partici- Church work. For example, sociabih
pation in the Church. The wants ity (formerly called gregariousness)
named here should not be consider- probably brings many people into
ed the only ones. They are, how- Church activities. In small commun-
ever, some of those most commonly ities the Church is frequently the
found. center of social life, as it should be.
A sense of secmity is the goal to- Interest in the social activities may
ward which much of our daily striv- lead to interest in the more spiritual
ing is directed. We all strongly want mission of the Church. If we could
to feel secure in the love of our fam- but say, "Come along, let's go to
ily, secure in our homes, secure fi- Church— everybody will be there,"
nancially, and secure in the favor of we would be appealing to the want
God. Uncertainty as to what comes for sociability. Friendship with peo-
after death, whether loved ones sur- pie who have faith makes us want to
vive death, and whether righteous- have faith, too. When several of our
ness will prevail in eternity— these respected friends say, ''I believe Dr.
uncertainties are removed by faith. X is a good doctor," we fall in line
The feeling that we are "on the and believe so, too. Likewise, if our
Lord's side" is a great satisfaction in closest friends are saying, "I believe
itself during these troublous days of a person is happier to be doing
world upheaval. Our faith that something in the Church," we are
through Jesus all shall live again inclined to think so too.
makes us feel secure that we are an Closely related to the want for so-
eternal part of the great scheme of ciability is the want for social ap-
things. People with no faith feel in- proval. This want may be satisfied
secure because their lives have no in various ways through the Church,
plan with which to anchor them- Good standing in the Church is it-
selves. This is the sense of security self a mark of social approval and
which faith gives us. lends prestige to a person in his oth-
Spintuality, or a deep interest in er social relations, barring apparent
the theological questions of the ori- hypocrisy. The fetes of daring, sacri-
gin and destiny of the spirit of man, fice and endurance of our Pioneers
might be classed as an important are admired and, therefore, interest-
want or need in many people. The ing to so-called "tougher-minded"
appeal to spirituality has force with people who are little interested in
certain temperaments, while with other phases of the Church. A cer-
others it seems to have little influ- tain amount of social approval is re-
ence. The Gospel answers perplex- fleeted to the Church in general be-
ing questions of a spiritual nature cause of the admiration shown for
so adequately that often this appeal the physical courage of the Pioneers
is one of the strongest that can be and colonizers of our early history,
used in influencing people to par- Perhaps we should point out here
ticipate in the Church. that the want for social approval in
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some cases is the only reason some gives a person a pleasant feeling of
people participate in the Church. In self-regard which in turn is also a
all teaching we should attempt to strong incentive to service. The Re-
lead people to satisfy not one want lief Society perhaps satisfies more
but many, otherwise we should per- completely the desire to serve than
haps question their genuine faith in any other organization,
the Gospel as a whole. jjj j^^ ^^j Qp TEACHING.
The want for love or affection is Now that we have recognized wants
also of deep importance in motivat- as the starting point in teaching and
ing faith. Love of our families and missionary work, a few suggestions
friends makes us want to be united are in order as to how wants may be
for all time. The teachings of the utilized. In a scripture-reading age,
Church regarding the sanctity of the an appeal was generally made
home are aimed at preserving love through the authority of scriptural
and good will in this life as well as citations. We thus, by the use of
in the hereafter. If we can show any- authority, attempted to shift to our
one who is not enjoying the bene- way of thinking a solution of wants
fits of the Church that love and that had already been found through
home are more secure under the in- some other religion. This method
fluence of our religious faith, we was very successful in many cases,
have made an appeal that touches and still is with people who follow
close to the heart and which is likely this line of thinking. (For example,
to bring a favorable response to our see Ben E. Rich's Mr. Durant oi
message. Salt Lake City.) But now we more
The want to he a leader is very often find it necessary to establish
strong in many people, although not religion itself as a means of solving
a universal want with all types of the problems of human wants. To
personalities. The organization units do this the appeal to scriptural au-
of the Church permit almost every- thority is of little value. We must
one who so desires to express his now appeal to human wants them-
leadership. An opportunity to reach selves.
some position of leadership is the Wants are often not clearly de-
promise to all who will be genuinely fined in our prospective convert's
faithful in performing their duties mind, in which case our task is to
and meeting their obligations. (j^fi^e the want or to arouse a new
A desire or want to he of service one. Some people are so bent on
is closely related to the want for satisfying one or two major wants-
leadership and IS a strong motive in ^^^-^ ^^ financial gain and social pres-
our finest members. Some people ^j ^^at they are not aware of the
are happy only when they are doing ^^^^ ^^^ ^^J .^ ^ .^^^^
something for someone else. In fact, . i r r ■,- - -^ i
one of the aims of the Church is to ^^ ^he need for safeguarding spiritual
permit its members to serve through ^^d family relationships. We as
the various organizations with their teachers may find it necessary to
varied activities. A person's charac- arouse these spiritual wants so that
ter grows by serving, and this growth our message will have an appeal, be-
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cause where there is no desire there
is no interest in our message.
Assuming that we have found or
created wants in other people, we
must carefully show that what we
have to offer through the Church is
an adequate solution to those wants.
Here again we must guard against
dogmatism; we must refrain from
promising more than the person is
likely to find. If our claims are over-
stated, our investigator is likely to
be disappointed, and his reaction
will be like that of a person who has
been ''oversold" on some article of
merchandise and then disappointed.
We should be interested in winning
people to a better way of Jife through
the Church, not simply tor a period
of great enthusiasm followed by sud-
den cooling off.
Proper ''follow up" is as essential
in Church work as in business.
When we have shown a person how
his wants can be satisfied by par-
ticipation in the Church, we must
reduce resistance to action by point-
ing out some concrete responses to
be made soon. We may suggest
coming to one of the meetings in
the next few days. Offer to call for
him on your way, in order to reduce
the resistance a person naturally has
in starting a new course of action on
his ovm initiative. A stranger is not
easily motivated to come alone to
a meeting where he must "break
into" the social group without the
help of a friend. Let us not expect
people to change their ways over
night. Encourage them to make
little attempts at first, larger ones
later as they become more inter-
ested.
We must not forget, too, that our
own enthusiasm and sincerity in
what we are doing is contagious, that
it goes far toward making people
believe that there must be some
value in what we are doing. If our
own lives are happy through satis-
fying our wants through the Church,
we are likely to be good missionar-
ies or teachers; if we are half-hearted,
no one will be convinced that our
way of life is better than any other.
JV. ESTABLISH PLEASANT
FEELINGS. There are many pos-
sible methods of creating pleasant
feelings. In the first place, a clean
and neat appearance of the teacher
is as important as it is for the sales-
man. A congenial manner, based
upon genuine interest in other peo-
ple, is also important. Cheerfulness
should radiate from us and joy in the
faith we have. Our love of fellow
men should make us tolerant and
tactful.
Our meetings themselves should
be carefully planned to create pleas-
ant feelings. The music should be
well rendered. Care should be taken
to make the appearance of the room
clean and inviting. An excellent Re-
lief Society project is to beautify the
class room. Attractive pictures
should adorn the walls. We have
learned in public school work that
a pleasant school room contributes
to the progress of learning and per-
sonality growth, because it also im-
proves the "emotional climate" and
thereby promotes more congenial re-
lationships.
Friendly and personal greeting at
the door appeals to the desire to be
recognized, and one feels happier for
having come. Well planned and
well executed programs prevent
strain and unrest and should be en-
couraged. Nothing is more discour-
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aging to a person who begins to show
some interest in Church activities
than to come to a meeting and not
be spoken to or made to feel wel-
come, and then to feel strained be-
cause the officers do not seem to
know what the program is.
Reference to the sentiments sur-
rounding the ideals of the home,
loyalty to the Church, to the flag
and to the Constitution, belief in
the hereafter and eternal ties tend
to arouse pleasant feelings in us and
make us want to continue attending
the services.
V. GUARD AGAINST ANTAG-
ONIZING. When we begin to
change our ways, we admit that we
have not done the best we could,
and we may feel embarrassed at this
admission. We particularly dislike
to be shown we are wrong. The
teacher or missionary is in the dan-
gerous position of appearing to think
"I am better than thou." He must,
therefore, let the other person "save
his face,'' i. e. find for himself that
our solution is the best one. We
simply lead the way through sug-
gestions; we should not try to force
our belief on a person. If we do, we
may deflate his ego and arouse an-
tagonism toward us. We should
avoid using ridicule and disparaging
criticism for the same reason.
If a person apparently has deep
prejudices against some phase of the
Church, we should respect those
prejudices by not attacking them di-
rectly. A better plan is to create good
feeling first, and then associate that
feeling with some phase of the work
not so directly related to the preju-
dices.
Another error we should guard
against, particularly in handling our
own members who are irregular in
attending meetings, is to force them
to participate publicly when to do
so may embarrass them. Some per-
sonalities naturally dislike to appear
before a group to speak, sing or pray.
We should avoid forcing participa-
tion when it may arouse unpleasant
feelings, which may be the cause of
the person's not continuing to at-
tend meetings. Gradual opportunity
for expression should be offered with
the hope that courage and enjoy-
ment in this kind of participation
will gradually develop.
We should always let the person
we teach feel that he is entitled to
the credit for changing his life.
Never should we boast of the con-
versions we make. We should be
happy in the souls we help to save,
but not selfish in the glory.
A truly converted person is so
happy he wants to help others to
share what he has found. The teach-
er or missionary may not always feel
at first a keen desire to be his broth-
er's keeper, but somehow teaching
has a way of converting the teacher.
A missionary strengthens his own
faith by having to defend it. Teach-
ing, itself, makes us more aware of
how the Church may serve our
wants.
Problems For Discussion
1 . Show the importance of under-
standing the wants of people as a
basis for leading them to participate
in the Church.
2. Name a few wants the Church
satisfies.
3. Which of the wants mentioned
in the lesson did Jesus appeal to
when He said, ''Whosoever believ-
eth in Him should not perish but
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have eternal life. For God so loved ated by the feelings the members
the world that He gave His only be- have tov^ard one another.)
gotten Son, that whosoever believ- 5. What would you say are the
eth in Him should not perish but essentials of successful visiting teach-
have everlasting life?" ing? What are the common mis-
4. Wliat can your Relief Society takes to guard against?
group do to create more pleasant
feelings as an inducement for new Kererences
members to come out? (Consider See references on salesmanship
not only the physical atmosphere given at the close of last month's
but the emotional atmosphere ere- lesson.
ibducation for cfamii^ JLife
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
• Lesson Five
Family Unity
I
N our consideration of family re- says the dictionary, 'of a simple sub-
lationships we have accepted Bur- stance or indivisible monad or of
gess' definition of the family; name- several particles or parts so intimate-
ly, "that the family is a unity of in- ly and closely united as to constitute
teracting personalities". In order to a separate body or thing; it is a state
have a clear understanding of this of being one— oneness; it is a state
point of view of the family, we must of harmony, concord, conjunction,
define the terms interaction and agreement, uniformity, cooperation,
unity. coherence, coordination, mutual aid.
The term interaction signifies the sympathetic understanding, con-
process by which meanings are com- formity, solidarity; it is system, or-
municated from one person to an- ganization, universe of discourse,
other, resulting in mutual modifica- community.' These are terms that
tion. Society, or any part of society, represent attempts to point out, ade-
exists only to the extent that inter- quately characterize, and finally to
action takes place. The type or say fully and accurately what unity
quality of interaction determines the is and what it is not."^
degree of unity within a given group. Even the above statement, as com-
Unity is a relative term and one plete as it may seem, does not give
not easy to define; in fact, one au- us an adequate concept of family
thor states that unity means what- unity. Unity within the family im-
ever one wishes it to mean. Lumley
says: ''Whatever we consider as ip. e. Lumley, Pnnciphs oi Sociology.
unity is unity. 'Unity is affirmed,' pp. 132-33.
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plies love, security, stability, status,
and power.
Mowrer stresses the importance of
the emotional factor in family unity.
He says: 'The family is not merely
a group of individuals living in close
proximity, as formal studies of di-
vorce and desertion seem to assume.
It is also an organization of attitudes
and ideals v^fiich each family devel-
ops independently and which char-
acterizes the family as a cultural
group. Family pride, family preju-
dice, the jokes and proverbs intel-
ligible to no outsider, and the hopes
and ambitions that distinguish fam-
ilies from one another help to make
up what may be called the 'family
complex'. It is this identification of
interests which makes of the family
a cooperating unit, felt by its mem-
bers and recognized by the com-
munity. The unity of the family lies,
in other words, not in any formal ob-
ligation which the law imposes but
in the interaction between its mem-
bers. There is that intimate identifi-
cation which grows out of unity of
feeling and emotion. Thus, it is
unnecessary for one member of the
family to give expression of his ap-
proval or disapproval in language,
for the others already know from
more subtle expressions. Again, the
members all respond to the same ap-
peals, and their sympathies are
aroused by the same causes. Failure
to share in the family interests marks
one as somewhat deficient in the
virtues of the family, and in the long
run family pressure tends to be too
strong and causes him to accept as
inevitable that in which he previous-
ly had not shared. And so in joy
or sorrow, in fame or disgrace, that
which comes to one of the family
is shared by all alike. It is this unity
of feeling, therefore, which consti-
tutes the dominant tone of the fam-
ily and which with intellectual unity
constitutes the essential element in
the thing which we call the family."'
Following a recent discussion on
family unity, a mother of four chil-
dren made the statement that it
would be a waste of time and effort
to attempt to develop very much
unity within their family group, be-
cause the personalities of the mem-
bers were so varied. To think that
unity depends upon likenesses only
is indeed a fallacy. Differences and
the conflicts that arise therefrom can
be guided and controlled in the in-
terest of the group welfare. It is not
uncommon to find an increase in
family unity as the result of the re-
organization of the group which was
made necessary by a crisis precipi-
tated by individual differences.
CO far we have attempted to de-
velop a concept of family unity.
Our next concern is the problem of
how to promote unity within the
family group. First, may we call at-
tention to the fact that in each of
the four preceding lessons we have
presented suggestions for family liv-
ing that, if practiced, will enhance
family unity. Meeting together in
the family council will tend to de-
velop both intellectual and emotion-
al unity, as will also the democratic
handling of the family pocketbook.
If each mate assumes his responsi-
bility to his partner, both will experi-
ence a sense of unity that will per-
meate the entire group; the children
will unconsciously absorb a feeling
of unity and will respond according-
-Reuter and Runner, The Family, p. 481.
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER - 797
ly in their relations with other mem-
bers. If the father fails to function
in the accepted role of the father,
each member of the family will be
conscious of a degree of disorganiza-
tion within the group which, nat-
urally, gives a feeling of lack of unity.
The more frequently the family ex-
periences satisfaction and happiness
as a result of functioning together,
other things being equal, the strong-
er will be the bonds of unity. The
following are a few of the innumer-
able activities that may profitably be
engaged in by the family as a group:
Participating as a group in church
activities, engaging in family prayer,
reading and discussing together, not
only the Bible and other Church
books, but worth while books of any
kind, magazines and the daily news-
paper; planning appropriate birthday
anniversaries, sharing responsibility
in family observance of annual holi-
days, summer picnics and winter eve-
ning candy-pulls. Functioning to-
gether successfully creates a com-
munity of interests, which is a basic
factor in family unity.
As a unity of interacting person-
alities the family is constantly mov-
ing either toward improved organi-
zation or disorganization. If disor-
ganization is allowed to go on un-
checked, the obvious result will be
family disintegration. It is impor-
tant for each family to be able to de-
termine which of the two processes
is dominating the interaction in
their group. E. T. Krueger has set
up a criterion for determining the
degree of unity within the family.
He says: 'The stabilized family as
a unity of interacting personalities
possesses the following characteris-
tics:
"i. The subordination of the
members to a common objective.
This common objective may be
chiefly economic; it may center about
education of the children; it may con-
cern the realization of a social ideal
of mutuality of attitudes between
its members; it may be conceived as
service to the state or to Deity; it
may be directed toward the preser-
vation of family traditions and social
status.
"2. The conscious cooperation of
its members to realize the common
objective.
''3. A reciprocity of personal ser-
vices by which each member be-
comes dependent upon the other
members, the entire group represent-
ing an interdependence of activities
of an intimate and mutual character.
"4. A coordination of the roles of
the members of the family in terms
of obligations and privileges, such
that each member assumes a posi-
tional relationship or status to every
other member which defines his du-
ties and permits, within limits, the
personal satisfaction of wishes.
"5. Participation of the family in
a social or communal world by which
the family plays a role and secures
a positional or status relationship of
prestige in reference to other fami-
lies.
''6. A consensus of emotional atti-
tudes in which each individual mem-
ber more or less harmoniously re-
lates his life to that of every other
member and to the group as a whole.
In relation to other members the
attitudes are those of affection, sym-
pathy, and respect; to the group as a
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whole the attitudes are those of loy-
alty, pride, and responsibility/"'
'T^HE strength of the family is de-
termined by the degree of unity
within the family. By strength we
refer to the power and ability of
the group to realize the purpose of
family living. The fundamental pur-
pose of the family is the develop-
ment of personalities who can make
a satisfactory adjustment to the
world in which they live. In order
for the individual to develop such
a personality, among other things he
must feel secure; he must experience
love and affection; he must be able
to enjoy the feeling that he is want-
ed and that he belongs to a family
of which he can be proud. He must
be permitted to share in the com-
mon activities of family living, as-
sume a part of the duties and re-
sponsibilities and enjoy his due pro-
portion of the rights and privileges.
Unity within the family will not
be developed unless there is a con-
scious effort on the part of each
member to promote such develop-
ment. Once more may we empha-
size the fact that example is more
powerful than precept. If there is
unity between husband and wife,
the foundation stone for family
unity is laid.
Disorganization within the family
breeds social disorganization and
paves the way for family and social
disintegration. Unity within the
family breeds social unity and paves
'Reuter and Runner, The Family, p. 49 1 .
(We suggest that it would prove to be
of great value if each family would spend
an evening together in discussing the above
six characteristics in relation to their own
group.)
the way for successful and happy
living for the individual as a mem-
ber of the family and for the family
as a unit of society. The happy and
successful family represents a social
unit of power and strength upon
which society depends for the devel-
opment of personalities who have
the ability and characteristics of true
leadership.
Problems and Questions for
Discussion
1. What methods and practices
would you suggest whereby family
differences might be directed toward
strengthening family unity rather
than permitting them to cause fam-
ily disorganization?
2. From the point of view of fam-
ily unity, evaluate the practice of
celebrating the birthdays of family
members. From the same stand-
point, plan in detail what you would
consider to be an ideal Thanksgiving
Day.
3. From your observations of fam-
ily life, explain each of the six char-
acteristics of stabilized family life
as listed by Krueger.
4. What indications of unity are
evident in the family that you con-
sider to be the most successful fam-
ily in your community?
References
1. The Amencan Family, E. R. Groves,
Pub. J. B. Lippincott and Co., Chicago.
2. Readings in the Family, E. R. Groves
and L. M. Brooks, Pub. J. B. Lippincott
and Company, Chicago.
3. Family Adjustment and Social
Change, Manuel Conrad Elmer, Pub. Ray
Long & Richard R. Smith Inc., New York.
4. Personality and the Family, Hornell
Hart and Ella B. Hart, Pub. D. C. Heath
and Company, San Francisco.
5. Predicting Success or Failure in Mar-
riage, Burgess and Cottrell, Pub. Prentice-
Hall Inc., 70 Fifth Ave., New York.
Ilussion JLessons
L D. S. CHURCH HISTORY
Lesson 5
Witnesses
OAVE you ever stopped to think England, to see and hear things for
how it is that you come to be- ourselves. The best that we can do
lieve certain things which you have is to study what people in those
not yourself actually experienced in times said or wrote about what hap-
some way? pened. Now, when we do actually
Of course, what we experience make a study of a letter or a diary
we accept as true. There is nothing or some other document that comes
else that we can do about it. Ex- to us out of the past, we subject it
perience is the only way in which to a certain test. The test set up by
we can really know anything. That ^ very wise historian is this: Was the
is, we see or hear or feel or taste or writer of that letter, journal, or what-
smell something, and we may then not able, and was he willing, to tell
truly say that we know it, instead of the truth? If he was, we accept the
merely that we believe it. A great document as the truth,
deal of what we accept in our lives You may remember having read
comes to us in this way. in St. Matthew (18:16) the advice
But there are many things that of Jesus to persons who offend each
we accept on the testimony of oth- ""^^'l , ^^ .^^%}^^" "^^ ^f ^ ^^^^^
ers. That is the way we put it. Some- ^^," ^^\\^^^h ^^f^ ^"^^^ *^^ ™^^'
one tells us that a certain thing hap- *^.f ^" ^^^ "^^"^h of two or three
pened to him, and we accept that ^.'^J^^''^' ^^'y 7^^ "^f 7 ^^ ^^^^-
as true-unless, of course, we have ^^^?^^^; Jhis rule applies even to
reason to believe it to be unlikely "^''^"^l^l ^^^ ^^^^ ^"?^^.^^^^ '' ^f
or untrue. For someone else may ""^''f ^^ ^^"^^^"^' '^ '^ '' ^ "^^^^^^^
have an experience which we have ^ ^ *
never had, and we are not safe in TJERE, then, is the Book oi Mor-
saying that he either did or did not *^ nion. It did not write itself,
have that experience. It will surprise Someone wrote it. Who was that
you if you try to find out the num- someone?
ber of things in your life which you Joseph Smith says that he did not
accept on the mere say-so of other write it— that is, that he did not
people. make it up out of his head, as Haw-
Historians will tell you, if you ask thorne composed the Scarlet Letter
them, that every event in the past or Scott Jvanhoe. He tells us, as we
can be proved or disproved by the have seen, that he translated it by
testimony of eye or ear witnesses, means of the urim and thummim
We cannot go back, say, to the time from some gold plates given him by
of George Washington in America a heavenly messenger, who was a
or to the time of Alfred the Great in resurrected person.
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That is quite an unusual state-
ment to make. To believe Joseph's
story, we must believe several im-
portant things. We must believe
that this heavenly messenger was a
real angel. We must accept the res-
urrection as a fact. We must believe
in the actual existence of the gold
plates, of the urim and thummim,
and of the ancient breastplate. And
we must believe that an unschooled
boy, through the power of God,
could be able to read, to understand,
and to translate a language which he
had never studied. All this we must
accept if we are to believe in the
Book oi Mormon.
Now, many people there are to-
day who find it hard to believe such
things. Hence, they ask that we give
them some evidence that these
things are true.
Well, we have just such evidence.
We have eleven men who say that
they saw the gold plates, that they
handled them, and that they exam-
ined the engravings on the leaves.
And we have three men who declare,
in addition, that they saw the angel
Moroni, and that they heard the
voice of God "bearing testimony"
that the translation was correct.
Do you know that we do not have
a single witness to any event in the
Bible— outside the one who tells it?
Paul had a vision of Jesus after the
resurrection. There were others
with him at the time, but these have
left us nothing by way of testimony.
What would we not give now for
a bit of confirmation of Paul's state-
ments! Yet, the whole Christian
world today accepts without ques-
tion his account of the great vision.
CUPPOSE you turn now to the fly-
leaf of the Book of Mormon and
read aloud the testimony of the
Eight Witnesses.
The names of these eight men
are: Christian Whitmer, Jacob
Whitmer, Peter Whitmer, Jr., John
Whitmer, Hiram Page, Joseph
Smith, Sr., Hyrum Smith, and Sam-
uel H. Smith. Three of them, as you
will see, belong to the Smith family
and four to the Whitmer family.
Page was a son-in-law of Peter Whit-
mer, Sr. The reason why others were
not chosen as witnesses is that there
were no others. But the fact of the
relationship of the witnesses is noth-
ing against their testimony.
You will notice that the testimony
of these eight men is to a matter-
of-fact showing of the gold plates
They were shown the plates by Jo-
seph Smith, Jr. They "hefted" the
plates, which had "the appearance
of gold." This is a careful statement,
as you see. The men were anxious
to tell the facts only as they saw
things. Then, too, they "handled
with our hands as many of the leaves
as the said Smith has translated."
That is a careful statement, also.
This scene took place in the woods.
There was nothing miraculous about
this showing of the gold plates. It
was as if a group of men were passing
around among them any other ob-
ject which they had never seen
before.
Turn now to the testimony of the
Three Witnesses, and read it aloud.
These three men tell us (i) that
they saw the angel, (2) that they
saw the golden book, (3) that they
looked at the engravings on the
plates, and (4) that they heard the
"voice of God" declaring that the
book had been translated by "the
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power of God." This was a miracu-
lous scene, a vision.
The question now is, What about
the testimony of these eleven men
in confirmation of Joseph Smith's
story? How does it measure up to
the test of a witness?
¥ ET us look for a moment at the
character and the possible mo-
tives of these men.
Oliver Cowdery was a school
teacher. Later he studied law and
was a district attorney in the State
of Michigan. He was, therefore,
rather well educated. David Whit-
mer was a farmer, first in New York
and then in Missouri. All his life
he was respected by those who.knew
him. Martin Harris was a well-to-do
farmer in Palmyra, and, until he be-
came a witness, was highly regarded
by his neighbors. The Smiths and
the Whitmers among these witness-
es were also farmers. Hiram Page
was an herb doctor. Except in their
connection with Mormonism noth-
ing has ever been said against the
character of any of them.
Some people, as you may know,
are inclined to be imaginative. That
was not so of these men. Always
they were sober, industrious, Chris-
tian. Tliere is, therefore, no reason
to believe that they were making up
this testimony to the existence of
the gold plates. Besides, they had
no motive to do so. They had noth-
ing to gain. Indeed, they had much
to lose— and did lose. For they were
reviled, scorned, and persecuted be-
cause of their testimony.
Although some of the eleven left
the Church, not one of them ever
hinted a denial of their testimony.
If they had entered upon an agree-
ment with the Prophet to say what
they did, they would most certainly
have broken that agreement when
they became offended with him. To
the very last day of their lives they
persisted in saying that they were
not deceived or deceiving when they
spoke of the plates or the angel or
the engravings.
One thing more: In this case
everyone may know for himself
whether these men were telling the
truth or not. They may know **by
the power of the Holy Ghost''. Mo-
roni says that, in the Book oi
Mormon itself (Moroni 10:4,5).
Read it.
Questions
1. How do we know anything?
How is it that we believe others'
statements? What is the test of a
witness?
2. Tell the main items in the tes-
timony of the Eight Witnesses. In
the testimony of the Three Wit-
nesses.
3. Give as many details as you can
about these Eleven. What had they
to gain by telling an untruth? By
telling the truth? Why, then, should
they be believed?
4. How may anyone know the
truth of these testimonies?
Note: Map printed in July issue of the
Magazine is to be used in teaching Church
History lessons.
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L^athedral of [Peace
{Continued horn page 738)
''That isn't it/' he interrupted
hastily. ''Look at Lathams. They
are as poor as church mice, but they
have something we haven't. So mon-
ey isn't the answer— entirely. Look
at Kane Holland. He hasn't much
of anything, yet he is at home any
place. Everybody likes him. I wish
Dad were more like him."
A RUSH of hope flooded Caro-
lyn's face. "Do you?" she asked
eagerly. "Do you like him that
much?"
The timbre of her voice startled
him. He scowled.
"Yes. Why? What does he have
to do with this? Why, Mother.
What— are you— do you mean—"
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ing her voice level, "except what
I asked."
"Oh yes, you do!" He grabbed
her arm and whirled her about,
abruptly. "Look here. So-o, that's
it. I've been wondering over some-
thing he said a while ago. Was I
dumb! He is in love with you, isn't
he?"
There was no point in denial. Bob
was a man and would see this with
a man's eyes. She nodded.
"Well! Of all the-the low down
Who does he think he is?"
•The harshness of his voice, his
abrupt change in viewpoint, fright-
ened her.
"Robert, is that a crime?"
"Yes, it is." His voice was thick
v^th resentment. "I suppose he
thinks all he has to do is whistle, and
you will answer. No wonder he was
so eager to loan me money. I
wouldn't take it from him if I never
got to school. I'm going up there
and knock his ears back."
"You just said you wished Dad
were more like him."
"I do, in some ways, but Dad is
Dad and not to be compared in the
same week with Kane Holland. Oh,
good grief. Mother, be your age!"
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PORTRAIT OF WINTER
The flowers and the leaves are sleeping here.
And I have come to seek a quiet mood
Within this space that marks another year.
To gather to myself this soUtude
That lies in benediction on the land.
Here is the calm my troubled heart would know
Where ancient barriers of the mountains stand
Iri smoothest r0l>es<^^^^
Iwould be tmof raid land see each day
An interval ofti^ and white
As this higli hill w^reoiice the brown leaves lay
And waited f<>rthevd^ storm and night.
The beauty of th^egrt^^^ can never cease/
And hills are lordliest in vrinterpeacel
— ^esta P. CravTf ord.
The
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Vol. XXVI DECEMBER, 1939 No.12
Are You Living Abundantly?
By Zina Y. C. Brown
Christ came that we might have life and have it more abundantly.
EVERY man's goal is happiness^ beyond the northern borders of the
and the Golden Rule is the United States. The nearest town
best recipe for happiness ever and railway are sixty miles distant,
given to man. This recipe has two the only neighbors a few Northwest
ingredients— love and service. Christ Mounted Police and the friendly
told of the first when he gave the Redskins. After six months of liv-
two great commandments: ''Thou ing in a tent and wagon-box, our
shalt love the Lord thy God with pioneer gayly moved into her new
all thy heart, and with all thy soul, three-roomed log cabin. Here, a few
and with all thy mind," and ''Thou months later, her baby was born
shalt love thy neighbor as thyself." without attendance of doctor or
Love is the motivating power that trained nurse,
impels us to unselfish service. Ser- Though faced with the character-
vice is the way that leads to fulfill- istic hardships of pioneer life, she
ment and joy. And again we hear did all she could to bring comfort
the Master's voice in answer to the and cheer into the lives of the little
query, "Who is greatest among us?" band of pioneers who had settled
—"He that is servant of all." In His here in response to the call of their
life we have the exemplification of leader. She was nurse, doctor and
these truths. His great and perfect the dispenser of medicines as well;
love was shown by His glorious and few knew she paid for these herself,
selfless service to us, His children. How many lives she ushered into
both in His life and in His death. this worid and how many layettes
How can we walk in His steps, we she supplied I know not. Nor do
who are mortal? How can we gain I know how many she helped to
that fullness of life and go on to life prepare for burial after keeping vigil
eternal? Let me tell you a story of with those bereaved in their time
one who greatly loved her fellow- of near despair, supporting them
men, and whose whole life was dedi- with the buoyancy of her faith,
cated to serving them. From this Did not the weary traveler hitch
story may you be given fresh impe- his horses to the gate post without
tus to serve and more perfect faith need of formal welcome? Here he
to accept His decrees. freely stayed for one or many nights.
Come with me into a tiny hamlet Some stayed on indefinitely, and
806 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
many ailing and disheartened were
nursed back to health and new hope
under her roof.
I have vivid recollections of her
selfless services to the youth of the
now growing community. The log
house soon assumed the dignity of a
five-roomed dwelling, all white with-
out and glowing within. The whole
place radiated her cheerful person-
ality, and its quaint beauty was liter-
ally the workmanship of her own
hands. Pictures of long summer
evenings come flooding back to me:
I can see that little cottage as the
magnet that drew everyone to her
home. The ornate, hanging lamp
sends its mellow rays through the
wide-open door, and friends are
trooping down the path between the
wild-rose hedge that borders the dear
old-fashioned flower gardens. All
are greeted with a glowing smile and
warm handclasp. Soon voices rise
in sweet old songs. The sweet tones
of the old reed organ are blended
with happy voices of youth, the prat-
tle of little children, and the low
tones of those older grown. Music,
readings and games are interrupted
only by the passing of good home-
made ice cream and cake. All pres-
ent contribute to the evening's
wholesome fun. The gay laughter
and witty repartee give evidence of
glad hearts in real accord.
These parties were like talent con-
tests of the present. For latent tal-
ent was discovered and encouraged.
Out of this talent grew glee clubs,
bands, and dramatic groups.
Will anything ever equal in thrills
and excitement the "home dramat-
ics"! No unlettered youth ever had
a better coach than was she. I can
still see her plodding through the
snow to attend rehearsals. The first
performance saw her house practi-
cally stripped of all portable furnish-
ings; the old dining table was piled
high with costumes which she had
designed and helped to make from
gay "nothings". Bands of fleecy
cotton marked with charcoal made
elegant ermine, and the brass top
from the hanging lamp crowned
many a stage monarch of that long
ago.
A heavenly peace steals into my
heart as I recall the cottage and
special meetings held in her hal-
lowed parlor. This room served as
bedroom, too. The people were
seated on the bed, elegant in its silk
and wool "log-cabin" cover, and on
all the available chairs; even the
kitchen wash-bench, covered for
such occasions, was used as a seat.
The hymns, the "gifts of the spirit"
and the words of deep conviction of
the Gospel's truth stirred young
hearts to the depths. On one such
occasion the presence of a Heavenly
Choir was felt and gave to us a
glimpse of the joy that comes to
those who are truly in the Master's
service.
OOW she found time for the love
and devotion that she lavished
on her own family is still a mystery
to me. Her loyal and constant sup-
port of her husband in his respon-
sible position, her tender care of him
in the home and the honor shown
him as the head of that home were
never failing.
She heard her children's prayers
and tucked them in at night. Bed-
time hour was the story hour; when
there was company present, she ex-
cused herself that she might not miss
this ritual with her own. Marvelous
these stories were, with knights in
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armor riding through them and
princesses galore. The tales she
spun from her own fertile brain were
best loved of all. The latter always
left her children armed for doing
noble deeds.
The long, cold winters were never
dreary, for there were always good
books— a bookcase filled with vol-
umes chosen by her for her children
and their friends. Even the case
was made by her from packing boxes
and stained, varnished and hung
with crimson curtains. Her children
and their friends sat with her near
the parlor stove while she read from
Dickens or Alcott or showed them
copies of famous paintings. She
loved the beautiful in all its forms.
As she sat in the old buggy by tier
husband's side as the family jogged
home from a meeting just attended,
she would often touch his arm and
say, "Look, Papa, the flowers." That
was always a signal for him to draw
rein and let the children alight. Each
would come back soon with arms
laden with wild flowers rich in color
and perfume. Happy days! Hours
and years were made sweet with the
gifts unconsciously given by one who
lived abundantly.
She had a fullness of life. I know
that she had. Her humble board was
graced by the noble of the earth—
the honored and loved leaders of the
Church and many of the great of
her adopted country who departed
with a changed attitude toward the
Church and its people. The hum-
blest were as welcome as the so-
called great and were as graciously
received.
As her life's pattern wove itself
to completion, it was beautiful to
see. To the last, her love for all
of God's children, both living and
dead, filled her days with sweetness
and with love returned. I think the
angels must have marveled at the
throngs who came to meet her at
that Opened Door as she passed to
Life Eternal. Greatly blessed in her
gift of uniting everyone in the spirit
of brotherhood, which is such an
important phase of the Gospel of
Christ, the humble and the great of
two great nations mourned her pass-
ing—the passing of a friend. She,
unconsciously great, had gained her
life by losing it in loving service to
mankind.
Her life gives increased courage
and faith and is an added proof that
circumstance and station are no bar
to living abundantly.
Oh, dear mothers, near and far, are
we letting escape great opportunities
by which we may serve Him? Are
our days warped and unlighted by
waste of time and lack of vision, or
is each day filled with loving service
and lofty thoughts? We are living
in the "fullness of times", born with
an heritage beyond price. We can
pay for this only in the coin of love.
This increases as it is given and re-
turns a thousand-fold to bless our
years.
Let us catch and retain this true
Christmas spirit — the Christ-like
love— that it may fill our hearts now
and throughout all our days. We
shall then live abundantly.
Jennie Brimhall Knight
By President Louise Y. Rohison
COUNTING life in events, ra-
ther than in years, it seems
that I have always known
Jennie Brimhall Knight; yet, I had
not met her before I voted to sus-
tain her, April i, 1921, as First Coun-
selor to Clarissa S. Williams, Gen-
eral President of the Relief Society.
That was a memorable experience
—meeting two of the most lovable
women I have ever known and for
the first time in my life going to the
office of the First Presidency.
President Grant greeted us cor-
dially. He had been acquainted with
President Williams since early child-
hood; he knew Mrs. Knight and had
high regard for her father's family
as well as for her husband and his
family, but for a few moments he
could not place me. Those were
embarrassing moments until he re-
called my parents, my husband and
his family; he most graciously traced
genealogy far and wide and put me
at ease by laughingly saying we were
relatives. It was in that moment of
embarrassment that Mrs. Knight
looked at me with those understand-
ing, expressive eyes, and I felt secure
and at peace — she was my friend.
This friendship has grown more
precious with the years, for she has
that rare quality of friendship which
is vitalized by doing and growing,
and she has the ability to inspire her
friends to improve with her.
As First Counselor to Mrs. Wil-
liams during the seven and a half
years of her presidency, Mrs. Knight
was loyal, competent and depend-
able. Regular Executive and Board
meetings were held each week, with
often an extra session, but the wea-
ther was never too cold to keep her
from coming all the way from Provo
to be in attendance.
Her sound judgment, her sympa-
thetic understanding of human
needs and her untiring devotion to
Relief Society was a great strength
to President Williams who loved her
dearly. The bond of affection be-
tween these two great women was
beautiful to see. President Williams'
voice was a real caress when she
spoke the name ''Jennie".
In describing success, someone
has said: "If the passing years have
left you in their flight, new stores
of wisdom, kindliness, tolerance, pa-
tience—that is success." Jennie B.
Knight has all these virtues— and
more. She has added love and in
return is loved by all who have been
privileged to know her.
She has faith and a sincere testi-
mony of the truthfulness of the
Gospel of Jesus Christ, restored
through the Prophet Joseph Smith.
Her faith has strengthened the testi-
mony of others.
Few women have had the wide
opportunity for service which Mrs.
Knight has had, and few have been
so well prepared for that service.
Jennie Brimhall and Inez Knight
were the first lady missionaries,
called and sent as such, to a foreign
country. In addition to this experi-
ence, Mrs. Knight has visited most
of the stakes and many wards and
missions as General Board officer
and member. It is a pleasure to visit
a Relief Society after she has held
a conference or convention. People
invariably speak lovingly of her wis-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 809
JENNIE BRIMHALL KNIGHT
dom, her practical advice and her
ability to adjust to any situation.
Mrs. Knight graduated from the
Brigham Young University with
high honors. Later, she taught in the outstanding activities which have
the Training School of her beloved claimed her attention are: Stake
B. Y. U. and also served as Dean
of Women.
She is a life member of the Na-
tional Council of Women. A few of
810 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
President Y. W. M. I. A. of Taylor how being gracious and doing right
Stake; Stake President Y. W. M. I. come, apparently, so easy. Back of
A. of Utah Stake; Relief Society most people with these great gifts
Board Member, Utah Stake; Cover- are fine, wise parents. Jennie
nor Bamberger's representative at a Brimhall was very fortunate in
peace conference in Philadelphia^ being born into the home of Dr.
Vice President State Council of De- Ceorge H. Brimhall and Alsina
fense, Woman's Division, and a E.Wilkins Brimhall. Many instances
representative of the Council in of character training in Jennie's
Washington, D. C; representative young life are delightfully told by
of the Relief Society at conven- Inez Knight Allen in a tribute to
tions of the National Council of ''Jennie B." in the November, 1928
Women upon several occasions, and issue of the Relief Society Magazine,
as a delegate to the Quinquennial ^^^^^ ^. ^^^^^ ^^ j 1 ^^_
m Washington D. C. she became ^^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^ ^j^^j.^^ S^4 ^^
acquamted with many noted foreign p.^^^ Counselor to President Wil-
women. She was also a delegate to j.^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^^
National Conferences of Social g^^^^ ^^ j^^j .^^ ^^^. ^^^ ^^-^^
w i'' 11 tlj^ United States. ^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^l^^^ p^^^.^^^^
With all of these interests-and ^^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^
many more-Jennie B. Knight is a ^^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^^^^^ g^^^^
model homemaker, an ideal wife reluctantly acquiesce.
and mother, an hospitable hostess •' ^
and a trusted friend. The name of Jennie Brimhall
On January 18, 1899, Jennie Brim- Knight will be lovingly remember-
hall was married to Jesse William ed in thousands of homes of Relief
Knight who has whole-heartedly as- Society women. Their good wishes
sisted his wife in all of her activities, and their earnest prayers for her hap-
Their two sons, Richard and Phil- piness will ever follow her. She has
lip, are married, and three adorable proven the Prophet Micah's inter-
grandchildren now claim loving at- pretation of real service:
tention. "Only to do justly and to love
One wonders how a person can mercy, and to walk humbly with
have so many virtues and abilities, thy God."
CORSAGE
Fair Orchid, in your lavender and lace,
Born of time, and destined for a space
To rest upon her shoulder.
In all grace, I send you now
To her I love.
And beg you, with your sweetness trace
The pattern of my love across her shining face.
—Beatrice Roidame Parsons.
The Last Line
By Leila Marler Hoggan
MARTHA drew a hairpin from
the soft graying knot of hair
at the nape of her neck and
ripped open the thin envelope that
the postman had deHvered. She in-
spected its contents carefully.
''Merciful heavens!" she gasped,
''it can't be so. There must be some
mistake." Her fingers trembled as
she removed her glasses, wiped them
on the hem of her crisp apron, and
again examined the letter. It was
her name all right and the proper
address. It seemed impossible, but
there it was in plain words that arfy-
one could read.
The clock on the mantel struck
ten. The autumn sunshine was
streaming across her kitchen table.
The air was heavy with the odor
of sweet spices from the kettle of
apple butter simmering on the stove.
Yes, her senses confirmed the fact
that she was awake and in her right
mind. She really had won one hun-
dred dollars for the last line of a
limerick.
She could hardly wait to tell the
good news to some one. But Sam
had gone to the mountains hunting
with some of his friends and would
not be back for another week, and
their daughter and three sons all
lived in distant towns. It would not
be exactly kind to be babbling of
her prosperity to her neighbors.
Widow Johnson never had any mon-
ey for luxuries. And sour old Lem
Flinders, the war veteran, did not
want to hear of anyone's good for-
tune while he was hobbling about
in penury waiting for the adjustment
on his lapsed life insurance. No,
she would wait until Sam got back
to break the glad news. So she put
the check in her gray silk purse and
slipped it under Sam's pillow on
their bed. Several times during the
day she went in and opened the
purse to make sure the check was
still there.
One hundred dollars was a lot
of money to spend just as one
pleased. What would she do with
it? All through the years she had
treasured in her heart unfinished
dreams and plans that for lack of a
few dollars were still waiting to be
completed. What a thrilling experi-
ence it would be to bring about a
realization of some of these long-
hoped-for things.
TOURING the next few days Mar-
tha spent hours planning, figur-
ing, measuring. She made a trip to
town where she priced materials,
matched colors, and wrote down lists
of suggestive purchases. Then one
morning just as she opened her eyes,
it came to her like a flash. Why
hadn't she thought of it long ago?
Why not use the money for Christ-
mas? One hundred dollars for Christ-
mas! It would be magic. It would be
more than magic. Why it would be
the dream of a lifetime come true.
Her thoughts ran riot. There was
Sam and the children and grand-
children and friends to be made
glad. Oh it would be a glorious
adventure, nothing less.
Out of all her planning, however,
she did not make a single purchase.
And when Sam reached home at the
end of the week she had not even
812 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
cashed the check. Sam was tired, ''Why the taxes, Marthy, the
dusty and bewhiskered, and his usual taxes. This will make our fall pay-
even temper was somewhat ruffled, ment and tide us over till we can
''Cold as blazes in the mountains," sell the hay or the grain."
he growled, "and not even so much All of the joy went out of Mar-
as a deer track in sight." But oh, it tha's face, just as if an eraser had
was good to have him home again, rubbed off every vestige of gladness,
thought Martha. "Oh yes, the taxes ... to be sure."
He soon had his chores finished Always there was the taxes. Why
and was shaved, bathed and into hadn't she remembered? Without
clean clothes. The hot appetizing a word she went to the small desk
meal was ready for the table, and in the living room and endorsed
he noticed that his plate was turned the check and passed it to her grate-
down. Tired as he was, his curiosity ful husbafnd, but her attempt at
was at once aroused. cheerfulness during the remainder
It had been a family custom ^f the meal was a dismal failure,
throughout the years to save the little ^^^ ^as relieved when Sam fin-
happy surprises for meal time. It ished eatmg and went mto the livmg
might be a gift or a joke or some ^^^"^ ^^^ §^^"^^ through the news-
cheerful message that was concealed P^P^^^ ^^^^ ^^^, ^^"^^ while he was
under one or more of the plates, but ^^ay. Being alone would give her
no one lifted his plate until after ^ ^^^"^^ ^^ ^^^"^ t^^"gs over and to
grace was said. And so after they ^^1"^* ^^^ ^^^^ *^ ^^^ changed
had offered thanks for the food, financial situation.
Sam's twinkling eyes met Martha's ^am, tired from his trip, fell asleep
animated gaze across the steaming i" ^is chair before he had finished
food. With his hand on his plate the first paper. Martha aroused him
he waited. patiently, and without ceremony he
"What'll you bet I can't guess undressed and tumbled into bed.
the first time?" he bantered. ^^ ^^^^^^ '"^ ^''^^ and deserving,
"I don't gamble," her face was f ^ ^^^^^^,^^- ^^^" ^'' 'T!^'
beaming, "but you'll not guess this ^^^^ ^'^'*'"^ ^^^""^"^ ^^'^""^^ *^^
time, not even in a dozen guesses." ^"^^t rooms.
"Dried venison," was Sam's haz- "lyHEN Martha retired, she slept
ard. "It must be dried venison con- ^^ fitfully. Once she awakened with
siderin' the luck I had on the huntin' a start and reached for the gray silk
trip." He lifted his plate, and the purse. Her hand touched Sam's
letter addressed to Martha was re- cheek, and then she remembered,
vealed. He held it up questioningly. she had companioned with the pre-
Read it, she urged. cious check for so many days that
"A hundred dollars! A hundred it brought an empty feeling to her
dollars!" he kept repeating, after he heart to know that it was gone. It
had read the letter. "Why glory was like losing a friend,
be, Marthy, you've saved the farm/" She recalled gloomily how time
"What do you mean 'saved the and again in the past they had saved
farm'?" money for some special purpose.
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then a crop failure from some cause
or another had occurred, and their
precious savings had gone to pay
the taxes. The hailstorm had taken
the grain in the field the same fall
they were married, making it im-
possible for them to go on a honey-
moon trip. The money they had
saved for the trip had to go for taxes.
That was more than forty years ago,
and they were still waiting for that
honeymoon tour. Not that they
needed such a trip, far from it; their
marriage had been one long honey-
moon. But she could not help re-
calling that the tax payments had
caused many a heartache.
She tried to put the whole sorry
thought of it out of her mind, hut
over and over like a rhythmic chant
of bitterness and disappointment the
words repeated themselves, "a hun-
dred dollars for taxes— the Christmas
money for taxes", until finally she
could stand it no longer.
Slipping out of bed, she tiptoed
into the kitchen, put on a robe and
some house shoes and walked out on
the porch. Everything was so silent
as she stood there in the white moon-
light and gazed across the broad
acres. The fields of stubble and the
empty trees told of the garnered
harvest. The stack of hay back of
the barn, grain in the granary, boxes
of red and yellow apples, and long
shelves of bottled fruit and vege-
tables in the cellar, attested the
summer's labor and the winter's
store.
They had spent practically all of
their married life here. Sam had
helped to build the house, and they
had moved in just a few weeks be-
fore Diana was born. It seemed
only yesterday that they had packed
up and left his father and mother at
the old ranch house up in the valley.
And yet Diana's children were grow-
ing up now. Why Bonny Lou, Di-
ana's daughter, was married last
year.
The greatest joys of their liyes cen-
tered here. The rooms of the old
home were hallowed with a wealth
of sacred memories. Every foot of
the land bore the marks of Sam's
toil-worn hands. The quiet beauty,
the soft stillness of the night, sooth-
ed and comforted Martha. It
brought to her an acute realization
of the fact that this farm home was
something that money could not
buy. No price was too great to save
it for themselves and for the ones
who would come after them. It
was more than a farm— it was a
sanctuary. Awed and grateful, she
went back to her bed. In the dark-
ness of the quiet room a deep con-
tent carried her into untroubled
slumber.
npHE next morning she began all
over again to make her plans
for Christmas. This time she would
plan a Christmas without money.
She was not going to let a paltry
hundred dollars spoil the most
blessed day of the whole year. One
did not need money to commem-
orate Christmas— at least not much.
She would dip deep into her own
life. Surely she had garnered treas-
ures enough to share with others
for one year. She would make this
one of the most beautiful Christmas
seasons they had ever known.
Weeks went by, and cold autumn
skies were clouded with a flurry of
snowflakes as winter made its ap-
pearance. Soon the fields were cov-
ered with a soft mantle, undulating
drifts swung out along the foothills,
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and the streams were locked in ice.
Martha did dip deep, even as she
had promised herself. In memory
she went back into the years, and
out of the hallowed drama of the
past she materialized many fleeting
memories: Recipes of old favorite
home dishes, booklets containing
the children's pictures and their fun-
ny little sayings and doings, maxims
and slogans that had been house-
hold jokes during the years, choice
poems, bits of humor and philoso-
phy, souvenirs they had loved and
treasured.
Then there were relics and heir-
looms of value and beauty. Why
not pass some of them on to the
children this year? Sam gave his
enthusiastic approval and helped
Martha to pack the boxes. They
included in each box cartons of
home-grown popcorn and dried
sweet corn, bottles of crystal clear
honey, and bright luscious apples.
When they began addressing the
boxes and parcels, they were puzzled
as to where they should send Bonny
Lou's remembrance.
"We had better send it with
Diana's," was Martha's decision. '1
think Bonny Lou and Bob plan on
getting home for Christmas."
"Well, if they're not already there,
they'll never make it for Christmas,
unless they go around, and that
means an extra hundred miles. No
one has tackled the pass since the
big storm last week."
"Well, let us hope that they're
already there."
"But if they should be too late
to get through the pass, Marthy,
don't you suppose Bob would bring
Bonny Lou here?"
"Yes, I'm sure he would. But
Sam, suppose they should get caught
in the storm out in the mountains.
Why if anything should happen to
that darling girl—" Martha's eyes
filled with tears, and she choked
up unable to say more.
"Nothin's goin' to happen to her,
Marthy. The road is not open, so
they'll not be startin' through the
pass. Don't you worry."
"Sometimes I wonder if I don't
love that girl too much," and she
wiped her eyes gently.
"Now I'd like you to tell me just
how a person would go about it to
love an only granddaughter too
much."
"She's sure got a big place in our
hearts, Sam."
They decided to send Bonny Lou's
parcel with Diana's things. When
the boxes were ready, Sam took them
to the post office. It brought a. feel-
ing of deep satisfaction to both of
them to have everything in the mail
a week before Christmas.
'T^HE very morning before the
eventful day, when Martha came
into the kitchen to prepare break-
fast, she found that Sam had al-
ready set the table, and her plate
was turned down.
"Now Sam Hanford, what are you
up to?" she demanded in assumed
earnestness.
"Not a thing, Marthy," and Sam's
expression became painfully solemn.
As she came near the table, he hur-
ried to warn her, "Now no fair
peekin'; you know we always made
the children wait."
"Of course I'm not peeking, but
I'm sure wondering what prank
you're playing on me."
"Marthy, I'm surprised!" and the
twinkle in Sam's eyes belied his
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 815
gravity. "Whoever heard of me
playin' a prank on you?"
Martha prepared the breakfast in
record time. She really was curious
to know why Sam had turned her
plate down. After the regular de-
votion was over, she quietly lifted
her plate.
"Sam, why Sam, where did this
come from?" and she stared in won-
der at a stack of crisp ten-dollar
bills. She was too surprised to re-
member to count them until he ex-
plained that he was just paying back
the loan for the taxes.
"You know very well that was
not a loan, Sam. The taxes are as
much my obligation as yours."
"I know, but the sheep man J)aid
me for the use of the field yesterday.
And I just said to myself, 'It's a dern
poor farm that can't pay its own
keep.' So there it is. Besides, we
couldn't use your money to pay the
taxes with. That's professional
money. That's money for litera-
choor."
She wanted to answer Sam's mer-
riment with some joke, but her eyes
filled with tears; she did not
trust her voice to reply. When
Sam had finished eating and had
left the room, she carefully folded
up the ten ten-dollar bills and put
them into the gray silk purse. . It
was a strange world, she mused.
Here she was with one hundred dol-
lars for Christmas and her gifts al-
ready wrapped and mailed.
She recalled some of the lean
Christmas seasons when the chil-
dren were home. Oh, what a bless-
ing it would have been to have had
the money then. Yet, those lean
Christmases were the sweetest ones
in her memory, for out of full
hearts they had brought into their
home the real spirit of the season.
It was at one of these times that Sam
had said to her, "Never mind, Mar-
thy, if we can't buy presents. Its
the gifts of the heart that count,
and you've been givin' us them in
full measure, all through the year."
AS Martha went about her morn-
ing's work, the puzzled expres-
sion on her face plainly showed that
she had a problem to solve. She fin-
ally decided that her needy neighbors
were her first consideration. So
when the noon meal was over, she
put on her warm wraps and made
her way across the fields to their
homes. Alice Johnson came run-
ning out to meet her, her face alight
with good news.
"My, you look happy, Alice."
Martha's arm went around the slen-
der girl's shoulders, "You look as
if Santa Claus might have been
here already."
"Oh, he has, Mrs. Hanford, he
surely has. Mother's check for the
turkeys came day before yesterday.
We should have had it long ago,
only it was delayed in the mail be-
cause of the Christmas rush. But
it's here now, and we're all so happy
we're just dancing for joy."
Widow Johnson's face was as ani-
mated as Alice's. Christmas prep-
arations were nearly completed.
The household was vibrant with a
spirit of gladness.
When Martha left them a half
hour later, her heart was singing, too.
She stumbled along the half oblit-
erated path that led to Lem Flinders'
cabin. Rapping lightly on his door
she waited, expecting to hear a glum
call for her to enter. To her sur-
prise, the door swung wide, and
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Lem, with a beaming countenance,
welcomed her warmly.
"Well," he announced, when she
was seated, "the impossible has at
last come to pass. They've looked
up my record in Washington and
everything's O. K. Fm going to get
my insurance. In fact, I've already
got some of the money that was
past due."
"I'm certainly glad to hear the
food news, Lem," and Martha's
right smile confirmed her pleasure.
She rejoiced to note that his face
shone with contentment and satis-
faction. It was good to know that the
old man had at last found peace of
mind.
It was not far from Lem's cabin
to Molly Gregory's little home
where Martha found Molly singing
lustily as she applied her industrious
fingers and a wooden hook to the
task of hooking a bright colored
rug.
"It's glad I am to be seein' you,
Marthy," announced Molly, open-
ing the door wide in welcome.
"Such a good fortune has befallen
me that I am wantin' that my neigh-
bors should hear of it, but with the
paths so deep and slippery and me
so uncertain on my feet I dare not
venture out to be tellin' them."
"I'm sure I'll be as happy to hear
the good news as you will be to
tell it," was Martha's assurance.
"Your little room is fairly singing
with good cheer."
"Good cheer it is indeed, Marthy,
and no one knows better than you
of the braided rugs I've been at this
live-long winter. Well, I've sold
'em, and for a handsome price at
that. Why I'm that happy that I
can't stop §ingin', I honestly some-
times wonder if it's a dream or if it's
reality."
lyiOLLY'S happy laughter was
good to hear. It was still ringing
in Martha's ears when she reached
home. Removing her wraps, she stir-
red the fire to a bright blaze and sat
down in the big easy chair before the
hearth. She opened her small gray
purse and taking out the roll of new
bills smoothed them one by one
across her knee.
"I had so hoped," she mused,
"that they would bring Christmas
cheer to some one, but they don't
seem to be needed at all." She rolled
them up and put them back into
the purse. Suddenly the bills in the
little gray bag seemed to have lost
their value.
She laid her purse on the table
and reached for her knitting, as Sam
sauntered into the room. With his
back to the fire, he warmed his hands
while his kind eyes looked lovingly
across at Martha.
"Well, Marthy, Christmas is near-
ly over."
"How do you figure that, Sam,
when it doesn't even begin until
tomorrow?"
"Oh, I mean the makin' ready
for it."
"Oh, to be sure, and I've enjoyed
it this year, too." The resignation
in her voice brought a twinkle to
Sam's eyes, which was lost to Mar-
tha as she plied her needles industri-
ously.
"Yes," he mused, "it's comforting
to have plenty of money for a day
like Christmas." She knew what
was coming and did not reply, but
her needles clicked faster than ever.
"Well, Marthy," and his voice
was pathetically serious, "it's a dad-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 817
burned shame to be left with a hun-
dred dollars on your hands and
Christmas all but over. But I
wouldn't feel too bad about it if I
was you. You might be able to buy
yourself a new spring outfit."
*Tes, you can just see me spending
a hundred dollars for a new spring
outfit, now can't you, Sam?"
"Well, you could do a lot worse."
"Yes, and I could do a lot better."
"Just what, for instance?"
"Well, I haven't decided yet."
"Now that's just the trouble, Mar-
thy. That's what comes of getting
yourself a pocketful of professional
money. Plain folks like you and me
shouldn't be turnin' professional at
our age. It's not practical. We
don't know how to use easy money,
then we're left vdtli a lot of it on
our hands and nothing to spend it
for."
"Goodness me, Sam, I wish you'd
be quiet."
"Quiet? Why it's so still around
here now you could hear a pin drop.
Come on, let's hang up our stock-
m s.
Martha tossed her work on the
table. There was no use trying to
knit; she was dropping stitches.
"Sam Hanford, aren't you ever
going to grow up?"
"I hope not," and his smile met
hers.
"Seriously, Marthy, I've thought
of a way we could spend the hundred
dollars."
"What way?" There was eager-
ness in her voice.
"We've been waitin' a long time
for our honeymoon trip," he took
her hand tenderly in both of his,
"why can't we take it now on your
hundred dollars?"
"Where could we go on a hun-
dred dollars?"
"Well, with a little I could put
with it from the sale of the hay we
could go down south, down to the
sea. It would be great, Marthy—
blue skies and sunny beaches, with
the waves rollin' in, and the song
of the sea comin' to us out of the
white spray. There would be warm
breezes and palm trees and roses.
Think of it, Marthy, roses in De-
cember."
"I am thinking of it, Sam. It had
never come to me that we could use
the money that way."
"Why it's what we've been work-
in' for and waitin' for these many
years. That's what the money must
have been saved for."
"Well, we'll see. We don't want
to make ourselves any promises we'll
not be able to keep."
A PATH of sunshine lay across
the floor as Martha entered her
kitchen on Christmas morning.
From the shining stove the teakettle
hummed gleefully.
"Merry Christmas, Marthy!" Sam
called cheerily. "The weather man
is sure out in his best bib and tuck
this mornin', ain't he?"
"He certainly is." Martha's face
shone vnth a quiet joy, and her voice
was tender with emotion. "I wish
you a merry Christmas, Sam."
"Thanks, Marthy." He reached
over and kissed her as he went into
the living room with coal and kin-
dling for the fire. She followed
him, and while he busied himself
at the fireplace, she began looking
over the Christmas parcels and cards
and letters that she had previously
arranged on the big table. There
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was a bright array of gay wrappings
and happy messages.
'There's no card or anything here
from Bonny Lou/' Martha's voice
betrayed her anxiety.
"May be in with Diana's parcel;
open it, and we'll see." Sam adjust-
ed the fuel in the grate and brushed
the dust from his hands. The glow-
ing fire soon lent its cheer to the
big room. Hearing some one ap-
proach, he opened the door. A tele-
graph messenger greeted him cheer-
"Sign right here/' the boy direct-
ed. Sam's fingers trembled as he
affixed his signature. To Sam and
Martha there was always something
ominous about a telegram. But this
one was different. A flaming poin-
settia and cheery Christmas stream-
ers met their gaze as they scanned
the sheet anxiously.
"Lovely boy born Christmas Eve
stop Mother and baby doing fine
stop—"
"Hooray for Bonny Lou and Bob!
Think of it, Marthy, you're a great-
grandmother," and Sam embraced
her and kissed her excitedly.
"Hold on a minute, Sam, let me
see that telegram."
"Well, look at it. It says they're
goin' to call him Sam— Samuel Rob-
ert Hallaway more'n likely. Now
ain't that a high-soundin' name?"
and he waltzed Martha around the
room.
"That's not what I'm thinking of.
Look here!" Again they bent over
the paper. "It says Hanford Ranch.
Sam, they didn't make it through
the pass. They're at the ranch."
"Yes, they must be at the ranch.
They must have phoned that mes-
sage in from Riley's place. But this
says everything's all right."
"What in the world will they do
at that old ranch house?" Martha's
brow was wrinkled with misgiving.
"Now don't be runnin' down the
ranch house, Marthy. I was born
there myself, and it's still the best
lookin' house in that neck of the
woods."
"But it's been empty for months.
Unless Mrs. Riley has fixed it up,
it's just impossible. There's no rugs
or curtains or bedding or anything—
just the bare furniture."
"Well," mused Sam, scratching
his chin, "a hundred dollars is a
hundred dollars in any man's lan-
guage. I see your money takin'
wings mighty fast, Marthy. Also,
I see a certain sunny beach slowly
fadin' from view, while the song
of the sea is growin' fainter and
fainter."
"Sam, will you stop your moon-
ing around and help me to get things
ready? We're going to Bonny Lou.
You know just as well as I do that
nothing could drag you away to any
warm southern beach while Bonny
Lou's up at the ranch house with
that new baby."
"Very well, what can I do?"
"Bring me a basket from the base-
ment, please, and I'll pack the lunch
while you get the car ready."
"In a few minutes Sam was back
with the basket. He had remembered
to bring up some large red apples
and bottles of cranberries, sweet pic-
kles, and pears. Then he hurried
out to the garage.
Martha was rushing from kitchen
to pantry. She adjusted linen nap-
kins between her best china dinner
plates as she fitted them into one
end of the basket. She kept count-
ing the various articles on her fingers
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to make sure that nothing was for-
gotten.
''The old jitney's in good shape/'
Sam announced, as he came back
to the kitchen. "If the roads are
open, we ought to be able to make
it in pretty good time."
"If we get started right away, well
be there in time for dinner with
Bob and Bonny Lou, even if she
does have to eat in bed propped up
with pillows. We're taking the tur-
key and pudding and everything,"
Martha informed him. "I can just
see how their faces will light up
when we come tiptoeing in."
"Bonny Lou will likely be in
Mother's bedroom," Sam was seri-
ous, "and maybe the little feller will
be in the old wooden cradle that .
Father made for me."
"Oh, it is going to be a great trip,
Sam, across the foothills and up the
valley, with that snow shining all
over everything like a million dia-
monds."
Sam sat down before the fire, but
he made no reply.
"You want to go, don't you,
Sam?" There was solicitude in
Martha's voice.
"You haven't heard me say any-
. thing about not goin' have you?"
"No, but you don't seem very
enthusiastic about it."
"Who would be? After waitin'
for forty years to go on a honeymoon
to the sunny south, who would be
enthusiastic about a trip back to the
old ranch through snow crotch-deep
to a tall Injun? I'm askin' you, Mar-
thy, do you call that romance?"
"I'll say I call that romance. I
know you don't mean a word you're
saying, Sam, but just the same I'd
like to remind you that the old ranch
is the place where we first met and
where we were married and spent
our honeymoon. Besides, Bonny
Lou is there. And if there wasn't a
stick of furniture in the place it
would still be romance, if Bonny Lou
was there."
Sam chuckled softly. Martha
looked up from the lunch basket,
suddenly realizing that she was get-
ting sentimental. An understand-
ing smile passed between them.
"Don't forget little Sammy," and
his voice was as gentle as the softly
humming kettle on the stove, "it
ain't every couple, Marthy, that can
have a bran' new great-grandchild
to go to on Christmas mornin'."
CHRISTMAS FIRES
By Evelyn Wooster Viner
When the Yule log on the fire bums
With wintry winds outside,
It seems an easy thing to say,
*' Tis well whate'er betide."
When wintry winds are in our hearts,
The hearth fire but a spark.
And Yuletide joy seems far away.
Then life indeed is dark.
Oh! Let us hold the Christmas cheer
All the long year 'round
That through the world good will and joy
May bountifully abound.
Long Live Your Poinsettia
By Dorothy Ndl Mail
THE floral shops are filled at
Christmas time with thou-
sands of potted poinsettias
that will find their way into just as
many homes. Because of the beau-
tiful sentiment each plant express-
es, we wish to preserve its loveliness
as long as possible. There is some-
thing very alluring about the flam-
ing red tongues, the leaves surround-
ing the inconspicuous flower, that
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makes us reluctant to see them
droop and fall. They need not per-
ish too soon. A little proper han-
dling will preserve them for weeks
after Christmas Day has faded with
the old year.
Poinsettias are touchy. Like holly-
hocks and poppies, they are almost
too perishable to be good cut flow-
ers. When the stems are cut, they
bleed freely. In the days before pot-
ted plants became popular as gifts
and poinsettias were used as cut
flowers, the stems were charred or
dipped into boiling water to seal the
ends and to prevent the milky sap
from draining too quickly. They
were then placed into deep water
of room temperature and allowed to
soak for several hours before being
arranged into bouquets. An impor-
tant thing to remember for any cut
flowers included in your Christmas
bouquet is to have the water in
which they are to be placed of room
temperature rather than ice cold.
Water too cold will chill and shock
the flowers.
Your potted poinsettias are much
more easily taken care of than those
that are cut, but even so, they can
still be called temperamental. It is
well to remember that they are trop-
ical and semi-tropical shrubs, natives
of Mexico, introduced into the
United States in 1828. The actual
flower is what appears to be the yel-
low center, and the red tongues or
bracts that surround it are leaves,
not petals. These leaves are the most
attractive part of the plant and the
reason we admire it. In the garden,
where the roots have room for ex-
pansion, plants grow to a height of
fifteen feet and more. The potted
shrub is considerably dwarfed. Poin-
settia roots rebel immediately at ex-
tremes of dryness or moisture; soil
should be kept damp but not soggy.
Temperature is of vital consideration
and should be held at sixty-five or
seventy degrees. A slight chill will
cause the red bracts and green leaves
to fall. If you awaken some morning
to find your poinsettia looking sick,
it has probably been chilled during
the night when the temperature of
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A Song In The Cabin
/ By MaryhaJe Woolsey
THERE was a streak of gold in disappointment after disappoint-
the western sky, mirrored thinly ment!
in the gray lake across the val- It didn't do much good to remind
ley. The clouds overhead hung cold herself that many of the brethren
and threatening, lower than an hour and sisters who were her neighbors
ago; against them the rims of the had suffered even more. Sister Ab-
mountains were less sharply defined, bie Hemmer, for instance, who had
It would storm before morning. Lib- come in the early fifties, had known
beth told herself. And it would many hardships which Libbeth and
be snow, if she did not mistake this Arden had not known, coming as
clean nippy tang of the air. they had over a now well established
Snow! Winter at hand again! route almost free of such dangers as
Well, it was nearly December; the had confronted the earlier pioneers,
fall had been beautiful. Libbeth No, thinking of that didn't do
sighed, thinking of another winter Libbeth— in this mood— much good,
in the cabin— the new house so near- It seemed only to intensify that re-
ly ready, yet they had to wait! Draw- bellious questioning within her.
ing her dark warm shawl closer about Was it really worth the while, the
her shoulders, she leaned against the sacrifices, the struggles, the giving
side of the cabin and turned her up of comforts, pleasantries and nice-
eyes from the west to the north ties of living such as she had for-
where, a little higher up the hill merly known? Back home in Ohio
slope, the new house stood. It had there were still the ease and loveli-
a good stone foundation, walls of ness she had grown up in. . .
adobe, thick and snug, bright shin- Was it possible that less than
gled roof, a small porch by the front seven years ago she had been that
door and a lean-to entrance at the happy, carefree girl she now remem-
back. Four big rooms there would bered so wistfully? Seven years-
be, with space for two more "some an incredibly short time to have
day" up under the gables— such a contained such an eternity of experi-
comforting thought after the years ences!
in a two-tiny-rooms cabin! Libbeth Oh, she was tired of toil and
stretched out her arms, as if the very anxiety and an unending caravan of
thought of spaciousness impelled her deprivations, tired of two small
to reach out and ease cramped mus- rooms in a cabin; tired of odors of
cles. food cooking on a broken stove,
It had been such a long time in smell of wash-suds, fresh milk and
the cabin. So many reverses had new cheese, of ripened fruit demand-
come, as if placed in their way to ing attention. . . .
try them further— as if they had not Libbeth caught herself up sharp-
borne trial enough for their devo- ly. She wouldn't think of these
tion to the Gospel, even before com- things as being always so disagree-
ing here. One loss after another, able as they had been recently. Ar-
822 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
den would be deeply grieved if he
should learn the things that were in
her heart. Arden had no regrets for
his sacrifices, and he, too, had given
up much.
It had seemed little enough, at
first— a privilege to give up home,'
friends, position, even family, for
the sake of the Gospel. Of all their
intimate circle, they two only had
been converted to Mormonism. The
sentiment of their community had
been bitterly antagonistic. Jervis
Mead, Libbeth's father, had tem-
pestuously opposed Libbeth's and
Arden's interest in the Mormons:
''If you join them,'' he had said,
"Fll want never to lay eyes on either
of you again. Nor shall your mother,
if I can help it. . . "
So it had been. Once, Libbeth
believed, her mother had made an
effort to see her. Coming home
one evening, she thought she de-
tected a faint fragrance in the room,
a perfume Alice Mead always wore.
Her mother had been there; perhaps
she would come again . . . but she
had not come again.
Soon thereafter, Arden and Lib-
beth had come West to the city
of the Saints. They would have a
new home there, in the thriving new
community; they would find oppor-
tunities among others who shared
the same beliefs, the same ideals.
Almost from the first, disappoint-
ment had been* their lot. One of
their four horses died mysteriously;
another Arden had lent to a fellow-
traveler who had a similar misfor-
tune. It had been necessary to
lighten their load, so they had stored
part of their furniture at Fort
Laramie. Libbeth's cabinet organ
had been among these, and there
had never been money to spare to
bring it on. She missed the organ
particularly; she had loved her mu-
sic. Would she ever be able to
play again, she wondered? Her fin-
gers were growing stiff from lack
of practice and from the hardening
toil.
npHE streak of gold was fading fast,
the shadows deepening. Her ear
caught the sound of wagon wheels
approaching. Little Ardena heard
them, too, and ran down the hill
to meet her father and ride home
on top of his load of wood. Libbeth's
heart lifted somewhat, as it always
did at his coming, as if just his near-
ness shifted some of her burdens
onto his stronger shoulders.
She felt almost abused when Ar-
den, after supper, went out with a
lantern to hitch up the horses again.
"I have to go to town," he said.
Shortly, she thought, as if he feared
she might ask questions.
'Tm . . . making home unpleasant
for him. If I lose him, too, if his
love should grow cold ... I could
not bear it. And I should deserve
it, too, for my moods and discontent.
What shall I, what can I, do?"
She put the babies to bed, silently.
Little Joey was sound asleep in his
cradle, and Ardena in her little bed
was on the border of slumberland
when Arden came home. He drove
close to the cabin door, and curious,
she opened it ... to see him and a
man she did not know lifting some-
thing tall and heavy from the wagon
to the ground. She moved aside as
they carried it through the doorway.
"Arden! It's not— oh, Arden! The
organ!" she cried, and stood, dumb
with surprise, while they tugged and
pushed and lifted until it stood
against the farther wall. The Strang-
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er left, with a nod and smile to
Libbeth as he passed her.
"Oh, Arden!" Libbeth went over
and stood stroking the smooth dark
wood of the cabinet. "How —
when?"
"Your Christmas present, Libbie,"
Arden said. "It's early, but I was
afraid the roads might delay it, la-
ter."
Ardena had roused and climbed
out of bed. In her small long gown
she stood wonderingly watching.
Arden took her up into his arms.
"Might we have a song, do you
think?" he said to Libbeth, and his
voice was wistful. "It's been so
long ... a mighty long time since
I heard you singing, honey." ^
A flood of self-accusation rushed
over her. While she had been mop-
ing, he had been planning this great
surprise for her!
"Oh, yes! Yes, of course!" she
cried. "Only . . . I'm so surprised
I can hardly talk — let alone sing!
Of course I will!"
Eagerly, she started to raise the
cover and was puzzled to find it
resisting. She pushed, pulled, push-
ed again, her puzzlement changing
to alarm. Maybe the wood had
warped . . . though it looked all
right
Anxiously, she thrust her hand up-
ward inside the cover, feeling care-
fully underneath for anything {hat
might be the cause of the trouble.
She caught her breath vvdth relief as
she found it— the corner of a thick
envelope protruding from the back.
With a little difficulty she drew it
forth. With her first glance at the
I>enciled writing on its face, she
gasped and grew faint. Arden put
his arm quickly around her to steady
her.
"I'm all right, dear. I just felt
startled. This is Mother's writing."
"Your mother's?" Arden repeated.
"But— why, Libbeth!"
The two stood staring, unbeliev-
ing. For Libbeth had drawn forth
the contents of the envelope, and
in her hand was a packet of green-
backs and a brief note, which pres-
ently she read wonderingly:
"My darling daughter:
"I have heard that you are going West.
I dare not try to see you; you know how
our friends feel about you, and your fa-
ther and I do not care to risk their dis-
favor by being friendly to any Mormons.
"But I want you to have this money.
It is my own, and I think even your father
would not mind too much your having it,
though he would never admit this; you
know he seldom retracts anything he has
said. I intend to come to your house when
you are away and leave this where it will
be safe until you find it.
"Please remember, dear child, that
though this strange new religion which you
have adopted may be the means of sep-
arating us forever, I shall never cease to
love you and to pray that all may be well
with you and yours. God bless you, and
dearest love to you both.
"Alice Mead."
Libbeth was crying softly as she
finished reading. "Arden, remem-
ber that day I said her perfume was
in the room when we came home?
That was the time; I know it. She
hid this under the organ cover, and it
slipped back out of sight. It's been
there all this time. Arden, take it!
It frightens me to have so much of
it in my hands at once!"
He said, smiling, yet with a sober
note in his voice, "It does look like
a young fortune. I'll keep it till
you're ready to use it for whatever
purpose you wish."
"Our house, Arden! Maybe now
we can finish it so we can move inJ
824 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
There's nothing I want so much!'
Why, maybe we can do all the
things at once— get the rest of our
things brought on, buy the new
stove and heater and the store carpet
for the parlor." She was laughing
and crying, and the sight frightened
little Ardena so she began to whim-
per.
'There, you lamb, Mother's all
right. Listen, Fll sing you a song!"
Haltingly, and with errors which
amused while they dismayed her,
she played and sang— old love bal-
lads, a hymn or two. There was
no longer any gloom in the cabin
but only gladness and cheer. Not
alone what the money would mean,
Libbeth told herself, but the mes-
sage from her mother. She reread
the note several times before put-
ting out the lamp at her bedside.
She understood, now, a part of
her discontentment which hereto-
fore she had not guessed. It was
homesickness, wanting her mother.
A wife and mother herself, but still
deep within her was a little-girl heart
longing to know her own mother's
love. Now she had assurance of
that love, "dearest love" which
would never cease.
In bed she cried for awhile, muf-
fling her sobs in the pillow lest she
awaken the children; Arden lay
awake beside her, puzzled and awk-
ward in his attempts to comfort her.
''It was a crazy place to put all
that money," he remarked after
awhile. "It might have been lost
forever!"
Libbeth stirred eagerly. "Prob-
ably she has thought of that, too.
Arden, I'm going to write her. I
think she should know."
"That," he agreed, "would be
kind, I think."
"I'll tell her all about us. Arden,
Mother doesn't even know she has
a grandchild, to say nothing of two
of them! I'll write the first thing
tomorrow!"
nPHEY moved into the new house
just three days before Christmas.
The miracle of telegraphy, starting
their stored goods out within a few
hours after their decision, made pos-
sible the arrival of things in time
to add to the excitement and pleas-
ure.
What a Christmas it was to be!
Libbeth had gifts for each of the
family, including one great extrava-
gance, a small gold pendant and
chain for Ardena. That was the
child's gift from the grandmother
she might never know, and it was
of a quality fine enough to treasure
through the years.
Inside the new house it was warm
and cozy. Deep snow came the day
after they were established there,
and the feathery flakes piled against
the windows and the doorsills.
Within, Libbeth played, and Arden
and Ardena sang with her, and even
baby Joe seemed to try valiantly to
join them, making queer lovable
sounds. The organ stood grandly
in the parlor, near the sitting-room
door where— thanks to the new heat-
er—Libbeth could always play in
comfort. There was a fireplace in
the parlor itself; they planned to
light the first fire there on Christmas
Eve.
They had a tree, too. A symmet-
rical young spruce, deep green and
fragrant. Festoons of popcorn
decked it, and bright-colored tapers
awaited the time for lighting.
As a Christmas Eve surprise for
Arden, Libbeth had secretly taught
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 825
their little girl to sing "Silent letter/' Alice Mead said. ''When
Night". Very nicely she sang it, we knew about the children—"
while he stood in the sitting-room "We/" Grandfather Mead laughed
doorway and gave flattering atten- loudly. "We/ Don't you believe
tion, it. It was she who's responsible.
"She's going to be a real singer!" It was rank insubordination, that's
he boasted. "Maybe some day we'll what it was. I'm going to spend
have a particular interest in the Christmas with my daughter and my
big choir, eh. Mother?" grandchildren,' she said to me, 'and
That was a new dream, exciting you may come along if you wish.'
and wonderful. Already the fame Yes, sir, just like that! And what
of the great domed Tabernacle was else could I do, if she'd risk her neck
spreading over the world. Its ma- in a crazy stage-coach journey
jestic pipe organ was the marvel of through your incredible mountains
all the valleys. It was being said at this season, what could I do but
that with the coming of the railroad come along to look after her?"
people would journey from many "Not a thing else!" Libbeth laugh-
lands just to see and hear it. That ed. She saw through her father's
would not be long now; day by day bluff, she told herself joyously. He
the shining rails were reaching out was as glad as his little spunky wife
farther into the wilderness, bringing was, to be here. It was good to have
nearer the time when Utah would be them here, her father and her moth-
bound to the nation by a strong er, sitting with her own family in
steel girdle. this spirit of joy and companionship!
Voices, hallooing from the street,
broke into Libbeth's mental wan- 'pHE gladness of living was strong
derings. She followed as Arden "pon her now. She was proud
went to answer. There were two oi her house, its snug warmth, its
people coming up the path from comfort, its lamps burning clear and
the gate. A small fur-wrapped lady bright, its atmosphere of love and
came running across the porch and contentment; proud of her children,
into Libbeth's eager arms. Behind blue-eyed Ardena, quiet and won-
her came a tall man with square dering in her grandmother's lap, and
shoulders and an erect bearing. baby Joey, toddling from father to
"Mother! Why— my own moth- grandfather and back again with im-
er! And Father— how in the world partial affection; proud of the con-
— when— wh)^— ?" They were sense- versation which had turned to boast-
less, mixed-up greetings, questions ing oi the progress and growth and
tossed out without need or expect- the wonders being wrought here in
ancy of reply. Confusion, joyous, the valleys of the mountains,
thrilling confusion! "Why, I expected a desert!" said
Only after a long time, after they Jervis Mead,
had eaten and cleared everything "But you find the desert blos-
away, and gathered at last around soming as a rose!" Arden's face
the bright fire, did the conversation glowed. "And I tell you, there are
become intelligible and consistent, riches beyond our dreams waiting
"Oh, we had to come— after your to unfold for us in this land— pre-
826 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
cious metals in our mountains, fine
grazing lands and fertile farm sites
in every direction, no end of possi-
bilities for industry of all kinds. We
made no mistake in coming nor in
making these people our people; did
we, Libbeth?"
"No mistake!" she agreed.
"There's no place Fd rather have
my babies growing up!" The light
in her eyes told them what the
warmth in her heart was telling her
—that this which she had spoken
was really true. "No place in all
the world!"
"No place in all the world!" The
words went through her mind over
and over again — singing words, a
song which had been born long ago,
born in the little cabin even while
she was too discontented to know.
Jervis Mead was speaking again.
"I hope you'll forgive me, you two,
for the past. No one has a right
to dictate to another what he shall
believe. I'm sincere in saying that.
Even if I don't quite agree with the
Mormon teachings, you people out
here have my respect and admira-
tion. I'd like to feel that we can be
friends, and I'd like to feel that we,
here in this house, are friends and
more— are one family, and will al-
ways be; that you and I, Arden, are
father and son."
"Why, of course."
"I mean, my boy, caring deeply,
as these women would like to have
us. And these babies. . . " he was
taking Joey up into his arms again.
"Look at him," said Jervis Mead,
looking into little Joey's wide, con-
fident baby eyes. "He really likes
me. How about you, my lad?"
"You're right, sir. We'll be close
to each other, always."
"We'll make it a Christmas gift
to -the women we love, eh? A gift
of peace and good will!"
Their clasped hands sealed the
compact.
Just then, Ardena slipped down
from the grandmother's knee and
came toward her mother.
"The candles, now, Mudther,
light the candles!"
They put out the lamps, so there
would be only the candles and the
lowering firelight in the room. One
by one the tapers gleamed out, until
the room was mellow vdth the light
of them. Each one, though but a
tiny glimmer, was a symbol of the
Star of long ago whose light was
renewed and would continue to be
renewed each year where hearts ad-
mitted the Christmas spirit of love
and harmony. Each candle was an
infinitesimal but certain testimony
that the Star which hung over Beth-
lehem, had shone with a Light eter-
nal.
The Relief Society and the
Welfare Plan
By Eva W. Darger
Director of Relief Society Employment Bureau
ONE phase of welfare work in and fitness for the position applied
which the Relief Society has for is thoroughly discussed. Refer-
been actively interested dur- ences from former employers as to
ing its entire history is the finding experience, ability and character are
of employment for women and girls checked, and the applicant is classi-
of the Church. At the present time, fied accordingly. If the applicant is
when so much stress is being placed inexperienced, personal references
upon securing work for the unem- for character and background from
ployed, the efforts of this depart- reliable sources are required; then,
ment have been greatly increased. the best opportunity for the appli-
The Relief Society Employment cant to consider is suggested. Many
Department concerns itself almost older women, untrained in any par-
entirely with domestic service, which ticular field, who are forced into the
includes housekeepers, general house business world are helped to find
workers, mothers' helpers, cooks, employment as domestic workers,
nurse maids, laundresses, day work- nurses or day workers,
ers and practical nurses. An average Some follow-up work after place-
of two hundred and fifty domestic ment is carried on in order to see
workers are placed by this depart- if the arrangement is satisfactory
ment each month. and if the worker is making progress.
Although there are no definite le- The workers are encouraged to make
gal standards to regulate this group personal visits to the office during
of workers, we are doing all we time off for counsel and advice. Most
can to raise the standards and re- employees, the younger workers es-
quirements of the homes as well as pecially, express their appreciation
those of the workers through our of this service and are grateful to
placement procedure. know that we are interested in their
The procedure includes investiga- progress and anxious for their suc-
tions for satisfactory and permanent cess.
placements, adjustment of difficul- The standard, fundamental re-
ties, friction and misunderstandings, quirements of a good housework po-
coordination of training and place- sition are: Reasonable and definite
ment, informal discussion with em- hours, sanitary and comfortable liv-
ployers and employees before place- ing and working conditions, system-
ment, and follow-up work. atized work, steady employment, op-
A personal interview with each in- portunities for advancement, free-
dividual applicant is necessary, dur- dom from social stigma, and ade-
ing which the history of the person, quate wages. Some standard require-
her education, experience, training ments necessary to the employee,
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which will help to bring about bet- a job but finding the right job for
ter cooperation and greater harmony the man or woman. In order to ac-
within the home, are: A good char- complish this, vocational guidance
acter— honest, reliable and conscien- is provided by the Relief Society
tious; a willingness to learn; an alert Employment Service. Counsel and
and active interest in the job; a good assistance are given girls and women
physical record; a neat, clean, tidy contemplating employment as well
appearance; a sense of responsibility, as those not happily adjusted in their
The Bureau of Vocational Coun- present work in order that they may
sel of Boston has listed several out- obtain greater insight into their own
standing vocational stumbling blocks aptitudes, capacities, traits, skills,
to success which workers might knowledge, and background. They
avoid. Some of them are: Not real- are encouraged to secure any addi-
izing that successful working de- tional education or training neces-
pends upon successful living; inabil- sary for available employment op-
ity to cooperate with people; choos- portunities and to make the most of
ing a job entirely for the money in- educational, recreational and other
volved; underestimation or ovesti- opportunities provided by the com-
mation of one's abilities; trying to munity.
do too much at a time rather than With an understanding knowl-
progressing gradually; using dull edge of human beings, skill in deal-
times as a constant source of pessi- ing with other people's problems,
mistic attitudes; inattention to spir- and with a desire to strengthen and
itual qualities. encourage the individual's faith in
Our biggest task today is restor- herself, this program of providing
ing employment to workers, not employment for women is being
merely finding the man or woman carried on.
A SONG
Across Judean hills arose
A song, the angels singing;
It touched the stillness of the night
Softly as church bells ringing.
A song of peace— peace and good will
From Holy realms above
For all the tired hungry hearts
Who felt need of His Love.
A song— immortal, heaven born—
We'd hear it if we would;
Look to Him now, for angels sing,
Still sing of brotherhood.
—Sylvia Pwhst.
HAPPENING
By Annie Wells Cannon
r\ECEMBER-Happiness lies in
remembrance of simple things:
Children's laughter, opening buds,
birds' songs, fragrant flowers, fleecy
clouds, autumn tints, scented pines,
frosted trees and snow-capped hills.
lytOTHER GOOSE, Alice in
Wonderland, Snow White, The
Wizard of Oz, Little Black Sambo,
Ferdinand and all the wonderful
people of Fairyland are with us once
again, and little children wander up
and down the gaily decorated ave-
nues and brilliant lanes of stores in
wonder and delight.
jytOBLEY LUSHANYA, an
American Indian of the Chick-
asaws, is singing this winter with the
Chicago Opera company in the title
role of Aida. Lushanya, meaning
bird that sings, was a protege of
Tetrazzina and made her operatic
debut in Trieste, Italy in 1937.
lyrARIE OGILVIE GORDON,
24 years Vice-President and later
Hon. President of the International
Council of Women, died last Oc-
tober. Mrs. Gordon was a distin-
guished scholar. She graduated from
the University of London as the
first woman Doctor of Science and
obtained degrees of Doctor of Phil-
osophy from Berlin and Munich
Universities. Because of her aca-
demic achievements and public
service, King George V created her
Dame of the Order of the British
Empire in 1935.
JVjME. MARIE POPP, President
of the Legal and Political As-
sociation for the Emancipation of
Women of Rumania, is a member of
the Rumanian Senate.
OORTENSE ODLUM of New
York and native of Utah has
written a book, '*A Woman's Place,"
in which she tells her experience
in the business world.
OOXANNA GUNNELL, Lula
Olsen, and Jennie Binkerd of
Utah are the first women to serve
on a federal grand jury. Mrs. Gun-
nell was elected foreman.
A LICE BRADY, celebrated stage
and screen star, died recently in
New York. Among her greatest cre-
ations were Mrs. O'Leary in "Old
Chicago" and Meg in 'Tittle
Women."
lYjINDWELL CHIPMAN HUN-
^ ^ TER, faithful Latter-day Saint
worker and for sixteen years Presi-
dent of the Eighth Ward Relief So-
ciety, died early in the year in Port-
land, Oregon.
OANNAH ALDRICH, Handcart
pioneer of Utah, recently cele-
brated her 99th birthday at her home
in Mt. Pleasant. Among the pres-
ents was a cake with 99 candles.
"V-AOMI JACOBS has written an-
other fascinating novel, "This
Porcelain Clay." Margaret Flint,
author of "Old Ashburn Place," prize
novel, has a new novel, "Breakneck
Brook," with a Maine setting. Mar-
jory Shuler, first woman to circum-
navigate the world in commercial
planes, has written the story of her
great adventure, "A Panegyric to
Adventure."
THE REUEF SOCIETY OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Motto — Charity Never Faileth
LOUISE YATES ROBISON -. - - . President
AMY BROWN LYMAN First Counselor
KATE M. BARKER Second Counselor
JULIA A. F. LUND _....-. General Secretary and Treasurer
THE GENERAL BOARD
Emma A. Empey Ida P. Beal Vivian R. McConkie
Annie Wells Cannon Marcia K. Howells Leda T. Jensen
Lalene H. Hart Emeline Y. Nebeker Beatrice F. Stevens
Cora L. Bennion Janet M. Thompson Rae B. Barker
Rosannah C. Irvine Belle S. Spafford Nellie O. Parker
Nettie D. Bradford Donna Durrant Sorensen Anna S. Barlow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor Belle S. Spafford
Manager ._-_-.-.--. Louise Y. Robison
Assistant Manager ---------- Amy Brown Lyman
Vol. XXVI DECEMBER, 1939 No.12
" EDITORIAL
Vl/hat ^Jjoes (^hnstmas lliean cJo IJou?
WORDS are strange things— heart fill with gratitude for God's
an articulate sound or com- greatest gift to man? Are you stirred
bination of sounds which with a desire to serve Him more de-
symbolize an idea. They take on votedly, to love His children more
meaning in the light of the life ex- sincerely? Thousands there are the
periences of the hearer; for example, world over to whom the word
the word ''mother" brings a certain "Christmas" suggests such thoughts,
picture to one person while to an- Christmas to them is "observance".
other it may recall something quite To others the word conveys a dis-
different. Words have fine connota- tinctly opposite picture— one of hi-
tions; what may be "honest" to me larious debauchery, the gratification
may not be "honest" to you. Words of extravagant wants, reckless spend-
have great power: They stimulate ing, the overindulgence of physical
the intellect; they stir the emotions; appetites, excessive eating, intem-
they influence behavior. perate drinking— excesses which can
Probably no one word is exerting a only bring distress, remorse and a
greater influence upon our emotions, general lowering of the quality of
our thinking, our planning and our the individual. Christmas to them
doing at the present time than is "celebration",
the single word "Christmas". What Many there are to whom the word
does "Christmas" connote to you? suggests excitement, overwork, anx-
Does it bring to mind a virgin moth- iety, worry, self-denial. The day
er, a tiny babe, a lowly manger? Do looms before them as something
you picture shepherds keeping which must be met, which must be
watch over their flocks by night, the lived through, but which will be a
glory of the Lord shining round "good thing over with",
about them, an angel choir praising The majority of individuals, how-
God and saying, "on earth peace, ever, find their hearts beating in joy-
good will toward men"? Does your ous anticipation in response to the
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 831
word "Christmas". It means giving,
receiving, sharing, sacrificing. It is
a happy, joyous time— a time when
all are made glad. Like the streets
and the shops, hearts are light, made
bright by an inward flame of love
for mankind.
So pronounced is the feeling of
love, so generous are hearts, that
wisdom does not always dictate our
Christmas expressions. Often sacri-
fices are made out of proportion to
the requirements of the day. People
deny themselves important things
that they may be lavish in their giv-
ing. All too often debts are incurred
which become a burden as we move
into the New Year, and Christmas
joys are made dull by fhe heavy
load. This is particularly true in the
case of parents providing for their
children. Children have so many
wants, so many desires in this day.
Everything contributes to whetting
these wants— the shops, radio, mag-
azine and newspaper advertising,
door-to-door salesmen, the plans of
playmates and companions. Parents
can scarcely bear the thought of de-
nying the child his Christmas wants;
in many cases great sacrifices are
made in order to gratify them. Sac-
rifice is good— it stamps out selfish-
ness, it develops the individual, it
brings its compensations. But
should parents always be the ones
to make the sacrifice? Would it not
be a wholesome thing for the child
to make sacrifice also, to forego some
of his desires? In making too great
sacrifices, may we not be indulging
the selfishnesses of our children, de-
nying them one of the greatest gifts
parents can give— the opportunity
for character development?
Cooperation is a sound principle
of happy living. Why not apply it
in our Christmas observance? Let
the family plan and work together,
each making his contribution in the
form of sharing, giving and sacrific-
ing. Then the great gift of self-devel-
opment, family unity and stability,
true happiness, will come to all.
A happy Christmas must be dom-
inated by our intelligence as well as
our emotions. It will always remain
a challenge to the best that is in us.
It should not be a time of indul-
gence nor of stress and strain be-
cause of our imperfect approach to
it. It should not debase the funda-
mental ideals of Christianity.
Let us not place too high a value
upon the things which money can
buy. Let us develop an appreciation
of the desirability of the immaterial
as a source of happiness and satis-
faction. Let us emphasize the type
of happiness which no amount of
money can ever buy. Then the word
"Christmas" will have its proper
connotation— peace, good will, love,
joy.
dJtaj^yUL OF INTEREST
liotes ofrom QJne QJieia
"MOTES FROM THE FIELD" not been used will appear in a later
have told a wonderful story of issue of the Magazine. This month
the Relief Society as it is reflected
in the work of the organizations all
over the world. We are very grate-
ful for the beautiful pictures and the
interesting items. Those which have
we are happy to yield our space to
the Magazine Honor Roll. This ex-
cellent report is in reality ''Notes
From The Field''.
.yittention: (^Literary L^iass lliemhers
^HE BENT TWIG by Dorothy book will be available at the Deseret
Canfield Fisher will be used in Book Company the latter part of De-
substitution for the Four Horsemen cember. The purchase price will not
oi the Apocalypse by Ibanez. The exceed $1.00.
LPan-K/imerican (^ooa vi/ui cJour
npHE General Board of Relief So- new friendliness and better Pan-
ciety helped entertain the five American understanding. More
outstanding women of Central and than three hundred people who at-
South America who are making a tended the luncheon in honor of the
Good Will Tour throughout the
United States and who made a brief
stop in Salt Lake City, Saturday, No-
vember 4. This trip is in a measure
a return visit for a similar tour
through the Latin- American coun-
tries led by our Mrs. Burton W.
Musser in 1937, with great results of
flew
"DOOK two of the Jimmy Microbe
series, under the title of Hitch-
Hiking With Jimmy Microbe, writ-
ten by Virginia and Drew Jacobsen
and Lyman L. Daines, M. D., all of
Salt Lake City, made its appearance
in the book stores of our country
during the summer.
This book has succeeded in pre-
senting an adventuresome story for
children providing at the same time
in a very clever and original way
scientific counsel on good health
habits.
illustrious visitors came away with
a new interest in the nations they
represent and realizing that women
the world over work for the same
ideals— the improving and conserv-
ing of human life and above all the
preservation of PEACE.
iuooks
\ SECOND edition of Heart
Throbs of the West, compiled
by Mrs. Kate B. Carter and publish-
ed by the Daughters of Utah Pio-
neers, is now off the press. The book
deals with 24 definite phases of Pio-
neer life. It contains many new
human-interest stories as well as val-
uable historical facts. Pioneer life
will always be of interest, and this
new volume will add much to our
appreciation of the history of the
West.
Cathedral of Peace
By Dorothy Clapp Robinson
RKSUMK— FIRST INSTALLMENT CHAPTER TWO
Carolyn Evans thought she was being
a good wife by working hard and sa\ing
consistently without complaint. She
became so absorbed in petty details of
work and saving that she could sec
nothing else. She had even forgotten
how to neighbor with other ranch
wives. Then with cruel bluntness her
husband had refused to take her with
him to a Stock Growers Convention.
Hurt beyond words and sick with disap-
pointment, she rushed away from the
house to her
Cathedral of Peace. This was a Cot-
tonwood grove in the "bottoms" pas-
ture of the Idaho ranch that was her
home. In the grove she could always
find peace and quiet from the conflicting
pressures of a discordant home and over-
bearing husband. Weeping there and
asking herself "why?", she is accosted
by
Kane Holland, who is a rancher neighbor.
He is a bachelor who in the past has
been kind and considerate to Carolyn
and her boys. Highly indignant over
the treatment she receives from her hus-
band, he offers her a way out via the
divorce court. Carolyn is confused more
than incensed. Realizing this, Kane
leaves her to think things out alone.
She is soon interrupted by
Bob Evans, her first-born son. He is large
and strong like his father but with much
of his mother's shyness. Secretly, he
thinks, he is in love with a newcomer to
the valley. He refuses, however, to
make any advances to her because of
the condition of his home. In sym-
pathizing with his mother over his fa-
ther's neglect of her, he speaks highly
of Kane Holland. That brings a warm
glow to Carolyn's heart. She feels if
she does leave her husband, she will have
Bob's support. She lets him know, in a
timid, indirect way, that Kane is in love
with her. Bob startles her by exclaim-
ing, "Good grief. Mother, be your age."
THE grim humor of her son's
abrupt change in viewpoint
struck Carolyn like a dash of
ice water. She laughed, lightly ai
first, then wildly, hysterically. Teari.
so much a stranger to her, rollcQ
down her cheeks. Bob's discomfort
sharpened to alarm. He started to
put an arm over her shoulder then
drew back.
"Mother, please. I didn't — I
don't mean— confound it, I don't
know what I mean, but don't cry."
Like many reserved people, when
Carolyn lost control she lost com-
pletely. Great racking sobs shook
her.
''Mother, listen. If you don't stop
crying I am going for Dad. You'll
ruin yourself. Please, Mother."
Carolyn fought for control, but
the long delayed storm was slow in
passing. She missed with keen ap-
preciation a loving arm about her, a
shoulder to cry on. She was alone,
completely alone. When she show-
ed signs of control. Bob grew irri-
tated again.
''That sounded as if I were run-
ning out on you, but I'm not, Moth-
er. After all, you don't need to
take what he's giving you."
"What can I do?"
"How do I know? That is vour
problem." His voice softened. "Af-
ter all, it's your life and you can do
what you please with it; but think
of the mess. Breaking up a familv
is no small affair." Pie looked to-
ward the Elkhorn and voiced a sud-
den thought. "He would not lea\'e
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her home alone while he went to the
Convention. No one would make
a doormat of her."
Carolyn tried to think. In that
brief period when she had consid-
ered leaving she had counted on
Bob to understand. She must have
counted on all the children under-
standing and going with her. Car-
son, her second born, had always
been resentful and sharp. He had
never left doubts as to his likes and
aversions. She had never felt en-
tirely sure of him, but she had
thought she was so certain of Bob.
If she couldn't depend on Bob,
would she dare mention such a thing
to Carson? Bob had inferred she
was a doormat. That hurt worse
than his father's neglect. One crys-
tal clear thought took possession of
her. Divorce or not, Bob would
never have occasion to speak of her
in such a manner again.
''Okay." She borrowed his expres-
sion, and although he did not know
it, the word, unfamiliar on her lips,
was her whistle in the dark. "Do
you want to go to the Elkhorn with
me?"
''When?"
"Right now."
"For what?"
"To tell her I am going to learn
not to be a doormat."
"You mean you are going to work
in the Relief Society?" Then as
she nodded, "but you know what
Dad said about it last night."
"I know, but after all—" Some-
thing of her crushed pride, her ter-
rible uncertainty, her groping deter-
mination, her need for love was
transmitted to him. He caught her
in his arms.
"Gee, Mom, you are grand. Til
go with you— all the way."
Reaching for his discarded shovel,
he threw it over his shoulder, and
they moved on to cross the narrow
footbridge over West Fork, and on
to the house.
"Fll drive you over," Bob offered,
"or saddle a horse."
TN the pasture back of the corrals
a man was watching their ap-
proach. Turner Evans was an older,
heavier edition of his son Robert.
Time had dealt kindly with him.
He was straight and his muscles
hard. Black hair, where it showed
beneath his hat, was only lightly
sprinkled with gray. His eyes had
lost none of their alertness. As he
watched the two, the muscles of his
mouth settled into grim lines, but a
great weariness battled irritatingly
within him.
"She's been to that grove again.
I've a mind to burn it down. Why
doesn't she face things instead of
always running away?"
The thought of the cottonwood
grove was, to him, the waving of a
red flag. Why didn't she develop
a little spine instead of withdrawing.
When she returned from the grove,
she had a reserve an axe couldn't
cut— and where did that leave him?
The inconsistency of the question
added to his irritation. Perhaps he
was harsh. Perhaps he was trying
with his harshness to force her to—
what was he trying to do? What
was wrong with him? With her?
He hadn't meant to hurt her so.
No, he really hadn't. He set his lips
grimly. He was leaving her home
to keep her from experiencing a
deeper hurt and a more devastating
one. A mental picture of Carolyn
dressed in what she called her "best"
rose to plague him. Once he had
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 835
tried to explain to her. Once, for a
period, he had gone to extremes in
his attentions to her, hoping to hold
fast something that was rapidly slip-
ping away from him. But that, too,
had been ineffective. Carolyn was
just where she had been fifteen years
ago. No, she was not— she was not
that woman at all. The futility of
it, the hopelessness of achieving any
change, soured his vitals and sharp-
ened his tongue. Imagine her be-
side the other wives. Imagine her
beside— and long ago she had for-
gotten how to talk. Weariness won
the battle temporarily. What was
the use of it all? Where was the
satisfaction life had once promised
so abundantly? Where had they
drifted? Carolyn, Carolyn, what has
happened to us?
"Fll stay home myself." Then,
immediately he thought, '*No. I
shan't do it. I won't stagnate."
A quick, clear vision of another
woman came to him— a warm sym-
pathetic woman, thoroughly femi-
nine, yet who could give him the
intellectual companionship for
which he was so hungry. If only—
but he thrust the thought aside.
That thought was too dangerous to
play with. Carolyn was his wife;
he loved her, or once had, and a
man didn't do such things to the
mother of his children.
He looked at Bob, and his face
softened. What a man he could be
if only he didn't grow inward. He
was so much like Carolyn there was
more than a chance of it. He must
be stern with him. He must whip
him into shape. He left the pasture
and met them in the yard. He
meant to control himself, but habit
was strong.
''It is time someone was getting
here," he barked. "Where have you
been?"
He was looking at Carolyn, but
the son answered:
''Irrigating, as I was commanded."
"Get on a horse and ride to the
east-line fence and see what is keep-
ing Carson. I sent him down there
six hours ago. He can kill more
time when he rides in that direction
than any two men I ever saw. Take
another hammer and plyers along.
He has the other stuff with him, or
should have, but you can never tell."
Bob hesitated. "I was going to
drive Mother over to the Elkhorn."
"That can wait." He glanced
sharply at his wife. "Why does she
want to go? You get that fence
fixed. I want those yearlings in there
before dark." Taking the shovel
from the boy, he turned and left.
"Go on," Carolyn said, as Bob
still hesitated. "Carson is probably
at Semples, or Garden is with him.
I wish he would stay away from
her."
"What about telling Mrs.
Straughn? You are not going to back
down?"
Carolyn hesitated. This was a
sample of the way she so easily lost
control of a situation. Why try to
fight? There was comfort, of a sort,
in a beaten path. She glanced at
her boy, and her resolution stiffened.
No, she would not retreat.
"You ride by and tell her for me.
Find Carson first; then you needn't
hurry."
Seeing them still standing, the fa-
ther called, "Did you hear me say
I wanted that done in a hurry?"
"Go on," Carolyn urged. "Let's
836 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
not have any more fussing." She
turned toward the house.
''Give in. That is always your
solution/' the boy accused; she went
on without answering.
^^"lATHERE have you been so
long?" her five-year-old Judy
greeted her as she entered the house.
"Us twins looked and looked."
At the window Carolyn watched
Bob prepare to ride away.
"Wliere is Bobby going?" Jerry,
the more active of the twins de-
manded.
''I want to go with him," Judy
announced suddenly and began call-
ing, "Bobby, Bobby, wait for me."
They were both out of the house
and after him in a flash. He stopped.
Ordinarily, he would have put them
in the saddle, and he would have
ridden behind. This time he sent
them back.
Carolyn's heart caught as he rode
away. Horse and boy were a sym-
phony of movement. All she had
endured was as nothing to the joy
of being the mother of this child-
man. Was peace worth his disap-
proval? But of what did he disap-
prove? Definitely, he resented any
connection between her and Kane.
Just as definitely he disapproved of
her going on as she was. Did he have
the right to prescribe the bounds
of her existence? In one, two or
three years at the most he would be
gone. He could build his own life
as he pleased, but what of her? Life
would not last forever. In the too
few years left hadn't she a right to
some degree of happiness? Was it
the fact that you had a master that
counted, or who the master was?
Meanwhile, Bob had gone back
the way they had come. Half a
mile south through the trees he
turned east to the fence. This was
the "bottoms" land that during high
water was a marsh and sometimes
a lake. After the water receded, it
made good pasture. The under-
growth and scattered clumps of trees
kept the ground moist and cool. The
grass grew rank and succulent.
Almost opposite Carolyn's Cathe-
dral Bob found the break. A rush
of water earlier in the season had
loosened the fence. Carson had
reset the posts but had not touched
the wire. His horse, still saddled,
was cropping near by, but the boy
was not to be seen. Bob called once
or twice but received no answer, so
he went to work. This was like
Cars to stop in the middle of a job.
It was to be hoped he would show
up soon. Bob must get through
in time to go by the Elkhorn.
A hot sweet ecstacy flooded Bob
at the thought of the Elkhorn. From
an inner secret shrine he brought
to remembrance The Girl, and
strangely, she was the flesh and bone,
the sparkle and wit, the intellect and
gracious femininity of June Straughn.
That was queer, he thought, for he
had known The Girl for several
years, and two months ago he hadn't
heard of June Straughn. He still
hadn't been introduced to her. He
knew with the certainty of youth
that no other girl would ever enter
his shrine.
"Girls like her don't marry men
like me," he thought, bitterly.
If things were different. If Dad
treated his family as he did his neigh-
bors. If Mother— he gave the staple
he was placing a vicious blow. Con-
found Kane Holland, falling for a
woman like Mother. Didn't any of
them know their ages? One would
think they were— he dropped his
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hammer with the suddenness of
thought. Did Kane feel toward
Mother as he felt toward June? Ab-
surd! They were old. They had
had their day. Irritably, he stooped
to recover his hammer. Poised to
strike another blow at the staple, he
stopped with another thought.
Would his day with June end
when they became older? Suppose
he should marry her, would he in
years to come treat her as Dad treat-
ed Mother? This time the blows
of the hammer threatened to dis-
lodge the post. Heaven forbid! Bet-
ter to have an unspoiled dream than
a tarnished reality.
June's parents were still having
their day. Even 'the most casual
observer could be sure of that. It
was that quality which made them
so attractive. Maybe Mom missed
that. Now, maybe she did. As
for that, maybe Dad did. Once in
a while, with Dad, you caught a
glimpse of something. Could it be
he had once felt as Bob felt now,
strong as an ox with protectiveness,
yet quivering with humility? Dad
was a mighty decent person, too.
He was good looking and popular.
Some fellows in his shoes would
have been chasers. Vaguely, he won-
dered if that had anything to do
with Dad's irritation. When he
thought of June— he groaned aloud.
Why, why did some people, heads
of families, get themselves in such
messes? One thing was certain, they
were messing up his life as well as
their own.
""lATHAT are you groaning about?"
Bob looked around. Carson was
standing beside him, and he was
in an ill humor. Carson was shorter
than Bob and slighter. While re-
sembling his mother in looks, there
was none of her quiet reserve about
him. Every day he played through
the entire emotional scale, and no
one could predict what particular
note he would strike at any given
time.
"It's time you were showing up,"
Bob told him. *'Dad is on the war
path. Where have you been?"
"None of your business," Carson
answered shortly, "I am old enough
to take care of myself."
Bob sniffed. "It doesn't smell like
it."
"And what are you going to do
about it? If I want to smoke, I will.
Semples are top people I'll have you
know."
"Yeah?"
"Yeah." Picking up his discarded
hammer, Carson banged furiously
at an unoffending post. "And I
mean yes. At least the atmosphere
in their home doesn't pickle you.
They are fun."
"Catch hold with your plyers.
Now, pull. If they are such fun,
why are you always cross after you
have been there?"
Carson didn't answer, but when
they were picking up their tools pre-
paratory to leaving, he said:
"I can't stand an undercurrent
nagging at me all the time. Why
don't they fight and get it out of
their systems. If I am ever crazy
enough to marry—"
"Better get a strong willed gal,"
Bob interrupted, "or you will be
worse than Dad. At that, you will
probably fight."
"How about a sweet one who can
twist me to her will?"
Bob, in the act of swinging into
his saddle, stopped in alarm. "Listen,
Kid, you stay away from that outfit.
They are fun but—"
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"Horsefeathers/' Carson snorted,
''and don't kid me. I am only two
years younger than you. Let's have
a swim."
Leaving their horses, they walked
to the bank of the river two or three
hundred yards away. The river, at
the point they chose, was completely
curtained with Cottonwood and wil-
lows. It was shallow except about
a bare, overhanging bluff where, in
making a turn, the water had swept
a hole. The slightly musty odor
of the meadows, mingled with the
fragrance of wild roses and tangy
willows, was a challenge to their
youth. Stripping quickly, they plung-
ed in. The water was cold and
slapped at their skin with an invigor-
ating sting.
Later, as they were dressing, Car-
son said, 'This is certainly a secluded
spot. I believe you and I are the
only ones that know about it. If
I wanted to do any skullduggery,
I'd come here for it."
"The cattle know about it," Bob
indicated. 'They probably use this
bluff to shade up on. So you can
depend on humans knowing it, too."
Through the quiet came a clear
call. "That is Mrs. Semple," Car-
son said, in a burst of confidence.
"You know, sometimes I think she
isn't so keen about being her broth-
er's housekeeper. He is a sort of
jolly fellow; yet, I notice they all
jump to his tune. This spot is on
his land. I hope they haven't dis-
covered it."
T ATER, as they walked their
horses along the line fence, Car-
son returned to his original subject.
"You needn't worry about me and
Garden. I'm leaving."
"Leaving? Where are you going?"
"Anywhere I can get a job. I am
going to try the Cross Line outfit.
They hire new men, now and again."
"Dad would not let you go."
"Until I get a job I shan't tell
him, and neither will you," he added
emphatically. "If I get it, he can
whistle."
"What about school?"
"Yeah, I know; but I've got to get
out. I've got to be on my own."
Bob did not answer. He knew
without putting it in words that
Carson was growing up. He was
full of contradictory desires and
emotions. He had to do something
or go some place to test his own
powers. What he needed was some-
thing strong to tie to. If he had
that, going to school would probably
satisfy him.
"Watch your step," he warned,
"you don't want to live with re-
grets." Then as they crossed West
Fork above its junction with the
river, he added, "I am going to the
Elkhorn on an errand for Mother."
"For Mother, huh? That's a new
one. Watch your step. Little Boy.
You are inexperienced."
"Go to grass."
Bob turned his horse, and as he
loped easily along the grass-covered
road he found himself keenly an-
ticipating what lay ahead. He had
been wanting to do this ever since
the Elkhorn had changed hands.
The Straughns were the type of peo-
ple he and his were going to be— if
there ever were any "his"— the kind
his own Dad and Mother should be.
The river was low where he
crossed, but it reached the bay's
knees at that. Only then did Bob
notice the figure, sitting astride her
horse, watching.
{To be continued)
MORMON HANDICHAFT
uiighlights
By Nellie O. Parker
"God, let me be aware,
Let me not stumble blindly down the
ways
Just getting somehow safely through the
days.
Let my hand, groping, find other hands,
Give me the heart that divines, under-
stands.
Please keep me eager just to do my share;
God, let me be aware."
— Meriam Teichner.
AS the Christmas season ap-
proaches, we become imbued
with the spirit of giving gifts
and spreading happiness and cheer.
Most of us would love to do the
kindly things within our reach if we
were only aware of what these might
be. Life pushes us from so many
sides that we don't take time to
think of those outside our intimate
circle and the things we might do
to make their way a little brighter.
If we would only develop a ''seeing
eye and an understanding heart," we
would never be at a loss for some-
thing to do. It is the little thought-
ful, considerate things thSt are often
most deeply appreciated. Every
woman knows that by careful plan-
ning she can make her Christmas
money reach farther and do more in
bringing gladness and joy to other
hearts.
Plan to buy at least one gift from
Mormon Handicraft this year. Not
only will you be getting something
high class, but you will be helping
an unknown friend to have more for
her Christmas. Bring a friend with
you to the Shop and help widen our
list of patrons.
If you are looking for a useful quilt
or a pretty coverlet, you will find
many to choose from; also many
beautiful pillow cases, luncheon sets,
doilies, table covers, etc.
See the lovely handmade dolls.
If your little daughter is collecting
dolls, she will want a real pioneer
with her ruffled petticoats, gingham
apron and sunbonnet.
For friends or loved ones living
away from home, a small box con-
taining four glasses of native jelly
would be truly a ''sweet" gift.
Come early, you may want to order
a hand-knit sweater or a ski set con-
sisting of cap, mittens, socks and
scarf, in time for Christmas.
The Shop is filled with so many
things; it is a good place to come for
suggestions, and you will be doing
your share for our cause, as well as
helping to make a merry, happy
Christmas for others.
Please fake notice: Many of the quilts
being sent to the Shop are too short. A
handmade quilt is usually bought to be
used as a coverlet and should be long
enough to serve this purpose.
MUSIC DEPARTMENT
Llses of the JLeft aiana in (^onaucUng
By Wade N. Stephens of the Taheinacle Organ Staff
ALTHOUGH most of the con-
ductor's desires can be indi-
cated in some measure to the
chorus by means of the baton alone,
the use of the left hand is necessary
to clarify and emphasize the mes-
sages conveyed by the right. Since
the baton is constantly moving, its
movements do not attract instant
attention. The effectiveness of the
left hand in getting expression lies
in the fact that usually it hangs re-
laxed at the side, invisible to the
chorus; its slightest motion, there-
fore, demands attention.
Sometimes the left hand parallels
the right, but more often it does not.
Then comes the difficulty, best mas-
tered by persistent practice before
a mirror. An uplifted palm or finger
will insure the holding of a long note
for its full value. The same move-
ment coupled with tension in the
left arm (as if it upheld a heavy
weight) will indicate loudness. Soft-
ness may be indicated by pushing
down and toward the chorus with
the left hand, palm down. A sudden
accent may be obtained by doubling
the fist tightly and making a vigorous
motion in the direction demanded by
the beat on which the accent occurs.
The right hand must continue its
movements uninterruptedly through-
out any of these movements.
In the course of a piece, where
the rhythm must continue while the
chorus holds a long note, it is best to
insure that everyone stops together
by holding and cutting off the chorus
with the left hand, without stopping
the movement of the right. The
same supporting motion of the left
hand will prevent the chorus from
breathing in the wrong place. It
can be made to take breath wherever
the conductor wishes by drawing
back both hands toward the body
momentarily and without interrupt-
ing the rhythm, at the same time
expanding the ribs and elbows as
though taking a deep breath.
As the music becomes more com-
plicated, the different voices do not
enter together. In such pieces, the
entrance and sometimes the exit of
each voice should be indicated by
cue-beat and cut-off with the left
hand. A look toward the part af-
fected intensifies the effect.
The chorus can be balanced while
singing by indicating softness or
loudness to the proper part with the
left hand. Care must be taken not
to vary the size of the beat, or the
entire chorus will respond.
It is evident that none of these
left-hand motions can be well ex-
ecuted until the right hand beat-pat-
terns have become so automatic that
nothing disturbs them.
Effective conducting requires that
the eyes of the director be free to
communicate with the chorus. It
is best to conduct from memory,
since eyes and left hand are then
free to be used to best advantage.*
*It is now obvious that these articles
are as valuable to the organist as to the
chorister. The chorister must know how
to execute the movements that will force
the chorus t^ do as she wishes; the organist
must be able to interpret them faster than
the chorus, in order to assist the effect.
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Of Vocal lliusic
Choiisteis* Manua/,
(bmotional (content
lyiUSIC that is written as a setting
for words is usually intended to
express the emotion that is contained
in those words, lliis may be ac-
complished in two very different
ways:
1. The first method may be called
"classical", since it is the one used by
composers of the classical period, notably
Mozart. In it the individual words are
somewhat disregarded, and the piece is so
written that its total emotional effect is
the same as that of the words. The music
in this kind of composition is effective
whether the words can be understood or
not.
2. The second method may be called
"romantic", not becajLise it savors of ro-
mance in the vulgar sense, but because
song writers of the romantic period, such
as Schumann and Grieg, made extensive
use of it. In this type of composition
the value of each word is emphasized by
the music to which it is sung. The music
then hangs on the words and is not as
effective if the words are not heard or
known.
Most songs are written both ways.
In some places the music controls
the way the words are sung, and in
others the words control the singing
of the music. It is necessary to
determine where each occurs. To
do this the words must be read and
analyzed carefully; the music must be pressed must be determined exactly
heard and thoroughly learned; then, enough to be defined by a word or
the two must be compared, impor- phrase. Only by so doing can the
tant words marked, and outstanding conductor discover a starting-point
harmonies or melodic fragments from which to begin working out his
rioted. interpretation of the composition.
The next step is to discover the The listener's reaction to the music
prevailing emotional tone or mood is controlled largely by four things:
of the entire piece. The best way to The tempo (speed), the dynamics
make the mood definite in the con- (softness or loudness), the words he
ductor's mind is to find a single hears, and the conditions under
word or phrase that will express it. which he has heard the piece before.
This method of procedure is ably The first two are affected by emo-
set forth by J. Spencer Cornwall in tional content in many ways.
his Church
which every one of our conductors
should study with the greatest of
care. The following list of mood-
words is drawn from Brother
Cornwall's list: Sadness, depression,
sorrow, agony; playfulness, gayety,
gladness, happiness; supplication,
thankfulness, worship, praise; tender-
ness, longing, love, adoration; love
of country, reverence for great men,
martial spirit, glory of victory.
The first group contains words
expressing various degrees of grief;
the second, joy; the third, religious
fervor; the fourth, love; the fifth,
patriotism. These general emotional
reactions are designated by Brother
Cornwall as the five universal moods.
There are certain passive moods;
such as, serenity, contentment, medi-
tation and contemplation, which do
not seem to partake of any of these
active emotions.
In most songs it will be found that
the mood does not remain the same
throughout. It will then be neces-
sary to find a word to express the
mood of each verse, or each line, or
even each phrase. The important
point is that the emotion to be ex-
LESSON
DEPARTMENT
cJheoiogy^ and cJestimoniji
Lesson 6
Paul the Missionary— First Missionary Journey
Helpful References
F. W. Farrar, The Life and Work
of St Paul chs. XIX ff.
A. T. Robertson, Epochs in the
Life of Paul, chs. VI-VIII.
B. W. Robinson, The Life of Paul,
chs. V-X.
J. P. Smyth, The Stoiy of St.
PauVs Life and Letters, chs. VI ff.
F. A. Spencer, Beyond Damascus,
chs. XIII-XXVIII.
PAUL GOES TO THE GEN-
TILES.—When Saul and Barnabas
returned from their mission to Jeru-
salem, they brought with them John
Mark. (Acts 12:25) ^^ Antioch
there were 'prophets and teachers,"
so Luke informs us. (Acts 13:1 ) The
name of Barnabas heads the list and
Saul's comes at the end. This may
be accidental, but it is quite prob-
able that Barnabas, who was older
than Saul and better known to the
Church Authorities than the erst-
while Pharisee, was his senior in
the work at Antioch. ''As they min-
istered to the Lord, and fasted, the
Holy Ghost said, Separate me Barna-
bas and Saul for the work whereunto
I have called them. And when they
had fasted and prayed, and laid their
hands on them, they sent them
away." (Acts 13:2, 3) This passage,
like so many in the Bible, is tantal-
izing. Many details we should like
to know are missing. Who is meant
by "they" in the above passage? Does
ft mean the "prophets and teachers"
named in verse 1 exclusive of Barna-
bas and Saul, or, as some think, does
it include other men in authority
who came down from Jerusalem?
(Compare Acts 11:27,28) The last
possibility seems unlikely, for Luke
would probably have given their
names. What office in the Priest-
hood did Barnabas and Saul hold?
It is not probable they were apostles,
for though they are called such
in Acts 14:4, 14 it is only in the
etymological sense of "one sent".
Furthermore, had they been apos-
tles in the sense of being members
of the Twelve the procedure out-
lined in Acts 13:3 would likely have
taken place in Jerusalem under the
direction of Peter and his associates.
Barnabas and Paul (now given his
Roman name by Luke in Acts 13:9,
13) gave a wonderful account of
themselves in their missionary jour-
ney together. Young John Mark
deserted them at Perga in Pamphy-
lia and returned to Jerusalem. Paul
did not forgive him for a long pe-
riod of time. We rather suspect
that Mark found the going too hard
and difficult for a young, inexperi-
enced man. The First Missionary
Journey took the two missionaries
to Cyprus, Perga in Pamphylia, An-
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tioch in Pisidia, Iconium in the
same district as Antioch, Lycaonia,
Lystra, and Derbe. On their return
to Antioch, they had a wonderful
story to tell. In truth, they had had
more adventures on this first mission
than most ordinary men would wish
for in a lifetime. They could report
in general that the Jews rejected
their message, but that God ''had
opened a door of faith to the Gen-
tiles". (Acts 14:27)
PAUL FACES THE JUDA-
IZERS.— It will be remembered
that when Peter opened the Gospel
doors to the Gentiles he imniediate-
ly met opposition from the ''Cir-
cumcision," Jew* who had joined
the Church but who still believed
that certain rites of the Mosaic Law
should be adhered to. (Acts 10:45-
47; 11:1-18) At that time, it didn't
take much to quiet the opposition,
but with the passage of time the
Gentiles came into the Church in
great numbers and the ''Circumci-
sion" or "Ju^?izers" began to be
alarmed. They sent representatives
as far north as Antioch "teaching
the brethren. Except ye be circum-
cised after the manner of Moses,
ye cannot be saved." (Acts 15:1)
Such doctrine raised the righteous
v^ath of Paul and Barnabas, who
immediately objected to the dissem-
ination of it among the people. The
problem became such a debated one
that it was finally found necessary
for the authorities in Antioch to send
Paul, Barnabas, and others to Jeru-
salem "to the apostles and elders"
(Acts 15:2) for the purpose of find-
ing a solution to it. The brethren
passed through Phoenicia and Sa-
maria "declaring the conversion of
the Gentiles: and they caused great
joy unto all the brethren". Paul
and Barnabas were welcomed in Je-
rusalem where they reported their
activities. The apostles and elders
then came together to discuss the
merits of the claims made by the
Judaizers. (Acts 15:5) Peter recount-
ed how the Gentiles were to receive
the Gospel and the Holy Spirit on
even terms with the Jews. Then
Barnabas and Paul arose and told
of their remarkable experiences
among the Gentile peoples. James
also arose and after quoting the
Scriptures said "Wherefore my sen-
tence is, that we trouble not them
which from among the Gentiles are
turned to God; But that we write
unto them, that they abstain from
pollutions of idols, and from forni-
cation, and from things strangled,
and from blood." (Acts 15:19, 20)
The discourse of James seemed to
settle the matter, and it was decided
to send men back with Paul and
Barnabas; namely, Judas and Silas.
The two latter had letters giving the
decision of the Jerusalem conference
to read to the people of Antioch.
This letter was delivered and read
in due time to the great joy of the
people. Paul and Barnabas were
completely victorious over the Juda-
izers. It should not be supposed
that the latter had had no oppor-
tunity at the conference in Jerusalem
to present their side of the problem.
Acts 15: 7 mentions the fact that
there had been "much discussion"
or perhaps better "much question-
ing." The whole controversy arous-
ed great interest in the ancient
church. In a revelation to the
Prophet Joseph Smith the Lord
makes mention of the fact that "in
the days of the apostles the law of
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circumcision was had among all the Barnabas took Mark and sailed to
Jews who believed not the gospel of Cyprus. We never hear of Paul and
Jesus Christ. And it came to pass Barnabas working together again,
that there arose a great contention though at a later date the former
among the people concerning the pleasantly alludes to the good work
law of circumcision." (D. & C. of Barnabas. (See I Cor. 9:6)
74:2, 3.) The complete revelation Paul chose Silas to go with him, and
indicates that unbelieving parents the two visit Syria, Cilicia, Derbe
whose mates were members of the and Lystra. At the latter place Paul
Church might cause trouble in a picked up Timothy as a helper and
family because they would want companion to aid in the work. The
their children subjected to the rites missionaries continued their journey
of the law of Moses. In that event leaving copies of the decision of the
the children would give way to the Jerusalem council in the cities they
old traditions and refuse the gospel, visited. (Acts 16:4.) They pro-
wherein they became unholy. The ceeded through Phrygia and Gala-
advice of Paul, so the revelation tia but were forbidden by the Holy
says, was for believers not to yoke Spirit to go into Asia. (Acts 16:6)
themselves to unbelievers, unless the
law of Moses was to be done away PAUL GOES TO EUROPE.—
among them. This modern revela- Paul and Silas continued their
tion indicates what an important journey to the western coast of Asia
problem the Judaizers gave the an- Minor bordering on the Aegean
cient Church of Christ. Paul's letter Sea. Here they stopped at the city
to the Galatians (2:11-21) gives of Troas. It was while at this place
other sidelights on the ancient prob- that Paul had a vision by night. As
lem that are extremely interesting Professor A. T. Robertson has said,
to us because of the clash of im- "Paul had visions at great crises in
portant personalities. his ministry." Such is usually the
case with great prophets. Luke
PAUL BREAKS WITH BAR- describes Paul's vision as follows:
NABAS.— After the meeting held ''And a vision appeared to Paul in
with the saints at Antioch, in which the night; there stood a man of
the decision of the Jerusalem confer- Macedonia, and prayed him, saying,
ence had been read, Paul and Barna- ''Come over into Macedonia, and
bas continued to preach among the help us." (Acts 16:9.) This vision
people. But the restless nature of was destined to change the history
Paul asserted itself again, and he was of Europe and yet the telling of it
anxious to go on another journey to occupies but one verse in our New
visit the people among whom they Testament. "One can but wonder
had previously labored. This was what might have been the result if
satisfactory to Barnabas, but he pur- Paul had not pushed on to Troas,
posed to take with them John Mark but had turned back to Cappadocia
who had deserted the missionaries and Pontus, to Armenia and Baby-
in Pamphylia on their other mis- Ionia, to India and China. Others
sionary journey. Paul sharply de- might in time have carried the gospel
murred, and the two men separated, westward, as some did to Rome.
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But if the stamp of Paul were re- esting things that happened on
moved from Macedonia, Achaia, and Paul's First Missionary Journey.
Rome, Christian history would not (Acts 13, 14)
have run the same course." So 2. Study Paul's sermon in Acts
comments Professor Robertson. 13:16-47 from the point of view of
It appears that Luke went over time, audience, place, adaptation to
into Macedonia with Paul, Silas, and a difficult situation, etc.
Timothy, for of a sudden the narra- 3. Make a little study of a num-
tive is told in the first person plural, ber of Joseph Smith's visions and
"And when he had seen the vision, revelations and see if, like Paul's,
straightway we sought to go forth they came at crises in his ministry,
into Macedonia concluding that 4. Procure, if possible, a map show-
God had called us to preach the ing the course of Paul's four mis-
good news to them." (Acts 16:10) sionary journeys and have some one
We are not told the circumstances point out the provinces and coun-
under which Luke joined the party, tries visited. Estimate the distance
It has been concluded by some schol- covered, the hazards he encountered,
ars that this ''beloved physician" etc. Compare missionary work to-
(Col. 4:14) may have helped to save day with that of Paul's day.
Paul's life during his sickness in 5. Read Acts 1 5 and compare with
Galatia. (Gal. 4:13) However, this D. and C. 74.
is purely speculative, and we can not
be sure of its correctness. Luke is Pronouncing Vocabulary
a very important New Testament Perga
character because of his writings, and Pamphylia
it is well for us to observe his meth-
ods of reporting.
Questions and Pwhlems
(Deal only with those that time and
circumstances permit.)
1. Tell some of the most inter-
Perga
(Per-ga)
Pamphylia
(Pam-phyl'-i-a)
Pisidia
(Pl-sid'-i-a)
Iconium
(I-con'-i-iim)
Lycaonia
(Ly-ca-6'-ni-a)
Lystra
(Lys'-tra)
Derbe
(Der'-be)
Troas
(Tro'-as)
Cappadocia
(Cap-pa-do'-ci-a)
Achaia
(A-ka'-ya)
Visiting cJeacher ^Jjepartment
MESSAGES TO THE HOME
No. 6
Giving
"Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly,
or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver." — II Cor. 9:7.
/^NE of the most essential condi- self in the service of a great cause,
ditions for moral and spiritual a cause that far transcends the indi-
growth is for a person to lose him- vidual. This principle is emphasized
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in that notable saying of Jesus, "For and can in no wise realize the joy of
whosoever will save his life shall lose giving.
it; but whosoever shall lose his life ''Give without recompense" and
for my sake and the gospel's, the in return you will realize the spirit-
same shall save it." (Mark 8:35) ual uplift that always follows such
The truth of this statement is veri- giving.
fied in the experience of those who The Apostle Paul has preserved
forsake all to become messengers of for us one of the most notable say-
salvation to those who have not ings of Jesus, one not recorded in
heard the gospel of Christ. the gospels. In one of the Apostle's
It has been the history of mis- sermons recorded in Acts 20:35, he
sionary work in both ancient and says, "Remember the words of the
modern times that the missionary Lord Jesus, how he said. It is more
loses thought of himself, his own blessed to give than to receive." Cer-
personal comfort, and in some ^^inly it is more blessed to be able
cases even his own life, that he may ^o give than to be in need of re-
bring salvation to others. It is under ceiving. This is true whether our
these circumstances that he realizes
his own highest and best self. On the
other hand, the man who hoards his
possessions and to whom the
gifts are material or spiritual.
Discussion
1. What should be uppermost in
fi ^ ^1 . £ • . . . J one s mmd m responding to calls
thought or eivins; to one in need or , ^, , . K, ^
^ '^ ^ for Church service?
2. What may we give other than
to help advance a great public cause
is distasteful is one who makes him-
self most miserable. Those who do
give but only with the expectation
material gifts to enrich the lives of
others?
3. In what spirit should tithing
of receiving at least an equivalent in and other offerings to the Church
return are courting disappointment be given?
JLiterature
THE ADVANCE OF THE NOVEL
Lesson 6
Les Miserables
pOLLOWING Jean Valjean's es-
scape from the galleys, he keeps
his promise to the departed, and res-
cues Fantine's child, little Cosette,
from the cruel Thenardiers, the dis-
honest, sordid innkeepers to whom
her mother had entrusted her. The
story of the pathetic plight of the
little waif and the brutality with
which she is treated presents a pic-
ture of dramatic intensity. From the
chance meeting of the child with
Jean Valjean on the road, the story
of Christmas and the doll, to the
final departure from the inn, one
knows that little Cosette will never
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be without a protector again, "But was the spokesman of pubHc opinion
as he was fifty-five and Cosette was —the interpreter of pubHc feeHng.
but eight years old, all that he might In these dissertations he presents the
have felt of love in his entire life characters animated by the spirit of
melted into a sort of ineffable radi- the struggle out of which emerged
ance. This was the second white modern France. While the plot of
vision he had seen. The Bishop had the novel is quite involved, it is very
caused the dawn of virtue on his consistently and harmoniously devel-
horizon; Cosette evoked the dawn of oped to its conclusion,
love. . . . Who knows that Jean The great romance of the story
Valjean was not on the point of centers in the love of Cosette and
becoming discouraged and falling Baron Marius Pontmercy. In the
back to evil ways? Love came and character of Marius, who is in every
he again grew strong. Alas! He sense a worthy young man, a fine
was no less feeble than Cosette. He opportunity is offered for the author
protected her and she gave strength to express his own patriotic fervor
to him. Thanks to him she could and devotion to ideals. Marius is
walk upright in life, thanks to her just what one imagines Victor Hugo
he could persist m virtuous deeds, to have been as a young man.
He was the support of this child The life of Cosette and Jean Val-
and this child was his prop and staff, jean together is a beautiful picture.
Oh, divine and unfathomable mys- but in addition to the evil shadow
tery of the compensations of Des- of Javert there is the infamous inn-
tinyV* keeper who has seen Valjean and
Cosette grows into a beautiful and Cosette and continues to devise some
loving girl, thoroughly devoted to vicious scheme for blackmail. There
her benefactor whom she knows as is a very distinct suggestion of retri-
Father Fauchelevent who practices butive justice, or punishment, per-
the art of a gardener, which was his haps, in the fate of the innkeepers'
original trade, and though he lives daughters and the love and security
a hunted life, he continues his acts which surround Cosette now they
of mercy and generosity to everyone are grown. On the love of Marius
he meets. He comes to be known and Cosette there is one shadow-
as "the beggar who gives alms". Marius distrusts and dislikes Jean
Many touching scenes from the Valjean who is keenly sensitive to
streets of Paris, hospital wards, the this fact, but he is determined that
halls, gardens and classrooms of the nothing, which he can prevent, shall
convent are related, and Valjean mar the happiness of his beloved,
meets many strange acquaintances. The story of the family of Marius,
Javert continues to be his evil his father and his grandfather, in-
shadow. volves many pages of French history.
There is a great mass of material but the part which concerns Marius
included in this remarkable novel directly is the account of the Paris
which may seem to have but slight barricades erected against the gov-
connection with the narrative, but it ernment of Louis Philippe. Marius
is immensely valuable as a social participates in this protest of young
record of the time; Victor Hugo republicanism. In the chapters which
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tell of these events and characters
and the conflicting forces at work,
every art of a master novelist is
brought into play to reach the
mighty climax. Jean Valjean goes
to the scene to protect one he knows
to be dear to Cosette, and here he
comes face to face with Javert, who
in the performance of his duties as
a police officer has come to the scene
of trouble, where he is taken pris-
oner. Marius recognizes Valjean
but has no idea of why he is there.
In the affair of the barricade Jean
Valjean is designated as "a man who
saves others". It is the intention
of the insurgents to kill the prisoners
they have taken, especially Javert the
spy— as he appeared to them. Jean
Valjean makes but one request, that
is to execute Javert. This is granted.
The chapter entitled "J^^^^ Valjean
Takes His Revenge" is one of the
greatest climaxes in fiction. Javert
who has so ruthlessly hunted Jean
Valjean through his whole life, is
now in his power; instead of killing
Javert, whom he takes into a side
street, he cuts his bonds and tells
him to go, at the same time discharg-
ing his pistol to make it appear he
has carried out the execution. Marius
shudders as he hears it.
During the narrative of the barri-
cade, the author expresses his feel-
ings for France and her people— a
beautiful, glowing, patriotic tribute
to the grandeur and glory of his
native land.
The barricade is certain to fail, but
Jean Valjean has one fixed purpose
in remaining there and that is to
save Marius. The manner in which
he does this by carrying the wound-
ed, unconscious young man through
the sewers of Paris is perhaps the
best known episode in the book.
The horror and minute detail of the
description of the sewer is realism
equalling anything ever written by
the greatest of the school of realism,
but it is treated in Hugo's romantic
style. Phelps says, ''Victor Hugo
writes of the sewers of Paris with
superbly picturesque eloquence."
The final meeting of Javert and
Jean Valjean occurs on the banks of
the river in the early morning, as
Valjean reaches it with Marius, still
unconscious. Valjean tells Javert
that he v^ll surrender himself if
only Javert will help him to get Mari-
us home. This is accomplished.
Valjean makes one more request and
that is to be permitted to go home
for a moment. This Javert grants,
but when Jean Valjean returns to
meet Javert as agreed, he is gone.
The chapter "Javert Off the Track"
is another fine piece of psychological
analysis. The conflict which rages
in the mind of the official who is
placed between his professional duty
of arresting an offender and the
moral and sentimental impulse to
save the man who has saved him
is so fierce that it tears his whole
scheme of life up by the roots until
he can see no way out but suicide.
Marius recovers, and Valjean ar-
ranges for the marriage, concealing
Cosette's ignoble birth and setting
upon her his fortune of six hundred
thousand francs. ".Cosette has Mari-
us, Marius possesses Cosette. They
have everything, even riches. And
it is his work."
Then comes the supreme struggle
and sacrifice of his life: "J^^ob wres-
tled with the angel but one night.
Alas! how many times have we seen
Jean Valjean clenched, body to
body, in the darkness with his con-
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science, and wrestling desperately
against it. . . . And, after having
racked, torn and broken him, his
conscience, standing above him, for-
midable, luminous, tranquil, said to
him, 'Now, go in peace!' "
Jean Valjean fully senses the dis-
trust and dislike which he knows
Marius feels for him, so he decides
to leave, though he knows it will
break his heart to be separated from
Cosette. One of the most tragic
and pathetic chapters in the novel
is the one relating the interview
with Marius, when Valjean reveals
that he is not Cosette's father and
that he has served a long term in the
galleys, in fact, that he is even now
an escaped convict. He has decided
to withdraw from their lives so that
no shadow will fall on the life of
Cosette. This recital is exquisitely
done. Marius and Cosette are su-
premely happy in their love for each
other, but Marius is seriously dis-
turbed by some facts. He does not
care to use the money given them
by Valjean, for he fears it has not
been honestly obtained. There are
two men to whom he feels immeas-
urably indebted, one is the prowler
who has, nevertheless, saved the life
of his father. Colonel Pontmercy, on
the field of Waterloo; the other is
the man who carried him through
the sewer following the barricade.
He persists in trying to find them
so that he might acknowledge his
debt of gratitude. The conversation
in which Marius tells Jean Valjean
of what this man really did, as he
rescued him and carried him through
the sewer to safety, is drama of the
type that only Victor Hugo could
write; throughout the entire recital
Valjean keeps silent.
TPHE last book in this great novel
brings it to a most consistent
and artistic conclusion, ''Supreme
Shadow, Supreme Dawn". The
analysis of the conduct of Marius
and Cosette is a fine bit of human
philosophy, so tolerant and true to
life. Theirs was the "ingratitude of
nature" and sheer happiness in each
other.
The interview of the innkeeper
and Marius is perhaps the major
climax of the story. It tells Marius
the identity of the two men he most
wishes to find. The innkeeper has
the fine cunning of the real criminal.
He is certain of the identity of Cos-
ette and Jean Valjean. He knows
that Valjean has impoverished him-
self to provide for Cosette. Marius
is the logical person to approach in
the blackmail scheme. Marius is
convinced that he is dealing with a
crook of the lowest order, but he dis-
covers also that the innkeeper is the
man who saved the life of his father,
Colonel Pontmercy, after the battle
of Waterloo, though bent upon the
lowest of all errands, robbing the
dead! The innkeeper tells Marius
that he has information which
proves Valjean to be a robber and
murderer. Marius announces that
he is aware of this, that Valjean years
ago robbed Monsieur Madeleine,
and that he killed Javert. The inn-
keeper produces evidence to disprove
both of these charges. He shows that
Valjean is without doubt Madeleine
himself and that Javert committed
suicide, but he tells Marius that Val-
jean is an assassin. In proof of this,
he confesses that he was in the sewer
following the barricade and saw Val-
jean carrying a man whom he had
undoubtedly murdered. He pro-
duces a piece of cloth torn from the
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coat of the murdered man. It fits
exactly into that worn by Marius.
It is impossible to imagine a more
dramatic scene. Quite contrary to
what he had intended, the innkeeper
wipes from the mind of Marius the
last shadow from the character of
Jean Valjean. He stands revealed,
the noblest work of God— a charac-
ter glorified by sacrifice and suffer-
ing.
Valjean is dying when Cosette and
Marius reach him. They are not
too late to receive his blessing. He
tells Cosette the name of her moth-
er: ''Her name was Fantine. Re-
member that name, Fantine; fall on
your knees whenever you pronounce
it. She suffered much and loved
vou much."
To Cosette he bequeathed the two
silver candlesticks which he always
kept with him. "They are silver;
but to me they are gold, they are
diamond; they change the candles
which are put in them into conse-
crated tapers. I do not know wheth-
er he who gave them to me is satis-
fied with me in heaven. I have
done what I could."
This great novel is not only "a
good story well told," it belongs to
the beautiful in literature. Living
types are reproduced— all human
emotions are faithfully depicted, the
fine touches in dialogue, the match-
less descriptions, the powerful scenes
in history, all these could come only
from the pen of a genius such as
Victor Hugo.
When the book appeared nearly
eighty years ago, a preface accom-
panied it which is quite as appropri-
ate today:
"So long as there shall exist, by
reason of law and custom, a social
condemnation, which, in the face of
civilization, artificially creates hells
on earth, and complicates a destiny
that is divine, with human fatality;
so long as the three problems of the
age— the degradation of man by pov-
erty, the ruin of women by starva-
tion, and the dwarfing of childhood
by physical and spiritual night — are
not solved; so long as, in certain
regions, social asphyxia shall be pos-
sible; in other words, and from a
yet more extended point of view,
so long as ignorance and misery re-
main on earth, books like this can-
not be useless."
Qnt^MoxiS and ^uggt^iions
1. Justify the statement that ht^
Miseiahles takes its place in the
front ranks of the world's best fic-
tion.
2. Compare the love of Jean Val-
jean for Cosette, and of Marius and
Cosette.
3. What do you consider some of
the greatest climaxes in the book?
Justify your choice.
4. Why is Les Miserables a ro-
mantic novel? a realistic novel? a
psychological novel?
5. Give reasons for classing Les
Miserables "a great human docu-
ment" and a great "social register".
* ^''W^lVr
'&7fV>;
Social Si
ervice
Lesson 6
Psychology of Personal Efficiency
J. WHAT DO WE MEAN BY this ability to take a course of action
''WILL POWER''? We probably and to pursue it to a definite goal
seldom realize how much waste in spite of obstacles,
there is of human ability and energy President Heber J. Grant has
because of poor management of our- stated this view in this widely quoted
selves. William James once said, statement: 'That which we persist in
"We all have the habit of inferiority doing becomes easier to do, not that
of our full self. As a rule, men the nature of the task changes, but
habitually use only a small part of that our ability to do increases." The
the powers which they actually pos- same truth has been put in another
sess. Everyone knows the feeling way: "The law of nature is: Do the
of being more or less alive on differ- thing and you shall have the power;
ent days. Compared with what we but they who do not do the thing
ought to be we arq only half awake, have not the power." (Quoted by
Our fires are damped, our drafts are Brande, D., Wake Up and Live^ p.
checked. We are making use of on- 85.)
ly a small part of our possible mental We sometimes speak of "will" as
and physical resources. The human the hahit of success. From everyday
individual thus lives usually far with- experience, we know that the habit
in his limits." of success makes further accomplish-
Formerly, we were taught that we ments easier. This habit grows out
had a faculty called the "will", which of the confidence we build from past
we called upon in order to get our- successes and is sometimes spoken
selves down to work or to do any- of as self-confidence. Reflect for a
thing against the resistance of our moment upon what runs through
own inertia. We thought of "will" your mind when you are confronted
as a free agent which was unfettered with a task, which you later succeed
by our past experiences and habits, in accomplishing. You probably
something which would aid us to think back; on some similar task
"pick ourselves up by the boot which you accomplished. You take
straps" and to do something distinct- courage or confidence from the pre-
ly above any previous performance, vious success, and this attitude itself
Recent psychology has taught us aids you in the new undertaking,
that "will" is probably simply our Not only do you bring a favorable
ability to do tasks at any given time, attitude from the past experience
and it grows as we succeed in doing but also some skill which you ac-
what we try to do against resistance, quired from wrestling with the pre-
The ability to attack and to accom- vious situation,
plish relatively new and difficult The attitude of confidence and
tasks grows by our doing that kind the greater power to do, which grow
of thing. The person we usually out of past successes, are what we
speak of as successful is he who has mean by the habit of success, self-
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confidence, or 'Vill power". The it is to start it in the first place,
joy of past achievement makes us Woodworth, one of our most able
hungry for further successes and adds psychologists, says that a motive is
power and direction to our daily ef- simply an activity already started,
forts. Thus, a man who has set out upon
We have just described the habit a certain career is carried along by
of success, but we often find its his own momentum, or a person who
opposite, the hahit oi failure. How forms the habit of going to Church
does the habit of failure grow? It has a motive to continue simply be-
grows simply by a person making cause that has become his way of
the wrong reaction to his mistakes life.
and failures and doing so repeatedly We all know that any difficult task
until that becomes his characteristic brings forth effort more easily after
way of meeting difficulties. The once started than when we are mak-
person who is the victim of the ing the original start. In fact, so
habit of failure has an unpleasant long as we seem to be progressing
recollection of all of his past defeats, toward a goal, we often find it diffi-
his past failure to acquire the power cult to stop, even when another task
and skill to do, just as the person should be done. Children who have
with the habit of success can recall started playing house often hate to
pleasantly his past achievements, stop for dinner even when hungry,
The joy of feeling successful leads simply because the activity itself
one to put forth effort to accom- builds up a motive to continue which
plish new things, but the feeling of is stronger than hunger. Of course,
being defeated makes one want td other activities and needs of the in-
quit the struggle. dividual eventually interrupt, and we
The dangerous side of the habit may find it necessary to stop. It is
of failure is that it breeds more fail- helpful to choose a stopping point
ures. As a person becomes progress- at which it will be easy to get started
ively less capable of exerting a good when we return to the task,
effort, he fails more and more often . This doctrine of motivation has
These multiplied failures continual- important practical applications,
ly reduce the chances of success, and Many times we lose our motivation
the victim is caught in a vicious cir- because we meet some minor failure
cle out of which he can climb only or some difficulty which forces a
by persistent practicing of the op- temporary halt to our progress. Un-
posite habit of success. Sometimes less we habitually put forth greater
a great shock or crisis in one's life effort at these points of difficulty
produces a "re-birth" which is the in order to keep our progress run-
starting point for a new fighting ning along, the motivation dies out
spirit which failures cannot defeat, with the letting up of activity. The
IL MOTIVES ARE ACTA^I- person with good mastery of his
TIES ALREADY STARTED, powers, when confronted with a dif-
Conduct is much like a rolling ficulty, may "let up" for the mo-
snowball: After it once starts ment but only until his mental ac-
in a direction, it is much easier to tivity leads him to a more successful
keep it going and increasing than attack, which starts progress again.
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The person with the habit of failure us, it is easy to begin to hve in the
breaks down at these points— that past, to be satisfied with thinking of
is, his very habit of failure prevents successes of our younger days rather
him from keeping himself motivated than making the most of our future,
at the critical time. When he lets Dieaming becomes a substitute for
the activity stop and the motivation constructive imagination. Brande
die out, he has the greatest difficulty has this to say in speaking of ''the
getting down to work again. bad old habit of dreaming the world
Probably characters are largely into a different shape while life slips
shaped by the early habits children away": "It is this idea which must
build up in their manner of meeting be held firmly in mind: That the
obstructions. A general style of liv- test of whether or not one is dream-
ing may be formed early in life of ing or imagining correctly is whether
putting forth additional effort or of or not action follows mental work,
making repeated attempts at crucial Any mental activity which turns
moments when motivation is threat- backward for longer than it takes to
ened. Likewise, a habit of defeat- correct a mistake and to replace an
ism may be acquired early and may unsatisfactory habit with a good one,
be a life-long blight on one's char- is minus and cannot be continued if
acter. you hope to lead a fuller life."
One more point should be men- (Brande, Dorothea, Wake Up and
tioned in this connection. The per- Live, p. in.)
son who is active, who continually The hobbies and diversions a per-
tries to succeed, naturally increases son has may be either a valuable re-
his knowledge and skill. Even lease from effective work, refreshing
though many of his efforts fail, he and recreating the worker, or they
is by his persistent efforts learning may be a retreat or substitute for
and growing in ability to do. He success in one's more serious under-
who v^thdraws from the fight learns takings. For example, sometimes
nothing and therefore does not grow a person finds a substitute success
more capable of succeeding next in doing fine handwork which takes
time he tries. the place of being a good home man-
III. BEWARE OF SUBSTI- ager. A business man who fails
TUTES FOR SUCCESS. The short of what he expects of himself
habit of failure does strange tricks may write poems which gain some
to its victims. For one thing, we recognition and give him a substitute
may accept shoddy substitutes for satisfaction for his failure to make a
the success we fail to achieve. The genuine success of his business,
wolf who said the grapes he could Moving picture shows, while gen-
not reach were sour grapes had prob- erally wholesome diversions, are
ably never heard of a ladder. We used by some people as a make-be-
make similar excuses for not making lieve world which substitutes for the
intelligent efforts to overcome ob- satisfaction of living life well in real-
stacles. We often delude ourselves ity. All serious-minded people should
into thinking the fruits of work are cultivate hobbies and diversions for
probably not worth the effort. the purpose of increasing efficiency.
As middle and later life overtakes not to substitute for it.
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JV. HOW SHALL J PLAN MY are no distractions. Under some
WORK? To make work easier to circumstances we actually concen-
get at and stick to we should provide trate better with some distractions
certain conditions. First of all, we because wc exert more effort. At
may easily form the hahit oi doing any rate, distractions of a mild char-
certain work at a certain place at a acter are not a good excuse for fail-
certain time. If this habit has been ure to concentrate. This is a matter
established, we conserve much of the to be studied for ourselves. So far
wasted energy of deciding each time as possible work conditions that suit
what to do, where to do it, and when us individually should be provided,
to do it. This habit is especially Fatigue has already been men-
valuable in doing those tasks that tioned as an influence which may
must be done but which are not affect work. We must learn to dis-
pleasant in themselves. Many house- tinguish true fatigue from the "de-
wives go through the unpleasantness sire to be tired" in order to get out
of routine duties two or three times of work. True fatigue is often less
before actually doing them, simply unpleasant than the other kind. Ef-
because they lack orderly time and ficiency is affected, however, by fa-
place work habits. There is joy in tigue, and we should include ample
the success of not letting little un- rest in any work program. Short
pleasant duties take up too much of rest periods during working hours
your life, and orderly habits are nee- are often found to increase output
essary for this achievement. of work. But rest is not the only
A further aid to getting at a task way to overcome fatigue. Work
we are inclined to shun is to prepare produces certain toxic substances in
all materials in advance, say (the the blood which are distributed to
night before, so that when the time all parts of the body and have some
comes there are no preparations to effect on the whole, even though
make, and the activity can be started coming only from the certain parts
immediately. Previous preparation being used directly in work. How-
often removes the possibility of ''dil- ever, fatigue is also specific to some
ly-dallying" while preparing to work extent; that is, the parts of the body
until we think of a good excuse for most directly used become the most
doing something else. fatigued. For example, if we have
Then there is the question of dis- been on our feet at one kind of
tractions, if our task is an intellectual work, our output of work at a task at
one such as studying, planning a which we sit is not greatly affected,
speech or program, or writing a The practical suggestion from this
poem. How distractions affect us is to plan our schedule so that dif-
is a matter of habit also. If we have ferent kinds of work will be alter-
done intellectual work in the pres- nated in such a way as to reduce
ence of distractions, such as children extreme fatigue of any particular or-
or the radio playing, these distrac- gans. Rotate the tasks, allow for
tions finally have little effect on us. changes in order to avoid fatigue
A person who habitually works un- and boredom,
der conditions of this kind may even This means planning for leisure-
be distracted by the silence if there time activities, too, for this part of
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a work plan is as important as any
other. A properly planned work
program, by the contrast of work
followed by play, makes play take
on a new delight. Since play is a
release from routine and work, how
can anyone who has no plan or who
is lazy get the most out of play?
A final practical suggestion is that
if we have difficulty getting down
to work, we should plan tasks which
we are certain to accomplish with
reasonable effort— neither too hard
nor too easy. If we have already
acquired the habit of failure, this is
the only way back to the road to
success. Hosking in Human Nature
and Its Remaking has said in this
connection: ''Education consists of
supplying the halted mind with a
method of work and some examples
of i^uccess. There are few more
beautiful miracles than that which
can be wrought by leading a despair-
ing child into a trifling success; and
there are few difficulties whose prin-
ciple cannot be embodied in such
simple form that success is at once
easy and revealing. And by increas-
ing the difficulty by serial stages,
the small will, under the cumulative
excitement of repeated and mount-
ing success, may find itself far be-
yond the obstacle that originally
checked it."
Part of the great task of living
is to take accurate measure of our
personal equipment and to gauge
our tasks to our capacity. Naturally,
we all make mistakes in estimating
what we can do, but when we see
our task is too much for us we should
not develop the failure attitude; we
should apply more energy and use
better judgment in attacking our
problems or else build our strength
and confidence through tasks more
within our reach. Which of the
two methods to follow depends up-
on 'what manner of man" we are;
that is, what our past successes have
been.
Problems for Discussion
1. What do we mean by "will
power"?
2. Study your own reactions to de-
feat or failure. Are they usually
inclined to make you exert more
effort or less effort in overcoming
obstacles?
3. How is the habit of success
cultivated, assuming that it is not
very well developed in us now that
we are adults?
4. What practical aids do you use
in making it easier to get your house-
hold routine done?
5. Show how "keeping the ball
rolling" makes your work easier.
References
1. Brande, Dorothea. Wake Up
and Live J New York: Simon and
Schuster, 1936. p. 198. Popular and
stimulating style.
2. James, William. On Vital Re-
serves, New York: Henry Holt, 1911.
See pp. 6-7 particularly, most of the
remainder will be found interesting
and stimulating.
3. Morgan, J. J. B. Keeping a
Sound Mind, New York: Macmil-
lan, 1934, See pp. 136-168, 362-384.
Written for beginning college stu-
dents.
4. Starch, D., et al. Controlling
Human Behavior ^ New York: Mac-
millan, 1936, pp. 193-234. Semi-
technical discussion of factors affect-
ing efficiency.
Ibducation for cfafnuy JLife
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Lesson 6
My Parents Do Not Know Me
TS it possible for the members of was the pride and joy of her parents,
one generation to understand and overheard her mother discussing
be sympathetic with the problems of with a friend the great difficulties,
the members of another generation? problems, and responsibilities in-
To what extent do parents think volved in rearing children today in
they know their children? To what comparison with those of earlier pe-
extent do children think they know riods. Unfortunately, the daughter
their parents? To what extent do heard only a fragment of the dis-
children think their parents know cussion from which she drew the
them? If we had satisfactory an- conclusion that she was a great bur-
swers to these questions, we would den to her parents, that her parents
have at least a starting point in our did not love her as she had thought
attempt to cope with one of the they did, and that her mother had
most important phases of family re- never wanted her. Such an idea was
lationships; namely, the parent-child in absolute contradiction to the real
relation. situation. However, from the time
We do have sufficient first-hand of the incident the daughter's atti-
evidence to convince us that the tude toward her parents, particularly
majority of young men and women toward her mother, changed almost
of high school and college age think completely. She became less so-
that their parents do not know ciable, less talkative, took on an
them and do not understand the attitude of indifference, spent as lit-
problems with which the young peo- tie time as possible in the home and
pie of today are confronted. in the presence of her mother; how-
Whether or not the young folk ever, she showed deliberate consider-
are correct in their thinking we can- ation and an undue amount of im-
not say, but they do offer a quantity personal respect toward both parents,
of concrete evidence to justify their The mental conflict for the daugh-
opinion. This fact is of vital im- ter became so intense that she finally
portance to adults who desire to decided to confide in one of her
know the younger generation. teachers. During the course of the
Only to the extent that parents conversation, the girl confessed that
are acquainted with the ideas that she knew she would never recover
children have concerning the parent- from the shock she had experienced
child relation is it possible for par- when she learned that her parents
ents to understand the behavior of did not love her and that her moth-
their children, since it is what we er had never wanted her; therefore,
think is true that influences our atti- she had decided to leave home as
tudes and actions. soon as possible and try to forget
A sixteen-year-old daughter, who her parents. After a number of con-
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ferences, the girl reluctantly gave
consent for the teacher to talk over
the situation with the mother. It
was with no little difficulty that the
father and mother, with the assist-
ance of the teacher, were able to
convince the daughter that her con-
cept of the situation was all wrong;
that the true situation was as the
daughter had always wished it to be,
one of love, affection and devotion
on the part of her parents.
In all of our human relationships
it is not enough to acquaint our-
selves with the facts of a situation,
but we must also be aware qf what
the other person thinks the facts to
be. This is of speciai importance in
successful parent-child relationships.
Frequently, the roots of unsatisfac-
tory parent-child relations lie in the
attitudes of the parents toward the
child and in the lack of mutual un-
derstanding of the attitudes of par-
ents and child.
Hornell Hart suggests that there
are four different fundamental atti-
tudes taken toward children, with
corresponding different emotional
and behavior results: The first of
these is to regard the child as an ob-
stacle, an irritant, or a nuisance; the
second is to regard it as something
to be exploited, as an economic as-
set, as an object for the exercise of
his craving for power and authority,
as a means of vicarious display or
vicarious fulfillment of thwarted am-
bitions, or as a love-object to gratify
parental emotions; the third is to
consider it as a responsibility; the
fourth is to regard it as a bundle of
potentialities to be developed. Sound
parenthood must take account of
whatever is valid in all of the above
four attitudes. The first step in pro-
moting successful parent-child rela-
tions is for the parent to frankly face
his own attitudes and purposes with
regard to his child. It is necessary
for the parent to realize integration
of his own purposes as well as inte-
gration of purposes between parents
before there can be integration be-
tween parents and child. The next
essential is for the parent to have
an understanding of the purposes
and possibilities of the child.*
During the early years of the
child's life the foundation must be
laid if mutual understanding be-
tween parents and child is to be ex-
perienced during later years. Fur-
thermore, confidence and sympa-
thetic understanding can be attained
only as the result of conscientious
effort, untiring patience, and the
constant demonstration of the prac-
tical application of the fundamental
principles of personal integrity on
the part of the parents.
Now let us turn our attention to
a few of the most common mistakes
which parents make that result in
the hindrance of the development
of confidence and understanding
between parents and child.
1. Parents attempt to be one of
the young folk instead of being one
with them. A forty-year-old parent
cannot be as a twenty-year-old child
unless the parent has not matured
in a normal way. Twenty-year-olds
appreciate parents who have a rea-
sonable amount of dignity, superior
judgment, who exercise self-control;
yet, who have not become so old,
socially and psychologically, that
they cannot appreciate and under-
*Hart, Hornell, Science of Social Rela-
tions. New York: Henry Holt and Co.,
1927, Chapter XVIII.
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stand the point of view of the
younger generation.
2. Many parents practice deceit
and other forms of dishonesty in
their relations with their children.
Wise parents are aware of the diffi-
culty of successfully bluffing young
people of today who are, as a rule,
very sensitive and responsive to sin-
cerity.
3. Parents ask too many questions
concerning unimportant details in
the hope that the child will form
the habit of telling his parents every-
thing. Few individuals, young or
old, care to tell everything. What
parents should strive for is to build
up desirable attitudes and habits so
that the child will come voluntarily
to his parents when he has a prob-
lem to solve or a unique situation
to meet.
4. Parents set themselves up as
examples to their children rather
than to select some noble and praise-
worthy character whom both par-
ent and child could profitably emu-
late. The second practice would give
the child an opportunity to discov-
er for himself the similarity between
his parent and the ideal. When the
parent sets himself up as an ideal,
the child feels that there is too great
a gap between the two, and thus he
sees no basis for mutual under-
standing.
5. Parents worry over too many
relatively trivial things. In such
cases the child usually takes an atti-
tude of toleration and paternalism to-
ward his parents. He feels that he
should protect his parents from un-
necessary worry by not telling them
anything that can be kept. "What
Dad and Mom don't know won't
worry them," is a common expres-
sion of young folk.
6. Parents too often are so steep-
ed in their own problems that they
fail to realize that what to them
may seem a minor problem is to the
young person a major catastrophe.
Is there a mother who cannot re-
member what a tragedy it seemed
to her at the age of eighteen not
to be asked for a dance by the one
man whom she secretly admired
most of all? Or is there a father who
cannot recall the time when the
most important thing in life to him
was to have money with which to
purchase a red heart box of candy
on Valentine Day for the one and
only girl; how he felt when his fa-
ther only laughed, and told him if
the girl liked him the candy was not
necessary, and if she did not like
him he would be silly to spend mon-
ey on her?
Whatever the young person con-
siders to be important at any partic-
ular time should be treated with the
utmost dignity, respect and confi-
dence by adults.
'M'OW to turn our attention to
question number four which
was presented at the beginning of
our lesson. Based upon the discus-
sions of an average group of young
people who expressed themselves
frankly on the subject as to whether
or not their parents know them, we
submit the following opinions:
The majority of young people do
not discuss problems with their
parents unless they think that their
parents will learn the information
from other sources.
Young people do discuss prob-
lems concerning sex and love affairs
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with married siblings and with inti-
mate friends of their own sex.
Frequently, problems are taken to
the mother of a friend because, ''she
understands my problems and is
more sympathetic than my own
mother would be, and she doesn't
worry about me."
Fathers are consulted about prob-
lems concerning money matters
more generally than are mothers.
Mothers are consulted about prob-
lems concerning human relations
more generally than are fathers.
Minor automobile accidents are
not reported to parents if the result-
ing damage to the car can be erased
without being found "out; or in case
of a fine, if the fine can be paid with-
out help from parents. This practice
is due to the fear that in the future
tlie child will be denied the use of
the car if parents know there has
been an accident. Information gain-
ed from young folk leads one to be-
lieve that quite frequendy the child
learns of minor automobile accidents
experienced by one mate about
which the other mate is never in-
formed. This may explain why so
many children have adopted the
same practice.
Now as to some of the reasons
given by youth as to why parents
are not consulted in the solving of
problems:
Fear of hurting parents. Parents
do not understand conditions of to-
day, so that anything we do that is
different from what they did when
they were young shocks them.
Parents exaggerate the seriousness
of situations. Parents think their
children are better than other chil-
dren, so it not only shocks them but
really hurts them to know the truth
about their own.
Parents become so emotional
when confronted with the problems
of youth. Mothers cry and fathers
become angry.
Parents worry too much when
there is no cause to worry. Because
parents are opposed to their chil-
dren marrying too early they seem
to think that every friendship with
a member of the opposite sex will
result in marriage, so it is just as
well not to let them know to what
extent their child is interested in a
member of the opposite sex.
Parents have no time to bother
with the problems of their grown
children; they do well to provide
for the material needs of their off-
spring.
Parents uphold the double stand-
ard as far as parents and children
are concerned; hence, will not ac-
cept in children what they do them-
selves.
Once again we emphasize the fact
that the above opinions represent
what youth thinks is true. Probably
the majority of parents would not
agree with youth; if so, then it is of
vital importance for every parent to
help his own child see the true situ-
ation. It is equally important for the
parents of young children to guard
against the development of such
ideas during the formative years of
the life of the child.
TN conclusion, we present verbatim
an example of an ideal parent-
child relation as expressed in writ-
ing by somebody's child of college
age. Might it have been written by
your child?
"To whom would I go if I were
860 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
in any kind of trouble? If my par-
ents were available, they would be
the first persons I would think to
consult for help and guidance. My
parents have tried to instill good
principles in my mind and then let
me act on my own judgment. At
the same time, they have always
made me feel that if I were in any
difficulty I would be free to come
to them. My mother has always
said that she has not lived her life
yet and therefore does not feel as
if she can censure the actions of
others who may have done wrong.
She has always made me feel that
I would be understood if I confided
in her and that she would do all in
her power to help me to make a right
adjustment. Father has always made
us feel that home would always be
the best place to come no matter
what happened.
*1 don't believe that we should
run to our parents with every little
petty thing we do wrong. We should
build our own character strong
enough so we can go to ourselves
on such occasions and solve our own
problems.
"I know from observation and
conversation that I am very fortu-
nate to have the confidence of my
parents. I think they are the best
people to go to, because they try
to understand and at the same time
not be over-sympathetic. The prob-
lem of over-sympathetic parents is
just as serious as having parents who
are not willing to be bothered with
the problems of their children.
''Because of my fortunate relation-
ship with my parents, I do not feel
that I can fully realize the problems
many young people are confronted
with when they are in trouble and
have no one to whom they feel free
to go."
Questions and Piohhms
For Discussion
1. Give concrete examples of each
of the four attitudes toward children
as suggested by Hart. Reserve a pe-
riod during the coming week when
you and your mate can be together
for the purpose of discussing your
mutual attitudes toward your chil-
dren.
2. What evidence can you offer
from your own experience to dis-
prove the validity of the opinions
of youth with regard to the failure
of parents to know their children?
3. Make a list of ten factors that
you think would contribute to the
establishment of the type of parent-
child relation represented in the con-
cluding quotation of the lesson.
4. Tell the class about some of
the practices that you are using with
your small children for the purpose
of laying a foundation for mutual
confidence and understanding for
the future.
liUssion JLessons
L D. S. CHURCH HISTORY
Lesson 6
Organization of the Church
(To be used in place of Literary lesson)
T ET US suppose that you have either in person or through his ser-
something to sell — furniture, vants. Anyone may organize a
books, animals, or land. Let us sup- church without that authority, but
pose, further, that you wish someone it will not be the Church of Christ,
else to sell this property for you. and no one who belongs to it has
Now, before anyone could do that, any claim to salvation in the King-
he would first have to obtain your dom of God.
"authorization," as we call it. For
otherwise he could not.come to your JOSEPH SMITH knew all this. He
home and say, "Fm going to sell ^ had been so informed in the First
these things whether you want me Vision. As you may remember, he
to or not." had been told two things about the
It is the same in other things that Church by our Savior himself. One
we call earthly. If someone from of these was that the Church of
another country wishes to become a ^^"^t was not then upon the earth
citizen of your nation, he cannot be- ^^^ t^^*, therefore, he must not jom
come such by just saying to himself, ^^Y c^^rch m his town. The sec-
"Fm a citizen!" Nor can he do so by ^nd thmg was that he, Joseph, would
appearing before just anybody in ^^ ^"^ time be given the authority
that nation and be sworn in. He ^^ organize the Church of Christ
must make application to the proper ^g^i^.
person and go through the necessary And here it is necessary to make a
routine. Then he is a citizen. distinction which is often lost sight
Do you think it is any different of-
in the matter of religion, the most A man may do good in and of
important concern of human beings? himself. Fortunately for us there
The Church is often spoken of by are many good people in every na-
Jesus as the Kingdom of God. Like tion, and have been in every age.
earthly governments it must have Also there are many organizations
officers, laws, and subjects. In other that are wholesome in their purpose
words, the Kingdom of God, or the and work. Among these are the
Church of Christ, like every other various churches. All over the world
organization, is conducted in an or- there are churches that are helpful
derly way. No one, therefore, has to their members. And so, as long
a right to organize the Church of as men and women in these societies
Christ until and unless he is given are sincere and as long as the church-
the necessary authority by the Lord, es are helpful here and now, perhaps
862 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
we should not be severe on them.
But this is not the only world.
There is a world of the spirit, the
world of God, the world of men
made perfect. That is real, too.
And so when anyone organizes a
church, he is supposed to get au-
thority to do so first, and that au-
thority can come only from God,
who is the ruler of that world. No
man, therefore, who establishes an
order for this world alone, has any
right to expect that his order will
be effectual in the other world.
At best, man can see but a short
distance ahead. He can therefore
provide for only a brief span of life.
His mistakes, for this reason, will
be many. But God sees life in its
whole. He knows the end from the
beginning. And so his plans are far-
reaching, complete. The laws which
he establishes have the whole of life
in mind, not a part of it. But he
does not wish us to make use of that
plan unless we are willing to follow
His guidance. Hence, leaders in re-
ligion must have continual revela-
tion—visions, if necessary. Only in
this way can we feel sure that we
are carrying out what we know as
the ''plan of life and salvation".
The sectarian churches of Joseph
Smith's time, of course, did much
good, just as those of today are
doing. But they lack, and still lack,
spiritual power. 'They have a form
of godliness, but deny the power
of God." That is what the Lord
told Joseph Smith, as you will re-
member, in the First Vision. That
is, they had no divine authority, no
priesthood recognized by God. Here
is the whole thing in a nutshell, as
we say. The churches of the Proph-
et's day had no saving power because
they had departed from the Way,
QUR Prophet did not, for this
reason, obtain his authority to
organize the Church of Christ from
any of the ministers of his time. He
could not have done that because
they did not have it themselves. His
priesthood came direct from heaven.
On the fifteenth of May, 1829,
while the translation of the Book
of Mormon was going on in Har-
mony, Pennsylvania, Joseph and
Oliver went out into the woods, to
pray over a matter which had come
up in the Record. While they
prayed, John the Baptist, of whom
we read in the Gospels, appeared
to them. He had been raised from
thte dead. Placing bis hands on
their heads, he said,
"Upon you my fellow servants, in
the name of Messiah, I confer the
priesthood of Aaron, which holds the
keys of the ministering of angels,
and of the gospel of repentance, and
of baptism by immersion for the
remission of sins."
John instructed them to baptize
each other and then to ordain each
other to the priesthood which he
had just conferred upon them. This
they did. Afterwards the spirit of
prophecy came upon them, and they
foretold many things that would
come to pass in their generation.
John also told them that, in due
time, the ancient apostles Peter,
James, and John would confer upon
them the Melchizedek priesthood.
Accordingly, some time later,
these apostles appeared to Joseph
and Oliver, laid their hands upon
the heads of the young men, and
ordained them to the higher priest-
hood. This gave them "the keys of
the kingdom and of the Dispensa-
tion of the Fulness of Times." It
also gave them the apostleship. Thus
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they were empowered to act for
God on the earth. They had divine
authority, the priesthood.
In these two visions— that of John
the Baptist and of the ancient apos-
tles—they obtained the priesthood
direct from the men who held it
under Christ. Any member of this
Church, therefore, who holds the
priesthood, can trace it back to
Christ, through three of these four
heavenly messengers.
A CTING under this divine author-
ity, the Prophet, with his faithful
companion, proceeded to organize
again the Church of Christ on the
earth. It was orgafiized on April
6, 1830, shortly after the publication
of the Book oi Mormon.
It was on a Tuesday. Joseph
Smith, Oliver Cowdery, Hyrum
Smith, Peter Whitmer, Jr., Samuel
H. Smith, and David Whitmer, with
a few others, met at the home of
Peter Whitmer, Sr., for the purpose.
They were all young men. The
oldest, Hyrum Smith, had just turn-
ed thirty, and the youngest, Peter
Whitmer, Jr., would not be twenty-
one till the following September.
Joseph Smith was in his twenty-
fifth year. They had all been bap-
tized before this. Baptism in their
case was for the remission of sins,
not for entrance into the Church.
One would expect that the name
of the new Church would be the
"Church of Joseph Smith." But it
was not. Having been instructed
and authorized by the Lord himself
to organize His Church again on
the earth, the Prophet called it the
"Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints." The phrase "of Latter-
day Saints" distinguishes it from the
Church of Jesus Christ of Former-
day Saints. People who did not
like the new organization often call-
ed it the "Mormon Church." But
that is not its real name. Like the
term "Christian," it was given in
derision; its members believed in the
Book oi Mormon.
We cannot stress too much the
idea that this modern prophet, in
spite of the fact that he was not
schooled, held the priesthood. And
he was the only one authorized to
organize the true Church on the
earth at the time. Hence this is the
Church of Christ.
Questions and Suggestions
1 . If you wished to sell something
and did not want to act yourself,
what would you have to do? How
do foreigners become citizens of
your nation?
2. Name some of the officers of
our Church; some of the laws; some
of the ordinances. How does one
become a member of our Church?
3. When, where, and by whom
was our Church organized? What
is its true name? Why was it called
by this name?
4. Tell how Joseph Smith received
the authority to organize the
Church. Where else could he have
got the authority?
5. Read or sing "The Morning
Breaks" and explain why this hymn
was chosen in connection with this
lesson.
Note: Map printed in July issue of
Magazine is to be used in teaching Church
History lessons.
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105
99
71
70
56
86
68
66
94
79
70
58
66
91.5
86
86
56
97-5
89
85
63.5
58.5
95
90
87
86
86
84
83
80
77
76
75
75
73
67
65
65
65
63
58
53
109
109
109
109
109
108
108
107
106
106
106
106
106
105
105
105
104
104
104
104
103
102
102
102
102
101
101
101
101
101
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
Magazine Agent
Alma Erickson
Mary E. Dixon
Alice B. Rich
Mrs. H. Potter
Florence Pruett
Vera Ashworth
Josie M. Robinson
Lillian Peterson
Mary Bertagnole
Ida Verney
Emma Harper"
Hedy Davies
Sarah H. Pomeroy
Christie Heath
Estella G. Paton
Esther Hess
Edna Allan
Marguerite Hunt
Sara Lyon
Lucile Beck
Elizabeth London
Florence Simkins
Eda Eatchel
Jessie Woods
Louise Greenwood
Malinda C. Hicken
Lurana B. Eagar
Kathryn Hughes
Anna S. D. Johnson
Hattie M. Ipson
Carola S. Wurzback
Pearl Cloward
Ida von Nordeck
Roberta Keller
Clara Muggleson
Effie Chipman
Lenore T. Jones
Margaret Vernieuw
Fanny Litchfield
Mrs. P. Magleby
Elizabeth Bowen
Naomi Ball
Isabelle Hill
Minnie Wheeler
Hortense Carpenter
Grace Meiling
Alta Holt
Nettie T. Oliverson
Florence Sjoblom
Selina Nerdin
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 867
GROUP C
(Enrollment i to 49 inclusive)
Ward
Hilliard
BuflFalo
Ogden 21st
Glendale
Redwood City Br.
La Grande 2nd
Melbourne Br.
Elko
Brisbane Br.
Rapid City Br.
Phoenix 4th
Basin Br.
Olympia
Garcia
Imbler
Tyrell's Lake Br.
Cody Br.
Charleston
Alexandria Br.
New Orleans Br.
Baldwin Park
Pittsburgh Br.
Pacheco
Baker
Clinton
Tracy Br.
San Antonio
Juarez
Penrose
Arlington
Tempe
Fullerton
Center
Hanna Br.
Powell
Ruth
Highland
Fairview Br.
Springdale
Santa Maria
Bundaberg Br.
Wells
Grass Valley
Acequia
Burlingame
Santa Barbara
Bankstown Br.
Palmyra
Alameda
Grand Island Br.
Fort Worth
Stake
Woodruff
Eastern States Mis.
Ogden
Phoenix
San Francisco
Union
Australian Mis.
Nevada
Australian Mis.
Western States Mis.
Phoenix
Big Horn
Seattle
Juarez
Union
Taylor
Big Horn
Wasatch
Texas Mis.
Texas Mis.
San Bernardino
Eastern States Mis.
Juarez
Union
Weber
Sacramento
Texas Mis.
Juarez
Big Horn
Hollywood
Maricopa
Long Beach
Wasatch
Western States Mis.
Big Horn
Nevada
Alpine
Eastern States Mis.
Burley
Calif. Mis.
Australian Mis.
Nevada
Gridley
Minidoka
San Francisco
Cahf. Mis.
Australian Mis
Eastern States Mis.
Oakland
Western States Mis.
Texas Mis.
Enroll. No. Sub. Pet.
12
9
16
15
45
15
32
22
8
30
18
9
11
13
10
21
34
30
29
32
15
8
39
39
11
20
38
12
47
31
22
20
10
14
27
19
88
30
28
82
26
55
38
13-5
48
28
17
19.5
15
31
50
43
41
45
21
11
53
53
15
27
51
16
62
41
29
26
13
18
32
26
41
33
15
19
27
34
12
15
4
5
25
11
31
38
32
39
47
20
24
13
15
10
12
36
16
43
19
19
22
225
211
210
88
87
82
73
72
72
69
60
56
56
55
50
50
48
47
44
44
41
40
38
36
36
36
35
34
33
32
32
32
30
30
29
28
27
27
26
25
25
24
23
23
21
20
20
20
19
19
18
Magazine Agent
Ella Malby
Naomi G. Joy
Elizabeth Jacobs
Julia Kremer
Charlotte Showers
Emma Stringham
Grace Bartlett
Fawn S. Noren
May Brown
Mable Thomas
Belle Herndon
Lova Kinghorn
Mary Andrus
Ida Kartchner
Jessie Perry
Clara E. Selk
Ethel Brailsford
Mary Casper
Martha Hanks
Gwen Wrathall
Margaret Cluff
Nettie Shurthff
Angeline Child
Sarah Dana
Mildred
Farnsworth
Delilah M. Wasden
Edith O. Cowan
Mable Cluff
Elena Smith
Bertha Sweat
Margaret Dexter
Bertha Cozzens
Nina Kraft
Emily Hyde
Mollic Stoops
Hattie Marchant
Reta Johnson
Mary Wilson
NelHe Hyde
Sylvia Jensen
Ella Harrison
Ruth Bentley
Louise Haberlitz
Rose Foote
Maude Collins
MaRee Meuter
Maude O. West
868 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Ward
Bellingham
Fish Haven
Gilbert
Vallejo
Burlington
Unity
Ventura
Daniels
Racine
No. Hollywood
Houston Br.
Milwaukee So. Br.
Chester
Fairfield
Croydon
Cedron
Colton Br.
Montello Br.
Hobart Br.
Scofield Br.
Firestone Park
Milwaukee
Pasadena
Belle Fourche Br.
Pleasant Grove 2nd
Eden
Heber
Lost River
Lago
Adelaide Br.
Victorville Br.
Balboa
Sublett
Rosette
Pendleton
Mt. View
San Rafael
Herriman
Perry
University
Boise 4th
Superior
Welling
Flowell
Elysian Park
Boise 2nd
Slaterville
Harper
Wendover Br.
Woodland
Alpine
Ballard
GROUP C— Continued
Stake
Enroll. No. Sub. Pet.
Seattle
Bear Lake
Maricopa
Oakland
Big Horn
Burley
Cahf. Mis.
Malad
Chicago
Pasadena
Texas Mis.
Chicago
Yellowstone
Blaine
Morgan
Teton
San Bernardino
Mt. Ogden
Australian Mis.
Carbon
17
35
24
24
45
37
20
13
13
36
25
45
23
16
15
15
15
8
22
20
41
28
27
52
43
23
15
15
41
28
16
51
26
18
17
17
17
9
25
Los Angeles
17
19
Chicago
43
48
Pasadena
35
39
Western States Mis.
9
10
Timpanogos
48
53
Ogden
30
33
Snowflake
21
23
Lost River
21
23
Bannock
20
22
Australian Mis.
10
11
San Bernardino
10
11
San Francisco
43
47
Raft River
11
12
Curlew
11
12
Union
12
13
Lyman
14
15
San Francisco
13
M
West Jordan
41
43-5
Box Elder
36
38
Seattle
34
36
Boise
32
34
Maricopa
32
34
Taylor
18
19
Millard
16
17
Pasadena
40
42
Boise
39
41
No. Weber
38
40
Box Elder
21
22
Tooele
19
20
Portland
19
20
St. Johns
27
28
Roosevelt
25
26
18
17
17
17
16
16
15
15
15
H
14
14
13
13
13
13
13
13
13
12
12
11
11
11
10
10
10
10
10
10
10
09
09
09
08
07
07
06
06
06
06
06
06
06
05
05
05
05
05
05
04
04
Magazine Agent
Ella M. Petrie
Harriet G. Jensen
Donnett Fuller
Ida Fullen
Dorothy Yorgason
Juliana Nielson
Genevieve
Robinson
Louise Gilgen
Martha Hubert
Louise Phippen
Vivian Hart
Julia Worrell
Annie C. Thurber
Hilda Stevens
Leatha Kunz
Anna Wildman
Gertrude Jordan
Mrs. M. J. Quinn
Frances W.
Helsten
Elizabeth Winkler
Elsie Schuette
Jane Gottfredson
Sadie Meredith
Effa Williams
Janet Ferrin
Ora Despain
Ahce Noble
Sadie Mickelson
Mrs. G. A. Latter
Margaret Robison
Fredrekka Duffner
Sylvia Olsen
Edna Palmer
Emily Hart
Effa Graham
Louise Bernards
Agnes Dansie
Ida W. Thorne
Vera Leishman
Lillis H. Melander
Frances Linn
Elizabeth Bullock
Ruth Allen
Zelda Shipley
Irene Hayes
Sylvia S. Knight
Frewtrilla Yates
Emily Bruner
May Cottrel
Jessie Jepson
Ellen Bracken
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 869
GROUP C— Continued
Ward
Geneva
Milo
Torrance
Malta
Burton
San Jose
Lehi
La Grande 2nd
Duncan
No. Long Beach
Riverton 1st
Joseph City
Bluffdale
Oakland
Pella
Sunset
Wilmington
Eastmont
Caliente
Stockton
Daniels
Center
University
North Park
Thatcher
Leland
Egin
Palisade
Hayward
Palmyra
Grant
Richmond
Whitewater Br.
Palo Alto
Martinez
Mapleton
Pittsburg Br.
Howell
Preston 5 th
Nat'l City Br.
Richie
Central
Utah
Carlin
Bates
Evans Br.
Pine
Raymond
Portola Br.
Beaver Creek Br.
Leadore Branch
Tensleep
Stake
Montpeher
No. Ida. Falls
Long Beach
Raft River
Rexburg
San Francisco
Maricopa
Union
Mt. Graham
Long Beach
West Jordan
Snowflake
West Jordan
Oakland
Burley
San Francisco
Long Beach
Los Angeles
Moapa
Sacramento
Wasatch
Salt Lake
Chicago
Cahf. Mis.
Bannock
Palmyra
Yellowstone
Rigby
Oakland
Palmyra
Los Angeles
Oakland
Calif. Mis.
San Francisco
Oakland
Franklin
Oakland
Bear River
Franklin
Calif. Mis.
Ida. Falls
Bannock
Duchesne
Nevada
Teton
Box Elder
Maricopa
Montpelier
Calif. Mis.
Ida. Falls
Lost River
Big Horn
Enroll. No. Sub. Pet.
25 26 104
25 26 104
25 26 104
39 40 103
38
38
34
47
41
48
48
49
47
44
44
44
44
42
41
40
39
38
36
34
34
33
32
32
30
30
29
29
29
28
26
25
25
23
23
22
21
20
20
19
18
18
17
17
15
14
14
39
39
35
48
42
48.5
48.5
49
47
44
44
44
44
42
41
40
39
38
36
34
34
33
32
32
30
30
29
29
29
28
26
25
25
23
23
22
21
20
20
19
18
18
17
17
15
14
14
14
103
103
103
102
102
101
101
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
100
Magazine Agent
Rosetta Teuscher
Emily Palmer
Helga Pankey
Alice O. Neddo,
Mary Ellison
Annie A. Briggs
Elizabeth Horsfield
Lola WilHams
Scrilda Wode
lone Packer
Inez Nell
Cleo Page
Stella Cummins
Ida Hardman
Elizabeth Bergman
Ahce Freer
Millie Johnson
Ada Parkin
Elsie Ashlock
Leah Williams
Olive Sattler
Sarah Price
Eva Gledhill
Ingeborg Friberg
Violet Bradley
Wilda Rasmussen
Eleanor Creer
Eva Dexter
Mattie Nelson
Armorel Wells
Lois Roach
Marie Jenkins
Augusta Morley
Sarah E.
Thompson
Leah Martin
Lillian Abbott
Afton Long
Ann Miller
Presidency
Pearl G. Geisler
Georgiana Grimley
Bertha Cooper
Emma Hanson
Ruth Broadhead
Charlotte Ferguson
Sady Furniss
Alice Buxton
Ina P. Hunt
Eleanor Saxton
Lenore Maxwell
Wanda WilUs
Annie Duncan
870 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Bluff
San Juan
13
13
100
Beatrice Nielson
Lindon
Snowflake
13
13
100
Leora Kartchner
Warner Br.
Taylor
12
12
100
Hope Shaffer
Grant
Portneuf
11
11
100
Rachel Anderson
Napa Br.
Oakland
11
11
100
Mrs. Virgil
Swenson
Tonopah
Calif Mis.
10
10
100
Clara Lytle
Uintah
Mt. Ogden
10
10
100
Ellen Stoker
Allison Br.
Western States Mis.
9
9
100
Lucinda Cardon
Perth Br.
# Australian Mis.
9
9
100
Eunice Compton
Carlsbad Br.
Western States Mis.
8
8
100
Irene Wilkinson
White River
Snowflake
6
6
100
Mrs. John White
Woolahra Br.
Australian Mis.
6
6
100
Mrs. C. Burroughs
Oyster Bay Br.
Australian Mission
5
5
100
Myra Mclnerney
Palm Springs Br.
Calif. Mis.
4
4
100
Velma White
WARDS 75% TO 99% INCLUSIVE
GROUP A
(Enrollment 100 or over)
Ward
Stake
Enroll.
No. Sub.
Pet.
Magazine Agent
Adams
Hollywood
113
109
96
Carrie Ainge
Blanding
San Juan
H7
138
94
Dora Wright
Lovell West
Big Horn
121
111
92
Mildred Despain
Evanston 1st
Woodruff
110
99-5
90
Martha Johnston
Edgehill
Highland
102
92
90
Gail Clayton
Forest Dale
Granite
116
103.5
89
Norma Woolf
Spring City
No. Sanpete
114
102
89
Nell Nyberg
Snowflake
Snowflake
121
109
88
Emma Hall,
Tina Gardner
Yale
Bonneville
105
91.5
87
Esther L. White
Ogden 12 th
Mt. Ogden
145
125
86
Madge Cassity,
Florence Farr
Pocatello 3rd
Pocatello
123
106
86
Rozilla Tolman
Thirty-first
Liberty
137
114.5
84
Lily Haines
Whittier
Wells
124
102.5
83
Kathrine Sturgell
St. Johns
St. Johns
100
83
83
Mary W. Waters
Belvedere
Wells
113
93
82
Violet Ostler
Glendale
Pasadena
127
102
80
Elizabeth Waste
Logan Ninth
Cache
111
84
80
Verna C. Jackson
Bountiful 1st
So. Davis
107
84
79
Minnie Lawson
Pima
St. Joseph
139
108
78
Freda Cluff
Eighth
Liberty
112
87
78
Abbie L. Jorgensen
Pocatello 1st
Pocatello
137
106
77
Rita Austin
Thirty-third
Bonneville
106
82
77
Hattie Axelson
Magna
Oquirrh
121
91.5
76
Ina Hansen
Provo 5th
Provo
117
88
75
May H. Snow
Brigham 3rd
Box Elder
110
82.5
75
Agnes 0. Stander
Cowley
Big Horn
105
79
75
Leona Fowler
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 871
GROUP B
(Enrollment 50
to 99 Inclusive)
Ward
Stake
Enroll.
^0. Sub.
?ct.
Magazine Agent
Afton North
Star Valley
69
66
96
Louise Frome
Midway 2nd
Wasatch
64
60
94
Susanna Probst
Ogden 8th
Ogden
96
89
93
Ada Taylor
Ogden 11th
Weber
69
64
93
Birdie Powers
Boise 1st
Boise
79
73
92
Signa Pecora
West Bountiful
So. Davis
55
50.5
92
Chloe M. Arbuckle
Rexburg 4th
Rexburg
75
68
91
Isabell Blunck
Inglewood
Hollywood
68
62
91
Maurine B. Malm
Mayfield
Gunnison
57
52
91
Amelia G. Larson
Ogden 6th
Ogden
94
84
89
Gertrude Hays
Ririe
Rigby
73
65
89
Eliza Durant
Maeser
Uintah
55
49
89
Mabel Ashby
San Bernardino
San Bernardino
75
66
88
Ruth Irwin
Hollywood
Pasadena
64
56
88
Charlotte O'Conner
Ogden 2nd
Weber
82
71
87
Ethel McGarty
Washington Br.
Eastern States Mis.
69
60
87
Mina Whittle
Byron
Big Horn
67
58
87
Sally Griffin
Emerson
Highland
87
75
86
Agnes Kirk
Ida. Falls 6th
Idaho Falls
67
57-5
86
Phoebe Peterson
Twenty-second
Salt Lake
65
56
86
Lucy W. Holmes
Midway 1st
Wasatch
52
45
86
Ada D. Bonner
J
Rexburg 3rd
Rexburg
52
44-5
86
Margaret Pearson
Mission
San Francisco
51
44
86
Mrs. J. Kennison
St. George West
St. George
95
81
85
Alice Hamilton
Pocatello 2nd
Pocatello
89
76
85
Florence Wright
Burton
Wells
66
56
85
Mary Mendenhall
Rigby 1st
Rigby
91
75
84
Elizabeth West
South Gate
Los Angeles
86
72
84
Naomi Whale
Salmon
Lost River
83
69
83
Emma Bacus
Hyrum 3rd
Hyrum
81
67
83
Luella Birch
Waterloo
Wells
66
54-5
83
Hanna Clements
American Fork 4th
Alpine
64
53
83
Grace Coates
North Pocatello
JL
Pocatello
54
45
83
Caroline Stewart
Preston 6th
Franklin
54
46
83
Mrs. B. Golightly
Williamson
Texas Mis.
53
44
83
Fifteenth
Salt Lake
94
77-5
82
Mary Price
Las Vegas
Moapa
94
77
82
Maranda Craner
Magrath 2nd
1.
Taylor
89
73
82
Frances Taylor
Provo 6th
' Utah
88
72
82
Jane B. Evans
F'illmore 2nd
Millard
67
55
82
Manilla Brunson
Vermont
Los Angeles
66
55
82
Martha Jeffs
Logan 2nd
Logan
66
54
82
Inez Thain
Spencer
Oquirrh
56
46
82
Ethel Poulton
Lindon
1
Timpanogos
55
46
82
Edah Allred
La Point
Uintah
50
41
82
Grace Lambert
Evanston 2nd
Woodruff
74
60
81
Edith Davis
Huntsville
Ogden
78
63
81
Nell McKay
Pocatello 6th
Pocatello
57
46
81
Alta G. Bingham
Bountiful 3rd
So. Davis
97
78
80
Emma T. Riley
Malad 3rd
Malad
80
64
80
Jemima Opperman
Twenty-ninth
Salt Lake
80
64
80
Hillevi Daniels
Circleville
Garfield
78
62.5
80
Elsie Simkins
872 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
GROUP B— Continued
Ward
Stake
Enioll
No. Sub.
Pet.
Magazine Agent
Springdale
Zion Park
60
48
80
Nora C. Jolley
Twin Falls ist
Twin Falls
75
60
80
Lenore Carroll "
Gridley
Gridley
50
40
80
Florence Jensen
Tremonton 2nd
Bear River
94
75
79
Edith Fuller
Wells
Wells
80
63.5
79
Stella Widdison
St. George East
St. George
101
79
78
Effie Syphus
Spanish Fork 3rd
Palmyra
86
67
78
Estella
Christopherson
Garden Park
Bonneville
83
65
78
Rena Bjorklund
Prescott Br.
Calif. Mis.
72
56
78
Veda Scott
Lincoln
Idaho Falls
59
46
78
Helen Jensen
Oakley 2nd
Cassia
54
42
78
Mary Stowers
Grantsville Second
Tooele
78
60
77
Glenna Millward
Fillmore
Millard
91
70
77
Pearl Seguine
Timpanogos
Sharon
79
61
77
Emma Stratton
Roy
Weber
66
51
77
Jane Hyden
Oak City
Deseret
60
46
77
Rachel Roper
Elwood
Bear River
57
44
77
Mrs. Carl Romer
Compton
Long Beach
56
43
77
Mavis Larson
Centerville 1st
So. Davis
99
75-5
76
Ella Evans
Yalecrest
Bonneville
93
71
76
Genevieve Arnspiger
Preston 3rd
Oneida
85
65
76
Myrtle Anderson
Shelley 1st
Shelley
82
62
76
Esther Christensen
Raymond 2nd
Taylor
80
61
76
Elsie Smith
Parowan East '
Parowan
74
56
76
Josephine Paramore
Calgary
Lethbridge
54
41
76
Helen Faulkner
Vernal 1st
Uintah
97
73
75
Ruvina Stone
Holden
Millard
77
58
75
Elva Johnson
Idaho Falls 3rd
Idaho Falls
70
52-5
75
Viola Edwards
Windsor
Timpanogos
70
52
75
Mary B. Hales
Richfield 3rd
Sevier
68
51
75
Everdiena C.
Winkel
Storrs
Carbon
64
48
75
Josephine McPhie
Ogden 22nd
Weber
55
41
75
Ruby Wilson
Lake Shore
Palmyra
53
40
75
Martha Simmons
GROUP C
(Enrollment 1
to 49 Inclusive)
Ward
Stake
Enroll.
No. Sub.
Pet.
Magazine Agent
Hercules
Oquirrh
28
27-5
98
Fannie Little
Redondo
Long Beach
27
26.5
98
Lennie Evans
Claremont
Oakland
48
46.5
97
Clara Gleason
Dublan
Juarez
39
38
97
Bernice Coon
Fresno Branch
California Mission
31
30
97
Charlotte Ursen-
bach
Enmore Branch
Australian Mission
28
27
96
Margaret Rood
West Side Las Vega*
> Moapa
27
26
96
Cleora Jarrett
Woodruff
Snowflake
38
36
95
Margaret Turley
Kimball
Shelley
22
21
95
Florence Gifford
Showlow
Snowflake
31
29
94
Sarah M. Willis
Basin
Cassia
16
15
94
Nellie Martin
Woodland Branch
Sacramento
16
15
94
Mrs. K. F. Gordon
Riverton
Blackfoot
27
25
93
Cassie Brown
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE, DECEMBER - 873
GROUP C— Continued
Ward
Bern
Copperfield
Merrill
Chandler
Oakley Third
Roseville
Davis
Kanesville
Renton Branch
Nampa First
Albuquerque Branch
Superior
Picture Butte
Murtaugh
Etna
Veyo
Oakley First
Grace Second
Young
Chuichupa
Lincoln
Richville
Altoona Branch
River ton Branch
Marriott
Springfield
Elberta
Wardboro
Clay Springs
Diamondville
Cleveland
Coalingo Branch
Ivins
Moulton
Binghamton Branch
Garden City
Susanville Branch
Sunnyside
Adamsville
Flagstaff Branch
Lyman
Peterson
Marsh Center
Winslow
Laketown
Kirtland
Marion
Kanarra
Bridgeland
Waco Branch
McNary
Merced Branch
Stake
Montpelier
West Jordan
Portneuf
Maricopa
Cassia
Sacramento
Uintah
Weber
Seattle
Nampa
Western States Mis.
Lyman
Lethbridge
Roosevelt
Star Valley
St George*
Cassia
Bannock
Logan
Juarez
Seattle
Morgan
Eastern States Mis.
Western States Mis.
North Weber
Blackfoot
Santaquin-Tintic
Montpelier
Snowflake
Woodruff
Bannock
California Mission
St. George
Raft River
Eastern States Mis.
Bear Lake
California Mission
Carbon
Beaver
Snowflake
Rexburg
Morgan
Portneuf
Snowflake
Bear Lake
Young
Cassia
Pa rowan
Duchesne
Texas Mission
Snowflake
California Mission
Enroll. No. Sub.
25
13
6
45
34
33
27
23
n
49
39
30
22
36
27
19
45
32
26
25
24
17
40
23
15
15
29
29
21
14
14
14
7
48
34
26
13
32
31
19
13
47
40
36
30
29
24
24
12
12
23
12
5-5
41
31
31
24.5
21
10
44
35
27
20
32
24
17
40
28
23
22
21
15
7
7
35
20
13
13
25
25
18
12
12
12
6
41
29
22
11
28
26
16
11
39
33
30
25
24
20
20
10
10
Pet. Magazine Agent
92 Marintha Bienz
92 Gladys Scroggin
92 LaVene Pilgrim
91 Helen Cluff
91 Lavina Critchfield
91 Nellie Boiler
91 Alice Gurr
91 Aline Hansen
91 Marie M. Kent
90 Florence R. Adams
90 Anna Davis
90 Nora Hansen
90 Luella Hague
89 Annie Goodman
89 Rozelia Cozier
89 Esther Chadburn
88 Helen Lee
88 Mildred Ray
•88 Emma Speth
88 Cora Judd
88 Wilma Pike
88 Lillie Clark
88 Blanche Ruggles
88 Hazel Dalley
87 Sarah H. Parry
87 Minnie Thurston
87 Harriet E. Barney
87 Ewa Dalrymple
86 Belle McCleve
86 Neva Querry
86 Mary Anderson
86 Sallie Thomas
86 Lula Tobler
86 Julia H. Clark
86 Lettie Elliott
85 Irene Reed
85 Eleanor Hansen
85 Ruby Hanson
85 Sara Jones
84 Martha Thomas
84 Rita Allen
84 Nancy Bowman
84 Martha Treasure
83 Mrs. Ray Wake-
field
83 Oreta Satterthwaite
83 Mae W. Bond
83 Sarah Adams
83 Frances Williams
83 Clara Young
83
83 Celia H. Gardner
83 Nora Johnson
874 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
GROUP C— Continued
Ward
Sh urn way
Logan Square
West Seattle
Farnum
Mt. Trumbell
Independence
Wanship
Manhattan
Swan Lake
Leeds
Lark Branch
Twenty-third
Williams
Chico Br.
Canandaigua Branch
Reading Branch
Riverside
Firth
Yuba City
Rupert First
Pingree
Wrentham Branch
Ovid
Eden
Kimball
Mt. Tabor
El Sereno
Milburn
Virgin
Bloomfield
Whitney
View
Omaha Branch
Liberty
Osmond
Challis
Hatch
Calgary
Queen Ann
Granite
Ashurst
Emery
No. Denver Branch
Santa Clara
Archer
Holbrook
Cherry Creek
Sharon
Lordsburg Branch
Pine Valley
Dines
Scranton Branch
Stake
Snowflake
Chicago
Seattle
Yellowstone
St. George
Rexburg
Summit
New York
Portneuf
St. George
West Jordan
Salt Lake
Bannock
Gridley
Eastern States Mis.
Eastern States Mis.
Blackfoot
Shelley
Gridley
Minidoka
Blackfoot
Taylor
Bear Lake
St. Joseph
St. Joseph
Portland
Pasadena
North Sanpete
Zion Park
Young
Franklin
Burley
Western States Mis.
Ogden
Star Valley
Lost River
Idaho
Lethbridge
Seattle
East Jordan
St. Joseph
St. Joseph
Western States Mis.
St. George
Rexburg
Snowflake
Malad
Bear Lake
Mt. Graham
St. George
Lyman
Eastern States Mis.
Enroii. No. Sub. Pet
12
49
34
17
11
32
32
31
31
26
21
46
20
15
10
5
42
39
39
38
26
H
37
32
27
27
18
18
12
9
47
44
37
30
26
18
13
54
51
25
21
17
17
48
46
31
20
20
16
12
8
4
83
82
10
40
28 82
14 82
9
26
26
25
25
21
17
37
16
12
8
4
33
31
32
30
20.5
11
29
25
21
21
14
14
9
7
36
34
28.5
23
20
14
10
41
39
19
16
13
13
36
34-5
23
15
15
12
9
6
»2
81
8i
81
81
81
81
80
80
80
80
80
79
79
79
79
79
79
78
78
78
78
78
78
78
78
77
77
77
77
77
77
77
76
76
76
76
76
76
75
75
75
75
75
75
75
75
75
Magazine Agenf
Ruth Davis
Margaret Kerr
Bertha Hansen
LeVera Hendrick-
son
lona Shelley
Pauline Perry
Bessie Hixon
Elfriede Kuehne
Marie Henderson
Dallice Hartman
Lillis Sandstrom
Jennie Smith
Martha Kingford
Lucile Bennett
Nellie Lodge
Pearl D. Yeager
Christine Kirwan
Ingeborg Bolstead
Mabel Hayter
Agnes Davidson
Sarah E. Cammack
Vera Erickson
Delma Sorensen
Carrie Thatcher
Mary Connelly
Dorothy Peterson
Hannah Alyslanalp
Rebecca Stewart
Lola Cornelius
Ellen Reid
lona Oliverson
Verl W. Wrigley
Ida H. Higbee
Irma B. Holmes
Nora Harrison
Mabel Howell
Valeria Johnson
Helen Faulkner
Etta Eskelsen
Emma Beckstead
Hazel Br}'ce
Lucy Chesley
VaLoie Hill
Eliza Gubler
Leah Briggs
Mrs. Pratt Greer
Merl Moon
Hazel Long
Leta F. B. Howard
Maud Gardner
Helen Bell
Lavinia Weidow
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE,. DECEMBER - 875
STAKES 75% OR OVER
Stake
Phoenix
Ensign
Maricopa
Juarez
Union
Oakland
Ogden
San Francisco
Granite
Big Horn
Long Beach
Wasatch
Weber
Hollywood
Nevada
San Juan
Boise
Bonneville
Palmyra
Cassia
Idaho Falls
Snowflake
Chicago
Duchesne
St. Johns
Utah
Burley
Wells
Salt Lake
Pocatello
Sacramento
San Bernardino
Liberty
Mt. Ogden
Bannock
Franklin
Los Angeles
Minidoka
Taylor
Mission
Australian
Santa Barbara District
California Mission
Navada Dist., Cal. Mis.
Fresno Dist., Cal. Mis.
Monterey Bay District
California Mission
N. Ariz. Dist., Cal. Mis.
EnroJJ.
No. Sub.
Pet
266
385
145
796
1025
129
548
658
120
121
139
115
234
263.5
113
481
534-5
1 1 1
899
961
107
324
347
107
575
579-5
101
606
605
100
482
471
98
490
469
94
625
588
94
519
484
93
362
^38
93
315
283.5
90
230
216
89
571
494
87
636
553
87
179
153
85
503
428
83
584
486
83
214
177
82
207
169.5
81
311
251
81
582
473
81
508
400
79
979
775-5
79
949
752
79
844
654
77
279
216
77
254
195
77
915
696
76
659
509
76
297
224
75
621
461
75
739
552
75
539
293
75
445
330-5
75
MISSIONS 75%
OR
Enroll.
No. Sub.
Pet.
129
182
141
72
67
93
242
200
83
75
61
81
40
32
80
72
56
78
Magazine Agent
Zina Dana
Camilla Halladay
Amy P. Morris
Jennie Bowman
Mildred Snider
Vida S. Allen
Lois D. Smith
Naomi S. MacCabe
Pearl H. Crockett
Ann Gwynn
Ethel Spongberg
Lilhe L. Duke
Mabel C. Ellis
La Vina L. Rohner
Ramona Watson
Carohne N. Redd
La Von L. Dalton
Bernice Duffin
Lenora Gulf
Jennie R. Hale
Delia Rowberry
Coral S. Peterson
Fanny R. Bradley
Eliza J. Gilbert
Laura Farr Day
Irma M. Mitchell
Nellie R. Barlow
Eleanor S. Muir
Clara B. Wright
Gladys G. Merrill
Marie Gibby
Naomi Larsen
Mary A. Coulam
Laurel M. Dickson
Hattie Hogan
Jeanette S. Barton
Zilla Major
Pearl Brewerton
Theta R. Sabey
Magazine Agent
Violet Cook "
Lillian Johnson
Marcia G. Davis
Charlotte Ursenbach
Irene Sorenson
Veda Scott
876 - DECEMBER, RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
10 HIGHEST STAKES ACCORDING TO NUMBER OF SUBSCRIPTIONS
Stake
Ensign
Ogden
Wells
Salt Lake
Liberty
Maricopa
Pocatello
Big Horn
Weber
Granite
Enioll
796
899
979
949
915
548
844
606
625
575
No. Sub.
1,025
961
775-5
752
696
658
654
605
588
579-5
Pet.
129
107
79
79
76
120
77
100
94
101
Magazine Agent
Camilla Halladay
Lois D. Smith
Eleanor S. Muir
Clara B. Wright
Mary A. Coulam
Amy P. Morris
Gladys G. Merrill
Ann Gwynn
Mabel C. Ellis
Pearl H. Crockett
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Lroifisettici
(Continued from page 820) •
the room dropped suddenly, or it
may have been in the path of a cold
draft. In this case, immerse the pot
into warm water to remove the chill
from the roots. Keep the plant in a
part of the house where the tem-
perature is likely to remain the same
degree both day and night.
Poinsettias are not continuous
bloomers and will show signs of
tiredness along in February— grant-
ing that you have taken proper care
of them that long. The leaves will
droop and fall as the rest period ap-
proaches. The shrub can then be cut
down and the pot set away until
about August. Its blooming time is
over^ and its sleepy time has come.
In return for proper care, the poin-
settia will preserve for you your
Christmas joys until other plants
have appeared to relieve the drowsy
poinsettia and to take up the job of
bringing happiness where the poin-
settia has left off.
Starting the Children Right
Food plays such an important
part in the up-bringing of healthy
children that modern parents listen
eagerly to the findings of experts.
From all authoritative sources comes
a chorus of praise for milk, as one of
the most important foods for chil-
dren.
Milk combines in balanced form
a great many of the health elements
so essential to the proper growth and
general well-being of active boys and
girls. Authorities say that every
child should have a quart of milk a
day in some form, whether as a bev-
erage or combined with other foods.
Irradiated vitamin D milk is rec-
ognized as an excellent source of
the precious sunshine vitamin which
is essential to the building and nour-
ishment of straight, strong bones and
sound, even teeth.
Science has come to our aid by
enriching milk with vitamin D by
irradiation with ultra-violet rays, like
sun's rays. A quart of irradiated
vitamin D milk every day will supply
a normal child with the required
amount of vitamin D for sturdy
health.
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